1 00:00:01,969 --> 00:00:04,037 - ♪♪ MTV ♪♪ 2 00:00:04,104 --> 00:00:07,308 - Previously, on "Teen Mom: The Next Chapter"... 3 00:00:07,842 --> 00:00:10,845 - Today, you not only unite your separate lives, 4 00:00:10,911 --> 00:00:12,713 but you are bringing into this new chapter, 5 00:00:12,780 --> 00:00:14,615 the love of your daughter, Kloie. 6 00:00:14,682 --> 00:00:16,584 You may kiss your gorgeous bride. 7 00:00:16,650 --> 00:00:20,221 [cheers and applause] 8 00:00:20,921 --> 00:00:24,091 - Ryder is getting older, and she is figuring out 9 00:00:24,158 --> 00:00:26,894 more about her family dynamic. - Guess what. 10 00:00:26,961 --> 00:00:30,163 And I get to go to Atlanta with dad for his show. 11 00:00:30,230 --> 00:00:33,067 - You and your dad just be making all these plans. 12 00:00:33,133 --> 00:00:36,870 - You and Cheyenne have had kind of a rocky road at times. 13 00:00:36,937 --> 00:00:39,472 Now things are good. Tell people how you got there. 14 00:00:39,539 --> 00:00:41,074 - We always put Ryder first. 15 00:00:41,141 --> 00:00:43,811 - The biggest thing in coparenting is communication. 16 00:00:43,877 --> 00:00:45,879 - Are you ready for your graduation? 17 00:00:45,946 --> 00:00:47,314 - Yeah. 18 00:00:47,381 --> 00:00:50,350 - Ryan would like to be here to go to it, 19 00:00:50,417 --> 00:00:51,718 but I know he's proud of you. 20 00:00:51,785 --> 00:00:53,887 - What's, like, the latest update with Ryan? 21 00:00:53,954 --> 00:00:55,322 - Right now, he's in a halfway house. 22 00:00:55,388 --> 00:00:57,424 - OK. 23 00:00:57,491 --> 00:01:01,495 - I want to experience living alone 24 00:01:01,562 --> 00:01:03,063 with just the girls. 25 00:01:03,130 --> 00:01:04,732 - You're not moving those girls away from me. 26 00:01:04,799 --> 00:01:06,900 No way. They're half mine. 27 00:01:06,967 --> 00:01:08,068 - Sorry, Mom. 28 00:01:08,134 --> 00:01:10,504 It's time for me to do my own thing. 29 00:01:10,571 --> 00:01:13,373 - Dad wants to go into detox. 30 00:01:13,440 --> 00:01:15,275 - Where, Florida? 31 00:01:15,342 --> 00:01:16,977 - No, he's already here. 32 00:01:17,044 --> 00:01:21,281 - I made the promise that, if he went into detox, 33 00:01:21,348 --> 00:01:22,950 that I would meet him there. 34 00:01:23,017 --> 00:01:25,619 Hi. - I'm ready. 35 00:01:25,686 --> 00:01:28,355 [soft dramatic music] 36 00:01:28,422 --> 00:01:31,291 Maybe this is the real deal. 37 00:01:31,358 --> 00:01:34,261 [upbeat music] 38 00:01:34,328 --> 00:01:41,434 ♪♪ ♪♪ 39 00:01:45,272 --> 00:01:46,440 - ♪♪ Let's move ♪♪ 40 00:01:46,507 --> 00:01:53,447 ♪♪ ♪♪ 41 00:01:53,514 --> 00:01:55,415 ♪♪ Let's move ♪♪ 42 00:01:55,482 --> 00:01:58,452 - I didn't know y'all liked white rice. 43 00:01:58,519 --> 00:02:00,020 I found the forks. 44 00:02:00,087 --> 00:02:03,123 ♪♪ ♪♪ 45 00:02:03,190 --> 00:02:05,493 Here, Benny. 46 00:02:05,559 --> 00:02:06,860 Hi, ladies. 47 00:02:06,927 --> 00:02:08,929 OK, you guys all need to buckle up 48 00:02:08,996 --> 00:02:11,832 because Benny's about to take his learner's permit test. 49 00:02:11,899 --> 00:02:15,168 Can you believe that I have a kid old enough to drive? 50 00:02:15,235 --> 00:02:16,537 I just have to make sure 51 00:02:16,603 --> 00:02:18,739 you don't ask anyone questions, OK? 52 00:02:18,805 --> 00:02:20,140 As the proctor, I have to tell you, 53 00:02:20,207 --> 00:02:22,309 you can't continue. - You would do that? 54 00:02:22,376 --> 00:02:23,410 - Yes, I would, son. 55 00:02:23,477 --> 00:02:25,146 I'm not breaking the law for you! 56 00:02:25,212 --> 00:02:26,513 - Nobody's gonna know. 57 00:02:26,580 --> 00:02:28,682 [quirky music] 58 00:02:28,749 --> 00:02:30,484 - Look around, Son. 59 00:02:30,551 --> 00:02:34,254 Open your pretty eyes and look around. 60 00:02:34,321 --> 00:02:37,224 [upbeat music] 61 00:02:37,291 --> 00:02:38,358 ♪♪ ♪♪ 62 00:02:38,425 --> 00:02:39,960 - Oh, my God. - What? 63 00:02:40,027 --> 00:02:42,829 - I failed. Take it tomorrow? 64 00:02:42,896 --> 00:02:44,598 - If you want to. - Well, yeah. 65 00:02:44,665 --> 00:02:47,801 - ♪♪ I can make it loud with the bass clap, treble ♪♪ 66 00:02:47,868 --> 00:02:50,304 ♪♪ Turn it up now, right now, no trouble ♪♪ 67 00:02:50,371 --> 00:02:51,538 ♪♪ I'm gonna do it ♪♪ 68 00:02:51,605 --> 00:02:53,940 - Itching. - Itching? Yeah. 69 00:02:54,007 --> 00:02:55,442 - You're gonna go from "Dragon Ball Z" 70 00:02:55,509 --> 00:02:57,778 to a Smurf here shortly. 71 00:02:57,845 --> 00:03:01,282 So, how did Bentley do on his driver's permit test? 72 00:03:01,348 --> 00:03:02,849 - He failed it. 73 00:03:02,916 --> 00:03:04,785 - Failed it? - Mm-hmm. 74 00:03:04,851 --> 00:03:07,054 - I think he's gonna be fine driving. 75 00:03:07,121 --> 00:03:08,488 Yeah, but every once in a while, 76 00:03:08,555 --> 00:03:10,758 the common sense, just, phew! And I'm like, "Oh, boy." 77 00:03:10,824 --> 00:03:12,292 - Yeah. - And that's what scares me. 78 00:03:12,359 --> 00:03:13,761 - Mm-hmm. God, I hope and pray 79 00:03:13,828 --> 00:03:15,162 that our parenting has been good. 80 00:03:15,229 --> 00:03:16,863 - Yeah. 81 00:03:16,930 --> 00:03:18,531 Now, I don't even want to think about when you start driving. 82 00:03:22,469 --> 00:03:26,674 ♪♪ ♪♪ 83 00:03:26,740 --> 00:03:28,241 - Pretty sweet. 84 00:03:28,308 --> 00:03:32,245 ♪♪ ♪♪ 85 00:03:32,312 --> 00:03:35,983 It looks cool. - Yeah, that's how I want it. 86 00:03:36,050 --> 00:03:42,989 ♪♪ ♪♪ 87 00:03:46,060 --> 00:03:47,127 - Hey, guys. 88 00:03:47,194 --> 00:03:48,995 I just got to my sister's house. 89 00:03:49,062 --> 00:03:51,398 She asked me to come over to talk about the next steps 90 00:03:51,464 --> 00:03:52,800 for my dad's recovery, 91 00:03:52,867 --> 00:03:55,569 and I know firsthand how that can be, 92 00:03:55,636 --> 00:03:57,771 so I want to be of support to him. 93 00:03:57,838 --> 00:04:00,440 He's just got to put the work in himself too. 94 00:04:00,507 --> 00:04:02,275 - So, as you know, dad's in detox. 95 00:04:02,342 --> 00:04:04,712 And then, once he gets through the detox, 96 00:04:04,778 --> 00:04:06,480 he's gonna have to go to... - A long-term. 97 00:04:06,546 --> 00:04:08,082 - A long-term rehab facility. - Mm-hmm. 98 00:04:08,149 --> 00:04:10,250 - And everywhere I've called about 99 00:04:10,317 --> 00:04:14,055 or I've tried to get him into, they either want so much money, 100 00:04:14,121 --> 00:04:15,489 which neither one of us can do... 101 00:04:15,555 --> 00:04:16,657 - Mm-hmm. 102 00:04:16,724 --> 00:04:19,193 - Or his insurance are not accepted. 103 00:04:19,260 --> 00:04:21,428 So it's, like, everywhere you go, 104 00:04:21,495 --> 00:04:23,464 there's, like, a-- it's a roadblock. 105 00:04:23,531 --> 00:04:26,333 It's just, I think it's more, like, frustrating, 106 00:04:26,399 --> 00:04:28,569 because it's like, when somebody does want the help, 107 00:04:28,635 --> 00:04:30,104 it's hard for them to get the help. 108 00:04:30,170 --> 00:04:31,439 - Yeah, it's bull[bleep]. 109 00:04:31,505 --> 00:04:33,040 I know we'll do whatever it takes 110 00:04:33,107 --> 00:04:38,846 to make sure he gets into a long-term facility after detox. 111 00:04:38,913 --> 00:04:40,647 He deserves that much. Like, he's putting the work in. 112 00:04:40,714 --> 00:04:43,016 He's putting the effort in. I respect that. 113 00:04:43,083 --> 00:04:45,952 And I think that we can start there. 114 00:04:46,019 --> 00:04:47,888 - I don't want the universe to keep working against him. 115 00:04:47,954 --> 00:04:49,456 It needs to work for him. 116 00:04:49,523 --> 00:04:50,858 - I think, sometimes, the universe 117 00:04:50,925 --> 00:04:53,627 works against us to build us and make us better. 118 00:04:55,362 --> 00:04:57,164 - That's very true. 119 00:04:57,231 --> 00:04:58,899 - I think that, if I hadn't been through half of what 120 00:04:58,966 --> 00:05:01,502 I've been through in my life, I would not be the woman 121 00:05:01,569 --> 00:05:04,438 and mother that I am today, and able to overcome 122 00:05:04,505 --> 00:05:06,673 the obstacles I'm even being faced with now. 123 00:05:08,408 --> 00:05:09,843 I know of some places. 124 00:05:09,910 --> 00:05:11,512 You know of some places. 125 00:05:11,578 --> 00:05:13,080 - Yeah. - We'll figure it out. 126 00:05:13,147 --> 00:05:15,582 We'll find him a place, wherever that might be. 127 00:05:15,649 --> 00:05:18,585 I will guide him along the way. 128 00:05:18,652 --> 00:05:21,054 I will be his support system. 