1 00:00:05,189 --> 00:00:06,907 MADDI: Previously on Southern Hospitality... 2 00:00:07,074 --> 00:00:08,342 TJ: Conga line! 3 00:00:08,509 --> 00:00:10,711 MADDI: ...we let it all hang out in Folly Beach. 4 00:00:10,878 --> 00:00:13,614 [all screaming excitedly] 5 00:00:13,780 --> 00:00:17,409 But only after Emmy got reigned in. 6 00:00:17,576 --> 00:00:19,186 Why did you say that I made you feel unsafe? 7 00:00:19,353 --> 00:00:21,747 Brad, you're scary when you're pissed. 8 00:00:21,914 --> 00:00:24,091 That can come off as, like, a microaggression. 9 00:00:24,224 --> 00:00:28,020 MADDI: ...and for a moment, it felt like the seas were parting. 10 00:00:28,153 --> 00:00:30,464 I'm sorry. I know I said some horrible sh-- to you, 11 00:00:30,597 --> 00:00:32,925 and I'm sorry, like, I really am. 12 00:00:33,025 --> 00:00:34,301 I appreciate the apology. 13 00:00:34,468 --> 00:00:38,305 MADDI: Meanwhile, Justin learned just how fast 14 00:00:38,472 --> 00:00:40,365 word travels in Charleston. 15 00:00:40,532 --> 00:00:41,758 Door busts open. 16 00:00:41,858 --> 00:00:43,410 - Was it Mia? - Jordyn. 17 00:00:43,577 --> 00:00:46,096 She was like, "I heard you tried to get with Mia," 18 00:00:46,196 --> 00:00:48,615 and I was like, "Ah, you got me." 19 00:00:48,715 --> 00:00:52,344 MADDI: But it was Grace who had some choice words for me. 20 00:00:52,444 --> 00:00:54,279 Maddi, shut the [bleep] up. 21 00:00:54,446 --> 00:00:56,957 Way to tell me that I needed to wear pajamas. 22 00:00:57,024 --> 00:00:59,092 You're just not a reciprocal friend. 23 00:00:59,192 --> 00:01:02,145 All over a ----ing nightgown. 24 00:01:05,098 --> 00:01:11,004 [tense music] 25 00:01:11,171 --> 00:01:12,839 - LAKE: Grace-- - I really need to be quiet 26 00:01:13,006 --> 00:01:14,733 before I say something I'm not supposed to say, 27 00:01:14,866 --> 00:01:17,244 so let me just stop talking right now. 28 00:01:18,712 --> 00:01:20,614 - [water splashing] - [Lake exclaims] 29 00:01:20,781 --> 00:01:24,017 - [Maddi gasps] - [all laughing] 30 00:01:24,184 --> 00:01:26,687 MADDI: Oh, my God. Michols! 31 00:01:26,820 --> 00:01:28,755 Y'all are doing too much. I'm ready to play. 32 00:01:28,889 --> 00:01:30,190 MOLLY: Okay, let's explain the game. 33 00:01:30,290 --> 00:01:32,893 Okay, we're gonna go bobbing for penises. 34 00:01:33,026 --> 00:01:36,980 - [all giggling] - Slash bobbing for cucumbers. 35 00:01:37,080 --> 00:01:39,333 - I can't get it. - I can't even. 36 00:01:39,399 --> 00:01:41,401 LAKE: Wow! 37 00:01:41,501 --> 00:01:44,705 [all exclaiming, laughing] 38 00:01:44,838 --> 00:01:46,540 That's a big one! 39 00:01:46,640 --> 00:01:48,809 I'm used to having big things in my mouth anyway. 40 00:01:48,909 --> 00:01:50,402 BELLA: That's huge! 41 00:01:51,678 --> 00:01:53,338 And don't act so innocent, 42 00:01:53,438 --> 00:01:55,115 'cause you all do it too. 43 00:01:56,441 --> 00:01:58,952 TJ: Some of these cucumbers have been on our penises. 44 00:01:59,086 --> 00:02:01,321 - MICHOLS: Yeah, sorry. - GRACE: Ew! 45 00:02:01,488 --> 00:02:02,756 TJ: I need a smaller one. 46 00:02:02,923 --> 00:02:04,558 MICHOLS: You think I should get bigger shorts? 47 00:02:04,691 --> 00:02:06,626 Ow, this hurts. 48 00:02:11,164 --> 00:02:12,399 No. 49 00:02:12,532 --> 00:02:14,601 MIA: So the rule of the game is, 50 00:02:14,735 --> 00:02:17,170 somebody has to answer a hard-hitting question, 51 00:02:17,270 --> 00:02:18,872 if you don't feel like answering the question, 52 00:02:18,939 --> 00:02:20,574 you can bob for the cucumber. 53 00:02:20,674 --> 00:02:22,542 Why is the water black? 54 00:02:22,642 --> 00:02:23,744 Isn't that your thing? 55 00:02:23,844 --> 00:02:25,646 [all laughing] 56 00:02:25,779 --> 00:02:29,483 TJ! What's the name of the last person you had sex with? 57 00:02:31,485 --> 00:02:33,979 - Tell us. - No, I'm just gonna do it. 58 00:02:34,146 --> 00:02:35,389 [all laughing] 59 00:02:35,455 --> 00:02:37,591 MIA: No, y'all, he was gonna do it anyway, sure. 60 00:02:37,691 --> 00:02:39,818 It's been 16 months since I've had sex, 61 00:02:39,951 --> 00:02:41,762 so, no, I don't remember the guy's name. 62 00:02:41,895 --> 00:02:44,631 You look good, TJ. You look good! 63 00:02:44,798 --> 00:02:47,067 - LAKE: Yeah! - [laughing] 64 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:51,171 - Get it, get it! - [all cheering] 65 00:02:51,304 --> 00:02:53,273 I would watch you on gay porn. 66 00:02:53,373 --> 00:02:55,108 [all laughing] 67 00:02:55,242 --> 00:02:56,777 - Who's next? - MIA: Who's next? 68 00:02:56,943 --> 00:02:59,513 Molly, when's the last time you hooked up with Bailey? 69 00:03:02,282 --> 00:03:04,284 - Wednesday. - [gasping] 70 00:03:04,451 --> 00:03:06,269 Today's Wednesday. 71 00:03:06,887 --> 00:03:08,155 [all exclaiming] 72 00:03:08,321 --> 00:03:10,957 - Oh, my God! - [cheering] 73 00:03:11,124 --> 00:03:13,126 - JULIA: There you go! - BELLA: Yes, Jordyn! 74 00:03:13,293 --> 00:03:15,353 When was the last time you had sex with Justin? 75 00:03:15,520 --> 00:03:19,833 Um... it was, like, Thursday, probably. 76 00:03:19,933 --> 00:03:21,968 - MICHOLS: Damn! - You can still go bobbing. 77 00:03:22,069 --> 00:03:24,137 MICHOLS: Your hair! Wait! 78 00:03:24,237 --> 00:03:26,873 [all exclaiming] 79 00:03:27,007 --> 00:03:29,109 I'm about to drown! 80 00:03:29,209 --> 00:03:30,769 JULIA: Hold her hair! 81 00:03:30,869 --> 00:03:32,779 [all cheering] 82 00:03:32,946 --> 00:03:34,681 I'll go. I'll go. 83 00:03:34,848 --> 00:03:39,386 Did you say yes to going on a date with Justin, and why? 84 00:03:39,553 --> 00:03:41,521 I said yes initially. 85 00:03:41,688 --> 00:03:43,957 And why? Because... 86 00:03:44,091 --> 00:03:45,283 Did you think about me? 87 00:03:45,383 --> 00:03:46,827 No. 88 00:03:47,728 --> 00:03:50,897 I am not friends with Jordyn. I barely know her. 89 00:03:51,064 --> 00:03:54,201 Like, I literally just got out of a relationship. 90 00:03:54,367 --> 00:03:56,236 So, a hot guy in front of me? 91 00:03:56,403 --> 00:03:58,488 I'm not thinking about you. I'm sorry. 92 00:04:00,373 --> 00:04:02,109 ...and Marbled & Fin is my favorite place to go. 93 00:04:02,209 --> 00:04:04,244 That was my favorite restaurant! 94 00:04:05,837 --> 00:04:09,349 ♪♪♪ 95 00:04:09,483 --> 00:04:11,051 MIA: Well, that's why I said yes. 96 00:04:11,218 --> 00:04:14,421 But then I canceled it because I'm not into him. 97 00:04:15,522 --> 00:04:17,557 I couldn't imagine being on a date with him and looking 98 00:04:17,691 --> 00:04:19,793 across at him and being like, "I'm actually into this." 99 00:04:19,893 --> 00:04:22,762 So that's why I canceled, and... yeah. 100 00:04:23,697 --> 00:04:26,366 So I actually rain-checked my date with Justin, 101 00:04:26,466 --> 00:04:28,660 but his whole situation with Jordyn here, 102 00:04:28,827 --> 00:04:30,871 it's giving baby mama drama without the baby. 103 00:04:30,971 --> 00:04:33,473 It's a bit too messy for me, and I just kind of wanna 104 00:04:33,573 --> 00:04:35,709 - leave it where it lies. - All right. 105 00:04:35,876 --> 00:04:37,169 Girl, you should've known better. 106 00:04:37,335 --> 00:04:39,012 I'm also like, you can't get upset. 107 00:04:39,112 --> 00:04:41,948 I'm not upset about him asking Mia out on a date. 108 00:04:42,115 --> 00:04:43,984 - Like, that's not my issue. - But you're upset right now. 109 00:04:44,084 --> 00:04:46,119 - JORDYN: I'm upset right now-- - MICHOLS: He's a liar. 110 00:04:46,253 --> 00:04:48,421 Jordyn can't get mad because she knows 111 00:04:48,588 --> 00:04:49,890 that Justin hooks up with other girls. 112 00:04:50,056 --> 00:04:52,392 She's at this man's house every single night. 113 00:04:52,526 --> 00:04:56,096 They have a relationship. He has a toothbrush for her. 114 00:04:56,530 --> 00:04:58,632 Like, it's just ----ed up. 115 00:04:58,798 --> 00:05:00,267 All right, here we go. 116 00:05:01,134 --> 00:05:04,638 - Wait, go for the dark one! - MOLLY: Go for the dark one! 117 00:05:05,338 --> 00:05:08,041 [all cheering] 118 00:05:08,141 --> 00:05:10,810 - That is so funny. - MIA: Who's next? 119 00:05:10,977 --> 00:05:12,412 Lake. Lake, question. 120 00:05:12,579 --> 00:05:15,916 Whose team are you on more, Brad's or Emmy's? 121 00:05:16,082 --> 00:05:17,250 Emmy's. 122 00:05:17,350 --> 00:05:18,752 [all gasping] 123 00:05:18,885 --> 00:05:21,788 - MICHOLS: You are? - MIA: No hesitation. 124 00:05:21,955 --> 00:05:23,190 MICHOLS: I'm gagged. 125 00:05:23,757 --> 00:05:25,492 Why is everybody so shocked? 