1 00:00:00,900 --> 00:00:03,002 - ♪ MTV ♪ 2 00:00:05,638 --> 00:00:07,574 - What would you think if we moved? 3 00:00:07,574 --> 00:00:08,975 - I got a text from our realtor. 4 00:00:08,975 --> 00:00:10,777 They accepted our offer. 5 00:00:10,777 --> 00:00:12,245 [upbeat music] 6 00:00:12,245 --> 00:00:13,813 - ♪ Get it going, get it going ♪ 7 00:00:13,813 --> 00:00:15,582 - Well, we've officially moved into the new house. 8 00:00:15,582 --> 00:00:18,118 - Hi! 9 00:00:18,118 --> 00:00:19,352 - I'm really excited for our birthday. 10 00:00:19,352 --> 00:00:20,620 - Are you really excited? 11 00:00:20,620 --> 00:00:21,855 Me too. 12 00:00:21,855 --> 00:00:23,556 Am I gonna get you on the dance floor? 13 00:00:23,556 --> 00:00:26,626 I'm actually super sad that you guys are 13. 14 00:00:26,626 --> 00:00:28,294 - Those are gonna be the years, Mom. 15 00:00:28,294 --> 00:00:31,598 - It's just a matter of time until I'm on my own. 16 00:00:31,598 --> 00:00:34,234 - So you and Maci, you feel good about it? 17 00:00:34,234 --> 00:00:35,735 - Yeah, but we, you know, 18 00:00:35,735 --> 00:00:36,970 we kind of agreed to-- 19 00:00:36,970 --> 00:00:38,805 that I get to see Bentley. 20 00:00:38,805 --> 00:00:41,107 Can I take Bentley to dinner on Wednesday? 21 00:00:41,107 --> 00:00:42,208 - I'm sure Bentley would love it. 22 00:00:42,208 --> 00:00:44,577 Honestly, I'm kind of anxious. 23 00:00:44,577 --> 00:00:48,715 - He's been a black cloud that hangs over us. 24 00:00:48,715 --> 00:00:52,152 - It's like my womb know that a child is gone. 25 00:00:52,152 --> 00:00:53,653 - He was my only brother, 26 00:00:53,653 --> 00:00:55,588 and there's just a different relationship 27 00:00:55,588 --> 00:00:58,591 that I have with my sister than I had with my brother. 28 00:00:58,591 --> 00:01:02,061 You feel your heart literally breaking. 29 00:01:02,061 --> 00:01:03,830 Bar just started his community service. 30 00:01:03,830 --> 00:01:05,598 - Tell me a little about how you got here. 31 00:01:05,598 --> 00:01:09,235 - I fired my gun in a situation that I shouldn't have. 32 00:01:09,235 --> 00:01:11,471 - It's time for her to get that surgery done. 33 00:01:11,471 --> 00:01:13,039 - Yeah. - The big one, 34 00:01:13,039 --> 00:01:15,308 the one that we've been talking about for so long. 35 00:01:15,308 --> 00:01:17,644 - They gotta rewire my wires. 36 00:01:20,313 --> 00:01:23,049 - 'Cause we gotta figure out Maya's surgery. 37 00:01:23,049 --> 00:01:27,487 - They're pushing her surgery back two to three weeks. 38 00:01:27,487 --> 00:01:30,657 [upbeat rock music] 39 00:01:30,657 --> 00:01:37,564 ♪ ♪ 40 00:01:41,634 --> 00:01:44,504 - ♪ North is where I come to sleep ♪ 41 00:01:44,504 --> 00:01:48,575 ♪ Chase the wind, the wildest dream ♪ 42 00:01:48,575 --> 00:01:49,809 - Nova, will you come in the bathroom 43 00:01:49,809 --> 00:01:53,480 so we can change your shirt for cheer? 44 00:01:53,480 --> 00:01:54,881 Come here. Watch out for the baby. 45 00:01:54,881 --> 00:01:56,683 [baby crying] What? 46 00:01:56,683 --> 00:01:57,650 You don't like it? 47 00:01:57,650 --> 00:01:59,152 - No. - It's a shirt. 48 00:01:59,152 --> 00:02:00,153 - Yeah, no, it's not. 49 00:02:00,153 --> 00:02:01,454 - Yes, it is. 50 00:02:01,454 --> 00:02:02,889 It's a cheer practice shirt. 51 00:02:02,889 --> 00:02:05,191 I've seen a few of the girls at your class 52 00:02:05,191 --> 00:02:06,726 wear stuff like that. 53 00:02:06,726 --> 00:02:07,861 - No! 54 00:02:07,861 --> 00:02:09,262 - Novalee is getting older. 55 00:02:09,262 --> 00:02:10,930 She's eight years old. 56 00:02:10,930 --> 00:02:14,100 She's in competitive cheer, which she loves. 57 00:02:14,100 --> 00:02:16,102 And sometimes it's chaotic. 58 00:02:16,102 --> 00:02:19,205 Recently, she has been self-conscious 59 00:02:19,205 --> 00:02:20,807 about wearing tank tops and stuff. 60 00:02:20,807 --> 00:02:24,043 And I hate the fact that she feels 61 00:02:24,043 --> 00:02:25,745 self-conscious about her body 62 00:02:25,745 --> 00:02:27,514 when she's only eight years old. 63 00:02:27,514 --> 00:02:30,517 Like, have any of you guys dealt with any of that? 64 00:02:30,517 --> 00:02:33,119 I feel like this is really early. 65 00:02:33,119 --> 00:02:35,922 ♪ ♪ 66 00:02:35,922 --> 00:02:38,258 Let's go in so you can change your shoes, Nova. 67 00:02:40,827 --> 00:02:42,896 - Why? You have nothing to be embarrassed of. 68 00:02:42,896 --> 00:02:45,365 I've seen other girls on your team 69 00:02:45,365 --> 00:02:48,134 wear stuff like that to practice. 70 00:02:48,134 --> 00:02:51,037 ♪ ♪ 71 00:02:51,037 --> 00:02:53,106 [indistinct chatter] 72 00:02:53,106 --> 00:02:55,508 Hold on. 73 00:02:55,508 --> 00:02:58,678 [indistinct chatter] 74 00:02:58,678 --> 00:03:04,884 ♪ ♪ 75 00:03:04,884 --> 00:03:06,252 - Love it. 76 00:03:06,252 --> 00:03:07,554 - She was all self-conscious about 77 00:03:07,554 --> 00:03:08,621 wearing that to practice, and I was like, 78 00:03:08,621 --> 00:03:09,989 it's like a workout shirt. 79 00:03:09,989 --> 00:03:12,091 I was like, what? There's nothing wrong with it. 80 00:03:12,091 --> 00:03:14,394 - Everybody go line up at the back of the mat. 81 00:03:16,095 --> 00:03:17,697 Go to the back of the mat. 82 00:03:17,697 --> 00:03:19,699 C-L spirit! 83 00:03:19,699 --> 00:03:22,335 [all cheering] 84 00:03:22,335 --> 00:03:23,970 - ♪ You're bad, ha, ha ♪ 85 00:03:23,970 --> 00:03:25,905 ♪ But that's a good thing, ha ♪ 86 00:03:25,905 --> 00:03:27,640 ♪ I got to hear smacking and the body's rocking ♪ 87 00:03:27,640 --> 00:03:29,108 ♪ Before the hook play, ha ♪ 88 00:03:29,108 --> 00:03:32,145 ♪ If you want to get up on it then what ♪ 89 00:03:32,145 --> 00:03:34,013 ♪ Show me something, show you something ♪ 90 00:03:34,013 --> 00:03:35,148 ♪ Keep it coming ♪ 91 00:03:35,148 --> 00:03:36,215 ♪ Keep it, ah ♪ 92 00:03:36,215 --> 00:03:37,750 ♪ Is this what you want ♪ 93 00:03:37,750 --> 00:03:39,686 ♪ That's what I want, that's what I want ♪ 94 00:03:39,686 --> 00:03:41,387 ♪ Is this what you want ♪ 95 00:03:41,387 --> 00:03:43,723 - Nova was embarrassed in her tank top at cheer. 96 00:03:43,723 --> 00:03:44,891 - Is that normal? 97 00:03:44,891 --> 00:03:46,960 Or is that just part of her wanting 98 00:03:46,960 --> 00:03:48,728 to have her own privacy? 99 00:03:48,728 --> 00:03:50,430 Or is that because something happened? 100 00:03:50,430 --> 00:03:52,131 I don't know. You know what I mean? 101 00:03:52,131 --> 00:03:53,099 This is when I get all freaked out. 102 00:03:53,099 --> 00:03:54,100 - I don't know. 103 00:03:54,100 --> 00:03:55,101 - What does that mean? 104 00:03:55,101 --> 00:03:56,302 Is this a new thing? 105 00:03:56,302 --> 00:03:57,537 - Mom's right here. 106 00:03:57,537 --> 00:03:58,938 And I told her, I said-- 107 00:03:58,938 --> 00:04:00,306 - I've also never had an eight-year-old daughter 108 00:04:00,306 --> 00:04:01,507 before, either, so I don't know. 109 00:04:01,507 --> 00:04:02,909 Is this one--babe, help me out. 110 00:04:02,909 --> 00:04:04,477 Do you remember when you started getting... 111 00:04:04,477 --> 00:04:06,379 - I don't remember. 112 00:04:06,379 --> 00:04:07,480 I don't. - All right. 113 00:04:07,480 --> 00:04:08,948 So we're all in the dark here. 114 00:04:08,948 --> 00:04:09,949 - Yeah. 115 00:04:09,949 --> 00:04:11,017 - It's weird. 116 00:04:11,017 --> 00:04:12,285 - Mommy! [speaking indistinctly] 117 00:04:14,354 --> 00:04:18,091 - ♪ Here we go ♪ 118 00:04:18,091 --> 00:04:22,495 ♪ Feel the good times going around ♪ 119 00:04:22,495 --> 00:04:24,097 - Are you buckled? - No. 120 00:04:24,097 --> 00:04:25,365 - I'm good. 121 00:04:25,365 --> 00:04:26,966 - You guys excited? - Yeah. 122 00:04:26,966 --> 00:04:28,134 Perfect day to ride. 123 00:04:28,134 --> 00:04:29,636 - It really is. - Yeah. 124 00:04:29,636 --> 00:04:31,938 - ♪ Here we go ♪ 125 00:04:31,938 --> 00:04:35,241 - Saddles, helmets-- we have everything. 126 00:04:35,241 --> 00:04:36,442 - Mm-hmm. 127 00:04:36,442 --> 00:04:37,510 Since yesterday, 128 00:04:37,510 --> 00:04:38,811 we've been riding for two years. 129 00:04:38,811 --> 00:04:40,780 - I can't believe it's been two years already. 130 00:04:40,780 --> 00:04:42,815 - Equine therapy has been beneficial for you. 131 00:04:42,815 --> 00:04:43,916 - Yeah. 132 00:04:43,916 --> 00:04:46,085 - It's strengthened you. 133 00:04:46,085 --> 00:04:47,320 It's built your confidence. 134 00:04:47,320 --> 00:04:48,655 - Here's kind of funny. 135 00:04:48,655 --> 00:04:50,623 So we first walked in the barn. 136 00:04:50,623 --> 00:04:52,525 And I was like, oh, this is scary. 137 00:04:52,525 --> 00:04:54,227 I'm gonna go in, and it's gonna be-- 138 00:04:54,227 --> 00:04:55,395 I'm gonna be a goner. 139 00:04:55,395 --> 00:04:56,896 Like, this is it for me. 140 00:04:56,896 --> 00:04:57,964 This is Stewie. 141 00:04:57,964 --> 00:04:59,298 This is the horse you'll be riding. 142 00:04:59,298 --> 00:05:00,000 I was like, oh--I was scared. 143 00:05:00,000 --> 00:05:00,700 I was like, oh--I was scared. 144 00:05:00,700 --> 00:05:02,368 It turned out to be my favorite. 