1 00:00:07,466 --> 00:00:09,586 - Previously, on "The Big D"... 2 00:00:09,635 --> 00:00:10,645 - What is your name? - I’m Angelique. 3 00:00:10,677 --> 00:00:12,637 - Hi. - Hi. 4 00:00:12,679 --> 00:00:16,219 - Angelique walks in, and right away I’m very attracted to her. 5 00:00:16,266 --> 00:00:18,176 Hi. I’m David. 6 00:00:19,728 --> 00:00:21,478 - What is it you’re trying to say? 7 00:00:21,522 --> 00:00:24,982 - I may still love you. 8 00:00:25,025 --> 00:00:26,565 - I knew. 9 00:00:28,487 --> 00:00:29,857 - What do you like? You know, like, 10 00:00:29,905 --> 00:00:31,365 you want to get to know me maybe? 11 00:00:31,406 --> 00:00:32,696 - I do, by the way. 12 00:00:32,741 --> 00:00:33,701 - What? 13 00:00:33,742 --> 00:00:35,292 - Wanna get to know you. 14 00:00:35,327 --> 00:00:37,117 - Ariel seems very lost, 15 00:00:37,162 --> 00:00:41,462 and I don’t feel like her true intentions are with David. 16 00:00:41,500 --> 00:00:42,830 - What have I done? 17 00:00:42,876 --> 00:00:45,496 - You’ve put others ahead of my feelings. 18 00:00:45,546 --> 00:00:47,456 - No I haven’t. She wasn’t disrespectful. 19 00:00:47,506 --> 00:00:49,256 - Both of you were. 20 00:00:49,299 --> 00:00:51,679 - She’s still hanging on to me and not letting me go. 21 00:00:51,718 --> 00:00:53,298 - You know, we kind of wanted 22 00:00:53,345 --> 00:00:57,315 more out of this young lady, and so, Gillian-- 23 00:00:57,349 --> 00:01:00,809 - I don’t think this was the right choice. 24 00:01:00,852 --> 00:01:02,442 - I don’t understand 25 00:01:02,479 --> 00:01:04,309 how our relationship’s gonna continue on. 26 00:01:04,356 --> 00:01:06,146 - Blair’s throwing a lot of anger, but he’s hurt, 27 00:01:06,191 --> 00:01:07,651 ’cause he still has feelings for me. 28 00:01:07,693 --> 00:01:10,403 [dramatic music] 29 00:01:11,488 --> 00:01:14,868 [spicy music] 30 00:01:14,908 --> 00:01:20,498 - ♪ Shame on me double shame on you ♪ 31 00:01:20,539 --> 00:01:23,499 ♪ One more piece is all I need ♪ 32 00:01:23,542 --> 00:01:27,132 ♪ My transformation incomplete ♪ 33 00:01:29,464 --> 00:01:32,344 - ♪ Take it like a black rose 34 00:01:32,384 --> 00:01:35,604 ♪ Yeah, they’re waiting in the shadows ♪ 35 00:01:35,637 --> 00:01:39,597 ♪ You might break if the fact’s off ♪ 36 00:01:39,641 --> 00:01:41,811 ♪ Hit me with your arrows ♪ 37 00:01:42,894 --> 00:01:44,484 - Today’s a new day. 38 00:01:44,521 --> 00:01:46,521 Last night was especially hard for me. 39 00:01:46,565 --> 00:01:49,735 We just sent home Gillian, and now, I’m at the point 40 00:01:49,776 --> 00:01:53,856 where I’m finally ready to move forward. 41 00:01:53,905 --> 00:01:56,525 Why do I feel like there’s one missing? 42 00:01:56,575 --> 00:01:59,455 - It throws me off, ’cause I would love two tens. 43 00:01:59,494 --> 00:02:02,414 - Well. - I’d love two tens in my life. 44 00:02:02,456 --> 00:02:04,326 - Well, you got two tens right here. 45 00:02:04,374 --> 00:02:05,884 - That’s [bleep] right. - Right, Angelique? 46 00:02:05,917 --> 00:02:08,207 - That’s right, baby. - The best of both worlds. 47 00:02:08,253 --> 00:02:11,883 - I definitely kind of gravitated towards Ariel, 48 00:02:11,923 --> 00:02:14,723 with her pink hair and her smoking hot body, 49 00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:17,680 but I’m not going to put my eggs in one basket, 50 00:02:17,721 --> 00:02:19,561 so to speak. 51 00:02:19,598 --> 00:02:23,058 And Angelique is beautiful, and I’m interested, 52 00:02:23,101 --> 00:02:26,101 and I do want to see what kind of person she is. 53 00:02:26,146 --> 00:02:27,476 - How many siblings do you have? 54 00:02:27,522 --> 00:02:29,822 - I am one of seven. - Okay. 55 00:02:29,858 --> 00:02:31,858 - So on my mom’s side, there’s my oldest brother Brian, 56 00:02:31,902 --> 00:02:33,702 and then it’s Rene, 57 00:02:33,737 --> 00:02:35,817 and then it’s Amanda, and that one right there is me. 58 00:02:35,864 --> 00:02:38,324 - So are you going to get more? Like, do you want to-- 59 00:02:38,367 --> 00:02:40,077 - I think so. Yeah. - Yeah. I like ’em. 60 00:02:40,118 --> 00:02:41,738 - I had a great time with Angelique the first day, 61 00:02:41,787 --> 00:02:43,497 and so, now, I don’t know how, 62 00:02:43,538 --> 00:02:44,868 you know, she’s connected with David. 63 00:02:44,915 --> 00:02:46,215 This really took me by surprise. 64 00:02:48,502 --> 00:02:49,712 Love you, David, man. 65 00:02:49,753 --> 00:02:51,883 I just-- 66 00:02:51,922 --> 00:02:53,632 I know what you working with. 67 00:02:53,674 --> 00:02:55,264 Can’t wait till you find out. 68 00:02:55,300 --> 00:02:56,930 - Do you have tattoos? - I just have one, 69 00:02:56,968 --> 00:03:00,508 and it’s the worst. - Are you comfortable with-- 70 00:03:00,555 --> 00:03:01,845 Oh, is that a rose? 71 00:03:01,890 --> 00:03:03,470 - Don’t even talk about it. Yeah. 72 00:03:03,517 --> 00:03:05,727 I want to play the field right now, 73 00:03:05,769 --> 00:03:07,689 because I am here to mingle. 74 00:03:07,729 --> 00:03:08,859 See what else is out there. 75 00:03:08,897 --> 00:03:12,027 David is just kind and fun. 76 00:03:12,067 --> 00:03:14,277 I’m interested. Can I hug you? 77 00:03:14,319 --> 00:03:16,779 - Yeah. I’m a little sweaty. - I don’t care. 78 00:03:16,822 --> 00:03:22,622 ♪ ♪ 79 00:03:22,661 --> 00:03:23,911 - I don’t know what’s going on today. 80 00:03:29,000 --> 00:03:33,380 - ♪ Get ready ’cause I’m comin’ for ya, comin’ for ya ♪ 81 00:03:41,763 --> 00:03:44,183 - ♪ I’m gonna get ya, get ya ♪ 82 00:03:44,224 --> 00:03:46,434 ♪ I’m gonna hunt you down ♪ 83 00:03:46,476 --> 00:03:47,976 ♪ I’m gonna get ya, get ya ♪ 84 00:03:48,019 --> 00:03:50,149 ♪ Open up and let me out ♪ [rings doorbell] 85 00:03:50,188 --> 00:03:52,438 - Doorbell? 86 00:03:52,482 --> 00:03:55,692 - Oh! Hot mama! Hi. 87 00:03:55,736 --> 00:03:57,356 - Another beauty. - Hi. 88 00:03:57,404 --> 00:04:00,784 - Hi! I’m Casey. - Hi, nice to meet you. 89 00:04:00,824 --> 00:04:02,034 - Ariel. - Nice to meet you. 90 00:04:02,075 --> 00:04:04,735 - My name is Jo. I am 33 years old. 91 00:04:04,786 --> 00:04:06,576 I live in Atlanta, Georgia. 92 00:04:06,621 --> 00:04:09,871 I met my ex-husband at the Panama City Beach, 93 00:04:09,916 --> 00:04:11,416 The Redneck Riviera. 94 00:04:11,460 --> 00:04:14,050 I know I’m, like, slightly overdressed. 95 00:04:14,087 --> 00:04:16,417 - No. - Nice to meet y’all. 96 00:04:16,465 --> 00:04:18,475 So he was finishing flight school. 97 00:04:18,508 --> 00:04:20,338 He flies Blackhawks for the Army. 98 00:04:20,385 --> 00:04:22,175 We definitely felt pressure, not only from the military, 99 00:04:22,220 --> 00:04:24,810 but I think my family, growing up in the South. 100 00:04:24,848 --> 00:04:27,638 And then we found out that he was actually gonna be 101 00:04:27,684 --> 00:04:29,854 stationed in Egypt, being newlyweds, 102 00:04:29,895 --> 00:04:34,025 and then being literally on opposite sides of the Earth. 103 00:04:34,065 --> 00:04:36,395 It was less than ideal, to say the least. 104 00:04:36,443 --> 00:04:39,613 There was infidelity on both of our parts. 105 00:04:39,654 --> 00:04:42,124 I think, at the end, we just realized 106 00:04:42,157 --> 00:04:43,987 we were kind of doing ourselves a disservice. 107 00:04:44,034 --> 00:04:45,584 - How tall are you? - I’m 6 feet. 108 00:04:45,619 --> 00:04:46,829 - Wow. 109 00:04:46,870 --> 00:04:48,450 - I ate a lot of chicken growing up. 110 00:04:48,497 --> 00:04:49,907 That’s what my grandfather has always said. 111 00:04:49,956 --> 00:04:51,826 - Me too. I ate a lot of chicken growing up too. 112 00:04:51,875 --> 00:04:53,675 - But I’m from the South, 113 00:04:53,710 --> 00:04:55,550 so it’s like I just ate fried chicken for every meal. 114 00:04:55,587 --> 00:04:57,877 - When she came into the house I seen a spunky gal. 115 00:04:57,923 --> 00:04:59,723 She’s gorgeous. 116 00:04:59,758 --> 00:05:01,548 Let us know if you feel too much pressure standing up. 117 00:05:01,593 --> 00:05:03,893 We got couches and stuff too. - [laughs] 118 00:05:03,929 --> 00:05:07,849 - I love it. I love it. 119 00:05:07,891 --> 00:05:10,981 Did I say I love it? Okay cool. 120 00:05:11,019 --> 00:05:12,479 Then y’all know I love it. 121 00:05:12,521 --> 00:05:18,691 ♪ ♪ 122 00:05:18,735 --> 00:05:19,855 - There ain’t no collar on it. 123 00:05:21,530 --> 00:05:23,820 - Casey, we’re cooking you dinner. 124 00:05:23,865 --> 00:05:29,655 - Oh, my God. I can’t wait. You’re so good to me. 125 00:05:29,704 --> 00:05:31,464 I love me some men in the kitchen. 126 00:05:33,124 --> 00:05:35,754 - What do you think about Ariel? 127 00:05:35,794 --> 00:05:38,094 - She’s not over it, dog. 128 00:05:38,129 --> 00:05:39,589 It’s tough. - No. Yeah. 100% 129 00:05:39,631 --> 00:05:41,921 - It’s tough. But I think for her 130 00:05:41,967 --> 00:05:44,007 to have the best experience, be like, "Yo, you know, like, 131 00:05:44,052 --> 00:05:45,802 "I want you to have fun. I want you to go and do that. 132 00:05:45,846 --> 00:05:48,136 "You don’t need my approval on that [bleep]. 133 00:05:48,181 --> 00:05:49,971 I just want you to go do you." 134 00:05:50,016 --> 00:05:51,676 - Yeah. I know. I’ve gotten a lot of, like, 135 00:05:51,726 --> 00:05:52,976 mixed signals from her. 136 00:05:53,019 --> 00:05:54,849 I don’t know. I need to sit down 137 00:05:54,896 --> 00:05:56,686 with her again and talk some more about it, and everything. 