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- ♪ MTV ♪
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- I'm Tami Roman.
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I have been cheated on before.
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- You [bleep] my man
when I was married to him.
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- I even wrote
a book about it,
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and I've made it my mission
to help suspicious lovers
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catch their cheating
partners in the act.
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Hold up.
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- And you brought this
to my place of business!
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How dare you!
What is this?
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- Oh!
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- Together, with
my relationship coaches...
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- You got to tell her about
the insecurities that you have.
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That's how y'all
work through it.
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- This is a situation
where you have to say,
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I'm gonna up
and do what's right.
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- And stealthy
investigation team.
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- They think they slick?
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Well, we slicker.
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- We won't stop
until we find the truth.
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Cheaters, beware.
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- I'm [bleep] torn.
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I love them both.
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- You've got to fundamentally
say, I'm gonna be different.
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- Who the [bleep]
you think you are?
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- Why the [bleep] y'all
got cameras in my--
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what the [bleep]
is wrong with you?
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- Tell me, tell me!
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- Nobody should think they're
better than anybody else
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because y'all all
[bleep] been played,
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and that's just the truth.
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This is "Caught In The Act:
Unfaithful."
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- ♪ Walk through doors
with confidence, damn ♪
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♪ Click, click,
always making moves, mm-hmm ♪
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♪ Yeah, baby,
I was born with this ♪
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♪ There's no stopping this ♪
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- Thank you for coming in.
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- Thanks for having me.
- Absolutely.
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Now, tell me a little bit
about you.
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What do you do for a living?
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- I own my own business.
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- Nice.
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- OK, come on now.
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No wonder you
got such pretty skin.
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- Thank you.
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- OK, so I know that you
contacted me because you think
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that there could
potentially be something
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going on in your relationship
with Brandon.
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- Yeah.
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- And I'd like to go all
the way back to the beginning.
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So tell me about that.
How did you two meet?
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- Well, we started off
as friends first.
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- How long
were you guys friends?
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- I want to say
for about two years.
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- OK.
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- It's different
when you are dating somebody
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and you're looking at somebody
for interest versus being,
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you know, a friend.
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When you're just friends first,
it's like you know
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everything about you even--
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- Yes,
because you're very open,
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you're talking,
y'all are sharing secrets.
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Mm-hmm, got it.
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- And we've been together
for six years now.
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- Six years.
- Yeah, it's a long time.
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- Wow.
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- Yeah.
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- But you know what
I love about that,
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is a lot of people
don't understand
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that you have
to be friends first.
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- Right.
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- A lot of people rush right
into the relationship part,
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then they start
learning each other,
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then it's like,
well, hold up now, child.
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I don't really like that.
You know what I'm saying?
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- Yeah.
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- So you guys actually
have a good foundation.
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- Yeah,
he's perfect to be around,
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and, you know,
we both have kids.
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I have a daughter.
He has a daughter.
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- Oh, nice.
- They're very close.
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- And you had your daughter
before you got with Brandon.
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And he had--
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- OK, so you guys
are a blended family.
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- Yeah, we're blended family,
so we're all very close.
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- Nice, now, do you feel like
you're gonna spend the rest
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of your life with Brandon?
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- I feel like I could.
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If I look at it just
from a family dynamic,
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I could say yes because,
like, this person
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has seen my child grow.
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I don't want to just--
it'll be a lot,
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you know, and I just don't--
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I don't want to waste my time
with the wrong person.
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- Totally get this mentality.
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I am here with you.
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- Yeah, but then
at the same time, we--
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well, when we were friends,
he always knew I'm bisexual.
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- OK.
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- So we have fun,
and then, you know,
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if we're out, if we find
a girl and it's spontaneous,
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and it's one thing
leads to another.
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- I am so, like,
really and truly--
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I be, like,
so interested in this
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because I'm not a person
that would have a threesome,
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or introduce anybody
into my relationship.
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So I really want to know
how that conversation went.
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- Going into a relationship
with me, he knew
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that would be a part of myself
that wasn't gonna change.
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I'm always gonna
be attracted to women.
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- Oh, so he understood that.
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So from your standpoint,
it's like,
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even if I'm with a man,
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I'm gonna be over here
too a little bit
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every now and again.
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- Yeah, he was
just always aware
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that I would be open to that.
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- Was the aspect
of having other people
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in your relationship
introduced,
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or did that come down the line?
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- No, that was down the line.
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You know,
we were with each other
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for about two years,
and then it's like, OK.
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You know, we go to clubs,
and I'm like,
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you know, we talk about girls,
and it's just--
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it was the first time
it was spontaneous.
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- So you guys are in the club.
- Yes.
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- And you see somebody.
- Mm-hmm.
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- And you're like she's cute,
and he's like, mm-hmm, she is.
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So you go up to this girl.
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- Yes.
- And say what?
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- Ask her how she's doing,
would you like to come
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to my table and hang out?
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You know,
would you like a drink?
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- So what, now she comes over
to the table and you're like,
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so this is my dude, boo-boo.
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- Mm-hmm, and you know,
the girl's flirting back,
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and you just feed off energy,
you know.
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- OK.
- But we have boundaries.
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- OK.
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- We had certain rules
set into place.
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- What were the rules?
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- I'm the one
that picks the girl.
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- OK.
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- You know,
I'm picking the partner.
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It's not, he gets to go out
and do whatever he wants to do.
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It's not him venturing off.
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I think, if we're doing
something in the moment,
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it's that moment.
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It doesn't mean that later,
he's gonna take this person's
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number and call them later.
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He likes it.
- OK.
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- A little bit too much.
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- Oh.
- Well, I don't like that.
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- What I'm gathering
is that you
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feel a little insecure now.
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- Right.
- Because he's gone past you.
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He's gone around you
and is now out and about,
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flirting, engaging,
interacting with other women
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that you didn't
specifically choose.
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- Right,
and I went through his phone,
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and I found him, like,
being flirty on Instagram,
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commenting on girls' photos.
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- Well, maybe he was
scouting for y'all.
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- He ain't supposed
to do the scouting.
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I'm the one that's
supposed to do it.
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We made that very clear
from the beginning.
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- So let me ask you this.
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Are there any intimacy issues?
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- He likes to be intimate all
the time, and right now,
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we're not engaging
in anything right now
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because we're not good,
and I just--you know.
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- And how long
has this withholding
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of the goodies been?
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- Ha!
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Uh, for a while.
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Uh, for a while.
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I think
that we need to fix the trust
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because if I can't
fully trust you,
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it's just--
it's not gonna happen.
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His work hours have a lot
to do with it too.
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- What does he do for a living?
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- He is a video editor.
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Sometimes, he does stay
overnight because sometimes,
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he'll sleep there.
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It looks funny, and me,
I'm home with the kids.
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It's two girls.
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I can't just go,
and pop up on you,
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and see what you're doing.
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- Mm, mm, mm.
- Yeah.
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- I just feel like
I don't know.
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If the relationship
started off as monogamous,
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that is what most women want.
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- Right.
- Period.
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Somebody that's into them,
don't want nobody else.
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You chose the opposite.
- Yeah.
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- And it was you that brought
this into your relationship.
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- Yeah.
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- So now you've introduced him
into something
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that now it's taken a turn
that you don't like,
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but you don't think that
there's anyone in particular.
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- No.
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He's just very flirty
out there, and he just--
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he likes to be intimate.
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- Now, do you see women
outside of him on your own?
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- No.
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- OK, so everything's
always as a collective.
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- Yeah.
- Got it, OK.
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So what is it that you
would like for me to do?
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- I just want
to see if he's actually
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out doing what I think
he might be doing or not.
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I do want to work it out
because we just have so much
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that we've built together.
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- If you want me
to take this case, I will.
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The way the process works is,
I get my investigation team
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to start surveilling Brandon.
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- OK.
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- And then, I just
need you to act regular
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and let him do
whatever he's doing.
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Allow my team to watch
and see what's going on
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so that we can give you
some clarity and some truth.
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- OK.
- OK?
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Now, appreciate you
coming through.
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[Aitch's "Buss Down"]
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- ♪ Buss down, yeah,
she get the buss down ♪
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♪ 10/10,
man, I get a touchdown ♪
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[tense music]
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♪ ♪
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- First day, surveillance.
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I've been following
Brandon around all morning,
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and so far,
not much has happened.
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♪ ♪
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Looks like he's going
into this food court over here.
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OK, so he's pulling
in this spot,
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so I'm gonna pull past him
and find a parking spot,
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so I can really quick see
where he goes.
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♪ ♪
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OK, he just walked in.
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I'm going to go in,
and since I'm wearing denim,
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nothing better
than my little denim hat.
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This one has a camera,
so I can do a surveillance
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and get the footage we need
because no one suspects it.
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[chuckles]
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♪ ♪
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- They just look like friends,
you know?
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♪ ♪
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Stand by, stand by.
They're coming right now.
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Let me video this.
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♪ ♪
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You know, I mean, you can
make a big deal of everything,
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00:10:19,978 --> 00:10:22,647
but it kind of--
they were kind of chilling.
252
00:10:22,647 --> 00:10:24,683
I'm not gonna call this
too much,
253
00:10:24,683 --> 00:10:26,318
but I'm gonna keep
my eye on them.
254
00:10:26,318 --> 00:10:28,954
♪ ♪
255
00:10:30,356 --> 00:10:33,325
[tense hip-hop music]
256
00:10:33,325 --> 00:10:37,163
♪ ♪
257
00:10:37,163 --> 00:10:39,198
- We're at Brandon
and Emily's house.
258
00:10:39,198 --> 00:10:41,433
I've been out here
a couple hours.
259
00:10:41,433 --> 00:10:42,668
No movement.