129 00:05:23,690 --> 00:05:24,858 - ♪♪ Bring it to me closer ♪♪ 130 00:05:24,925 --> 00:05:27,461 ♪♪ I saw you from afar ♪♪ 131 00:05:27,528 --> 00:05:29,596 ♪♪ ♪♪ 132 00:05:29,663 --> 00:05:32,466 [phone rings] - Hello? 133 00:05:32,533 --> 00:05:33,801 - Hey, what's going on, Chey? 134 00:05:33,868 --> 00:05:35,469 - Nothing, I'm just sitting at home. 135 00:05:35,536 --> 00:05:38,204 - I need to stop by and ask you something. 136 00:05:38,271 --> 00:05:41,875 - So you're saying you want to talk in-person about something? 137 00:05:41,942 --> 00:05:44,110 - Yeah, I'd just rather talk without Ry being there. 138 00:05:44,177 --> 00:05:45,979 You know how she's all ears. 139 00:05:46,046 --> 00:05:47,848 It's kind of, like, an adult conversation. 140 00:05:47,915 --> 00:05:50,050 So I was thinking I could stop by quick 141 00:05:50,117 --> 00:05:51,352 before I pick her up for school, 142 00:05:51,418 --> 00:05:54,154 and we could just talk. - OK, that's fine. 143 00:05:54,221 --> 00:05:55,689 - Give me about 20 minutes, and I'll be over. 144 00:05:55,756 --> 00:05:57,224 - OK, I'll see you soon. 145 00:05:57,291 --> 00:05:59,593 - ♪♪ Only if we're having fun ♪♪ 146 00:05:59,659 --> 00:06:01,795 [doorbell rings] 147 00:06:01,862 --> 00:06:02,929 ♪♪ We could have a little fun ♪♪ 148 00:06:02,996 --> 00:06:04,197 - Hey! - What's up? 149 00:06:04,264 --> 00:06:05,799 You guys are killing it with the-- 150 00:06:05,866 --> 00:06:07,968 - The Christmas décor? - The Davis family, yeah. 151 00:06:08,035 --> 00:06:09,636 - Don't be a hater! - I love it. 152 00:06:09,703 --> 00:06:12,105 No, I'm not. It works. 153 00:06:12,172 --> 00:06:15,176 - Ace is asleep, but Zach's golfing with my dad. 154 00:06:15,242 --> 00:06:16,744 - Oh. 155 00:06:16,811 --> 00:06:18,144 - What's up? 156 00:06:18,211 --> 00:06:19,380 - I wanted to come over and talk to you about 157 00:06:19,446 --> 00:06:21,849 me having Ryder for Christmas this year. 158 00:06:21,915 --> 00:06:23,350 We'll fly to Michigan. 159 00:06:23,416 --> 00:06:27,254 So, basically, I need her for, like, ten days. 160 00:06:27,321 --> 00:06:29,456 - So her whole Christmas break? - Yeah. 161 00:06:29,523 --> 00:06:31,959 I'ma be real with you, the trip's already booked. 162 00:06:32,025 --> 00:06:36,096 - When did you book? Because Christmas is now. 163 00:06:36,163 --> 00:06:38,332 I mean, we're in December, so... 164 00:06:38,399 --> 00:06:40,300 - Yeah, I booked a couple months ago. 165 00:06:40,367 --> 00:06:43,270 - And you didn't think maybe to tell me then? 166 00:06:43,337 --> 00:06:45,271 - You know, I probably should have asked you first. 167 00:06:45,338 --> 00:06:47,841 Well, I think the biggest thing is that, usually, 168 00:06:47,908 --> 00:06:50,744 you've had her for Christmas. - No, no, no. 169 00:06:50,810 --> 00:06:52,379 - Yeah, you've had her for Christmas. 170 00:06:52,446 --> 00:06:53,848 - We share! We split. 171 00:06:53,914 --> 00:06:54,982 You'll get her, like, Christmas Eve. 172 00:06:55,049 --> 00:06:56,283 I'll have her Christmas morning. 173 00:06:56,349 --> 00:06:57,985 You come get her Christmas night or something. 174 00:06:58,052 --> 00:07:00,420 - But my family doesn't live in LA, so... 175 00:07:00,487 --> 00:07:02,656 - That's not a me problem. - Eventually, I'm gonna want-- 176 00:07:02,723 --> 00:07:04,524 no, but you want what's best for Ry. 177 00:07:04,591 --> 00:07:07,027 So, obviously, you want her to see my family too. 178 00:07:07,093 --> 00:07:09,596 Your family gets to see Ryder every Christmas. 179 00:07:09,663 --> 00:07:11,698 You go to my family that lives in Michigan. 180 00:07:11,765 --> 00:07:14,101 It's like, this is the first time 181 00:07:14,168 --> 00:07:15,803 where I could get everyone together, 182 00:07:15,869 --> 00:07:17,938 bring Ryder, celebrate it all as a family, 183 00:07:18,005 --> 00:07:20,473 and I just thought that, you know, it would be nice. 184 00:07:20,540 --> 00:07:21,742 - And does Ryder know about this? 185 00:07:21,809 --> 00:07:25,446 - Uh, maybe. 186 00:07:25,512 --> 00:07:27,814 - OK, you're just digging a bigger hole. 187 00:07:27,881 --> 00:07:30,383 - I mean, but I got everything set up. 188 00:07:30,450 --> 00:07:33,453 Like, if you could just do me this one favor, 189 00:07:33,520 --> 00:07:35,723 you could have her for Christmas next year. 190 00:07:35,790 --> 00:07:38,225 - What if I say no? - Mm. 191 00:07:40,294 --> 00:07:42,062 You wouldn't have liked it if I handled it this way. 192 00:07:42,128 --> 00:07:43,697 I don't like how you're handling it. 193 00:07:43,764 --> 00:07:46,633 Ryder might have to sit this one out. 194 00:07:46,700 --> 00:07:48,135 - You win. It's your call. 195 00:07:48,202 --> 00:07:49,736 - Great. Thank you. - Your call. 196 00:07:49,803 --> 00:07:51,838 - It is my call. - You win. 197 00:07:51,905 --> 00:07:53,373 I handled it wrong. 198 00:07:53,440 --> 00:07:56,076 - So just go continue being in the wrong somewhere else. 199 00:07:56,143 --> 00:07:59,179 - Peace, thank you. - Please get out of my house. 200 00:07:59,246 --> 00:08:05,051 ♪♪ ♪♪ 201 00:08:11,992 --> 00:08:14,895 [upbeat music] 202 00:08:14,962 --> 00:08:19,366 ♪♪ ♪♪ 203 00:08:19,433 --> 00:08:21,902 - Hey, ladies. Mrs. Austin here. 204 00:08:21,969 --> 00:08:24,204 Me and Sean just got back from Turks and Caicos. 205 00:08:24,271 --> 00:08:25,772 We had an amazing honeymoon. 206 00:08:25,839 --> 00:08:28,241 We are settling into married life. 207 00:08:28,308 --> 00:08:29,910 I absolutely love being married. 208 00:08:29,977 --> 00:08:32,313 But we got Kloie into a new school. 209 00:08:32,379 --> 00:08:33,914 It's a public school, 210 00:08:33,981 --> 00:08:35,549 and we've been dealing with some issues 211 00:08:35,616 --> 00:08:38,652 that we haven't dealt with at her private preschool. 212 00:08:38,719 --> 00:08:40,187 So we've been trying to figure out 213 00:08:40,253 --> 00:08:41,989 just where to go from here. 214 00:08:42,056 --> 00:08:43,123 What's going on? 215 00:08:49,362 --> 00:08:51,765 - With Kloie, we're picking up from school, 216 00:08:51,832 --> 00:08:54,301 and, you know, she's crying, saying she doesn't like school. 217 00:08:54,368 --> 00:08:55,803 She's not having a good time. 218 00:08:55,869 --> 00:08:57,437 There was some issues with, like, the kids 219 00:08:57,504 --> 00:08:58,972 kind of picking on her. 220 00:08:59,039 --> 00:09:01,542 We tried to talk to, you know, the teacher. 221 00:09:01,608 --> 00:09:03,844 We talked to the counselor. 222 00:09:03,911 --> 00:09:05,412 We couldn't get answers, so I'm like, 223 00:09:05,479 --> 00:09:07,681 "I can't continue to send my kid to school 224 00:09:07,747 --> 00:09:10,884 for her to be miserable." And we don't have a game plan. 225 00:09:10,950 --> 00:09:12,786 So me and Sean thought it'd be a good idea 226 00:09:12,852 --> 00:09:16,023 to pull her out and just do homeschooling. 227 00:09:16,089 --> 00:09:17,157 - So I'm gonna roll this, 228 00:09:17,224 --> 00:09:18,492 and whatever number it lands on, 229 00:09:18,559 --> 00:09:20,794 you got to make that many, OK? 230 00:09:22,229 --> 00:09:23,330 Ooh, 13. 231 00:09:23,397 --> 00:09:24,998 Now you got to make one with 13. 232 00:09:27,634 --> 00:09:28,969 - Oh, my God. 233 00:09:29,036 --> 00:09:30,371 - Well, that's why mom and dad are right here. 234 00:09:30,438 --> 00:09:32,506 - So dramatic. - Look, two. 235 00:09:32,573 --> 00:09:34,007 Now get another one. Three, four. 236 00:09:34,074 --> 00:09:35,109 Put it here, put it here. - Put it together. 237 00:09:35,176 --> 00:09:36,309 - Come on, dude. 238 00:09:36,376 --> 00:09:37,477 I'm trying-- you asked me to help you. 239 00:09:37,544 --> 00:09:38,478 And you're-- - Just gonna build a one. 240 00:09:38,545 --> 00:09:40,113 - Well, are you counting to 13? 241 00:09:40,180 --> 00:09:41,748 How many are there? 242 00:09:41,815 --> 00:09:43,817 - Count those blocks. - Use your finger. 243 00:09:43,884 --> 00:09:45,752 - Six. - Yep, there are six. 244 00:09:45,819 --> 00:09:48,289 - OK, so now, how many more do you need? 245 00:09:48,356 --> 00:09:49,590 - Six more? 246 00:09:49,657 --> 00:09:51,492 - Almost, you need seven more. 247 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:53,026 So put seven more. 248 00:09:53,093 --> 00:09:55,662 - And then she can use these as, like, 249 00:09:55,729 --> 00:09:57,430 counting reference or something. 