1 00:00:03,413 --> 00:00:05,091 - I'm tami Roman. I have been cheated on before. 2 00:00:05,115 --> 00:00:08,118 You (bleep) My man when I was married to him. 3 00:00:08,184 --> 00:00:09,886 I even wrote a book about it. 4 00:00:09,953 --> 00:00:13,056 Now I'm on a mission to help suspicious lovers 5 00:00:13,123 --> 00:00:16,059 catch their cheating partners in the act. 6 00:00:16,126 --> 00:00:18,194 - Bitch been lying to me the whole (bleep) Time. 7 00:00:18,261 --> 00:00:19,829 - Oh, we kissing! 8 00:00:19,896 --> 00:00:21,331 (Tami) I'm teaming up with 9 00:00:21,398 --> 00:00:23,733 relationship expert Kevin carr. 10 00:00:23,800 --> 00:00:26,169 - Everybody's in the dark and don't know what's going on. 11 00:00:26,236 --> 00:00:27,771 That's master manipulation. 12 00:00:27,837 --> 00:00:29,205 (Tami) And private investigator 13 00:00:29,272 --> 00:00:30,440 brianne Joseph. 14 00:00:30,507 --> 00:00:31,741 (Brianne) If someone is being 15 00:00:31,808 --> 00:00:34,110 unfaithful, I'll get you the receipts. 16 00:00:34,177 --> 00:00:35,378 Got it, got it. 17 00:00:35,445 --> 00:00:37,547 - Are you prepared to see the footage? 18 00:00:37,614 --> 00:00:39,749 Once our investigation is complete, 19 00:00:39,816 --> 00:00:42,018 the suspicious lover can team up 20 00:00:42,085 --> 00:00:43,386 with the partner's other lover. 21 00:00:43,453 --> 00:00:45,522 - We have a jackass in common. 22 00:00:45,589 --> 00:00:47,357 (Tami) Or take down both of them 23 00:00:47,424 --> 00:00:48,792 in an undercover ambush. 24 00:00:48,858 --> 00:00:50,536 - What the (bleep) You got going on right here? 25 00:00:50,560 --> 00:00:52,128 - What is you doing? - Whoa! 26 00:00:52,195 --> 00:00:54,531 - You brought this... Into my place of business! 27 00:00:54,598 --> 00:00:55,832 How dare you?! What is this? 28 00:00:55,899 --> 00:00:57,467 (Tami) In the end, the suspicious 29 00:00:57,534 --> 00:00:59,469 lover might decide to move forward... 30 00:00:59,536 --> 00:01:00,904 (Woman sighing) 31 00:01:00,971 --> 00:01:03,406 or move on from their cheating partner for good. 32 00:01:03,473 --> 00:01:04,808 - I'm over with it. 33 00:01:04,874 --> 00:01:06,910 (Tami) One confrontation 34 00:01:06,977 --> 00:01:07,744 could change everything. 35 00:01:07,811 --> 00:01:09,679 - Whoo! - I'm done! 36 00:01:09,746 --> 00:01:11,414 - We gonna get these answers today. 37 00:01:11,481 --> 00:01:12,916 - I'm giving you the answers. 38 00:01:12,983 --> 00:01:14,084 - Cheaters beware. 39 00:01:14,150 --> 00:01:16,353 Everybody put their (bleep) On pause! 40 00:01:16,419 --> 00:01:17,821 ♪♪♪♪ 41 00:01:17,888 --> 00:01:25,888 This is "caught in the act: Unfaithful." 42 00:01:29,432 --> 00:01:30,710 ♪♪ You are seeing a black queen out here doing the rap thing ♪♪ ♪♪ my foot on the pedal I'm winning it's settled ♪♪ 43 00:01:30,734 --> 00:01:31,978 ♪♪ my Honda be all in the fast Lane ♪♪ 44 00:01:32,002 --> 00:01:33,442 (Tami) Today I'm meeting with gierra. 45 00:01:33,470 --> 00:01:35,839 - Nice meeting you, tami Roman. - Nice to meet you. 46 00:01:35,906 --> 00:01:37,240 (Tami) She thinks her partner shay 47 00:01:37,307 --> 00:01:40,043 may be a cheater, so she contacted me. 48 00:01:40,110 --> 00:01:43,079 So I know that you wanted to meet with me 49 00:01:43,146 --> 00:01:44,848 because you feel like your partner 50 00:01:44,915 --> 00:01:47,117 shay, may be unfaithful. 51 00:01:47,183 --> 00:01:49,252 And what I do around here is I get to the truth. 52 00:01:49,319 --> 00:01:52,422 But before I do I need to know about this relationship. 53 00:01:52,489 --> 00:01:55,225 - So we've been dating four about 4-1/2 years now. 54 00:01:55,292 --> 00:01:59,129 And we met in Cincinnati which is my hometown. 55 00:01:59,195 --> 00:02:00,497 And she's originally from Toledo. 56 00:02:00,564 --> 00:02:02,666 ♪♪♪♪ 57 00:02:02,732 --> 00:02:05,168 We started dating. Everything was just like 58 00:02:05,235 --> 00:02:08,171 rainbows and butterflies. And then we decided 59 00:02:08,238 --> 00:02:10,941 to move to Atlanta. 60 00:02:11,007 --> 00:02:13,109 - What attracted you to shay? 61 00:02:13,176 --> 00:02:16,213 - She has a different like, swag about her. 62 00:02:16,279 --> 00:02:18,848 The way she looks. The way she dresses. 63 00:02:18,915 --> 00:02:20,383 (Tami) So she has charisma. 64 00:02:20,450 --> 00:02:22,852 - Mm-hmm, mm-hmm. - A flair to her? 65 00:02:22,919 --> 00:02:24,054 - And you were drawn in. 66 00:02:24,120 --> 00:02:25,422 - Reeled in like a little fish. 67 00:02:25,488 --> 00:02:28,191 - Really? Okay, okay. 68 00:02:28,258 --> 00:02:32,028 Now are you lesbian or bisexual? How do you identify? 69 00:02:32,095 --> 00:02:33,930 - I have never dated women before. 70 00:02:33,997 --> 00:02:36,166 - Shay done reeled you in like that? 71 00:02:36,233 --> 00:02:37,601 - Yeah. - Mmm... 72 00:02:37,667 --> 00:02:41,037 - I've dated men before, and they would just, 73 00:02:41,104 --> 00:02:43,039 you know, do the bare minimum. 74 00:02:43,106 --> 00:02:45,208 What can you do for me outside of that? 75 00:02:45,275 --> 00:02:46,977 And that's where shay came in. 76 00:02:47,043 --> 00:02:49,079 You know, on our first date, 77 00:02:49,145 --> 00:02:51,214 she was just like you can have whatever you want. 78 00:02:51,281 --> 00:02:53,250 Wining and dining me. 79 00:02:53,316 --> 00:02:54,618 - Oh, really? Okay. - Yes. 80 00:02:54,684 --> 00:02:56,720 - So you have carte blanche with shay. 81 00:02:56,786 --> 00:03:00,991 Anything you want, shay provides and gets for you 82 00:03:01,057 --> 00:03:03,627 without any hesitation. - Yeah. 83 00:03:03,693 --> 00:03:06,429 And she also catered to me on an emotional level. 84 00:03:06,496 --> 00:03:08,598 - Because you're both women, right? 85 00:03:08,665 --> 00:03:10,533 So she understands you 86 00:03:10,600 --> 00:03:13,169 at a level that a man could not. - Yeah. 87 00:03:13,236 --> 00:03:17,073 - So 4-1/2 years, and you cut off all men 88 00:03:17,140 --> 00:03:18,708 to be with shay. - I did. 89 00:03:18,775 --> 00:03:21,678 - Shay is special then. - Very, very special. 90 00:03:21,745 --> 00:03:23,947 - So you guys pack up, move to Atlanta. 91 00:03:24,014 --> 00:03:26,016 Was there a reason for that move? 92 00:03:26,082 --> 00:03:29,452 - Yes, so she's a club promoter and, like, host. 93 00:03:29,519 --> 00:03:32,255 We came her to pursue her career. 94 00:03:32,322 --> 00:03:33,490 - Hmm. - So... 95 00:03:33,557 --> 00:03:36,159 I left my family, I left friends. 96 00:03:36,226 --> 00:03:37,661 And I put my hard-earned money 97 00:03:37,727 --> 00:03:39,963 into shay's business to support her 98 00:03:40,030 --> 00:03:41,831 - so you're very, very supportive. 99 00:03:41,898 --> 00:03:43,600 I can appreciate that. - Yes. 100 00:03:43,667 --> 00:03:45,201 - So it's 4-1/2 years. 101 00:03:45,268 --> 00:03:47,437 You guys have been together the whole time. 102 00:03:47,504 --> 00:03:50,006 What gives you the inclination 103 00:03:50,073 --> 00:03:52,208 that shay might be doing something? 104 00:03:52,275 --> 00:03:54,511 - I used to always go with her to a club. 105 00:03:54,578 --> 00:03:57,981 Like she always made it known that I was just that one, 106 00:03:58,048 --> 00:04:01,985 like, I'm with her, and she just stopped, like, inviting me. 107 00:04:02,052 --> 00:04:05,789 I have to say something, like, "oh, you headed out?" 108 00:04:05,855 --> 00:04:08,491 And she'll be, like, yeah, I was booked for such and such. 109 00:04:08,558 --> 00:04:11,328 And I'm like... 110 00:04:11,394 --> 00:04:12,862 "Why aren't you inviting me?" 111 00:04:12,929 --> 00:04:14,564 - Ahh... 112 00:04:14,631 --> 00:04:16,266 ♪♪♪♪ 113 00:04:16,333 --> 00:04:18,013 Do you think there's somebody in particular 114 00:04:18,068 --> 00:04:20,103 that she could be cheating with? 115 00:04:20,170 --> 00:04:22,472 - You just never know who it could be. 116 00:04:22,539 --> 00:04:26,743 So I can't say, okay, it's this person, like by name. 117 00:04:26,810 --> 00:04:28,411 She's hosting like different clubs 118 00:04:28,478 --> 00:04:30,180 so there's a different wave of women. 119 00:04:30,247 --> 00:04:31,781 - So she's getting more popular in... 120 00:04:31,848 --> 00:04:33,083 - Very, yeah. - Okay. 121 00:04:33,149 --> 00:04:36,152 - And I have noticed that lately 122 00:04:36,219 --> 00:04:38,455 she's receiving weird calls. 