- ♪ MTV ♪
[upbeat music]
- I'm Tami Roman.
I have been cheated on before.
- You [bleep] my man when I was married to him.
- I even wrote a book about it.
And I've made it my mission to help
suspicious lovers catch their cheating partners in the act.
Hold up.
- And you brought this to my place of business.
How dare you?
What is this?
[bleep].
- But catching a player is not a one-person game.
- We all know he's been lying to everybody.
- Together with my relationship coaches--
- You have to say, I'm going to step up and do what's right.
- --and stealthy investigation team, we won't stop
until we find the truth.
- They think they slick.
Well, we slicker.
- Are you ready to see the footage?
Once our investigation is complete,
the suspicious lover can team up with the partner's
other lover.
- Are you willing to, like, team up with me though?
Because I would like you to do this with me.
- Oh, [bleep].
- Or take down both of them in an undercover ambush.
- Why the [bleep] would you walk?
- Why the [bleep] I got cameras in my mother[bleep]?
What the [bleep] is wrong with you?
- Cheaters, beware.
- Don't play with me about my son.
- Your son?
- The truth doesn't cost anything.
There was a pregnancy scare. - [sobbing]
- But a lie could cost you everything.
- You got to fundamentally say, "I'm going to be different."
- You know I love you. - You love me?
Act like it.
- You've been playing with me for years.
And I ain't never did [bleep].
- We can't even figure out what the [bleep]
is going on in here.
- Tami!
Tami!
- Nobody should think they're better than anybody else.
Because you all [bleep] been played.
And that's just the truth.
This is "Caught in the Act: Unfaithful."
- ♪ Can't take my shine away ♪
♪ They see my glow from a mile away ♪
♪ Can't take my shine away ♪
♪ 'Bout to have a good holiday ♪
- Hello, there.
- Andrew.
- Nice to meet you, Andrew. - Nice to meet you. Mm-hmm.
Listen, I feel like I have just walked back
onto Venice Beach in California.
- I hope I replicate it, you know, pretty well.
- Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. I love the hair too.
How old are you?
- I'm 20 right now.
- You're 20?
You're a baby to me.
- I feel pretty mature.
- To me. [laughs]
- I mean, I feel like an adult.
I have a career. I have a job. I have plans.
I have goals.
- What do you do for a living?
- Right now I'm working at Ralph's, which is just--
it's a retail grocery store. - I know Ralph's.
I used to work at Ralph's. - Oh, really?
- Mm-hmm. - That's interesting.
- I did. - Mm-hmm.
- About two weeks.
- I mean, I've been working there for a little more
than two weeks.
- I was like one of those people
that went and picked up the carts
and then bagged the groceries. Mm-hmm.
And then I got that first check.
- Yeah.
- I just felt like it wasn't-- we weren't seeing eye to eye.
- It's minimum wage.
I work a lot over there.
10 hour shifts.
I'll work easily 60 hours a week.
- Yeah. Yeah.
- And I have plans, deciding to major purely
in ocean lifeguarding, which is something I also want to do.
- Are those the people that when I'm walking on the beach
and I see somebody sitting in that big chair
with the umbrella watching the people out in the water--
- That's them. - That's them.
- Yes. - Got it.
- That's my-- that's my dream career that
I'm working towards right now.
- Nice.
OK.
So you're really focused on doing that.
- Yes. Yeah.
- You live with your parents now?
- Yeah.
So at some point I'll have to get a place.
I would like to start a family with my girlfriend.
So I'm moving Nikki as well.
And we'll start our family there.
But right now I just don't really have the money for it.
- Understood. Understood. - Yeah.
- Understood.
So both of your parents, are they still married or--
- Yeah.
Close to 30 years now. - Oh.
- Yeah.
- Nice.
So that's your blueprint? - Right.
Exactly.
And that's-- that's exactly what
I'm trying to do with Nikki. - OK.
So tell me about Nikki.
- Me and Nikki have been together
for about two years now.
We met at Venice Beach.
We were both surfing.
So I went up to her, and I asked for her number.
Nothing complicated. - And she said yes?