138 00:05:56,731 --> 00:05:58,481 I haven’t got a chance to talk to Ariel. 139 00:05:58,525 --> 00:06:02,865 I mean, I think she’s still stuck in our marriage, 140 00:06:02,904 --> 00:06:05,114 on certain things. 141 00:06:05,156 --> 00:06:07,196 Hey. - What’s up? 142 00:06:07,242 --> 00:06:11,162 - Being here in Costa Rica, I’ve had some time to reflect. 143 00:06:11,204 --> 00:06:13,504 I will definitely always have love for Ariel. 144 00:06:13,540 --> 00:06:15,080 She was a big part of my life. 145 00:06:15,125 --> 00:06:17,095 I’ve been kind of confused. 146 00:06:17,127 --> 00:06:18,747 - About what? 147 00:06:18,795 --> 00:06:21,125 - Sometimes you’re upset, and I don’t know why. 148 00:06:21,172 --> 00:06:22,882 - It’s not like I’m mad. 149 00:06:22,924 --> 00:06:24,634 I think it comes from, like, more of a place of, 150 00:06:24,676 --> 00:06:26,176 like, I guess, like, sadness. 151 00:06:26,219 --> 00:06:27,509 - Mm-hmm. 152 00:06:27,554 --> 00:06:30,064 - Of, like, missing, like, 153 00:06:30,098 --> 00:06:31,718 the relationship that we used to have. 154 00:06:31,766 --> 00:06:33,056 - Mm-hmm. It’s like a loss. 155 00:06:33,101 --> 00:06:34,731 - Yeah. - Yeah. 156 00:06:34,769 --> 00:06:36,059 - It’s 100% a loss, and then it’s like, 157 00:06:36,104 --> 00:06:39,654 I don’t want to cry in front of you. 158 00:06:39,691 --> 00:06:43,531 - I mean that was tough. Like-- 159 00:06:43,570 --> 00:06:45,110 [sighs] 160 00:06:47,157 --> 00:06:48,867 Yeah. It was tough. 161 00:06:48,909 --> 00:06:51,659 But it’s like, I thought I was the good guy, you know? 162 00:06:51,703 --> 00:06:53,753 - Yeah. - Then, like, the divorce 163 00:06:53,788 --> 00:06:55,538 really, like, put in my face, 164 00:06:55,582 --> 00:06:58,792 like, I [bleep] tried to hide so many things, 165 00:06:58,835 --> 00:07:03,085 and tried to be dishonest about so many things, and-- 166 00:07:03,131 --> 00:07:06,841 I was, like, at a lowest of the low. 167 00:07:06,885 --> 00:07:08,805 I haven’t really thought about how I was back then, 168 00:07:08,845 --> 00:07:10,805 until, like, coming here. 169 00:07:10,847 --> 00:07:12,967 And then, like, I do feel bad. 170 00:07:13,016 --> 00:07:16,726 When I, you know, made you cry 171 00:07:16,770 --> 00:07:18,190 or, like, make you feel bad 172 00:07:18,229 --> 00:07:19,899 about, like, how you left me. 173 00:07:19,940 --> 00:07:22,530 You [bleep] went to L. A. 174 00:07:22,567 --> 00:07:24,397 - I wanted you to follow me out there... 175 00:07:24,444 --> 00:07:27,074 - I know. I know. - So badly. 176 00:07:27,113 --> 00:07:29,123 - But that’s not, like, the path I was gonna take. 177 00:07:29,157 --> 00:07:31,197 - This is the person that I miss. 178 00:07:31,242 --> 00:07:32,872 I just need you to know that. 179 00:07:32,911 --> 00:07:34,201 - Yeah I know. I know. 180 00:07:34,245 --> 00:07:36,655 We can still, you know, be friends, 181 00:07:36,706 --> 00:07:40,706 and, like, we’ll hang out when I come to L. A., and-- 182 00:07:40,752 --> 00:07:43,552 - I feel good that we had this conversation. 183 00:07:43,588 --> 00:07:45,668 I feel good that he expressed all of this. 184 00:07:45,715 --> 00:07:50,715 I’m finally starting to feel like I’m supposed to be here. 185 00:07:50,762 --> 00:07:55,102 And I need to push Blair, and that drama, 186 00:07:55,141 --> 00:07:57,731 and tension aside and just start talking 187 00:07:57,769 --> 00:08:00,609 to the guys I’m interested in. 188 00:08:00,647 --> 00:08:02,977 No, Thakur. You’re so bad at this. 189 00:08:03,024 --> 00:08:04,154 You keep doing this. 190 00:08:04,192 --> 00:08:06,072 - Oh, I’m sorry. 191 00:08:06,111 --> 00:08:08,531 - Jesus. 192 00:08:11,032 --> 00:08:12,992 - [grunts] [laughter] 193 00:08:13,034 --> 00:08:19,924 ♪ ♪ 194 00:08:19,958 --> 00:08:22,588 - I already heard you’re coming over here to get shots. 195 00:08:22,627 --> 00:08:24,247 - I mean, that’s my love language, though. 196 00:08:24,295 --> 00:08:25,955 I mean, for real, like-- 197 00:08:26,006 --> 00:08:27,416 - "Shots are my love language." 198 00:08:27,465 --> 00:08:29,085 So we’ll be shot buddies then. - Yeah. 199 00:08:29,134 --> 00:08:30,764 Please help me. 200 00:08:30,802 --> 00:08:32,682 - Dean’s a good time. You can’t be around Dean 201 00:08:32,721 --> 00:08:34,721 and not laugh. [laughs] 202 00:08:34,764 --> 00:08:36,854 Let’s walk outside. I’m, like, crushing on his energy, 203 00:08:36,891 --> 00:08:39,191 but there’s more that I want to know about him. 204 00:08:39,227 --> 00:08:42,147 And I think I’m more intrigued by him 205 00:08:42,188 --> 00:08:44,858 because I don’t know much about him yet. 206 00:08:44,899 --> 00:08:47,939 I haven’t heard anything about your ex or anything. 207 00:08:47,986 --> 00:08:50,026 - Yeah, yeah, so, like, I’ve been divorced a year now. 208 00:08:50,071 --> 00:08:51,741 - Okay. Who-- - Yeah. 209 00:08:51,781 --> 00:08:54,371 - Who ended it with y’all? - I mean I did. I did... 210 00:08:54,409 --> 00:08:56,079 - Okay. - Yeah. Ultimately, like, 211 00:08:56,119 --> 00:08:58,159 I feel like I was dumbing myself down to situations. 212 00:08:58,204 --> 00:09:00,624 Not necessarily the person, but... 213 00:09:00,665 --> 00:09:02,075 - Yeah. - To situations that-- 214 00:09:02,125 --> 00:09:04,005 - Not being true to yourself. - Yeah, yeah. 215 00:09:04,044 --> 00:09:06,004 It was a big battle I was going up against. 216 00:09:06,046 --> 00:09:09,716 I love my ex-wife dearly, but she didn’t understand me. 217 00:09:09,758 --> 00:09:12,008 She wanted to go ahead and start a family, 218 00:09:12,052 --> 00:09:14,642 and I actually wanted a few years to play around 219 00:09:14,679 --> 00:09:16,139 and enjoy each other. 220 00:09:16,181 --> 00:09:18,181 And so we fell into a resentful stage, 221 00:09:18,224 --> 00:09:21,234 and you know, for some reason, we couldn’t get out of it. 222 00:09:21,269 --> 00:09:22,729 - You start to realize, like, 223 00:09:22,771 --> 00:09:24,231 you’re not being true to yourself. 224 00:09:24,272 --> 00:09:25,822 You’re not-- - Correct. 225 00:09:25,857 --> 00:09:28,187 - You’re holding back to let them do them. 226 00:09:28,234 --> 00:09:29,824 - Yeah. - And you’re not being true 227 00:09:29,861 --> 00:09:31,321 to yourself. - You know what I’m saying? 228 00:09:31,362 --> 00:09:32,862 - You have a big personality. - Yeah, yeah. 229 00:09:32,906 --> 00:09:34,816 - Yeah, but you’re gonna do you, regardless. 230 00:09:34,866 --> 00:09:36,326 Like, you need... - I have to. 231 00:09:36,367 --> 00:09:37,907 - Someone to support that. - I’m trying to be cool, 232 00:09:37,952 --> 00:09:39,122 but I know you like my personality. 233 00:09:39,162 --> 00:09:40,912 - I do. Obviously. Being, like, 234 00:09:40,955 --> 00:09:42,285 real comfortable with someone, right off the bat... 235 00:09:42,332 --> 00:09:45,252 - Yeah. - That’s not always the case. 236 00:09:45,293 --> 00:09:46,753 - You hearing me? 237 00:09:46,795 --> 00:09:48,095 - I’m hearing you. - You see how-- 238 00:09:48,129 --> 00:09:49,709 - I’m picking up what you’re putting down. 239 00:09:49,756 --> 00:09:50,876 - Yeah. I have to look you up and down, 240 00:09:50,924 --> 00:09:52,304 and you’re sitting down, and you-- 241 00:09:52,342 --> 00:09:54,182 - I know. - For real. 242 00:09:54,219 --> 00:09:56,849 We damn now on a mini date right now, in the confessional. 243 00:09:56,888 --> 00:09:58,678 - This is our first date? 244 00:09:59,557 --> 00:10:01,137 [laughs] 245 00:10:04,896 --> 00:10:07,226 ♪ ♪ 246 00:10:07,273 --> 00:10:09,363 - I need four eggs. I’m hungry. 247 00:10:09,400 --> 00:10:11,690 - Don’t pour that in. - No. I don’t like that. 248 00:10:11,736 --> 00:10:13,146 I don’t like that kind. - I want it-- 249 00:10:13,196 --> 00:10:14,776 - No, I’m pouring it in. - I don’t like it hot. 250 00:10:14,823 --> 00:10:16,123 - I’m pouring it in. - I don’t want it hot. 251 00:10:16,157 --> 00:10:17,237 - Yeah. I want it hot now, because-- 252 00:10:17,283 --> 00:10:18,453 - It’s not just your eggs. 253 00:10:18,493 --> 00:10:20,793 - Yeah. Well, it’s my eggs now. 254 00:10:20,829 --> 00:10:22,289 - You think you’re the only one. 255 00:10:22,330 --> 00:10:24,000 You’re not the only one. Stop being self-centered. 256 00:10:25,750 --> 00:10:27,380 - I don’t like the fact that you’re not listening 257 00:10:27,418 --> 00:10:29,708 to what I have to say. 258 00:10:29,754 --> 00:10:31,384 - I am. I never said I wasn’t. 259 00:10:31,422 --> 00:10:34,012 - Yeah, but I feel like that’s what you’re doing. 260 00:10:34,050 --> 00:10:36,760 Definitely one of the main reasons why we are divorced 261 00:10:36,803 --> 00:10:38,263 was his bad temper. 262 00:10:38,304 --> 00:10:39,934 - You gotta take it how I give it. 263 00:10:39,973 --> 00:10:42,063 I don’t [bleep] do that shit. That’s not right. 264 00:10:42,100 --> 00:10:43,980 - There has been times when me and him went out before, 265 00:10:44,018 --> 00:10:46,308 and we’d get in an argument, and he’s yelling at me. 266 00:10:46,354 --> 00:10:50,324 He was like, "F her. This B. Like, I’m done with her." 267 00:10:50,358 --> 00:10:52,028 Out loud, in front of everybody. 