250 00:09:57,497 --> 00:09:59,433 - OK, so we're not doing what I was doing? 251 00:09:59,499 --> 00:10:00,601 - No, because I'm like, this is just 252 00:10:00,667 --> 00:10:01,802 gonna be easier for her visually. 253 00:10:01,868 --> 00:10:02,670 - This is pretty easy if she would have 254 00:10:02,736 --> 00:10:04,171 got to 13 real quick. 255 00:10:04,238 --> 00:10:06,040 - She just seemed like she was more interested in this. 256 00:10:06,106 --> 00:10:07,241 - Oh, OK. 257 00:10:07,307 --> 00:10:08,742 - Here, do you want to do this one? 258 00:10:08,808 --> 00:10:10,177 You can glue this one. 259 00:10:10,244 --> 00:10:12,446 - Look, these are the words that you got to glue. 260 00:10:12,513 --> 00:10:14,148 - Yeah, I got it. 261 00:10:14,214 --> 00:10:15,583 - I can help! - I know. 262 00:10:15,649 --> 00:10:16,884 I'm just saying-- - I'll just go. 263 00:10:16,950 --> 00:10:18,251 - We don't need two people barking at her. 264 00:10:18,318 --> 00:10:19,252 - All right, I'll just go in the other room then. 265 00:10:19,319 --> 00:10:20,487 - OK, perfect. 266 00:10:20,554 --> 00:10:22,289 I just feel like it's overwhelming for her. 267 00:10:22,356 --> 00:10:23,557 - Well, it's not, if you wouldn't-- 268 00:10:23,624 --> 00:10:24,891 if you would just let me talk 269 00:10:24,958 --> 00:10:26,426 instead of cutting me off and saying, "You got it." 270 00:10:26,493 --> 00:10:28,161 - Come here, Kloie. 271 00:10:28,228 --> 00:10:29,830 - That's the most annoying [bleep] part. 272 00:10:29,897 --> 00:10:31,665 - Yeah, but I'm saying, she's six years old. 273 00:10:31,732 --> 00:10:33,134 Her attention span-- 274 00:10:33,200 --> 00:10:35,769 - Right, but it doesn't matter who's talking to her. 275 00:10:35,835 --> 00:10:38,706 You got to be under control of everything. 276 00:10:38,772 --> 00:10:41,274 - ♪♪ I am glad ♪♪ 277 00:10:41,341 --> 00:10:44,744 ♪♪ On you, anticipation for you ♪♪ 278 00:10:44,811 --> 00:10:46,313 ♪♪ But all I see is just a snapshot ♪♪ 279 00:10:46,379 --> 00:10:49,416 - So, this past year, I bought a new house. 280 00:10:49,482 --> 00:10:51,051 We are loving it, 281 00:10:51,118 --> 00:10:53,086 but we are definitely farther from my mom and sister 282 00:10:53,153 --> 00:10:54,555 than we are used to. 283 00:10:54,622 --> 00:10:56,456 Throughout my whole entire life, 284 00:10:56,523 --> 00:10:58,225 it was just me, my mom, and my sister. 285 00:10:58,292 --> 00:10:59,927 We were always together. 286 00:10:59,994 --> 00:11:03,697 And my mom, she's been our rock. 287 00:11:03,764 --> 00:11:06,033 But over the years, we started learning 288 00:11:06,100 --> 00:11:08,969 that our mom has lied to us about some pretty big things. 289 00:11:09,036 --> 00:11:11,705 She kept a really big secret from my sister. 290 00:11:11,772 --> 00:11:13,073 - I'm scared she's gonna tell me 291 00:11:13,140 --> 00:11:14,674 that's not my biological father. 292 00:11:14,741 --> 00:11:15,842 Let's be real here. 293 00:11:19,079 --> 00:11:21,181 - You can't be mad at me, Brittany! 294 00:11:21,248 --> 00:11:22,583 You can't! 295 00:11:22,650 --> 00:11:24,285 - And when I wanted to reach out to my dad, 296 00:11:24,351 --> 00:11:26,754 I found out my mom had already been in contact with him 297 00:11:26,820 --> 00:11:28,088 and never told us. 298 00:11:28,155 --> 00:11:29,656 - Why didn't you tell us about the letter? 299 00:11:29,723 --> 00:11:30,758 I feel like that's something that... 300 00:11:30,824 --> 00:11:32,059 - I don't know. I just forgot. 301 00:11:32,125 --> 00:11:32,893 - You could have told us. - You didn't forget. 302 00:11:32,959 --> 00:11:34,427 You just [bleep] lied. 303 00:11:34,494 --> 00:11:37,064 - I will never apologize for protecting you girls, never. 304 00:11:37,131 --> 00:11:39,933 - You're not protecting nobody. You're hurting people. 305 00:11:40,000 --> 00:11:42,803 You're making it about you. - Shut up! 306 00:11:42,870 --> 00:11:44,338 - I love my mom, but all these lies 307 00:11:44,405 --> 00:11:46,840 have definitely affected the way we look at her. 308 00:11:46,907 --> 00:11:49,476 And lately, she has been acting strange, 309 00:11:49,543 --> 00:11:52,679 so I need all the support I can get at the moment, 310 00:11:52,746 --> 00:11:54,648 and luckily, I have good friends who help. 311 00:11:54,715 --> 00:11:58,051 - 13, 14, 15, 16, 17. - All right. 312 00:11:58,118 --> 00:12:00,287 See, that's how I know how to do math. 313 00:12:00,353 --> 00:12:01,655 I need fingers. 314 00:12:01,722 --> 00:12:03,124 I'm gonna go talk to your mom, 315 00:12:03,190 --> 00:12:04,892 and then you show me how to do the rest of the homework. 316 00:12:04,958 --> 00:12:06,693 - OK. - OK? 317 00:12:07,594 --> 00:12:09,196 - Hola, mommy. 318 00:12:09,263 --> 00:12:10,931 - I always said I wanted to help you put your laundry away. 319 00:12:10,998 --> 00:12:13,533 - Yeah, well, where the [bleep] is it gonna go? 320 00:12:13,600 --> 00:12:15,269 This is laundry day. 321 00:12:15,336 --> 00:12:18,539 So, honestly, like, there's so much that's been, 322 00:12:18,605 --> 00:12:20,574 like, happening with my mom. 323 00:12:20,641 --> 00:12:22,343 - Did she say something? Is it her behavior? 324 00:12:22,409 --> 00:12:23,711 - Her behavior. 325 00:12:23,778 --> 00:12:25,145 She's been just, like, acting out. 326 00:12:25,212 --> 00:12:28,149 Like, she'll call us, cursing us out, crying. 327 00:12:28,215 --> 00:12:30,217 Like, a lot of weird, different things is going on. 328 00:12:30,284 --> 00:12:31,651 Did I tell you how she almost fought Brittany 329 00:12:31,718 --> 00:12:34,154 at a restaurant? - No. 330 00:12:34,221 --> 00:12:36,089 - She threw water at Britt-- - Why? 331 00:12:36,156 --> 00:12:37,557 - There was just a disagreement. 332 00:12:37,624 --> 00:12:39,293 My mom-- 333 00:12:39,359 --> 00:12:41,761 - Wow, what did Brittany do? 334 00:12:41,828 --> 00:12:43,630 - Nothing, because the girls were there. 335 00:12:43,697 --> 00:12:45,699 - Oh, [bleep]. 336 00:12:45,765 --> 00:12:47,901 - And my sister is, like, fed up with her. 337 00:12:47,968 --> 00:12:49,703 My sister has her blocked. 338 00:12:49,770 --> 00:12:50,604 My sister wants no contact, no nothing. 339 00:12:50,671 --> 00:12:51,772 - I was gonna say that. 340 00:12:51,839 --> 00:12:52,739 Knowing Brittany, she's probably like, 341 00:12:52,806 --> 00:12:53,974 "You're cut off." 342 00:12:54,041 --> 00:12:55,242 - And she is getting married this year. 343 00:12:55,309 --> 00:12:56,777 We should be focusing on that. 344 00:12:56,843 --> 00:12:59,113 - Have you guys spoken to your mom to see, 345 00:12:59,179 --> 00:13:00,714 like, what's actually happening with her? 346 00:13:00,780 --> 00:13:02,516 Because now you guys are not at the house. 347 00:13:02,583 --> 00:13:04,618 So, before, she was occupied with you 348 00:13:04,684 --> 00:13:06,220 and Brittany and the girls, 349 00:13:06,287 --> 00:13:08,956 and now she has all this free time in the world, 350 00:13:09,022 --> 00:13:11,859 and now she can't keep everything bottled up anymore. 351 00:13:11,925 --> 00:13:14,394 - Something has to change 352 00:13:14,461 --> 00:13:17,764 because I'm not gonna allow you to do these things 353 00:13:17,831 --> 00:13:19,533 in front of my kids. - Yeah. 354 00:13:19,600 --> 00:13:26,640 ♪♪ ♪♪ 355 00:13:31,011 --> 00:13:33,880 - Hello? - Hola, hola. 356 00:13:33,947 --> 00:13:35,449 Do you think you can come over? 357 00:13:35,516 --> 00:13:39,186 I would like to talk to mom, all three of us, together. 358 00:13:39,252 --> 00:13:41,855 - I agree. I do want to talk. 359 00:13:41,922 --> 00:13:43,456 - All right, I'm gonna text mom. 360 00:13:43,523 --> 00:13:45,159 - OK, I'll be there in a little while. 361 00:13:45,225 --> 00:13:47,561 - All right, bye. - All right, bye. 362 00:13:47,628 --> 00:13:50,530 [tense music] 363 00:13:50,597 --> 00:13:57,671 ♪♪ ♪♪ 364 00:14:10,450 --> 00:14:12,252 - There's so much [bleep]. 365 00:14:12,319 --> 00:14:14,888 They have no idea. 366 00:14:14,955 --> 00:14:19,326 ♪♪ ♪♪ 367 00:14:24,197 --> 00:14:25,732 - ♪♪ All out of money, and you're running behind ♪♪ 368 00:14:25,799 --> 00:14:28,402 ♪♪ Oh, oh, daddy took your ride ♪♪ 369 00:14:28,468 --> 00:14:30,537 ♪♪ Everything sucks, and it's all bad news ♪♪ 370 00:14:30,604 --> 00:14:34,842 ♪♪ But don't worry, I got you ♪♪ 371 00:14:34,908 --> 00:14:36,643 - What are you doing? 