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- ♪ MTV ♪
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- I'm Tami Roman.
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I have been cheated on before.
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- You [bleep] my man
when I was married to him.
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- I even wrote a book
about it.
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And I've made it my mission
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to help suspicious lovers
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catch their cheating partners
in the act.
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Hold up.
- Man, you brought this
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to my place of business?
How dare you?
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What is this?
- Ooh.
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- Oh!
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Together with my relationship
coaches...
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- You gotta tell
about the insecurities
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that you have.
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That's how y'all work
through it.
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- This is a situation
where you have to say,
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"I'm gonna step up
and do what's right."
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- And stealthy
investigation team...
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- They think they slick,
well, we slicker.
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- We won't stop
until we find the truth.
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Cheaters beware.
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- I'm [bleep] torn.
I love 'em both.
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- You gotta fundamentally say,
"I'm gonna be different."
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- Who the [bleep]
you think you are?
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- Why the [bleep] y'all
got cameras in my crib?
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What the [bleep]
is wrong with you?
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- [screaming]
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- Nobody should think
they're better
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than anybody else,
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'cause y'all all
[bleep] been played,
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and that's just the truth.
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This is "Caught in the Act:
Unfaithful."
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- ♪ OK, puff and I'm fly,
I have to believe I will die ♪
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♪ If I hit the pen I'ma fly ♪
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♪ Yeah, I'm sliding ♪
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♪ I'm gliding ♪
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♪ I'm gliding ♪
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♪ I got my incense lit so ♪
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- Lexi, oh, it's such
a pleasure to meet you.
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- You too.
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- Oh, my goodness.
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You're beautiful.
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- Thank you.
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How are you?
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- Oh, thank you.
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So Lexi, you reached
out to me because you
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feel like your partner
Joe may be unfaithful.
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- Yeah.
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Yeah.
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- Listen, girl, I'm gonna
try to get to the truth.
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That's what I do around
here, but I need to know
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about your relationship.
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- Well, you know what?
I met Joe in 2017.
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It was just so organic.
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It felt so good,
genuine just energy.
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And I liked the fact
that he was listening
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to everything I was saying.
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- For that year,
he was very respectful.
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I got to know him
a lot as just a friend.
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Like it's giving me
goosebumps right now.
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- I love that.
Me too.
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I feel something popping up on
me because I stand by creating
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a friendship first
because that's what
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the foundation is made of.
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- Yeah. He seemed just so
interested in me.
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And then I'm a good
listener, so I'll
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sit there and listen all day.
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- So he gave you the
attention that you needed.
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- Yeah.
- And it was genuine.
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- Yes.
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- And what do you
guys do for a living?
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- He works in
construction and he's
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an influencer on social media.
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People pay him to put stuff on
his page and stuff sometimes.
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Me, I model and I'm also
a nursing assistant.
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But more so taking up on
the modeling more now.
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Before it was
very, very lovely.
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Like, I loved it, the support,
everything with my modeling,
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like I didn't have support,
really, like a lot of support
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from my family like that.
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But he was like, you know,
always wanted to volunteer
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to record me when I'm
working out in my
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workout fitness videos.
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He's come with me
to my shoots.
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He used to shoot all my
behind the scenes videos.
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Like, I love him.
I want kids.
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- With him?
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- I mean,
I've invested this long,
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and I feel like
it's meant to be.
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But all of this stuff,
you know, if something comes
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out of this, like I can't.
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- Because you think
he might be cheating.
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We don't know for sure.
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- Yeah, I don't know.
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But it's just, you know,
when you have a gut feeling--
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- So what happened?
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- Well, too many red flags
is what happened.
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Things have been
way off recently.
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And then he won't
answer his phone.
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He'll literally be out.
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He'll come home late.
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Take my car, pick me up late.
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- Take your car?
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- Yeah, well, he'll
take my car because I
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allow him to take the car.
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But he'll come back too late.
- Where his car at?
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- He don't got a car?
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He got a call one time
at like 2:00 or 3:00
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in the morning.
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And you know,
it be sitting like this
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and you know how you just
waking up, you're like,
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oh the phone's ringing,
you just looking,
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and he just put it
right back down.
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I ended up looking
at his phone after that
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and you know what I saw was
his whole call log was cleared.
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- That's bigger
than a red flag.
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- He says it was memory
that he needed to clear.
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- And so now we have to
wonder, have we been really
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dealing with the real Joe?
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- It triggers things
from the past.
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And I've been
cheated on before.
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- Yes, haven't we all.
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You know how I told you
he was a very good listener?
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- Mm-hmm.
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- Now it's just
completely different.
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Because he'll just
be on his phone,
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you know,
just being on Instagram.
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He's been adding like
these girls to his lives.
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And they've been
like butt-naked.
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OK.
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Let me show you.
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He also has his face
in women's breasts
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on top of that in a strip
club where he was booked
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to host something, he says.
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But this is the
stream recording.
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Look at him.
He doesn't do this.
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Like he doesn't
like the clubs.
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- Wait, this is Joe?
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- I ain't got my glasses.
Is he-- is he a little person?
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- He is.
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He's like 4'7", 4'8".
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And I still wear my heels.
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We have gotten made
fun of and stuff.
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You know, people stare
at us all the time.
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- And you don't feel
any kind of way?
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- I'm not bothered by it.
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I think he more so though,
there's been times
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where he's actually
gotten very emotional.
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That kind of gets in the way,
the insecurity
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is a little bit-- you
can't tell until he really,
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really got--
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I guess he felt comfortable.
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- He opened up to you.
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- Yeah, he said that he
has never really opened
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up that quickly with someone.
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- And that's probably what made
you feel comfortable enough
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to open up to him.
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- Yeah.
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- How's sex?
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- Before we had sex every day.
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- Every day?
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- And he's very
much man down there.
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And it's very, very good.
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- OK.
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- I love him to death.
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I don't really see
my life like without him.
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- Wow.
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- If it is another woman,
would you
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know who that person might be?
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- No.
- Do you have any--
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- I don't know like--
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Sorry.
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- Let it out.
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- Well, in the beginning,
I feel like I wasn't
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like, threatened by anyone.
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And even now I don't
feel that way, but--
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the idea, like is
making me think about it.
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- If we uncover something or he
just flat out says, you know,
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I think it's run its course,
are you
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gonna be able to handle that?
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- I don't know.
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- With your permission,
I can get my investigation team
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- With your permission,
I can get my investigation team
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to surveil Joe,
follow him as long as necessary
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to see if there's
anything going on.
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But you have to give me
permission to do that.
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- Well, I really want to know,
so yeah, I want to do it.
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- OK.
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Hopefully,
he ain't doing nothing.
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- So you go ahead on.
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And I'm gonna thank you
for coming on then.
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I'm gonna call my team.
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- Thank you so much.
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Thank you, thank you so much.
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- Oh, you're so beautiful.
- You're beautiful.
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- No, you are.
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We're gonna find out for you.
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There's-- there's
the front door.
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Take your time.
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- All right, baby.
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- ♪ Work ♪
♪ - Working me ♪
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- ♪ Work ♪
♪ She working me ♪
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- ♪ Work, work ♪
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- ♪ Urging me ♪
- ♪ Urge ♪
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- ♪ It be urging me ♪
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♪ Fill it up the top and
close the curtain, please ♪
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♪ ♪
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[tense music]
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- All right, today's day one
of surveillance.
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We're gonna be on Joe for a
good number of days, unknown.
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It's just really
gonna depend on what
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Joe decides he wants to do
and how he wants to play.
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Before I became a PI,
I was a police officer.
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I love being
a private investigator.
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I wouldn't change it
for the world.
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♪ ♪
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Joe works in construction.
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He works in a building
somewhere down
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in this alleyway.
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♪ ♪
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We did confirm Joe is at work.
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He's working out
of the back of the house.
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That's Joe's car right
there that he's driving.
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It's actually Lexi's car.
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Joe's driving her car.
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So right now we're just gonna
go ahead and wait and see
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what Joe does when he leaves.
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I was able to outfit Lexi's
car with audio and a camera.
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Now I got front-row seats.
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I'm gonna hear
everything that Joe
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could do while he in her car.
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Joe is on the phone.
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We're gonna go ahead
and hook everything up.
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We're gonna see what
Joe talking about.
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- There he go.
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- Yo, this is some good stuff.
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- Joe got a little
swag as he's walking
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in like he getting ready to
go in there and meet somebody.
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We're not gonna be able
to surveil him from here,
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so we have to go inside and
get some covert video of him.
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I'm gonna use covert glasses.
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Picks up all audio.
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Picks up good video.
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So I'm gonna be
wearing these inside.
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It's gonna show everything
that Joe is doing.
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Joe, who dat?
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I see you looking
at the merchandise.
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Hey, come on.
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What the hell is this?
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Don't tell me you came
all the way up here
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to meet a bunch of hard heads.
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Man, this is an epic failure.
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All right, Joe,
you got me tonight, bro.
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Really haven't gotten
anything good on him.
256
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But right now we're
pulling up on a location
257
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that I found out
he's gonna be at tonight.
258
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So we follow Joe
on social media.
259
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Tonight this is where he's
gonna be at over here.
260
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My decoy Mika,
she's already inside.
261
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Me and Mika going to
communicate via text on
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his arrival and his departure.
263
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All right, I see Joe car.
264
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Joe just arrived.
265
00:09:50,765 --> 00:09:52,267
Let me go ahead and send
Mika a text real quick
266
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that he's here.
267
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Jackpot.
268
00:10:01,709 --> 00:10:05,713
I got Joe and that little
swag walk that you like to do.
269
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Unknown female.
