1 00:00:01,969 --> 00:00:04,538 - ♪♪ MTV ♪♪ 2 00:00:04,604 --> 00:00:06,173 - I'm Tami Roman. 3 00:00:06,240 --> 00:00:08,475 I have been cheated on before. 4 00:00:08,542 --> 00:00:11,245 You [bleep] my man when I was married to him. 5 00:00:11,312 --> 00:00:13,046 I even wrote a book about it. 6 00:00:13,113 --> 00:00:16,850 And I've made it my mission to help suspicious lovers 7 00:00:16,917 --> 00:00:18,518 catch their cheating partners in the act. 8 00:00:18,585 --> 00:00:19,786 - You know what's been going on ever since-- 9 00:00:19,853 --> 00:00:21,455 - You're disrespectful as [bleep]. 10 00:00:21,521 --> 00:00:22,790 - What is this? 11 00:00:22,856 --> 00:00:24,157 - Oh! 12 00:00:24,224 --> 00:00:26,894 - Together with my relationship expert... 13 00:00:26,961 --> 00:00:28,796 - She just slept with him last night. 14 00:00:28,863 --> 00:00:30,697 Is that the kind of guy that you wanna be with? 15 00:00:30,764 --> 00:00:33,300 - And stealthy investigation team... 16 00:00:33,367 --> 00:00:35,869 - What do we have here? She's busted now. 17 00:00:35,936 --> 00:00:38,872 - We won't stop until we find the truth. 18 00:00:38,939 --> 00:00:41,542 Are you sure you wanna see this footage? 19 00:00:41,608 --> 00:00:43,843 Once our investigation is complete, 20 00:00:43,910 --> 00:00:45,679 the suspicious lover can team up 21 00:00:45,746 --> 00:00:47,481 with the partner's other lover... 22 00:00:47,548 --> 00:00:49,282 - I think we have a person in common. 23 00:00:49,349 --> 00:00:52,586 - Or take down both of them in an undercover ambush. 24 00:00:52,653 --> 00:00:53,621 - That's what the [bleep] we're doing, Katy? 25 00:00:53,687 --> 00:00:55,356 - We're not together. 26 00:00:55,422 --> 00:00:57,090 - So I'm not taking care of your kids at the crib? 27 00:00:57,157 --> 00:00:58,792 - Cheaters, beware. 28 00:00:58,859 --> 00:01:02,095 - Why do you have cameras? - Consider them my team. 29 00:01:02,162 --> 00:01:04,465 - You put her in a position to act like it. 30 00:01:04,532 --> 00:01:05,832 - Do you want him? 31 00:01:05,899 --> 00:01:08,002 - Both of you are the victim of deception. 32 00:01:08,068 --> 00:01:09,970 - Do you see him taking his [bleep] pic? 33 00:01:10,037 --> 00:01:10,938 - He's taking what? 34 00:01:11,005 --> 00:01:12,206 - Tami! 35 00:01:12,272 --> 00:01:14,041 Tami! 36 00:01:14,108 --> 00:01:16,343 - Nobody should think they're better than anybody else 37 00:01:16,410 --> 00:01:18,411 because y'all all [bleep] been played. 38 00:01:18,478 --> 00:01:20,780 And that's just the truth. 39 00:01:20,847 --> 00:01:24,084 This is "Caught in the Act: Unfaithful." 40 00:01:29,523 --> 00:01:30,858 - ♪♪ Got it like, got it like ♪♪ 41 00:01:30,925 --> 00:01:31,925 ♪♪ Got it like, got it like this ♪♪ 42 00:01:31,992 --> 00:01:32,893 ♪♪ Want to take a swing? ♪♪ 43 00:01:32,960 --> 00:01:33,860 ♪♪ No, I never miss ♪♪ 44 00:01:33,927 --> 00:01:34,928 ♪♪ Got it down bad ♪♪ 45 00:01:34,995 --> 00:01:36,430 ♪♪ Yeah, you want a kiss ♪♪ 46 00:01:36,497 --> 00:01:37,430 ♪♪ Because I'm that chick on everybody list ♪♪ 47 00:01:37,497 --> 00:01:38,498 ♪♪ Got it in the bag ♪♪ 48 00:01:38,565 --> 00:01:39,466 ♪♪ They wonder what it is ♪♪ 49 00:01:39,533 --> 00:01:40,901 ♪♪ Everybody minds ♪♪ 50 00:01:40,967 --> 00:01:43,604 - Hello, Miniyah. - Hi. 51 00:01:43,671 --> 00:01:45,772 - How are you? - I'm good. Hello, beautiful. 52 00:01:45,839 --> 00:01:47,607 - It's a pleasure meeting you. - Pleasure meeting you as well. 53 00:01:47,674 --> 00:01:49,910 - Thank you so much for coming. 54 00:01:49,977 --> 00:01:52,212 So let's talk. 55 00:01:52,279 --> 00:01:55,216 First, I want to get to know a little bit more about you. 56 00:01:55,282 --> 00:01:56,116 - OK. 57 00:01:56,183 --> 00:01:57,251 I'm a medical assistant. 58 00:01:57,318 --> 00:02:00,454 I am a single mom of two boys. 59 00:02:00,520 --> 00:02:01,722 They are Irish twins, 60 00:02:01,788 --> 00:02:03,524 so they are the same age for eight days. 61 00:02:03,590 --> 00:02:05,025 - I have Irish twins. 62 00:02:05,091 --> 00:02:06,594 - Do you? - I do. 63 00:02:06,660 --> 00:02:09,029 My daughters are the same age but a little further apart. 64 00:02:09,096 --> 00:02:10,397 Yeah. - OK. 65 00:02:10,464 --> 00:02:12,700 - So tell me about your-- your upbringing. 66 00:02:12,766 --> 00:02:15,002 - I got some rough parts because my mom was rough, 67 00:02:15,068 --> 00:02:16,336 you know? 68 00:02:16,403 --> 00:02:18,339 So I had to be home by the streetlights 69 00:02:18,405 --> 00:02:20,474 or it was a problem. [laughter] 70 00:02:20,541 --> 00:02:22,109 That's what it was. - I come from that too. 71 00:02:22,176 --> 00:02:23,543 - And you would think I would stay out of trouble. 72 00:02:23,610 --> 00:02:24,711 [laughs] 73 00:02:24,778 --> 00:02:26,012 - But you didn't, I'm getting the feeling. 74 00:02:26,079 --> 00:02:27,281 - I was just sassy. 75 00:02:27,348 --> 00:02:30,451 - Oh, yes, you know, I learned quick. 76 00:02:30,517 --> 00:02:31,852 Yeah. 77 00:02:31,919 --> 00:02:35,455 So now I want to know about your first relationship. 78 00:02:35,522 --> 00:02:37,291 - So my mom moved me when I was 14. 79 00:02:37,357 --> 00:02:38,291 - OK. 80 00:02:38,358 --> 00:02:39,827 - And so I met my kids' father, 81 00:02:39,893 --> 00:02:44,598 and I loved him because he was a good friend to me. 82 00:02:44,665 --> 00:02:47,367 But I really have been a lesbian my entire life. 83 00:02:47,434 --> 00:02:49,203 - Oh. - I knew I was different. 84 00:02:49,270 --> 00:02:50,871 I just was afraid to be different. 85 00:02:50,937 --> 00:02:52,172 - Wow. 86 00:02:52,239 --> 00:02:53,774 Let's fast forward a little bit. 87 00:02:53,841 --> 00:02:56,710 The relationship that you're here to talk to me about, 88 00:02:56,777 --> 00:02:59,713 how did y'all meet, and what's that person's name? 89 00:02:59,780 --> 00:03:01,081 - Her name's Jay. 90 00:03:01,148 --> 00:03:02,415 - Jay. 91 00:03:02,482 --> 00:03:03,951 - We met social media, actually, 92 00:03:04,017 --> 00:03:05,452 through some friends. - OK. 93 00:03:05,519 --> 00:03:07,321 So how long have you and Jay been together now? 94 00:03:07,388 --> 00:03:09,556 - So we've been together since 2016. 95 00:03:09,623 --> 00:03:13,460 - How long before you guys decide to make it official? 96 00:03:13,526 --> 00:03:15,595 - Meh, lesbian relationships move really fast. 97 00:03:15,662 --> 00:03:18,865 Um... - Baby, when you say quick-- 98 00:03:18,932 --> 00:03:22,503 - With her, it took maybe about six or seven months 99 00:03:22,570 --> 00:03:24,071 before we decided to give a title. 100 00:03:24,137 --> 00:03:26,073 - That's still a good length of time. 101 00:03:26,140 --> 00:03:27,541 So before you tell me how it changed, 102 00:03:27,607 --> 00:03:29,676 tell me how it was, how it started. 103 00:03:29,743 --> 00:03:30,911 - Amazing. 104 00:03:30,978 --> 00:03:33,246 Like I said, instantly charming 105 00:03:33,313 --> 00:03:35,149 and very charismatic. 106 00:03:35,215 --> 00:03:36,350 And she was a sweetheart. 107 00:03:36,416 --> 00:03:38,585 It was just--we were-- 108 00:03:38,652 --> 00:03:39,920 we meshed very well. 109 00:03:39,987 --> 00:03:41,388 Like, she understood me. 110 00:03:41,454 --> 00:03:43,890 I'm the type of person where if I'm having a bad day, 111 00:03:43,957 --> 00:03:47,260 I completely forget my bad day once I see her face. 112 00:03:47,327 --> 00:03:48,528 - What does Jay do? 113 00:03:48,595 --> 00:03:51,498 - She's a dancer, a stud dancer. 114 00:03:51,565 --> 00:03:52,766 - I'm sorry? 115 00:03:52,833 --> 00:03:55,069 - It's like a Magic Mike for--for--for gay women. 116 00:03:55,135 --> 00:03:57,003 - Oh. - Yeah. 117 00:03:57,070 --> 00:03:58,238 [laughs] 118 00:03:58,305 --> 00:04:00,207 - It's a lane for everything. 119 00:04:00,274 --> 00:04:01,608 - Yeah, I discovered it later on in life. 120 00:04:01,675 --> 00:04:03,643 - You said a stud dance. - Yeah. 121 00:04:03,710 --> 00:04:05,011 - So Jay is a stud? 122 00:04:05,078 --> 00:04:06,881 - Yes. - OK. 123 00:04:06,947 --> 00:04:08,015 - She dresses like a guy, 124 00:04:08,082 --> 00:04:09,316 but she doesn't want to be a guy. 125 00:04:09,383 --> 00:04:10,984 - Right. - Yeah. 126 00:04:11,051 --> 00:04:12,219 - Understood. 127 00:04:12,285 --> 00:04:14,221 See, I could never date a stripper. 128 00:04:14,288 --> 00:04:16,090 Like, it wouldn't-- it wouldn't work for me. 129 00:04:16,157 --> 00:04:17,157 - I'm not gonna say I'm jealous, 130 00:04:17,224 --> 00:04:18,225 but I'm very possessive. 