- ♪♪ MTV ♪♪
- I'm Tami Roman.
I have been cheated on before.
You [bleep] my man when I was married to him.
I even wrote a book about it.
And I've made it my mission to help suspicious lovers
catch their cheating partners in the act.
- You know what's been going on ever since--
- You're disrespectful as [bleep].
- What is this?
- Oh!
- Together with my relationship expert...
- She just slept with him last night.
Is that the kind of guy that you wanna be with?
- And stealthy investigation team...
- What do we have here? She's busted now.
- We won't stop until we find the truth.
Are you sure you wanna see this footage?
Once our investigation is complete,
the suspicious lover can team up
with the partner's other lover...
- I think we have a person in common.
- Or take down both of them in an undercover ambush.
- That's what the [bleep] we're doing, Katie?
- We're not together.
- So I'm not taking care of your kids at the crib?
- Cheaters, beware.
- Why do you have cameras? - Consider them my team.
- You put her in a position to act like it.
- Do you want him?
- Both of you are the victim of deception.
- Do you see him taking his [bleep]?
- He's taking what?
- Tami!
Tami!
- Nobody should think they're better than anybody else
because y'all all [bleep] been played.
And that's just the truth.
This is "Caught in the Act: Unfaithful."
- ♪♪ That's why we fly so high ♪♪
♪♪ We stay on top of the world ♪♪
- ♪♪ We on top of the world ♪♪
♪♪ We on top of the world, the world ♪♪
- Hello, there.
- Hi! Oh, my goodness, Tami!
- How are you? - I'm amazing. How are you?
Girl, you look gorgeous.
- It's good to meet you.
- It's a pleasure to meet you.
Oh, my goodness.
Let me tell you, I have looked up to you
for a very, very long time. - Really?
- Yeah, because I feel like you're such a strong woman.
So I'm like, I'm with the right person today, for sure.
- Thank you for that.
So before we find out what's going on--
and I do wanna hear all about it,
but I wanna find out a little bit more about you.
- Growing up, I was always, you know,
this rambunctious, flamboyant, expressive kid.
You know, I had some struggles, you know,
being gay, dealing with just with, you know,
bullying in school.
So I've always had to let a bitch know
you're not gonna play with me. - I know that's right.
- You know what I'm saying? - So when did you come out?
- I came out when I was 18 years old.
My mom was in the living room, and I
just pulled her to the backyard and was like, Mom, I'm gay.
You know, she started crying.
She told me that the reason why it's not because I was gay,
but just because she didn't want me to feel like I had to,
like, hide a life away from her.
- Now, you had both parents in your household?
- Yeah, one thing for me is, I've always had,
like, a strong, like, family foundation.
They have always been so supportive.
- I know it gave you a sense of freedom,
like, oh, this is lifted off.
I can just be me. - Absolutely.
- So tell me about Arthur.
Like, what--what is his background?
- So Arthur, he is adopted.
- So how did y'all meet?
- On a dating app, actually.
- Oh, these dating apps. - I know, girl.
I know. And the thing is--
- Ugh.
- And he actually wanted to make it official
and date me before we actually met in person.
- Wow. - Right.
So I was like, well, I'm not dating you
before I see you in person. You crazy?
- Were there relationships before him?
- Well, he was my first real guy relationship.
And we even lost our virginities to each other.
- That's what I was gonna ask you.
So you--did you guys cross that milestone together?
- I'm gonna keep it G. It was the first time
that we hung out.
It was. I'm not a ho, Tami. I promise.
- You gave up the booty cat on the first night!
- I did. I mean, I did.
- What is going on?
- It just felt right.
- What was so special about Arthur?
Like, what attracted you to him?
- It was this, like--
I like cute guys who don't, like, know
that they're cute like that.
- And was he already out?
- No, Tami.
No, he was not even out.
- So did he then come out? - He did.
- Oh, okay.
It did make us stronger together.
- So y'all have been together how long?
- Eight years. - Eight years?
- We've been together eight years, yes.
This December will be nine years.
- What has been the road like over the eight years?
Any plans for marriage, kids?