270
00:10:08,683 --> 00:10:12,654
Mika gonna go ahead and capture
all the video on the inside.
271
00:10:28,836 --> 00:10:31,139
All right,
Joe just walked out the club.
272
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They're leaving in two
different cars though.
273
00:10:33,041 --> 00:10:36,344
So we're gonna see
where Joe touch down.
274
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Joe pulling up to a house.
275
00:10:41,583 --> 00:10:43,084
All right, playboy.
276
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That's the lady
that was at the club.
277
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We'll need to identify her.
278
00:10:49,724 --> 00:10:53,461
Right now, I'm using
my OD green military
279
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issued binoculars.
280
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They NVGs.
281
00:10:55,830 --> 00:10:57,599
NVG stands for night
vision goggles,
282
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which mean I can see into the
darkness, get clear pictures.
283
00:10:59,934 --> 00:11:02,103
Let's see what I can get.
284
00:11:16,417 --> 00:11:18,319
Look like she's kissing on Joe.
285
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Uh-oh, where you going?
286
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- ♪ Whoa, big ting, man ♪
287
00:11:30,431 --> 00:11:32,367
♪ Everywhere I go,
yeah, I run the town ♪
288
00:11:32,367 --> 00:11:34,235
♪ When I touch down,
better hand me my crown ♪
289
00:11:34,235 --> 00:11:35,436
♪ Hand me my crown, yeah ♪
290
00:11:35,436 --> 00:11:36,537
♪ Hand me the crown ♪
291
00:11:36,537 --> 00:11:38,806
♪ Uh ♪
292
00:11:39,907 --> 00:11:41,609
- Hi, Lexi.
- Hi, how are you?
293
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- How are you?
294
00:11:43,011 --> 00:11:44,245
It's good seeing you again.
- I'm OK.
295
00:11:44,245 --> 00:11:45,146
Good seeing you.
296
00:11:45,146 --> 00:11:46,447
- Thank you for coming in.
297
00:11:46,447 --> 00:11:49,050
This is my relationship
expert, Morgan.
298
00:11:49,050 --> 00:11:50,852
- How are you, Lexi?
- How are you?
299
00:11:50,852 --> 00:11:53,288
- I'm great.
- Please have a seat.
300
00:11:57,859 --> 00:11:59,861
- As you know,
I had my investigation
301
00:11:59,861 --> 00:12:02,163
team go out and surveil Joe.
302
00:12:02,163 --> 00:12:05,933
And they were able
to capture some imagery.
303
00:12:05,933 --> 00:12:08,336
We're gonna watch it,
all of us together.
304
00:12:08,336 --> 00:12:10,338
- Tammy is here
to help support you.
305
00:12:10,338 --> 00:12:14,876
I'm here to support you in
the midst of whatever happens.
306
00:12:14,876 --> 00:12:17,145
- Are you prepared
to see this footage?
307
00:12:17,145 --> 00:12:22,984
Because it could alter your
relationship going forward.
308
00:12:22,984 --> 00:12:26,387
- Yeah, just-- yeah,
let's just do it.
309
00:12:26,387 --> 00:12:27,989
- OK.
310
00:12:31,944 --> 00:12:33,011
- ♪ Call me when you want,
call me when you need ♪
311
00:12:33,011 --> 00:12:34,179
♪ Call me in the morning ♪
312
00:12:34,179 --> 00:12:35,614
♪ I'll be on the way ♪
313
00:12:35,614 --> 00:12:36,782
♪ Call me when you want ♪
314
00:12:36,782 --> 00:12:38,483
♪ Call me when you need ♪
315
00:12:38,483 --> 00:12:41,353
♪ Call me out by your name,
I'll be on the way like ♪
316
00:12:41,353 --> 00:12:43,655
- Are you prepared
to see this footage?
317
00:12:43,655 --> 00:12:49,595
Because it could alter your
relationship going forward.
318
00:12:49,595 --> 00:12:50,862
- Yeah, just--
319
00:12:50,862 --> 00:12:52,664
Yeah, let's just do it.
320
00:12:52,664 --> 00:12:53,665
- OK.
321
00:12:53,665 --> 00:12:56,068
So there is Joe.
322
00:12:56,068 --> 00:12:59,104
As you said,
he does construction work.
323
00:12:59,104 --> 00:13:00,305
That's your car, correct?
324
00:13:00,305 --> 00:13:01,340
- Yes.
325
00:13:01,340 --> 00:13:02,240
That is my car.
326
00:13:02,240 --> 00:13:05,277
- And now he's headed off.
327
00:13:05,277 --> 00:13:06,745
- In my car.
328
00:13:06,745 --> 00:13:09,514
- Now the next evening,
we continued to surveil him.
329
00:13:09,514 --> 00:13:14,252
Here's Joe meeting with
someone outside of a nightclub.
330
00:13:16,154 --> 00:13:17,990
Do you know who this person is?
331
00:13:17,990 --> 00:13:19,358
- I need to see closer.
332
00:13:19,358 --> 00:13:21,193
- Well, get on up,
girl, and go look at it.
333
00:13:21,193 --> 00:13:25,130
- 'Cause...
334
00:13:29,468 --> 00:13:33,305
We had a decoy go into
this particular club
335
00:13:33,305 --> 00:13:34,873
so that we would
be able to surveil.
336
00:13:34,873 --> 00:13:36,775
- Is that-- this is
my ex-best friend.
337
00:13:36,775 --> 00:13:37,909
- This is who?
338
00:13:37,909 --> 00:13:40,479
- This is my ex-best friend.
339
00:13:40,479 --> 00:13:41,880
- What?
340
00:13:41,880 --> 00:13:43,415
- But they're just--
they're chilling, right?
341
00:13:43,415 --> 00:13:45,183
They're just chilling?
342
00:13:45,183 --> 00:13:46,218
- That's your ex-best friend?
343
00:13:46,218 --> 00:13:47,619
- That's my ex-best friend.
344
00:13:47,619 --> 00:13:48,887
- What's her name?
345
00:13:48,887 --> 00:13:49,888
- Umil.
346
00:13:49,888 --> 00:13:51,089
- Umil?
347
00:13:51,089 --> 00:13:52,557
- I called her Umi.
- OK.
348
00:13:52,557 --> 00:13:54,192
- I don't even know why
he was hanging out with
349
00:13:54,192 --> 00:13:55,861
her either because I don't--
350
00:13:55,861 --> 00:13:57,396
I'm not even friends
with her anymore.
351
00:13:57,396 --> 00:13:59,765
And she's really
putting her ass on him.
352
00:13:59,765 --> 00:14:01,333
- You said ex?
353
00:14:01,333 --> 00:14:02,300
Ex-best friend?
354
00:14:02,300 --> 00:14:03,802
- Yeah.
355
00:14:03,802 --> 00:14:05,837
Since high school.
356
00:14:05,837 --> 00:14:08,006
- How did y'all become
ex-best friends?
357
00:14:08,006 --> 00:14:11,777
- In 2019,
me and her stopped talking.
358
00:14:11,777 --> 00:14:12,811
You know, she was sick.
359
00:14:12,811 --> 00:14:14,012
She was sick a lot.
360
00:14:14,012 --> 00:14:15,414
She went to the hospital
a lot.
361
00:14:15,414 --> 00:14:16,948
I had-- I was going
through my own crap.
362
00:14:16,948 --> 00:14:18,183
And the reason why
we had a falling out
363
00:14:18,183 --> 00:14:19,785
is because she was
in the hospital.
364
00:14:19,785 --> 00:14:21,420
She was going through
something way worse than what
365
00:14:21,420 --> 00:14:23,088
she was been going
through before.
366
00:14:23,088 --> 00:14:24,523
I'm like, I understand
where you're coming from,
367
00:14:24,523 --> 00:14:27,893
but I felt like I
could not really do--
368
00:14:27,893 --> 00:14:29,294
I don't know--
- Be there for her.
369
00:14:29,294 --> 00:14:30,796
- I was like--
370
00:14:30,796 --> 00:14:31,830
Yeah, like I couldn't even
be there kind of for myself
371
00:14:31,830 --> 00:14:33,398
at the time.
372
00:14:33,398 --> 00:14:34,966
I had booked an out of town
modeling job that time.
373
00:14:34,966 --> 00:14:37,436
And I really,
really needed the money.
374
00:14:37,436 --> 00:14:39,604
I was in such deep
[bleep] financially.
375
00:14:39,604 --> 00:14:41,039
- Right.
376
00:14:41,039 --> 00:14:43,241
- Maybe I underestimated
how freaking deep
377
00:14:43,241 --> 00:14:45,043
it was for her because
she has sickle cell.
378
00:14:45,043 --> 00:14:47,479
- Just for clarity,
sickle cell is
379
00:14:47,479 --> 00:14:50,549
one in five killers
of African-American
380
00:14:50,549 --> 00:14:51,983
people in this country.
381
00:14:51,983 --> 00:14:53,452
That's a big deal.
382
00:14:53,452 --> 00:14:55,120
- At the time like,
I tried to plead my case
383
00:14:55,120 --> 00:14:56,621
and I tried to tell her
I was sorry and stuff.
384
00:14:56,621 --> 00:14:58,523
And she just literally
deaded that whole thing.
385
00:14:58,523 --> 00:15:00,292
- I know you were going through
what you were going through.
386
00:15:00,292 --> 00:15:01,860
But if you look
through her lens,
387
00:15:01,860 --> 00:15:04,796
can you see how she may
have felt that you abandoned
388
00:15:04,796 --> 00:15:06,398
her or you didn't support her?