372 00:14:36,710 --> 00:14:38,245 Are you studying to get your learner's permit? 373 00:14:38,312 --> 00:14:39,346 - Yeah. 374 00:14:39,413 --> 00:14:41,548 - What do you do at a roundabout? 375 00:14:41,615 --> 00:14:42,917 - Yield. 376 00:14:42,983 --> 00:14:44,551 It's, like, a rolling stop. 377 00:14:44,618 --> 00:14:47,120 - Rolling stop, that's a good term, OK. 378 00:14:47,187 --> 00:14:49,356 When else would you have to yield? 379 00:14:49,422 --> 00:14:52,693 - Getting on the highway. - Yeah, good job. 380 00:14:52,760 --> 00:14:54,928 - ♪♪ Hey, nothing's gonna stop me ♪♪ 381 00:14:54,995 --> 00:14:57,564 ♪♪ Now 'cause I'm feeling good ♪♪ 382 00:14:57,631 --> 00:15:01,668 ♪♪ Oh, oh, oh, I'm feeling good ♪♪ 383 00:15:03,237 --> 00:15:05,072 - Do you ever come in here, like, 384 00:15:05,138 --> 00:15:07,507 fully prepared to do something, and then you see it 385 00:15:07,574 --> 00:15:09,977 and you're like, "Oh, no." 386 00:15:10,044 --> 00:15:11,478 I can't believe Benny failed. 387 00:15:11,545 --> 00:15:13,747 I think he thought it was gonna be easy. 388 00:15:13,814 --> 00:15:16,984 - We need to set up some rules. - Hm. 389 00:15:17,050 --> 00:15:19,619 Well, you can drive only when accompanied 390 00:15:19,686 --> 00:15:22,589 by a licensed driver over the age of 21, 391 00:15:22,656 --> 00:15:24,658 who has to be riding in the front seat. 392 00:15:24,725 --> 00:15:26,660 - He don't need to be driving anybody else's car 393 00:15:26,726 --> 00:15:28,262 that's not a family member, to be honest. 394 00:15:28,328 --> 00:15:29,763 - That's facts. 395 00:15:29,830 --> 00:15:31,932 So, just kind of, like, only comfortable with Bentley 396 00:15:31,998 --> 00:15:35,302 driving with, like, me or you or my parents, your parents, 397 00:15:35,369 --> 00:15:36,770 or Jen and Larry. 398 00:15:36,837 --> 00:15:39,640 But I think there's a lot of things that have gone on 399 00:15:39,706 --> 00:15:41,375 with Ryan in the last year. 400 00:15:41,442 --> 00:15:43,010 About three months ago, 401 00:15:43,077 --> 00:15:44,945 Ryan was released from his halfway house 402 00:15:45,012 --> 00:15:46,647 and moved into Jen and Larry's. 403 00:15:46,714 --> 00:15:48,481 Shortly after he was released, 404 00:15:48,548 --> 00:15:49,916 he was pulled over for speeding. 405 00:15:49,983 --> 00:15:52,319 Because of his DUI earlier this year, 406 00:15:52,385 --> 00:15:53,821 Ryan will have a restricted license 407 00:15:53,887 --> 00:15:55,622 for a year. 408 00:15:55,689 --> 00:15:59,326 However, he's sober and is doing well. 409 00:15:59,393 --> 00:16:04,165 - I think Ryan's doing good in his recovery. 410 00:16:04,231 --> 00:16:06,600 - But like, I don't know. 411 00:16:06,667 --> 00:16:10,370 I feel like there's still some proving 412 00:16:10,437 --> 00:16:13,640 he has to do before we'll let Bentley 413 00:16:13,707 --> 00:16:17,944 drive a vehicle if Ryan is the licensed adult 414 00:16:18,011 --> 00:16:19,513 in the car with him. 415 00:16:19,580 --> 00:16:20,747 After Bentley gets a little practice 416 00:16:20,814 --> 00:16:22,082 under his belt, and I think that's 417 00:16:22,148 --> 00:16:23,784 just a conversation we have 418 00:16:23,850 --> 00:16:25,686 with Bentley and Ryan, just to make sure 419 00:16:25,753 --> 00:16:27,688 we're all on the same page of what the rules are 420 00:16:27,755 --> 00:16:28,989 and stuff like that. What do you think? 421 00:16:29,056 --> 00:16:30,858 How do you feel about it? - I agree. 422 00:16:30,924 --> 00:16:34,828 Yeah, I think some more proving, you know? 423 00:16:34,895 --> 00:16:36,397 - At the end of the day, like, it's-- 424 00:16:36,463 --> 00:16:38,165 the main goal is what it's always been, 425 00:16:38,232 --> 00:16:41,668 which is, like, to make this once boy, now young man, 426 00:16:41,735 --> 00:16:46,540 grow into a healthy, self-sufficient, 427 00:16:46,607 --> 00:16:48,309 responsible adult. 428 00:16:48,375 --> 00:16:49,576 The way things are going, 429 00:16:49,643 --> 00:16:52,012 we can all be a part of that process. 430 00:16:52,079 --> 00:16:53,580 - Yeah. 431 00:16:53,647 --> 00:16:55,215 - But we have to be on the same page. 432 00:16:55,282 --> 00:16:56,317 - Right. 433 00:16:56,384 --> 00:16:59,152 - How did we get here? [laughs] 434 00:16:59,219 --> 00:17:02,222 I want off this roller coaster. 435 00:17:02,289 --> 00:17:05,258 [upbeat music] 436 00:17:05,325 --> 00:17:08,428 ♪♪ ♪♪ 437 00:17:08,495 --> 00:17:10,063 - ♪♪ Set up the attention ♪♪ 438 00:17:10,130 --> 00:17:12,666 ♪♪ We 'bout ready for action ♪♪ 439 00:17:12,732 --> 00:17:16,503 - Cory came over and basically dropped a bomb, 440 00:17:16,570 --> 00:17:20,640 that he bought Ryder a ticket to go to Michigan 441 00:17:20,707 --> 00:17:22,709 for Christmas break. - Did he ask you? 442 00:17:22,776 --> 00:17:24,879 - Well, he told me he bought the ticket. 443 00:17:24,945 --> 00:17:26,747 He's planned the trip and talked to Ryder about it, 444 00:17:26,814 --> 00:17:28,381 and now this is him asking me. 445 00:17:28,448 --> 00:17:30,684 - That means she's not gonna be with us on Christmas, at all? 446 00:17:30,750 --> 00:17:32,986 - Well, that is the conversation. 447 00:17:33,053 --> 00:17:35,355 I get that he wants to experience Christmas 448 00:17:35,422 --> 00:17:37,591 with his kids and his family. 449 00:17:37,657 --> 00:17:40,427 It's the way you went about doing it that, 450 00:17:40,493 --> 00:17:41,829 I can't co-parent like that. 451 00:17:41,895 --> 00:17:43,430 Like, we've never co-parented like that. 452 00:17:43,496 --> 00:17:45,766 So why are you all of a sudden doing it? 453 00:17:45,833 --> 00:17:47,133 - But, like, you have to put your feelings aside, 454 00:17:47,200 --> 00:17:49,302 and, you know, we kind of live by the motto, 455 00:17:49,369 --> 00:17:52,172 put the kids first. You got to put the kids first. 456 00:17:52,239 --> 00:17:53,674 It sucks. It sucks. 457 00:17:53,741 --> 00:17:56,209 I'm mad [bleep]. - This one's tough. 458 00:17:56,276 --> 00:17:57,544 I'm sorry. 459 00:17:57,611 --> 00:17:59,379 I'm struggling 'cause, you know, that's my girl. 460 00:17:59,446 --> 00:18:02,883 But Cory is a great dad, 461 00:18:02,950 --> 00:18:07,621 and I feel he bends for you, as well. 462 00:18:09,123 --> 00:18:11,691 He'll say, "Why, when?" But he pays for those parties. 463 00:18:11,758 --> 00:18:13,560 He helps you pay for those birthday parties. 464 00:18:13,627 --> 00:18:14,728 He doesn't fuss. 465 00:18:14,795 --> 00:18:16,163 I'm just saying, you know, 466 00:18:16,230 --> 00:18:18,299 Cory basically does what you ask. 467 00:18:18,366 --> 00:18:19,699 Does he not? 468 00:18:22,436 --> 00:18:24,438 - I'm not saying that he's a bad guy. 469 00:18:24,505 --> 00:18:25,605 - I know, I know. 470 00:18:25,672 --> 00:18:26,574 - I'm not saying he's a bad dad. 471 00:18:26,640 --> 00:18:27,874 - Cory is a good dad. 472 00:18:27,941 --> 00:18:29,009 - It's just the way he went about it. 473 00:18:29,076 --> 00:18:30,578 - I know, I know. 474 00:18:30,644 --> 00:18:31,878 - I'm not saying anything negative about him. 475 00:18:31,945 --> 00:18:33,514 I'm just saying, "[bleep] him." 476 00:18:33,580 --> 00:18:34,981 - I know you don't want to hear it, 477 00:18:35,048 --> 00:18:37,717 but this is part of co-parenting, 478 00:18:37,784 --> 00:18:39,419 is making the sacrifice. 479 00:18:39,486 --> 00:18:43,623 So what are we leaning towards? We're leaning towards-- 480 00:18:43,690 --> 00:18:45,426 - I'm not leaning towards anything. 481 00:18:45,493 --> 00:18:48,028 I think I'm just at a point of, like, 482 00:18:48,094 --> 00:18:50,764 I'm just gonna ask Ryder what she wants to do. 483 00:18:50,831 --> 00:18:54,802 [soft dramatic music] 484 00:18:54,868 --> 00:19:01,575 - ♪♪ I wish you were braver ♪♪ 485 00:19:01,642 --> 00:19:06,680 ♪♪ I can't stay here anymore ♪♪ 486 00:19:06,746 --> 00:19:09,717 - Santa, so, you have to put your name, 487 00:19:09,784 --> 00:19:12,285 your age, if you've been nice, 488 00:19:12,352 --> 00:19:14,355 naughty, or a little bit of both. 489 00:19:14,421 --> 00:19:17,524 Ace, have you been nice, naughty, or both? 490 00:19:17,591 --> 00:19:18,992 - Both. - We know. 491 00:19:19,059 --> 00:19:20,427 - Yeah, that sounds about right. 492 00:19:20,494 --> 00:19:22,463 - Ryder, have you been nice, naughty, or both? 493 00:19:22,529 --> 00:19:24,298 - Both. - I love the honesty! 