126 00:05:25,625 --> 00:05:28,553 Like, literally, Brad friend-zoned me. 127 00:05:28,720 --> 00:05:30,830 Just like I'm gonna keep getting to know you. 128 00:05:30,997 --> 00:05:32,457 - Okay. - But more as, like, 129 00:05:32,557 --> 00:05:35,468 - a friendship kind of way. - Oh? 130 00:05:35,635 --> 00:05:37,963 And then he made out with me. 131 00:05:40,807 --> 00:05:42,242 And then he got a girlfriend. 132 00:05:42,309 --> 00:05:46,279 And so obviously I would choose Emmy. Like, huh? 133 00:05:46,446 --> 00:05:49,416 MIA: Eat a cucumber. Get in there. 134 00:05:49,583 --> 00:05:54,354 - Oh, that was an easy one. - [all cheering] 135 00:05:54,487 --> 00:05:56,356 You straight as hell. [laughs] 136 00:05:56,523 --> 00:05:58,825 - MICHOLS: Oh, wow. - MIA: All right, Grace, go. 137 00:05:58,959 --> 00:06:00,594 Hell no. I'm not doing that. 138 00:06:00,694 --> 00:06:02,596 - MICHOLS: Grace, come on! - GRACE: No. 139 00:06:02,696 --> 00:06:04,331 I'm not comfortable doing that. 140 00:06:04,497 --> 00:06:06,024 You gotta participate in these events. 141 00:06:06,157 --> 00:06:09,002 I don't think it's appropriate. Sorry. 142 00:06:09,135 --> 00:06:10,503 Grace Lilly does not get on her knees 143 00:06:10,670 --> 00:06:13,173 to bob for ----ing cucumbers, come on. 144 00:06:13,273 --> 00:06:15,108 I get on my knees for God. 145 00:06:15,208 --> 00:06:16,776 - [angelic music] - [laughing] 146 00:06:16,943 --> 00:06:18,278 MIA: All right, Maddi, your turn. 147 00:06:18,411 --> 00:06:19,504 - I go? - GRACE: No. 148 00:06:19,604 --> 00:06:21,206 - MIA: Yes. - GRACE: No. 149 00:06:21,339 --> 00:06:23,116 Are you sure, Maddi, you wanna do this? 150 00:06:23,183 --> 00:06:24,784 I'm sure. These are gluten-free. 151 00:06:24,884 --> 00:06:26,720 - All right. - MADDI: Come on! 152 00:06:26,886 --> 00:06:30,323 Maddi Reese, have you ----ed Joe's ass? 153 00:06:30,423 --> 00:06:33,727 - [gasping] - MIA: Oh, my God! 154 00:06:35,228 --> 00:06:36,396 LAKE: What? 155 00:06:37,130 --> 00:06:38,965 Why, 'cause I have a penis? 156 00:06:39,099 --> 00:06:42,068 I mean, he likes it in the butt, right? 157 00:06:43,603 --> 00:06:45,463 No. 158 00:06:45,563 --> 00:06:46,840 I just thought I'd ask. 159 00:06:46,973 --> 00:06:49,534 She's got a heat on-- She's coming for me. 160 00:06:49,634 --> 00:06:51,569 GRACE: No, that's a real question. 161 00:06:51,736 --> 00:06:53,680 No, you've been coming for me since the moment I arrived here. 162 00:06:53,813 --> 00:06:56,816 It's super clear that Grace is just 163 00:06:56,916 --> 00:06:59,886 trying to embarrass me, and I'm over it. 164 00:07:00,053 --> 00:07:01,655 GRACE: That was a real question. 165 00:07:01,721 --> 00:07:03,423 But she was gonna ask you a question. 166 00:07:03,590 --> 00:07:04,883 If you wanna ask her-- 167 00:07:06,893 --> 00:07:08,428 - What? - What? 168 00:07:08,595 --> 00:07:11,431 Grace, if I was her, I would never talk to your ass again. 169 00:07:11,598 --> 00:07:13,767 - But that's what TJ said. - LAKE: It's not true. 170 00:07:13,900 --> 00:07:16,353 So I thought that that was, like, a real question. 171 00:07:17,329 --> 00:07:18,672 Goddamn it, Grace. 172 00:07:18,772 --> 00:07:21,775 I've never talked to Grace about Joe and myself. 173 00:07:22,342 --> 00:07:25,078 I slept in your bed. I, like, touched you. 174 00:07:25,245 --> 00:07:27,013 And since then, people are like, 175 00:07:27,113 --> 00:07:28,948 "Oh, we heard from TJ that you're gay." 176 00:07:30,116 --> 00:07:32,744 I'm finally in a better place with Joe and Maddi, 177 00:07:32,844 --> 00:07:34,621 and this is the last thing I want. 178 00:07:34,754 --> 00:07:36,448 You took it way too ----ing far. 179 00:07:36,614 --> 00:07:38,625 MIA: You act like this and you're like, "Why doesn't 180 00:07:38,758 --> 00:07:40,785 "anybody call me or text me or want me to do anything?" 181 00:07:40,952 --> 00:07:42,362 That's who I am. 182 00:07:42,429 --> 00:07:45,565 Take a ----ing joke. We're playing a stupid ----ing game. 183 00:07:45,699 --> 00:07:49,102 I say one wrong thing, I'm just crucified, and I'm ----ing... 184 00:07:49,269 --> 00:07:51,371 Like Jesus Christ. And you know what? 185 00:07:51,471 --> 00:07:53,640 I think the biggest reason why I relate to that man so much 186 00:07:53,807 --> 00:07:55,976 is because he was human. 187 00:07:56,142 --> 00:07:59,212 You wonder why people don't invite you anywhere? 188 00:07:59,312 --> 00:08:01,047 It's because of sh-- like that. 189 00:08:01,214 --> 00:08:03,416 And your [bleep]-ass attitude that you have is ----ing crazy. 190 00:08:03,550 --> 00:08:06,386 And for you to look at her and say some crazy-ass hurtful sh-- 191 00:08:06,553 --> 00:08:07,620 like that is ----ing wild! 192 00:08:07,787 --> 00:08:08,922 You're a ----ing crazy bitch. 193 00:08:09,089 --> 00:08:10,815 I thought that was a legit question. 194 00:08:10,949 --> 00:08:12,717 - That's not a legit question. - I thought they hooked up. 195 00:08:12,817 --> 00:08:14,527 That's not a legit question. They didn't, and you know that! 196 00:08:14,694 --> 00:08:16,463 - I don't know that. - You do know that. 197 00:08:16,563 --> 00:08:17,998 You do know that. You do know that. 198 00:08:18,131 --> 00:08:20,233 - TJ said that, though. - TJ never said that. 199 00:08:20,333 --> 00:08:22,902 You do know that. Get her out of my ----ing face. 200 00:08:23,002 --> 00:08:24,604 I'm gonna ----ing punch her in the head. 201 00:08:24,738 --> 00:08:26,723 Even though Maddi and I are not the best of friends, 202 00:08:26,823 --> 00:08:29,242 this is wrong, and I know right from wrong. 203 00:08:29,309 --> 00:08:32,003 I think that you came in here 204 00:08:32,170 --> 00:08:34,114 and were off the bat disrespectful to me. 205 00:08:34,247 --> 00:08:35,915 You then created a really awkward environment 206 00:08:36,049 --> 00:08:38,418 for everyone in here, and you then came for Maddi. 207 00:08:38,518 --> 00:08:40,854 Now, I think it's time for you to leave. 208 00:08:42,989 --> 00:08:46,226 Okay. I understand. It's okay. 209 00:08:46,393 --> 00:08:48,828 Thank you for inviting me. I appreciate it. 210 00:08:48,995 --> 00:08:53,158 LAKE: No! Y'all, this is girls' night. 211 00:08:55,168 --> 00:08:58,705 Um, my phone's right behind you. 212 00:08:59,873 --> 00:09:03,009 Do you mind handing it to me? Over here. 213 00:09:03,676 --> 00:09:06,513 - Which one? Which one? - I was right over here. 214 00:09:06,679 --> 00:09:07,614 It's gone. 215 00:09:07,747 --> 00:09:10,316 - Jesus. - GRACE: Yeah... 216 00:09:10,417 --> 00:09:12,052 I think it, like, slid in between. 217 00:09:12,218 --> 00:09:14,546 - It's right here. - Thank you so much. 218 00:09:14,712 --> 00:09:16,890 Appreciate it. Thank you. 219 00:09:17,056 --> 00:09:19,225 Okay. Coming through. 220 00:09:19,392 --> 00:09:21,811 Coming through. Coming through. 221 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:35,842 - MICHOLS: Are you good? - I'm just exhausted. 222 00:09:36,009 --> 00:09:38,278 Maddi, you should've been exhausted last year in Vegas, 223 00:09:38,378 --> 00:09:39,712 bitch, I've been telling you! 224 00:09:39,879 --> 00:09:42,515 - You are so fake. - JOE: She's had your back-- 225 00:09:42,682 --> 00:09:44,209 No, she has not had my back! 226 00:09:44,309 --> 00:09:45,985 - Yes, I have! - MIA: Yes, she has. 227 00:09:46,119 --> 00:09:47,987 The way that you are speaking to her right now can actually 228 00:09:48,121 --> 00:09:50,590 bring me to tears, which is very difficult. 229 00:09:50,757 --> 00:09:52,250 No, I know. 230 00:09:52,417 --> 00:09:56,554 It's embarrassing that I'm the one that's keeping her around, 231 00:09:56,654 --> 00:09:59,566 and then she constantly will implode on me. 232 00:09:59,699 --> 00:10:02,502 I feel like she constantly hurts me, 233 00:10:02,602 --> 00:10:04,996 and goes to bed at night, like, 234 00:10:05,096 --> 00:10:07,740 thinking she's, like, holier-than-thou. 235 00:10:07,874 --> 00:10:10,477 Time has proven over and over and over again 236 00:10:10,577 --> 00:10:12,745 that maybe we're not meant to be friends. 237 00:10:12,846 --> 00:10:15,240 Thank you guys for coming. 238 00:10:20,220 --> 00:10:23,623 [upbeat music] 239 00:10:27,619 --> 00:10:29,796 [line ringing] 240 00:10:31,698 --> 00:10:33,166 LAKE: Hey, Mom. 241 00:10:33,266 --> 00:10:35,468 - Hey, baby. - How are you? 242 00:10:40,465 --> 00:10:44,060 Not as of recently. It's been more of the liquor. 243 00:10:45,011 --> 00:10:47,480 Sorry. I know. 244 00:10:54,888 --> 00:10:56,856 I will. I will. 245 00:10:56,990 --> 00:10:58,391 Me and my mom are tight. 