- I'm tami Roman. I have been cheated on before.
You (bleep) My man when I was married to him.
I even wrote a book about it.
Now I'm on a mission to help suspicious lovers
catch their cheating partners in the act.
- Bitch been lying to me the whole (bleep) Time.
- Oh, we kissing!
(Tami) I'm teaming up with
relationship expert Kevin carr.
- Everybody's in the dark and don't know what's going on.
That's master manipulation.
- And private investigator brianne Joseph.
- If someone is being unfaithful,
I'll get you the receipts. Got it, got it.
- Are you prepared to see the footage?
Once our investigation is complete,
the suspicious lover can team up
with the partners of their lover.
- We have a jackass in common.
- Or take down both of them in an undercover ambush.
- What the (bleep) You got going on right here?
- What is you doing? - Whoa!
(Overlapping shouting)
- How dare you! What is this?
(Tami) In the end, the suspicious lover
might decide to move forward...
- (Sighs) - Or move on
from their cheating partner for good.
- I'm over with it. - One confrontation
could change everything.
- Oh! - I'm done!
- We gon' get these answers today.
- I'm giving you the answers. - Cheaters beware.
Everybody put they (bleep) On pause!
♪♪♪♪
This is...
"Caught in the act: Unfaithful."
- ♪♪ Anytime it's your phone, I know you're calling, hey ♪♪
♪♪ I know you're calling, hey ♪♪
♪♪ where you callin' from? ♪♪
(Tami) Today, I'm seeing naima.
Now, she thinks her partner David may be a cheater.
Naima - hey...
So she contacted me.
I hope to give naima some answers,
but first I need to get the tea.
Get comfortable, girl, 'cause we gon' have
a lot talk about then. - (Sighs)
- Now, word on the street
is that you think your partner David is unfaithful.
- Yes, I do. He doesn't answer my calls,
he only wants to text, everything was good
in the beginning... - Tell me about that.
How long have you been together? - Um, well, it's been
a little over a year.
We met on a dating site.
At first, we started out texting,
and then we facetimed. - Okay.
- And then after that, we finally met, and...
- Was he fine? - He gave me butterflies, yeah.
- He was fine, wasn't he? - He was fine.
I'm like, ooh. He was just so charming.
Like, he had flowers for me and champagne and all of that.
- Now what attracted you to him?
- Well, just his style, you know, he's very cocky.
- Oh... - And, you know,
he wears this crown, he wears nice,
flashy blazers... - Hold please.
He wears a crown?
- He wears a crown, that's how he identifies himself...
- All the time he has a crown on?
- Yes, even when we have sex.
- What?! - Yes.
- And you like that.
- Yeah. (Giggles)
- Listen, I just... I just need to make sure
that you definitely are his queen
and he ain't made you one of the court jesters.
- No, no. - You know what I'm saying?
So at the beginning, it was all good.
- It was like, oh my god, like, I really like this guy.
But it was like, you know, let's move slow, you know?
- Okay, that's good. - But three weeks
into us communicating, he tattooed my name
on his arm right here... - Three weeks after meeting you?
- Three weeks. And I was like...
- Girl, you should've got on down the highway.
Nobody does that in real life.
- I'm like, oh, he must be giving me a ring next.
- Ooh!
Does he have any other names on him?
- Um, just his kids' names, just his kids.
- Oh, he has children. - Yeah, he has a son
and a daughter. - Oh, okay.
Do you have kids? - I have a son.
And actually, he met David the second week of us...
- Now, naima, stop this. - I know.
- You done introduced this man that you done found on
a dating site, you done brought him around your kid,
in three weeks, he showed you he may not be sane
by getting your name tattooed on him.
- Yes, I did that. He was like a father figure
to my son, he stepped up. Three months into it,
I could say I was in love, 'cause I ended up
moving in with him me and my son.
- With your son? - With my son.
- Do you know what type of effect that would have
on your son? - Yes, I do, I do.
But David, he did things
that fathers would do with their kids.
You know, taking him to basketball games,
to the park, football games.
- How old is your son? - He's nine.
- What is going on now?
- Well, as of right now, we're not living together.
- So why did he move out?
- I mean, he probably could say my attitude, that's about it,
but what female doesn't have an attitude when
they dude not acting right? If you not acting right,
of course i'ma have an attitude, you know what I'm saying?
But we still communicate.
- You still feel like you're in the relationship?
- Yes. I mean, he still tells me he loves me.
