1 00:00:00,900 --> 00:00:03,803 - ♪ MTV ♪ 2 00:00:03,803 --> 00:00:05,271 - I'm Tami Roman. 3 00:00:05,271 --> 00:00:07,240 I have been cheated on before. 4 00:00:07,240 --> 00:00:10,210 - You [bleep] my man when I was married to him. 5 00:00:10,210 --> 00:00:12,278 - I even wrote a book about it. 6 00:00:12,278 --> 00:00:13,880 And I've made it my mission 7 00:00:13,880 --> 00:00:15,448 to help suspicious lovers 8 00:00:15,448 --> 00:00:17,384 catch their cheating partners in the act. 9 00:00:17,384 --> 00:00:18,685 Hold up. - Man, you brought this 10 00:00:18,685 --> 00:00:20,286 to my place of business? How dare you? 11 00:00:20,286 --> 00:00:21,588 What is this? - Ooh. 12 00:00:21,588 --> 00:00:23,256 - Oh! 13 00:00:23,256 --> 00:00:25,759 Together with my relationship coaches... 14 00:00:25,759 --> 00:00:26,860 - You gotta tell about the insecurities 15 00:00:26,860 --> 00:00:28,061 that you have. 16 00:00:28,061 --> 00:00:29,396 That's how y'all work through it. 17 00:00:29,396 --> 00:00:30,830 - This is a situation where you have to say, 18 00:00:30,830 --> 00:00:32,866 "I'm gonna step up and do what's right." 19 00:00:32,866 --> 00:00:35,301 - And stealthy investigation team... 20 00:00:35,301 --> 00:00:37,804 - They think they slick, well, we slicker. 21 00:00:37,804 --> 00:00:41,141 - We won't stop until we find the truth. 22 00:00:41,141 --> 00:00:43,042 Cheaters beware. 23 00:00:43,042 --> 00:00:46,312 - I'm [bleep] torn. I love 'em both. 24 00:00:46,312 --> 00:00:49,382 - You gotta fundamentally say, "I'm gonna be different." 25 00:00:49,382 --> 00:00:50,850 - Who the [bleep] you think you are? 26 00:00:50,850 --> 00:00:52,685 - Why the [bleep] y'all got cameras in my crib? 27 00:00:52,685 --> 00:00:53,820 What the [bleep] is wrong with you? 28 00:00:53,820 --> 00:00:56,055 - [screaming] 29 00:00:56,556 --> 00:00:58,091 - Nobody should think they're better 30 00:00:58,091 --> 00:00:59,626 than anybody else, 31 00:00:59,626 --> 00:01:01,394 'cause y'all all [bleep] been played, 32 00:01:01,394 --> 00:01:03,363 and that's just the truth. 33 00:01:03,363 --> 00:01:06,533 This is "Caught in the Act: Unfaithful." 34 00:01:10,178 --> 00:01:11,380 - ♪ OK, puff and I'm fly, I have to believe I will die ♪ 35 00:01:11,380 --> 00:01:13,048 ♪ If I hit the pen I'ma fly ♪ 36 00:01:13,048 --> 00:01:15,017 ♪ Yeah, I'm sliding ♪ 37 00:01:15,017 --> 00:01:16,785 ♪ I'm gliding ♪ 38 00:01:16,785 --> 00:01:17,886 ♪ I'm gliding ♪ 39 00:01:17,886 --> 00:01:22,324 ♪ I got my incense lit so ♪ 40 00:01:22,324 --> 00:01:25,527 - Lexi, oh, it's such a pleasure to meet you. 41 00:01:25,527 --> 00:01:26,328 - You too. 42 00:01:26,328 --> 00:01:27,996 - Oh, my goodness. 43 00:01:27,996 --> 00:01:29,031 You're beautiful. 44 00:01:29,031 --> 00:01:30,032 - Thank you. 45 00:01:30,032 --> 00:01:31,033 How are you? 46 00:01:31,033 --> 00:01:32,534 - Oh, thank you. 47 00:01:32,534 --> 00:01:35,370 So Lexi, you reached out to me because you 48 00:01:35,370 --> 00:01:39,641 feel like your partner Joe may be unfaithful. 49 00:01:39,641 --> 00:01:40,609 - Yeah. 50 00:01:40,609 --> 00:01:42,144 Yeah. 51 00:01:42,144 --> 00:01:44,279 - Listen, girl, I'm gonna try to get to the truth. 52 00:01:44,279 --> 00:01:46,081 That's what I do around here, but I need to know 53 00:01:46,081 --> 00:01:47,549 about your relationship. 54 00:01:47,549 --> 00:01:49,851 - Well, you know what? I met Joe in 2017. 55 00:01:49,851 --> 00:01:51,586 It was just so organic. 56 00:01:51,586 --> 00:01:53,755 It felt so good, genuine just energy. 57 00:01:53,755 --> 00:01:55,323 And I liked the fact that he was listening 58 00:01:55,323 --> 00:01:56,658 to everything I was saying. - OK. 59 00:01:56,658 --> 00:01:59,428 - For that year, he was very respectful. 60 00:01:59,428 --> 00:02:01,363 I got to know him a lot as just a friend. 61 00:02:01,363 --> 00:02:03,131 Like it's giving me goosebumps right now. 62 00:02:03,131 --> 00:02:04,900 - I love that. Me too. 63 00:02:04,900 --> 00:02:08,203 I feel something popping up on me because I stand by creating 64 00:02:08,203 --> 00:02:09,971 a friendship first because that's what 65 00:02:09,971 --> 00:02:11,540 the foundation is made of. 66 00:02:11,540 --> 00:02:13,141 - Yeah. He seemed just so interested in me. 67 00:02:13,141 --> 00:02:14,309 And then I'm a good listener, so I'll 68 00:02:14,309 --> 00:02:15,844 sit there and listen all day. 69 00:02:15,844 --> 00:02:17,245 - So he gave you the attention that you needed. 70 00:02:17,245 --> 00:02:18,146 - Yeah. - And it was genuine. 71 00:02:18,146 --> 00:02:19,414 - Yes. 72 00:02:19,414 --> 00:02:20,749 - And what do you guys do for a living? 73 00:02:20,749 --> 00:02:22,384 - He works in construction and he's 74 00:02:22,384 --> 00:02:24,119 an influencer on social media. 75 00:02:24,119 --> 00:02:27,489 People pay him to put stuff on his page and stuff sometimes. 76 00:02:27,489 --> 00:02:29,891 Me, I model and I'm also a nursing assistant. 77 00:02:29,891 --> 00:02:32,627 But more so taking up on the modeling more now. 78 00:02:32,627 --> 00:02:34,930 Before it was very, very lovely. 79 00:02:34,930 --> 00:02:37,099 Like, I loved it, the support, everything with my modeling, 80 00:02:37,099 --> 00:02:39,234 like I didn't have support, really, like a lot of support 81 00:02:39,234 --> 00:02:40,869 from my family like that. 82 00:02:40,869 --> 00:02:42,637 But he was like, you know, always wanted to volunteer 83 00:02:42,637 --> 00:02:44,372 to record me when I'm working out in my 84 00:02:44,372 --> 00:02:45,640 workout fitness videos. 85 00:02:45,640 --> 00:02:47,142 He's come with me to my shoots. 86 00:02:47,142 --> 00:02:50,145 He used to shoot all my behind the scenes videos. 87 00:02:50,145 --> 00:02:52,247 Like, I love him. I want kids. 88 00:02:52,247 --> 00:02:53,482 - With him? 89 00:02:53,482 --> 00:02:55,016 - I mean, I've invested this long, 90 00:02:55,016 --> 00:02:56,551 and I feel like it's meant to be. 91 00:02:56,551 --> 00:02:59,287 But all of this stuff, you know, if something comes 92 00:02:59,287 --> 00:03:01,857 out of this, like I can't. 93 00:03:01,857 --> 00:03:04,259 - Because you think he might be cheating. 94 00:03:04,259 --> 00:03:05,260 We don't know for sure. 95 00:03:05,260 --> 00:03:06,828 - Yeah, I don't know. 96 00:03:06,828 --> 00:03:08,130 But it's just, you know, when you have a gut feeling-- 97 00:03:08,130 --> 00:03:09,898 - So what happened? 98 00:03:09,898 --> 00:03:11,700 - Well, too many red flags is what happened. 99 00:03:11,700 --> 00:03:14,236 Things have been way off recently. 100 00:03:14,236 --> 00:03:16,338 And then he won't answer his phone. 101 00:03:16,338 --> 00:03:17,539 He'll literally be out. 102 00:03:17,539 --> 00:03:19,207 He'll come home late. 103 00:03:19,207 --> 00:03:20,709 Take my car, pick me up late. 104 00:03:20,709 --> 00:03:22,010 - Take your car? 105 00:03:22,010 --> 00:03:23,278 - Yeah, well, he'll take my car because I 106 00:03:23,278 --> 00:03:24,713 allow him to take the car. 107 00:03:24,713 --> 00:03:26,448 But he'll come back too late. - Where his car at? 108 00:03:26,448 --> 00:03:27,983 - He don't got a car? 109 00:03:27,983 --> 00:03:29,885 He got a call one time at like 2:00 or 3:00 110 00:03:29,885 --> 00:03:31,253 in the morning. 111 00:03:31,253 --> 00:03:32,788 And you know, it be sitting like this 112 00:03:32,788 --> 00:03:34,523 and you know how you just waking up, you're like, 113 00:03:34,523 --> 00:03:36,491 oh the phone's ringing, you just looking, 114 00:03:36,491 --> 00:03:37,926 and he just put it right back down. 115 00:03:37,926 --> 00:03:39,861 I ended up looking at his phone after that 116 00:03:39,861 --> 00:03:44,499 and you know what I saw was his whole call log was cleared. 117 00:03:44,499 --> 00:03:46,768 - That's bigger than a red flag. 118 00:03:46,768 --> 00:03:52,040 - He says it was memory that he needed to clear. 119 00:03:52,040 --> 00:03:56,044 - And so now we have to wonder, have we been really 120 00:03:56,044 --> 00:03:57,445 dealing with the real Joe? 121 00:03:57,445 --> 00:03:58,780 - It triggers things from the past. 122 00:03:58,780 --> 00:04:00,248 And I've been cheated on before. 123 00:04:00,248 --> 00:04:03,051 - Yes, haven't we all. - Yeah. 124 00:04:03,051 --> 00:04:05,287 You know how I told you he was a very good listener? 125 00:04:05,287 --> 00:04:06,588 - Mm-hmm. 126 00:04:06,588 --> 00:04:08,089 - Now it's just completely different. 127 00:04:08,089 --> 00:04:09,424 Because he'll just be on his phone, 128 00:04:09,424 --> 00:04:10,992 you know, just being on Instagram. 129 00:04:10,992 --> 00:04:13,128 He's been adding like these girls to his lives. 130 00:04:13,128 --> 00:04:14,930 And they've been like butt-naked. 131 00:04:14,930 --> 00:04:16,031 OK. 132 00:04:16,031 --> 00:04:17,432 Let me show you. 133 00:04:17,432 --> 00:04:20,435 He also has his face in women's breasts 134 00:04:20,435 --> 00:04:22,938 on top of that in a strip club where he was booked 135 00:04:22,938 --> 00:04:24,306 to host something, he says. 136 00:04:24,306 --> 00:04:26,975 But this is the stream recording. 