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- ♪ MTV ♪
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- I'm Tami Roman.
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I have been cheated on before.
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You [bleep] my man
when I was married to him.
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I even wrote a book about it.
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And I've made it
my mission to help
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suspicious lovers catch their
cheating partners in the act.
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Hold up.
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- Man, you brought this
to my place of business?
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How dare you.
What is this?
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- What the [bleep]...
- Ooh!
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Together with my
relationship coaches--
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- You've gotta tell her
about the insecurities
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that you have.
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That's how y'all
work through it.
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- This is a situation where
you have to say I'm gonna
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step up and do what's right.
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- --and stealthy
investigation team--
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- They think they slick.
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Well, we slicker.
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- --we won't stop until
we find the truth.
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Cheaters, beware.
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- I'm [bleep] torn.
I love them both.
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- You gotta fundamentally say
I'm gonna be different.
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- Who the [bleep]
do you think you are?
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- Why the [bleep] do y'all
got cameras in my crib?
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What the [bleep]
is wrong with you?
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- Damn it! Damn it!
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- Nobody should think they're
better than anybody else,
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because y'all all
[bleep] been played.
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And that's just the truth.
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This is "Caught in the Act
Unfaithful."
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- ♪ Everybody preach ♪
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♪ Yeah, yeah ♪
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♪ Whole world, shake it up
with some good energy ♪
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♪ Shake it up ♪
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♪ Shake it up, yeah ♪
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- Hello there, Redd.
- Hey.
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- How are you?
- Good.
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How you doing?
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- I'm oh--oop, wait.
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- What?
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- I know you.
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- I don't know, maybe.
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- No, I know your face.
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- Where you know me from?
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- Have you been on TV?
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- Mm-hmm, I have.
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- Got it.
- Yeah.
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- OK, got it, got it,
got it, got it,
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got it, got it, got it.
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So this is going
to be interesting--
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- Very.
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- --because I feel like
I'm familiar with you,
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but I'm sure there's some
stuff that you're gonna
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tell me that I don't know.
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- Yeah.
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- So tell me about Redd
and where Redd comes from.
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- My childhood was just rough.
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And I overcame that.
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- You had both parents
in the household?
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- Yeah, up until I was 10.
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- OK, and how was that,
with both parents?
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- It was fun.
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It was bad.
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It was fun, you know?
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- And then, at 10, your mom and
dad said, this ain't working?
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- Yeah, yeah, but that's why
you got the streets, though.
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You got [bleep] on the streets
though and [bleep] together...
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- You feel like you
learned from the streets?
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- Yeah, you gonna
most definitely
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learn from the streets.
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- What you feel
the streets taught you?
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- How to fight, how to stay
in trouble, how to go to jail.
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I went to jail a lot of times.
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My first time going to jail
was right before
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I graduated high school.
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The second time was
in college, and that's
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'cause I was getting money.
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And the third time was because
I was getting more money.
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And then, the fourth time
was violation of probation.
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- Of getting the money's times?
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- Yeah, mm-hmm.
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And then, yeah, that's where
I met Lil Bit at, in jail.
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- She walked in
and you were like, "Ahhh!"
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- I just was like, "Ahh."
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Yeah, when I seen her, like,
I really, like, brightened up.
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Like, I really like,
damn, is she the one?
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Is this what the [bleep]
love at first sight feel like?
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Like--
- Mm.
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She walks in,
you're like, I want her.
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- Yeah.
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- How do you--how do you
make that happen?
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- I just wrote a note
and just was like, I like you.
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Just talked to each other
every day from there.
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I ain't never felt
like this about nobody
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I ever was involved with.
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- OK.
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- I was like, damn.
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Like, she got potential.
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- What was it about her
that made her different?
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- She was little.
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I just like little people.
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That's, like, a turn-on, like,
just little people in general.
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Like, you know how you got some
people, they be like, yeah,
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I like hips, I like breasts.
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I like little people
because they so little.
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- [laughs]
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- So yeah, she fine, right?
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- OK.
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- And, you know, it was
just one of those I knew.
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So I was like, you about to
get out in a couple of days.
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I'm getting out the
same day but just
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later on in the day because
she came in January 2014.
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We got out the end of January--
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January 27, 2014.
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She went home for
a couple of months.
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She came back with me April.
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- And she moved in?
- Yep.
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- And y'all been
together ever since?
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- Ever since.
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Nine years,
we've been together.
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And I proposed to her,
I think, year seven.
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Because of that girl,
I'm trying to change.
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- What are you trying
to change and why
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are you trying to change it?
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- Like, my attitude, my ways.
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- Your attitude and your ways?
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- Yeah, it could come off
very nasty.
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- Do you think she loves you
because you're you,
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or is it because you're on TV?
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- Nah, she just love me for me,
because, I mean, it's me.
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I ain't have no money
from the show.
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You get what I'm saying?
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Like, I thought that show
was gonna change my life.
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It didn't change
nothing for me.
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It just got me
a lot of followers.
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Money, none.
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- Got you.
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- So it ain't like she
was with me for any money.
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It got real rough.
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Like, it was to the point,
like, where
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Lil Bit was working two jobs--
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- Mm.
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- --taking care of me.
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- OK.
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- And yeah, like,
we been doing YouTube
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for the past four years.
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And it just really
went everywhere.
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Like, we just started
getting hella followers.
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We are back with another
banger video, guys.
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You already know.
Fire!
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Flames!
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Explosion!
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- Make sure you--
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- Like--
- The--
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- Blog.
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- And leave those comments
down below.
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- So when are you guys
getting married?
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It's been nine years.
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- Supposedly next year.
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[mumbles]
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- And you really want to do it?
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- Absolutely.
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- OK.
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So why are you here?
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- She starting to do [bleep]
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she ain't never
used to do before.
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- Like what?
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- She get phone calls that
she step out of the room
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and have when she on the phone
with this certain individual.
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- So you have someone that you
think she is cheating with?
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- Yes.
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- Who's that?
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- Oh, her name is Yannie.
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- Yannie?
- Mm-hmm.
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- Is that a friend of you guys?
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- Yeah.
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This is year two of us
knowing each other.
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- OK.
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So if you found out
that Lil Bit was
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having a relationship
with somebody else,
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would you still marry her?
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- No.
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I don't think I could.
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- So do you really
want me to find out
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for you if I'm able to?
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Because there really
could be nothing going on.
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- Yes, go ahead, find out.
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- Yes, go ahead, find out.
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- OK.
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- Because we wanna know, right?
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- It's--yeah.
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I think you'd be sad, though.
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I think you'd be sad.
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- Oh, I'm most definitely
gonna be sad.
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I'm gonna be hurt.
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Come on, man.
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This nine years.
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- I think you have
a real good way of keeping up
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enough hard exterior--
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- Yeah.
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- --that you don't show
all of your emotions.
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- I don't.
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This is exactly why I need you.
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I play about a lot of things,
but I don't play
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about my happiness, OK?
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Let's just pray.
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- Yeah,
that nothing's going on.
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So the way it works for me is
I have my investigation teams
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go out there and start doing
surveillance on Lil Bit
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to see if there's
anything going on, right?
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- Right.
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- In the event
they find something,
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then I'll call you
back into the office,
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and we'll discuss it,
all right?
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But I think what will help me
is if you would give
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my investigation team
permission to put
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cameras in the house
so that we could
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kind of see what's going on.
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- Mm-hmm.
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Well, yeah, you can do that.
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- OK, and then in the interim,
I just need you to be normal.
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Don't let her know that we've
had a conversation in any way
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so that she can
continue to be normal
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if there's anything going on.
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- Mm-hmm, keep doing
what she doing.
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- Yeah, OK.
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So keep peacocking.
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- Oh, I am.
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- Let me get on up out of here.
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- OK, thank you for helping me.
- You're welcome.
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- ♪ And you love to say
I'm crazy ♪
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♪ Suspicious and insecure ♪
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♪ But I'll show you crazy when
you walk through the door ♪
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- Day one!
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I'm sitting out in front
of their house right now.
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Redd left about an hour ago.
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I'm here a couple
of hours already,
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but I'm just gonna hang out
and see what Lil Bit does.
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No movement yet.
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Here she comes.
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And she's off.
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Looks like she pulled over
somewhere.
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Where the heck are we?
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I'm gonna pull over now so
I don't get frigging pinched.
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Oh, who's that?
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All right, they went inside.
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I don't know who that person
was, but I'm gonna sit here.
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I'm gonna check this address
and let me see if I can get
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a name of this property.
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Oh, man, she just got out.
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I didn't see her.
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She just left the house.
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♪ ♪
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Damn. Damn, I lost her.
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I'm screwed.
259
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♪ ♪
260
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[tense music]
261
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♪ ♪
262
00:09:24,089 --> 00:09:26,525
- Lost her yesterday,
but I'm back
263
00:09:26,525 --> 00:09:28,193
at her house this morning.
264
00:09:28,193 --> 00:09:30,562
Hopefully, today,
she'll get out of the house
265
00:09:30,562 --> 00:09:33,665
so we could get my tech guys
in there setting up cameras.
266
00:09:33,665 --> 00:09:36,435
That's my hope.
267
00:09:36,435 --> 00:09:37,903
Been here a couple
of hours now.
268
00:09:37,903 --> 00:09:42,808
Still no movement,
but anything could happen.
269
00:09:42,808 --> 00:09:46,378
Oh, she's just leaving
the house right now.
270
00:09:46,378 --> 00:09:48,580
This is great.
271
00:09:48,580 --> 00:09:52,918
OK, she's getting in her car.
272
00:09:52,918 --> 00:09:56,988
OK, OK, here she goes.
273
00:09:56,988 --> 00:09:59,925
I'm gonna track how long
it takes us to get there
274
00:09:59,925 --> 00:10:02,327
because that's gonna help
because the distance there
275
00:10:02,327 --> 00:10:04,029
will be the distance back.