131 00:04:18,292 --> 00:04:19,626 I'm not a sharer-er. 132 00:04:19,693 --> 00:04:21,128 I didn't do Barney where sharing is caring. 133 00:04:21,195 --> 00:04:22,429 - You don't play well in the sandbox. 134 00:04:22,496 --> 00:04:23,497 - I don't know caring-- - With others. 135 00:04:23,564 --> 00:04:24,665 - Right. 136 00:04:24,732 --> 00:04:26,500 - And so what was that conversation, 137 00:04:26,567 --> 00:04:28,635 like, when you guys finally talked 138 00:04:28,702 --> 00:04:30,871 about what she does for a living? 139 00:04:30,938 --> 00:04:31,972 - It was, why? 140 00:04:32,039 --> 00:04:33,573 Is it something you just like, 141 00:04:33,640 --> 00:04:35,810 or is it something you do because you need money? 142 00:04:35,876 --> 00:04:37,778 Like, help me understand. 143 00:04:37,844 --> 00:04:39,713 She was like, I like it. You know what I'm saying? 144 00:04:39,780 --> 00:04:41,215 I feel like I'm an entrepreneur. 145 00:04:41,281 --> 00:04:42,516 I feel like I bring in my own coins. 146 00:04:42,582 --> 00:04:45,185 Once we did get into a relationship, 147 00:04:45,252 --> 00:04:47,087 it was just like, be respectful. 148 00:04:47,154 --> 00:04:49,323 - Yes. - Respect my feelings. 149 00:04:49,389 --> 00:04:51,191 - And respect that you in a relationship. 150 00:04:51,258 --> 00:04:53,327 - Yeah, and once we had that, we were good. 151 00:04:53,393 --> 00:04:54,762 So I started to manage her. 152 00:04:54,828 --> 00:04:56,396 That's how she tried to make me feel included. 153 00:04:56,463 --> 00:04:59,266 - Oh, you were managing the stud dancing? 154 00:04:59,333 --> 00:05:00,834 - Yeah, because I started to book her. 155 00:05:00,900 --> 00:05:02,303 - Got it. - Pick the venue, 156 00:05:02,370 --> 00:05:03,504 make sure the safety was in check. 157 00:05:03,571 --> 00:05:05,205 - Got it. - I started to make sure 158 00:05:05,272 --> 00:05:06,807 her wardrobe was already set, 159 00:05:06,873 --> 00:05:09,242 things that I approved of because, you know-- 160 00:05:09,309 --> 00:05:11,078 - Yeah, just making sure your woman is 161 00:05:11,144 --> 00:05:12,246 respecting the relationship. 162 00:05:12,313 --> 00:05:14,048 And had she met your children? 163 00:05:14,115 --> 00:05:16,617 - OK, so because I'm a at-home mom 164 00:05:16,683 --> 00:05:19,386 and my kids live with me, you're gonna meet my children. 165 00:05:19,453 --> 00:05:21,755 So it took about four months for her to meet my kids. 166 00:05:21,821 --> 00:05:23,023 I think-- 167 00:05:23,090 --> 00:05:24,191 - Four months is not enough time to know 168 00:05:24,258 --> 00:05:25,225 it's gonna be something. 169 00:05:25,292 --> 00:05:26,259 - That's very true. 170 00:05:26,326 --> 00:05:28,195 I think my mindset was, though, 171 00:05:28,262 --> 00:05:29,530 a lot of lesbians go in, 172 00:05:29,596 --> 00:05:30,864 and when they bring someone, it's like, oh, 173 00:05:30,931 --> 00:05:32,833 you're gonna be the new parent to my child. 174 00:05:32,899 --> 00:05:34,368 That was never my intention. 175 00:05:34,435 --> 00:05:36,537 They have a relationship with their father. 176 00:05:36,604 --> 00:05:38,873 You're here to be my companion, but you have to get along 177 00:05:38,939 --> 00:05:39,940 with my kids as well. 178 00:05:40,007 --> 00:05:41,074 - Right. 179 00:05:41,141 --> 00:05:43,744 So six years have gone by now, 180 00:05:43,811 --> 00:05:46,914 and you are here with me 181 00:05:46,980 --> 00:05:51,051 to say something's wrong in this relationship. 182 00:05:51,117 --> 00:05:52,319 - Mm-hmm. 183 00:05:52,386 --> 00:05:54,355 It came to a point where I was asked 184 00:05:54,422 --> 00:05:57,057 not to come to the gigs anymore like I used to. 185 00:05:57,124 --> 00:05:58,459 "Ah, you just do too much for me." 186 00:05:58,526 --> 00:06:00,227 Mind you, I'm sitting here watching. 187 00:06:00,293 --> 00:06:01,761 You just feel like you under surveillance. 188 00:06:01,828 --> 00:06:03,897 "Oh, I feel like you're my PO officer." 189 00:06:03,964 --> 00:06:05,466 - And you felt a shift. 190 00:06:05,533 --> 00:06:07,034 What else shifted? 191 00:06:07,100 --> 00:06:10,037 - Birthdays, holidays, things that we spent together 192 00:06:10,104 --> 00:06:13,840 that was important to us wasn't so important anymore. 193 00:06:13,907 --> 00:06:15,842 Then it became a, "Oh, it's all about your kids. 194 00:06:15,909 --> 00:06:17,144 I don't fit." 195 00:06:17,210 --> 00:06:18,545 - Well, you know, some people feel like 196 00:06:18,612 --> 00:06:20,848 when they get into relationships, right, 197 00:06:20,915 --> 00:06:23,817 children, if they don't have children themselves, 198 00:06:23,884 --> 00:06:28,455 they feel like the children are a distraction. 199 00:06:28,522 --> 00:06:29,857 And that's unfortunate. 200 00:06:29,923 --> 00:06:35,262 So have you had a conversation to ask Jay, 201 00:06:35,329 --> 00:06:37,597 are you cheating? 202 00:06:37,664 --> 00:06:39,099 - I've asked on many occasions. 203 00:06:39,166 --> 00:06:40,134 - And what she say? 204 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:42,269 - I'm insecure. 205 00:06:42,336 --> 00:06:43,971 "You too worried about what I do. 206 00:06:44,037 --> 00:06:45,038 "Maybe that's what it is. 207 00:06:45,105 --> 00:06:46,173 You can't take what I do." 208 00:06:46,240 --> 00:06:47,240 This ain't got nothing to do-- 209 00:06:47,307 --> 00:06:48,842 - So she tries to flip it on you 210 00:06:48,909 --> 00:06:50,611 and basically act like what you see, 211 00:06:50,677 --> 00:06:53,246 what you feel you know is not happening. 212 00:06:53,313 --> 00:06:54,748 - Correct. 213 00:06:54,814 --> 00:06:57,218 - You guys live together? - Not anymore. 214 00:06:57,284 --> 00:06:58,552 I was at work and got a text message 215 00:06:58,619 --> 00:07:01,688 about how she need her space. 216 00:07:01,755 --> 00:07:03,991 - How long has this been going on? 217 00:07:04,057 --> 00:07:05,960 - It's been about 10 months. 218 00:07:06,026 --> 00:07:07,361 - OK. 219 00:07:07,427 --> 00:07:12,265 So you now are sitting here 220 00:07:12,332 --> 00:07:16,570 wanting to get proof, validation, 221 00:07:16,636 --> 00:07:18,638 you know, be armed with information 222 00:07:18,705 --> 00:07:20,807 on something I think you know already. 223 00:07:20,874 --> 00:07:22,943 - See, the problem that I have with Jay is, 224 00:07:23,010 --> 00:07:24,812 if I come to you direct and just say, OK, 225 00:07:24,878 --> 00:07:27,214 well, go ahead, do you and move on, 226 00:07:27,281 --> 00:07:29,083 "Why is that the only thing with you? 227 00:07:29,149 --> 00:07:31,786 You so quick to pack up and just say, no, I'm gone." 228 00:07:31,852 --> 00:07:34,655 If I'm in my house and I don't answer her phone call, 229 00:07:34,722 --> 00:07:37,124 I could be in the bathroom or in the kitchen, 230 00:07:37,190 --> 00:07:38,592 baby, she at the door 231 00:07:38,659 --> 00:07:40,094 or she's calling me a million and one times. 232 00:07:40,160 --> 00:07:41,295 - OK. 233 00:07:41,362 --> 00:07:42,629 - So here goes the pushing me out 234 00:07:42,696 --> 00:07:43,797 and pulling me back in, 235 00:07:43,864 --> 00:07:44,965 and it's like I'm being in limbo 236 00:07:45,032 --> 00:07:46,599 because I'm constantly asking you, 237 00:07:46,666 --> 00:07:48,969 and we constantly going in this circle of BS. 238 00:07:49,036 --> 00:07:50,571 - Mm. OK. 239 00:07:50,638 --> 00:07:52,906 Do you still want to be in the relationship with Jay? 240 00:07:52,973 --> 00:07:54,308 - I do. 241 00:07:54,375 --> 00:07:56,877 I love her very much because I adore her as a person. 242 00:07:56,943 --> 00:07:59,446 I realize that when I weighed our pros and our cons, 243 00:07:59,513 --> 00:08:00,848 you're good for me as a person. 244 00:08:00,915 --> 00:08:03,217 This just might be a bad space in your life 245 00:08:03,284 --> 00:08:05,085 where you don't know how to maneuver. 246 00:08:05,152 --> 00:08:07,254 I feel like it's things that can be worked out. 247 00:08:07,321 --> 00:08:09,590 - Is there somebody in particular that you think 248 00:08:09,656 --> 00:08:11,125 she could be cheating with? 249 00:08:11,192 --> 00:08:13,160 - No, but I know her line of work. 250 00:08:13,226 --> 00:08:15,863 And again, she can be a flirtatious individual 251 00:08:15,930 --> 00:08:16,964 during her work. 252 00:08:17,030 --> 00:08:18,365 - Mm-hmm. 253 00:08:18,431 --> 00:08:20,934 So--OK, so you want me to figure out 254 00:08:21,001 --> 00:08:22,903 what's going on in your relationship. 