1 00:00:00,767 --> 00:00:03,770 - ♪ MTV ♪ 2 00:00:03,770 --> 00:00:05,271 - I'm Tami Roman. 3 00:00:05,271 --> 00:00:07,240 I have been cheated on before. 4 00:00:07,240 --> 00:00:09,909 You [bleep] my man when I was married to him. 5 00:00:09,909 --> 00:00:11,778 I even wrote a book about it. 6 00:00:11,778 --> 00:00:14,647 And I've made it my mission to help 7 00:00:14,647 --> 00:00:17,484 suspicious lovers catch their cheating partners in the act. 8 00:00:17,484 --> 00:00:18,818 Hold up. 9 00:00:18,818 --> 00:00:20,086 - Man, you brought this to my place of business? 10 00:00:20,086 --> 00:00:21,187 How dare you. What is this? 11 00:00:21,187 --> 00:00:22,789 - What the [bleep]... - Ooh! 12 00:00:22,789 --> 00:00:25,525 Together with my relationship coaches-- 13 00:00:25,525 --> 00:00:26,860 - You've gotta tell her about the insecurities 14 00:00:26,860 --> 00:00:28,094 that you have. 15 00:00:28,094 --> 00:00:29,796 That's how y'all work through it. 16 00:00:29,796 --> 00:00:31,431 - This is a situation where you have to say I'm gonna 17 00:00:31,431 --> 00:00:32,832 step up and do what's right. 18 00:00:32,832 --> 00:00:35,301 - --and stealthy investigation team-- 19 00:00:35,301 --> 00:00:36,770 - They think they slick. 20 00:00:36,770 --> 00:00:38,204 Well, we slicker. 21 00:00:38,204 --> 00:00:41,141 - --we won't stop until we find the truth. 22 00:00:41,141 --> 00:00:43,743 Cheaters, beware. 23 00:00:43,743 --> 00:00:46,112 - I'm [bleep] torn. I love them both. 24 00:00:46,112 --> 00:00:49,582 - You gotta fundamentally say I'm gonna be different. 25 00:00:49,582 --> 00:00:51,017 - Who the [bleep] do you think you are? 26 00:00:51,017 --> 00:00:52,285 - Why the [bleep] do y'all got cameras in my crib? 27 00:00:52,285 --> 00:00:53,787 What the [bleep] is wrong with you? 28 00:00:53,787 --> 00:00:56,623 - Damn it! Damn it! 29 00:00:56,623 --> 00:00:58,758 - Nobody should think they're better than anybody else, 30 00:00:58,758 --> 00:01:01,361 because y'all all [bleep] been played. 31 00:01:01,361 --> 00:01:03,329 And that's just the truth. 32 00:01:03,329 --> 00:01:07,167 This is "Caught in the Act Unfaithful." 33 00:01:09,411 --> 00:01:10,879 - ♪ Everybody preach ♪ 34 00:01:10,879 --> 00:01:12,481 ♪ Yeah, yeah ♪ 35 00:01:12,481 --> 00:01:14,349 ♪ Whole world, shake it up with some good energy ♪ 36 00:01:14,349 --> 00:01:15,884 ♪ Shake it up ♪ 37 00:01:15,884 --> 00:01:16,918 ♪ Shake it up, yeah ♪ 38 00:01:16,918 --> 00:01:17,886 - Hello there, Redd. - Hey. 39 00:01:17,886 --> 00:01:18,854 - How are you? - Good. 40 00:01:18,854 --> 00:01:19,888 How you doing? 41 00:01:19,888 --> 00:01:21,123 - I'm oh--oop, wait. 42 00:01:21,123 --> 00:01:22,124 - What? 43 00:01:22,124 --> 00:01:23,158 - I know you. 44 00:01:23,158 --> 00:01:24,426 - I don't know, maybe. 45 00:01:24,426 --> 00:01:26,428 - No, I know your face. 46 00:01:26,428 --> 00:01:28,397 - Where you know me from? 47 00:01:28,397 --> 00:01:29,631 - Have you been on TV? 48 00:01:29,631 --> 00:01:31,133 - Mm-hmm, I have. 49 00:01:31,133 --> 00:01:32,367 - Got it. - Yeah. 50 00:01:32,367 --> 00:01:33,702 - OK, got it, got it, got it, got it, 51 00:01:33,702 --> 00:01:35,037 got it, got it, got it. 52 00:01:35,037 --> 00:01:38,040 So this is going to be interesting-- 53 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:39,474 - Very. 54 00:01:39,474 --> 00:01:41,977 - --because I feel like I'm familiar with you, 55 00:01:41,977 --> 00:01:44,346 but I'm sure there's some stuff that you're gonna 56 00:01:44,346 --> 00:01:45,781 tell me that I don't know. 57 00:01:45,781 --> 00:01:47,549 - Yeah. 58 00:01:47,549 --> 00:01:50,519 - So tell me about Redd and where Redd comes from. 59 00:01:50,519 --> 00:01:52,187 - My childhood was just rough. 60 00:01:52,187 --> 00:01:54,189 And I overcame that. 61 00:01:54,189 --> 00:01:55,991 - You had both parents in the household? 62 00:01:55,991 --> 00:01:58,493 - Yeah, up until I was 10. 63 00:01:58,493 --> 00:02:00,662 - OK, and how was that, with both parents? 64 00:02:00,662 --> 00:02:01,830 - It was fun. 65 00:02:01,830 --> 00:02:02,864 It was bad. 66 00:02:02,864 --> 00:02:04,833 It was fun, you know? 67 00:02:04,833 --> 00:02:09,604 - And then, at 10, your mom and dad said, this ain't working? 68 00:02:09,604 --> 00:02:11,873 - Yeah, yeah, but that's why you got the streets, though. 69 00:02:11,873 --> 00:02:13,542 You got [bleep] on the streets though and [bleep] together... 70 00:02:13,542 --> 00:02:15,277 - You feel like you learned from the streets? 71 00:02:15,277 --> 00:02:16,478 - Yeah, you gonna most definitely 72 00:02:16,478 --> 00:02:17,879 learn from the streets. 73 00:02:17,879 --> 00:02:19,815 - What you feel the streets taught you? 74 00:02:19,815 --> 00:02:22,517 - How to fight, how to stay in trouble, how to go to jail. 75 00:02:22,517 --> 00:02:24,286 I went to jail a lot of times. 76 00:02:24,286 --> 00:02:26,855 My first time going to jail was right before 77 00:02:26,855 --> 00:02:28,557 I graduated high school. 78 00:02:28,557 --> 00:02:31,426 The second time was in college, and that's 79 00:02:31,426 --> 00:02:33,095 'cause I was getting money. 80 00:02:33,095 --> 00:02:37,632 And the third time was because I was getting more money. 81 00:02:37,632 --> 00:02:41,670 And then, the fourth time was violation of probation. 82 00:02:41,670 --> 00:02:43,705 - Of getting the money's times? 83 00:02:43,705 --> 00:02:45,207 - Yeah, mm-hmm. 84 00:02:45,207 --> 00:02:47,576 And then, yeah, that's where I met Lil Bit at, in jail. 85 00:02:47,576 --> 00:02:48,944 - She walked in and you were like, "Ahhh!" 86 00:02:48,944 --> 00:02:50,679 - I just was like, "Ahh." 87 00:02:50,679 --> 00:02:52,814 Yeah, when I seen her, like, I really, like, brightened up. 88 00:02:52,814 --> 00:02:55,751 Like, I really like, damn, is she the one? 89 00:02:55,751 --> 00:02:58,286 Is this what the [bleep] love at first sight feel like? 90 00:02:58,286 --> 00:02:59,855 Like-- - Mm. 91 00:02:59,855 --> 00:03:01,990 She walks in, you're like, I want her. 92 00:03:01,990 --> 00:03:03,458 - Yeah. 93 00:03:03,458 --> 00:03:05,127 - How do you--how do you make that happen? 94 00:03:05,127 --> 00:03:07,929 - I just wrote a note and just was like, I like you. 95 00:03:07,929 --> 00:03:10,332 Just talked to each other every day from there. 96 00:03:10,332 --> 00:03:11,867 I ain't never felt like this about nobody 97 00:03:11,867 --> 00:03:12,834 I ever was involved with. 98 00:03:12,834 --> 00:03:13,869 - OK. 99 00:03:13,869 --> 00:03:15,036 - I was like, damn. 100 00:03:15,036 --> 00:03:16,505 Like, she got potential. 101 00:03:16,505 --> 00:03:17,873 - What was it about her that made her different? 102 00:03:17,873 --> 00:03:18,940 - She was little. 103 00:03:18,940 --> 00:03:20,742 I just like little people. 104 00:03:20,742 --> 00:03:22,844 That's, like, a turn-on, like, just little people in general. 105 00:03:22,844 --> 00:03:25,180 Like, you know how you got some people, they be like, yeah, 106 00:03:25,180 --> 00:03:28,750 I like hips, I like breasts. 107 00:03:28,750 --> 00:03:31,720 I like little people because they so little. 108 00:03:31,720 --> 00:03:33,221 - [laughs] 109 00:03:33,221 --> 00:03:34,990 - So yeah, she fine, right? 110 00:03:34,990 --> 00:03:36,558 - OK. 111 00:03:36,558 --> 00:03:38,260 - And, you know, it was just one of those I knew. 112 00:03:38,260 --> 00:03:40,295 So I was like, you about to get out in a couple of days. 113 00:03:40,295 --> 00:03:41,963 I'm getting out the same day but just 114 00:03:41,963 --> 00:03:46,701 later on in the day because she came in January 2014. 115 00:03:46,701 --> 00:03:48,870 We got out the end of January-- 116 00:03:48,870 --> 00:03:51,506 January 27, 2014. 117 00:03:51,506 --> 00:03:54,176 She went home for a couple of months. 118 00:03:54,176 --> 00:03:56,545 She came back with me April. 119 00:03:56,545 --> 00:03:58,413 - And she moved in? - Yep. 120 00:03:58,413 --> 00:04:00,015 - And y'all been together ever since? 121 00:04:00,015 --> 00:04:01,183 - Ever since. 122 00:04:01,183 --> 00:04:03,318 Nine years, we've been together. 123 00:04:03,318 --> 00:04:06,521 And I proposed to her, I think, year seven. 124 00:04:06,521 --> 00:04:08,924 Because of that girl, I'm trying to change. 125 00:04:08,924 --> 00:04:10,525 - What are you trying to change and why 126 00:04:10,525 --> 00:04:11,726 are you trying to change it? 127 00:04:11,726 --> 00:04:15,230 - Like, my attitude, my ways. 128 00:04:15,230 --> 00:04:16,398 - Your attitude and your ways? 129 00:04:16,398 --> 00:04:19,467 - Yeah, it could come off very nasty. 130 00:04:19,467 --> 00:04:22,270 - Do you think she loves you because you're you, 131 00:04:22,270 --> 00:04:24,773 or is it because you're on TV? 132 00:04:24,773 --> 00:04:28,543 - Nah, she just love me for me, because, I mean, it's me. 133 00:04:28,543 --> 00:04:29,911 I ain't have no money from the show. 134 00:04:29,911 --> 00:04:31,546 You get what I'm saying? 135 00:04:31,546 --> 00:04:32,814 Like, I thought that show was gonna change my life. 136 00:04:32,814 --> 00:04:34,316 It didn't change nothing for me. 137 00:04:34,316 --> 00:04:35,784 It just got me a lot of followers. 