- ♪ MTV ♪
[funky music]
- I'm Tami Roman.
I have been cheated on before.
- You [bleep] my man when I was married to him.
- I even wrote a book about it.
And I've made it my mission to help
suspicious lovers catch their cheating partners in the act.
Hold up.
- And you brought this to my place of business.
How dare you? What is this?
- What the [bleep]? - Oh!
Together with my relationship coaches--
- You got to tell her about the insecurities that you have.
That's how y'all work through it.
- This is a situation where you have to say,
"I'm going to step up and do what's right."
- --and stealthy investigation team--
- They think they slick.
Well, we slicker.
- We won't stop until we find the truth.
Cheaters, beware.
- I'm [bleep] torn.
I love them both.
- You got to fundamentally say, "I'm going to be different."
Who the [bleep] you think you are?
Why the [bleep] do y'all got cameras in--
what the [bleep] is wrong with you?
- Tami, Tami!
- Nobody should think they're better than anybody else,
because y'all [bleep] been played.
And that's just the truth.
This is "Caught in the Act: Unfaithful."
- ♪ I am a quality lady ♪
♪ You can catch me on the daily ♪
♪ I don't mean to be shady because I am a quality lady ♪
- Hi, Ciara. - Hi.
- How are you?
- Good, good.
- Have a seat.
- Hi.
- You called me about your relationship.
- Yes, ma'am.
- And I want to hear all about it.
But before you tell me about your relationship,
I want you to tell me about you.
- I'm 33 years old.
I am a high-profile security officer.
- Oh, OK.
Go ahead, continue.
- So I have a 13-year-old son.
And he lives with me.
My mom, she lives maybe about 20 minutes away, not too far.
- Oh, so Mom is close.
- So Mom is close.
Mom helps me with my son.
She raised me, pretty much.
We were in a Puerto Rican household, single mom.
- Tell me about the relationship
you're here about? - OK.
I believe he friend requested me.
I think we had mutual friends.
And then he added me.
- How did you guys start talking?
Because I know people will accept people.
And it's like, but I don't know you,
so we're not having no conversation.
- I mean, I thought he was cute.
Of course, he looked good. - Uh-uh.
- And he sent me an inbox.
He was like, "How are you?"
My name is Kwame.
And I was like, "OK."
- OK. - And so we set up a date.
Come to find out when I meet him, you know,
he doesn't realize who I am at first.
- OK. - And I'm like--
- So he didn't recognize you.
- He didn't recognize me.
Is your picture the same as how you look in person?
- Yeah. - Oh, OK.
- And he was like, "Don't be alarmed."
He was like, "I got to tell you something.
I can't see 100%."
- He blind.
- 80% now.
It was a little better when we first met.
- So he didn't know what you look like when he DM'd you.
How did he DM you?
- At a time when I was OK, it was enough.
He can see the screen.
He could see words.
And he could still make out certain things.
- So what did you think about that?
- He's a big charmer.
And when I first met him, he always had compliments.
He would always be all over me,
like, smother me with that affection.
- How many other dates did you have before you guys
became a relationship?
- We had like one more date.
We actually went to the movies.
He was like, "I can listen to it.
I can visualize it through sound."
- After the movie, you went home with him?
- Yeah, he actually told me,
"Let me give you a good massage."
- OK. - I was ready for that massage.
- Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.
- So he's good with his hands. [laughs]
- OK.
- So he's a sweetheart.
At least in the beginning he was sweet.
And he was supportive.
He was loving.
He was caring.
He was very affectionate.
Even if he couldn't see, he'll open doors for you.
If you're cold, he'll take off his jacket for you.
He's a sweet person.
- He's very chivalrous.
- He is.
- He would do the manly thing for his woman.
- Yeah.
- OK, and sometimes we need that.
- Yeah.
- So how long have you guys been together now?
It's coming close to three years.
- Nice.
- Do you see a future with Kwame?
- Lately how things have been going,
I'm hoping that it could change.