- Yeah. - Oh, OK.
- And then we went on our first date like a couple of
days later.
- So what does Nikki do for a living?
- Right now she's not working. - She's not working?
OK.
- I'm basically-- I'm supporting her
with working my job.
- But does she have her own place?
- Yeah, she has her own place.
- So she's figuring out how to pay that rent over there?
- I'm helping her out a little bit.
Her parents also help her out a little bit.
- And how old is she?
- She's 28.
- Yeah.
So she is significantly older than me.
But--
- OK.
I am 17 years older than my husband.
So eight is like, that's it, child?
OK.
- Right.
- You know, so relationships that have that age
gap difference can work.
- Oh, yeah. Certainly.
- As long as you are aligned.
- Yeah.
So we figured out that we lined up very closely together.
And things were very smooth sailing, you know,
for about a year or so.
But then as time went on, once she turned around 27,
she was like, "Hey, I really want to have kids.
I really want to start a family."
- And how do you feel about that?
- I'd love to start a family.
I just-- I can't do it right now.
I need at the very least like four years
to really solidify my career.
- I agree.
- And it's like, if we were to have kids right now,
we'd be on the side of the street.
We wouldn't have the money to pay rent and bills, taxes.
Just there wouldn't-- there's no resources.
I can't do it. - Right.
And so when you have those conversations with her,
what's her reaction to that?
- She says, "Well, I need to do it now.
I'm"-- she says, "I'm running out of time."
- Really?
- Yeah.
She's fixated on this number 30.
You know?
"Oh, I'm going to turn 30, and it's going to be too late."
And it's like-- to me, it's kind of just ridiculous.
And that's kind of the main thing I feel like that's
really preventing this from being
like a great thing is that she just--
she can't be patient with me.
- What in her background has caused
her to put like these timelines on herself?
- Well, I'm not too familiar with, like, Chilean culture,
but I know this is a thing for many cultures
around the world is that the ideal is
like starting a family.
Like, being a woman, you have to be married at like 25
and have kids before 30.
- But people sometimes don't live
up to cultural aspirations.
"Hey, this is the person I love.
"And we're not going to be able to do that,
"but I'm going to ride with him and wait till he
"gets to where he needs to be.
And then we'll cross that bridge at that time."
She's not saying that. - Right.
- OK.
Hmm. Hmm.
Relationships before Nikki, what were they like?
- Nothing serious.
It was mostly just relationships that lasted
like two months at most.
You know?
Even when I was like in high school, even then
I still had a lot of the same goals
that I have right now, which is like-- well, I'm
trying-- right now I'm trying to find
like kind of my soulmate.
I'm trying to find someone I can start a family with.
- What do your parents think about Nikki?
- They like her.
And they definitely like the fact that we
want to start a family.
They want to have grandkids.
But they agree with me that I--
I need time before this even-- before this happens.
- You definitely need a little more time.
- Yes. Mm-hmm.
- So you've been noticing red flags in your relationship.
- Yeah, to say the least.
- What are they?
- About a year ago, Nikki started going to acro yoga.
It's like acrobatics and yoga combined, balancing.
It's-- it's interesting.
I mean, I went there a few times.
And she started hanging out with this dude Peter,
the yoga instructor.
- OK.
- The amount of time they spend is only increased.
In the beginning, lessons were typically about an hour or so.
At a time goes on, hour and a half, two hours, three hours.
- Now, is this in a class environment,
or it's one-on-one training?
- It's one-on-one. - Oh.
- Yeah. - OK.
- Mm-hmm.
- And is Peter young and fine like you?
- No.
He's quite the opposite.
He's older than Nikki for sure.
- Do you think there's a possibility
that she could have--
- There's certainly a-- yeah, there's certainly
a possibility.
Every time I ask Nikki about it, it's like, you know,
"You're spending like three hours with this dude."
- Yeah. - "What's up?"
"Oh, just don't worry about it. You're being paranoid."
And, you know, hopefully I am being paranoid,
but I feel like I have--
I certainly have a right.
You know, sometimes if I get a chance, I'll--
I'll look at her phone.