- We're saving up to get our forever home, that,
like, white picket fence, our pet, and finally, my mama will
get her grandkids in a way--
in a way that she don't know, but she'll get there.
- Yeah, yeah, yeah.
So it sounds like everything was going good.
And then clearly, something changed
because you're sitting here today.
- Right. - Well, what changed?
- Well, first off, the sex was different.
We would do it five or six times a day, for real.
- Child, that's too much sex.
- It is a lot, but that's--
we--we like doing it. - That's what y'all was doing.
So wet to dry, five to three?
Five to one? Five to none?
- So maybe twice or three times a week.
- Ah. - So that's different.
If you're not [bleep] me down, who are you [bleep] down?
- Yeah, where is it--yeah. - You know what I'm saying?
And he was leaving, and he wanted
to go to the barber shop. It was weird.
You know, we go to the barber shop together.
It's like a bonding thing that we do.
Oh, babe, it's time to get a haircut.
Let's both go. - Yeah.
- This particular time, he wanted to go alone.
- Mm. - And I'm just like, okay.
And I told him I left my charger in his car.
So I put my phone under his seat
so I could track my phone to see wherever he was going.
I tracked it.
And this fool, he went to a health clinic
before he went to the barber shop.
- Okay. - I don't know what for,
so now I'm just like, what the hell would he go there for?
And, you know, with my lifestyle
and with what I do, you know--
- I was reading your bio, and it was like, he models.
He's always out, always somewhere doing something.
- No, yeah, absolutely.
But I recently took him with me on a job
because I was like, you know what?
Let me--
- Show you my world. - Show you my world.
Let me bring you into what I do.
And so you can actually be there versus me
just telling you how it was.
He met some people on set, met a photographer.
His name is Vonny. Okay? - Okay.
Him and Vonny even, you know, started to talk a little bit
on a surface level.
You know, nothing too crazy, nothing without me.
- So are you telling me all of this to gear me up
to say that that's who you think
Arthur might be cheating with?
- I mean, Tami, only because it was a time
where he was sleep, right?
He was sleep.
- And you just looked at that phone.
- I did. I had to, Tami.
It was like--it was like a opportunity
that I couldn't pass up on.
It was like God was telling me, you know you
wanna go through that phone. - God ain't told you that.
- Ah!
Okay, maybe it was the devil who told me that.
I did it.
And it was a contact under the name of Sean.
- Okay.
- I never heard of a Sean before.
- Yeah.
- So I went to the number, and then
when I typed it in my phone, the name that popped up
in my phone was Vonny.
Right, right.
- So him and Vonny been talking the whole time.
- Exactly. And I went to the messages.
So I'm like, okay, like, what have y'all been talking about?
No messages there.
[dramatic music]
- So if you were to find out that Arthur
was doing something, what would that do for your relationship?
- [sighs] Tami.
I don't know, Tami.
I just--I don't play about somebody who--
who I see as a soulmate.
As the years have, you know, started progressing,
we definitely have talked about marriage.
And I felt like he was the right person this whole time.
So for him--for me to even think that he might
not be that person is like--
So.
- You not gonna sit on this couch
and get teary-eyed because then you gonna make me teary-eyed.
- I don't even wanna do it.
- That's what we not gonna do today because I just
see so much strength in you.
So let me tell you how this works, okay?
- Okay.
- So what happens is, I download this conversation
to my investigation team.
- Okay.
- And they surveil Arthur, all of his activity.
You guys have a home together. - Yes.
- If you would allow us to put cameras in the home
because you travel a lot.
When you're gone, then we can see what
Arthur's doing when you're not home.
- I want you to put a camera in every nook
and cranny of that house, okay?
- So that if anything is going on, we can catch it.
- Absolutely. - Okay.
- You know, I wanna say thank you
for taking the time out to help me and figure this out with me.
- Absolutely. - Absolutely, yes.
Thank you, Tami. - All right.
- ♪♪ Pretty lies, pretty lies ♪♪
♪♪ Pretty itty-bitty lies ♪♪
♪♪ All the time on my mind ♪♪
♪♪ Pretty, pretty, pretty lies ♪♪
- All right.