- Do you live together? - No, but--
- So why would-- - --I'm always there.
- OK.
- I cook, clean.
I'm at his doctor's appointments.
- So you drive him everywhere he needs to go?
- Yes, normally.
But lately he's had a sister ride, I guess,
where they pick him up, because things haven't
been the greatest between us.
- So if he didn't have you in his life--
- I don't know what he would do.
- So I understand all what you've been doing for him.
What are you getting out of the relationship?
- In the beginning, he was loving.
He was caring.
Now it's just like, you barely touch me.
You barely communicate with me.
- There was some aspect of codependency
in your dynamic with him.
You had a desire to be loved and touched.
Now that you're not getting that, what I'm hearing
you say is, "Ugh, it's a lot."
- Yeah.
- "Now I got to cook, clean and all this [bleep].
It's a lot."
But it wasn't a lot when he was all up on you.
But now that that's not happening,
everything that you did to create this environment
is now a problem.
- Yeah.
He's angry and snapping and real disrespectful.
And recently, he started drinking a lot more.
- How does your family feel about Kwame?
- I guess they're like, "What's going on?"
He called.
My mom was sitting across from me.
He's like, "Why the eff didn't you come over here today?
"I was supposed to go to such and such.
You know my schedule."
I was like, "No, that's supposed to be tomorrow.
Today is Wednesday."
He's like, "It came up in my phone.
"I was supposed to go.
I don't know why you're over there tripping,"
like, calling me dumb and you just
cussing at me and all that.
The phone-- I'm trying to lower the volume at this point.
And I was like, "I'ma to call you back."
Quickly hang up.
And my mom was like, "For all the [bleep] you do for him,
"you let him talk to you like that?
It's weird."
I just feel disrespected.
- If that's the behavior that's happening,
then you are being disrespected.
A man is going to determine when it's right for him
to be committed, when it's right for him.
Only he knows that.
And nothing that you can do will change
that, just like for you.
You know when something is right for you.
- Yeah. We're arguing daily.
He's changed his password in his phone.
- OK. - And then recently,
I found a woman's pair of shoes in his room.
- And what did he say to that?
- He was like, "Oh, this is props.
Now it's like"--
- It's props?
- Even though he was blind, he had big dreams
of being like a photographer.
- That's really believing in yourself.
I commend him.
I really and truly do.
- He has a podcast out there on social media
interviewing strippers.
- Because he's interviewing strippers,
I would imagine that it has to be very sexual
in nature, in undertone.
Do you think he could be using these different outlets
to meet women?
- I think so.
And he's blocked me from everything.
If I look on my phone, I cannot find anything.
- That's a lot, Ciara.
- Mm-hmm.
- That's a whole lot.
- That's why I'm here.
I just don't understand it anymore.
And I'm getting fed up.
- But if you were to find out that he was cheating,
would you leave?
- This is too much.
And at this point, I'm done if it is what it is.
I'm done.
- And you felt you needed to come
to me to get proof after everything
that you sat here and told me.
- Yes.
I'm hoping that I could get that affection back.
Maybe we can get some counseling
and do something different and do it the right way.
- OK. - I mean, I love him.
I hope that he's good.
And that maybe if he's doing the right thing,
we could be married.
- OK.
If you give me permission to share your story
with my investigation team, then I
will help you with this case.
- I give you permission.
Hopefully I don't find anything.
Whether I do or I don't, I'm going to call
you back in and discuss.
- Thank you. - OK.
- I appreciate it. - Thank you for coming in.
- Thank you.
[upbeat funky music]
- ♪ I've got this rhythm in my bones ♪
♪ This beat in my head ♪
- Day one of my surveillance.
Subject name is Kwame.
- ♪ So take it over and bring what you got ♪
- Here I can see the apartment.
- ♪ To the floor ♪
- We'll sit here and wait.
It's the waiting game again.
[dramatic music]
♪ ♪
Hold on.
What?
There he go right there.
OK, I'm not going to pull out just yet.