We actually just went on a trip not too long ago,
we're still having sex, you know, so...
- Mmm. - I feel like
we're still together, we're just not living together.
- Now that he's not in the house,
how is the relationship going?
- I don't know, he look like he livin' his best life, partyin'.
He doesn't let me come over often...
- he doesn't let you come over?
- No. - But y'all supposed
to be a couple. - Yeah, I popped up a few times
and he must've told the concierge to...
- He took your name off the list.
- Mm-hmm, so... - Why haven't you just moved on?
- Because I still love him and, you know, he just
been there for me, my son, and I really want it to work
but, you know, I feel like he's stepping out
of the relationship. - I'm getting the sense
that you don't really trust him. - I don't.
He's always doing something on that phone.
- You have evidence of what he's being doing.
- Yes, I've been seeing stuff on Instagram.
Something's definitely going on.
Like, look at this video I got of him.
- Let me get over there so I can see the video real good.
- Look at this.
♪♪♪♪
Now you tell me what you think.
That's his house. - That's his house?
- That's his house. - What?
That's why you can't go over.
- And she got my coat on.
- I know you lyin'. - My coat.
- Here, child... (Muttering)
Can't take too much ass wigglin'.
- He just wanna be lit,
but not with me.
- What changed? - I don't know,
like, that's what I'm trying to figure out.
Like, we don't communicate like, on an emotional level.
Like, we'll argue and the argument doesn't get resolved...
- What was the move-out conversation like?
- The lease was up, we were supposed to be
moving into a new apartment together, but we end up
both just going our separate... - So when the lease ended,
the love ended. - I don't know, I just need
to figure out what's going on with him.
I want that family thing, you know, i-i...
Didn't have that growing up, my father wasn't around,
and now my son's father's not around, but you know,
David stepped up.
It might be a little rocky right now,
but it's more good than it is bad
because I feel like I invested a lot of time,
and then like, I done got him involved in my son's life.
Even though we're not living together,
my son's like, "where's David at?"
- "Where is he?" - You know, "why doesn't he
come around no more?"
He's out of town for business, that's all I tell him.
- So I wanna ask you one question.
Do you love him?
- I do.
- You really believe in your heart
that you love this person?
- I do.
- And you feel he's good for you
and more importantly for your son?
- Yes, I do. I honestly do.
- Okay, then, with your permission,
I'm gonna share all of this information
with my private investigator. - Okay.
- Okay, so what she does is over the next few days, right,
she will follow David, get as much evidence
as she can, then she comes back to me.
I will call you back to the office once
our investigation is complete. - Okay.
- Now, we might not find anything.
- And that would be a blessing.
- When you go home, just act normal.
- Okay. - Don't change anything
about how you deal with him so that he doesn't
get suspicious, okay? - Okay, alright.
(Overlapping chatter)
- I'ma do my best to help.
♪♪♪♪
(Tami) I put my private investigator brianne Joseph
and her team on the case.
(Brianne) I'm on my way to do surveillance on David.
I'm gonna go and set up surveillance on his house,
and I am going to find out if he is a dirty dog or not.
And if he is, then we're gonna collect evidence on him
to prove that he is in fact cheating on naima,
and that way she'll have all of the information she needs
to make a decision about her relationship.
(Tami) She'll follow David for the next few days,
determine if he's got a side piece,
and then bring me the goods.
- We just basically operate on their time, you know?
It could take five minutes, it could take several hours,
it really just depends on the person that we're watching
and the extent of their activity.
♪♪♪♪
Hopefully he has something to do,
he'll come out of this building, and we can get some action.
♪♪♪♪
Wait a minute, okay.
Looks like the wait is over.
There's David, now who's that blonde woman with him?
Just wanna follow discreetly.
Okay, so right now, we've got him coming out
of his building with this woman
who we have not identified yet,
we've got them together, physically next to each other,
which is nothing when it comes to proving infidelity.
Crap, I hope this light didn't get me.
(Sighs) I don't even see him anymore.
I don't even see him anymore.
Ugh, no sign of him.
Losing someone in traffic is never fun.
We'll just see what tomorrow brings.
♪♪♪♪
So letting David get away yesterday
was really frustrating.
Stakeouts are so unpredictable.
So just wait.
Yes, the subject is on the move
and he's with the same blonde from yesterday.
Here we go, alright.
Now I gotta get through this light.
So this is the woman that he's been seen with,
but we still don't have any concrete evidence
of him cheating with her as of yet.
Let's see where he's taking her to.