246 00:10:58,525 --> 00:11:02,287 I honestly call her for every little minor detail. 247 00:11:02,420 --> 00:11:05,256 She's so smart. She is an activist. 248 00:11:05,390 --> 00:11:08,585 She is everything I wanna be when I get older. 249 00:11:10,803 --> 00:11:13,606 I spoke to Dad the other day. 250 00:11:14,274 --> 00:11:18,578 Yeah. It's still kind of, like... 251 00:11:18,678 --> 00:11:21,014 we don't talk every day. 252 00:11:22,182 --> 00:11:23,449 LAKE: Yeah. 253 00:11:23,616 --> 00:11:27,086 Me and my dad went from talking on the phone 254 00:11:27,220 --> 00:11:31,624 multiple times a day, every single day, to a clear silence. 255 00:11:31,758 --> 00:11:36,362 I think part of that reason is he wasn't able to open his eyes 256 00:11:36,529 --> 00:11:39,424 to the idea of me liking girls, 257 00:11:39,524 --> 00:11:43,670 let alone sharing that to the public eye, 258 00:11:43,803 --> 00:11:46,464 like when I went on a date on camera. 259 00:11:46,598 --> 00:11:50,643 I've known Shelby since I was, like, 16 or 17. 260 00:11:50,777 --> 00:11:53,112 We started off as friends, 261 00:11:53,246 --> 00:11:55,982 and then we just kind of started making out one day, 262 00:11:56,149 --> 00:11:58,351 and, like, it felt so comfortable around her. 263 00:11:58,484 --> 00:12:01,354 She was a lot of my sexual awakening. 264 00:12:02,121 --> 00:12:04,390 I think it was hard for him to take that. 265 00:12:04,524 --> 00:12:09,862 To send me a message talking about how, like, I'm, like, 266 00:12:09,996 --> 00:12:12,799 disrespectful and have no respect for anybody 267 00:12:12,966 --> 00:12:14,292 and, like, all this stuff, 268 00:12:14,392 --> 00:12:17,028 he made me feel like I killed somebody. 269 00:12:21,941 --> 00:12:24,711 LAKE: There's a lot of status quo when it comes to 270 00:12:24,877 --> 00:12:27,480 Black, southern generational wealth. 271 00:12:27,580 --> 00:12:30,316 My great-grandparents were millionaires 272 00:12:30,416 --> 00:12:31,918 starting from the 1930s. 273 00:12:32,051 --> 00:12:34,921 Like, there's a school named after my great-grandfather. 274 00:12:35,088 --> 00:12:38,583 My dad cares so much about family image 275 00:12:38,750 --> 00:12:41,060 and how we are perceived because he had to. 276 00:12:41,194 --> 00:12:45,164 And so there is things that I have to uphold, 277 00:12:45,265 --> 00:12:48,601 you know, presenting myself in a certain light. 278 00:13:01,280 --> 00:13:03,349 Oh, wait. Michols is trying to call me. 279 00:13:03,449 --> 00:13:05,743 Let me decline him right quick. 280 00:13:21,968 --> 00:13:25,471 I know. I know he still loves me, and I love him so much. 281 00:13:37,550 --> 00:13:38,818 Yeah. 282 00:13:41,521 --> 00:13:43,881 ♪ I'm ready for you ♪ 283 00:13:43,981 --> 00:13:46,192 ♪ Are you ready for me ♪ 284 00:13:46,292 --> 00:13:47,960 JOE: Is that the dragonfruits? 285 00:13:48,094 --> 00:13:49,762 MADDI: Yeah. Can you make me a tea? 286 00:13:49,896 --> 00:13:51,664 JOE: Of course. 287 00:13:53,332 --> 00:13:55,168 Wow. It's a nice day. 288 00:13:55,301 --> 00:13:57,628 So nice. I did not have a nice night, though, 289 00:13:57,762 --> 00:13:59,072 I'll tell you what. 290 00:13:59,205 --> 00:14:01,808 Has Grace reached out at all? Have you texted her? 291 00:14:01,941 --> 00:14:06,012 Not today. Like, I try to keep her a part of this group, 292 00:14:06,179 --> 00:14:08,114 and then she just embarrasses me. 293 00:14:08,247 --> 00:14:12,110 Pretty much insinuating that I peg you, which is, like, crazy. 294 00:14:12,243 --> 00:14:15,113 That's, like, pretty ----ed up. I almost wanna laugh, 295 00:14:15,246 --> 00:14:17,990 but that's just, like, clearly a jab to, like, hurt you, 296 00:14:18,124 --> 00:14:19,992 and why is she trying to hurt you? 297 00:14:20,126 --> 00:14:21,828 I don't know if it's jealousy or if she has, 298 00:14:21,961 --> 00:14:23,321 like, some resentment towards you. 299 00:14:23,454 --> 00:14:24,630 You do a million things for her, 300 00:14:24,764 --> 00:14:26,699 and all she does is bring you down. 301 00:14:26,866 --> 00:14:28,167 That's not a friendship. 302 00:14:28,301 --> 00:14:30,203 It's like a toxic relationship where it's like, 303 00:14:30,336 --> 00:14:32,004 she can hurt me over and over and over again, 304 00:14:32,138 --> 00:14:37,009 I'm just gonna forgive her, and I can't do it anymore. 305 00:14:37,143 --> 00:14:40,279 I'm, like-- It's, like, draining me. 306 00:14:40,413 --> 00:14:41,873 - Like... - JOE: Yeah. 307 00:14:42,039 --> 00:14:44,150 MADDI: There's something that we're not talking about 308 00:14:44,283 --> 00:14:48,654 that's the reason for why I stick around as a friend, 309 00:14:48,788 --> 00:14:52,024 and it's something that... 310 00:14:53,059 --> 00:14:55,661 I have so much empathy for Grace and what she's going through 311 00:14:55,828 --> 00:15:00,833 because I can relate to it, and I never wanted her to be alone, 312 00:15:00,967 --> 00:15:03,836 or God forbid something happens and I miss that call 313 00:15:03,970 --> 00:15:07,799 or something like that has always been my biggest fear. 314 00:15:07,899 --> 00:15:10,042 And, like, this is what goes on with people 315 00:15:10,176 --> 00:15:13,412 that are struggling with... 316 00:15:15,581 --> 00:15:17,416 With substance abuse. 317 00:15:19,352 --> 00:15:21,921 Everything that we're doing and you're doing right now 318 00:15:22,054 --> 00:15:24,048 as a friend is clearly not working. 319 00:15:24,182 --> 00:15:26,692 The selfless thing to do is... 320 00:15:26,826 --> 00:15:29,762 to let her go, and hopefully she'll change 321 00:15:29,929 --> 00:15:32,265 and stop hurting the people she loves the most. 322 00:15:32,432 --> 00:15:35,201 I can't seem to help, 323 00:15:35,368 --> 00:15:37,904 so maybe I'm not the person to help, 324 00:15:38,037 --> 00:15:40,064 and that's a hard pill to swallow. 325 00:15:40,198 --> 00:15:41,766 JOE: You've had a hard year too. 326 00:15:41,899 --> 00:15:44,210 It's okay to admit that you don't have the energy and, like, 327 00:15:44,377 --> 00:15:46,379 the support to give her right now. 328 00:15:46,512 --> 00:15:47,780 I wish we weren't in the position 329 00:15:47,914 --> 00:15:49,348 where you had to cut her off, 330 00:15:49,449 --> 00:15:50,575 but, like, clearly that's the only logical thing 331 00:15:50,708 --> 00:15:52,118 to do at this point. 332 00:15:58,357 --> 00:16:02,086 [laid-back music] 333 00:16:10,795 --> 00:16:14,474 All righty. Happy Sunday. 334 00:16:14,607 --> 00:16:16,075 [cheering] 335 00:16:16,209 --> 00:16:19,203 It's gonna be a fun Sunday. The weather is very cool outside. 336 00:16:19,370 --> 00:16:22,114 - It's, um... - LAKE: It's a little bit, eh... 337 00:16:22,281 --> 00:16:25,701 All righty, let's get set up. Let's get moving. 338 00:16:25,801 --> 00:16:27,787 - Maddi, play some tunes. - Okay. 339 00:16:27,920 --> 00:16:29,622 - Oh, yeah. - Get the tables set up. 340 00:16:29,789 --> 00:16:32,074 Let's go, let's go, let's go. 341 00:16:33,860 --> 00:16:35,161 Hi. 342 00:16:36,829 --> 00:16:38,664 - Um... - So hard. 343 00:16:38,831 --> 00:16:40,066 I know. That's why you have to push-- 344 00:16:40,132 --> 00:16:41,767 - Okay, go! - Okay, sorry. 345 00:16:41,868 --> 00:16:46,339 [upbeat music] 346 00:16:46,472 --> 00:16:49,425 Hi, ladies. How are you guys doing? 347 00:16:51,068 --> 00:16:52,778 BRAD: Me and you are gonna make some juices. 348 00:16:52,879 --> 00:16:56,307 - We'll line this last one up. - You know how busy Sundays get. 349 00:16:56,407 --> 00:16:58,342 Does anyone want a smoothie? 350 00:16:58,476 --> 00:17:01,621 ♪ I need some coffee to wake me up ♪ 351 00:17:01,754 --> 00:17:02,855 Whoo! 352 00:17:03,022 --> 00:17:04,156 How are you ladies doing? Good? 353 00:17:04,323 --> 00:17:06,392 Do you guys need anything? Yes? Good? 354 00:17:06,492 --> 00:17:09,161 All righty, guys, we have some shots! 355 00:17:09,262 --> 00:17:10,880 - [women cheering] -Cheers, ladies. 356 00:17:11,080 --> 00:17:13,449 ♪♪♪ 357 00:17:17,803 --> 00:17:20,840 I think I'm gonna say something to Emmy today. 358 00:17:21,007 --> 00:17:22,275 JUSTIN: About what? 359 00:17:22,375 --> 00:17:24,343 You know, running into her at the event 360 00:17:24,510 --> 00:17:26,245 and how she went mute on me and Julia. 361 00:17:26,412 --> 00:17:28,147 Oh, my God, yes. 362 00:17:28,281 --> 00:17:30,766 Just the other night, Julia and I go to this influencer event 363 00:17:30,866 --> 00:17:32,485 at one of our favorite restaurants in town. 364 00:17:32,618 --> 00:17:35,187 We see Emmy. She greets us, she says hello. 