276
00:10:04,029 --> 00:10:06,998
That's extra time for my guys
to put up the cameras.
277
00:10:06,998 --> 00:10:10,335
Oh, it looks like
she's pulling up to some kind
278
00:10:10,335 --> 00:10:13,004
of gaming arcade place.
279
00:10:16,541 --> 00:10:20,745
Oh, who's that?
280
00:10:20,745 --> 00:10:23,014
OK, I need you to go
into that house.
281
00:10:23,014 --> 00:10:25,917
Get in there and get out ASAP.
282
00:10:25,917 --> 00:10:27,352
So they're in there.
283
00:10:27,352 --> 00:10:30,288
So now I'm going to take
my coffee cup camera.
284
00:10:30,288 --> 00:10:31,389
And it's inconspicuous.
285
00:10:31,389 --> 00:10:32,691
No one's gonna think anything.
286
00:10:32,691 --> 00:10:34,893
It's a freaking
coffee cup, right?
287
00:10:34,893 --> 00:10:37,429
I got to go inside
and see who this woman is.
288
00:10:37,429 --> 00:10:40,532
[suspenseful music]
289
00:10:40,532 --> 00:10:47,672
♪ ♪
290
00:10:57,482 --> 00:11:01,319
- Oh, wow,
it was a good--good day.
291
00:11:01,319 --> 00:11:03,755
Hey, hey, you guys got to get
out of the house now.
292
00:11:03,755 --> 00:11:05,724
She's coming back.
293
00:11:05,724 --> 00:11:06,825
Just hurry, hurry.
294
00:11:06,825 --> 00:11:09,661
OK, thanks, bye.
295
00:11:09,661 --> 00:11:12,964
OK, now they're gonna leave
and we're gonna follow them.
296
00:11:12,964 --> 00:11:14,666
They have one more camera
to put up.
297
00:11:14,666 --> 00:11:15,767
They want five minutes.
298
00:11:15,767 --> 00:11:16,935
We don't have five minutes.
299
00:11:16,935 --> 00:11:20,105
[suspenseful music]
300
00:11:20,105 --> 00:11:24,075
♪ ♪
301
00:11:44,763 --> 00:11:47,699
OK, I parked close enough
so I could get the feed.
302
00:11:47,699 --> 00:11:50,235
So here we have--all right,
they got it in the family room,
303
00:11:50,235 --> 00:11:51,670
good, kitchen.
304
00:11:51,670 --> 00:11:54,873
It looks like--oh, she's
in a house robe and slippers.
305
00:11:54,873 --> 00:11:56,374
I'm gonna wrap this up
and call it a day.
306
00:11:56,374 --> 00:11:57,642
I don't think
she's going anywhere.
307
00:11:57,642 --> 00:11:59,511
I think we're good for today.
308
00:11:59,511 --> 00:12:02,480
[upbeat music]
309
00:12:02,480 --> 00:12:08,420
♪ ♪
310
00:12:10,822 --> 00:12:12,657
OK, we're at Redd's house.
311
00:12:12,657 --> 00:12:13,925
It's day three.
312
00:12:13,925 --> 00:12:15,794
No one is home.
313
00:12:15,794 --> 00:12:18,029
So maybe she's at that house
314
00:12:18,029 --> 00:12:20,265
I followed her to
the other day.
315
00:12:20,265 --> 00:12:24,402
Call it a hunch.
316
00:12:24,402 --> 00:12:28,306
I just got a weird feeling.
317
00:12:28,306 --> 00:12:31,509
As you can see,
I'm not seeing Lil Bit's car.
318
00:12:31,509 --> 00:12:34,412
I'm just gonna just sit
and wait a little bit.
319
00:12:34,412 --> 00:12:37,382
[suspenseful music]
320
00:12:37,382 --> 00:12:42,487
♪ ♪
321
00:12:42,487 --> 00:12:45,090
And there they are.
322
00:12:45,090 --> 00:12:47,859
Looks like they're getting
into a rideshare.
323
00:12:53,198 --> 00:12:54,599
This is a friggin' strip club.
324
00:12:54,599 --> 00:12:57,502
I'm at a strip club again.
325
00:12:57,502 --> 00:12:59,471
I'm at the strip clubs
more than the strippers
326
00:12:59,471 --> 00:13:01,072
are at the strip club.
327
00:13:01,072 --> 00:13:04,209
So in the game room, I went,
like, you know, my hair
328
00:13:04,209 --> 00:13:05,910
like this,
but I'm at a strip club.
329
00:13:05,910 --> 00:13:07,545
So I'm gonna put
a wig on for this,
330
00:13:07,545 --> 00:13:10,615
and I'm going to use glasses.
331
00:13:10,615 --> 00:13:12,017
They just have
good video on it.
332
00:13:12,017 --> 00:13:13,351
It's gonna be loud in there.
333
00:13:13,351 --> 00:13:15,353
So I'm really looking
for video.
334
00:13:17,555 --> 00:13:19,824
I'm going.
335
00:13:19,824 --> 00:13:26,931
♪ ♪
336
00:13:26,931 --> 00:13:28,867
- ♪ Get stacks,
all stacks, bro, cash ♪
337
00:13:28,867 --> 00:13:30,435
- ♪ Cash ♪
- ♪ Don't like it, double up ♪
338
00:13:30,435 --> 00:13:31,936
♪ Run in back ♪
- ♪ Run it back ♪
339
00:13:31,936 --> 00:13:33,138
- ♪ Get stacks on stacks... ♪
340
00:13:33,138 --> 00:13:36,274
[hip-hop music playing]
341
00:13:36,274 --> 00:13:38,543
♪ Out of pocket,
getting money, get my jeans ♪
342
00:13:38,543 --> 00:13:40,278
- ♪ Calling the shots ♪
343
00:13:40,278 --> 00:13:42,480
♪ Party all night, you know
we ain't gonna stop ♪
344
00:13:49,921 --> 00:13:51,389
- Wow, I got some
good evidence.
345
00:13:51,389 --> 00:13:53,992
They're totally together,
these two.
346
00:13:55,860 --> 00:13:57,429
She got to go home.
347
00:13:57,429 --> 00:14:01,132
I mean, she's drunk,
drunk, drunk, drunk, drunk.
348
00:14:01,132 --> 00:14:04,936
So it looks like they're
taking separate cars tonight.
349
00:14:04,936 --> 00:14:06,905
And we're off.
350
00:14:10,008 --> 00:14:14,913
All right, here we are guys,
Redd and Lil Bit's house.
351
00:14:14,913 --> 00:14:16,000
All right, so we got
the cameras inside.
352
00:14:16,000 --> 00:14:16,381
All right, so we got
the cameras inside.
353
00:14:16,381 --> 00:14:17,882
We're gonna go check out
and see
354
00:14:17,882 --> 00:14:20,518
what the heck is going on
there.
355
00:14:20,518 --> 00:14:27,425
♪ ♪
356
00:14:27,425 --> 00:14:29,461
I think she's going
to bed, guys.
357
00:14:29,461 --> 00:14:30,762
She's going to bed.
358
00:14:30,762 --> 00:14:34,032
Good night, Lil Bit.
359
00:14:34,032 --> 00:14:36,935
See you mañana.
360
00:14:36,935 --> 00:14:43,241
♪ ♪
361
00:14:43,241 --> 00:14:44,676
Day four.
362
00:14:44,676 --> 00:14:46,077
I'm in position.
363
00:14:46,077 --> 00:14:47,979
We got the cameras, you know,
inside the house.
364
00:14:47,979 --> 00:14:49,748
Redd's car isn't here.
365
00:14:49,748 --> 00:14:51,916
She is out for the day.
366
00:14:51,916 --> 00:14:53,651
And they're inside the house.
367
00:14:53,651 --> 00:14:55,653
And now we're gonna see
what the hell goes on.
368
00:14:55,653 --> 00:14:56,688
I'm very excited.
369
00:14:56,688 --> 00:14:57,822
This is my favorite part.
370
00:14:57,822 --> 00:14:59,290
This is it.
371
00:15:25,250 --> 00:15:26,351
- Wow.
372
00:15:26,351 --> 00:15:27,552
- Come on.
373
00:15:27,552 --> 00:15:29,053
Follow me.
374
00:15:29,053 --> 00:15:30,088
It's gonna be great.
375
00:15:30,088 --> 00:15:34,359
♪ ♪
376
00:15:36,636 --> 00:15:37,737
- ♪ Are you a nice guy
or a wise guy ♪
377
00:15:37,737 --> 00:15:38,738
♪ You said it don't matter ♪
378
00:15:38,738 --> 00:15:40,106
♪ I'm just your type ♪
379
00:15:40,106 --> 00:15:41,475
♪ I'm saying all
the right things ♪
380
00:15:41,475 --> 00:15:42,843
- Coach Ken.
381
00:15:42,843 --> 00:15:44,444
- Hey, hey.
Let me take off--
382
00:15:44,444 --> 00:15:45,712
- How you doing?
383
00:15:45,712 --> 00:15:46,847
- Doing fantastic.
- You look nice.
384
00:15:46,847 --> 00:15:47,981
- How are you?
Thank you.
385
00:15:47,981 --> 00:15:49,850
Likewise. Good to see you.
386
00:15:49,850 --> 00:15:50,951
- Same here.
387
00:15:50,951 --> 00:15:51,985
- All right.
388
00:15:51,985 --> 00:15:54,621
- So Redd and Lil Bit.
389
00:15:54,621 --> 00:15:56,923
- Yeah, yeah, I got the file.
390
00:15:56,923 --> 00:15:58,258
First thing I noticed,
I noticed
391
00:15:58,258 --> 00:15:59,493
she had a big personality.
392
00:15:59,493 --> 00:16:00,760
- Yes.
393
00:16:00,760 --> 00:16:02,562
- And how did you deal
with that?
394
00:16:02,562 --> 00:16:06,867
- She's just very boisterous,
and loud,
395
00:16:06,867 --> 00:16:09,402
and commands the room.