137 00:04:26,975 --> 00:04:29,444 Look at him. He doesn't do this. 138 00:04:29,444 --> 00:04:30,579 Like he doesn't like the clubs. 139 00:04:30,579 --> 00:04:32,047 - Wait, this is Joe? - Yeah. 140 00:04:32,047 --> 00:04:35,617 - I ain't got my glasses. Is he-- is he a little person? 141 00:04:35,617 --> 00:04:36,484 - He is. 142 00:04:36,484 --> 00:04:38,486 He's like 4'7", 4'8". 143 00:04:38,486 --> 00:04:41,122 And I still wear my heels. 144 00:04:41,122 --> 00:04:43,158 We have gotten made fun of and stuff. 145 00:04:43,158 --> 00:04:45,026 You know, people stare at us all the time. 146 00:04:45,026 --> 00:04:47,095 - And you don't feel any kind of way? 147 00:04:47,095 --> 00:04:48,563 - I'm not bothered by it. 148 00:04:48,563 --> 00:04:49,998 I think he more so though, there's been times 149 00:04:49,998 --> 00:04:51,733 where he's actually gotten very emotional. 150 00:04:51,733 --> 00:04:53,668 That kind of gets in the way, the insecurity 151 00:04:53,668 --> 00:04:56,104 is a little bit-- you can't tell until he really, 152 00:04:56,104 --> 00:04:57,172 really got-- 153 00:04:57,172 --> 00:04:58,340 I guess he felt comfortable. 154 00:04:58,340 --> 00:04:59,808 - He opened up to you. 155 00:04:59,808 --> 00:05:01,243 - Yeah, he said that he has never really opened 156 00:05:01,243 --> 00:05:03,211 up that quickly with someone. 157 00:05:03,211 --> 00:05:06,348 - And that's probably what made you feel comfortable enough 158 00:05:06,348 --> 00:05:07,716 to open up to him. 159 00:05:07,716 --> 00:05:08,717 - Yeah. 160 00:05:08,717 --> 00:05:09,751 - How's sex? 161 00:05:09,751 --> 00:05:11,486 - Before we had sex every day. 162 00:05:11,486 --> 00:05:12,854 - Every day? 163 00:05:12,854 --> 00:05:14,055 - And he's very much man down there. 164 00:05:14,055 --> 00:05:15,957 And it's very, very good. 165 00:05:15,957 --> 00:05:17,025 - OK. 166 00:05:17,025 --> 00:05:18,493 - I love him to death. 167 00:05:18,493 --> 00:05:22,230 I don't really see my life like without him. 168 00:05:22,230 --> 00:05:23,632 - Wow. 169 00:05:23,632 --> 00:05:26,134 - If it is another woman, would you 170 00:05:26,134 --> 00:05:27,202 know who that person might be? 171 00:05:27,202 --> 00:05:29,237 - No. - Do you have any-- 172 00:05:29,237 --> 00:05:32,407 - I don't know like-- 173 00:05:32,407 --> 00:05:35,443 Sorry. 174 00:05:35,443 --> 00:05:38,713 - Let it out. 175 00:05:38,713 --> 00:05:41,449 - Well, in the beginning, I feel like I wasn't 176 00:05:41,449 --> 00:05:44,886 like, threatened by anyone. 177 00:05:44,886 --> 00:05:48,957 And even now I don't feel that way, but-- 178 00:05:48,957 --> 00:05:54,996 the idea, like is making me think about it. 179 00:05:54,996 --> 00:05:59,501 - If we uncover something or he just flat out says, you know, 180 00:05:59,501 --> 00:06:01,269 I think it's run its course, are you 181 00:06:01,269 --> 00:06:04,873 gonna be able to handle that? 182 00:06:04,873 --> 00:06:06,408 - I don't know. 183 00:06:06,408 --> 00:06:08,000 - With your permission, I can get my investigation team 184 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:10,946 - With your permission, I can get my investigation team 185 00:06:10,946 --> 00:06:15,917 to surveil Joe, follow him as long as necessary 186 00:06:15,917 --> 00:06:18,720 to see if there's anything going on. 187 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:22,757 But you have to give me permission to do that. 188 00:06:22,757 --> 00:06:27,028 - Well, I really want to know, so yeah, I want to do it. 189 00:06:27,028 --> 00:06:28,363 - OK. 190 00:06:28,363 --> 00:06:29,431 Hopefully, he ain't doing nothing. 191 00:06:29,431 --> 00:06:31,566 - So you go ahead on. 192 00:06:31,566 --> 00:06:33,501 And I'm gonna thank you for coming on then. 193 00:06:33,501 --> 00:06:34,502 I'm gonna call my team. 194 00:06:34,502 --> 00:06:35,603 - Thank you so much. 195 00:06:35,603 --> 00:06:37,138 Thank you, thank you so much. 196 00:06:37,138 --> 00:06:38,206 - Oh, you're so beautiful. - You're beautiful. 197 00:06:38,206 --> 00:06:39,374 - No, you are. 198 00:06:39,374 --> 00:06:40,575 We're gonna find out for you. 199 00:06:40,575 --> 00:06:42,377 There's-- there's the front door. 200 00:06:42,377 --> 00:06:43,979 Take your time. - Thank you. 201 00:06:43,979 --> 00:06:45,280 - All right, baby. 202 00:06:45,280 --> 00:06:46,681 - ♪ Work ♪ ♪ - Working me ♪ 203 00:06:46,681 --> 00:06:47,582 - ♪ Work ♪ ♪ She working me ♪ 204 00:06:47,582 --> 00:06:48,883 - ♪ Work, work ♪ 205 00:06:48,883 --> 00:06:49,884 - ♪ Urging me ♪ - ♪ Urge ♪ 206 00:06:49,884 --> 00:06:51,519 - ♪ It be urging me ♪ 207 00:06:51,519 --> 00:06:54,255 ♪ Fill it up the top and close the curtain, please ♪ 208 00:06:54,255 --> 00:06:56,524 ♪ ♪ 209 00:06:56,524 --> 00:06:59,461 [tense music] 210 00:06:59,461 --> 00:07:01,429 - All right, today's day one of surveillance. 211 00:07:01,429 --> 00:07:04,432 We're gonna be on Joe for a good number of days, unknown. 212 00:07:04,432 --> 00:07:06,034 It's just really gonna depend on what 213 00:07:06,034 --> 00:07:08,903 Joe decides he wants to do and how he wants to play. 214 00:07:08,903 --> 00:07:12,374 Before I became a PI, I was a police officer. 215 00:07:12,374 --> 00:07:14,476 I love being a private investigator. 216 00:07:14,476 --> 00:07:16,011 I wouldn't change it for the world. 217 00:07:16,011 --> 00:07:17,779 ♪ ♪ 218 00:07:17,779 --> 00:07:20,115 Joe works in construction. 219 00:07:20,115 --> 00:07:22,417 He works in a building somewhere down 220 00:07:22,417 --> 00:07:23,651 in this alleyway. 221 00:07:23,651 --> 00:07:25,754 ♪ ♪ 222 00:07:25,754 --> 00:07:27,522 We did confirm Joe is at work. 223 00:07:27,522 --> 00:07:29,657 He's working out of the back of the house. 224 00:07:29,657 --> 00:07:31,659 That's Joe's car right there that he's driving. 225 00:07:31,659 --> 00:07:33,061 It's actually Lexi's car. 226 00:07:33,061 --> 00:07:35,296 Joe's driving her car. 227 00:07:35,296 --> 00:07:37,565 So right now we're just gonna go ahead and wait and see 228 00:07:37,565 --> 00:07:40,602 what Joe does when he leaves. 229 00:07:40,602 --> 00:07:44,439 I was able to outfit Lexi's car with audio and a camera. 230 00:07:44,439 --> 00:07:46,041 Now I got front-row seats. 231 00:07:46,041 --> 00:07:47,742 I'm gonna hear everything that Joe 232 00:07:47,742 --> 00:07:50,678 could do while he in her car. 233 00:07:50,678 --> 00:07:53,782 Joe is on the phone. 234 00:07:53,782 --> 00:07:56,518 We're gonna go ahead and hook everything up. 235 00:07:56,518 --> 00:07:58,086 We're gonna see what Joe talking about. 236 00:08:03,191 --> 00:08:08,396 - There he go. 237 00:08:08,396 --> 00:08:09,964 - Yo, this is some good stuff. 238 00:08:27,816 --> 00:08:29,551 - Joe got a little swag as he's walking 239 00:08:29,551 --> 00:08:31,453 in like he getting ready to go in there and meet somebody. 240 00:08:33,721 --> 00:08:35,523 We're not gonna be able to surveil him from here, 241 00:08:35,523 --> 00:08:37,892 so we have to go inside and get some covert video of him. 242 00:08:37,892 --> 00:08:40,195 I'm gonna use covert glasses. 243 00:08:40,195 --> 00:08:41,362 Picks up all audio. 244 00:08:41,362 --> 00:08:42,697 Picks up good video. 245 00:08:42,697 --> 00:08:44,199 So I'm gonna be wearing these inside. 246 00:08:44,199 --> 00:08:46,534 It's gonna show everything that Joe is doing. 247 00:08:55,310 --> 00:08:58,480 Joe, who dat? 248 00:09:05,520 --> 00:09:08,623 I see you looking at the merchandise. 249 00:09:08,623 --> 00:09:09,791 Hey, come on. 250 00:09:09,791 --> 00:09:11,259 What the hell is this? 251 00:09:11,259 --> 00:09:13,561 Don't tell me you came all the way up here 252 00:09:13,561 --> 00:09:16,631 to meet a bunch of hard heads. 253 00:09:16,631 --> 00:09:19,100 Man, this is an epic failure. 254 00:09:19,100 --> 00:09:22,637 All right, Joe, you got me tonight, bro. 255 00:09:30,678 --> 00:09:32,780 Really haven't gotten anything good on him. 256 00:09:32,780 --> 00:09:34,549 But right now we're pulling up on a location 257 00:09:34,549 --> 00:09:36,017 that I found out he's gonna be at tonight. 258 00:09:36,017 --> 00:09:38,153 So we follow Joe on social media. 259 00:09:38,153 --> 00:09:40,288 Tonight this is where he's gonna be at over here. 260 00:09:40,288 --> 00:09:42,657 My decoy Mika, she's already inside. 261 00:09:42,657 --> 00:09:44,959 Me and Mika going to communicate via text on 262 00:09:44,959 --> 00:09:47,795 his arrival and his departure. 263 00:09:47,795 --> 00:09:49,230 All right, I see Joe car. 264 00:09:49,230 --> 00:09:50,765 Joe just arrived. 265 00:09:50,765 --> 00:09:52,267 Let me go ahead and send Mika a text real quick 266 00:09:52,267 --> 00:09:54,169 that he's here. 267 00:10:00,241 --> 00:10:01,709 Jackpot. 268 00:10:01,709 --> 00:10:05,713 I got Joe and that little swag walk that you like to do. 269 00:10:05,713 --> 00:10:08,683 Unknown female. 270 00:10:08,683 --> 00:10:12,654 Mika gonna go ahead and capture all the video on the inside. 271 00:10:28,836 --> 00:10:31,139 All right, Joe just walked out the club. 272 00:10:31,139 --> 00:10:33,041 They're leaving in two different cars though. 