I still want that buffer in between us just a little bit.
Since we're downtown, I need to stay on your bumper,
because you can easily lose somebody downtown.
She look--looks like she's going to park right here.
All right, let me go ahead and get it set up.
This chick right here, she's not an Uber driver.
She extended her arm for him to grab,
engaged in conversation.
[tense music]
But they just look a little too friendly.
I just don't know yet.
Come on.
Move, peoples.
He's got to be waiting.
She's leaving him.
We're going to go ahead and take this lady off the radar
page who drove him today.
She's not with him in that type of capacity
outside of a professional one.
He's way too far from me.
I can't hear what he's saying or what he's doing.
All right, let me get out of here.
- It made no sense for me to stay close to him.
I don't want to be that personal with him.
Right now he in a flirtatious mode.
I believe it's going to keep going.
Hold on.
Whoa.
Hold on.
Come on.
OK.
Damn, truck in the way, [bleep].
He got a beer in his hand.
I'm sure it's 5:00 somewhere.
I don't think she's just some model.
I think this is somebody that he know.
He a little too trustworthy.
She all in his backpack.
She a little too friendly. No, the way she--
Oh, she likes the pictures.
Oh, that's a friendly hug.
Oh, you're trying to get in there, boy.
You're trying to put your tongue down her throat.
♪ ♪
They done walked down the train station.
It's too many trains down there.
I don't know which one they got on.
We lost them.
[funky electronic music]
♪ ♪
- All right, I've been sitting out here all night.
He's been MIA inside his own crib.
It's getting late.
But we're going to stick around for a little bit while longer.
There he go.
A vehicle just pulled up.
That's the same female that I've seen.
I got to stick to him.
But night mobile surveillance is hard.
[tense music]
♪ ♪
I've been following Kwame for quite some time now.
Looks like he's pulling into a shopping plaza.
OK, let me find me a quick parking spot.
I still got visual of them.
♪ ♪
As far as I know, Kwame's by himself
right now besides his driver.
♪ ♪
All right, they standing in front of a hookah lounge
and a karaoke bar.
She just going to leave him?
That's cutie from the photo shoot.
Mm-mm. They all lovey-dovey.
I'm gonna running here.
I'ma use these glasses.
And these are the glasses that have the camera
and the audio in them.
I can get all kind of video from everybody and anybody
and what they're doing and see what kind of party's
about to happen.
[indistinct chatter]
[upbeat dance music]
All right, I got a lot of action inside of that.
It looked like the bar, people leaving.
They might be getting ready to close.
I don't know.
So I decided to come get back in the vehicle,
wait for them to come out, see what they're going to do.
Tonight might be that lucky night.
We got a good lead.
Now that we know that this young lady's name is Kadia,
I'm going to stay on him.
[tense music]
♪ ♪
A car just pulled up, put his flashers on.
♪ ♪
He's headed home alone.
Man, I'm going to go ahead and call it a night.
[funky music]
♪ ♪
All right, just got back to Kwame's apartment.
Gonna set up and see what he's going to do.
Right now sit and wait as usual.
It's going to be a long day.
♪ ♪
Oh, man.
♪ ♪
Oh, snap, there he go.
OK, I guess I'm going to call her an assistant.
She's been helping him around a lot.
They getting in the car.
Well, all right, let's see where you're going, Mr. Kwame.
♪ ♪
Wait a minute.
All right, they just pulled into this apartment community.
♪ ♪
It's a gated community.
I won't be able to get in to see if he gets dropped off
or if he's going to go inside.
♪ ♪
Hold on. Hold on.
What is this?
♪ ♪
Oh, snap.
That's that chick from yesterday.
♪ ♪
Let's see where they're going to go.
♪ ♪
Over here in the warehouse district.
I don't know what's going on back here.
This could be a location for a photo shoot, don't know.
Really don't know what he's doing
or what this place is right now.
I'm going to get some video.
♪ ♪
They walking arm-in-arm.
She's smiling.
She got him in.
All right, they inside.