255 00:08:22,969 --> 00:08:24,338 I absolutely can do that. 256 00:08:24,404 --> 00:08:25,773 - Mm-hmm. 257 00:08:25,839 --> 00:08:27,674 - So what I would need for you to do 258 00:08:27,741 --> 00:08:30,878 is send me a list of all of Jay's favorite places 259 00:08:30,945 --> 00:08:34,481 so that we can put some surveillance on her 260 00:08:34,548 --> 00:08:37,317 and see what's happening in her day to day. 261 00:08:37,384 --> 00:08:39,753 In the meantime, you be normal, 262 00:08:39,819 --> 00:08:42,289 and I will call you should I get anything. 263 00:08:42,356 --> 00:08:43,958 - OK. - OK? 264 00:08:44,024 --> 00:08:46,527 - ♪♪ Ay, ay, I'm just running with my crew ♪♪ 265 00:08:46,594 --> 00:08:48,061 ♪♪ I'm just running with my crew ♪♪ 266 00:08:48,128 --> 00:08:49,529 ♪♪ Steady working, making moves ♪♪ 267 00:08:49,596 --> 00:08:51,998 ♪♪ Aw, yeah, you money ♪♪ 268 00:08:52,065 --> 00:08:54,034 - Day one. 269 00:08:54,101 --> 00:08:56,770 We've got Jay and Miniyah. 270 00:08:56,837 --> 00:09:00,107 Miniyah reports that Jay has moved out of the home 271 00:09:00,174 --> 00:09:03,343 that they share and is staying with her cousin. 272 00:09:03,410 --> 00:09:06,146 We couldn't put cameras in the home, so what we've done 273 00:09:06,212 --> 00:09:09,984 is set up a private appointment with Jay. 274 00:09:10,050 --> 00:09:12,352 So Jay will meet up with our decoy, 275 00:09:12,419 --> 00:09:16,089 and hopefully, we can get an idea 276 00:09:16,156 --> 00:09:19,259 of what's going on in these private dances. 277 00:09:19,326 --> 00:09:22,329 [tense music] 278 00:09:22,396 --> 00:09:24,164 ♪♪ ♪♪ 279 00:09:24,231 --> 00:09:26,634 OK. 280 00:09:26,700 --> 00:09:31,038 So she's taking off, which means I'm taking off too. 281 00:09:31,105 --> 00:09:37,544 ♪♪ ♪♪ 282 00:09:38,812 --> 00:09:41,282 It looks like she's pulled in to park 283 00:09:41,348 --> 00:09:43,917 in front of a restaurant. 284 00:09:48,322 --> 00:09:49,690 Looks like I'm going in, 285 00:09:49,757 --> 00:09:51,992 so I'm gonna take in the glasses. 286 00:09:52,059 --> 00:09:54,361 These little spy cams are always a good disguise. 287 00:09:54,428 --> 00:09:55,595 It gives us a good view. 288 00:09:55,662 --> 00:10:00,867 ♪♪ ♪♪ 289 00:10:17,151 --> 00:10:23,123 ♪♪ ♪♪ 290 00:10:23,190 --> 00:10:25,793 Hold on a second, checks files, because nowhere 291 00:10:25,859 --> 00:10:28,995 under place of employment was a restaurant listed. 292 00:10:29,062 --> 00:10:33,166 This is like a secret job that her partner doesn't know about, 293 00:10:33,233 --> 00:10:35,402 her business partner doesn't know about. 294 00:10:39,806 --> 00:10:42,576 OK. 295 00:10:42,643 --> 00:10:44,511 We've got movement. 296 00:10:44,578 --> 00:10:51,651 ♪♪ ♪♪ 297 00:10:54,154 --> 00:10:57,190 We have arrived at our destination. 298 00:10:57,257 --> 00:11:00,327 Now I got a little spot here to tuck into and wait 299 00:11:00,394 --> 00:11:03,063 for the magic to happen. 300 00:11:03,130 --> 00:11:07,101 ♪♪ ♪♪ 301 00:11:07,167 --> 00:11:10,070 So I've got Jay going in. 302 00:11:10,137 --> 00:11:12,273 Perfect. 303 00:11:12,339 --> 00:11:17,811 Now, I've already preset cameras at this location, 304 00:11:17,878 --> 00:11:19,546 remembering that all three of these "customers" 305 00:11:19,613 --> 00:11:21,481 are actually my decoys. 306 00:11:24,151 --> 00:11:25,952 - Yeah. 307 00:11:26,019 --> 00:11:27,988 - That's a--I don't know what you call it. 308 00:11:28,054 --> 00:11:30,424 I do it at the gynecologist's office for my pap smear, 309 00:11:30,491 --> 00:11:32,493 but she's doing it. 310 00:11:32,559 --> 00:11:35,462 [chattering and cheering] 311 00:11:35,529 --> 00:11:38,465 [upbeat music] 312 00:11:38,532 --> 00:11:43,503 ♪♪ ♪♪ 313 00:11:43,570 --> 00:11:45,672 So this is specifically set up 314 00:11:45,739 --> 00:11:47,173 because Miniyah had some questions 315 00:11:47,240 --> 00:11:50,878 about what went on at these appointments. 316 00:11:50,944 --> 00:11:54,080 And in all honesty, she's just providing the service 317 00:11:54,147 --> 00:11:55,582 I would expect for her to provide. 318 00:11:55,649 --> 00:11:58,518 [tense music] 319 00:11:58,585 --> 00:12:00,087 ♪♪ ♪♪ 320 00:12:00,153 --> 00:12:02,055 All right, she's leaving. 321 00:12:02,122 --> 00:12:09,029 ♪♪ ♪♪ 322 00:12:13,867 --> 00:12:18,705 OK, she's into a driveway, not her cousin's house. 323 00:12:24,344 --> 00:12:25,912 She let herself in. 324 00:12:25,979 --> 00:12:27,815 This is not the cousin's house where she's staying 325 00:12:27,881 --> 00:12:30,117 and I would expect her to have a key. 326 00:12:30,184 --> 00:12:33,186 So where is this? 327 00:12:40,494 --> 00:12:41,795 - ♪♪ Please tell me who gonna show me ♪♪ 328 00:12:41,861 --> 00:12:43,297 ♪♪ Top tier chica ♪♪ 329 00:12:43,364 --> 00:12:44,865 ♪♪ All these dudes gonna press me ♪♪ 330 00:12:44,932 --> 00:12:48,035 - Morning to ya. 331 00:12:48,102 --> 00:12:49,703 Picking up where I left my girl. 332 00:12:49,770 --> 00:12:51,905 She came to this house last night, 333 00:12:51,972 --> 00:12:54,308 and this house was not in the briefing. 334 00:12:54,374 --> 00:12:57,143 So now I'm back this morning waiting to see 335 00:12:57,210 --> 00:13:00,180 if we can find out not only whose home this is 336 00:13:00,247 --> 00:13:03,517 but who she's there with, if it's herself, 337 00:13:03,584 --> 00:13:04,718 if it's a cousin 338 00:13:04,784 --> 00:13:06,286 that she didn't cop out to staying with. 339 00:13:06,353 --> 00:13:07,954 I don't know. 340 00:13:08,021 --> 00:13:12,092 So waking up with Jay to see where she takes us today. 341 00:13:12,159 --> 00:13:15,062 [tense music] 342 00:13:15,129 --> 00:13:18,532 ♪♪ ♪♪ 343 00:13:18,599 --> 00:13:20,501 Oh, perfect, perfect, perfect. 344 00:13:20,568 --> 00:13:22,570 My girl is on the move, 345 00:13:22,636 --> 00:13:25,072 and now she's leaving with somebody. 346 00:13:25,139 --> 00:13:28,075 [shutter clicking] 347 00:13:28,142 --> 00:13:35,282 ♪♪ ♪♪ 348 00:13:45,692 --> 00:13:49,096 So I'm gonna have to get on some surveillance equipment 349 00:13:49,163 --> 00:13:51,431 and get out on foot. 350 00:13:51,498 --> 00:13:53,100 I'm gonna go with the glasses. 351 00:13:53,167 --> 00:13:54,902 I think the glasses would be good for this one, 352 00:13:54,968 --> 00:13:56,136 the glasses cam. 353 00:14:26,100 --> 00:14:27,601 - Now we got something. 354 00:14:27,668 --> 00:14:29,837 Now we know a little bit more. 355 00:14:29,904 --> 00:14:31,772 They're talking about business loans. 356 00:14:31,839 --> 00:14:33,841 I mean, that's more commitment than marriage. 357 00:14:33,908 --> 00:14:36,009 Oh, [bleep]. 358 00:14:36,076 --> 00:14:39,146 And these young ladies are on the move again. 359 00:14:39,212 --> 00:14:42,149 [dramatic music] 360 00:14:42,216 --> 00:14:47,021 ♪♪ ♪♪ 361 00:14:47,088 --> 00:14:49,990 I'm not pleased with how thick traffic's getting. 362 00:14:50,056 --> 00:14:53,127 [exhales] 363 00:14:53,194 --> 00:14:54,394 [bleep] me. 364 00:14:54,461 --> 00:14:56,664 Hold on. [horn honks] 365 00:14:56,730 --> 00:15:00,000 This isn't gonna work for me at all. 366 00:15:00,067 --> 00:15:03,003 [horn honks] [bleep] me. 367 00:15:03,069 --> 00:15:04,237 [bleep]. I need to... 368 00:15:04,304 --> 00:15:06,006 [bleep]. 369 00:15:06,072 --> 00:15:08,909 Not be stuck behind orange cones and stupid trucks. 370 00:15:08,976 --> 00:15:15,715 ♪♪ ♪♪ 371 00:15:16,550 --> 00:15:17,985 So I lost them. 372 00:15:18,051 --> 00:15:22,423 I'm gonna have to go back to one of the known locations. 373 00:15:22,490 --> 00:15:25,926 [tense music] 374 00:15:25,993 --> 00:15:28,729 Yahtzee. 375 00:15:28,795 --> 00:15:32,032 They made it back to the mystery house. 376 00:15:32,099 --> 00:15:39,073 ♪♪ ♪♪ 377 00:15:39,139 --> 00:15:40,508 She may be in for the night. 378 00:15:40,574 --> 00:15:42,309 I mean, I've been sitting here a while, 379 00:15:42,376 --> 00:15:44,511 and I'm pretty confident that this is where 380 00:15:44,578 --> 00:15:47,013 she's gonna be for the night. 381 00:15:48,949 --> 00:15:51,485 - ♪♪ Going in, going in, going in, yeah ♪♪ 382 00:15:51,552 --> 00:15:52,786 ♪♪ Where the back end? ♪♪ 383 00:15:52,853 --> 00:15:54,655 ♪♪ Give it to a friend, yeah ♪♪ 384 00:15:54,722 --> 00:15:57,158 - So she's here this morning. 385 00:15:57,224 --> 00:15:58,759 Unanswered questions. 386 00:15:58,826 --> 00:16:02,262 There's a mystery house, a mystery woman. 387 00:16:02,329 --> 00:16:04,264 Oh. 388 00:16:04,331 --> 00:16:06,467 Let's see. 389 00:16:06,533 --> 00:16:07,968 Loading up for somewhere. 