260
00:10:42,668 --> 00:10:49,809
♪ ♪
261
00:10:51,043 --> 00:10:52,845
There he is.
262
00:10:52,845 --> 00:10:54,880
All right, let the games begin.
263
00:10:57,917 --> 00:10:59,852
I get so excited at this part.
264
00:10:59,852 --> 00:11:02,855
[dramatic music]
265
00:11:02,855 --> 00:11:06,358
♪ ♪
266
00:11:06,358 --> 00:11:08,427
[engine roars]
267
00:11:08,427 --> 00:11:15,367
♪ ♪
268
00:11:15,367 --> 00:11:17,536
Well, he just pulled in here.
269
00:11:17,536 --> 00:11:20,239
Let me just give it a minute.
270
00:11:20,239 --> 00:11:23,943
This is the editing studio
I have in my notes.
271
00:11:24,810 --> 00:11:27,079
This is where he works.
272
00:11:27,079 --> 00:11:29,882
I'm gonna stay
out here and assess.
273
00:11:29,882 --> 00:11:31,684
Patience is a virtue.
274
00:11:34,587 --> 00:11:36,322
[mysterious music]
275
00:11:36,322 --> 00:11:38,290
Oh, whoa, whoa, whoa.
276
00:11:38,290 --> 00:11:40,059
Who's this?
277
00:11:40,059 --> 00:11:43,596
Holy [bleep], that's the girl
at the food truck.
278
00:11:43,596 --> 00:11:50,736
♪ ♪
279
00:11:52,371 --> 00:11:54,773
Oh, we have movement.
280
00:11:59,411 --> 00:12:00,880
OK, they're leaving.
281
00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:02,882
I just got to get
down a little bit.
282
00:12:04,650 --> 00:12:06,485
OK, here we go.
283
00:12:06,485 --> 00:12:09,488
[tense music]
284
00:12:09,488 --> 00:12:13,759
♪ ♪
285
00:12:13,759 --> 00:12:17,496
All right,
so he just pulled in to park.
286
00:12:17,496 --> 00:12:19,531
We're at a strip club.
287
00:12:19,531 --> 00:12:24,937
♪ ♪
288
00:12:24,937 --> 00:12:27,306
And there she is.
289
00:12:27,306 --> 00:12:29,909
♪ ♪
290
00:12:29,909 --> 00:12:33,412
Smile for the camera.
291
00:12:33,412 --> 00:12:35,814
And they're walking in.
292
00:12:35,814 --> 00:12:37,917
♪ ♪
293
00:12:37,917 --> 00:12:40,653
OK, so I've already put
my camera here.
294
00:12:40,653 --> 00:12:42,588
Right here, guys.
295
00:12:42,588 --> 00:12:44,223
Hidden camera right there.
296
00:12:44,223 --> 00:12:46,158
The pin camera
is great for this
297
00:12:46,158 --> 00:12:47,960
because it's very good
for low light,
298
00:12:47,960 --> 00:12:49,495
and you can't notice it.
299
00:12:49,495 --> 00:12:51,797
No one's gonna be looking
at it.
300
00:12:51,797 --> 00:12:53,766
I'm gonna go in.
301
00:12:53,766 --> 00:12:56,702
[energetic hip-hop music]
302
00:12:56,702 --> 00:13:03,909
♪ ♪
303
00:13:04,576 --> 00:13:06,879
All right, they're just
leaving to this parking lot,
304
00:13:06,879 --> 00:13:09,481
going to have a cigarette.
305
00:13:19,959 --> 00:13:21,393
- He's not--I'm not
gonna lose him tonight.
306
00:13:21,393 --> 00:13:23,429
I'm telling you
right fricking now.
307
00:13:23,429 --> 00:13:26,432
[dramatic music]
308
00:13:26,432 --> 00:13:33,339
♪ ♪
309
00:13:34,907 --> 00:13:37,109
Well, we're
in a residential neighborhood,
310
00:13:37,109 --> 00:13:40,079
so they're going
to someone's house.
311
00:13:40,079 --> 00:13:41,513
It looks like
they're pulling in.
312
00:13:41,513 --> 00:13:44,249
I'm gonna pull right here,
shut my lights off.
313
00:13:44,249 --> 00:13:47,853
That's got to be her house.
I got to run this address.
314
00:13:48,787 --> 00:13:51,023
They shut off their lights.
315
00:13:51,023 --> 00:13:52,591
We all know what that means.
316
00:13:52,591 --> 00:13:59,765
♪ ♪
317
00:14:00,532 --> 00:14:03,402
- I hope you had your coffee
this morning, Ken,
318
00:14:03,402 --> 00:14:05,637
because there's a lot
to unpack here.
319
00:14:05,637 --> 00:14:07,072
- OK.
320
00:14:07,072 --> 00:14:10,109
- A young lady named Emily
came into the office
321
00:14:10,109 --> 00:14:13,112
to discuss her relationship
with her partner.
322
00:14:13,112 --> 00:14:15,714
Two years
into the relationship,
323
00:14:15,714 --> 00:14:18,350
she introduced threesomes...
324
00:14:18,350 --> 00:14:19,718
- OK.
325
00:14:19,718 --> 00:14:22,588
- Into her relationship
dynamic with Brandon,
326
00:14:22,588 --> 00:14:27,493
but she's the person who picks
the young lady to participate.
327
00:14:27,493 --> 00:14:28,527
- OK.
328
00:14:28,527 --> 00:14:29,795
- I said, OK.
329
00:14:29,795 --> 00:14:31,663
Well now, here's the thing.
330
00:14:31,663 --> 00:14:33,332
That's called Pandora's box.
331
00:14:33,332 --> 00:14:34,633
[laughter]
332
00:14:34,633 --> 00:14:36,035
- Yeah, and when you open it...
333
00:14:36,035 --> 00:14:38,604
- And you opened it.
- You're right.
334
00:14:38,604 --> 00:14:40,272
- Hi!
- Hey.
335
00:14:40,272 --> 00:14:42,908
- How are you, Emily?
- How are you?
336
00:14:42,908 --> 00:14:44,443
- Hello, how are you?
- Hey, how are you?
337
00:14:44,443 --> 00:14:46,045
- Good to meet you.
- This is Coach Ken.
338
00:14:46,045 --> 00:14:47,880
Have a seat over there
for me, sweets.
339
00:14:47,880 --> 00:14:51,116
You know, Coach Ken
340
00:14:51,116 --> 00:14:55,087
is a relationship expert
341
00:14:55,087 --> 00:14:58,157
and should you see anything
342
00:14:58,157 --> 00:15:00,492
that makes you feel some kind
of way...
343
00:15:00,492 --> 00:15:02,027
- Yeah.
344
00:15:02,027 --> 00:15:04,263
- Ken is gonna help you
kind of process those emotions.
345
00:15:04,263 --> 00:15:05,564
- All right.
- OK?
346
00:15:05,564 --> 00:15:06,799
You're cool with that?
347
00:15:06,799 --> 00:15:08,267
- Yeah.
- Oh!
348
00:15:08,267 --> 00:15:10,536
- Depending
if we see something.
349
00:15:10,536 --> 00:15:12,771
- I'm just here to help.
- No, I know.
350
00:15:12,771 --> 00:15:14,440
- I'm just here to help you.
351
00:15:14,440 --> 00:15:18,243
- And I have him here only
because watching this footage
352
00:15:18,243 --> 00:15:21,146
could change the dynamic
of your relationship
353
00:15:21,146 --> 00:15:23,215
with Brandon going forward.
354
00:15:23,215 --> 00:15:27,052
- Yeah.
- Do you want to see it or not?
355
00:15:27,052 --> 00:15:28,654
- Yeah, I want to see it.
356
00:15:28,654 --> 00:15:29,000
- All right, so here we go.
357
00:15:29,000 --> 00:15:30,823
- All right, so here we go.
358
00:15:30,823 --> 00:15:33,258
We started this surveillance,
359
00:15:33,258 --> 00:15:37,896
and there is Brandon
at this food truck.
360
00:15:47,339 --> 00:15:50,709
- Now, to me,
when I watched it, flirty.
361
00:15:50,709 --> 00:15:52,478
- Yeah, but that's the
first [bleep] he's gonna do
362
00:15:52,478 --> 00:15:53,679
when he goes over there.
363
00:15:53,679 --> 00:15:55,147
Like, order your food first.
364
00:16:03,088 --> 00:16:05,224
- Are you [bleep] serious?
I know her.
365
00:16:05,224 --> 00:16:07,226
- You know who
this young lady is.
366
00:16:07,226 --> 00:16:08,393
- That's supposed
to be my friend.
367
00:16:08,393 --> 00:16:09,795
We knew each other
for a long time.
368
00:16:09,795 --> 00:16:10,996
- Now, what's her name?
369
00:16:10,996 --> 00:16:12,631
- That's Jojo.
- Jojo, OK.
370
00:16:12,631 --> 00:16:14,666
So you're saying they [bleep]
or something, and that's it?
371
00:16:14,666 --> 00:16:17,970
I don't know if it was going on
because if I allow you
372
00:16:17,970 --> 00:16:21,240
to, you know, have fun with
this person that I'm close to,
373
00:16:21,240 --> 00:16:23,842
I don't like that at all,
period.
374
00:16:23,842 --> 00:16:28,180
- So what I'm gathering was,
375
00:16:28,180 --> 00:16:31,750
Jojo has been involved
with you and Brandon.
376
00:16:31,750 --> 00:16:34,419
- Yeah, but I expect her--
like, out of all people,
377
00:16:34,419 --> 00:16:36,121
I expect her loyalty
to stay with me...
378
00:16:36,121 --> 00:16:38,223
- Got it.
- Because I knew her longer.
379
00:16:38,223 --> 00:16:40,259
Before I even met Brandon,
we already was,
380
00:16:40,259 --> 00:16:42,661
you know, doing what we did.