396
00:16:09,402 --> 00:16:12,205
You know,
so it's all just kind of all
397
00:16:12,205 --> 00:16:15,809
over the place with her.
398
00:16:15,809 --> 00:16:17,244
Hey, there, Redd.
399
00:16:17,244 --> 00:16:18,211
- Hey.
400
00:16:18,211 --> 00:16:19,880
- Thank you for coming on in.
401
00:16:19,880 --> 00:16:21,314
- Yeah, what you got for me?
402
00:16:21,314 --> 00:16:24,317
- Well, Redd, first off,
this is Coach Ken.
403
00:16:24,317 --> 00:16:27,220
He's a relationship expert,
and I brought him here today
404
00:16:27,220 --> 00:16:29,756
to help us talk
through everything
405
00:16:29,756 --> 00:16:33,293
that we're going to see today.
406
00:16:33,293 --> 00:16:34,794
- OK.
407
00:16:34,794 --> 00:16:38,798
- So I have to ask you,
Redd, before I show you this,
408
00:16:38,798 --> 00:16:42,903
I want to make sure that
you actually want to see it
409
00:16:42,903 --> 00:16:45,539
because what you see
could potentially
410
00:16:45,539 --> 00:16:50,010
change your relationship with
Lil Bit going forward forever.
411
00:16:50,010 --> 00:16:51,011
- I'm ready.
412
00:16:51,011 --> 00:16:53,480
- OK.
413
00:16:53,480 --> 00:16:59,085
We trail her to this strip mall
type environment
414
00:16:59,085 --> 00:17:01,888
where she's meeting up with--
415
00:17:01,888 --> 00:17:03,290
- Yannie.
416
00:17:03,290 --> 00:17:04,691
- Which is the one
you were telling me about
417
00:17:04,691 --> 00:17:06,293
the other day?
- Yes.
418
00:17:06,293 --> 00:17:07,961
- OK.
- Well, let's keep watching.
419
00:17:07,961 --> 00:17:09,462
Let's see what happens.
420
00:17:14,668 --> 00:17:16,870
- Oh, they actin' real bad.
421
00:17:16,870 --> 00:17:18,004
On my tab?
422
00:17:18,004 --> 00:17:20,073
- Holding hands.
423
00:17:20,073 --> 00:17:22,275
She went to the arcade
with Yannie,
424
00:17:22,275 --> 00:17:24,377
but then she came home alone.
425
00:17:24,377 --> 00:17:27,347
But their interaction
at the arcade,
426
00:17:27,347 --> 00:17:31,117
holding hands and, "Let's get
a drink on Redd's tab."
427
00:17:31,117 --> 00:17:32,586
- I don't like that.
428
00:17:32,586 --> 00:17:34,521
- Nobody wants to be viewed
as a wallet.
429
00:17:34,521 --> 00:17:36,823
- Yeah, nobody does.
430
00:17:36,823 --> 00:17:39,960
- Let's see our next day.
431
00:17:39,960 --> 00:17:40,994
They ended up--
432
00:17:40,994 --> 00:17:43,029
- Is they at the strip club?
433
00:17:43,029 --> 00:17:45,231
I know that ho.
- --at the strip club.
434
00:17:49,369 --> 00:17:52,973
Shot, shot, shots,
probably on your tab again.
435
00:18:09,456 --> 00:18:11,825
- What--what are you
bothered by?
436
00:18:11,825 --> 00:18:13,426
- Everything.
437
00:18:13,426 --> 00:18:15,161
My tab, for one.
438
00:18:15,161 --> 00:18:17,397
I don't pay for something
I'm not a part of.
439
00:18:17,397 --> 00:18:18,598
- Mm-hmm.
440
00:18:18,598 --> 00:18:21,034
- That's my fiancée,
like, you know?
441
00:18:21,034 --> 00:18:24,037
When it's like that,
it's like, come on, man,
442
00:18:24,037 --> 00:18:25,105
we know what the [bleep]
time it is.
443
00:18:25,105 --> 00:18:27,007
We know what's going on.
444
00:18:27,007 --> 00:18:28,942
- Do you want to see
the last clip?
445
00:18:28,942 --> 00:18:29,976
- No, but we can.
446
00:18:29,976 --> 00:18:31,444
We here now.
447
00:18:31,444 --> 00:18:33,046
[bleep], we might as well
finish it up.
448
00:18:33,046 --> 00:18:34,714
- Well, I don't want to do
anything you don't want to do.
449
00:18:34,714 --> 00:18:36,549
- Go ahead, let's play it.
450
00:18:36,549 --> 00:18:38,885
Let's run it.
451
00:18:38,885 --> 00:18:40,086
- This is your house.
452
00:18:40,086 --> 00:18:41,554
- Mm-hmm.
453
00:18:58,238 --> 00:19:00,006
- This bitch is dumb.
454
00:19:15,055 --> 00:19:17,023
- They went into your restroom.
455
00:19:17,023 --> 00:19:19,159
- Uh-uh.
456
00:19:19,159 --> 00:19:21,227
- But, of course,
we would not never
457
00:19:21,227 --> 00:19:22,562
put cameras in the restroom.
458
00:19:22,562 --> 00:19:24,964
So then we shut it down
because they--
459
00:19:24,964 --> 00:19:27,233
they were in there
for a minute.
460
00:19:27,233 --> 00:19:29,269
- So when you say a minute,
how long?
461
00:19:29,269 --> 00:19:30,303
What's a minute?
462
00:19:30,303 --> 00:19:31,838
- They was in there.
463
00:19:31,838 --> 00:19:33,506
- For how long, Tami?
464
00:19:33,506 --> 00:19:36,443
- We shut our cameras down
after 45 minutes.
465
00:19:36,443 --> 00:19:37,911
- 45 [bleep] minutes?
466
00:19:37,911 --> 00:19:39,045
- Mm-hmm.
- Really?
467
00:19:39,045 --> 00:19:40,080
- Mm-hmm.
468
00:19:40,080 --> 00:19:41,181
- 45 minutes?
469
00:19:41,181 --> 00:19:42,515
- Mm-hmm.
470
00:19:42,515 --> 00:19:44,617
I think--I think you know
what we heard.
471
00:19:44,617 --> 00:19:47,754
I think you know what
they were doing in there.
472
00:19:47,754 --> 00:19:50,290
- OK.
473
00:19:50,290 --> 00:19:52,425
- Can you tell me
the emotions you--
474
00:19:52,425 --> 00:19:54,694
that you're feeling?
475
00:19:54,694 --> 00:19:57,197
- I'm really not good
with putting my emotions
476
00:19:57,197 --> 00:19:59,065
and feelings out there.
477
00:19:59,065 --> 00:20:00,600
You know what I'm saying?
478
00:20:00,600 --> 00:20:04,270
If this was me four years ago,
five years ago,
479
00:20:04,270 --> 00:20:05,739
I wouldn't even be
sitting here right now.
480
00:20:05,739 --> 00:20:06,840
- Right.
481
00:20:06,840 --> 00:20:08,641
- Understood.
482
00:20:08,641 --> 00:20:10,243
- I would be dragging both
of them [bleep] out the door.
483
00:20:10,243 --> 00:20:11,411
- Understood.
484
00:20:11,411 --> 00:20:13,313
- I'm not trying
to be like that.
485
00:20:13,313 --> 00:20:16,316
- My wife always says to me,
everybody want to change,
486
00:20:16,316 --> 00:20:18,184
but nobody wants
to make change.
487
00:20:18,184 --> 00:20:21,154
- I'm most definitely
trying to change.
488
00:20:21,154 --> 00:20:22,956
You know, it's been nine years.
489
00:20:22,956 --> 00:20:26,926
So I don't know what would make
a person just do those things.
490
00:20:26,926 --> 00:20:29,929
It makes me upset.
491
00:20:29,929 --> 00:20:31,931
It hurt my feelings.
492
00:20:31,931 --> 00:20:33,666
I'm hurt.
493
00:20:33,666 --> 00:20:34,734
- That's good.
494
00:20:34,734 --> 00:20:35,000
Thank you.
495
00:20:35,000 --> 00:20:35,935
Thank you.
496
00:20:35,935 --> 00:20:38,671
- Hey, how you did that?
497
00:20:38,671 --> 00:20:40,874
See, you is good.
498
00:20:40,874 --> 00:20:42,108
You got a book, too?
499
00:20:42,108 --> 00:20:43,576
[laughter]
500
00:20:43,576 --> 00:20:45,779
- We just gonna
work through this.
501
00:20:45,779 --> 00:20:48,848
- You see, I knew you
was gonna help me, man.
502
00:20:48,848 --> 00:20:50,049
I knew it.
503
00:20:50,049 --> 00:20:51,951
So what we finna do?
504
00:20:51,951 --> 00:20:53,820
- I can give you two options.
505
00:20:53,820 --> 00:20:55,221
- What?
506
00:20:55,221 --> 00:20:57,323
- The first one would be
where you sit down and have
507
00:20:57,323 --> 00:20:59,592
a conversation with
Yannie where you can
508
00:20:59,592 --> 00:21:01,394
have a one-on-one with her.
509
00:21:01,394 --> 00:21:03,096
- No, I don't like one-on-ones.
510
00:21:03,096 --> 00:21:04,798
- OK.
511
00:21:04,798 --> 00:21:07,801
Then the other option would
be I can get my surveillance
512
00:21:07,801 --> 00:21:09,602
team back out there,
see when they
513
00:21:09,602 --> 00:21:11,771
catch them together again.
514
00:21:11,771 --> 00:21:15,575
Once they do, Coach Ken and I
will come and get you
515
00:21:15,575 --> 00:21:18,344
and take you
to go confront them.
516
00:21:18,344 --> 00:21:21,147
- So then let's do it.
517
00:21:21,147 --> 00:21:22,315
Come on.
518
00:21:22,315 --> 00:21:23,883
- We got to get
the team going--
519
00:21:23,883 --> 00:21:25,118
- Well, where they at?