494 00:19:24,365 --> 00:19:25,899 - At least they're honest! - I love it. 495 00:19:25,966 --> 00:19:29,502 Santa is gonna love the honesty too. 496 00:19:29,569 --> 00:19:33,140 You're moving. - [laughs] 497 00:19:33,206 --> 00:19:34,841 - Ry? - Yeah. 498 00:19:34,908 --> 00:19:36,644 - I want to talk about Christmas with you. 499 00:19:36,710 --> 00:19:38,979 - You do? - I do. 500 00:19:39,045 --> 00:19:42,583 I know your dad told you about going on a trip. 501 00:19:42,650 --> 00:19:45,252 - I think it sounds cool and exciting. 502 00:19:45,319 --> 00:19:46,620 - You think it sounds cool and exciting? 503 00:19:46,687 --> 00:19:47,988 - Yeah. 504 00:19:48,055 --> 00:19:51,725 - Do you understand that, if you go on the trip, 505 00:19:51,792 --> 00:19:53,527 you're not gonna spend Christmas here, 506 00:19:53,594 --> 00:19:54,794 or your break here? 507 00:19:54,861 --> 00:19:56,830 You're gonna be with your dad and his family. 508 00:19:56,897 --> 00:19:59,266 - Like, this is the country. - OK. 509 00:19:59,333 --> 00:20:02,202 - I fly all the way to the other side? 510 00:20:02,269 --> 00:20:03,771 - Yeah. - What? 511 00:20:03,838 --> 00:20:05,706 So this is you, and this is me. 512 00:20:05,773 --> 00:20:07,140 - I'm gonna be on the other side. 513 00:20:07,207 --> 00:20:08,742 You can't call me, like, if you're at your dad's house 514 00:20:08,809 --> 00:20:11,812 and say, "I want to come home," and I come over and get you. 515 00:20:11,879 --> 00:20:14,481 Are you OK with that? - Yes. 516 00:20:14,547 --> 00:20:16,750 - OK. 517 00:20:16,817 --> 00:20:18,619 We're both really good parents. 518 00:20:18,686 --> 00:20:21,355 He is a really good dad. He loves Ry. 519 00:20:21,422 --> 00:20:22,822 He loves all his girls. 520 00:20:22,889 --> 00:20:24,658 So I have to respect that, 521 00:20:24,724 --> 00:20:29,796 and I have to allow him to create memories 522 00:20:29,863 --> 00:20:33,467 with Ryder and his family that are just for them. 523 00:20:33,534 --> 00:20:35,936 And because of that, I'm trying not to be selfish 524 00:20:36,003 --> 00:20:38,772 in my own feelings, and it's hard. 525 00:20:38,839 --> 00:20:40,707 It's hard for me to hide them. 526 00:20:40,774 --> 00:20:45,312 ♪♪ ♪♪ 527 00:20:49,350 --> 00:20:52,252 [upbeat music] 528 00:20:52,319 --> 00:20:55,756 ♪♪ ♪♪ 529 00:20:55,823 --> 00:20:59,593 - Homeschooling is not easy, not for the faint of heart. 530 00:20:59,660 --> 00:21:02,129 Big round of applause for all the teachers out there. 531 00:21:02,196 --> 00:21:03,830 This has been so tough. 532 00:21:03,897 --> 00:21:08,635 But I need some adult time, some me time, some tea time. 533 00:21:08,702 --> 00:21:10,337 So I'm gonna go out tonight 534 00:21:10,404 --> 00:21:12,405 and have some dinner with my friend Karem 535 00:21:12,472 --> 00:21:13,907 and my friend Chelsea. 536 00:21:13,974 --> 00:21:15,442 - Hi! - Hey. 537 00:21:15,509 --> 00:21:17,210 - This is my friend, Karem. - Nice to meet you. 538 00:21:17,277 --> 00:21:18,345 I'm Chelsea. - Hi. 539 00:21:18,412 --> 00:21:21,482 ♪♪ ♪♪ 540 00:21:21,549 --> 00:21:23,484 - Me and Karem used to be friends 541 00:21:23,550 --> 00:21:24,852 when we were, like, I don't even know how old 542 00:21:24,918 --> 00:21:27,688 it was, like, 14? - Don't say the ages. 543 00:21:27,754 --> 00:21:32,092 - And then, Chelsea, I haven't seen you since the wedding. 544 00:21:32,159 --> 00:21:33,627 - Yeah. - It was fun. 545 00:21:33,693 --> 00:21:36,397 Did you have fun? - I had a great time. 546 00:21:36,463 --> 00:21:38,299 - I just talked to Amber. 547 00:21:38,365 --> 00:21:40,367 She said that she had a great time. 548 00:21:40,434 --> 00:21:43,604 ♪♪ ♪♪ 549 00:21:43,670 --> 00:21:45,739 - But I think she has a new boyfriend now. 550 00:21:45,806 --> 00:21:49,476 - I don't-- you know, the details are a little fuzzy, 551 00:21:49,543 --> 00:21:51,245 but I had a great time. 552 00:21:51,311 --> 00:21:53,080 - Love was in the air. 553 00:21:53,147 --> 00:21:54,615 - So how is it being married? 554 00:21:54,682 --> 00:21:56,884 - I think it just feels mad professional, 555 00:21:56,950 --> 00:21:59,686 when I'm like, "My husband," 556 00:21:59,753 --> 00:22:02,056 instead of being like, "My boyfriend!" 557 00:22:02,122 --> 00:22:04,558 So pray for me. 558 00:22:04,624 --> 00:22:07,695 You know, I took Kloie out of school. 559 00:22:07,761 --> 00:22:10,698 I've been homeschooling her because Kloie 560 00:22:10,764 --> 00:22:12,566 was kind of getting picked on. She'd come home. 561 00:22:12,633 --> 00:22:14,067 She would cry and say she didn't want 562 00:22:14,134 --> 00:22:15,135 to go to school, which was weird 563 00:22:15,201 --> 00:22:16,737 because she loved preschool. 564 00:22:16,804 --> 00:22:19,540 So, right now, I'm just looking into gonna a private school, 565 00:22:19,607 --> 00:22:21,208 like, not doing homeschooling forever. 566 00:22:21,275 --> 00:22:22,643 - Are you the only one homeschooling her, 567 00:22:22,709 --> 00:22:24,545 or does Sean help? - We both do it. 568 00:22:24,611 --> 00:22:26,279 But Sean's obviously home with her more. 569 00:22:26,346 --> 00:22:27,648 So he does it. 570 00:22:27,715 --> 00:22:30,718 But I know it's got to be hard, staying at home. 571 00:22:30,784 --> 00:22:32,152 I feel like that job is harder than what I do. 572 00:22:32,219 --> 00:22:33,554 I couldn't stay at home. 573 00:22:33,621 --> 00:22:34,888 - I tried to home-school my daughter 574 00:22:34,955 --> 00:22:39,493 for, like, two weeks. I don't have it in me. 575 00:22:39,559 --> 00:22:42,662 - Really quick, to mom's night out. 576 00:22:44,231 --> 00:22:46,867 Cheers, guys. 577 00:22:46,934 --> 00:22:48,469 ♪♪ ♪♪ 578 00:22:48,535 --> 00:22:50,103 - Nope, still don't like it. 579 00:22:50,170 --> 00:22:57,277 ♪♪ ♪♪ 580 00:23:02,950 --> 00:23:07,020 - I mean, the home-school is not for the weak-hearted. 581 00:23:07,087 --> 00:23:08,488 - Yeah. 582 00:23:08,555 --> 00:23:10,690 - Sometimes, I'm a little quick to get upset, 583 00:23:10,757 --> 00:23:13,560 but being around her all day long, 584 00:23:13,627 --> 00:23:18,599 every minute of the day, is not easy to do. 585 00:23:18,665 --> 00:23:20,167 I feel like she needs her own time. 586 00:23:20,234 --> 00:23:21,502 I need my own time. 587 00:23:21,569 --> 00:23:23,604 And you need your own time, too, so... 588 00:23:23,671 --> 00:23:25,339 - Yeah, going back to school, I think 589 00:23:25,405 --> 00:23:26,840 she'll be a lot happier because when 590 00:23:26,907 --> 00:23:29,577 she was at the private preschool, 591 00:23:29,643 --> 00:23:32,480 she was really happy. - Yeah. 592 00:23:32,546 --> 00:23:35,082 - I think once Kloie starts back in private school, 593 00:23:35,148 --> 00:23:38,686 it'll be way better for me and Sean's relationship. 594 00:23:38,753 --> 00:23:40,454 I think this whole experience 595 00:23:40,521 --> 00:23:41,955 just made me hypervigilant 596 00:23:42,022 --> 00:23:44,725 on what I'm looking for in a school. 597 00:23:44,792 --> 00:23:47,594 I think a lot of this is just, like, a learning curve 598 00:23:47,661 --> 00:23:49,162 and a learning experience on how 599 00:23:49,229 --> 00:23:50,797 we make choices for our kid. 600 00:23:50,864 --> 00:23:53,734 And it'll be such a huge relief when 601 00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:57,271 we get her into a school that, you know, fits her, 602 00:23:57,338 --> 00:23:59,973 and she's happy. 603 00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:03,143 - ♪♪ We were formed in the fire ♪♪ 604 00:24:03,210 --> 00:24:05,245 ♪♪ Gasoline to the fire ♪♪ 605 00:24:05,312 --> 00:24:07,448 - Hey, y'all, Bentley spent some more time 606 00:24:07,515 --> 00:24:09,349 studying for his permit test, 607 00:24:09,416 --> 00:24:11,252 so he took it again. 608 00:24:11,318 --> 00:24:12,719 - Passed. 609 00:24:12,786 --> 00:24:16,123 - He got his learner's permit! 610 00:24:16,190 --> 00:24:17,290 Terrifying. 611 00:24:17,357 --> 00:24:19,693 How do you feel? - Relieved. 612 00:24:19,760 --> 00:24:21,428 - Are you ready? - Yes. 613 00:24:21,495 --> 00:24:22,896 - I'm not! 614 00:24:22,963 --> 00:24:24,431 ♪♪ ♪♪ 615 00:24:24,498 --> 00:24:26,600 - ♪♪ When we rise like a phoenix ♪♪ 616 00:24:26,667 --> 00:24:29,269 ♪♪ Back from the ashes ♪♪ 617 00:24:29,336 --> 00:24:34,107 ♪♪ Nothing's gonna keep us down, down, down, yeah ♪♪ 618 00:24:34,174 --> 00:24:40,013 ♪♪ ♪♪ 619 00:24:40,080 --> 00:24:41,915 - Bentley, did you get your learner's permit? 