So they just pulled into a furniture store,
and this is a great opportunity for me to get video,
or some type of evidence of them together.
And I have a key fob camera.
I'm gonna sync this to my phone,
so that I can see what I'm shooting.
Alright, ready to roll.
- My name is Mallory, and yours? - King David.
- It's a pleasure to meet you. - Indeed.
- So tell me about your present day situation,
are you moving, is it...
(Brianne) Oh, my god.
♪♪♪♪
(Tami) After receiving the surveillance footage
from my private investigator, I called in naima to share
what we actually learned about David.
- Heard a lot about you. - Really?
- I did. - You know I had to brief him
on this situation.
So I got something to show you.
Let's get into this.
You ready?
- Ooh, I wanna call him right now.
- No, no, that's not what we're gonna do.
- David, what is you doin'?
- Whoa... - Do you want to
move on from this relationship?
(Tami) Welcome back to "caught in the act,"
the show where we catch cheaters in the act.
Suspicious lover naima came to me because she thinks
her partner of two years, David, may be stepping out on her.
So I got something to show you.
- Oh, my god. - Naima is about to learn
if her fears are unfounded,
or about to be confirmed.
You ready?
- I guess.
- So there's your boo.
♪♪♪♪
- Mmm, are you for real? Who is this bitch?
- Well, our pi found out their her name is azariah.
- She kinda look like me. - She does kinda look like you.
Isn't that interesting?
She's the lady in the twerk video
that you showed me when you came in on Instagram.
- Ooh...
- (Cackling) - Ugh!
- He don't live like he's in a relationship,
to be honest with you.
- So on this day, they're furniture shopping.
- Furniture shopping? - Yeah.
(Azariah) We just moved in together,
so we're looking for some nice pieces.
- Oh, my god.
- Yes...
- (David sighs) - (Azariah giggling)
- It looks like they're having a good time,
like they're trying to plan a future together.
- Come on, hop on my face real quick.
- Hop on your face? - No, no,
not in public, not in public, not in public.
(Azariah) Okay...
- It's almost like he has replaced you.
♪♪♪♪
(Sniffling)
♪♪♪♪
- Yeah... (Sniffling)
- I'm sorry.
- Ooh, I wanna call him right now.
- No, no, that's not what we're gonna do.
Listen, I've been you, so I know you wanna
pick up that phone and call, I get that very clear.
There's no need for you to call him now because
what is he gonna give you, a bunch of excuses?
You don't want that, you wanna bring it
straight to front street.
- This (bleep) Hurts so bad.
- I'm assuming your relationship,
the way it's been, the way it's been going,
you've been anxious, right, you don't... it's just not
a healthy dynamic for you or your son.
Listen, you came here for the truth,
we gave you the truth.
He's furniture shopping with another woman,
the fact that he's walking around with a crown
thinking that you subject to him.
- You know what that is? That's a narcissist.
- He be wearing that crown while y'all out together?
- Everywhere. - Okay, so he got
a king complex going on with him.
He wants to be in charge.
- He loves it, loves it - the reality is
is that he got both of y'all.
- Oh, Jesus.
I need to know what's going on 'cause I got
too much time invested, I c... I still wanna be with him.
But at this point... - You still wanna
be with him after watching the videos?
- I'ma fight for my love for him.
- Why are you fighting for this relationship so bad?
I'm confused. - I truly do love him,
and I done bring this man around my son,
he done met my mom, and my heart is in it...
- And I understa... - I'm fighting for this.
I sacrificed a lot. I moved out of
my comfort zone into this house with this guy
with my son, and we go our separate ways,
but we're still technically together,
you know what I'm saying, we're texting "I love you",
you know, we're still kinda trying to get back to the point
where we were at before. - Just to put it to you,
you know, as honest as I can, if it was a situation where
he was as invested in you as you are in him,
he couldn't do what he's doing with another woman.
He'd be incapable of it.
Clearly you care about this person,
you are attached to him, it's hard.
But sometimes people don't turn out to be
who you want 'em to be... - Who you want 'em to be.
- and at this point, you have to decide
am I gonna stick around and keep getting what I don't want,
or am I gonna move on? - Listen, we wanna give you
the opportunity to confront David, alright?
That's what this is all about.
So I'm gonna give you two options.
You can team up with azariah
and you guys confront David together.
Or you can go confront both of them
and try to take down their relationship.
- I think I would rather do that.
- You don't wanna team up... - I don't wanna meet up
with azariah, no.