145 00:05:02,368 --> 00:05:04,771 And I think he was the horse 146 00:05:04,771 --> 00:05:06,773 that helped me, like, overcome my fear. 147 00:05:06,773 --> 00:05:10,043 - Your determination is like no other. 148 00:05:10,043 --> 00:05:12,578 Nothing holds you back. 149 00:05:12,578 --> 00:05:16,516 If you've envisioned the future with riding-- 150 00:05:16,516 --> 00:05:18,451 do you always want to do it? 151 00:05:18,451 --> 00:05:20,653 - I want to do it forever, like, with horses, 152 00:05:20,653 --> 00:05:22,722 work with horses, be with horses. 153 00:05:22,722 --> 00:05:28,094 And I think, like, my next goal to be is to show by myself. 154 00:05:28,094 --> 00:05:29,128 - Ooh, by yourself? 155 00:05:29,128 --> 00:05:30,229 - Mm-hmm. 156 00:05:30,229 --> 00:05:32,098 - You guys ready? - Yeah. 157 00:05:32,098 --> 00:05:33,633 - ♪ You couldn't speak ♪ 158 00:05:33,633 --> 00:05:35,935 ♪ You say a word ♪ 159 00:05:35,935 --> 00:05:37,970 - I'm, of course, proud of all of my girls. 160 00:05:37,970 --> 00:05:39,939 But when Ali was first diagnosed 161 00:05:39,939 --> 00:05:41,340 with muscular dystrophy, 162 00:05:41,340 --> 00:05:42,942 no one really knew what to expect. 163 00:05:44,844 --> 00:05:46,646 - We've got the test results. 164 00:05:46,646 --> 00:05:50,283 And it revealed there is evidence of a muscle disorder. 165 00:05:50,283 --> 00:05:54,787 - Ali may be able to walk, but how Ali wants to walk. 166 00:05:54,787 --> 00:05:57,156 You can fall very easily, you know. 167 00:05:57,156 --> 00:05:59,025 - Ah! 168 00:05:59,025 --> 00:06:00,393 - Mom. 169 00:06:00,393 --> 00:06:01,894 ♪ ♪ 170 00:06:01,894 --> 00:06:03,863 [Ali crying] 171 00:06:03,863 --> 00:06:06,165 - You're okay. 172 00:06:06,165 --> 00:06:08,134 All of a sudden, it's like, 173 00:06:08,134 --> 00:06:09,702 she can't do things that she was doing. 174 00:06:09,702 --> 00:06:10,903 Or she feels really tired. 175 00:06:10,903 --> 00:06:13,172 She's falling asleep in class. - Mm-hmm. 176 00:06:13,172 --> 00:06:14,207 - She's falling more. 177 00:06:14,207 --> 00:06:15,708 Like, it's just scary. 178 00:06:15,708 --> 00:06:17,577 - Any kind of muscular dystrophy can do that. 179 00:06:17,577 --> 00:06:20,246 We just have to continue to evaluate her 180 00:06:20,246 --> 00:06:22,115 and give her help. 181 00:06:22,115 --> 00:06:25,017 - Well, she's doing better than anyone has ever expected. 182 00:06:25,017 --> 00:06:27,920 And equine therapy has been very helpful. 183 00:06:27,920 --> 00:06:30,990 - ♪ I know what you have to do ♪ 184 00:06:30,990 --> 00:06:33,793 ♪ You can say the words ♪ 185 00:06:33,793 --> 00:06:36,295 ♪ Words, words ♪ 186 00:06:36,295 --> 00:06:41,100 ♪ Hearing it come from you would just make it worse ♪ 187 00:06:41,100 --> 00:06:43,202 ♪ ♪ 188 00:06:43,202 --> 00:06:44,170 - Hey, Mom, come in here. 189 00:06:44,170 --> 00:06:45,471 I have an idea. 190 00:06:45,471 --> 00:06:48,808 - What are you doing? 191 00:06:48,808 --> 00:06:51,110 Oh! 192 00:06:51,110 --> 00:06:53,346 - Hi, Lucky. 193 00:06:53,346 --> 00:06:56,215 - Hi, Lucky boy. 194 00:06:56,215 --> 00:06:57,483 - What's up? 195 00:07:00,653 --> 00:07:02,188 I've been thinking about writing my own book 196 00:07:02,188 --> 00:07:07,126 to share how horses can help somebody--people. 197 00:07:07,126 --> 00:07:09,629 - I mean, I've known that you always wanted to write. 198 00:07:09,629 --> 00:07:11,631 Even whenever-- like, little things 199 00:07:11,631 --> 00:07:13,833 you've wrote in the past. 200 00:07:13,833 --> 00:07:15,902 I just was waiting for you to come to me 201 00:07:15,902 --> 00:07:20,506 and tell me when you were ready to write your story. 202 00:07:20,506 --> 00:07:21,874 I was gonna actually talk to the publisher 203 00:07:21,874 --> 00:07:23,743 about writing my second book. 204 00:07:23,743 --> 00:07:25,344 But instead, we can write yours. 205 00:07:25,344 --> 00:07:27,980 This is a fantastic idea. 206 00:07:27,980 --> 00:07:31,417 And I love that you will be able to share your story 207 00:07:31,417 --> 00:07:34,987 from your perspective. 208 00:07:34,987 --> 00:07:39,759 So I will talk to them and see what we can do. 209 00:07:39,759 --> 00:07:41,527 - Okay. Let me know what they say. 210 00:07:41,527 --> 00:07:43,963 I'm excited. - Yeah, me too. 211 00:07:43,963 --> 00:07:46,766 ♪ ♪ 212 00:07:46,766 --> 00:07:50,303 - ♪ Pull me in and knock me out ♪ 213 00:07:50,303 --> 00:07:57,343 ♪ ♪ 214 00:07:57,343 --> 00:07:58,911 - Big day, little girl. 215 00:07:58,911 --> 00:07:59,779 - Mm-hmm. 216 00:07:59,779 --> 00:08:01,013 - I know she'll be fine. 217 00:08:01,013 --> 00:08:03,549 She's a warrior. 218 00:08:03,549 --> 00:08:05,751 - Hi, girl. 219 00:08:05,751 --> 00:08:11,557 ♪ ♪ 220 00:08:12,892 --> 00:08:14,493 Oh, great, now here I go. 221 00:08:14,493 --> 00:08:16,195 - [scoffs] 222 00:08:16,195 --> 00:08:19,098 [somber music] 223 00:08:19,098 --> 00:08:21,367 Yeah, Daddy just doesn't want you to be in pain. 224 00:08:21,367 --> 00:08:23,236 That's it. 225 00:08:23,236 --> 00:08:26,305 ♪ ♪ 226 00:08:26,305 --> 00:08:30,176 - ♪ I'm here from a burning rooms ♪ 227 00:08:30,176 --> 00:08:33,546 ♪ Pray that a love can't lose ♪ 228 00:08:33,546 --> 00:08:36,749 ♪ All that I say is true ♪ 229 00:08:36,749 --> 00:08:39,352 ♪ You know it's all on you ♪ 230 00:08:39,352 --> 00:08:45,658 ♪ ♪ 231 00:08:52,298 --> 00:08:54,433 - I feel like it's always, you look in the fridge, 232 00:08:54,433 --> 00:08:57,169 and then you go back five minutes later, and... 233 00:08:57,169 --> 00:08:58,804 - Is that what you're going through right now? 234 00:08:58,804 --> 00:09:00,039 - I'm hungry. 235 00:09:00,039 --> 00:09:01,007 Are you not? 236 00:09:01,007 --> 00:09:01,874 - I am. 237 00:09:01,874 --> 00:09:03,175 But I'm trying to wait 238 00:09:03,175 --> 00:09:05,811 and just get, like, takeout or something. 239 00:09:05,811 --> 00:09:07,380 Because it's Maya's surgery. 240 00:09:07,380 --> 00:09:10,016 - Let's get takeout and sit on the couch. 241 00:09:10,016 --> 00:09:10,883 - Yeah. 242 00:09:10,883 --> 00:09:12,451 - When Ryder gets home-- 243 00:09:12,451 --> 00:09:14,120 - I didn't tell her before she went to school. 244 00:09:14,120 --> 00:09:15,288 - No. 245 00:09:15,288 --> 00:09:17,056 - She wouldn't have wanted to go. 246 00:09:17,056 --> 00:09:18,991 She would have had, like, anxiety all day. 247 00:09:18,991 --> 00:09:20,860 - I feel like you would have got a text from her teachers. 248 00:09:20,860 --> 00:09:25,498 - Cory asked to call Ryder today when surgery was over. 249 00:09:25,498 --> 00:09:27,300 He wanted to just check on Ryder 250 00:09:27,300 --> 00:09:31,671 and then tell her that Maya had surgery 251 00:09:31,671 --> 00:09:33,773 and everything was fine once it was done. 252 00:09:33,773 --> 00:09:35,174 I said that would-- 253 00:09:35,174 --> 00:09:36,309 is fine. 254 00:09:36,309 --> 00:09:37,310 - Yeah. 255 00:09:37,310 --> 00:09:39,578 - It's so hard. 256 00:09:39,578 --> 00:09:43,683 And it's weird, because I can see so much of Ryder in Maya. 257 00:09:43,683 --> 00:09:46,052 And it's like, it's too close to home. 258 00:09:46,052 --> 00:09:47,386 - Yeah. 259 00:09:47,386 --> 00:09:50,122 - I'm ready for Ryder to come home from school. 260 00:09:50,122 --> 00:09:52,758 I feel like when stuff like this is going on, 261 00:09:52,758 --> 00:09:56,562 I just like to look at my kids. 262 00:09:56,562 --> 00:10:00,000 ♪ ♪ 263 00:10:00,000 --> 00:10:03,269 ♪ ♪ 264 00:10:03,269 --> 00:10:06,138 - I'm glad my parents took Mila to a restaurant 265 00:10:06,138 --> 00:10:08,941 so that we could just leave without her knowing. 266 00:10:08,941 --> 00:10:11,310 'Cause I didn't want her to be all sad, and... 267 00:10:11,310 --> 00:10:15,715 - We are trying to make this as easy on the kids as we can. 268 00:10:15,715 --> 00:10:18,551 - I just want to get it over with. 269 00:10:18,551 --> 00:10:19,785 - I'm right there with you. 270 00:10:19,785 --> 00:10:21,854 - I'm, like, emotionally drained. 271 00:10:21,854 --> 00:10:25,091 [crying] I've just hit my limit. 272 00:10:25,091 --> 00:10:27,159 - Of course. 273 00:10:27,159 --> 00:10:28,861 - That's why it doesn't really feel real. 274 00:10:28,861 --> 00:10:30,596 It's like, I know it's been coming. 275 00:10:30,596 --> 00:10:32,498 But I'm just like... 276 00:10:32,498 --> 00:10:34,100 - Get this surgery done. 277 00:10:34,100 --> 00:10:35,835 So then we don't have to worry about this. 278 00:10:35,835 --> 00:10:38,504 - ♪ Caught in a whirlwind ♪ 279 00:10:38,504 --> 00:10:40,740 [siren wailing] 280 00:10:40,740 --> 00:10:41,841 ♪ Stumbling through the week ♪ 281 00:10:41,841 --> 00:10:43,642 - Hey, we're gonna be strong. 