123 00:04:38,521 --> 00:04:40,423 You're coming in at 3:00 or 4:00 a. M. 124 00:04:40,490 --> 00:04:42,626 And you're receiving calls. Who's calling you? 125 00:04:42,692 --> 00:04:44,861 - Who's calling at 3:00 a. M., shay? 126 00:04:44,928 --> 00:04:46,439 - Why do you feel the need to step out of the room 127 00:04:46,463 --> 00:04:48,598 to talk on the phone? You know, usually, 128 00:04:48,665 --> 00:04:50,800 you're in my bed with me. - Right. 129 00:04:50,867 --> 00:04:53,103 - Talking on the phone. 130 00:04:53,169 --> 00:04:55,005 Now you're starting to be sneaky. 131 00:04:55,071 --> 00:04:58,208 - Okay. - And now she reminds me 132 00:04:58,275 --> 00:05:00,477 of the men from my past. 133 00:05:00,544 --> 00:05:03,013 - Mmm... 134 00:05:03,079 --> 00:05:05,916 Do you wanna take this relationship to the next level? 135 00:05:05,982 --> 00:05:08,218 - I do, I want to be married. 136 00:05:08,285 --> 00:05:10,053 I want a family with shay. - Really? 137 00:05:10,120 --> 00:05:13,356 - I want kids, and I want for us to build a future together. 138 00:05:13,423 --> 00:05:15,492 But there's just something in my gut that's like, 139 00:05:15,559 --> 00:05:18,395 holding me back. - Okay, well, 140 00:05:18,461 --> 00:05:20,430 we gonna try to get some answers for you, 141 00:05:20,497 --> 00:05:22,399 we definitely are. I'm gonna get 142 00:05:22,465 --> 00:05:25,769 my private investigator to surveil shay for 143 00:05:25,835 --> 00:05:28,772 the next couple of days and see if we can find out 144 00:05:28,838 --> 00:05:30,407 what's going on, if anything, right, 145 00:05:30,473 --> 00:05:31,808 'cause there may be nothing. 146 00:05:31,875 --> 00:05:34,978 But in the event that we do find something, 147 00:05:35,045 --> 00:05:37,914 then I will call you back and we will show you 148 00:05:37,981 --> 00:05:39,583 what we found. - Okay. 149 00:05:39,649 --> 00:05:43,386 - Do you give me permission to share your story with my team? 150 00:05:43,453 --> 00:05:45,222 - I do. - Now in the meantime, 151 00:05:45,288 --> 00:05:48,225 don't let her know that you're going through this process. 152 00:05:48,291 --> 00:05:49,526 - Okay. - Alright? 153 00:05:49,593 --> 00:05:51,270 - Alright. - Alright, I'm trusting you now. 154 00:05:51,294 --> 00:05:52,762 - Thank you so much for coming in... 155 00:05:52,829 --> 00:05:54,273 - Thank for you having me. - And i'ma do 156 00:05:54,297 --> 00:05:56,099 my best to help you. - Okay. 157 00:05:56,166 --> 00:05:57,267 - Alright. - Thank you. 158 00:05:57,334 --> 00:06:00,937 ♪♪♪♪ 159 00:06:06,376 --> 00:06:08,411 (Tami) I'm turning to my private investigator 160 00:06:08,478 --> 00:06:10,347 brianne Joseph and her team 161 00:06:10,413 --> 00:06:13,617 to track shay's movements and interactions. 162 00:06:13,683 --> 00:06:15,919 She'll follow shay for the next few days 163 00:06:15,986 --> 00:06:18,655 to learn if she's an unfailing partner 164 00:06:18,722 --> 00:06:21,258 or if she's been unfaithful. 165 00:06:21,324 --> 00:06:24,527 (Brianne) I'm following shay right now, first day on her. 166 00:06:24,594 --> 00:06:28,465 Shay is a club promoter, which means she's out there 167 00:06:28,531 --> 00:06:33,403 socializing and she's possibly working unusual hours. 168 00:06:37,073 --> 00:06:39,242 Okay, looks like she's parking. 169 00:06:39,309 --> 00:06:41,444 ♪♪♪♪ 170 00:06:45,248 --> 00:06:48,351 Let's see where she's heading. 171 00:06:50,921 --> 00:06:52,255 I'm gonna get a little closer 172 00:06:52,322 --> 00:06:53,690 and figure out what she's up to. 173 00:06:56,693 --> 00:07:00,597 While I follow shay, my team is secretly spreading out 174 00:07:00,664 --> 00:07:04,034 to capture video of what she says and does. 175 00:07:04,100 --> 00:07:05,435 (Shay) How you doing, baby? 176 00:07:05,502 --> 00:07:08,071 Can I get three shots of casamigos? 177 00:07:09,873 --> 00:07:12,008 Yes, indeed. 178 00:07:18,848 --> 00:07:21,551 Y'all need to be at my club event tomorrow night. 179 00:07:21,618 --> 00:07:23,053 (Overlapping chatter) 180 00:07:23,119 --> 00:07:25,121 We gonna get some food next time, alright? 181 00:07:25,188 --> 00:07:26,890 Alright, gotta go. 182 00:07:30,560 --> 00:07:33,730 (Brianne) Hmm, I think shay just club promoting. 183 00:07:33,797 --> 00:07:37,334 ♪♪♪♪ 184 00:07:40,337 --> 00:07:42,172 Okay, it's day two, 185 00:07:42,239 --> 00:07:44,474 and I'm continuing to follow shay. 186 00:07:44,541 --> 00:07:46,276 Looks like she's parking. 187 00:07:46,343 --> 00:07:48,912 ♪♪♪♪ 188 00:07:50,247 --> 00:07:52,749 I just followed shay to the msr lounge. 189 00:07:52,816 --> 00:07:56,686 I've attached a hidden camera button to my blazer 190 00:07:56,753 --> 00:08:00,757 so that I can discreetly record her interactions inside. 191 00:08:03,793 --> 00:08:05,295 (Shay) Where the afterparty at, y'all? 192 00:08:05,362 --> 00:08:07,898 - (Woman) Your house. - My house? A'ight. 193 00:08:07,964 --> 00:08:10,433 As long as you bring some of them hoes, then I'm with it. 194 00:08:10,500 --> 00:08:13,770 (Brianne) Hmm, business or pleasure? 195 00:08:13,837 --> 00:08:16,539 What kind of connections is she really making? 196 00:08:16,606 --> 00:08:18,275 - Lemme get a little love here. 197 00:08:18,341 --> 00:08:20,610 Just make sure whatever you're drinkin' you put it on me. 198 00:08:20,677 --> 00:08:24,514 (Brianne) Well, shay is definitely outgoing. 199 00:08:27,817 --> 00:08:31,087 ♪♪♪♪ 200 00:08:34,624 --> 00:08:37,727 I'm continuing my surveillance on shay. 201 00:08:37,794 --> 00:08:40,297 She was interacting with a few ladies on a few different 202 00:08:40,363 --> 00:08:44,701 occasions, but there's really nothing incriminating to report. 203 00:08:44,768 --> 00:08:46,736 I'm just going to continue to follow her 204 00:08:46,803 --> 00:08:48,805 to learn if she's doing something 205 00:08:48,872 --> 00:08:51,374 outside of the boundaries of her relationship. 206 00:08:51,441 --> 00:08:53,777 ♪♪♪♪ 207 00:08:53,843 --> 00:08:55,845 So I followed shay to the mall. 208 00:08:55,912 --> 00:08:59,449 Now I'm gonna see exactly where we're going. 209 00:09:00,483 --> 00:09:01,785 Who is that she's with? 210 00:09:01,851 --> 00:09:03,320 They're definitely holding hands. 211 00:09:03,386 --> 00:09:04,921 Oh, yeah. 212 00:09:09,092 --> 00:09:11,027 I can't bring my team into the store. 213 00:09:11,094 --> 00:09:13,997 So it's just me and my cell phone. 214 00:09:21,805 --> 00:09:24,174 Well, this is interesting. 215 00:09:30,247 --> 00:09:33,583 - (Grunts) Don't do that. Don't push it on... 216 00:09:33,650 --> 00:09:35,385 (Brianne) I may be on to something here. 217 00:09:35,452 --> 00:09:36,987 - You want me to come in there? 218 00:09:37,053 --> 00:09:38,688 (Indistinct) 219 00:09:39,890 --> 00:09:41,992 ♪♪♪♪ 220 00:09:42,058 --> 00:09:44,794 - ♪♪ you're under my spell like voodoo ♪♪ 221 00:09:44,861 --> 00:09:46,429 (Tami) Hello there, brother. 222 00:09:46,496 --> 00:09:49,966 I've received the results of our investigation from brianne 223 00:09:50,033 --> 00:09:52,669 and introduced our relationship expert, 224 00:09:52,736 --> 00:09:54,037 Kevin carr, to gierra. 225 00:09:54,104 --> 00:09:56,139 - How are you doing? - I'm good, how are you? 226 00:09:56,206 --> 00:09:58,174 (Tami) Now it's time to share with her 227 00:09:58,241 --> 00:09:59,576 what we've learned. 228 00:09:59,643 --> 00:10:02,345 As I told you, brianne, my private investigator 229 00:10:02,412 --> 00:10:04,347 was going to surveil shay. 230 00:10:04,414 --> 00:10:06,216 - Okay. - Today she did 231 00:10:06,283 --> 00:10:08,652 send some stuff over. 232 00:10:08,718 --> 00:10:10,987 Now, if you agree to watch this evidence, 233 00:10:11,054 --> 00:10:12,689 there's no turning back 234 00:10:12,756 --> 00:10:15,692 and your entire relationship could change forever. 235 00:10:15,759 --> 00:10:17,594 Do you agree to see the footage? 236 00:10:19,529 --> 00:10:21,831 - I agree. - Okay. 237 00:10:21,898 --> 00:10:23,066 Here we go. 238 00:10:24,834 --> 00:10:27,404 ♪♪♪♪ 239 00:10:27,470 --> 00:10:28,605 - (Bleep) Her. 240 00:10:28,672 --> 00:10:31,074 - This (bleep) Is real. 241 00:10:31,141 --> 00:10:33,101 - I'm talking to you because you were in the video 242 00:10:33,143 --> 00:10:34,978 and you asked about "the little situation." 243 00:10:35,045 --> 00:10:36,980 And, (bleep), this is a situation. 244 00:10:37,047 --> 00:10:38,648 - My name is tami Roman. 245 00:10:38,715 --> 00:10:41,651 - You go to (bleep) A TV show? 246 00:10:45,422 --> 00:10:47,657 (Tami) Welcome back to "caught in the act," 247 00:10:47,724 --> 00:10:50,860 the show where we catch cheaters in the act. 248 00:10:50,927 --> 00:10:54,164 - ♪♪ Yo, lately I've been looking for a way out, woo ♪♪ 249 00:10:54,231 --> 00:10:55,899 ♪♪ yeahhhh ♪♪ 250 00:10:55,966 --> 00:10:59,402 (Tami) Suspicious lover gierra believes her girlfriend 251 00:10:59,469 --> 00:11:03,240 of four years, shay, has gone astray 252 00:11:03,306 --> 00:11:05,242 and is stepping out on her. 253 00:11:05,308 --> 00:11:06,910 You agree to see the footage? 