I don't wanna team up with her at all.
She's the enemy, actually.
I wanna take both of them down,
take all the way down to the ground.
- Okay, okay, so then I'm gonna have
the private investigator continue to follow him
and if we get an opportunity where David and azariah
are together alone, that's when I'm calling you.
- Oh, my god, you better call me quick, 'cause I'm coming.
- Girl, stay ready, okay?
- Thank you so much.
(Overlapping chatter)
- Bye, naima.
- See you later, thank you.
- She's not ready to let go of that situation.
- I don't think she cares why he's doing it,
but I think when we go through this confrontation,
that's what's gonna slap her right in the head.
- ♪♪ I don't mind ♪♪
♪♪ na na na na ♪♪
♪♪ don't waste my time ♪♪
(Tami) My private investigator
learned through David's social media
where he and azariah are heading today.
(Phone dings)
An exotic boutique.
Time to spread the word.
Hey, naima? Yeah, girl, we got eyes on David.
Meet me at the spot right now.
So Kevin and I are headed to a prearranged location
to pick up naima for the takedown.
♪♪♪♪
Hi! - Hey, how you doing?
- How are you? - Hi.
- Good seeing you.
(Naima) I'm anxious, like, my heart is beating,
like, my heart is beating so fast...
(Kevin) That's okay, that's okay.
You gonna be alright, you gonna be alright.
- I'm getting hot. - Yeah, I mean,
it's challenging, you feeling a lot of emotions,
but this is your moment, he had his moment,
gallivanting around furniture shopping, right?
So this is your opportunity to have your say.
- I'm scared... - Don't be scared...
- I mean, it's not that I'm scared,
I'm just... I don't know what to expect, and,
but I want this though.
- Yeah, you want the truth. - Yeah.
(Tami) My pi and her team are setting up
surveillance equipment throughout the boutique.
With hidden cameras and mics and a monitor in our Van,
we'll be able to see and hear everything.
- Robo's good, cameras good, positions good?
- Yep. - Perfect.
(Naima) I can't wait to see his face
'cause I just wanna get all of this understood.
Like, 'cause this is my life, you know?
And you're playing with my emotions
and I can't have that, like...
- I mean, it's different when it's...
- When it's right in front... - In front of your face, yeah.
- It's jarring, but that's what it takes
to really make your next decision,
because that's what this is all about
is about what do you decide to do moving forward.
- Right. - You love him, right?
- Yes, I do. - But do you love him
more than your son? - No.
- There it is. - And do you love him
more than yourself? - No.
- And then if he really wants to be with the other woman,
you gotta be like, okay, well, get on down the highway
'cause you don't love him more than you love yourself,
and you don't love him more than you love your son.
- Absolutely, and this is your opportunity
to put all that on the table, all of it.
- Okay, so we're here.
Would you like to take a look at what's going on inside...
- Oh yeah, hell yeah, I do.
- Okay, let's see what's going on inside.
- Nice little stuff, nice little stuff.
- So there's David.
And the young lady on his arm.
(Indistinct chatter)
- They shoppin' like a couple.
- (Tami) In lingerie. - (Kevin) Lingerie.
- (Sniffling) - You okay?
It's okay, baby. - This is your time
to get all the clarity that you want.
This is what we here for, we're here with you.
We wanted you to see exactly who the person was
that you are dealing with.
(Indistinct chatter)
- I hate to see you hurting like this
'cause I've been there.
But I think everything's gonna work out.
Once you go in there and you talk to him
and get face to face with him
you'll better know how to proceed with your future,
with your life and your child.
- We're here with you every step of the way, alright?
You ready to go? - Are you ready to go in?
- Yeah. - I got you.
- And we'll be right here with you.
So we're gonna go through the front door.
♪♪♪♪
Let's see what's going on.
♪♪♪♪
- (Giggling)
- Her titties is out! - Her titties is out!
- Jesus Christ! - She done took her titties out.
- Oh, my god!
- She done took her titties is out!
Oh, lord have mercy. - I don't want her to see that.
- I hope she miss that, I hope she miss that.
I hope she missed that.
♪♪♪♪
Okay, okay, okay...
- David, what is you doing?
- Whoa, whoa...
- I was around before you. - It don't matter, though.
- Who the (bleep) Is you yelling at?
- Bitch, I'm yelling at you.
- ♪♪ Bad things, we do bad things ♪♪ (Tami) Welcome back to "caught in the act,"
the show where we catch cheaters in the act.
