1 00:00:11,887 --> 00:00:13,927 - Welcome to beautiful Costa Rica, 2 00:00:13,972 --> 00:00:16,812 where six recently divorced couples 3 00:00:16,850 --> 00:00:19,520 are about to search for love again. 4 00:00:19,561 --> 00:00:23,821 But they’ll have to do it right alongside their ex. 5 00:00:23,857 --> 00:00:26,607 - What?! - What? 6 00:00:26,652 --> 00:00:28,782 - With each other? 7 00:00:28,820 --> 00:00:31,450 - ♪ I like the way that you’re looking at me ♪ 8 00:00:31,490 --> 00:00:32,780 - Oh, so who wants to [bleep] Brooks? 9 00:00:32,824 --> 00:00:34,454 - Damn. 10 00:00:34,493 --> 00:00:36,243 - Dede is really pretty. She looks like your type. 11 00:00:36,286 --> 00:00:41,326 - Everyone is up for grabs entirely. 12 00:00:41,375 --> 00:00:43,335 - Who do you think you are, [bleep] my wife? 13 00:00:43,377 --> 00:00:45,377 - This part is not [bleep] going on TV. 14 00:00:45,420 --> 00:00:47,760 - No. - Cheers to divorce. 15 00:00:47,798 --> 00:00:51,008 [laughter] - He’s so over me. 16 00:00:51,051 --> 00:00:52,891 - But are you over him? - No. 17 00:00:52,928 --> 00:00:55,468 - Don’t answer for him. - [screams] 18 00:00:55,514 --> 00:00:57,894 - Will watching each other date for the first time 19 00:00:57,933 --> 00:01:00,233 since their divorce push them over the edge? 20 00:01:00,269 --> 00:01:02,229 - I’m asking you right now to please walk away 21 00:01:02,271 --> 00:01:03,561 and give me some space. - I gave you--I gave you-- 22 00:01:03,605 --> 00:01:05,315 - I’m [bleep] done with this [bleep]. 23 00:01:05,357 --> 00:01:07,317 - I’m really having a [bleep] hard time, I’m sorry. 24 00:01:07,359 --> 00:01:08,649 - It kills me to see you upset 25 00:01:08,694 --> 00:01:10,704 that it’s your ex that I’m interested in. 26 00:01:10,737 --> 00:01:11,817 - I shouldn’t have [bleep] come here. 27 00:01:11,863 --> 00:01:13,493 - I’m sorry for everything. 28 00:01:13,532 --> 00:01:15,492 - Thank you for opening up finally. 29 00:01:15,534 --> 00:01:17,204 - Can they finally resolve the baggage 30 00:01:17,244 --> 00:01:19,834 that’s been holding them back from finding love again? 31 00:01:19,871 --> 00:01:21,411 - If we don’t get back together, 32 00:01:21,456 --> 00:01:22,746 I just want you to know I really tried. 33 00:01:22,791 --> 00:01:25,251 I want you. I want you in my life. 34 00:01:25,294 --> 00:01:26,594 - Will this experience tempt them 35 00:01:26,628 --> 00:01:28,248 to try something sexy and new 36 00:01:28,297 --> 00:01:30,627 or reignite the fire of their old flame? 37 00:01:30,674 --> 00:01:32,634 - If I thought that everything was completely done 38 00:01:32,676 --> 00:01:35,596 and over with, I never would have came here. 39 00:01:35,637 --> 00:01:37,597 - Welcome to "The Big D." 40 00:01:37,639 --> 00:01:41,229 [upbeat music] 41 00:01:41,268 --> 00:01:43,518 - ♪ Shame on me ♪ 42 00:01:43,562 --> 00:01:46,692 ♪ Double shame on you ♪ 43 00:01:46,732 --> 00:01:49,732 ♪ One more piece is all I need ♪ 44 00:01:49,776 --> 00:01:54,156 ♪ My transformation near complete ♪ 45 00:01:55,699 --> 00:01:57,739 [upbeat pop music] 46 00:01:57,784 --> 00:01:59,544 - ♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh-ooh-ooh ♪ 47 00:01:59,578 --> 00:02:01,198 ♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh ♪ 48 00:02:01,246 --> 00:02:03,456 ♪ On my knees like hallelujah ♪ 49 00:02:03,498 --> 00:02:06,038 ♪ Enough to make me testify ♪ 50 00:02:06,084 --> 00:02:08,174 - Hi. - Hi. 51 00:02:10,547 --> 00:02:13,507 - This is so awkward. - Yeah. 52 00:02:13,550 --> 00:02:15,390 When Ariel and I first met, 53 00:02:15,427 --> 00:02:17,047 it definitely wasn’t love at first sight. 54 00:02:17,095 --> 00:02:20,425 She thought I was a scrawny nerd. 55 00:02:20,474 --> 00:02:22,734 - He was a goofball but was funny. 56 00:02:22,768 --> 00:02:24,558 It was his laugh that would make me laugh 57 00:02:24,603 --> 00:02:26,483 ’cause he would be like he-- [mimics Blair’s laughter] 58 00:02:26,521 --> 00:02:28,821 [Blair laughs] 59 00:02:28,857 --> 00:02:31,607 He did start working out, and I found that attractive. 60 00:02:31,652 --> 00:02:32,992 - She was very adventurous 61 00:02:33,028 --> 00:02:34,648 and was all about positive energy, 62 00:02:34,696 --> 00:02:36,816 and eventually, we started to date. 63 00:02:36,865 --> 00:02:38,485 After two months, it was like, "Okay, good. 64 00:02:38,533 --> 00:02:40,413 We’re ready to get married." 65 00:02:40,452 --> 00:02:43,912 - ♪ I want to see this through with you, oh ♪ 66 00:02:43,955 --> 00:02:45,865 - It’s funny that it’s in Costa Rica. 67 00:02:45,916 --> 00:02:47,536 - Yeah. Our honeymoon spot. 68 00:02:47,584 --> 00:02:49,464 - Yeah. - Pretty ironic. 69 00:02:49,503 --> 00:02:51,883 After the first couple years, she started to change. 70 00:02:51,922 --> 00:02:54,422 She wanted to jump into social media. 71 00:02:54,466 --> 00:02:56,296 - Do you like my hair? - I liked it better natural. 72 00:02:56,343 --> 00:02:57,803 - I know you would. 73 00:02:57,844 --> 00:02:59,724 - It became more about social media 74 00:02:59,763 --> 00:03:01,473 than it became about our relationship, 75 00:03:01,515 --> 00:03:03,025 and she moved to LA. 76 00:03:03,058 --> 00:03:04,808 - We got married so young, I was like, 77 00:03:04,851 --> 00:03:06,851 "I don’t know if you want the same things I want." 78 00:03:06,895 --> 00:03:09,645 - When she moved to LA, it was--I was wrecked. 79 00:03:09,690 --> 00:03:11,360 - I’m kind of, like, hoping that 80 00:03:11,400 --> 00:03:13,780 this will be 81 00:03:13,819 --> 00:03:15,699 a really good experience for us. 82 00:03:15,737 --> 00:03:18,277 - Why are you sad? - I don’t know. Leave me alone. 83 00:03:18,323 --> 00:03:19,783 We didn’t even start yet. 84 00:03:19,825 --> 00:03:21,665 I would be open to rekindle. 85 00:03:21,702 --> 00:03:23,952 He’s the only person that I’ve ever been in love with. 86 00:03:23,995 --> 00:03:25,615 Oh, my God. It’s so pretty. 87 00:03:25,664 --> 00:03:27,504 - I’m still very cold to Ariel. 88 00:03:27,541 --> 00:03:29,291 I hope, through this experience, 89 00:03:29,334 --> 00:03:31,844 we can get past that whole part of our life. 90 00:03:34,715 --> 00:03:37,885 - Oh, my God. This is so cute. 91 00:03:37,926 --> 00:03:40,426 Reminds me of, like, when we went to Aruba. 92 00:03:40,470 --> 00:03:42,600 - Aruba ended in shambles. - Yeah. 93 00:03:42,639 --> 00:03:47,349 ♪ ♪ 94 00:03:48,687 --> 00:03:51,557 - How you feeling? - Good. 95 00:03:51,606 --> 00:03:53,066 - I like your dress. - Thanks. 96 00:03:53,108 --> 00:03:55,818 Do you remember where I got this dress? 97 00:03:55,861 --> 00:03:58,701 - Ooh, of course I do. How can I forget? 98 00:03:58,739 --> 00:04:00,529 - What was the event? 99 00:04:00,574 --> 00:04:02,664 - Oh, it was so important. It was so special, you know? 100 00:04:02,701 --> 00:04:04,491 - I got it for my bridal shower. 101 00:04:04,536 --> 00:04:06,076 - Yeah, you had it for your bridal shower. 102 00:04:06,121 --> 00:04:07,711 - Yeah. - I told you I didn’t forget. 103 00:04:07,748 --> 00:04:09,368 - Yeah, right. 104 00:04:09,416 --> 00:04:10,746 David was my high school sweetheart 105 00:04:10,792 --> 00:04:12,752 who later became my husband. 106 00:04:12,794 --> 00:04:16,214 I probably was just blinded by stars 107 00:04:16,256 --> 00:04:18,376 and hearts and bullshit. 108 00:04:18,425 --> 00:04:19,975 - Well, you look great. - Thanks. 109 00:04:20,010 --> 00:04:22,510 You look like you’re from the ’80s. 110 00:04:22,554 --> 00:04:24,354 - It was wonderful in the beginning. 111 00:04:24,389 --> 00:04:25,929 Then COVID came. 112 00:04:25,974 --> 00:04:28,984 And now that kind of put a damper on everything. 113 00:04:29,019 --> 00:04:30,559 - We both lost our jobs. 114 00:04:30,604 --> 00:04:32,864 So the financial stress was hard. 115 00:04:32,898 --> 00:04:35,358 - Dealing with that stress, being cooped up, 116 00:04:35,400 --> 00:04:36,900 we started bickering. 117 00:04:36,943 --> 00:04:39,743 I just knew that I had to be out of the apartment. 118 00:04:39,780 --> 00:04:41,780 - "I just can’t do this anymore. 119 00:04:41,823 --> 00:04:44,083 No man will ever make you happy." 120 00:04:44,117 --> 00:04:45,697 That’s what he told me. 121 00:04:45,744 --> 00:04:48,004 - Three weeks go by, I’m trying to reach out. 122 00:04:48,038 --> 00:04:51,078 And the next thing she tells me is divorce. 123 00:04:51,124 --> 00:04:52,884 16 years is a long time. 124 00:04:52,918 --> 00:04:55,548 - You hurt me. Hard to just get over it. 125 00:04:55,587 --> 00:04:59,877 - I want to work past it to be on the same page. 126 00:04:59,925 --> 00:05:02,555 [soft piano music] 127 00:05:02,594 --> 00:05:06,224 - That was offered a while ago. 128 00:05:06,264 --> 00:05:08,224 - I’m crawling on my belly. 129 00:05:08,266 --> 00:05:09,636 And I want to do this for us. 130 00:05:09,684 --> 00:05:12,104 I want to work on our marriage again. 131 00:05:12,145 --> 00:05:14,605 Yeah. - I still care about him. 132 00:05:14,648 --> 00:05:17,568 Even though I’m a little dead inside. 133 00:05:17,609 --> 00:05:18,859 Oh, this is gorgeous. 134 00:05:18,902 --> 00:05:20,282 - Yeah. 135 00:05:20,320 --> 00:05:22,410 [upbeat music] 136 00:05:22,447 --> 00:05:24,157 - Wow. - Hello there. 137 00:05:24,199 --> 00:05:26,579 Who the cat drag in? - Looky, looky. 138 00:05:26,618 --> 00:05:30,498 - You look like you gained a couple pounds. 139 00:05:30,539 --> 00:05:31,999 - There you go already, man. 140 00:05:32,040 --> 00:05:33,880 - Just know that you’re never having it again. 141 00:05:33,917 --> 00:05:35,587 - I got other options. 142 00:05:35,627 --> 00:05:38,047 - I can bet you $1 million, by the end of this, 143 00:05:38,088 --> 00:05:40,048 you’re gonna be on me heavy, okay? 144 00:05:40,090 --> 00:05:41,920 And I need you to hold it together, baby. 145 00:05:41,967 --> 00:05:43,627 - Good luck. 146 00:05:43,677 --> 00:05:45,797 - It was just always arguing, arguing, arguing. 