138 00:04:35,784 --> 00:04:36,885 Money, none. 139 00:04:36,885 --> 00:04:38,486 - Got you. 140 00:04:38,486 --> 00:04:40,388 - So it ain't like she was with me for any money. 141 00:04:40,388 --> 00:04:41,857 It got real rough. 142 00:04:41,857 --> 00:04:43,024 Like, it was to the point, like, where 143 00:04:43,024 --> 00:04:43,925 Lil Bit was working two jobs-- 144 00:04:43,925 --> 00:04:44,993 - Mm. 145 00:04:44,993 --> 00:04:46,061 - --taking care of me. 146 00:04:46,061 --> 00:04:47,462 - OK. 147 00:04:47,462 --> 00:04:48,830 - And yeah, like, we been doing YouTube 148 00:04:48,830 --> 00:04:50,866 for the past four years. 149 00:04:50,866 --> 00:04:52,667 And it just really went everywhere. 150 00:04:52,667 --> 00:04:54,870 Like, we just started getting hella followers. 151 00:04:54,870 --> 00:04:58,406 We are back with another banger video, guys. 152 00:04:58,406 --> 00:05:00,242 You already know. Fire! 153 00:05:00,242 --> 00:05:01,276 Flames! 154 00:05:01,276 --> 00:05:03,211 Explosion! 155 00:05:03,211 --> 00:05:04,446 - Make sure you-- 156 00:05:04,446 --> 00:05:05,680 - Like-- - The-- 157 00:05:05,680 --> 00:05:06,915 - Blog. 158 00:05:06,915 --> 00:05:09,451 - And leave those comments down below. 159 00:05:09,451 --> 00:05:11,019 - So when are you guys getting married? 160 00:05:11,019 --> 00:05:12,988 It's been nine years. 161 00:05:12,988 --> 00:05:14,089 - Supposedly next year. 162 00:05:14,089 --> 00:05:15,790 [mumbles] 163 00:05:15,790 --> 00:05:17,125 - And you really want to do it? 164 00:05:17,125 --> 00:05:18,126 - Absolutely. 165 00:05:18,126 --> 00:05:19,227 - OK. 166 00:05:19,227 --> 00:05:21,429 So why are you here? 167 00:05:21,429 --> 00:05:22,731 - She starting to do [bleep] 168 00:05:22,731 --> 00:05:23,932 she ain't never used to do before. 169 00:05:23,932 --> 00:05:25,300 - Like what? 170 00:05:25,300 --> 00:05:28,403 - She get phone calls that she step out of the room 171 00:05:28,403 --> 00:05:31,940 and have when she on the phone with this certain individual. 172 00:05:31,940 --> 00:05:35,844 - So you have someone that you think she is cheating with? 173 00:05:35,844 --> 00:05:36,978 - Yes. 174 00:05:36,978 --> 00:05:38,079 - Who's that? 175 00:05:38,079 --> 00:05:39,381 - Oh, her name is Yannie. 176 00:05:39,381 --> 00:05:40,649 - Yannie? - Mm-hmm. 177 00:05:40,649 --> 00:05:42,017 - Is that a friend of you guys? 178 00:05:42,017 --> 00:05:43,385 - Yeah. 179 00:05:43,385 --> 00:05:45,720 This is year two of us knowing each other. 180 00:05:45,720 --> 00:05:46,855 - OK. 181 00:05:46,855 --> 00:05:49,457 So if you found out that Lil Bit was 182 00:05:49,457 --> 00:05:51,493 having a relationship with somebody else, 183 00:05:51,493 --> 00:05:53,094 would you still marry her? 184 00:05:53,094 --> 00:05:55,330 - No. 185 00:05:55,330 --> 00:05:56,564 I don't think I could. 186 00:05:56,564 --> 00:05:59,701 - So do you really want me to find out 187 00:05:59,701 --> 00:06:03,605 for you if I'm able to? 188 00:06:03,605 --> 00:06:06,608 Because there really could be nothing going on. 189 00:06:06,608 --> 00:06:08,000 - Yes, go ahead, find out. 190 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:08,310 - Yes, go ahead, find out. 191 00:06:08,310 --> 00:06:09,444 - OK. 192 00:06:09,444 --> 00:06:10,946 - Because we wanna know, right? 193 00:06:10,946 --> 00:06:13,615 - It's--yeah. 194 00:06:13,615 --> 00:06:15,350 I think you'd be sad, though. 195 00:06:15,350 --> 00:06:16,651 I think you'd be sad. 196 00:06:16,651 --> 00:06:19,220 - Oh, I'm most definitely gonna be sad. 197 00:06:19,220 --> 00:06:20,288 I'm gonna be hurt. 198 00:06:20,288 --> 00:06:21,389 Come on, man. 199 00:06:21,389 --> 00:06:22,857 This nine years. 200 00:06:22,857 --> 00:06:26,027 - I think you have a real good way of keeping up 201 00:06:26,027 --> 00:06:27,762 enough hard exterior-- 202 00:06:27,762 --> 00:06:29,130 - Yeah. 203 00:06:29,130 --> 00:06:31,399 - --that you don't show all of your emotions. 204 00:06:31,399 --> 00:06:32,567 - I don't. 205 00:06:32,567 --> 00:06:35,136 This is exactly why I need you. 206 00:06:35,136 --> 00:06:37,072 I play about a lot of things, but I don't play 207 00:06:37,072 --> 00:06:39,140 about my happiness, OK? 208 00:06:39,140 --> 00:06:41,443 Let's just pray. 209 00:06:41,443 --> 00:06:43,878 - Yeah, that nothing's going on. 210 00:06:43,878 --> 00:06:48,850 So the way it works for me is I have my investigation teams 211 00:06:48,850 --> 00:06:53,088 go out there and start doing surveillance on Lil Bit 212 00:06:53,088 --> 00:06:55,290 to see if there's anything going on, right? 213 00:06:55,290 --> 00:06:56,491 - Right. 214 00:06:56,491 --> 00:06:57,859 - In the event they find something, 215 00:06:57,859 --> 00:06:59,694 then I'll call you back into the office, 216 00:06:59,694 --> 00:07:01,663 and we'll discuss it, all right? 217 00:07:01,663 --> 00:07:06,134 But I think what will help me is if you would give 218 00:07:06,134 --> 00:07:09,337 my investigation team permission to put 219 00:07:09,337 --> 00:07:11,373 cameras in the house so that we could 220 00:07:11,373 --> 00:07:12,907 kind of see what's going on. 221 00:07:12,907 --> 00:07:13,842 - Mm-hmm. 222 00:07:13,842 --> 00:07:15,510 Well, yeah, you can do that. 223 00:07:15,510 --> 00:07:19,114 - OK, and then in the interim, I just need you to be normal. 224 00:07:19,114 --> 00:07:23,585 Don't let her know that we've had a conversation in any way 225 00:07:23,585 --> 00:07:26,488 so that she can continue to be normal 226 00:07:26,488 --> 00:07:27,756 if there's anything going on. 227 00:07:27,756 --> 00:07:28,857 - Mm-hmm, keep doing what she doing. 228 00:07:28,857 --> 00:07:30,992 - Yeah, OK. 229 00:07:30,992 --> 00:07:32,227 So keep peacocking. 230 00:07:32,227 --> 00:07:33,395 - Oh, I am. 231 00:07:33,395 --> 00:07:35,563 - Let me get on up out of here. 232 00:07:35,563 --> 00:07:37,365 - OK, thank you for helping me. - You're welcome. 233 00:07:37,365 --> 00:07:38,733 [upbeat music] 234 00:07:38,733 --> 00:07:39,834 - ♪ And you love to say I'm crazy ♪ 235 00:07:39,834 --> 00:07:41,669 ♪ Suspicious and insecure ♪ 236 00:07:41,669 --> 00:07:48,510 ♪ But I'll show you crazy when you walk through the door ♪ 237 00:07:48,510 --> 00:07:50,078 - Day one! 238 00:07:50,078 --> 00:07:52,714 I'm sitting out in front of their house right now. 239 00:07:52,714 --> 00:07:55,050 Redd left about an hour ago. 240 00:07:55,050 --> 00:07:56,818 I'm here a couple of hours already, 241 00:07:56,818 --> 00:08:01,623 but I'm just gonna hang out and see what Lil Bit does. 242 00:08:06,628 --> 00:08:08,530 No movement yet. 243 00:08:12,033 --> 00:08:14,169 Here she comes. 244 00:08:15,603 --> 00:08:18,006 And she's off. 245 00:08:22,210 --> 00:08:24,412 Looks like she pulled over somewhere. 246 00:08:24,412 --> 00:08:26,247 Where the heck are we? 247 00:08:26,247 --> 00:08:29,217 I'm gonna pull over now so I don't get frigging pinched. 248 00:08:35,490 --> 00:08:39,461 Oh, who's that? 249 00:08:39,461 --> 00:08:41,196 All right, they went inside. 250 00:08:41,196 --> 00:08:45,733 I don't know who that person was, but I'm gonna sit here. 251 00:08:49,871 --> 00:08:52,273 I'm gonna check this address and let me see if I can get 252 00:08:52,273 --> 00:08:55,543 a name of this property. 253 00:08:55,543 --> 00:08:58,179 Oh, man, she just got out. 254 00:08:58,179 --> 00:08:59,314 I didn't see her. 255 00:08:59,314 --> 00:09:02,183 She just left the house. 256 00:09:02,183 --> 00:09:06,387 ♪ ♪ 257 00:09:06,387 --> 00:09:11,126 Damn. Damn, I lost her. 258 00:09:11,126 --> 00:09:13,361 I'm screwed. 259 00:09:13,361 --> 00:09:15,964 ♪ ♪ 260 00:09:17,582 --> 00:09:20,519 [tense music] 261 00:09:20,519 --> 00:09:24,089 ♪ ♪ 262 00:09:24,089 --> 00:09:26,525 - Lost her yesterday, but I'm back 263 00:09:26,525 --> 00:09:28,193 at her house this morning. 264 00:09:28,193 --> 00:09:30,562 Hopefully, today, she'll get out of the house 265 00:09:30,562 --> 00:09:33,665 so we could get my tech guys in there setting up cameras. 266 00:09:33,665 --> 00:09:36,435 That's my hope. 267 00:09:36,435 --> 00:09:37,903 Been here a couple of hours now. 268 00:09:37,903 --> 00:09:42,808 Still no movement, but anything could happen. 269 00:09:42,808 --> 00:09:46,378 Oh, she's just leaving the house right now. 270 00:09:46,378 --> 00:09:48,580 This is great. 271 00:09:48,580 --> 00:09:52,918 OK, she's getting in her car. 272 00:09:52,918 --> 00:09:56,988 OK, OK, here she goes. 273 00:09:56,988 --> 00:09:59,925 I'm gonna track how long it takes us to get there 274 00:09:59,925 --> 00:10:02,327 because that's gonna help because the distance there 275 00:10:02,327 --> 00:10:04,029 will be the distance back. 276 00:10:04,029 --> 00:10:06,998 That's extra time for my guys to put up the cameras. 277 00:10:06,998 --> 00:10:10,335 Oh, it looks like she's pulling up to some kind 278 00:10:10,335 --> 00:10:13,004 of gaming arcade place. 279 00:10:16,541 --> 00:10:20,745 Oh, who's that? 280 00:10:20,745 --> 00:10:23,014 OK, I need you to go into that house. 