390 00:16:08,035 --> 00:16:09,136 Seat belt. 391 00:16:09,203 --> 00:16:12,105 [tense music] 392 00:16:12,172 --> 00:16:13,574 ♪♪ ♪♪ 393 00:16:13,640 --> 00:16:16,444 They're turning into a park. 394 00:16:16,510 --> 00:16:19,480 OK, not very crowded. 395 00:16:19,547 --> 00:16:23,483 So I'm just here at the park to relax 396 00:16:23,550 --> 00:16:26,186 and see what they're at the park to do. 397 00:16:26,253 --> 00:16:30,290 And in the trunk, working out bags. 398 00:16:30,357 --> 00:16:31,792 That might be a cooler. 399 00:16:31,859 --> 00:16:33,527 So there's not a lot of people in the park today. 400 00:16:33,593 --> 00:16:36,563 So we've got-- it's a water bottle cam. 401 00:16:36,630 --> 00:16:38,298 I've got my camera here. 402 00:16:38,365 --> 00:16:40,767 ♪♪ ♪♪ 403 00:16:49,276 --> 00:16:50,944 - [laughs] 404 00:16:53,880 --> 00:16:56,783 [both laughing] 405 00:17:09,429 --> 00:17:12,132 ♪♪ Can you blame us? ♪♪ 406 00:17:12,199 --> 00:17:15,735 ♪♪ Dumb money, fast life, and famous ♪♪ 407 00:17:15,802 --> 00:17:18,072 ♪♪ Can you blame us? ♪♪ 408 00:17:18,138 --> 00:17:21,608 - Well, look who I found. 409 00:17:21,675 --> 00:17:23,076 Ms. Miniyah, this is Coach Ken. 410 00:17:23,143 --> 00:17:24,979 - Hello. How are you? 411 00:17:25,045 --> 00:17:26,346 - I'm good, and yourself? - Great to meet you. 412 00:17:26,413 --> 00:17:29,049 - Have a seat for us. - I got you. 413 00:17:29,115 --> 00:17:32,319 - So thank you for coming so quickly. 414 00:17:32,386 --> 00:17:35,856 As I promised, my PI sent me the footage. 415 00:17:35,923 --> 00:17:36,990 I've looked at it. 416 00:17:37,057 --> 00:17:38,325 And so that's why I've called 417 00:17:38,392 --> 00:17:40,861 Coach Ken here along with you 418 00:17:40,928 --> 00:17:43,364 because he's our relationship expert. 419 00:17:43,430 --> 00:17:46,066 He's here to help you process emotions. 420 00:17:46,133 --> 00:17:47,534 - Gotcha. - OK? 421 00:17:47,600 --> 00:17:49,936 So I have to ask you before we get started, 422 00:17:50,003 --> 00:17:53,040 should I show you this footage? 423 00:17:53,107 --> 00:17:55,242 Because it could change your relationship 424 00:17:55,309 --> 00:17:56,844 with Jay going forward. 425 00:17:56,911 --> 00:18:00,080 - It can't be any more stressful than it is right now. 426 00:18:00,147 --> 00:18:01,982 - OK, so let's go. 427 00:18:03,550 --> 00:18:07,387 This was our first day of surveillance. 428 00:18:07,454 --> 00:18:10,958 So we follow her to this establishment. 429 00:18:11,024 --> 00:18:14,394 We actually put surveillance inside. 430 00:18:15,996 --> 00:18:17,731 And Jay is working. 431 00:18:17,798 --> 00:18:19,032 - She works? 432 00:18:19,099 --> 00:18:20,901 - Well, you didn't say anything about her 433 00:18:20,968 --> 00:18:22,135 having a different job, 434 00:18:22,202 --> 00:18:23,971 but she actually did a full shift. 435 00:18:24,037 --> 00:18:26,807 - OK. 436 00:18:26,874 --> 00:18:28,375 Mm. 437 00:18:28,442 --> 00:18:30,510 - You're angry about this. - Very. 438 00:18:30,577 --> 00:18:31,612 - Why are you angry? 439 00:18:31,678 --> 00:18:33,714 - First of all, when I go to work 440 00:18:33,781 --> 00:18:35,949 and my check come out, what's mines is yours. 441 00:18:36,016 --> 00:18:37,417 - Right. 442 00:18:37,484 --> 00:18:40,187 - So at what point was you gonna tell me? 443 00:18:40,254 --> 00:18:42,355 - Ready to keep going? - Mm-hmm. 444 00:18:43,324 --> 00:18:46,426 - Now, day did turn to night. 445 00:18:46,493 --> 00:18:49,763 We had our decoy call you to set up the dancing 446 00:18:49,829 --> 00:18:52,299 so that we could see what was going on inside. 447 00:18:52,365 --> 00:18:56,036 So I was real into this part of the footage 448 00:18:56,103 --> 00:18:58,271 because I was like, what happens 449 00:18:58,338 --> 00:19:02,075 at the stud dancing event? 450 00:19:04,278 --> 00:19:06,713 - So she pulled out the tricks and [bleep], OK? 451 00:19:10,317 --> 00:19:13,220 - But they look like they having a great time. 452 00:19:13,287 --> 00:19:16,090 She leaves the private event. 453 00:19:16,157 --> 00:19:18,859 [tense music] 454 00:19:18,926 --> 00:19:21,294 Do you know this location? 455 00:19:21,361 --> 00:19:23,530 - No. - OK. 456 00:19:23,597 --> 00:19:25,032 I was hoping you could give me clarity 457 00:19:25,099 --> 00:19:27,567 because we didn't know. 458 00:19:27,634 --> 00:19:29,636 She didn't go home. 459 00:19:29,703 --> 00:19:32,206 So clearly, that's not your house. 460 00:19:32,272 --> 00:19:34,374 - Definitely not with the tacky-ass front door. 461 00:19:34,441 --> 00:19:36,744 - Girl, if you don't stop knocking on this damn table. 462 00:19:36,810 --> 00:19:37,911 You making me nervous. 463 00:19:37,978 --> 00:19:39,045 - My nerves is bad. 464 00:19:39,112 --> 00:19:40,981 - [laughs] 465 00:19:41,048 --> 00:19:44,484 And that was Jay's day. 466 00:19:44,551 --> 00:19:48,488 So let's go to our next day of surveillance. 467 00:19:48,555 --> 00:19:52,826 Stayed all night at the house you don't know. 468 00:19:52,892 --> 00:19:54,328 - What the [bleep] is that? 469 00:19:54,394 --> 00:19:57,164 - Well, that's whose house that is. 470 00:19:57,231 --> 00:19:59,833 But you still don't know this person? 471 00:19:59,899 --> 00:20:01,068 - No. 472 00:20:01,134 --> 00:20:02,703 - So they end up here. 473 00:20:02,770 --> 00:20:04,204 They're going shopping. 474 00:20:17,117 --> 00:20:18,718 - Oh. 475 00:20:18,785 --> 00:20:20,387 OK. Mm-hmm. 476 00:20:20,453 --> 00:20:22,590 - Going into business with another person 477 00:20:22,656 --> 00:20:24,891 when she has a business with you. 478 00:20:24,958 --> 00:20:27,093 - She can't even manage her own [bleep] money. 479 00:20:28,795 --> 00:20:30,164 - But they're talking about getting 480 00:20:30,230 --> 00:20:31,498 a business loan together. 481 00:20:31,565 --> 00:20:34,100 - Mm-hmm, and she gon' run right through it. 482 00:20:35,669 --> 00:20:37,505 - We're gonna watch the next clip. 483 00:20:37,571 --> 00:20:38,472 - Mm. 484 00:20:38,539 --> 00:20:40,374 - So they end up at this park. 485 00:20:40,441 --> 00:20:42,476 - [pops tongue] Cute. 486 00:20:42,543 --> 00:20:43,811 Ooh. 487 00:20:43,877 --> 00:20:45,412 A picnic. 488 00:20:45,478 --> 00:20:46,647 - Uh-huh. 489 00:20:46,714 --> 00:20:49,182 - [chuckles] Mm. 490 00:21:19,145 --> 00:21:22,282 - As a mother, I'm putting aside my life 491 00:21:22,349 --> 00:21:24,218 to still manage your business. 492 00:21:24,285 --> 00:21:25,652 This ain't my business. 493 00:21:25,719 --> 00:21:28,489 Meanwhile, you leaving me to play house with somebody. 494 00:21:28,555 --> 00:21:30,256 - Because what you say to us, Coach? 495 00:21:30,323 --> 00:21:32,226 - No, you talking about cushioning, in this case, 496 00:21:32,292 --> 00:21:33,594 where you got somebody else 497 00:21:33,660 --> 00:21:35,929 waiting for the fall of this relationship. 498 00:21:35,996 --> 00:21:37,631 That's what cushioning is. 499 00:21:37,698 --> 00:21:42,736 What she does is, she created this image with the assumption 500 00:21:42,803 --> 00:21:46,206 that we're gonna be a couple committed in a relationship. 501 00:21:46,273 --> 00:21:50,076 And so the other person in this is tied to that. 502 00:21:50,143 --> 00:21:52,245 - I got more for you to see, for sure. 503 00:22:01,321 --> 00:22:03,156 - So then it made sense. 504 00:22:03,223 --> 00:22:06,726 She's giving that money to this woman. 505 00:22:10,330 --> 00:22:14,401 - [gags] All right. 506 00:22:14,468 --> 00:22:16,136 I'm already on to what's going on. 507 00:22:16,203 --> 00:22:18,572 Now you opened the door. 508 00:22:18,639 --> 00:22:21,274 What's so funny is, too, what makes me angry 509 00:22:21,341 --> 00:22:23,310 is that you went out and got a job 510 00:22:23,377 --> 00:22:25,312 to prove something to somebody you just met. 511 00:22:25,379 --> 00:22:27,481 Meanwhile, I'm making sure you good, 512 00:22:27,547 --> 00:22:29,216 but I'm the one putting in all the work. 513 00:22:29,283 --> 00:22:31,318 - Yeah. 514 00:22:31,385 --> 00:22:33,587 - I do want to offer you two options. 515 00:22:33,654 --> 00:22:35,822 The first one is called a team-up, 516 00:22:35,889 --> 00:22:37,590 which will allow you 517 00:22:37,657 --> 00:22:41,595 to sit with the young lady, and any questions, 518 00:22:41,662 --> 00:22:43,697 clarity you want to get, you know, 519 00:22:43,763 --> 00:22:45,566 you can have that conversation with her, 520 00:22:45,632 --> 00:22:49,603 and then the both of you can go to Jay together 521 00:22:49,670 --> 00:22:52,439 and have a conversation and confront Jay. 522 00:22:52,506 --> 00:22:56,076 Or the next one is called a takedown. 