147 00:05:45,846 --> 00:05:47,466 I am throwing glasses. 148 00:05:47,514 --> 00:05:49,104 - You already have a mad Black woman. 149 00:05:49,140 --> 00:05:50,980 - Hey, I’m Alexis. - Hey, I’m Devon. 150 00:05:51,017 --> 00:05:52,307 Nice to meet you. - I’m Ariel. Nice to meet you. 151 00:05:52,352 --> 00:05:53,732 - Devon. Nice to meet you. - Devon? 152 00:05:53,770 --> 00:05:55,520 - What was the point of buying all those 153 00:05:55,564 --> 00:05:57,444 expensive-ass dishes if you gonna break them [bleep]? 154 00:05:57,482 --> 00:05:58,692 Like, you come back to the crib and you’re just like, 155 00:05:58,733 --> 00:06:00,533 "Damn, I don’t have any dishes." 156 00:06:00,569 --> 00:06:02,069 I’m like, "Well, I wonder why. You broke the [bleep]." 157 00:06:02,112 --> 00:06:04,702 - Cheers. - We had new ones every time. 158 00:06:04,739 --> 00:06:07,699 - Cheers to divorce! [laughter] 159 00:06:07,742 --> 00:06:08,662 - Girl, you hit that on the money. 160 00:06:08,702 --> 00:06:10,502 I’m with that. 161 00:06:10,537 --> 00:06:12,617 - What’s up? - Hey, buddy. 162 00:06:12,664 --> 00:06:14,124 - Can I get a hug? 163 00:06:14,165 --> 00:06:15,995 You look good. - Thanks. 164 00:06:16,042 --> 00:06:17,632 - You gonna pick a girl up in that shirt? 165 00:06:17,669 --> 00:06:18,999 - Maybe. I’m all for it. 166 00:06:19,045 --> 00:06:20,875 - Are you? - No. 167 00:06:20,922 --> 00:06:22,672 - What? - Maybe. 168 00:06:22,716 --> 00:06:23,966 - Brooks still tries to get back together 169 00:06:24,009 --> 00:06:25,089 with me every single day. 170 00:06:25,135 --> 00:06:26,935 He needs to face the music 171 00:06:26,970 --> 00:06:29,930 and realize I’m moving on with my life, as should he. 172 00:06:29,973 --> 00:06:32,103 - I’ll always love you. You know that. 173 00:06:32,142 --> 00:06:33,812 - I want him to meet someone. 174 00:06:33,852 --> 00:06:36,562 I want him to, like, get laid and meet a hottie. 175 00:06:36,605 --> 00:06:37,985 But only if she has nice tits. 176 00:06:38,023 --> 00:06:41,193 Hi! This our new home, guys! [laughter] 177 00:06:41,234 --> 00:06:43,534 - There’s probably a small chance 178 00:06:43,570 --> 00:06:44,990 of me and Casey hooking up. 179 00:06:45,030 --> 00:06:47,530 I hope I can get it in there. Who knows? 180 00:06:49,534 --> 00:06:51,664 - Hey, you. - Hey, ex-boo thang. 181 00:06:51,703 --> 00:06:53,163 [both laugh] 182 00:06:53,204 --> 00:06:54,834 I was an NFL player. 183 00:06:54,873 --> 00:06:56,753 - And I was gonna be the Dallas booty call. 184 00:06:56,791 --> 00:06:58,671 So he thought. - That was the original plan. 185 00:06:58,710 --> 00:07:00,210 I don’t totally despise you, girl. 186 00:07:00,253 --> 00:07:02,673 - That’s a lie. - That’s the thing, like-- 187 00:07:02,714 --> 00:07:04,974 - We didn’t get married on, like, the solid foundation 188 00:07:05,008 --> 00:07:07,088 or anything like that. I was pregnant. 189 00:07:07,135 --> 00:07:08,005 - Hi. - Nice to meet you. 190 00:07:08,053 --> 00:07:09,183 - I’m Ally. 191 00:07:09,220 --> 00:07:10,680 - We got married, had a baby, 192 00:07:10,722 --> 00:07:12,182 and then [bleep] got real after that. 193 00:07:12,223 --> 00:07:14,853 - What happened to you? Give me details. 194 00:07:14,893 --> 00:07:17,023 - We were married for four years. 195 00:07:17,062 --> 00:07:19,562 - Oh, really? No. 196 00:07:19,606 --> 00:07:22,526 We’ve been more, like, married since 2014. 197 00:07:22,567 --> 00:07:25,027 Six years. Six. - You know, Snoop. 198 00:07:25,070 --> 00:07:26,950 - At least give me my due time. 199 00:07:26,988 --> 00:07:29,618 Hell, I was married to you for six years. 200 00:07:29,658 --> 00:07:30,948 - You worked hard for those years. 201 00:07:30,992 --> 00:07:31,952 - I worked hard for those years. 202 00:07:31,993 --> 00:07:33,163 - Yes. - Exactly. 203 00:07:33,203 --> 00:07:35,043 - Yeah, six years. 204 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:36,750 So basically, why it ended, I was in an open marriage, 205 00:07:36,790 --> 00:07:39,170 but I was the last one to find out. 206 00:07:39,209 --> 00:07:40,789 - Mm. - What? 207 00:07:40,835 --> 00:07:42,625 [laughter] 208 00:07:42,671 --> 00:07:44,711 - I’ll go get another drink. 209 00:07:44,756 --> 00:07:46,546 - I don’t know if I want to do this. 210 00:07:46,591 --> 00:07:48,051 I’m, like, super-duper nervous, to be honest with you. 211 00:07:48,093 --> 00:07:49,723 - I am too. 212 00:07:49,761 --> 00:07:52,101 - Like, I don’t know if I can bear 213 00:07:52,138 --> 00:07:53,558 seeing you with a different person. 214 00:07:53,598 --> 00:07:55,098 - I know that this is hard for you. 215 00:07:55,141 --> 00:07:56,601 But it really means a lot to me. 216 00:07:56,643 --> 00:07:58,273 - Yeah. 217 00:07:58,311 --> 00:08:00,061 - I really want to be able to be friends with you again 218 00:08:00,105 --> 00:08:01,655 so that we can open up to one another and communicate 219 00:08:01,690 --> 00:08:03,190 and be a part of each other’s lives. 220 00:08:03,233 --> 00:08:04,783 - [sighs] 221 00:08:04,818 --> 00:08:08,198 The goal is to hopefully get back together. 222 00:08:08,238 --> 00:08:11,158 Sometimes I resent her for leaving. 223 00:08:11,199 --> 00:08:12,909 - Hi, Dede. - Thakur. 224 00:08:12,951 --> 00:08:16,581 But she left for a reason. I did too much damage. 225 00:08:16,621 --> 00:08:18,211 - Hi, I’m Blair. - Dede. Nice to meet you. 226 00:08:18,248 --> 00:08:19,668 - Dede, nice to meet you. - Well, I would love a drink. 227 00:08:19,708 --> 00:08:21,078 - You gotta loose him up. 228 00:08:21,126 --> 00:08:22,876 You gotta get him a drink, dog. - Yeah. 229 00:08:26,172 --> 00:08:28,262 - One thing I can say, we all got something in common. 230 00:08:28,299 --> 00:08:29,929 We’re [bleep] divorcees. 231 00:08:29,968 --> 00:08:31,588 - We survived that. We can survive this. 232 00:08:31,636 --> 00:08:32,926 - [gasps] 233 00:08:32,971 --> 00:08:35,771 Shut up! JoJo, she’s the Bachelorette. 234 00:08:35,807 --> 00:08:38,017 - Oh, my God! 235 00:08:38,059 --> 00:08:40,189 - Welcome to Costa Rica, 236 00:08:40,228 --> 00:08:42,308 and welcome to "The Big D." 237 00:08:42,355 --> 00:08:45,355 [cheers and applause] 238 00:08:45,400 --> 00:08:48,190 - I’m Jordan, and this is my beautiful fiancée JoJo. 239 00:08:48,236 --> 00:08:52,866 And we’re about to do something you all are very familiar with. 240 00:08:52,907 --> 00:08:55,157 Get married. - Yes. 241 00:08:55,201 --> 00:08:58,251 - Just like us, each of you have an amazing love story. 242 00:08:58,288 --> 00:09:01,248 But in the end, yours didn’t quite work out. 243 00:09:01,291 --> 00:09:04,791 - But we’re here to find the one thing you haven’t had 244 00:09:04,836 --> 00:09:07,206 since you signed those divorce papers. 245 00:09:07,255 --> 00:09:10,165 New love. - That’s right. 246 00:09:10,216 --> 00:09:13,046 No one seems that excited about it. 247 00:09:13,094 --> 00:09:16,064 - We’re scarred. - We’re damaged. 248 00:09:16,097 --> 00:09:17,927 - So now you’re probably wondering, 249 00:09:17,974 --> 00:09:19,734 "If I’m here to find love again, 250 00:09:19,768 --> 00:09:21,978 why do I have to do it right in front of my ex?" 251 00:09:22,020 --> 00:09:23,150 - Yes, absolutely. - That’s painful. 252 00:09:23,188 --> 00:09:24,308 - The answer is simple. 253 00:09:24,355 --> 00:09:26,065 The only way a new relationship 254 00:09:26,107 --> 00:09:27,777 works better than an old one 255 00:09:27,817 --> 00:09:29,687 is if you learn from your past. 256 00:09:29,736 --> 00:09:34,366 So believe it or not, your ex is actually here to help you. 257 00:09:34,407 --> 00:09:37,027 - And who knows, some of you guys might even 258 00:09:37,077 --> 00:09:40,657 decide at the end of this, the love you’re searching for 259 00:09:40,705 --> 00:09:43,115 is the person you’ve already married. 260 00:09:43,166 --> 00:09:44,746 - What? - Ugh. 261 00:09:44,793 --> 00:09:47,133 - The next ten weeks are gonna be jam-packed 262 00:09:47,170 --> 00:09:50,670 with romantic dates, beautiful parties, 263 00:09:50,715 --> 00:09:53,965 and even some fun "exercises," 264 00:09:54,010 --> 00:09:56,300 all aimed at helping you move on 265 00:09:56,346 --> 00:09:59,176 to a fantastic new relationship. 266 00:09:59,224 --> 00:10:01,814 - "Exercises," I heard that. 267 00:10:01,851 --> 00:10:04,691 - However, there is a catch. - Oh, no. 268 00:10:04,729 --> 00:10:06,309 - All of you aren’t gonna make it 269 00:10:06,356 --> 00:10:09,146 to the end of this process. - What? 270 00:10:09,192 --> 00:10:10,902 - In order to find something that works, 271 00:10:10,944 --> 00:10:12,194 you have to let go of what doesn’t. 272 00:10:12,237 --> 00:10:13,737 - The baggage. 273 00:10:13,780 --> 00:10:15,780 - So each week, we will gather together 274 00:10:15,824 --> 00:10:18,204 and let someone go who just isn’t ready 275 00:10:18,243 --> 00:10:19,873 for a new relationship. 276 00:10:19,911 --> 00:10:21,331 all: What? 277 00:10:21,371 --> 00:10:23,711 - Wow. - Oh, my God. 278 00:10:23,748 --> 00:10:27,128 - Our goal is to find one couple that everyone agrees 279 00:10:27,168 --> 00:10:29,958 is ready to reenter the real world 280 00:10:30,004 --> 00:10:32,214 as a committed relationship. 281 00:10:32,257 --> 00:10:34,337 - Yeah. We want that. 282 00:10:34,384 --> 00:10:36,184 - So there’s a lot more to come. 283 00:10:36,219 --> 00:10:38,929 But now, go enjoy this beautiful new home, 284 00:10:38,972 --> 00:10:40,772 and we’ll see you again tomorrow. 285 00:10:40,807 --> 00:10:43,017 - Have so much fun, you guys. 286 00:10:43,059 --> 00:10:45,099 [cheers and applause] 287 00:10:45,145 --> 00:10:47,065 [upbeat music] 288 00:10:47,105 --> 00:10:48,775 - Having Alexis under the same roof with me, 289 00:10:48,815 --> 00:10:50,445 I think this is gonna be a roller coaster ride. 290 00:10:50,483 --> 00:10:52,113 I don’t know what to expect. 291 00:10:52,152 --> 00:10:53,492 I don’t know what’s gonna happen. 