389
00:15:06,398 --> 00:15:09,134
- Like maybe, you know,
I should have just dropped
390
00:15:09,134 --> 00:15:10,802
all the things,
you know, and went over there
391
00:15:10,802 --> 00:15:13,305
and just disregarded
whatever I was going through.
392
00:15:13,305 --> 00:15:14,506
And I don't know, I can't--
393
00:15:14,506 --> 00:15:15,907
I can't change the past.
394
00:15:15,907 --> 00:15:17,309
- That was technically
a faux-pology.
395
00:15:17,309 --> 00:15:18,944
That was like a fake apology.
- No.
396
00:15:18,944 --> 00:15:20,145
- Maybe I should have
dropped everything.
397
00:15:20,145 --> 00:15:21,346
- No, no, no, no, no.
398
00:15:21,346 --> 00:15:23,215
- And just came
and handled you.
399
00:15:23,215 --> 00:15:24,983
- I'm saying that now, but
I didn't say that like that
400
00:15:24,983 --> 00:15:26,518
to her at the time, but--
401
00:15:26,518 --> 00:15:29,688
- OK, well, let's see
what else is going on.
402
00:15:29,688 --> 00:15:33,358
Now we continued to follow him.
403
00:15:35,193 --> 00:15:36,495
- Is that the
ex-best friend still?
404
00:15:36,495 --> 00:15:37,696
- That is my ex-best
friend still.
405
00:15:37,696 --> 00:15:38,764
- Still?
OK.
406
00:15:38,764 --> 00:15:39,798
- I'm really just [bleep].
407
00:15:39,798 --> 00:15:41,399
I'm so confused right now.
408
00:15:41,399 --> 00:15:43,101
Oh my God.
409
00:15:43,101 --> 00:15:46,805
Oh my [bleep] God.
410
00:15:46,805 --> 00:15:48,173
Is she on top of him?
411
00:15:48,173 --> 00:15:51,643
- So there's a lot
of intimacy here.
412
00:15:54,346 --> 00:15:58,383
- OK.
413
00:15:58,383 --> 00:16:00,352
- We also found
this clip when we
414
00:16:00,352 --> 00:16:04,089
were going through
the footage in your car.
415
00:16:04,089 --> 00:16:07,092
- He is using my car
to do what?
416
00:16:07,092 --> 00:16:08,927
- Let's see what they're
talking about in his car.
417
00:16:21,706 --> 00:16:25,043
- Oh my God, this [bleep]
guy, I swear to God.
418
00:16:32,450 --> 00:16:35,287
- How does hearing him say I
love you to her make you feel?
419
00:16:35,287 --> 00:16:37,656
- Oh, I feel like fricking
throwing my phone at him.
420
00:16:37,656 --> 00:16:40,225
- This relationship
is more than just,
421
00:16:40,225 --> 00:16:42,360
you know, we're just banging.
422
00:16:42,360 --> 00:16:44,863
She's emotionally
connected to him.
423
00:16:44,863 --> 00:16:48,900
And what he's doing is,
he's feeding that connection.
424
00:16:48,900 --> 00:16:54,873
- When you spoke to me when
you first came into the office,
425
00:16:54,873 --> 00:16:57,075
you talked about
support, right,
426
00:16:57,075 --> 00:17:00,045
and how he paid you
so much attention,
427
00:17:00,045 --> 00:17:01,746
how he was such
a great listener.
428
00:17:01,746 --> 00:17:07,352
And now his attention
has shifted to Umi.
429
00:17:07,352 --> 00:17:11,823
- Has he ever talked
about insecurity issues
430
00:17:11,823 --> 00:17:13,058
with being a little person?
431
00:17:13,058 --> 00:17:14,759
- He has.
432
00:17:14,759 --> 00:17:16,661
I mean, he's gone through
like, with his ex-girlfriends
433
00:17:16,661 --> 00:17:19,831
and stuff in the past, he
would tell me like, you know,
434
00:17:19,831 --> 00:17:22,534
when it did end, he would
say I feel like it's me.
435
00:17:22,534 --> 00:17:26,037
I never really came
at him about it because I
436
00:17:26,037 --> 00:17:27,505
don't-- it doesn't phase me.
437
00:17:27,505 --> 00:17:28,573
- Right.
438
00:17:28,573 --> 00:17:30,000
You accepted him
for who he was.
439
00:17:30,000 --> 00:17:30,141
You accepted him
for who he was.
440
00:17:30,141 --> 00:17:33,245
But I imagine in him
there was a part of him
441
00:17:33,245 --> 00:17:37,449
that deals with that silently.
442
00:17:37,449 --> 00:17:40,752
If Joe has an emotional
connection with her,
443
00:17:40,752 --> 00:17:43,688
are you still willing
to take him back?
444
00:17:43,688 --> 00:17:46,024
- I don't know.
445
00:17:46,024 --> 00:17:48,026
Like, am I supposed to?
446
00:17:48,026 --> 00:17:49,995
Like I don't know.
447
00:17:49,995 --> 00:17:52,564
Like we were talking about the
future and stuff, you know?
448
00:17:52,564 --> 00:17:54,132
- Right.
449
00:17:54,132 --> 00:17:55,901
- I mean, I don't even know
like why anything even drifted
450
00:17:55,901 --> 00:17:57,736
like with us, with me and Joe.
451
00:17:57,736 --> 00:17:59,170
Like what did I do?
452
00:17:59,170 --> 00:18:01,039
Like did I even do anything?
453
00:18:01,039 --> 00:18:03,174
But she's just as wrong.
454
00:18:03,174 --> 00:18:05,477
I guess all the rules,
or all those unspoken,
455
00:18:05,477 --> 00:18:07,479
like, rules, you know,
in a friendship or something,
456
00:18:07,479 --> 00:18:09,648
they just go out
the fricking window.
457
00:18:09,648 --> 00:18:12,584
- There's still a lot
of unanswered questions
458
00:18:12,584 --> 00:18:13,919
that you have.
459
00:18:13,919 --> 00:18:17,656
So I have to ask you how
do you want to proceed?
460
00:18:17,656 --> 00:18:19,724
We have two options.
461
00:18:19,724 --> 00:18:24,296
You can sit down with Umi
and then you guys can team up
462
00:18:24,296 --> 00:18:26,331
and go talk to Joe together.
463
00:18:26,331 --> 00:18:29,668
Or you can wait
till they together
464
00:18:29,668 --> 00:18:33,104
and we catch him
in the act in what
465
00:18:33,104 --> 00:18:34,639
we like to call a Takedown.
466
00:18:34,639 --> 00:18:37,609
[dramatic music]
467
00:18:37,609 --> 00:18:41,212
♪ ♪
468
00:18:43,223 --> 00:18:45,959
- ♪ Take a pic,
take a pic ♪
469
00:18:45,959 --> 00:18:47,327
♪ I like that freaky shit ♪
470
00:18:47,327 --> 00:18:48,328
♪ Freaky shit ♪
471
00:18:48,328 --> 00:18:50,297
♪ I love ♪
472
00:18:50,297 --> 00:18:52,766
- We have two options.
473
00:18:52,766 --> 00:18:57,871
You can sit down with Umi
and then you guys can team up
474
00:18:57,871 --> 00:18:59,706
and go talk to Joe together.
475
00:18:59,706 --> 00:19:03,176
Or you can wait
till they together
476
00:19:03,176 --> 00:19:06,847
and we catch 'em in
the act in what we like
477
00:19:06,847 --> 00:19:08,015
to call a Takedown.
478
00:19:08,015 --> 00:19:10,951
[dramatic music]
479
00:19:10,951 --> 00:19:13,053
- Well, I want to
do the Takedown.
480
00:19:13,053 --> 00:19:14,154
- Are you sure?
481
00:19:14,154 --> 00:19:15,288
- Yeah, I need to do that.
482
00:19:15,288 --> 00:19:16,957
I need to catch him in the act.
483
00:19:16,957 --> 00:19:18,959
I need to talk to her though.
484
00:19:18,959 --> 00:19:20,460
Like, I need to talk to her.
485
00:19:20,460 --> 00:19:21,828
I don't know though,
I might be really angry
486
00:19:21,828 --> 00:19:23,830
though, seeing her in person.
487
00:19:23,830 --> 00:19:25,832
- We're going to be
here to support you.
488
00:19:25,832 --> 00:19:27,834
So you get to speak your truth.
489
00:19:27,834 --> 00:19:32,372
- The next step is,
I get my investigation
490
00:19:32,372 --> 00:19:35,142
team back out on the streets.
491
00:19:35,142 --> 00:19:38,245
And once we catch
them together,
492
00:19:38,245 --> 00:19:39,946
then I will call you.
493
00:19:39,946 --> 00:19:45,252
And Ken and I will accompany
you to the Takedown.
494
00:19:45,252 --> 00:19:48,655
In the meantime, act normal.
495
00:19:48,655 --> 00:19:52,592
Do not let on that this
process is going on.
496
00:19:52,592 --> 00:19:55,829
[Audrey Mika's
"Fake Heartbreak"]
497
00:19:55,829 --> 00:19:57,864
Listen, you gonna be all
right because you're strong.
498
00:19:57,864 --> 00:19:59,366
You know how it is.
499
00:19:59,366 --> 00:20:01,968
- ♪ And I find it hard
to breathe ♪
500
00:20:01,968 --> 00:20:02,969
♪ These conversations ♪
501
00:20:02,969 --> 00:20:04,404
- We're gonna support you.
502
00:20:04,404 --> 00:20:06,039
It's gonna be OK.
- Thank you.
503
00:20:06,039 --> 00:20:08,008
- ♪ I'm reminiscing
on the thought you ♪
504
00:20:08,008 --> 00:20:10,977
- Thank you.