254 00:11:06,977 --> 00:11:08,211 - I agree. 255 00:11:08,278 --> 00:11:09,880 - We're about to show gierra 256 00:11:09,946 --> 00:11:12,315 the results of our investigation. 257 00:11:19,122 --> 00:11:20,690 Very friendly and outgoing. 258 00:11:26,863 --> 00:11:28,164 She said you can go home with me, 259 00:11:28,231 --> 00:11:30,734 you got my number, right? 260 00:11:30,800 --> 00:11:33,303 - She says I only give out my social media. 261 00:11:34,704 --> 00:11:36,106 Someone has their number. 262 00:11:36,172 --> 00:11:37,841 - Lemme get a little love here. 263 00:11:37,908 --> 00:11:39,609 Lemme get a little love. 264 00:11:39,676 --> 00:11:41,411 A little love. 265 00:11:41,478 --> 00:11:44,247 (Indistinct chatter) 266 00:11:45,649 --> 00:11:48,118 - So did you know any of those people in the club? 267 00:11:48,184 --> 00:11:51,521 - I do not. - So when you said to me 268 00:11:51,588 --> 00:11:55,058 that shay doesn't invite you out to events and things 269 00:11:55,125 --> 00:11:59,696 that she's hosting, maybe that's why. 270 00:11:59,763 --> 00:12:02,465 If it had just been this, 271 00:12:02,532 --> 00:12:06,036 then I would've said, well, she is a promoter. 272 00:12:06,102 --> 00:12:08,538 Part of that job is engaging... 273 00:12:08,605 --> 00:12:10,383 - Playing a part. - Interacting, playing a role, 274 00:12:10,407 --> 00:12:11,584 making people feel comfortable 275 00:12:11,608 --> 00:12:13,443 so that they support your events. 276 00:12:13,510 --> 00:12:16,680 But then we got this. 277 00:12:18,715 --> 00:12:20,717 (Shay) Let's see what you got going on. 278 00:12:20,784 --> 00:12:23,320 (Indistinct) 279 00:12:23,386 --> 00:12:24,654 - Do you know this woman? 280 00:12:24,721 --> 00:12:26,923 - Yeah, I think that's gonna be nice. 281 00:12:26,990 --> 00:12:28,525 - I don't. 282 00:12:28,592 --> 00:12:30,360 - Are you excited about Miami? 283 00:12:32,229 --> 00:12:33,930 - Oh, so they're going on vacation. 284 00:12:33,997 --> 00:12:36,700 - Mmm. Mmm. 285 00:12:36,766 --> 00:12:39,002 Mmm. Mmm. 286 00:12:39,069 --> 00:12:41,104 - I just (bleep) Can't. 287 00:12:43,607 --> 00:12:45,709 - When you gonna leave your situation? 288 00:12:45,775 --> 00:12:48,178 - That is nice. Speak to my girls. 289 00:12:48,245 --> 00:12:50,947 I did not speak to my girls today. 290 00:12:51,014 --> 00:12:53,183 How y'all doing, girls? 291 00:12:53,250 --> 00:12:55,685 - (Bleep) Her. 292 00:12:55,752 --> 00:12:58,088 She could have stayed her (bleep) Ass in Toledo. 293 00:13:05,629 --> 00:13:09,065 - Tell me everything you need paid for 294 00:13:09,132 --> 00:13:10,800 and I'll pay for it. 295 00:13:10,867 --> 00:13:14,104 Very reminiscent of what you said... 296 00:13:14,170 --> 00:13:15,338 - I did. 297 00:13:15,405 --> 00:13:18,275 - Your relationship started out as. 298 00:13:18,341 --> 00:13:21,378 - I have no words. 299 00:13:21,444 --> 00:13:23,580 - This (bleep) Is real. 300 00:13:25,782 --> 00:13:29,953 Shay literally went out shopping with this woman, 301 00:13:30,020 --> 00:13:33,290 and this is what we captured. 302 00:13:33,356 --> 00:13:38,428 You really need to process what's going on here. 303 00:13:39,863 --> 00:13:41,164 - I'm not doing this (bleep). 304 00:13:41,231 --> 00:13:43,133 - ♪♪ When it all falls ♪♪ 305 00:13:43,199 --> 00:13:45,068 - This isn't a trio. 306 00:13:45,135 --> 00:13:46,403 It's me and you, you and me, 307 00:13:46,469 --> 00:13:48,271 and that's it, team of us. 308 00:13:48,338 --> 00:13:51,174 When we talked the first time, I told you I invested so much. 309 00:13:51,241 --> 00:13:52,842 I invested my time and money. 310 00:13:52,909 --> 00:13:57,514 I risked literally everything to be down here with her. 311 00:13:57,581 --> 00:13:59,883 I left everything, packed up. 312 00:13:59,950 --> 00:14:01,484 Oh, you're ready to go? 313 00:14:01,551 --> 00:14:04,688 Let's go, let's do this because I believe in you. 314 00:14:04,754 --> 00:14:07,424 It's a loss. It's a loss for me. 315 00:14:07,490 --> 00:14:10,827 So now I don't know what I'm going to do. 316 00:14:10,894 --> 00:14:12,805 - Clearly she has a pattern because you said when 317 00:14:12,829 --> 00:14:14,774 you met her, she kind of behaved in that manner, right? 318 00:14:14,798 --> 00:14:16,399 - She did. - So one of the things 319 00:14:16,466 --> 00:14:19,936 that does for her, it gives her a position of leverage. 320 00:14:20,003 --> 00:14:22,539 It automatically puts you in a light, like, I'm good. 321 00:14:22,606 --> 00:14:24,407 This person will take care of me. 322 00:14:24,474 --> 00:14:26,476 So you can become blind to certain things 323 00:14:26,543 --> 00:14:27,711 that they may be doing. 324 00:14:27,777 --> 00:14:29,379 - She's living a double life. 325 00:14:29,446 --> 00:14:32,282 - Her catering to you, what that does for her 326 00:14:32,349 --> 00:14:33,917 it allows her to gaslight you. 327 00:14:33,984 --> 00:14:35,862 What I mean is that when a person gaslights you, 328 00:14:35,886 --> 00:14:37,988 they make you question your own reality. 329 00:14:38,054 --> 00:14:40,657 And so when you're asking her, "why you stepping outside? 330 00:14:40,724 --> 00:14:42,692 Why are you coming in?" "Oh, it's nothing. 331 00:14:42,759 --> 00:14:45,128 You overreacting." You see what I'm saying? 332 00:14:45,195 --> 00:14:46,997 - Yeah. - What you're seeing now 333 00:14:47,063 --> 00:14:48,732 is aspects of her personality 334 00:14:48,798 --> 00:14:51,001 that hasn't come to the surface yet. 335 00:14:51,067 --> 00:14:52,702 But she's in a new city, 336 00:14:52,769 --> 00:14:55,272 she's in a new scenery, she got new business. 337 00:14:55,338 --> 00:14:57,240 And so what that does is allow space 338 00:14:57,307 --> 00:14:59,309 for more of her true self to come out. 339 00:15:00,510 --> 00:15:02,546 - I've always talked to her. 340 00:15:02,612 --> 00:15:05,315 There's going to be temptation, there's going to be everything. 341 00:15:05,382 --> 00:15:08,084 You literally went for the ass and titties. 342 00:15:08,151 --> 00:15:09,386 ♪♪♪♪ 343 00:15:09,452 --> 00:15:11,888 - We don't know what 344 00:15:11,955 --> 00:15:15,492 shay's reasoning for doing this is. 345 00:15:15,559 --> 00:15:20,297 We don't know if this woman is valuable to her 346 00:15:20,363 --> 00:15:23,066 or is it just stuff she says, right? 347 00:15:23,133 --> 00:15:27,437 And I think the only way to get clarity on that is to have 348 00:15:27,504 --> 00:15:30,473 the conversation with the other woman. 349 00:15:30,540 --> 00:15:32,576 How long has this been going on? 350 00:15:32,642 --> 00:15:34,211 Where did you guys meet? 351 00:15:34,277 --> 00:15:36,880 What do you think your relationship is? 352 00:15:36,947 --> 00:15:38,648 - Okay. - And then, okay, well, girl, 353 00:15:38,715 --> 00:15:41,051 we either gotta go to shay together 354 00:15:41,117 --> 00:15:42,586 or now that I know who you are, 355 00:15:42,652 --> 00:15:44,254 i'ma wait till you and shay together 356 00:15:44,321 --> 00:15:45,989 and then i'ma come bust y'all both. 357 00:15:46,056 --> 00:15:48,692 You can either take down the relationship of shay 358 00:15:48,758 --> 00:15:51,628 and this other woman, or you can team up with her 359 00:15:51,695 --> 00:15:53,530 and both of you can confront shay. 360 00:15:53,597 --> 00:15:55,232 - I want to do that. 361 00:15:55,298 --> 00:15:57,100 Let's do it. 362 00:15:57,167 --> 00:15:59,836 - Okay, you agree to team up. 363 00:15:59,903 --> 00:16:05,308 So the next step is getting my private investigator brianne 364 00:16:05,375 --> 00:16:09,246 back on the case to find this woman. 365 00:16:09,312 --> 00:16:10,647 And then we'll go and have 366 00:16:10,714 --> 00:16:12,058 the conversation with her together. 367 00:16:12,082 --> 00:16:14,251 All three of us will go. - Let's do it. 368 00:16:14,317 --> 00:16:17,053 ♪♪♪♪ 369 00:16:22,392 --> 00:16:25,829 ♪♪♪♪ 370 00:16:25,896 --> 00:16:29,099 I just got word from my private investigator brianne 371 00:16:29,165 --> 00:16:30,901 that she found the location 372 00:16:30,967 --> 00:16:34,104 of shay's mysterious lover leaving a hair salon. 