273 00:10:33,041 --> 00:10:36,344 So we're gonna see where Joe touch down. 274 00:10:36,344 --> 00:10:38,346 Joe pulling up to a house. 275 00:10:41,583 --> 00:10:43,084 All right, playboy. 276 00:10:43,084 --> 00:10:44,719 That's the lady that was at the club. 277 00:10:44,719 --> 00:10:46,154 We'll need to identify her. 278 00:10:49,724 --> 00:10:53,461 Right now, I'm using my OD green military 279 00:10:53,461 --> 00:10:54,495 issued binoculars. 280 00:10:54,495 --> 00:10:55,830 They NVGs. 281 00:10:55,830 --> 00:10:57,599 NVG stands for night vision goggles, 282 00:10:57,599 --> 00:10:59,934 which mean I can see into the darkness, get clear pictures. 283 00:10:59,934 --> 00:11:02,103 Let's see what I can get. 284 00:11:16,417 --> 00:11:18,319 Look like she's kissing on Joe. 285 00:11:25,693 --> 00:11:28,696 Uh-oh, where you going? 286 00:11:28,696 --> 00:11:30,431 - ♪ Whoa, big ting, man ♪ 287 00:11:30,431 --> 00:11:32,367 ♪ Everywhere I go, yeah, I run the town ♪ 288 00:11:32,367 --> 00:11:34,235 ♪ When I touch down, better hand me my crown ♪ 289 00:11:34,235 --> 00:11:35,436 ♪ Hand me my crown, yeah ♪ 290 00:11:35,436 --> 00:11:36,537 ♪ Hand me the crown ♪ 291 00:11:36,537 --> 00:11:38,806 ♪ Uh ♪ 292 00:11:39,907 --> 00:11:41,609 - Hi, Lexi. - Hi, how are you? 293 00:11:41,609 --> 00:11:43,011 - How are you? 294 00:11:43,011 --> 00:11:44,245 It's good seeing you again. - I'm OK. 295 00:11:44,245 --> 00:11:45,146 Good seeing you. 296 00:11:45,146 --> 00:11:46,447 - Thank you for coming in. 297 00:11:46,447 --> 00:11:49,050 This is my relationship expert, Morgan. 298 00:11:49,050 --> 00:11:50,852 - How are you, Lexi? - How are you? 299 00:11:50,852 --> 00:11:53,288 - I'm great. - Please have a seat. 300 00:11:57,859 --> 00:11:59,861 - As you know, I had my investigation 301 00:11:59,861 --> 00:12:02,163 team go out and surveil Joe. 302 00:12:02,163 --> 00:12:05,933 And they were able to capture some imagery. 303 00:12:05,933 --> 00:12:08,336 We're gonna watch it, all of us together. 304 00:12:08,336 --> 00:12:10,338 - Tammy is here to help support you. 305 00:12:10,338 --> 00:12:14,876 I'm here to support you in the midst of whatever happens. 306 00:12:14,876 --> 00:12:17,145 - Are you prepared to see this footage? 307 00:12:17,145 --> 00:12:22,984 Because it could alter your relationship going forward. 308 00:12:22,984 --> 00:12:26,387 - Yeah, just-- yeah, let's just do it. 309 00:12:26,387 --> 00:12:27,989 - OK. 310 00:12:31,944 --> 00:12:33,011 - ♪ Call me when you want, call me when you need ♪ 311 00:12:33,011 --> 00:12:34,179 ♪ Call me in the morning ♪ 312 00:12:34,179 --> 00:12:35,614 ♪ I'll be on the way ♪ 313 00:12:35,614 --> 00:12:36,782 ♪ Call me when you want ♪ 314 00:12:36,782 --> 00:12:38,483 ♪ Call me when you need ♪ 315 00:12:38,483 --> 00:12:41,353 ♪ Call me out by your name, I'll be on the way like ♪ 316 00:12:41,353 --> 00:12:43,655 - Are you prepared to see this footage? 317 00:12:43,655 --> 00:12:49,595 Because it could alter your relationship going forward. 318 00:12:49,595 --> 00:12:50,862 - Yeah, just-- 319 00:12:50,862 --> 00:12:52,664 Yeah, let's just do it. 320 00:12:52,664 --> 00:12:53,665 - OK. 321 00:12:53,665 --> 00:12:56,068 So there is Joe. 322 00:12:56,068 --> 00:12:59,104 As you said, he does construction work. 323 00:12:59,104 --> 00:13:00,305 That's your car, correct? 324 00:13:00,305 --> 00:13:01,340 - Yes. 325 00:13:01,340 --> 00:13:02,240 That is my car. 326 00:13:02,240 --> 00:13:05,277 - And now he's headed off. 327 00:13:05,277 --> 00:13:06,745 - In my car. 328 00:13:06,745 --> 00:13:09,514 - Now the next evening, we continued to surveil him. 329 00:13:09,514 --> 00:13:14,252 Here's Joe meeting with someone outside of a nightclub. 330 00:13:16,154 --> 00:13:17,990 Do you know who this person is? 331 00:13:17,990 --> 00:13:19,358 - I need to see closer. 332 00:13:19,358 --> 00:13:21,193 - Well, get on up, girl, and go look at it. 333 00:13:21,193 --> 00:13:25,130 - 'Cause... 334 00:13:29,468 --> 00:13:33,305 We had a decoy go into this particular club 335 00:13:33,305 --> 00:13:34,873 so that we would be able to surveil. 336 00:13:34,873 --> 00:13:36,775 - Is that-- this is my ex-best friend. 337 00:13:36,775 --> 00:13:37,909 - This is who? 338 00:13:37,909 --> 00:13:40,479 - This is my ex-best friend. 339 00:13:40,479 --> 00:13:41,880 - What? 340 00:13:41,880 --> 00:13:43,415 - But they're just-- they're chilling, right? 341 00:13:43,415 --> 00:13:45,183 They're just chilling? 342 00:13:45,183 --> 00:13:46,218 - That's your ex-best friend? 343 00:13:46,218 --> 00:13:47,619 - That's my ex-best friend. 344 00:13:47,619 --> 00:13:48,887 - What's her name? 345 00:13:48,887 --> 00:13:49,888 - Umil. 346 00:13:49,888 --> 00:13:51,089 - Umil? 347 00:13:51,089 --> 00:13:52,557 - I called her Umi. - OK. 348 00:13:52,557 --> 00:13:54,192 - I don't even know why he was hanging out with 349 00:13:54,192 --> 00:13:55,861 her either because I don't-- 350 00:13:55,861 --> 00:13:57,396 I'm not even friends with her anymore. 351 00:13:57,396 --> 00:13:59,765 And she's really putting her ass on him. 352 00:13:59,765 --> 00:14:01,333 - You said ex? 353 00:14:01,333 --> 00:14:02,300 Ex-best friend? 354 00:14:02,300 --> 00:14:03,802 - Yeah. 355 00:14:03,802 --> 00:14:05,837 Since high school. 356 00:14:05,837 --> 00:14:08,006 - How did y'all become ex-best friends? 357 00:14:08,006 --> 00:14:11,777 - In 2019, me and her stopped talking. 358 00:14:11,777 --> 00:14:12,811 You know, she was sick. 359 00:14:12,811 --> 00:14:14,012 She was sick a lot. 360 00:14:14,012 --> 00:14:15,414 She went to the hospital a lot. 361 00:14:15,414 --> 00:14:16,948 I had-- I was going through my own crap. 362 00:14:16,948 --> 00:14:18,183 And the reason why we had a falling out 363 00:14:18,183 --> 00:14:19,785 is because she was in the hospital. 364 00:14:19,785 --> 00:14:21,420 She was going through something way worse than what 365 00:14:21,420 --> 00:14:23,088 she was been going through before. 366 00:14:23,088 --> 00:14:24,523 I'm like, I understand where you're coming from, 367 00:14:24,523 --> 00:14:27,893 but I felt like I could not really do-- 368 00:14:27,893 --> 00:14:29,294 I don't know-- - Be there for her. 369 00:14:29,294 --> 00:14:30,796 - I was like-- 370 00:14:30,796 --> 00:14:31,830 Yeah, like I couldn't even be there kind of for myself 371 00:14:31,830 --> 00:14:33,398 at the time. 372 00:14:33,398 --> 00:14:34,966 I had booked an out of town modeling job that time. 373 00:14:34,966 --> 00:14:37,436 And I really, really needed the money. 374 00:14:37,436 --> 00:14:39,604 I was in such deep [bleep] financially. 375 00:14:39,604 --> 00:14:41,039 - Right. 376 00:14:41,039 --> 00:14:43,241 - Maybe I underestimated how freaking deep 377 00:14:43,241 --> 00:14:45,043 it was for her because she has sickle cell. 378 00:14:45,043 --> 00:14:47,479 - Just for clarity, sickle cell is 379 00:14:47,479 --> 00:14:50,549 one in five killers of African-American 380 00:14:50,549 --> 00:14:51,983 people in this country. 381 00:14:51,983 --> 00:14:53,452 That's a big deal. 382 00:14:53,452 --> 00:14:55,120 - At the time like, I tried to plead my case 383 00:14:55,120 --> 00:14:56,621 and I tried to tell her I was sorry and stuff. 384 00:14:56,621 --> 00:14:58,523 And she just literally deaded that whole thing. 385 00:14:58,523 --> 00:15:00,292 - I know you were going through what you were going through. 386 00:15:00,292 --> 00:15:01,860 But if you look through her lens, 387 00:15:01,860 --> 00:15:04,796 can you see how she may have felt that you abandoned 388 00:15:04,796 --> 00:15:06,398 her or you didn't support her? 389 00:15:06,398 --> 00:15:09,134 - Like maybe, you know, I should have just dropped 390 00:15:09,134 --> 00:15:10,802 all the things, you know, and went over there 391 00:15:10,802 --> 00:15:13,305 and just disregarded whatever I was going through. 392 00:15:13,305 --> 00:15:14,506 And I don't know, I can't-- 393 00:15:14,506 --> 00:15:15,907 I can't change the past. 394 00:15:15,907 --> 00:15:17,309 - That was technically a faux-pology. 395 00:15:17,309 --> 00:15:18,944 That was like a fake apology. - No. 396 00:15:18,944 --> 00:15:20,145 - Maybe I should have dropped everything. 397 00:15:20,145 --> 00:15:21,346 - No, no, no, no, no. 398 00:15:21,346 --> 00:15:23,215 - And just came and handled you. 399 00:15:23,215 --> 00:15:24,983 - I'm saying that now, but I didn't say that like that 400 00:15:24,983 --> 00:15:26,518 to her at the time, but-- 401 00:15:26,518 --> 00:15:29,688 - OK, well, let's see what else is going on. 402 00:15:29,688 --> 00:15:33,358 Now we continued to follow him. 403 00:15:35,193 --> 00:15:36,495 - Is that the ex-best friend still? 404 00:15:36,495 --> 00:15:37,696 - That is my ex-best friend still. 405 00:15:37,696 --> 00:15:38,764 - Still? OK. 406 00:15:38,764 --> 00:15:39,798 - I'm really just [bleep]. 