- You're welcome.
505
00:20:10,977 --> 00:20:15,949
- ♪ Yeah,
this fake heartbreak ♪
506
00:20:15,949 --> 00:20:18,919
[funky music]
507
00:20:18,919 --> 00:20:23,256
♪ ♪
508
00:20:23,256 --> 00:20:27,360
[line trilling]
509
00:20:27,360 --> 00:20:30,931
- Hello?
- Lexi.
510
00:20:30,931 --> 00:20:34,568
- Hey, I just got off the
phone with my investigator.
511
00:20:34,568 --> 00:20:37,504
We're on our way to get you,
because it's going down now.
512
00:20:44,277 --> 00:20:45,512
- That's what I need you to do.
513
00:20:45,512 --> 00:20:47,380
Me and Ken are on the way, OK?
514
00:20:58,325 --> 00:20:59,392
- I'm in the mood
for a Takedown.
515
00:20:59,392 --> 00:21:00,694
How about you?
516
00:21:00,694 --> 00:21:01,995
- I'm in the mood
for a Takedown.
517
00:21:01,995 --> 00:21:04,965
[dramatic music]
518
00:21:04,965 --> 00:21:11,972
♪ ♪
519
00:21:11,972 --> 00:21:15,075
All right, here we go.
520
00:21:15,075 --> 00:21:16,209
- Hey, Lexi, how are you?
- Hi.
521
00:21:16,209 --> 00:21:17,244
- Lexi, come on in.
522
00:21:17,244 --> 00:21:18,678
- How are you holding up?
523
00:21:18,678 --> 00:21:22,149
- I'm ready to like, blow up.
524
00:21:22,149 --> 00:21:25,318
♪ ♪
525
00:21:25,318 --> 00:21:26,753
- What is it that
you want to say?
526
00:21:26,753 --> 00:21:28,889
- First of all,
what are you doing?
527
00:21:28,889 --> 00:21:30,257
Did you really love me?
528
00:21:30,257 --> 00:21:31,791
Was any of it the truth?
529
00:21:31,791 --> 00:21:33,460
- You have every right
to feel what you feel.
530
00:21:33,460 --> 00:21:36,163
Now what you do next,
how you handle it is what's
531
00:21:36,163 --> 00:21:37,664
going to make the difference.
532
00:21:37,664 --> 00:21:40,634
- My investigator called me
and told me that they
533
00:21:40,634 --> 00:21:42,435
were somewhere having lunch.
534
00:21:42,435 --> 00:21:46,506
When we pull up to this
place, my investigation team
535
00:21:46,506 --> 00:21:49,943
has been surveilling them.
536
00:21:49,943 --> 00:21:55,315
And the way my ride is set
up is we're able to see
537
00:21:55,315 --> 00:21:57,484
everything that they're doing.
538
00:21:57,484 --> 00:22:00,320
Once we land,
I'll turn it on.
539
00:22:00,320 --> 00:22:02,055
You can watch some of
the interaction
540
00:22:02,055 --> 00:22:05,125
until you feel it's
time for you to go in
541
00:22:05,125 --> 00:22:07,427
and address the situation.
542
00:22:07,427 --> 00:22:10,964
♪ ♪
543
00:22:10,964 --> 00:22:13,200
OK, here we are.
544
00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:15,402
- Let me turn it on.
545
00:22:15,402 --> 00:22:17,037
- Now let's take a look.
546
00:22:17,037 --> 00:22:19,372
♪ ♪
547
00:22:19,372 --> 00:22:22,142
- [scoffs]
548
00:22:22,142 --> 00:22:26,813
Oh, now she's getting up.
549
00:22:26,813 --> 00:22:28,515
- Oh!
550
00:22:28,515 --> 00:22:29,983
That's like a
whole freakin' kiss.
551
00:22:29,983 --> 00:22:31,685
Can I just go?
552
00:22:31,685 --> 00:22:32,953
- I know you want to get out.
Here's what I want to say.
553
00:22:32,953 --> 00:22:34,287
Here's what I want to say.
554
00:22:34,287 --> 00:22:36,022
Remember what we're
here to do, OK?
555
00:22:36,022 --> 00:22:41,695
We are here for you to get
answers to your questions.
556
00:22:41,695 --> 00:22:43,096
- I have a lot of
[bleep] to say.
557
00:22:43,096 --> 00:22:44,231
- All right.
558
00:22:44,231 --> 00:22:45,432
- We're sitting right here.
559
00:22:45,432 --> 00:22:48,034
If you need me, call me.
560
00:22:48,034 --> 00:22:49,769
- [exhales]
561
00:22:49,769 --> 00:22:51,671
- You know it.
You know--
562
00:22:51,671 --> 00:22:52,806
- Hi.
563
00:22:52,806 --> 00:22:54,474
What are you doing?
- What you mean?
564
00:22:54,474 --> 00:22:55,909
- What are you doing?
565
00:22:55,909 --> 00:22:57,577
What are you doing?
What are you doing?
566
00:22:57,577 --> 00:22:58,678
- Why are you following me?
567
00:22:58,678 --> 00:23:00,180
- I swear to God, for real.
568
00:23:00,180 --> 00:23:01,448
- You hired people
to follow me?
569
00:23:01,448 --> 00:23:03,550
Where did these
cameras come from?
570
00:23:07,496 --> 00:23:10,399
[tense music]
571
00:23:10,399 --> 00:23:15,037
♪ ♪
572
00:23:15,037 --> 00:23:16,672
- Oh!
573
00:23:16,672 --> 00:23:18,341
That's like a whole
freaking kiss.
574
00:23:18,341 --> 00:23:22,945
Can I just go?
575
00:23:22,945 --> 00:23:24,080
Hi.
576
00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:26,048
What are you doing?
- What you mean?
577
00:23:26,048 --> 00:23:27,249
- What are you doing?
578
00:23:27,249 --> 00:23:28,784
What are you doing?
579
00:23:28,784 --> 00:23:30,586
- Man, for real, Umi,
I swear to God, for real.
580
00:23:30,586 --> 00:23:31,554
- Where these
cameras come from?
581
00:23:31,554 --> 00:23:32,955
- What are you doing with her?
582
00:23:32,955 --> 00:23:34,557
- Like we can't friends?
- What are you doing?
583
00:23:34,557 --> 00:23:35,691
- We was old friends.
584
00:23:35,691 --> 00:23:37,493
- Why would you do that to me?
585
00:23:37,493 --> 00:23:38,961
- We was old friends.
586
00:23:38,961 --> 00:23:40,363
- Brown, you [bleep]
kissed her, you idiot!
587
00:23:40,363 --> 00:23:42,131
I swear to God, bro.
588
00:23:42,131 --> 00:23:45,835
- Don't [bleep] play with me.
[bleep] stop playin'.
589
00:23:45,835 --> 00:23:48,137
You [bleep] kissed her.
- [bleep].
590
00:23:48,137 --> 00:23:49,505
- You still have an
emotional connection.
591
00:23:49,505 --> 00:23:50,840
- A kiss! A kiss!
592
00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:52,108
- You still have an
emotional connection.
593
00:23:52,108 --> 00:23:53,342
- How is a kiss an
emotional connection?
594
00:23:53,342 --> 00:23:55,845
- He's gaslighting
her right now.
595
00:23:55,845 --> 00:23:57,246
- You saw a kiss.
You saw a kiss.
596
00:23:57,246 --> 00:23:59,115
- You know why? Because this
whole [bleep] time,
597
00:23:59,115 --> 00:24:01,417
the whole time you were
trying to talk to me and I--
598
00:24:01,417 --> 00:24:03,486
- [bleep] this.
599
00:24:03,486 --> 00:24:05,955
- So much for
a civil conversation.
600
00:24:05,955 --> 00:24:07,857
Let's get in there.
601
00:24:07,857 --> 00:24:09,425
- Why are you
really mad though?
602
00:24:09,425 --> 00:24:11,093
'Cause all you care
about is yourself.
603
00:24:11,093 --> 00:24:12,128
- I'm mad because you were
my best friend, you dummy.
604
00:24:12,128 --> 00:24:13,095
- Was, was.
605
00:24:13,095 --> 00:24:14,296
- Dummy.
606
00:24:14,296 --> 00:24:15,464
Where is the [bleep] loyalty?
607
00:24:15,464 --> 00:24:16,665
So why aren't we
friends no more?
608
00:24:16,665 --> 00:24:17,967
- Where is the [bleep] loyalty?
609
00:24:17,967 --> 00:24:19,635
- Why are we not--
explain that.
610
00:24:19,635 --> 00:24:20,836
- I swear to god, somebody's
gonna lose [bleep] patience.
611
00:24:20,836 --> 00:24:24,673
Hey hey hey hey wait,
hold up, hold up.
612
00:24:24,673 --> 00:24:26,709
My name is Tami Roman.
613
00:24:26,709 --> 00:24:30,579
And you are on "Caught
in the Act: Unfaithful."
614
00:24:33,516 --> 00:24:35,151
- Lexi came to us
because she felt
615
00:24:35,151 --> 00:24:37,987
like there was some infidelity
in your relationship.
616
00:24:37,987 --> 00:24:41,424
So I had my team surveil
you and we found out
617
00:24:41,424 --> 00:24:43,259
that you were involved
in a relationship
618
00:24:43,259 --> 00:24:45,628
with this young lady Umi.
619
00:24:45,628 --> 00:24:47,396
- Yeah, we kissed, but like
it's the vibe and energy.
620
00:24:47,396 --> 00:24:48,964
But it doesn't mean
like we together.