281 00:10:23,014 --> 00:10:25,917 Get in there and get out ASAP. 282 00:10:25,917 --> 00:10:27,352 So they're in there. 283 00:10:27,352 --> 00:10:30,288 So now I'm going to take my coffee cup camera. 284 00:10:30,288 --> 00:10:31,389 And it's inconspicuous. 285 00:10:31,389 --> 00:10:32,691 No one's gonna think anything. 286 00:10:32,691 --> 00:10:34,893 It's a freaking coffee cup, right? 287 00:10:34,893 --> 00:10:37,429 I got to go inside and see who this woman is. 288 00:10:37,429 --> 00:10:40,532 [suspenseful music] 289 00:10:40,532 --> 00:10:47,672 ♪ ♪ 290 00:10:57,482 --> 00:11:01,319 - Oh, wow, it was a good--good day. 291 00:11:01,319 --> 00:11:03,755 Hey, hey, you guys got to get out of the house now. 292 00:11:03,755 --> 00:11:05,724 She's coming back. 293 00:11:05,724 --> 00:11:06,825 Just hurry, hurry. 294 00:11:06,825 --> 00:11:09,661 OK, thanks, bye. 295 00:11:09,661 --> 00:11:12,964 OK, now they're gonna leave and we're gonna follow them. 296 00:11:12,964 --> 00:11:14,666 They have one more camera to put up. 297 00:11:14,666 --> 00:11:15,767 They want five minutes. 298 00:11:15,767 --> 00:11:16,935 We don't have five minutes. 299 00:11:16,935 --> 00:11:20,105 [suspenseful music] 300 00:11:20,105 --> 00:11:24,075 ♪ ♪ 301 00:11:44,763 --> 00:11:47,699 OK, I parked close enough so I could get the feed. 302 00:11:47,699 --> 00:11:50,235 So here we have--all right, they got it in the family room, 303 00:11:50,235 --> 00:11:51,670 good, kitchen. 304 00:11:51,670 --> 00:11:54,873 It looks like--oh, she's in a house robe and slippers. 305 00:11:54,873 --> 00:11:56,374 I'm gonna wrap this up and call it a day. 306 00:11:56,374 --> 00:11:57,642 I don't think she's going anywhere. 307 00:11:57,642 --> 00:11:59,511 I think we're good for today. 308 00:11:59,511 --> 00:12:02,480 [upbeat music] 309 00:12:02,480 --> 00:12:08,420 ♪ ♪ 310 00:12:10,822 --> 00:12:12,657 OK, we're at Redd's house. 311 00:12:12,657 --> 00:12:13,925 It's day three. 312 00:12:13,925 --> 00:12:15,794 No one is home. 313 00:12:15,794 --> 00:12:18,029 So maybe she's at that house 314 00:12:18,029 --> 00:12:20,265 I followed her to the other day. 315 00:12:20,265 --> 00:12:24,402 Call it a hunch. 316 00:12:24,402 --> 00:12:28,306 I just got a weird feeling. 317 00:12:28,306 --> 00:12:31,509 As you can see, I'm not seeing Lil Bit's car. 318 00:12:31,509 --> 00:12:34,412 I'm just gonna just sit and wait a little bit. 319 00:12:34,412 --> 00:12:37,382 [suspenseful music] 320 00:12:37,382 --> 00:12:42,487 ♪ ♪ 321 00:12:42,487 --> 00:12:45,090 And there they are. 322 00:12:45,090 --> 00:12:47,859 Looks like they're getting into a rideshare. 323 00:12:53,198 --> 00:12:54,599 This is a friggin' strip club. 324 00:12:54,599 --> 00:12:57,502 I'm at a strip club again. 325 00:12:57,502 --> 00:12:59,471 I'm at the strip clubs more than the strippers 326 00:12:59,471 --> 00:13:01,072 are at the strip club. 327 00:13:01,072 --> 00:13:04,209 So in the game room, I went, like, you know, my hair 328 00:13:04,209 --> 00:13:05,910 like this, but I'm at a strip club. 329 00:13:05,910 --> 00:13:07,545 So I'm gonna put a wig on for this, 330 00:13:07,545 --> 00:13:10,615 and I'm going to use glasses. 331 00:13:10,615 --> 00:13:12,017 They just have good video on it. 332 00:13:12,017 --> 00:13:13,351 It's gonna be loud in there. 333 00:13:13,351 --> 00:13:15,353 So I'm really looking for video. 334 00:13:17,555 --> 00:13:19,824 I'm going. 335 00:13:19,824 --> 00:13:26,931 ♪ ♪ 336 00:13:26,931 --> 00:13:28,867 - ♪ Get stacks, all stacks, bro, cash ♪ 337 00:13:28,867 --> 00:13:30,435 - ♪ Cash ♪ - ♪ Don't like it, double up ♪ 338 00:13:30,435 --> 00:13:31,936 ♪ Run in back ♪ - ♪ Run it back ♪ 339 00:13:31,936 --> 00:13:33,138 - ♪ Get stacks on stacks... ♪ 340 00:13:33,138 --> 00:13:36,274 [hip-hop music playing] 341 00:13:36,274 --> 00:13:38,543 ♪ Out of pocket, getting money, get my jeans ♪ 342 00:13:38,543 --> 00:13:40,278 - ♪ Calling the shots ♪ 343 00:13:40,278 --> 00:13:42,480 ♪ Party all night, you know we ain't gonna stop ♪ 344 00:13:49,921 --> 00:13:51,389 - Wow, I got some good evidence. 345 00:13:51,389 --> 00:13:53,992 They're totally together, these two. 346 00:13:55,860 --> 00:13:57,429 She got to go home. 347 00:13:57,429 --> 00:14:01,132 I mean, she's drunk, drunk, drunk, drunk, drunk. 348 00:14:01,132 --> 00:14:04,936 So it looks like they're taking separate cars tonight. 349 00:14:04,936 --> 00:14:06,905 And we're off. 350 00:14:10,008 --> 00:14:14,913 All right, here we are guys, Redd and Lil Bit's house. 351 00:14:14,913 --> 00:14:16,000 All right, so we got the cameras inside. 352 00:14:16,000 --> 00:14:16,381 All right, so we got the cameras inside. 353 00:14:16,381 --> 00:14:17,882 We're gonna go check out and see 354 00:14:17,882 --> 00:14:20,518 what the heck is going on there. 355 00:14:20,518 --> 00:14:27,425 ♪ ♪ 356 00:14:27,425 --> 00:14:29,461 I think she's going to bed, guys. 357 00:14:29,461 --> 00:14:30,762 She's going to bed. 358 00:14:30,762 --> 00:14:34,032 Good night, Lil Bit. 359 00:14:34,032 --> 00:14:36,935 See you mañana. 360 00:14:36,935 --> 00:14:43,241 ♪ ♪ 361 00:14:43,241 --> 00:14:44,676 Day four. 362 00:14:44,676 --> 00:14:46,077 I'm in position. 363 00:14:46,077 --> 00:14:47,979 We got the cameras, you know, inside the house. 364 00:14:47,979 --> 00:14:49,748 Redd's car isn't here. 365 00:14:49,748 --> 00:14:51,916 She is out for the day. 366 00:14:51,916 --> 00:14:53,651 And they're inside the house. 367 00:14:53,651 --> 00:14:55,653 And now we're gonna see what the hell goes on. 368 00:14:55,653 --> 00:14:56,688 I'm very excited. 369 00:14:56,688 --> 00:14:57,822 This is my favorite part. 370 00:14:57,822 --> 00:14:59,290 This is it. 371 00:15:25,250 --> 00:15:26,351 - Wow. 372 00:15:26,351 --> 00:15:27,552 - Come on. 373 00:15:27,552 --> 00:15:29,053 Follow me. 374 00:15:29,053 --> 00:15:30,088 It's gonna be great. 375 00:15:30,088 --> 00:15:34,359 ♪ ♪ 376 00:15:36,636 --> 00:15:37,737 - ♪ Are you a nice guy or a wise guy ♪ 377 00:15:37,737 --> 00:15:38,738 ♪ You said it don't matter ♪ 378 00:15:38,738 --> 00:15:40,106 ♪ I'm just your type ♪ 379 00:15:40,106 --> 00:15:41,475 ♪ I'm saying all the right things ♪ 380 00:15:41,475 --> 00:15:42,843 - Coach Ken. 381 00:15:42,843 --> 00:15:44,444 - Hey, hey. Let me take off-- 382 00:15:44,444 --> 00:15:45,712 - How you doing? 383 00:15:45,712 --> 00:15:46,847 - Doing fantastic. - You look nice. 384 00:15:46,847 --> 00:15:47,981 - How are you? Thank you. 385 00:15:47,981 --> 00:15:49,850 Likewise. Good to see you. 386 00:15:49,850 --> 00:15:50,951 - Same here. 387 00:15:50,951 --> 00:15:51,985 - All right. 388 00:15:51,985 --> 00:15:54,621 - So Redd and Lil Bit. 389 00:15:54,621 --> 00:15:56,923 - Yeah, yeah, I got the file. 390 00:15:56,923 --> 00:15:58,258 First thing I noticed, I noticed 391 00:15:58,258 --> 00:15:59,493 she had a big personality. 392 00:15:59,493 --> 00:16:00,760 - Yes. 393 00:16:00,760 --> 00:16:02,562 - And how did you deal with that? 394 00:16:02,562 --> 00:16:06,867 - She's just very boisterous, and loud, 395 00:16:06,867 --> 00:16:09,402 and commands the room. 396 00:16:09,402 --> 00:16:12,205 You know, so it's all just kind of all 397 00:16:12,205 --> 00:16:15,809 over the place with her. 398 00:16:15,809 --> 00:16:17,244 Hey, there, Redd. 399 00:16:17,244 --> 00:16:18,211 - Hey. 400 00:16:18,211 --> 00:16:19,880 - Thank you for coming on in. 401 00:16:19,880 --> 00:16:21,314 - Yeah, what you got for me? 402 00:16:21,314 --> 00:16:24,317 - Well, Redd, first off, this is Coach Ken. 403 00:16:24,317 --> 00:16:27,220 He's a relationship expert, and I brought him here today 404 00:16:27,220 --> 00:16:29,756 to help us talk through everything 405 00:16:29,756 --> 00:16:33,293 that we're going to see today. 406 00:16:33,293 --> 00:16:34,794 - OK. 407 00:16:34,794 --> 00:16:38,798 - So I have to ask you, Redd, before I show you this, 408 00:16:38,798 --> 00:16:42,903 I want to make sure that you actually want to see it 409 00:16:42,903 --> 00:16:45,539 because what you see could potentially 410 00:16:45,539 --> 00:16:50,010 change your relationship with Lil Bit going forward forever. 411 00:16:50,010 --> 00:16:51,011 - I'm ready. 412 00:16:51,011 --> 00:16:53,480 - OK. 413 00:16:53,480 --> 00:16:59,085 We trail her to this strip mall type environment 414 00:16:59,085 --> 00:17:01,888 where she's meeting up with-- 415 00:17:01,888 --> 00:17:03,290 - Yannie. 416 00:17:03,290 --> 00:17:04,691 - Which is the one you were telling me about 417 00:17:04,691 --> 00:17:06,293 the other day? - Yes. 418 00:17:06,293 --> 00:17:07,961 - OK. - Well, let's keep watching. 419 00:17:07,961 --> 00:17:09,462 Let's see what happens. 420 00:17:14,668 --> 00:17:16,870 - Oh, they actin' real bad. 421 00:17:16,870 --> 00:17:18,004 On my tab? 422 00:17:18,004 --> 00:17:20,073 - Holding hands. 423 00:17:20,073 --> 00:17:22,275 She went to the arcade with Yannie, 424 00:17:22,275 --> 00:17:24,377 but then she came home alone. 