365 00:17:35,288 --> 00:17:37,156 It's good. Like, everything's fine. 366 00:17:37,256 --> 00:17:40,126 And then about five minutes later, Will walks in. 367 00:17:40,226 --> 00:17:43,162 All of a sudden, Emmy completely shifts. 368 00:17:43,296 --> 00:17:45,631 As we're leaving the event, we look at Emmy. 369 00:17:45,698 --> 00:17:47,166 Doesn't even make eye contact with us. 370 00:17:47,333 --> 00:17:48,734 I thought we were in a better place. 371 00:17:48,901 --> 00:17:50,636 I thought we were working towards something better. 372 00:17:50,736 --> 00:17:52,872 And now it just feels like when you're by yourself, 373 00:17:53,005 --> 00:17:54,407 you're able to move forward, 374 00:17:54,540 --> 00:17:55,708 but the second that your fiancé comes around, 375 00:17:55,875 --> 00:17:57,310 everything changes. 376 00:17:57,443 --> 00:17:59,545 For me, it's like, do you really wanna be friends? 377 00:17:59,712 --> 00:18:01,814 Is that something you're actually interested in? 378 00:18:01,981 --> 00:18:03,249 Yeah. 379 00:18:03,382 --> 00:18:05,117 I don't know, it just feels very fake. Right? 380 00:18:05,284 --> 00:18:07,486 Like, it feels performative with the whole crying and everything. 381 00:18:07,553 --> 00:18:09,080 - Like... - Yeah. 382 00:18:09,246 --> 00:18:11,023 I don't know. It just doesn't feel real. 383 00:18:11,190 --> 00:18:13,592 'Cause if the apology is genuine, 384 00:18:13,759 --> 00:18:15,820 then why are you ignoring me at the event? 385 00:18:15,987 --> 00:18:18,664 I see what you're saying. I mean, I asked her. 386 00:18:18,764 --> 00:18:21,467 I was like, "You're making amends because you think 387 00:18:21,634 --> 00:18:24,328 "you feel bad. Like, you think you ----ed up that situation." 388 00:18:24,495 --> 00:18:26,038 She's like, "I feel like if I don't make amends 389 00:18:26,205 --> 00:18:28,441 "with Brad and TJ, they're gonna ruin my ----ing life." 390 00:18:28,608 --> 00:18:31,277 - That's-- that's what she said? - Yeah. 391 00:18:31,444 --> 00:18:33,612 I was best friends with them... 392 00:18:44,690 --> 00:18:45,875 Yeah. 393 00:18:48,794 --> 00:18:50,254 JUSTIN: There you go. 394 00:18:51,364 --> 00:18:52,465 So... 395 00:18:53,199 --> 00:18:54,792 BRAD: Did I just get played? 396 00:18:54,925 --> 00:18:57,770 Like, there's not one second where you've been real to me. 397 00:18:57,903 --> 00:18:59,572 Everything was just an act. 398 00:18:59,739 --> 00:19:01,774 You were supposed to be a groomsman. 399 00:19:01,907 --> 00:19:04,435 - I'm sorry I'm crying. Sorry. - GRACE: Are you serious? 400 00:19:04,535 --> 00:19:06,545 He was gonna be a groomsman? 401 00:19:06,646 --> 00:19:08,147 I'm sorry. I'm sorry. 402 00:19:08,314 --> 00:19:10,041 I know I said some horrible sh-- about you, and I'm sorry. 403 00:19:10,141 --> 00:19:13,986 I'm sorry I hurt your feelings. Like, I really am. 404 00:19:14,153 --> 00:19:16,122 Your apology doesn't mean sh--. 405 00:19:16,255 --> 00:19:17,790 Everything you said is all bullsh--. 406 00:19:17,923 --> 00:19:19,984 Everything you said is all bullsh--. 407 00:19:20,117 --> 00:19:22,745 [bleep] you. I'm pissed. 408 00:19:26,866 --> 00:19:30,586 [tense music] 409 00:19:33,330 --> 00:19:36,442 GRACE: I realized I went too far when I have not heard from Maddi 410 00:19:36,575 --> 00:19:39,045 for a few days, which isn't really normal. 411 00:19:39,145 --> 00:19:40,780 Typically, we talk every day. 412 00:19:40,880 --> 00:19:43,616 But it holds me accountable, and I need to be held accountable. 413 00:19:43,749 --> 00:19:47,453 Maddi is the only one that knows what I struggle with, 414 00:19:47,620 --> 00:19:50,423 and I just wanna be better for myself 415 00:19:50,489 --> 00:19:52,892 and for the people around me, and I know that 416 00:19:52,992 --> 00:19:55,653 I can't work on it by myself forever. 417 00:19:59,014 --> 00:20:00,566 - Hi. - ISAAC: Hello. 418 00:20:00,733 --> 00:20:02,359 How are you? I'm Grace. Nice to meet you. 419 00:20:02,493 --> 00:20:03,702 - Isaac? - That's me. 420 00:20:03,869 --> 00:20:05,429 - Pleasure to meet you. - Take a seat. 421 00:20:05,529 --> 00:20:07,139 - Nice to meet you too. - Thank you for having me. 422 00:20:07,306 --> 00:20:08,874 Thanks for coming in. Thanks for coming down 423 00:20:09,008 --> 00:20:10,276 - to the office. - Thank you. 424 00:20:10,376 --> 00:20:11,477 How's your day going? 425 00:20:11,577 --> 00:20:13,646 It's going. It's going. 426 00:20:13,746 --> 00:20:15,815 - Yeah? - You know? It's life. 427 00:20:15,981 --> 00:20:17,550 - It's life. - [laughing] 428 00:20:17,716 --> 00:20:19,618 What's going on today? 429 00:20:19,718 --> 00:20:22,513 I'm definitely anxious to meet with you. 430 00:20:22,613 --> 00:20:24,690 - Okay, totally. - This is the first time that 431 00:20:24,857 --> 00:20:28,160 I've spoke to anyone about, like, my struggles 432 00:20:28,260 --> 00:20:31,797 and the things that I've gone through in my life, and, um-- 433 00:20:31,897 --> 00:20:33,833 But I feel like this is needed. 434 00:20:33,966 --> 00:20:37,870 It's been two and a half, three years that, you know, 435 00:20:38,037 --> 00:20:40,606 I've been going through what I'm going through right now, 436 00:20:40,706 --> 00:20:42,508 and I've been getting better, 437 00:20:42,608 --> 00:20:44,869 but I think it's important that I talk to someone. 438 00:20:44,969 --> 00:20:47,213 And you're the first person, Isaac, that I've spoke to. 439 00:20:47,346 --> 00:20:49,482 Well, I'm honored to be that person. 440 00:20:49,582 --> 00:20:51,801 It's not easy. Like, it's never easy for someone 441 00:20:51,901 --> 00:20:53,886 sitting in that chair to, like, come in and talk about 442 00:20:54,053 --> 00:20:55,955 and spill the guts and spill the dirty details 443 00:20:56,055 --> 00:20:57,490 about, like, why they're here. 444 00:20:57,590 --> 00:20:59,391 I think the hard thing is that nobody ever calls me 445 00:20:59,525 --> 00:21:00,751 on their best day. 446 00:21:00,918 --> 00:21:02,311 Like, it's never, like, something great 447 00:21:02,411 --> 00:21:03,988 that's going on that makes them reach out. 448 00:21:04,088 --> 00:21:06,148 But what's gonna give me the best way to help you is 449 00:21:06,248 --> 00:21:08,934 to get a little bit of history, so tell me a little bit about 450 00:21:09,101 --> 00:21:10,936 why you're sitting in that chair today. 451 00:21:11,637 --> 00:21:12,988 [Grace laughing] 452 00:21:13,088 --> 00:21:16,208 Okay, so I don't mean to laugh and smile. 453 00:21:16,342 --> 00:21:18,010 I think I just do that out of nervousness, 454 00:21:18,110 --> 00:21:19,737 to be honest with you. 455 00:21:20,679 --> 00:21:25,284 Two years ago, I started to use ketamine a lot. 456 00:21:25,451 --> 00:21:28,220 - Okay. - I had a prescription for it. 457 00:21:28,354 --> 00:21:30,055 It kind of helped me out of my depression, 458 00:21:30,189 --> 00:21:31,891 and there were days where I wouldn't use it, 459 00:21:32,024 --> 00:21:34,160 and there were days where I would use too much of it, 460 00:21:34,260 --> 00:21:37,029 um, and where I have indulged. 461 00:21:37,096 --> 00:21:40,065 And unfortunately, I lost a really good friend 462 00:21:40,232 --> 00:21:42,101 just recently that was using the same batch 463 00:21:42,268 --> 00:21:43,469 of ketamine that I was using. 464 00:21:43,636 --> 00:21:47,031 - Okay. - So that was really difficult 465 00:21:47,198 --> 00:21:49,133 for me because he was a really great person, 466 00:21:49,300 --> 00:21:52,011 and so that is also what's really scary. 467 00:21:52,178 --> 00:21:53,579 - Right. - Because that 468 00:21:53,712 --> 00:21:55,706 could have been me at the end of the day, you know? 469 00:21:55,873 --> 00:21:57,650 - ISAAC: Right. - So... 470 00:21:57,816 --> 00:22:00,052 You're lucky. You're lucky it wasn't. 471 00:22:00,219 --> 00:22:02,254 I think when we have experiences like that 472 00:22:02,354 --> 00:22:04,089 where we lose, like, such a close friend 473 00:22:04,190 --> 00:22:06,759 or it's a position that I could have just as easily been in, 474 00:22:06,892 --> 00:22:08,994 like, the big thing that I think about is, 475 00:22:09,161 --> 00:22:10,896 like, what type of, like, charge and responsibility 476 00:22:11,063 --> 00:22:12,364 are you gonna take with that now? 477 00:22:12,464 --> 00:22:13,799 - Yeah. - Because you have 478 00:22:13,966 --> 00:22:15,384 - a new lease on life. - Absolutely. 