- --to find them.
520
00:21:25,118 --> 00:21:26,853
We got to, you know.
521
00:21:26,853 --> 00:21:28,721
- You want me to help, too, so
we can speed up the process?
522
00:21:28,721 --> 00:21:29,956
- Yes.
523
00:21:29,956 --> 00:21:31,624
- OK, I be throwing
game nights, Tami.
524
00:21:31,624 --> 00:21:33,726
We do game nights all the time.
525
00:21:33,726 --> 00:21:35,628
So I'm gonna just tell them
we're gonna do a game night.
526
00:21:35,628 --> 00:21:37,864
- Well, has Yannie been to your
game nights in the past?
527
00:21:37,864 --> 00:21:38,898
- Yeah.
- OK.
528
00:21:38,898 --> 00:21:40,633
- Because she's a friend.
529
00:21:40,633 --> 00:21:42,235
Well, it's an end-ship now,
but she was a friend, you know?
530
00:21:42,235 --> 00:21:43,870
- Mm-hmm, OK.
- Well, let's do that.
531
00:21:43,870 --> 00:21:46,172
Set a game night.
She can come over.
532
00:21:46,172 --> 00:21:47,740
I can have other friends
to come over.
533
00:21:47,740 --> 00:21:49,509
You know, while I'm there,
I'm gonna just be like,
534
00:21:49,509 --> 00:21:50,610
I'm gonna slide a little bit.
535
00:21:50,610 --> 00:21:52,579
I'm finna go to the store.
536
00:21:52,579 --> 00:21:54,647
So that way, I can see
if this bitch really gonna
537
00:21:54,647 --> 00:21:56,616
disrespect me again
in my house.
538
00:21:56,616 --> 00:21:57,784
- Then that's what we'll do.
539
00:21:57,784 --> 00:21:59,118
- Yeah.
540
00:21:59,118 --> 00:22:01,254
- OK, so you'll send me
all the information
541
00:22:01,254 --> 00:22:02,255
on when game night is.
542
00:22:02,255 --> 00:22:03,623
- Right.
543
00:22:03,623 --> 00:22:04,791
- And we'll go from there.
- Mm-hmm.
544
00:22:04,791 --> 00:22:06,125
- OK?
545
00:22:06,125 --> 00:22:08,862
But do not go back
to your house
546
00:22:08,862 --> 00:22:11,564
and have a conversation
with Lil Bit
547
00:22:11,564 --> 00:22:13,166
about what you've seen--
548
00:22:13,166 --> 00:22:14,200
- Oh, yeah, no.
549
00:22:14,200 --> 00:22:15,802
- --about this process.
550
00:22:15,802 --> 00:22:17,570
OK, you got to--
551
00:22:17,570 --> 00:22:19,272
- Keep it regular.
- Yes.
552
00:22:19,272 --> 00:22:20,440
- Like ain't nothing going on.
553
00:22:20,440 --> 00:22:22,242
- All right.
554
00:22:22,242 --> 00:22:23,943
- Thank y'all so much.
555
00:22:23,943 --> 00:22:25,478
- You're welcome.
556
00:22:25,478 --> 00:22:28,314
[dramatic music]
557
00:22:28,314 --> 00:22:30,350
- 45 [bleep] minutes.
558
00:22:30,350 --> 00:22:32,051
That is crazy.
559
00:22:32,051 --> 00:22:34,554
♪ ♪
560
00:22:36,281 --> 00:22:37,349
[hip-hop music]
561
00:22:37,349 --> 00:22:39,317
- ♪ He fumbled a baddie ♪
562
00:22:39,317 --> 00:22:41,119
♪ He fumbled it badly ♪
563
00:22:41,119 --> 00:22:42,954
♪ I got me a new dude ♪
564
00:22:42,954 --> 00:22:45,090
- Whoo-hoo! Thank you.
565
00:22:45,090 --> 00:22:46,391
- ♪ He fumbled the best ♪
566
00:22:46,391 --> 00:22:48,627
♪ Got pain in his chest ♪
567
00:22:50,495 --> 00:22:54,766
- All right, so the way that
Redd explained it to me--
568
00:22:54,766 --> 00:22:56,434
- OK.
569
00:22:56,434 --> 00:22:58,870
- --was that she went home
and told Lil Bit
570
00:22:58,870 --> 00:23:00,739
that she wanted to have
a game night.
571
00:23:00,739 --> 00:23:02,307
- OK.
572
00:23:02,307 --> 00:23:04,709
- And that, you know, she'd be
out, but when she came home,
573
00:23:04,709 --> 00:23:06,444
she wanted to have
a little fun.
574
00:23:06,444 --> 00:23:08,680
So we're gonna pick her up
and then
575
00:23:08,680 --> 00:23:13,184
take her back home so that we
can catch Lil Bit in the act.
576
00:23:13,184 --> 00:23:14,686
- Who did she invite?
577
00:23:14,686 --> 00:23:16,721
- We won't know
until we get there.
578
00:23:16,721 --> 00:23:21,393
- I am hoping Yannie is there
so that we can find out
579
00:23:21,393 --> 00:23:23,628
what's her motivation
behind it.
580
00:23:23,628 --> 00:23:26,398
I want to get clarity for Redd.
581
00:23:26,398 --> 00:23:29,200
I want to find out what
Lil Bit is thinking.
582
00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:30,569
- Yeah.
583
00:23:30,569 --> 00:23:32,170
I don't know why
I just feel like there's
584
00:23:32,170 --> 00:23:36,875
more to this story,
and I'm not getting all of it.
585
00:23:36,875 --> 00:23:38,243
Oh, there she is, OK.
586
00:23:38,243 --> 00:23:39,611
- OK.
587
00:23:39,611 --> 00:23:41,112
Hello.
- Hey, there, Redd.
588
00:23:41,112 --> 00:23:42,347
- Watch.
- Hi.
589
00:23:42,347 --> 00:23:43,782
- Are you looking angry?
590
00:23:43,782 --> 00:23:46,051
- You know what's
been on my mind, so--
591
00:23:46,051 --> 00:23:47,185
- Have a seat right over there.
592
00:23:47,185 --> 00:23:48,486
- Thank you so much.
593
00:23:48,486 --> 00:23:51,823
- Well, thank you
for letting us know
594
00:23:51,823 --> 00:23:56,494
how you set up this game night
was very clever.
595
00:23:56,494 --> 00:23:59,130
Do you have any idea on
who she may have invited?
596
00:23:59,130 --> 00:24:01,566
- That, I don't know,
but I'm pretty sure
597
00:24:01,566 --> 00:24:02,901
Yannie will be there.
598
00:24:02,901 --> 00:24:03,935
She too thirsty.
599
00:24:03,935 --> 00:24:05,070
You know she coming.
600
00:24:05,070 --> 00:24:06,905
- Now, what if she's not there?
601
00:24:06,905 --> 00:24:08,373
- Then we're just
gonna have to address
602
00:24:08,373 --> 00:24:09,975
the footage that I seen.
603
00:24:09,975 --> 00:24:12,644
- Yes, a conversation
between you and a Lil Bit
604
00:24:12,644 --> 00:24:15,580
could really give you
clarity on why she did it,
605
00:24:15,580 --> 00:24:17,649
and then those things
could be addressed.
606
00:24:17,649 --> 00:24:19,417
And if you both want to,
you guys
607
00:24:19,417 --> 00:24:21,019
can work towards rebuilding.
608
00:24:21,019 --> 00:24:22,087
- OK.
609
00:24:22,087 --> 00:24:23,622
- That's a lot of time.
610
00:24:23,622 --> 00:24:25,724
- If you seen your wife
like that
611
00:24:25,724 --> 00:24:27,559
and you're gonna want
to sit down and talk to her?
612
00:24:27,559 --> 00:24:29,127
- I would want
to talk to her, but--
613
00:24:29,127 --> 00:24:30,128
- The same moment?
614
00:24:30,128 --> 00:24:31,529
- If we keeping it above,
615
00:24:31,529 --> 00:24:33,031
I'm gonna be hostile
in the moment.
616
00:24:33,031 --> 00:24:37,435
But after all is said and done,
we have to reflect.
617
00:24:37,435 --> 00:24:38,603
We have to say, OK.
618
00:24:38,603 --> 00:24:40,138
- Over [bleep] what?
619
00:24:40,138 --> 00:24:41,139
- Because--hear me out, Redd.
620
00:24:41,139 --> 00:24:42,574
- [bleep] them.
621
00:24:42,574 --> 00:24:44,442
- What if I find out
that my wife says--
622
00:24:44,442 --> 00:24:46,711
which it's not right--
but if my wife says,
623
00:24:46,711 --> 00:24:49,614
you--you weren't there for me
when I had went through this.
624
00:24:49,614 --> 00:24:51,549
You never wanted
to make love to me.
625
00:24:51,549 --> 00:24:53,018
You were always working.
626
00:24:53,018 --> 00:24:55,520
I've got to be able
to receive that.
627
00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:56,588
- You right.
You right.
628
00:24:56,588 --> 00:24:57,922
You know what?
You're right.
629
00:24:57,922 --> 00:24:59,491
You do got to--
630
00:24:59,491 --> 00:25:01,693
we actually do have to do that
sometimes in a relationship
631
00:25:01,693 --> 00:25:03,128
because that's what
I'm really bad at.
632
00:25:03,128 --> 00:25:04,663
I act like I don't care.
633
00:25:04,663 --> 00:25:06,331
If I cry, I'm gonna cry
about that [bleep]
634
00:25:06,331 --> 00:25:07,332
behind closed doors.
635
00:25:07,332 --> 00:25:08,633
Nobody's gonna see it.
636
00:25:08,633 --> 00:25:09,968
And I'm going on by myself.
637
00:25:09,968 --> 00:25:11,569
- But we got to do
something different, Redd.
638
00:25:11,569 --> 00:25:12,570
We got to--
- Like what?