620 00:24:41,982 --> 00:24:43,717 - Mm-hmm. - You pass your test? 621 00:24:43,784 --> 00:24:46,419 - Yeah. - Boom. 622 00:24:49,289 --> 00:24:52,292 - That thing that's up here in the windshield, 623 00:24:52,359 --> 00:24:54,027 it's called a rear view mirror. 624 00:24:54,094 --> 00:24:56,863 And that is used when people are behind you 625 00:24:56,930 --> 00:24:58,565 and they want by. 626 00:24:58,632 --> 00:24:59,900 You put that thing that's called a blinker on, 627 00:24:59,967 --> 00:25:03,503 and you move over and let the fast guy go on by. 628 00:25:03,570 --> 00:25:06,006 - Ryan, you got any rules? - Just be careful. 629 00:25:06,072 --> 00:25:10,177 - I guess you could say that poetic justice is being served 630 00:25:10,244 --> 00:25:12,979 right now with Ryan having a restricted license, 631 00:25:13,046 --> 00:25:16,984 while Bentley is getting a restricted license. 632 00:25:17,051 --> 00:25:19,653 I mean, at least Bentley's got a perfect example 633 00:25:19,720 --> 00:25:21,355 of what not to do. 634 00:25:21,422 --> 00:25:24,358 - ♪♪ We'll be all right ♪♪ 635 00:25:24,425 --> 00:25:31,131 ♪♪ ♪♪ 636 00:25:31,198 --> 00:25:33,634 - After doing some research, I found a long-term 637 00:25:33,700 --> 00:25:36,003 rehab program for my dad. 638 00:25:36,070 --> 00:25:40,174 So, today, I'm going to pick him up from detox, 639 00:25:40,241 --> 00:25:41,508 and I'm gonna take him there. 640 00:25:41,575 --> 00:25:42,877 I think that it will be good for us 641 00:25:42,943 --> 00:25:44,811 to have that time alone and kind of 642 00:25:44,878 --> 00:25:45,946 try to get to know each other. 643 00:25:48,415 --> 00:25:49,850 All right, you ready? 644 00:25:49,916 --> 00:25:52,786 - Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. - Whoo! 645 00:25:52,853 --> 00:25:54,188 - ♪♪ I don't give a ♪♪ 646 00:25:54,255 --> 00:25:57,023 ♪♪ I don't care what the world thinks ♪♪ 647 00:25:59,193 --> 00:26:01,161 - How are you? Are you just feeling anxious? 648 00:26:01,228 --> 00:26:02,763 I feel like you're-- - How am I feeling? 649 00:26:02,830 --> 00:26:04,832 - Yeah, I feel like you're a little fidgety over there. 650 00:26:04,898 --> 00:26:07,101 - I am, a little bit. 651 00:26:07,168 --> 00:26:09,703 I mean, I-- 652 00:26:09,770 --> 00:26:12,739 I don't know what to expect. - Mm-hmm. 653 00:26:12,806 --> 00:26:15,843 - I just hope these people are as good as the last ones. 654 00:26:15,910 --> 00:26:20,547 - When I went into the rehab facility in Arizona, 655 00:26:20,614 --> 00:26:22,916 I was scared. - You was? 656 00:26:22,983 --> 00:26:26,386 - Yes. - So how are you feeling? 657 00:26:26,453 --> 00:26:29,656 - I am so-- a little tired. 658 00:26:29,723 --> 00:26:31,424 And I've been sick to my stomach. 659 00:26:31,491 --> 00:26:33,060 I'm gonna need help with the girls 660 00:26:33,127 --> 00:26:38,432 while I go and do his therapy, like, like, I guess, 661 00:26:38,498 --> 00:26:40,134 at a facility or something. 662 00:26:40,200 --> 00:26:41,668 So you guys are gonna go to your daddy's tomorrow, 663 00:26:41,735 --> 00:26:43,437 and Mommy's gonna go leave 664 00:26:43,504 --> 00:26:45,239 to go to therapy for a little while. 665 00:26:45,305 --> 00:26:48,075 Listen, so I'm just gonna leave for a few weeks, OK? 666 00:26:48,141 --> 00:26:50,678 And Mommy's gonna talk to you every day. 667 00:26:50,744 --> 00:26:52,012 I think, more than anything, 668 00:26:52,078 --> 00:26:54,047 I didn't want to have to leave my kids. 669 00:26:54,114 --> 00:26:57,718 But I know that leaving my kids was-- 670 00:26:57,785 --> 00:27:01,788 for 30 days was the best thing 671 00:27:01,855 --> 00:27:03,657 that I could do for them at that time. 672 00:27:03,724 --> 00:27:05,426 They were my life. 673 00:27:05,492 --> 00:27:06,993 I was never a bad mom. 674 00:27:07,060 --> 00:27:08,529 I just got hooked on medications 675 00:27:08,595 --> 00:27:09,963 that were prescribed to me. 676 00:27:10,030 --> 00:27:12,599 And then I felt like it was sink or swim, 677 00:27:12,666 --> 00:27:14,167 but I kept sinking. 678 00:27:14,234 --> 00:27:17,170 - Yeah, well, I felt so bad doing them with you myself. 679 00:27:17,237 --> 00:27:19,606 It still bugs me. 680 00:27:21,508 --> 00:27:23,077 I've given you a stick of dynamite. 681 00:27:23,143 --> 00:27:26,079 Be careful of this. It's lit. But-- 682 00:27:28,215 --> 00:27:29,749 - It's OK. 683 00:27:31,518 --> 00:27:33,720 - Hey, you got to be careful with a stick of dynamite. 684 00:27:35,188 --> 00:27:38,925 - If anything, I held a bigger grudge because 685 00:27:38,992 --> 00:27:40,427 you just vanished when I was young. 686 00:27:40,494 --> 00:27:42,496 And I think there was a lot of responsibility 687 00:27:42,563 --> 00:27:45,499 put on me as the oldest. 688 00:27:45,565 --> 00:27:47,033 And, yes, I looked like you, 689 00:27:47,100 --> 00:27:50,304 and I acted a little bit like you. 690 00:27:50,370 --> 00:27:53,773 And I-- Mom was angry. 691 00:27:57,010 --> 00:27:59,680 There's always a mountain to climb. 692 00:27:59,747 --> 00:28:01,047 You just got to keep climbing. 693 00:28:01,114 --> 00:28:02,483 And then, when you think that there's 694 00:28:02,550 --> 00:28:03,617 not gonna be another mountain, 695 00:28:03,684 --> 00:28:05,018 let me just tell you what. 696 00:28:05,085 --> 00:28:06,353 There will be another mother[bleep] mountain 697 00:28:06,419 --> 00:28:07,721 that you got to climb. 698 00:28:07,788 --> 00:28:09,756 And you just got to keep going. 699 00:28:09,823 --> 00:28:12,159 You got to keep going. - Yep. 700 00:28:12,226 --> 00:28:14,161 - Now the ball is in your court. 701 00:28:14,227 --> 00:28:15,763 - Yep. 702 00:28:15,829 --> 00:28:18,132 You know, I've not only got the position 703 00:28:18,198 --> 00:28:19,800 of getting my life back in order, 704 00:28:19,866 --> 00:28:22,169 but being able to be in my grandkids' life. 705 00:28:22,236 --> 00:28:25,172 You lose so much of your life on that stuff that you don't-- 706 00:28:25,239 --> 00:28:28,375 you don't even know. You don't even realize. 707 00:28:28,441 --> 00:28:33,447 - If you stick to this and you follow through-- 708 00:28:33,514 --> 00:28:34,781 - If, what you mean, if? 709 00:28:34,848 --> 00:28:38,619 - When you follow through with this 710 00:28:38,685 --> 00:28:41,721 and you keep up with your recovery, 711 00:28:41,788 --> 00:28:44,724 that's really where your starting over 712 00:28:44,791 --> 00:28:46,393 will come into play. 713 00:28:46,460 --> 00:28:50,831 And I think a lot of times that you might have missed out 714 00:28:50,897 --> 00:28:53,233 on with us, you'll be able to regain that 715 00:28:53,300 --> 00:28:56,636 and find healing in building a relationship 716 00:28:56,703 --> 00:28:57,804 with your grandchildren. 717 00:28:57,871 --> 00:28:59,373 It's your legacy. 718 00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:01,075 - You know, that's a big part of my recovery. 719 00:29:01,141 --> 00:29:02,342 - Yes. 720 00:29:02,409 --> 00:29:06,880 - Because if I even go back, I lose all that. 721 00:29:06,947 --> 00:29:09,250 - Yeah. - Look what I'm losing. 722 00:29:09,316 --> 00:29:10,684 [somber pop music] 723 00:29:10,751 --> 00:29:12,152 - ♪♪ Everything's changed ♪♪ 724 00:29:12,219 --> 00:29:14,855 ♪♪ Now, you're on a plane, leaving ♪♪ 725 00:29:14,921 --> 00:29:16,423 - Uh-oh, there it is. 726 00:29:16,490 --> 00:29:20,127 - ♪♪ All you know for ♪♪ 727 00:29:20,194 --> 00:29:21,761 - It's pretty! 728 00:29:21,828 --> 00:29:23,330 - It don't look too old, does it? 729 00:29:23,397 --> 00:29:24,932 - No, it looks nice. 730 00:29:24,998 --> 00:29:27,468 It looks homey. 731 00:29:27,534 --> 00:29:28,935 All right, you ready? 732 00:29:31,138 --> 00:29:35,743 - I got to strip search, get in the shower. 733 00:29:35,809 --> 00:29:37,945 - You got this. 734 00:29:38,012 --> 00:29:39,947 There's a lot of mixed emotions. 735 00:29:40,014 --> 00:29:42,816 And it's scary because here I am, 736 00:29:42,883 --> 00:29:44,117 getting emotionally invested. 737 00:29:44,184 --> 00:29:46,954 But I am beyond proud of my dad 738 00:29:47,020 --> 00:29:49,690 for taking the step to go to rehab. 