621
00:24:48,964 --> 00:24:51,667
- But Joe, if you're in
a relationship with Lexi,
622
00:24:51,667 --> 00:24:54,203
do you understand that you
can't go around just being
623
00:24:54,203 --> 00:24:55,538
involved with other women?
624
00:24:55,538 --> 00:24:56,839
- Oh, that's totally
understandable.
625
00:24:56,839 --> 00:24:59,075
- Especially someone
who's--allegedly
626
00:24:59,075 --> 00:25:00,509
used to be her best friend.
627
00:25:00,509 --> 00:25:01,944
- But ask her why we not
best friends no more.
628
00:25:01,944 --> 00:25:04,480
- Brah, oh my God,
who ghosted who after
629
00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:06,115
I [bleep] tried to apologize?
630
00:25:06,115 --> 00:25:07,483
- You didn't try to apologize.
- I tried to apologize.
631
00:25:07,483 --> 00:25:08,951
- You didn't.
632
00:25:08,951 --> 00:25:10,386
I wrote you a [bleep]
long ass paragraph.
633
00:25:10,386 --> 00:25:11,687
- You didn't.
No, you didn't.
634
00:25:11,687 --> 00:25:13,189
- Yes, I [bleep] did.
Yes I did.
635
00:25:13,189 --> 00:25:14,590
You made it about yourself
like you always do.
636
00:25:14,590 --> 00:25:16,058
- Yes, I did.
Yes, I did.
637
00:25:16,058 --> 00:25:17,259
- You made it about yourself.
- Fix your lip.
638
00:25:17,259 --> 00:25:18,661
You got something on it.
639
00:25:18,661 --> 00:25:20,629
Yeah, on you're dead, bitch.
- So what? So what?
640
00:25:20,629 --> 00:25:22,064
You act like I don't
know you by now.
641
00:25:22,064 --> 00:25:23,833
You ain't gonna do [bleep].
You stunting.
642
00:25:23,833 --> 00:25:25,034
- You, you're not [bleep]
saying nothing either.
643
00:25:25,034 --> 00:25:26,302
Why you look so dumb?
644
00:25:26,302 --> 00:25:27,770
Why you got that
dumbass face on?
645
00:25:27,770 --> 00:25:29,371
- Because you know me
and her are friends.
646
00:25:29,371 --> 00:25:30,706
- You have a dumbass--
- We was friends.
647
00:25:30,706 --> 00:25:35,044
- How are you
upset with her, OK,
648
00:25:35,044 --> 00:25:40,483
when you, who are supposed
to be her friend, right,
649
00:25:40,483 --> 00:25:43,352
violated in terms
of the relationship
650
00:25:43,352 --> 00:25:47,289
that she felt she had with
someone she was involved with?
651
00:25:47,289 --> 00:25:48,858
- She violated first.
652
00:25:48,858 --> 00:25:51,060
- First off, come here,
Joe, come here for a second.
653
00:25:51,060 --> 00:25:54,196
Lexi, tell Joe
exactly how you feel.
654
00:25:54,196 --> 00:25:56,031
And Joe, do not interrupt her.
655
00:25:56,031 --> 00:25:58,334
- Why would you do that?
656
00:25:58,334 --> 00:26:00,302
I really genuinely
want to know why.
657
00:26:00,302 --> 00:26:03,539
There's [bleep] a thousand
bitches on this planet.
658
00:26:03,539 --> 00:26:04,907
More than that.
659
00:26:04,907 --> 00:26:06,575
Why the [bleep]
would you go for her?
660
00:26:06,575 --> 00:26:08,110
- So I saw that status
her in the hospital.
661
00:26:08,110 --> 00:26:10,212
So I reached out-- how you
doing, how you feeling?
662
00:26:10,212 --> 00:26:11,981
Me and her started
conversating more, "I'm good.
663
00:26:11,981 --> 00:26:13,182
How are you doing?"
"I'm good, can't complain."
664
00:26:13,182 --> 00:26:14,550
Regular conversation.
665
00:26:14,550 --> 00:26:16,218
And so long story short,
you weren't
666
00:26:16,218 --> 00:26:19,054
giving me the conversation
or communication, she was.
667
00:26:19,054 --> 00:26:20,756
- I was in the hospital
for like a good two weeks.
668
00:26:20,756 --> 00:26:22,224
I was in the ICU.
- Yeah, she told me.
669
00:26:22,224 --> 00:26:23,993
- It was bad.
Right?
670
00:26:23,993 --> 00:26:25,594
And I've been in the hospital,
but this was like, this was
671
00:26:25,594 --> 00:26:27,263
different than any other time.
672
00:26:27,263 --> 00:26:28,964
Because I'm always there for
you, like no matter if you
673
00:26:28,964 --> 00:26:30,900
call me at 2:00 a.m.,
4:00 a.m., 5:00,
674
00:26:30,900 --> 00:26:32,568
I'm there for you
no matter what.
675
00:26:32,568 --> 00:26:34,036
And I listen,
I don't make it about myself.
676
00:26:34,036 --> 00:26:35,838
And you're not there for
me when I need you most?
677
00:26:35,838 --> 00:26:38,474
- And I'm not saying that
what she did is right.
678
00:26:38,474 --> 00:26:40,142
Because it's not.
679
00:26:40,142 --> 00:26:45,381
But how does that justify
that you end up with someone
680
00:26:45,381 --> 00:26:47,816
she's in love with?
681
00:26:47,816 --> 00:26:49,084
- When I'm looking
for a conversation,
682
00:26:49,084 --> 00:26:50,886
I don't get it from her.
683
00:26:50,886 --> 00:26:52,521
Every time she come home from
work, "How's your day going?"
684
00:26:52,521 --> 00:26:53,756
"It was all right."
Go to the bathroom.
685
00:26:53,756 --> 00:26:54,790
- OK.
- I say, "How are you feeling?"
686
00:26:54,790 --> 00:26:55,758
Nothing.
687
00:26:55,758 --> 00:26:58,694
- Bro, you said you love her.
688
00:26:58,694 --> 00:27:00,396
Right?
- The energy because--
689
00:27:00,396 --> 00:27:01,964
- Did you say you
love-- no, said--
690
00:27:01,964 --> 00:27:03,899
- I didn't say I love anybody.
- Bro, you said I love her.
691
00:27:03,899 --> 00:27:05,401
- I can say I love anybody.
692
00:27:05,401 --> 00:27:06,569
- Tell me what
you [bleep] said.
693
00:27:06,569 --> 00:27:08,537
- I can say I love anybody.
- Hey!
694
00:27:08,537 --> 00:27:10,105
OK, OK, so if I
hear you correctly,
695
00:27:10,105 --> 00:27:12,041
wait a minute, what he's
saying is I can talk to her,
696
00:27:12,041 --> 00:27:13,709
I can communicate
with her where I
697
00:27:13,709 --> 00:27:14,810
couldn't communicate with you.
698
00:27:14,810 --> 00:27:16,345
Does not make it right though.
699
00:27:16,345 --> 00:27:17,546
- At all.
700
00:27:17,546 --> 00:27:19,014
- My question to you is this.
701
00:27:19,014 --> 00:27:22,151
What kind of connection
do you have with Umi?
702
00:27:22,151 --> 00:27:25,754
- He was there for me through
like, my toughest moments.
703
00:27:25,754 --> 00:27:26,855
Like, you know what I mean?
704
00:27:26,855 --> 00:27:28,591
I went through so much [bleep].
705
00:27:28,591 --> 00:27:34,163
- But if she did what you are
doing in this moment to you,
706
00:27:34,163 --> 00:27:38,167
how would you feel?
707
00:27:38,167 --> 00:27:39,535
- I would understand.
708
00:27:39,535 --> 00:27:41,270
I'm not gonna act
like I don't care.
709
00:27:41,270 --> 00:27:43,906
But I would understand
that like, you know,
710
00:27:43,906 --> 00:27:46,742
because like we know each
other inside and out.
711
00:27:46,742 --> 00:27:49,111
- Do you want your
friendship with Lexi more--
712
00:27:49,111 --> 00:27:50,613
- Umi.
713
00:27:50,613 --> 00:27:51,714
- --than what was kind
of established with Joe?
714
00:27:51,714 --> 00:27:53,482
- Umi?
- What?
715
00:27:53,482 --> 00:27:54,750
- I want to know why.
716
00:27:54,750 --> 00:27:56,452
- You know why.
- I want to know.
717
00:27:56,452 --> 00:27:57,953
So it is to get back at me?
So you don't like him then?
718
00:27:57,953 --> 00:27:59,021
- It's not about
to get back at you.
719
00:27:59,021 --> 00:28:00,589
- But do you love
him or something?
720
00:28:00,589 --> 00:28:02,024
Do you love him?
721
00:28:02,024 --> 00:28:03,225
- Bro, answer.
722
00:28:03,225 --> 00:28:04,460
- You always make
everything about you.
723
00:28:04,460 --> 00:28:06,000
- He was there for
me when you weren't.
724
00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:06,028
- He was there for
me when you weren't.
725
00:28:06,028 --> 00:28:07,196
- Come on, ladies.
- You didn't call me back.
726
00:28:07,196 --> 00:28:08,697
- Let's go to the patio.
727
00:28:08,697 --> 00:28:10,466
Come on, let's go to the patio.
Let's go to the patio.
728
00:28:10,466 --> 00:28:11,867
- I'm about to
take my ring off.
729
00:28:11,867 --> 00:28:13,969
- What I'm simply
saying to you is this.
730
00:28:13,969 --> 00:28:16,939
Look, you've got to take
responsibility for your part.
731
00:28:16,939 --> 00:28:18,641
She would not be doing this
if she did not love you.
