1 00:00:02,002 --> 00:00:04,004 - ♪♪ MTV ♪♪ 2 00:00:04,071 --> 00:00:06,974 - Previously on "Teen Mom: The Next Chapter"... 3 00:00:07,041 --> 00:00:09,209 - First time on a guy's trip. 4 00:00:09,276 --> 00:00:11,478 You made this thing happen, big dawg. 5 00:00:20,421 --> 00:00:22,623 It was at this other table with a dad 6 00:00:22,690 --> 00:00:24,358 and another little boy. 7 00:00:24,425 --> 00:00:26,660 So my mom goes, is this your son? 8 00:00:26,727 --> 00:00:29,829 And the dad looked at her crazy and was like, yeah, what's up? 9 00:00:32,433 --> 00:00:33,701 - Oh, Lord. 10 00:00:33,767 --> 00:00:35,802 - It's like these babies are so young, 11 00:00:35,869 --> 00:00:39,840 and we're already dealing with this stupid [bleep]. 12 00:00:39,906 --> 00:00:41,942 - Hi, how are you? 13 00:00:42,009 --> 00:00:43,310 - I'm doing good. 14 00:00:43,377 --> 00:00:44,645 I'm actually in Vegas right now. 15 00:00:44,712 --> 00:00:46,479 - No way. - Yeah. 16 00:00:46,546 --> 00:00:49,383 I had a business meeting with a cannabis company. 17 00:00:49,449 --> 00:00:51,085 I think my history is going to have 18 00:00:51,151 --> 00:00:52,920 a lot to do with this brand. 19 00:00:52,986 --> 00:00:54,855 I have so many ideas. 20 00:00:54,922 --> 00:00:57,023 - Yeah, an actual partnership. - Yeah. 21 00:00:57,090 --> 00:01:00,160 - Our life is extremely hectic with all three kids 22 00:01:00,227 --> 00:01:03,397 having ball games and practices, and it's hard 23 00:01:03,464 --> 00:01:05,565 for us to keep up with everything. 24 00:01:05,632 --> 00:01:07,534 It's also extremely hard for me and Taylor 25 00:01:07,601 --> 00:01:10,770 to find time for just the two of us. 26 00:01:10,837 --> 00:01:12,539 - I'm calling from school with the results 27 00:01:12,606 --> 00:01:13,907 of Kloie's assessment. 28 00:01:13,974 --> 00:01:15,342 I wanted to share the good news. 29 00:01:15,409 --> 00:01:17,344 Kloie passed with flying colors. 30 00:01:17,411 --> 00:01:18,546 - Awesome. 31 00:01:18,612 --> 00:01:19,980 Sean can go back to work. 32 00:01:20,047 --> 00:01:22,449 I do two jobs, so I'm like, I bring in the bacon. 33 00:01:22,516 --> 00:01:25,519 - Watching you do all that stuff is helping me find 34 00:01:25,586 --> 00:01:29,023 drive to pursue a career now. 35 00:01:29,089 --> 00:01:31,992 - Jeremy claimed that Addie was at home 36 00:01:32,059 --> 00:01:36,931 seven hours by herself, while I was at work, 37 00:01:36,997 --> 00:01:38,699 which is false. 38 00:01:38,766 --> 00:01:42,236 The cops came to the restaurant and recommended that I file 39 00:01:42,303 --> 00:01:44,405 a protection order on Jeremy. 40 00:01:44,471 --> 00:01:47,507 So for the next 180 days, I don't have to have 41 00:01:47,574 --> 00:01:49,743 any contact with Jeremy. 42 00:01:49,809 --> 00:01:52,612 What happened and what you were dealt with 43 00:01:52,679 --> 00:01:55,649 when you saw the cops, it wasn't ideal. 44 00:01:55,716 --> 00:01:58,285 Were you angry with me? - Yeah. 45 00:01:58,352 --> 00:02:01,488 [upbeat rock music] 46 00:02:01,555 --> 00:02:08,695 ♪♪ ♪♪ 47 00:02:13,400 --> 00:02:16,303 [upbeat pop music] 48 00:02:16,370 --> 00:02:19,073 ♪♪ ♪♪ 49 00:02:19,139 --> 00:02:20,741 - Hey, girls. I'm so happy. 