282 00:10:43,642 --> 00:10:45,144 We're gonna make it through this. 283 00:10:45,144 --> 00:10:46,912 We're right here at the finish line. 284 00:10:46,912 --> 00:10:48,314 Let's get through this. Give me a kiss. 285 00:10:48,314 --> 00:10:49,482 I love you. 286 00:10:49,482 --> 00:10:51,050 ♪ ♪ 287 00:10:51,050 --> 00:10:53,652 Hey. Mommy loves you. 288 00:10:53,652 --> 00:10:55,855 Your sister loves you. 289 00:10:55,855 --> 00:10:56,922 I love you. 290 00:10:56,922 --> 00:10:59,225 Everyone's praying for you. 291 00:10:59,225 --> 00:11:01,694 ♪ ♪ 292 00:11:01,694 --> 00:11:03,629 Now, you got this. 293 00:11:03,629 --> 00:11:06,732 ♪ ♪ 294 00:11:08,301 --> 00:11:10,704 - ♪ Sometimes ♪ 295 00:11:10,704 --> 00:11:13,306 ♪ I'm scared to move ♪ 296 00:11:13,306 --> 00:11:15,675 ♪ Don't want to ruin the moment ♪ 297 00:11:15,675 --> 00:11:18,278 - Thank you very much. 298 00:11:19,679 --> 00:11:20,714 How everybody been? 299 00:11:20,714 --> 00:11:22,482 - I mean, it comes and goes. 300 00:11:22,482 --> 00:11:23,483 - So what about you, Ma? 301 00:11:23,483 --> 00:11:24,451 How are you feeling? 302 00:11:24,451 --> 00:11:26,086 - All right. 303 00:11:26,086 --> 00:11:30,090 - I've never seen my mom this hurt. 304 00:11:30,090 --> 00:11:32,592 She lost something so dear. 305 00:11:32,592 --> 00:11:35,295 And she's hurt to her soul. 306 00:11:35,295 --> 00:11:38,031 We all just need time to process. 307 00:11:38,031 --> 00:11:42,969 - ♪ Life, oh, life, isn't it wonderful ♪ 308 00:11:42,969 --> 00:11:45,672 ♪ You and I ♪ 309 00:11:46,773 --> 00:11:48,842 - Hi. 310 00:11:48,842 --> 00:11:49,876 - Hey, what's going on? 311 00:11:49,876 --> 00:11:51,377 - We good. 312 00:11:51,377 --> 00:11:53,379 So what have you been doing to keep your mind busy? 313 00:11:53,379 --> 00:11:56,483 - Ooh, that's a very big question, 314 00:11:56,483 --> 00:11:58,985 because my mind is all over the place. 315 00:11:58,985 --> 00:12:01,788 In my mind, my son just died yesterday. 316 00:12:01,788 --> 00:12:03,323 - Yeah. 317 00:12:03,323 --> 00:12:06,126 - You know, every day, I have to remind myself 318 00:12:06,126 --> 00:12:07,594 that some time has went on, 319 00:12:07,594 --> 00:12:09,863 and I need to push forward. 320 00:12:09,863 --> 00:12:11,831 How about you? 321 00:12:11,831 --> 00:12:13,566 - I need to do something to get my spirits higher. 322 00:12:13,566 --> 00:12:15,235 Because if not, I don't know 323 00:12:15,235 --> 00:12:17,170 if we're gonna have no damn wedding. 324 00:12:17,170 --> 00:12:19,472 Bar and I got engaged three years ago. 325 00:12:19,472 --> 00:12:20,974 - Will you marry me? 326 00:12:20,974 --> 00:12:23,610 - While the cameras weren't around, 327 00:12:23,610 --> 00:12:25,278 Bar and I went and got married. 328 00:12:25,278 --> 00:12:26,613 It wasn't even a courthouse ceremony 329 00:12:26,613 --> 00:12:28,181 with COVID. 330 00:12:28,181 --> 00:12:32,485 How long would we potentially be waiting for a marriage? 331 00:12:32,485 --> 00:12:34,988 I have always wanted to have an actual wedding 332 00:12:34,988 --> 00:12:36,589 with friends and family. 333 00:12:36,589 --> 00:12:38,057 So why not have it now? 334 00:12:38,057 --> 00:12:39,526 - With all this going on, 335 00:12:39,526 --> 00:12:41,628 what are your plans with the wedding? 336 00:12:41,628 --> 00:12:42,829 - I want to go to Dallas. 337 00:12:42,829 --> 00:12:44,731 There's a designer out there, 338 00:12:44,731 --> 00:12:48,101 she custom makes very exquisite dresses. 339 00:12:48,101 --> 00:12:50,503 I want to go down there and see what she's got going on. 340 00:12:50,503 --> 00:12:51,671 They're fully customizable. 341 00:12:51,671 --> 00:12:53,206 I can take this piece from this dress, 342 00:12:53,206 --> 00:12:54,607 this piece from this dress. 343 00:12:54,607 --> 00:12:57,343 Yeah, so I'm gonna bring just my close friends. 344 00:12:57,343 --> 00:12:59,479 You already know these people. Nunii. 345 00:12:59,479 --> 00:13:00,613 - Yeah. 346 00:13:00,613 --> 00:13:02,415 - Christy, Sam. 347 00:13:02,415 --> 00:13:03,683 - Find something you like, and... 348 00:13:03,683 --> 00:13:04,818 - You know we will. 349 00:13:04,818 --> 00:13:06,019 - That's all that really matters. 350 00:13:06,019 --> 00:13:07,320 All right. Love you. - Love you. Bye. 351 00:13:07,320 --> 00:13:10,657 ♪ ♪ 352 00:13:10,657 --> 00:13:14,694 - ♪ Where dreams can come alive ♪ 353 00:13:14,694 --> 00:13:16,095 ♪ Dreams can come alive ♪ 354 00:13:16,095 --> 00:13:18,097 ♪ We can feel the air we breathe ♪ 355 00:13:18,097 --> 00:13:22,402 ♪ We're reaching for the light ♪ 356 00:13:22,402 --> 00:13:23,803 ♪ We can do it ♪ 357 00:13:23,803 --> 00:13:25,104 - It's been a couple weeks 358 00:13:25,104 --> 00:13:28,975 since Ryan and Bentley have hung out 359 00:13:28,975 --> 00:13:31,010 just the two of them and went to dinner. 360 00:13:31,010 --> 00:13:33,746 They haven't done anything together since then. 361 00:13:33,746 --> 00:13:36,683 So I'm just wanting to do like a check-in with Bentley, 362 00:13:36,683 --> 00:13:38,418 make sure he's doing okay. 363 00:13:38,418 --> 00:13:41,521 And I decided to reach out to Coach B 364 00:13:41,521 --> 00:13:43,890 and have a session with her. 365 00:13:43,890 --> 00:13:45,191 - How would you say the relationship 366 00:13:45,191 --> 00:13:47,260 with Ryan is coming along? 367 00:13:47,260 --> 00:13:50,363 - I feel like it's definitely changed in a good way. 368 00:13:50,363 --> 00:13:53,867 He just shows up more to, like, sports events and stuff. 369 00:13:53,867 --> 00:13:55,201 - Yeah. 370 00:13:55,201 --> 00:13:58,471 - Is there anything I could do different 371 00:13:58,471 --> 00:14:00,707 or better to, like, support this relationship? 372 00:14:00,707 --> 00:14:02,242 - No. - Okay. 373 00:14:02,242 --> 00:14:05,178 It's also been challenging for Taylor. 374 00:14:05,178 --> 00:14:08,448 - I just feel like I can put my energy 375 00:14:08,448 --> 00:14:13,853 towards teaching Bentley how to become a man 376 00:14:13,853 --> 00:14:15,688 that is nothing like Ryan. 377 00:14:15,688 --> 00:14:17,056 - Going through this 378 00:14:17,056 --> 00:14:19,959 and having to support Ryan and Bentley 379 00:14:19,959 --> 00:14:22,161 and then support Taylor, it's been tough. 380 00:14:22,161 --> 00:14:24,497 It's definitely a tricky situation. 381 00:14:24,497 --> 00:14:25,965 - What's up, guys? - Hey, Taylor. 382 00:14:25,965 --> 00:14:27,600 Can you hear us? - Hey, Maci. 383 00:14:27,600 --> 00:14:29,135 - Hey, Mace. - Hey! 384 00:14:29,135 --> 00:14:31,037 - Hey. - What's up? 385 00:14:31,037 --> 00:14:33,172 - We're doing good. - Just busy. 386 00:14:33,172 --> 00:14:35,074 Nova's in cheer, so we gotta start-- 387 00:14:35,074 --> 00:14:38,278 I'm starting to plan out travel for her competitions. 388 00:14:38,278 --> 00:14:41,748 And so I'm getting a little taste of your guys' life. 389 00:14:41,748 --> 00:14:42,782 - Kids, man. 390 00:14:42,782 --> 00:14:44,684 - Yeah, [bleep] kids. 391 00:14:44,684 --> 00:14:45,985 - Whose idea was this? 392 00:14:45,985 --> 00:14:46,953 - I don't know. 393 00:14:46,953 --> 00:14:47,987 - It was hers. 394 00:14:47,987 --> 00:14:49,022 It wasn't me. 395 00:14:49,022 --> 00:14:50,590 [laughter] 396 00:14:50,590 --> 00:14:54,060 - So has anything happened with Ryan? 397 00:14:54,060 --> 00:14:55,762 - I just texted him and sent him, like, 398 00:14:55,762 --> 00:14:57,196 all of Bentley's--like, 399 00:14:57,196 --> 00:14:59,899 his wrestling schedule for school. 400 00:14:59,899 --> 00:15:02,969 And I know that they have, like, 401 00:15:02,969 --> 00:15:04,637 texted a little bit more. 402 00:15:04,637 --> 00:15:09,242 But I do think that they could spend more time together. 403 00:15:09,242 --> 00:15:11,277 - How do you feel about it all though, Taylor? 404 00:15:11,277 --> 00:15:13,646 - Not very excited about it. 405 00:15:13,646 --> 00:15:15,281 If, you know, 406 00:15:15,281 --> 00:15:17,450 it's what Bentley wants, then I'll be supportive. 407 00:15:17,450 --> 00:15:19,552 But it's tough, 'cause like, since I've been in their life, 408 00:15:19,552 --> 00:15:21,287 it's a revolving door, you know what I mean? 409 00:15:21,287 --> 00:15:22,789 So like, it's gonna go good for a little bit, 410 00:15:22,789 --> 00:15:23,890 and then it's gonna go away. 411 00:15:23,890 --> 00:15:25,391 I can't convince myself 412 00:15:25,391 --> 00:15:26,859 that this is gonna be the time. 413 00:15:26,859 --> 00:15:28,728 Like, I'm being so pessimistic about the whole thing. 414 00:15:28,728 --> 00:15:30,396 And I'm like, is there something wrong with me? 415 00:15:30,396 --> 00:15:32,632 Like, do I just need to get over it? 416 00:15:32,632 --> 00:15:34,334 - No, no, I don't-- 417 00:15:34,334 --> 00:15:36,469 I don't think it's anything to get over either. 418 00:15:36,469 --> 00:15:38,204 'Cause honestly, Taylor, you're in a situation 419 00:15:38,204 --> 00:15:39,672 where it's like, he has another dad. 420 00:15:39,672 --> 00:15:41,207 So that's like-- 421 00:15:41,207 --> 00:15:42,675 - But you've been the dad. - Yeah, so it's like-- 422 00:15:42,675 --> 00:15:45,144 - So it's like, you are his dad, you know, like-- 423 00:15:45,144 --> 00:15:46,145 - It feels--yeah. 424 00:15:46,145 --> 00:15:47,947 That's tough. 425 00:15:47,947 --> 00:15:49,682 - It is tough, but... 426 00:15:49,682 --> 00:15:52,618 - All kids want to know their parents 427 00:15:52,618 --> 00:15:54,420 and have a relationship with their parents. 