381
00:16:42,661 --> 00:16:44,863
We were never in,
like, a relationship.
382
00:16:44,863 --> 00:16:47,566
We would mess around,
but that's still my friend.
383
00:16:47,566 --> 00:16:50,402
I knew her since we was
in middle school.
384
00:16:50,402 --> 00:16:51,870
- OK.
- Middle school, high school.
385
00:16:51,870 --> 00:16:53,705
Like, we knew each other--
you know,
386
00:16:53,705 --> 00:16:56,275
before we figured out
what we liked, I knew her.
387
00:16:56,275 --> 00:16:58,243
I just feel like
she really overstepped
388
00:16:58,243 --> 00:17:00,179
the boundary like I just--
389
00:17:00,179 --> 00:17:01,780
I don't know.
390
00:17:01,780 --> 00:17:03,081
- Maybe that's why it
shouldn't have been a friend.
391
00:17:03,081 --> 00:17:04,683
- I don't know.
392
00:17:04,683 --> 00:17:06,018
I just felt like it would be
a little bit different.
393
00:17:06,018 --> 00:17:07,553
I felt like it would better.
394
00:17:07,553 --> 00:17:08,987
- Well,
they did send a second clip,
395
00:17:08,987 --> 00:17:11,456
so let's take a look at that.
396
00:17:11,456 --> 00:17:13,325
We camped out.
397
00:17:13,325 --> 00:17:15,594
Caught him leaving
in the morning.
398
00:17:15,594 --> 00:17:18,163
Continued to surveil.
399
00:17:18,163 --> 00:17:21,733
So this is where he works,
correct?
400
00:17:23,101 --> 00:17:24,469
Emily?
401
00:17:24,469 --> 00:17:26,872
That's his studio,
his place of business?
402
00:17:26,872 --> 00:17:28,373
- Yeah, I'm sorry.
403
00:17:28,373 --> 00:17:30,842
I'm just like--I'm just
a little heated, like--
404
00:17:30,842 --> 00:17:32,277
- Well, that same girl.
405
00:17:32,277 --> 00:17:33,645
- And what the [bleep]
is she doing there, though?
406
00:17:33,645 --> 00:17:35,647
I didn't even know
she knew where he worked at.
407
00:17:35,647 --> 00:17:38,283
- Well, as you can see,
all day went by,
408
00:17:38,283 --> 00:17:40,252
and now they're coming out.
409
00:17:40,252 --> 00:17:42,120
- I don't know.
Like, I just need a break.
410
00:17:42,120 --> 00:17:43,422
- You don't want
to see the rest of it?
411
00:17:43,422 --> 00:17:46,258
- I don't--I just--
it just blows my mind.
412
00:17:46,258 --> 00:17:48,393
Like, why the [bleep]
is she even over there?
413
00:17:48,393 --> 00:17:52,631
- Well, how are we gonna find
out what's really happening
414
00:17:52,631 --> 00:17:55,200
if you don't want to see
the rest of what's happening?
415
00:17:55,200 --> 00:17:56,535
- You got to understand this.
416
00:17:56,535 --> 00:17:58,370
Like, I'm trying--
I'm giving this man leeway
417
00:17:58,370 --> 00:17:59,571
to do what you got to do,
and you're gonna--
418
00:17:59,571 --> 00:18:01,473
he's gonna go over there
with my friend,
419
00:18:01,473 --> 00:18:02,841
and I'm home with the kids.
420
00:18:02,841 --> 00:18:04,142
I'm sorry.
421
00:18:04,142 --> 00:18:05,611
I know you're just
trying to do your job,
422
00:18:05,611 --> 00:18:07,145
but I don't know what the
[bleep] y'all expect from me.
423
00:18:07,145 --> 00:18:10,148
[dramatic music]
424
00:18:10,148 --> 00:18:11,683
♪ ♪
425
00:18:13,786 --> 00:18:15,487
- I'm giving this man leeway
to do what you got to do,
426
00:18:15,487 --> 00:18:17,823
and you gonna--he's gonna go
over there with my friend,
427
00:18:17,823 --> 00:18:19,091
and I'm home with the kids.
428
00:18:19,091 --> 00:18:20,326
I'm sorry.
429
00:18:20,326 --> 00:18:21,794
I know you're just trying
to do your job,
430
00:18:21,794 --> 00:18:23,629
but I don't know what the
[bleep] y'all expect from me.
431
00:18:23,629 --> 00:18:25,264
If y'all's was to do
some [bleep] like this,
432
00:18:25,264 --> 00:18:26,432
you'd probably be on 100 too.
433
00:18:26,432 --> 00:18:28,200
- This is true.
This is true.
434
00:18:28,200 --> 00:18:31,236
- You owe it to yourself
to see this through.
435
00:18:31,236 --> 00:18:32,705
[soft music]
436
00:18:32,705 --> 00:18:35,207
- Well, come sit down,
and watch the rest of it
437
00:18:35,207 --> 00:18:37,409
because I think
it's valuable for you
438
00:18:37,409 --> 00:18:43,349
to see everything that happened
439
00:18:43,349 --> 00:18:46,218
so that we can figure out
how to proceed from here.
440
00:18:46,218 --> 00:18:47,820
[energetic hip-hop music]
441
00:18:47,820 --> 00:18:49,855
They ended up at a strip club.
442
00:18:49,855 --> 00:18:51,357
- Wow.
443
00:18:51,357 --> 00:18:54,627
- Doing the whole dance thing,
and I think
444
00:18:54,627 --> 00:18:57,262
they got turned
on a little bit
445
00:18:57,262 --> 00:19:01,300
because they started getting
it popping in the club.
446
00:19:01,300 --> 00:19:02,901
- So basically, I'm the nanny,
447
00:19:02,901 --> 00:19:04,770
and I got to stay home
and be with the kids.
448
00:19:04,770 --> 00:19:06,138
And he get to go out,
and have fun,
449
00:19:06,138 --> 00:19:07,873
and [bleep] whoever
he want to [bleep] with?
450
00:19:07,873 --> 00:19:09,975
Like...
451
00:19:09,975 --> 00:19:12,978
[tense music]
452
00:19:12,978 --> 00:19:15,214
♪ ♪
453
00:19:20,486 --> 00:19:22,755
- But I wanted
to run it back for you.
454
00:19:22,755 --> 00:19:24,723
The first thing is,
455
00:19:24,723 --> 00:19:26,291
what you set up,
456
00:19:26,291 --> 00:19:29,595
he's now trying to have that
with this young lady.
457
00:19:29,595 --> 00:19:31,897
They should have
brought somebody home together,
458
00:19:31,897 --> 00:19:33,232
and now...
459
00:19:39,705 --> 00:19:41,440
- A job?
Who he's talking about, me?
460
00:19:41,440 --> 00:19:42,474
- Yeah.
461
00:19:44,877 --> 00:19:46,779
- Who the [bleep]--y'all.
462
00:19:52,785 --> 00:19:54,353
[dramatic music]
463
00:19:54,353 --> 00:19:56,321
- So what he think he gon' do?
He gon' leave?
464
00:19:56,321 --> 00:19:57,489
I'ma be by myself in the crib,
465
00:19:57,489 --> 00:19:59,425
and he gon' start
a new life with her?
466
00:19:59,425 --> 00:20:01,360
It's just hard
to process everything
467
00:20:01,360 --> 00:20:02,695
that's going on
because it's like,
468
00:20:02,695 --> 00:20:05,597
I have a history
with both of them.
469
00:20:05,597 --> 00:20:09,001
I would expect more from her
than to be creeping with him.
470
00:20:09,001 --> 00:20:13,338
- My question is, are you
more upset because it's her,
471
00:20:13,338 --> 00:20:16,809
someone that you brought
into you guys' circle,
472
00:20:16,809 --> 00:20:19,978
or is it because
he's seeing someone else?
473
00:20:19,978 --> 00:20:22,414
- I'm just upset
about it overall.
474
00:20:22,414 --> 00:20:24,116
Like, I'm just upset
about everything.
475
00:20:24,116 --> 00:20:29,655
- OK, well, then I'm going
to show you the next clip.
476
00:20:29,655 --> 00:20:36,595
♪ ♪
477
00:20:44,903 --> 00:20:47,406
Is that you, Emily?
478
00:20:47,406 --> 00:20:49,108
- But why are we following me
when we're supposed
479
00:20:49,108 --> 00:20:51,110
to be seeing what he's doing?
480
00:20:55,981 --> 00:20:57,483
So you see why I'm mad?
481
00:20:57,483 --> 00:21:00,486
- No, I don't.
I know why I'm mad.
482
00:21:00,486 --> 00:21:03,355
When you came in here,
you said you were bothered
483
00:21:03,355 --> 00:21:05,057
because you felt
like he was stepping
484
00:21:05,057 --> 00:21:06,225
outside of the relationship.
485
00:21:06,225 --> 00:21:07,426
Have you ever cheated?
486
00:21:07,426 --> 00:21:08,827
Have you ever done anything?
487
00:21:08,827 --> 00:21:10,829
You said no, but you
was doing the same thing.
488
00:21:10,829 --> 00:21:13,098
- But it's a girl.
It's not like I'm [bleep] guys.
489
00:21:13,098 --> 00:21:14,733
- It does not matter.
490
00:21:14,733 --> 00:21:16,668
So you've been
involved with her.
491
00:21:16,668 --> 00:21:18,604
Then you just wanted
to be able to have
492
00:21:18,604 --> 00:21:20,672
both relationships
at the same time.
493
00:21:20,672 --> 00:21:23,542
So now you introduce her
into your situation
494
00:21:23,542 --> 00:21:26,645
with Brandon so that you
technically can have your cake
495
00:21:26,645 --> 00:21:28,947
and eat it too,
and now you mad...