373 00:16:34,170 --> 00:16:35,906 Hey, hey. - Hey. 374 00:16:35,972 --> 00:16:39,809 - We've alerted gierra that we're on the way. 375 00:16:39,876 --> 00:16:41,821 - (Kevin) Hey, how are you? - I'm good, how are you? 376 00:16:41,845 --> 00:16:44,481 - I'm good. - How are you? 377 00:16:44,548 --> 00:16:48,351 - I am doing well. How are you doing? 378 00:16:48,418 --> 00:16:49,419 - I'm angry. 379 00:16:49,486 --> 00:16:51,955 I'm ready to meet this bitch. 380 00:16:52,022 --> 00:16:54,791 - When you talk to this young lady today, 381 00:16:54,858 --> 00:16:59,329 just go straight at it with the direct questions. 382 00:16:59,396 --> 00:17:00,997 How long have you been together? 383 00:17:01,064 --> 00:17:03,934 Has it been a sexual relationship? 384 00:17:04,000 --> 00:17:06,036 Have you guys talked about marriage? 385 00:17:06,102 --> 00:17:07,037 Do you want kids? 386 00:17:07,103 --> 00:17:08,605 - Okay. 387 00:17:09,606 --> 00:17:11,007 - We're almost there. 388 00:17:11,074 --> 00:17:13,109 Do not forget what you're here to do to, 389 00:17:13,176 --> 00:17:16,112 and that's to get the answers to your questions. 390 00:17:16,179 --> 00:17:17,480 - I have everything lined up. 391 00:17:17,547 --> 00:17:20,083 (Tami) Our Van is outfitted with a monitor 392 00:17:20,150 --> 00:17:22,519 so when gierra confronts the woman, 393 00:17:22,586 --> 00:17:25,188 we'll be able to see and hear everything. 394 00:17:27,123 --> 00:17:28,058 I think that's the other woman. 395 00:17:28,124 --> 00:17:29,526 Stop the Van. 396 00:17:29,593 --> 00:17:32,128 We'll be standing by as gierra attempts 397 00:17:32,195 --> 00:17:34,898 to get the answers she's looking for. 398 00:17:38,468 --> 00:17:39,936 - Hi. - Hi. 399 00:17:40,003 --> 00:17:41,838 What the (bleep) Are all these cameras? 400 00:17:41,905 --> 00:17:43,440 -I saw a video with you and shay 401 00:17:43,506 --> 00:17:46,409 and y'all are like in a relationship? 402 00:17:46,476 --> 00:17:47,811 -Shay who? 403 00:17:47,878 --> 00:17:49,412 - You know exactly who you were with. 404 00:17:49,479 --> 00:17:51,214 You a hoe, basically. 405 00:17:51,281 --> 00:17:52,925 (Overlapping shouting) - That's my (bleep), bro! 406 00:17:52,949 --> 00:17:55,785 It's a business partner! - I'm your (bleep)... 407 00:17:55,852 --> 00:17:58,955 - Okay, I need everybody to pipe the (bleep) Down! 408 00:18:02,125 --> 00:18:04,594 (Tami) Welcome back to "caught in the act," 409 00:18:04,661 --> 00:18:08,732 the show where we catch cheaters in the act. 410 00:18:08,798 --> 00:18:10,267 (Gierra) I'm angry. 411 00:18:10,333 --> 00:18:11,668 I'm ready to meet this bitch. 412 00:18:11,735 --> 00:18:13,970 (Tami) After learning her longtime girlfriend, 413 00:18:14,037 --> 00:18:17,440 shay, has been secretly seeing someone on the side, 414 00:18:17,507 --> 00:18:21,778 suspicious lover gierra is confronting the other woman. 415 00:18:21,845 --> 00:18:23,246 - Hi. - Hi. 416 00:18:23,313 --> 00:18:25,515 -What the (bleep) Are all these cameras? 417 00:18:25,582 --> 00:18:27,417 -I saw a video with you and shay 418 00:18:27,484 --> 00:18:30,554 and y'all were, like, in a relationship. 419 00:18:30,620 --> 00:18:32,489 - Shay who? - Not shay who? 420 00:18:32,556 --> 00:18:34,133 -You need to take it up with that person, not I. 421 00:18:34,157 --> 00:18:35,468 - No, i'ma take it up with you, (bleep), 422 00:18:35,492 --> 00:18:37,294 'cause you were in the (bleep) Video. 423 00:18:37,360 --> 00:18:39,129 - Uh-uh, (indistinct)... - That's something 424 00:18:39,195 --> 00:18:41,231 you should talk to her about, not me. 425 00:18:41,298 --> 00:18:43,142 - No, I'm talking to you because you were in the video 426 00:18:43,166 --> 00:18:44,677 and you asked about "the little situation," 427 00:18:44,701 --> 00:18:46,469 and, (bleep), this is the situation. 428 00:18:46,536 --> 00:18:48,538 - The situation that she's about to leave you? 429 00:18:48,605 --> 00:18:50,907 - Oh... - Leave me? Leave me? 430 00:18:50,974 --> 00:18:52,685 - Man, she ain't asking none of the questions I told her. 431 00:18:52,709 --> 00:18:55,145 - Right, right, it's about that time, tami, let's go. 432 00:18:55,212 --> 00:18:56,613 - She is, it's not something fun... 433 00:18:56,680 --> 00:18:58,515 (Overlapping arguing) 434 00:18:58,582 --> 00:18:59,950 - What's your name, sweetie? - Lex. 435 00:19:00,016 --> 00:19:01,451 - Lex, my name is tami Roman. 436 00:19:01,518 --> 00:19:04,888 - Hi. - And you are now on 437 00:19:04,955 --> 00:19:06,790 "caught in the act". 438 00:19:06,856 --> 00:19:09,993 Gierra came to us because she wanted to get clarity 439 00:19:10,060 --> 00:19:12,195 on her relationship with shay. 440 00:19:12,262 --> 00:19:13,863 - So why come to me, not go to shay? 441 00:19:13,930 --> 00:19:16,199 - Because we surveilled shay 442 00:19:16,266 --> 00:19:18,468 and lo and behold, we saw you and shay 443 00:19:18,535 --> 00:19:20,971 interacting out on a date. 444 00:19:21,037 --> 00:19:24,241 Gierra was unaware that shay was involved with you. 445 00:19:24,307 --> 00:19:25,475 So that's why we're here, 446 00:19:25,542 --> 00:19:27,110 to get answers to those questions. 447 00:19:27,177 --> 00:19:29,288 - But we're not about to do the whole (bleep) (Bleep) (Bleep) 448 00:19:29,312 --> 00:19:30,914 You're a ho, (bleep), I'm not doing that. 449 00:19:30,981 --> 00:19:33,283 - You are the ho. - That's not what shay thinks. 450 00:19:33,350 --> 00:19:35,785 - How long have you and shay been together? 451 00:19:35,852 --> 00:19:38,154 - For... over a year now. 452 00:19:38,221 --> 00:19:40,190 - A year? - Yeah, so, 453 00:19:40,257 --> 00:19:42,192 let's move over here so we can sit down. 454 00:19:42,259 --> 00:19:44,327 You go in front. 455 00:19:44,394 --> 00:19:48,164 Okay, so they've been together for a year 456 00:19:48,231 --> 00:19:49,933 unbeknownst to you. 457 00:19:50,000 --> 00:19:51,635 Did you know about gierra? 458 00:19:51,701 --> 00:19:54,204 - At first no, I didn't find out until I was too... 459 00:19:54,271 --> 00:19:56,439 Like I was already having feelings for her. 460 00:19:56,506 --> 00:19:59,409 - Why do you feel that shay is leaving gierra? 461 00:19:59,476 --> 00:20:01,011 - 'Cause that's all she says. 462 00:20:01,077 --> 00:20:03,680 Like, she has a whole different apartment besides from them. 463 00:20:03,747 --> 00:20:06,116 - She has a whole nother apartment? 464 00:20:06,182 --> 00:20:08,685 - Yes. It's a condo, like a loft. 465 00:20:11,054 --> 00:20:12,255 - Did you know that? 466 00:20:12,322 --> 00:20:13,757 - I didn't know that. 467 00:20:13,823 --> 00:20:15,358 - I come here probably once a month. 468 00:20:15,425 --> 00:20:17,160 You live somewhere else? 469 00:20:17,227 --> 00:20:19,162 - I have homes in Ohio and in Florida. 470 00:20:19,229 --> 00:20:20,664 - Oh, so you're from Ohio? 471 00:20:20,730 --> 00:20:22,132 - Yes, I'm from Toledo. 472 00:20:22,198 --> 00:20:23,400 - Shay from there, too. 473 00:20:23,466 --> 00:20:26,269 So did you guys meet in Toledo? 474 00:20:26,336 --> 00:20:30,373 - I was in Toledo and we'd seen each other at the bar, 475 00:20:30,440 --> 00:20:32,542 and that's like, the first time we hooked up. 476 00:20:32,609 --> 00:20:34,444 - So you visit to be a side (bleep)? 477 00:20:34,511 --> 00:20:38,682 - No, she's moving me here to be her main (bleep). 478 00:20:38,748 --> 00:20:41,484 - Okay, when is she leaving the situation? 479 00:20:41,551 --> 00:20:42,953 - Well, can you guys have that... 480 00:20:43,019 --> 00:20:44,463 Can you make sure you have that conversation with 481 00:20:44,487 --> 00:20:46,156 shay before we get to dinner tonight? 482 00:20:46,223 --> 00:20:47,857 Because we have reservations. 483 00:20:47,924 --> 00:20:50,327 - Ha, she won't be seeing you, baby girl. 484 00:20:50,393 --> 00:20:52,162 - Are you married? Do you have a ring? 485 00:20:52,229 --> 00:20:54,130 Has she proposed? Like, I'm confused. 486 00:20:54,197 --> 00:20:57,567 - It doesn't matter because you're still the side (bleep). 487 00:20:57,634 --> 00:20:59,514 And at the end of the day, you're just a (bleep) 488 00:20:59,569 --> 00:21:03,073 Plastic Barbie and she enjoys your ass and titties, that's it. 489 00:21:03,139 --> 00:21:05,308 - Lemme talk to you. - I'm sick of this (bleep). 