428 00:15:54,420 --> 00:15:57,523 So it's gotta be hard for him. 429 00:15:57,523 --> 00:15:59,892 - I know what it's like to have a dad that's [bleep], you know? 430 00:15:59,892 --> 00:16:03,162 Honestly, I didn't have half of the stuff that Bentley has. 431 00:16:03,162 --> 00:16:04,764 He's already ahead of the game. 432 00:16:04,764 --> 00:16:07,000 Because he knows that he has the security and safety 433 00:16:07,000 --> 00:16:07,433 Because he knows that he has the security and safety 434 00:16:07,433 --> 00:16:09,702 with you as a man, as a--as a father, 435 00:16:09,702 --> 00:16:11,304 as a real support pillar 436 00:16:11,304 --> 00:16:13,206 of his whole foundation, I feel like. 437 00:16:13,206 --> 00:16:14,474 I would take some pride in that, that you have that. 438 00:16:14,474 --> 00:16:15,541 - You're always gonna catch him. 439 00:16:15,541 --> 00:16:16,809 - Yeah. 440 00:16:16,809 --> 00:16:17,744 - You will always be there to catch him. 441 00:16:17,744 --> 00:16:18,945 - That's a good point. 442 00:16:18,945 --> 00:16:20,146 I didn't think of it from that side. 443 00:16:20,146 --> 00:16:21,280 - Literally, as he was just talking, 444 00:16:21,280 --> 00:16:23,383 I was like, man, that's what it is. 445 00:16:23,383 --> 00:16:24,884 - Yeah. - It's monumental. 446 00:16:24,884 --> 00:16:26,019 It's huge. 447 00:16:26,019 --> 00:16:27,286 I mean, it's gonna shape that boy 448 00:16:27,286 --> 00:16:29,188 into who he's gonna be as a man. 449 00:16:29,188 --> 00:16:30,623 And that's something that you can walk tall with 450 00:16:30,623 --> 00:16:32,091 one day when they get older. - Yeah. 451 00:16:32,091 --> 00:16:33,659 'Cause we all know it wasn't Ryan. 452 00:16:33,659 --> 00:16:34,727 - Yeah. Yeah. 453 00:16:34,727 --> 00:16:35,795 - I appreciate that. - Yeah. 454 00:16:35,795 --> 00:16:38,965 ♪ ♪ 455 00:16:42,318 --> 00:16:45,188 [upbeat music] 456 00:16:45,188 --> 00:16:52,362 ♪ ♪ 457 00:16:52,362 --> 00:16:53,696 - Mm-hmm. 458 00:16:53,696 --> 00:16:55,365 There's nothing wrong with tank tops, Nova. 459 00:16:55,365 --> 00:16:56,633 - Hey, will you talk to me about that, though? 460 00:16:56,633 --> 00:16:58,234 - Yeah. 461 00:16:58,234 --> 00:17:00,603 - I think you look great in a tank top. 462 00:17:00,603 --> 00:17:02,639 Do you think you look good in a tank top? 463 00:17:02,639 --> 00:17:04,107 Yeah. So wear it. 464 00:17:04,107 --> 00:17:06,476 - Yeah, 'cause guess what. 465 00:17:06,476 --> 00:17:08,745 You have the most prettiest body I've ever seen. 466 00:17:08,745 --> 00:17:11,314 Nova's reaction about wearing a tank top 467 00:17:11,314 --> 00:17:13,383 was definitely triggering for both of us, 468 00:17:13,383 --> 00:17:15,585 but I think even more so for Ty, 469 00:17:15,585 --> 00:17:19,322 because he was having things done to him 470 00:17:19,322 --> 00:17:21,691 in a sexual abuse way in second grade. 471 00:17:21,691 --> 00:17:23,393 And Nova's in second grade. 472 00:17:23,393 --> 00:17:25,228 It's just bringing up those-- 473 00:17:25,228 --> 00:17:28,865 the body responses of the abuse, really. 474 00:17:28,865 --> 00:17:31,467 ♪ ♪ 475 00:17:31,467 --> 00:17:33,036 - I mean, I think the best thing for us to do 476 00:17:33,036 --> 00:17:34,404 is just talk to somebody. 477 00:17:34,404 --> 00:17:36,206 Hey, listen, like, how do you talk to your kid? 478 00:17:36,206 --> 00:17:37,907 How do you establish this [bleep]? 479 00:17:37,907 --> 00:17:39,209 What's the best approach? - Right. 480 00:17:39,209 --> 00:17:40,577 It might even be stuff that we've already done. 481 00:17:40,577 --> 00:17:42,879 - I mean, I don't know what else to do. 482 00:17:42,879 --> 00:17:44,480 - Yeah, I think, like, talking to, 483 00:17:44,480 --> 00:17:47,417 you know, a therapist that maybe, like, deals with 484 00:17:47,417 --> 00:17:49,052 people who were sexually abused. 485 00:17:49,052 --> 00:17:50,920 Or you know, maybe she has advice 486 00:17:50,920 --> 00:17:54,891 about how you talk to kids and continuously talk to them. 487 00:17:54,891 --> 00:17:56,759 - Yeah. What are the steps when they get older? 488 00:17:56,759 --> 00:17:58,194 What do we do when they're nine and eight? 489 00:17:58,194 --> 00:18:00,430 You know, help me out. 490 00:18:00,430 --> 00:18:03,566 - ♪ Alone, alone, alone ♪ 491 00:18:03,566 --> 00:18:05,835 ♪ And then I feel so alone ♪ 492 00:18:05,835 --> 00:18:09,372 ♪ ♪ 493 00:18:09,372 --> 00:18:11,341 - I got the new shelf today in the mail. 494 00:18:11,341 --> 00:18:12,842 - Oh, cool. - It's downstairs. 495 00:18:12,842 --> 00:18:14,944 - We're supposed to put together a kitchen. 496 00:18:14,944 --> 00:18:16,179 [computer dinging] - Hi. 497 00:18:16,179 --> 00:18:17,413 - Hello. - Hello, Sandra. 498 00:18:17,413 --> 00:18:18,715 Let me get in the frame here. 499 00:18:18,715 --> 00:18:20,283 - Where do you guys want to start? 500 00:18:20,283 --> 00:18:21,751 Like, are you struggling 501 00:18:21,751 --> 00:18:24,220 with something in particular, or... 502 00:18:24,220 --> 00:18:26,656 - For both of us growing up, we have had 503 00:18:26,656 --> 00:18:31,160 sexual abuse things happen to us, 504 00:18:31,160 --> 00:18:32,962 both of us as kids. 505 00:18:32,962 --> 00:18:35,531 And now that we have three daughters, 506 00:18:35,531 --> 00:18:37,700 as they're going through different ages in life, 507 00:18:37,700 --> 00:18:41,070 things have been being brought up for us, ourselves, 508 00:18:41,070 --> 00:18:42,705 as they hit certain ages. - Sure. 509 00:18:42,705 --> 00:18:44,274 - I did notice our eight-year-old 510 00:18:44,274 --> 00:18:46,276 recently is very-- 511 00:18:46,276 --> 00:18:47,911 she's starting to say stuff about, like, 512 00:18:47,911 --> 00:18:49,078 not wanting to wear tank tops 513 00:18:49,078 --> 00:18:50,446 and people are gonna think stuff. 514 00:18:50,446 --> 00:18:52,982 And I kept asking, like, where is this coming from? 515 00:18:52,982 --> 00:18:54,817 - How do you help them feel comfortable enough 516 00:18:54,817 --> 00:18:59,088 to actually speak up on if something has happened? 517 00:18:59,088 --> 00:19:00,390 - And that's the thing, 518 00:19:00,390 --> 00:19:02,325 because I'm sure, as you know, you know, 519 00:19:02,325 --> 00:19:03,893 a lot of kids don't come forward-- 520 00:19:03,893 --> 00:19:08,231 some never--because it's such an uncomfortable 521 00:19:08,231 --> 00:19:09,532 thing to talk about. 522 00:19:09,532 --> 00:19:10,867 And sometimes, you know, if parents-- 523 00:19:10,867 --> 00:19:12,302 and I think that's why it's important that 524 00:19:12,302 --> 00:19:13,703 you're having talks with them. 525 00:19:13,703 --> 00:19:16,339 I mean, I like to see these kind of talks, 526 00:19:16,339 --> 00:19:18,207 to be honest, like, preschool. 527 00:19:18,207 --> 00:19:21,044 Do you talk to them about body autonomy? 528 00:19:21,044 --> 00:19:22,578 Like, my body is mine. 529 00:19:22,578 --> 00:19:24,480 It belongs to me. 530 00:19:24,480 --> 00:19:26,482 I don't have to sit on Grandpa's lap. 531 00:19:26,482 --> 00:19:28,618 I don't have to kiss Aunt Sally. 532 00:19:28,618 --> 00:19:30,219 - I think the first time we talked to her-- 533 00:19:30,219 --> 00:19:31,654 - She was, like, six. 534 00:19:31,654 --> 00:19:33,656 Did some boys say they wanted to marry you today? 535 00:19:33,656 --> 00:19:34,724 - Yes. 536 00:19:34,724 --> 00:19:36,059 - He said he wanted to kiss you. 537 00:19:36,059 --> 00:19:37,360 - He said he wanted to kiss you? 538 00:19:37,360 --> 00:19:38,461 Do you think he kind of invaded, 539 00:19:38,461 --> 00:19:39,862 came in your bubble, 540 00:19:39,862 --> 00:19:41,230 and you didn't want him to be in your bubble? 541 00:19:41,230 --> 00:19:42,532 - Yeah. 542 00:19:42,532 --> 00:19:43,833 - So maybe next time, you can say, 543 00:19:43,833 --> 00:19:45,134 "Hey, get out of my bubble." 544 00:19:45,134 --> 00:19:46,369 So now she's eight. 545 00:19:46,369 --> 00:19:47,637 And so I feel like-- 546 00:19:47,637 --> 00:19:49,138 - Do we just continue explaining it 547 00:19:49,138 --> 00:19:51,074 the same way, or... 548 00:19:51,074 --> 00:19:52,141 - But add a little more detail? 549 00:19:52,141 --> 00:19:53,609 Because she's eight. 550 00:19:53,609 --> 00:19:56,079 I want to give her age-appropriate kind of stuff 551 00:19:56,079 --> 00:19:57,547 and a way to do it. 552 00:19:57,547 --> 00:19:59,716 - Do you talk to them about the difference 553 00:19:59,716 --> 00:20:01,584 between a good secret and a bad secret? 554 00:20:01,584 --> 00:20:02,952 - No. 555 00:20:02,952 --> 00:20:04,754 - Safe secret is, "You're throwing a party 556 00:20:04,754 --> 00:20:07,056 for mom, don't tell," or you know, 557 00:20:07,056 --> 00:20:08,257 "You're throwing a party for Grandma. 558 00:20:08,257 --> 00:20:09,459 Don't tell Grandma," but you know, 559 00:20:09,459 --> 00:20:11,027 any time someone asks you to keep a secret 560 00:20:11,027 --> 00:20:13,696 that has anything to do with any of your body parts, 561 00:20:13,696 --> 00:20:15,631 it's--you know, absolutely not. 562 00:20:15,631 --> 00:20:18,501 Also, make sure you have these conversations 563 00:20:18,501 --> 00:20:20,236 continuously, right? both: Yeah. 564 00:20:20,236 --> 00:20:22,672 - So once a month, like, "Hey, anything happen at sch-- 565 00:20:22,672 --> 00:20:24,207 "anything you want to talk about? 