268 00:10:52,068 --> 00:10:53,778 It was just too much for me. 269 00:10:53,820 --> 00:10:55,150 - All right. Put that shit back in there, girl. 270 00:10:55,196 --> 00:10:56,986 That shit’s not cooked? Are you crazy? 271 00:10:57,031 --> 00:11:00,581 You trying to kill yourself? [bleep] Pork. Are you crazy? 272 00:11:00,618 --> 00:11:02,368 - Well [bleep] cook it. I thought it was good. 273 00:11:02,412 --> 00:11:04,872 - It’s not cooked. I told you. You cook things-- 274 00:11:04,914 --> 00:11:08,004 - So you turned off the stove for no reason, just ’cause? 275 00:11:08,042 --> 00:11:10,752 - You cook things slowly, not [bleep] fast. 276 00:11:10,795 --> 00:11:12,415 - Drama before. What are you doing? 277 00:11:12,463 --> 00:11:15,593 - When you asked me to do it let me do it how I do it. 278 00:11:15,633 --> 00:11:17,343 I’m not gonna listen to that shit. 279 00:11:17,385 --> 00:11:20,255 I don’t give a [bleep]. That’s [bleep] controlling. 280 00:11:20,305 --> 00:11:22,315 - What the [bleep] are they fighting about? 281 00:11:22,348 --> 00:11:24,888 No one wants to [bleep] with that anger. 282 00:11:24,934 --> 00:11:27,314 He’s like, "[bleep] Like, now I get why you’re divorced." 283 00:11:27,353 --> 00:11:30,193 - Do you guys want to hug each other? 284 00:11:30,231 --> 00:11:32,361 - No. - No. Not yet. It’ll come. 285 00:11:32,400 --> 00:11:34,986 - I feel like you need one, baby. 286 00:11:34,986 --> 00:11:41,366 ♪ ♪ 287 00:11:41,409 --> 00:11:43,079 - I want to have conversations. 288 00:11:43,119 --> 00:11:44,749 Just talking and getting to know each other. 289 00:11:44,787 --> 00:11:48,207 Like, I need to have conversations that, like, are 290 00:11:48,249 --> 00:11:49,709 about, like, each other. 291 00:11:49,751 --> 00:11:52,341 And, like, what are your [bleep] goals? 292 00:11:52,378 --> 00:11:54,208 Like, what do you like? What do you do? 293 00:11:54,255 --> 00:11:55,545 Like, you know what I’m saying? Like, getting to know-- 294 00:11:55,590 --> 00:11:57,380 when you get to know a person. 295 00:11:57,425 --> 00:12:01,175 I found this closure with Blair that took way longer 296 00:12:01,221 --> 00:12:03,101 than I had anticipated, 297 00:12:03,139 --> 00:12:05,679 and so I’m at this point where I’m finally opening myself up 298 00:12:05,725 --> 00:12:09,185 and now actively trying to make connections. 299 00:12:09,229 --> 00:12:10,479 - Well, I have very simple needs, 300 00:12:10,521 --> 00:12:12,191 and I’m a simple [bleep] man. 301 00:12:12,232 --> 00:12:13,402 I know it sounds stupid, but... - No it’s not. 302 00:12:13,441 --> 00:12:15,111 - That’s the truth of it. 303 00:12:15,151 --> 00:12:17,321 - I would love to have a connection with someone, 304 00:12:17,362 --> 00:12:19,822 but I’m not here to force it. 305 00:12:19,864 --> 00:12:22,584 Like, if I don’t have a genuine connection with someone, 306 00:12:22,617 --> 00:12:24,577 I’m not gonna try to make that happen. 307 00:12:24,619 --> 00:12:27,499 - Yeah. David makes me feel comfortable, and I like that. 308 00:12:27,538 --> 00:12:30,828 If I want to stay, I need to just, like, 309 00:12:30,875 --> 00:12:34,455 put myself out there and shoot my shot. 310 00:12:34,504 --> 00:12:36,214 - We’ve had a nice couple conversations 311 00:12:36,256 --> 00:12:37,756 the past few nights, 312 00:12:37,799 --> 00:12:39,469 and I’m just--I’m getting to know you. 313 00:12:39,509 --> 00:12:40,759 - Mm-hmm. 314 00:12:40,802 --> 00:12:42,392 - You know what I mean? - Okay. 315 00:12:42,428 --> 00:12:44,508 - Ariel is a really awesome person inside. 316 00:12:44,555 --> 00:12:46,925 Like, we’ve had so many conversations, 317 00:12:46,975 --> 00:12:50,275 and she’s finally ready to move forward. 318 00:12:50,311 --> 00:12:52,771 But at the same time, you know, 319 00:12:52,814 --> 00:12:55,654 we needed that energy a long time ago. 320 00:12:56,901 --> 00:12:59,861 [light music] 321 00:12:59,904 --> 00:13:00,954 ♪ ♪ 322 00:13:00,989 --> 00:13:03,869 - Oh. 323 00:13:03,908 --> 00:13:06,198 - Ooh. You get that water. 324 00:13:06,244 --> 00:13:09,374 - I should have bent over. Let me--hold on. 325 00:13:09,414 --> 00:13:10,794 Take it from the top. 326 00:13:10,832 --> 00:13:15,462 - Oh, let’s see here. Whoa, whoa, whoa. 327 00:13:15,503 --> 00:13:17,673 - I’m just thirsty. [both laugh] 328 00:13:17,714 --> 00:13:20,974 ♪ ♪ 329 00:13:21,009 --> 00:13:24,679 - Hey, hey, hey. Cute! 330 00:13:24,721 --> 00:13:27,311 Good morning, singles. How you guys doing? 331 00:13:27,348 --> 00:13:29,228 - All: Good. - Very good. 332 00:13:29,267 --> 00:13:31,307 - I see we have a new face in the mix. 333 00:13:31,352 --> 00:13:33,402 [cheering] - Jordan, welcome to the group. 334 00:13:33,438 --> 00:13:34,938 - I’m happy to be here. 335 00:13:34,981 --> 00:13:37,271 - Jordan, I gotta say you came at a perfect time. 336 00:13:37,317 --> 00:13:38,727 It’s time for your exercise. 337 00:13:38,776 --> 00:13:40,486 - We’re all familiar with the phrase 338 00:13:40,528 --> 00:13:42,658 "love at first sight," right? When you find yourself 339 00:13:42,697 --> 00:13:46,277 falling hard for someone based solely on looks. 340 00:13:46,326 --> 00:13:48,826 - And although physical attraction is important, 341 00:13:48,870 --> 00:13:52,410 it’s not the best indicator for success in a relationship. 342 00:13:52,457 --> 00:13:54,247 So to get better results, 343 00:13:54,292 --> 00:13:56,462 we’re gonna change your approach. 344 00:13:56,502 --> 00:13:59,592 - So our ladies will be reaching out via text, 345 00:13:59,630 --> 00:14:03,590 using fake accounts to disguise who they really are. 346 00:14:03,634 --> 00:14:07,514 Their goal is to spark enough interest from the guys 347 00:14:07,555 --> 00:14:09,345 to get chosen for a date. 348 00:14:09,390 --> 00:14:11,270 - All right. All right. 349 00:14:11,309 --> 00:14:13,849 - Ladies, crack those knuckles. Loosen up those wrists. 350 00:14:13,895 --> 00:14:16,235 - You got one hour. Get to it. - Yep. 351 00:14:16,272 --> 00:14:19,362 ♪ ♪ 352 00:14:19,400 --> 00:14:22,900 - Well, hello. How are you doing today? 353 00:14:22,945 --> 00:14:25,025 - I don’t know even know how to word this. 354 00:14:25,073 --> 00:14:27,783 - This is so [bleep] weird. [laughs] 355 00:14:27,825 --> 00:14:29,535 - Hmm. Who the hell are these people? 356 00:14:29,577 --> 00:14:32,287 I’m so, like, trying to figure out who’s who. 357 00:14:32,330 --> 00:14:34,290 - The women in the house knew who they were talking to, 358 00:14:34,332 --> 00:14:36,542 but we didn’t know, because every woman 359 00:14:36,584 --> 00:14:38,884 in the house had an anonymous alias. 360 00:14:38,920 --> 00:14:40,960 - Hey, so hold on. You gotta help me out on this one. 361 00:14:41,005 --> 00:14:43,545 LFG? 362 00:14:43,591 --> 00:14:44,681 - LFG. 363 00:14:44,717 --> 00:14:46,007 - What does that stand for? 364 00:14:46,052 --> 00:14:48,012 - LFG. Let’s [bleep]-- 365 00:14:48,054 --> 00:14:50,434 Let’s [bleep]. 366 00:14:50,473 --> 00:14:52,643 Let’s [bleep]. Let’s [bleep]. Something about [bleep]. 367 00:14:52,683 --> 00:14:54,943 - Something about--I can improvise. I can improvise. 368 00:14:54,977 --> 00:14:56,557 - Yeah just-- - You know what I mean? 369 00:14:56,604 --> 00:14:58,314 - Oh, my God. This is so annoying. 370 00:14:58,356 --> 00:15:00,686 I hate texting. This is hard for me. 371 00:15:00,733 --> 00:15:05,283 I don’t text. I FaceTime. But I’m texting David, 372 00:15:05,321 --> 00:15:08,821 because I’m trying to get a date and make a connection. 373 00:15:08,866 --> 00:15:11,326 ♪ ♪ 374 00:15:11,369 --> 00:15:13,699 [bleep] I don’t know my favorite movie. 375 00:15:13,746 --> 00:15:15,326 What am I supposed to say? 376 00:15:15,373 --> 00:15:17,543 I actually don’t know my favorite movie. 377 00:15:17,583 --> 00:15:20,003 Oh, my God. This is so hard. I don’t know. 378 00:15:20,044 --> 00:15:22,924 - I’m liking BonnieLookingForClyde. 379 00:15:22,964 --> 00:15:24,594 She seems cool. 380 00:15:24,632 --> 00:15:26,932 She goes, "What’s your favorite sex position?" 381 00:15:26,968 --> 00:15:28,888 I said, "The whirling dervish." 382 00:15:28,928 --> 00:15:31,888 She said, "What the [bleep] is that anyways?" 383 00:15:31,931 --> 00:15:34,351 I said it requires a pirate ship, two squirrels, 384 00:15:34,392 --> 00:15:35,642 and a water buffalo. 385 00:15:35,685 --> 00:15:38,105 - I love it. I love it. I love it. 386 00:15:38,146 --> 00:15:40,106 Thakur is funny. He’s got a great sense of humor. 387 00:15:40,148 --> 00:15:41,858 I clicked with that. 388 00:15:41,899 --> 00:15:44,319 If this was a dating app, I would meet up with Thakur. 389 00:15:44,360 --> 00:15:45,570 - I’m not usually a DM slider, 390 00:15:45,611 --> 00:15:46,861 but I’m wildly attracted to you. 391 00:15:46,904 --> 00:15:48,704 Had to shoot my shot. 392 00:15:48,739 --> 00:15:50,069 I’m here for it. - Wait. 393 00:15:50,116 --> 00:15:51,776 It’s, like, exciting doing this. 394 00:15:51,826 --> 00:15:55,656 It’s fun. It’s like, oh, this is fun and flirty. 395 00:15:55,705 --> 00:15:57,965 I really want a date with David, 396 00:15:57,999 --> 00:16:01,539 and so I’m hoping that he enjoyed our conversation, 397 00:16:01,586 --> 00:16:02,796 so I can win that date. 398 00:16:02,837 --> 00:16:04,507 - [laughs] 399 00:16:04,547 --> 00:16:06,757 - Yeah. I’m just gonna keep this awkward train 400 00:16:06,799 --> 00:16:08,509 going with my banter, 401 00:16:08,551 --> 00:16:10,841 because I can’t do the sexy thing. 