479 00:22:15,484 --> 00:22:17,102 Like, what do we do with a new lease on life? 480 00:22:17,269 --> 00:22:18,904 - Like, we take advantage. - Yeah. 481 00:22:19,004 --> 00:22:21,941 This is something that I've been holding onto for some time. 482 00:22:22,074 --> 00:22:26,512 I've always looked at myself as such a strong woman, 483 00:22:26,645 --> 00:22:29,148 and I've gone through so much, 484 00:22:29,315 --> 00:22:30,616 and I've always made it out, you know? 485 00:22:30,783 --> 00:22:34,403 So to see, like, myself fall into something 486 00:22:34,503 --> 00:22:37,606 that I know is not good for me, it really hurts me. 487 00:22:42,127 --> 00:22:43,520 And I wish I could go back in time 488 00:22:43,654 --> 00:22:46,999 and do things differently, but I can't. 489 00:22:47,166 --> 00:22:50,703 But I think the first step is me admitting it right now. 490 00:22:54,640 --> 00:22:56,675 This is the first time, honestly, I've asked for help. 491 00:22:56,842 --> 00:22:59,645 Like, I have not asked from anyone, not even my parents. 492 00:22:59,812 --> 00:23:01,447 Like, they don't know that we've met today. 493 00:23:01,513 --> 00:23:03,415 - Oh, wow. - And I've always 494 00:23:03,515 --> 00:23:05,417 considered myself to be strong enough to stop, 495 00:23:05,517 --> 00:23:08,120 and I have had that ability to stop. 496 00:23:08,220 --> 00:23:11,991 But are there times where I feel triggered, where I want to? 497 00:23:12,157 --> 00:23:13,225 Abso----inglutely. 498 00:23:13,359 --> 00:23:14,685 And I'm sick of feeling that. 499 00:23:14,785 --> 00:23:16,128 I'm sick of feeling trapped in my own body. 500 00:23:16,262 --> 00:23:17,696 - Right. - When I've always been 501 00:23:17,863 --> 00:23:20,065 such a free spirit, you know? 502 00:23:20,232 --> 00:23:21,767 Definitely. 503 00:23:21,934 --> 00:23:23,502 I've heard people describe it as they're swimming in the ocean, 504 00:23:23,636 --> 00:23:25,004 and they have a rock in one hand, 505 00:23:25,137 --> 00:23:26,805 and they're trying to paddle with the other. 506 00:23:26,872 --> 00:23:29,375 I feel like-- So my saying in life is "wavy baby," right? 507 00:23:29,541 --> 00:23:32,136 - Okay. - And wavy baby means, like, 508 00:23:32,236 --> 00:23:33,345 in life, there are waves. 509 00:23:33,512 --> 00:23:34,880 - There are ups and downs. - Yeah. 510 00:23:35,047 --> 00:23:36,582 Sometimes you're gonna get hit and crashed on, 511 00:23:36,749 --> 00:23:38,951 but it's all about getting back up on the board. 512 00:23:39,051 --> 00:23:41,553 And, like, I feel like I'm back on that board. 513 00:23:41,720 --> 00:23:44,723 There are times where I'm like, where am I paddling to? 514 00:23:44,823 --> 00:23:45,958 Yeah. 515 00:23:46,058 --> 00:23:47,393 - Where am I going? - ISAAC: Right. 516 00:23:47,559 --> 00:23:49,261 You know, I see so much for my future 517 00:23:49,428 --> 00:23:51,063 and the things that I want in my life. 518 00:23:51,196 --> 00:23:53,565 And I want to be married. I want to have kids. 519 00:23:53,666 --> 00:23:55,092 I want to have my own fashion line. 520 00:23:55,225 --> 00:23:56,869 And I think the one thing that's been stopping me 521 00:23:57,036 --> 00:24:00,272 is this addiction from getting that, you know? 522 00:24:00,439 --> 00:24:01,840 - Holding you back. - Yeah. 523 00:24:01,974 --> 00:24:03,909 Well, something big, which-- This is gonna be hard, 524 00:24:04,043 --> 00:24:06,503 is how do you talk to your parents about this? 525 00:24:07,104 --> 00:24:09,581 Well, I live with them and I don't want them to kick me out. 526 00:24:09,682 --> 00:24:11,950 But they won't do that. I know they won't. 527 00:24:12,084 --> 00:24:14,753 For me and my perspective, like, I think about 528 00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:16,922 if you're going to them and saying, 529 00:24:17,056 --> 00:24:19,058 "Hey, I'm making a positive change," 530 00:24:19,224 --> 00:24:20,759 tell them the story about the change that you're making. 531 00:24:20,926 --> 00:24:22,962 - Yeah. - You know, like, tell them 532 00:24:23,095 --> 00:24:24,863 the story about the future that you're trying to get to. 533 00:24:24,997 --> 00:24:26,398 And, like, this is just part of the process 534 00:24:26,532 --> 00:24:28,067 of you getting over there. 535 00:24:28,167 --> 00:24:31,070 I see myself having a really long, beautiful life. 536 00:24:31,203 --> 00:24:33,272 We all make mistakes. I've made mistakes, 537 00:24:33,439 --> 00:24:34,865 and I don't mean to hurt others. 538 00:24:34,965 --> 00:24:38,310 Um... this is just a chapter in my book, 539 00:24:38,477 --> 00:24:39,970 and I'ma get through it. 540 00:24:40,104 --> 00:24:42,773 I got to focus and love myself a little bit more. 541 00:24:42,873 --> 00:24:44,483 We're gonna keep on pushing. 542 00:24:47,711 --> 00:24:50,122 ISAAC: One of the bigger things that I do is help people 543 00:24:50,289 --> 00:24:51,757 get in touch with the right resources. 544 00:24:51,890 --> 00:24:54,660 So sometimes that can look like a treatment center, 545 00:24:54,827 --> 00:24:57,062 sometimes that can look like the right meeting, 546 00:24:57,229 --> 00:24:59,231 sometimes that can look like the right small group. 547 00:24:59,298 --> 00:25:01,658 - Yeah. - ISAAC: And so, outpatient. 548 00:25:01,792 --> 00:25:04,461 I think that that seems like a natural way to move forward 549 00:25:04,561 --> 00:25:07,056 and to go and talk to a center here in town. 550 00:25:07,156 --> 00:25:09,224 And for you to go tour it and see what it looks like 551 00:25:09,324 --> 00:25:10,834 and see if this is something that you want 552 00:25:11,001 --> 00:25:12,511 to commit to for 30 days. 553 00:25:13,112 --> 00:25:14,380 I'm, like, waiting. 554 00:25:14,480 --> 00:25:16,065 I know, I just don't know what to do. 555 00:25:16,165 --> 00:25:17,649 You know, that wouldn't be my first treatment center 556 00:25:17,783 --> 00:25:19,009 or my first rehab. 557 00:25:19,176 --> 00:25:21,645 My task for you is to always just, like, 558 00:25:21,745 --> 00:25:23,155 keep an open mind. 559 00:25:23,322 --> 00:25:24,923 You know, what I tell people entering recovery is, like, 560 00:25:25,024 --> 00:25:26,458 everyone thinks it's just gonna be a straight line. 561 00:25:26,625 --> 00:25:27,960 You're just gonna go straight up. 562 00:25:28,093 --> 00:25:29,745 - It's gonna be a wave. - And it's a wave. 563 00:25:29,845 --> 00:25:30,863 It's a wavy baby. 564 00:25:31,030 --> 00:25:32,698 It's wavy baby, it's wavy baby. 565 00:25:44,977 --> 00:25:46,812 ♪♪♪ 566 00:25:46,979 --> 00:25:48,514 ♪ Pick me up, pick me up ♪ 567 00:25:48,614 --> 00:25:51,750 ♪ Swing around back, tell my daddy don't wait up ♪ 568 00:25:51,850 --> 00:25:55,137 ♪ I'm ready, I'm ready to have me some fun ♪ 569 00:25:57,448 --> 00:26:00,651 I'm gonna get to sleep in tonight, thank God. 570 00:26:00,784 --> 00:26:02,761 [knocking on door] 571 00:26:02,861 --> 00:26:04,321 Who is it? 572 00:26:04,455 --> 00:26:05,731 LAKE: Me. 573 00:26:08,934 --> 00:26:10,494 Wait, you look so cute! 574 00:26:10,627 --> 00:26:11,437 Really? 575 00:26:11,603 --> 00:26:13,806 I was going for casual. 576 00:26:13,906 --> 00:26:14,865 How are you? 577 00:26:15,032 --> 00:26:16,400 I'm good, how are you? 578 00:26:16,567 --> 00:26:18,377 You don't have to take your shoes off, I'm not you. 579 00:26:18,544 --> 00:26:19,837 LAKE: I'm like that. 580 00:26:20,003 --> 00:26:22,347 - What's new? What's going on? - You know, life. 581 00:26:22,448 --> 00:26:24,833 Come over here, let's chat by the window. 582 00:26:25,617 --> 00:26:26,819 Oh, you're cold? 583 00:26:26,952 --> 00:26:28,454 A little bit. 584 00:26:28,587 --> 00:26:33,258 Ugh. Oh, my gosh, I haven't been here during the day time. 585 00:26:34,059 --> 00:26:35,494 MICHOLS: But you're a lady of the night. 586 00:26:35,627 --> 00:26:37,421 I am a lady of the night. 587 00:26:37,521 --> 00:26:40,466 Let me just sit on the Ikea bag. 588 00:26:40,566 --> 00:26:42,000 It's a work in progress, I'm almost done. 589 00:26:42,167 --> 00:26:43,227 Be proud of me. 590 00:26:43,360 --> 00:26:44,728 LAKE: No, this looks like clean. 591 00:26:44,895 --> 00:26:47,339 Like, the last time I came over here, it was like-- 592 00:26:47,439 --> 00:26:48,841 A mess. There was clothes everywhere. 593 00:26:49,007 --> 00:26:50,742 LAKE: Yeah, there was clothes everywhere. 594 00:26:50,909 --> 00:26:52,144 Welcome to my crib. 595 00:26:52,244 --> 00:26:53,745 This is nice, dude. 596 00:26:53,912 --> 00:26:57,241 This is perfect counter top height for all your tweets. 597 00:26:58,217 --> 00:26:59,685 - LAKE: I'm proud of you. - Thank you. 598 00:26:59,818 --> 00:27:02,446 How do you feel after your intervention? 