And I'll look at the call history.
- Uh-huh.
- For me, as her boyfriend, I'll be lucky if she'll
pick up like half the time,
where this dude Peter, never misses a call.
It's a sketchy situation.
- How long are the conversations?
Like, they'll be like long, lengthy conversations?
- These are-- they're lengthy conversations.
There's more than just acro yoga going on.
To make it simple, I just, I hope
Nikki's not cheating on me with him.
I entered this relationship to have children with her
and to be loyal with her.
I want to spend my life with her.
And if she's going to be behind my back
hanging out with some other dudes, then to me it's over.
- Because you've never stepped outside of the relationship?
- No.
- So I assume that you are ready to potentially
catch Nikki in the act.
- I wouldn't want to.
But the best thing that could come out of this is the truth.
- And that's a good way to approach it.
Thank you.
Listen, you take care.
And I'll call you the minute I find out something.
- Awesome.
- ♪ I got to go out and get it ♪
♪ Messed up with the game, hit it and quit it ♪
♪ Look, people want to talk on my name ♪
♪ You better just listen, messed up with the fibbin' ♪
♪ I got a lady, I'm very committed ♪
♪ You know I'm in it ♪
- It's day one.
This case is Andrew, who believes that his woman
Nicole is cheating.
OK, I'm pulling up to Nicole's apartment.
And we'll wait.
[tense music]
♪ ♪
Oh, look at this.
Well, here she is.
Let's see where she's going to go.
♪ ♪
She's parking.
I'm going to-- oh, great.
There she is.
She's going into this restaurant.
I'm going to give it a few minutes, see what she does.
♪ ♪
Oh.
She just picked up some to-go food.
I don't know if it's for one or two people.
The bag looked kind of big.
♪ ♪
And there she goes.
♪ ♪
Oh. You know what?
It looks like she's going back to her apartment.
♪ ♪
OK, she just got out.
She's got the to-go bag.
She's going into her apartment alone.
All right. She went inside.
So I'm going to call it a day, because this is nothing.
It's nothing. It's day one.
We got plenty of time.
- ♪ High, but I'm feeling low ♪
♪ Got your girl on my [...] and she play it slow ♪
- So as usual, waiting, watching.
I've got a good vantage point here.
♪ ♪
I see some movement at the door.
Oh, she just got-- oh, she's out.
We're going to wait till she pulls out.
There she goes.
♪ ♪
I'm going to get over and not be right behind her.
I'm going to get her.
♪ ♪
Where's she going?
Oh, she's pulling in here.
♪ ♪
She just parked in front of the studio.
♪ ♪
This must be the acro yoga studio Tami told me about.
So I'm going to go up to this back window
here and check it out.
♪ ♪
This acro yoga, it's very intimate.
It's a lot of touching.
♪ ♪
They're embracing, hugging.
Oh, here she is.
♪ ♪
I don't care about him.
I'm going to follow her.
♪ ♪
OK.
So she's pulling into a parking lot.
OK, I'm going to park, see where she goes.
♪ ♪
Oh, look at this.
Look who it is.
Oh, they're holding hands.
I'm going to go in there.
I'm not going to get anything from this position.
So this is my purse cam.
- Well, that was interesting.
This girl was touching on his leg.
I got that on video.
So they're kissing, and then her phone is buzzing.
And she picks it up.
She's like, "Oh, it's Andrew.
Oh, my god.
It breaks my heart.
♪ I've got to get it, I'm 'bout to kill it ♪
♪ I'ma just live it ♪
♪ You know I'm in it ♪
- It's a new day back at Nikki's house.
Not much happened after her smoothie date yesterday.
I'm going to see what she's up to today.
♪ You gonna get it ♪
♪ Yeah, look ♪
♪ I gotta go out and get it ♪
♪ I'ma start with a game ♪
♪ Hitters and quitters should look ♪
♪ People want to talk my name ♪
♪ You better just listen and stop with the fibbin' ♪
♪ ♪
- Look who just showed up.
Oh, he knows the door code.
Look at that.
♪ ♪
OK, he just opened up the door.
He's out.