639
00:25:12,570 --> 00:25:13,605
- You said, I'm changing.
640
00:25:13,605 --> 00:25:15,240
Explore your feelings.
641
00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:17,242
Explore what you're thinking,
why this happened.
642
00:25:17,242 --> 00:25:18,710
Explore all of that.
643
00:25:18,710 --> 00:25:21,012
- Mm-hmm,
look at your situation.
644
00:25:21,012 --> 00:25:25,817
Nine years, it could be
some underlying moments
645
00:25:25,817 --> 00:25:29,454
that you guys haven't discussed
with honesty and transparency,
646
00:25:29,454 --> 00:25:30,722
and you--
647
00:25:30,722 --> 00:25:32,457
- This girl could have
chose yoga.
648
00:25:32,457 --> 00:25:35,060
This bitch chose another bitch.
649
00:25:35,060 --> 00:25:36,094
That is dumb.
650
00:25:36,094 --> 00:25:37,562
- I am not saying
that it's right.
651
00:25:37,562 --> 00:25:40,632
- I guess I'm just
finna hear her out.
652
00:25:40,632 --> 00:25:42,500
- So we are here.
653
00:25:42,500 --> 00:25:45,303
Before we see,
654
00:25:45,303 --> 00:25:48,106
I want you to remember
655
00:25:48,106 --> 00:25:52,277
all the things
that you need to address.
656
00:25:52,277 --> 00:25:54,446
So we're gonna let you go in
657
00:25:54,446 --> 00:25:56,715
and have the conversation
first.
658
00:25:56,715 --> 00:25:59,050
We'll keep watching
on the monitors,
659
00:25:59,050 --> 00:26:02,454
and in the event we need
to step in, we will.
660
00:26:02,454 --> 00:26:05,623
So I'm going to turn on
these monitors
661
00:26:05,623 --> 00:26:08,526
because you granted us
access into your house
662
00:26:08,526 --> 00:26:10,161
so that we can see everything
that's going on--
663
00:26:10,161 --> 00:26:11,162
- Yeah, we need to see.
664
00:26:11,162 --> 00:26:12,363
- --before we go inside.
665
00:26:12,363 --> 00:26:14,632
- I know.
- I'm gonna turn it on, Redd,
666
00:26:14,632 --> 00:26:17,335
but I want to make sure,
because if I turn this on,
667
00:26:17,335 --> 00:26:18,703
there's no going back.
668
00:26:18,703 --> 00:26:22,006
- Turn this monitor on.
669
00:26:22,006 --> 00:26:24,809
[dramatic music]
670
00:26:24,809 --> 00:26:27,746
I know I better not see
her [bleep]...
671
00:26:31,082 --> 00:26:34,119
- Is the person in the back,
is that her?
672
00:26:34,119 --> 00:26:37,889
- Is that Yannie in the green
who keep touching her?
673
00:26:37,889 --> 00:26:39,557
- That might be.
674
00:26:42,994 --> 00:26:43,962
- A whole thot.
675
00:26:43,962 --> 00:26:45,663
She a thot.
676
00:26:48,066 --> 00:26:49,167
- We going in now?
677
00:26:49,167 --> 00:26:50,702
- --you talking
about drink mine.
678
00:26:50,702 --> 00:26:52,070
- Do you feel like--
- We probably should, right?
679
00:26:52,070 --> 00:26:53,371
- Let me help you.
- Oh, yeah, yeah.
680
00:26:53,371 --> 00:26:54,973
- Let me--hold on, hold on.
681
00:26:54,973 --> 00:26:56,107
- We're gonna be here,
and we're gonna stay here.
682
00:26:56,107 --> 00:26:57,542
- OK, OK.
- We're gonna stay right--
683
00:26:57,542 --> 00:26:59,110
I got you, I got you. OK.
684
00:27:12,365 --> 00:27:15,335
[suspenseful music]
685
00:27:15,335 --> 00:27:21,141
♪ ♪
686
00:27:21,141 --> 00:27:22,809
- So you started
the game night, right?
687
00:27:22,809 --> 00:27:23,810
- Yeah, but still,
why you brought cameras?
688
00:27:23,810 --> 00:27:24,945
- Girl, what's up, bruh?
689
00:27:24,945 --> 00:27:27,647
How is your money [bleep],
bruh?
690
00:27:27,647 --> 00:27:29,783
Let's get [bleep] shots going.
691
00:27:29,783 --> 00:27:31,351
- I'll take a shot with you.
692
00:27:31,351 --> 00:27:35,088
- No, no, all hoes got to sit
on the brown couch.
693
00:27:35,088 --> 00:27:36,089
Please go over there.
694
00:27:36,089 --> 00:27:37,591
- Who a ho?
695
00:27:37,591 --> 00:27:39,192
- So how long this been
going on, y'all?
696
00:27:39,192 --> 00:27:40,694
- How you come in here with
and cameras [bleep] though?
697
00:27:40,694 --> 00:27:42,863
- Go that way.
698
00:27:42,863 --> 00:27:45,232
Girl, give me my ring, girl.
699
00:27:45,232 --> 00:27:46,833
- What you need my ring for?
700
00:27:46,833 --> 00:27:48,268
- Aren't you a cheater?
- Girl, I earned this ring.
701
00:27:48,268 --> 00:27:49,569
I ain't giving back nothing.
702
00:27:49,569 --> 00:27:51,304
- You're making yourself
look crazy.
703
00:27:51,304 --> 00:27:52,672
You earned that ring by being
a whore with another whore?
704
00:27:52,672 --> 00:27:54,107
- How am I being a whore?
705
00:27:56,443 --> 00:27:58,044
- You need to shut
the [bleep] up.
706
00:27:58,044 --> 00:28:00,113
- Let's do it.
707
00:28:00,113 --> 00:28:01,581
- Can you give my ring back?
- Who told you that?
708
00:28:01,581 --> 00:28:02,849
I'm not giving you that.
709
00:28:02,849 --> 00:28:04,184
I earned this ring.
710
00:28:04,184 --> 00:28:05,652
I earned this ring.
You want it?
711
00:28:05,652 --> 00:28:06,720
Come get it.
712
00:28:06,720 --> 00:28:08,088
Why are you here with cameras?
713
00:28:08,088 --> 00:28:09,756
- Well, I'll tell you.
- Why are you here?
714
00:28:09,756 --> 00:28:11,825
What's all this [bleep]?
- Lil Bit, listen, Lil Bit.
715
00:28:11,825 --> 00:28:13,260
- You gonna give me
my ring back or no?
716
00:28:13,260 --> 00:28:14,561
- No, I'm not. Take it.
717
00:28:14,561 --> 00:28:16,496
[indistinct shouting]
718
00:28:16,496 --> 00:28:18,064
- Don't move. No move.
719
00:28:18,064 --> 00:28:19,900
- You said you was gonna
ask questions.
720
00:28:19,900 --> 00:28:21,701
- I did ask the questions.
721
00:28:21,701 --> 00:28:22,936
- I mean, you can't get--
I mean, look.
722
00:28:22,936 --> 00:28:24,004
How are we gonna find out
anything
723
00:28:24,004 --> 00:28:25,505
if you're going about this way?
724
00:28:25,505 --> 00:28:26,573
- Uh-uh, why are you talking
to me and she the cheater?
725
00:28:26,573 --> 00:28:28,008
What?
726
00:28:28,008 --> 00:28:29,576
- Lil Bit.
727
00:28:29,576 --> 00:28:30,777
- You gonna come in here
with cameras, bro?
728
00:28:30,777 --> 00:28:31,912
We could have talked
about that.
729
00:28:31,912 --> 00:28:32,879
[bleep].
730
00:28:32,879 --> 00:28:34,347
- Your name is Yannie, right?
731
00:28:34,347 --> 00:28:35,415
- Yeah.
732
00:28:35,415 --> 00:28:36,349
- OK, I'm gonna go back inside.
733
00:28:36,349 --> 00:28:37,417
- All right.
734
00:28:37,417 --> 00:28:39,019
- Let her fix herself, OK?
735
00:28:39,019 --> 00:28:40,453
I would like for you
to come inside
736
00:28:40,453 --> 00:28:43,156
and give her some privacy
so that she can fix herself.
737
00:28:43,156 --> 00:28:45,292
- We talked about
what we were gonna do.
738
00:28:45,292 --> 00:28:47,460
We talked about the questions
we were gonna ask.
739
00:28:47,460 --> 00:28:49,062
You can't get anywhere.
740
00:28:49,062 --> 00:28:53,366
You can't get anything done
by snatching somebody up.
741
00:28:53,366 --> 00:28:55,068
- Here comes Lil Bit.
742
00:28:55,068 --> 00:28:57,871
My name is Tami Roman,
and you guys are on a show
743
00:28:57,871 --> 00:29:00,774
called "Caught in the Act
Unfaithful."
744
00:29:00,774 --> 00:29:03,576
Redd, there was questions
that you wanted to ask--
745
00:29:03,576 --> 00:29:04,611
- I need a shot.
746
00:29:04,611 --> 00:29:06,846
- --her.
747
00:29:06,846 --> 00:29:09,516
- What made you step out
with Yannie?
748
00:29:09,516 --> 00:29:11,251
- You.
- Me?
749
00:29:11,251 --> 00:29:13,787
What was I not doing for you?
- Look at how you act.
750
00:29:13,787 --> 00:29:15,055
Look at how you are.
You're loud.
751
00:29:15,055 --> 00:29:16,856
You're aggressive.
You're rude.
752
00:29:16,856 --> 00:29:19,459
You're [bleep] mean as [bleep].
753
00:29:19,459 --> 00:29:22,529
When the last time you gave me
some [bleep], Lyssa?
754
00:29:22,529 --> 00:29:24,030
- This [bleep] is stupid.
755
00:29:24,030 --> 00:29:28,468
- How long have you
and Lil Bit been engaging
756
00:29:28,468 --> 00:29:29,803
in this kind of person?