Cheater David has taken his unaware lover,
azariah, lingerie shopping. - I dig it, though.
- But suspicious lover, naima, is about to confront him.
Okay, okay, okay...
How will David respond?
- David, what is you doing?
- Whoa, whoa, whoa. - What you mean "whoa"?
Who's this bitch? - Oh, you know...
- Who are you? Who are you to him?
- Well, first of all... - Who are you?
Do you know about me? - Yes, I know David, of course.
- Do you know me?
- No, I don't know who you is.
- Will you tell her who I am to you?
- This is her... - Yeah.
So what y'all doing? Is you his girl, like,
you the side piece... - No, I'm not a side piece.
You need to tell her what's going on right now.
- I seen the video of you and her.
What's going on, like, you not answering
none of my questions, what's going on?
- I been with him for a few months though.
- Okay, we gonna deal with you later, anyways...
- Alright, but look... - So what's going on though?
- I plead the fifth. - What do you mean, like,
come on, David, stop playing with me, I'm not even
about to play with you. You just told me you
was in Miami, but you here in Atlanta doing what?
Shopping for lingerie with her? - You know I fly around...
- But you just told me you was not here.
Why you leading me on? - You need to let her know
what's going on 'cause I been living with you
for a few months. - Living?
- You (bleep) Live with this bitch?
- Whoa, whoa, whoa... - What's the problem?
- Uh-oh. - (Kevin) I think
he needs some help, let's go.
(Overlapping arguing)
- I don't give a (bleep)... - (Azariah) You gotta
let me know what's up because you got me up here
lookin' stupid. - Hey, hey, hey...
- I don't know what she doing here,
I don't know what's all of this rolling up on him.
- (Bleep)... - Listen, David,
you are on the television show "caught in the act," okay?
That's what's happening here. - Oh, man, come on, man.
- Naima came to us because she was suspicious that
you were stepping out on your relationship.
So we put our pi on you, and we've got evidence
that you have a relationship with this woman.
So naima's here to just try to get the truth.
- (Overlapping chatter) - Can I get that?
You owe me that, can I get the truth?
- So now you lying to me, and now you lying to her,
so you gotta let me know what's up and what's really good,
you gotta let me know what's really good...
- You need to sit down and relax.
- No, I don't need to sit down and relax,
you should've let me been know what's up.
- So now that you've been caught in the act...
- What's going on? - Why don't you come clean
with your two lovers? - I mean, I prefer
to communicate at a more... - Okay...
Hey, David, do you guys live together?
- You ain't got to stoop down. - Nah, she ain't scootin'
down to me, it's just a respect thing.
- You haven't been respecting her
by being out with her and not letting her know
what the situation is supposed to be.
- When I first met her, we was on business.
But I'm telling you how things have become
the way that they've became. - Okay, what about my son?
- I would never deny him.
- You act like you wanna be there, now you not,
so what you mean? - Have we communicated
every day, you talkin' about nights like you were...
- Oh, my god, David, you talk in circles.
Are y'all together?
- She been a building.
- What does that mean? - What does that mean?
- (Tami) David... - You triflin' ass (bleep)...
- Come on, man, come on. Now, you know this is not right.
- Bro, you killin' me. - Like, y'all each
provide different feelings.
- Well, so what you gonna do?
- I mean, I'm deciding right now.
- We live together, we live together.
- How long y'all been living together?
- So that's why I wasn't able to come to your house,
that's why you told the concierge to not let me up,
because of this bitch?
I was around before you. - It don't matter, though.
(Overlapping shouting)
- Who the (bleep) Is you yelling at?
- Bitch, I'm yelling at you.
(Overlapping shouting)
- Man, come on, man, look out, man.
- Azariah, hold up. - Okay.
- Real talk... - David, shut your ass up.
- But you acting like things been good with us...
- David... listen... - Like consistently.
Like yeah, I care for you, I ain't gonna front but...
- The bottom line is this... - Well, run up, bitch.
Run up, get done up. - The way you handled
the situation, nobody's saying that you had to be with naima,
but if you did not want to be with her,
you needed to explain that to her before moving on to azariah.
You got two beautiful women here,
and they going at each other because they're upset about you,
because they both are in love with you.
But now that you've been caught in the act,
I need you to sit here.
Sit here for a second and think about it
'cause I'm gonna talk to azariah,
kev is gonna talk to naima,
and we just gonna see how they feel about
everything that's going on.
- (Sobbing)
- We gonna go talk, we gonna go talk,
we gonna go talk, we gonna talk on the other side.