Oh, he's with her.
She's got a skateboard in her hand, white sweater on.
He's opening up the door.
She's in the passenger seat of his car.
Let me pull out.
♪ ♪
It's really heavy traffic.
I got to stay on his ass now, because I'm
not going to lose this guy.
♪ ♪
Oh, it's a skate park.
♪ ♪
OK, they're getting out of their car right now.
I'm going to have to go in.
I brought my water bottle camera,
which is perfect for this.
Whoa.
Fully making friggin' out.
I thought we had enough before, but holy moly,
we got platinum now.
OK.
They're getting in their car.
I don't care where they go.
We're following them. Let's go.
♪ ♪
Where the hell are they going?
They came in that way.
[suspenseful music]
♪ ♪
What are these two doing?
♪ ♪
He's coming out of his car.
Oh, she out too.
What?
What the [bleep] are they doing?
♪ ♪
Oh, this is a smoking gun.
- ♪ I'm a rider ♪
♪ Dedicated to my grind ♪
♪ You can tell I'm getting mine ♪
♪ By the emblems on the cars when I slide up ♪
♪ Got the things that mine ♪
- Hey, hey, hey.
- How are you?
- Doing wonderful, and yourself?
- Oh, I am all right.
Let me tell you something.
This young man Andrew came in.
And when I say young, I mean that.
He's 20 years old.
And I said, this is going to be perfect for Ken
to talk to this man and give him some manly advice.
- All right.
- Hello there, Andrew.
- How you doing?
- How are you?
This is my associate, Ken Canion.
- Andrew. Nice to meet you.
- Ken.
- Have a seat on the other side, please.
My investigation team sent over some footage,
and Ken is going to help you process emotions
in the event you see something that you don't like
or can't handle.
- I'm ready to see whatever you captured.
- OK.
[tense music]
This is the first day of surveillance.
We catch Nikki coming out of her home,
getting into her vehicle.
- Yeah, that's hers.
She didn't meet anybody.
She didn't have lunch with anybody.
There was nothing that happened.
And she went back home.
Nothing happened.
She went to go get something to eat and came back home.
- OK. That's good.
Is there more footage?
- Yes, there is.
This is day two.
We assume she was on her way to yoga with that ensemble,
and we were right.
She ended up at the acro yoga studio.
- [bleep].
♪ ♪
- I wanted to ask you, because when I watched this,
there's kissing in acro yoga?
- Oh my [bleep].
- They were kissing.
I said, I don't want to go to no yoga
where I got to be kissing the peoples that I'm
doing the workout with.
♪ ♪
We followed her, only to see that he met her at this place.
♪ ♪
- Look at that [bleep].
Look how he's holding her, dude.
- And she's leaning in, too.
- If we go out together, I'm lucky if she leans into me.
- So he knows what's up.
- [bleep].
- And then there was the kiss.
- [bleep].
I can't [bleep] watch this.
- They leave.
- Yes. - Why?
What more is there to see? What more is there to see?
- This is a different day.
That is Peter.
Clearly, this was a date.
I mean, they're not doing yoga here.
They do seem to be very familiar--
- I bought that [bleep] skateboard.
I remember helping her pay for that [bleep] skateboard.
- Wow.
We get in the car; they pull off to the side.
And they both get into the back seat.
- Stop.
Stop, stop.
I don't need to [bleep] see the rest of it.
[sighs]
Not on [bleep]...
- Andrew.
- Not on [bleep] camera, bro.
- Andrew. I-I-I...
- You have a right to feel what you feel.
- [bleep]. - I get it.
- [bleep].
[bleep].
That's my wife.
- That's my [bleep] wife.
That's my wife, and she [bleep] does this?
- It doesn't mean she won't be your wife.
- No, no, no, no, no. It's over.
[bleep].
I can't [bleep] do this, bro?
- You have a right to be mad.
I get what you're saying. I get what you're saying.
- I want you to go through everything that you're going
through and let everything out,
but please don't tear up my place.
Please don't tear up my place, OK, baby?
- You know, I should have seen this coming
from a [bleep] mile ago.