732
00:28:18,641 --> 00:28:20,776
- The way I feel this whole
situation is, me and my girl,
733
00:28:20,776 --> 00:28:22,244
she's a model.
734
00:28:22,244 --> 00:28:23,612
I'm the one that do the
behind the scenes footage.
735
00:28:23,612 --> 00:28:25,180
I'm the one that
take her photos.
736
00:28:25,180 --> 00:28:26,749
She stopped calling me to do
the behind the scenes footage.
737
00:28:26,749 --> 00:28:29,952
So the way I'm feeling is you
got either a tall guy that's
738
00:28:29,952 --> 00:28:31,287
taking care of your
photos because you don't
739
00:28:31,287 --> 00:28:32,855
bring me nowhere no more.
- A tall guy?
740
00:28:32,855 --> 00:28:34,223
- So that's where my--
that's where my insecurities
741
00:28:34,223 --> 00:28:36,191
kick in because like,
I'm a half of a person,
742
00:28:36,191 --> 00:28:37,493
a little man.
743
00:28:37,493 --> 00:28:38,661
I know a lot of people
that'd like to have
744
00:28:38,661 --> 00:28:39,928
a big, tall strong guy.
- But Joe,
745
00:28:39,928 --> 00:28:41,997
it is still
your responsibility
746
00:28:41,997 --> 00:28:43,799
to tell the woman that
you love that loves
747
00:28:43,799 --> 00:28:45,734
you about all of that.
748
00:28:45,734 --> 00:28:47,603
- You get right here.
749
00:28:47,603 --> 00:28:50,706
You get right here.
750
00:28:50,706 --> 00:28:53,542
And I'm gonna get in
the middle of y'all.
751
00:28:53,542 --> 00:28:55,611
- I can't believe you and
that [bleep] did this to me.
752
00:28:55,611 --> 00:28:57,079
- She's lying.
753
00:28:57,079 --> 00:28:58,614
- Where were you when
I needed you to listen?
754
00:28:58,614 --> 00:28:59,982
- You decided to
[bleep] ignore me--
755
00:28:59,982 --> 00:29:01,216
- No, no, I didn't.
- --after that.
756
00:29:01,216 --> 00:29:02,584
- No, I didn't.
- Yes you did!
757
00:29:02,584 --> 00:29:06,388
[bleep] you.
758
00:29:06,388 --> 00:29:09,224
- You better [bleep]. Ooh.
- Windows and [bleep].
759
00:29:15,781 --> 00:29:17,650
- You decided to
[bleep] ignore me--
760
00:29:17,650 --> 00:29:18,617
- No, no, I didn't.
- --after that.
761
00:29:18,617 --> 00:29:23,856
- No, I didn't.
[bleep].
762
00:29:23,856 --> 00:29:25,324
- You better [bleep]. Ooh.
763
00:29:25,324 --> 00:29:26,592
- Windows and [bleep].
764
00:29:28,761 --> 00:29:30,296
- You--you were supposed
to be my friend, too.
765
00:29:30,296 --> 00:29:31,697
- You were treating
me all wrong.
766
00:29:31,697 --> 00:29:33,032
- You're wrong.
- You're wrong.
767
00:29:33,032 --> 00:29:34,433
- You're wrong.
You're very wrong.
768
00:29:34,433 --> 00:29:37,369
- All of that, everything
you see is because of you.
769
00:29:37,369 --> 00:29:38,771
- I don't understand how
because it's like I
770
00:29:38,771 --> 00:29:40,139
said, it's--
771
00:29:40,139 --> 00:29:41,273
- What do you mean you
don't understand how?
772
00:29:41,273 --> 00:29:44,376
- Ladies, we need
to be able to have
773
00:29:44,376 --> 00:29:48,914
a conversation without you
guys doing this, right?
774
00:29:48,914 --> 00:29:50,649
Because we're not
gonna get anywhere.
775
00:29:50,649 --> 00:29:53,419
So I did speak with Umi.
776
00:29:53,419 --> 00:29:55,121
And she was sick.
777
00:29:55,121 --> 00:29:57,156
She was going
through something.
778
00:29:57,156 --> 00:30:01,060
And you openly admitted, I was
going through something too,
779
00:30:01,060 --> 00:30:04,730
and maybe I wasn't
the best of friends.
780
00:30:04,730 --> 00:30:07,199
- If I can be there for you
through all your tough times,
781
00:30:07,199 --> 00:30:09,401
why can't you support
through my tough time?
782
00:30:09,401 --> 00:30:12,338
- I couldn't do it, OK?
783
00:30:17,676 --> 00:30:18,777
OK?
784
00:30:18,777 --> 00:30:20,479
I was going through my [bleep].
785
00:30:20,479 --> 00:30:22,148
- When two people are friends
and they really been friends
786
00:30:22,148 --> 00:30:24,717
a long time and there is
that element of loyalty,
787
00:30:24,717 --> 00:30:26,519
there are certain things
that go with that.
788
00:30:26,519 --> 00:30:27,953
Y'all had each other's back.
789
00:30:27,953 --> 00:30:29,922
That's a part of being
loyal to each other.
790
00:30:29,922 --> 00:30:31,724
You're respectful
of each other.
791
00:30:31,724 --> 00:30:34,493
You're able to keep it real
and have honest communication
792
00:30:34,493 --> 00:30:36,028
with each other.
793
00:30:36,028 --> 00:30:38,597
All of that is a part of
being loyal to each other.
794
00:30:38,597 --> 00:30:40,499
And what happened
with you guys was
795
00:30:40,499 --> 00:30:44,470
when you were going through
something, you felt abandoned.
796
00:30:44,470 --> 00:30:47,973
That moment of like I just
said, we stick together,
797
00:30:47,973 --> 00:30:49,441
we stand by each other.
798
00:30:49,441 --> 00:30:51,644
That moment was violated
for you because she
799
00:30:51,644 --> 00:30:53,312
wasn't there for you.
800
00:30:53,312 --> 00:30:57,016
But then after that, you
didn't keep it real with her
801
00:30:57,016 --> 00:30:59,518
and have honest communication
with her to tell her
802
00:30:59,518 --> 00:31:01,187
exactly how you were feeling.
803
00:31:01,187 --> 00:31:02,688
- Because it was
revenge, wasn't it?
804
00:31:02,688 --> 00:31:04,456
Was it revenge?
- I'm talking.
805
00:31:04,456 --> 00:31:05,925
I don't need your help.
806
00:31:05,925 --> 00:31:08,561
So you didn't tell her
exactly how you felt.
807
00:31:08,561 --> 00:31:10,029
- She made it about herself,
808
00:31:10,029 --> 00:31:11,697
about her video shoot.
809
00:31:11,697 --> 00:31:14,366
She didn't make it about no--
810
00:31:14,366 --> 00:31:16,402
I'm going through some--
811
00:31:16,402 --> 00:31:18,304
[bleep]. [bleep].
812
00:31:18,304 --> 00:31:19,838
- So let's just say
only Umi that it
813
00:31:19,838 --> 00:31:21,140
was about a photo shoot.
814
00:31:21,140 --> 00:31:23,442
What if that photo
shoot was a way
815
00:31:23,442 --> 00:31:25,211
that she needed to make money?
816
00:31:25,211 --> 00:31:28,080
Do you understand that
sometimes when we as people
817
00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:30,549
are going through some
[bleep] we don't always
818
00:31:30,549 --> 00:31:32,218
handle things properly, right?
819
00:31:32,218 --> 00:31:34,553
And so in the moment, maybe
she didn't handle it right,
820
00:31:34,553 --> 00:31:39,024
but that doesn't mean that
she didn't care about you.
821
00:31:39,024 --> 00:31:40,593
- Maybe I shouldn't
have talked to him.
822
00:31:40,593 --> 00:31:43,896
But he was there when I
was going through my--
823
00:31:43,896 --> 00:31:45,664
going through a lot.
824
00:31:45,664 --> 00:31:48,834
- I wish you had
stopped yourself.
825
00:31:48,834 --> 00:31:50,502
- Number one,
you gotta tell her
826
00:31:50,502 --> 00:31:52,404
how she made you feel because
she wasn't communicating.
827
00:31:52,404 --> 00:31:54,406
And number two, you gotta tell
her about the insecurities
828
00:31:54,406 --> 00:31:55,608
that you have.
829
00:31:55,608 --> 00:31:56,942
That's how y'all
work through it.
830
00:31:56,942 --> 00:31:58,210
- Let's do it. I'm ready.
831
00:31:58,210 --> 00:31:59,478
- Let's do it.
- Let's do it.
832
00:31:59,478 --> 00:32:00,879
- I feel like--
833
00:32:00,879 --> 00:32:02,881
I feel like you're better
than that, I really do.
834
00:32:02,881 --> 00:32:04,183
- Oh, come on.
835
00:32:04,183 --> 00:32:05,517
Come on, let's talk.
- Listen.
836
00:32:05,517 --> 00:32:06,685
- Let's have a little convo.
837
00:32:06,685 --> 00:32:08,220
- Let's sit down
and have a seat.
838
00:32:08,220 --> 00:32:09,421
Let's sit down and have a seat.
- Here's a table.
839
00:32:09,421 --> 00:32:10,456
- OK, let's sit down.
840
00:32:10,456 --> 00:32:12,558
Everybody get a chair.
841
00:32:12,558 --> 00:32:14,260
You there.
842
00:32:14,260 --> 00:32:16,962
We're talking in
circles now, all right?
843
00:32:16,962 --> 00:32:20,266
Everybody's yelling.
844
00:32:20,266 --> 00:32:23,669
All of you guys are
saying the same thing,
845
00:32:23,669 --> 00:32:30,376
that there has been a
lack of emotional support.