523 00:22:56,143 --> 00:22:59,313 And that's where we continue surveillance. 524 00:22:59,380 --> 00:23:01,915 Should we catch the two of them together, 525 00:23:01,982 --> 00:23:03,317 I will pick up Ken, 526 00:23:03,384 --> 00:23:05,219 we'll come pick up you, 527 00:23:05,285 --> 00:23:07,320 and you can go catch them in the act 528 00:23:07,387 --> 00:23:09,223 and have a conversation with the both of them 529 00:23:09,289 --> 00:23:11,291 at the same time. - Mm-hmm. 530 00:23:11,358 --> 00:23:13,127 - Those are the options. 531 00:23:13,194 --> 00:23:14,995 - I would rather team up because I-- 532 00:23:15,061 --> 00:23:16,329 I do have some questions, 533 00:23:16,396 --> 00:23:18,398 not that I want to be your bestie. 534 00:23:18,465 --> 00:23:19,900 - I'm happy to hear you say that 535 00:23:19,967 --> 00:23:21,368 because she's oblivious. 536 00:23:21,435 --> 00:23:22,536 She don't know what's going on. - Mm-hmm. 537 00:23:22,603 --> 00:23:24,405 I appreciate your help. 538 00:23:24,471 --> 00:23:27,208 And I'm--I'm open to hear what she has to say. 539 00:23:27,274 --> 00:23:28,476 - OK. 540 00:23:28,542 --> 00:23:31,712 - Even if I got to scrape my teeth. 541 00:23:31,779 --> 00:23:34,715 [upbeat music] 542 00:23:34,782 --> 00:23:41,688 ♪♪ ♪♪ 543 00:23:43,290 --> 00:23:45,692 - Here she comes. Come on in. 544 00:23:45,759 --> 00:23:47,828 Hello. Come on up. - Hi, Miniyah. 545 00:23:47,894 --> 00:23:49,629 - Have a seat right here. 546 00:23:49,696 --> 00:23:52,532 - How are you? - I'm doing well. 547 00:23:55,469 --> 00:23:58,805 So what happened was, my PI was able to find out 548 00:23:58,872 --> 00:24:01,842 the name of the lady that Jay is seeing, 549 00:24:01,908 --> 00:24:03,009 and her name is Brittany. 550 00:24:03,076 --> 00:24:05,278 We were able to secure that information 551 00:24:05,345 --> 00:24:07,047 because we already had her address. 552 00:24:07,114 --> 00:24:09,450 And so we are headed there now 553 00:24:09,517 --> 00:24:11,685 so that you can have that one-on-one conversation 554 00:24:11,751 --> 00:24:13,720 with her. 555 00:24:13,787 --> 00:24:17,858 We are hoping that both women 556 00:24:17,925 --> 00:24:20,827 are able to keep it cute 557 00:24:20,894 --> 00:24:24,164 so that we can get some answers to questions. 558 00:24:24,231 --> 00:24:25,599 Who are you? 559 00:24:25,665 --> 00:24:27,334 Did you know about me? 560 00:24:27,401 --> 00:24:28,935 How long have y'all been together? 561 00:24:29,002 --> 00:24:32,039 You know, Jay has a whole nother job. 562 00:24:32,105 --> 00:24:34,241 - And I think that's the biggest thing for me. 563 00:24:34,308 --> 00:24:36,576 You took your time to find a job 564 00:24:36,643 --> 00:24:40,380 and literally hand your money over 565 00:24:40,447 --> 00:24:42,949 to someone that you just met. 566 00:24:43,016 --> 00:24:46,219 - OK, well, we are here. 567 00:24:46,286 --> 00:24:48,421 My cameras are going to follow you. 568 00:24:48,488 --> 00:24:50,490 And should I feel the need to step in, 569 00:24:50,557 --> 00:24:51,992 Coach Ken and I will be there. 570 00:24:52,059 --> 00:24:53,827 - OK. - Let's go. 571 00:24:55,863 --> 00:24:57,998 - And it's the door with the wreath. 572 00:24:58,065 --> 00:25:01,068 [tense music] 573 00:25:01,135 --> 00:25:08,041 ♪♪ ♪♪ 574 00:25:11,378 --> 00:25:12,712 - What the [bleep]? 575 00:25:12,779 --> 00:25:14,481 Why are all these cameras around here? 576 00:25:14,548 --> 00:25:17,150 - Brittany home? - What's up? 577 00:25:17,217 --> 00:25:19,386 - How you doing? I'm Miniyah. 578 00:25:19,452 --> 00:25:21,455 I think we have a person in common. 579 00:25:21,522 --> 00:25:23,924 What's your relationship to Jay? 580 00:25:23,991 --> 00:25:25,359 - Who are you? 581 00:25:25,425 --> 00:25:27,127 - We need to have a conversation. 582 00:25:27,194 --> 00:25:28,662 - Well, if you wanted to have a conversation as a woman, 583 00:25:28,729 --> 00:25:29,864 you didn't have to do all of this. 584 00:25:29,930 --> 00:25:31,365 We could have just had our conversation. 585 00:25:31,432 --> 00:25:32,633 - OK, so do you know someone named Jay? 586 00:25:32,700 --> 00:25:34,501 - Yeah, that's my woman. We together. 587 00:25:34,568 --> 00:25:35,902 - Oh, yours too? - Not possible. How? 588 00:25:35,969 --> 00:25:37,738 - Did you know about me? 589 00:25:37,805 --> 00:25:39,506 Because-- - Obviously not. This is weird. 590 00:25:39,573 --> 00:25:41,008 - I'm coming to you as calm as--please-- 591 00:25:41,075 --> 00:25:42,576 - All these people out here. There's all these cameras. 592 00:25:42,643 --> 00:25:43,810 I'm not finna do that. No, I'm not. 593 00:25:43,877 --> 00:25:46,380 You don't get to tell me how I can act. 594 00:25:46,446 --> 00:25:48,082 - Oh, God, she's stretching her neck. 595 00:25:48,148 --> 00:25:49,583 Let's go. 596 00:25:57,358 --> 00:25:58,592 - This is weird. 597 00:25:58,658 --> 00:26:01,128 - I'm coming to you as calm as--please keep-- 598 00:26:01,195 --> 00:26:02,930 - I'm not finna do that. No, I'm not. 599 00:26:02,996 --> 00:26:04,531 - Oh, God, she's stretching her neck. 600 00:26:04,598 --> 00:26:06,600 Let's go. - [bleep] 601 00:26:06,666 --> 00:26:07,768 - So you the crazy manager? 602 00:26:07,835 --> 00:26:09,069 - Ain't nothing--crazy? 603 00:26:09,136 --> 00:26:11,138 - Oh, well, I stepped in right on time. 604 00:26:11,205 --> 00:26:12,472 - Oh, appreciate it. 605 00:26:12,539 --> 00:26:14,675 - So listen, Brittany, my name is Tami Roman, 606 00:26:14,742 --> 00:26:19,647 and you're on a show called "MTV's Caught in the Act." 607 00:26:19,713 --> 00:26:22,650 So Miniyah came to me because she thought 608 00:26:22,716 --> 00:26:26,387 there was some infidelity in her relationship with Jay. 609 00:26:26,453 --> 00:26:29,289 We put Jay under surveillance to find out 610 00:26:29,356 --> 00:26:33,627 that Jay was engaging in certain activities with you. 611 00:26:33,694 --> 00:26:34,828 So she wanted to come here 612 00:26:34,895 --> 00:26:36,396 to have a conversation with you, 613 00:26:36,463 --> 00:26:38,999 to find out what really is the extent 614 00:26:39,066 --> 00:26:41,535 of your relationship with Jay. 615 00:26:41,602 --> 00:26:45,005 That's all she wanted. I mean, can we come inside? 616 00:26:45,071 --> 00:26:46,240 - I guess we can talk. 617 00:26:46,307 --> 00:26:47,975 - Let's--let's all go. You ready, Ken? 618 00:26:48,042 --> 00:26:49,877 - Yeah. 619 00:26:49,944 --> 00:26:53,080 [tense music] 620 00:26:53,147 --> 00:26:56,417 - Just so that you know, this is Coach Ken. 621 00:26:56,483 --> 00:27:00,287 He's a relationship expert, and he assists me 622 00:27:00,354 --> 00:27:03,156 when people come to me seeking answers. 623 00:27:03,223 --> 00:27:04,925 - How did you get my address? How did y'all-- 624 00:27:04,991 --> 00:27:06,961 - That's my job. - Boop. 625 00:27:07,028 --> 00:27:08,896 - That's me. 626 00:27:08,962 --> 00:27:11,298 So go ahead, Miniyah. 627 00:27:11,365 --> 00:27:12,933 - Like I said, I'm her girlfriend, 628 00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:14,501 been her girlfriend for six years. 629 00:27:14,568 --> 00:27:16,469 I thought I would come and ask the questions 630 00:27:16,536 --> 00:27:18,172 that needed to be asked and give you a chance 631 00:27:18,238 --> 00:27:20,441 to explain whether or not you knew about me 632 00:27:20,507 --> 00:27:22,643 and what your relationship is with her. 633 00:27:22,709 --> 00:27:25,846 - OK, so, well, me and Jay been together for about a year. 634 00:27:25,913 --> 00:27:28,882 - Ooh. Yeah. 635 00:27:28,949 --> 00:27:31,518 - I didn't know nothing about you. 636 00:27:31,585 --> 00:27:33,354 - But you knew Jay had a manager. 637 00:27:33,420 --> 00:27:34,621 - That's it. That's all I knew. 638 00:27:34,688 --> 00:27:36,990 A crazy manager. - That was--a crazy manager? 639 00:27:37,057 --> 00:27:40,427 Is that how Jay described Miniyah to you, 640 00:27:40,494 --> 00:27:42,195 as the crazy manager? - As her crazy manager. 641 00:27:42,262 --> 00:27:44,498 - Mm. - Well... 642 00:27:44,565 --> 00:27:47,300 - That she's trying to get away from. 643 00:27:47,367 --> 00:27:49,770 I don't understand, because how does Jay even have 644 00:27:49,836 --> 00:27:51,105 time to spend time with you? 645 00:27:51,171 --> 00:27:52,973 She's with me majority of the time. 646 00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:54,375 Like, all the time, actually. 