- We gonna fight... - No, you not gonna fight her.
- He doesn't even care, like, he just sitting there, like...
- but guess what, guess what?
We get a chance to see who he really is, right?
So this is why you came. This is why you came.
So we can figure out what's really going on,
so we can figure out the whole truth.
- Baby girl, you got to calm down.
She did not know about you, and y'all fighting each other
over this man that done played both of y'all.
- You don't go lying to somebody tellin', "oh, I love you..."
- What has he been tell... Okay, so he's been
telling you he loves you. - Yeah, that we together.
That's what he's telling me. But he can't be talking
in my ear, talking about, "I love you, I'm done with her,
I'm not gonna find no other girl,"
this, blah blah blah... - But y... but listen,
how you get him is how you lose him.
'Cause he decided one day he was tired of naima,
apparently, right? - Yeah, that's what he told me.
- So what's gonna happen when he decides to do that to you?
- I'm just gonna have to move on, you know?
It's gonna be easy for me to move on.
I'm not finna cry and beg over him.
If he wanna go back to naima or whoever,
I can't do nothing about that.
- He don't even care, like... - I understand...
- You just sitting there all nonchalant like...
- I understand that hurts. - Don't see no problem
in this whole situation. - And that's not something
that you would do to somebody that you loved, right?
- No.
♪♪♪♪
- He's still not able to tell you the full truth,
even with cameras in his face, alright?
- Can I talk to her? - What do you want? What?
Now you wanna talk?
- Well, this a more professional setting,
we ain't need to be in front of everybody.
- What's up? - This is what upsets me
in moments like this, the person who's at fault
in this moment is David.
He may not want to be with naima anymore, right,
let's just say he may not, but he didn't tell her that,
he didn't come clean and tell her that
to move on with you, so y'all going back and forth
at each other and that's not how it's supposed to go
between women, you understand what I'm saying?
- You right, you right.
- I thought we supposed to have been building
a family and, you know... - We are, we are, we are.
- How, if you up here with her? - We are.
- Oh, you just having fun?
- I mean, that too.
She get the money,
she break bread with me, I eat with her.
When she buy food, I eat.
When she buy clothes, she buy clothes for me.
What we do, that was like, personal heart, touchy-feely.
Yeah, that's what I wanted in my life recently, you know,
and more so I wanted it with you more than anybody else.
- So what is you doing, though?
- Man, she was just filling the void.
- David, I need you to take some accountability.
- I am, I'm accepting... - Y'all live together.
You left me homeless. - And her son.
- An adult can find they way,
I would imagine, an adult can find they way and put
themselves in a position... I mean, i... don't get me wrong,
I do take accountability from removing her
out her comfort zone initially, so I do feel at fault for that.
- So you still wanna be with him?
- Of course I wanna be with him because that's what he told me.
I want him to be honest about how he feel,
if he want me or her, that's what I really want
is the honest truth.
- Take a deep breath,
and we're gonna sit down and ask the man
who he wants to be with. - Okay.
- Alright, listen, let's wrap this up
'cause it's time for us to make clear decisions
about how we wanna move forward.
So let's go inside.
- (Scoffs) (Bleep).
♪♪♪♪
- Now, naima, you didn't tell me that.
See, now the truth is coming out.
(Tami) Welcome back to "caught in the act."
We've helped naima discover that her partner David
is in fact being unfaithful with a woman named azariah.
Will she stay with David, or send him packing?
You okay, naima? - Yeah.
- Hands were thrown... - Where your little friend at?
- She's coming back but this is what I wanna say.
She wasn't really clear on you and the situation.
And I really feel like y'all went at each other
when really, this person who you guys both love
put you guys in this particular situation.
So I want y'all to be able to sit down, and let's
try to get some real answers out of him.
David...
Naima came to me, and she was very concerned,
and once she saw everything that was going on,
she was legitimately hurt, okay?
I feel like you just mishandled the situation.
Had you just been honest with her,
if you didn't want to be with her anymore,
'cause that whole song and dance where...
- I do. - Something different,
that's... you can't have that, baby, that's not the way
life operates, a relationship is supposed to be committed
and loving, betrayal is not synonymous with
either one of those words.
So if you can't have a committed relationship with her,
then... that's okay too.
But this woman is legitimately hurt.
♪♪♪♪
And it didn't have to go that way.
And you know, let me talk to you
on some real (bleep) For a minute.