292 00:10:53,528 --> 00:10:55,278 I don’t even know what to expect from me. 293 00:10:55,321 --> 00:10:56,821 - ♪ I got a bad feeling ♪ 294 00:10:56,865 --> 00:10:58,075 ♪ This ain’t the beginning ♪ 295 00:10:58,116 --> 00:10:59,986 ♪ This is the end ♪ 296 00:11:01,786 --> 00:11:03,406 - So who wants to [bleep] Brooks? 297 00:11:03,454 --> 00:11:06,004 [laughter] I’m serious, you guys. 298 00:11:06,040 --> 00:11:07,380 - Hey, what makes you say that? - You guys are all so pretty. 299 00:11:07,417 --> 00:11:09,247 - Is your relationship that messed up? 300 00:11:09,294 --> 00:11:11,384 - Oh, so done. So done. - Messed up? 301 00:11:11,421 --> 00:11:14,051 - Casey’s mouth can be like razor blades 302 00:11:14,090 --> 00:11:16,300 and just cut you up into a million pieces. 303 00:11:16,342 --> 00:11:19,302 - If he had it his way, we would be back together. 304 00:11:19,345 --> 00:11:20,925 And that kind of breaks my heart. 305 00:11:20,972 --> 00:11:23,972 - Yeah. - But I hope you guys like him. 306 00:11:24,017 --> 00:11:26,227 - Oh. - Make it happen, somebody? 307 00:11:26,269 --> 00:11:27,979 [laughter] 308 00:11:28,021 --> 00:11:29,401 - I don’t know what I’m looking to get here. 309 00:11:29,439 --> 00:11:31,859 I mean, after that comment, I don’t know. 310 00:11:31,900 --> 00:11:33,860 I--I’m lost. 311 00:11:33,902 --> 00:11:35,192 - It’s weird ’cause I should be pimping him out 312 00:11:35,236 --> 00:11:37,106 to you right now, I should be selling him. 313 00:11:37,155 --> 00:11:38,455 - [groans] 314 00:11:38,489 --> 00:11:40,825 [sighs, chuckles] 315 00:11:40,825 --> 00:11:47,615 [upbeat music] 316 00:11:47,665 --> 00:11:50,285 - ♪ Can you see? ♪ 317 00:11:50,335 --> 00:11:52,295 - Where’s the room? 318 00:11:52,337 --> 00:11:56,837 - [bleep]. Guys, I think it’s by couples. 319 00:11:56,883 --> 00:11:58,723 - No, it’s not by couples. - Look. 320 00:11:58,760 --> 00:12:00,680 - Y’all are [bleep] kidding me right now. 321 00:12:00,720 --> 00:12:02,390 - Oh, shit! 322 00:12:02,430 --> 00:12:03,680 - You got to stay in your room with your girl? 323 00:12:03,723 --> 00:12:06,393 - Ahh! - Why is everyone screaming? 324 00:12:06,434 --> 00:12:10,864 I’m starting to realize how chaotic and crazy it is... 325 00:12:10,897 --> 00:12:13,397 - Do we have to sleep with our exes? 326 00:12:13,441 --> 00:12:16,491 - To be in a house with a bunch of divorced couples... 327 00:12:16,527 --> 00:12:19,237 - Oh, these are my wedding pictures. 328 00:12:19,280 --> 00:12:21,780 - Who have a lot of things to hash out. 329 00:12:21,824 --> 00:12:24,664 Aw, they look so happy, it’s [bleep] up. 330 00:12:24,702 --> 00:12:26,332 [both laugh] 331 00:12:26,371 --> 00:12:27,791 Plus, we’re all gonna date each other. 332 00:12:27,830 --> 00:12:29,500 Things are getting weird. 333 00:12:29,540 --> 00:12:31,750 - Come here, babe. We’re on our honeymoon again. 334 00:12:31,793 --> 00:12:33,463 [both laugh] 335 00:12:33,503 --> 00:12:36,263 There’s a lot of beautiful girls here. 336 00:12:36,297 --> 00:12:40,337 But if I was gonna go on a date with somebody right now, 337 00:12:40,385 --> 00:12:43,555 I’d pick my ex-wife. I don’t want to let go. 338 00:12:43,596 --> 00:12:44,926 And I don’t know. 339 00:12:44,973 --> 00:12:48,233 I think that we didn’t try hard enough. 340 00:12:48,268 --> 00:12:50,478 When I met Casey, she was really loud, 341 00:12:50,520 --> 00:12:54,520 but she’s funny, and she had that cool personality 342 00:12:54,565 --> 00:12:56,855 that I like to be around. 343 00:12:56,901 --> 00:12:58,821 Everything started going sideways 344 00:12:58,861 --> 00:13:00,571 when I started my own company. 345 00:13:00,613 --> 00:13:03,623 And I think I brought some stress home. 346 00:13:03,658 --> 00:13:06,288 - I would ask him for things that money could not buy, 347 00:13:06,327 --> 00:13:07,947 and he could not do it. 348 00:13:07,996 --> 00:13:10,496 Our marriage lacked passion entirely. 349 00:13:10,540 --> 00:13:13,830 Sex wasn’t exciting. It was like a chore. 350 00:13:13,876 --> 00:13:15,956 Like, I’m not a dried-up old woman. 351 00:13:16,004 --> 00:13:17,844 Okay, well, I get this side. - Okay. 352 00:13:17,880 --> 00:13:19,630 - We needed to take a break. 353 00:13:19,674 --> 00:13:22,684 And then the break, you know, turned into a divorce. 354 00:13:22,719 --> 00:13:24,719 - Wait, what’s in here? Is this a smush room? 355 00:13:24,762 --> 00:13:26,472 - No, [bleep]. Yeah, right. 356 00:13:26,514 --> 00:13:29,184 - Well, I mean, it could be. [laughs] 357 00:13:30,685 --> 00:13:32,275 - Never have I ever. 358 00:13:32,312 --> 00:13:34,232 - We all drink it if we have done it. 359 00:13:34,272 --> 00:13:35,272 - Let’s do that. 360 00:13:35,315 --> 00:13:36,405 - Okay. - Hey, Dede. 361 00:13:36,441 --> 00:13:37,781 - Anything goes? - Yeah. 362 00:13:37,817 --> 00:13:39,857 - Never have I ever had a threesome. 363 00:13:39,902 --> 00:13:42,532 - Threesomes. Threesomes. 364 00:13:42,572 --> 00:13:43,822 - Ooh! 365 00:13:43,865 --> 00:13:46,335 - It’s Thakur’s turn. Go Thakur. 366 00:13:46,367 --> 00:13:47,987 - Never have I ever had more 367 00:13:48,036 --> 00:13:50,286 than a threesome, been with multiple people. 368 00:13:50,330 --> 00:13:51,660 - That’s an orgy. - That’s an orgy. 369 00:13:51,706 --> 00:13:54,206 - All right. So you say. 370 00:13:54,250 --> 00:13:55,920 - Oh, my God! 371 00:13:55,960 --> 00:13:58,340 - Dede and I, we fought a lot 372 00:13:58,379 --> 00:14:01,919 predominantly because of my actions. 373 00:14:01,966 --> 00:14:04,256 I met Dede on an online dating app, 374 00:14:04,302 --> 00:14:06,472 and we really hit it off. 375 00:14:06,512 --> 00:14:07,932 It was really beautiful in the beginning. 376 00:14:07,972 --> 00:14:11,602 I mean, we loved each other a lot. 377 00:14:11,642 --> 00:14:13,892 But over time, it started dissipating, 378 00:14:13,936 --> 00:14:17,266 and I started going back to my old habits. 379 00:14:17,315 --> 00:14:19,405 - Never have I ever had sex on an airplane. 380 00:14:19,442 --> 00:14:20,992 - Oh, nice. 381 00:14:21,027 --> 00:14:24,527 - The lying and the cheating, I became addicted to it. 382 00:14:24,572 --> 00:14:26,992 And I didn’t stop. 383 00:14:27,033 --> 00:14:29,293 - Drink up! [laughs] 384 00:14:29,327 --> 00:14:30,867 - I didn’t want to believe that I was in a relationship 385 00:14:30,912 --> 00:14:32,622 that was ultimately not going to end up working out. 386 00:14:32,663 --> 00:14:34,873 So I tried really hard to make it work. 387 00:14:34,916 --> 00:14:37,456 But one weekend, I found a box of condoms. 388 00:14:37,502 --> 00:14:38,752 That was the final straw for me. 389 00:14:38,795 --> 00:14:40,505 I filed for divorce immediately. 390 00:14:40,546 --> 00:14:43,466 - Never have I ever had sex with a stripper. 391 00:14:43,508 --> 00:14:45,298 - Of course. 392 00:14:45,343 --> 00:14:48,603 [laughter] 393 00:14:48,638 --> 00:14:51,388 [singer vocalizing] 394 00:14:54,936 --> 00:14:57,396 - Everyone’s cool. 395 00:14:57,438 --> 00:14:59,728 - Are these someone’s drinks? - Dede is really pretty. 396 00:14:59,774 --> 00:15:01,734 - Yeah. - She looks like your type. 397 00:15:01,776 --> 00:15:03,936 - What does that mean? - She looks like your type. 398 00:15:03,986 --> 00:15:05,316 - She’s not unattractive. 399 00:15:05,363 --> 00:15:07,913 She’s not an unattractive woman. 400 00:15:07,949 --> 00:15:09,989 - Yeah, but I think she’s cute. 401 00:15:10,034 --> 00:15:11,874 - I mean, Dede is attractive. I mean, yeah, I get it. 402 00:15:11,911 --> 00:15:13,791 I mean, she’s definitely attractive. 403 00:15:13,830 --> 00:15:15,960 Like, yeah, I would say so. 404 00:15:15,998 --> 00:15:17,668 - Can you get me a towel, please? 405 00:15:17,708 --> 00:15:19,378 - Yeah. 406 00:15:19,419 --> 00:15:23,589 - Guys, I have no idea what I’m doing. 407 00:15:23,631 --> 00:15:28,431 I think he is so over me. 408 00:15:28,469 --> 00:15:30,099 - But are you over him? - No. 409 00:15:30,138 --> 00:15:32,558 - Don’t answer for him. - [screams] 410 00:15:32,598 --> 00:15:33,678 - No. 411 00:15:33,724 --> 00:15:35,394 All right, I see you, Blair. 412 00:15:35,435 --> 00:15:37,445 Blair’s with the abs. He’s cutting up. 413 00:15:37,478 --> 00:15:40,648 - Blair, trying to wash some clothes on that [bleep]? 414 00:15:40,690 --> 00:15:45,360 - I’m very jealous of Blair’s godly body. 415 00:15:45,403 --> 00:15:49,573 Me, on the other hand, I look like a tattooed pirate. 416 00:15:49,615 --> 00:15:52,445 It depends what you like. 417 00:15:52,493 --> 00:15:55,123 - Are you drinking white wine? Or what are you drink-- 418 00:15:55,163 --> 00:15:57,543 oh, beer out of that, huh? - Yeah, ’cause I’m bougie. 419 00:15:57,582 --> 00:15:59,122 - You’re like, "I’m [bleep] classy." 420 00:15:59,167 --> 00:16:01,417 - Pinkies out. Pinkies out. - Pinkies up. [laughs] 421 00:16:01,461 --> 00:16:02,751 David’s funny. He’s so entertaining. 422 00:16:02,795 --> 00:16:04,835 I want to get to know him more, definitely. 423 00:16:04,881 --> 00:16:07,631 You know what we should do is stock that fear with bridge. 424 00:16:07,675 --> 00:16:10,545 I mean... [laughs] 425 00:16:10,595 --> 00:16:13,725 I mean, that fridge with beer. 426 00:16:13,764 --> 00:16:16,024 - That fear had no chance with that bridge. 427 00:16:18,102 --> 00:16:19,602 - Anyway. 428 00:16:19,645 --> 00:16:21,105 - Get my back. - So you’re trying to-- 429 00:16:21,147 --> 00:16:22,937 - Get on my back and give me a [bleep] massage. 430 00:16:22,982 --> 00:16:26,032 - So you’re trying to tell me that during our marriage, 431 00:16:26,068 --> 00:16:27,778 that you think that the marriage counsellor-- 432 00:16:27,820 --> 00:16:29,150 - Not like that. 433 00:16:29,197 --> 00:16:31,027 - You think the marriage-- - Oh, Lex, no. 434 00:16:31,073 --> 00:16:32,913 Oh, my God. Lex, no. 435 00:16:32,950 --> 00:16:34,740 - I’m trying to talk right now. You’re not listening. 