757
00:29:29,803 --> 00:29:31,371
- Since I met her,
since I met her.
758
00:29:31,371 --> 00:29:33,139
- How long ago was that?
759
00:29:33,139 --> 00:29:34,407
- Two years ago.
760
00:29:34,407 --> 00:29:36,743
I mean--
761
00:29:36,743 --> 00:29:38,545
- How you feel about Lil Bit?
762
00:29:38,545 --> 00:29:40,380
How you really feel about her?
I know what y'all were doing.
763
00:29:40,380 --> 00:29:41,948
- I don't--I don't really like
how she keeping [bleep]
764
00:29:41,948 --> 00:29:43,616
right now, but, I mean,
I've been [bleep] with her.
765
00:29:43,616 --> 00:29:45,051
I was feeling her.
766
00:29:45,051 --> 00:29:46,786
- So you do want to have
a relationship with her?
767
00:29:46,786 --> 00:29:48,722
- Yeah.
I mean, I don't know now
768
00:29:48,722 --> 00:29:50,457
because [bleep] is different.
769
00:29:50,457 --> 00:29:51,691
Bitches snatching off wigs.
770
00:29:51,691 --> 00:29:53,293
I don't know.
771
00:29:53,293 --> 00:29:54,995
Like, I mean, I'm upset.
772
00:29:54,995 --> 00:29:57,330
I'm doing all this [bleep]
with a bitch that want to keep
773
00:29:57,330 --> 00:29:58,798
her ring and her bitch.
774
00:29:58,798 --> 00:30:01,368
- Redd, are you are you
receiving that she's saying
775
00:30:01,368 --> 00:30:03,703
you're loud, you're rude,
you're mean to her,
776
00:30:03,703 --> 00:30:04,838
and then there's
no sexual intimacy?
777
00:30:04,838 --> 00:30:06,306
- Yeah, so if she feels like--
778
00:30:06,306 --> 00:30:07,941
but what I'm saying
is that makes you
779
00:30:07,941 --> 00:30:09,943
step out on your
nine-year relationship?
780
00:30:09,943 --> 00:30:11,678
- Yes.
- With another bitch?
781
00:30:11,678 --> 00:30:12,712
- Yes.
782
00:30:12,712 --> 00:30:14,280
- OK, I'm done recording.
783
00:30:14,280 --> 00:30:15,415
Excuse me, sir.
- Why are you done?
784
00:30:15,415 --> 00:30:16,416
- I'm done recording.
785
00:30:16,416 --> 00:30:17,917
- Why are you done?
786
00:30:17,917 --> 00:30:20,253
- Look at her, her big-ass
green-ass jacket, ho.
787
00:30:20,253 --> 00:30:21,788
- Your bitch
[bleep] my [bleep].
788
00:30:21,788 --> 00:30:22,922
- I don't give a [bleep].
789
00:30:22,922 --> 00:30:24,157
- You're not going nowhere.
790
00:30:24,157 --> 00:30:25,425
- Redd, come on
back in the house.
791
00:30:25,425 --> 00:30:26,926
- Girl, you mad right now.
792
00:30:26,926 --> 00:30:28,028
- You can't tell me
there is no salvaging
793
00:30:28,028 --> 00:30:29,229
or saving this relationship.
794
00:30:29,229 --> 00:30:31,064
- Redd, come on
back in your house.
795
00:30:31,064 --> 00:30:32,966
- You mad right now, babe.
You ain't going nowhere.
796
00:30:32,966 --> 00:30:34,501
- Let's--let's me and you
have a conversation, Lil Bit.
797
00:30:34,501 --> 00:30:35,802
Come on.
798
00:30:35,802 --> 00:30:36,970
- Listen, listen, listen, Redd.
799
00:30:36,970 --> 00:30:38,104
- I don't want
to work this out.
800
00:30:38,104 --> 00:30:39,739
- I know.
I know, Redd.
801
00:30:39,739 --> 00:30:41,441
I know.
- Come here, Yannie.
802
00:30:41,441 --> 00:30:43,043
So let me ask you this.
803
00:30:43,043 --> 00:30:47,047
How long have you and Yannie
been doing your thing?
804
00:30:47,047 --> 00:30:48,248
- Sitting on each other laps.
805
00:30:48,248 --> 00:30:49,416
- She's a liar.
806
00:30:49,416 --> 00:30:50,617
She want her bitch.
807
00:30:50,617 --> 00:30:51,584
She want to keep
that ring on her finger.
808
00:30:51,584 --> 00:30:53,186
She want to deny it.
809
00:30:53,186 --> 00:30:55,155
- I'm gonna keep this ring on
my finger if she here or not.
810
00:30:55,155 --> 00:30:56,489
I done put up with [bleep]
for nine years.
811
00:30:56,489 --> 00:30:58,658
- What have you put up
with for nine years?
812
00:30:58,658 --> 00:31:01,861
- Attitude, aggression,
really not--
813
00:31:01,861 --> 00:31:03,329
she don't let me touch her.
814
00:31:03,329 --> 00:31:04,898
She don't let me do nothing
to her.
815
00:31:04,898 --> 00:31:06,266
- That's why you wanted
to touch me.
816
00:31:06,266 --> 00:31:07,901
That's why you wanted
to touch me.
817
00:31:07,901 --> 00:31:09,335
- Yeah, exactly,
that's why I filet mignon.
818
00:31:09,335 --> 00:31:10,837
- You said you changing.
819
00:31:10,837 --> 00:31:12,906
You can't--
you can't change one day.
820
00:31:12,906 --> 00:31:14,040
- No, no, no.
821
00:31:14,040 --> 00:31:15,308
- And then act
like the next day,
822
00:31:15,308 --> 00:31:16,576
I'm gonna be back
the old person.
823
00:31:16,576 --> 00:31:18,278
- I'm gonna do your method.
824
00:31:18,278 --> 00:31:21,681
We're sitting down, trying to
talk about it, hear her out.
825
00:31:21,681 --> 00:31:22,649
- I appreciate you.
826
00:31:22,649 --> 00:31:24,384
- Don't get loud.
827
00:31:24,384 --> 00:31:26,086
I'm gonna do that for you.
- That's not even--it's OK--
828
00:31:26,086 --> 00:31:27,620
I appreciate you.
- I have respect for you.
829
00:31:27,620 --> 00:31:28,988
I have respect
for Miss Tami, OK?
830
00:31:28,988 --> 00:31:30,156
- Fair enough.
- All right.
831
00:31:30,156 --> 00:31:31,958
- That's all--
that's all I ask.
832
00:31:31,958 --> 00:31:34,594
- Why do you stay with Redd
if she doesn't let you--
833
00:31:34,594 --> 00:31:36,296
- Because I love Redd.
834
00:31:36,296 --> 00:31:37,397
- You love Redd?
835
00:31:37,397 --> 00:31:39,332
You know Redd don't look
like this.
836
00:31:39,332 --> 00:31:41,000
- Don't talk about her.
Don't talk about her.
837
00:31:41,000 --> 00:31:42,335
Don't talk--Yannie, you know
I don't play [bleep].
838
00:31:42,335 --> 00:31:43,570
Don't [bleep]...
- I don't have to look
839
00:31:43,570 --> 00:31:45,238
like that, but that's why
she [bleep] me.
840
00:31:45,238 --> 00:31:46,706
- Yannie, don't talk about her.
- That's why she's [bleep] me.
841
00:31:46,706 --> 00:31:47,974
That's why she's [bleep] me.
842
00:31:47,974 --> 00:31:49,375
- Don't talk about her.
Don't let her--
843
00:31:49,375 --> 00:31:50,844
- She's talking about me.
844
00:31:50,844 --> 00:31:52,712
- She just called me
all kinds of [bleep].
845
00:31:52,712 --> 00:31:53,813
You ain't say [bleep].
846
00:31:53,813 --> 00:31:54,848
- Coming in.
847
00:31:54,848 --> 00:31:56,316
Tami, we coming in.
848
00:31:56,316 --> 00:31:58,618
- Redd, so that
I can understand,
849
00:31:58,618 --> 00:32:00,053
you are a touch me not?
850
00:32:00,053 --> 00:32:01,688
- Yep.
- And she knew this.
851
00:32:01,688 --> 00:32:02,922
Correct.
- OK.
852
00:32:02,922 --> 00:32:04,090
- From the beginning,
she knew this.
853
00:32:04,090 --> 00:32:05,425
- Now, did you know that
going into it?
854
00:32:05,425 --> 00:32:06,926
- But I thought at least
about nine years,
855
00:32:06,926 --> 00:32:09,929
I could touch something.
856
00:32:09,929 --> 00:32:11,000
- So what do you think
is going to happen
857
00:32:11,000 --> 00:32:12,665
- So what do you think
is going to happen
858
00:32:12,665 --> 00:32:14,868
in a relationship
of nine years--
859
00:32:14,868 --> 00:32:16,102
- Yeah, why I can't touch you?
860
00:32:16,102 --> 00:32:17,303
- I'm a real [bleep].
- You--
861
00:32:17,303 --> 00:32:18,671
- What does that mean?
- You a woman.
862
00:32:18,671 --> 00:32:20,039
- It's like you trying
to [bleep] your husband
863
00:32:20,039 --> 00:32:21,207
and a [bleep] not gonna
let you do it, is it?
864
00:32:21,207 --> 00:32:21,941
- You a woman
with a whole vagina.
865
00:32:21,941 --> 00:32:23,376
- Hell, nah.
866
00:32:23,376 --> 00:32:25,345
- What is it about me
that I can't touch you?
867
00:32:25,345 --> 00:32:27,480
- I'm not--I'm just not
a touchy person.
868
00:32:27,480 --> 00:32:29,282
Like, you're not gonna get
the response you probably want.
869
00:32:29,282 --> 00:32:31,451
- So you're saying
that there was
870
00:32:31,451 --> 00:32:35,989
no intimacy in your
relationship with Redd?