407 00:15:39,798 --> 00:15:41,399 I'm so confused right now. 408 00:15:41,399 --> 00:15:43,101 Oh my God. 409 00:15:43,101 --> 00:15:46,805 Oh my [bleep] God. 410 00:15:46,805 --> 00:15:48,173 Is she on top of him? 411 00:15:48,173 --> 00:15:51,643 - So there's a lot of intimacy here. 412 00:15:54,346 --> 00:15:58,383 - OK. 413 00:15:58,383 --> 00:16:00,352 - We also found this clip when we 414 00:16:00,352 --> 00:16:04,089 were going through the footage in your car. 415 00:16:04,089 --> 00:16:07,092 - He is using my car to do what? 416 00:16:07,092 --> 00:16:08,927 - Let's see what they're talking about in his car. 417 00:16:21,706 --> 00:16:25,043 - Oh my God, this [bleep] guy, I swear to God. 418 00:16:32,450 --> 00:16:35,287 - How does hearing him say I love you to her make you feel? 419 00:16:35,287 --> 00:16:37,656 - Oh, I feel like fricking throwing my phone at him. 420 00:16:37,656 --> 00:16:40,225 - This relationship is more than just, 421 00:16:40,225 --> 00:16:42,360 you know, we're just banging. 422 00:16:42,360 --> 00:16:44,863 She's emotionally connected to him. 423 00:16:44,863 --> 00:16:48,900 And what he's doing is, he's feeding that connection. 424 00:16:48,900 --> 00:16:54,873 - When you spoke to me when you first came into the office, 425 00:16:54,873 --> 00:16:57,075 you talked about support, right, 426 00:16:57,075 --> 00:17:00,045 and how he paid you so much attention, 427 00:17:00,045 --> 00:17:01,746 how he was such a great listener. 428 00:17:01,746 --> 00:17:07,352 And now his attention has shifted to Umi. 429 00:17:07,352 --> 00:17:11,823 - Has he ever talked about insecurity issues 430 00:17:11,823 --> 00:17:13,058 with being a little person? 431 00:17:13,058 --> 00:17:14,759 - He has. 432 00:17:14,759 --> 00:17:16,661 I mean, he's gone through like, with his ex-girlfriends 433 00:17:16,661 --> 00:17:19,831 and stuff in the past, he would tell me like, you know, 434 00:17:19,831 --> 00:17:22,534 when it did end, he would say I feel like it's me. 435 00:17:22,534 --> 00:17:26,037 I never really came at him about it because I 436 00:17:26,037 --> 00:17:27,505 don't-- it doesn't phase me. 437 00:17:27,505 --> 00:17:28,573 - Right. 438 00:17:28,573 --> 00:17:30,000 You accepted him for who he was. 439 00:17:30,000 --> 00:17:30,141 You accepted him for who he was. 440 00:17:30,141 --> 00:17:33,245 But I imagine in him there was a part of him 441 00:17:33,245 --> 00:17:37,449 that deals with that silently. 442 00:17:37,449 --> 00:17:40,752 If Joe has an emotional connection with her, 443 00:17:40,752 --> 00:17:43,688 are you still willing to take him back? 444 00:17:43,688 --> 00:17:46,024 - I don't know. 445 00:17:46,024 --> 00:17:48,026 Like, am I supposed to? 446 00:17:48,026 --> 00:17:49,995 Like I don't know. 447 00:17:49,995 --> 00:17:52,564 Like we were talking about the future and stuff, you know? 448 00:17:52,564 --> 00:17:54,132 - Right. 449 00:17:54,132 --> 00:17:55,901 - I mean, I don't even know like why anything even drifted 450 00:17:55,901 --> 00:17:57,736 like with us, with me and Joe. 451 00:17:57,736 --> 00:17:59,170 Like what did I do? 452 00:17:59,170 --> 00:18:01,039 Like did I even do anything? 453 00:18:01,039 --> 00:18:03,174 But she's just as wrong. 454 00:18:03,174 --> 00:18:05,477 I guess all the rules, or all those unspoken, 455 00:18:05,477 --> 00:18:07,479 like, rules, you know, in a friendship or something, 456 00:18:07,479 --> 00:18:09,648 they just go out the fricking window. 457 00:18:09,648 --> 00:18:12,584 - There's still a lot of unanswered questions 458 00:18:12,584 --> 00:18:13,919 that you have. 459 00:18:13,919 --> 00:18:17,656 So I have to ask you how do you want to proceed? 460 00:18:17,656 --> 00:18:19,724 We have two options. 461 00:18:19,724 --> 00:18:24,296 You can sit down with Umi and then you guys can team up 462 00:18:24,296 --> 00:18:26,331 and go talk to Joe together. 463 00:18:26,331 --> 00:18:29,668 Or you can wait till they together 464 00:18:29,668 --> 00:18:33,104 and we catch him in the act in what 465 00:18:33,104 --> 00:18:34,639 we like to call a Takedown. 466 00:18:34,639 --> 00:18:37,609 [dramatic music] 467 00:18:37,609 --> 00:18:41,212 ♪ ♪ 468 00:18:43,223 --> 00:18:45,959 - ♪ Take a pic, take a pic ♪ 469 00:18:45,959 --> 00:18:47,327 ♪ I like that freaky shit ♪ 470 00:18:47,327 --> 00:18:48,328 ♪ Freaky shit ♪ 471 00:18:48,328 --> 00:18:50,297 ♪ I love ♪ 472 00:18:50,297 --> 00:18:52,766 - We have two options. 473 00:18:52,766 --> 00:18:57,871 You can sit down with Umi and then you guys can team up 474 00:18:57,871 --> 00:18:59,706 and go talk to Joe together. 475 00:18:59,706 --> 00:19:03,176 Or you can wait till they together 476 00:19:03,176 --> 00:19:06,847 and we catch 'em in the act in what we like 477 00:19:06,847 --> 00:19:08,015 to call a Takedown. 478 00:19:08,015 --> 00:19:10,951 [dramatic music] 479 00:19:10,951 --> 00:19:13,053 - Well, I want to do the Takedown. 480 00:19:13,053 --> 00:19:14,154 - Are you sure? 481 00:19:14,154 --> 00:19:15,288 - Yeah, I need to do that. 482 00:19:15,288 --> 00:19:16,957 I need to catch him in the act. 483 00:19:16,957 --> 00:19:18,959 I need to talk to her though. 484 00:19:18,959 --> 00:19:20,460 Like, I need to talk to her. 485 00:19:20,460 --> 00:19:21,828 I don't know though, I might be really angry 486 00:19:21,828 --> 00:19:23,830 though, seeing her in person. 487 00:19:23,830 --> 00:19:25,832 - We're going to be here to support you. 488 00:19:25,832 --> 00:19:27,834 So you get to speak your truth. 489 00:19:27,834 --> 00:19:32,372 - The next step is, I get my investigation 490 00:19:32,372 --> 00:19:35,142 team back out on the streets. 491 00:19:35,142 --> 00:19:38,245 And once we catch them together, 492 00:19:38,245 --> 00:19:39,946 then I will call you. 493 00:19:39,946 --> 00:19:45,252 And Ken and I will accompany you to the Takedown. 494 00:19:45,252 --> 00:19:48,655 In the meantime, act normal. 495 00:19:48,655 --> 00:19:52,592 Do not let on that this process is going on. 496 00:19:52,592 --> 00:19:55,829 [Audrey Mika's "Fake Heartbreak"] 497 00:19:55,829 --> 00:19:57,864 Listen, you gonna be all right because you're strong. 498 00:19:57,864 --> 00:19:59,366 You know how it is. 499 00:19:59,366 --> 00:20:01,968 - ♪ And I find it hard to breathe ♪ 500 00:20:01,968 --> 00:20:02,969 ♪ These conversations ♪ 501 00:20:02,969 --> 00:20:04,404 - We're gonna support you. 502 00:20:04,404 --> 00:20:06,039 It's gonna be OK. - Thank you. 503 00:20:06,039 --> 00:20:08,008 - ♪ I'm reminiscing on the thought you ♪ 504 00:20:08,008 --> 00:20:10,977 - Thank you. - You're welcome. 505 00:20:10,977 --> 00:20:15,949 - ♪ Yeah, this fake heartbreak ♪ 506 00:20:15,949 --> 00:20:18,919 [funky music] 507 00:20:18,919 --> 00:20:23,256 ♪ ♪ 508 00:20:23,256 --> 00:20:27,360 [line trilling] 509 00:20:27,360 --> 00:20:30,931 - Hello? - Lexi. 510 00:20:30,931 --> 00:20:34,568 - Hey, I just got off the phone with my investigator. 511 00:20:34,568 --> 00:20:37,504 We're on our way to get you, because it's going down now. 512 00:20:44,277 --> 00:20:45,512 - That's what I need you to do. 513 00:20:45,512 --> 00:20:47,380 Me and Ken are on the way, OK? 514 00:20:58,325 --> 00:20:59,392 - I'm in the mood for a Takedown. 515 00:20:59,392 --> 00:21:00,694 How about you? 516 00:21:00,694 --> 00:21:01,995 - I'm in the mood for a Takedown. 517 00:21:01,995 --> 00:21:04,965 [dramatic music] 518 00:21:04,965 --> 00:21:11,972 ♪ ♪ 519 00:21:11,972 --> 00:21:15,075 All right, here we go. 520 00:21:15,075 --> 00:21:16,209 - Hey, Lexi, how are you? - Hi. 521 00:21:16,209 --> 00:21:17,244 - Lexi, come on in. 522 00:21:17,244 --> 00:21:18,678 - How are you holding up? 523 00:21:18,678 --> 00:21:22,149 - I'm ready to like, blow up. 524 00:21:22,149 --> 00:21:25,318 ♪ ♪ 525 00:21:25,318 --> 00:21:26,753 - What is it that you want to say? 526 00:21:26,753 --> 00:21:28,889 - First of all, what are you doing? 527 00:21:28,889 --> 00:21:30,257 Did you really love me? 528 00:21:30,257 --> 00:21:31,791 Was any of it the truth? 529 00:21:31,791 --> 00:21:33,460 - You have every right to feel what you feel. 530 00:21:33,460 --> 00:21:36,163 Now what you do next, how you handle it is what's 531 00:21:36,163 --> 00:21:37,664 going to make the difference. 532 00:21:37,664 --> 00:21:40,634 - My investigator called me and told me that they 533 00:21:40,634 --> 00:21:42,435 were somewhere having lunch. 534 00:21:42,435 --> 00:21:46,506 When we pull up to this place, my investigation team 535 00:21:46,506 --> 00:21:49,943 has been surveilling them. 536 00:21:49,943 --> 00:21:55,315 And the way my ride is set up is we're able to see 537 00:21:55,315 --> 00:21:57,484 everything that they're doing. 538 00:21:57,484 --> 00:22:00,320 Once we land, I'll turn it on. 539 00:22:00,320 --> 00:22:02,055 You can watch some of the interaction 540 00:22:02,055 --> 00:22:05,125 until you feel it's time for you to go in 541 00:22:05,125 --> 00:22:07,427 and address the situation. 