- ♪ MTV ♪
- I'm Tami Roman.
I have been cheated on before.
You [bleep] my man when I was married to him.
I even wrote a book about it, and I've made it my mission
to help suspicious lovers
catch their cheating partners in the act.
- Hold up. - Hey, you brought this
to my place of business? - What is this?
- Ooh!
- Together, with my relationship coaches...
- You gotta tell her about the insecurities that you have.
That's how y'all work through it.
- This is a situation where you have to say
I'm gonna step up and do what's right.
- And stealthy investigation team...
- They think they slick, well, we slicker.
- We won't stop until we find the truth.
Cheaters, beware.
- I'm [bleep] torn. I love 'em both.
- You gotta fundamentally say I'm gonna be different.
- Who the [bleep] you think you are?
- Why the [bleep] y'all got cameras in my crib?
What the [bleep] is wrong with you?
- Tommy! Tommy!
- Nobody should think they're better than anybody else,
'cause y'all all [bleep] been played.
And that's just the truth.
This is "Caught in the Act: Unfaithful."
- ♪ Been, been, been, been, that girl ♪
♪ I already been that girl ♪
♪ Get the cash get the money ♪
♪ Better spend that, girl ♪
♪ If you bad and you know it, better show that, girl, uh ♪
♪ I already been that girl ♪
- Hello. - Hi.
- Hey, Tami.
- How are you?
- Nervous.
- No, please don't be nervous.
Let's hug it out. Let's hug it out.
- Oh, my gosh.
- How are you?
- I'm not the best. - Nice to meet you.
- Nice meeting you as well. You look beautiful.
- Thank you.
- OK. So, Nia-- - Mm-hmm?
- I have to assume that this beautiful woman
next to you is either your sister--
- Mm-mm. - No?
- That's my mama. - No!
[laughing]
- Thank you. - Are you kidding me?
- Aw, you just made my day.
- Oh, my God! Beautiful!
- Thank you.
- Oh, Lord, please--
- She be eating that up.
- Allow me.
Now, what is your name?
- Aida. - Aida.
So, Nia... - Mm-hmm.
- You reached out to me... - Yes.
- Because you think there may be some infidelity
in your relationship with William.
But before we talk about what you think's going on,
tell me a little bit about your relationship.
- We met at a cookout.
So we was drinking, talking, and then we wanted
to play games and then just do road trips.
And I had a situation with my job,
and he kind of holded me down when it came to my bills.
- 'Cause you guys live together?
- At that moment we did. Now, I got my own spot
because my mom, she didn't like that.
She was like, "Do it the traditional way.
"I want you guys to live--
you know, after you guys get married."
So he proposed to me and everything.
- All right.
He did good. He did good.
- He didn't something a little right, right.
- Maybe I'm old school, but marriage means something.
In Latin culture, it means that you were good enough
to be given that respect.
- OK. - Like my cousins,
you know, when we curse each other out,
that's the first thing they say, "Well, I'm married.
I was married XYZ years."
They didn't get married for the right reasons,
but they wanted to make sure they got married.
- That that status was elevated within your culture
and your community. - Right.
Coming from this culture, you want her
to do things the right way.
Since he proposed, he's ready for the next level.
- This stage of my life, too, I'm not
trying to play no games, man.
- The stage of your life, what does that mean?
- 30 years old with no kids.
- Girl, you are a baby.
- She was like, "Oh, I wanna be able
to be there when you have your first baby steps with a kid."
- So you getting pressure from Mommy?
- A little bit. - I am because
I got back issues.
I can't be chasing after no kid at, you know, 70.
- And now, inevitably, there'll be a wedding.
- Mm. - Have you made any
wedding plan--like, have you started that process?
- Yeah. - I'm from Guatemala.
- OK. - So I was thinking about
a Guatemalan wedding.
- Well, tell me what's going on in the relationship.
What have you identified as a red flag for you?
- In the beginning, he had told me he does construction.
But when I was coming to the block, you know,
there's one person who I know
who schooled me like, yeah, you know your man,
he be massaging females.
I was like-- - Oh.
- That's how I found out.
He didn't tell me the truth.