496
00:21:28,947 --> 00:21:30,849
- We both want
the cake then because--
497
00:21:30,849 --> 00:21:33,452
- That he done ate the whole
damn cake without you.
498
00:21:34,486 --> 00:21:36,355
- Can I ask you a question?
499
00:21:36,355 --> 00:21:38,724
You created rules
in the relationship, correct?
500
00:21:38,724 --> 00:21:39,925
- Yes.
501
00:21:39,925 --> 00:21:41,760
- Are you both
outside of the rules?
502
00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:43,595
♪ ♪
503
00:21:43,595 --> 00:21:45,864
- Well, it's different
because we have boundaries.
504
00:21:45,864 --> 00:21:48,133
He broke the boundaries,
and he take it too far,
505
00:21:48,133 --> 00:21:50,369
so I don't know how y'all
expect me to go about [bleep]
506
00:21:50,369 --> 00:21:51,770
when he acts like that.
507
00:21:51,770 --> 00:21:54,673
- I expect you to accept
508
00:21:54,673 --> 00:21:57,075
the scenario
that you've created.
509
00:21:57,075 --> 00:21:59,077
- I didn't create--
how did I create the scenario?
510
00:21:59,077 --> 00:22:01,580
- Because the man didn't want
no other [bleep],
511
00:22:01,580 --> 00:22:04,883
and you said,
I want some [bleep] though!
512
00:22:04,883 --> 00:22:06,185
- He didn't say--
513
00:22:06,185 --> 00:22:08,353
- So I'ma introduce
this lifestyle
514
00:22:08,353 --> 00:22:09,788
into our relationship.
515
00:22:09,788 --> 00:22:11,423
- He didn't say
it was a problem though.
516
00:22:11,423 --> 00:22:13,458
- What man is?
517
00:22:13,458 --> 00:22:16,395
♪ ♪
518
00:22:16,395 --> 00:22:18,397
- So let me tell you
what y'all have done.
519
00:22:18,397 --> 00:22:20,399
In a relationship,
we set the rules,
520
00:22:20,399 --> 00:22:23,001
and when people go
outside of the rules,
521
00:22:23,001 --> 00:22:24,803
then they start breezing.
522
00:22:24,803 --> 00:22:26,438
Both of you have--
523
00:22:26,438 --> 00:22:29,074
are not abiding
by the rules that you set.
524
00:22:29,074 --> 00:22:31,076
- I guess that hurts more
from her than they do from him
525
00:22:31,076 --> 00:22:32,277
because it's like, yo.
526
00:22:32,277 --> 00:22:35,480
You know me from a kid, OK?
527
00:22:35,480 --> 00:22:38,617
So I wouldn't expect her
to dog me out like that.
528
00:22:39,284 --> 00:22:41,653
- There are three types
of connection that people have.
529
00:22:41,653 --> 00:22:43,055
There's
the physical connection.
530
00:22:43,055 --> 00:22:44,356
There's the mental connection,
531
00:22:44,356 --> 00:22:45,724
and there's
the emotional connection.
532
00:22:45,724 --> 00:22:48,493
And what people try to do is,
they think that,
533
00:22:48,493 --> 00:22:50,863
once I introduce
the physical connection,
534
00:22:50,863 --> 00:22:53,432
then either the mental
or the emotional connection
535
00:22:53,432 --> 00:22:56,602
won't be enacted
because it's just physical.
536
00:22:56,602 --> 00:23:00,072
And so now that we're connected
physically many times,
537
00:23:00,072 --> 00:23:03,575
the emotional part
of us kicks in as a result
538
00:23:03,575 --> 00:23:05,544
of this physical
connection we have,
539
00:23:05,544 --> 00:23:08,180
now, which people try to
separate it all the time.
540
00:23:08,180 --> 00:23:11,783
It doesn't always work,
but what happens in this case
541
00:23:11,783 --> 00:23:12,000
is you introduced
the physical connection,
542
00:23:12,000 --> 00:23:14,319
is you introduced
the physical connection,
543
00:23:14,319 --> 00:23:17,823
which led
to the emotional connection.
544
00:23:17,823 --> 00:23:19,324
- Why it has to be her
that he's making
545
00:23:19,324 --> 00:23:20,359
that connection with?
546
00:23:20,359 --> 00:23:22,027
- Do you care about Jojo?
547
00:23:22,027 --> 00:23:24,863
- I care about her, yeah,
but I'm just--I don't know.
548
00:23:24,863 --> 00:23:26,331
I just feel like...
549
00:23:26,331 --> 00:23:29,368
- Is Jojo somebody
that you would say
550
00:23:29,368 --> 00:23:32,304
to yourself, like, I love her?
551
00:23:32,304 --> 00:23:34,873
- I don't know.
552
00:23:34,873 --> 00:23:36,942
- Do you want
a relationship with Jojo?
553
00:23:36,942 --> 00:23:38,911
- They want a relationship
with each other.
554
00:23:38,911 --> 00:23:40,345
- I didn't ask you that.
555
00:23:40,345 --> 00:23:42,915
Do you want a relationship
with Jojo?
556
00:23:42,915 --> 00:23:44,917
♪ ♪
557
00:23:44,917 --> 00:23:46,652
- I don't know what
I want right now.
558
00:23:46,652 --> 00:23:47,986
I just--I don't know.
559
00:23:47,986 --> 00:23:49,388
- It makes sense.
560
00:23:49,388 --> 00:23:50,789
- So where do we go from here?
561
00:23:50,789 --> 00:23:52,591
What is it that you want to do?
562
00:23:52,591 --> 00:23:55,894
Because the way we operate
around here is,
563
00:23:55,894 --> 00:23:58,630
you can sit down and have
a conversation with Jojo,
564
00:23:58,630 --> 00:24:01,466
and then you guys
can both go together
565
00:24:01,466 --> 00:24:03,502
and speak with Brandon.
566
00:24:03,502 --> 00:24:07,239
Or you can wait
until he's with Jojo
567
00:24:07,239 --> 00:24:10,776
and approach them together
by catching them in the act,
568
00:24:10,776 --> 00:24:14,579
which is called a takedown.
569
00:24:14,579 --> 00:24:17,316
- We're gonna do a takedown
because they both
570
00:24:17,316 --> 00:24:18,784
being sneaky behind my back.
571
00:24:18,784 --> 00:24:21,119
- OK, you sure?
- Yeah, I'm sure.
572
00:24:21,119 --> 00:24:23,455
- OK? All right.
573
00:24:23,455 --> 00:24:25,390
Now, thank you for coming in.
574
00:24:25,390 --> 00:24:26,959
- Thanks for having me.
575
00:24:26,959 --> 00:24:28,293
- This is the way.
576
00:24:28,293 --> 00:24:29,494
- I appreciate you.
- Thank you.
577
00:24:29,494 --> 00:24:31,029
- I'ma call you.
578
00:24:31,029 --> 00:24:33,865
♪ ♪
579
00:24:33,865 --> 00:24:36,435
- People create the fantasy,
right?
580
00:24:36,435 --> 00:24:38,370
You can manage the game,
581
00:24:38,370 --> 00:24:40,305
but you can't
manage the players.
582
00:24:40,305 --> 00:24:43,909
♪ ♪
583
00:24:46,045 --> 00:24:49,615
- ♪ I'm gonna hold you down,
I'm gonna hold it down ♪
584
00:24:49,615 --> 00:24:51,784
♪ I'm gonna hold it down
for my city ♪
585
00:24:51,784 --> 00:24:53,953
- You ready to roll?
- I am.
586
00:24:53,953 --> 00:24:55,421
Thank you.
587
00:24:55,421 --> 00:24:57,456
- ♪ Run it ♪
588
00:24:57,456 --> 00:24:59,358
- So I'm gonna call Emily.
589
00:24:59,358 --> 00:25:02,028
[phone line trilling]
590
00:25:02,028 --> 00:25:03,396
- Hello?
591
00:25:03,396 --> 00:25:05,898
- Hi, Emily.
It's Tami and Ken.
592
00:25:05,898 --> 00:25:06,933
How are you?
593
00:25:06,933 --> 00:25:08,167
- I'm great.
594
00:25:08,167 --> 00:25:11,838
- My investigation team
has found out
595
00:25:11,838 --> 00:25:16,576
that Jojo and Brandon
are together at Jojo's house.
596
00:25:16,576 --> 00:25:17,677
- Well, OK.
597
00:25:17,677 --> 00:25:19,812
- I think the best course
of action
598
00:25:19,812 --> 00:25:21,747
is that you meet us there.
599
00:25:21,747 --> 00:25:23,416
- We could do that.
I'll meet you over there.
600
00:25:23,416 --> 00:25:24,917
- Now, here's the thing, Emily.
601
00:25:24,917 --> 00:25:26,953
You cannot go up
into people's house.
602
00:25:26,953 --> 00:25:28,187
- All right.
603
00:25:28,187 --> 00:25:30,256
- You've got to contain
your emotions
604
00:25:30,256 --> 00:25:33,092
until Ken and I get there
so that we can explain
605
00:25:33,092 --> 00:25:35,061
the next steps to you.
606
00:25:35,061 --> 00:25:37,830
Can you promise me that?
607
00:25:37,830 --> 00:25:38,698
- Yeah.
608
00:25:38,698 --> 00:25:40,333
- OK, we're on the way.
609
00:25:40,333 --> 00:25:41,968
I'll see you shortly.
610
00:25:41,968 --> 00:25:44,237
- All right, see you soon.
- OK, bye-bye.
611
00:25:44,237 --> 00:25:45,571
Sounded a little shaky.
612
00:25:45,571 --> 00:25:47,139
- [laughing]
It sounded a lot of shaky.