50 00:02:20,807 --> 00:02:22,442 Sean had such a good time on the guys trip. 51 00:02:22,509 --> 00:02:24,077 I know he really, really needed it. 52 00:02:24,144 --> 00:02:27,314 We've been homeschooling Kloie for the last three months. 53 00:02:27,381 --> 00:02:30,584 Majority him, because my work schedule has been hectic, 54 00:02:30,650 --> 00:02:34,287 but luckily, today Kloie is starting her first day 55 00:02:34,354 --> 00:02:37,758 at her new private school, and we cannot be more excited. 56 00:02:37,824 --> 00:02:40,494 What are we going to do on our first day of school? 57 00:02:40,561 --> 00:02:42,028 - And what else? 58 00:02:44,197 --> 00:02:46,933 - Yeah. That's almost the most important, 59 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:48,535 but have fun. 60 00:02:48,602 --> 00:02:50,470 Does she not look so stinking cute? 61 00:02:56,110 --> 00:02:57,978 - What do you think's going to be your favorite part 62 00:02:58,044 --> 00:02:59,813 about your first day? 63 00:03:07,187 --> 00:03:08,489 - Your recess? 64 00:03:08,555 --> 00:03:09,856 - I said that. - Oh. 65 00:03:09,923 --> 00:03:12,192 She gets two recesses. - Oh, yeah. 66 00:03:12,259 --> 00:03:13,693 - And a snack time. 67 00:03:15,062 --> 00:03:16,863 - The second recess specifically. 68 00:03:16,930 --> 00:03:17,998 OK. 69 00:03:18,064 --> 00:03:19,767 About to pull up and right on time. 70 00:03:19,833 --> 00:03:21,235 - We here. We here. 71 00:03:21,302 --> 00:03:24,037 - Are you excited? - Are we there yet? 72 00:03:24,104 --> 00:03:25,071 Are we there yet? 73 00:03:26,506 --> 00:03:27,842 - You're nervous? It's OK. 74 00:03:27,908 --> 00:03:29,877 - It's OK. - It's OK to be nervous. 75 00:03:29,943 --> 00:03:31,345 It's because it's your first day. 76 00:03:31,412 --> 00:03:32,980 - Yeah. 77 00:03:33,047 --> 00:03:34,848 - ♪♪ This whole world's made of possibilities ♪♪ 78 00:03:34,915 --> 00:03:36,917 - ♪♪ Let's get to work ♪♪ 79 00:03:36,984 --> 00:03:38,885 ♪♪ I'm gonna win it ♪♪ 80 00:03:38,952 --> 00:03:41,055 ♪♪ Let's get to work ♪♪ 81 00:03:41,122 --> 00:03:42,590 - Hi, Chey! 82 00:03:42,656 --> 00:03:44,424 - Well, you look cute. 83 00:03:44,491 --> 00:03:46,326 - Hi. [laughter] 84 00:03:46,393 --> 00:03:48,462 - You look cute too in your-- 85 00:03:48,529 --> 00:03:51,431 - My woven coat. - Hello. 86 00:03:51,498 --> 00:03:52,900 - Hi. Good. How are you? 87 00:03:52,966 --> 00:03:54,535 I'll do a regular margarita. 88 00:03:54,602 --> 00:03:56,103 - Can we have two? 89 00:03:56,169 --> 00:03:57,805 Zach was out of town. 90 00:03:57,872 --> 00:04:01,641 He went on a dad's trip with the dads and Cory. 91 00:04:01,708 --> 00:04:03,109 - Thank you. - Thank you. 92 00:04:03,176 --> 00:04:06,146 The last day they were there, I took the kids 93 00:04:06,213 --> 00:04:09,883 to an indoor play thing, 94 00:04:09,950 --> 00:04:13,287 and then all of a sudden, I see Ryder come down. 95 00:04:13,353 --> 00:04:14,721 Ryder is sobbing. - Wow. 96 00:04:14,788 --> 00:04:18,358 - So it gets explained that basically the boy 97 00:04:18,425 --> 00:04:20,460 called Ryder the n-word. 98 00:04:20,527 --> 00:04:21,895 - What? 99 00:04:21,962 --> 00:04:23,463 - And I'm like oh [bleep], 100 00:04:23,530 --> 00:04:25,332 and Ryder is, like, distraught. 101 00:04:25,399 --> 00:04:26,634 - That is so crazy. 102 00:04:26,700 --> 00:04:28,335 - And I was so upset. 