So that's why it started off, you know--
- Yeah, with a lie. It started off with a lie.
OK, so when you say masseuse, you have those that I've seen,
that the women are naked and it's all sexualized.
- That's what he's doing. - Ahh.
- Home massaging. I'ma show you a text message.
- OK. - I took a little screenshot
when he was asleep, I was like, let me just screenshot that
so you can see it for yourself.
- Not, "Good morning, love."
- Professional or no?
- Hmm, it's questionable.
I would have thought that when he lied about the job,
that if that was a point of contention for you,
you would have ended it then.
- I swear I should have.
But with him having my mom's back--
she doesn't have a car.
So if I don't make it on time for her, he will come to her,
help her with my grandmother. - OK.
- You know, my mom has Alzheimer's,
so I'm always needing help.
He--any time we need anything, he's there.
- So I'm like, all right.
I'm gonna give him the benefit of the doubt.
- Mm-hmm. - That's what it was for me.
I like that he gets his money.
I don't gotta worry about my man being broke
or being cheap with me.
But the job, I don't like it.
- You want to be married to him?
- I do. - You sure about that?
- I want to.
- And it's not because Mom thinks
you need to be married before 30, time is running out,
all of that?
- Not 'cause of her, no.
- So the way it works for me is I then
get my investigation team. - Mm-hmm.
- And if I come up with something or not,
I will call you back into the office
and I'll either say, mm--
or, girl, if you don't go get married--
- Please.
I hope it's that second choice.
- Being single and alone is not a good thing.
- Well, it's working for Oprah.
[laughter]
[upbeat music]
♪ ♪
- This is my first day of surveilling William.
I see his car parked outside of Nia's house.
And whenever William does come out,
I'm gonna trail them to wherever he's going to.
Oh, [bleep] wait.
William is, like, a mobile massage therapist,
the kind that come to your house.
So I'm just gonna surveil him and see if he comes up
with any special clients.
Uh-oh. Should I be ducking down?
♪ ♪
I've been following William, but right now, I have nothing.
But I'ma stay on him-- it's starting to get
a little bit dark outside--
and see how this evening ends with William.
♪ ♪
It looks like he is on the clock.
For me, a massage is usually like an hour,
a hour and a half.
And he's still in the house with this girl.
I'm betting that this is probably more than a massage.
♪ ♪
That was something, but I wasn't able to see inside,
of course, so I may have to book a massage
and send in a decoy to see if William
will fall for the bait.
[upbeat music]
♪ ♪
So I rented out this space for our decoy.
I have my clock camera here.
I put a hidden camera over here in my little fake bushes.
Hey, how are you?
Good to see you.
So you're my decoy, right?
So William is gonna come in.
Have him set up his massage table somewhere in here.
- OK. - So what our job is,
is I want you to flirt with him,
and we'll see if he falls for it, OK?
- OK. - OK.
My cameras are placed.
Now I'm just gonna watch from the car.
So looking at my clock camera...
- Are you good? - William just walked in.
- [laughs]
- Ooh, look at--yes, decoy!
Oh, we picked a good one.
- Uh-oh.
♪ ♪
- I've been sitting out here for a few hours today,
posted up here at William's home.
[bleep] Let me get in position.
He just pulled up to this nail salon.
- Hi, my baby!
- I'll put on my wig so that he doesn't make me out,
and then I'ma go in here and get my nails done
and scope out the scene.
This is my purse camera.
It has a camera on the front of it.
- How can I help you? - Hi, yes.
I need to get the fill-in and a new set of polish.
- Sure. - We'll pick a purple.
What purple you think is pretty?
- Mm-hmm.
- You want a ring-- so you want a ring?
♪ ♪
- My boy William think he slick,
but I'm gonna stay on him to see what he gets into today.
He left the house in a ride share.
We're at a bowling alley spot.
I have my hat cam.
And then, of course, I'm gonna have my cell phone.
So I'll have everything at my fingertips
to get William in the act.
OK.
- I tell you, I don't-- I don't know what the deal is.
- Oh, [bleep].