739 00:29:49,757 --> 00:29:52,459 It's not an easy step to make, 740 00:29:52,526 --> 00:29:55,329 especially knowing what you're gonna go through 741 00:29:55,395 --> 00:30:02,002 and staying committed. He's about to go in. 742 00:30:02,069 --> 00:30:06,340 I'm proud of this young man, this young mountain man. 743 00:30:06,407 --> 00:30:09,643 Let's go. You ready? 744 00:30:09,709 --> 00:30:11,712 You got any last words? - Huh? 745 00:30:11,779 --> 00:30:13,581 - You got any last words to say? 746 00:30:13,647 --> 00:30:15,115 Or, well-- - No, let's get it done. 747 00:30:15,182 --> 00:30:16,417 - Let's get it. - Get her done. 748 00:30:16,483 --> 00:30:18,718 - OK, let's get her done. 749 00:30:25,492 --> 00:30:27,194 - ♪♪ It feels good to be me ♪♪ 750 00:30:27,261 --> 00:30:30,030 ♪♪ Na, na, na, na, na, na ♪♪ 751 00:30:30,096 --> 00:30:32,265 ♪♪ It feels good to be free ♪♪ 752 00:30:32,332 --> 00:30:33,800 - Hey, y'all. 753 00:30:33,867 --> 00:30:35,269 OK, I really need y'all to pray for me 754 00:30:35,335 --> 00:30:36,971 because I'm about to take Bentley 755 00:30:37,037 --> 00:30:39,573 on his first practice drive. 756 00:30:41,308 --> 00:30:42,943 I'm anxious to see how this goes. 757 00:30:43,010 --> 00:30:45,345 I'm definitely not gonna be buying a 15-year-old 758 00:30:45,412 --> 00:30:46,814 a car anytime soon. 759 00:30:46,880 --> 00:30:50,050 So, for now, he'll just use mine and Taylor's cars. 760 00:30:50,116 --> 00:30:51,718 Bless us. 761 00:30:51,785 --> 00:30:54,054 - ♪♪ It feels good to be free ♪♪ 762 00:30:54,121 --> 00:30:55,989 ♪♪ Da, da, da, da, da, da ♪♪ 763 00:30:56,056 --> 00:30:57,491 ♪♪ Yeah ♪♪ 764 00:30:57,558 --> 00:31:00,527 ♪♪ It feels good to be me ♪♪ 765 00:31:00,594 --> 00:31:05,032 - For now, obviously you can't drive with anybody 766 00:31:05,099 --> 00:31:07,968 but me and Taylor. 767 00:31:08,034 --> 00:31:09,870 If you're at your mee-mee and papaw's and want to, 768 00:31:09,937 --> 00:31:12,606 and they're OK with it, I don't see why not, 769 00:31:12,672 --> 00:31:14,441 but I want you to get some practice under your belt 770 00:31:14,507 --> 00:31:15,775 before you drive with Ryan. 771 00:31:17,211 --> 00:31:19,146 - I'm backing up. 772 00:31:19,213 --> 00:31:22,049 [upbeat music] 773 00:31:22,116 --> 00:31:26,453 ♪♪ ♪♪ 774 00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:29,056 - I got a fun little test for you. 775 00:31:29,122 --> 00:31:30,757 Just try and parallel park. 776 00:31:30,824 --> 00:31:32,993 ♪♪ ♪♪ 777 00:31:33,059 --> 00:31:34,261 We have cones. - Oh. 778 00:31:34,328 --> 00:31:35,462 - [laughs] 779 00:31:37,164 --> 00:31:40,000 [soft dramatic music] 780 00:31:40,067 --> 00:31:42,769 So we have to pretend like there's cars. 781 00:31:47,341 --> 00:31:50,777 - Now, all the way left, and go slow, slow. 782 00:31:52,512 --> 00:31:54,514 You're hitting the cones. 783 00:31:57,551 --> 00:31:58,886 The cones are the car. 784 00:31:58,953 --> 00:32:02,389 [upbeat music] 785 00:32:02,455 --> 00:32:05,225 OK, put it in park. Let's go look and see. 786 00:32:05,292 --> 00:32:07,594 ♪♪ ♪♪ 787 00:32:07,661 --> 00:32:10,263 Bentley is learning to drive. 788 00:32:10,330 --> 00:32:11,732 Are you on the concrete? 789 00:32:11,799 --> 00:32:14,168 - I did perfect. 790 00:32:14,234 --> 00:32:16,003 - I wouldn't say perfect. 791 00:32:16,069 --> 00:32:18,172 But it's not terrible. 792 00:32:18,239 --> 00:32:20,808 I mean, you really have to have faith and trust 793 00:32:20,875 --> 00:32:24,044 that you've done a good job as a parent. 794 00:32:24,111 --> 00:32:28,215 But they have to learn to trust themselves and-- 795 00:32:28,282 --> 00:32:30,150 and make decisions on their own. 796 00:32:30,217 --> 00:32:33,420 But it's absolutely terrifying. 797 00:32:33,487 --> 00:32:36,323 ♪♪ ♪♪ 798 00:32:36,390 --> 00:32:39,292 [soft dramatic music] 799 00:32:39,359 --> 00:32:43,397 ♪♪ ♪♪ 800 00:32:43,463 --> 00:32:45,866 - Mom says she's on her way. 801 00:32:45,932 --> 00:32:48,235 - How are you feeling? - I'm feeling OK. 802 00:32:48,301 --> 00:32:50,404 How are you feeling? - I don't know. 803 00:32:50,471 --> 00:32:52,172 - Part of me wants to believe 804 00:32:52,239 --> 00:32:53,740 it's gonna be the best conversation we've ever 805 00:32:53,807 --> 00:32:55,609 had throughout our whole life, 806 00:32:55,675 --> 00:32:59,212 but then another part of me is like, "Hmm, 807 00:32:59,279 --> 00:33:01,182 we're not gonna get anywhere." We'll figure it out. 808 00:33:01,248 --> 00:33:03,984 - I just hope she respects the fact that the kids are here, 809 00:33:04,051 --> 00:33:05,452 and she doesn't act out. 810 00:33:05,519 --> 00:33:06,921 ♪♪ ♪♪ 811 00:33:06,987 --> 00:33:09,523 - ♪♪ Oh, you never saw it coming ♪♪ 812 00:33:09,590 --> 00:33:12,726 ♪♪ Break you with a bang so easily ♪♪ 813 00:33:12,792 --> 00:33:14,995 ♪♪ Oh, you never saw it coming ♪♪ 814 00:33:15,061 --> 00:33:17,130 - Whoever guesses it right, whoever guesses right-- 815 00:33:17,197 --> 00:33:20,434 Yeah. - Sushi. 816 00:33:20,500 --> 00:33:22,435 - Dumplings! - Hey, you're so smart. 817 00:33:22,502 --> 00:33:24,237 Get out of here. - For real. 818 00:33:24,304 --> 00:33:25,906 - A cat. 819 00:33:25,973 --> 00:33:29,343 A pig, a pig, a roasted pig! - Yes! 820 00:33:29,410 --> 00:33:30,644 - Hi, guys. 821 00:33:30,711 --> 00:33:32,813 - Hey. - Hey, Mom. 822 00:33:32,879 --> 00:33:35,081 - What's happening? - What are you doing? 823 00:33:35,148 --> 00:33:37,417 - Hey, Brittany. - Hey. 824 00:33:37,484 --> 00:33:40,354 - All right, I want you guys to go 825 00:33:40,421 --> 00:33:41,888 play a video game with Steven. 826 00:33:41,955 --> 00:33:44,124 - Go play with your uncle, please. 827 00:33:46,994 --> 00:33:48,128 - How are you, mom? 828 00:33:48,194 --> 00:33:49,563 - I feel like I got hit by a truck. 829 00:33:49,630 --> 00:33:51,699 [bleep] everything. 830 00:33:51,765 --> 00:33:54,834 Menopause, my anxiety is through the roof. 831 00:33:54,901 --> 00:33:57,571 Just everything hit me at once. 832 00:33:57,637 --> 00:33:59,306 - Is it 'cause you're alone? 833 00:33:59,373 --> 00:34:02,208 When we all lived with you, it was a great distraction. 834 00:34:02,275 --> 00:34:05,279 And now, you don't have that distraction anymore. 835 00:34:05,346 --> 00:34:06,480 You start to get in your thoughts, 836 00:34:06,547 --> 00:34:08,048 and I don't think they're pretty thoughts. 837 00:34:08,114 --> 00:34:09,583 - No. 838 00:34:09,650 --> 00:34:11,652 - And now, you're just going downhill. 839 00:34:11,718 --> 00:34:15,089 - I am, really, really fast. 840 00:34:15,155 --> 00:34:18,125 I'm so cold, my back. 841 00:34:18,192 --> 00:34:20,093 You have traumas. 842 00:34:20,160 --> 00:34:22,830 You have traumas, right? We all have them. 843 00:34:22,896 --> 00:34:24,331 - Mm-hmm. 844 00:34:24,397 --> 00:34:25,900 - But there are some traumas 845 00:34:25,966 --> 00:34:27,868 that you just don't come back from. 846 00:34:27,935 --> 00:34:32,006 The toxicity that I grew up around, 847 00:34:32,073 --> 00:34:35,275 and I don't only mean, like, regular dysfunction, 848 00:34:35,342 --> 00:34:37,444 I mean addiction. 849 00:34:37,510 --> 00:34:39,246 Shooting heroin into my father's arm 850 00:34:39,312 --> 00:34:41,649 was the least of my worries. 851 00:34:41,715 --> 00:34:43,617 - So how do you feel if you can't come back 852 00:34:43,684 --> 00:34:44,985 from some traumas, 853 00:34:45,052 --> 00:34:46,787 this stuff that you've done to us? 854 00:34:46,854 --> 00:34:48,789 You treat me like [bleep]. You talk to me like [bleep]. 855 00:34:48,856 --> 00:34:50,724 You always cross the [bleep] boundary. 856 00:34:50,791 --> 00:34:51,959 And what if we can't come back from that 857 00:34:52,026 --> 00:34:53,527 and we just can't be around you? 858 00:34:53,593 --> 00:34:55,763 - And that's the [bleep] truck that's hitting me right now. 859 00:34:55,829 --> 00:34:59,032 The fear, the anxiety for what I've done to you guys, 860 00:34:59,099 --> 00:35:01,168 what I've put you guys through, in particular you, 861 00:35:01,234 --> 00:35:03,103 those are the things that I have to deal with. 862 00:35:03,170 --> 00:35:05,306 - At the end of the day, your mental health 863 00:35:05,372 --> 00:35:07,574 is doing too much to us, and especially to me, 864 00:35:07,641 --> 00:35:09,910 and I cannot take it no more. - I agree. 865 00:35:09,976 --> 00:35:11,712 - So then get the mental help. - You're getting married. 