All right, it's day one of our investigation
out here at Marquis and Arthur's crib.
We were able to get in the house
yesterday with the permission of Marquis
since he is out of town to go ahead and put
cameras up and microphones up.
Good to go.
I just got on location.
He's not here.
So the waiting game begins.
[upbeat music]
♪♪ ♪♪
And jackpot.
That is him right there.
Okay, so he's going into the house.
So since I have eyes and ears on the inside of this house,
I'm gonna go ahead and see what's going on.
He's a gamer, so he's playing some kind of game.
[suspenseful music]
♪♪ ♪♪
We've been here for a couple of hours now.
Okay, hell, he done turn the TV.
He got bored.
Hell, I'm bored too.
Where are you going?
Okay, you going in the bedroom.
[bleep] Okay, there he go.
Oh, he changed, okay.
Bingo, there he goes.
Now we're gonna see where this takes us.
♪♪ ♪♪
All right, look like we done pulled up at a restaurant.
This might be his work place.
Perfect.
All right, I'm gonna go in and scope the area out.
But for this, what I'm gonna do is just go ahead
and use these glasses here.
These are my spy cam glasses.
It has a microphone and a camera.
So I'll be definitely able to pick up
audio and see what's going on.
- Ah.
All right, real interesting.
They touchy-feely.
It could be something. It could be nothing.
I gotta find out, you know, what's--
what's going on with this.
♪♪ ♪♪
Oh, [bleep].
All right.
Mr. Arthur is leaving.
And we got to get on him.
♪♪ ♪♪
So he's at home.
I do got eyes and ears inside of the residence.
♪♪ ♪♪
- Hold on.
- [bleep] That's not Marquis.
Who the hell are you talking to?
- Who in the hell was that?
[tense music]
- All right, surveillance day number two.
Right now we just waiting out here on this curb.
My man Arthur wasn't really doing that much.
He just laid around the house.
Oh, okay, there he go.
There he go right there.
So let's--let's get ready.
And we know that he's going somewhere.
[upbeat music]
♪♪ ♪♪
You stopping?
I wanna slow down.
Where are we going?
Okay, we're stopping here.
[suspenseful music]
♪♪ ♪♪
Who is this?
Somebody at the door.
What the hell?
And he got luggage.
All right, let's see where we go.
Where are y'all going?
We are turning on your street.
We going back to they house.
All right.
Yeah, that's you, Arthur.
- All right, I need to find out who you are.
- ♪♪ Burnt out, bitch, I feel like Hellcat tires ♪♪
♪♪ Liars, don't like 'em, gon' set they ass on fire ♪♪
♪♪ Pinky ring bussin', killin' bitches, Mike Myers ♪♪
- Tami, good to see you.
You all right? - Same here.
I am doing well. How about yourself?
- Doing well. Doing well.
- Marquis and Arthur.
- Yes, they've got some history together.
- A lot of milestones were reached
between the two of them. - I know.
- That's important to Marquis.
- And just like in any relationship,
milestones matter.
You know, my wife still remembers our first date.
Now, I don't, but she does.
- You don't?
- Just to smooth--
- That's a violation, Ken.
And he's here.
Hey there, Marquis.
- Hi, love. - How are you?
You look so cute. - Thank you.
So do you.
Flawless, as always. - Good seeing you.
- Good to see you too.
- This is my friend, Coach Ken.
- Hi, Coach Ken. I'm good.
Nice to meet you as well.
I'm Marquis.
- Have a seat over there, babe.
How have you been?
- It's been--
- Probably hard to act normal, huh?
- Yeah, yeah, the anticipation has been--been building up.
- Which is why I invited Coach Ken.
- Okay.
- Because he's our resident relationship expert,
and he is here to help you process
what you may see that may not sit well with you.
- Okay.
- But I have to ask you before we start,
what I'm about to show you could
change your relationship with Arthur going forward forever.
So I wanna make sure you definitely wanna see it.
- I need to see it.
Just rip the Band-Aid off for me.
- Okay, here we go.
We started our surveillance once he gets into the vehicle.
- Okay.
- Well, I'm sure you know this route because this is
his place of work, we found out.
So we sent our investigator inside to place an order.