Let me look at this address.
Oh, snap, it's a sex store.
They sell sex toys and furniture.
Man, they're about to get freaky.
All right, go back to these handy-dandy
covert glasses, rocking, ready to go.
♪ ♪
- ♪ All that late-night talking, girl.
♪ You say that was nothing ♪
♪ Every day you're something else ♪
♪ You say it's not working ♪
♪ I wish you'd tell the truth ♪
- Hey there, Ciara.
- Hello.
- How are you today?
- Good.
- You look beautiful.
- Thank you.
- This is Ken Canion. - How are you?
- Hi. - Good to meet you.
- Nice to meet you.
- Have a seat on this side, sweetie.
♪ ♪
We were able to get some surveillance footage.
And I'd like for us to look at it together.
That's the reason Ken is here, because he's
a relationship expert.
- How are you?
- I'm good.
- How are you feeling?
- At this point I need to know.
I need answers.
- OK, OK, so I'm simply here to support you
and to analyze what we see and what you see
and to help you process your emotions
along with what's on the screen.
- OK, so then let's dig right in.
- OK.
♪ ♪
- On our first day of surveillance,
we see that Kwame is being picked up.
We followed him.
And he gets dropped off.
- A sister ride.
- And then he's standing as if he's waiting for someone.
- Maybe it's his job.
Maybe it's his job, OK.
- To just find people unsolicited,
walk up and go, "Hey, let me take pictures of your ass??
This young lady showed up after that young lady,
who he did not know.
But it seems he does know this young lady.
And he starts taking pictures.
- Who dresses like that?
Ass out in the public.
- Doesn't look that professional to me.
He's got a beer in one hand.
And he's very physical with her.
- Then they go downstairs to catch the train.
So this is the next evening.
We pick him up, follow him to this strip mall-type location.
So then this same young lady from the day before--
- Oh, hell.
- --comes to actually meet up with him.
So we follow them inside.
And we see that they have a room reserved.
- ♪ You always try to play me like I ♪
- [singing indistinctly]
[indistinct chatter]
- He don't do karaoke with me.
- OK.
- He's kissing on her too?
- Yeah.
- OK.
- We found out that by way of his karaoke
that her name was Kadia.
- Who is she?
- You want to see the next one?
- Let's see it.
I feel stupid as hell.
- So we followed them to an unknown location.
We didn't know what this was.
And so we decide to actually go in only to find out--
- Wait, that's-- - --it's a sex shop.
- Is he--
- Oh.
- Yeah, where do you see this going?
- Oh, he wanna be with her.
She take care of you, [bleep].
- So they ended up at his apartment.
We follow him.
And she stayed there all night.
- There's a term called hypersexuality
when a person has excessive or preoccupied with fantasies,
promiscuous type of behaviors and maybe
wanting you to do them, because that's
just what I notice here.
That was a part of their interaction.
- We didn't do none of that [bleep].
But, I mean, he was sexual.
- OK, OK.
- I think we need to have a conversation about everything
that you just saw.
- Tami, I've been doing too much for this [bleep],
too much.
I gave 2 and 1/2 of my years, too much.
- I know you're hurt. I know you're hurt.
You said, "I've been taking care of him."
So he depends on you in the relationship.
- Depends on me for everything.
- Does that give you joy to do that?
- I mean, it did.
But what am I doing that for?
Look at that.
- Yeah, you all have formed this codependent relationship,
where he gets what he wants, you get what you want.
And so you gave your heart.
And feeling like all of that investment means nothing,
it hurts me.
- There is the potential of you sitting
down and speaking with her. - Mm-mm.
Who is this bitch?
Because I want her to know who I am.
She must not know about me.
- She probably does not know about you.
- I don't want to know her.
I want to know, why is he with this girl?
I'm going to confront this [bleep], mm-hmm.
- If that's what you'd like to do, we call that a takedown.
- OK.
- You want him to explain why he
chose this course of action.
- ♪ Every day I wake and everything is broken ♪
- I'm going to call my investigation team.