542 00:22:07,427 --> 00:22:10,964 ♪ ♪ 543 00:22:10,964 --> 00:22:13,200 OK, here we are. 544 00:22:13,200 --> 00:22:15,402 - Let me turn it on. 545 00:22:15,402 --> 00:22:17,037 - Now let's take a look. 546 00:22:17,037 --> 00:22:19,372 ♪ ♪ 547 00:22:19,372 --> 00:22:22,142 - [scoffs] 548 00:22:22,142 --> 00:22:26,813 Oh, now she's getting up. 549 00:22:26,813 --> 00:22:28,515 - Oh! 550 00:22:28,515 --> 00:22:29,983 That's like a whole freakin' kiss. 551 00:22:29,983 --> 00:22:31,685 Can I just go? 552 00:22:31,685 --> 00:22:32,953 - I know you want to get out. Here's what I want to say. 553 00:22:32,953 --> 00:22:34,287 Here's what I want to say. 554 00:22:34,287 --> 00:22:36,022 Remember what we're here to do, OK? 555 00:22:36,022 --> 00:22:41,695 We are here for you to get answers to your questions. 556 00:22:41,695 --> 00:22:43,096 - I have a lot of [bleep] to say. 557 00:22:43,096 --> 00:22:44,231 - All right. 558 00:22:44,231 --> 00:22:45,432 - We're sitting right here. 559 00:22:45,432 --> 00:22:48,034 If you need me, call me. 560 00:22:48,034 --> 00:22:49,769 - [exhales] 561 00:22:49,769 --> 00:22:51,671 - You know it. You know-- 562 00:22:51,671 --> 00:22:52,806 - Hi. 563 00:22:52,806 --> 00:22:54,474 What are you doing? - What you mean? 564 00:22:54,474 --> 00:22:55,909 - What are you doing? 565 00:22:55,909 --> 00:22:57,577 What are you doing? What are you doing? 566 00:22:57,577 --> 00:22:58,678 - Why are you following me? 567 00:22:58,678 --> 00:23:00,180 - I swear to God, for real. 568 00:23:00,180 --> 00:23:01,448 - You hired people to follow me? 569 00:23:01,448 --> 00:23:03,550 Where did these cameras come from? 570 00:23:07,496 --> 00:23:10,399 [tense music] 571 00:23:10,399 --> 00:23:15,037 ♪ ♪ 572 00:23:15,037 --> 00:23:16,672 - Oh! 573 00:23:16,672 --> 00:23:18,341 That's like a whole freaking kiss. 574 00:23:18,341 --> 00:23:22,945 Can I just go? 575 00:23:22,945 --> 00:23:24,080 Hi. 576 00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:26,048 What are you doing? - What you mean? 577 00:23:26,048 --> 00:23:27,249 - What are you doing? 578 00:23:27,249 --> 00:23:28,784 What are you doing? 579 00:23:28,784 --> 00:23:30,586 - Man, for real, Umi, I swear to God, for real. 580 00:23:30,586 --> 00:23:31,554 - Where these cameras come from? 581 00:23:31,554 --> 00:23:32,955 - What are you doing with her? 582 00:23:32,955 --> 00:23:34,557 - Like we can't friends? - What are you doing? 583 00:23:34,557 --> 00:23:35,691 - We was old friends. 584 00:23:35,691 --> 00:23:37,493 - Why would you do that to me? 585 00:23:37,493 --> 00:23:38,961 - We was old friends. 586 00:23:38,961 --> 00:23:40,363 - Brown, you [bleep] kissed her, you idiot! 587 00:23:40,363 --> 00:23:42,131 I swear to God, bro. 588 00:23:42,131 --> 00:23:45,835 - Don't [bleep] play with me. [bleep] stop playin'. 589 00:23:45,835 --> 00:23:48,137 You [bleep] kissed her. - [bleep]. 590 00:23:48,137 --> 00:23:49,505 - You still have an emotional connection. 591 00:23:49,505 --> 00:23:50,840 - A kiss! A kiss! 592 00:23:50,840 --> 00:23:52,108 - You still have an emotional connection. 593 00:23:52,108 --> 00:23:53,342 - How is a kiss an emotional connection? 594 00:23:53,342 --> 00:23:55,845 - He's gaslighting her right now. 595 00:23:55,845 --> 00:23:57,246 - You saw a kiss. You saw a kiss. 596 00:23:57,246 --> 00:23:59,115 - You know why? Because this whole [bleep] time, 597 00:23:59,115 --> 00:24:01,417 the whole time you were trying to talk to me and I-- 598 00:24:01,417 --> 00:24:03,486 - [bleep] this. 599 00:24:03,486 --> 00:24:05,955 - So much for a civil conversation. 600 00:24:05,955 --> 00:24:07,857 Let's get in there. 601 00:24:07,857 --> 00:24:09,425 - Why are you really mad though? 602 00:24:09,425 --> 00:24:11,093 'Cause all you care about is yourself. 603 00:24:11,093 --> 00:24:12,128 - I'm mad because you were my best friend, you dummy. 604 00:24:12,128 --> 00:24:13,095 - Was, was. 605 00:24:13,095 --> 00:24:14,296 - Dummy. 606 00:24:14,296 --> 00:24:15,464 Where is the [bleep] loyalty? 607 00:24:15,464 --> 00:24:16,665 So why aren't we friends no more? 608 00:24:16,665 --> 00:24:17,967 - Where is the [bleep] loyalty? 609 00:24:17,967 --> 00:24:19,635 - Why are we not-- explain that. 610 00:24:19,635 --> 00:24:20,836 - I swear to god, somebody's gonna lose [bleep] patience. 611 00:24:20,836 --> 00:24:24,673 Hey hey hey hey wait, hold up, hold up. 612 00:24:24,673 --> 00:24:26,709 My name is Tami Roman. 613 00:24:26,709 --> 00:24:30,579 And you are on "Caught in the Act: Unfaithful." 614 00:24:33,516 --> 00:24:35,151 - Lexi came to us because she felt 615 00:24:35,151 --> 00:24:37,987 like there was some infidelity in your relationship. 616 00:24:37,987 --> 00:24:41,424 So I had my team surveil you and we found out 617 00:24:41,424 --> 00:24:43,259 that you were involved in a relationship 618 00:24:43,259 --> 00:24:45,628 with this young lady Umi. 619 00:24:45,628 --> 00:24:47,396 - Yeah, we kissed, but like it's the vibe and energy. 620 00:24:47,396 --> 00:24:48,964 But it doesn't mean like we together. 621 00:24:48,964 --> 00:24:51,667 - But Joe, if you're in a relationship with Lexi, 622 00:24:51,667 --> 00:24:54,203 do you understand that you can't go around just being 623 00:24:54,203 --> 00:24:55,538 involved with other women? 624 00:24:55,538 --> 00:24:56,839 - Oh, that's totally understandable. 625 00:24:56,839 --> 00:24:59,075 - Especially someone who's--allegedly 626 00:24:59,075 --> 00:25:00,509 used to be her best friend. 627 00:25:00,509 --> 00:25:01,944 - But ask her why we not best friends no more. 628 00:25:01,944 --> 00:25:04,480 - Brah, oh my God, who ghosted who after 629 00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:06,115 I [bleep] tried to apologize? 630 00:25:06,115 --> 00:25:07,483 - You didn't try to apologize. - I tried to apologize. 631 00:25:07,483 --> 00:25:08,951 - You didn't. 632 00:25:08,951 --> 00:25:10,386 I wrote you a [bleep] long ass paragraph. 633 00:25:10,386 --> 00:25:11,687 - You didn't. No, you didn't. 634 00:25:11,687 --> 00:25:13,189 - Yes, I [bleep] did. Yes I did. 635 00:25:13,189 --> 00:25:14,590 You made it about yourself like you always do. 636 00:25:14,590 --> 00:25:16,058 - Yes, I did. Yes, I did. 637 00:25:16,058 --> 00:25:17,259 - You made it about yourself. - Fix your lip. 638 00:25:17,259 --> 00:25:18,661 You got something on it. 639 00:25:18,661 --> 00:25:20,629 Yeah, on you're dead, bitch. - So what? So what? 640 00:25:20,629 --> 00:25:22,064 You act like I don't know you by now. 641 00:25:22,064 --> 00:25:23,833 You ain't gonna do [bleep]. You stunting. 642 00:25:23,833 --> 00:25:25,034 - You, you're not [bleep] saying nothing either. 643 00:25:25,034 --> 00:25:26,302 Why you look so dumb? 644 00:25:26,302 --> 00:25:27,770 Why you got that dumbass face on? 645 00:25:27,770 --> 00:25:29,371 - Because you know me and her are friends. 646 00:25:29,371 --> 00:25:30,706 - You have a dumbass-- - We was friends. 647 00:25:30,706 --> 00:25:35,044 - How are you upset with her, OK, 648 00:25:35,044 --> 00:25:40,483 when you, who are supposed to be her friend, right, 649 00:25:40,483 --> 00:25:43,352 violated in terms of the relationship 650 00:25:43,352 --> 00:25:47,289 that she felt she had with someone she was involved with? 651 00:25:47,289 --> 00:25:48,858 - She violated first. 652 00:25:48,858 --> 00:25:51,060 - First off, come here, Joe, come here for a second. 653 00:25:51,060 --> 00:25:54,196 Lexi, tell Joe exactly how you feel. 654 00:25:54,196 --> 00:25:56,031 And Joe, do not interrupt her. 655 00:25:56,031 --> 00:25:58,334 - Why would you do that? 656 00:25:58,334 --> 00:26:00,302 I really genuinely want to know why. 657 00:26:00,302 --> 00:26:03,539 There's [bleep] a thousand bitches on this planet. 658 00:26:03,539 --> 00:26:04,907 More than that. 659 00:26:04,907 --> 00:26:06,575 Why the [bleep] would you go for her? 660 00:26:06,575 --> 00:26:08,110 - So I saw that status her in the hospital. 661 00:26:08,110 --> 00:26:10,212 So I reached out-- how you doing, how you feeling? 662 00:26:10,212 --> 00:26:11,981 Me and her started conversating more, "I'm good. 663 00:26:11,981 --> 00:26:13,182 How are you doing?" "I'm good, can't complain." 664 00:26:13,182 --> 00:26:14,550 Regular conversation. 665 00:26:14,550 --> 00:26:16,218 And so long story short, you weren't 666 00:26:16,218 --> 00:26:19,054 giving me the conversation or communication, she was. 667 00:26:19,054 --> 00:26:20,756 - I was in the hospital for like a good two weeks. 668 00:26:20,756 --> 00:26:22,224 I was in the ICU. - Yeah, she told me. 669 00:26:22,224 --> 00:26:23,993 - It was bad. Right? 670 00:26:23,993 --> 00:26:25,594 And I've been in the hospital, but this was like, this was 671 00:26:25,594 --> 00:26:27,263 different than any other time. 672 00:26:27,263 --> 00:26:28,964 Because I'm always there for you, like no matter if you 673 00:26:28,964 --> 00:26:30,900 call me at 2:00 a.m., 4:00 a.m., 5:00, 674 00:26:30,900 --> 00:26:32,568 I'm there for you no matter what. 675 00:26:32,568 --> 00:26:34,036 And I listen, I don't make it about myself. 676 00:26:34,036 --> 00:26:35,838 And you're not there for me when I need you most? 677 00:26:35,838 --> 00:26:38,474 - And I'm not saying that what she did is right. 