436 00:16:34,785 --> 00:16:36,035 - You’re just trying to paralyze me. 437 00:16:36,078 --> 00:16:37,498 Like, what the [bleep]? 438 00:16:37,538 --> 00:16:38,998 In the beginning, everything 439 00:16:39,040 --> 00:16:41,040 between me and Alexis was just perfect. 440 00:16:41,083 --> 00:16:44,923 But Alexis’s mother played a big part in our marriage 441 00:16:44,962 --> 00:16:47,052 ’cause me and her fought all the time. 442 00:16:47,089 --> 00:16:49,839 Lex, no. Oh, my God! Lex, no. 443 00:16:49,884 --> 00:16:53,604 - My mom definitely meddled in our relationship. 444 00:16:53,638 --> 00:16:56,468 She was texting him rude, long messages. 445 00:16:56,516 --> 00:16:58,426 They would go back and forth, message, voicemail, 446 00:16:58,476 --> 00:16:59,936 blocking each other to blocking each other. 447 00:16:59,977 --> 00:17:03,057 Even in person, it was just always a hot mess. 448 00:17:03,105 --> 00:17:04,935 It caused stress for me 449 00:17:04,982 --> 00:17:07,192 because I’m trying to start a life with someone, 450 00:17:07,235 --> 00:17:09,955 and then I have my mother pulling me back like, 451 00:17:09,987 --> 00:17:12,067 "No, this is not the person for you." 452 00:17:12,114 --> 00:17:13,914 - Lex, what the [bleep] is wrong with you? 453 00:17:13,950 --> 00:17:15,700 - I’m getting those knots out. 454 00:17:15,743 --> 00:17:17,123 - It just got to a point in time 455 00:17:17,161 --> 00:17:18,911 where things were just super toxic. 456 00:17:18,955 --> 00:17:22,085 And that’s just what pushed the whole entire, 457 00:17:22,124 --> 00:17:23,634 "Yo, I just think it’s better 458 00:17:23,668 --> 00:17:26,838 for us to divorce and go separate ways." 459 00:17:26,879 --> 00:17:28,459 - That’s all you get. - Yeah, no. 460 00:17:28,506 --> 00:17:29,466 - Devon, no, I’m not dealing with you. 461 00:17:29,507 --> 00:17:30,967 - I’m gone, man. 462 00:17:31,008 --> 00:17:32,718 I’m not dealing with you. - Okay. Well, be done. 463 00:17:32,760 --> 00:17:34,180 - What the [bleep]? 464 00:17:34,220 --> 00:17:36,560 - ♪ I’ll be your comfort ♪ 465 00:17:36,597 --> 00:17:37,807 ♪ And you can meet my needs ♪ 466 00:17:37,848 --> 00:17:39,678 - Come on. Get up, white girl. 467 00:17:39,725 --> 00:17:44,895 - Yes! Who’s your daddy?! [both laugh] 468 00:17:44,939 --> 00:17:46,979 - What are we doing here? So what are you thinking? 469 00:17:47,024 --> 00:17:48,444 - We’re just here to enjoy the experience. 470 00:17:48,484 --> 00:17:50,494 Get to know new people, you know? 471 00:17:50,528 --> 00:17:51,988 - And what, hook up with somebody’s ex-husband? 472 00:17:52,029 --> 00:17:53,069 - Did I say that? 473 00:17:53,114 --> 00:17:54,994 - I’m asking you. - No. 474 00:17:55,032 --> 00:17:56,832 Falling in love with somebody and hooking up with somebody, 475 00:17:56,867 --> 00:17:58,537 those are like two completely-- - You’re open to that? 476 00:17:58,578 --> 00:18:00,788 - Am I open to falling in love? Yes, absolutely. 477 00:18:00,830 --> 00:18:03,620 - While we’re here? - Any time, any day. 478 00:18:03,666 --> 00:18:05,166 Here, anywhere. Like-- 479 00:18:05,209 --> 00:18:07,499 - Bye. - Bye. 480 00:18:07,545 --> 00:18:08,925 It’s super inappropriate for Thakur 481 00:18:08,963 --> 00:18:10,553 to be making comments about me being here 482 00:18:10,590 --> 00:18:12,220 just to hook up with other people 483 00:18:12,258 --> 00:18:14,968 because that’s what he was doing our entire relationship. 484 00:18:15,011 --> 00:18:16,931 Want to walk down to, like, the little cabanas? 485 00:18:16,971 --> 00:18:18,601 - Sure. - Being in the house, 486 00:18:18,639 --> 00:18:22,269 I’m really seeing all those same toxic habits. 487 00:18:22,310 --> 00:18:24,770 We’re always arguing, and I just don’t want 488 00:18:24,812 --> 00:18:26,902 to deal with that situation anymore. 489 00:18:28,733 --> 00:18:30,693 So what’s up? 490 00:18:30,735 --> 00:18:33,535 - So you think that this is the best way to date other people? 491 00:18:33,571 --> 00:18:34,661 Is to flaunt it in front of my face? 492 00:18:34,697 --> 00:18:36,157 - Do you really feel like 493 00:18:36,198 --> 00:18:37,738 I’m trying to flaunt it in front of your face? 494 00:18:37,783 --> 00:18:39,243 - Of course. - You know what my goal is? 495 00:18:39,285 --> 00:18:41,125 My goal’s my next relationship is gonna be solid. 496 00:18:41,162 --> 00:18:43,002 They’re gonna love me. They’re going to appreciate me. 497 00:18:43,039 --> 00:18:44,869 They’re not gonna treat me like dirt the way that you do. 498 00:18:44,915 --> 00:18:46,245 They’re not gonna cheat on me every two [bleep] seconds. 499 00:18:46,292 --> 00:18:47,922 - I treat you like dirt all the time? 500 00:18:47,960 --> 00:18:48,960 - You really think you had any respect for me 501 00:18:49,003 --> 00:18:50,003 and our relationship? 502 00:18:50,046 --> 00:18:51,046 - Yes. - How? How? 503 00:18:51,088 --> 00:18:52,588 You were literally talking 504 00:18:52,632 --> 00:18:53,842 to people the entire time we were together. 505 00:18:53,883 --> 00:18:55,133 - Right. 506 00:18:55,176 --> 00:18:56,636 - Women came up to me and told me. 507 00:18:56,677 --> 00:18:57,887 And I confronted you about it, 508 00:18:57,928 --> 00:18:59,048 and you lied to my face about it. 509 00:18:59,096 --> 00:19:00,506 - I don’t want to, like, deal 510 00:19:00,556 --> 00:19:02,056 with these conversations anymore. 511 00:19:02,099 --> 00:19:03,729 - This is the most we’ve talked since we divorced, 512 00:19:03,768 --> 00:19:05,268 so [bleep], it’s something. 513 00:19:05,311 --> 00:19:06,851 - No, I’ve tried to talk to you a bazillion times. 514 00:19:06,896 --> 00:19:08,266 And you blew me off. 515 00:19:08,314 --> 00:19:09,864 - But look how well our conversations go. 516 00:19:09,899 --> 00:19:12,609 - Okay, so then let’s just leave it at, 517 00:19:12,652 --> 00:19:15,112 we have nothing to say to each other. 518 00:19:15,154 --> 00:19:17,114 - All right. 519 00:19:17,156 --> 00:19:21,156 - He’s accusing her of doing exactly what he’s been doing, 520 00:19:21,202 --> 00:19:22,952 and she’s not even doing anything. 521 00:19:22,995 --> 00:19:25,325 So it’s kind of hypocritical. 522 00:19:25,373 --> 00:19:27,249 - I don’t even know what to say. 523 00:19:27,249 --> 00:19:35,589 - ♪ They say ooh, la, la ♪ 524 00:19:35,633 --> 00:19:37,433 ♪ Every time you smile ♪ 525 00:19:37,468 --> 00:19:39,258 ♪ Breaking hearts, you don’t know you do ♪ 526 00:19:39,303 --> 00:19:41,763 - Was it weird for y’all to sleep next to your ex? 527 00:19:41,806 --> 00:19:44,176 - She said good night. I was like, "All right." 528 00:19:44,225 --> 00:19:45,605 - Really? - I said good night. 529 00:19:45,643 --> 00:19:46,773 - Good night. - Yeah. 530 00:19:46,811 --> 00:19:48,441 - She’s very nice. - Lucky. 531 00:19:48,479 --> 00:19:51,609 I had Devon talking to me for a long period of time. 532 00:19:51,649 --> 00:19:54,439 It was like I was in a senior seminar, 533 00:19:54,485 --> 00:19:57,245 and he’s just going on. 534 00:19:58,656 --> 00:20:01,616 - Hello! - Hello. Look who it is. 535 00:20:01,659 --> 00:20:03,989 - Hey, guys. Come on. - Hey, new person. 536 00:20:04,036 --> 00:20:05,746 - Come on over. - Hey! 537 00:20:05,788 --> 00:20:08,288 - Get in there. 538 00:20:08,332 --> 00:20:09,962 - Good morning, everyone. 539 00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:11,460 I know you had some fun last night. 540 00:20:11,502 --> 00:20:13,132 That’s good. both: A little bit. 541 00:20:13,170 --> 00:20:15,300 - But today, we get down to business-- 542 00:20:15,339 --> 00:20:17,299 the business of moving on from the past 543 00:20:17,341 --> 00:20:19,301 and finding love again. 544 00:20:19,343 --> 00:20:21,553 Welcome to your first exercise. 545 00:20:21,595 --> 00:20:23,305 all: Wow. 546 00:20:23,347 --> 00:20:25,467 - To help lead us each week through these exercises, 547 00:20:25,516 --> 00:20:28,806 we have brought in our favorite relationship expert, 548 00:20:28,853 --> 00:20:30,813 Dr. Jada Jackson. 549 00:20:30,855 --> 00:20:33,155 - Hello. Hello. 550 00:20:33,190 --> 00:20:37,110 I’m Dr. Jada, and I’ve been working with divorced couples 551 00:20:37,153 --> 00:20:39,493 just like you for over 12 years. 552 00:20:39,530 --> 00:20:43,530 Now, this process is really about healing. 553 00:20:43,576 --> 00:20:46,246 In other words, we want to get all of you to a place 554 00:20:46,287 --> 00:20:48,077 where you can actually welcome 555 00:20:48,122 --> 00:20:50,832 something healthy into your life. 556 00:20:50,875 --> 00:20:52,545 - That’s what we all want, right? 557 00:20:52,585 --> 00:20:53,755 - Hell, yeah. Yeah. 558 00:20:53,794 --> 00:20:55,304 - Dr. Jada is a good addition. 559 00:20:55,337 --> 00:20:56,837 When me and Ally were together, 560 00:20:56,881 --> 00:20:58,671 we didn’t go to therapy or anything like that. 561 00:20:58,716 --> 00:21:00,466 We were just trying to thug it out on our own, 562 00:21:00,509 --> 00:21:02,759 and in hindsight, that was a terrible idea. 563 00:21:02,803 --> 00:21:04,643 - All right, since we’re all still 564 00:21:04,680 --> 00:21:06,680 getting to know each other, we thought it might be nice 565 00:21:06,724 --> 00:21:10,274 for our guys to be officially presented 566 00:21:10,311 --> 00:21:12,021 to the beautiful ladies here. 567 00:21:12,062 --> 00:21:14,732 - And who better to do that than the person 568 00:21:14,774 --> 00:21:17,694 that knows you best: your ex. 569 00:21:17,735 --> 00:21:19,705 [laughter] 570 00:21:19,737 --> 00:21:22,737 Give me the tea, everything that you want the other women 571 00:21:22,782 --> 00:21:25,202 in this house to know. 572 00:21:25,242 --> 00:21:27,792 The winners will head out on a romantic 573 00:21:27,828 --> 00:21:31,708 and exclusive date with someone very special. 574 00:21:31,749 --> 00:21:34,209 - Whoo-hoo-hoo-hoo! 575 00:21:34,251 --> 00:21:35,541 - Okay, then let’s get to it. 576 00:21:35,586 --> 00:21:37,876 You have one hour to prepare. 