647 00:27:54,442 --> 00:27:57,244 - So to be honest, the day that y'all spent together 648 00:27:57,311 --> 00:27:58,779 going to the picnic and whatnot, 649 00:27:58,845 --> 00:28:00,013 she came back to my home. 650 00:28:00,080 --> 00:28:02,782 - Mm-hmm, she did. 651 00:28:02,849 --> 00:28:04,151 - I just don't understand. 652 00:28:04,218 --> 00:28:06,953 It really is locked in that, like, she--she-- 653 00:28:07,020 --> 00:28:08,422 she be here with me. 654 00:28:08,488 --> 00:28:10,390 She gives me money. She take care of the household. 655 00:28:10,457 --> 00:28:13,360 Like, she clearly left you. - Oh. 656 00:28:13,427 --> 00:28:14,928 - You think you won't get your ass beat in my house? 657 00:28:14,995 --> 00:28:16,162 - I will beat you. - Hit me. 658 00:28:16,229 --> 00:28:18,065 - Bitch, I will--oh, girl! 659 00:28:18,131 --> 00:28:19,533 You [bleep] ass bitch. 660 00:28:19,600 --> 00:28:20,800 I will drag you. 661 00:28:20,867 --> 00:28:22,035 - [bleep] fine-ass bitch just got yo' bitch. 662 00:28:22,102 --> 00:28:23,203 Ha-ha. - Not my bitch. 663 00:28:23,270 --> 00:28:24,538 She's your bitch. 664 00:28:24,605 --> 00:28:25,939 See, the difference is, I know when to quit. 665 00:28:26,006 --> 00:28:27,241 You don't. - Yeah, but--but you mad. 666 00:28:27,307 --> 00:28:28,542 But you're mad. 667 00:28:28,609 --> 00:28:29,909 - I'm mad 'cause you [bleep] crazy. 668 00:28:29,976 --> 00:28:31,645 - 'Cause you're mad. - Over a bitch I gave you. 669 00:28:31,712 --> 00:28:33,247 - We're gonna get on out. - You get the [bleep] out. 670 00:28:33,314 --> 00:28:34,714 - How about you put me out? - We're actually gonna-- 671 00:28:34,781 --> 00:28:36,183 - [bleep]. 672 00:28:36,250 --> 00:28:37,318 - Pop that [bleep] so, bitch, you could beat. 673 00:28:37,384 --> 00:28:38,619 - Brittany. - You could never. 674 00:28:38,686 --> 00:28:40,354 - Brittany. Listen. - You could never. 675 00:28:40,420 --> 00:28:41,855 - Listen. Look--look--look at me. 676 00:28:41,922 --> 00:28:43,357 Don't pay attention. 677 00:28:43,424 --> 00:28:48,295 So if you're absolutely sure that Jay is 100% with you, 678 00:28:48,362 --> 00:28:51,165 you, for sure, are gonna be a part of this situation. 679 00:28:51,232 --> 00:28:53,233 We're gonna have Miniyah contact Jay, 680 00:28:53,300 --> 00:28:55,068 say that there is some type of event 681 00:28:55,135 --> 00:28:56,470 that Jay has to come dance to. 682 00:28:56,537 --> 00:28:58,906 And let's just get Jay in a room 683 00:28:58,973 --> 00:29:02,175 where both of you can have a conversation with her, OK? 684 00:29:02,242 --> 00:29:04,210 - OK. - OK? 685 00:29:04,277 --> 00:29:06,614 And I'll reach back out to you. 686 00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:09,983 [dramatic music] 687 00:29:10,050 --> 00:29:12,419 - ♪♪ I'm ready for war ♪♪ 688 00:29:12,486 --> 00:29:14,354 ♪♪ Uh-huh, look into my eyes ♪♪ 689 00:29:14,421 --> 00:29:17,291 ♪♪ I'm ready for war ♪♪ 690 00:29:17,358 --> 00:29:18,325 ♪♪ Never gonna stop me ♪♪ 691 00:29:18,392 --> 00:29:20,327 ♪♪ I'm ready for war ♪♪ 692 00:29:20,394 --> 00:29:21,962 ♪♪ Uh-huh, look into my eyes ♪♪ 693 00:29:22,029 --> 00:29:23,731 ♪♪ I'm ready for war ♪♪ 694 00:29:23,797 --> 00:29:25,599 - Baby, you did that, 695 00:29:25,666 --> 00:29:28,268 getting Jay to believe there's a booking. 696 00:29:28,335 --> 00:29:32,439 We were able to get Brittany already at the location. 697 00:29:32,506 --> 00:29:36,277 We've also been able to put cameras inside of the house 698 00:29:36,343 --> 00:29:40,213 so that we can see what's going on inside. 699 00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:42,683 I'm gonna turn on the monitor. 700 00:29:42,749 --> 00:29:45,753 - I wonder what color chaps she got on today. 701 00:29:45,819 --> 00:29:48,956 - Mm. 702 00:29:49,022 --> 00:29:52,025 - A car's pulling up. 703 00:29:52,092 --> 00:29:54,327 - Oh, Jesus, be with me. 704 00:29:55,963 --> 00:29:57,030 There we go, chapped up. 705 00:29:57,097 --> 00:29:58,866 - There's the chaps. 706 00:29:58,933 --> 00:30:00,234 - My hands are shaking. 707 00:30:00,301 --> 00:30:03,203 [tense music] 708 00:30:03,270 --> 00:30:09,876 ♪♪ ♪♪ 709 00:30:13,347 --> 00:30:14,848 - You ain't expect to see me, did you? 710 00:30:14,914 --> 00:30:16,083 - What you even doing here? 711 00:30:16,150 --> 00:30:17,651 - That stupid face. 712 00:30:17,718 --> 00:30:18,986 - What you think I'm doing here? 713 00:30:19,052 --> 00:30:20,454 Surprise, surprise, [bleep]. 714 00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:22,656 - I am surprised because this supposed to be a booking. 715 00:30:22,723 --> 00:30:23,624 To see that you-- 716 00:30:23,691 --> 00:30:25,358 - Who the [bleep] is Miniyah? 717 00:30:25,425 --> 00:30:26,893 And why she pop up at my house? 718 00:30:26,960 --> 00:30:29,462 She seems to be a little bit more than just your manager. 719 00:30:31,331 --> 00:30:33,566 Apparently, y'all are in a relationship? 720 00:30:33,633 --> 00:30:35,302 Why am I just now finding out about this? 721 00:30:35,369 --> 00:30:37,037 Why you got me out here looking stupid? 722 00:30:37,104 --> 00:30:38,438 Why the [bleep]-- - The grin. 723 00:30:38,505 --> 00:30:40,440 - That bitch came to my [bleep] house. 724 00:30:40,507 --> 00:30:41,708 - I mean, I'm with you. 725 00:30:41,775 --> 00:30:43,243 - Well, then she needs to know that 726 00:30:43,310 --> 00:30:45,278 because clearly, she thinks otherwise. 727 00:30:49,216 --> 00:30:50,717 - All right. 728 00:30:50,784 --> 00:30:52,786 All right, let's go right in here. 729 00:30:58,659 --> 00:30:59,759 - What? 730 00:30:59,826 --> 00:31:01,094 She came to my house the other day. 731 00:31:01,161 --> 00:31:02,163 - Well, let me be your manager, then. 732 00:31:02,229 --> 00:31:04,965 [dramatic music] 733 00:31:05,031 --> 00:31:06,600 Who that? 734 00:31:06,666 --> 00:31:08,335 - Who am I? Because I need to know. 735 00:31:08,402 --> 00:31:10,938 She needs to know right here, right now, who I am 736 00:31:11,004 --> 00:31:12,138 and what we got going on. 737 00:31:12,205 --> 00:31:13,874 - I mean, that's just a client. 738 00:31:13,941 --> 00:31:16,143 - Oh, she's just a client? - She's just a client. 739 00:31:16,210 --> 00:31:17,777 - I'm a client? - [laughs] 740 00:31:17,844 --> 00:31:19,913 - She seems real [bleep] secure that you're in a relationship. 741 00:31:19,980 --> 00:31:21,848 - I'm just a client? - Yeah, you just a client. 742 00:31:21,915 --> 00:31:23,116 - I have a question. 743 00:31:23,183 --> 00:31:24,118 All the [bleep] that I'm going through, 744 00:31:24,185 --> 00:31:25,452 she said a year. 745 00:31:25,519 --> 00:31:27,153 I don't give a [bleep] if it was 20 minutes. 746 00:31:27,220 --> 00:31:28,956 What is it, and who is it? 747 00:31:29,022 --> 00:31:30,057 - I mean, this on TV. 748 00:31:30,123 --> 00:31:31,191 We couldn't talk outside? 749 00:31:31,257 --> 00:31:33,127 - What is it, and who is it? 750 00:31:33,193 --> 00:31:34,461 - I'ma dip out. 751 00:31:34,527 --> 00:31:35,862 Y'all can have this [bleep], though. 752 00:31:35,929 --> 00:31:37,298 - Oh, you gonna run in the chaps too? 753 00:31:37,364 --> 00:31:38,599 - Yeah, [bleep] you, man. 754 00:31:38,665 --> 00:31:41,335 - Oh, she's trying to leave. 755 00:31:41,402 --> 00:31:42,769 - I thought you just dancing. 756 00:31:42,836 --> 00:31:44,838 - Jay, where you going? 757 00:31:51,011 --> 00:31:53,947 [dramatic music] 758 00:31:54,014 --> 00:31:55,615 - Oh, you gonna run in the chaps too? 759 00:31:55,682 --> 00:31:58,218 - Yeah, [bleep] you, man. - Oh, she's trying to leave. 760 00:31:59,486 --> 00:32:00,754 - I thought you just dancing. 761 00:32:00,821 --> 00:32:02,690 - Jay, where you going? 762 00:32:02,756 --> 00:32:05,125 Where you going, Jay? 763 00:32:05,192 --> 00:32:06,060 Hey. 764 00:32:06,126 --> 00:32:08,395 My name is Tami Roman, 765 00:32:08,461 --> 00:32:10,864 and you're on "MTV's Caught in the Act" 766 00:32:10,931 --> 00:32:13,000 because Miniyah came to me 767 00:32:13,066 --> 00:32:15,669 to find out what was going on in your relationship. 768 00:32:15,736 --> 00:32:16,670 And we put you under surveillance-- 769 00:32:16,737 --> 00:32:18,138 - Caught ass out. 770 00:32:18,205 --> 00:32:21,374 - And we saw you were in a relationship with Brittany. 