- He got a tip for him.
This guy is really close to him.
- That coworker is--
- Very comfortable.
- Very, very comfortable. - Very comfortable.
- It's his work husband.
- Why is this man so comfortable with my man?
- I don't know.
We hang out all day, and clearly, he's getting off work,
gets in the vehicle.
- Okay, okay.
- Once he gets in the house, he ends up on a phone call.
- Marquis is what?
- Marquis is right here.
- Excuse me?
Tami, he was not talking to me.
- No, because he told that person you were gone.
- Okay. Is there more to see, Tami?
- There's more to see. - Okay.
- Our next day of surveillance, he actually
went to this location.
- Okay.
- And then this gentleman comes out.
Do you know who that is?
- Okay, okay, that--
you know what? [bleep]! I'm [bleep] done.
I'm not doing this. I'm not doing this.
[bleep]. I'm not doing this.
- I'm not doing this. Tami, I'm sorry.
I cannot do this. I can't do this.
I'm not stupid.
That was Vonny on that screen.
It's--
- Okay, well, if that was your reaction on just seeing him,
I'm scared because I don't know what you gonna do
if you see the rest of the stuff.
- Is there more footage with-- with this [bleep] in it?
- You want me to answer you?
[tense music]
- Tami, let's go back. - Okay.
Are you sure?
You're not gonna tear my place up?
- Tami, I'm not gonna tear your place up.
- Okay. - Now I wanna see.
Fix this damn [bleep] chair.
Okay.
Back at my house.
- Nice [bleep]. I know that [bleep] is nice.
Because a bitch worked hard as [bleep] for it, that's why.
- Wait, wait, wait, wait.
Is there rose petals on this floor?
- So, yes, there are rose petals.
There is wine.
- Wait, there's pizza and wine.
There's not just wine, Tami.
There's pizza and wine.
Tami, do you know I have never came home to pizza and wine
waiting for me after I got off work?
Tami, Tami.
Okay, so they feeding each other.
Oh, God.
- I know. I know.
- They seem very, very comfortable.
- Yeah.
- Arthur knew when I was gonna be gone, and this was planned.
- It's like, how long have they been sneaking away?
- Exactly.
- I'm Booboo the [bleep] fool.
- I know you're upset.
- Where's my pizza and wine?
- The truth is, human beings do things for two reasons.
Either it's going to give them pleasure,
or it's going to help them avoid pain, either one.
At the end of the day, that's why we do it, all right?
Let's focus on what happened and why it happened.
And then we can go from there.
- Okay.
Let me get close, bitch.
- This was the next morning.
He stayed over all night.
And Vonny--
- This was going on?
This what going on?
- Now that I know this is him, he doesn't seem to give a damn.
- Vonny doesn't give a [bleep].
- Vonny's being totally disrespectful.
- He doesn't give a [bleep].
You know you in my [bleep].
- Actually, he's really-- - When are you leaving?
- Tami, rewind that real quick.
Can I--can I--can I hear closely what he just
asked him, please?
- You leaving me?
Let me listen. - Just--just--
- I need to know--
- Just hear it all. - Okay, all right.
- After last night, I'm probably pregnant.
[bleep] in my bed.
- Wait a minute. Wait a minute.
- Why is he taking pictures of him?
What is he wearing?
Tami.
Tami, I can't. [bleep] this [bleep], Tami.
How can they do this, Tami?
Oh, my God.
- Come on and sit down. - Tami.
- I want you to come on and sit down.
- I can't, Tami. I cannot.
Look at this foolishness.
He don't even wear this [bleep].
- Marquis, let's just watch. We almost done.
- I'm done!
- So clearly, they having sex.
- Wait.
Oh, my God.
- And once it went there, we decided
we would stop the surveillance because it was too personal.
- That was more than enough to see.
- Is he trying to turn Arthur into a model?
Like, what's all these photo shoots and stuff?
Isn't that your lane? - He has--
Arthur does not get in front of the camera for nobody.
- Well, you do know why they're doing that, right?
- No. - Let me explain this.
Anybody in a relationship, especially in a cheating
relationship, if I can get you to do something
that the person you're with is unwilling to do,
I exert a level of control.