- But listen, nothing's wrong with you.
You didn't do any of this.
All you're doing now, you're just privy to the information.
And I want to help you see everything that's going on.
- Andrew.
- They're [bleep] in the back seat of the [bleep] car, dude.
It's over.
- Andrew.
- No, there's no point.
You came to me.
- I came to you, and I was hoping that I was paranoid.
- OK, but now we know that that's not the case.
- Can we talk through how to get out of this?
I get it.
You had an objective in mind.
You felt like we were going somewhere with this,
and that was real.
It still is real. - No, it's not.
She's [bleep] in the back seat of the car.
- I get it. I get it.
- It's over. - I get it.
What I'm saying is, listen, do you want to face it?
And let's talk through it.
Let's go sit down.
Let's talk about it.
Let's go back. Let's go back.
That's good.
- Come on.
Let's come on back over here.
- Let's come on back.
♪ ♪
- You came here to see and find out the truth.
- Why? Why did she do this?
After [bleep] everything I've done, this is what she does.
I [bleep] work harder than him.
- I know it hurts.
- All this [bleep], 10-hour shifts, 12-hour shifts
six days a week.
- Tell me why you work those hours.
What did you have in mind?
- We were going to have kids.
- OK.
I noticed that she said to Peter she wanted
to have that baby, and she seemed as
though she was on a timeline.
- Yeah, a [bleep] timeline.
I just want to be 30 years old.
I just needed time.
That's all I needed.
- I know this is hard.
This is tough.
- Is there any part of you that wants to have a conversation
with her, with Peter?
- We're going to have one last conversation.
- So you want to sit down and talk with both of them
while they're together?
- That would probably be good.
I think before I have to explain this to all my friends
and family, relatives, I'm going to need
to say whatever I have to say.
- I keep hearing you speak, and your main concern is,
"I got to tell all my friends.
"I got to tell my family.
I got to tell"-- and the implication
is that you were the problem,
that you are the cause of this, and that is not the truth.
What I don't want to happen to you at 20 years old
is that you look out at this experience,
and it hardened your heart.
- Life has to continue.
- Yes, it does.
You sitting there acting like you
don't work 60 hours a week, and you know how to surf.
There's a bitch out there that want that.
- Plenty.
- So what's happening now, Andrew,
I get my investigation team back out to surveil Nikki.
If they catch these two together, I will contact you.
Then Ken and I will come and take you so that you can have
this conversation with Nikki.
And I'm sorry that it went this way, because I know what you
really wanted for your life.
So come on.
And stop all this.
You too fine for this, OK?
I'll call you as soon as I find something, all right, baby?
- The sun will rise tomorrow.
- See that?
See how you said that?
I'm going to put that on a meme, because I like that.
[funky music]
- ♪ Is it for real? ♪
♪ Is it for real? ♪
♪ Let me know the deal ♪
♪ Is it for real ♪
♪ Because I ain't ♪
- Thank you.
- Want to share you ♪
♪ With no one now ♪
- I heard from the investigation team,
and they have Nikki at a yoga session with Peter.
I called Andrew.
So we're going to go pick him up,
and then we're going to go head over
to have this conversation.
- I don't know what's going to happen.
He is really, really just internalizing everything.
- He's hurting.
Having a family, having children.
He was working towards that.
Now he sees that that's not going to happen.
So really, what he's going through
is, like, the first stage of grief, anger.
- Yep.
We do what we do.
- We're near the place for Andrew.
- OK.
♪ ♪
- Come on in, buddy. - Hey. What's going on, man?
- All right. - Hey, there, Andrew.
- Have a seat right there.
Great to see you. - OK.
- Good to see you.
- What's up?
- How are you?
- I'm doing all right, just coming
off a shift off of work.
- I know, I know, I know.
I called you because I did hear from my investigation team.
We found them at the yoga studio again.
I know you said you were going to think about some questions.
And so I want to know what you came up with.
- Exactly how long has this been going on behind my back?
And everything I've been through,
why would you do this?
- Do you want to know if she still loves you?
- Yeah, I suppose that, too, although, I mean,
I already know the answer to that right now.