846
00:32:30,376 --> 00:32:32,077
And I think the only
way we're really
847
00:32:32,077 --> 00:32:33,812
gonna get to the
bottom of stuff
848
00:32:33,812 --> 00:32:35,748
is if everybody
just really laid
849
00:32:35,748 --> 00:32:37,383
their stuff out on the table.
850
00:32:37,383 --> 00:32:39,318
- I understand
it's ladies first,
851
00:32:39,318 --> 00:32:40,786
but I'm gonna go first since
I'm the cause of all of this.
852
00:32:40,786 --> 00:32:42,154
- I wish you would.
853
00:32:42,154 --> 00:32:43,789
- Now behind this
whole situation is me
854
00:32:43,789 --> 00:32:45,457
and her were close.
855
00:32:45,457 --> 00:32:47,293
I was the person that doing
her modeling and all that.
856
00:32:47,293 --> 00:32:48,594
I be the one doing the
recording behind the scenes,
857
00:32:48,594 --> 00:32:50,296
everything behind the scenes.
858
00:32:50,296 --> 00:32:52,031
Next thing you know, I'm not
behind the scenes no more.
859
00:32:52,031 --> 00:32:53,465
"Yo baby, you need me
for this modeling shoot?"
860
00:32:53,465 --> 00:32:54,967
"No, I'm good right now."
861
00:32:54,967 --> 00:32:56,268
But then when I start
seeing the footages,
862
00:32:56,268 --> 00:32:57,569
I see she's
modeling but there's
863
00:32:57,569 --> 00:32:58,937
somebody else recording her.
864
00:32:58,937 --> 00:33:00,039
Why you ain't tell
me that, that you
865
00:33:00,039 --> 00:33:01,774
got somebody else doing it?
866
00:33:01,774 --> 00:33:03,075
So that when I find out who it
is, I see it's an average guy,
867
00:33:03,075 --> 00:33:04,543
is 6 foot, 6'2", 6'5".
868
00:33:04,543 --> 00:33:07,012
And I look in the mirror,
I'm only 4'9".
869
00:33:07,012 --> 00:33:08,380
Me, being a little
person, that bothers me.
870
00:33:08,380 --> 00:33:10,182
Because like, for
me, a little person
871
00:33:10,182 --> 00:33:12,217
to get somebody as beautiful
as her, it's like half.
872
00:33:12,217 --> 00:33:15,487
I can't hold you or protect you
the way like another guy can.
873
00:33:15,487 --> 00:33:18,457
So when I start feeling like,
oh, like this is stuff for me
874
00:33:18,457 --> 00:33:20,426
that's going to make me feel
like oh, like, you know,
875
00:33:20,426 --> 00:33:23,429
I'm losing her, especially
as a little person.
876
00:33:23,429 --> 00:33:27,232
- It's a human emotion to
feel threatened by that.
877
00:33:27,232 --> 00:33:29,001
- It's like, I see a
post, a picture of her
878
00:33:29,001 --> 00:33:30,703
in the hospital.
How are you doing, gang?
879
00:33:30,703 --> 00:33:31,937
How you feeling?
What's going on?
880
00:33:31,937 --> 00:33:33,105
What's up with you?
881
00:33:33,105 --> 00:33:34,640
We drink, have a conversation.
882
00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:36,208
How's your family, how you
feeling, how you doing?
883
00:33:36,208 --> 00:33:37,943
Every time I wanted
to talk with you,
884
00:33:37,943 --> 00:33:39,511
you didn't give it to me.
She gave it to me.
885
00:33:39,511 --> 00:33:41,814
So the vibe and the energy,
it started picking up.
886
00:33:41,814 --> 00:33:43,215
So yes, I said, oh, I love you.
887
00:33:43,215 --> 00:33:44,817
No, it wasn't, oh,
I'm in love with you.
888
00:33:44,817 --> 00:33:46,151
I love your vibe.
I love your energy.
889
00:33:46,151 --> 00:33:47,453
You're sitting here
listening to me.
890
00:33:47,453 --> 00:33:48,821
You're sitting
here talking to me.
891
00:33:48,821 --> 00:33:51,557
You're asking me what's wrong?
892
00:33:51,557 --> 00:33:55,561
- I'm happy that you're
relating this information out
893
00:33:55,561 --> 00:34:02,234
in front of her because the way
it came to me was you changed.
894
00:34:02,234 --> 00:34:04,169
- He admitted to me
that he was jealous
895
00:34:04,169 --> 00:34:06,271
that there were other people
shooting behind the scenes.
896
00:34:06,271 --> 00:34:08,440
But I said you're busy and I
still need to get work done.
897
00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:10,776
- What you didn't do,
you didn't
898
00:34:10,776 --> 00:34:12,000
tell Tami what
was going on that
899
00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:13,011
tell Tami what
was going on that
900
00:34:13,011 --> 00:34:15,214
led to his behavioral change.
901
00:34:15,214 --> 00:34:16,782
And because you
didn't tell her,
902
00:34:16,782 --> 00:34:20,853
you led us to believe that
he changed on his own.
903
00:34:20,853 --> 00:34:22,988
- What I'm saying
is when you came in,
904
00:34:22,988 --> 00:34:27,059
you did not say he is
jealous or insecure
905
00:34:27,059 --> 00:34:29,661
because of things I'm doing.
906
00:34:29,661 --> 00:34:31,130
- He gets jealous
because he's too busy--
907
00:34:31,130 --> 00:34:32,531
- Tell you something.
908
00:34:32,531 --> 00:34:34,032
That's not why he
gets jealous, baby.
909
00:34:34,032 --> 00:34:35,067
He said why, he say it.
910
00:34:35,067 --> 00:34:36,135
- Yeah, not that tall?
911
00:34:36,135 --> 00:34:37,469
What am I gonna do?
912
00:34:37,469 --> 00:34:39,138
- But that's a
big [bleep] deal.
913
00:34:39,138 --> 00:34:40,038
- If it was a shorter
person, would you care?
914
00:34:40,038 --> 00:34:41,306
- Nope.
- What?
915
00:34:41,306 --> 00:34:44,042
- Listening to
him tell his side,
916
00:34:44,042 --> 00:34:46,011
there's some validity there.
917
00:34:46,011 --> 00:34:49,415
Because you mad that
she didn't tell you that
918
00:34:49,415 --> 00:34:51,984
she had someone else
taking videos for her.
919
00:34:51,984 --> 00:34:54,887
So you got offended,
and you wasn't woman
920
00:34:54,887 --> 00:34:59,491
enough to tell him, so y'all
just stopped communicating.
921
00:34:59,491 --> 00:35:04,363
That pushed him to her,
who's wrong in this as well.
922
00:35:04,930 --> 00:35:06,231
- But the one
person at this table
923
00:35:06,231 --> 00:35:07,733
who admitted that
they was foul--
924
00:35:07,733 --> 00:35:08,734
- I admit it.
925
00:35:08,734 --> 00:35:10,836
- --was her.
926
00:35:10,836 --> 00:35:14,907
Y'all two are not doing that.
927
00:35:14,907 --> 00:35:16,642
- Just let me say
something real quick.
928
00:35:16,642 --> 00:35:18,544
Like thinking about it now,
I feel like we trauma bonded.
929
00:35:18,544 --> 00:35:20,112
He was going through
his own [bleep].
930
00:35:20,112 --> 00:35:21,213
I was going through
my own [bleep].
931
00:35:21,213 --> 00:35:23,182
And he was there to listen.
932
00:35:23,182 --> 00:35:24,950
Was it wrong?
Yeah.
933
00:35:24,950 --> 00:35:26,452
In the moment,
did it feel wrong?
934
00:35:26,452 --> 00:35:27,786
No.
935
00:35:27,786 --> 00:35:32,558
But it shouldn't have
got to the way it got.
936
00:35:32,558 --> 00:35:33,759
I'm sorry.
937
00:35:33,759 --> 00:35:36,028
I should never have
did what I did.
938
00:35:36,028 --> 00:35:37,463
And you mean a lot to me.
939
00:35:37,463 --> 00:35:39,231
I'm not gonna sit
there and act like you
940
00:35:39,231 --> 00:35:40,265
don't mean a lot to me.
And you already know that.
941
00:35:40,265 --> 00:35:44,636
We've been through a lot.
942
00:35:44,636 --> 00:35:45,704
A lot.
943
00:35:45,704 --> 00:35:47,639
And I miss what we had.
944
00:35:47,639 --> 00:35:53,245
Like, I just think things
would have went differently,
945
00:35:53,245 --> 00:35:54,780
that's all I can really say.
946
00:35:54,780 --> 00:35:57,416
I wish things would
have went differently.
947
00:35:57,416 --> 00:35:59,284
- I'm sorry too.
948
00:35:59,284 --> 00:36:02,554
And I'm sorry that--
949
00:36:02,554 --> 00:36:04,490
maybe I should
have reached out.
950
00:36:04,490 --> 00:36:06,992
And up until now,
maybe it was easier for me
951
00:36:06,992 --> 00:36:09,962
to convince myself that
it's right that I just take
952
00:36:09,962 --> 00:36:11,330
care of myself at the moment.
953
00:36:11,330 --> 00:36:14,433
But that was very
inconsiderate of you,
954
00:36:14,433 --> 00:36:18,070
knowing especially that you've
been in a hospital for months
955
00:36:18,070 --> 00:36:20,839
at a time.
956
00:36:20,839 --> 00:36:22,608
Sorry.
957
00:36:22,608 --> 00:36:24,142
- I'm sorry too.
958
00:36:24,142 --> 00:36:27,346
- And how do you want
to go forward with Joe?