402 00:16:11,846 --> 00:16:14,676 - Serious question for you. Can I have your picture, 403 00:16:14,724 --> 00:16:16,984 so I can show Santa what I want for Christmas? 404 00:16:17,018 --> 00:16:19,978 [laughter] Now this one’s spitting game. 405 00:16:20,021 --> 00:16:21,731 - Devon is texting so slow. 406 00:16:21,772 --> 00:16:23,822 I’m about to give up with texting him. 407 00:16:23,858 --> 00:16:26,488 - Man, I’m mad I can’t use emojis. 408 00:16:26,527 --> 00:16:29,067 - Oh, [bleep]. 409 00:16:29,113 --> 00:16:31,073 - See how David really feels. 410 00:16:31,115 --> 00:16:35,035 Are there any girls that you are interested in? 411 00:16:35,077 --> 00:16:36,787 David is very sweet, 412 00:16:36,829 --> 00:16:38,409 and I knew, right from the get-go, like, 413 00:16:38,456 --> 00:16:39,826 there was just something about him, 414 00:16:39,874 --> 00:16:41,134 and I want to explore that more. 415 00:16:41,167 --> 00:16:42,837 I want to see how we communicate. 416 00:16:42,877 --> 00:16:44,547 Like, how our conversations with one another go, 417 00:16:44,587 --> 00:16:46,007 just to kind of see what that relationship is. 418 00:16:46,047 --> 00:16:48,917 - LoveWins has got some deep talk. I like that. 419 00:16:48,966 --> 00:16:52,676 - I’m like, "Ooh, this is what it takes to be a player." 420 00:16:52,720 --> 00:16:54,560 I don’t know if I got it in me no more. 421 00:16:56,140 --> 00:16:58,520 - What’s my favorite movie? [bleep]. 422 00:16:58,559 --> 00:16:59,809 ♪ ♪ 423 00:16:59,852 --> 00:17:01,902 - All right. Well done, guys. 424 00:17:01,938 --> 00:17:04,768 You can relax your texting thumbs now. 425 00:17:04,815 --> 00:17:08,895 - The purpose of this exercise was to make genuine connections 426 00:17:08,945 --> 00:17:11,955 that aren’t based solely on the physical. 427 00:17:11,989 --> 00:17:13,869 - All right. Time to announce the winners. 428 00:17:13,908 --> 00:17:17,408 We monitored who the guys enjoyed flirting with the most, 429 00:17:17,453 --> 00:17:20,583 and there are two clear winners. 430 00:17:20,623 --> 00:17:24,713 - So our two winning mystery texters-- 431 00:17:24,752 --> 00:17:29,632 - Would like to take David and Thakur. 432 00:17:29,674 --> 00:17:32,224 - Oh, my gosh! - Yes, yes. 433 00:17:32,260 --> 00:17:34,010 - Oh, my God. - Oh, my God. 434 00:17:34,053 --> 00:17:35,723 - All right. 435 00:17:35,763 --> 00:17:37,063 You all know we always got twists up our sleeve, 436 00:17:37,098 --> 00:17:39,018 and this week is no different. 437 00:17:39,058 --> 00:17:44,558 Fellas, your mystery dater’s identity will not be revealed 438 00:17:44,605 --> 00:17:45,645 until they show up at the date. 439 00:17:45,690 --> 00:17:47,780 [chatter] 440 00:17:47,817 --> 00:17:50,897 And as always, winning has its advantages. 441 00:17:50,945 --> 00:17:53,995 Anyone that goes on a date will be safe from being eliminated. 442 00:17:54,031 --> 00:17:56,491 - And, y’all, just remember the power is now back 443 00:17:56,534 --> 00:17:58,244 in the hands of the men. 444 00:17:58,286 --> 00:18:01,156 So at elimination, they will be deciding whose journey ends. 445 00:18:04,125 --> 00:18:07,255 ♪ ♪ 446 00:18:07,295 --> 00:18:08,755 - [laughs] 447 00:18:08,796 --> 00:18:09,916 - It’d be cool if we had some salsa. 448 00:18:09,964 --> 00:18:11,924 - [laughs] 449 00:18:11,966 --> 00:18:13,676 - With Gillian out of the house, 450 00:18:13,718 --> 00:18:16,598 everyone in the house is, like, interested in David. 451 00:18:16,637 --> 00:18:18,217 Let’s go here. 452 00:18:18,264 --> 00:18:22,894 I’m a very flirty person, and I’m gonna go for it. 453 00:18:22,935 --> 00:18:24,845 I’m gonna go for it with David. 454 00:18:24,895 --> 00:18:25,975 [cork pops] Ooh! 455 00:18:26,022 --> 00:18:27,772 - It’s gone. 456 00:18:27,815 --> 00:18:29,525 - I like talking about dreams. Like, what’s your dream? 457 00:18:29,567 --> 00:18:31,027 - I’m very simple. - Yeah. 458 00:18:31,068 --> 00:18:32,568 - You know what I mean? Like, I want a family. 459 00:18:32,612 --> 00:18:33,902 - Yeah. - Do you know what I mean? 460 00:18:33,946 --> 00:18:35,776 I want home. - Mm-hmm. 461 00:18:35,823 --> 00:18:37,123 - And I want to spend it 462 00:18:37,158 --> 00:18:38,948 with someone, like, that is so special. 463 00:18:38,993 --> 00:18:41,123 - I was gonna ask have you been dating much since the... 464 00:18:41,162 --> 00:18:43,002 - Since the separation? - Separation? 465 00:18:43,039 --> 00:18:45,079 - I dated a little bit. It made me, like, miss Gillian, 466 00:18:45,124 --> 00:18:47,254 because I didn’t give, like, that time, you know, to... 467 00:18:47,293 --> 00:18:48,633 - To heal. 468 00:18:48,669 --> 00:18:49,879 - Myself. - Yes. 469 00:18:49,920 --> 00:18:51,510 - And I didn’t have the closure. 470 00:18:51,547 --> 00:18:53,297 - Yes, and I think, like, 471 00:18:53,341 --> 00:18:56,181 it’s so hard going from having a person daily 472 00:18:56,218 --> 00:18:59,718 that you’re checking in with and being, like, utterly alone. 473 00:18:59,764 --> 00:19:01,684 - And sleeping on a couch and an air mattress. 474 00:19:01,724 --> 00:19:04,734 - Yes, yes. It’s hard. It’s so hard. 475 00:19:04,769 --> 00:19:08,059 - Yeah. Ariel and I were kind of hitting it off, 476 00:19:08,105 --> 00:19:10,975 but now that Angelique and I are getting to know each other, 477 00:19:11,025 --> 00:19:13,905 I really like the person that she is. 478 00:19:13,944 --> 00:19:16,664 She’s not only beautiful to look at. 479 00:19:16,697 --> 00:19:18,867 She’s beautiful on the inside. 480 00:19:18,908 --> 00:19:20,778 When I talk to you, and you’re talking to me 481 00:19:20,826 --> 00:19:23,656 I feel like I’m the only person in the room, 482 00:19:23,704 --> 00:19:25,164 and, like, that’s special. You know... 483 00:19:25,206 --> 00:19:26,916 - Yeah. Thanks. 484 00:19:26,957 --> 00:19:28,957 - What I mean? Like, and I really appreciate that. 485 00:19:29,001 --> 00:19:31,211 - Well, I’m, like, really having fun with you, 486 00:19:31,253 --> 00:19:34,673 and I’m, like, the more I get to know you the more I like. 487 00:19:34,715 --> 00:19:36,255 Can I have a hug? 488 00:19:36,300 --> 00:19:38,930 - Yeah. Absolutely. 489 00:19:38,969 --> 00:19:43,849 ♪ ♪ 490 00:19:43,891 --> 00:19:46,271 - Angelique, come here! 491 00:19:46,310 --> 00:19:49,020 Oh, hey, honey. You had a moment with Dave... 492 00:19:49,063 --> 00:19:50,193 - Excuse me? - By yourself. 493 00:19:50,231 --> 00:19:51,651 - How was your date? 494 00:19:51,691 --> 00:19:53,071 - It was so good. He’s a sweetie. 495 00:19:53,109 --> 00:19:55,029 - There’s so much to him... - Yeah, yeah. 496 00:19:55,069 --> 00:19:56,319 - Right? - I know. 497 00:19:56,362 --> 00:19:57,822 - I want to go on a date with David. 498 00:19:57,863 --> 00:20:00,283 - You will. - I want to experience it 499 00:20:00,324 --> 00:20:02,744 while I’m here, I need to, I need to-- 500 00:20:02,785 --> 00:20:04,125 I need to go on a date with him. 501 00:20:04,161 --> 00:20:05,951 - You need to. I think that’s great. 502 00:20:05,996 --> 00:20:08,956 I’m, like, really loving getting to know him. Seriously. 503 00:20:08,999 --> 00:20:11,289 - Angelique just, like, swooped in, 504 00:20:11,335 --> 00:20:15,125 and just put this, like, little--her mark on David. 505 00:20:15,172 --> 00:20:18,972 And all I want to do is go on a date and show David 506 00:20:19,009 --> 00:20:21,009 I just want a genuine connection. 507 00:20:21,053 --> 00:20:22,683 - I think I’m gonna go hang out in the bedroom. 508 00:20:22,722 --> 00:20:23,892 - Yeah. - You’re more than welcome to, 509 00:20:23,931 --> 00:20:25,391 like, hang out... - Yeah, yeah. 510 00:20:25,433 --> 00:20:26,933 - If you want. I’m not trying to be like-- 511 00:20:26,976 --> 00:20:27,936 - Are you trying to get in my pants? 512 00:20:27,977 --> 00:20:29,767 - No. 513 00:20:29,812 --> 00:20:31,612 Not yet. 514 00:20:31,647 --> 00:20:33,897 - Girl code. I mean, I know we’re all single and exes, 515 00:20:33,941 --> 00:20:37,281 but, like, girl code, because we’re still all friends. 516 00:20:37,319 --> 00:20:39,399 - You have your condom, right? - Shut up. 517 00:20:39,447 --> 00:20:41,107 - Babe, get it. Get it out. 518 00:20:41,157 --> 00:20:42,737 - Get it out. - Put it on. 519 00:20:42,783 --> 00:20:44,243 - So do you think Angelique and David are, 520 00:20:44,285 --> 00:20:46,335 like--unless one of us 521 00:20:46,370 --> 00:20:49,210 gets to go on a [bleep] date with him tomorrow. 522 00:20:49,248 --> 00:20:51,918 [laughter] - Listen, I think you also need 523 00:20:51,959 --> 00:20:53,749 to spend some time with him. 524 00:20:53,794 --> 00:20:56,214 I feel like Ariel is just all talk, no action. 525 00:20:56,255 --> 00:20:58,295 You know what you want, go get it. 526 00:20:58,340 --> 00:20:59,800 You don’t have time to slack. 527 00:21:04,388 --> 00:21:05,968 - I do. Like, seriously, like... 528 00:21:06,015 --> 00:21:07,315 - Yeah. - I, like-- 529 00:21:07,349 --> 00:21:09,349 - Yeah. - Angelique is feeling him! 530 00:21:09,393 --> 00:21:10,943 - Face down. 531 00:21:10,978 --> 00:21:12,808 - Him! I was like, "That was fast." 532 00:21:12,855 --> 00:21:16,365 Hi, David. Nice to meet you. Like, "Oh, okay. Never mind." 533 00:21:16,400 --> 00:21:18,110 You think they realize that we can see them? 534 00:21:18,152 --> 00:21:20,452 - I don’t think they realize, - They don’t. 535 00:21:20,488 --> 00:21:22,408 - A lot of people are after David, 536 00:21:22,448 --> 00:21:25,738 and Angelique is doing whatever she can to make it very clear 537 00:21:25,785 --> 00:21:27,455 that she’s into David. 