490 00:21:05,375 --> 00:21:07,310 - Listen, you focused on the wrong things 491 00:21:07,377 --> 00:21:08,621 because you letting shay off the hook here. 492 00:21:08,645 --> 00:21:10,714 Every time you accuse her something, 493 00:21:10,780 --> 00:21:12,124 you lose your ability to get an answer 494 00:21:12,148 --> 00:21:13,550 that you want from her. - Mm-hmm. 495 00:21:13,617 --> 00:21:16,419 - Remember what we talked about, the bigger fish here 496 00:21:16,486 --> 00:21:19,623 is we trying to figure out what's been going on in total, 497 00:21:19,689 --> 00:21:21,267 and she has given us some insight to that. 498 00:21:21,291 --> 00:21:22,802 We found out shay got a whole nother apartment 499 00:21:22,826 --> 00:21:24,794 we didn't know about, so that's what we said. 500 00:21:24,861 --> 00:21:27,163 Don't get so tied up in your emotions 501 00:21:27,230 --> 00:21:29,532 when you can't really see what's going on. 502 00:21:29,599 --> 00:21:32,402 - Would you be willing to allow us 503 00:21:32,469 --> 00:21:35,639 to come to that dinner with shea? 504 00:21:35,705 --> 00:21:38,408 - I'm not about to meet in a public setting 505 00:21:38,475 --> 00:21:40,086 gettin... keep getting called a ho, a bitch, 506 00:21:40,110 --> 00:21:41,821 a side... I'm not doing, I'm not about to argue... 507 00:21:41,845 --> 00:21:44,814 - I think the conversation now needs to be with shea. 508 00:21:44,881 --> 00:21:46,449 - Right? - In the end, 509 00:21:46,516 --> 00:21:51,254 everybody will have clarity. - That's fine. 510 00:21:51,321 --> 00:21:53,023 - All right? Thank you so much. 511 00:21:53,089 --> 00:21:55,158 - You're welcome. Thank you. 512 00:21:57,494 --> 00:22:00,797 - I heard her say they were going to dinner, so I asked her 513 00:22:00,864 --> 00:22:04,234 if we could come to that dinner, and she said yes. 514 00:22:04,301 --> 00:22:06,469 - I'm angry. You have to understand 515 00:22:06,536 --> 00:22:09,005 as the other woman where I'm coming from. 516 00:22:09,072 --> 00:22:11,641 Sometimes I don't even know that she's going to the place 517 00:22:11,708 --> 00:22:13,686 that she says, I just have to to take her word for it 518 00:22:13,710 --> 00:22:15,478 because that's what I'm used to. 519 00:22:15,545 --> 00:22:19,316 You literally catered to me, and babied me and moded me 520 00:22:19,382 --> 00:22:21,785 to believe that this is who you are 521 00:22:21,851 --> 00:22:24,187 and you're not that person anymore. 522 00:22:24,254 --> 00:22:27,123 - I do think we need to have the conversation with shay. 523 00:22:27,190 --> 00:22:29,759 I think you owe it to yourself. 524 00:22:29,826 --> 00:22:35,699 And I think she, at the very least, owes you some answers 525 00:22:35,765 --> 00:22:38,702 and explanations for her behavior. 526 00:22:41,871 --> 00:22:44,307 And I'm sorry about all of this. 527 00:22:46,142 --> 00:22:51,448 ♪♪♪♪ 528 00:22:54,818 --> 00:22:56,786 ♪♪♪♪ 529 00:22:56,853 --> 00:22:58,798 (Tami) After learning the time and place of cheater shay's 530 00:22:58,822 --> 00:23:03,026 dinner with lover Lex, we're finally on our way. 531 00:23:03,093 --> 00:23:07,063 Gierra is about to catch her longtime partner 532 00:23:07,130 --> 00:23:08,765 in the act of cheating. 533 00:23:08,832 --> 00:23:10,166 (Gierra) I'm very nervous. 534 00:23:10,233 --> 00:23:12,469 My emotions are all over the place. 535 00:23:12,535 --> 00:23:16,106 I had to take a while to process what I saw. 536 00:23:16,172 --> 00:23:17,941 I've invested too much. 537 00:23:18,008 --> 00:23:19,342 So where's my money going? 538 00:23:19,409 --> 00:23:21,444 What are you doing with the money? 539 00:23:21,511 --> 00:23:22,951 And if she's going on shopping sprees 540 00:23:23,013 --> 00:23:24,514 and you have another place, 541 00:23:24,581 --> 00:23:28,518 then my biggest issue is I'm funding this (bleep). 542 00:23:28,585 --> 00:23:31,354 At what point did you think that it was okay 543 00:23:31,421 --> 00:23:33,490 to just take my money and run off? 544 00:23:33,557 --> 00:23:34,991 - So that's a question. 545 00:23:35,058 --> 00:23:36,526 - Oh, I'm definitely gonna ask. 546 00:23:36,593 --> 00:23:40,664 - Okay, because Lex was in on allowing us to come, 547 00:23:40,730 --> 00:23:44,200 brianne has set up cameras throughout the entire place. 548 00:23:44,267 --> 00:23:45,835 - Okay. - Okay? 549 00:23:45,902 --> 00:23:48,705 - So this is what's going on in the restaurant right now. 550 00:23:48,772 --> 00:23:50,740 - (Laughs) Sit down. - Do I gotta sit down? 551 00:23:50,807 --> 00:23:52,709 Can't I just jump up on it... 552 00:23:55,378 --> 00:23:56,947 - Later for sure. 553 00:23:57,013 --> 00:23:59,616 Don't forget about Friday. - What's Friday? 554 00:23:59,683 --> 00:24:02,619 - The flight to Miami. What you looking back for? 555 00:24:04,487 --> 00:24:07,123 (Indistinct chatter) 556 00:24:07,190 --> 00:24:11,561 - I think that we have seen and heard enough. 557 00:24:11,628 --> 00:24:13,430 - More than enough. - More than enough. 558 00:24:13,496 --> 00:24:16,032 So I'm gonna have you go on in. 559 00:24:16,099 --> 00:24:17,834 Alright. - Alright? 560 00:24:17,901 --> 00:24:20,437 ♪♪♪♪ 561 00:24:23,873 --> 00:24:26,810 - Ooh, you smell so good. - Do I? Marc Jacobs. 562 00:24:28,645 --> 00:24:30,280 - Mmm. 563 00:24:30,347 --> 00:24:31,848 Can I just grind on you a little bit? 564 00:24:31,915 --> 00:24:35,085 I just wanna rub on ya a little bit, what? 565 00:24:35,151 --> 00:24:38,121 - What the (bleep) You got going on right here? 566 00:24:38,188 --> 00:24:42,626 - Why did you say to this woman that you were leaving her? 567 00:24:42,692 --> 00:24:44,961 - I never told her that. I (bleep) You, 568 00:24:45,028 --> 00:24:47,697 I made love to you, it's a difference. 569 00:24:55,505 --> 00:24:58,174 (Tami) Welcome back to "caught in the act." 570 00:24:58,241 --> 00:25:00,677 Suspicious lover gierra 571 00:25:00,744 --> 00:25:05,215 has caught her partner shay, in the act of cheating at 572 00:25:05,282 --> 00:25:08,251 a restaurant with her longtime lover Lex. 573 00:25:08,318 --> 00:25:11,688 Is gierra about to get the full story 574 00:25:11,755 --> 00:25:14,391 or will shay be shady? 575 00:25:14,457 --> 00:25:16,826 - What the (bleep) You got going on right here? 576 00:25:16,893 --> 00:25:18,395 Who the (bleep) Is that bitch? 577 00:25:18,461 --> 00:25:20,096 - I don't know. 578 00:25:20,163 --> 00:25:21,474 - Now you don't know who the bitch is? 579 00:25:21,498 --> 00:25:22,999 You were just all up on her (bleep). 580 00:25:23,066 --> 00:25:24,834 - Why the (bleep) Are those cameras here? 581 00:25:24,901 --> 00:25:26,169 I'm goin'... - I'm waitin'. 582 00:25:26,236 --> 00:25:28,004 - Gone, bro. - I need answers... 583 00:25:28,071 --> 00:25:29,306 (Overlapping shouting) 584 00:25:29,372 --> 00:25:30,707 Now you got me (bleep) Up! 585 00:25:30,774 --> 00:25:32,318 (Kevin) I think it's time we get in here. 586 00:25:32,342 --> 00:25:33,782 (Gierra) I don't give a (bleep), man, 587 00:25:33,810 --> 00:25:35,912 answer the question, it's (bleep) Out there now. 588 00:25:35,979 --> 00:25:38,582 You might as well tell me why. 589 00:25:38,648 --> 00:25:42,852 (Overlapping shouting) 590 00:25:42,919 --> 00:25:44,454 What is she? - Business partner. 591 00:25:44,521 --> 00:25:46,156 A business partner. - I'm your 592 00:25:46,223 --> 00:25:48,358 (bleep) Business partner! - Hey, hey, hey... 593 00:25:48,425 --> 00:25:49,960 - You don't get no 'nother one. 594 00:25:50,026 --> 00:25:51,294 - Hey, hey, shay... 595 00:25:51,361 --> 00:25:52,801 - Y'all about to... Y'all about to... 596 00:25:52,829 --> 00:25:53,964 Man, look, bro... 597 00:25:54,030 --> 00:25:55,365 - My name is tami Roman, 598 00:25:55,432 --> 00:25:58,568 and you are on "caught in the act". 599 00:25:58,635 --> 00:26:03,340 So what happened was gierra came to us because she was unsure 600 00:26:03,406 --> 00:26:06,509 about taking her relationship with you to the next level. 601 00:26:06,576 --> 00:26:10,080 - You go to a (bleep) TV show? 602 00:26:10,146 --> 00:26:12,048 Instead of asking me personally? 603 00:26:12,115 --> 00:26:14,317 (Overlapping shouting) 604 00:26:14,384 --> 00:26:15,919 - A private investigator? 605 00:26:15,986 --> 00:26:18,321 Now look at all this messy-ass (bleep) Going on. 606 00:26:18,388 --> 00:26:20,624 (Overlapping shouting) 607 00:26:20,690 --> 00:26:22,325 - since she all twerkin' her... 608 00:26:22,392 --> 00:26:23,727 - She ain't my (bleep), bro! 609 00:26:23,793 --> 00:26:24,995 - It's a business partner! 610 00:26:25,061 --> 00:26:26,539 - I'm your (bleep) Business partner... 611 00:26:26,563 --> 00:26:29,633 - okay, I need everybody to pipe the (bleep) Down! 612 00:26:29,699 --> 00:26:31,167 (Shouting stops) 613 00:26:31,234 --> 00:26:33,212 - You gonna stress me out, tami, I'm telling you that... 614 00:26:33,236 --> 00:26:34,714 - You brought this stress on yourself... 