613
00:25:47,139 --> 00:25:48,741
[tense music]
614
00:25:48,741 --> 00:25:51,477
How do you think
she is emotionally?
615
00:25:51,477 --> 00:25:53,379
- You know,
I couldn't get a gauge on it.
616
00:25:53,379 --> 00:25:54,814
- It was tough.
617
00:25:54,814 --> 00:25:57,450
I mean, when we began
talking about Brandon,
618
00:25:57,450 --> 00:25:58,818
then we started
talking about Jojo,
619
00:25:58,818 --> 00:26:02,855
if you noticed,
her energy just shifted from,
620
00:26:02,855 --> 00:26:06,559
I'm mad with Brandon,
I'm hurt by Jojo.
621
00:26:06,559 --> 00:26:08,594
- By Jojo, mm-hmm.
622
00:26:08,594 --> 00:26:10,229
- Comes from two
different places.
623
00:26:10,229 --> 00:26:11,964
- Yes, you're absolutely right.
624
00:26:11,964 --> 00:26:14,667
♪ ♪
625
00:26:14,667 --> 00:26:16,469
- Oh, here she is.
626
00:26:16,469 --> 00:26:18,037
- All right.
627
00:26:18,037 --> 00:26:19,972
♪ ♪
628
00:26:19,972 --> 00:26:21,407
- Hi.
629
00:26:21,407 --> 00:26:23,643
- Hey.
- How are you?
630
00:26:24,377 --> 00:26:26,078
- I don't know.
631
00:26:26,078 --> 00:26:28,447
I feel just a mixture
of emotions.
632
00:26:28,447 --> 00:26:30,683
- Well, let's calm
your heart down.
633
00:26:30,683 --> 00:26:34,120
I have a decoy setup,
and that decoy
634
00:26:34,120 --> 00:26:36,489
is gonna act like
they're delivering flowers.
635
00:26:36,489 --> 00:26:37,757
- OK.
636
00:26:37,757 --> 00:26:41,494
- You are then
going to creep up,
637
00:26:41,494 --> 00:26:43,195
and then
when they open the door
638
00:26:43,195 --> 00:26:44,630
to receive the flowers,
639
00:26:44,630 --> 00:26:47,533
that's when you can go in
and address them both
640
00:26:47,533 --> 00:26:48,968
at the same time.
641
00:26:48,968 --> 00:26:50,970
We're gonna be watching
every step of the way.
642
00:26:50,970 --> 00:26:52,471
- OK.
643
00:26:52,471 --> 00:26:54,473
- And when we feel like we
should potentially step in,
644
00:26:54,473 --> 00:26:56,075
we will, OK?
645
00:26:56,075 --> 00:26:57,076
- OK.
- Yeah.
646
00:26:57,076 --> 00:26:58,577
Ken will let you out and then--
647
00:26:58,577 --> 00:26:59,979
- Let me go--all right.
648
00:26:59,979 --> 00:27:01,814
- You want to see
if you can see them, Ken?
649
00:27:01,814 --> 00:27:04,517
So remember,
once they open the door,
650
00:27:04,517 --> 00:27:05,551
then you can reveal yourself.
651
00:27:05,551 --> 00:27:07,019
- All right.
652
00:27:07,019 --> 00:27:08,321
♪ ♪
653
00:27:08,321 --> 00:27:10,056
- [sighs]
654
00:27:10,056 --> 00:27:13,559
♪ ♪
655
00:27:13,559 --> 00:27:16,329
- OK.
- She's ready to get in there.
656
00:27:16,329 --> 00:27:21,667
♪ ♪
657
00:27:21,667 --> 00:27:23,269
- Oh!
- Oh, Lord, oh, Lord.
658
00:27:23,269 --> 00:27:24,570
Oh, Lord, oh, Lord, oh, Lord!
659
00:27:24,570 --> 00:27:26,939
- [shouting]
Who was that for?
660
00:27:26,939 --> 00:27:29,308
Get outta here!
- Why the [bleep]--
661
00:27:29,308 --> 00:27:31,777
- OK, this ain't going the way
we thought it was gonna go.
662
00:27:31,777 --> 00:27:34,146
- What the [bleep] wrong?
- What the [bleep] you want?
663
00:27:34,146 --> 00:27:35,715
- You were the one who put
the [bleep] cameras
664
00:27:35,715 --> 00:27:36,983
in the goddamn house.
665
00:27:36,983 --> 00:27:38,517
- Who the [bleep]
you think you are?
666
00:27:38,517 --> 00:27:41,120
- Who the [bleep] are these
[bleep] in my [bleep] house?
667
00:27:41,120 --> 00:27:43,489
- OK, Emily, Emily!
668
00:27:43,489 --> 00:27:45,324
That is not what we discussed.
669
00:27:45,324 --> 00:27:47,259
- What is going on?
- Hello.
670
00:27:47,259 --> 00:27:49,195
Brandon, Jojo.
671
00:27:49,195 --> 00:27:52,598
My name is Tami Roman,
and you guys are on a show
672
00:27:52,598 --> 00:27:55,334
called "Caught In The Act:
Unfaithful."
673
00:27:55,334 --> 00:27:57,737
- Emily, what is going on, bro?
674
00:27:57,737 --> 00:27:59,238
- You're slime ball ass
[bleep].
675
00:27:59,238 --> 00:28:00,840
How the [bleep] you gon' leave
and be with this bitch?
676
00:28:00,840 --> 00:28:02,641
- Let me explain
to them what's going on.
677
00:28:02,641 --> 00:28:04,310
- I'm here chilling.
This is crazy.
678
00:28:04,310 --> 00:28:05,878
Like, y'all got cameras
on me and [bleep],
679
00:28:05,878 --> 00:28:07,113
and I don't even know
what the [bleep] is going on.
680
00:28:07,113 --> 00:28:08,347
- Get up out
of here with [bleep]!
681
00:28:08,347 --> 00:28:09,782
- You triggered my PTSD
in this bitch.
682
00:28:09,782 --> 00:28:10,950
I don't know what--
- Let me talk to y'all.
683
00:28:10,950 --> 00:28:14,253
So what happened was,
Emily came to me
684
00:28:14,253 --> 00:28:16,722
because she felt like
there may be something
685
00:28:16,722 --> 00:28:19,658
going on in your relationship.
686
00:28:19,658 --> 00:28:22,128
So we surveilled you,
687
00:28:22,128 --> 00:28:25,531
only out that you
are in a relationship,
688
00:28:25,531 --> 00:28:28,067
who we found out to be Jojo.
689
00:28:28,067 --> 00:28:30,302
- OK, but Emily invited me
into this relationship.
690
00:28:30,302 --> 00:28:32,505
So if she really want
to get to it--
691
00:28:32,505 --> 00:28:34,807
- You [bleep] with me!
- We can talk about it then.
692
00:28:34,807 --> 00:28:35,975
- You [bleep] with me!
693
00:28:35,975 --> 00:28:37,710
- Yes, and I [bleep]
with both of you,
694
00:28:37,710 --> 00:28:38,878
so what the [bleep]
you mad about, bitch?
695
00:28:38,878 --> 00:28:40,646
- What is she
talking about now?
696
00:28:40,646 --> 00:28:44,116
[dramatic music]
697
00:28:45,510 --> 00:28:47,612
[tense music]
698
00:28:47,612 --> 00:28:50,482
- Emily came to me
because she felt
699
00:28:50,482 --> 00:28:54,586
like there may be something
going on in your relationship.
700
00:28:54,586 --> 00:28:58,490
So we surveilled you,
only to find out
701
00:28:58,490 --> 00:29:00,392
that you are
in a relationship,
702
00:29:00,392 --> 00:29:03,028
who we found out to be Jojo.
703
00:29:03,028 --> 00:29:04,496
- But Emily invited me
into this relationship.
704
00:29:04,496 --> 00:29:06,998
- You [bleep] with me!
Yo, you were [bleep] with me!
705
00:29:06,998 --> 00:29:08,333
- Yes, I'm [bleep] both you!
706
00:29:08,333 --> 00:29:09,868
So what the [bleep]
you mad about, bitch?
707
00:29:09,868 --> 00:29:11,336
- Bitch, I'll beat your ass.
708
00:29:11,336 --> 00:29:12,704
- Why are you mad about
if I'm [bleep] both of you?
709
00:29:12,704 --> 00:29:14,372
You're hiding it too.
710
00:29:14,372 --> 00:29:16,041
You lying to him
the same way he lying to you.
711
00:29:16,041 --> 00:29:17,509
- What is she
talking about now?
712
00:29:17,509 --> 00:29:19,611
- [bleep], come home and take
care of your kid, bitch.
713
00:29:19,611 --> 00:29:20,912
- Let's sit down over here.
714
00:29:20,912 --> 00:29:22,313
- My kid's got
every mother[bleep] thing.
715
00:29:22,313 --> 00:29:24,082
My kid's been in chinchilla
since they was five.
716
00:29:24,082 --> 00:29:25,250
- Oh, I'm home [bleep],
so what I'm supposed to be
717
00:29:25,250 --> 00:29:26,584
the babysitter
while you get to do
718
00:29:26,584 --> 00:29:27,719
whatever the [bleep] you want?
719
00:29:27,719 --> 00:29:28,753
- They could have had you,
bitch!
720
00:29:28,753 --> 00:29:30,155
You were just in my house--
721
00:29:30,155 --> 00:29:31,689
- With all due respect,
who the [bleep] is you?
722
00:29:31,689 --> 00:29:33,091
- I work with Tami.
723
00:29:33,091 --> 00:29:34,592
I'm the relationship coach,
and we help people.
724
00:29:34,592 --> 00:29:36,094
- How is this helping,
my [bleep]?