538 00:21:27,495 --> 00:21:30,045 And in all reality, I think that she’s here for a reason, 539 00:21:30,080 --> 00:21:32,370 and her reason isn’t really to make friends. 540 00:21:32,416 --> 00:21:34,286 David needs to get [bleep]. 541 00:21:34,335 --> 00:21:37,255 - Yeah, but that doesn’t mean that tonight is his night. 542 00:21:37,296 --> 00:21:38,756 - Oh, my gosh. 543 00:21:38,798 --> 00:21:39,918 - It’s hot, right? Like, hot to touch? 544 00:21:39,965 --> 00:21:41,125 - Yes. Like... - Yeah. 545 00:21:41,175 --> 00:21:43,015 - Should we crack an egg on here? 546 00:21:43,052 --> 00:21:44,682 - Is she rubbing aloe on him or just, like, rubbing him? 547 00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:45,800 - She’s rubbing aloe on him. - Okay. 548 00:21:47,515 --> 00:21:51,025 - Are you really-- - Gillian just left. 549 00:21:51,060 --> 00:21:53,400 Angelique is moving too fast. 550 00:21:53,437 --> 00:21:56,767 Oh, my God. It’s been five minutes, 551 00:21:56,816 --> 00:22:00,146 and they are just--they’re getting it on. 552 00:22:00,194 --> 00:22:01,824 - I’d just like to just lay here with you, 553 00:22:01,862 --> 00:22:03,782 for a little bit. 554 00:22:03,823 --> 00:22:06,203 - The lights are off, folks. - Oh, wow. 555 00:22:06,242 --> 00:22:09,292 She’s [bleep] turned the light off and closed the curtain. 556 00:22:09,328 --> 00:22:13,118 - In this moment, I am really loving connecting with David. 557 00:22:13,165 --> 00:22:16,245 Yeah. It was nice physical contact. 558 00:22:17,336 --> 00:22:19,336 - Yeah. 559 00:22:19,380 --> 00:22:21,300 [both laugh] 560 00:22:23,551 --> 00:22:27,680 - Please, say no. Don’t do this, David. 561 00:22:27,680 --> 00:22:35,690 [upbeat music] 562 00:22:35,729 --> 00:22:38,439 ♪ ♪ 563 00:22:38,482 --> 00:22:40,322 - Hey, Jada. - Hey, Devon. 564 00:22:40,359 --> 00:22:41,819 How you doing? Good to see you. 565 00:22:41,861 --> 00:22:43,281 - Nice to see you. - What’s up? 566 00:22:43,320 --> 00:22:44,650 - Thank you for coming. 567 00:22:44,697 --> 00:22:46,657 After Alexis and I got into a disagreement, 568 00:22:46,699 --> 00:22:49,279 I set up a session with Dr. Jada, 569 00:22:49,326 --> 00:22:50,656 because I definitely realized 570 00:22:50,703 --> 00:22:52,293 that I got some interpersonal things 571 00:22:52,329 --> 00:22:54,159 that I want to work on with myself. 572 00:22:54,206 --> 00:22:56,116 I don’t know where to start. Like, where should I start? 573 00:22:56,166 --> 00:22:58,336 - Start with what’s bothering you first. 574 00:22:58,377 --> 00:23:00,297 - Yeah. I feel like my temper is bad. 575 00:23:00,337 --> 00:23:02,297 - Mm-hmm. - That is #1. 576 00:23:02,339 --> 00:23:04,629 I’ve had this temper problem, and it’s not cool, at all. 577 00:23:04,675 --> 00:23:06,805 It’s because I put so many things on my shoulder. 578 00:23:06,844 --> 00:23:08,554 I’m not in denial about it, 579 00:23:08,596 --> 00:23:10,256 and it’s something that I really want to work on. 580 00:23:10,306 --> 00:23:12,636 - Remember, anger is what’s called 581 00:23:12,683 --> 00:23:15,443 a secondary emotion, okay. 582 00:23:15,477 --> 00:23:18,647 Usually, if this is anger, 583 00:23:18,689 --> 00:23:23,069 there are all sorts of primary emotions below the surface. 584 00:23:23,110 --> 00:23:25,490 I want you to be able to identify, 585 00:23:25,529 --> 00:23:28,569 "This is what’s bothering me. I feel hurt 586 00:23:28,616 --> 00:23:31,196 "because Alexis said X, Y, and Z. 587 00:23:31,243 --> 00:23:35,413 I feel fear, because I’m afraid of the unknown." 588 00:23:35,456 --> 00:23:36,916 - Right. - But whatever it is, 589 00:23:36,957 --> 00:23:38,667 you have to be able to identify it. 590 00:23:38,709 --> 00:23:41,749 Once you identify it, then you can pull back and go, 591 00:23:41,795 --> 00:23:43,295 "Okay. Wait a second. 592 00:23:43,339 --> 00:23:44,709 Let me see how I’m gonna handle this." 593 00:23:46,425 --> 00:23:48,885 - I know I don’t do this. - Yeah. 594 00:23:48,928 --> 00:23:52,348 - And if I can make these steps, and I can try, 595 00:23:52,389 --> 00:23:55,229 I know she would do it, because she’s really trying already. 596 00:23:55,267 --> 00:23:57,187 - Yeah. That’s your homework. 597 00:23:57,227 --> 00:23:58,847 - That’s my homework? - That’s your homework. 598 00:23:58,896 --> 00:24:03,106 - With my bad temper I am realizing that I am in control 599 00:24:03,150 --> 00:24:04,820 of that 100% of the time, 600 00:24:04,860 --> 00:24:06,950 because I’m always gonna be in control of my own emotions. 601 00:24:06,987 --> 00:24:09,527 And going forward with Alexis and I, 602 00:24:09,573 --> 00:24:11,703 there are definitely good tools that I’m gonna use. 603 00:24:11,742 --> 00:24:13,792 - All right. All right. Bring it. I’ma give you a hug. 604 00:24:13,827 --> 00:24:15,367 - Thank you. - I’m gonna give you a hug. 605 00:24:15,412 --> 00:24:17,372 - I appreciate you. Thank you. Seriously. 606 00:24:17,414 --> 00:24:18,544 - Good work. - Thank you. 607 00:24:18,582 --> 00:24:19,752 - Good work. - Thank you. 608 00:24:19,792 --> 00:24:22,752 [upbeat rock music] 609 00:24:22,795 --> 00:24:24,595 ♪ ♪ 610 00:24:24,630 --> 00:24:26,720 - Who do you think your date’s going to be? 611 00:24:26,757 --> 00:24:29,297 - Oh, man. I-- - My ex-wife? 612 00:24:29,343 --> 00:24:30,723 [laughter] 613 00:24:30,761 --> 00:24:32,931 - They’re all freaking so dope. - Yeah. 614 00:24:32,972 --> 00:24:34,562 - And it’s gonna be a fun time, no matter what. 615 00:24:34,598 --> 00:24:36,768 I think the person I was texting was Dede. 616 00:24:36,809 --> 00:24:39,349 It kind of felt like her personality. 617 00:24:39,395 --> 00:24:41,405 I would be so honored if it was her, 618 00:24:41,438 --> 00:24:45,188 but after last night, I’m hoping it’s Angelique. 619 00:24:46,360 --> 00:24:48,900 - Oh, my goodness. 620 00:24:48,946 --> 00:24:50,236 - Date with you. 621 00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:51,570 - Yeah. I thought it was you. 622 00:24:51,615 --> 00:24:54,575 - Let me kiss you. - I’m so excited. 623 00:24:54,618 --> 00:24:57,248 - I am really, really happy that it’s Casey 624 00:24:57,287 --> 00:24:58,617 that I’m going on a date with. 625 00:24:58,664 --> 00:25:00,624 I think her energy is infectious. 626 00:25:00,666 --> 00:25:02,456 I just feel like, you know, 627 00:25:02,501 --> 00:25:04,631 we can take our friendship to a different level today. 628 00:25:04,670 --> 00:25:06,460 - Welcome to Diamante Eco Adventure Park. 629 00:25:06,505 --> 00:25:08,465 - Are you ready for that? 630 00:25:08,507 --> 00:25:10,377 both: Oh, my God! 631 00:25:10,426 --> 00:25:11,836 - Have you ever ziplined before? 632 00:25:11,885 --> 00:25:12,885 - No. 633 00:25:14,263 --> 00:25:15,563 - Oh, my God. Am I going that way? 634 00:25:15,597 --> 00:25:17,677 - Yes. - You’re good. You’re good. 635 00:25:17,725 --> 00:25:21,905 - Whoo! Yeah! Whoo! 636 00:25:21,937 --> 00:25:24,307 - Holy crap. 637 00:25:24,356 --> 00:25:26,526 - Whoo! 638 00:25:27,776 --> 00:25:29,816 - I’m gonna die. Like, this is how I die. 639 00:25:29,862 --> 00:25:32,822 And then, at the same time, I’m like, "I’m so excited." 640 00:25:32,865 --> 00:25:35,285 - Oh, gosh. 641 00:25:35,325 --> 00:25:39,575 - All of a sudden, I slowly come to a stop, 642 00:25:40,748 --> 00:25:42,998 and I’m just like, well-- 643 00:25:43,042 --> 00:25:44,832 - Wait. Casey got stuck. 644 00:25:44,877 --> 00:25:48,757 - Poor Casey. Just dangling 80 stories above. 645 00:25:48,797 --> 00:25:50,587 - Casey! 646 00:25:50,632 --> 00:25:53,472 - And now the zipline guide has to hook up to me 647 00:25:53,510 --> 00:25:55,260 and then hoist me back. 648 00:25:55,304 --> 00:25:58,814 Mind you, my head is in his crotch the whole time. 649 00:25:58,849 --> 00:26:00,679 I’m literally just back and forth, 650 00:26:00,726 --> 00:26:04,846 just giving basically head to another guy 80 stories high. 651 00:26:04,897 --> 00:26:08,527 I mean, what the [bleep]? [laughs] 652 00:26:08,567 --> 00:26:10,527 - You got extra bang for your buck there. 653 00:26:10,569 --> 00:26:12,819 - Yeah. [laughs] - Oh, my God. 654 00:26:12,863 --> 00:26:16,373 ♪ ♪ 655 00:26:16,408 --> 00:26:17,868 - Blair, what are your thoughts, 656 00:26:17,910 --> 00:26:20,620 as far as tonight of who is getting eliminated? 657 00:26:20,662 --> 00:26:24,002 Like, knowing your ex could be on the chopping block. 658 00:26:24,041 --> 00:26:27,501 - I mean it’s always hard to hurt someone that you loved, 659 00:26:27,544 --> 00:26:29,424 and so it would be heavy on the heart. 660 00:26:29,463 --> 00:26:30,633 - Right. - Just because I don’t 661 00:26:30,672 --> 00:26:32,722 want to see her upset. - Upset. 662 00:26:32,758 --> 00:26:34,678 Her and Nathan were a thing, but-- 663 00:26:34,718 --> 00:26:36,338 - Oh, really? - Yeah. 664 00:26:36,386 --> 00:26:37,676 - I mean, Angelique, obviously you and David 665 00:26:37,721 --> 00:26:38,721 had a date last night or something? 