103 00:04:28,401 --> 00:04:31,138 - My heart just breaks because that's probably one of her-- 104 00:04:31,205 --> 00:04:32,840 - That's her first-- 105 00:04:32,907 --> 00:04:35,476 - First encounter of being on the side 106 00:04:35,542 --> 00:04:37,210 of getting a racist slur. 107 00:04:37,277 --> 00:04:39,179 - I was just so upset, and I think 108 00:04:39,246 --> 00:04:41,448 I was more upset because Ryder was looking at me like, 109 00:04:41,515 --> 00:04:43,684 you're not about to do anything? 110 00:04:43,751 --> 00:04:46,720 Even though I grew up in a very pro-Black home, 111 00:04:46,786 --> 00:04:49,123 I feel like when the bold [bleep] happened, 112 00:04:49,190 --> 00:04:50,691 I got stuck. 113 00:04:50,758 --> 00:04:52,759 I didn't know how to even react. 114 00:04:52,826 --> 00:04:55,462 I want to make sure I'm doing the best I can 115 00:04:55,529 --> 00:04:59,233 as her mom to educate myself on how to educate her 116 00:04:59,299 --> 00:05:00,768 the proper way. 117 00:05:00,834 --> 00:05:03,304 And I found an organization. 118 00:05:03,370 --> 00:05:05,239 So one thing I was thinking about was 119 00:05:05,305 --> 00:05:09,243 asking Cory if he would be open to all of us doing a call. 120 00:05:09,310 --> 00:05:11,645 How do we have these conversations with our kids 121 00:05:11,712 --> 00:05:13,481 that are still so young? 122 00:05:13,547 --> 00:05:15,949 And I want us all four to do it-- 123 00:05:16,016 --> 00:05:17,785 - Together, so you're all the same page. 124 00:05:17,852 --> 00:05:19,152 - Yes, so we're on the same page. 125 00:05:19,219 --> 00:05:20,787 We all have different backgrounds. 126 00:05:20,854 --> 00:05:22,389 Both my parents are Black, but Zach and Cory, 127 00:05:22,456 --> 00:05:24,858 their moms are both white, and their dads are Black. 128 00:05:24,924 --> 00:05:26,760 Taylor's parents are white. 129 00:05:26,827 --> 00:05:29,997 Everyone has a different situation and scenario. 130 00:05:30,063 --> 00:05:32,098 We were all taught different things, but at the end of day, 131 00:05:32,165 --> 00:05:33,868 we have one common denominator. 132 00:05:33,934 --> 00:05:35,602 We have a Black child. 133 00:05:35,669 --> 00:05:37,104 I hope that they're receptive. 134 00:05:37,171 --> 00:05:39,373 I don't know. - OK, wait. 135 00:05:39,439 --> 00:05:41,641 You really think they won't be receptive? 136 00:05:41,708 --> 00:05:43,477 - I think that they will be, but I just think 137 00:05:43,543 --> 00:05:45,345 that it is a touchy subject. 138 00:05:45,412 --> 00:05:47,981 I think that it does sometimes make people uncomfortable. 139 00:05:48,048 --> 00:05:50,684 They're going to have to realize that they're going 140 00:05:50,751 --> 00:05:52,886 to have to deal with it in different ways 141 00:05:52,953 --> 00:05:54,788 in their household than mine, but they're still 142 00:05:54,855 --> 00:05:56,957 going to have to deal with it. - Yeah. 143 00:05:58,559 --> 00:06:00,861 - ♪♪ When times are tough, I'll walk ahead ♪♪ 144 00:06:00,928 --> 00:06:03,097 ♪♪ And brave the storm, skies open ♪♪ 145 00:06:03,164 --> 00:06:04,565 - Hi, baby. 146 00:06:04,631 --> 00:06:06,299 - ♪♪ I'm not hiding anymore ♪♪ 147 00:06:06,366 --> 00:06:07,968 - What? What is it? 148 00:06:09,236 --> 00:06:10,771 - Let me see. 149 00:06:10,837 --> 00:06:12,205 I can't really see it. 150 00:06:14,207 --> 00:06:16,510 - Baby, it's a pimple. We all get pimples. 