725
00:29:36,094 --> 00:29:37,762
This is a crazy way to do that.
- I get it.
726
00:29:37,762 --> 00:29:39,064
- Homie, I'm a street [bleep].
727
00:29:39,064 --> 00:29:40,198
You can't just run up
in my [bleep] house.
728
00:29:40,198 --> 00:29:41,566
That's my [bleep].
- I get that.
729
00:29:41,566 --> 00:29:42,901
- Jojo, you have a seat
right here so that we
730
00:29:42,901 --> 00:29:44,436
can have this conversation.
731
00:29:44,436 --> 00:29:46,004
Brandon, come over here, baby.
732
00:29:46,004 --> 00:29:48,106
- All right, all right.
733
00:29:48,106 --> 00:29:51,576
- Brandon, you guys had rules.
734
00:29:51,576 --> 00:29:54,179
You stepped outside
of those rules.
735
00:29:54,179 --> 00:29:56,714
- That's a fact.
- She wants to know why.
736
00:29:56,714 --> 00:29:58,116
- Here's the thing, right?
737
00:29:58,116 --> 00:30:01,252
You know, six years,
a lot of things change.
738
00:30:01,252 --> 00:30:03,621
Things you agree on
when you're 22 years old
739
00:30:03,621 --> 00:30:04,756
is not the same [bleep].
740
00:30:04,756 --> 00:30:06,424
- So you should've cut it off.
741
00:30:06,424 --> 00:30:08,326
- Why didn't you have
a conversation with her
742
00:30:08,326 --> 00:30:10,962
so that you guys
could make adjustments?
743
00:30:10,962 --> 00:30:12,764
- Me trying to have
the conversation,
744
00:30:12,764 --> 00:30:13,998
this is where it leads to.
745
00:30:13,998 --> 00:30:16,935
You got to give me time
to be able
746
00:30:16,935 --> 00:30:18,770
to express or show my actions.
747
00:30:18,770 --> 00:30:19,938
Like, this was a conversation
748
00:30:19,938 --> 00:30:20,905
I was getting ready
to have with her.
749
00:30:20,905 --> 00:30:22,140
- You full of [bleep].
750
00:30:22,140 --> 00:30:23,475
You full of [bleep]
because I told you
751
00:30:23,475 --> 00:30:24,609
we should've had this
conversation with her
752
00:30:24,609 --> 00:30:25,710
a long [bleep] time ago.
753
00:30:25,710 --> 00:30:26,911
And you're the one
who kept saying,
754
00:30:26,911 --> 00:30:28,146
let's wait,
let's wait, let's wait.
755
00:30:28,146 --> 00:30:29,714
- Because look how
it's [bleep] going!
756
00:30:29,714 --> 00:30:31,382
- Well, I'm going about it
this way 'cause you keep lying!
757
00:30:31,382 --> 00:30:32,717
It's not just her.
758
00:30:32,717 --> 00:30:34,252
- I'm only speaking to Tami
from here on out.
759
00:30:34,252 --> 00:30:35,420
- We ain't doing that.
It's not gonna go nowhere.
760
00:30:35,420 --> 00:30:36,955
This conversation
not gonna go nowhere
761
00:30:36,955 --> 00:30:38,289
cause you see what I'm saying,
he thinks it's a joke.
762
00:30:38,289 --> 00:30:39,691
It's not a joke.
763
00:30:39,691 --> 00:30:41,159
- No,
I don't think he's joking.
764
00:30:41,159 --> 00:30:44,262
If you were going to step
outside of your arrangement,
765
00:30:44,262 --> 00:30:47,198
why do it with someone
who's her close friend?
766
00:30:47,198 --> 00:30:49,033
- This is where
things went wrong.
767
00:30:49,033 --> 00:30:50,835
You can do whatever
the [bleep] you want to do.
768
00:30:50,835 --> 00:30:52,337
You can talk to girls.
769
00:30:52,337 --> 00:30:54,973
You can go in any woman's DM
that you want to be in.
770
00:30:54,973 --> 00:30:57,976
She gets to explore
all of her desires.
771
00:30:57,976 --> 00:30:59,711
- We agreed to that though.
- Well, wait.
772
00:30:59,711 --> 00:31:01,045
Let him finish.
- This is real.
773
00:31:01,045 --> 00:31:02,046
- So that you can hear.
- This is real.
774
00:31:02,046 --> 00:31:03,414
- Go ahead.
- Continue.
775
00:31:03,414 --> 00:31:05,016
- When we first got
into this relationship,
776
00:31:05,016 --> 00:31:06,618
I said, do you think
that you're gonna go the rest
777
00:31:06,618 --> 00:31:08,153
of your life without sleeping
with another woman?
778
00:31:08,153 --> 00:31:11,256
She said no, so I said,
boom, I'm with it then,
779
00:31:11,256 --> 00:31:12,724
if that's what you
feel you got to do
780
00:31:12,724 --> 00:31:14,292
because for something
to work long term,
781
00:31:14,292 --> 00:31:15,927
you've got to be able
to be yourself.
782
00:31:15,927 --> 00:31:18,096
- Let me ask you a question.
Are you in love with her?
783
00:31:18,096 --> 00:31:19,831
Period.
784
00:31:19,831 --> 00:31:22,200
- In love, no, I love her.
785
00:31:22,200 --> 00:31:23,701
- Tell her how you say
you in love with me
786
00:31:23,701 --> 00:31:25,103
and you want to be with me.
787
00:31:25,103 --> 00:31:27,438
- What I said was,
if we bring the truth to her,
788
00:31:27,438 --> 00:31:30,475
and she's not with it that,
yes, if we split up,
789
00:31:30,475 --> 00:31:33,278
I can see a possibility
of a future with you.
790
00:31:33,278 --> 00:31:35,346
Did I not?
791
00:31:35,346 --> 00:31:37,282
- That's not what you said.
- Keep it a hund--
792
00:31:37,282 --> 00:31:38,816
- Listen, let me
ask you something.
793
00:31:38,816 --> 00:31:40,952
So if I would have went up
to you and I would have said,
794
00:31:40,952 --> 00:31:42,887
"Yo, are you [bleep]
my friend?"
795
00:31:42,887 --> 00:31:44,322
You was gonna tell me truth?
796
00:31:44,322 --> 00:31:45,690
- I [bleep] her with you.
797
00:31:45,690 --> 00:31:47,158
The problem is,
I [bleep] her without you too.
798
00:31:47,158 --> 00:31:49,194
You want the truth?
That's the [bleep] truth.
799
00:31:49,194 --> 00:31:51,996
The only thing
that I did wrong was,
800
00:31:51,996 --> 00:31:54,265
I didn't go about it
by just being a hundred
801
00:31:54,265 --> 00:31:56,067
because I'm trying to protect
my [bleep] feelings.
802
00:31:56,067 --> 00:31:58,169
- The same way
you come over here
803
00:31:58,169 --> 00:31:59,404
and you hiding behind her back,
804
00:31:59,404 --> 00:32:00,738
she's doing
the same [bleep] to you.
805
00:32:00,738 --> 00:32:02,507
- My [bleep] point.
806
00:32:02,507 --> 00:32:04,008
- [bleep] this [bleep], bro.
807
00:32:04,008 --> 00:32:05,810
- I have to agree
with you on that.
808
00:32:05,810 --> 00:32:07,378
When you introduce
something like that
809
00:32:07,378 --> 00:32:09,647
into your relationship,
you can't manage
810
00:32:09,647 --> 00:32:12,450
how somebody is gonna maneuver
within the scenario
811
00:32:12,450 --> 00:32:13,918
that you set up.
812
00:32:13,918 --> 00:32:17,021
- Where are you?
Hey, I know you're upset.
813
00:32:17,021 --> 00:32:19,090
What are you feeling right now?
814
00:32:19,090 --> 00:32:20,959
- [crying]
I'm disappointed.
815
00:32:20,959 --> 00:32:23,795
- Does she have a reason
to be upset in your eyes?
816
00:32:23,795 --> 00:32:26,664
- Yeah, I know
she's mad at me right now.
817
00:32:26,664 --> 00:32:30,602
I mean, I've known her
since we was little, so...
818
00:32:30,602 --> 00:32:32,237
We never even argued before.
819
00:32:32,237 --> 00:32:34,305
- And that's why you're hurt?
820
00:32:34,305 --> 00:32:35,974
- Yeah.
821
00:32:35,974 --> 00:32:37,609
And now I'ma [bleep]
lose my friend
822
00:32:37,609 --> 00:32:40,144
over this [bleep] bozo.
823
00:32:40,144 --> 00:32:43,281
- So you still
have love for Emily?
824
00:32:43,281 --> 00:32:45,083
- I always will.
825
00:32:45,083 --> 00:32:47,452
- When she came
into the office,
826
00:32:47,452 --> 00:32:49,254
I did say to her,
827
00:32:49,254 --> 00:32:52,824
you introduced something,
a la Pandora's box.
828
00:32:52,824 --> 00:32:54,125
- Mm-hmm.
829
00:32:54,125 --> 00:32:56,928
- And now you're not happy
with the outcome.
830
00:32:56,928 --> 00:32:58,663
We surveilled you.
831
00:32:58,663 --> 00:33:03,935
We saw you with Jojo,
but then, much to my surprise,
832
00:33:03,935 --> 00:33:06,638
we saw her with Jojo.
833
00:33:06,638 --> 00:33:08,473
♪ ♪
834
00:33:08,473 --> 00:33:11,476
- I want you tell her.
835
00:33:11,476 --> 00:33:17,849
- So my question becomes,
any man that likes vagina...
836
00:33:17,849 --> 00:33:19,584
- I love it.
837
00:33:19,584 --> 00:33:22,387
- OK, is gonna take
the person up on that offer.