Now, what that is, is now we share something--ha-ha--
that even the other person doesn't share.
Now that creates an element of control.
- When I came out, it was very sudden, only because
Arthur gave me the ultimatum.
And the fact that I loved him so much, I was,
you know, willing.
I didn't even think twice about it and came out to my parents
when he wasn't even out yet. - Oh.
- And that was another thing that I wanted to do,
just to prove, like, I'm-- I'm here for you.
I'm here for us.
Now I'm feeling like it was for no reason.
I feel like I should have came out with somebody else.
- You came out for yourself. - For yourself.
- You came out for yourself.
It just so happens that--that he may have been the catalyst
to push you in that direction.
But you just came into a new revelation of who you are.
- But you've gotta decide
what it is you want to do, okay?
So we have something around here called a team-up
where you could go to Vonny, have a conversation with him,
and then the two of you can go and have
a conversation with Arthur.
Or I can have my investigation team get back on surveillance,
see if we can catch them two together again.
And then, should they be, we can come and pick you up
so that you can go have a conversation
and catch them in the act.
That's called a takedown.
- They're both disrespectful as [bleep].
I want to catch both of them.
I wanna do the mother[bleep] takedown.
- So you want a takedown, then that's
exactly what will happen.
I gotta get my team back out there to do more surveillance.
If they find them together,
then I'ma come get you, okay? - Okay.
- But you gotta keep it-- you gotta keep it cool.
- Yeah, I'll be waiting. I'll be waiting.
- All right.
- All right, y'all, I will see y'all very, very soon, okay?
Thank you so much.
- ♪♪ 24/7 I been here grinding ♪♪
♪♪ Early in the morning ♪♪
♪♪ Here, gotta get it ♪♪
- The investigation team has found them together.
So we're on our way to get Marquis now.
- Okay. - So let's go get him.
- I can understand why he was upset.
I mean, that betrayal is--
is the next level.
- I said, wow, you brought this man into your house,
in your bed, where you have to sleep
with your supposedly life partner.
- Right. - The disrespect of that.
- Is monumental.
[tense music]
♪♪ ♪♪
- That's him.
So we pulling up on him.
- Hey there, sir.
Come on in. Come on.
Have a seat. - Hello, Tami.
Hello, hello.
- You look very nice. - Thank you.
- So, as promised, I told you that once my investigation team
notified me of Arthur and Vonny being together
that I would contact you.
So what happened was, was the investigation team
has found the two of them together at this club.
So we had decoys go inside so that we can see everything
that's going on inside.
- Okay.
♪♪ ♪♪
- Okay, so we are here at this lounge.
What I would like to offer you is an opportunity for you
to look at what's going on.
And then when you feel like you're ready, you can go on in,
have the conversation. - Okay.
- Ken and I will still be monitoring
everything that's going on.
And if we feel like we need to step in,
then we'll be right there to support you.
- I love that idea. [sighs]
I hope I haven't came off disrespectful to y'all.
- No, not at all.
- At this point, y'all have been such a good team to me.
Now the ball is in my court, so let's play ball.
- So let's take a look at what's going on inside.
- Okay, let's do that, Tami.
- Oh, shoot.
- This is a joke.
Can I go? Can we go?
- Let me--let me let you out, all right.
- Thank you.
[tense music]
- [bleep]
- Oh, I think that's gonna send him to the moon.
This is not gonna go well. - This ain't gonna go well.
- So what's up? So what's up?
Vonny, bring that ass here.
Watch out. Watch out, ho.
You a weak-ass bitch. You want him?
You want him, bitch?
Come and get this heat.
Come downstairs.
- I need everybody to calm down.
Listen, y'all, we're not gonna get anywhere
if y'all don't let me explain.
Marquis came to me because he thought there was some--
- Watch out, bitch.
- Oh, lord, child.
- Bitch, what's up?
- Arthur, can you be calm?
I would love them to be able to have a conversation
with you and Marquis.
- Yeah, everything's happening so fast, and I want y'all to be
able to have a conversation.
But I've got to tell you, you're on a show
called "Caught in the Act," okay?