566 00:20:24,207 --> 00:20:26,075 Anything making you feel uncomfortable?" 567 00:20:26,075 --> 00:20:27,377 both: Yeah. 568 00:20:27,377 --> 00:20:29,412 - Like, thank you for sharing that 569 00:20:29,412 --> 00:20:31,614 you both have your own trauma. - Mm-hmm. 570 00:20:31,614 --> 00:20:33,282 - I think that's important. - Yeah. 571 00:20:33,282 --> 00:20:34,650 - Thank you so much. 572 00:20:34,650 --> 00:20:35,785 - Well, it was nice to meet you guys. 573 00:20:35,785 --> 00:20:36,753 - You too. - Thank you, you too. 574 00:20:36,753 --> 00:20:37,787 - I hope you have a great day. 575 00:20:37,787 --> 00:20:39,589 ♪ ♪ 576 00:20:39,589 --> 00:20:41,357 - Raising kids is so hard. 577 00:20:41,357 --> 00:20:42,759 - It is. - Because you just don't know 578 00:20:42,759 --> 00:20:44,427 if you [bleep] up until it's too late. 579 00:20:44,427 --> 00:20:51,567 ♪ ♪ 580 00:20:58,841 --> 00:21:01,244 You ready, mama? 581 00:21:02,211 --> 00:21:05,214 [machines beeping] 582 00:21:05,214 --> 00:21:11,254 ♪ ♪ 583 00:21:12,588 --> 00:21:14,524 Here, you guys can see. 584 00:21:14,524 --> 00:21:19,128 She's hooked up to a lot, to say the least. 585 00:21:19,128 --> 00:21:21,964 The ventilator's over there. 586 00:21:21,964 --> 00:21:23,966 My little princess. 587 00:21:23,966 --> 00:21:28,938 ♪ ♪ 588 00:21:28,938 --> 00:21:30,907 [phone ringing] 589 00:21:30,907 --> 00:21:31,941 - Oh, here. 590 00:21:31,941 --> 00:21:33,810 Cory's calling. 591 00:21:35,144 --> 00:21:36,646 Hey. 592 00:21:36,646 --> 00:21:39,482 - So the surgery went well. 593 00:21:39,482 --> 00:21:41,000 She's taking a little longer to wake up. 594 00:21:41,000 --> 00:21:41,484 She's taking a little longer to wake up. 595 00:21:41,484 --> 00:21:42,952 They still have her on a ventilator. 596 00:21:42,952 --> 00:21:44,220 It's hard. 597 00:21:44,220 --> 00:21:45,455 You know, she's got tubes going 598 00:21:45,455 --> 00:21:47,090 in and out of her belly button. 599 00:21:47,090 --> 00:21:48,491 Blood's going through her. 600 00:21:48,491 --> 00:21:49,792 It just all this stuff. 601 00:21:49,792 --> 00:21:51,727 - Yeah. It's just a lot of stuff. 602 00:21:51,727 --> 00:21:52,995 - Most importantly, she got through 603 00:21:52,995 --> 00:21:55,098 the surgery successful, so that's good. 604 00:21:55,098 --> 00:21:56,666 Now we just gotta recover. 605 00:21:56,666 --> 00:21:58,668 And, yeah. - Okay. 606 00:21:58,668 --> 00:22:00,870 - Hopefully she can get off that ventilator tomorrow. 607 00:22:00,870 --> 00:22:02,205 - Ryder's right here, by the way. 608 00:22:02,205 --> 00:22:03,239 I don't know-- 609 00:22:03,239 --> 00:22:04,273 - Let me see Ryder. 610 00:22:04,273 --> 00:22:06,309 - Ryder, say hi to Daddy. 611 00:22:06,309 --> 00:22:07,477 - Daddy! 612 00:22:07,477 --> 00:22:08,644 Where are you? 613 00:22:08,644 --> 00:22:09,712 - He's at the hospital. 614 00:22:09,712 --> 00:22:11,180 - I'm at the hospital, love. 615 00:22:11,180 --> 00:22:12,348 - Why? 616 00:22:12,348 --> 00:22:14,550 - Maya had her surgery today. 617 00:22:14,550 --> 00:22:17,186 - I need to tell my teacher. 618 00:22:17,186 --> 00:22:18,855 - You need to tell your teacher? 619 00:22:18,855 --> 00:22:21,491 - I'm gonna tell my teacher tomorrow. 620 00:22:21,491 --> 00:22:23,759 - Let me know if you guys need anything, 621 00:22:23,759 --> 00:22:25,595 or if you need us to bring anything 622 00:22:25,595 --> 00:22:28,297 or send anything to the hospital, 623 00:22:28,297 --> 00:22:30,366 or if Mila needs anything. 624 00:22:30,366 --> 00:22:31,400 Oh, my God. 625 00:22:31,400 --> 00:22:33,402 You guys are so strong. 626 00:22:33,402 --> 00:22:36,139 [dramatic music] 627 00:22:36,139 --> 00:22:38,474 ♪ ♪ 628 00:22:40,143 --> 00:22:41,311 - ♪ You got it here today ♪ 629 00:22:41,311 --> 00:22:43,480 ♪ So what you gonna do ♪ 630 00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:46,649 ♪ Now what you gonna do with it ♪ 631 00:22:46,649 --> 00:22:48,785 - Hey! 632 00:22:48,785 --> 00:22:50,353 It's my toy! 633 00:22:50,353 --> 00:22:51,988 - It's a body. 634 00:22:51,988 --> 00:22:53,423 - Toy! 635 00:22:53,423 --> 00:22:54,791 - Which is it, a boy or a girl? 636 00:22:54,791 --> 00:22:55,959 Do you know? 637 00:22:57,494 --> 00:22:58,895 - Boy. - Okay. 638 00:22:58,895 --> 00:23:00,864 - No! - I can tell because of the... 639 00:23:00,864 --> 00:23:02,432 - No! - Penis? 640 00:23:02,432 --> 00:23:04,934 - [laughs] The body parts. 641 00:23:04,934 --> 00:23:07,070 Ah! - [laughing] 642 00:23:07,070 --> 00:23:08,471 Ah! 643 00:23:08,471 --> 00:23:10,273 She's like--I know. I get it. 644 00:23:10,273 --> 00:23:11,307 - What's wrong with the body part? 645 00:23:11,307 --> 00:23:12,308 - I think the body is cool, 646 00:23:12,308 --> 00:23:14,677 like, all the veins and stuff. 647 00:23:14,677 --> 00:23:19,449 - So what do you know about your body and other people, 648 00:23:19,449 --> 00:23:21,651 like, touching your body? 649 00:23:21,651 --> 00:23:23,253 Like, what do you know about that kind of stuff? 650 00:23:23,253 --> 00:23:25,788 - If someone's touching you and if you don't like it, 651 00:23:25,788 --> 00:23:28,024 that means that they're actually 652 00:23:28,024 --> 00:23:29,759 irritating your bubble. 653 00:23:29,759 --> 00:23:31,861 If they pop it, you will feel, like, 654 00:23:31,861 --> 00:23:34,097 irritated or, like, stressed out. 655 00:23:34,097 --> 00:23:36,900 - Scared or a gut feeling, anxiety a little bit, 656 00:23:36,900 --> 00:23:38,268 like, ugh, yeah. 657 00:23:38,268 --> 00:23:41,271 Say if somebody told you, like, an unsafe secret. 658 00:23:41,271 --> 00:23:43,373 Like, a safe secret would be, like, me and Mom-- 659 00:23:43,373 --> 00:23:45,542 like, I was throwing a surprise birthday party for Mom, 660 00:23:45,542 --> 00:23:46,576 and I didn't want her to know. 661 00:23:46,576 --> 00:23:47,710 That's a safe secret. 662 00:23:47,710 --> 00:23:48,945 - Or like, Jeremiah-- 663 00:23:48,945 --> 00:23:50,914 Jeremiah loves Brooklyn. 664 00:23:50,914 --> 00:23:52,515 Don't tell. - That's a safe secret. 665 00:23:52,515 --> 00:23:54,017 Do you know what a unsafe secret is? 666 00:23:54,017 --> 00:23:57,320 - No. - An unsafe secret is like, 667 00:23:57,320 --> 00:23:59,556 "Don't tell Mom and Dad." 668 00:23:59,556 --> 00:24:01,257 - Do you think that if-- say, if anything-- 669 00:24:01,257 --> 00:24:08,298 if anyone were to touch you in an inappropriate way, 670 00:24:08,298 --> 00:24:10,567 or touch any of your private parts, 671 00:24:10,567 --> 00:24:11,968 or make you feel uncomfortable, 672 00:24:11,968 --> 00:24:15,271 do you feel like you would feel safe enough 673 00:24:15,271 --> 00:24:16,940 to come and tell me or Dad? 674 00:24:16,940 --> 00:24:18,308 - Yes. 675 00:24:18,308 --> 00:24:21,277 I'll definitely feel safe, because I can trust you. 676 00:24:21,277 --> 00:24:23,613 - I think the conversation that we had with Nova 677 00:24:23,613 --> 00:24:25,081 went really well. 678 00:24:25,081 --> 00:24:27,016 You can tell that, through the years, 679 00:24:27,016 --> 00:24:28,751 things that we've been telling her and stuff 680 00:24:28,751 --> 00:24:30,386 have really stuck in her brain. 681 00:24:30,386 --> 00:24:33,690 It was actually really rewarding to find out 682 00:24:33,690 --> 00:24:35,158 that Ty and I actually have been doing 683 00:24:35,158 --> 00:24:36,392 all of the right things 684 00:24:36,392 --> 00:24:37,961 and saying all the right things 685 00:24:37,961 --> 00:24:40,630 as far as educating them about their bodies 686 00:24:40,630 --> 00:24:42,465 and how to protect themselves, which that was cool. 687 00:24:42,465 --> 00:24:45,034 It made us feel really, really great that we've already 688 00:24:45,034 --> 00:24:47,470 set up the foundation for that. 689 00:24:47,470 --> 00:24:50,240 So that felt good. 690 00:24:50,240 --> 00:24:52,475 [upbeat music] 691 00:24:52,475 --> 00:24:55,812 - ♪ I lost my mind today ♪ 692 00:24:55,812 --> 00:25:00,083 ♪ Staring into the white of the page ♪ 693 00:25:00,083 --> 00:25:04,320 ♪ What set my current mood ♪ [video call ringing] 694 00:25:04,320 --> 00:25:05,688 ♪ I tear it out of the way ♪ 695 00:25:05,688 --> 00:25:06,756 - Hi, Leah. - Hi. 696 00:25:06,756 --> 00:25:08,324 How are you? - I'm good. 697 00:25:08,324 --> 00:25:09,292 How are you doing? 698 00:25:09,292 --> 00:25:10,760 - I'm doing great. 699 00:25:10,760 --> 00:25:13,329 - So I would love to hear your ideas. 700 00:25:13,329 --> 00:25:14,330 What do you have in mind? 701 00:25:14,330 --> 00:25:16,399 - Honestly, a couple of days 702 00:25:16,399 --> 00:25:18,901 before I started this call, 703 00:25:18,901 --> 00:25:20,637 Ali reached out to me, and she was like, 704 00:25:20,637 --> 00:25:21,804 "Mommy, I'm ready to write my book." 705 00:25:21,804 --> 00:25:24,073 And I was like, "What?" 706 00:25:24,073 --> 00:25:25,975 It was, like, the perfect timing. 