577 00:21:37,922 --> 00:21:39,552 Are y’all ready to flex your ex? 578 00:21:39,590 --> 00:21:40,880 - Yes. - Yeah! 579 00:21:40,925 --> 00:21:43,225 - Let’s go! - All right, go do it. 580 00:21:43,260 --> 00:21:46,560 - Okay. Brainstorm. I need a pen and a paper. 581 00:21:46,597 --> 00:21:49,177 - So I got to figure out nice things to say about you. 582 00:21:49,225 --> 00:21:51,355 - Shouldn’t be too hard, right? 583 00:21:51,393 --> 00:21:53,313 - I mean, I might run out of... 584 00:21:53,354 --> 00:21:54,734 - Space on the paper? 585 00:21:54,772 --> 00:21:56,442 [upbeat music] 586 00:21:56,482 --> 00:21:59,742 - So let’s do a list of the goods. 587 00:21:59,777 --> 00:22:01,187 Loving. Right? 588 00:22:01,237 --> 00:22:03,527 - I think so. - Okay. Now a bad thing. 589 00:22:03,572 --> 00:22:06,662 You sweat a lot. What else? 590 00:22:06,700 --> 00:22:08,200 - Sarcastic? 591 00:22:08,244 --> 00:22:10,754 - Asshole. I’m not putting sarcastic. 592 00:22:10,788 --> 00:22:13,578 That ain’t the word I would use. 593 00:22:13,624 --> 00:22:14,834 - Want to talk about your package? 594 00:22:14,875 --> 00:22:17,415 - The what? [laughs] 595 00:22:17,461 --> 00:22:19,671 - He’s packing heat. 596 00:22:21,799 --> 00:22:25,259 - What do I write? - Um. 597 00:22:25,302 --> 00:22:28,432 - Devon here, when it comes to finance, he is bipolar. 598 00:22:28,472 --> 00:22:30,272 - What the hell? You have a shopping habit. 599 00:22:30,307 --> 00:22:31,597 I don’t have those issues. 600 00:22:31,642 --> 00:22:33,272 - That’s a lie! - I don’t--listen... 601 00:22:33,310 --> 00:22:35,400 - You do love to shop. - I do not like to shop. 602 00:22:35,437 --> 00:22:37,897 - Just look at your suitcase. You do love to shop. 603 00:22:37,940 --> 00:22:41,150 - We’re gonna have to fix your hair. 604 00:22:41,193 --> 00:22:42,863 - What’s wrong with my hair? - Nothing. It looks good. 605 00:22:42,903 --> 00:22:44,613 But we’ll just have to, like, touch up a little bit. 606 00:22:44,655 --> 00:22:45,745 What should you wear? 607 00:22:45,781 --> 00:22:47,411 I want to take Blair on a date. 608 00:22:47,449 --> 00:22:49,449 This is a competition, and I’m not here to lose. 609 00:22:49,493 --> 00:22:52,293 So am I gonna make it all good ’cause I want to sell him? 610 00:22:52,329 --> 00:22:54,289 Toss you around in the bedroom 611 00:22:54,331 --> 00:22:57,461 and can also take you on wild adventures. 612 00:22:57,501 --> 00:22:59,711 Oh, my God. They’re all gonna want you. 613 00:22:59,753 --> 00:23:02,633 Or am I gonna kind of throw in some of the red flags 614 00:23:02,673 --> 00:23:04,883 to, like, keep the girls away from him? 615 00:23:04,925 --> 00:23:07,385 - All right, everyone. Time is up. 616 00:23:07,428 --> 00:23:09,298 - I’m so mad that I have the hottest husband 617 00:23:09,346 --> 00:23:10,756 in the house. 618 00:23:10,806 --> 00:23:12,926 - All right, Gillian and David, you’re up first. 619 00:23:12,975 --> 00:23:14,895 Let’s get this party started. 620 00:23:14,935 --> 00:23:17,475 - Whoo! - Ladies! 621 00:23:17,521 --> 00:23:19,821 It’s the moment you’ve been waiting for. 622 00:23:19,857 --> 00:23:22,147 I’d love to introduce to you 623 00:23:22,192 --> 00:23:25,992 my very handsome ex-husband, Mr. David. 624 00:23:26,030 --> 00:23:27,490 [cheering] 625 00:23:27,531 --> 00:23:30,331 Yeah. 626 00:23:30,367 --> 00:23:32,827 - Warning: he can be a little sensitive. 627 00:23:32,870 --> 00:23:34,250 - That’s good. I like that. 628 00:23:34,288 --> 00:23:36,328 - He can also be a little stubborn. 629 00:23:36,373 --> 00:23:37,833 - No, I’m not. - You are. 630 00:23:37,875 --> 00:23:41,805 He can even dress himself well 90% of the time. 631 00:23:41,837 --> 00:23:44,917 And he is also a fabulous dancer. 632 00:23:44,965 --> 00:23:46,505 - Prove it. 633 00:23:46,550 --> 00:23:48,430 - Hey! 634 00:23:48,469 --> 00:23:49,969 - He will wine and dine you 635 00:23:50,012 --> 00:23:51,762 and make you feel like a princess. 636 00:23:51,805 --> 00:23:53,345 - Aw. 637 00:23:53,390 --> 00:23:55,980 - Not only does he have the body of a Greek god. 638 00:23:56,018 --> 00:23:58,018 - Ow! - Oh, damn. 639 00:23:58,062 --> 00:23:59,692 - Blair’s very attractive. 640 00:23:59,730 --> 00:24:01,520 There’s just something in his eyes 641 00:24:01,565 --> 00:24:03,855 like there’s more to him, and I’m very curious about him. 642 00:24:03,901 --> 00:24:06,861 - He will not disappoint you. Or he might. 643 00:24:06,904 --> 00:24:10,874 But the sex will be so good, it’ll be worth the trauma. 644 00:24:10,908 --> 00:24:12,528 - Yes! 645 00:24:12,576 --> 00:24:16,036 - Ladies, roses are red, violets are blue... 646 00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:17,540 - Uh-oh. 647 00:24:17,581 --> 00:24:19,541 - We have Daddy Brooks in a speedo. 648 00:24:19,583 --> 00:24:21,793 - Yeah. - Oh, my God. 649 00:24:21,835 --> 00:24:24,375 - And we just need you. 650 00:24:24,421 --> 00:24:27,221 Now, he may be all bark, no bite. 651 00:24:27,257 --> 00:24:29,547 But this man’s bills are paid right. 652 00:24:29,593 --> 00:24:31,393 - Ow! 653 00:24:31,428 --> 00:24:34,508 - It may take three months for him to change a light, 654 00:24:34,556 --> 00:24:37,426 but let’s see here, this Speedo is tight. 655 00:24:37,476 --> 00:24:39,306 - Damn, man! 656 00:24:39,353 --> 00:24:42,773 - Whoo! Here it is, ladies. 657 00:24:42,815 --> 00:24:45,825 - Do a dance, Brooksy. Do a dance. There we go. 658 00:24:45,859 --> 00:24:48,859 - And what’s even better is, underneath that Speedo, 659 00:24:48,904 --> 00:24:50,994 he’s got his mom’s name tattooed on his butt. 660 00:24:51,031 --> 00:24:52,741 Find that out later. 661 00:24:52,783 --> 00:24:57,373 - He loves to exaggerate and does have a bad temper. 662 00:24:57,413 --> 00:25:00,923 But other than that, bills are paid. 663 00:25:00,958 --> 00:25:02,538 He’s getting by. 664 00:25:02,584 --> 00:25:04,424 Let’s turn it around one more time. 665 00:25:04,461 --> 00:25:08,261 Yeah. - Ow! 666 00:25:08,298 --> 00:25:11,588 - That slick tongue of his, it will get on your nerves. 667 00:25:11,635 --> 00:25:13,925 But I promise you, get a little liquor in him, 668 00:25:13,971 --> 00:25:16,931 and that tongue will get on your nerves, 669 00:25:16,974 --> 00:25:17,974 if you know what I mean. 670 00:25:18,017 --> 00:25:19,597 [laughter] - Oh! 671 00:25:19,643 --> 00:25:21,443 - I’ll be honest, I had a really 672 00:25:21,478 --> 00:25:23,398 hard time with this exercise. It’s been tough. 673 00:25:23,439 --> 00:25:24,859 We were together a really long time, 674 00:25:24,898 --> 00:25:26,648 and since the separation and the divorce, 675 00:25:26,692 --> 00:25:29,612 I have not really thought about what we went through. 676 00:25:29,653 --> 00:25:31,363 So trying to put that into pen and paper 677 00:25:31,405 --> 00:25:33,785 was a struggle for me. 678 00:25:33,824 --> 00:25:34,954 Um. 679 00:25:34,992 --> 00:25:37,792 [sentimental music] 680 00:25:37,828 --> 00:25:40,788 - Dede, just recognize that you’re still going through 681 00:25:40,831 --> 00:25:43,461 the healing process, and that’s why we’re here. 682 00:25:43,500 --> 00:25:45,460 So just own that space. 683 00:25:45,502 --> 00:25:46,962 - Thank you. - Yeah, Dede! 684 00:25:47,004 --> 00:25:49,804 - Thank you. 685 00:25:49,840 --> 00:25:52,470 - All right, now it’s time to determine our winners. 686 00:25:52,509 --> 00:25:54,929 At first glance, you might have thought this exercise 687 00:25:54,970 --> 00:25:57,760 was being judged on how the men performed. 688 00:25:57,806 --> 00:26:02,636 But in reality, Dr. Jada was focusing on the women. 689 00:26:02,686 --> 00:26:04,306 - That’s right, Jordan. 690 00:26:04,354 --> 00:26:07,734 So the ladies who put their past behind them 691 00:26:07,775 --> 00:26:10,075 and supported their man’s future 692 00:26:10,110 --> 00:26:14,660 demonstrated a healthy ability to move forward. 693 00:26:14,698 --> 00:26:17,488 - Our two winning ladies are... 694 00:26:17,534 --> 00:26:19,874 ♪ ♪ 695 00:26:19,912 --> 00:26:21,622 Casey and Gillian. 696 00:26:23,707 --> 00:26:26,497 - I didn’t want to air out my dirty laundry like that. 697 00:26:26,543 --> 00:26:28,963 It’s a reflection on me if I’m petty and salty, 698 00:26:29,004 --> 00:26:32,634 so I didn’t want to let them know that he’s immature 699 00:26:32,674 --> 00:26:36,014 and he’s Sir Nap-A-Lot. They can find out. 700 00:26:36,053 --> 00:26:37,683 - Congrats, guys. 701 00:26:37,721 --> 00:26:40,521 So tomorrow, you two get to go on an amazing 702 00:26:40,557 --> 00:26:43,137 and super fun jet ski date. 703 00:26:43,185 --> 00:26:44,735 - What?! - Wow. 704 00:26:44,770 --> 00:26:47,690 - Wow. - Super excited. 705 00:26:47,731 --> 00:26:49,731 Me and her having a little one-on-one time, 706 00:26:49,775 --> 00:26:51,865 I think this is gonna be a great experience to see 707 00:26:51,902 --> 00:26:54,402 if we can find that connection again. 708 00:26:54,446 --> 00:26:56,616 - Ah, but that’s not all. 709 00:26:56,657 --> 00:26:58,737 Anyone who goes on a date 710 00:26:58,784 --> 00:27:01,664 is safe another week from being eliminated. 711 00:27:01,703 --> 00:27:05,833 - So with that in mind, which two men will join them 712 00:27:05,874 --> 00:27:08,844 and also be safe from elimination? 713 00:27:08,877 --> 00:27:11,167 - Let’s start with you, Casey. 714 00:27:11,213 --> 00:27:13,553 - I’m going to pick David. 715 00:27:13,590 --> 00:27:14,880 - Oh. - Okay. 716 00:27:14,925 --> 00:27:16,975 [laughter and applause] 717 00:27:17,010 --> 00:27:19,720 - Let’s have a good time, baby! - Yeah. 718 00:27:19,763 --> 00:27:22,893 - So far, my energy has gravitated towards David. 719 00:27:22,933 --> 00:27:24,893 He’s so funny, he’s such a good time, 720 00:27:24,935 --> 00:27:27,985 and I’m here because I do want to find love and meet someone. 721 00:27:29,940 --> 00:27:31,400 - Now, Gillian. 