871
00:32:35,989 --> 00:32:39,092
- No, that there was no
intimacy where she was
872
00:32:39,092 --> 00:32:40,260
allowed to be the aggressor.
873
00:32:40,260 --> 00:32:41,761
- Like to please me.
- Oh.
874
00:32:41,761 --> 00:32:43,096
- Oh, that bitch get pleased.
875
00:32:43,096 --> 00:32:46,432
The problem is you can't
sit here and handle me.
876
00:32:46,432 --> 00:32:48,835
If I--if that ain't what I
want, that ain't what I want.
877
00:32:48,835 --> 00:32:50,136
- Would you be with me
if I couldn't--
878
00:32:50,136 --> 00:32:52,205
if you couldn't touch me?
879
00:32:52,205 --> 00:32:53,907
- No.
880
00:32:53,907 --> 00:32:55,508
- Well, you just said it.
881
00:32:55,508 --> 00:32:57,443
- Yeah, because I'm the [bleep]
in the relationship.
882
00:32:57,443 --> 00:33:00,780
I never even knew that that's
what caused you to actually
883
00:33:00,780 --> 00:33:02,115
have sex with Yannie
and have her
884
00:33:02,115 --> 00:33:03,316
kissing on your neck and stuff.
885
00:33:03,316 --> 00:33:04,817
- OK, I shouldn't have
had sex with her.
886
00:33:04,817 --> 00:33:06,319
- Rubbing on your body.
- You're right. You're right.
887
00:33:06,319 --> 00:33:07,253
- You know what I'm saying?
- You're right about that.
888
00:33:07,253 --> 00:33:08,521
- But you a woman, though.
889
00:33:08,521 --> 00:33:09,556
You grown.
890
00:33:09,556 --> 00:33:10,723
You said yes to a ring
891
00:33:10,723 --> 00:33:13,026
just to have sex with another--
892
00:33:13,026 --> 00:33:14,093
- I was wrong for that,
but still, I feel like
893
00:33:14,093 --> 00:33:15,195
I was pushed into it.
894
00:33:15,195 --> 00:33:16,462
- [laughs]
- So it's like--
895
00:33:16,462 --> 00:33:18,431
- No, this [bleep]
is not [bleep] funny.
896
00:33:18,431 --> 00:33:19,699
- It is funny.
897
00:33:19,699 --> 00:33:21,000
- It's not, Redd.
- You know what?
898
00:33:21,000 --> 00:33:22,602
You right.
It's not.
899
00:33:22,602 --> 00:33:24,070
OK, Tami, you right, stop.
900
00:33:24,070 --> 00:33:26,339
- And--and--and don't
be condescending to me,
901
00:33:26,339 --> 00:33:29,242
because let me tell you
something, I'm older than you,
902
00:33:29,242 --> 00:33:32,278
so I recognize your [bleep].
903
00:33:32,278 --> 00:33:33,446
- All right.
904
00:33:33,446 --> 00:33:35,248
- And what you're
doing right now
905
00:33:35,248 --> 00:33:39,485
is a disservice to yourself
and a disservice to these two
906
00:33:39,485 --> 00:33:41,588
young ladies right here.
907
00:33:41,588 --> 00:33:46,693
You [bleep] said to me,
I love this woman.
908
00:33:46,693 --> 00:33:47,827
- I do.
909
00:33:47,827 --> 00:33:48,795
- I don't want to lose her.
910
00:33:48,795 --> 00:33:49,929
- I don't.
911
00:33:49,929 --> 00:33:53,233
- And that comes
from somewhere.
912
00:33:53,233 --> 00:33:55,835
- OK, I get where you're
going at with that, goddamn.
913
00:33:55,835 --> 00:33:57,503
- Where am I going?
- Girl, OK.
914
00:33:57,503 --> 00:33:59,205
- Where am I going?
915
00:33:59,205 --> 00:34:00,573
- All right, so I'm done.
I'm done with the shenanigans.
916
00:34:00,573 --> 00:34:02,108
- Where am I going?
Where am I going?
917
00:34:02,108 --> 00:34:03,543
Let me explain something
to you, Lil Bit.
918
00:34:03,543 --> 00:34:05,078
- This bitch.
919
00:34:05,078 --> 00:34:06,913
- This--and I--and I know
you know because you've been
920
00:34:06,913 --> 00:34:08,314
with her for nine years--
921
00:34:08,314 --> 00:34:10,717
this--this person
right here that
922
00:34:10,717 --> 00:34:14,087
we're all witnessing right now
is her coping mechanism--
923
00:34:14,087 --> 00:34:16,055
- I know.
- --when [bleep] gets rough.
924
00:34:16,055 --> 00:34:17,390
- No, we're gonna talk
about it.
925
00:34:17,390 --> 00:34:18,791
- She trying to make
everybody [bleep] laugh
926
00:34:18,791 --> 00:34:21,127
and avoid what's really
going on inside of her.
927
00:34:21,127 --> 00:34:22,495
- And I think
she don't like to do that.
928
00:34:22,495 --> 00:34:23,930
- I know this.
929
00:34:23,930 --> 00:34:26,099
So this [bleep]
she doing right now
930
00:34:26,099 --> 00:34:28,401
is some [bleep] [bleep].
931
00:34:28,401 --> 00:34:32,105
And if she want to be with you,
you gotta be [bleep] real.
932
00:34:32,105 --> 00:34:35,908
♪ ♪
933
00:34:37,460 --> 00:34:39,295
[tense music]
934
00:34:39,295 --> 00:34:42,699
- If she want to be with you,
you gotta be [bleep] real.
935
00:34:42,699 --> 00:34:45,835
- OK!
936
00:34:45,835 --> 00:34:47,303
I do want to be with you.
937
00:34:47,303 --> 00:34:48,805
Yes, this [bleep] bother me.
938
00:34:48,805 --> 00:34:50,240
- Tell her why.
939
00:34:50,240 --> 00:34:51,808
- I want to be with you
because you changed me.
940
00:34:51,808 --> 00:34:53,243
See what I'm saying?
941
00:34:53,243 --> 00:34:55,511
You make me feel a way
I've never felt before.
942
00:34:55,511 --> 00:34:59,449
So it made me like,
bitch, this the one.
943
00:34:59,449 --> 00:35:01,684
So at the end of the day,
it's like,
944
00:35:01,684 --> 00:35:03,219
this [bleep] just threw me
for a little...
945
00:35:03,219 --> 00:35:04,954
It caught me off guard,
for real, for real.
946
00:35:04,954 --> 00:35:06,923
I really thought
you had more class
947
00:35:06,923 --> 00:35:08,491
than what you experienced
and what
948
00:35:08,491 --> 00:35:10,026
you showcasing right now.
949
00:35:10,026 --> 00:35:11,294
But you sitting here kiki-ing,
talking about
950
00:35:11,294 --> 00:35:13,229
we finna put this on Redd tab.
951
00:35:13,229 --> 00:35:15,965
Then outside the club,
you bitches is kissing.
952
00:35:15,965 --> 00:35:17,066
She all up on you.
953
00:35:17,066 --> 00:35:20,370
You falling on her like, ah.
954
00:35:20,370 --> 00:35:23,506
Then [bleep] Yannie tell you
to take off your ring.
955
00:35:23,506 --> 00:35:25,541
Instead of you taking off
your ring, you go the [bleep]
956
00:35:25,541 --> 00:35:28,378
in the bathroom
and [bleep] this bitch.
957
00:35:28,378 --> 00:35:30,980
And this bitch supposed
to be my friend!
958
00:35:30,980 --> 00:35:32,882
- I did come into this
as they friend.
959
00:35:32,882 --> 00:35:35,752
I was flirting with her
because she is the type of girl
960
00:35:35,752 --> 00:35:37,320
that I'm into.
961
00:35:37,320 --> 00:35:38,821
- So you are agreeing
you came in this situation
962
00:35:38,821 --> 00:35:39,889
as our friend?
- Yes.
963
00:35:39,889 --> 00:35:41,157
- OK.
- I did.
964
00:35:41,157 --> 00:35:42,792
- We not friends anymore,
but you and her
965
00:35:42,792 --> 00:35:45,395
can still be friends.
966
00:35:45,395 --> 00:35:48,298
- Redd, I want to know,
could you see
967
00:35:48,298 --> 00:35:51,267
how she could feel if--
968
00:35:51,267 --> 00:35:54,270
you know, if she wanted
to show affection to you?
969
00:35:54,270 --> 00:35:55,471
Because she's shown
affection in other ways.
970
00:35:55,471 --> 00:35:56,472
- Right.
971
00:35:56,472 --> 00:35:58,741
- And you would not allow that.
972
00:35:58,741 --> 00:36:00,109
Could you--
973
00:36:00,109 --> 00:36:01,477
- I mean, I could see
how it will make her,
974
00:36:01,477 --> 00:36:03,046
you know, feel a way
and probably want
975
00:36:03,046 --> 00:36:04,013
to do other things
because she can't
976
00:36:04,013 --> 00:36:06,916
do what I'm doing to her.
977
00:36:06,916 --> 00:36:10,153
I understand it.
978
00:36:12,121 --> 00:36:13,556
- I pour so much into her.
979
00:36:13,556 --> 00:36:16,960
I feel like it's not
being poured back into me.
980
00:36:16,960 --> 00:36:19,329
So what the [bleep] do I do?
981
00:36:19,329 --> 00:36:22,765
- So, Redd, are you able
to receive what she's saying
982
00:36:22,765 --> 00:36:28,271
in instances where it's
about her, not intentionally,
983
00:36:28,271 --> 00:36:30,073
but there's a way
that you make it
984
00:36:30,073 --> 00:36:31,841
about you
to where she still has to be
985
00:36:31,841 --> 00:36:33,776
the caregiver for you?
986
00:36:33,776 --> 00:36:35,478
- This is correct.