151 00:06:16,577 --> 00:06:18,178 It's fine. It's a zit. 152 00:06:21,181 --> 00:06:22,783 - They said I could go with them to their dad's 153 00:06:22,850 --> 00:06:24,318 for, like, a day. 154 00:06:24,385 --> 00:06:25,886 - We'll see, baby. 155 00:06:25,953 --> 00:06:28,789 [mellow music] 156 00:06:28,856 --> 00:06:30,757 [knocking at door] 157 00:06:30,824 --> 00:06:32,659 [dog barking] 158 00:06:32,726 --> 00:06:34,227 - Hello. - Hi. 159 00:06:34,294 --> 00:06:35,662 You just walk in? 160 00:06:35,729 --> 00:06:37,264 You don't--I don't even let me open the door for you? 161 00:06:37,331 --> 00:06:39,933 - I knocked. You're just too slow. 162 00:06:40,000 --> 00:06:42,336 I really did stop by here to kind of check in on you. 163 00:06:42,403 --> 00:06:45,339 Are they changing anything as far as the custody stuff goes 164 00:06:45,405 --> 00:06:46,873 with Jeremy for Addie? 165 00:06:46,940 --> 00:06:49,810 - We're doing all pass-offs between me and Jeremy's mom. 166 00:06:49,876 --> 00:06:51,479 - And is that every weekend? 167 00:06:51,545 --> 00:06:52,846 - Every other weekend. 168 00:06:52,913 --> 00:06:55,782 And she goes to Jeremy's when he's in town, 169 00:06:55,849 --> 00:06:57,751 which he's not really ever in town 170 00:06:57,818 --> 00:06:59,286 because he moved to Pennsylvania. 171 00:06:59,352 --> 00:07:02,622 Ever since the situation with Jeremy happened, 172 00:07:02,689 --> 00:07:03,990 Addie has been struggling. 173 00:07:04,057 --> 00:07:05,526 At first, she was angry. 174 00:07:05,592 --> 00:07:09,062 She was blaming me, and then she was sad. 175 00:07:09,129 --> 00:07:15,135 - Who knows what she's endured or heard not around you? 176 00:07:15,202 --> 00:07:17,471 - I probably would have never went out of my way 177 00:07:17,538 --> 00:07:19,973 to make sure she's seen her grandparents if I'd known 178 00:07:20,040 --> 00:07:22,008 that stuff was being said that she 179 00:07:22,075 --> 00:07:23,444 told me it was being said. 180 00:07:23,510 --> 00:07:26,347 That I'm being called a [bleep], a bitch. 181 00:07:26,413 --> 00:07:28,349 Another thing, Addie has been asking 182 00:07:28,415 --> 00:07:30,517 to go to Corey's house with her sisters. 183 00:07:30,584 --> 00:07:33,854 When they leave, she becomes an only child, and she gets bored, 184 00:07:33,921 --> 00:07:35,823 but there's more to it. 185 00:07:35,889 --> 00:07:37,424 I think she sees the girl-- 186 00:07:37,490 --> 00:07:39,593 Ali and Leah go there consistently. 187 00:07:39,660 --> 00:07:41,061 He's very present. 188 00:07:41,128 --> 00:07:43,096 We'll go to events, and Corey's there. 189 00:07:43,163 --> 00:07:46,801 The last time Jeremy was at an event for Addie, third grade. 190 00:07:46,867 --> 00:07:49,003 She's in fifth grade now. 191 00:07:49,069 --> 00:07:51,071 You know how that feels to a kid? 192 00:07:51,138 --> 00:07:52,239 - Yeah. 193 00:07:52,306 --> 00:07:53,707 It's a lot of different emotions. 194 00:07:53,774 --> 00:07:55,309 Does my dad love me? 195 00:07:55,376 --> 00:07:56,810 Why is my dad not? 196 00:07:56,877 --> 00:07:58,245 Why is my dad this? 197 00:07:58,312 --> 00:08:01,215 It's all these things going on in her little mind 198 00:08:01,281 --> 00:08:03,083 that she doesn't even know how to process. 