722 00:27:33,610 --> 00:27:35,950 - I was gonna choose David. - Oh. 723 00:27:35,988 --> 00:27:38,028 - Uh-oh. - Okay. 724 00:27:38,073 --> 00:27:42,453 - This is a difficult, awkward situation. 725 00:27:42,494 --> 00:27:45,874 She right away let it be known that even though I’m done, 726 00:27:45,914 --> 00:27:47,214 we’re not really done. 727 00:27:47,249 --> 00:27:48,919 I’m not surprised she chose him. 728 00:27:48,959 --> 00:27:51,089 - But you portrayed him as a lot of fun. 729 00:27:51,128 --> 00:27:52,588 - Yeah. - That was all you. 730 00:27:52,629 --> 00:27:54,209 - Yeah, this is weird. 731 00:27:54,256 --> 00:27:57,126 I came here knowing David was going to go on other dates. 732 00:27:57,176 --> 00:27:59,926 However, it’s all happening really quickly, 733 00:27:59,970 --> 00:28:03,770 and I’m having a hard time processing everything. 734 00:28:03,807 --> 00:28:05,137 Would you like to go on a date? 735 00:28:05,184 --> 00:28:06,984 - [bleep] yes. - Let’s do it. 736 00:28:07,019 --> 00:28:09,229 - Let’s do it. - Devon, there you go. 737 00:28:09,271 --> 00:28:11,231 - Awesome. - Let’s do it. 738 00:28:11,273 --> 00:28:13,613 - All right, while our daters are out enjoying their dates, 739 00:28:13,650 --> 00:28:15,900 the rest of you will stay here and discuss 740 00:28:15,944 --> 00:28:19,454 our next major milestone, our first elimination. 741 00:28:21,909 --> 00:28:23,579 - Good job, guys. 742 00:28:23,619 --> 00:28:27,159 - ♪ Maybe there’s a way we can survive ♪ 743 00:28:27,206 --> 00:28:32,036 ♪ Future’s on the line so let’s go back in time ♪ 744 00:28:34,046 --> 00:28:35,706 - Hey, Case. 745 00:28:35,756 --> 00:28:37,216 - Yeah. - You’re gonna get what? 746 00:28:37,257 --> 00:28:39,127 - Gonna go talk. I’m not getting... 747 00:28:39,176 --> 00:28:41,756 - Oh! - Lectured. 748 00:28:41,803 --> 00:28:43,643 - Casey has made it clear 749 00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:46,730 that she’s trying to move on, and Brooks can’t. 750 00:28:46,767 --> 00:28:48,137 - Line is drawn in the sand. 751 00:28:48,185 --> 00:28:50,065 - And so from outside, looking in, 752 00:28:50,103 --> 00:28:52,233 it looks like he’s the problem. 753 00:28:52,272 --> 00:28:53,652 - We did something as a team. 754 00:28:53,690 --> 00:28:55,730 You know, I put myself out there, 755 00:28:55,776 --> 00:28:57,986 and then I end up getting sliced. 756 00:28:58,028 --> 00:28:59,648 I could potentially go home now, 757 00:28:59,696 --> 00:29:02,816 but I helped you be safe, so it’s [bleep] up. 758 00:29:02,866 --> 00:29:04,276 - Seeing your perception of it all, 759 00:29:04,326 --> 00:29:05,866 and I’m not saying you’re wrong. 760 00:29:05,911 --> 00:29:07,331 - I don’t understand how you couldn’t see it. 761 00:29:07,371 --> 00:29:08,831 You picked somebody else, and now he’s safe. 762 00:29:08,872 --> 00:29:10,672 Yeah, that sucks. That hurts. 763 00:29:10,707 --> 00:29:13,167 - What, we’re an ally and like, we’re just gonna sit here 764 00:29:13,210 --> 00:29:14,340 and constantly choose each other? 765 00:29:14,378 --> 00:29:15,878 - If you would have chose me, 766 00:29:15,921 --> 00:29:17,671 we wouldn’t be having this conversation. 767 00:29:17,714 --> 00:29:19,304 - If she doesn’t do what he wants, 768 00:29:19,341 --> 00:29:21,301 he makes her feel guilty. 769 00:29:21,343 --> 00:29:24,683 - He doesn’t want anything else to go on in this house 770 00:29:24,721 --> 00:29:27,021 outside of potentially trying to get Casey back. 771 00:29:27,057 --> 00:29:28,847 - Okay, well, I mean, now that I know, 772 00:29:28,892 --> 00:29:31,982 you want me to [bleep] up every competition to spare you. 773 00:29:32,020 --> 00:29:33,810 - You got to understand where I’m upset. 774 00:29:33,855 --> 00:29:35,855 - But I’m the [bleep] punching bag for you right now. 775 00:29:35,899 --> 00:29:37,359 This is what you do. 776 00:29:37,401 --> 00:29:38,861 This is just like it was in our marriage. 777 00:29:38,902 --> 00:29:41,202 Whenever [bleep] hit the fan in his life, 778 00:29:41,238 --> 00:29:43,868 he took it out on me. Everything was my fault. 779 00:29:43,907 --> 00:29:46,027 I am constantly a [bleep] punching bag. 780 00:29:46,076 --> 00:29:47,866 And it’s not [bleep] fair anymore. 781 00:29:47,911 --> 00:29:49,251 - When the team wins something 782 00:29:49,288 --> 00:29:51,708 and then it’s the other person’s decision, 783 00:29:51,748 --> 00:29:53,328 it’s like, "[bleep] that guy. Let’s go." 784 00:29:53,375 --> 00:29:57,175 - You think that I’m just some spiteful [bleep] pig? 785 00:29:57,212 --> 00:30:00,549 - Well. I’m gonna leave it at that. 786 00:30:00,549 --> 00:30:06,389 - ♪ Hay que luchar ♪ 787 00:30:06,430 --> 00:30:08,600 - [screaming] 788 00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:11,560 The date with David is so much fun right now. 789 00:30:11,601 --> 00:30:13,441 [inaudible] 790 00:30:13,478 --> 00:30:15,268 We’re just having a blast. 791 00:30:15,314 --> 00:30:19,284 [screaming] 792 00:30:19,318 --> 00:30:21,438 - So I’m on a double date with mini-obnoxious 793 00:30:21,486 --> 00:30:23,066 and my ex-husband. 794 00:30:23,113 --> 00:30:25,163 He definitely likes a fiery woman, 795 00:30:25,198 --> 00:30:27,078 but I don’t think he can handle it. 796 00:30:27,117 --> 00:30:28,327 No, I’m kidding. 797 00:30:28,368 --> 00:30:30,248 They’re gonna have a great time. 798 00:30:30,287 --> 00:30:32,747 [laughing] 799 00:30:32,789 --> 00:30:34,619 - Gillian is something else. 800 00:30:34,666 --> 00:30:36,746 - I don’t know how to steer! 801 00:30:36,793 --> 00:30:39,303 - Gillian had me thinking she was some damn granny. 802 00:30:39,338 --> 00:30:41,458 - All right. Hold on, big boy. 803 00:30:41,506 --> 00:30:44,426 - She went crazy on the jet ski. 804 00:30:44,468 --> 00:30:46,088 - Look at me go, Mom! 805 00:30:46,136 --> 00:30:49,256 [laughing] 806 00:30:49,306 --> 00:30:51,806 Whoa! Whoa! 807 00:30:51,850 --> 00:30:53,480 - [laughs] Yes! 808 00:30:53,518 --> 00:30:55,058 - [indistinct] - Yes! 809 00:30:55,103 --> 00:30:58,733 - ♪ Let’s both go ♪ 810 00:30:58,774 --> 00:31:00,444 - I gotta be honest with myself, 811 00:31:00,484 --> 00:31:02,194 I didn’t think this was gonna be like this. 812 00:31:02,235 --> 00:31:04,815 So it’s like-- - What were you expecting? 813 00:31:04,863 --> 00:31:06,493 - I don’t know what I was expecting, 814 00:31:06,531 --> 00:31:08,621 but I wasn’t expecting, like, be, like, here, 815 00:31:08,658 --> 00:31:10,328 then down here, up here. 816 00:31:10,369 --> 00:31:11,789 It’s hard. 817 00:31:11,828 --> 00:31:13,328 - Casey picking David for the date 818 00:31:13,372 --> 00:31:15,212 and that whole dust up, you know, 819 00:31:15,248 --> 00:31:17,328 was necessary to people to kind of get the point, like, 820 00:31:17,376 --> 00:31:19,336 "This is why we’re here, guys. 821 00:31:19,378 --> 00:31:20,838 "You know, everybody’s gonna go on dates with other people, 822 00:31:20,879 --> 00:31:22,629 and you have to get over that [bleep]." 823 00:31:22,672 --> 00:31:24,342 - I would have thought maybe she would have like, 824 00:31:24,383 --> 00:31:25,683 "Oh, you [bleep] put a Speedo on, 825 00:31:25,717 --> 00:31:27,677 let’s go do this thing," but that’s her. 826 00:31:27,719 --> 00:31:29,849 - Brooks is a good guy, but he’s gotta take 827 00:31:29,888 --> 00:31:31,598 the reality for what it is. 828 00:31:31,640 --> 00:31:33,390 - You know, with every situation, 829 00:31:33,433 --> 00:31:36,143 there’s a consequence, and I think it’s [bleep] up. 830 00:31:38,188 --> 00:31:40,858 - You have so many qualities that I look for in a guy. 831 00:31:40,899 --> 00:31:42,359 - Well, I love your energy. 832 00:31:42,401 --> 00:31:43,691 - Thank you. - I love the high energy. 833 00:31:43,735 --> 00:31:45,355 I love the charisma and the enthusiasm. 834 00:31:45,404 --> 00:31:46,704 - Eye energy, what’s that? - High energy. 835 00:31:46,738 --> 00:31:48,198 - Oh, I was like-- 836 00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:49,320 - Sorry, I tend to mumble a little too. 837 00:31:49,366 --> 00:31:50,656 - I was like, "The eye." 838 00:31:50,700 --> 00:31:52,370 You can keep up with me, which is funny, 839 00:31:52,411 --> 00:31:53,831 and I feel like, my whole life, 840 00:31:53,870 --> 00:31:55,370 I’ve kind of been in relationships 841 00:31:55,414 --> 00:31:56,714 where, like, things just get so serious 842 00:31:56,748 --> 00:31:58,788 and, like, you kind of forget to laugh. 843 00:31:58,834 --> 00:32:02,254 I, without a doubt, made the right choice. 844 00:32:02,295 --> 00:32:04,585 All that drama that I caused, [bleep] it. 845 00:32:04,631 --> 00:32:06,301 It was worth it 846 00:32:06,341 --> 00:32:08,591 because I finally was doing something for myself. 847 00:32:08,635 --> 00:32:10,345 I’m not here for Brooks. 848 00:32:10,387 --> 00:32:11,847 Thank you for such a good date. 849 00:32:11,888 --> 00:32:13,848 - I hope you didn’t get buyer’s remorse on it. 850 00:32:13,890 --> 00:32:16,390 - Not at all. Not at all. 851 00:32:16,435 --> 00:32:18,905 I want to extend my warranty with this one. 852 00:32:18,937 --> 00:32:21,397 [both laugh] 853 00:32:21,440 --> 00:32:23,520 - I had a really good time with you today. 854 00:32:23,567 --> 00:32:24,897 I feel like the focus was enjoying my time with you... 855 00:32:24,943 --> 00:32:26,533 - Right. Absolutely. 856 00:32:26,570 --> 00:32:28,240 - And not like, "Oh, I’m on a double date, 857 00:32:28,280 --> 00:32:29,660 and my ex is with somebody else right now." 858 00:32:29,698 --> 00:32:31,158 - Right. - You know, so thank you. 859 00:32:31,199 --> 00:32:33,659 Thank you for being you. - Yeah. 860 00:32:33,702 --> 00:32:35,242 How do you still feel about David? 861 00:32:35,287 --> 00:32:36,407 Do you love him? 862 00:32:36,455 --> 00:32:38,505 - I like him. 863 00:32:38,540 --> 00:32:42,290 And it’s interesting ’cause I feel like David and I 864 00:32:42,335 --> 00:32:45,375 have a pretty decent friendship, 865 00:32:45,422 --> 00:32:49,182 which maybe makes this even harder. 