- I'm not so sure about that.
♪ ♪
- So we are here.
Now, we have decoys walking on the outside
in the parking lot just getting views
of what's happening inside.
So we'll be able to visually see
what's going on in there, so you can see their interaction.
Once you decide, hey, I'm ready to go
in and have this conversation, please feel free to do so.
We will be right here still watching everything.
And if we need to step in we will.
- Is this live?
- This is live footage of what's happening on inside
of the yoga facility.
- Now I'm going to see this dude.
- Do you blame him or her?
- Both of them know what they're doing,
Nikki knows, obviously, I'm working my ass off for her.
And this dude, what the [bleep] is this?
- I just don't think I could ever do this.
- They're [bleep] in public.
That's what they're doing.
Look.
- A lot of sexual energy.
- Are they kissing? - Yes.
- Yeah, they're getting the [bleep] down.
[bleep].
- Did you want to go in?
- Yeah, let's do it. - OK.
- I'll do what I got to do.
- We'll be here.
We'll be right behind you.
[suspenseful music]
♪ ♪
- What the [bleep]?
- Why the cameras?
- That's how you spend my money, these private lessons?
- Calm down.
- How long has this been going on?
- It's been a year. - A year?
- Please. - A year.
- What the [bleep]? A year?
- Please, stop.
- Hey, get the [bleep] off me.
- Let's go.
- Let's get inside.
- Hey, if you took care of your woman,
she wouldn't be creeping with me.
[all shouting]
- After all the [bleep] [bleep]
have to listen to you.
My [bleep] work... get the [bleep] off me.
My [bleep] family.
My family.
My [bleep]... [bleep].
- What's happening? - [bleep].
- I would like for everybody to calm down, please.
Nikki, my name is Tami Roman, OK?
And you're on a show called
"Caught in the Act: Unfaithful."
- What?
- Because Andrew came to me, because he thought
there was something going on in your relationship.
So we surveilled you, and he's watched your interaction
over the past few days.
- I don't know why he was spying on me, though.
- Well, because he thought that something
was going on in the relationship,
and he found out that there really was.
- I've been dating Nikki for the last year.
And she's come to me, because he can't take care of her.
He's not a man.
- He may be 20 years old, but he's been working extremely
hard so that he and Nikki can have a family,
which is what she ultimately wants.
Why are you stepping out on your relationship with Andrew
rather than having a conversation with him?
- I felt so lonely.
- I work so [bleep] hard for this relationship.
Our future, our children that we
discussed countless [bleep] times,
and you get with [bleep] this dude?
This [bleep] yoga dork?
This [bleep] loser?
- I've got the money to take care of her.
- You don't got [bleep].
You're a [bleep] yoga instructor.
- Come on.
Let's all go sit down. Let's all go sit down.
Come on.
- Hey, Peter, how you doing, man?
- I'm good. I'm good.
- I'm a relationship coach.
Andrew came to us, because he felt like
Nikki was cheating.
- I want to talk to you, and I want to try to understand how
your relationship got here.
Because when Andrew explained your relationship to me,
he said, "This is the woman I love.
"I met her when I was younger, but we both
wanted the same thing, which was family."
And then somewhere along the line,
you say, "But I have to do all of this before I'm 30."
[suspenseful music]
♪ ♪
[suspenseful music]
- Why didn't you explain that to him?
- I didn't know if he was going to maybe
leave me or something.
- So you decided to hold on to him while you
entertain someone else?
I just want you to tell me how that makes sense.
Because if the shoe were on the other foot,
would you want him to do that to you?
- No.
- What was it about Peter that you felt,
"Let me travel this road with him?"
- He was offering me time and attention,
and I thought that's what I needed to start a family.
- You do understand that Andrew was only away because he was
trying to work so that he could save to give you everything
that you wanted?
- What was it about her that attracted you to her?
- Everything, everything.
I mean, everything.
Nikki is a loving, caring, generous individual
who deserves a lot better than this.
All she does is tell me how unhappy she is.
And when we're together, she's happy.
- OK.
Andrew.