It airs on MTV.
And Marquis came to me because he felt
there was infidelity in your relationship.
So we put you under surveillance.
We've been watching you.
And we know everything that has gone on between you and Vonny.
So that is why he's upset--
- Tired of this [bleep].
- And wants to figure out what's happening
in your relationship.
Are you willing to have a conversation with him?
- Yes.
- Okay, okay.
Marquis? - Tami.
- Okay, we're gonna try to have a conversation.
Are you able to come over here calm?
- [exhales]
- Come on. - Let's walk.
He got a tight grip on me. Let's go.
- Let's go.
Let's go hear what he has to say.
So we saw you on camera
engaging in sexual activities with Vonny, okay?
There was a lot of kissing. There was rose petals.
It was all of these things that were going on.
He just wants to know why you felt a need
to step outside of the relationship.
- Address Miss Roman and don't address me.
- I feel like he has been tripping
over a lot of [bleep] things. - Okay.
- We've had a lot of [bleep] problems
in our [bleep] relationship. - Okay.
- Now I'm like the one that's just doing it just--
just because he's already [bleep] accusing me of [bleep].
- Okay, okay, so--so your answer is you decided to betray
your partner because your partner
was accusing you of betrayal?
Is that the answer?
- Yes or no?
[tense music]
- You decided to betray your partner because your partner
was accusing you of betrayal?
Is that the answer?
- Yes or no? - Yes.
- Bitch!
- What was it about Vonny--
- You can tell that I didn't dress you.
- That you decided he'd be the person
that you would engage with,
considering Marquis is the person
that introduced y'all? - I'm not gonna lie.
I initially wanted.
- Okay, let me come talk to you because I want
to hear what you have to say.
- How long have y'all been doing this?
How long?
- We've been [bleep] for two years now.
- What?
- Yes, my love. Well, yes, my--my guy.
- Just call me Coach.
But we saw you in their house.
- We was [bleep] before this lifetime.
- Right, yeah, but he trusted you.
- Who?
- Marquis trusted you. - To take his pictures.
- All he said to me was how much he cares for you,
how much he loves you, and that he saw his forever with you.
You guys did a lot of things...
- We've been together for eight years.
- As firsts together. Exactly.
- But then he started doing things that broke
my trust and stuff like that.
So then I started becoming the way that I did become.
- And when you say he did things to break your trust,
what were those things?
- One day, we were at the gym, and I went through his phone,
and I seen that he was flirting
with two photographers and, like--
- So you really feel in your heart of hearts that he
has cheat--even though I just asked him,
even though there was--
- Regardless if it's actually sexual things or just
you're flirting with somebody, you're allowing,
then that's the case.
- And then now enter Vonny.
Why Vonny?
- He actually values the things that I do,
and he actually respects me.
- What if Arthur decides that, I wanna go back to Marquis?
And what if he decides that what you and him--
what y'all had was just a fling?
Are you good with that? - I do love that man.
- So you love him? - I love him.
This man done got me pregnant.
Bitch, I love Arthur.
I don't know what him and Marquis got going on,
but, bitch--
- You do know what they got.
You--okay. - I love him.
- All that child stuff, okay, fine, if that's
what you wanna go with.
- Even before the baby, I love him, you feel me?
We done talk about marriage.
He just need to leave that old bitch, and he can--
- Okay, but look, I'm gonna go in,
and we're gonna get to the bottom of this.
- Is Vonny somebody you wanna be with?
- I love Vonny, and I respect Vonny, but I just--
I'm at a conflict.
Vonny been wanting me to, like, cut things off with Marquis,
but I just don't know.
- My guy, I see you taking it off.
I see you taking off your necklace.
- Only because I almost just lost my watch right now.
So I'm not losing nothing else.
- I don't want you to.
I found out some interesting stuff.
- Okay.
- I found out that they've been doing this for two years.
Hold, hold. Hold. Hold. - No, stop. Don't stop me.
- Did I give you everything? - Okay.
- Let me give you everything. Let me give you everything.
So that way, at least you know, okay?
He says he loves Arthur.
- Oh, really? - Yes, okay?