707 00:25:25,975 --> 00:25:28,645 Because I had already set up this call with you. 708 00:25:28,645 --> 00:25:29,779 - That is so amazing that 709 00:25:29,779 --> 00:25:30,980 she wants to write her own book. 710 00:25:30,980 --> 00:25:32,181 - I know. 711 00:25:32,181 --> 00:25:33,916 As far as my second book, I was thinking 712 00:25:33,916 --> 00:25:37,587 relationships, the healing journey afterwards. 713 00:25:37,587 --> 00:25:39,722 Something like that is what I was thinking. 714 00:25:39,722 --> 00:25:41,457 But I wanted to get your thoughts. 715 00:25:41,457 --> 00:25:43,226 And also, Ali's book-- 716 00:25:43,226 --> 00:25:45,361 I think I want to start that off first. 717 00:25:45,361 --> 00:25:51,200 Because it was so inspiring, what she said, that I was like, 718 00:25:51,200 --> 00:25:53,202 you want to write about muscular dystrophy and 719 00:25:53,202 --> 00:25:54,937 the challenges that you've had. - No. 720 00:25:54,937 --> 00:25:56,172 I think that's really inspiring. 721 00:25:56,172 --> 00:25:58,007 And I feel like that's a great way 722 00:25:58,007 --> 00:25:59,976 to connect with other kids who might be going 723 00:25:59,976 --> 00:26:03,413 through the same exact thing and also for parents 724 00:26:03,413 --> 00:26:05,748 who are trying to figure out how to help their kids 725 00:26:05,748 --> 00:26:07,283 who are living with muscular dystrophy. 726 00:26:07,283 --> 00:26:09,452 I think that'll be absolutely beautiful. 727 00:26:09,452 --> 00:26:10,953 And there's a lot of potential there. 728 00:26:10,953 --> 00:26:14,791 So what I would recommend is have you write up 729 00:26:14,791 --> 00:26:18,227 just a quick, like, little blurb about your project 730 00:26:18,227 --> 00:26:20,830 that you want to pursue next and then also Ali's project. 731 00:26:20,830 --> 00:26:22,465 We'll just iron out the fine details, 732 00:26:22,465 --> 00:26:23,499 and we can go from there. 733 00:26:23,499 --> 00:26:24,801 - Okay. I love it. 734 00:26:24,801 --> 00:26:25,802 I think that sounds great. 735 00:26:25,802 --> 00:26:27,870 - It is fantastic. 736 00:26:27,870 --> 00:26:30,373 - Well, thank you so much, Ashlyn, for talking with me. 737 00:26:30,373 --> 00:26:31,708 - Oh, my gosh, of course. 738 00:26:31,708 --> 00:26:33,710 Okay. - Okay. Bye. 739 00:26:33,710 --> 00:26:35,878 ♪ ♪ 740 00:26:35,878 --> 00:26:37,580 Oh, man. 741 00:26:37,580 --> 00:26:43,486 ♪ ♪ 742 00:26:43,486 --> 00:26:45,588 This is us going through baskets 743 00:26:45,588 --> 00:26:50,426 and not putting our clothes away. 744 00:26:50,426 --> 00:26:52,128 So guess what. - Hmm? 745 00:26:52,128 --> 00:26:55,098 - I had a talk with the publisher. 746 00:26:55,098 --> 00:26:56,833 - What did they say? 747 00:26:56,833 --> 00:27:00,703 - Well, they were excited about it. 748 00:27:00,703 --> 00:27:03,072 They thought it was a brilliant idea. 749 00:27:03,072 --> 00:27:08,377 I told them that, your book, I wanted to focus on first. 750 00:27:08,377 --> 00:27:09,579 Your story is so inspiring. 751 00:27:09,579 --> 00:27:13,015 But as your mom, I want you to tell me 752 00:27:13,015 --> 00:27:15,752 how I can help you share your story. 753 00:27:15,752 --> 00:27:18,654 They suggested talk about equine therapy 754 00:27:18,654 --> 00:27:21,190 and how it's improved your muscle strength. 755 00:27:21,190 --> 00:27:23,459 Also talking about having muscular dystrophy 756 00:27:23,459 --> 00:27:24,927 before horseback riding. 757 00:27:24,927 --> 00:27:26,696 Because you're gonna have-- you're gonna want 758 00:27:26,696 --> 00:27:28,998 at least 30,000 to 40,000 words within your book. 759 00:27:28,998 --> 00:27:30,800 - That's a lot of words. - It's a lot. 760 00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:32,235 Have you thought about that? - No. 761 00:27:32,235 --> 00:27:34,103 - No? - I haven't thought of it. 762 00:27:34,103 --> 00:27:37,974 - Do you realize that you inspire a lot of other kids? 763 00:27:37,974 --> 00:27:39,000 - Mm-mm. 764 00:27:39,000 --> 00:27:40,143 - Mm-mm. 765 00:27:40,143 --> 00:27:41,144 - You do. 766 00:27:41,144 --> 00:27:42,378 - Cool. 767 00:27:42,378 --> 00:27:43,446 - And I think, with writing this book, 768 00:27:43,446 --> 00:27:46,415 you're really gonna see. 769 00:27:46,415 --> 00:27:48,351 This is your masterpiece. 770 00:27:48,351 --> 00:27:52,655 So create it however you want to create it. 771 00:27:52,655 --> 00:27:54,490 I'm proud of you for using your voice. 772 00:27:54,490 --> 00:27:58,761 I'm proud of you for never giving up, never losing hope. 773 00:27:58,761 --> 00:28:02,331 And I'm excited for what your future has in store. 774 00:28:02,331 --> 00:28:05,434 Ali having a rare form of muscular dystrophy, 775 00:28:05,434 --> 00:28:09,038 it's something that we just take as it comes. 776 00:28:09,038 --> 00:28:11,207 We don't know what to expect 777 00:28:11,207 --> 00:28:12,909 as far as her muscle strength over time 778 00:28:12,909 --> 00:28:16,979 and how it will or could impact her. 779 00:28:16,979 --> 00:28:20,516 Things might be harder if she can't get up certain hills 780 00:28:20,516 --> 00:28:21,684 like the other kids. 781 00:28:21,684 --> 00:28:23,853 Strength is more than a muscle. 782 00:28:23,853 --> 00:28:27,123 It's also a mentality. 783 00:28:27,123 --> 00:28:31,861 And she is probably one of the strongest people I know. 784 00:28:31,861 --> 00:28:33,496 [soft music] 785 00:28:33,496 --> 00:28:35,565 - ♪ Just carry on ♪ 786 00:28:35,565 --> 00:28:37,867 ♪ ♪ 787 00:28:39,577 --> 00:28:42,113 - ♪ Come in a closed street ♪ 788 00:28:42,113 --> 00:28:48,953 ♪ ♪ 789 00:28:48,953 --> 00:28:50,655 - Don't you think you should eat something? 790 00:28:50,655 --> 00:28:52,457 Are you warm? 791 00:28:52,457 --> 00:28:54,993 - My feet are cold. 792 00:28:54,993 --> 00:28:58,029 - So when it rains, it pours. 793 00:28:58,029 --> 00:29:00,698 Cory is still in the hospital with Maya 794 00:29:00,698 --> 00:29:03,735 because she's having some complications. 795 00:29:03,735 --> 00:29:05,637 I was up all night with Ryder. 796 00:29:05,637 --> 00:29:07,972 She spiked a super high fever. 797 00:29:07,972 --> 00:29:10,975 So I've been communicating with her doctors 798 00:29:10,975 --> 00:29:12,477 and her genetic doctor. 799 00:29:12,477 --> 00:29:15,079 And I'm just so nervous because we might have to 800 00:29:15,079 --> 00:29:17,181 take her into the hospital. 801 00:29:17,181 --> 00:29:21,519 ♪ ♪ 802 00:29:21,519 --> 00:29:25,690 - ♪ Catch you now ♪ 803 00:29:25,690 --> 00:29:27,525 - Hello? 804 00:29:27,525 --> 00:29:28,593 Hi. 805 00:29:28,593 --> 00:29:29,861 - Hey, kid. - Uh-oh. 806 00:29:29,861 --> 00:29:30,929 What you got? 807 00:29:30,929 --> 00:29:32,864 - Oh, just some stuff for Cory. 808 00:29:32,864 --> 00:29:34,198 - Maya had the surgery? 809 00:29:34,198 --> 00:29:37,335 - I know she had her open heart surgery. 810 00:29:37,335 --> 00:29:38,770 They're still there. 811 00:29:38,770 --> 00:29:42,273 Every time I talk to him, he just sounds defeated. 812 00:29:42,273 --> 00:29:44,943 I try not to ask a million questions on the phone. 813 00:29:44,943 --> 00:29:47,312 It's just more so of, like, how are you? 814 00:29:47,312 --> 00:29:48,346 How's Taylor? 815 00:29:48,346 --> 00:29:49,514 How's Maya? 816 00:29:49,514 --> 00:29:50,748 How's your mental space? 817 00:29:50,748 --> 00:29:52,216 And what do you guys need? 818 00:29:52,216 --> 00:29:54,118 So one thing that he did say on the phone 819 00:29:54,118 --> 00:29:56,654 is that they've been eating in the hospital cafeteria, 820 00:29:56,654 --> 00:29:58,690 so they feel like they've been eating a lot of grease. 821 00:29:58,690 --> 00:29:59,991 - Oh, so we're gonna-- 822 00:29:59,991 --> 00:30:02,060 - So we're gonna cook them some real food. 823 00:30:02,060 --> 00:30:04,495 - Oh, no, I think that's a great idea to cook for them. 824 00:30:04,495 --> 00:30:06,030 That's nice. 825 00:30:06,030 --> 00:30:07,265 What they're going through is rough. 826 00:30:07,265 --> 00:30:10,501 - He's been calling, checking on Ryder. 827 00:30:10,501 --> 00:30:12,503 Ryder hasn't been feeling good. 828 00:30:12,503 --> 00:30:13,738 She's had a fever. 829 00:30:13,738 --> 00:30:16,107 And then she started vomiting. 830 00:30:16,107 --> 00:30:18,176 That was a little annoying 831 00:30:18,176 --> 00:30:20,445 to have to tell Cory about that. 832 00:30:20,445 --> 00:30:21,713 And I tried to leave it alone. 833 00:30:21,713 --> 00:30:23,815 But then he could hear it in Ryder's voice 834 00:30:23,815 --> 00:30:25,350 and see it on her face. 835 00:30:25,350 --> 00:30:27,585 And then when we were going back and forth 836 00:30:27,585 --> 00:30:29,787 with her doctors trying to figure out if she needed 837 00:30:29,787 --> 00:30:31,856 to go to the hospital, he was just like, 838 00:30:31,856 --> 00:30:33,992 I don't think you understand what it would do, 839 00:30:33,992 --> 00:30:35,793 like, to my mental-- - If she went in too. 840 00:30:35,793 --> 00:30:37,695 - If she went in too. 841 00:30:37,695 --> 00:30:39,330 - How has she been doing with all that? 842 00:30:39,330 --> 00:30:43,434 - It's kind of, like, reduced down now to, like, a cough. 