599 00:27:02,613 --> 00:27:03,589 My intervention? 600 00:27:03,755 --> 00:27:05,048 MICHOLS: About Emmy. 601 00:27:05,182 --> 00:27:07,893 Whose team are you on more? Brad's or Emmy's? 602 00:27:08,060 --> 00:27:09,545 Emmy's. 603 00:27:10,162 --> 00:27:13,090 - What? - No hesitation. 604 00:27:13,257 --> 00:27:16,802 Obviously, I trust Emmy more than Brad. 605 00:27:17,236 --> 00:27:18,971 I don't talk to him anymore. 606 00:27:19,138 --> 00:27:20,631 Like, we made out twice. 607 00:27:20,731 --> 00:27:22,966 It's not like we had, like, a million-long relationship. 608 00:27:23,066 --> 00:27:25,068 - No. - Like, I don't owe him sh--. 609 00:27:26,069 --> 00:27:28,805 But you also have to understand how Brad is feeling, too, 610 00:27:28,906 --> 00:27:30,541 because today, I worked out with him. 611 00:27:30,641 --> 00:27:32,442 He said, "I thought Lake would have more sympathy 612 00:27:32,576 --> 00:27:34,036 "for the comment that was made." 613 00:27:34,136 --> 00:27:36,054 - The unsafeness? - MICHOLS: Yes. 614 00:27:36,221 --> 00:27:37,539 Like, the microaggression? 615 00:27:37,639 --> 00:27:39,583 Yes, because he was, like, truly so upset. 616 00:27:39,750 --> 00:27:41,985 I hear this FaceTime call from Justin. 617 00:27:42,085 --> 00:27:43,887 - Yeah. - You're not actually upset. 618 00:27:43,987 --> 00:27:45,097 You said something wrong. 619 00:27:45,230 --> 00:27:46,598 MICHOLS: You're not actually sorry. 620 00:27:46,765 --> 00:27:47,733 You're not actually sorry about saying that 621 00:27:47,866 --> 00:27:49,126 I make you feel unsafe? 622 00:27:49,259 --> 00:27:50,661 The only reason you're saying it is 623 00:27:50,827 --> 00:27:51,870 because you're worried about what I'm gonna do to you 624 00:27:51,970 --> 00:27:53,222 or how I'm gonna ruin your life. 625 00:27:53,322 --> 00:27:54,940 - Yeah. - I'm here to vent to you 626 00:27:55,107 --> 00:27:56,408 and tell you how I'm feeling 627 00:27:56,575 --> 00:27:57,968 because I feel like you would understand. 628 00:27:58,135 --> 00:27:59,511 Oh, yeah, for sure. A hundred percent. 629 00:27:59,611 --> 00:28:01,171 And I would think that Lake would understand 630 00:28:01,305 --> 00:28:02,714 where I'm coming from, but I don't feel like Lake 631 00:28:02,814 --> 00:28:04,416 is condemning anything that Emmy said. 632 00:28:04,583 --> 00:28:06,276 It's, like, disheartening. 633 00:28:06,810 --> 00:28:08,904 MICHOLS: Like, that was a moment where he was looking for you 634 00:28:09,004 --> 00:28:11,448 and, like, friendship, whatever you want to call it, 635 00:28:11,582 --> 00:28:12,991 he was looking for you to be like, 636 00:28:13,091 --> 00:28:15,110 "Hey, you can't say that." 637 00:28:16,261 --> 00:28:17,796 Yeah. 638 00:28:18,630 --> 00:28:22,000 I wish he would have came to me right after that moment. 639 00:28:22,100 --> 00:28:23,827 - MICHOLS: Yeah. - With the microaggression. 640 00:28:23,961 --> 00:28:25,028 I did not. 641 00:28:25,162 --> 00:28:26,471 - Like-- - It's uncomfortable. 642 00:28:26,605 --> 00:28:27,965 It's uncomfortable in the moment. 643 00:28:28,098 --> 00:28:29,241 Like, I know that it is uncomfortable 644 00:28:29,374 --> 00:28:31,710 because I face it every single day myself. 645 00:28:31,810 --> 00:28:33,045 You face it every single day 646 00:28:33,212 --> 00:28:35,872 being a person of color in this city, 647 00:28:36,006 --> 00:28:38,175 being a person of color in this world. 648 00:28:38,308 --> 00:28:39,935 This is really pissing me off. 649 00:28:40,035 --> 00:28:42,271 This whole conversation is actually pissing me off. 650 00:28:42,371 --> 00:28:44,815 I'm a person that's always defending people of color, 651 00:28:44,982 --> 00:28:48,226 always defending my people, always advocating. 652 00:28:50,128 --> 00:28:51,521 I understand you. 653 00:28:51,688 --> 00:28:54,433 Like, and I understand him when it comes to that. 654 00:28:54,566 --> 00:28:56,668 I'm actually so shocked. 655 00:28:56,802 --> 00:28:58,161 In that instance, 656 00:28:58,295 --> 00:29:00,973 I thought me co-signing with Michols saying, 657 00:29:01,106 --> 00:29:04,126 "Yeah, that does sound like a microaggression," was enough. 658 00:29:04,226 --> 00:29:07,404 MICHOLS: You can't say you were scared because, like, 659 00:29:07,537 --> 00:29:08,680 that can come off as, 660 00:29:08,847 --> 00:29:11,074 - like, a microaggression. - Yeah. 661 00:29:11,208 --> 00:29:13,143 She should have said, "That situation 662 00:29:13,243 --> 00:29:15,354 "made me feel uncomfortable," and left it at that. 663 00:29:15,520 --> 00:29:17,089 Calling him scary is crazy. 664 00:29:17,189 --> 00:29:19,683 MICHOLS: You shouldn't say anything about this to Emmy. 665 00:29:20,250 --> 00:29:22,519 That's a conversation Brad wants to have with her, 666 00:29:22,653 --> 00:29:24,229 and out of respect for Brad, 667 00:29:24,396 --> 00:29:25,998 just like, don't say anything. 668 00:29:26,131 --> 00:29:27,966 But I just wanted to let you know that's how he was feeling. 669 00:29:28,066 --> 00:29:29,968 LAKE: I don't want to be labeled as this person 670 00:29:30,068 --> 00:29:32,696 that is blind to racial problems 671 00:29:32,829 --> 00:29:34,806 because I'm the last person that does that. 672 00:29:34,906 --> 00:29:36,541 Like, you know who my father is? 673 00:29:36,708 --> 00:29:38,810 - MICHOLS: Yeah. - LAKE: My father made us read 674 00:29:38,910 --> 00:29:40,545 outside of school, read books 675 00:29:40,646 --> 00:29:45,334 that were based off of African American heritage, everything. 676 00:29:45,434 --> 00:29:47,944 I know my sh--. Trust me. I know. 677 00:29:48,078 --> 00:29:49,613 So, I don't wanna be framed as that person 678 00:29:49,746 --> 00:29:51,823 that doesn't know sh-- about it, okay? 679 00:29:51,923 --> 00:29:53,116 MICHOLS: Well, you're not being framed. 680 00:29:53,283 --> 00:29:54,793 I just want you to be-- 681 00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:56,528 LAKE: But that conversation makes me feel like I was framed. 682 00:29:56,662 --> 00:29:59,231 Ugh. Don't get me heated. 683 00:29:59,364 --> 00:30:00,390 Don't. 684 00:30:00,557 --> 00:30:01,967 I don't know why you're getting heated. 685 00:30:02,067 --> 00:30:03,794 I'm just having a calm conversation with you. 686 00:30:03,927 --> 00:30:05,370 I just want you to be, like, a little bit more empathetic. 687 00:30:05,537 --> 00:30:08,598 Like, I can be there for you in that sense, 688 00:30:08,732 --> 00:30:11,902 but I also want to be there for Emmy as a friend sense. 689 00:30:12,069 --> 00:30:13,745 And so that's why I was comforting her 690 00:30:13,912 --> 00:30:15,447 because my closeness now is with her. 691 00:30:15,614 --> 00:30:16,882 I don't talk to him every day. 692 00:30:16,982 --> 00:30:18,141 I talk to her every day. 693 00:30:18,275 --> 00:30:20,035 Brad, he doesn't know who I am. 694 00:30:20,135 --> 00:30:21,586 He doesn't know who my family is. 695 00:30:21,720 --> 00:30:23,588 He doesn't know how I was raised. 696 00:30:23,722 --> 00:30:25,590 I'm a very educated woman. 697 00:30:25,691 --> 00:30:28,485 I come from a very prominent Black family 698 00:30:28,652 --> 00:30:30,629 that has come from the bottom to the top. 699 00:30:30,796 --> 00:30:32,789 He doesn't know me. 700 00:30:42,691 --> 00:30:44,743 ♪ Pull out my card, swipe it and buy ♪ 701 00:30:44,843 --> 00:30:46,002 ♪ 'Cause I got it like that ♪ 702 00:30:46,136 --> 00:30:48,013 ♪ Run up a tab, pay it no mind ♪ 703 00:30:48,180 --> 00:30:49,381 ♪ 'Cause I got it like that ♪ 704 00:30:49,514 --> 00:30:50,674 BELLA: Hola. 705 00:30:50,807 --> 00:30:51,883 Ciao, Bella. 706 00:30:51,983 --> 00:30:53,143 LAKE: Hey. 707 00:30:53,919 --> 00:30:56,246 - Ella. Hi. - BELLA: Hi. 708 00:30:56,346 --> 00:30:58,256 - How are you? - LAKE: Sweaty as [bleep]. 709 00:30:58,423 --> 00:31:00,292 BELLA: No, I'm sweaty as [bleep]. 710 00:31:00,425 --> 00:31:02,094 - LAKE: Staff is low. - Staff is real low. 711 00:31:02,260 --> 00:31:03,362 We're gonna get our asses kicked. 712 00:31:03,495 --> 00:31:05,430 - Hi, everybody. - GIRLS: Hi. 713 00:31:05,597 --> 00:31:06,598 Happy Thursday. 714 00:31:06,765 --> 00:31:08,091 Happy Thursday. 715 00:31:08,191 --> 00:31:09,167 What's going on? 716 00:31:09,301 --> 00:31:10,736 Can you turn for me, please? 717 00:31:10,836 --> 00:31:12,621 Yeah, I was trying to. It got... 718 00:31:16,641 --> 00:31:19,845 Okay, tonight we have a few bodies missing, 719 00:31:19,978 --> 00:31:22,781 obviously, because Brad is having one of his like events 720 00:31:22,881 --> 00:31:24,683 for Body by Brad up the street. 