425 00:17:24,377 --> 00:17:27,347 But their interaction at the arcade, 426 00:17:27,347 --> 00:17:31,117 holding hands and, "Let's get a drink on Redd's tab." 427 00:17:31,117 --> 00:17:32,586 - I don't like that. 428 00:17:32,586 --> 00:17:34,521 - Nobody wants to be viewed as a wallet. 429 00:17:34,521 --> 00:17:36,823 - Yeah, nobody does. 430 00:17:36,823 --> 00:17:39,960 - Let's see our next day. 431 00:17:39,960 --> 00:17:40,994 They ended up-- 432 00:17:40,994 --> 00:17:43,029 - Is they at the strip club? 433 00:17:43,029 --> 00:17:45,231 I know that ho. - --at the strip club. 434 00:17:49,369 --> 00:17:52,973 Shot, shot, shots, probably on your tab again. 435 00:18:09,456 --> 00:18:11,825 - What--what are you bothered by? 436 00:18:11,825 --> 00:18:13,426 - Everything. 437 00:18:13,426 --> 00:18:15,161 My tab, for one. 438 00:18:15,161 --> 00:18:17,397 I don't pay for something I'm not a part of. 439 00:18:17,397 --> 00:18:18,598 - Mm-hmm. 440 00:18:18,598 --> 00:18:21,034 - That's my fiancée, like, you know? 441 00:18:21,034 --> 00:18:24,037 When it's like that, it's like, come on, man, 442 00:18:24,037 --> 00:18:25,105 we know what the [bleep] time it is. 443 00:18:25,105 --> 00:18:27,007 We know what's going on. 444 00:18:27,007 --> 00:18:28,942 - Do you want to see the last clip? 445 00:18:28,942 --> 00:18:29,976 - No, but we can. 446 00:18:29,976 --> 00:18:31,444 We here now. 447 00:18:31,444 --> 00:18:33,046 [bleep], we might as well finish it up. 448 00:18:33,046 --> 00:18:34,714 - Well, I don't want to do anything you don't want to do. 449 00:18:34,714 --> 00:18:36,549 - Go ahead, let's play it. 450 00:18:36,549 --> 00:18:38,885 Let's run it. 451 00:18:38,885 --> 00:18:40,086 - This is your house. 452 00:18:40,086 --> 00:18:41,554 - Mm-hmm. 453 00:18:58,238 --> 00:19:00,006 - This bitch is dumb. 454 00:19:15,055 --> 00:19:17,023 - They went into your restroom. 455 00:19:17,023 --> 00:19:19,159 - Uh-uh. 456 00:19:19,159 --> 00:19:21,227 - But, of course, we would not never 457 00:19:21,227 --> 00:19:22,562 put cameras in the restroom. 458 00:19:22,562 --> 00:19:24,964 So then we shut it down because they-- 459 00:19:24,964 --> 00:19:27,233 they were in there for a minute. 460 00:19:27,233 --> 00:19:29,269 - So when you say a minute, how long? 461 00:19:29,269 --> 00:19:30,303 What's a minute? 462 00:19:30,303 --> 00:19:31,838 - They was in there. 463 00:19:31,838 --> 00:19:33,506 - For how long, Tami? 464 00:19:33,506 --> 00:19:36,443 - We shut our cameras down after 45 minutes. 465 00:19:36,443 --> 00:19:37,911 - 45 [bleep] minutes? 466 00:19:37,911 --> 00:19:39,045 - Mm-hmm. - Really? 467 00:19:39,045 --> 00:19:40,080 - Mm-hmm. 468 00:19:40,080 --> 00:19:41,181 - 45 minutes? 469 00:19:41,181 --> 00:19:42,515 - Mm-hmm. 470 00:19:42,515 --> 00:19:44,617 I think--I think you know what we heard. 471 00:19:44,617 --> 00:19:47,754 I think you know what they were doing in there. 472 00:19:47,754 --> 00:19:50,290 - OK. 473 00:19:50,290 --> 00:19:52,425 - Can you tell me the emotions you-- 474 00:19:52,425 --> 00:19:54,694 that you're feeling? 475 00:19:54,694 --> 00:19:57,197 - I'm really not good with putting my emotions 476 00:19:57,197 --> 00:19:59,065 and feelings out there. 477 00:19:59,065 --> 00:20:00,600 You know what I'm saying? 478 00:20:00,600 --> 00:20:04,270 If this was me four years ago, five years ago, 479 00:20:04,270 --> 00:20:05,739 I wouldn't even be sitting here right now. 480 00:20:05,739 --> 00:20:06,840 - Right. 481 00:20:06,840 --> 00:20:08,641 - Understood. 482 00:20:08,641 --> 00:20:10,243 - I would be dragging both of them [bleep] out the door. 483 00:20:10,243 --> 00:20:11,411 - Understood. 484 00:20:11,411 --> 00:20:13,313 - I'm not trying to be like that. 485 00:20:13,313 --> 00:20:16,316 - My wife always says to me, everybody want to change, 486 00:20:16,316 --> 00:20:18,184 but nobody wants to make change. 487 00:20:18,184 --> 00:20:21,154 - I'm most definitely trying to change. 488 00:20:21,154 --> 00:20:22,956 You know, it's been nine years. 489 00:20:22,956 --> 00:20:26,926 So I don't know what would make a person just do those things. 490 00:20:26,926 --> 00:20:29,929 It makes me upset. 491 00:20:29,929 --> 00:20:31,931 It hurt my feelings. 492 00:20:31,931 --> 00:20:33,666 I'm hurt. 493 00:20:33,666 --> 00:20:34,734 - That's good. 494 00:20:34,734 --> 00:20:35,000 Thank you. 495 00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:35,935 Thank you. 496 00:20:35,935 --> 00:20:38,671 - Hey, how you did that? 497 00:20:38,671 --> 00:20:40,874 See, you is good. 498 00:20:40,874 --> 00:20:42,108 You got a book, too? 499 00:20:42,108 --> 00:20:43,576 [laughter] 500 00:20:43,576 --> 00:20:45,779 - We just gonna work through this. 501 00:20:45,779 --> 00:20:48,848 - You see, I knew you was gonna help me, man. 502 00:20:48,848 --> 00:20:50,049 I knew it. 503 00:20:50,049 --> 00:20:51,951 So what we finna do? 504 00:20:51,951 --> 00:20:53,820 - I can give you two options. 505 00:20:53,820 --> 00:20:55,221 - What? 506 00:20:55,221 --> 00:20:57,323 - The first one would be where you sit down and have 507 00:20:57,323 --> 00:20:59,592 a conversation with Yannie where you can 508 00:20:59,592 --> 00:21:01,394 have a one-on-one with her. 509 00:21:01,394 --> 00:21:03,096 - No, I don't like one-on-ones. 510 00:21:03,096 --> 00:21:04,798 - OK. 511 00:21:04,798 --> 00:21:07,801 Then the other option would be I can get my surveillance 512 00:21:07,801 --> 00:21:09,602 team back out there, see when they 513 00:21:09,602 --> 00:21:11,771 catch them together again. 514 00:21:11,771 --> 00:21:15,575 Once they do, Coach Ken and I will come and get you 515 00:21:15,575 --> 00:21:18,344 and take you to go confront them. 516 00:21:18,344 --> 00:21:21,147 - So then let's do it. 517 00:21:21,147 --> 00:21:22,315 Come on. 518 00:21:22,315 --> 00:21:23,883 - We got to get the team going-- 519 00:21:23,883 --> 00:21:25,118 - Well, where they at? - --to find them. 520 00:21:25,118 --> 00:21:26,853 We got to, you know. 521 00:21:26,853 --> 00:21:28,721 - You want me to help, too, so we can speed up the process? 522 00:21:28,721 --> 00:21:29,956 - Yes. 523 00:21:29,956 --> 00:21:31,624 - OK, I be throwing game nights, Tami. 524 00:21:31,624 --> 00:21:33,726 We do game nights all the time. 525 00:21:33,726 --> 00:21:35,628 So I'm gonna just tell them we're gonna do a game night. 526 00:21:35,628 --> 00:21:37,864 - Well, has Yannie been to your game nights in the past? 527 00:21:37,864 --> 00:21:38,898 - Yeah. - OK. 528 00:21:38,898 --> 00:21:40,633 - Because she's a friend. 529 00:21:40,633 --> 00:21:42,235 Well, it's an end-ship now, but she was a friend, you know? 530 00:21:42,235 --> 00:21:43,870 - Mm-hmm, OK. - Well, let's do that. 531 00:21:43,870 --> 00:21:46,172 Set a game night. She can come over. 532 00:21:46,172 --> 00:21:47,740 I can have other friends to come over. 533 00:21:47,740 --> 00:21:49,509 You know, while I'm there, I'm gonna just be like, 534 00:21:49,509 --> 00:21:50,610 I'm gonna slide a little bit. 535 00:21:50,610 --> 00:21:52,579 I'm finna go to the store. 536 00:21:52,579 --> 00:21:54,647 So that way, I can see if this bitch really gonna 537 00:21:54,647 --> 00:21:56,616 disrespect me again in my house. 538 00:21:56,616 --> 00:21:57,784 - Then that's what we'll do. 539 00:21:57,784 --> 00:21:59,118 - Yeah. 540 00:21:59,118 --> 00:22:01,254 - OK, so you'll send me all the information 541 00:22:01,254 --> 00:22:02,255 on when game night is. 542 00:22:02,255 --> 00:22:03,623 - Right. 543 00:22:03,623 --> 00:22:04,791 - And we'll go from there. - Mm-hmm. 544 00:22:04,791 --> 00:22:06,125 - OK? 545 00:22:06,125 --> 00:22:08,862 But do not go back to your house 546 00:22:08,862 --> 00:22:11,564 and have a conversation with Lil Bit 547 00:22:11,564 --> 00:22:13,166 about what you've seen-- 548 00:22:13,166 --> 00:22:14,200 - Oh, yeah, no. 549 00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:15,802 - --about this process. 550 00:22:15,802 --> 00:22:17,570 OK, you got to-- 551 00:22:17,570 --> 00:22:19,272 - Keep it regular. - Yes. 552 00:22:19,272 --> 00:22:20,440 - Like ain't nothing going on. 553 00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:22,242 - All right. 554 00:22:22,242 --> 00:22:23,943 - Thank y'all so much. 555 00:22:23,943 --> 00:22:25,478 - You're welcome. 556 00:22:25,478 --> 00:22:28,314 [dramatic music] 557 00:22:28,314 --> 00:22:30,350 - 45 [bleep] minutes. 558 00:22:30,350 --> 00:22:32,051 That is crazy. 559 00:22:32,051 --> 00:22:34,554 ♪ ♪ 560 00:22:36,281 --> 00:22:37,349 [hip-hop music] 561 00:22:37,349 --> 00:22:39,317 - ♪ He fumbled a baddie ♪ 562 00:22:39,317 --> 00:22:41,119 ♪ He fumbled it badly ♪ 563 00:22:41,119 --> 00:22:42,954 ♪ I got me a new dude ♪ 564 00:22:42,954 --> 00:22:45,090 - Whoo-hoo! Thank you. 565 00:22:45,090 --> 00:22:46,391 - ♪ He fumbled the best ♪ 566 00:22:46,391 --> 00:22:48,627 ♪ Got pain in his chest ♪ 567 00:22:50,495 --> 00:22:54,766 - All right, so the way that Redd explained it to me-- 568 00:22:54,766 --> 00:22:56,434 - OK. 569 00:22:56,434 --> 00:22:58,870 - --was that she went home and told Lil Bit 570 00:22:58,870 --> 00:23:00,739 that she wanted to have a game night. 