843 00:30:43,434 --> 00:30:45,603 - All right. 844 00:30:45,603 --> 00:30:47,839 - That looks really good. 845 00:30:47,839 --> 00:30:50,908 - I think they're gonna appreciate this, guys. 846 00:30:50,908 --> 00:30:52,510 On my way, I could drop it-- I mean, if-- 847 00:30:52,510 --> 00:30:53,544 - Okay. 848 00:30:53,544 --> 00:30:54,545 - You kind of go fast. 849 00:30:54,545 --> 00:30:56,614 - Yeah, I do. 850 00:30:56,614 --> 00:30:58,416 Bingo. 851 00:30:58,416 --> 00:30:59,384 Good--good job. 852 00:30:59,384 --> 00:31:00,685 - Love you. 853 00:31:00,685 --> 00:31:01,686 - All right. [speaking indistinctly] 854 00:31:01,686 --> 00:31:02,687 - All right, you too. 855 00:31:02,687 --> 00:31:03,721 - Okay. 856 00:31:03,721 --> 00:31:04,922 - All right, come on, dog. 857 00:31:04,922 --> 00:31:05,790 - I'll see you guys a little later. 858 00:31:05,790 --> 00:31:07,325 - All right. 859 00:31:07,325 --> 00:31:13,998 ♪ ♪ 860 00:31:15,933 --> 00:31:19,337 - All right. 861 00:31:19,337 --> 00:31:20,271 What letter is this? 862 00:31:20,271 --> 00:31:21,873 - S. 863 00:31:21,873 --> 00:31:23,574 - And what animal is that? 864 00:31:23,574 --> 00:31:24,776 - S... - Come on. 865 00:31:24,776 --> 00:31:26,044 You got it. 866 00:31:26,044 --> 00:31:28,813 It starts with an S and ends with a L. 867 00:31:28,813 --> 00:31:29,881 - Sea turtle? 868 00:31:29,881 --> 00:31:31,482 - No. [laughs] 869 00:31:31,482 --> 00:31:33,017 [upbeat music] 870 00:31:33,017 --> 00:31:34,652 - ♪ Can you keep up with the energy ♪ 871 00:31:34,652 --> 00:31:36,454 ♪ Oh, what I'm feeling, what a sight to see ♪ 872 00:31:36,454 --> 00:31:39,590 ♪ Nobody else can do it like me ♪ 873 00:31:39,590 --> 00:31:42,260 - I want to say thank you guys 874 00:31:42,260 --> 00:31:44,228 for trekking all the way over here. 875 00:31:44,228 --> 00:31:46,864 Excuse me. [clearing throat] - Oh, [bleep]. 876 00:31:46,864 --> 00:31:49,534 Okay, bridezilla. - Yeah. Thank you. 877 00:31:49,534 --> 00:31:50,668 [laughter] 878 00:31:50,668 --> 00:31:52,103 - And it's begun. - No. 879 00:31:52,103 --> 00:31:53,538 I want to say thank you guys for traveling. 880 00:31:53,538 --> 00:31:56,140 And this is the first wedding trip of many. 881 00:31:56,140 --> 00:31:58,176 Because you know your bitch is extra. 882 00:31:58,176 --> 00:31:59,744 - [bleep]. - So save your money. 883 00:31:59,744 --> 00:32:01,479 And cheers. 884 00:32:01,479 --> 00:32:03,714 all: Cheers! 885 00:32:03,714 --> 00:32:05,516 - Cheers. 886 00:32:05,516 --> 00:32:07,985 - ♪ No wait till it's all over, girl ♪ 887 00:32:07,985 --> 00:32:10,421 ♪ Come over, yeah ♪ 888 00:32:10,421 --> 00:32:11,389 ♪ Come over ♪ 889 00:32:11,389 --> 00:32:14,158 ♪ You wanna come over ♪ 890 00:32:14,158 --> 00:32:15,893 - We gotta head out of here at, like, 4:00... 891 00:32:15,893 --> 00:32:17,228 - Okay. 892 00:32:17,228 --> 00:32:19,397 - To be to the bridal studio by 5:00. 893 00:32:19,397 --> 00:32:23,067 I have a few selections that I really like. 894 00:32:23,067 --> 00:32:24,302 - You're, like, finalizing. 895 00:32:24,302 --> 00:32:25,703 - But I have to come here to do, like, 896 00:32:25,703 --> 00:32:27,271 the customization just about 897 00:32:27,271 --> 00:32:29,273 getting the dresses on, finding out what we like 898 00:32:29,273 --> 00:32:30,975 from each dress, and then having them 899 00:32:30,975 --> 00:32:33,644 put it into one dress. 900 00:32:33,644 --> 00:32:35,279 - ♪ Feeling good all year, got your ducks in a row ♪ 901 00:32:35,279 --> 00:32:36,347 ♪ Working on your fitness ♪ 902 00:32:36,347 --> 00:32:37,582 ♪ Time to put on a show ♪ 903 00:32:37,582 --> 00:32:39,517 ♪ High heels on, doing nothing ♪ 904 00:32:39,517 --> 00:32:41,452 ♪ Get in the car, we're going shopping ♪ 905 00:32:41,452 --> 00:32:42,920 ♪ Get the shine on your nails ♪ 906 00:32:42,920 --> 00:32:43,754 ♪ Get the bounce in your hair ♪ 907 00:32:43,754 --> 00:32:44,989 - Ooh! 908 00:32:44,989 --> 00:32:46,023 - ♪ Today's all about me ♪ 909 00:32:46,023 --> 00:32:47,625 - Them pearls is... 910 00:32:47,625 --> 00:32:49,026 [indistinct chatter] 911 00:32:49,026 --> 00:32:50,261 - And that's so sparkly. 912 00:32:50,261 --> 00:32:51,662 - Right. 913 00:32:51,662 --> 00:32:52,663 - Ooh! 914 00:32:52,663 --> 00:32:54,632 - Wow. 915 00:32:54,632 --> 00:32:55,600 - Oh, my God. 916 00:32:55,600 --> 00:32:56,968 - That's pretty. 917 00:32:56,968 --> 00:32:58,669 - That top piece is killing it. 918 00:32:58,669 --> 00:32:59,937 - ♪ No one's gonna do it for you ♪ 919 00:32:59,937 --> 00:33:01,939 ♪ Do it yourself ♪ 920 00:33:01,939 --> 00:33:03,741 - Oh! 921 00:33:03,741 --> 00:33:05,109 - Oh, my. 922 00:33:05,109 --> 00:33:06,544 - It looks like royalty, for sure, 923 00:33:06,544 --> 00:33:09,380 like a real royalty dress. 924 00:33:09,380 --> 00:33:10,548 - Ooh! 925 00:33:10,548 --> 00:33:11,916 - I like. 926 00:33:11,916 --> 00:33:14,152 - Like a little Barbie doll in a box. 927 00:33:14,152 --> 00:33:15,887 - Yeah, that is hella nice. 928 00:33:15,887 --> 00:33:16,921 Who turned the lights off? 929 00:33:16,921 --> 00:33:18,122 That was a good idea. 930 00:33:18,122 --> 00:33:19,390 - ♪ Going on ♪ 931 00:33:19,390 --> 00:33:20,458 - [gasping] 932 00:33:20,458 --> 00:33:22,894 - Oh, my God. 933 00:33:22,894 --> 00:33:23,995 Round of applause for that. 934 00:33:23,995 --> 00:33:25,096 - That is nice! - Yes! 935 00:33:25,096 --> 00:33:26,130 - That is cute. 936 00:33:26,130 --> 00:33:28,299 - Let me speak to Ashley. 937 00:33:28,299 --> 00:33:29,834 - Here, Mom wants to talk to you. 938 00:33:29,834 --> 00:33:31,068 - Hi. - Hey. 939 00:33:31,068 --> 00:33:32,603 Which one you like the best? 940 00:33:32,603 --> 00:33:34,805 - We definitely found some gems here. 941 00:33:34,805 --> 00:33:36,941 - Did you have somebody take some pictures? 942 00:33:36,941 --> 00:33:37,975 - Yeah, we got some pictures. 943 00:33:37,975 --> 00:33:38,000 - And videos. 944 00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:39,010 - And videos. 945 00:33:39,010 --> 00:33:40,444 - I'll send you some. 946 00:33:40,444 --> 00:33:41,445 - Okay. 947 00:33:41,445 --> 00:33:42,847 - Okay. 948 00:33:42,847 --> 00:33:44,882 Definitely therapeutic for me to go away 949 00:33:44,882 --> 00:33:46,350 with my friends and family. 950 00:33:46,350 --> 00:33:50,154 One of the hardest things about planning a wedding is 951 00:33:50,154 --> 00:33:53,658 realizing the people that were always on your guest list 952 00:33:53,658 --> 00:33:58,162 are passed away, and they won't be attending. 953 00:33:58,162 --> 00:34:01,866 And so that has put me in a downward spiral, kind of. 954 00:34:01,866 --> 00:34:06,404 I think doing this wedding and all of this is keeping 955 00:34:06,404 --> 00:34:10,208 my mind busy, keeping me constantly around loved ones 956 00:34:10,208 --> 00:34:12,109 'cause I'm always doing something, 957 00:34:12,109 --> 00:34:15,179 and just kind of keeping my spirits up, 958 00:34:15,179 --> 00:34:17,014 forcing me to be in good spirits. 959 00:34:17,014 --> 00:34:19,951 ♪ ♪ 960 00:34:22,479 --> 00:34:23,613 - ♪ Some say, I know ♪ 961 00:34:23,613 --> 00:34:24,748 ♪ That I'm talking too much ♪ 962 00:34:24,748 --> 00:34:26,016 ♪ And I don't get nowhere ♪ 963 00:34:26,016 --> 00:34:27,584 ♪ Tryna do it at once ♪ 964 00:34:27,584 --> 00:34:28,952 ♪ But all I got ♪ 965 00:34:28,952 --> 00:34:31,688 ♪ I want to be someone, be someone ♪ 966 00:34:31,688 --> 00:34:34,591 - Come sit by me. 967 00:34:34,591 --> 00:34:37,027 You're excited. 968 00:34:37,027 --> 00:34:39,396 Is it perfect for my pool? 969 00:34:41,064 --> 00:34:42,866 How are you and Maci working out 970 00:34:42,866 --> 00:34:44,334 the arrangements with Bentley? 971 00:34:44,334 --> 00:34:46,369 - I mean, it's been nonexistent right now 972 00:34:46,369 --> 00:34:47,771 just 'cause of work and stuff. 973 00:34:47,771 --> 00:34:49,939 And Bentley's got wrestling going on, all that mess. 974 00:34:49,939 --> 00:34:54,010 So I really haven't got a chance to eat with him again. 975 00:34:54,010 --> 00:34:55,011 - You gotta ask for it. 976 00:34:55,011 --> 00:34:56,513 - Yeah, I know. 977 00:34:56,513 --> 00:34:58,815 It's just that I've just now got off overtime. 978 00:34:58,815 --> 00:35:00,283 - I know. I'm just saying, 979 00:35:00,283 --> 00:35:01,885 now that things have slowed down a little bit. 980 00:35:01,885 --> 00:35:03,586 - Yeah. 981 00:35:03,586 --> 00:35:05,355 - You're gonna have to be the one that pushes for it 982 00:35:05,355 --> 00:35:06,890 and ask. 983 00:35:06,890 --> 00:35:11,127 You can't leave it to Maci to text you and say, you know, 984 00:35:11,127 --> 00:35:13,963 "Hey, you want to do this with Bentley" or whatever. 985 00:35:13,963 --> 00:35:15,065 You gotta-- 986 00:35:15,065 --> 00:35:16,866 - I didn't think she would. 987 00:35:16,866 --> 00:35:23,640 ♪ ♪ 988 00:35:23,640 --> 00:35:25,008 - Here's another one. 989 00:35:28,244 --> 00:35:30,113 Because I'm too short. 990 00:35:30,113 --> 00:35:31,314 - It's staticky. 991 00:35:31,314 --> 00:35:33,616 - Huh? - My shirt's all staticky. 