721 00:31:24,850 --> 00:31:26,485 Maddi, Joe, and Justin are over there 722 00:31:26,618 --> 00:31:30,122 they will be coming down and working later on tonight. 723 00:31:30,288 --> 00:31:32,949 TJ and Brad will not be working this evening. 724 00:31:33,550 --> 00:31:34,860 But they're gonna bring in a crowd 725 00:31:34,993 --> 00:31:37,229 and we're gonna be placing them at table ten. 726 00:31:38,188 --> 00:31:39,523 Good to go? 727 00:31:39,731 --> 00:31:40,799 Yay! 728 00:31:40,932 --> 00:31:42,567 All right, let's get dressed and set up. 729 00:31:48,840 --> 00:31:50,842 Thank you, baby. Thank you. 730 00:31:51,209 --> 00:31:52,177 Thank you for coming through. 731 00:31:52,310 --> 00:31:53,570 - Enjoy. - Enjoy. 732 00:31:53,703 --> 00:31:54,646 Everything look good? 733 00:31:54,780 --> 00:31:55,847 Yeah, it looks so good. 734 00:31:56,014 --> 00:31:57,073 - Okay. - You did good. 735 00:31:57,240 --> 00:31:58,183 - Any critiques? - No. 736 00:31:58,316 --> 00:31:59,543 Okay. 737 00:31:59,676 --> 00:32:00,577 I started my personal training company 738 00:32:00,744 --> 00:32:02,145 about four years ago now. 739 00:32:02,245 --> 00:32:05,424 And to see the amount of growth that it's experienced 740 00:32:05,590 --> 00:32:08,660 in such a short amount of time is nothing short of amazing. 741 00:32:09,161 --> 00:32:11,655 The event tonight is to not only celebrate 742 00:32:11,755 --> 00:32:14,658 how far we've come, but also announce what's next. 743 00:32:14,758 --> 00:32:15,767 Hey! 744 00:32:15,901 --> 00:32:17,269 - What's up? Hello. - Hi. 745 00:32:17,402 --> 00:32:18,829 - Glad you could come. - How are you? 746 00:32:18,929 --> 00:32:19,971 Congratulations. 747 00:32:20,071 --> 00:32:21,106 Thank you. 748 00:32:21,273 --> 00:32:22,440 Wouldn't miss it for the world. 749 00:32:22,574 --> 00:32:23,942 Thank you, brother. Appreciate you. 750 00:32:24,109 --> 00:32:25,177 - Congratulations. - I appreciate you. 751 00:32:25,343 --> 00:32:26,645 Thank you. You like the new logo? 752 00:32:26,778 --> 00:32:28,780 - TJ: Yeah. - Hello. What up, what up? 753 00:32:28,947 --> 00:32:30,115 Look at you. 754 00:32:31,049 --> 00:32:32,242 Oh, yeah. 755 00:32:32,375 --> 00:32:33,585 You thought you ate. 756 00:32:33,718 --> 00:32:35,921 - You thought you ate. - You thought you ate. 757 00:32:36,054 --> 00:32:37,280 Go ahead. 758 00:32:37,414 --> 00:32:38,782 Hey, Justin. 759 00:32:38,915 --> 00:32:40,417 - JUSTIN: Hey, how are you? - Good. How are you? 760 00:32:40,959 --> 00:32:41,927 Hello, lovely. 761 00:32:42,060 --> 00:32:43,128 I turned into a three-step. 762 00:32:43,261 --> 00:32:44,196 I like it. 763 00:32:44,296 --> 00:32:45,455 It was good. You played it off. 764 00:32:45,622 --> 00:32:46,731 You played it off well. 765 00:32:46,865 --> 00:32:49,134 So Mia had rain-checked our date, 766 00:32:49,301 --> 00:32:51,503 and then ultimately just ended up canceling it altogether. 767 00:32:51,636 --> 00:32:54,840 But, like, as I put the puzzle pieces together, 768 00:32:54,940 --> 00:32:57,400 my mind, like, went right back to Jordyn. 769 00:32:57,734 --> 00:32:59,511 You can do whatever you want. 770 00:32:59,644 --> 00:33:01,404 Just don't hook up with anyone I know. 771 00:33:01,538 --> 00:33:03,248 Just don't hook up with Mia. 772 00:33:03,381 --> 00:33:05,066 That's all I ask. 773 00:33:05,350 --> 00:33:06,751 Yeah. 774 00:33:06,918 --> 00:33:09,621 But Mia canceling her date only makes me want her more. 775 00:33:09,754 --> 00:33:11,790 So, uh, challenge accepted. 776 00:33:11,923 --> 00:33:14,618 Justin, beautiful young man. 777 00:33:14,751 --> 00:33:17,787 But I don't want to be juggled with other girls. 778 00:33:18,563 --> 00:33:19,990 Is that so crazy? 779 00:33:20,123 --> 00:33:22,158 I heard bits and pieces about the girls' night, 780 00:33:22,292 --> 00:33:24,227 and, uh, it wasn't good. 781 00:33:24,327 --> 00:33:26,605 TJ: I texted Grace the next morning, and I was like, 782 00:33:26,738 --> 00:33:28,340 "Hey, like, are you good?" 783 00:33:28,473 --> 00:33:30,800 And her text back was, "I'll deal with the consequences." 784 00:33:30,934 --> 00:33:33,612 So she knows that she ----ed up. 785 00:33:33,745 --> 00:33:35,847 Honestly, I have a soft spot for Grace Lilly. 786 00:33:35,981 --> 00:33:38,183 She was one of my very first clients. 787 00:33:38,942 --> 00:33:40,085 I'm gonna do one more. 788 00:33:40,185 --> 00:33:41,152 That's fine. 789 00:33:41,319 --> 00:33:42,320 - One more. - I'm shaking. 790 00:33:42,454 --> 00:33:43,755 If the legs aren't shaking. 791 00:33:43,889 --> 00:33:44,990 The booty ain't baking. 792 00:33:45,123 --> 00:33:47,826 I'm sad that she isn't here, 793 00:33:47,993 --> 00:33:50,262 but whatever is going on in Grace's life, 794 00:33:50,362 --> 00:33:52,898 I just want her to take the time that she needs 795 00:33:53,031 --> 00:33:54,658 to get herself together. 796 00:33:54,791 --> 00:33:57,068 Check, check. Yeah, that's on. 797 00:33:57,168 --> 00:33:58,762 Hello, hello, hello. 798 00:33:58,862 --> 00:34:01,006 Woo! 799 00:34:01,139 --> 00:34:05,544 I wanted to try and expand my reach beyond Charleston, 800 00:34:05,677 --> 00:34:07,579 and I didn't really know where to start 801 00:34:07,679 --> 00:34:08,947 or what that would look like. 802 00:34:09,080 --> 00:34:10,540 I have an amazing girlfriend named Julia, 803 00:34:10,674 --> 00:34:11,875 and she had the idea. 804 00:34:12,008 --> 00:34:13,451 She was like-- Yeah, give her some love. 805 00:34:13,552 --> 00:34:16,713 So I, she said, "Like, why don't you go on tour?" 806 00:34:16,846 --> 00:34:19,791 So we decided to, uh, take it on the road, 807 00:34:19,958 --> 00:34:22,494 and we're calling it the Keep It Moving Tour. 808 00:34:22,661 --> 00:34:24,362 I'm gonna show you guys what it looks like right here. 809 00:34:24,496 --> 00:34:25,997 We're gonna do something at home, 810 00:34:26,164 --> 00:34:27,524 we're gonna do something on the road 811 00:34:27,657 --> 00:34:29,059 all throughout the Southeast. 812 00:34:29,192 --> 00:34:30,660 So, we're gonna start here at these special places. 813 00:34:30,794 --> 00:34:32,295 So, thank you guys so much for supporting me, 814 00:34:32,395 --> 00:34:34,806 cheering me on, we wouldn't be here without y'all. 815 00:34:34,906 --> 00:34:36,466 So thank you. Thank you guys so much. 816 00:34:36,566 --> 00:34:38,977 JOE: You know, I'm almost 30. Brad's 28. 817 00:34:39,077 --> 00:34:40,712 But in a lot of ways, I look up to him. 818 00:34:40,845 --> 00:34:42,572 He's a hustler. He gets sh-- done. 819 00:34:42,706 --> 00:34:44,666 He wakes up before noon. 820 00:34:45,817 --> 00:34:48,078 I see all these other people younger than me, 821 00:34:48,211 --> 00:34:49,988 you know, like more ahead of me in life. 822 00:34:50,088 --> 00:34:52,390 Age shouldn't matter, but it matters. 823 00:34:52,524 --> 00:34:55,418 I'm turning 30. Gotta get my sh-- together. 824 00:34:55,585 --> 00:34:56,861 How I'm gonna support you 825 00:34:56,995 --> 00:34:58,330 is I'm gonna set up the after party for you. 826 00:34:58,430 --> 00:34:59,831 - We gotta get to work. - That's fine. 827 00:34:59,931 --> 00:35:01,199 Get to work. No worries. 828 00:35:01,366 --> 00:35:02,567 I wanna work so that you guys can celebrate. 829 00:35:02,734 --> 00:35:04,269 But I was not gonna miss this. 830 00:35:04,402 --> 00:35:06,171 - You're good to go, baby. - Bye, I'll see you in a bit. 831 00:35:06,271 --> 00:35:07,439 I'm gonna come party. 832 00:35:07,572 --> 00:35:09,357 - You coming with me? - Yeah, I am. 833 00:35:12,010 --> 00:35:13,378 Are y'all excited to work? 834 00:35:13,511 --> 00:35:14,863 - Oh, my God. - Yeah. 835 00:35:20,418 --> 00:35:21,611 MICHOLS: What's up? 836 00:35:21,778 --> 00:35:22,821 Hey, brother. 837 00:35:22,954 --> 00:35:24,447 - Hi. - Oh, golly. 838 00:35:24,581 --> 00:35:25,882 How was Brad's event? 839 00:35:26,016 --> 00:35:27,592 It was good. It was packed. 840 00:35:27,759 --> 00:35:29,628 Well, the capacity's only 93 people. 841 00:35:31,496 --> 00:35:33,223 Okay, wait. I'm gonna go change in here. 842 00:35:33,356 --> 00:35:34,632 I'll see you guys in a few. 843 00:35:42,407 --> 00:35:44,743 - Hello, hello. Hey, y'all. - Hello. 844 00:35:44,876 --> 00:35:46,411 Welcome, welcome. 845 00:35:46,544 --> 00:35:48,646 Hello, hello. Good to see you guys. How're you doing? 846 00:35:48,780 --> 00:35:50,582 Y'all have a table? 847 00:35:50,749 --> 00:35:52,217 BRAD: Hi. 848 00:35:52,317 --> 00:35:53,818 You miss me? 849 00:36:03,828 --> 00:36:05,130 Okay, okay. 850 00:36:05,263 --> 00:36:06,998 I did not sleep last night. 