838
00:33:22,387 --> 00:33:24,188
- Mm-hmm.
- Go ahead and sit down.
839
00:33:24,188 --> 00:33:27,425
- But why mess with Jojo?
840
00:33:27,425 --> 00:33:30,428
- Because we already have
a bond, you understand?
841
00:33:30,428 --> 00:33:31,829
- Where's Emily?
842
00:33:31,829 --> 00:33:33,931
- And something that started
with the three of us
843
00:33:33,931 --> 00:33:35,933
was able to stay
less complicated
844
00:33:35,933 --> 00:33:37,702
between the two of us.
845
00:33:37,702 --> 00:33:39,270
- I want you to talk to Jojo.
846
00:33:39,270 --> 00:33:41,939
Would you listen
to what she has to say?
847
00:33:41,939 --> 00:33:43,408
- As long as we're gonna talk.
848
00:33:43,408 --> 00:33:44,000
I'm not gonna sit there
and argue with her, I'm not.
849
00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:45,943
I'm not gonna sit there
and argue with her, I'm not.
850
00:33:45,943 --> 00:33:47,312
- She doesn't want
to argue with you.
851
00:33:47,312 --> 00:33:48,713
- She should have
said something
852
00:33:48,713 --> 00:33:50,615
because right now,
I can't even tell if you care
853
00:33:50,615 --> 00:33:51,949
or are you being spiteful.
854
00:33:51,949 --> 00:33:53,618
Do you like him?
Are you being spiteful?
855
00:33:53,618 --> 00:33:55,019
Like, what are you doing?
856
00:33:55,019 --> 00:33:56,154
I don't know what her
motives is,
857
00:33:56,154 --> 00:33:57,488
or are you really
the same person?
858
00:33:57,488 --> 00:33:58,890
It's just--
and then she sat there
859
00:33:58,890 --> 00:34:00,158
and talked [bleep]
about me to him.
860
00:34:00,158 --> 00:34:01,225
Like, I just don't--
I don't get it.
861
00:34:01,225 --> 00:34:02,760
- Let's ask her.
- Let's go.
862
00:34:02,760 --> 00:34:04,095
I'm cool, I'm calm,
863
00:34:04,095 --> 00:34:05,296
as long as don't
nobody saying crazy.
864
00:34:05,296 --> 00:34:06,597
- OK, OK.
865
00:34:06,597 --> 00:34:09,334
- Had it been
just any old random chick.
866
00:34:09,334 --> 00:34:11,069
- That would have been worse!
867
00:34:11,069 --> 00:34:13,304
- She actually felt
that would have been better.
868
00:34:13,304 --> 00:34:15,206
- She's hurt.
She's hurt.
869
00:34:15,206 --> 00:34:17,108
- And she's hurt.
- So I was wrong.
870
00:34:17,108 --> 00:34:18,943
- Tami, I'm gonna
take Brandon with me.
871
00:34:18,943 --> 00:34:20,378
- OK.
872
00:34:20,378 --> 00:34:22,313
- And let them process
what they're both feeling.
873
00:34:22,313 --> 00:34:23,815
- OK.
- All right.
874
00:34:23,815 --> 00:34:25,850
♪ ♪
875
00:34:25,850 --> 00:34:29,053
- Like, I do not want to lose
this friendship over Brandon.
876
00:34:29,053 --> 00:34:31,356
- But you never told me
that you love him.
877
00:34:31,356 --> 00:34:32,890
- I never said
I was in love with him.
878
00:34:32,890 --> 00:34:34,359
I do have feelings for Brandon.
879
00:34:34,359 --> 00:34:36,060
- So then what is the--
why are y'all playing house
880
00:34:36,060 --> 00:34:37,495
if you're not
in love with him?
881
00:34:37,495 --> 00:34:38,896
That's what the [bleep]
I'm trying to understand.
882
00:34:38,896 --> 00:34:40,898
- Babe, we was chilling too.
883
00:34:40,898 --> 00:34:42,100
- That's some bull[bleep]
because you know
884
00:34:42,100 --> 00:34:43,368
I'm not [bleep] him right now.
885
00:34:43,368 --> 00:34:45,069
You [bleep] him,
and I'm [bleep] you.
886
00:34:45,069 --> 00:34:46,637
You [bleep] both
of us like you--
887
00:34:46,637 --> 00:34:48,940
and I just think that's slimy
for you to do that.
888
00:34:48,940 --> 00:34:51,409
- You gave me permission
to [bleep] him.
889
00:34:51,409 --> 00:34:53,211
- You were supposed to [bleep]
him when I'm there, bitch!
890
00:34:53,211 --> 00:34:54,512
- But when you guys
were all together.
891
00:34:54,512 --> 00:34:55,947
- Well, they both
was doing the same [bleep].
892
00:34:55,947 --> 00:34:58,149
They both lying to each other,
and then both coming me.
893
00:34:58,149 --> 00:34:59,884
I'm over that [bleep].
894
00:34:59,884 --> 00:35:01,386
It's either
we all gonna be together,
895
00:35:01,386 --> 00:35:02,987
or we all go
our separate [bleep] ways,
896
00:35:02,987 --> 00:35:04,255
or I'm just out.
897
00:35:04,255 --> 00:35:05,656
Y'all can figure out
y'all bull[bleep].
898
00:35:05,656 --> 00:35:06,824
I don't got time for it.
899
00:35:06,824 --> 00:35:08,359
- So let me ask you this.
900
00:35:08,359 --> 00:35:10,762
Are you in love with Emily?
901
00:35:10,762 --> 00:35:16,634
♪ ♪
902
00:35:18,736 --> 00:35:20,305
- They both was doing
the same [bleep].
903
00:35:20,305 --> 00:35:22,373
They both lying to each other,
and then both coming to me,
904
00:35:22,373 --> 00:35:23,975
and selling me [bleep] dreams.
905
00:35:23,975 --> 00:35:26,177
- What does that mean
as it pertains to Emily?
906
00:35:26,177 --> 00:35:27,712
- We've been together
since we was little,
907
00:35:27,712 --> 00:35:29,280
on and off, whatever.
908
00:35:29,280 --> 00:35:32,483
As of lately it's been, let's
just get a house together,
909
00:35:32,483 --> 00:35:34,686
it'll be me, you,
and her daughter,
910
00:35:34,686 --> 00:35:36,487
and we get the [bleep]
away from all this [bleep]
911
00:35:36,487 --> 00:35:37,956
and start over.
912
00:35:37,956 --> 00:35:39,824
- So let me ask you this.
913
00:35:39,824 --> 00:35:42,193
Are you in love with Emily?
914
00:35:43,995 --> 00:35:45,697
The reason I'm asking you that
915
00:35:45,697 --> 00:35:49,601
is because when we watched
the footage of you guys, right?
916
00:35:49,601 --> 00:35:55,406
She was upset,
but she was more hurt by you.
917
00:35:55,406 --> 00:35:58,176
- She knows
I'm in love with her.
918
00:35:58,176 --> 00:36:00,545
Literally the only reason
I'm still [bleep] with Brandon
919
00:36:00,545 --> 00:36:01,946
is because of you.
920
00:36:01,946 --> 00:36:03,581
- What does that mean?
921
00:36:03,581 --> 00:36:05,116
- Because you still trying to
fix your relationship with him,
922
00:36:05,116 --> 00:36:06,384
so I'm trying
to make it so that we
923
00:36:06,384 --> 00:36:07,885
all three can be together.
924
00:36:07,885 --> 00:36:09,487
- So if I'm not
in a relationship,
925
00:36:09,487 --> 00:36:11,055
you still gonna [bleep]
with him?
926
00:36:11,055 --> 00:36:13,491
- No.
927
00:36:13,491 --> 00:36:15,360
- I know women that would
kill to have [bleep]
928
00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:17,028
like me around, you feel me?
929
00:36:17,028 --> 00:36:18,630
So when the woman
that's in front of me
930
00:36:18,630 --> 00:36:21,432
that I'm giving all that to
is not giving that to me,
931
00:36:21,432 --> 00:36:23,301
it starts having me
question myself.
932
00:36:23,301 --> 00:36:24,736
So what should I do?
933
00:36:24,736 --> 00:36:27,105
- Number one, you're
gonna tell them how you feel.
934
00:36:27,105 --> 00:36:28,573
Emily, I love you.
935
00:36:28,573 --> 00:36:32,176
However, these are the things
that we're not jiving on.
936
00:36:32,176 --> 00:36:34,345
- If you guys aren't
gonna have Brandon
937
00:36:34,345 --> 00:36:37,515
in the relationship,
what happens with you two?
938
00:36:39,717 --> 00:36:41,085
- Which one of them?
939
00:36:41,085 --> 00:36:42,353
- I'm in love with Emily, man.
940
00:36:42,353 --> 00:36:44,288
Emily.
- Emily's the one?
941
00:36:44,288 --> 00:36:46,024
- Yeah, like,
I got love for Jojo,
942
00:36:46,024 --> 00:36:48,226
but I really feel like
this me and Jojo,
943
00:36:48,226 --> 00:36:49,560
it's an in the moment thing.
944
00:36:49,560 --> 00:36:51,262
- Right.
945
00:36:51,262 --> 00:36:52,664
- I'm not trying to disrespect
neither one of them.
946
00:36:52,664 --> 00:36:54,799
Like, I'm not here to bring
down nobody's character.
947
00:36:54,799 --> 00:36:55,933
- Right.
948
00:36:55,933 --> 00:36:57,502
I can help you start.
949
00:36:57,502 --> 00:37:00,204
By saying it like--
start with what I told you.
950
00:37:00,204 --> 00:37:02,006
- All right, man.
951
00:37:02,006 --> 00:37:03,441
- I appreciate you.
952
00:37:03,441 --> 00:37:04,909
- Brandon.