992 00:35:33,616 --> 00:35:36,553 - How'd you feel about what Cate and Ty had to say? 993 00:35:36,553 --> 00:35:38,354 - I don't know, I'm learning to, like, 994 00:35:38,354 --> 00:35:39,489 you know, get out of the way, 995 00:35:39,489 --> 00:35:41,324 and let him have his time with Ryan, 996 00:35:41,324 --> 00:35:43,593 and then just be there when or if he needs me. 997 00:35:43,593 --> 00:35:45,195 I guess, don't be so negative about it. 998 00:35:45,195 --> 00:35:46,830 Just let it happen. 999 00:35:46,830 --> 00:35:48,098 Ryan's doing good. 1000 00:35:48,098 --> 00:35:49,365 He wants to have a relationship with him. 1001 00:35:49,365 --> 00:35:50,834 Then let him have it. - Yeah. 1002 00:35:50,834 --> 00:35:51,868 - What I'm trying to say is, like, 1003 00:35:51,868 --> 00:35:53,636 don't make it harder on Bentley 1004 00:35:53,636 --> 00:35:55,405 because I feel it's gonna turn out a certain way. 1005 00:35:55,405 --> 00:35:56,639 - Right. 1006 00:35:56,639 --> 00:35:58,174 That's kind of how I feel about it too. 1007 00:35:58,174 --> 00:36:00,577 Even if my expectations aren't very high, 1008 00:36:00,577 --> 00:36:03,179 how I feel about it doesn't have to be negative. 1009 00:36:03,179 --> 00:36:04,814 It's just realistic. 1010 00:36:04,814 --> 00:36:06,683 - It may not work out. 1011 00:36:06,683 --> 00:36:07,917 And hopefully, it does. 1012 00:36:07,917 --> 00:36:10,153 I can only control what I can control. 1013 00:36:10,153 --> 00:36:11,654 Let him go out on that limb. 1014 00:36:11,654 --> 00:36:13,523 Let Bentley try. 1015 00:36:13,523 --> 00:36:15,024 And then be there when he needs you. 1016 00:36:15,024 --> 00:36:16,893 Don't put so much anger toward Ryan 1017 00:36:16,893 --> 00:36:18,161 because he's messed up. - Mm-hmm. 1018 00:36:18,161 --> 00:36:20,130 - Just be that safety net for Bentley. 1019 00:36:20,130 --> 00:36:21,598 - Right. - Make him feel that, 1020 00:36:21,598 --> 00:36:23,333 you know, we're always gonna be there. 1021 00:36:23,333 --> 00:36:24,968 And he doesn't have to worry about it. 1022 00:36:24,968 --> 00:36:27,070 - If he's ready, and wants to try 1023 00:36:27,070 --> 00:36:29,038 and wants to put himself out there with Ryan, 1024 00:36:29,038 --> 00:36:31,841 he can because he wants to. 1025 00:36:31,841 --> 00:36:33,176 - Yeah. 1026 00:36:33,176 --> 00:36:34,110 - Not because Ryan wants him to, 1027 00:36:34,110 --> 00:36:35,345 not because I want him to 1028 00:36:35,345 --> 00:36:38,314 or you want him to or Jen--anybody. 1029 00:36:38,314 --> 00:36:39,716 It's because Bentley wants to. 1030 00:36:39,716 --> 00:36:43,119 And he knows that, no matter the outcome, 1031 00:36:43,119 --> 00:36:47,524 there's still a safe space at home. 1032 00:36:47,524 --> 00:36:50,693 - We're doing a pretty good job. 1033 00:36:50,693 --> 00:36:53,696 - Trying to, I think. 1034 00:36:53,696 --> 00:36:55,031 - We are. 1035 00:36:55,031 --> 00:36:58,201 ♪ ♪ 1036 00:36:58,201 --> 00:36:59,269 - Love you. 1037 00:36:59,269 --> 00:37:00,637 - Love you too. 1038 00:37:00,637 --> 00:37:07,577 ♪ ♪ 1039 00:37:10,246 --> 00:37:11,648 - Maya's not doing great. 1040 00:37:11,648 --> 00:37:13,483 They're keeping her sedated right now 1041 00:37:13,483 --> 00:37:17,387 because her left lung has some fluid in it. 1042 00:37:17,387 --> 00:37:20,823 And she's having a hard time breathing on her own. 1043 00:37:20,823 --> 00:37:22,292 So I just need that little girl 1044 00:37:22,292 --> 00:37:25,662 to push out all that fluid in her lungs. 1045 00:37:25,662 --> 00:37:28,364 So then, hopefully, her vitals 1046 00:37:28,364 --> 00:37:29,866 start to look normal. 1047 00:37:29,866 --> 00:37:31,568 Just keep us in your prayers. 1048 00:37:31,568 --> 00:37:32,635 She's a fighter. 1049 00:37:32,635 --> 00:37:34,070 We're a fighter. 1050 00:37:34,070 --> 00:37:36,005 You know, she's gonna make it through. 1051 00:37:36,005 --> 00:37:43,146 ♪ ♪ 1052 00:37:49,018 --> 00:37:50,520 - How many days has it been now? 1053 00:37:50,520 --> 00:37:52,021 - Nine. 1054 00:37:52,021 --> 00:37:54,624 They were supposed to be there for, like, four days, 1055 00:37:54,624 --> 00:37:56,359 maybe, at the max. - Yeah. 1056 00:37:56,359 --> 00:37:58,194 Oh, it's about to be two weeks. 1057 00:37:58,194 --> 00:37:59,996 - It's not going well. 1058 00:37:59,996 --> 00:38:01,297 It's not her heart. 1059 00:38:01,297 --> 00:38:03,900 It's her lungs and her breathing. 1060 00:38:03,900 --> 00:38:06,936 Like, her breathing levels, her oxygen level is low. 1061 00:38:06,936 --> 00:38:08,271 - How's Ryder doing with it? 1062 00:38:08,271 --> 00:38:09,539 Does she--what does she know? 1063 00:38:09,539 --> 00:38:11,374 What doesn't she know or... 1064 00:38:11,374 --> 00:38:13,710 - We're trying to keep the adult details away from her. 1065 00:38:13,710 --> 00:38:17,614 Cory thinks that we should kind of, like, 1066 00:38:17,614 --> 00:38:19,816 just tell Ryder that Maya is okay. 1067 00:38:19,816 --> 00:38:23,086 So when we talk to Ry, Ryder checks in with her dad, 1068 00:38:23,086 --> 00:38:24,587 and Ryder asks, where is Maya? 1069 00:38:24,587 --> 00:38:26,489 And he says, she's still at the hospital. 1070 00:38:26,489 --> 00:38:30,193 They're still working on her but that she's okay. 1071 00:38:30,193 --> 00:38:31,394 She's gonna be okay. 1072 00:38:31,394 --> 00:38:34,697 So that's all that Ryder knows. 1073 00:38:34,697 --> 00:38:37,867 ♪ ♪ 1074 00:38:37,867 --> 00:38:39,068 - All right, Ry. 1075 00:38:39,068 --> 00:38:40,303 - Time to go to bed? 1076 00:38:40,303 --> 00:38:42,071 - Time to go to bed. 1077 00:38:42,071 --> 00:38:43,940 - Cuddle? - Yeah. 1078 00:38:43,940 --> 00:38:47,143 - Cuddle blanket. 1079 00:38:47,143 --> 00:38:49,879 - All right, let's say our prayers 1080 00:38:49,879 --> 00:38:51,814 before we go to sleep, okay? 1081 00:38:51,814 --> 00:38:53,149 - [coughing] 1082 00:38:53,149 --> 00:38:57,854 Jesus, man, thank you for me, 1083 00:38:57,854 --> 00:39:01,357 Mommy, Zach. 1084 00:39:01,357 --> 00:39:06,296 Please let my little sister be strong and powerful 1085 00:39:06,296 --> 00:39:11,267 through all her surgeries. 1086 00:39:11,267 --> 00:39:15,705 Please don't let her have any more surgeries 1087 00:39:15,705 --> 00:39:19,275 until she's two or three or maybe four. 1088 00:39:19,275 --> 00:39:20,710 Amen. 1089 00:39:20,710 --> 00:39:21,000 - Mommy loves you. 1090 00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:22,378 - Mommy loves you. 1091 00:39:22,378 --> 00:39:23,646 - I love you too. 1092 00:39:23,646 --> 00:39:26,215 - All right. - All right. 1093 00:39:26,215 --> 00:39:27,784 - Throughout Maya's recovery, 1094 00:39:27,784 --> 00:39:32,188 Ryder has been asking quite a few questions. 1095 00:39:33,389 --> 00:39:38,061 She would just check, is Maya okay? 1096 00:39:38,061 --> 00:39:39,929 Is she still in the hospital? 1097 00:39:39,929 --> 00:39:42,065 And every day, she would talk to her dad. 1098 00:39:42,065 --> 00:39:44,901 I think that those conversations helped a lot. 1099 00:39:44,901 --> 00:39:46,903 They really picked up her spirit. 1100 00:39:46,903 --> 00:39:48,871 Because she needs her dad. 1101 00:39:48,871 --> 00:39:49,906 She loves her dad. 1102 00:39:49,906 --> 00:39:51,974 She's used to seeing her dad. 1103 00:39:51,974 --> 00:39:53,209 Right now, she can't, 1104 00:39:53,209 --> 00:39:55,144 and it's hard on her. 1105 00:39:55,144 --> 00:39:58,781 - ♪ Long were the days and the nights ♪ 1106 00:39:58,781 --> 00:40:01,150 ♪ Before you came along ♪ 1107 00:40:01,150 --> 00:40:04,487 ♪ Lifted me up from the dark ♪ 1108 00:40:04,487 --> 00:40:07,090 ♪ You could hear me calling ♪ 1109 00:40:07,090 --> 00:40:10,560 ♪ You reached out ♪ 1110 00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:16,366 ♪ A helping hand, a helping hand ♪ 1111 00:40:16,366 --> 00:40:19,469 ♪ You're my hero ♪ 1112 00:40:19,469 --> 00:40:22,105 ♪ ♪ 1113 00:40:22,105 --> 00:40:25,108 ♪ You're my hero ♪ 1114 00:40:25,108 --> 00:40:27,543 ♪ ♪ 1115 00:40:27,543 --> 00:40:30,780 ♪ You're my hero ♪ 1116 00:40:30,780 --> 00:40:33,149 ♪ ♪ 1117 00:40:33,149 --> 00:40:38,821 ♪ You're my hero ♪ 1118 00:40:38,821 --> 00:40:41,224 ♪ ♪ 1119 00:40:43,351 --> 00:40:44,519 - Next on "Teen Mom: The Next Chapter"... 1120 00:40:44,519 --> 00:40:45,987 - What's going on with you and Ashley? 1121 00:40:45,987 --> 00:40:48,523 - I said that she got that body plucked and stuffed 1122 00:40:48,523 --> 00:40:50,792 and used that accident as a cover-up. 1123 00:40:50,792 --> 00:40:51,960 - Hi, friends. 1124 00:40:51,960 --> 00:40:52,994 - Glad you guys are here. 1125 00:40:52,994 --> 00:40:54,496 - I just want to touch you. 1126 00:40:54,496 --> 00:40:56,765 - So what's good with you and Bri, Devoin? 1127 00:40:56,765 --> 00:40:58,700 [all cheering] 1128 00:40:58,700 --> 00:41:00,502 - Kenzie and I are gonna get a divorce. 1129 00:41:00,502 --> 00:41:01,736 - Keep focusing on you. 1130 00:41:01,736 --> 00:41:04,372 - I just feel bad for Bentley. 1131 00:41:04,372 --> 00:41:05,807 ♪ ♪ 1132 00:41:07,801 --> 00:41:10,738 [upbeat rock music] 1133 00:41:10,738 --> 00:41:17,678 ♪ ♪