And I just want you--
- He wants to be with Arthur? - That's what--
- Is that what he wants to do? - that's what he says.
- Are you gonna start with me, or are you gonna calm down?
- Can I sit next to my man, on my man?
I ain't gonna-- I ain't gonna kill you.
Just let me sit.
Let me sit, baby.
- The thing is, if you were the person in the relationship
with Arthur and Marquis was on the other side of things
like you are, would you want someone that you to know to--
- It wouldn't happen to a baddie.
Baby, can you lose your husband?
Bad bitch a bad bitch.
- I don't want you to take this as a game,
because people's feelings are involved.
Now, he really does care for you and have feelings for you,
but he also has feelings for Marquis.
You understand? - You think there's confusion?
- Ask him does he wanna leave Marquis and be with you.
- Are you confused about something?
- I am confused.
- What are we doing here?
- Real talk.
You still love him, don't you?
- I can't even--I can barely even stand up right now.
- At the end of the day, I see you hurting.
And what we wanna do is, we wanna get you to a point
where you say, you know what?
I can love again.
I can trust you.
- You got me looking silly.
Got bitches running up on me, like,
and you said you was leaving him.
- So is that what's going on or...?
- I mean, I would like to talk to Marquis.
- You gotta talk to Marquis?
- I need to talk to Marquis.
- Let's go. Let's go talk to Marquis.
- I want--I want you to be cool for--just be cool, okay?
- Okay.
- Are you able to have a conversation now
that Ken has calmed you down?
- I can have a conversation with him.
- Okay.
So how about we all line up here?
- You come over here.
You sit right there.
- I did have a good conversation with Arthur.
- Excuse me, Tami, bitch, I deserve
to be a part of this conversation.
Chill out, my [bleep]. Chill out, my [bleep].
Look at you.
Coming in here with your Timbs on.
Bitch, you wanna be me?
- Hey, God [bleep] damn it!
I am tired of all of this [bleep]
that's happening here right now.
And if you cannot be the [bleep] quiet,
then I'm gonna need you to get the [bleep] out.
Thank you.
- Can I tell you, Tami, what I found out?
These two, according to this gentleman,
they've been seeing each other for two years.
- So you guys been surveilling us for two years?
- No, we haven't been surveilling you for two years.
- Let the experts talk. Thank you.
- I think what y'all tend to do is
point the finger at each other.
Every story that y'all tell, the other person is at fault.
The other person is to blame.
The other person is the reason why,
which is why he ended up with Vonny.
Because Vonny is the complete opposite.
- Complete opposite, my [bleep].
I'm nothing like you, baby.
- You are nothing like me. You never will be.
- A whole badder bitch.
- Tami, can we shut this weak- ass, ratchet-ass bitch up?
[tense music]
- Can we shut this weak-ass, ratchet-ass bitch up?
Bitch, what's up? What's up, bitch?
What's up?
- [bleep] punk-ass, [bleep] ass,
dirty-ass, dusty-ass [bleep].
- We were just about to get somewhere.
- We were. - I know, I know, I know.
- But this is what happens when lowlife,
scummy-ass bitches that don't got nothing to lose
comes in a space with me.
- Before Vonny came in, I wanted to really get
you guys to be able to talk through how
you both were feeling. - Hold on. Stay right there.
- Because I need for Marquis to understand
why you ended up with Vonny.
Come here, Marquis.
- Come on, man. - I got the--what?
What? I go the what? - I don't know what!
- What? - I don't need that.
- I had to get my lead back.
- I just want you guys to have a conversation about
how he ended up with Vonny. - Okay.
- Now, the truth of the matter is,
you can't take nobody that don't wanna be took.
Right? - Right.
Definitely. - Okay?
And in this moment, I think he was
confused on whether he wanted to stay
or not because he loves you.
But then if you treat him a certain way,
then that makes him feel like it's not safe.
And maybe I should be over here where
I do feel a little more safe.
So how can we get him to feel safe
in the relationship with you?
Because I know that you love him too.
- There are a couple of things going on here that I see.
- Okay. - Number one, I wanna know,
are you committed because of the history
that you guys have had? Because--
- Marquis is my first-ever very serious relationship.