Yeah, I want you to hear something.
Let them stand there, but I just
want you to hear what he said.
- I saw all the [bleep] you were doing with Nikki.
- I just want you to hear the truth.
It's been a year since they've been together.
How many times a week?
- Three or four times a week.
- And you guys have been having sex for a year?
- Yes.
We started off as friends.
There was chemistry.
We ended up kissing, and then we just started spending
more and more time together.
- I don't know what I've been thinking.
I've been so confused.
And this news about the baby and the clock ticking
have me so overwhelmed, and maybe I've
been not taking the best and the most rational decisions,
and I've been really selfish.
I just didn't know when Andrew was going to be ready.
And Peter said he was ready right now.
- What you did, basically, they call that cushioning--
holding on to this one, but I don't know if this one's going
to really work out, so I want to have something
that softens the blow.
And you can't operate and take people's hearts for granted.
- I feel like my clock is ticking.
I've been so confused, and I didn't
want to hurt Andrew at all.
He's such a special person.
- They were planning on having a family.
So the fact that he's been working
60 hours a week to provide this family life for her--
- That's not my problem.
Your future is not with Nikki.
- Now, this relationship is fractured,
because there wasn't transparency.
- Nikki, who do you want?
Who do you want?
You want this [bleep] loser or me?
- Come on. Let's all sit down.
Nikki has something she wants to tell you.
- What? What?
♪ ♪
- If I don't have kids before 30,
I'm going to start losing 10% of my fertility.
- And so that's why there was a timeline.
But where you went wrong, Nikki,
there was no transparency as to why there was a timeline.
- I was afraid.
- And the way to solve this problem is to [bleep]
this dude in the back of a car?
That's the solution to this?
- Hey, well, Nikki's in love with me.
What about my feeling?
- You're in love with Peter?
Is that accurate?
- Tell her.
- I did tell him that I love him,
but I never said I was in love.
Those are two different things.
- That's semantics.
You're playing with both of these gentlemen's emotions.
Now, I understand you have a timeline,
and I have empathy for that.
But the truth is, you never communicated it to him.
And then you run to the arms of another gentleman.
- I don't know what to say.
I mean, I do know what I want.
I know I want a family.
- You want a family and any old [bleep] will do?
- What?
- Nikki, I got a question for y'all.
You see why he's mad?
You understand why he's mad?
Look at this man's face.
Look at it. No, no, don't turn away.
Look at him.
What he's doing, he's going through the stages of grief
right now, because you all had something planned.
And everything he believed about the relationship
is a lie.
- My goal future was to try to balance
things and still be together and see the change and--
- What the [bleep] does balance mean?
You're going to balance a committed relationship
with me, oh, but I'm also [bleep] a dude on the side too.
- No, your work and my need.
Between all of your work and--
- You expect me to raise a family working like [bleep]
20 hours a week, minimum wage?
You expect me to do all that [bleep]?
I got to work my ass off for the [bleep] family
that we wanted.
- But I also miss you, and, like,
you're so absent in my life.
I feel lonely.
I miss you.
- You act like I'm [bleep] working
abroad or some [bleep].
At least I'm [bleep] home.
- No, no, no, no.
- Please.
- Even if I just forgave you,
"Oh, I give you a hug right now, oh, let's go back home
and just forget about it"...
It doesn't benefit me.
It doesn't benefit you.
- Nikki, I'm ready to propose to you today.
I'm ready to start making a baby tonight.
- [chuckles]
- Oh, this dude's [bleep] serious, huh?
- Are you serious, Peter?
- Will you marry me?
[suspenseful music]
- Will you marry me?
- Nikki, this [bleep] right here?
This is [bleep] ridiculous.
You're going to propose to [bleep] this loser
in front of me?
The [bleep] dude has really been [bleep] carrying
things for the past two years.
Are you kidding me? - I can't.
- OK, so listen.
I need everybody to be crystal clear on how this thing ends.
So I'm going to ask each of you, what is your final say?
Who would you like to be with?
♪ ♪
Andrew, OK.
What about you?
- It's over.
There's nothing more to discuss.
That's it.