615 00:26:34,738 --> 00:26:36,606 - Oh, hell no, tami. - Sit right here. 616 00:26:36,673 --> 00:26:38,275 - I ain't bring (Bleep) On myself. 617 00:26:38,341 --> 00:26:40,677 - I'm not (bleep) Sitting down, I'm gonna stand up, bro. 618 00:26:40,744 --> 00:26:42,979 (Lex) You just need to tell her everything. 619 00:26:43,046 --> 00:26:44,581 - Shay, you've gotta come sit down 620 00:26:44,648 --> 00:26:47,417 so that we can have this conversation, okay? 621 00:26:47,484 --> 00:26:51,721 So listen, we spoke with Lex earlier today, 622 00:26:51,788 --> 00:26:54,224 and we found out that you guys 623 00:26:54,291 --> 00:26:57,861 have been involved for a year and that you have 624 00:26:57,928 --> 00:27:01,865 another apartment that she comes and visits you at... 625 00:27:01,932 --> 00:27:04,200 - Please don't forget to make sure you tell her 626 00:27:04,267 --> 00:27:05,811 how you've been trying to tell me you love me. 627 00:27:05,835 --> 00:27:08,939 Like, I'm real confused... - Lex, what are you doing? 628 00:27:09,005 --> 00:27:12,342 - What are you doing? - You already (bleep) Know 629 00:27:12,409 --> 00:27:15,712 that who I am, who I'm with and where I'm going. 630 00:27:15,779 --> 00:27:18,114 - Who knows that, 'cause that's not what you be telling me. 631 00:27:18,181 --> 00:27:19,816 - I will give you everything you want, 632 00:27:19,883 --> 00:27:22,452 but you already know I'm going home with the (bleep) Queen 633 00:27:22,519 --> 00:27:23,987 at the end of the day, you know that. 634 00:27:24,054 --> 00:27:26,723 You got your hoes. 635 00:27:26,790 --> 00:27:29,426 - You just said it a week ago that you were leaving her. 636 00:27:29,492 --> 00:27:32,996 - Lex, Lex, come on, was I on patrón? 637 00:27:33,063 --> 00:27:34,164 Was I high? 638 00:27:34,231 --> 00:27:36,099 - Not from the footage I saw. 639 00:27:36,166 --> 00:27:37,601 - What did you see, miss tami? 640 00:27:37,667 --> 00:27:40,937 - I saw you very coherent shopping with Lex. 641 00:27:41,004 --> 00:27:44,207 And she said, when are you gonna leave your little situation? 642 00:27:44,274 --> 00:27:46,343 And you said, I am going to leave it, 643 00:27:46,409 --> 00:27:47,787 I just need a little time. - Know what? 644 00:27:47,811 --> 00:27:49,713 I'm about to walk out because right now 645 00:27:49,779 --> 00:27:50,847 it's three against one. 646 00:27:50,914 --> 00:27:52,782 - It's not three against you. 647 00:27:52,849 --> 00:27:54,484 We're trying to get the answers 648 00:27:54,551 --> 00:27:56,620 that both of these ladies deserve. 649 00:27:56,686 --> 00:27:58,286 And what I'm not gonna allow you to do... 650 00:27:58,321 --> 00:27:59,890 - Don't run now! - What I'm not gonna 651 00:27:59,956 --> 00:28:01,725 allow you to do is deflect, 652 00:28:01,791 --> 00:28:03,293 because I'll take off my (bleep) Shoes 653 00:28:03,360 --> 00:28:04,670 and chase you down the (bleep) Block. 654 00:28:04,694 --> 00:28:06,062 - Baby, you gon' have to chase me. 655 00:28:06,129 --> 00:28:07,440 - We gon' get these answers today. 656 00:28:07,464 --> 00:28:08,865 - I'm giving you the answers! 657 00:28:08,932 --> 00:28:11,468 - Why did you say to this woman 658 00:28:11,534 --> 00:28:14,404 that you were leaving her? - I never told her that. 659 00:28:14,471 --> 00:28:16,015 - We saw it on camera. - I'm not about to leave 660 00:28:16,039 --> 00:28:19,442 the one that I really love... - So why do we have 661 00:28:19,509 --> 00:28:21,444 a meeting on Tuesday to go look 662 00:28:21,511 --> 00:28:23,046 at an apartment to move me here? 663 00:28:23,113 --> 00:28:25,191 - Ain't no relationship, it was never a relationship. 664 00:28:25,215 --> 00:28:26,917 - Okay, so you're staying with her... 665 00:28:26,983 --> 00:28:28,785 - i invest in her, boom, 666 00:28:28,852 --> 00:28:31,212 I took her on a couple of dates, we go on a couple of trips. 667 00:28:31,254 --> 00:28:34,057 That was it. I helped pay for everything that she needs. 668 00:28:34,124 --> 00:28:36,359 That was it. - But do you understand 669 00:28:36,426 --> 00:28:38,495 that that's exactly what you did with gierra 670 00:28:38,562 --> 00:28:40,697 when you first got together? - Hell no it ain't! 671 00:28:40,764 --> 00:28:42,766 I (bleep) You, I made love to you. 672 00:28:42,832 --> 00:28:46,236 It's a difference, period. It ain't the same. 673 00:28:48,738 --> 00:28:51,117 - You've been giving everything you've been claiming you give 674 00:28:51,141 --> 00:28:52,709 to me to this bitch. 675 00:28:52,776 --> 00:28:54,854 - Quit calling me a bitch because I'm not sitting here 676 00:28:54,878 --> 00:28:56,746 calling you a bitch. - We just (bleep) 677 00:28:56,813 --> 00:28:58,782 Then I give her money, that's it... 678 00:28:58,848 --> 00:29:02,018 - You're defending her? - Kevin's gonna go with Lex. 679 00:29:02,085 --> 00:29:04,854 - She stupid as (bleep), man... - Let's get to the bottom... 680 00:29:04,921 --> 00:29:07,757 - You don't know a good thing when you got one, bro. 681 00:29:07,824 --> 00:29:10,660 - Ha, you clearly didn't know that. 682 00:29:10,727 --> 00:29:13,897 - Shay, you say that you love gierra, 683 00:29:13,964 --> 00:29:16,333 and I heard all the "I have sex over there, 684 00:29:16,399 --> 00:29:17,968 and this is who I really love." 685 00:29:18,034 --> 00:29:23,273 What gierra needs to know is why did you feel a need to go 686 00:29:23,340 --> 00:29:25,909 outside of the relationship at all? 687 00:29:25,976 --> 00:29:28,345 - Gierra thinks that I just 688 00:29:28,411 --> 00:29:30,647 (bleep) All the women I get nasty with in the club. 689 00:29:30,714 --> 00:29:33,984 - Well, I have to tell you honestly, she specifically came 690 00:29:34,050 --> 00:29:36,419 because she said I want to take my relationship 691 00:29:36,486 --> 00:29:39,189 to the next level and I just want to be sure. 692 00:29:39,256 --> 00:29:42,525 So all of this is a surprise to her. 693 00:29:42,592 --> 00:29:45,729 - She ain't let me know. - And the thought process that 694 00:29:45,795 --> 00:29:47,898 I didn't do it till she thought I did it 695 00:29:47,964 --> 00:29:52,302 is not the proper way to handle a relationship. 696 00:29:52,369 --> 00:29:54,537 - So it's a lot. - It's a lot a lot. 697 00:29:54,604 --> 00:29:56,282 - What's going through your mind, I mean... 698 00:29:56,306 --> 00:29:59,509 - It's a whole lot of lying, and that's what I don't like 699 00:29:59,576 --> 00:30:01,077 is liars. Like I said when 700 00:30:01,144 --> 00:30:03,747 we all sat down, she could be just saying things... 701 00:30:03,813 --> 00:30:06,049 I've always known that in the back of my head 702 00:30:06,116 --> 00:30:09,452 but I feel like her actions show what she was actually saying, 703 00:30:09,519 --> 00:30:11,821 so that's why I always believed her. 704 00:30:11,888 --> 00:30:13,890 - Tami, how do you expect me to handle that 705 00:30:13,957 --> 00:30:15,768 when somebody always on your back accusing you, 706 00:30:15,792 --> 00:30:18,361 going through your phone, oh, we're calling you 707 00:30:18,428 --> 00:30:19,672 with attitudes and everything... 708 00:30:19,696 --> 00:30:21,197 You (bleep) Up my whole vibe. 709 00:30:21,264 --> 00:30:24,935 - Then you have the conversation or you do what's necessary 710 00:30:25,001 --> 00:30:28,104 to make them feel safe in the relationship. 711 00:30:28,171 --> 00:30:29,739 - I did, that's the problem. 712 00:30:29,806 --> 00:30:31,408 She ain't telling you all that (bleep). 713 00:30:31,474 --> 00:30:34,945 - Do you not understand that I saw video footage of you? 714 00:30:35,011 --> 00:30:36,780 - Of who? With Lex? 715 00:30:36,846 --> 00:30:38,882 - I saw with Lex and I saw with other people... 716 00:30:38,949 --> 00:30:41,117 - No, you ain't seen nothing with nobody else. 717 00:30:41,184 --> 00:30:42,786 - In the club. 718 00:30:44,788 --> 00:30:46,656 - I just felt like we were always building, 719 00:30:46,723 --> 00:30:48,992 like everything that we talked about 720 00:30:49,059 --> 00:30:51,003 or everything that she says that she's gonna do or 721 00:30:51,027 --> 00:30:53,730 that we are gonna do together, like, we've done it. 722 00:30:53,797 --> 00:30:55,966 And I feel like she is very knowledgeable, 723 00:30:56,032 --> 00:30:58,535 especially being older than me, that she could help me. 724 00:30:58,602 --> 00:31:00,613 So I feel like we were just like, building a future. 725 00:31:00,637 --> 00:31:02,315 - I mean, I get that... - And all this right now, 726 00:31:02,339 --> 00:31:03,907 it just kind of (bleep) Everything up. 727 00:31:03,974 --> 00:31:06,409 - I'm tired of arguing. - This isn't gonna get... 728 00:31:06,476 --> 00:31:08,278 - Shay, come here, let me tell you something. 