It took a very long time for me to ever cheat on him.
- I get that.
But you've been in a relationship
for two years with Vonny.
And so my whole thing is,
if you're going to be with each other,
you've gotta be willing to take accountability for what you do.
- Let me ask you this.
Even with everything that you've seen
and now having this very transparent
conversation with Arthur, do you wanna be with him?
- Marquis, I love you.
- Oh, man.
Do you wanna be with Vonny?
- Do you want to be with Vonny?
- I--
- Or are you letting Vonny go?
- I'm letting Vonny go. - You're letting Vonny go.
So he doesn't wanna be with Vonny.
Do you wanna be with Arthur?
[tense music]
- [sighs] I do.
Tami, I do.
I don't--I don't know how I'm gonna look past this.
I don't think that you could put a Band-Aid over this.
- How about you don't make a decision today?
I've--I've worked with a lot of couples who--
who have had infidelity.
And believe me, it's the betrayal of it all
that is devastating.
Now, can they restore the relationship?
Absolutely.
You have to rebuild from the bottom again.
And you gotta decide whether or not
you wanna do that work.
- So on that note, I'm out.
I think y'all gotta talk.
- Okay. - It'll be all right.
Y'all talk it through.
Thank you for your transparency.
- You brought me on a [bleep] television show
because I cheated on you? - Sure did.
This is just so crazy for me because I never
thought that I'd have to deal with this.
But today I had to do that.
I don't let people play with me.
There is no way that I was gonna sit here
and I was gonna let Arthur and Vonny play in my face
and think that they was gonna get away with that.
- I think this could have been prevented.
I feel like before he did this, he could have came
and talked to me about [bleep].
- You know, I'm a Kentucky country bitch,
and they always say you get 'em how you lose 'em.
So if I could do everything again,
I would do that [bleep] again the same way.
- For all you bitches out there who
wanna breakup happy homes, just know that it's gonna
come back to you tenfold, and just know that the bitch
that's leaving is winning.
- ♪♪ I guess I can't take it all back ♪♪
♪♪ Put it all down in the grave, ah ♪♪
♪♪ Wish I wasn't so damn sad ♪♪
♪♪ Put it all back in my head ♪♪
- Oh, my goodness!
You two are still together?
- Girl, yes. - Wow.
I asked you, are you going to be with Arthur?
And you were like, I don't know, child.
Swoops bang.
I gotta take some time. [laughs]
- So I felt like that it was something
that we could work through, just because I didn't
wanna throw away nine years.
I took some time to be by myself.
Arthur took some time to-- to be by hisself.
And we did decide to move forward--
- And get back together.
- We are now moving into a new place
and are working on a lot of us and our future plans together.
- Oh, I love that.
Let's talk about Vonny, child, because Vonny was a lot.
- Neither of us are in contact with him, right, Arthur?
- No, no. - Right?
- [laughs] That was gonna be my question,
but you handled it nicely. [laughs]
Let me ask you this.
Do you feel like you learned anything
about yourself from going through this process?
- I just feel like it has been an eye opener.
Just being more--more of an ear to my partner.
- I feel like I learned to just
have the hard conversations.
I feel like now me and him are able to be more open
and talk about things that I feel like were very hard
for me to talk about before.
- Oh, okay, so you guys have actually benefited
from going through this journey?
- Yes, yes, thanks to-- thanks to you and Coach K.
Yeah, for real.
- Yay!
- We really appreciate everything.
- Oh, so make sure I get invited to the wedding
and all of that stuff because I feel like y'all gonna
make this thing work.
- At the right time, it definitely will happen.
- Yay. Good to see you guys together.
- Thank you.
- Yes, and it's great talking to you.
- Yes, you too, Tami. Thank you so much.
We love you. - Love you more. Bye.
- Bye-bye, Tami.
- Cheaters, beware.
- We're not together.
- What the [bleep] is you talking about?
- Next time you wanna be unfaithful, think again.
- Where are you going?
- Because I just might...
This is a mess. Come on, Ken. - All right.
- Catch you in the act.
- But I'm not caught in the act!
- We've seen it all.