866 00:35:11,778 --> 00:35:13,013 I want us to focus on that. 867 00:35:13,079 --> 00:35:15,015 - You might not be there if you act like this. 868 00:35:15,081 --> 00:35:17,751 - I can't even believe you're bringing that up right now. 869 00:35:17,818 --> 00:35:20,120 - Because it's the truth. - That is such a low blow. 870 00:35:20,187 --> 00:35:23,857 - It's not a low blow. - I'm gonna go. 871 00:35:23,924 --> 00:35:27,061 No, no, no, no, no, no, I'm not doing this. 872 00:35:27,127 --> 00:35:30,297 I'm not doing this, no. - See what I mean? 873 00:35:30,363 --> 00:35:31,798 The wedding? 874 00:35:31,865 --> 00:35:34,735 That is the ultimate, the ultimate. 875 00:35:34,802 --> 00:35:37,003 - You're not taking accountability for nothing. 876 00:35:37,070 --> 00:35:38,371 Like, literally, what the [bleep] 877 00:35:38,438 --> 00:35:40,140 is this conversation? It does not make sense. 878 00:35:40,207 --> 00:35:41,808 [tense music] 879 00:35:59,393 --> 00:36:02,162 - ♪♪ That's our style ♪♪ 880 00:36:02,229 --> 00:36:05,232 ♪♪ That's our style ♪♪ 881 00:36:05,299 --> 00:36:06,600 [upbeat music] 882 00:36:06,667 --> 00:36:08,102 ♪♪ Look how we grow ♪♪ 883 00:36:08,169 --> 00:36:11,305 ♪♪ We start the fire, we start the show ♪♪ 884 00:36:11,372 --> 00:36:13,406 - Oh, that's how. 885 00:36:13,473 --> 00:36:16,911 That's how it's going around here now. 886 00:36:16,977 --> 00:36:19,914 Ace, I'm gonna have to talk to you later too. 887 00:36:19,980 --> 00:36:24,451 - I just want to say, it was never a problem for her 888 00:36:24,518 --> 00:36:27,320 to go and be with you or your family. 889 00:36:27,387 --> 00:36:30,357 My issue was just the way that you went about it. 890 00:36:30,424 --> 00:36:33,193 I feel like the reason that we co-parent so well, 891 00:36:33,260 --> 00:36:35,595 and have, and I want to continue to do 892 00:36:35,662 --> 00:36:37,664 is the way that we communicate. 893 00:36:37,731 --> 00:36:40,968 - You know, I could have went about it differently, for sure. 894 00:36:41,035 --> 00:36:44,204 I apologize for putting that all on you at once, right? 895 00:36:44,271 --> 00:36:45,772 That's not fair for you. 896 00:36:45,839 --> 00:36:48,475 - Zach told me earlier that I have to just think 897 00:36:48,542 --> 00:36:50,811 about what we always preach, and that that's 898 00:36:50,877 --> 00:36:52,479 that the kids come first, 899 00:36:52,546 --> 00:36:54,014 and that's the only way that this can work. 900 00:36:54,081 --> 00:36:56,817 So I talked to Ryder about it, 901 00:36:56,883 --> 00:36:59,787 and I asked Ry what she wanted to do. 902 00:36:59,853 --> 00:37:01,355 - Mm-hmm. 903 00:37:01,421 --> 00:37:04,524 - She definitely is excited about going, 904 00:37:04,591 --> 00:37:08,729 and I'm not gonna take that away from her. 905 00:37:08,796 --> 00:37:11,031 - Good! 906 00:37:11,097 --> 00:37:16,203 So the answer is yes! 907 00:37:16,269 --> 00:37:19,473 - But I don't want that to become a trend, 908 00:37:19,540 --> 00:37:21,174 especially for, like, holidays, 909 00:37:21,241 --> 00:37:23,076 because Christmas is a big deal... 910 00:37:23,143 --> 00:37:24,478 - Right. 911 00:37:24,544 --> 00:37:26,479 - And I want her too. 912 00:37:26,546 --> 00:37:29,116 I think, moving forward, ideally, 913 00:37:29,182 --> 00:37:30,918 I don't want to start a trend of, like, 914 00:37:30,984 --> 00:37:33,186 you have her this Christmas and I have her next Christmas, 915 00:37:33,253 --> 00:37:35,455 especially if we're both home 916 00:37:35,522 --> 00:37:36,757 and we're ten minutes away from each other. 917 00:37:36,823 --> 00:37:38,425 There's no reason to me why Ryder 918 00:37:38,492 --> 00:37:39,960 can't experience both of her parents 919 00:37:40,027 --> 00:37:41,462 on Christmas Day. 920 00:37:41,528 --> 00:37:43,831 The conversation comes into place if one of us 921 00:37:43,897 --> 00:37:45,332 want to travel that year. 922 00:37:45,398 --> 00:37:48,101 I just think the times where that happens, 923 00:37:48,168 --> 00:37:52,372 a conversation is held prior to a conversation with her, 924 00:37:52,439 --> 00:37:53,840 and prior to a ticket being purchased. 925 00:37:53,907 --> 00:37:55,809 - Yes, ma'am. 926 00:37:57,678 --> 00:38:00,647 I'll come by and pick her up and grab all her stuff 927 00:38:00,714 --> 00:38:04,151 and, yeah, we'll be on our way. - OK. 928 00:38:04,218 --> 00:38:07,154 [somber music] 929 00:38:07,221 --> 00:38:10,557 ♪♪ ♪♪ 930 00:38:10,624 --> 00:38:12,492 The Grinch is here. 931 00:38:12,559 --> 00:38:15,762 The Grinch is here! 932 00:38:15,829 --> 00:38:17,464 I'm sorry. 933 00:38:17,531 --> 00:38:19,199 You made me feel so bad. 934 00:38:19,266 --> 00:38:22,369 ♪♪ ♪♪ 935 00:38:22,436 --> 00:38:24,471 - Actually, I'm gonna cry. 936 00:38:24,538 --> 00:38:26,840 Ry, I'm gonna miss you, OK? - OK. 937 00:38:26,907 --> 00:38:30,010 - You're gonna have the best Christmas ever, OK? 938 00:38:30,076 --> 00:38:31,578 Just remember to call me. 939 00:38:33,347 --> 00:38:36,883 Co-parenting comes with sacrifice. 940 00:38:38,052 --> 00:38:40,387 - You're OK. 941 00:38:40,453 --> 00:38:43,157 I'm proud of you. I am. 942 00:38:43,224 --> 00:38:44,758 - It's weird because I have two kids, 943 00:38:44,825 --> 00:38:46,660 so I have to suck it up and get it together 944 00:38:46,727 --> 00:38:50,497 because I still have to make it a good Christmas for my son. 945 00:38:50,564 --> 00:38:53,333 But at the end of the day, we're gonna miss her. 946 00:38:53,400 --> 00:38:54,735 I'm gonna miss her. 947 00:38:54,802 --> 00:39:00,173 ♪♪ ♪♪ 948 00:39:00,240 --> 00:39:03,243 [soft dramatic music] 949 00:39:03,310 --> 00:39:05,012 ♪♪ ♪♪ 950 00:39:05,079 --> 00:39:06,747 - [bleep] wedding. 951 00:39:06,813 --> 00:39:08,883 I can't believe she just said that. 952 00:39:08,949 --> 00:39:11,618 - You knew she was gonna act a fool 953 00:39:11,685 --> 00:39:12,986 the moment you brought that up. 954 00:39:13,053 --> 00:39:15,022 ♪♪ ♪♪ 955 00:39:15,089 --> 00:39:17,224 - She's doing too much. I'm over her. 956 00:39:17,291 --> 00:39:21,495 ♪♪ ♪♪ 957 00:39:21,562 --> 00:39:25,132 - Mm-mm, I'm tired of [bleep] living this life. 958 00:39:25,199 --> 00:39:28,536 ♪♪ ♪♪ 959 00:39:28,602 --> 00:39:30,270 - What is that? 960 00:39:30,337 --> 00:39:32,873 ♪♪ ♪♪ 961 00:39:32,940 --> 00:39:35,943 What is that? What is that? 962 00:39:36,010 --> 00:39:37,544 What's in there? 963 00:39:37,611 --> 00:39:39,246 - The medication I paid for, Briana. 964 00:39:39,313 --> 00:39:40,714 Help yourself. 965 00:39:40,781 --> 00:39:43,550 It's a narcotic. It's methadone! 966 00:39:47,988 --> 00:39:49,289 - You were on drugs? 967 00:39:49,356 --> 00:39:52,259 [somber music] 968 00:39:52,326 --> 00:39:58,231 ♪♪ ♪♪ 969 00:39:58,298 --> 00:40:01,234 - ♪♪ Do you even care? ♪♪ 970 00:40:01,301 --> 00:40:04,571 ♪♪ Did you ever love me? ♪♪ 971 00:40:04,638 --> 00:40:09,810 ♪♪ Are you even there, love? ♪♪ 972 00:40:09,877 --> 00:40:11,678 ♪♪ ♪♪ 973 00:40:11,745 --> 00:40:16,784 ♪♪ Where do we go from here? ♪♪ 974 00:40:16,851 --> 00:40:22,823 ♪♪ Never knew we could fall this far ♪♪ 975 00:40:22,889 --> 00:40:29,062 ♪♪ I can feel it fall apart ♪♪ 976 00:40:29,129 --> 00:40:31,665 ♪♪ So where do we go? ♪♪ 977 00:40:31,732 --> 00:40:35,269 ♪♪ Where do we go from here? ♪♪ 978 00:40:35,335 --> 00:40:41,308 ♪♪ I can feel it fall apart ♪♪ 979 00:40:41,375 --> 00:40:43,744 ♪♪ So where do we go? ♪♪ 980 00:40:43,811 --> 00:40:47,447 ♪♪ Where do we go from here? ♪♪ 981 00:40:47,514 --> 00:40:49,683 ♪♪ Where do we go? ♪♪ 982 00:40:49,750 --> 00:40:53,653 ♪♪ Where do we go from here? ♪♪ 983 00:41:01,061 --> 00:41:02,229 - Next on "Teen Mom: The Next Chapter"... 984 00:41:02,296 --> 00:41:03,731 - Can I take swimming lessons? 985 00:41:03,797 --> 00:41:05,232 - My only concern is her thinking 986 00:41:05,299 --> 00:41:07,801 she's Wonder Woman overnight. - I am a divorced woman. 987 00:41:07,868 --> 00:41:09,436 - Tubal reversal to get pregnant 988 00:41:09,503 --> 00:41:11,505 is around 15% to 20% success rate. 989 00:41:11,572 --> 00:41:13,340 - Are you excited to go to grandma's? 990 00:41:13,406 --> 00:41:15,342 - She's got to be able to earn trust back somehow. 991 00:41:15,409 --> 00:41:16,543 - The other day, he experienced 992 00:41:16,610 --> 00:41:17,811 my first manic episode. 993 00:41:17,878 --> 00:41:19,313 This is something I don't want to mess up. 994 00:41:19,379 --> 00:41:21,315 - I don't want you around the kids. 995 00:41:21,382 --> 00:41:23,583 - [bleep] you and your sister.