666 00:26:38,764 --> 00:26:40,854 - Yeah. - So, Angelique, 667 00:26:40,891 --> 00:26:42,851 that caught me off-guard yesterday, too, 668 00:26:42,893 --> 00:26:44,733 when she was feeling some kind of way 669 00:26:44,770 --> 00:26:46,400 about y’all being in the room. I was like, "Wait. When was"-- 670 00:26:46,438 --> 00:26:48,268 - She did? I didn’t know that. 671 00:26:48,315 --> 00:26:50,895 Every conversation I’ve had with Ariel is all about Blair. 672 00:26:50,943 --> 00:26:54,403 I feel like she came here for closure and not connection. 673 00:26:54,446 --> 00:26:55,946 I think in her mind, she’s trying-- 674 00:26:55,989 --> 00:26:57,619 - To the rest of us, it seems forced. 675 00:26:57,658 --> 00:26:58,868 - It doesn’t seem--yeah. - It doesn’t seem real. 676 00:26:58,909 --> 00:27:00,329 - Yeah. - Everyone else, 677 00:27:00,369 --> 00:27:01,869 it seems genuine to me. 678 00:27:01,912 --> 00:27:03,582 - Yeah, for sure. Being here, 679 00:27:03,622 --> 00:27:05,422 it’s about finding your match 680 00:27:05,457 --> 00:27:07,077 and trying to make a connection beyond just friendship. 681 00:27:07,126 --> 00:27:09,666 I believe Angelique has done that with David. 682 00:27:09,711 --> 00:27:12,761 I feel like now it leaves Ariel out, in a way. 683 00:27:12,798 --> 00:27:15,428 - Like, do you think Ariel’s looking for marriage right now? 684 00:27:15,467 --> 00:27:16,717 Do you think-- - No. I have no idea, 685 00:27:16,760 --> 00:27:18,640 ’cause she’s not here to say. 686 00:27:18,679 --> 00:27:20,679 It’s easy to put the pin on the donkey when she’s not here. 687 00:27:20,722 --> 00:27:22,432 - Right. Yeah. 688 00:27:22,474 --> 00:27:24,434 - But it’s also looking at facts kind of too. 689 00:27:24,476 --> 00:27:26,476 - Okay. Angelique’s trying to save your ass. 690 00:27:26,520 --> 00:27:28,650 - Of course. Obviously. 691 00:27:28,689 --> 00:27:31,069 - Angelique started being a little manipulative 692 00:27:31,108 --> 00:27:36,148 and trying to convince us all to vote Ariel off basically. 693 00:27:36,196 --> 00:27:37,696 And it’s like, "That’s not cool." 694 00:27:37,739 --> 00:27:39,949 - Okay. - I’m not trying to be a dick, 695 00:27:39,992 --> 00:27:41,702 but it’s like you’re kind of being a bitch. 696 00:27:41,743 --> 00:27:42,913 - But also [bleep] changes, baby. 697 00:27:42,953 --> 00:27:44,453 - I’m being a bitch? 698 00:27:44,496 --> 00:27:45,906 - It’s just like come on. Like, come on. 699 00:27:45,956 --> 00:27:47,576 Have a real conversation. Don’t try to, like, 700 00:27:47,624 --> 00:27:48,584 pin it on her. 701 00:27:48,625 --> 00:27:50,585 That’s all I’m saying. 702 00:27:50,627 --> 00:27:51,917 - Ooh! - Well, I mean y’all met 703 00:27:51,962 --> 00:27:53,052 each other’s match. 704 00:27:53,088 --> 00:27:55,008 - Take it out. - Get rid of it. 705 00:27:55,048 --> 00:27:58,588 - Ugh. We’re gonna have issues. I feel it. 706 00:27:58,635 --> 00:28:00,595 - I know a toxic woman when I see one. 707 00:28:00,637 --> 00:28:04,097 Angelique, I know you’re the toxicity in this house. 708 00:28:04,141 --> 00:28:06,021 It’s my gut feeling, 709 00:28:06,059 --> 00:28:08,559 and my gut feeling has never steered me wrong. 710 00:28:08,562 --> 00:28:17,652 ♪ ♪ 711 00:28:17,696 --> 00:28:19,356 - So much fun. - That was awesome. 712 00:28:19,406 --> 00:28:21,446 - Finally, a nice drink and some food. 713 00:28:21,491 --> 00:28:22,991 - Yeah finally we’re eating. 714 00:28:23,035 --> 00:28:24,165 - Mmm. - Cheers. 715 00:28:24,203 --> 00:28:25,333 - Thank you. - Yeah. 716 00:28:25,370 --> 00:28:26,660 - I had so much fun with you. 717 00:28:26,705 --> 00:28:28,575 With Thakur, I want to feel him out. 718 00:28:28,624 --> 00:28:32,294 See where his head’s at and see if maybe this is something 719 00:28:32,336 --> 00:28:34,126 that I’d want to pursue. 720 00:28:34,171 --> 00:28:35,461 I’m open to it. 721 00:28:35,505 --> 00:28:37,125 You know what I like about the challenge 722 00:28:37,174 --> 00:28:39,804 is it was, like, solely based on personality 723 00:28:39,843 --> 00:28:41,473 and, like, sense of humor. 724 00:28:41,511 --> 00:28:44,311 And I, like, truly started ghosting the other guys, 725 00:28:44,348 --> 00:28:46,138 ’cause I was like they’re not intriguing. 726 00:28:46,183 --> 00:28:47,643 - Yeah. To be totally honest with you, 727 00:28:47,684 --> 00:28:50,234 I think your personality is absolutely infectious. 728 00:28:50,270 --> 00:28:52,360 You’re hilarious. That’s one of the biggest things 729 00:28:52,397 --> 00:28:54,017 that I look for in a person. 730 00:28:54,066 --> 00:28:55,566 Like, just being able to laugh with them. 731 00:28:55,609 --> 00:28:57,319 - You’re like, that was a a dirty joke. I like that. 732 00:28:57,361 --> 00:28:59,321 - Yeah, yeah, which is, like, basically every joke 733 00:28:59,363 --> 00:29:00,663 that comes out of your mouth. 734 00:29:00,697 --> 00:29:02,447 When I look at your eyes, like, it’s not 735 00:29:02,491 --> 00:29:04,491 just that they’re pretty, like, I can see that there’s, 736 00:29:04,534 --> 00:29:06,584 like, so much more behind them. 737 00:29:06,620 --> 00:29:08,290 - It’s funny, because I don’t really do well 738 00:29:08,330 --> 00:29:10,420 when someone, like, compliments me. 739 00:29:10,457 --> 00:29:12,667 But it’s like it just feels genuine, so therefore, 740 00:29:12,709 --> 00:29:15,089 I receive something like that better, so thank you, 741 00:29:15,128 --> 00:29:16,758 ’cause it truly does make me feel good. 742 00:29:16,797 --> 00:29:18,467 - Honestly, I’m really, really happy 743 00:29:18,507 --> 00:29:19,667 that we got to share together. 744 00:29:19,716 --> 00:29:22,426 - Thakor is very masculine, 745 00:29:22,469 --> 00:29:24,099 and that’s really attractive, 746 00:29:24,137 --> 00:29:26,257 but are sparks there? 747 00:29:26,306 --> 00:29:27,516 Let’s see. 748 00:29:27,557 --> 00:29:29,677 - Cheers. - Cheers. 749 00:29:35,732 --> 00:29:38,652 He’s a good kisser, but it was like 750 00:29:38,694 --> 00:29:40,704 kissing a friend. 751 00:29:40,737 --> 00:29:41,857 [sucks teeth] 752 00:29:41,905 --> 00:29:47,735 ♪ ♪ 753 00:29:47,786 --> 00:29:49,366 - Me and you--we had a lot going down, 754 00:29:49,413 --> 00:29:52,123 and I’m not trying to [bleep] up anymore. 755 00:29:52,165 --> 00:29:57,415 So I called up Jada, to do a counseling with her. 756 00:29:57,462 --> 00:29:59,592 - Mm-hmm. - And it wasn’t about you. 757 00:29:59,631 --> 00:30:01,221 It was more so for me. 758 00:30:01,258 --> 00:30:03,298 My biggest milestone is denial 759 00:30:03,343 --> 00:30:05,763 about my wrongs, and I’m sorry. 760 00:30:05,804 --> 00:30:09,224 - I’m happy that you’re acknowledging 761 00:30:09,266 --> 00:30:12,186 that you do build up things, and you keep things, 762 00:30:12,227 --> 00:30:14,187 and you harbor things inside you. 763 00:30:14,229 --> 00:30:18,479 And then you explode, and it can be a lot. 764 00:30:18,525 --> 00:30:22,395 And I’m glad that... 765 00:30:22,446 --> 00:30:24,406 you’re willing to work on things. 766 00:30:24,448 --> 00:30:26,618 - I’m really trying to change. 767 00:30:26,658 --> 00:30:28,448 I’m not just here for the good time and fun. 768 00:30:28,493 --> 00:30:31,623 Like, I need to be here for myself, 769 00:30:31,663 --> 00:30:33,333 and then if there’s possible a chance, 770 00:30:33,373 --> 00:30:35,253 you know, for me winning you back, 771 00:30:35,292 --> 00:30:38,462 and being with you, and showing you, like, yo, 772 00:30:38,503 --> 00:30:41,593 I’m really, really trying to be a different man for you, 773 00:30:41,631 --> 00:30:43,551 because I love you so much, you know? 774 00:30:43,592 --> 00:30:44,592 - Mm-hmm. 775 00:30:44,634 --> 00:30:46,434 - ’Cause I want you. 776 00:30:46,470 --> 00:30:49,180 I want you in my life. 777 00:30:49,222 --> 00:30:50,772 God, I can’t believe I’m saying this. 778 00:30:50,807 --> 00:30:52,637 I’m really interested--I’m interested in seeing 779 00:30:52,684 --> 00:30:54,604 what the future has for us 780 00:30:54,644 --> 00:30:57,944 and actually give our love a fighting chance this time. 781 00:30:57,981 --> 00:30:59,611 I really want to, like, 782 00:30:59,649 --> 00:31:01,729 have that opportunity to date you again. 783 00:31:01,777 --> 00:31:03,437 I really want that opportunity to know that, 784 00:31:03,487 --> 00:31:05,607 yo, I’m about you. 785 00:31:05,655 --> 00:31:08,775 - I’m 100% open for us to try new things 786 00:31:08,825 --> 00:31:12,785 and just for us to try again. 787 00:31:12,829 --> 00:31:14,369 Devon’s working on his temper, 788 00:31:14,414 --> 00:31:16,294 and just seeing him really take the time 789 00:31:16,333 --> 00:31:20,963 and focus on working on that makes me feel amazing, 790 00:31:21,004 --> 00:31:22,804 and it gives me hope. 791 00:31:22,839 --> 00:31:24,669 Yeah. 792 00:31:30,555 --> 00:31:32,635 ♪ ♪ 793 00:31:32,682 --> 00:31:33,932 - They’re back! 794 00:31:33,975 --> 00:31:36,635 - Hey, guys. What’s going on? 795 00:31:36,686 --> 00:31:38,186 - Welcome back. - Hey. I missed you. 796 00:31:38,230 --> 00:31:39,480 - Hey, guys. - Hi. 797 00:31:39,523 --> 00:31:41,903 - Oh, my God. It was so much fun. 798 00:31:41,942 --> 00:31:43,612 - I had so much fun. 799 00:31:43,652 --> 00:31:46,652 - I’m so jealous. - I got stuck. 800 00:31:47,447 --> 00:31:48,657 - Oh, boy. I come home, 801 00:31:48,698 --> 00:31:50,328 and everybody was excited, 802 00:31:50,367 --> 00:31:51,827 but, like, half the house is kind of missing. 