And I'll call you as soon as they let me know that they've
got them together.
- OK.
- Make sure you don't let on.
Keep everything normal.
Keep your head on.
- ♪ Can't just breathe, baby, breathe ♪
[tense music]
♪ ♪
- Why thank you.
- You're welcome.
- ♪ Tell the gang ♪
♪ Riding around blowing so much dope ♪
♪ But I'm always handling business ♪
♪ Wait until I pick up my phone ♪
♪ If do, I'm like, who is this? ♪
- The investigation team contacted me.
And Kwame does a podcast.
Him and Kadia have been at the studio.
So now we're going to go pick up Ciara
so that she can have this conversation.
She feels betrayed.
She feels minimized in the relationship
that she thought she had. - Right.
And I can imagine that just the shock of it all
considering here is the man I've been taking care of--
- Yes.
- --emotionally, physically, mentally, everything.
I've given my all to him.
I'm glad we're able to help. - Yeah.
- Hello.
Can I help you up?
- How are you, love?
- Good.
- My investigation team has booked a space inside
of the same location where he does his podcast
so that they'd be able to put up hidden cameras
throughout the entire space.
Today Kadia showed up.
And so that's why I was like, OK, let me call Ciara.
Let's go pick her up.
And let's head over there.
- OK. - OK?
- Mm-hmm.
- How are you feeling?
- I'm still angry.
I'm still very, very angry.
I want some answers.
I want to get to the bottom of this.
- Well, the one thing I'm going to say is,
when people get caught, what they will do is try to turn it
and make it about you, make it about something you didn't do.
So I don't want you to internalize
that as an indictment on you.
His behavior is his behavior.
He has to take responsibility for that.
- And he will.
- So what I just want to remind you of is,
no matter how angry you are,
if you go in from a combative standpoint,
which I know it's not easy to control--
but he's going to be defensive.
And he's not going to answer anything.
Just remember that.
You are here because you want the truth about everything.
♪ ♪
OK, we are here.
I want to make sure that you definitely want to see
what's going on in there.
- I want to see what's going on, definitely.
- OK.
- He's interviewing strippers.
- So this clearly is a sexually oriented podcast.
- That's all he's talking about.
- Two years?
- Five years?
- True love? - It's like all Disney--
- You ready to go have a conversation?
- I can't go to a-- - Yes.
- mother[bleep].
♪ ♪
- He said he don't even know her.
- Oh, [bleep].
- Ho, ho, ho, ho.
My name, Kwame, is Tami Roman.
- Yo, take it up front, Tami.
Take it up front.
- Move.
Get off of me.
Let go.
Why are you not listening?
- Listen to me.
Listen to me.
I have a show called "Caught in the Act: Unfaithful."
And that show follows cheaters and catches them in the act.
So Ciara came to see me because she
wanted to find out what was going on in your relationship
with her.
OK, you calm?
You all right?
- Well, you're breathing a little heavy.
And I want you--
- I just want you to calm down.
- No, [bleep] him.
- We got to let Kwame calm down.
We got to let him calm down.
While he's taking a breather, let me talk to you, sweetie.
What's your name? - Kadia.
- Kadia. OK.
- So I want you to understand what's going on.
So Ciara has been in a relationship with Kwame
for almost going on three years.
- That's so dumb, bro.
I've been with him for five years.
- How, when I'm at work?
- What do you mean?
Why are you talking to me? Why are you talking to me.
- I'm not [bleep] doing this with you, [bleep].
- Ladies, ladies-- - Let's go, [bleep].
- --wait a minute.
- Let's go, B. Let's go.
- You gotta stop this [bleep].
It's obvious that each one of you are being used.
- I don't care.
- Well, why are you ladies fighting
each other when you both have been of taken advantage?
- I was not trying to fight her.
This entire time, I was going after him.
I don't want to fight her.
But if you're going to sit here and disrespect me,
yeah, I'm going to hold my own.
- You guys are meeting for the first time.