I'm never going to see you again.
Right now will be the last time I see you.
- That's the best thing that could happen.
Let's [bleep] go. Let's go.
- That's all I want to do. I just want to go home.
I'm going home. - Let him go.
- Andrew, no.
Please, please, please, please.
- Nikki, let him go.
- Andrew, you're just mad.
- Nikki, let him go.
- Please.
No, please.
I didn't want him out of my life.
I never said I want him out of my life.
Andrew! - Nikki, Nikki.
- It's over.
That's-- that's all I'm going to say.
- And I want to make sure that that really is the decision
that you want to make.
- After what I've seen and heard after all this time,
zero percent I am going to therapy
or doing whatever the [bleep] she
genuinely recommends me to do.
- He's never going to forgive me.
I can't do this.
Being between two men that love me
made it so hard for me to make a choice.
But I always knew that I wanted things
to work out with Andrew, and I don't want
to lose him out of my life.
- Now I just have to focus on moving on.
- Peter's proposal was kind of weird.
I feel like I didn't really process it much,
because I was worried about Andrew.
- I'm beyond surprised.
She always tells me how she doesn't get what
she needs from him, and she doesn't
think it's going to change.
So I just don't get it.
- She's living in a fantasy.
I don't know what else to say.
She thinks I still have a chance of liking her,
of having children.
And even if we were able to get back together,
she'd still have the whole 30 thing, so what's the point?
♪ ♪
- I'm not willing to give up on my dream of having
a baby for Andrew or anybody.
- Life will move on.
And I just have to make the best of it.
- Father, we bless this place.
- [chuckles] - OK?
- Yes, yes.
- Because a lot has happened.
- Yes, a lot has happened here.
- Nikki, she's going to have to do some soul-searching.
- Yes.
- You've got to be honest.
You've got to be transparent.
Everybody needs to know what's going on in the relationship.
- And instead of finding out after I've
seen your foot hitting--
- Hitting the window. - Hitting the window.
- I still don't know what position that was.
I think they both should just accept this moment in time
for what it is, figure out how to heal from it,
and move forward, because they're
not right for each other.
- I agree.
Love doesn't always conquer a multitude of sin
in relationships.
Just my thoughts, my two cents.
- And we're out.
- All right.
- ♪ Shawti-adi-os ♪
♪ Shawti-adi-os ♪
♪ Shawti-adi-adi-adi- adi-adi-os ♪
- Hey there, Andrew.
- How are you doing?
- I am doing well.
You're looking good.
- I've been hanging in there, to say the least.
- You've been hanging in there?
Have things gotten better between you and Nikki?
- I haven't been in contact with her.
I haven't said a word since the yoga studio incident.
- OK.
Now, I'm surprised to hear that, because she was begging.
So I thought maybe you might sway a little.
- Well, that was all her.
- OK. - That's not what I wanted.
- I can receive that.
Do you know if her and Peter are still together or not?
- I have no idea.
I don't really have any interest
in what's going on now.
- So let's talk about you.
- It's been difficult. I might not feel as motivated anymore.
- I don't want you to feel that way.
Anybody that gets up at your age
and goes to work consistently, that is an accomplishment.
And Nikki just wasn't the person for you, and that's OK.
- I definitely agree with that.
While I have said that it's been hard moving on,
I don't want to believe that this is happening to me.
It's happening for me.
- Exactly.
I know this was a hard thing to go through.
Change is uncomfortable, but it's
necessary at certain times.
- Yeah, absolutely.
- If you don't hear anything else I say,
this too shall pass.
- The sun will rise tomorrow.
- Absolutely.
Thank you for letting me check in with you, Andrew.
I'm happy to see your face.
You look good to me.
So I'll keep in touch with you, and we'll check in later, OK?
- Sounds good.
- All right, bye, Andrew.
Cheaters, beware.
- You [bleep] kissed her, you idiot.
- Next time you want to be unfaithful, think again--
Let me tell you one mother[bleep] thing.
- Oh lord, oh lord, oh lord, oh lord.
- --because I just might--
Oh, god, she's running.
--catch you in the act.