729 00:31:08,345 --> 00:31:10,680 - Damn, are we done, bro? 730 00:31:10,747 --> 00:31:12,658 - Let me tell you something. Let me tell you something. 731 00:31:12,682 --> 00:31:16,186 Now, that woman loves you. 732 00:31:16,253 --> 00:31:18,088 You gotta tell her the truth. 733 00:31:18,154 --> 00:31:19,522 - I can't do that, baby. 734 00:31:19,589 --> 00:31:21,324 - Why not? - I can't do that, tami. 735 00:31:21,391 --> 00:31:22,859 - 'Cause if I do that, 736 00:31:22,926 --> 00:31:24,437 there ain't no chance that she gonna get back with me. 737 00:31:24,461 --> 00:31:25,829 - No, listen, let me tell you this. 738 00:31:25,896 --> 00:31:30,533 If you promise that you are going to go forward 739 00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:33,470 in a relationship that is monogamous, 740 00:31:33,536 --> 00:31:37,707 committed, honest, and 100% truthful with her, 741 00:31:37,774 --> 00:31:41,444 she loves you enough that she will take that journey with you. 742 00:31:41,511 --> 00:31:43,580 - You not 100% sure... 743 00:31:43,647 --> 00:31:45,358 - I know what the (bleep) I'm talking about. 744 00:31:45,382 --> 00:31:46,662 I've been doing this a long time. 745 00:31:46,716 --> 00:31:48,251 - You sure? - I'm positive. 746 00:31:48,318 --> 00:31:49,953 - No matter what the situation is 747 00:31:50,020 --> 00:31:52,055 I will definitely hold her accountable 748 00:31:52,122 --> 00:31:55,025 for all of her actions, because this is not it. 749 00:31:55,091 --> 00:31:56,726 This is not attractive. 750 00:31:56,793 --> 00:31:58,437 - I just want you to stand up for yourself. 751 00:31:58,461 --> 00:32:00,263 Whatever you decide to do. Like, I don't... 752 00:32:00,330 --> 00:32:02,441 I don't want you to be in a situation where you're like, 753 00:32:02,465 --> 00:32:04,110 well, I'm waiting to see what she's gonna do. 754 00:32:04,134 --> 00:32:05,735 - Sit down, please. 755 00:32:05,802 --> 00:32:08,505 We're going to come with the whole truth, 756 00:32:08,572 --> 00:32:11,141 nothing but truth, so help us, god. 757 00:32:11,207 --> 00:32:13,009 Go ahead, shay. 758 00:32:13,076 --> 00:32:16,346 ♪♪♪♪ 759 00:32:16,413 --> 00:32:18,615 - I expected so much more from you. 760 00:32:18,682 --> 00:32:20,383 - I'm done with this (bleep), bro. 761 00:32:20,450 --> 00:32:26,990 Get me the (bleep) Outta here. 762 00:32:28,992 --> 00:32:30,002 - ♪♪ I'm burnt out, I'm tired ♪♪ ♪♪ sick of phonies, sick of liars ♪♪ 763 00:32:30,026 --> 00:32:31,228 ♪♪ I'm paranoid, I'm wired ♪♪ 764 00:32:31,294 --> 00:32:32,538 ♪♪ to the void I put my lighter... ♪♪ 765 00:32:32,562 --> 00:32:35,031 (Tami) Welcome back to "caught in the act." 766 00:32:35,098 --> 00:32:36,433 Sit down, please. 767 00:32:36,499 --> 00:32:37,944 We're going to come with the whole truth, 768 00:32:37,968 --> 00:32:39,736 nothing but the truth, so help us, god. 769 00:32:39,803 --> 00:32:44,174 After having my one on one talk with shay, is she finally ready 770 00:32:44,241 --> 00:32:48,345 to send Lex packing and apologize to gierra? 771 00:32:48,411 --> 00:32:50,313 Go ahead, shay. 772 00:32:53,850 --> 00:32:56,353 - I stepped out on you a few times. 773 00:32:59,489 --> 00:33:02,259 And I'm sorry. 774 00:33:02,325 --> 00:33:04,895 Because you are the person that I see 775 00:33:04,961 --> 00:33:06,730 me spending the rest of my life with. 776 00:33:07,998 --> 00:33:10,834 - You literally broke my heart. 777 00:33:10,901 --> 00:33:13,136 I expected so much more from you. 778 00:33:13,203 --> 00:33:15,272 - And I was going to tell you. - When were you? 779 00:33:15,338 --> 00:33:17,407 Your energy shifted a while ago. 780 00:33:17,474 --> 00:33:19,910 So that's why I felt the need... 781 00:33:19,976 --> 00:33:22,746 - You've been accusing me of this (bleep) From day one. 782 00:33:22,812 --> 00:33:25,382 It's a reason why I did it. 783 00:33:25,448 --> 00:33:28,084 If somebody kept sitting up here accusing you of something... 784 00:33:28,151 --> 00:33:30,387 - So now you're taking it back to the beginning? 785 00:33:30,453 --> 00:33:32,622 Because if we go all the way back to the beginning when 786 00:33:32,689 --> 00:33:34,624 she was accusing you... - You got it, tami. 787 00:33:34,691 --> 00:33:37,861 You all got it. Matter of fact, all y'all. 788 00:33:37,928 --> 00:33:39,896 I'm done with this (bleep), bro. 789 00:33:39,963 --> 00:33:41,565 I am, I'm done with this (bleep). 790 00:33:41,631 --> 00:33:43,867 I'm not even about to sit up here and keep arguing. 791 00:33:43,934 --> 00:33:45,468 - Nobody's arguing. - You right. 792 00:33:45,535 --> 00:33:48,171 - I'm sorry, sitting up here having a debate. 793 00:33:48,238 --> 00:33:50,173 - Okay, so before... (Overlapping arguing) 794 00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:52,309 I need to go 'cause this is getting too much. 795 00:33:52,375 --> 00:33:53,977 - It sure the (bleep) Is. 796 00:33:54,044 --> 00:33:56,146 (Overlapping shouting) 797 00:33:56,213 --> 00:33:58,481 I'm not going home with none of y'all. 798 00:33:58,548 --> 00:34:00,951 Y'all just set me up for some dumb ass (bleep). 799 00:34:01,017 --> 00:34:03,887 Get me the (bleep) Outta here. 800 00:34:03,954 --> 00:34:07,490 - Like, she literally just does what she wants to do. 801 00:34:07,557 --> 00:34:09,859 And that's exactly why I came to you. 802 00:34:09,926 --> 00:34:12,095 - I'm going to go out here. 803 00:34:15,465 --> 00:34:18,235 - Y'all (bleep)... Y'all... Y'all doing too much on here. 804 00:34:18,301 --> 00:34:20,279 - Shay, listen to me... - 'Cause y'all stressing me out 805 00:34:20,303 --> 00:34:21,905 right now, baby. - We stepped to the side 806 00:34:21,972 --> 00:34:24,741 and you said, tami, I want to be with her, right? 807 00:34:24,808 --> 00:34:26,676 - Yes, yes, I did. 808 00:34:26,743 --> 00:34:29,346 So then why are you taking this approach right now? 809 00:34:29,412 --> 00:34:32,582 - Why? 'Cause she don't take me serious when I did tell her. 810 00:34:32,649 --> 00:34:34,117 Why you accusing me of everything? 811 00:34:34,184 --> 00:34:35,952 Why every time I go out and I party 812 00:34:36,019 --> 00:34:37,554 and I deal with different people, 813 00:34:37,621 --> 00:34:39,298 meeting different people, taking pictures with people, 814 00:34:39,322 --> 00:34:40,757 you accuse me of (bleep) 'Em? 815 00:34:40,824 --> 00:34:42,959 That's why I stopped taking her ass to the club. 816 00:34:43,026 --> 00:34:44,394 Now y'all can go write that. 817 00:34:44,461 --> 00:34:46,329 - If you don't want to do the work 818 00:34:46,396 --> 00:34:50,967 to repair what has been broken, 819 00:34:51,034 --> 00:34:52,836 I can't do that for you. 820 00:34:52,903 --> 00:34:54,905 Then I'm gonna get in my little sprinter Van, 821 00:34:54,971 --> 00:34:56,373 and I'm gonna leave. 822 00:34:56,439 --> 00:34:58,708 But that's not how I want to leave the situation. 823 00:35:00,677 --> 00:35:03,079 - What we gotta do? - I think you guys should have 824 00:35:03,146 --> 00:35:05,081 a conversation. - About what? 825 00:35:05,148 --> 00:35:07,117 - Gierra. - No, no. 826 00:35:07,183 --> 00:35:09,519 It's not gonna work. She already hyped up. 827 00:35:09,586 --> 00:35:11,855 Y'all done brought her in on a whole (bleep)... 828 00:35:11,922 --> 00:35:13,957 While Lex was there, she's gonna be hyped. 829 00:35:14,024 --> 00:35:16,860 - You've gotta stop thinking about what happened from 830 00:35:16,927 --> 00:35:18,967 your perspective, and think about how she's feeling. 831 00:35:19,029 --> 00:35:21,164 - Man, gierra's not about to calm the (bleep) Down. 832 00:35:21,231 --> 00:35:23,031 I can tell you that now. - She's calm already. 833 00:35:23,066 --> 00:35:25,268 - No, she's not. - She's calm already. 834 00:35:25,335 --> 00:35:27,237 Do you want to be with her? - Yes, I do. 835 00:35:27,304 --> 00:35:29,606 I'm deeply in love with her, that's my baby. 836 00:35:29,673 --> 00:35:30,953 - Then that's what you gotta say. 837 00:35:31,007 --> 00:35:32,475 - That's my baby. 838 00:35:34,811 --> 00:35:36,980 - Okay, so was that it? 839 00:35:37,047 --> 00:35:39,883 Because I'm over the whole situation. 840 00:35:39,950 --> 00:35:41,251 I'm just over it. 841 00:35:41,318 --> 00:35:43,220 - Is there anything else you wanna say to Lex? 842 00:35:43,286 --> 00:35:44,487 - Don't call me. Don't text me. 843 00:35:44,554 --> 00:35:46,456 - You don't call me! I don't care. 844 00:35:46,523 --> 00:35:48,592 That's fine. - We done. 845 00:35:48,658 --> 00:35:50,393 - Lesson learned. 