♪ ♪
- ♪ You know, I'm known to start a conversation ♪
♪ They run up on me with no hesitation ♪
♪ But you wanna bring it to the table ♪
- Hi, ladies. How are you?
Thank you, ladies, for coming back in.
This gentleman beside me is Coach Ken...
- Hello. - And he is
a relationship expert.
I have you ladies here today because my investigation team
sent me some footage, and we'll go through that.
I wanna be sure that you want to see it,
because what you see may alter your relationship
going forward.
- OK. I'm ready. I'm ready to see it.
- OK.
- Wait, that's my house. - That's your house.
The investigation team went there based on the address
that you gave us so that they could start the surveillance--
- OK.
- Followed him to this location.
- All right.
Mm-- Ooh, what the--
That's how you greet your clientele? OK.
- Do you know this lady?
- No. Mm-mm. - No. OK.
So he stayed there longer than what a massage
would actually take, but we don't really know
what happened in the house.
- The next day, we sent a decoy to book an appointment
with him so that we could see what happens
during the massages. - OK.
- We were able to put up surveillance cameras,
and this is the appointment.
- OK.
- Yeah, I'm single too. We gonna say that?
- The next day, he went to a nail salon.
Woman walks in. - He don't even do his nails.
- There's the hug.
And because he had that reaction with this person,
they decided to go in so that they could get a closer look.
- That young lady is actually the first young lady
at the house.
- He told me he was working, but he
out here chasing culo.
Like, that's crazy.
- Might as well celebrate, yeah.
- Go on and celebrate.
- Oh, my God. - I'm having a good time.
- Oh, my God.
- I was going to bat for this guy, but this is too much.
- He told me that you wanted to make me his wife,
that we was gonna have a family,
then he just sold me a dream.
- That's called romantic future pacing.
And what that is is when he's creating this imagery of,
this is what we're going to be.
And that imagery is real.
It is real to the person.
- Why involve me in your little circus situation?
Now, I'm over here about to-- mm.
- I wanna show you the next one.
We follow him to this place.
- Whoa! - He meets with this lady.
- What's the--what's that?
- And it's very intimate. - Yo.
- Now, you don't know who that is?
- No. - OK.
- Wow!
- That was a public proclamation, wasn't it?
- He's a scammer.
- OK, so they go back to this house, whosever it is.
- That's his house.
- And she stayed there all night.
- All night?
♪ ♪
- What we have here, Tami, is a guy
who's willing to be anything to anyone at the moment
that they need it-- - Mm.
- A romantic chameleon. - Mm, that's good.
- And so, if he's with the woman that
needs the public display of affection,
he's going to provide that.
You notice he says, "You want a ring?
I'll give you a ring."
- So maybe he just gave her the ring
'cause she was the first one who was like, all right.
She gave him an ultimatum.
I'm 30. I'm looking for commitment,
so he wanted to appease her.
Now you know.
We came here to find out.
- We was just planning a wedding.
Like, we have a date set and everything, like--
- And I'm annoyed because my mother was the most
important thing to me.
And when she passed, I didn't even know if I could go on.
So if I bring you around my mother--
- Exactly. That's the part.
- That's me really giving you part of myself.
Don't agree to meet my mama!
- Thank you. - Exactly.
- Thank you.
- 'Cause I know what it's like to not have my mother here.
- That's why I said to her, I want to make sure that when--
if I'm not around, you're gonna have somebody
that is gonna have a--you gonna have a foundation with.
But this is too much. - Mm-mm.
Yo, I just--I really wanna see him right now.
I'm not gonna lie.
- There's one of two ways we can approach this.
You can team up with the other ladies,
have a conversation with them,
or you can wait until you have William with the other ladies
and catch them in the act.
And I also think, as much as we love Mommy,
you need to do this by yourself.
- Yeah. - What if they get ugly?
- We're gonna help you all process what you see,
and we will just have a conversation about that.
- OK. - All right.
- The old me back in the day, I would
have just violated the girls.
But, you know, they don't owe me nothing.
And as a Black Spanish minority woman,
I want to make sure that I represent myself well
and I'm not gonna get crazy.
So I'm gonna come and team up with the girls.
- I think that's the best way.