678 00:26:38,474 --> 00:26:40,142 Because it's not. 679 00:26:40,142 --> 00:26:45,381 But how does that justify that you end up with someone 680 00:26:45,381 --> 00:26:47,816 she's in love with? 681 00:26:47,816 --> 00:26:49,084 - When I'm looking for a conversation, 682 00:26:49,084 --> 00:26:50,886 I don't get it from her. 683 00:26:50,886 --> 00:26:52,521 Every time she come home from work, "How's your day going?" 684 00:26:52,521 --> 00:26:53,756 "It was all right." Go to the bathroom. 685 00:26:53,756 --> 00:26:54,790 - OK. - I say, "How are you feeling?" 686 00:26:54,790 --> 00:26:55,758 Nothing. 687 00:26:55,758 --> 00:26:58,694 - Bro, you said you love her. 688 00:26:58,694 --> 00:27:00,396 Right? - The energy because-- 689 00:27:00,396 --> 00:27:01,964 - Did you say you love-- no, said-- 690 00:27:01,964 --> 00:27:03,899 - I didn't say I love anybody. - Bro, you said I love her. 691 00:27:03,899 --> 00:27:05,401 - I can say I love anybody. 692 00:27:05,401 --> 00:27:06,569 - Tell me what you [bleep] said. 693 00:27:06,569 --> 00:27:08,537 - I can say I love anybody. - Hey! 694 00:27:08,537 --> 00:27:10,105 OK, OK, so if I hear you correctly, 695 00:27:10,105 --> 00:27:12,041 wait a minute, what he's saying is I can talk to her, 696 00:27:12,041 --> 00:27:13,709 I can communicate with her where I 697 00:27:13,709 --> 00:27:14,810 couldn't communicate with you. 698 00:27:14,810 --> 00:27:16,345 Does not make it right though. 699 00:27:16,345 --> 00:27:17,546 - At all. 700 00:27:17,546 --> 00:27:19,014 - My question to you is this. 701 00:27:19,014 --> 00:27:22,151 What kind of connection do you have with Umi? 702 00:27:22,151 --> 00:27:25,754 - He was there for me through like, my toughest moments. 703 00:27:25,754 --> 00:27:26,855 Like, you know what I mean? 704 00:27:26,855 --> 00:27:28,591 I went through so much [bleep]. 705 00:27:28,591 --> 00:27:34,163 - But if she did what you are doing in this moment to you, 706 00:27:34,163 --> 00:27:38,167 how would you feel? 707 00:27:38,167 --> 00:27:39,535 - I would understand. 708 00:27:39,535 --> 00:27:41,270 I'm not gonna act like I don't care. 709 00:27:41,270 --> 00:27:43,906 But I would understand that like, you know, 710 00:27:43,906 --> 00:27:46,742 because like we know each other inside and out. 711 00:27:46,742 --> 00:27:49,111 - Do you want your friendship with Lexi more-- 712 00:27:49,111 --> 00:27:50,613 - Umi. 713 00:27:50,613 --> 00:27:51,714 - --than what was kind of established with Joe? 714 00:27:51,714 --> 00:27:53,482 - Umi? - What? 715 00:27:53,482 --> 00:27:54,750 - I want to know why. 716 00:27:54,750 --> 00:27:56,452 - You know why. - I want to know. 717 00:27:56,452 --> 00:27:57,953 So it is to get back at me? So you don't like him then? 718 00:27:57,953 --> 00:27:59,021 - It's not about to get back at you. 719 00:27:59,021 --> 00:28:00,589 - But do you love him or something? 720 00:28:00,589 --> 00:28:02,024 Do you love him? 721 00:28:02,024 --> 00:28:03,225 - Bro, answer. 722 00:28:03,225 --> 00:28:04,460 - You always make everything about you. 723 00:28:04,460 --> 00:28:06,000 - He was there for me when you weren't. 724 00:28:06,000 --> 00:28:06,028 - He was there for me when you weren't. 725 00:28:06,028 --> 00:28:07,196 - Come on, ladies. - You didn't call me back. 726 00:28:07,196 --> 00:28:08,697 - Let's go to the patio. 727 00:28:08,697 --> 00:28:10,466 Come on, let's go to the patio. Let's go to the patio. 728 00:28:10,466 --> 00:28:11,867 - I'm about to take my ring off. 729 00:28:11,867 --> 00:28:13,969 - What I'm simply saying to you is this. 730 00:28:13,969 --> 00:28:16,939 Look, you've got to take responsibility for your part. 731 00:28:16,939 --> 00:28:18,641 She would not be doing this if she did not love you. 732 00:28:18,641 --> 00:28:20,776 - The way I feel this whole situation is, me and my girl, 733 00:28:20,776 --> 00:28:22,244 she's a model. 734 00:28:22,244 --> 00:28:23,612 I'm the one that do the behind the scenes footage. 735 00:28:23,612 --> 00:28:25,180 I'm the one that take her photos. 736 00:28:25,180 --> 00:28:26,749 She stopped calling me to do the behind the scenes footage. 737 00:28:26,749 --> 00:28:29,952 So the way I'm feeling is you got either a tall guy that's 738 00:28:29,952 --> 00:28:31,287 taking care of your photos because you don't 739 00:28:31,287 --> 00:28:32,855 bring me nowhere no more. - A tall guy? 740 00:28:32,855 --> 00:28:34,223 - So that's where my-- that's where my insecurities 741 00:28:34,223 --> 00:28:36,191 kick in because like, I'm a half of a person, 742 00:28:36,191 --> 00:28:37,493 a little man. 743 00:28:37,493 --> 00:28:38,661 I know a lot of people that'd like to have 744 00:28:38,661 --> 00:28:39,928 a big, tall strong guy. - But Joe, 745 00:28:39,928 --> 00:28:41,997 it is still your responsibility 746 00:28:41,997 --> 00:28:43,799 to tell the woman that you love that loves 747 00:28:43,799 --> 00:28:45,734 you about all of that. 748 00:28:45,734 --> 00:28:47,603 - You get right here. 749 00:28:47,603 --> 00:28:50,706 You get right here. 750 00:28:50,706 --> 00:28:53,542 And I'm gonna get in the middle of y'all. 751 00:28:53,542 --> 00:28:55,611 - I can't believe you and that [bleep] did this to me. 752 00:28:55,611 --> 00:28:57,079 - She's lying. 753 00:28:57,079 --> 00:28:58,614 - Where were you when I needed you to listen? 754 00:28:58,614 --> 00:28:59,982 - You decided to [bleep] ignore me-- 755 00:28:59,982 --> 00:29:01,216 - No, no, I didn't. - --after that. 756 00:29:01,216 --> 00:29:02,584 - No, I didn't. - Yes you did! 757 00:29:02,584 --> 00:29:06,388 [bleep] you. 758 00:29:06,388 --> 00:29:09,224 - You better [bleep]. Ooh. - Windows and [bleep]. 759 00:29:15,781 --> 00:29:17,650 - You decided to [bleep] ignore me-- 760 00:29:17,650 --> 00:29:18,617 - No, no, I didn't. - --after that. 761 00:29:18,617 --> 00:29:23,856 - No, I didn't. [bleep]. 762 00:29:23,856 --> 00:29:25,324 - You better [bleep]. Ooh. 763 00:29:25,324 --> 00:29:26,592 - Windows and [bleep]. 764 00:29:28,761 --> 00:29:30,296 - You--you were supposed to be my friend, too. 765 00:29:30,296 --> 00:29:31,697 - You were treating me all wrong. 766 00:29:31,697 --> 00:29:33,032 - You're wrong. - You're wrong. 767 00:29:33,032 --> 00:29:34,433 - You're wrong. You're very wrong. 768 00:29:34,433 --> 00:29:37,369 - All of that, everything you see is because of you. 769 00:29:37,369 --> 00:29:38,771 - I don't understand how because it's like I 770 00:29:38,771 --> 00:29:40,139 said, it's-- 771 00:29:40,139 --> 00:29:41,273 - What do you mean you don't understand how? 772 00:29:41,273 --> 00:29:44,376 - Ladies, we need to be able to have 773 00:29:44,376 --> 00:29:48,914 a conversation without you guys doing this, right? 774 00:29:48,914 --> 00:29:50,649 Because we're not gonna get anywhere. 775 00:29:50,649 --> 00:29:53,419 So I did speak with Umi. 776 00:29:53,419 --> 00:29:55,121 And she was sick. 777 00:29:55,121 --> 00:29:57,156 She was going through something. 778 00:29:57,156 --> 00:30:01,060 And you openly admitted, I was going through something too, 779 00:30:01,060 --> 00:30:04,730 and maybe I wasn't the best of friends. 780 00:30:04,730 --> 00:30:07,199 - If I can be there for you through all your tough times, 781 00:30:07,199 --> 00:30:09,401 why can't you support through my tough time? 782 00:30:09,401 --> 00:30:12,338 - I couldn't do it, OK? 783 00:30:17,676 --> 00:30:18,777 OK? 784 00:30:18,777 --> 00:30:20,479 I was going through my [bleep]. 785 00:30:20,479 --> 00:30:22,148 - When two people are friends and they really been friends 786 00:30:22,148 --> 00:30:24,717 a long time and there is that element of loyalty, 787 00:30:24,717 --> 00:30:26,519 there are certain things that go with that. 788 00:30:26,519 --> 00:30:27,953 Y'all had each other's back. 789 00:30:27,953 --> 00:30:29,922 That's a part of being loyal to each other. 790 00:30:29,922 --> 00:30:31,724 You're respectful of each other. 791 00:30:31,724 --> 00:30:34,493 You're able to keep it real and have honest communication 792 00:30:34,493 --> 00:30:36,028 with each other. 793 00:30:36,028 --> 00:30:38,597 All of that is a part of being loyal to each other. 794 00:30:38,597 --> 00:30:40,499 And what happened with you guys was 795 00:30:40,499 --> 00:30:44,470 when you were going through something, you felt abandoned. 796 00:30:44,470 --> 00:30:47,973 That moment of like I just said, we stick together, 797 00:30:47,973 --> 00:30:49,441 we stand by each other. 798 00:30:49,441 --> 00:30:51,644 That moment was violated for you because she 799 00:30:51,644 --> 00:30:53,312 wasn't there for you. 800 00:30:53,312 --> 00:30:57,016 But then after that, you didn't keep it real with her 801 00:30:57,016 --> 00:30:59,518 and have honest communication with her to tell her 802 00:30:59,518 --> 00:31:01,187 exactly how you were feeling. 803 00:31:01,187 --> 00:31:02,688 - Because it was revenge, wasn't it? 804 00:31:02,688 --> 00:31:04,456 Was it revenge? - I'm talking. 805 00:31:04,456 --> 00:31:05,925 I don't need your help. 806 00:31:05,925 --> 00:31:08,561 So you didn't tell her exactly how you felt. 807 00:31:08,561 --> 00:31:10,029 - She made it about herself, 808 00:31:10,029 --> 00:31:11,697 about her video shoot. 