803 00:31:51,868 --> 00:31:53,828 And it seemed like tensions were high. 804 00:31:53,870 --> 00:31:56,580 So tell me what the [bleep] happened today. 805 00:31:56,623 --> 00:31:58,673 - It’s been crazy. I come out here. 806 00:31:58,708 --> 00:32:00,338 We’re talking about elimination, 807 00:32:00,377 --> 00:32:02,417 and I was like, "I think it should be Ariel." 808 00:32:02,462 --> 00:32:05,382 And so Blair came out, and he was like, 809 00:32:05,424 --> 00:32:06,974 "You should be on the chopping block." 810 00:32:07,008 --> 00:32:10,218 And I’m like, "Okay." - Hm. 811 00:32:10,262 --> 00:32:11,852 - He twisted everything I said. 812 00:32:11,888 --> 00:32:15,478 To save Ariel, he wanted me to be the one eliminated. 813 00:32:15,517 --> 00:32:17,267 So I go, "Okay. Let me ask you this. 814 00:32:17,310 --> 00:32:19,900 Who do you think is opening up more to a connection? 815 00:32:19,938 --> 00:32:21,518 Me or Ariel?" 816 00:32:21,565 --> 00:32:22,985 And he’s like, "I’m not gonna talk about her. 817 00:32:23,024 --> 00:32:25,364 She’s not here. You’re being a bitch." 818 00:32:25,402 --> 00:32:27,862 And I’m like, "Did you just call me a bitch?" 819 00:32:27,904 --> 00:32:30,574 - Like, that just--it doesn’t sound like Blair. 820 00:32:30,615 --> 00:32:32,575 - I’m sorry. I know you guys are really good friends, huh? 821 00:32:32,617 --> 00:32:34,367 - Yeah. I’m good friends with, like, everybody here. 822 00:32:34,411 --> 00:32:35,871 - I know. - You know? 823 00:32:35,912 --> 00:32:38,292 I know Blair was trying to protect Ariel, 824 00:32:38,331 --> 00:32:41,001 so I’m hearing this, I’m, like, in a tough place. 825 00:32:41,042 --> 00:32:42,882 I appreciate you being open with me. 826 00:32:42,919 --> 00:32:46,379 Angelique has a way of putting a spell on you, 827 00:32:46,423 --> 00:32:48,383 but she’s been rubbing a lot of people 828 00:32:48,425 --> 00:32:50,015 in the house the wrong way. 829 00:32:50,051 --> 00:32:52,551 I’m super confused. I don’t know what’s going on. 830 00:32:52,596 --> 00:32:54,806 It’s gonna be interesting evening. 831 00:32:54,848 --> 00:32:59,728 - Yeah. 832 00:32:59,728 --> 00:33:02,478 ♪ ♪ 833 00:33:02,522 --> 00:33:04,232 - I don’t know if you’ve seen how the energy changed 834 00:33:04,274 --> 00:33:05,234 between Blair and I in the last, like-- 835 00:33:05,275 --> 00:33:06,575 - It’s been a lot better. 836 00:33:06,610 --> 00:33:07,860 - It’s [bleep] totally different. 837 00:33:07,903 --> 00:33:09,403 - Yeah. - I’m feeling so good, 838 00:33:09,446 --> 00:33:11,526 but, like, I do feel like I’m now--like, 839 00:33:11,573 --> 00:33:13,073 I feel like I’m late to the game, 840 00:33:13,116 --> 00:33:15,236 because I had to handle all of this. 841 00:33:15,285 --> 00:33:17,415 Now, we’re at such a good place that I feel like 842 00:33:17,454 --> 00:33:19,664 I can go on a date in peace. - Yeah. 843 00:33:19,706 --> 00:33:23,076 - I’ve finally gotten this closure with Blair, 844 00:33:23,126 --> 00:33:25,416 and I’m like, "Okay, guys. I’m ready. 845 00:33:25,462 --> 00:33:27,552 I know who I am. I’m confident. I’m strong." 846 00:33:27,589 --> 00:33:29,549 I’m like, "Whatever it is that awaits me," 847 00:33:29,591 --> 00:33:30,721 I’m like, "Let’s go." 848 00:33:32,469 --> 00:33:33,719 - Who the hell we eliminating? 849 00:33:33,762 --> 00:33:36,262 - It’s between Angelique and Ariel, to me. 850 00:33:36,306 --> 00:33:38,216 - Can we just eliminate both of ’em? 851 00:33:38,266 --> 00:33:39,726 - Golly. 852 00:33:39,768 --> 00:33:41,888 There’s a lot of talk about Ariel going home, 853 00:33:41,937 --> 00:33:44,607 but I do think she deserves to stay in the house, 854 00:33:44,648 --> 00:33:46,268 because she’s ready to move on. 855 00:33:46,316 --> 00:33:47,476 - I haven’t really got a chance to, like, 856 00:33:47,526 --> 00:33:48,816 speak to Ariel today, man. 857 00:33:48,860 --> 00:33:50,650 - I talked to her, and I don’t know. 858 00:33:50,695 --> 00:33:53,775 I don’t--like, I know she was interested in David. 859 00:33:53,823 --> 00:33:55,783 That’s why I gotta talk to David about Angelique. 860 00:33:55,825 --> 00:33:58,365 If it was up to me, Angelique would be leaving tonight. 861 00:33:58,411 --> 00:34:00,621 She is actually very manipulating, 862 00:34:00,664 --> 00:34:02,874 and I don’t want that for David, to be honest. 863 00:34:02,916 --> 00:34:04,576 - I know I rub those guys the wrong way. 864 00:34:04,626 --> 00:34:06,416 - I ain’t worried about any of that shit. 865 00:34:06,461 --> 00:34:07,841 I’m really not. 866 00:34:07,879 --> 00:34:09,799 You are so open and honest with everyone. 867 00:34:09,839 --> 00:34:12,219 It’s not good enough for some people. 868 00:34:12,259 --> 00:34:14,259 - Thank you. - Thank you. 869 00:34:14,302 --> 00:34:17,312 [both laugh] 870 00:34:19,182 --> 00:34:20,772 We’re both smitten with each other. 871 00:34:20,809 --> 00:34:24,479 It’s not easy to resist a beautiful blonde 872 00:34:24,521 --> 00:34:28,151 who wants to kiss me on the lips. 873 00:34:28,191 --> 00:34:29,531 - Somebody feel what I feel. 874 00:34:29,568 --> 00:34:31,818 I mean that’s why when I was at the pool, 875 00:34:31,861 --> 00:34:34,161 and you did what you did, and then reacted like that, 876 00:34:34,197 --> 00:34:37,777 I just saw already can-- I’m like, I like you, Blair. 877 00:34:37,826 --> 00:34:40,286 - [laughs] 878 00:34:40,328 --> 00:34:45,328 - Thanks for being protective of me. 879 00:34:45,375 --> 00:34:50,675 ♪ ♪ 880 00:34:50,714 --> 00:34:52,514 - Whoo! - Hey! 881 00:34:52,549 --> 00:34:53,669 - Hello! - Oh, yeah. 882 00:34:53,717 --> 00:34:55,337 - Hey! - There they are. 883 00:34:55,385 --> 00:34:56,725 What’s up, guys? 884 00:34:56,761 --> 00:34:58,511 - Okay. Look at Jojo. 885 00:34:58,555 --> 00:35:00,725 - I think, going into the day, it was a no-brainer. 886 00:35:00,765 --> 00:35:04,185 Ariel is not gonna be with us, you know, after tonight, 887 00:35:04,227 --> 00:35:06,267 but for some reason, Angelique wanted 888 00:35:06,313 --> 00:35:07,943 to put her name in the bucket. 889 00:35:07,981 --> 00:35:09,571 So let’s see how it goes. 890 00:35:09,608 --> 00:35:13,238 - All right. Welcome back, everyone. 891 00:35:13,278 --> 00:35:14,738 - Angelique, how are you feeling? 892 00:35:14,779 --> 00:35:16,859 - I’ve had a crazy couple of days. 893 00:35:16,906 --> 00:35:18,656 Me and David have been connecting, 894 00:35:18,700 --> 00:35:20,370 and it’s been really good. 895 00:35:20,410 --> 00:35:21,870 - Tell me more. How have you and David connected? 896 00:35:21,911 --> 00:35:23,701 - There’s just been a different vibe, 897 00:35:23,747 --> 00:35:27,537 since Gillian left, and I feel super comfortable with him. 898 00:35:27,584 --> 00:35:29,254 I think he’s hilarious, 899 00:35:29,294 --> 00:35:31,554 and the thing I love the most is he is so genuine. 900 00:35:31,588 --> 00:35:33,378 - All right. Ariel, how has your week been? 901 00:35:33,423 --> 00:35:35,473 - I think it’s been the last, like, 24 hours 902 00:35:35,508 --> 00:35:38,428 to 48 hours my energy has just shifted. 903 00:35:38,470 --> 00:35:41,810 Blair and I have never been at such a good place. 904 00:35:41,848 --> 00:35:44,808 The minute I stopped, like, being so focused on him 905 00:35:44,851 --> 00:35:46,771 I was able to let go. 906 00:35:46,811 --> 00:35:49,401 I’m just like--I feel like this weight has been lifted. 907 00:35:49,439 --> 00:35:51,019 Like, this is incredible. 908 00:35:51,066 --> 00:35:53,526 - That really makes me happy to hear that, because I know 909 00:35:53,568 --> 00:35:55,738 it has been this up-and-down. The struggle. 910 00:35:55,779 --> 00:35:59,409 To sort of hear that, like, something worked, right? 911 00:35:59,449 --> 00:36:01,409 Well, we love hearing you guys open up and talk to us, 912 00:36:01,451 --> 00:36:04,751 but y’all know the drill, and let’s get to it, all right? 913 00:36:04,788 --> 00:36:06,998 - This week, the guys’ turn to decide 914 00:36:07,040 --> 00:36:09,750 which one of the ladies will be saying goodbye. 915 00:36:09,793 --> 00:36:12,423 Casey and Dede, you both went on a date this week 916 00:36:12,462 --> 00:36:15,382 and are therefore safe from being eliminated. 917 00:36:15,423 --> 00:36:16,723 So, now the tough part. 918 00:36:16,758 --> 00:36:18,928 The men need to make their choice, 919 00:36:18,968 --> 00:36:21,798 and as always, ladies, we’re gonna give them some time 920 00:36:21,846 --> 00:36:23,596 to speak openly and honestly. 921 00:36:23,640 --> 00:36:26,430 So I’m gonna have you guys step aside for a few minutes 922 00:36:26,476 --> 00:36:30,346 and give us some time to chat. 923 00:36:30,397 --> 00:36:32,477 - And with all the drama with me and Blair, 924 00:36:32,524 --> 00:36:33,984 I’m a little nervous, 925 00:36:34,025 --> 00:36:35,985 At the same time, I know 926 00:36:36,027 --> 00:36:38,987 I am forming a real connection with David. 927 00:36:39,030 --> 00:36:41,450 - All right. Pretty obvious who you guys are vibing with, 928 00:36:41,491 --> 00:36:43,491 so now, who of the ladies 929 00:36:43,535 --> 00:36:45,835 is not connecting romantically with any of you? 930 00:36:45,870 --> 00:36:47,830 - I hate to have to say this or have to do this, 931 00:36:47,872 --> 00:36:50,542 but Ariel’s gotten what she wanted. 