959
00:36:27,346 --> 00:36:29,648
What are we doing right here?
960
00:36:29,648 --> 00:36:32,851
Are you going to try
to work things out or are
961
00:36:32,851 --> 00:36:36,588
you gonna go on without him?
962
00:36:36,588 --> 00:36:39,591
[dramatic music]
963
00:36:39,591 --> 00:36:44,997
♪ ♪
964
00:36:46,465 --> 00:36:49,034
[dramatic music]
965
00:36:49,034 --> 00:36:50,669
- How do you want to
go forward with Joe?
966
00:36:50,669 --> 00:36:53,806
Are you going to try to
work things out or are
967
00:36:53,806 --> 00:36:57,042
you gonna go on without him?
968
00:36:57,042 --> 00:36:59,912
♪ ♪
969
00:36:59,912 --> 00:37:00,946
- I love her.
970
00:37:00,946 --> 00:37:03,182
I know she loves me.
971
00:37:03,182 --> 00:37:04,483
- I don't know.
972
00:37:04,483 --> 00:37:05,818
I need to-- I need
to like think.
973
00:37:05,818 --> 00:37:07,086
I need a break or something.
974
00:37:07,086 --> 00:37:08,353
- You keep telling
me I don't got
975
00:37:08,353 --> 00:37:10,022
a reason for the way I feel.
- Oh my God.
976
00:37:10,022 --> 00:37:11,590
Nobody said that, Joe.
977
00:37:11,590 --> 00:37:13,459
Nobody said that.
- That's how you make it seem.
978
00:37:13,459 --> 00:37:14,660
Where's that communication at?
- We've done our job.
979
00:37:14,660 --> 00:37:16,228
We gave her the truth.
980
00:37:16,228 --> 00:37:17,262
Now it's up to them to go
forward past this moment--
981
00:37:17,262 --> 00:37:18,330
- At the end of the day.
982
00:37:18,330 --> 00:37:19,531
- --with a trained person.
983
00:37:19,531 --> 00:37:20,532
OK, y'all.
984
00:37:20,532 --> 00:37:21,600
All right, y'all.
985
00:37:21,600 --> 00:37:24,269
- I'm not staying
here with him.
986
00:37:24,269 --> 00:37:25,704
I'm out.
987
00:37:27,339 --> 00:37:30,409
- If it came down to me
being friends with Lex
988
00:37:30,409 --> 00:37:36,115
and me letting Joe go, I might
have to let Joe go and just
989
00:37:36,115 --> 00:37:37,549
pick up that friendship.
990
00:37:37,549 --> 00:37:39,318
Because that friendship
was like a long--
991
00:37:39,318 --> 00:37:41,520
we were friends since
like high school.
992
00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:44,156
- With Lex, it's like
I'm in love with her.
993
00:37:44,156 --> 00:37:45,624
Like I got a
connection with her.
994
00:37:45,624 --> 00:37:47,693
Like she understand me,
I understand her.
995
00:37:47,693 --> 00:37:49,428
So it's like,
we really get each other.
996
00:37:49,428 --> 00:37:51,130
And I can't find that
with other people.
997
00:37:51,130 --> 00:37:52,865
I can't find that in Umi.
998
00:37:52,865 --> 00:37:54,867
Like, my insecurities, I gotta
talk to her more about it
999
00:37:54,867 --> 00:37:56,935
and I actually gotta work
on it more personally.
1000
00:37:56,935 --> 00:37:58,771
But it's like the
way I feel is I need
1001
00:37:58,771 --> 00:38:00,339
to start talking to
her way more than what
1002
00:38:00,339 --> 00:38:01,940
I was doing, honestly.
1003
00:38:01,940 --> 00:38:03,142
- I really do not
like Joe right now.
1004
00:38:03,142 --> 00:38:04,176
I love him; I don't like him.
1005
00:38:04,176 --> 00:38:05,611
What do I want to do?
1006
00:38:05,611 --> 00:38:07,379
Like, ask myself,
instead of being angry,
1007
00:38:07,379 --> 00:38:11,216
sit down, breathe, and what
do I really want to do?
1008
00:38:11,216 --> 00:38:12,584
[gentle music]
1009
00:38:12,584 --> 00:38:15,687
- With Joe,
him opening up about,
1010
00:38:15,687 --> 00:38:18,690
hey, I'm looking out at you,
a beautiful woman with all
1011
00:38:18,690 --> 00:38:21,994
these average height guys,
yeah, I'm a little insecure,
1012
00:38:21,994 --> 00:38:23,061
you know?
1013
00:38:23,061 --> 00:38:24,163
- That was a breakthrough.
1014
00:38:24,163 --> 00:38:25,664
- It was really different.
1015
00:38:25,664 --> 00:38:26,765
- Right.
1016
00:38:26,765 --> 00:38:28,667
- But good to see the ladies--
1017
00:38:28,667 --> 00:38:29,701
- Right.
1018
00:38:29,701 --> 00:38:30,769
- --make up.
1019
00:38:30,769 --> 00:38:31,904
- That was surprising to me.
1020
00:38:31,904 --> 00:38:32,971
- You ready to get out of here?
1021
00:38:32,971 --> 00:38:34,006
- I'm ready to get out of here.
1022
00:38:34,006 --> 00:38:37,409
- Let's do it.
1023
00:38:37,409 --> 00:38:40,479
- Ooh.
- We're out.
1024
00:38:40,479 --> 00:38:42,214
- ♪ Please stop calling ♪
1025
00:38:42,214 --> 00:38:44,116
♪ You've been dishonest ♪
1026
00:38:44,116 --> 00:38:47,686
♪ I've been through enough ♪
1027
00:38:47,686 --> 00:38:50,689
♪ Two-faced promise,
scars and traumas ♪
1028
00:38:50,689 --> 00:38:53,525
♪ You put me through enough ♪
1029
00:38:53,525 --> 00:38:54,793
- Hey Lexi.
1030
00:38:54,793 --> 00:38:56,595
- Hi Tammy, how are you?
1031
00:38:56,595 --> 00:38:57,796
- I'm doing well.
1032
00:38:57,796 --> 00:38:59,498
You look beautiful.
1033
00:38:59,498 --> 00:39:02,801
I wanted to check in with you
to find out how everything's
1034
00:39:02,801 --> 00:39:07,105
going with you and Joe.
1035
00:39:07,105 --> 00:39:09,741
- Well, me and Joe aren't
together right now.
1036
00:39:09,741 --> 00:39:14,446
I love Joe, but I needed
to kind of isolate myself,
1037
00:39:14,446 --> 00:39:17,115
take the time to concentrate
on my mental health.
1038
00:39:17,115 --> 00:39:22,654
Romantically, I can't get
back to that space right now,
1039
00:39:22,654 --> 00:39:23,655
you know?
1040
00:39:23,655 --> 00:39:24,890
- How about Umi?
1041
00:39:24,890 --> 00:39:27,826
How's that relationship going?
1042
00:39:27,826 --> 00:39:29,194
- We did speak.
1043
00:39:29,194 --> 00:39:30,596
And we even met up.
1044
00:39:30,596 --> 00:39:32,364
- And what did
you guys determine
1045
00:39:32,364 --> 00:39:34,566
that you want going forward?
1046
00:39:34,566 --> 00:39:38,737
- Um, yeah, we're going
to see where it goes.
1047
00:39:38,737 --> 00:39:41,006
You know, we want to be back
like this, but you know,
1048
00:39:41,006 --> 00:39:42,407
it's hard to do that.
1049
00:39:42,407 --> 00:39:45,177
- Well, listen,
I feel like you have
1050
00:39:45,177 --> 00:39:49,047
learned through this
entire experience
1051
00:39:49,047 --> 00:39:51,316
some valuable lessons.
1052
00:39:51,316 --> 00:39:52,651
- I mean, I did
learn that maybe I
1053
00:39:52,651 --> 00:39:54,586
could be more supportive, OK?
1054
00:39:54,586 --> 00:39:56,922
And you know sometimes when
you're going through things,
1055
00:39:56,922 --> 00:40:00,459
you might not remember
other important things,
1056
00:40:00,459 --> 00:40:03,528
other things that are
dear to you, like Umi.
1057
00:40:03,528 --> 00:40:08,066
- There's some bond there that
none of you should give up on.
1058
00:40:08,066 --> 00:40:09,501
And you should continue that.
1059
00:40:09,501 --> 00:40:12,337
Good luck with your
modeling career
1060
00:40:12,337 --> 00:40:15,674
and everything that
you've got going on, OK?
1061
00:40:15,674 --> 00:40:16,808
Bye, sweetie.
1062
00:40:16,808 --> 00:40:17,976
Good talking to you.
1063
00:40:17,976 --> 00:40:19,144
- Thank you so much.
1064
00:40:19,144 --> 00:40:21,079
- Bye.
- Bye.
1065
00:40:21,079 --> 00:40:22,781
- Cheaters, beware.
1066
00:40:22,781 --> 00:40:24,683
- You [bleep] kissed
her, you idiot!
1067
00:40:24,683 --> 00:40:27,386
- Next time you want to be
unfaithful, think again.
1068
00:40:27,386 --> 00:40:29,821
- Hey, let me tell you
one mother[bleep] thing!
1069
00:40:29,821 --> 00:40:30,956
- Oh lord.
Oh lord.
1070
00:40:30,956 --> 00:40:32,925
Oh lord. Oh lord!
1071
00:40:32,925 --> 00:40:33,959
- Because I just might--
1072
00:40:33,959 --> 00:40:35,027
Oh God, she's running.
1073
00:40:35,027 --> 00:40:36,295
Catch you in the act.