851 00:36:07,132 --> 00:36:09,901 I could not think about anything else but this 852 00:36:10,001 --> 00:36:11,903 because of how important it is. 853 00:36:12,037 --> 00:36:14,572 I don't know what I'm saying going into it, 854 00:36:14,672 --> 00:36:16,591 but I'm just gonna speak from my heart. 855 00:36:23,214 --> 00:36:24,849 Okay, we'll see. 856 00:36:31,690 --> 00:36:33,249 MICHOLS: Hi. 857 00:36:33,349 --> 00:36:35,185 - Hello. - Thank God for the AC. 858 00:36:35,318 --> 00:36:36,327 LAKE: Hello. 859 00:36:36,461 --> 00:36:38,021 I just appreciate it. Hello. 860 00:36:38,154 --> 00:36:39,698 MICHOLS: Do you guys want me to stay and mediate or do you... 861 00:36:39,831 --> 00:36:41,633 I don't think we need mediation. 862 00:36:41,766 --> 00:36:43,201 - MICHOLS: Okay. - I hope we don't. 863 00:36:43,334 --> 00:36:44,369 All right. 864 00:36:44,536 --> 00:36:46,371 Good luck. I love y'all. 865 00:36:47,539 --> 00:36:51,209 Um, I just wanted to pull you for, like, 866 00:36:51,342 --> 00:36:53,378 a little conversation because... 867 00:36:53,511 --> 00:36:55,305 Like, I don't feel like we should even be having 868 00:36:55,438 --> 00:36:57,549 to have this conversation in the first place. 869 00:37:08,660 --> 00:37:10,386 ♪♪♪ 870 00:37:10,553 --> 00:37:12,689 I don't feel like we should even be having to have 871 00:37:12,822 --> 00:37:14,566 this conversation in the first place. 872 00:37:16,050 --> 00:37:18,570 LAKE: Well, um... 873 00:37:20,730 --> 00:37:24,309 I was briefly given, like, an outline of 874 00:37:24,442 --> 00:37:26,002 what you and Michols talked about, 875 00:37:26,169 --> 00:37:29,739 and I really feel strongly about that conversation and... 876 00:37:29,873 --> 00:37:31,207 Which part? 877 00:37:31,341 --> 00:37:33,818 The microaggressions 878 00:37:33,918 --> 00:37:35,303 and how you felt like 879 00:37:35,403 --> 00:37:37,639 I should have defended you in that moment. 880 00:37:37,739 --> 00:37:38,790 Yeah. 881 00:37:38,923 --> 00:37:41,192 Because as a Black woman, I do understand. 882 00:37:41,326 --> 00:37:42,352 Okay. 883 00:37:42,519 --> 00:37:44,020 And I just wanted to address it to you 884 00:37:44,154 --> 00:37:46,631 because I know how important it is. 885 00:37:46,731 --> 00:37:49,567 I face it every single day of my life. 886 00:37:49,667 --> 00:37:51,027 Yeah. 887 00:37:51,161 --> 00:37:53,563 I have always defended, protected, 888 00:37:53,696 --> 00:37:56,199 loved all of the Black men in my life. 889 00:37:56,332 --> 00:37:57,408 I have. 890 00:37:57,575 --> 00:37:59,777 But it didn't feel like that. 891 00:38:02,096 --> 00:38:03,373 JOE: Oh, sorry. 892 00:38:03,506 --> 00:38:05,950 I came in here to do my, like, mid-shift haircut. 893 00:38:11,122 --> 00:38:12,223 And I'm out. 894 00:38:12,323 --> 00:38:14,417 See you guys. Love you. 895 00:38:16,085 --> 00:38:17,220 LAKE: Um... 896 00:38:17,353 --> 00:38:19,864 I am never ever in a million years 897 00:38:19,964 --> 00:38:23,034 ever going to defend a microaggression. 898 00:38:23,168 --> 00:38:25,970 Whenever we had that group conversation 899 00:38:26,137 --> 00:38:27,297 at the table at Folly, 900 00:38:27,463 --> 00:38:28,873 Emmy made that comment, 901 00:38:29,040 --> 00:38:31,009 Michols said that can come off as a microaggression. 902 00:38:31,142 --> 00:38:32,177 I co-signed with him. 903 00:38:32,277 --> 00:38:33,845 But I also was comforting her. 904 00:38:33,978 --> 00:38:35,530 But me comforting her 905 00:38:35,630 --> 00:38:37,882 did not discredit your feelings towards that at all. 906 00:38:37,982 --> 00:38:39,317 It did not. 907 00:38:39,484 --> 00:38:41,252 And I'm sorry that you felt that way. I truly am. 908 00:38:41,352 --> 00:38:44,147 From the deepest pits of my heart, I am. 909 00:38:44,314 --> 00:38:47,984 My brothers, my father, my grandfather, my uncles, 910 00:38:48,084 --> 00:38:49,819 are all men that look like Brad. 911 00:38:49,919 --> 00:38:52,330 And so when Emmy says something like, 912 00:38:52,430 --> 00:38:54,924 "Because you're scary," I felt it. 913 00:38:55,058 --> 00:38:56,501 It makes me feel some type of way. 914 00:38:56,668 --> 00:38:58,228 So, I feel Brad on that. 915 00:38:58,328 --> 00:39:01,339 I don't think that you would ever hurt Emmy, ever. 916 00:39:04,409 --> 00:39:05,602 I'm not gonna hurt anyone. 917 00:39:05,768 --> 00:39:07,011 I'm not gonna hurt any woman, ever. 918 00:39:07,178 --> 00:39:08,738 - So, so for me-- - I know. I know that. 919 00:39:08,838 --> 00:39:10,732 Like, that's why I'm like, "Okay, she was using--" 920 00:39:10,832 --> 00:39:13,309 BRAD: It just felt like it was-- 921 00:39:17,689 --> 00:39:18,940 Ridiculous. 922 00:39:50,446 --> 00:39:52,982 BRAD: I don't think Emmy's racist. 923 00:39:53,149 --> 00:39:54,659 I mean, I wouldn't be friends with her 924 00:39:54,826 --> 00:39:56,853 - if I thought she was racist. - BRAD: Yeah, but for me, 925 00:39:56,986 --> 00:39:59,989 If you completely remove race from it, 926 00:40:00,123 --> 00:40:02,634 and someone apologized to you, and then later on said, 927 00:40:02,734 --> 00:40:04,269 "Oh, well, I'm only apologizing 928 00:40:04,369 --> 00:40:06,162 "because I'm worried about what they're gonna do to you." 929 00:40:06,329 --> 00:40:08,339 It's like a stab in the back. 930 00:40:09,107 --> 00:40:11,901 Addressing this is very important. It is. 931 00:40:12,035 --> 00:40:13,836 I am on your side when it comes to this. 932 00:40:13,970 --> 00:40:16,414 And that's why I wanted to come to you and apologize. 933 00:40:19,484 --> 00:40:20,885 I appreciate your apology. 934 00:40:21,052 --> 00:40:22,654 Thank you. 935 00:40:22,787 --> 00:40:24,714 This is a side of Lake that I've never seen before. 936 00:40:24,847 --> 00:40:28,126 Beyond this bubbly, fun, easy-going personality, 937 00:40:28,226 --> 00:40:29,694 there's a lot of depth there. 938 00:40:29,794 --> 00:40:32,355 I needed to hear her out of her mouth saying like, 939 00:40:32,488 --> 00:40:35,516 "Hey, I got you, I understand you, I'm with you." 940 00:40:36,225 --> 00:40:37,669 It means the world to me. 941 00:40:37,769 --> 00:40:39,429 LAKE: When it comes to Emmy, 942 00:40:39,562 --> 00:40:43,566 I will take it upon myself to educate her on this subject. 943 00:40:43,700 --> 00:40:46,978 You don't have to talk to her. I'm gonna take care of it. 944 00:40:47,078 --> 00:40:49,981 - Okay. - We're chilling. It's fine. 945 00:40:50,081 --> 00:40:52,450 Amicable fist bump. 946 00:41:15,974 --> 00:41:19,911 I feel like Emmy is taking the low road in this situation, 947 00:41:20,011 --> 00:41:21,813 being combative about it. 948 00:41:21,980 --> 00:41:25,241 I feel as if she's minimizing Brad's experience. 949 00:41:25,375 --> 00:41:27,652 All you need to do is make right with Brad. 950 00:41:27,819 --> 00:41:31,447 Tell Brad, hopefully, right, that that wasn't your intention, 951 00:41:31,614 --> 00:41:33,091 but here's the thing, 952 00:41:33,191 --> 00:41:36,419 I simply don't think that Emmy knows what a microaggression is. 953 00:41:36,586 --> 00:41:39,088 Yes, I know what a microaggression is. 954 00:41:39,222 --> 00:41:45,261 A microaggression is basically when you make a micro-- 955 00:41:45,395 --> 00:41:48,639 You make a subjective assumption of someone 956 00:41:48,740 --> 00:41:50,900 based off of... 957 00:41:51,000 --> 00:41:54,612 You know, a-- You know... 958 00:41:54,746 --> 00:41:56,848 It's like, "Women are bad drivers." 959 00:41:56,948 --> 00:41:58,983 But I feel like microaggressions are more so made 960 00:41:59,083 --> 00:42:00,810 towards people... 961 00:42:00,943 --> 00:42:02,854 that you don't know. 962 00:42:12,764 --> 00:42:14,132 Let's get out of here, y'all ready to roll? 963 00:42:14,298 --> 00:42:16,968 MADDI: Next time on "Southern Hospitality..." 964 00:42:17,135 --> 00:42:18,252 Michols is sleeping with us. 965 00:42:18,352 --> 00:42:20,129 No, me and TJ are gonna go in here. 966 00:42:20,296 --> 00:42:22,440 They're making out in that room, I'm telling you right now. 967 00:42:22,607 --> 00:42:24,000 [whistle blowing] 968 00:42:24,133 --> 00:42:27,261 [shouting] 969 00:42:27,361 --> 00:42:29,172 Looks like she's chasing the pool boy out of the house. 970 00:42:29,338 --> 00:42:31,933 - Ah! - [shouting] 971 00:42:32,033 --> 00:42:35,211 I'm in a place with Lake where I know I can't trust her 972 00:42:35,344 --> 00:42:37,789 and I can't have a friendship with somebody I can't trust. 973 00:42:37,889 --> 00:42:39,807 Michols is mad at me.