846 00:35:51,828 --> 00:35:54,664 - It wasn't never nothing serious between me and Lex, 847 00:35:54,731 --> 00:35:56,075 so I don't even know why she even said that. 848 00:35:56,099 --> 00:35:59,169 - Okay. Going forward, though, 849 00:35:59,236 --> 00:36:03,840 the work has to be done by you two. 850 00:36:03,907 --> 00:36:05,842 You gotta be able to hear each other, 851 00:36:05,909 --> 00:36:08,545 and more importantly, listen to each other. 852 00:36:09,846 --> 00:36:13,783 Shay says that she loves you with all her heart 853 00:36:13,850 --> 00:36:16,753 and she does want to be in a relationship with you. 854 00:36:16,820 --> 00:36:22,659 Both of you guys have been hurt, but before this moment, 855 00:36:22,726 --> 00:36:27,464 there was love, respect, and trust in the relationship. 856 00:36:27,530 --> 00:36:29,165 - I agree. - But, shay, 857 00:36:29,232 --> 00:36:31,735 this behavior cannot continue. 858 00:36:31,801 --> 00:36:35,538 If this woman puts down her guard and her defenses 859 00:36:35,605 --> 00:36:38,275 and forgives you because of her love for you, 860 00:36:38,341 --> 00:36:41,811 you cannot abuse that again. 861 00:36:41,878 --> 00:36:43,413 You have to make her feel safe, 862 00:36:43,480 --> 00:36:45,448 and she has to make you feel safe, 863 00:36:45,515 --> 00:36:48,718 that's y'all collectively doing the work together. 864 00:36:51,054 --> 00:36:53,323 Are you able to have a brief conversation with her 865 00:36:53,390 --> 00:36:54,891 without yelling? - Yeah. 866 00:36:54,958 --> 00:36:56,493 - Okay, we're gonna step aside. 867 00:36:56,560 --> 00:37:01,464 ♪♪♪♪ 868 00:37:09,506 --> 00:37:11,408 - ♪♪ I did it all for you ♪♪ 869 00:37:11,474 --> 00:37:14,544 ♪♪ and you know it's true, so tell me what I do ♪♪ 870 00:37:14,611 --> 00:37:18,815 ♪♪♪♪ 871 00:37:18,882 --> 00:37:19,816 (Shay) I'm sorry. 872 00:37:19,883 --> 00:37:21,084 I hurt you feelings. 873 00:37:21,151 --> 00:37:23,720 I'm sorry for everything. 874 00:37:23,787 --> 00:37:26,056 I really do love you, 875 00:37:26,122 --> 00:37:28,491 and I appreciate everything you do. 876 00:37:28,558 --> 00:37:31,895 ♪♪♪♪ 877 00:37:31,962 --> 00:37:33,997 - You still did what you did. 878 00:37:34,064 --> 00:37:36,066 - I felt like you were smothering me. 879 00:37:36,132 --> 00:37:37,968 But it's no excuse for what I did. 880 00:37:38,034 --> 00:37:40,403 And I'm sorry, and I wanna start over. 881 00:37:40,470 --> 00:37:43,006 If you allow me, I will make it into you. 882 00:37:44,874 --> 00:37:46,810 You my queen, you my maw-maw. 883 00:37:46,877 --> 00:37:49,346 - I don't know, I need some time. 884 00:37:54,417 --> 00:37:57,053 - I definitely do not want to be with her anymore. 885 00:37:57,120 --> 00:37:59,122 I hate that shay is lying. 886 00:37:59,189 --> 00:38:02,559 And I definitely regret coming down this road 887 00:38:02,626 --> 00:38:05,929 and going so far and being as open as I was with her. 888 00:38:05,996 --> 00:38:07,264 I'm not a side bitch. 889 00:38:07,330 --> 00:38:10,567 I come second to zero to nobody. 890 00:38:10,634 --> 00:38:12,235 - Man, that thing with Lex. 891 00:38:12,302 --> 00:38:14,371 - She knew what she was getting into, 892 00:38:14,437 --> 00:38:18,275 to some extent, but I still found myself feeling bad for her 893 00:38:18,341 --> 00:38:21,211 because you can tell what may have started as fun, 894 00:38:21,278 --> 00:38:24,581 she developed feelings, and she really thought 895 00:38:24,648 --> 00:38:29,319 that shay was leaving her relationship for her. 896 00:38:29,386 --> 00:38:31,154 - An apology would've been warranted. 897 00:38:31,221 --> 00:38:34,224 But shay, she loves gierra, and she felt like 898 00:38:34,291 --> 00:38:36,927 she wasn't being hear in the relationship, now... 899 00:38:36,993 --> 00:38:38,428 - Yeah. - Even if gierra 900 00:38:38,495 --> 00:38:41,164 made a decision today to walk away from shay, 901 00:38:41,231 --> 00:38:44,067 I want to just instill in them 902 00:38:44,134 --> 00:38:47,404 the proper tools to be able to go forward 903 00:38:47,470 --> 00:38:49,606 and hopefully they can do it in a healthy manner. 904 00:38:49,673 --> 00:38:50,974 - Hopefully so. 905 00:38:51,041 --> 00:38:53,076 (Shay) Gierra got my heart. 906 00:38:53,143 --> 00:38:55,412 Gierra got my mind, my body, and my soul. 907 00:38:55,478 --> 00:38:56,980 That's really my queen. 908 00:38:57,047 --> 00:38:58,982 That's my maw-maw, man. 909 00:38:59,049 --> 00:39:01,151 - I have mixed emotions. 910 00:39:01,218 --> 00:39:05,288 I feel like she is forthcoming about the situation. 911 00:39:05,355 --> 00:39:07,257 She finally decided to take accountability, 912 00:39:07,324 --> 00:39:09,759 so maybe we can see what the future holds. 913 00:39:09,826 --> 00:39:12,395 But I'm glad that I was able to find out the truth. 914 00:39:14,965 --> 00:39:17,400 - ♪♪ Yeah, I wish it wasn't over ♪♪ 915 00:39:17,467 --> 00:39:21,037 ♪♪ but I knew it was over, can we start over? ♪♪ 916 00:39:21,104 --> 00:39:22,439 (Tami) It's been a few months 917 00:39:22,505 --> 00:39:24,708 since I've actually spoken to gierra, 918 00:39:24,774 --> 00:39:28,545 so I'd like to check in and see how things are going. 919 00:39:28,612 --> 00:39:30,113 Hey, gierra. 920 00:39:30,180 --> 00:39:31,915 - Hey, tami. How are you? 921 00:39:31,982 --> 00:39:33,416 - I am doing well. 922 00:39:33,483 --> 00:39:36,353 I know a lot happened the last time we were together, 923 00:39:36,419 --> 00:39:39,456 so I said, let me do a little check in, 924 00:39:39,522 --> 00:39:40,957 enough time has passed. 925 00:39:41,024 --> 00:39:43,260 Let me see how she's handling everything. 926 00:39:43,326 --> 00:39:46,062 So are you still with shay? 927 00:39:47,864 --> 00:39:49,633 Oh, wow... 928 00:39:49,699 --> 00:39:51,201 - Hi, tami! 929 00:39:51,268 --> 00:39:55,205 - Shay done slid in on the call. 930 00:39:55,272 --> 00:39:57,140 - Yes, indeed, this is is my baby. 931 00:39:57,207 --> 00:39:58,441 She ain't going nowhere. 932 00:39:58,508 --> 00:39:59,943 - No more Lex, 933 00:40:00,010 --> 00:40:02,112 nothing else getting in the mix? 934 00:40:02,178 --> 00:40:04,214 - No, ma'am. That's it, that was done. 935 00:40:04,281 --> 00:40:07,584 I'm done, she got the password to my phone. 936 00:40:07,651 --> 00:40:11,087 I take her anywhere she want to go. 937 00:40:11,154 --> 00:40:14,190 - And gierra, what have you been doing to make sure 938 00:40:14,257 --> 00:40:17,227 that shay feels safe in the relationship? 939 00:40:17,294 --> 00:40:18,962 - Learning how to trust her more. 940 00:40:19,029 --> 00:40:22,532 Like, I don't wanna pull the strings so tight on her 941 00:40:22,599 --> 00:40:25,902 that she feels like she's suffocating. 942 00:40:25,969 --> 00:40:29,406 - So you guys definitely still are doing business together. 943 00:40:29,472 --> 00:40:33,410 - Yes, tami, shay has me coming to every event 944 00:40:33,476 --> 00:40:35,745 and is always right by my side. 945 00:40:35,812 --> 00:40:37,547 - Okay, okay. 946 00:40:37,614 --> 00:40:39,849 - But she did tell me I would have to go to counseling 947 00:40:39,916 --> 00:40:42,252 with her, and she want me to make this work. 948 00:40:42,319 --> 00:40:44,187 So I agreed. - I love it. 949 00:40:44,254 --> 00:40:46,289 This is a win-win for everybody. 950 00:40:46,356 --> 00:40:49,092 All right, guys, it's been good talking to you. 951 00:40:49,159 --> 00:40:51,194 I'm happy that all as well. 952 00:40:51,261 --> 00:40:53,496 - Bye, tami, bye! - Bye, y'all! 953 00:40:53,563 --> 00:40:55,332 - Bye! 954 00:40:57,167 --> 00:40:59,202 - Cheaters, beware. 955 00:40:59,269 --> 00:41:02,038 Next time you want to be unfaithful, think again, 956 00:41:02,105 --> 00:41:09,079 because I just might catch you in the act. 957 00:41:11,514 --> 00:41:15,034 - I know you reached out to me because you feel like your lover leanne is being unfaithful. 958 00:41:15,785 --> 00:41:17,454 - Bro, what the (bleep)? 959 00:41:17,520 --> 00:41:18,755 (Knocking) 960 00:41:18,822 --> 00:41:20,523 - You're supposed to be her cousin. 961 00:41:20,590 --> 00:41:22,759 That's what she told me! - Not a cousin! 962 00:41:22,826 --> 00:41:24,694 - You've been sleeping with my man? 963 00:41:24,761 --> 00:41:27,430 - Girl, if anything, you can thank me. 964 00:41:27,497 --> 00:41:31,101 - Sit the (bleep) Down and tell this man the truth. 965 00:41:45,181 --> 00:41:50,186 ♪♪♪♪ 966 00:42:10,740 --> 00:42:13,109 - ♪♪ Mtv ♪♪