When she said that she had a son
and that you were a part of that little boy's life,
and then when you decided you didn't wanna be with her
or things had changed, and now you only text him,
you don't see him, but you had been
taking him to basketball practice and games
and all that stuff, you can't do that.
You walking around with a crown on your head
and having her call you king,
when you need to be trying to help raise a king
since you entered into his life,
you knew she had a son when you got with her.
Don't abandon him.
- What I need you to understand is that
you're also, whether you know it or not,
setting an example for him. - Right.
- That could impact him for the rest of his life.
- Right. - So I need you to also
take that into consideration. - Right.
I took into consideration when she had to work
long hours, overnight, I would babysit him,
I would be there, that ain't the type of stuff
I do, you feel me?
Nevertheless, I did that and I was cool with that
for her sake.
When things were good, things were good,
it's just the last few months things weren't so good 'cause
when I did, you know, I admit to not
letting her up in the little high rise,
that was bad, like... - Yes, yes.
- i can acknowledge my faults.
But when she verbally assault me,
calling me names that don't justify or don't represent me,
I have a difference of opinion when it comes to that.
If you disrespect me, if you a woman,
the only way I can handle you
is by removing myself from the situation.
- Now see, now, naima, you didn't tell me that.
I am... I'm gonna say he's right.
You can't just be talking to people any kinda way.
People don't deserve to be belittled
or demeaned or disrespected,
'cause after a while people get tired of that,
and it's like, best thing for me to do
is get on down the highway.
So, see, now the truth is coming out,
and you have to take some accountability for
how this dynamic has changed.
- The point is like, you know, I'm used to respect,
so if a man get outta line and communicate...
- You know how to handle that. - You feel me? I handle that
in a way, but a woman I can only remove myself.
- I've been in a situation where I dealt with somebody that
did not know how to talk to me, and I couldn't take it.
I left that situation. I articulated that
to her clearly. - Yeah.
- She didn't change and I removed myself.
I didn't string her along.
- I kinda lost some of how I felt about her
because she showed me I couldn't control her.
- You not supposed to control...
- That's what he wants to do, control me.
- Okay, she's not subservient to you.
- I know, and I see that. I acknowledge that,
and that's why she still can have the position
that she had in my life as the only woman
I was dealing with while I was, you know,
committed to our relationship.
You know, it's just the last few months I was not committed
because I didn't know where she was mentally
as far as respecting me.
♪♪♪♪
- There may have to be some type of counseling,
but what we're here to find out right now today is
is this the person that you love,
that you wanna move forward with or move on from.
- Right.
♪♪♪♪
- I would rather do it with both of you's.
Both of you women are awesome women.
(Tami) Welcome back to "caught in the act."
Now that David has told naima what caused him to stray,
all three people in this messy love triangle
must figure out how to move forward.
When I bring azariah out,
you're gonna come clean with her.
- Bring her out so we can finish this conversation.
♪♪♪♪
- Okay, go ahead.
- So I'm very upset because I feel played right now,
because you got her up here, you got me over here,
and you telling me one thing and you telling her one thing,
you got me over here with my ass out and everything
about to fight her, and so I'm very confused.
So you just gotta let me know what it is.
Like, i'm... we both confused...
- 'Cause you know, you were telling her you love her too.
- Yeah. - Yeah, I do love her.
She's an awesome person, like, I won't deny that.
Like, she's peaceful, she's always positive.
She brings a whole lot of different qualities
that a woman can possess.
What you have to offer is fun.
What you have to offer is, you know, it's a peace,
it's a comfort zone, I won't deny, you know,
your qualities and what your attributes,
like, you're an awesome person.
I would rather do it with both of yous.
- What?!
- Both of you women are awesome women...
- What you got going on? - That don't make no sense.
- You're pretty awesome, like,
would you prefer me to lie to you?
- Well, you can't have them both.
- Why not? - Because you cannot.
- I'm a king. - I explained that
to you already. - But I'm a king.
- You leading us on and you not giving us a clear answer...
- And you talking in circles. - Confusing to both of us.
- They need you to really speak as clear as possible.
How do you wanna proceed?
- Well...
This is my queen.
This woman, I titled her my queen for a reason.
Like, I don't get no woman's name tattooed on my body
unless it's supposed to be forever,
so I did that for a reason.
- You should've let me know that in the beginning.
You shouldn't have been saying all of this.
Like, i'm...
You know what, you up here trying to play me.
I'm done with this (bleep).
Y'all up in here trying to play me.