- Mm-hmm.
- He can't lie his way out of it because y'all all
have already talked.
[upbeat music]
♪ ♪
- Hey, y'all. - Hey there.
- How you doing, Tami?
- I am doing well. How about you?
- Ah, I've been better.
- As I told you, the investigation team,
they are top notch.
They were able to find the ladies,
and they both are on their way.
- OK.
- Now, they do not know why they're coming.
Right? - Mm-hmm.
- Because how else will we get them here?
So the investigation team could have potentially lied--
- Mm-hmm. - And said William
was going to be here. - Mm-hmm.
- Y'all go have a seat, and then I'll wait on the ladies.
- All right, Tami. - All right.
- Yo, whoa.
- Hello, there. My name is Tami Roman.
I know you thought you were coming to see someone else,
but you're actually here to be on a show called
"Caught in the Act: Unfaithful" because a young lady
named Nia came to see me regarding
her relationship with William.
- Who's Nia?
- Nia is the one he's engaged to.
- Excuse me? - Mm-hmm.
- So come on with me so you can meet Nia.
- Why the [bleep] this [bleep] had me come
to this [bleep] situation?
- Hi. - Hey.
- I'm Violet.
Wanna take a seat with me, girl?
- Uh-huh. I sure do.
'Cause I wanna know what's going on.
- Bruh.
- Right now, I was supposed to see Will.
- Who is Will to you?
- My boyfriend.
- Your boyfriend? - Yeah.
And you are? - I'm his fiancée.
Yeah, I got the ring and all. - All right.
- I want to let you know, I've been in his life
for almost three years. - For how long?
- Three? - Yeah, almost three years.
- All right. I've been here for a year.
- All right. Well, I've been here before,
so I don't know why your energy is hype, 'cause I'm the one--
- Nah, because I'm trying to figure out what's going on.
- Listen, listen, listen.
I'm really being chill right now.
- What's going on?
- I'm really being chill right now.
I'm really like that. I'll go with you.
- What you talking about?
I'm wifey though.
- I don't what you think this is.
- What are you talking about? - I really don't think--
- I'm wifey though. Who is you?
both: Hi.
- My name is Tami Roman.
- And-- - You're so pretty.
- Thank you. I know you thought
you were coming here to meet William.
- Yeah. - But instead, you're on
a show called "Caught in the Act: Unfaithful"
because a young lady named Nia that he's
engaged to texted me-- - Hold up, hold up, hold up.
What? - Yeah.
- This is a-- you're joking with me.
- No, he has a fiancée.
- But he--our anniversary is this month, like--
- Let's step outside so that you can meet Nia.
- [sighs]
- What? I'm sayin'-- - This bitch, yo.
- I really don't know...
- Listen, listen. Mister, mister, mister.
- Why would y'all bring me here.
- We gonna calm you down. We gonna calm you down.
♪ ♪
- Who's who? - Who are you?
- Here we go.
This is Nia.
Nia came to me to talk about her relationship with William.
We surveilled him, and found out
that he was in a relationship with you, Honey,
and you, Violet.
- Oh, that's Honey. Her.
That's the chick from the text message.
- I don't know who that is.
She's not in a relationship with him.
- Bitch, I got the ring, though.
Where's your ring?
I'm the main, baby. - You're not, though.
But you're not, though.
- I'm in the main chick, [bleep].
- Bitch, you still have to say you're [bleep]
and [bleep] and be all in my [bleep] ass and [bleep].
Bitch, you sound stupid. - That's why he put a ring
on this one, though. - You sound stupid.
- Put a ring on this one, though.
- How my ass taste, ho? - OK, [bleep] it.
Y'all don't wanna [bleep] know the truth
about your relationship?
I don't need to do this [bleep], OK?
Nobody sitting up here should think they're better than
anybody else, 'cause y'all all [bleep] been played,
and that's just the truth.
- They can go back and forth with each other.
They can call each other names.
She wanted to get some questions out,
but nobody's talking about the real reason we're here.
- With that energy, I just-- I'm sorry.
I'm not gonna front. I did get hot-headed
'cause they--that energy was just hot.