932 00:36:50,583 --> 00:36:52,713 And I think she’s got the true closure 933 00:36:52,752 --> 00:36:54,592 that she wanted with her and Blair. 934 00:36:54,629 --> 00:36:56,049 - Blair, was that--that was a big moment for her. 935 00:36:56,089 --> 00:36:57,629 - Yeah totally, totally. - Yeah. 936 00:36:57,674 --> 00:36:59,634 - You know, I know it’s very easy for me 937 00:36:59,676 --> 00:37:01,386 to defend Ariel and say, you know, 938 00:37:01,428 --> 00:37:03,638 I don’t want to see her hurt or get her feelings hurt, 939 00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:05,850 but Angelique--she’s, you know, 940 00:37:05,890 --> 00:37:08,850 to me kind of covertly hostile and manipulating. 941 00:37:08,893 --> 00:37:10,943 And you know, I’m sorry to say this, David, 942 00:37:10,979 --> 00:37:13,479 but I wouldn’t wish that upon you, in a relationship. 943 00:37:13,523 --> 00:37:15,073 I wouldn’t wish this on any of the guys. 944 00:37:15,108 --> 00:37:18,488 I don’t associate myself with people like that. 945 00:37:18,528 --> 00:37:20,818 - Thakur, what do you think? - Devon just touched upon it. 946 00:37:20,864 --> 00:37:27,454 You know, Ariel. She’s come to terms with Blair, so Ariel 947 00:37:27,495 --> 00:37:29,655 I feel the most strongly about eliminating. 948 00:37:29,706 --> 00:37:31,076 - You know, I mean, honestly, Angelique’s 949 00:37:31,124 --> 00:37:33,134 someone that kind of plays off her hurt. 950 00:37:33,168 --> 00:37:36,958 I left the conversation the same way that Blair felt. 951 00:37:37,005 --> 00:37:39,515 I honestly don’t believe in her energy, 952 00:37:39,549 --> 00:37:42,549 and I don’t believe it’s healthy for the house. 953 00:37:42,594 --> 00:37:44,014 - Does that change your opinion of Angelique, 954 00:37:44,053 --> 00:37:45,473 at all, for you, David? 955 00:37:45,513 --> 00:37:47,013 - I hate the fact that you both 956 00:37:47,056 --> 00:37:48,516 had that problem with Angelique. 957 00:37:48,558 --> 00:37:50,428 This is a side that I haven’t seen. 958 00:37:50,477 --> 00:37:51,847 - I think, if you do pursue that, 959 00:37:51,895 --> 00:37:53,855 you’re gonna end up with a lot of hurt. 960 00:37:53,897 --> 00:37:55,647 - Well, I appreciate you looking out for me, Blair, 961 00:37:55,690 --> 00:37:58,400 ’cause I know that’s where it’s coming from. 962 00:37:58,443 --> 00:38:00,073 - If you feel this confident, 963 00:38:00,111 --> 00:38:01,861 after a very short period of time, David, 964 00:38:01,905 --> 00:38:02,955 I hope it’s worth it. 965 00:38:02,989 --> 00:38:06,619 [tense music] 966 00:38:06,659 --> 00:38:08,489 I really do. 967 00:38:08,495 --> 00:38:15,215 [upbeat music] 968 00:38:15,251 --> 00:38:20,511 ♪ ♪ 969 00:38:20,548 --> 00:38:22,428 - All right. Welcome back, ladies. 970 00:38:22,467 --> 00:38:24,337 The guys have made a decision, 971 00:38:24,385 --> 00:38:27,345 so I will just hand it off to you guys. 972 00:38:27,388 --> 00:38:31,518 - It came to Angelique and Ariel. 973 00:38:31,559 --> 00:38:35,559 I think you’re both awesome. Beautiful. 974 00:38:35,605 --> 00:38:38,525 Angelique, a couple of the guys 975 00:38:38,566 --> 00:38:41,066 feel like the way you take things sometimes 976 00:38:41,110 --> 00:38:42,450 when they dish it out 977 00:38:42,487 --> 00:38:44,447 it’s not necessarily to disrespect you. 978 00:38:44,489 --> 00:38:46,239 They don’t want it to be flipped sometimes, 979 00:38:46,282 --> 00:38:48,412 because that can be toxic to the household. 980 00:38:48,451 --> 00:38:50,411 - I’m really nervous, but at the same time, 981 00:38:50,453 --> 00:38:52,463 if you look at me and Ariel’s behavior, 982 00:38:52,497 --> 00:38:54,167 who do you think is putting in the effort 983 00:38:54,207 --> 00:38:55,827 to really have a connection? 984 00:38:55,875 --> 00:38:58,205 And I am very confident that that’s me. 985 00:38:58,253 --> 00:39:01,093 - And Ariel, just hearing you say that 986 00:39:01,130 --> 00:39:02,880 what you had to say to Blair. 987 00:39:02,924 --> 00:39:05,974 I mean, that’s beautiful. I can’t say any bad about you. 988 00:39:06,010 --> 00:39:07,600 That’s just real talk. I mean, it takes strength 989 00:39:07,637 --> 00:39:10,597 to be in the same household with your ex-husband. 990 00:39:10,640 --> 00:39:13,060 It came down to a very, very hard decision. 991 00:39:13,101 --> 00:39:15,481 ♪ ♪ 992 00:39:15,520 --> 00:39:21,110 Ariel, you’ll be the one that has to leave, 993 00:39:21,150 --> 00:39:23,280 and I love you. 994 00:39:23,319 --> 00:39:24,899 We all love you. 995 00:39:26,364 --> 00:39:28,164 - Anything you’d like to say, before you go? 996 00:39:28,199 --> 00:39:31,159 - It’s hard, and it’s horrible, and uncomfortable 997 00:39:31,202 --> 00:39:34,412 as it was, this is what I needed, 998 00:39:34,455 --> 00:39:36,115 and that makes me happy. 999 00:39:36,165 --> 00:39:39,335 Like, I feel empowered, and I feel confident. 1000 00:39:39,377 --> 00:39:41,917 I feel like I’m myself again, and I’m so happy. 1001 00:39:41,963 --> 00:39:43,963 - I am really proud of you, and I’m so excited 1002 00:39:44,007 --> 00:39:46,127 to see what happens for you, after this. 1003 00:39:46,175 --> 00:39:47,965 - Thank you. - You can head out 1004 00:39:48,011 --> 00:39:49,301 to the front of the house, and Blair’ll meet you there, 1005 00:39:49,345 --> 00:39:51,135 for a final goodbye. 1006 00:39:51,180 --> 00:39:52,470 - Angelique’s name is getting thrown around, 1007 00:39:52,515 --> 00:39:54,305 but none of that means anything to me. 1008 00:39:54,350 --> 00:39:56,520 They’re looking for reasons to find a negative, 1009 00:39:56,561 --> 00:39:58,191 and if you do that, you’re gonna find it, 1010 00:39:58,229 --> 00:39:59,609 no matter what. 1011 00:39:59,647 --> 00:40:01,567 At the end of the day, I’m looking for somebody 1012 00:40:01,608 --> 00:40:04,318 and something real, and right now, 1013 00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:06,110 I want to be with Angelique. 1014 00:40:06,154 --> 00:40:09,624 - ♪ Words sting me like the diamonds ♪ 1015 00:40:09,657 --> 00:40:13,237 ♪ You bought just to soften the blow ♪ 1016 00:40:15,038 --> 00:40:17,078 [both laugh] 1017 00:40:23,588 --> 00:40:26,548 - It can be easy to fall into, like, the victim mentality 1018 00:40:26,591 --> 00:40:29,051 or put the blame on someone else. 1019 00:40:29,093 --> 00:40:31,433 And sometimes, you have to realize that, 1020 00:40:31,471 --> 00:40:36,391 just as my feelings are valid, so are my partner’s feelings. 1021 00:40:36,434 --> 00:40:39,404 - It is kind of ironic that this was our honeymoon spot. 1022 00:40:39,437 --> 00:40:40,977 - I know. 1023 00:40:41,022 --> 00:40:42,482 - And it was kind of a resolution spot, 1024 00:40:42,523 --> 00:40:44,403 as well, I would say, for our relationship. 1025 00:40:44,442 --> 00:40:47,532 - Yeah. I feel very at peace. 1026 00:40:47,570 --> 00:40:50,070 It’s just, like, nice to just be like, 1027 00:40:50,114 --> 00:40:53,034 "We got something out of this." Like, it was all worth it. 1028 00:40:53,076 --> 00:40:56,406 And I just want you to know I love you. 1029 00:40:56,454 --> 00:40:58,714 I care for you so much. - I love you, too. 1030 00:40:58,748 --> 00:41:02,588 - I’m okay, and I’m ready to find love again, 1031 00:41:02,627 --> 00:41:04,377 and that’s okay. 1032 00:41:04,420 --> 00:41:06,090 Don’t have too much fun without me. 1033 00:41:06,130 --> 00:41:07,420 - Okay. 1034 00:41:07,465 --> 00:41:09,675 - Just kidding. Have a lot of fun. 1035 00:41:09,717 --> 00:41:15,387 ♪ ♪ 1036 00:41:15,723 --> 00:41:17,603 - Next time, on "The Big D"... 1037 00:41:17,642 --> 00:41:19,562 - Do you want to go hang out? - Yeah. 1038 00:41:19,602 --> 00:41:23,112 - David and I have been having a really good connection, 1039 00:41:23,147 --> 00:41:25,227 and I’m crushing on him. 1040 00:41:25,274 --> 00:41:26,734 - Mm. - [laughs] 1041 00:41:26,776 --> 00:41:28,236 [doorbell dings] 1042 00:41:28,277 --> 00:41:29,237 - Open the door! 1043 00:41:29,278 --> 00:41:30,568 - Ahh! - Uh-oh. 1044 00:41:30,613 --> 00:41:32,323 - My ex-husband is here. 1045 00:41:32,365 --> 00:41:35,495 - Ben being here in Costa Rica--super awkward. 1046 00:41:39,163 --> 00:41:41,173 - I know that’s awkward. - Just a little too close. 1047 00:41:41,207 --> 00:41:43,327 Maybe it’s good for her, but it’s hard for me. 1048 00:41:45,378 --> 00:41:48,298 - ’Cause me and you connect on a level that I love... 1049 00:41:48,339 --> 00:41:50,049 - Yeah. - Honestly, Jo. 1050 00:41:50,091 --> 00:41:52,051 - You’re not lying. - But my focus is to keep 1051 00:41:52,093 --> 00:41:54,053 building my relationship with Jo. 1052 00:41:54,095 --> 00:41:55,685 [doorbell dings] - Oh, my God. 1053 00:41:55,722 --> 00:41:58,562 - What? - It’s Dean’s ex-wife. 1054 00:41:58,599 --> 00:42:00,269 - We gonna start removing all dishes. 1055 00:42:00,309 --> 00:42:01,599 - He just looks nervous. 1056 00:42:01,644 --> 00:42:03,274 Like he’s about to [bleep] himself. 1057 00:42:03,312 --> 00:42:04,652 - Have you made any connections with anyone? 1058 00:42:04,689 --> 00:42:07,269 - Do me a favor right now, and let’s chill. 1059 00:42:07,316 --> 00:42:10,186 - This is somebody that I planned my whole future with. 1060 00:42:10,236 --> 00:42:12,396 I’m not here to play.