I'm done. I'm over with it.
- You made a clear decision.
You, I feel, need to make just as clear of a decision.
What do you wanna do, baby?
Do you want to move forward with David,
or move on from this relationship?
♪♪♪♪
- ♪♪ it's so obvious, I ain't gotta say it ♪♪ ♪♪ but ain't no competition, I'm just sayin' ♪♪
♪♪ yeah, yeah, what's up ♪♪
- Do you want to move forward with David,
or move on from this relationship?
♪♪♪♪
- Move forward with David, but...
- Ain't no but.
Everything that comes after that statement,
you guys gotta go to somebody and really get the proper help.
I just wanna get complete clarity
because listen, what came in was a woman that was hurt,
and what walked away was another woman that was hurt.
So I just need for you to understand it can't
be you just dropping, you know, bombs and hurting hearts
all along the way, you've gotta take control
of yourself and your emotions and your feelings,
and if you're saying you wanna be with naima,
be committed to that. - I can do that.
- The work begins now.
- Come here, sit right here.
- No, no, no... - You the queen...
(Overlapping chatter)
- Be the queen, naima. Be the queen, honey.
- David, clarity. You got it?
- Honesty. - Alright?
And accountability. - Indeed.
- You can do that for me? - Indeed.
- Alright. - I ain't gonna call you
no king now, I'm gonna say "bye, David."
- That's okay, i'ma still be living that way.
- ♪♪ Can you be loyal, loyal ♪♪
♪♪ you know my secrets now I'm filled with paranoia ♪♪
♪♪ you changed up and it hit a little more, yeah ♪♪
(Tami) It's been a few months since I've talked to naima,
so I'm checking in to see how things are going.
Hey, naima.
- Hey, tami, how you doing?
- How are you?
- I'm doing awesome, tami.
I got a new look, a new attitude,
I'm just doing it, I'm doing the damn thing.
- I'm glad to hear it. How's everything been going
since we caught David in the act?
- Me and David, we tried to make it work,
but I just... I couldn't trust him, so we went
our separate ways.
- I'm sorry to hear that... I'm lying, I'm not.
I'm happy to hear that, because listen,
if a man cannot respect you,
then it's better to be single until you find someone
that's going to appreciate you, and I think you deserve better.
- My son, he deserves better too.
You helped me understand that I shouldn't be
bringing around a man into my son's life
who just isn't gonna be around for the long run.
- And that's really what I wanted you to get, naima.
You know? And I'm a parent too, I have two daughters,
and I'm very protective of my family unit,
and I just wanted you to have that same thought process.
Make sure they're the right person.
- I was really in denial about what was going on.
Thank you for helping me.
Next time, i'ma trust my gut.
- I'm happy I could be of service, my darling.
And listen, go forward and be happy now.
- Thanks so much. - Alright, girl, bye.
Cheaters beware.
Next time you wanna be unfaithful, think again.
Because I just might catch you in the act.
- Are you prepared to see the footage?
- That (bleep) Wild, man. - Here we go.
(Tami) This season on "caught in the act: Unfaithful."
(Brianne) The evidence that we collect has the power
to potentially change somebody's life.
- Bitch been lying to me the whole (bleep) Time.
- Ohh, we kissin'!
- She's pregnant and she's cheatin'.
- (Exhales)
- We wanna catch them in the act,
and approach it head-on.
- Why you been sleepin' with my best friend?
- What the (bleep) You got going on right here?
- So you're playing us both, right?
(Overlapping shouting)
(Tami) Is this the person that you wanna
move forward with, or move on from?
- If there's a way that we could fix this, I wanna do it.
- I can't believe (bleep) You sayin' right now.
♪♪♪♪
- I love you.
- I'm gonna ask you the hard questions,
because we need to get the answers.
- I'm giving you the answers! - Don't let her near me.
- I didn't go looking for this.
- Get him out of here. I'm done, I'm done, I'm done.
- Sit the (bleep) Down and tell the truth.
Cheaters beware.
We gon' get these answers today.
On this season's "caught in the act: Unfaithful."
- I hear that you're having some problems... - Yes. - In your relationship.
- He'll be at his dance studio
at about 5:00, 6:00 in the morning.
- Who he teaching how to dance at 5:00 in the morning?
- That's my point. - Somebody has
to hold him accountable.
- What's this? - (Overlapping shouting)
- Ugly-ass (bleep)! Really? Over me?
- I'm human. - I'm human too,
I ain't never cheated on no (bleep).
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