- None of y'all really shouldn't be
arguing with each other.
- Well, how long have y'all been seeing each other?
- A year. - OK.
- And have you seen the family? You met the family?
- Yeah, I met Mama Love. - Mama Love, OK, all right.
- And how did he introduce you?
- "Oh, this is my girlfriend."
- And you ain't never seen no pictures of me
in the phone, nothing? - Nothing.
I don't go through the phones. I don't do that.
- You never see him act weird, or go disappear.
- Yeah, he's been missing, MIA, a couple of nights.
- You didn't ever question that?
- He told me he was at work.
- Mm-hmm. - So--
- And you know what he does for a living?
- Yeah, he gives massages.
- Is that how you met him? - Yeah.
- OK, OK.
- And how did you meet him, Honey?
- And my friend, she was telling me like,
you know, he does post-surgery massages and stuff like that.
And then you know, it was an intimate massage,
so that kind of, like, how everything started.
- And he pursued you? - Mm-hmm.
You don't think I'm gonna sit here and be on 10?
Somebody I've been with for three years,
and you're telling me you're engaged to him?
- Three years. So essentially,
he's been seeing her longer than you.
- Just help me understand where you come in the picture at.
- Let's try to figure it all out.
He's been with Honey for about three years, then engaged
to Nia for about 2 and 1/2 years,
and then Violet for one year.
- Tell me what he's promised you.
Were you gonna get married? A ring?
Live together? - I mean, yeah.
He done met my son and all of that.
- Mm-hmm.
- Me and my child's father relationship
is not the best co-parenting.
You feel me?
So William, like, helped me, you know?
- I understand. - Playing stepdad to the kid.
- And he's been in that child's life
for three years? - Wow.
- [bleep] - Wow.
- You don't do that. You don't play with the babies.
- This is what I'm trying to say.
Like, that's some real--you know what I'm trying to say?
- You know, I grew up in abuse, neglect, all of that,
and he knew that.
That's [bleep] up.
Like, you don't do that to people.
Like, I grew up in foster care, so for him
to paint this whole fantasy [bleep],
I'm not jacking that.
- We all need to be in the same spot, confront this man,
so we can see how he really feels.
- I want to see him right now-- - Mm-hmm.
- Like, right the [bleep] now.
- Yeah. - So I'm thinking maybe, Honey,
since he's been with you the longest, you could text him...
- Yeah, I will.
- And then we will all meet you.
That's what we'll do.
- ♪ I'm a savage, so far from average,
♪ Soaking melanin from that Black girl magic ♪
- Hey, Ken. - Hey.
Come on. - Thank you.
- All right.
- Here's the plan.
One of the ladies, Honey, texted him
to get a massage tonight. - OK.
- And the investigation team rigged
her place with hidden cameras. - OK.
- So, now, Nia and Violet are meeting us here
so we can all ride over together.
- OK.
- Hey. - Hey, let me help you.
- Thank you. - Come on up.
- Oh. - Hey, lady.
- Hey, mamas. - How are you?
- I'm OK.
- OK, all right.
- I got what I wanted, so I can't even get mad.
Only person I can get mad at is myself being bamboozled.
- No. No, absolutely not mad at yourself.
You didn't know that he was not telling you the truth.
- I knew something was happening.
This killing me, Ken. It's killing me.
- I know. I know.
- Well, I want to let you know that I'm going to allow
Violet to ride with us.
- OK.
[tense music]
- Honestly, respectfully, I don't
really care for you right now.
- That's cool.
- But at the end of the day, we're women,
and it's [bleep] up that this [bleep] had to happen to us.
And it's like I can't sit here and dwell
on a dude that's sitting here playing me, playing you.
I'm still going to college.
Like, I can't have that.
Like, respectfully, I have so much utmost respect for myself
to sit here and disrespect myself like that.
- That makes sense what she said.
- Absolutely it does.
- It makes a lot of sense.
- My mother--she's embarrassed 'cause she
took him as a son-in-law, so we both in this together.
And at this stage in my life, like my mother said,
I'm in my 30s now.
I don't wanna be old and alone. You know?
- All of you are young.