571 00:23:00,739 --> 00:23:02,307 - OK. 572 00:23:02,307 --> 00:23:04,709 - And that, you know, she'd be out, but when she came home, 573 00:23:04,709 --> 00:23:06,444 she wanted to have a little fun. 574 00:23:06,444 --> 00:23:08,680 So we're gonna pick her up and then 575 00:23:08,680 --> 00:23:13,184 take her back home so that we can catch Lil Bit in the act. 576 00:23:13,184 --> 00:23:14,686 - Who did she invite? 577 00:23:14,686 --> 00:23:16,721 - We won't know until we get there. 578 00:23:16,721 --> 00:23:21,393 - I am hoping Yannie is there so that we can find out 579 00:23:21,393 --> 00:23:23,628 what's her motivation behind it. 580 00:23:23,628 --> 00:23:26,398 I want to get clarity for Redd. 581 00:23:26,398 --> 00:23:29,200 I want to find out what Lil Bit is thinking. 582 00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:30,569 - Yeah. 583 00:23:30,569 --> 00:23:32,170 I don't know why I just feel like there's 584 00:23:32,170 --> 00:23:36,875 more to this story, and I'm not getting all of it. 585 00:23:36,875 --> 00:23:38,243 Oh, there she is, OK. 586 00:23:38,243 --> 00:23:39,611 - OK. 587 00:23:39,611 --> 00:23:41,112 Hello. - Hey, there, Redd. 588 00:23:41,112 --> 00:23:42,347 - Watch. - Hi. 589 00:23:42,347 --> 00:23:43,782 - Are you looking angry? 590 00:23:43,782 --> 00:23:46,051 - You know what's been on my mind, so-- 591 00:23:46,051 --> 00:23:47,185 - Have a seat right over there. 592 00:23:47,185 --> 00:23:48,486 - Thank you so much. 593 00:23:48,486 --> 00:23:51,823 - Well, thank you for letting us know 594 00:23:51,823 --> 00:23:56,494 how you set up this game night was very clever. 595 00:23:56,494 --> 00:23:59,130 Do you have any idea on who she may have invited? 596 00:23:59,130 --> 00:24:01,566 - That, I don't know, but I'm pretty sure 597 00:24:01,566 --> 00:24:02,901 Yannie will be there. 598 00:24:02,901 --> 00:24:03,935 She too thirsty. 599 00:24:03,935 --> 00:24:05,070 You know she coming. 600 00:24:05,070 --> 00:24:06,905 - Now, what if she's not there? 601 00:24:06,905 --> 00:24:08,373 - Then we're just gonna have to address 602 00:24:08,373 --> 00:24:09,975 the footage that I seen. 603 00:24:09,975 --> 00:24:12,644 - Yes, a conversation between you and a Lil Bit 604 00:24:12,644 --> 00:24:15,580 could really give you clarity on why she did it, 605 00:24:15,580 --> 00:24:17,649 and then those things could be addressed. 606 00:24:17,649 --> 00:24:19,417 And if you both want to, you guys 607 00:24:19,417 --> 00:24:21,019 can work towards rebuilding. 608 00:24:21,019 --> 00:24:22,087 - OK. 609 00:24:22,087 --> 00:24:23,622 - That's a lot of time. 610 00:24:23,622 --> 00:24:25,724 - If you seen your wife like that 611 00:24:25,724 --> 00:24:27,559 and you're gonna want to sit down and talk to her? 612 00:24:27,559 --> 00:24:29,127 - I would want to talk to her, but-- 613 00:24:29,127 --> 00:24:30,128 - The same moment? 614 00:24:30,128 --> 00:24:31,529 - If we keeping it above, 615 00:24:31,529 --> 00:24:33,031 I'm gonna be hostile in the moment. 616 00:24:33,031 --> 00:24:37,435 But after all is said and done, we have to reflect. 617 00:24:37,435 --> 00:24:38,603 We have to say, OK. 618 00:24:38,603 --> 00:24:40,138 - Over [bleep] what? 619 00:24:40,138 --> 00:24:41,139 - Because--hear me out, Redd. 620 00:24:41,139 --> 00:24:42,574 - [bleep] them. 621 00:24:42,574 --> 00:24:44,442 - What if I find out that my wife says-- 622 00:24:44,442 --> 00:24:46,711 which it's not right-- but if my wife says, 623 00:24:46,711 --> 00:24:49,614 you--you weren't there for me when I had went through this. 624 00:24:49,614 --> 00:24:51,549 You never wanted to make love to me. 625 00:24:51,549 --> 00:24:53,018 You were always working. 626 00:24:53,018 --> 00:24:55,520 I've got to be able to receive that. 627 00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:56,588 - You right. You right. 628 00:24:56,588 --> 00:24:57,922 You know what? You're right. 629 00:24:57,922 --> 00:24:59,491 You do got to-- 630 00:24:59,491 --> 00:25:01,693 we actually do have to do that sometimes in a relationship 631 00:25:01,693 --> 00:25:03,128 because that's what I'm really bad at. 632 00:25:03,128 --> 00:25:04,663 I act like I don't care. 633 00:25:04,663 --> 00:25:06,331 If I cry, I'm gonna cry about that [bleep] 634 00:25:06,331 --> 00:25:07,332 behind closed doors. 635 00:25:07,332 --> 00:25:08,633 Nobody's gonna see it. 636 00:25:08,633 --> 00:25:09,968 And I'm going on by myself. 637 00:25:09,968 --> 00:25:11,569 - But we got to do something different, Redd. 638 00:25:11,569 --> 00:25:12,570 We got to-- - Like what? 639 00:25:12,570 --> 00:25:13,605 - You said, I'm changing. 640 00:25:13,605 --> 00:25:15,240 Explore your feelings. 641 00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:17,242 Explore what you're thinking, why this happened. 642 00:25:17,242 --> 00:25:18,710 Explore all of that. 643 00:25:18,710 --> 00:25:21,012 - Mm-hmm, look at your situation. 644 00:25:21,012 --> 00:25:25,817 Nine years, it could be some underlying moments 645 00:25:25,817 --> 00:25:29,454 that you guys haven't discussed with honesty and transparency, 646 00:25:29,454 --> 00:25:30,722 and you-- 647 00:25:30,722 --> 00:25:32,457 - This girl could have chose yoga. 648 00:25:32,457 --> 00:25:35,060 This bitch chose another bitch. 649 00:25:35,060 --> 00:25:36,094 That is dumb. 650 00:25:36,094 --> 00:25:37,562 - I am not saying that it's right. 651 00:25:37,562 --> 00:25:40,632 - I guess I'm just finna hear her out. 652 00:25:40,632 --> 00:25:42,500 - So we are here. 653 00:25:42,500 --> 00:25:45,303 Before we see, 654 00:25:45,303 --> 00:25:48,106 I want you to remember 655 00:25:48,106 --> 00:25:52,277 all the things that you need to address. 656 00:25:52,277 --> 00:25:54,446 So we're gonna let you go in 657 00:25:54,446 --> 00:25:56,715 and have the conversation first. 658 00:25:56,715 --> 00:25:59,050 We'll keep watching on the monitors, 659 00:25:59,050 --> 00:26:02,454 and in the event we need to step in, we will. 660 00:26:02,454 --> 00:26:05,623 So I'm going to turn on these monitors 661 00:26:05,623 --> 00:26:08,526 because you granted us access into your house 662 00:26:08,526 --> 00:26:10,161 so that we can see everything that's going on-- 663 00:26:10,161 --> 00:26:11,162 - Yeah, we need to see. 664 00:26:11,162 --> 00:26:12,363 - --before we go inside. 665 00:26:12,363 --> 00:26:14,632 - I know. - I'm gonna turn it on, Redd, 666 00:26:14,632 --> 00:26:17,335 but I want to make sure, because if I turn this on, 667 00:26:17,335 --> 00:26:18,703 there's no going back. 668 00:26:18,703 --> 00:26:22,006 - Turn this monitor on. 669 00:26:22,006 --> 00:26:24,809 [dramatic music] 670 00:26:24,809 --> 00:26:27,746 I know I better not see her [bleep]... 671 00:26:31,082 --> 00:26:34,119 - Is the person in the back, is that her? 672 00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:37,889 - Is that Yannie in the green who keep touching her? 673 00:26:37,889 --> 00:26:39,557 - That might be. 674 00:26:42,994 --> 00:26:43,962 - A whole thot. 675 00:26:43,962 --> 00:26:45,663 She a thot. 676 00:26:48,066 --> 00:26:49,167 - We going in now? 677 00:26:49,167 --> 00:26:50,702 - --you talking about drink mine. 678 00:26:50,702 --> 00:26:52,070 - Do you feel like-- - We probably should, right? 679 00:26:52,070 --> 00:26:53,371 - Let me help you. - Oh, yeah, yeah. 680 00:26:53,371 --> 00:26:54,973 - Let me--hold on, hold on. 681 00:26:54,973 --> 00:26:56,107 - We're gonna be here, and we're gonna stay here. 682 00:26:56,107 --> 00:26:57,542 - OK, OK. - We're gonna stay right-- 683 00:26:57,542 --> 00:26:59,110 I got you, I got you. OK. 684 00:27:12,365 --> 00:27:15,335 [suspenseful music] 685 00:27:15,335 --> 00:27:21,141 ♪ ♪ 686 00:27:21,141 --> 00:27:22,809 - So you started the game night, right? 687 00:27:22,809 --> 00:27:23,810 - Yeah, but still, why you brought cameras? 688 00:27:23,810 --> 00:27:24,945 - Girl, what's up, bruh? 689 00:27:24,945 --> 00:27:27,647 How is your money [bleep], bruh? 690 00:27:27,647 --> 00:27:29,783 Let's get [bleep] shots going. 691 00:27:29,783 --> 00:27:31,351 - I'll take a shot with you. 692 00:27:31,351 --> 00:27:35,088 - No, no, all hoes got to sit on the brown couch. 693 00:27:35,088 --> 00:27:36,089 Please go over there. 694 00:27:36,089 --> 00:27:37,591 - Who a ho? 695 00:27:37,591 --> 00:27:39,192 - So how long this been going on, y'all? 696 00:27:39,192 --> 00:27:40,694 - How you come in here with and cameras [bleep] though? 697 00:27:40,694 --> 00:27:42,863 - Go that way. 698 00:27:42,863 --> 00:27:45,232 Girl, give me my ring, girl. 699 00:27:45,232 --> 00:27:46,833 - What you need my ring for? 700 00:27:46,833 --> 00:27:48,268 - Aren't you a cheater? - Girl, I earned this ring. 701 00:27:48,268 --> 00:27:49,569 I ain't giving back nothing. 702 00:27:49,569 --> 00:27:51,304 - You're making yourself look crazy. 703 00:27:51,304 --> 00:27:52,672 You earned that ring by being a whore with another whore? 704 00:27:52,672 --> 00:27:54,107 - How am I being a whore? 