953
00:37:04,909 --> 00:37:06,310
Come back up here, baby.
954
00:37:06,310 --> 00:37:08,546
- I'm here to support you.
955
00:37:08,546 --> 00:37:10,048
[tense music]
956
00:37:10,048 --> 00:37:11,716
He got something to say, Tami.
957
00:37:11,716 --> 00:37:13,551
- Perfect, let's hear it.
958
00:37:13,551 --> 00:37:14,619
- [sighs]
959
00:37:14,619 --> 00:37:17,388
I want to start
by acknowledging
960
00:37:17,388 --> 00:37:22,093
I broke the trust,
and I'm wrong.
961
00:37:22,093 --> 00:37:24,328
I want us to start
with a clean slate.
962
00:37:24,328 --> 00:37:27,598
I do love you.
I want to be with you.
963
00:37:27,598 --> 00:37:29,033
♪ ♪
964
00:37:29,033 --> 00:37:31,269
- What about her?
965
00:37:31,269 --> 00:37:33,438
- I understand that y'all
got a deep friendship.
966
00:37:33,438 --> 00:37:34,639
- I'm not just her friend.
967
00:37:34,639 --> 00:37:36,274
Let's get that straight,
first of all.
968
00:37:39,110 --> 00:37:41,446
And she's in love with me too.
969
00:37:41,446 --> 00:37:43,648
That's what you don't know.
970
00:37:43,648 --> 00:37:44,916
♪ ♪
971
00:37:44,916 --> 00:37:46,250
- It's not happening, bro.
972
00:37:46,250 --> 00:37:48,186
♪ ♪
973
00:37:48,186 --> 00:37:49,554
It's over.
974
00:37:49,554 --> 00:37:51,189
I don't want to be involved
with you no more.
975
00:37:51,189 --> 00:37:53,224
- I'm wrong,
and there's nothing
976
00:37:53,224 --> 00:37:55,727
I could say
to make that better.
977
00:37:55,727 --> 00:37:58,129
If I have to change the way
I go about things--
978
00:37:58,129 --> 00:37:59,664
- You don't have
to change nothing.
979
00:37:59,664 --> 00:38:01,232
Be yourself by yourself.
980
00:38:01,232 --> 00:38:02,667
- All right.
- None of this [bleep] matters.
981
00:38:02,667 --> 00:38:04,302
I love her.
I want to be with her.
982
00:38:04,302 --> 00:38:05,903
He got to get out.
983
00:38:05,903 --> 00:38:07,505
- OK.
984
00:38:08,106 --> 00:38:09,440
- OK.
985
00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:11,476
- So, Brandon,
you've heard the decision.
986
00:38:11,476 --> 00:38:12,710
- Mm-hmm.
987
00:38:12,710 --> 00:38:16,614
- She's going
to stay with Jojo.
988
00:38:16,614 --> 00:38:17,782
- I'm sorry.
989
00:38:17,782 --> 00:38:20,084
- And she doesn't want
to continue
990
00:38:20,084 --> 00:38:21,419
the relationship with you.
991
00:38:21,419 --> 00:38:23,020
Are you OK with that?
- Yeah, I'm chilling.
992
00:38:23,020 --> 00:38:27,759
- All right, can you go
and escort Brandon out?
993
00:38:27,759 --> 00:38:29,393
- [bleep] real.
994
00:38:33,664 --> 00:38:36,167
- There it is,
so I guess my work is done.
995
00:38:36,167 --> 00:38:37,668
I'ma go ahead on out.
996
00:38:37,668 --> 00:38:40,471
I'm gonna head on out
the house then, child.
997
00:38:40,471 --> 00:38:42,507
You know, my job is done.
998
00:38:44,208 --> 00:38:45,810
- ♪ Too fly, my guy ♪
999
00:38:45,810 --> 00:38:47,478
♪ Mix hood with a little
bit of bougie, a'ight ♪
1000
00:38:47,478 --> 00:38:50,148
♪ You ain't never seen
a girl get down this way ♪
1001
00:38:50,148 --> 00:38:51,516
♪ Change up and go like this ♪
1002
00:38:51,516 --> 00:38:53,785
♪ Make all my plays
with no assist ♪
1003
00:38:53,785 --> 00:38:56,721
♪ Unspoken rizz, grip
on my waist down to my lips ♪
1004
00:38:56,721 --> 00:38:59,957
♪ I keep the gal then fade ♪
1005
00:38:59,957 --> 00:39:02,193
[video call ringing]
1006
00:39:02,193 --> 00:39:03,494
- Emily.
1007
00:39:03,494 --> 00:39:05,363
- Hey, Tami. How are you?
1008
00:39:05,363 --> 00:39:07,431
- I am doing well.
1009
00:39:07,431 --> 00:39:09,801
Now, listen,
it has been a minute
1010
00:39:09,801 --> 00:39:13,070
since we last saw each other,
so I wanted to check in.
1011
00:39:13,070 --> 00:39:14,372
How is life?
1012
00:39:14,372 --> 00:39:16,474
Are you still with Brandon?
1013
00:39:16,474 --> 00:39:17,875
- Well, no,
we're not together,
1014
00:39:17,875 --> 00:39:20,912
but we still co-parent
for the kids.
1015
00:39:20,912 --> 00:39:23,214
The dynamic hasn't
really changed
1016
00:39:23,214 --> 00:39:25,583
that much in their eyes
because he's
1017
00:39:25,583 --> 00:39:27,885
always been working a lot.
1018
00:39:27,885 --> 00:39:30,988
So he has his own place where
he works and where he stays,
1019
00:39:30,988 --> 00:39:32,790
so, you know, he's up there.
1020
00:39:32,790 --> 00:39:34,492
So when he wants to spend time
with my daughter,
1021
00:39:34,492 --> 00:39:36,294
she goes, and then vice versa.
1022
00:39:36,294 --> 00:39:37,962
- Oh, well that's good.
1023
00:39:37,962 --> 00:39:41,432
You guys are actually handling
that very maturely.
1024
00:39:41,432 --> 00:39:44,802
I'm happy to hear that.
And what about Jojo?
1025
00:39:44,802 --> 00:39:48,472
That night, it seemed like
you guys had made a decision
1026
00:39:48,472 --> 00:39:50,274
where you were gonna
be together.
1027
00:39:50,274 --> 00:39:53,945
- That is true, but right now,
we're taking it slow.
1028
00:39:53,945 --> 00:39:56,714
I don't think
it'll be beneficial for me
1029
00:39:56,714 --> 00:39:59,517
if I just rush
into a relationship right now.
1030
00:39:59,517 --> 00:40:01,819
I just need to be by myself.
1031
00:40:01,819 --> 00:40:05,690
- You know, this moment
will speak to a lot of women,
1032
00:40:05,690 --> 00:40:08,926
and I commend you
for acknowledging,
1033
00:40:08,926 --> 00:40:13,264
hey, I got to spend time
by myself for myself.
1034
00:40:13,264 --> 00:40:17,000
- I know some women are
probably intimidated to do so
1035
00:40:17,000 --> 00:40:17,001
- I know some women are
probably intimidated to do so
1036
00:40:17,001 --> 00:40:18,302
because they fear being alone.
1037
00:40:18,302 --> 00:40:19,470
- Yeah.
1038
00:40:19,470 --> 00:40:20,605
- But when you
are by yourself,
1039
00:40:20,605 --> 00:40:21,906
focus on what you want to do,
1040
00:40:21,906 --> 00:40:23,174
focus on--you've got
a business,
1041
00:40:23,174 --> 00:40:24,876
focus on your business.
1042
00:40:24,876 --> 00:40:26,377
And that's something that
you want to pursue, do that.
1043
00:40:26,377 --> 00:40:28,546
It's more beneficial
for yourself.
1044
00:40:28,546 --> 00:40:30,448
And then,
when you meet somebody,
1045
00:40:30,448 --> 00:40:31,983
or you do decide
to be with somebody,
1046
00:40:31,983 --> 00:40:34,085
you'll be a better version
of yourself for yourself
1047
00:40:34,085 --> 00:40:35,653
and also for the other person.
1048
00:40:35,653 --> 00:40:38,823
- Well, I--look,
we can end on that note
1049
00:40:38,823 --> 00:40:41,092
because I feel like
you got it together.
1050
00:40:41,092 --> 00:40:44,795
It may not have gone
the way you wanted it to go,
1051
00:40:44,795 --> 00:40:48,532
but you did leave
with some form of clarity
1052
00:40:48,532 --> 00:40:51,469
about where you should go
in the future.
1053
00:40:51,469 --> 00:40:52,637
- Exactly.
1054
00:40:52,637 --> 00:40:54,272
- All right, sweetie,
take care.
1055
00:40:54,272 --> 00:40:57,475
Bye.
1056
00:40:57,475 --> 00:40:59,343
Cheaters, beware.
1057
00:40:59,343 --> 00:41:01,178
- You [bleep] kissed her,
you idiot!
1058
00:41:01,178 --> 00:41:03,881
- Next time you want
to be unfaithful, think again.
1059
00:41:03,881 --> 00:41:06,884
Let me tell you
one mother[bleep] thing!
1060
00:41:06,884 --> 00:41:08,886
Oh, Lord, oh, Lord,
oh, Lord, oh, Lord!
1061
00:41:08,886 --> 00:41:10,421
Because I just might...
1062
00:41:10,421 --> 00:41:11,522
Oh, God, she's running--
1063
00:41:11,522 --> 00:41:13,457
Catch you in the act.
1064
00:41:15,543 --> 00:41:18,813
[bright tones]
1065
00:41:20,607 --> 00:41:23,377
[dramatic hip-hop music]
1066
00:41:23,377 --> 00:41:30,517
♪ ♪