809 00:31:11,697 --> 00:31:14,366 She didn't make it about no-- 810 00:31:14,366 --> 00:31:16,402 I'm going through some-- 811 00:31:16,402 --> 00:31:18,304 [bleep]. [bleep]. 812 00:31:18,304 --> 00:31:19,838 - So let's just say only Umi that it 813 00:31:19,838 --> 00:31:21,140 was about a photo shoot. 814 00:31:21,140 --> 00:31:23,442 What if that photo shoot was a way 815 00:31:23,442 --> 00:31:25,211 that she needed to make money? 816 00:31:25,211 --> 00:31:28,080 Do you understand that sometimes when we as people 817 00:31:28,080 --> 00:31:30,549 are going through some [bleep] we don't always 818 00:31:30,549 --> 00:31:32,218 handle things properly, right? 819 00:31:32,218 --> 00:31:34,553 And so in the moment, maybe she didn't handle it right, 820 00:31:34,553 --> 00:31:39,024 but that doesn't mean that she didn't care about you. 821 00:31:39,024 --> 00:31:40,593 - Maybe I shouldn't have talked to him. 822 00:31:40,593 --> 00:31:43,896 But he was there when I was going through my-- 823 00:31:43,896 --> 00:31:45,664 going through a lot. 824 00:31:45,664 --> 00:31:48,834 - I wish you had stopped yourself. 825 00:31:48,834 --> 00:31:50,502 - Number one, you gotta tell her 826 00:31:50,502 --> 00:31:52,404 how she made you feel because she wasn't communicating. 827 00:31:52,404 --> 00:31:54,406 And number two, you gotta tell her about the insecurities 828 00:31:54,406 --> 00:31:55,608 that you have. 829 00:31:55,608 --> 00:31:56,942 That's how y'all work through it. 830 00:31:56,942 --> 00:31:58,210 - Let's do it. I'm ready. 831 00:31:58,210 --> 00:31:59,478 - Let's do it. - Let's do it. 832 00:31:59,478 --> 00:32:00,879 - I feel like-- 833 00:32:00,879 --> 00:32:02,881 I feel like you're better than that, I really do. 834 00:32:02,881 --> 00:32:04,183 - Oh, come on. 835 00:32:04,183 --> 00:32:05,517 Come on, let's talk. - Listen. 836 00:32:05,517 --> 00:32:06,685 - Let's have a little convo. 837 00:32:06,685 --> 00:32:08,220 - Let's sit down and have a seat. 838 00:32:08,220 --> 00:32:09,421 Let's sit down and have a seat. - Here's a table. 839 00:32:09,421 --> 00:32:10,456 - OK, let's sit down. 840 00:32:10,456 --> 00:32:12,558 Everybody get a chair. 841 00:32:12,558 --> 00:32:14,260 You there. 842 00:32:14,260 --> 00:32:16,962 We're talking in circles now, all right? 843 00:32:16,962 --> 00:32:20,266 Everybody's yelling. 844 00:32:20,266 --> 00:32:23,669 All of you guys are saying the same thing, 845 00:32:23,669 --> 00:32:30,376 that there has been a lack of emotional support. 846 00:32:30,376 --> 00:32:32,077 And I think the only way we're really 847 00:32:32,077 --> 00:32:33,812 gonna get to the bottom of stuff 848 00:32:33,812 --> 00:32:35,748 is if everybody just really laid 849 00:32:35,748 --> 00:32:37,383 their stuff out on the table. 850 00:32:37,383 --> 00:32:39,318 - I understand it's ladies first, 851 00:32:39,318 --> 00:32:40,786 but I'm gonna go first since I'm the cause of all of this. 852 00:32:40,786 --> 00:32:42,154 - I wish you would. 853 00:32:42,154 --> 00:32:43,789 - Now behind this whole situation is me 854 00:32:43,789 --> 00:32:45,457 and her were close. 855 00:32:45,457 --> 00:32:47,293 I was the person that doing her modeling and all that. 856 00:32:47,293 --> 00:32:48,594 I be the one doing the recording behind the scenes, 857 00:32:48,594 --> 00:32:50,296 everything behind the scenes. 858 00:32:50,296 --> 00:32:52,031 Next thing you know, I'm not behind the scenes no more. 859 00:32:52,031 --> 00:32:53,465 "Yo baby, you need me for this modeling shoot?" 860 00:32:53,465 --> 00:32:54,967 "No, I'm good right now." 861 00:32:54,967 --> 00:32:56,268 But then when I start seeing the footages, 862 00:32:56,268 --> 00:32:57,569 I see she's modeling but there's 863 00:32:57,569 --> 00:32:58,937 somebody else recording her. 864 00:32:58,937 --> 00:33:00,039 Why you ain't tell me that, that you 865 00:33:00,039 --> 00:33:01,774 got somebody else doing it? 866 00:33:01,774 --> 00:33:03,075 So that when I find out who it is, I see it's an average guy, 867 00:33:03,075 --> 00:33:04,543 is 6 foot, 6'2", 6'5". 868 00:33:04,543 --> 00:33:07,012 And I look in the mirror, I'm only 4'9". 869 00:33:07,012 --> 00:33:08,380 Me, being a little person, that bothers me. 870 00:33:08,380 --> 00:33:10,182 Because like, for me, a little person 871 00:33:10,182 --> 00:33:12,217 to get somebody as beautiful as her, it's like half. 872 00:33:12,217 --> 00:33:15,487 I can't hold you or protect you the way like another guy can. 873 00:33:15,487 --> 00:33:18,457 So when I start feeling like, oh, like this is stuff for me 874 00:33:18,457 --> 00:33:20,426 that's going to make me feel like oh, like, you know, 875 00:33:20,426 --> 00:33:23,429 I'm losing her, especially as a little person. 876 00:33:23,429 --> 00:33:27,232 - It's a human emotion to feel threatened by that. 877 00:33:27,232 --> 00:33:29,001 - It's like, I see a post, a picture of her 878 00:33:29,001 --> 00:33:30,703 in the hospital. How are you doing, gang? 879 00:33:30,703 --> 00:33:31,937 How you feeling? What's going on? 880 00:33:31,937 --> 00:33:33,105 What's up with you? 881 00:33:33,105 --> 00:33:34,640 We drink, have a conversation. 882 00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:36,208 How's your family, how you feeling, how you doing? 883 00:33:36,208 --> 00:33:37,943 Every time I wanted to talk with you, 884 00:33:37,943 --> 00:33:39,511 you didn't give it to me. She gave it to me. 885 00:33:39,511 --> 00:33:41,814 So the vibe and the energy, it started picking up. 886 00:33:41,814 --> 00:33:43,215 So yes, I said, oh, I love you. 887 00:33:43,215 --> 00:33:44,817 No, it wasn't, oh, I'm in love with you. 888 00:33:44,817 --> 00:33:46,151 I love your vibe. I love your energy. 889 00:33:46,151 --> 00:33:47,453 You're sitting here listening to me. 890 00:33:47,453 --> 00:33:48,821 You're sitting here talking to me. 891 00:33:48,821 --> 00:33:51,557 You're asking me what's wrong? 892 00:33:51,557 --> 00:33:55,561 - I'm happy that you're relating this information out 893 00:33:55,561 --> 00:34:02,234 in front of her because the way it came to me was you changed. 894 00:34:02,234 --> 00:34:04,169 - He admitted to me that he was jealous 895 00:34:04,169 --> 00:34:06,271 that there were other people shooting behind the scenes. 896 00:34:06,271 --> 00:34:08,440 But I said you're busy and I still need to get work done. 897 00:34:08,440 --> 00:34:10,776 - What you didn't do, you didn't 898 00:34:10,776 --> 00:34:12,000 tell Tami what was going on that 899 00:34:12,000 --> 00:34:13,011 tell Tami what was going on that 900 00:34:13,011 --> 00:34:15,214 led to his behavioral change. 901 00:34:15,214 --> 00:34:16,782 And because you didn't tell her, 902 00:34:16,782 --> 00:34:20,853 you led us to believe that he changed on his own. 903 00:34:20,853 --> 00:34:22,988 - What I'm saying is when you came in, 904 00:34:22,988 --> 00:34:27,059 you did not say he is jealous or insecure 905 00:34:27,059 --> 00:34:29,661 because of things I'm doing. 906 00:34:29,661 --> 00:34:31,130 - He gets jealous because he's too busy-- 907 00:34:31,130 --> 00:34:32,531 - Tell you something. 908 00:34:32,531 --> 00:34:34,032 That's not why he gets jealous, baby. 909 00:34:34,032 --> 00:34:35,067 He said why, he say it. 910 00:34:35,067 --> 00:34:36,135 - Yeah, not that tall? 911 00:34:36,135 --> 00:34:37,469 What am I gonna do? 912 00:34:37,469 --> 00:34:39,138 - But that's a big [bleep] deal. 913 00:34:39,138 --> 00:34:40,038 - If it was a shorter person, would you care? 914 00:34:40,038 --> 00:34:41,306 - Nope. - What? 915 00:34:41,306 --> 00:34:44,042 - Listening to him tell his side, 916 00:34:44,042 --> 00:34:46,011 there's some validity there. 917 00:34:46,011 --> 00:34:49,415 Because you mad that she didn't tell you that 918 00:34:49,415 --> 00:34:51,984 she had someone else taking videos for her. 919 00:34:51,984 --> 00:34:54,887 So you got offended, and you wasn't woman 920 00:34:54,887 --> 00:34:59,491 enough to tell him, so y'all just stopped communicating. 921 00:34:59,491 --> 00:35:04,363 That pushed him to her, who's wrong in this as well. 922 00:35:04,930 --> 00:35:06,231 - But the one person at this table 923 00:35:06,231 --> 00:35:07,733 who admitted that they was foul-- 924 00:35:07,733 --> 00:35:08,734 - I admit it. 925 00:35:08,734 --> 00:35:10,836 - --was her. 926 00:35:10,836 --> 00:35:14,907 Y'all two are not doing that. 927 00:35:14,907 --> 00:35:16,642 - Just let me say something real quick. 928 00:35:16,642 --> 00:35:18,544 Like thinking about it now, I feel like we trauma bonded. 929 00:35:18,544 --> 00:35:20,112 He was going through his own [bleep]. 930 00:35:20,112 --> 00:35:21,213 I was going through my own [bleep]. 931 00:35:21,213 --> 00:35:23,182 And he was there to listen. 932 00:35:23,182 --> 00:35:24,950 Was it wrong? Yeah. 933 00:35:24,950 --> 00:35:26,452 In the moment, did it feel wrong? 934 00:35:26,452 --> 00:35:27,786 No. 935 00:35:27,786 --> 00:35:32,558 But it shouldn't have got to the way it got. 936 00:35:32,558 --> 00:35:33,759 I'm sorry. 