705 00:27:56,443 --> 00:27:58,044 - You need to shut the [bleep] up. 706 00:27:58,044 --> 00:28:00,113 - Let's do it. 707 00:28:00,113 --> 00:28:01,581 - Can you give my ring back? - Who told you that? 708 00:28:01,581 --> 00:28:02,849 I'm not giving you that. 709 00:28:02,849 --> 00:28:04,184 I earned this ring. 710 00:28:04,184 --> 00:28:05,652 I earned this ring. You want it? 711 00:28:05,652 --> 00:28:06,720 Come get it. 712 00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:08,088 Why are you here with cameras? 713 00:28:08,088 --> 00:28:09,756 - Well, I'll tell you. - Why are you here? 714 00:28:09,756 --> 00:28:11,825 What's all this [bleep]? - Lil Bit, listen, Lil Bit. 715 00:28:11,825 --> 00:28:13,260 - You gonna give me my ring back or no? 716 00:28:13,260 --> 00:28:14,561 - No, I'm not. Take it. 717 00:28:14,561 --> 00:28:16,496 [indistinct shouting] 718 00:28:16,496 --> 00:28:18,064 - Don't move. No move. 719 00:28:18,064 --> 00:28:19,900 - You said you was gonna ask questions. 720 00:28:19,900 --> 00:28:21,701 - I did ask the questions. 721 00:28:21,701 --> 00:28:22,936 - I mean, you can't get-- I mean, look. 722 00:28:22,936 --> 00:28:24,004 How are we gonna find out anything 723 00:28:24,004 --> 00:28:25,505 if you're going about this way? 724 00:28:25,505 --> 00:28:26,573 - Uh-uh, why are you talking to me and she the cheater? 725 00:28:26,573 --> 00:28:28,008 What? 726 00:28:28,008 --> 00:28:29,576 - Lil Bit. 727 00:28:29,576 --> 00:28:30,777 - You gonna come in here with cameras, bro? 728 00:28:30,777 --> 00:28:31,912 We could have talked about that. 729 00:28:31,912 --> 00:28:32,879 [bleep]. 730 00:28:32,879 --> 00:28:34,347 - Your name is Yannie, right? 731 00:28:34,347 --> 00:28:35,415 - Yeah. 732 00:28:35,415 --> 00:28:36,349 - OK, I'm gonna go back inside. 733 00:28:36,349 --> 00:28:37,417 - All right. 734 00:28:37,417 --> 00:28:39,019 - Let her fix herself, OK? 735 00:28:39,019 --> 00:28:40,453 I would like for you to come inside 736 00:28:40,453 --> 00:28:43,156 and give her some privacy so that she can fix herself. 737 00:28:43,156 --> 00:28:45,292 - We talked about what we were gonna do. 738 00:28:45,292 --> 00:28:47,460 We talked about the questions we were gonna ask. 739 00:28:47,460 --> 00:28:49,062 You can't get anywhere. 740 00:28:49,062 --> 00:28:53,366 You can't get anything done by snatching somebody up. 741 00:28:53,366 --> 00:28:55,068 - Here comes Lil Bit. 742 00:28:55,068 --> 00:28:57,871 My name is Tami Roman, and you guys are on a show 743 00:28:57,871 --> 00:29:00,774 called "Caught in the Act Unfaithful." 744 00:29:00,774 --> 00:29:03,576 Redd, there was questions that you wanted to ask-- 745 00:29:03,576 --> 00:29:04,611 - I need a shot. 746 00:29:04,611 --> 00:29:06,846 - --her. 747 00:29:06,846 --> 00:29:09,516 - What made you step out with Yannie? 748 00:29:09,516 --> 00:29:11,251 - You. - Me? 749 00:29:11,251 --> 00:29:13,787 What was I not doing for you? - Look at how you act. 750 00:29:13,787 --> 00:29:15,055 Look at how you are. You're loud. 751 00:29:15,055 --> 00:29:16,856 You're aggressive. You're rude. 752 00:29:16,856 --> 00:29:19,459 You're [bleep] mean as [bleep]. 753 00:29:19,459 --> 00:29:22,529 When the last time you gave me some [bleep], Lyssa? 754 00:29:22,529 --> 00:29:24,030 - This [bleep] is stupid. 755 00:29:24,030 --> 00:29:28,468 - How long have you and Lil Bit been engaging 756 00:29:28,468 --> 00:29:29,803 in this kind of person? 757 00:29:29,803 --> 00:29:31,371 - Since I met her, since I met her. 758 00:29:31,371 --> 00:29:33,139 - How long ago was that? 759 00:29:33,139 --> 00:29:34,407 - Two years ago. 760 00:29:34,407 --> 00:29:36,743 I mean-- 761 00:29:36,743 --> 00:29:38,545 - How you feel about Lil Bit? 762 00:29:38,545 --> 00:29:40,380 How you really feel about her? I know what y'all were doing. 763 00:29:40,380 --> 00:29:41,948 - I don't--I don't really like how she keeping [bleep] 764 00:29:41,948 --> 00:29:43,616 right now, but, I mean, I've been [bleep] with her. 765 00:29:43,616 --> 00:29:45,051 I was feeling her. 766 00:29:45,051 --> 00:29:46,786 - So you do want to have a relationship with her? 767 00:29:46,786 --> 00:29:48,722 - Yeah. I mean, I don't know now 768 00:29:48,722 --> 00:29:50,457 because [bleep] is different. 769 00:29:50,457 --> 00:29:51,691 Bitches snatching off wigs. 770 00:29:51,691 --> 00:29:53,293 I don't know. 771 00:29:53,293 --> 00:29:54,995 Like, I mean, I'm upset. 772 00:29:54,995 --> 00:29:57,330 I'm doing all this [bleep] with a bitch that want to keep 773 00:29:57,330 --> 00:29:58,798 her ring and her bitch. 774 00:29:58,798 --> 00:30:01,368 - Redd, are you are you receiving that she's saying 775 00:30:01,368 --> 00:30:03,703 you're loud, you're rude, you're mean to her, 776 00:30:03,703 --> 00:30:04,838 and then there's no sexual intimacy? 777 00:30:04,838 --> 00:30:06,306 - Yeah, so if she feels like-- 778 00:30:06,306 --> 00:30:07,941 but what I'm saying is that makes you 779 00:30:07,941 --> 00:30:09,943 step out on your nine-year relationship? 780 00:30:09,943 --> 00:30:11,678 - Yes. - With another bitch? 781 00:30:11,678 --> 00:30:12,712 - Yes. 782 00:30:12,712 --> 00:30:14,280 - OK, I'm done recording. 783 00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:15,415 Excuse me, sir. - Why are you done? 784 00:30:15,415 --> 00:30:16,416 - I'm done recording. 785 00:30:16,416 --> 00:30:17,917 - Why are you done? 786 00:30:17,917 --> 00:30:20,253 - Look at her, her big-ass green-ass jacket, ho. 787 00:30:20,253 --> 00:30:21,788 - Your bitch [bleep] my [bleep]. 788 00:30:21,788 --> 00:30:22,922 - I don't give a [bleep]. 789 00:30:22,922 --> 00:30:24,157 - You're not going nowhere. 790 00:30:24,157 --> 00:30:25,425 - Redd, come on back in the house. 791 00:30:25,425 --> 00:30:26,926 - Girl, you mad right now. 792 00:30:26,926 --> 00:30:28,028 - You can't tell me there is no salvaging 793 00:30:28,028 --> 00:30:29,229 or saving this relationship. 794 00:30:29,229 --> 00:30:31,064 - Redd, come on back in your house. 795 00:30:31,064 --> 00:30:32,966 - You mad right now, babe. You ain't going nowhere. 796 00:30:32,966 --> 00:30:34,501 - Let's--let's me and you have a conversation, Lil Bit. 797 00:30:34,501 --> 00:30:35,802 Come on. 798 00:30:35,802 --> 00:30:36,970 - Listen, listen, listen, Redd. 799 00:30:36,970 --> 00:30:38,104 - I don't want to work this out. 800 00:30:38,104 --> 00:30:39,739 - I know. I know, Redd. 801 00:30:39,739 --> 00:30:41,441 I know. - Come here, Yannie. 802 00:30:41,441 --> 00:30:43,043 So let me ask you this. 803 00:30:43,043 --> 00:30:47,047 How long have you and Yannie been doing your thing? 804 00:30:47,047 --> 00:30:48,248 - Sitting on each other laps. 805 00:30:48,248 --> 00:30:49,416 - She's a liar. 806 00:30:49,416 --> 00:30:50,617 She want her bitch. 807 00:30:50,617 --> 00:30:51,584 She want to keep that ring on her finger. 808 00:30:51,584 --> 00:30:53,186 She want to deny it. 809 00:30:53,186 --> 00:30:55,155 - I'm gonna keep this ring on my finger if she here or not. 810 00:30:55,155 --> 00:30:56,489 I done put up with [bleep] for nine years. 811 00:30:56,489 --> 00:30:58,658 - What have you put up with for nine years? 812 00:30:58,658 --> 00:31:01,861 - Attitude, aggression, really not-- 813 00:31:01,861 --> 00:31:03,329 she don't let me touch her. 814 00:31:03,329 --> 00:31:04,898 She don't let me do nothing to her. 815 00:31:04,898 --> 00:31:06,266 - That's why you wanted to touch me. 816 00:31:06,266 --> 00:31:07,901 That's why you wanted to touch me. 817 00:31:07,901 --> 00:31:09,335 - Yeah, exactly, that's why I filet mignon. 818 00:31:09,335 --> 00:31:10,837 - You said you changing. 819 00:31:10,837 --> 00:31:12,906 You can't-- you can't change one day. 820 00:31:12,906 --> 00:31:14,040 - No, no, no. 821 00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:15,308 - And then act like the next day, 822 00:31:15,308 --> 00:31:16,576 I'm gonna be back the old person. 823 00:31:16,576 --> 00:31:18,278 - I'm gonna do your method. 824 00:31:18,278 --> 00:31:21,681 We're sitting down, trying to talk about it, hear her out. 825 00:31:21,681 --> 00:31:22,649 - I appreciate you. 826 00:31:22,649 --> 00:31:24,384 - Don't get loud. 827 00:31:24,384 --> 00:31:26,086 I'm gonna do that for you. - That's not even--it's OK-- 828 00:31:26,086 --> 00:31:27,620 I appreciate you. - I have respect for you. 829 00:31:27,620 --> 00:31:28,988 I have respect for Miss Tami, OK? 830 00:31:28,988 --> 00:31:30,156 - Fair enough. - All right. 831 00:31:30,156 --> 00:31:31,958 - That's all-- that's all I ask. 832 00:31:31,958 --> 00:31:34,594 - Why do you stay with Redd if she doesn't let you-- 833 00:31:34,594 --> 00:31:36,296 - Because I love Redd. 834 00:31:36,296 --> 00:31:37,397 - You love Redd? 835 00:31:37,397 --> 00:31:39,332 You know Redd don't look like this. 836 00:31:39,332 --> 00:31:41,000 - Don't talk about her. Don't talk about her. 837 00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:42,335 Don't talk--Yannie, you know I don't play [bleep]. 