So her conversation over here was just
like how is this happening?
So you guys are both doing the same thing then.
- Yes.
- What's the extent of what you do for Kwame?
- I help him with booking.
There's nothing that I don't do-- that's why I'm like--
I'm confused how she's over here.
How did you have time for all this
if I'm here all the time with you?
- Well, Ciara is the person that cooks,
cleans his apartment, does all of that stuff for him.
They met online.
And they've been inseparable ever since.
- That's crazy.
That is crazy. That's crazy.
- You know what? Where is this [bleep] at?
- I'm pissed.
I broke my nails. - I see.
I see. I see.
- I look ratchet.
- Where's he at?
- [indistinct].
- So this is what you're going to do?
This is what you're doing, Kwame?
This is what you're doing? - We good. He good.
- This is what you're doing?
- Security's got--
- She's booking stuff for you, booking sessions.
- You are cheating.
Look what you're [bleep] doing.
♪ ♪
- Can we have a conversation?
I made sure all--
Yes, I made sure all the ladies inside--
I came from inside, outside to talk to you
about what you're putting these ladies through.
Come on, let's talk.
Let me get you some water first.
- All right, ladies.
- I had a dream about this.
- So your intuition told you he was--
- He's a liar. And he's a cheater.
- That he's a liar, and he's a cheater.
- That's so good.
- But both of you all chose to stay.
- But I'm thinking eventually-- - Five years.
- --I'm going to get the ring. I'm going to be married to you.
I'm going to have my kids-- Five years.
- --with you. - Oh, my god.
- You feel me?
I want to have kids.
I want to get married.
As a woman, when you love a [bleep],
you see the red flags.
But you just really want it to work.
And I really wanted it to work. - And you want to believe it.
- And that's fair.
- And you want to believe that it's--
- You do. - --true, exactly.
- And you both fell in love with him.
What was it about him that made you say, I'm loving this guy?
- When I first met him, he gave me
the affection that I wanted.
I wasn't getting affection before.
- He gave me gifts, acts of service.
He went above and beyond.
And now look, it's just like, wow,
you're really going to just sit there.
I'm giving you my all.
I'm helping you out.
- I don't know about you.
But he played me.
- Ciara, she said she's the person
who's been taking you to appointments,
doing your laundry.
- So who's Kadia?
- That's all fine.
If you felt like you weren't getting what you needed,
why didn't you break it off with Ciara
and then go on with Kadia?
- I don't think you should get riled.
- I'm spending my prime years thinking like, OK, eventually
I'm going to get the ring. - Five years?
- I want to have kids.
I want to get married.
I don't want to be on [bleep] TV cameras over here.
This is embarrassing, for real. Like--
- Can y'all give me your word that when he comes in,
you will allow Tami to facilitate a conversation
so that we can get some of this [bleep] out.
- I'll think about it.
- But, yeah, I'm so--
- You're good.
You stay here.
All right.
- Five years.
- But you gotta listen too. - [bleep].
- But you gotta listen too.
Ciara says she does those things as well.
- I am hearing you.
- OK, Kwame, you need to watch your language
and how you're talking to me.
- You're doing too much out here.
- A water's on the way.
- [hacks]
- Whose face?
What the hell are you doing?
[bleep] that.
I am not dealing with this [bleep].
[dramatic music]
- Hey, ladies.
So they were able to get Kwame to calm down.
And I had a brief conversation with him.
- Let me ask you something. - What?
- I'm a disabled, dude. - Right.
- It's very hard for me to even find
a girlfriend to even find somebody
to fall in love with it.
I can't travel by myself.
I can't do the podcast by myself.
And I don't want to have no SSI and work under disability.
So I got to do what I need to do--
you know what I'm saying-- so I could be my own boss.
- Right.
- He felt like you, Ciara,
weren't giving him the attention
and the things that he needed.
And when he wasn't getting it from you,
he went back to Kadia.
I said, "Why didn't you tell Ciara that it wasn't working
"and go on about your business
in getting with Kadia?"