937 00:35:33,759 --> 00:35:36,028 I should never have did what I did. 938 00:35:36,028 --> 00:35:37,463 And you mean a lot to me. 939 00:35:37,463 --> 00:35:39,231 I'm not gonna sit there and act like you 940 00:35:39,231 --> 00:35:40,265 don't mean a lot to me. And you already know that. 941 00:35:40,265 --> 00:35:44,636 We've been through a lot. 942 00:35:44,636 --> 00:35:45,704 A lot. 943 00:35:45,704 --> 00:35:47,639 And I miss what we had. 944 00:35:47,639 --> 00:35:53,245 Like, I just think things would have went differently, 945 00:35:53,245 --> 00:35:54,780 that's all I can really say. 946 00:35:54,780 --> 00:35:57,416 I wish things would have went differently. 947 00:35:57,416 --> 00:35:59,284 - I'm sorry too. 948 00:35:59,284 --> 00:36:02,554 And I'm sorry that-- 949 00:36:02,554 --> 00:36:04,490 maybe I should have reached out. 950 00:36:04,490 --> 00:36:06,992 And up until now, maybe it was easier for me 951 00:36:06,992 --> 00:36:09,962 to convince myself that it's right that I just take 952 00:36:09,962 --> 00:36:11,330 care of myself at the moment. 953 00:36:11,330 --> 00:36:14,433 But that was very inconsiderate of you, 954 00:36:14,433 --> 00:36:18,070 knowing especially that you've been in a hospital for months 955 00:36:18,070 --> 00:36:20,839 at a time. 956 00:36:20,839 --> 00:36:22,608 Sorry. 957 00:36:22,608 --> 00:36:24,142 - I'm sorry too. 958 00:36:24,142 --> 00:36:27,346 - And how do you want to go forward with Joe? 959 00:36:27,346 --> 00:36:29,648 What are we doing right here? 960 00:36:29,648 --> 00:36:32,851 Are you going to try to work things out or are 961 00:36:32,851 --> 00:36:36,588 you gonna go on without him? 962 00:36:36,588 --> 00:36:39,591 [dramatic music] 963 00:36:39,591 --> 00:36:44,997 ♪ ♪ 964 00:36:46,465 --> 00:36:49,034 [dramatic music] 965 00:36:49,034 --> 00:36:50,669 - How do you want to go forward with Joe? 966 00:36:50,669 --> 00:36:53,806 Are you going to try to work things out or are 967 00:36:53,806 --> 00:36:57,042 you gonna go on without him? 968 00:36:57,042 --> 00:36:59,912 ♪ ♪ 969 00:36:59,912 --> 00:37:00,946 - I love her. 970 00:37:00,946 --> 00:37:03,182 I know she loves me. 971 00:37:03,182 --> 00:37:04,483 - I don't know. 972 00:37:04,483 --> 00:37:05,818 I need to-- I need to like think. 973 00:37:05,818 --> 00:37:07,086 I need a break or something. 974 00:37:07,086 --> 00:37:08,353 - You keep telling me I don't got 975 00:37:08,353 --> 00:37:10,022 a reason for the way I feel. - Oh my God. 976 00:37:10,022 --> 00:37:11,590 Nobody said that, Joe. 977 00:37:11,590 --> 00:37:13,459 Nobody said that. - That's how you make it seem. 978 00:37:13,459 --> 00:37:14,660 Where's that communication at? - We've done our job. 979 00:37:14,660 --> 00:37:16,228 We gave her the truth. 980 00:37:16,228 --> 00:37:17,262 Now it's up to them to go forward past this moment-- 981 00:37:17,262 --> 00:37:18,330 - At the end of the day. 982 00:37:18,330 --> 00:37:19,531 - --with a trained person. 983 00:37:19,531 --> 00:37:20,532 OK, y'all. 984 00:37:20,532 --> 00:37:21,600 All right, y'all. 985 00:37:21,600 --> 00:37:24,269 - I'm not staying here with him. 986 00:37:24,269 --> 00:37:25,704 I'm out. 987 00:37:27,339 --> 00:37:30,409 - If it came down to me being friends with Lex 988 00:37:30,409 --> 00:37:36,115 and me letting Joe go, I might have to let Joe go and just 989 00:37:36,115 --> 00:37:37,549 pick up that friendship. 990 00:37:37,549 --> 00:37:39,318 Because that friendship was like a long-- 991 00:37:39,318 --> 00:37:41,520 we were friends since like high school. 992 00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:44,156 - With Lex, it's like I'm in love with her. 993 00:37:44,156 --> 00:37:45,624 Like I got a connection with her. 994 00:37:45,624 --> 00:37:47,693 Like she understand me, I understand her. 995 00:37:47,693 --> 00:37:49,428 So it's like, we really get each other. 996 00:37:49,428 --> 00:37:51,130 And I can't find that with other people. 997 00:37:51,130 --> 00:37:52,865 I can't find that in Umi. 998 00:37:52,865 --> 00:37:54,867 Like, my insecurities, I gotta talk to her more about it 999 00:37:54,867 --> 00:37:56,935 and I actually gotta work on it more personally. 1000 00:37:56,935 --> 00:37:58,771 But it's like the way I feel is I need 1001 00:37:58,771 --> 00:38:00,339 to start talking to her way more than what 1002 00:38:00,339 --> 00:38:01,940 I was doing, honestly. 1003 00:38:01,940 --> 00:38:03,142 - I really do not like Joe right now. 1004 00:38:03,142 --> 00:38:04,176 I love him; I don't like him. 1005 00:38:04,176 --> 00:38:05,611 What do I want to do? 1006 00:38:05,611 --> 00:38:07,379 Like, ask myself, instead of being angry, 1007 00:38:07,379 --> 00:38:11,216 sit down, breathe, and what do I really want to do? 1008 00:38:11,216 --> 00:38:12,584 [gentle music] 1009 00:38:12,584 --> 00:38:15,687 - With Joe, him opening up about, 1010 00:38:15,687 --> 00:38:18,690 hey, I'm looking out at you, a beautiful woman with all 1011 00:38:18,690 --> 00:38:21,994 these average height guys, yeah, I'm a little insecure, 1012 00:38:21,994 --> 00:38:23,061 you know? 1013 00:38:23,061 --> 00:38:24,163 - That was a breakthrough. 1014 00:38:24,163 --> 00:38:25,664 - It was really different. 1015 00:38:25,664 --> 00:38:26,765 - Right. 1016 00:38:26,765 --> 00:38:28,667 - But good to see the ladies-- 1017 00:38:28,667 --> 00:38:29,701 - Right. 1018 00:38:29,701 --> 00:38:30,769 - --make up. 1019 00:38:30,769 --> 00:38:31,904 - That was surprising to me. 1020 00:38:31,904 --> 00:38:32,971 - You ready to get out of here? 1021 00:38:32,971 --> 00:38:34,006 - I'm ready to get out of here. 1022 00:38:34,006 --> 00:38:37,409 - Let's do it. 1023 00:38:37,409 --> 00:38:40,479 - Ooh. - We're out. 1024 00:38:40,479 --> 00:38:42,214 - ♪ Please stop calling ♪ 1025 00:38:42,214 --> 00:38:44,116 ♪ You've been dishonest ♪ 1026 00:38:44,116 --> 00:38:47,686 ♪ I've been through enough ♪ 1027 00:38:47,686 --> 00:38:50,689 ♪ Two-faced promise, scars and traumas ♪ 1028 00:38:50,689 --> 00:38:53,525 ♪ You put me through enough ♪ 1029 00:38:53,525 --> 00:38:54,793 - Hey Lexi. 1030 00:38:54,793 --> 00:38:56,595 - Hi Tammy, how are you? 1031 00:38:56,595 --> 00:38:57,796 - I'm doing well. 1032 00:38:57,796 --> 00:38:59,498 You look beautiful. 1033 00:38:59,498 --> 00:39:02,801 I wanted to check in with you to find out how everything's 1034 00:39:02,801 --> 00:39:07,105 going with you and Joe. 1035 00:39:07,105 --> 00:39:09,741 - Well, me and Joe aren't together right now. 1036 00:39:09,741 --> 00:39:14,446 I love Joe, but I needed to kind of isolate myself, 1037 00:39:14,446 --> 00:39:17,115 take the time to concentrate on my mental health. 1038 00:39:17,115 --> 00:39:22,654 Romantically, I can't get back to that space right now, 1039 00:39:22,654 --> 00:39:23,655 you know? 1040 00:39:23,655 --> 00:39:24,890 - How about Umi? 1041 00:39:24,890 --> 00:39:27,826 How's that relationship going? 1042 00:39:27,826 --> 00:39:29,194 - We did speak. 1043 00:39:29,194 --> 00:39:30,596 And we even met up. 1044 00:39:30,596 --> 00:39:32,364 - And what did you guys determine 1045 00:39:32,364 --> 00:39:34,566 that you want going forward? 1046 00:39:34,566 --> 00:39:38,737 - Um, yeah, we're going to see where it goes. 1047 00:39:38,737 --> 00:39:41,006 You know, we want to be back like this, but you know, 1048 00:39:41,006 --> 00:39:42,407 it's hard to do that. 1049 00:39:42,407 --> 00:39:45,177 - Well, listen, I feel like you have 1050 00:39:45,177 --> 00:39:49,047 learned through this entire experience 1051 00:39:49,047 --> 00:39:51,316 some valuable lessons. 1052 00:39:51,316 --> 00:39:52,651 - I mean, I did learn that maybe I 1053 00:39:52,651 --> 00:39:54,586 could be more supportive, OK? 1054 00:39:54,586 --> 00:39:56,922 And you know sometimes when you're going through things, 1055 00:39:56,922 --> 00:40:00,459 you might not remember other important things, 1056 00:40:00,459 --> 00:40:03,528 other things that are dear to you, like Umi. 1057 00:40:03,528 --> 00:40:08,066 - There's some bond there that none of you should give up on. 1058 00:40:08,066 --> 00:40:09,501 And you should continue that. 1059 00:40:09,501 --> 00:40:12,337 Good luck with your modeling career 1060 00:40:12,337 --> 00:40:15,674 and everything that you've got going on, OK? 1061 00:40:15,674 --> 00:40:16,808 Bye, sweetie. 1062 00:40:16,808 --> 00:40:17,976 Good talking to you. 1063 00:40:17,976 --> 00:40:19,144 - Thank you so much. 1064 00:40:19,144 --> 00:40:21,079 - Bye. - Bye. 1065 00:40:21,079 --> 00:40:22,781 - Cheaters, beware. 1066 00:40:22,781 --> 00:40:24,683 - You [bleep] kissed her, you idiot! 1067 00:40:24,683 --> 00:40:27,386 - Next time you want to be unfaithful, think again. 1068 00:40:27,386 --> 00:40:29,821 - Hey, let me tell you one mother[bleep] thing! 1069 00:40:29,821 --> 00:40:30,956 - Oh lord. Oh lord. 1070 00:40:30,956 --> 00:40:32,925 Oh lord. Oh lord! 1071 00:40:32,925 --> 00:40:33,959 - Because I just might-- 1072 00:40:33,959 --> 00:40:35,027 Oh God, she's running. 1073 00:40:35,027 --> 00:40:36,295 Catch you in the act.