987
00:36:35,478 --> 00:36:38,481
- What I want you to understand
is if a person is constantly
988
00:36:38,481 --> 00:36:42,218
feeding in,
then they give so much
989
00:36:42,218 --> 00:36:45,188
that they eventually
are empty inside.
990
00:36:45,188 --> 00:36:46,723
It's not right, what she did.
991
00:36:46,723 --> 00:36:49,292
But if she don't have
your shoulder to lean on,
992
00:36:49,292 --> 00:36:51,761
what is she supposed to do?
993
00:36:51,761 --> 00:36:56,466
You really got to understand
your partner from a standpoint
994
00:36:56,466 --> 00:37:01,137
of pouring in and not
being the only person that
995
00:37:01,137 --> 00:37:04,640
gets something out of this.
996
00:37:06,075 --> 00:37:07,243
- You right.
997
00:37:07,243 --> 00:37:10,213
[soft music]
998
00:37:10,213 --> 00:37:13,816
♪ ♪
999
00:37:13,816 --> 00:37:15,385
[sighs]
1000
00:37:15,385 --> 00:37:17,153
I'm hurt by the [bleep] you did
1001
00:37:17,153 --> 00:37:19,722
with what the [bleep] you did
with Yannie.
1002
00:37:19,722 --> 00:37:24,594
But it's like, I feel like over
time, we can talk about it.
1003
00:37:24,594 --> 00:37:27,397
We could probably come
from it because you
1004
00:37:27,397 --> 00:37:31,234
doing [bleep] off of another
person actions, which is me.
1005
00:37:31,234 --> 00:37:32,935
I'm doing [bleep]
off of some [bleep]
1006
00:37:32,935 --> 00:37:37,340
I'm holding onto from the past
that you don't know about
1007
00:37:37,340 --> 00:37:39,342
because I don't speak on it.
1008
00:37:39,342 --> 00:37:42,545
So it's like, it actually
takes away from you.
1009
00:37:42,545 --> 00:37:46,315
So really, I'm cheating you
but still getting mad that--
1010
00:37:46,315 --> 00:37:47,450
- That you're not sharing.
1011
00:37:47,450 --> 00:37:48,284
- Yeah.
1012
00:37:48,284 --> 00:37:49,685
You get what I'm saying?
1013
00:37:49,685 --> 00:37:52,121
So if anything, you know,
I want to ride
1014
00:37:52,121 --> 00:37:54,624
this thing out with you, man.
1015
00:37:54,624 --> 00:37:56,359
Now, I ain't gonna
sit here and say
1016
00:37:56,359 --> 00:37:57,760
that we finna get married
on the day
1017
00:37:57,760 --> 00:38:01,230
that we chose
because we got some--
1018
00:38:01,230 --> 00:38:02,899
some working on things to do.
1019
00:38:02,899 --> 00:38:04,700
I ain't finna sit here and cap.
1020
00:38:04,700 --> 00:38:09,238
- Lil Bit, you still want to
have a relationship with Redd?
1021
00:38:09,238 --> 00:38:12,708
- Oh, you still want
to be with me?
1022
00:38:12,708 --> 00:38:14,010
[laughs]
1023
00:38:14,010 --> 00:38:16,612
- What about your interaction
with Yannie?
1024
00:38:16,612 --> 00:38:20,049
- I feel like my interaction
with Yannie was disrespectful.
1025
00:38:20,049 --> 00:38:21,751
- OK.
1026
00:38:21,751 --> 00:38:24,487
- So I wouldn't want it--
want it to be awkward for her.
1027
00:38:24,487 --> 00:38:27,256
But as of right now, I don't
think it's comfortable for--
1028
00:38:27,256 --> 00:38:29,292
- So you're severing ties
with Yannie
1029
00:38:29,292 --> 00:38:32,929
to be able to focus on
your relationship with Redd?
1030
00:38:32,929 --> 00:38:35,031
And Redd, we know
you not friends with Yannie.
1031
00:38:35,031 --> 00:38:36,766
- Right.
1032
00:38:36,766 --> 00:38:40,937
- And you want to continue
your relationship with Lil Bit.
1033
00:38:40,937 --> 00:38:42,972
Everybody clear?
1034
00:38:42,972 --> 00:38:45,641
And I want you to diligently
keep working on yourself,
1035
00:38:45,641 --> 00:38:51,080
because in this moment, you
need to grow the [bleep] up.
1036
00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:52,415
- I don't know.
1037
00:38:52,415 --> 00:38:53,950
I just feel like
I ain't have to be here
1038
00:38:53,950 --> 00:38:55,284
for this counseling session.
1039
00:38:55,284 --> 00:38:58,154
And these cameras
just threw me off.
1040
00:38:58,154 --> 00:39:01,591
Like, I'm just ready to go.
1041
00:39:02,892 --> 00:39:03,960
- I feel embarrassed.
1042
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:05,394
I was wrong.
1043
00:39:05,394 --> 00:39:07,363
She had her wrongs,
but at the end of the day,
1044
00:39:07,363 --> 00:39:09,866
I was more wrong because
I did actually step out.
1045
00:39:09,866 --> 00:39:12,568
- I want you do better,
be better, Redd.
1046
00:39:12,568 --> 00:39:14,170
- OK.
1047
00:39:14,170 --> 00:39:15,404
I really found out
what the [bleep]
1048
00:39:15,404 --> 00:39:16,973
I've always been thinking.
1049
00:39:16,973 --> 00:39:18,174
You've been cheating on me.
1050
00:39:18,174 --> 00:39:20,243
You could have just told me.
1051
00:39:20,243 --> 00:39:21,978
But it's cool.
1052
00:39:21,978 --> 00:39:24,647
You know, I take my fault, too,
because at the end of the day,
1053
00:39:24,647 --> 00:39:27,583
you can drive your woman
or your partner
1054
00:39:27,583 --> 00:39:29,285
to do things
they thought they probably
1055
00:39:29,285 --> 00:39:30,653
would never be able to do.
1056
00:39:30,653 --> 00:39:33,356
It made me want
to reevaluate myself.
1057
00:39:33,356 --> 00:39:36,000
But I still don't like
what I saw, like, you know?
1058
00:39:36,000 --> 00:39:37,226
But I still don't like
what I saw, like, you know?
1059
00:39:37,226 --> 00:39:38,794
[upbeat music]
1060
00:39:38,794 --> 00:39:43,733
- ♪ Why don't you slide
through tonight ♪
1061
00:39:43,733 --> 00:39:45,134
[line ringing]
1062
00:39:45,134 --> 00:39:50,606
- OK, Redd, I was checking in
to speak with you.
1063
00:39:50,606 --> 00:39:54,343
I had no idea
I would get Lil Bit, too.
1064
00:39:54,343 --> 00:39:56,212
[laughter]
1065
00:39:56,212 --> 00:40:00,449
So the question,
are you guys still together?
1066
00:40:00,449 --> 00:40:02,051
- Yeah, we're still together.
1067
00:40:02,051 --> 00:40:03,553
- What about the wedding?
1068
00:40:03,553 --> 00:40:07,223
- I would love for the wedding
to still be on.
1069
00:40:07,223 --> 00:40:08,324
- I don't even have my ring.
1070
00:40:08,324 --> 00:40:09,926
- She don't have her ring.
1071
00:40:09,926 --> 00:40:11,761
- Where your ring at?
1072
00:40:11,761 --> 00:40:14,330
- When she clean,
she take off her ring.
1073
00:40:14,330 --> 00:40:16,199
So I just took advantage
and took it.
1074
00:40:16,199 --> 00:40:17,900
- Of course she did.
1075
00:40:17,900 --> 00:40:22,004
- So is it that you don't want
to be married any longer?
1076
00:40:22,004 --> 00:40:23,739
- No, I do, I do.
1077
00:40:23,739 --> 00:40:25,308
- So then you should give her
the ring back because that's
1078
00:40:25,308 --> 00:40:27,210
childish and that's immature.
1079
00:40:27,210 --> 00:40:28,578
- You right.
You right.
1080
00:40:28,578 --> 00:40:29,812
I don't have nothing
to say on it.
1081
00:40:29,812 --> 00:40:31,714
She said the same thing.
1082
00:40:31,714 --> 00:40:36,519
- Look at y'all two, this old,
toxic, dysfunctional love.
1083
00:40:36,519 --> 00:40:39,388
I do think that
there's hope for you ladies,
1084
00:40:39,388 --> 00:40:41,557
and I want you guys
to do the work
1085
00:40:41,557 --> 00:40:45,528
because I truly,
truly believe that
1086
00:40:45,528 --> 00:40:47,196
you guys will be great
together.
1087
00:40:47,196 --> 00:40:51,901
And specifically you, Redd,
there's big things ahead, OK?
1088
00:40:51,901 --> 00:40:53,102
- Thank you.
1089
00:40:53,102 --> 00:40:54,103
- All right, y'all.
1090
00:40:54,103 --> 00:40:55,338
- Bye. See you later.
1091
00:40:55,338 --> 00:40:57,473
- Bye.
1092
00:40:57,473 --> 00:40:59,342
Cheaters, beware.
1093
00:40:59,342 --> 00:41:01,177
- You [bleep] kissed her,
you idiot.
1094
00:41:01,177 --> 00:41:03,879
- Next time you want to be
unfaithful, think again.
1095
00:41:03,879 --> 00:41:06,849
Let me tell you
one [bleep] thing.
1096
00:41:06,849 --> 00:41:09,151
- Oh, Lord. Oh, Lord.
Oh, Lord. Oh, Lord.
1097
00:41:09,151 --> 00:41:10,419
- Because I just might...
1098
00:41:10,419 --> 00:41:11,420
Oh, God, she's running.
1099
00:41:11,420 --> 00:41:13,055
Catch you in the act.
1100
00:41:13,055 --> 00:41:13,990
♪ ♪
1101
00:41:20,472 --> 00:41:23,375
[hip-hop music]
1102
00:41:23,375 --> 00:41:30,515
♪ ♪