I mean, what the-- - 'Cause she not old.
She only five years older than me.
- What the hell? - Let me get my cane.
Oh, my God. [laughter]
OK, ladies. So we are here.
This is the location that Honey established that she would
have a massage from William.
Now, what's happening inside,
we will be able to see by way of this monitor.
When you ladies feel like you wanna have a conversation,
feel free to do so, whether you want to go
independently or together.
But you don't have to worry 'cause Ken and I
will be right here watching everything.
So let's take a look at what's going on inside.
- Are you? What you excited for?
- I am.
- [bleep] his [bleep] is little.
Like, what you talking about, size don't matter?
- Mmm.
- [scoffs]
- I need my glasses.
- Wow. A promise ring?
- Wait a sec.
- He on his knee?
- He ain't on his [bleep] knee right now.
- Girl! - Can we go now?
- Yes. - Yeah.
We're gonna go now.
- Oh, my goodness.
Open that. Open that, cause nah, I'm ready to go.
I'm gonna--I gotta go.
♪ ♪
- Oh! What the--
- What happened?
What is this? What is this?
- You a good actor. You a good actor.
Promise ring? [bleep] promise ring?
Say how you feel, [bleep].
Tell me how you feel. No!
Close the door! - Oh, [bleep].
- We got us a runner.
[dramatic music]
♪ ♪
- Say how you feel, [bleep].
Tell me how you feel!
- Y'all buggin'! - No! Close the door!
Yo, please, please. Come here.
- Oh, [bleep], we got us a runner.
- Y'all bugging, bro. - Promise ring?
- Y'all bugging, bro. - You promise ring?
- Y'all bugging, bro. - You talked about you was
gonna get me a new ring, [bleep].
- Y'all bugging. - You serious?
- Get the [bleep] out of here. - You said
you loved me, and you go over here with another bitch?
- Y'all bugging. - Come back.
- Oh, gosh. He's running. - Yeah. Nah.
- What the-- - William, let me talk to you.
- What's going on? What's going on?
- Let me talk to you for a minute.
- You know what's going on. You got caught.
- Excuse me. - Nah--
- I just wanna talk. I just wanna talk.
- What's going on? - My name is Tami Roman,
OK, and you are on "Caught in the Act: Unfaithful."
- Son! - Nia came to me
because she thought that you were being unfaithful.
- A lot of them came, too.
- Violet, as well as Honey. - Y'all, easy.
Y'all cool. Everybody be cool.
We all peoples. - What am I to you?
- My fiancée.
- Oh, I'm your fiancée now. - You my heart.
- Now, I'm your heart? So why are you acting like
you're running away from me? - 'Cause you came in
with a whole gang of people. - I came because
you got caught. - That's wrong, bro.
- Because you got me looking crazy.
- William, what's going on? - Be cool.
- You got me looking stupid. - Son--
- My mother's watching me.
- Would you be willing to come inside?
- Yeah. - [sobbing]
- It's gonna be OK. We're gonna go inside.
- Ladies, we're all gonna go back in the house.
- Let's go inside and go talk about it.
Breathe. - [sighs]
- Just breathe. Just breathe.
We gonna do it.
- OK. - We're gonna do it.
I got you. I got you. - OK.
We got you, OK? - OK.
- You gonna be OK? - I'm gonna try.
- We can make it. We gonna--we got you.
- OK.
He got us looking stupid.
- Your mom's gonna be proud of you
because you stood up for yourself.
- Mm-hmm. - OK?
Because you stood up for yourself.
- OK.
- That's the most important thing.
- OK.
I'm too old to be-- this what I'm saying.
I'm too old for this. - You had memories.
You had fun. - We can do it. All right.
We're gonna get some answers. - Shut the [bleep] up.
- We're gonna get some answers. - You playing stepdaddy
to her kid, right, Will?
You playing stepdaddy to her kid?
- For real though. - Sit right here.
- Everybody sit down.
- All right, my question to you, because...
- Yeah, I want answers. - I think all the ladies
need clarity, right? - Yeah.
- You've been involved with Honey for about three years.
Then you've been engaged to Nia for about 2 and 1/2 years,
and then you've been with Violet for one year.