771 00:32:21,441 --> 00:32:23,009 So what's going on? 772 00:32:23,076 --> 00:32:24,978 - You had Humpty Dumpty rolling all over you. 773 00:32:25,045 --> 00:32:26,413 - I don't know--I don't know if we should let 774 00:32:26,480 --> 00:32:29,082 the--the neighbors see all of this. 775 00:32:29,149 --> 00:32:31,251 Let's go back and see what's going on. 776 00:32:31,318 --> 00:32:35,022 Uh-uh, Jay, you ain't gonna escape this. 777 00:32:35,089 --> 00:32:39,159 [tense music] 778 00:32:39,226 --> 00:32:40,727 OK. 779 00:32:40,794 --> 00:32:43,664 Jay, it seems like you've been lying 780 00:32:43,730 --> 00:32:45,933 to both of these ladies, OK? 781 00:32:45,999 --> 00:32:49,002 Do you want to explain that? 782 00:32:49,069 --> 00:32:51,939 - I mean, we were going through some things. 783 00:32:52,006 --> 00:32:53,440 You weren't really listening. 784 00:32:53,507 --> 00:32:55,475 This hostility made me go towards her. 785 00:32:55,542 --> 00:32:57,444 She a little bit softer. - OK, and then what happened? 786 00:32:57,510 --> 00:32:58,913 - So I need you to tone that [bleep] down. 787 00:32:58,979 --> 00:33:00,781 - And so because-- because you were having 788 00:33:00,847 --> 00:33:02,349 issues at home, 789 00:33:02,415 --> 00:33:05,218 you decided to start something rather than end what you had 790 00:33:05,285 --> 00:33:08,555 so that you could move on? 791 00:33:08,622 --> 00:33:10,690 - I mean, not necessarily. 792 00:33:10,757 --> 00:33:12,625 She just got anger issues. 793 00:33:12,692 --> 00:33:15,162 - Why do you think I'm angry? - I don't know. 794 00:33:15,229 --> 00:33:16,630 - You ain't did [bleep]? - No, not-- 795 00:33:16,696 --> 00:33:18,499 - So not being present to what the [bleep] 796 00:33:18,565 --> 00:33:20,701 you need to be present for would make a person angry. 797 00:33:20,767 --> 00:33:23,403 Birthdays, you disappear Valentine's Day, you disappear. 798 00:33:23,470 --> 00:33:25,339 - But it's always drama. It's always drama. 799 00:33:25,405 --> 00:33:27,708 - You are the drama! - We can't even talk. 800 00:33:27,775 --> 00:33:28,776 - I'm sitting here talking to you 801 00:33:28,842 --> 00:33:29,876 in a pair of [bleep] chaps! 802 00:33:29,943 --> 00:33:31,011 That's the drama! 803 00:33:31,078 --> 00:33:32,179 - Well, what is it that you want 804 00:33:32,246 --> 00:33:34,081 to get off your chest to Miniyah? 805 00:33:34,148 --> 00:33:36,383 - I mean, I just miss the way we used to be 806 00:33:36,450 --> 00:33:39,152 because [bleep] wasn't always like this. 807 00:33:39,219 --> 00:33:42,122 - So what the [bleep] does that mean for me? 808 00:33:42,189 --> 00:33:44,525 So this was just-- just some [bleep] for you? 809 00:33:44,591 --> 00:33:46,527 Just some bull[bleep] for you? That's how we rockin'? 810 00:33:46,594 --> 00:33:48,328 That's what it is? - It just is what it is. 811 00:33:50,330 --> 00:33:52,266 - Oh, OK, all right. Bet. 812 00:33:52,332 --> 00:33:54,301 - But you did give her money, though. 813 00:33:54,367 --> 00:33:56,203 I mean, we saw it on surveillance 814 00:33:56,270 --> 00:33:57,838 where you were giving her money. 815 00:33:57,905 --> 00:33:59,239 - So-- - So she meant something. 816 00:33:59,306 --> 00:34:00,407 - I mean-- 817 00:34:00,474 --> 00:34:01,841 - So but now I don't mean [bleep]? 818 00:34:01,908 --> 00:34:03,176 - You got to play the part. It mean something. 819 00:34:03,243 --> 00:34:04,712 - Oh, played the part? - Play the part. 820 00:34:04,778 --> 00:34:06,046 [dramatic music] 821 00:34:06,112 --> 00:34:08,315 I'm about to beat your ass. 822 00:34:08,381 --> 00:34:10,117 I'm finna beat your ass. - Ken, why don't you-- 823 00:34:10,183 --> 00:34:12,185 - I'm gonna take her out. 824 00:34:12,252 --> 00:34:13,821 Brittany, can we go out? So let's talk. 825 00:34:13,888 --> 00:34:15,923 Let's talk. 826 00:34:15,990 --> 00:34:17,991 I know you're upset right now. 827 00:34:18,058 --> 00:34:19,359 - Upset is an understatement. 828 00:34:19,426 --> 00:34:20,527 I feel naive. 829 00:34:20,594 --> 00:34:22,930 I should have never went for that. 830 00:34:22,996 --> 00:34:24,064 I should--should have done-- 831 00:34:24,130 --> 00:34:25,565 I should have known better. 832 00:34:25,632 --> 00:34:27,134 - What did you think was gonna happen? 833 00:34:27,201 --> 00:34:28,969 - I thought that we was just gonna be together. 834 00:34:29,035 --> 00:34:30,404 I thought everything was gonna work itself out. 835 00:34:30,471 --> 00:34:31,972 We was gonna get this money, start this business. 836 00:34:32,039 --> 00:34:33,306 Money was gonna flow in. 837 00:34:33,373 --> 00:34:34,542 We were gonna get a house. 838 00:34:34,608 --> 00:34:35,910 We was gonna get married. 839 00:34:35,976 --> 00:34:37,844 That's what I was thinking. 840 00:34:37,911 --> 00:34:39,379 That's what she led me to believe. 841 00:34:39,446 --> 00:34:40,914 - And then you were convinced 842 00:34:40,981 --> 00:34:42,315 when she started giving you the money, 843 00:34:42,382 --> 00:34:43,917 because we saw that she gave you money. 844 00:34:43,984 --> 00:34:46,119 - Yes, I was very convinced because she put forth energy 845 00:34:46,186 --> 00:34:49,423 and effort into us and into me. 846 00:34:49,490 --> 00:34:52,158 - Have a seat. 847 00:34:52,225 --> 00:34:55,161 Why--because I understand. 848 00:34:55,228 --> 00:34:57,130 Like, I've been around Miniyah, 849 00:34:57,197 --> 00:35:00,034 and I know that she's very strong in her opinion. 850 00:35:00,100 --> 00:35:01,668 - A little toxic too. 851 00:35:01,735 --> 00:35:03,637 - Well, I mean-- - Instead of talking-- 852 00:35:03,704 --> 00:35:06,539 - It's not the best form of communication, I will say that. 853 00:35:06,606 --> 00:35:09,643 But you don't give up when you love a person. 854 00:35:09,709 --> 00:35:11,811 You got to be able to explain to her, 855 00:35:11,878 --> 00:35:13,480 "That's not the energy I want," 856 00:35:13,547 --> 00:35:16,082 rather than going out getting somebody else-- 857 00:35:16,149 --> 00:35:17,351 - I mean, I tried to talk. 858 00:35:17,418 --> 00:35:19,153 - Because now this girl is hurt. 859 00:35:19,219 --> 00:35:21,188 - Yeah, that's on me. 860 00:35:21,255 --> 00:35:22,890 - Six years is a long time 861 00:35:22,957 --> 00:35:24,825 to be invested in a relationship. 862 00:35:24,892 --> 00:35:28,429 Why aren't y'all willing to put in the work to-- 863 00:35:28,495 --> 00:35:31,732 to compromise and communicate properly? 864 00:35:31,798 --> 00:35:35,902 Jay, tell me a little bit about you and your upbringing. 865 00:35:35,969 --> 00:35:37,171 - I mean, I grew up 866 00:35:37,237 --> 00:35:39,140 in basically a two-parent household. 867 00:35:39,206 --> 00:35:41,675 My grandparents, they were together 868 00:35:41,741 --> 00:35:43,410 for, like, over 40 years. 869 00:35:43,476 --> 00:35:45,746 So basically, that's the foundation 870 00:35:45,813 --> 00:35:46,913 that I came from. 871 00:35:46,980 --> 00:35:48,615 - That's what you grew up looking at. 872 00:35:48,682 --> 00:35:52,419 - I feel like I'm doing it sometimes alone, by myself. 873 00:35:52,486 --> 00:35:54,521 I feel like I don't got that partnership with her 874 00:35:54,588 --> 00:35:56,056 a lot of the times. 875 00:35:56,122 --> 00:35:57,924 Really, your main focus is the kids. 876 00:35:57,991 --> 00:35:59,392 So what about us? 877 00:35:59,459 --> 00:36:01,195 Like, it's a lack of love. 878 00:36:01,262 --> 00:36:04,364 You still can set enough time aside, 879 00:36:04,431 --> 00:36:08,269 just five minutes, two minutes, to make me feel loved. 880 00:36:08,335 --> 00:36:10,004 - Are you receiving that? 881 00:36:10,071 --> 00:36:11,171 - I received it. 882 00:36:11,238 --> 00:36:13,106 But I also think it's a cop-out. 883 00:36:13,173 --> 00:36:15,775 There is no way in [bleep] you gonna be able to lay with me, 884 00:36:15,842 --> 00:36:19,146 kiss me, hug me, and I not see you in another bitch face 885 00:36:19,212 --> 00:36:20,547 doing the same exact thing, promising her 886 00:36:20,614 --> 00:36:22,182 the same [bleep] you promising me. 887 00:36:22,248 --> 00:36:23,583 - It was a little different. 888 00:36:23,650 --> 00:36:24,985 It was a little bit different promises. 889 00:36:25,052 --> 00:36:26,620 - What was the difference? Because I heard marriage. 890 00:36:26,687 --> 00:36:28,088 I heard kids. I heard financial. 891 00:36:28,155 --> 00:36:30,023 I heard all that. 892 00:36:30,090 --> 00:36:32,859 Yeah, mm-hmm. You played yourself. 893 00:36:32,926 --> 00:36:36,229 ♪♪ ♪♪ 894 00:36:42,169 --> 00:36:44,805 [tense music] 895 00:36:44,871 --> 00:36:46,540 - Because I heard marriage. I heard kids. 896 00:36:46,607 --> 00:36:48,809 I heard financial. I heard all that. 897 00:36:48,876 --> 00:36:50,710 You played yourself. 