That way you're not cheating on either lady."
He wanted to check with you and make sure
that you were still going to be there.
That way, he wouldn't lose you both, OK?
- Is he serious?
- Yes.
So that's the person that you ladies have been dealing with.
- Not no more, 'cause [bleep], he's gone.
- Not no more. He's gone.
He's done.
- So I wanted to say to you, Ciara--
you wanted to find out the truth about your relationship.
And I feel like although it turned into all this hoopla,
I gave you the truth.
We found out about Kadia.
You guys have now been able to have a conversation, so--
- Why he so hype?
- I don't know.
But the way he deals with women, I don't think he's
really going to be able to have a conversation with me.
- You're leaving? - I'm leaving.
- Why are you leaving me?
- Because I think the way he deals with women--
- Oh, he's very disrespectful as we--
- Yes. - --saw in that video.
- Yes, yes.
It was a lot.
- Thank you.
Thank you.
- Thank you for coming in.
And I'm sorry that it turned out this way, Kadia.
- Thank you. - But I--
- I appreciate you.
- --wish the both of you ladies the best of luck.
- I appreciate you. - Thank you.
- And I am happy to hear that you both are like, deuces.
- Yeah, girl, I'm not one of them.
- I'm in my prime. What you talking about?
- I love that. - Me too.
- OK, ladies, y'all have a good night.
- You too. God bless you.
- But here's the thing, you cannot treat
women the way that you do.
- When Tami decided to leave, I understood,
because he was real disrespectful.
- I hate that this happened like this.
For her to walk away like that-- she's a professional.
She never does anything like that.
You always have to create boundaries for you
and standards for who you are.
Kwame was a disrespectful man.
He doesn't respect women.
And Tami set her boundary.
- This was a mess.
And he's a mess.
- I'm flabbergasted for real.
Let's keep it a stack, because how are you going to sit here
and finesse the both of us?
- At the end of the day, I'm done.
- Ciara, I'm sorry, man.
I love you.
But I can't take that how you yelling at me
and how you treating me.
Man, I got caught up with my emotions and my feelings, man.
I got two girls I was in love with.
I feel like an [bleep], man.
[funky music]
- ♪ Uh, don't you give that, so serious, like I ♪
♪ ♪
- Hi, Ciara.
- Hi, Tami.
- You know what?
I first want to apologize.
I didn't want you to feel like I was abandoning you.
But when you said that Kwame was disrespectful,
I had no idea.
And for me, I've just come to a point in my life
where it's about self-care and self-love,
and part of that process for me
is establishing boundaries.
And when I felt like he was just not honoring those,
I had to remove myself from that situation.
That was the first time this has
ever been done in the history of this process.
So I apologize.
- That's OK.
And I understand, because he, like I said,
is very, very disrespectful.
He's too much.
- Yeah, too much is an understatement.
But--so I have to ask you, are you guys still together?
- No, absolutely not, absolutely not.
I am so much better in a better space.
- Does that smile mean that there's somebody else?
- Yes, ma'am. - Ooh.
I know that smile from a mile away.
- Now I am seeing a female--
- OK, OK.
Well, [bleep], if you like it, I love it, you know?
- This is the first time I'm seeing
somebody that really wants me genuinely just for me.
- Mm-mm.
Got you a new boo.
OK, Ciara, it seems like everything
turned out all right.
- Yes.
Thank you for helping me.
I appreciate you very, very much.
- Whoop-whoop.
I love when it all works out.
[laughs]
Well, best of luck to you and your boo.
- Thank you.
- All right, Ciara.
Good talking to you. - You too.
Have a great day.
- You too, bye.
- Bye.
- Cheaters, beware.
- You [bleep]ing kissed her, you idiot.
- Next time you want to be unfaithful, think again.
- Let me tell you one mother[bleep] thing.
- Oh, lord, Oh, lord. Oh, lord.
- Because I just might--
Oh, God, she's running.
Catch you in the act.