- Yeah.
- Why?
- I got different connections with different people.
You know what I mean? My connection with Nia
is way deeper than these females.
As a guy, sometimes you wanna have a lot of girls
in one night. I was doing too much.
And I think growing up, I seen my dad do that.
So I met Honey first, and she was cool and whatnot,
but then she started acting a little weird
and being a little controlling. - What's weird?
- Weird in what way? - She's being controlling.
- Right, what's weird? Controlling?
How do I control you?
- You're controlling.
- You have the most crazy schedule.
- You be demanding. You be demanding stuff.
- What do I control you?
- Why then did you give her a ring?
- All right, because what y'all don't know is like, she
even pestering me about it.
So I kinda just wanted to like put a muzzle on it.
- But why? - You met her not
too long after me, why is you playing house
with me and my son?
That's wack as [bleep].
- I met him a few times, bro.
- Then when I met Nia, Nia just like--she changed everything.
She was calm. She was more mature.
- Yeah, you want a bitch that's not high maintenance.
- And she take care of me. Like, she nurturing.
- You want a mama? - Nah, I don't want--nah.
- And why incorporate Violet?
- Violet, she was more cool with my job.
Like Nia, she didn't like--she didn't like my job too much.
- Right. - So Violet,
she thought, like, what I did was cool.
You know what I mean? - 'Cause she met you
as a client, of course she thought it was cool.
- It felt cool being admired by somebody.
That's my fault, too. I apologize to you.
- You ain't sorry.
- I am sorry. - You ain't sorry.
You just saying that 'cause you got caught up,
and that's the [bleep] up part about it.
- I do think, you know, I'm young,
and you know my brain is still forming. Like, your brain--
- Your brain ain't still forming.
- The male brain is not done forming
until you're, like, 31 years old.
- Your brain ain't no still forming.
You a grown-ass man, OK? - That's true, you right.
- And so you gotta take accountability.
And if you want to be in a relationship with Nia--
- Yeah.
- You should be committed to that.
- That's my heart.
- William, question for you. - Talk to me.
- Listen, this is the woman you love, right?
- That's my heart. - That's your heart, right?
- 'Cause you are integrated with her family, her mother,
everybody, and she said that y'all were gonna get married?
Why should she ever trust you again, especially
in the same profession?
- Because I'm gonna be more open with her.
She can--matter of fact, you can come with me.
My next client, come with me.
Do what you got to do. We can get through this.
I deeply apologize to you.
- DTB--drop these bitches. - All right. They done, bro.
They done. - Yeah, it took
for me to catch you?
- It's over. - It was over--
- It's been over with them. - Because I caught you.
- I was trying to break it off anyway.
- When you was gonna break--you just
gave her a promise ring, like right before
we came up in here.
- Oh, it's like friendship thing.
- Yeah? - You got friends.
I got friends. - So I'm gonna give
a promise ring to a [bleep], and you gonna be OK with it?
We're not doing this, Will. - We've got to work on it.
- We're not-- we're working on what?
We not working on it unless you let these bitches know.
- They done, bro!
I wanna restart with you.
I wanna restart. I wanna start fresh.
You can come to my job.
- Yo. - Yo.
- You not doing that job no more.
- We can talk about that. - No, we're not talking.
We're talking about it right now.
- I got mad clients.
- It's a dub. Cancel all of it.
- I gotta make money. - I'ma take your phone,
and it's clip, you canceling all that [bleep].
You're cutting that page off. - We gonna work on it.
- You're disabling that page.
It's over for that.
- Listen, let me tell you something, Nia.
- We gonna start fresh.
- You came to me because you wanted
to know if there was something going on
in your relationship with Will.
- We starting fresh, bro.
- We put surveillance on him.
We found out about these two ladies.
- Y'all the feds, bro.
- Now, my question then becomes...
are you going to continue on with Will
or go on forward on your own?
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Are you going to continue on with Will,
or go on forward on your own?
- We're gonna work on it.
Everybody make mistakes.
- You gonna quit that job?
- Yeah, I'ma quit the job.
- He quit that job.
- I'ma find a new occupation.