838 00:31:42,335 --> 00:31:43,570 Don't [bleep]... - I don't have to look 839 00:31:43,570 --> 00:31:45,238 like that, but that's why she [bleep] me. 840 00:31:45,238 --> 00:31:46,706 - Yannie, don't talk about her. - That's why she's [bleep] me. 841 00:31:46,706 --> 00:31:47,974 That's why she's [bleep] me. 842 00:31:47,974 --> 00:31:49,375 - Don't talk about her. Don't let her-- 843 00:31:49,375 --> 00:31:50,844 - She's talking about me. 844 00:31:50,844 --> 00:31:52,712 - She just called me all kinds of [bleep]. 845 00:31:52,712 --> 00:31:53,813 You ain't say [bleep]. 846 00:31:53,813 --> 00:31:54,848 - Coming in. 847 00:31:54,848 --> 00:31:56,316 Tami, we coming in. 848 00:31:56,316 --> 00:31:58,618 - Redd, so that I can understand, 849 00:31:58,618 --> 00:32:00,053 you are a touch me not? 850 00:32:00,053 --> 00:32:01,688 - Yep. - And she knew this. 851 00:32:01,688 --> 00:32:02,922 Correct. - OK. 852 00:32:02,922 --> 00:32:04,090 - From the beginning, she knew this. 853 00:32:04,090 --> 00:32:05,425 - Now, did you know that going into it? 854 00:32:05,425 --> 00:32:06,926 - But I thought at least about nine years, 855 00:32:06,926 --> 00:32:09,929 I could touch something. 856 00:32:09,929 --> 00:32:11,000 - So what do you think is going to happen 857 00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:12,665 - So what do you think is going to happen 858 00:32:12,665 --> 00:32:14,868 in a relationship of nine years-- 859 00:32:14,868 --> 00:32:16,102 - Yeah, why I can't touch you? 860 00:32:16,102 --> 00:32:17,303 - I'm a real [bleep]. - You-- 861 00:32:17,303 --> 00:32:18,671 - What does that mean? - You a woman. 862 00:32:18,671 --> 00:32:20,039 - It's like you trying to [bleep] your husband 863 00:32:20,039 --> 00:32:21,207 and a [bleep] not gonna let you do it, is it? 864 00:32:21,207 --> 00:32:21,941 - You a woman with a whole vagina. 865 00:32:21,941 --> 00:32:23,376 - Hell, nah. 866 00:32:23,376 --> 00:32:25,345 - What is it about me that I can't touch you? 867 00:32:25,345 --> 00:32:27,480 - I'm not--I'm just not a touchy person. 868 00:32:27,480 --> 00:32:29,282 Like, you're not gonna get the response you probably want. 869 00:32:29,282 --> 00:32:31,451 - So you're saying that there was 870 00:32:31,451 --> 00:32:35,989 no intimacy in your relationship with Redd? 871 00:32:35,989 --> 00:32:39,092 - No, that there was no intimacy where she was 872 00:32:39,092 --> 00:32:40,260 allowed to be the aggressor. 873 00:32:40,260 --> 00:32:41,761 - Like to please me. - Oh. 874 00:32:41,761 --> 00:32:43,096 - Oh, that bitch get pleased. 875 00:32:43,096 --> 00:32:46,432 The problem is you can't sit here and handle me. 876 00:32:46,432 --> 00:32:48,835 If I--if that ain't what I want, that ain't what I want. 877 00:32:48,835 --> 00:32:50,136 - Would you be with me if I couldn't-- 878 00:32:50,136 --> 00:32:52,205 if you couldn't touch me? 879 00:32:52,205 --> 00:32:53,907 - No. 880 00:32:53,907 --> 00:32:55,508 - Well, you just said it. 881 00:32:55,508 --> 00:32:57,443 - Yeah, because I'm the [bleep] in the relationship. 882 00:32:57,443 --> 00:33:00,780 I never even knew that that's what caused you to actually 883 00:33:00,780 --> 00:33:02,115 have sex with Yannie and have her 884 00:33:02,115 --> 00:33:03,316 kissing on your neck and stuff. 885 00:33:03,316 --> 00:33:04,817 - OK, I shouldn't have had sex with her. 886 00:33:04,817 --> 00:33:06,319 - Rubbing on your body. - You're right. You're right. 887 00:33:06,319 --> 00:33:07,253 - You know what I'm saying? - You're right about that. 888 00:33:07,253 --> 00:33:08,521 - But you a woman, though. 889 00:33:08,521 --> 00:33:09,556 You grown. 890 00:33:09,556 --> 00:33:10,723 You said yes to a ring 891 00:33:10,723 --> 00:33:13,026 just to have sex with another-- 892 00:33:13,026 --> 00:33:14,093 - I was wrong for that, but still, I feel like 893 00:33:14,093 --> 00:33:15,195 I was pushed into it. 894 00:33:15,195 --> 00:33:16,462 - [laughs] - So it's like-- 895 00:33:16,462 --> 00:33:18,431 - No, this [bleep] is not [bleep] funny. 896 00:33:18,431 --> 00:33:19,699 - It is funny. 897 00:33:19,699 --> 00:33:21,000 - It's not, Redd. - You know what? 898 00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:22,602 You right. It's not. 899 00:33:22,602 --> 00:33:24,070 OK, Tami, you right, stop. 900 00:33:24,070 --> 00:33:26,339 - And--and--and don't be condescending to me, 901 00:33:26,339 --> 00:33:29,242 because let me tell you something, I'm older than you, 902 00:33:29,242 --> 00:33:32,278 so I recognize your [bleep]. 903 00:33:32,278 --> 00:33:33,446 - All right. 904 00:33:33,446 --> 00:33:35,248 - And what you're doing right now 905 00:33:35,248 --> 00:33:39,485 is a disservice to yourself and a disservice to these two 906 00:33:39,485 --> 00:33:41,588 young ladies right here. 907 00:33:41,588 --> 00:33:46,693 You [bleep] said to me, I love this woman. 908 00:33:46,693 --> 00:33:47,827 - I do. 909 00:33:47,827 --> 00:33:48,795 - I don't want to lose her. 910 00:33:48,795 --> 00:33:49,929 - I don't. 911 00:33:49,929 --> 00:33:53,233 - And that comes from somewhere. 912 00:33:53,233 --> 00:33:55,835 - OK, I get where you're going at with that, goddamn. 913 00:33:55,835 --> 00:33:57,503 - Where am I going? - Girl, OK. 914 00:33:57,503 --> 00:33:59,205 - Where am I going? 915 00:33:59,205 --> 00:34:00,573 - All right, so I'm done. I'm done with the shenanigans. 916 00:34:00,573 --> 00:34:02,108 - Where am I going? Where am I going? 917 00:34:02,108 --> 00:34:03,543 Let me explain something to you, Lil Bit. 918 00:34:03,543 --> 00:34:05,078 - This bitch. 919 00:34:05,078 --> 00:34:06,913 - This--and I--and I know you know because you've been 920 00:34:06,913 --> 00:34:08,314 with her for nine years-- 921 00:34:08,314 --> 00:34:10,717 this--this person right here that 922 00:34:10,717 --> 00:34:14,087 we're all witnessing right now is her coping mechanism-- 923 00:34:14,087 --> 00:34:16,055 - I know. - --when [bleep] gets rough. 924 00:34:16,055 --> 00:34:17,390 - No, we're gonna talk about it. 925 00:34:17,390 --> 00:34:18,791 - She trying to make everybody [bleep] laugh 926 00:34:18,791 --> 00:34:21,127 and avoid what's really going on inside of her. 927 00:34:21,127 --> 00:34:22,495 - And I think she don't like to do that. 928 00:34:22,495 --> 00:34:23,930 - I know this. 929 00:34:23,930 --> 00:34:26,099 So this [bleep] she doing right now 930 00:34:26,099 --> 00:34:28,401 is some [bleep] [bleep]. 931 00:34:28,401 --> 00:34:32,105 And if she want to be with you, you gotta be [bleep] real. 932 00:34:32,105 --> 00:34:35,908 ♪ ♪ 933 00:34:37,460 --> 00:34:39,295 [tense music] 934 00:34:39,295 --> 00:34:42,699 - If she want to be with you, you gotta be [bleep] real. 935 00:34:42,699 --> 00:34:45,835 - OK! 936 00:34:45,835 --> 00:34:47,303 I do want to be with you. 937 00:34:47,303 --> 00:34:48,805 Yes, this [bleep] bother me. 938 00:34:48,805 --> 00:34:50,240 - Tell her why. 939 00:34:50,240 --> 00:34:51,808 - I want to be with you because you changed me. 940 00:34:51,808 --> 00:34:53,243 See what I'm saying? 941 00:34:53,243 --> 00:34:55,511 You make me feel a way I've never felt before. 942 00:34:55,511 --> 00:34:59,449 So it made me like, bitch, this the one. 943 00:34:59,449 --> 00:35:01,684 So at the end of the day, it's like, 944 00:35:01,684 --> 00:35:03,219 this [bleep] just threw me for a little... 945 00:35:03,219 --> 00:35:04,954 It caught me off guard, for real, for real. 946 00:35:04,954 --> 00:35:06,923 I really thought you had more class 947 00:35:06,923 --> 00:35:08,491 than what you experienced and what 948 00:35:08,491 --> 00:35:10,026 you showcasing right now. 949 00:35:10,026 --> 00:35:11,294 But you sitting here kiki-ing, talking about 950 00:35:11,294 --> 00:35:13,229 we finna put this on Redd tab. 951 00:35:13,229 --> 00:35:15,965 Then outside the club, you bitches is kissing. 952 00:35:15,965 --> 00:35:17,066 She all up on you. 953 00:35:17,066 --> 00:35:20,370 You falling on her like, ah. 954 00:35:20,370 --> 00:35:23,506 Then [bleep] Yannie tell you to take off your ring. 955 00:35:23,506 --> 00:35:25,541 Instead of you taking off your ring, you go the [bleep] 956 00:35:25,541 --> 00:35:28,378 in the bathroom and [bleep] this bitch. 957 00:35:28,378 --> 00:35:30,980 And this bitch supposed to be my friend! 958 00:35:30,980 --> 00:35:32,882 - I did come into this as they friend. 959 00:35:32,882 --> 00:35:35,752 I was flirting with her because she is the type of girl 960 00:35:35,752 --> 00:35:37,320 that I'm into. 961 00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:38,821 - So you are agreeing you came in this situation 962 00:35:38,821 --> 00:35:39,889 as our friend? - Yes. 963 00:35:39,889 --> 00:35:41,157 - OK. - I did. 964 00:35:41,157 --> 00:35:42,792 - We not friends anymore, but you and her 965 00:35:42,792 --> 00:35:45,395 can still be friends. 966 00:35:45,395 --> 00:35:48,298 - Redd, I want to know, could you see 967 00:35:48,298 --> 00:35:51,267 how she could feel if-- 968 00:35:51,267 --> 00:35:54,270 you know, if she wanted to show affection to you? 969 00:35:54,270 --> 00:35:55,471 Because she's shown affection in other ways. 970 00:35:55,471 --> 00:35:56,472 - Right. 