866 00:32:49,217 --> 00:32:53,387 - I think the issue is that you also want closure. 867 00:32:53,430 --> 00:32:55,890 - Yeah. Closure would be good. - Right. 868 00:32:55,932 --> 00:32:57,772 - Oh, man. 869 00:32:57,809 --> 00:33:00,229 David is my best friend, and, you know, 870 00:33:00,270 --> 00:33:01,600 I guess it’s a little selfish of me 871 00:33:01,646 --> 00:33:04,766 to be upset if he goes on another date. 872 00:33:04,816 --> 00:33:06,936 But Casey needs a lot of attention, 873 00:33:06,985 --> 00:33:12,865 so they’re probably gonna have a long, happy life together 874 00:33:12,908 --> 00:33:15,328 fighting over the spotlight. 875 00:33:15,368 --> 00:33:16,908 - The minute we get back to the house, 876 00:33:16,953 --> 00:33:18,413 anybody asks, I’m gonna be like, 877 00:33:18,455 --> 00:33:19,625 "Yeah, she freaked me out, dawg." 878 00:33:19,664 --> 00:33:22,424 - What? - Speed demon. 879 00:33:22,459 --> 00:33:24,629 She turned into a damn speed demon on the water. 880 00:33:24,669 --> 00:33:26,799 - ♪ Watch me burn bright ♪ 881 00:33:26,838 --> 00:33:29,588 ♪ Whoa, oh-oh-oh, whoa, oh-oh-oh ♪ 882 00:33:29,633 --> 00:33:32,303 ♪ Brighter than a million stars ♪ 883 00:33:32,344 --> 00:33:33,644 - We were just talking about the elimination. 884 00:33:33,678 --> 00:33:34,888 - Oh, yeah? - Yeah. 885 00:33:34,930 --> 00:33:36,760 - I don’t know how to look at it, 886 00:33:36,806 --> 00:33:38,766 but I know what I’m here to do, and I have one mission. 887 00:33:38,808 --> 00:33:40,558 I just hope I get to stay a little longer. 888 00:33:40,602 --> 00:33:42,482 - I think Dede and I are on the chopping block 889 00:33:42,521 --> 00:33:45,481 because of the way that we performed yesterday. 890 00:33:45,524 --> 00:33:47,234 - Yesterday? - Yeah. 891 00:33:47,275 --> 00:33:49,355 - Elimination night is stressful. 892 00:33:49,402 --> 00:33:52,322 We’re gonna have to send someone home, 893 00:33:52,364 --> 00:33:55,494 and I’m feeling nervous about having to decide 894 00:33:55,534 --> 00:33:57,794 that it’s someone else’s time to go 895 00:33:57,827 --> 00:33:59,497 and being wrong about that. 896 00:33:59,538 --> 00:34:01,498 - Like, let’s say, for instance, that, you know, 897 00:34:01,540 --> 00:34:02,960 you and Dede don’t get back together. 898 00:34:02,999 --> 00:34:04,789 - Yeah. 899 00:34:04,834 --> 00:34:06,794 - Like, how do you feel like coping with that would be? 900 00:34:06,836 --> 00:34:08,336 ’Cause are you here because you really want 901 00:34:08,380 --> 00:34:09,920 to mend the relationship with her? 902 00:34:09,965 --> 00:34:11,975 - Just speaking to her, I know that she’s not interested 903 00:34:12,008 --> 00:34:13,588 in being with me anymore. 904 00:34:13,635 --> 00:34:16,935 I am afraid of seeing her with somebody else. 905 00:34:16,972 --> 00:34:19,352 But I mean, I think-- I don’t know. 906 00:34:19,391 --> 00:34:21,311 I kinda have to rip the Band-Aid off, you know? 907 00:34:21,351 --> 00:34:23,561 - Yeah, yeah. - The elimination is tonight. 908 00:34:23,603 --> 00:34:25,023 I don’t know what’s gonna happen, 909 00:34:25,063 --> 00:34:27,523 but I really have no intention 910 00:34:27,566 --> 00:34:29,606 to stop pursuing a relationship with Dede. 911 00:34:29,651 --> 00:34:32,861 I just told everybody what I thought they wanted to hear. 912 00:34:32,904 --> 00:34:34,704 I started believing in myself, and I was like, 913 00:34:34,739 --> 00:34:37,529 "Thakur, that is not true. You’re just bold-faced lying." 914 00:34:37,576 --> 00:34:39,236 Ultimately, it’ll be a good thing. 915 00:34:39,286 --> 00:34:41,536 - I mean, that’s raw and honest as [bleep]. 916 00:34:41,580 --> 00:34:43,710 - Yeah. 917 00:34:43,748 --> 00:34:47,538 I don’t feel entitled to any of these feelings, 918 00:34:47,586 --> 00:34:49,876 but--but they’re there, you know? 919 00:34:49,921 --> 00:34:51,840 - That’s honest. And that’s honest. 920 00:34:51,840 --> 00:35:02,350 [dramatic music] 921 00:35:02,392 --> 00:35:07,152 ♪ ♪ 922 00:35:07,188 --> 00:35:08,688 - Hello! 923 00:35:08,732 --> 00:35:10,072 all: Hello. 924 00:35:10,108 --> 00:35:12,778 - What’s going on? - Hi! 925 00:35:12,819 --> 00:35:14,319 - As the first elimination is coming up, 926 00:35:14,362 --> 00:35:16,162 I’m getting more and more nervous 927 00:35:16,197 --> 00:35:20,157 ’cause we have no idea what is gonna happen. 928 00:35:20,201 --> 00:35:22,041 I guess you’d call it the gauntlet. 929 00:35:22,078 --> 00:35:24,498 It’s time to get rid of somebody. 930 00:35:24,539 --> 00:35:26,329 - Well, what’s up, everyone? 931 00:35:26,374 --> 00:35:29,214 It’s a beautiful night tonight. How is everyone feeling? 932 00:35:29,252 --> 00:35:31,382 - Nervous. - Nervous. 933 00:35:31,421 --> 00:35:33,711 - I know you’re probably all very curious 934 00:35:33,757 --> 00:35:35,757 about this elimination. - Yeah. 935 00:35:35,800 --> 00:35:38,140 - So let me explain how this is gonna work. 936 00:35:38,178 --> 00:35:40,558 Each week, the power to eliminate 937 00:35:40,597 --> 00:35:45,347 is gonna bounce back and forth between the women and the men. 938 00:35:45,393 --> 00:35:46,693 - Oh, my God. 939 00:35:46,728 --> 00:35:48,348 - This will eventually narrow the group 940 00:35:48,396 --> 00:35:50,186 until we arrive at our goal: 941 00:35:50,231 --> 00:35:52,531 one couple that’s moved on from the past 942 00:35:52,567 --> 00:35:55,317 and truly committed to each other. 943 00:35:55,362 --> 00:36:00,742 - So week one, the power starts in the hands of our ladies. 944 00:36:00,784 --> 00:36:02,584 - Oh, my God. - [groans] 945 00:36:02,619 --> 00:36:05,749 - Finding out the girls are going to be the ones 946 00:36:05,789 --> 00:36:08,829 choosing who goes home, I don’t feel good about it. 947 00:36:08,875 --> 00:36:10,745 Casey’s, like, cried and stuff, 948 00:36:10,794 --> 00:36:13,214 and they’ve had these, like, girl powwows, 949 00:36:13,254 --> 00:36:14,844 and I don’t know where their heads are. 950 00:36:14,881 --> 00:36:17,551 So we’ll see what happens. 951 00:36:17,592 --> 00:36:19,552 - So now’s the time to decide which of these men 952 00:36:19,594 --> 00:36:21,394 will continue in the dating process 953 00:36:21,429 --> 00:36:24,559 and which man will end his journey tonight. 954 00:36:24,599 --> 00:36:26,559 - David and Devon, you guys went on dates, 955 00:36:26,601 --> 00:36:29,601 so you will be safe from elimination. 956 00:36:29,646 --> 00:36:31,356 - [sighs] 957 00:36:31,398 --> 00:36:32,768 All right, so now it’s time for the tough part. 958 00:36:32,816 --> 00:36:35,436 The women have to make their choice. 959 00:36:35,485 --> 00:36:38,285 I’m gonna ask the guys to step away for a few minutes 960 00:36:38,321 --> 00:36:40,871 and give you some privacy. 961 00:36:40,907 --> 00:36:42,777 - Thakur is a playboy. 962 00:36:42,826 --> 00:36:44,866 I am not a fan. 963 00:36:44,911 --> 00:36:46,541 Dede deserves a chance, 964 00:36:46,579 --> 00:36:47,869 and he’s, like, all up in her grill. 965 00:36:47,914 --> 00:36:50,674 This guy needs to go. 966 00:36:50,709 --> 00:36:53,539 - Now we need to have a difficult conversation. 967 00:36:53,586 --> 00:36:55,246 Who we gonna send home? 968 00:36:55,296 --> 00:36:58,836 [suspenseful music] 969 00:36:58,883 --> 00:37:00,763 - I had a conversation with Dede, 970 00:37:00,802 --> 00:37:03,262 and she opened up about her relationship 971 00:37:03,304 --> 00:37:04,764 and how toxic it was. 972 00:37:04,806 --> 00:37:09,346 Thakur approached us, and he is not respectful. 973 00:37:09,394 --> 00:37:12,314 I think he’s a bullshitter. 974 00:37:12,355 --> 00:37:14,565 - Who else would it be? - A lot of pressure, guys. 975 00:37:14,607 --> 00:37:16,477 I know y’all are thinking it. 976 00:37:16,526 --> 00:37:17,856 - Spit it. - Brooks. 977 00:37:17,902 --> 00:37:19,532 - Brooks. 978 00:37:19,571 --> 00:37:22,621 - Brooks kind of has some of those same tendencies. 979 00:37:22,657 --> 00:37:26,237 Like, they’re both only here, like they’ve said before, 980 00:37:26,286 --> 00:37:27,906 for their exes. - Yeah. 981 00:37:27,954 --> 00:37:29,464 - That means you’re not here to work on yourself. 982 00:37:29,497 --> 00:37:30,787 You’re here to figure out 983 00:37:30,832 --> 00:37:32,922 how to either make this a living hell 984 00:37:32,959 --> 00:37:35,629 for the person that’s here that’s trying to move on, 985 00:37:35,670 --> 00:37:37,460 or you’re trying to get that person back. 986 00:37:37,505 --> 00:37:39,165 But you’re not willing to work on yourself 987 00:37:39,215 --> 00:37:41,835 and really face what has gone on. 988 00:37:41,885 --> 00:37:44,355 - I’m just curious, Dede, how do you feel about this 989 00:37:44,387 --> 00:37:47,347 and your thoughts on either Thakur staying or leaving? 990 00:37:47,390 --> 00:37:49,850 - It’s hard because I see the pros and cons of him 991 00:37:49,893 --> 00:37:52,903 being here and him going home. 992 00:37:52,937 --> 00:37:54,607 I need to be able to find peace 993 00:37:54,647 --> 00:37:56,517 with him in order for me to move forward. 994 00:37:56,566 --> 00:37:59,276 - If you don’t get that closure and if you don’t get it here, 995 00:37:59,319 --> 00:38:00,649 where are you gonna get it? 996 00:38:00,695 --> 00:38:02,905 - I don’t think we would get it at home. 997 00:38:02,947 --> 00:38:04,317 But at the same time, 998 00:38:04,365 --> 00:38:05,945 him being here is holding me back 999 00:38:05,992 --> 00:38:07,832 because I’m so hung up on what’s going on with him 1000 00:38:07,869 --> 00:38:09,449 and my communication with him 1001 00:38:09,496 --> 00:38:11,496 that I’m not able to engage in conversations 1002 00:38:11,539 --> 00:38:15,289 with other people and get to know other people and date. 1003 00:38:15,335 --> 00:38:17,555 - Our situation is the exact same. 1004 00:38:17,587 --> 00:38:21,917 I’m not giving it 100% because I’m sparing Brooks’ feelings 1005 00:38:21,966 --> 00:38:25,466 because he is right here in front of me this whole time. 1006 00:38:25,512 --> 00:38:29,602 I’m hoping that if he is here for maybe a little bit longer, 1007 00:38:29,641 --> 00:38:32,311 um, hopefully-- 1008 00:38:32,352 --> 00:38:33,772 - Casey, is this a moment 1009 00:38:33,812 --> 00:38:35,982 where you’re trying not to hurt him again? 