- But here's the problem, though, William.
It's not just the career.
You gotta fundamentally say, I'm gonna be different.
- I can admit when I'm wrong.
I [bleep] up.
I wanna fix this. - OK.
- I wanna fix me. - All right. I'm good.
- Y'all can have that.
- I'm so sorry. - I can't kiss you.
You just kissing her. I can't--
- Who got mouthwash?
- That's what I'm trying to tell you.
Why y'all still got them sitting here?
Get them out my [bleep] crib.
- That's my baby, bro.
- William, you have to stop lying.
- It's over. We done lying.
- And stop trying to just say things
to appease people, and really have open and honest dialogue.
- If you wanna be that way, you wanna be a ho--
- Nah. - I'ma respect that.
- You don't have to take anybody with you
if you want to be a ho. - You don't.
You really don't. - No. Hell no.
I wanna be with you.
- So make sure you apologize to her mom--
- Yeah. Yeah. - I got that.
- In a real way. - She was backing you up.
- I'ma call her. - She feels stupid.
- All right. I'm gonna head on out 'cause there's
too much kissing and [bleep] on this porch for me.
But y'all work it out. OK?
- OK, Tami. - All right.
- Thank you.
- He's damaged. And hurt people, hurt people.
But you know, I ain't gonna be no hater.
So if they end up happy, that's good for them.
You feel me? I'm a mother first.
So it's just like, I can just, you know,
focus on myself, my money, my child, my family, all that.
- You gotta wash that mouth now.
- Come on. - You was kissing her.
I seen it. - No, I took my lips off.
- Nah. Nah. I saw it all.
[waggles tongue]
- And when I left with him, it was like, girl,
you saw what you saw.
You stupid.
But, hey, it is what it is
and bitches gonna pick they poison.
That's [bleep] poison. Don't die.
- This experience has taught me to go with my intuition.
I had to hear some stuff I didn't wanna hear
and see some things I didn't wanna see.
But once I told him DTB,
he understood the assignment, dropped the bitches.
I'ma stick beside him.
- I am debating on quitting my job as a massage therapist.
Maybe I'll take a break from it.
She's flustered. She's upset.
I don't think she really means that.
But I took away from this--
keep your eyes on the prize,
which is working and getting money, man.
That's it.
- William doesn't wanna change.
He just wants her to get past this moment.
- Absolutely.
- I think he loves her, I do.
I think he's just not ready to be a married man.
- And he's not.
- Yeah. - Our job
is not to make the decisions for them.
It's to give them the information they want.
And what they do with it from there, is on them.
- ♪ Eeny, miney me, I don't wanna be like this ♪
♪ I think what I see, I'm not trying to be selfish ♪
♪ I don't wanna be like this ♪
- Hello there, beautiful ladies.
- Hey. - Hi, Tami.
- How are you guys doing?
- Girl, a lot of things have changed.
We doin' good, though.
Me and Will, we called it quits.
[dramatic sting]
[laughs] It's over. - You did?
- I said no. Last time you saw us together,
we made it seem like--
- Yeah, y'all was riding off into the sunset.
Y'all was down the highway.
- He went back to the old ways.
I started seeing phone calls from a girl, and--
I didn't feel like I was even secure with him.
- I'm glad you let William go.
Aida, you were not here when all the girls got together.
Did she tell you about that?
- Yes. I heard it was a [bleep] show.
And that changed my mind because I am
not with toxic relationships.
But you know, life is funny.
You never know what's gonna happen.
- I'm actually seeing somebody else, Tami.
- Oh. You really moved on.
- Mm-hmm. - OK.
- Everything was just a blessing.
I'm just appreciative of you, Tami.
Thank you. - And I thank you ladies
for letting me check in with you, all right?
I'll talk to you later. Bye.
- Bye. - Bye.
- Cheaters, beware--
- You [bleep] kissed her, you idiot.
- Next time you wanna be unfaithful, think again.
Let me tell you one mother[bleep] thing!
- Oh, Lord. Oh, Lord. Oh, Lord. Oh, Lord!
- Because I just might...
Oh, God. She's running.
- Catch you in the act.
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