971 00:35:56,472 --> 00:35:58,741 - And you would not allow that. 972 00:35:58,741 --> 00:36:00,109 Could you-- 973 00:36:00,109 --> 00:36:01,477 - I mean, I could see how it will make her, 974 00:36:01,477 --> 00:36:03,046 you know, feel a way and probably want 975 00:36:03,046 --> 00:36:04,013 to do other things because she can't 976 00:36:04,013 --> 00:36:06,916 do what I'm doing to her. 977 00:36:06,916 --> 00:36:10,153 I understand it. 978 00:36:12,121 --> 00:36:13,556 - I pour so much into her. 979 00:36:13,556 --> 00:36:16,960 I feel like it's not being poured back into me. 980 00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:19,329 So what the [bleep] do I do? 981 00:36:19,329 --> 00:36:22,765 - So, Redd, are you able to receive what she's saying 982 00:36:22,765 --> 00:36:28,271 in instances where it's about her, not intentionally, 983 00:36:28,271 --> 00:36:30,073 but there's a way that you make it 984 00:36:30,073 --> 00:36:31,841 about you to where she still has to be 985 00:36:31,841 --> 00:36:33,776 the caregiver for you? 986 00:36:33,776 --> 00:36:35,478 - This is correct. 987 00:36:35,478 --> 00:36:38,481 - What I want you to understand is if a person is constantly 988 00:36:38,481 --> 00:36:42,218 feeding in, then they give so much 989 00:36:42,218 --> 00:36:45,188 that they eventually are empty inside. 990 00:36:45,188 --> 00:36:46,723 It's not right, what she did. 991 00:36:46,723 --> 00:36:49,292 But if she don't have your shoulder to lean on, 992 00:36:49,292 --> 00:36:51,761 what is she supposed to do? 993 00:36:51,761 --> 00:36:56,466 You really got to understand your partner from a standpoint 994 00:36:56,466 --> 00:37:01,137 of pouring in and not being the only person that 995 00:37:01,137 --> 00:37:04,640 gets something out of this. 996 00:37:06,075 --> 00:37:07,243 - You right. 997 00:37:07,243 --> 00:37:10,213 [soft music] 998 00:37:10,213 --> 00:37:13,816 ♪ ♪ 999 00:37:13,816 --> 00:37:15,385 [sighs] 1000 00:37:15,385 --> 00:37:17,153 I'm hurt by the [bleep] you did 1001 00:37:17,153 --> 00:37:19,722 with what the [bleep] you did with Yannie. 1002 00:37:19,722 --> 00:37:24,594 But it's like, I feel like over time, we can talk about it. 1003 00:37:24,594 --> 00:37:27,397 We could probably come from it because you 1004 00:37:27,397 --> 00:37:31,234 doing [bleep] off of another person actions, which is me. 1005 00:37:31,234 --> 00:37:32,935 I'm doing [bleep] off of some [bleep] 1006 00:37:32,935 --> 00:37:37,340 I'm holding onto from the past that you don't know about 1007 00:37:37,340 --> 00:37:39,342 because I don't speak on it. 1008 00:37:39,342 --> 00:37:42,545 So it's like, it actually takes away from you. 1009 00:37:42,545 --> 00:37:46,315 So really, I'm cheating you but still getting mad that-- 1010 00:37:46,315 --> 00:37:47,450 - That you're not sharing. 1011 00:37:47,450 --> 00:37:48,284 - Yeah. 1012 00:37:48,284 --> 00:37:49,685 You get what I'm saying? 1013 00:37:49,685 --> 00:37:52,121 So if anything, you know, I want to ride 1014 00:37:52,121 --> 00:37:54,624 this thing out with you, man. 1015 00:37:54,624 --> 00:37:56,359 Now, I ain't gonna sit here and say 1016 00:37:56,359 --> 00:37:57,760 that we finna get married on the day 1017 00:37:57,760 --> 00:38:01,230 that we chose because we got some-- 1018 00:38:01,230 --> 00:38:02,899 some working on things to do. 1019 00:38:02,899 --> 00:38:04,700 I ain't finna sit here and cap. 1020 00:38:04,700 --> 00:38:09,238 - Lil Bit, you still want to have a relationship with Redd? 1021 00:38:09,238 --> 00:38:12,708 - Oh, you still want to be with me? 1022 00:38:12,708 --> 00:38:14,010 [laughs] 1023 00:38:14,010 --> 00:38:16,612 - What about your interaction with Yannie? 1024 00:38:16,612 --> 00:38:20,049 - I feel like my interaction with Yannie was disrespectful. 1025 00:38:20,049 --> 00:38:21,751 - OK. 1026 00:38:21,751 --> 00:38:24,487 - So I wouldn't want it-- want it to be awkward for her. 1027 00:38:24,487 --> 00:38:27,256 But as of right now, I don't think it's comfortable for-- 1028 00:38:27,256 --> 00:38:29,292 - So you're severing ties with Yannie 1029 00:38:29,292 --> 00:38:32,929 to be able to focus on your relationship with Redd? 1030 00:38:32,929 --> 00:38:35,031 And Redd, we know you not friends with Yannie. 1031 00:38:35,031 --> 00:38:36,766 - Right. 1032 00:38:36,766 --> 00:38:40,937 - And you want to continue your relationship with Lil Bit. 1033 00:38:40,937 --> 00:38:42,972 Everybody clear? 1034 00:38:42,972 --> 00:38:45,641 And I want you to diligently keep working on yourself, 1035 00:38:45,641 --> 00:38:51,080 because in this moment, you need to grow the [bleep] up. 1036 00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:52,415 - I don't know. 1037 00:38:52,415 --> 00:38:53,950 I just feel like I ain't have to be here 1038 00:38:53,950 --> 00:38:55,284 for this counseling session. 1039 00:38:55,284 --> 00:38:58,154 And these cameras just threw me off. 1040 00:38:58,154 --> 00:39:01,591 Like, I'm just ready to go. 1041 00:39:02,892 --> 00:39:03,960 - I feel embarrassed. 1042 00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:05,394 I was wrong. 1043 00:39:05,394 --> 00:39:07,363 She had her wrongs, but at the end of the day, 1044 00:39:07,363 --> 00:39:09,866 I was more wrong because I did actually step out. 1045 00:39:09,866 --> 00:39:12,568 - I want you do better, be better, Redd. 1046 00:39:12,568 --> 00:39:14,170 - OK. 1047 00:39:14,170 --> 00:39:15,404 I really found out what the [bleep] 1048 00:39:15,404 --> 00:39:16,973 I've always been thinking. 1049 00:39:16,973 --> 00:39:18,174 You've been cheating on me. 1050 00:39:18,174 --> 00:39:20,243 You could have just told me. 1051 00:39:20,243 --> 00:39:21,978 But it's cool. 1052 00:39:21,978 --> 00:39:24,647 You know, I take my fault, too, because at the end of the day, 1053 00:39:24,647 --> 00:39:27,583 you can drive your woman or your partner 1054 00:39:27,583 --> 00:39:29,285 to do things they thought they probably 1055 00:39:29,285 --> 00:39:30,653 would never be able to do. 1056 00:39:30,653 --> 00:39:33,356 It made me want to reevaluate myself. 1057 00:39:33,356 --> 00:39:36,000 But I still don't like what I saw, like, you know? 1058 00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:37,226 But I still don't like what I saw, like, you know? 1059 00:39:37,226 --> 00:39:38,794 [upbeat music] 1060 00:39:38,794 --> 00:39:43,733 - ♪ Why don't you slide through tonight ♪ 1061 00:39:43,733 --> 00:39:45,134 [line ringing] 1062 00:39:45,134 --> 00:39:50,606 - OK, Redd, I was checking in to speak with you. 1063 00:39:50,606 --> 00:39:54,343 I had no idea I would get Lil Bit, too. 1064 00:39:54,343 --> 00:39:56,212 [laughter] 1065 00:39:56,212 --> 00:40:00,449 So the question, are you guys still together? 1066 00:40:00,449 --> 00:40:02,051 - Yeah, we're still together. 1067 00:40:02,051 --> 00:40:03,553 - What about the wedding? 1068 00:40:03,553 --> 00:40:07,223 - I would love for the wedding to still be on. 1069 00:40:07,223 --> 00:40:08,324 - I don't even have my ring. 1070 00:40:08,324 --> 00:40:09,926 - She don't have her ring. 1071 00:40:09,926 --> 00:40:11,761 - Where your ring at? 1072 00:40:11,761 --> 00:40:14,330 - When she clean, she take off her ring. 1073 00:40:14,330 --> 00:40:16,199 So I just took advantage and took it. 1074 00:40:16,199 --> 00:40:17,900 - Of course she did. 1075 00:40:17,900 --> 00:40:22,004 - So is it that you don't want to be married any longer? 1076 00:40:22,004 --> 00:40:23,739 - No, I do, I do. 1077 00:40:23,739 --> 00:40:25,308 - So then you should give her the ring back because that's 1078 00:40:25,308 --> 00:40:27,210 childish and that's immature. 1079 00:40:27,210 --> 00:40:28,578 - You right. You right. 1080 00:40:28,578 --> 00:40:29,812 I don't have nothing to say on it. 1081 00:40:29,812 --> 00:40:31,714 She said the same thing. 1082 00:40:31,714 --> 00:40:36,519 - Look at y'all two, this old, toxic, dysfunctional love. 1083 00:40:36,519 --> 00:40:39,388 I do think that there's hope for you ladies, 1084 00:40:39,388 --> 00:40:41,557 and I want you guys to do the work 1085 00:40:41,557 --> 00:40:45,528 because I truly, truly believe that 1086 00:40:45,528 --> 00:40:47,196 you guys will be great together. 1087 00:40:47,196 --> 00:40:51,901 And specifically you, Redd, there's big things ahead, OK? 1088 00:40:51,901 --> 00:40:53,102 - Thank you. 1089 00:40:53,102 --> 00:40:54,103 - All right, y'all. 1090 00:40:54,103 --> 00:40:55,338 - Bye. See you later. 1091 00:40:55,338 --> 00:40:57,473 - Bye. 1092 00:40:57,473 --> 00:40:59,342 Cheaters, beware. 1093 00:40:59,342 --> 00:41:01,177 - You [bleep] kissed her, you idiot. 1094 00:41:01,177 --> 00:41:03,879 - Next time you want to be unfaithful, think again. 1095 00:41:03,879 --> 00:41:06,849 Let me tell you one [bleep] thing. 1096 00:41:06,849 --> 00:41:09,151 - Oh, Lord. Oh, Lord. Oh, Lord. Oh, Lord. 1097 00:41:09,151 --> 00:41:10,419 - Because I just might... 1098 00:41:10,419 --> 00:41:11,420 Oh, God, she's running. 1099 00:41:11,420 --> 00:41:13,055 Catch you in the act. 1100 00:41:13,055 --> 00:41:13,990 ♪ ♪ 1101 00:41:20,472 --> 00:41:23,375 [hip-hop music] 1102 00:41:23,375 --> 00:41:30,515 ♪ ♪