898 00:36:50,777 --> 00:36:53,614 - I do want to say one thing to you, Jay. 899 00:36:53,681 --> 00:36:57,684 There is no place when a mother is really 900 00:36:57,751 --> 00:37:03,190 a part of her children's lives that anybody comes before them. 901 00:37:03,257 --> 00:37:05,059 - And I'm trying to understand that. 902 00:37:05,125 --> 00:37:07,160 But the staying angry all the time, 903 00:37:07,227 --> 00:37:09,163 that doesn't help. - Exactly. 904 00:37:09,229 --> 00:37:10,831 Well, that--that's something you got to talk to her about. 905 00:37:10,897 --> 00:37:12,099 - That's a part of communication. 906 00:37:12,165 --> 00:37:13,800 Like, communicate with me better. 907 00:37:13,867 --> 00:37:16,169 I am not your child. 908 00:37:16,236 --> 00:37:18,405 - I hate this, that this has happened to you. 909 00:37:18,472 --> 00:37:19,807 And I know it feels bad. 910 00:37:19,874 --> 00:37:22,610 And I--but--but isn't it good that you know now? 911 00:37:22,677 --> 00:37:24,979 - Yeah, I guess. 912 00:37:25,045 --> 00:37:27,113 It is what it is. - We not going back, though. 913 00:37:27,180 --> 00:37:28,982 We not-- we're not gonna go back. 914 00:37:29,049 --> 00:37:31,752 Because here's what happens a lot of times. 915 00:37:31,818 --> 00:37:34,788 When the cameras leave, what'll happen is, 916 00:37:34,855 --> 00:37:37,591 she'll call you and say, hey, you know, 917 00:37:37,657 --> 00:37:39,359 I just said all that for the camera. 918 00:37:39,426 --> 00:37:41,262 I really want to be with you. 919 00:37:41,328 --> 00:37:42,929 - If she really wanted to be with me, 920 00:37:42,996 --> 00:37:44,064 she would have said that [bleep] 921 00:37:44,130 --> 00:37:45,366 in front of all the cameras. 922 00:37:45,432 --> 00:37:46,967 - So I'm gonna bring this other young lady 923 00:37:47,033 --> 00:37:50,404 in here so we can see what everybody's decision is. 924 00:37:50,470 --> 00:37:53,307 Let's come on back inside so we can figure out 925 00:37:53,373 --> 00:37:56,176 how everybody's going to end this process. 926 00:37:56,243 --> 00:37:59,446 - OK, all right. 927 00:37:59,513 --> 00:38:02,483 - So, Miniyah, you came to me 928 00:38:02,550 --> 00:38:05,619 because you wanted the truth about your relationship. 929 00:38:05,686 --> 00:38:08,222 And I feel like I gave you that. 930 00:38:08,288 --> 00:38:09,723 - Mm-hmm. 931 00:38:09,789 --> 00:38:13,827 - But y'all's biggest issue is that 932 00:38:13,894 --> 00:38:16,263 y'all don't know how to communicate. 933 00:38:16,330 --> 00:38:19,300 The other side of communication and talking 934 00:38:19,366 --> 00:38:21,435 is listening and then trying to make 935 00:38:21,502 --> 00:38:24,071 adjustments for the betterment of the relationship. 936 00:38:24,138 --> 00:38:26,540 And neither one of y'all are willing to do that. 937 00:38:26,606 --> 00:38:28,008 But I've done my job. 938 00:38:28,075 --> 00:38:29,776 The only thing I want to know 939 00:38:29,843 --> 00:38:31,912 is how everybody wants to proceed. 940 00:38:31,979 --> 00:38:34,648 So, Jay, who is it that you want to be with? 941 00:38:34,715 --> 00:38:37,351 [tense music] 942 00:38:37,418 --> 00:38:39,252 ♪♪ ♪♪ 943 00:38:39,319 --> 00:38:40,621 - Miniyah. 944 00:38:40,688 --> 00:38:42,256 I want to be with Miniyah. - OK. 945 00:38:42,322 --> 00:38:44,057 - I want to work things out with Miniyah. 946 00:38:44,124 --> 00:38:45,826 - Brittany, you don't want to be with Jay anymore, right? 947 00:38:45,893 --> 00:38:47,061 - No. - Perfect. 948 00:38:47,127 --> 00:38:48,395 - They deserve each other at this point. 949 00:38:48,462 --> 00:38:50,397 - Miniyah, what do you want to do? 950 00:38:50,464 --> 00:38:51,665 - I want to go home. 951 00:38:51,732 --> 00:38:53,066 I want to live my life. 952 00:38:53,133 --> 00:38:54,568 - So you do not want to be with Jay anymore? 953 00:38:54,635 --> 00:38:57,737 - Absolutely the [bleep] not. 954 00:38:57,804 --> 00:38:59,172 - She's still gonna be with me, though. 955 00:38:59,239 --> 00:39:01,541 - Delusional at its finest. - OK. 956 00:39:01,608 --> 00:39:02,843 So I'm gonna head on out 957 00:39:02,909 --> 00:39:05,478 because there's nothing left for me to do. 958 00:39:07,047 --> 00:39:08,348 - It sucks. 959 00:39:08,415 --> 00:39:10,083 I didn't think that she was gonna choose her. 960 00:39:10,150 --> 00:39:11,618 I thought she was gonna rock with me. 961 00:39:11,685 --> 00:39:13,787 But it is what it is. 962 00:39:13,853 --> 00:39:15,422 Scummy people deserve scummy people. 963 00:39:15,489 --> 00:39:18,492 - I wanted us to walk off into the sunset 964 00:39:18,559 --> 00:39:21,161 and have the fairy tale. 965 00:39:21,227 --> 00:39:23,664 With that being said, I am over this. 966 00:39:23,730 --> 00:39:25,199 I walk away with my dignity. 967 00:39:25,266 --> 00:39:27,201 I walk away with my own bag and my own check. 968 00:39:27,268 --> 00:39:29,636 And I no longer have to stress about getting her hers. 969 00:39:29,703 --> 00:39:32,372 - I mean, I feel bad that I hurt 970 00:39:32,439 --> 00:39:34,708 one of they feelings, both of they feelings. 971 00:39:34,775 --> 00:39:37,444 But, I mean, I'm human. 972 00:39:37,511 --> 00:39:40,013 Me and Miniyah, we gonna work this out. 973 00:39:40,080 --> 00:39:43,450 We gonna--we been through too much. 974 00:39:43,517 --> 00:39:46,387 - ♪♪ The whole world's gonna see I'm not fake ♪♪ 975 00:39:46,454 --> 00:39:49,857 ♪♪ It's written all over my face ♪♪ 976 00:39:49,924 --> 00:39:51,625 [line trills] 977 00:39:51,692 --> 00:39:53,928 - Hi, Miniyah. 978 00:39:53,994 --> 00:39:55,729 - Hi, how are you? 979 00:39:55,796 --> 00:39:58,332 - I'm doing well. How are you doing? 980 00:39:58,398 --> 00:39:59,566 - I'm good. 981 00:39:59,633 --> 00:40:01,635 It's been a while, but I am great. 982 00:40:01,701 --> 00:40:03,003 - It has been a while. 983 00:40:03,070 --> 00:40:05,071 And that's why I wanted to check in with you. 984 00:40:05,138 --> 00:40:07,874 Are you and Jay still together? 985 00:40:07,941 --> 00:40:10,944 - Absolutely not. - Mm! 986 00:40:11,011 --> 00:40:12,979 - I had to stand on business. I had to. 987 00:40:13,046 --> 00:40:14,882 Having the constant thoughts of, 988 00:40:14,948 --> 00:40:16,250 are you still talking to this person? 989 00:40:16,317 --> 00:40:17,484 Are you still doing this? 990 00:40:17,551 --> 00:40:18,818 Are you still doing that? 991 00:40:18,885 --> 00:40:20,354 I can't tell nobody how to be grown. 992 00:40:20,421 --> 00:40:23,457 So I decided to just do what I need to do for me. 993 00:40:23,524 --> 00:40:27,227 - Now, listen, that gal, Brittany, 994 00:40:27,294 --> 00:40:31,165 was very upset that day that Jay didn't pick her. 995 00:40:31,232 --> 00:40:35,068 Do you have any tea on if they stayed together? 996 00:40:36,336 --> 00:40:37,404 - Nope, I can-- 997 00:40:37,471 --> 00:40:39,639 I literally cut everything dry. 998 00:40:39,706 --> 00:40:42,276 I just was like, hot girl summer coming up, 999 00:40:42,342 --> 00:40:44,578 and there's too many out here to be worried about one, so... 1000 00:40:44,645 --> 00:40:46,447 - I have to commend you 1001 00:40:46,513 --> 00:40:48,281 that you stood there, you looked out 1002 00:40:48,348 --> 00:40:50,617 at everything that was going on, and you said, 1003 00:40:50,684 --> 00:40:55,322 I don't need this in my life, and you actually let go. 1004 00:40:55,389 --> 00:40:56,956 - Mm-hmm. 1005 00:40:57,023 --> 00:40:59,126 - Well, then it looks like you're doing good. 1006 00:40:59,192 --> 00:41:01,061 And that makes me feel good. 1007 00:41:01,128 --> 00:41:02,629 - Thank you so much. 1008 00:41:02,696 --> 00:41:04,097 It was amazing meeting you. 1009 00:41:04,164 --> 00:41:05,299 You're an amazing person. Thank you. 1010 00:41:05,365 --> 00:41:09,069 - Ditto. All right, Miniyah, be blessed. 1011 00:41:09,135 --> 00:41:10,537 - Bye-bye. - Bye. 1012 00:41:10,604 --> 00:41:12,539 - ♪♪ Don't judge me, Judge Judy ♪♪ 1013 00:41:13,474 --> 00:41:14,809 - Cheaters, beware. 1014 00:41:14,875 --> 00:41:16,076 - We're not together. 1015 00:41:16,143 --> 00:41:17,478 - What the [bleep] is you talking about? 1016 00:41:17,545 --> 00:41:20,347 - Next time you wanna be unfaithful, think again. 1017 00:41:20,414 --> 00:41:21,515 Where you going? 1018 00:41:21,582 --> 00:41:22,816 Because I just might... 1019 00:41:22,882 --> 00:41:24,218 This is a mess. Come on, Ken. - All right. 1020 00:41:24,285 --> 00:41:25,953 - Catch you in the act. 1021 00:41:26,020 --> 00:41:26,987 - But I'm not caught in the act! 1022 00:41:27,054 --> 00:41:28,355 - We've seen it all.