1010 00:38:36,022 --> 00:38:38,362 - Yeah. - Okay. 1011 00:38:38,399 --> 00:38:39,939 That’s what it is. That’s what it is. 1012 00:38:39,984 --> 00:38:42,994 - Like, I don’t want him to leave here being like, 1013 00:38:43,029 --> 00:38:44,989 "You made me look like [bleep]." 1014 00:38:45,031 --> 00:38:47,531 - You’re not doing that. He does that on his own. 1015 00:38:47,575 --> 00:38:49,905 - He might have the potential to grow here. 1016 00:38:49,953 --> 00:38:51,753 You push him out of his comfort zone, 1017 00:38:51,788 --> 00:38:52,998 and maybe he will have a good time with somebody else. 1018 00:38:53,039 --> 00:38:54,579 - And that’s why I want him here. 1019 00:38:54,624 --> 00:38:55,924 - So I think there’s more potential 1020 00:38:55,959 --> 00:38:58,419 for growth for Brooks as an individual. 1021 00:38:58,461 --> 00:38:59,921 - For him versus Thakur. - Yeah. 1022 00:38:59,963 --> 00:39:02,882 - Thakur could go home and go on any date. 1023 00:39:02,882 --> 00:39:13,392 [suspenseful music] 1024 00:39:13,434 --> 00:39:16,814 - All right, ladies, it sounds like we’ve come to a consensus. 1025 00:39:16,855 --> 00:39:18,115 So let’s bring the guys back in 1026 00:39:18,147 --> 00:39:19,977 and let them know what you decided. 1027 00:39:20,024 --> 00:39:21,694 - I don’t deserve to go home 1028 00:39:21,734 --> 00:39:23,944 because I have so much more to give here. 1029 00:39:23,987 --> 00:39:26,857 Being here, I think we just scratched the surface, 1030 00:39:26,906 --> 00:39:28,866 and I just don’t feel like 1031 00:39:28,908 --> 00:39:31,908 I’ve gotten all the closure that I needed. 1032 00:39:33,496 --> 00:39:36,366 - All right, ladies, the floor is yours. 1033 00:39:36,416 --> 00:39:39,036 - The ladies and I, we all spoke, 1034 00:39:39,085 --> 00:39:41,205 and in the discussion, we kinda talked about 1035 00:39:41,254 --> 00:39:43,424 the pros and the cons about everything. 1036 00:39:43,464 --> 00:39:47,014 Thakur, the reason why we felt like you should go home 1037 00:39:47,051 --> 00:39:48,841 was because you’re not over her, 1038 00:39:48,887 --> 00:39:51,807 you still want to be with her, and those things. 1039 00:39:51,848 --> 00:39:54,058 But at the same time, we also feel like 1040 00:39:54,100 --> 00:39:57,900 there is some unfinished business there. 1041 00:39:57,937 --> 00:40:00,147 The other gentleman was Brooks. 1042 00:40:00,189 --> 00:40:03,399 There’s another feeling that communication not being there 1043 00:40:03,443 --> 00:40:04,993 and feeling uncomfortable 1044 00:40:05,028 --> 00:40:08,488 to be their authentic self with you there. 1045 00:40:08,531 --> 00:40:13,121 With all that being said, we felt like the person 1046 00:40:13,161 --> 00:40:14,791 that should go home... 1047 00:40:14,829 --> 00:40:17,289 ♪ ♪ 1048 00:40:17,332 --> 00:40:19,042 Was Brooks. 1049 00:40:20,877 --> 00:40:23,877 We feel Casey will have a better opportunity 1050 00:40:23,922 --> 00:40:28,432 of really working on herself if you weren’t here. 1051 00:40:28,468 --> 00:40:31,138 - Living with Brooks again, a lot of things 1052 00:40:31,179 --> 00:40:33,929 are triggering me actually in a negative way. 1053 00:40:33,973 --> 00:40:36,143 - Wow. - I feel I’m almost angrier. 1054 00:40:36,184 --> 00:40:38,944 [voice breaking] And I can’t do it anymore. 1055 00:40:38,978 --> 00:40:40,148 - It’s mind-blowing. - Yeah. 1056 00:40:40,188 --> 00:40:42,858 - I mean, there’s a lot of issues 1057 00:40:42,899 --> 00:40:44,359 that haven’t been brought to the table, 1058 00:40:44,400 --> 00:40:45,990 and then she’s throwing them out like this to-- 1059 00:40:46,027 --> 00:40:47,817 it just--I don’t know. 1060 00:40:47,862 --> 00:40:49,412 - I mean, but that’s ultimately why we’re here, right? 1061 00:40:49,447 --> 00:40:51,317 - Yeah. It sucks. 1062 00:40:51,366 --> 00:40:53,236 - So, Brooks, you can head out to the front of the house, 1063 00:40:53,284 --> 00:40:55,494 and Casey will meet you there for one last goodbye. 1064 00:40:55,536 --> 00:40:57,906 - Okay. See you guys. - Thank you, Brooks. 1065 00:40:57,956 --> 00:40:59,286 - Thanks, Brooks. - Bye, Brooks. Bye, bro. 1066 00:40:59,332 --> 00:41:01,382 [apprehensive music] 1067 00:41:01,417 --> 00:41:05,497 - I’m freaking out. He’s hurt. I’m beside myself. 1068 00:41:05,546 --> 00:41:07,836 - Casey, thanks for being strong. 1069 00:41:07,882 --> 00:41:09,972 You can go meet Brooks. 1070 00:41:10,009 --> 00:41:12,429 - You got it, girl. 1071 00:41:12,470 --> 00:41:15,350 [somber music] 1072 00:41:15,390 --> 00:41:22,440 ♪ ♪ 1073 00:41:24,065 --> 00:41:25,275 - Sit down. 1074 00:41:28,152 --> 00:41:29,992 - [sobbing] I don’t want you to go. 1075 00:41:31,990 --> 00:41:34,950 - I don’t understand why, what you said tonight, 1076 00:41:34,993 --> 00:41:37,413 you couldn’t have brought out before. 1077 00:41:37,453 --> 00:41:41,373 - I feel like you are only going to be happy 1078 00:41:41,416 --> 00:41:42,996 if we’re together. 1079 00:41:43,042 --> 00:41:45,502 - I obviously would be more happy with you, 1080 00:41:45,545 --> 00:41:49,015 and I think you know that. [sighs] 1081 00:41:49,048 --> 00:41:51,008 - Moving forward, though, like, 1082 00:41:51,050 --> 00:41:56,470 I want to do therapy with you outside of this. 1083 00:41:56,514 --> 00:41:58,144 - Like this has made me-- - I do too. 1084 00:41:58,182 --> 00:41:59,432 - ’Cause, like, you deserved that. 1085 00:41:59,475 --> 00:42:00,425 - I know. - And I never gave you that. 1086 00:42:00,476 --> 00:42:03,936 And I’m sorry. 1087 00:42:03,980 --> 00:42:05,610 - I just hope if you’re here to find love, 1088 00:42:05,648 --> 00:42:06,978 like, you find it. 1089 00:42:07,025 --> 00:42:09,995 I want you to be happy. 1090 00:42:10,028 --> 00:42:13,108 Being in the house has really made me come to the conclusion 1091 00:42:13,156 --> 00:42:15,236 like I need to start putting myself out there 1092 00:42:15,283 --> 00:42:17,373 if we’re not gonna work things out. 1093 00:42:17,410 --> 00:42:20,200 I love you no matter what, okay? 1094 00:42:20,246 --> 00:42:21,406 You’re my best friend, you know? 1095 00:42:21,456 --> 00:42:23,116 - You’re mine. 1096 00:42:23,166 --> 00:42:24,956 - All right. 1097 00:42:25,001 --> 00:42:26,921 Let me get out of here and let you go do your thing. 1098 00:42:26,961 --> 00:42:30,341 I love you. - I love you too. I do. 1099 00:42:30,381 --> 00:42:32,471 - ♪ Whoa-oh ♪ 1100 00:42:32,508 --> 00:42:34,298 - Bye. 1101 00:42:34,343 --> 00:42:37,603 - ♪ We got that kind of love indestructible ♪ 1102 00:42:37,638 --> 00:42:40,308 ♪ It’s the world against us ♪ 1103 00:42:40,349 --> 00:42:43,889 ♪ We got each other, you and me ♪ 1104 00:42:45,646 --> 00:42:47,606 - This season on "The Big D"... 1105 00:42:47,648 --> 00:42:50,278 - What’s up? What’s up? - Got some fresh meat! 1106 00:42:50,318 --> 00:42:55,238 - Everyone, meet your new divorced and single housemate. 1107 00:42:55,281 --> 00:42:57,121 [cheering] 1108 00:42:57,158 --> 00:42:59,408 - Before I was divorced, divorce to me sound insane. 1109 00:42:59,452 --> 00:43:00,622 Come on now. 1110 00:43:00,661 --> 00:43:02,961 Once I was divorced, I was happy. 1111 00:43:02,997 --> 00:43:04,537 - Ah, look at us. 1112 00:43:04,582 --> 00:43:06,672 - I’m gonna do whatever I want. 1113 00:43:06,709 --> 00:43:11,169 - Um, I feel like you’re slut shaming me a little bit. 1114 00:43:11,214 --> 00:43:13,554 - You have no idea. I am so hot for you right now. 1115 00:43:13,591 --> 00:43:15,261 - I feel this connection. - I’m nervous. 1116 00:43:15,301 --> 00:43:16,551 - Me too. 1117 00:43:16,594 --> 00:43:18,514 - She’s playing everybody. 1118 00:43:18,554 --> 00:43:20,684 - Divorce never has to be the end for a love story. 1119 00:43:20,723 --> 00:43:23,483 - This is kind of fun. - This is not bad. 1120 00:43:23,518 --> 00:43:25,598 - And I have to deal with all this. 1121 00:43:25,645 --> 00:43:27,655 - Our divorce is two years ago, 1122 00:43:27,688 --> 00:43:30,108 and I don’t want to relive that every time we [bleep] talk. 1123 00:43:30,149 --> 00:43:31,359 - I’m comforting your ex-wife ’cause you’re being 1124 00:43:31,400 --> 00:43:33,030 a piece of shit. [bleep] you. 1125 00:43:33,069 --> 00:43:34,449 - I have these unresolved feelings, 1126 00:43:34,487 --> 00:43:36,657 and I didn’t realize how strong they were. 1127 00:43:36,697 --> 00:43:38,527 - I’m on your side. I’m on your team. 1128 00:43:38,574 --> 00:43:40,414 - You’re kind of being a [bleep]. 1129 00:43:40,451 --> 00:43:42,241 - I’m being a [bleep]? 1130 00:43:42,286 --> 00:43:44,076 - Calm down. - You need help. 1131 00:43:44,122 --> 00:43:45,292 - Don’t think for a second that I forgot 1132 00:43:45,331 --> 00:43:47,211 the way that you disrespected me. 1133 00:43:47,250 --> 00:43:48,630 - You don’t even know who the hell you are. 1134 00:43:48,668 --> 00:43:50,628 You a joke. - Thakur, Thakur. 1135 00:43:50,670 --> 00:43:52,210 - No, please [bleep] go home. 1136 00:43:52,255 --> 00:43:54,475 - This part is not [bleep] going on TV. 1137 00:43:54,507 --> 00:43:56,087 - I’ma have your [bleep] for this [bleep]. 1138 00:43:56,134 --> 00:43:57,434 - Can you get the medic? 1139 00:43:57,468 --> 00:43:58,718 I think she’s having a panic attack. 1140 00:43:58,761 --> 00:44:01,641 - These people is wild. 1141 00:44:01,681 --> 00:44:04,391 - A bunch of divorcees dating people’s exes, 1142 00:44:04,433 --> 00:44:07,023 there’s no other option but to pour gas on the house 1143 00:44:07,061 --> 00:44:09,231 and burn it down. 1144 00:44:09,272 --> 00:44:12,112 - Plenty of this to go around. [laughs]