199 00:08:03,150 --> 00:08:06,286 - I personally don't think it's a great time right now, 200 00:08:06,353 --> 00:08:08,456 given the circumstances with her dad. 201 00:08:08,522 --> 00:08:12,158 I think that counseling would be beneficial for her 202 00:08:12,225 --> 00:08:14,962 to teach Addie healthy coping mechanisms. 203 00:08:15,028 --> 00:08:17,130 - The stuff that Addie is going through, 204 00:08:17,197 --> 00:08:18,899 Addie needs to go through it. 205 00:08:18,965 --> 00:08:22,202 She needs to face the sadness and the anger 206 00:08:22,269 --> 00:08:24,571 in order to get in a good place. 207 00:08:24,638 --> 00:08:27,507 [somber music] 208 00:08:27,574 --> 00:08:29,876 ♪♪ ♪♪ 209 00:08:33,514 --> 00:08:35,449 [upbeat music] 210 00:08:35,515 --> 00:08:37,251 - ♪♪ Just cut it ♪♪ 211 00:08:37,318 --> 00:08:40,053 ♪♪ It's effortless ♪♪ 212 00:08:40,120 --> 00:08:41,755 ♪♪ Feels good to be me ♪♪ 213 00:08:41,822 --> 00:08:44,725 - ♪♪ You smell like a monkey ♪♪ 214 00:08:44,791 --> 00:08:46,393 ♪♪ Look like one too ♪♪ 215 00:08:46,460 --> 00:08:48,261 - Hi, ladies. All right. 216 00:08:48,328 --> 00:08:50,397 So wrestling season is in full swing, 217 00:08:50,464 --> 00:08:54,735 and I've been helping coach Jade and Maverick in wrestling, 218 00:08:54,802 --> 00:08:56,603 and I know they're going to do great 219 00:08:56,670 --> 00:08:58,538 at their upcoming state tournament. 220 00:09:00,107 --> 00:09:02,710 - ♪♪ Are you ready? ♪♪ 221 00:09:02,776 --> 00:09:04,378 ♪♪ Come on ♪♪ 222 00:09:04,444 --> 00:09:08,148 ♪♪ I'm on fire ♪♪ 223 00:09:08,214 --> 00:09:09,816 - Oh, this is exciting now. 224 00:09:09,883 --> 00:09:11,351 This is the state tournament. 225 00:09:11,418 --> 00:09:12,786 This is what they work all year for. 226 00:09:12,852 --> 00:09:14,955 - I know. 227 00:09:15,022 --> 00:09:16,456 [phone dings] 228 00:09:19,493 --> 00:09:20,961 - What? 229 00:09:21,028 --> 00:09:22,896 - Just got a message offering me 230 00:09:22,962 --> 00:09:24,932 the head coaching job for girls' wrestling 231 00:09:24,999 --> 00:09:26,767 at the high school. - Really? 232 00:09:26,833 --> 00:09:27,968 - Mm-hmm. 233 00:09:28,035 --> 00:09:30,003 I kind of want to jump up and down. 234 00:09:30,070 --> 00:09:32,005 [chuckles] 235 00:09:32,072 --> 00:09:33,707 [laughter] 236 00:09:33,774 --> 00:09:35,709 - But you'd be the first girls' high school 237 00:09:35,775 --> 00:09:37,144 coach at that school. 238 00:09:37,211 --> 00:09:39,579 - I feel just, like, honored to be thought of, though. 239 00:09:39,646 --> 00:09:40,981 - Yeah, absolutely. 240 00:09:41,047 --> 00:09:43,217 - And I'm just pumped that another high school 241 00:09:43,284 --> 00:09:47,888 is getting a girls team because that's always been my thing. 242 00:09:47,955 --> 00:09:50,558 Like, living in a wrestling room but always being told 243 00:09:50,624 --> 00:09:52,393 you're a girl, and you can't wrestle. 244 00:09:52,459 --> 00:09:53,660 - Can't wrestle, yeah. 245 00:09:53,727 --> 00:09:55,062 - So I just love that-- 246 00:09:55,129 --> 00:09:56,830 it makes me really excited for, like, all girls, 247 00:09:56,897 --> 00:09:58,732 but like our daughter because 248 00:09:58,799 --> 00:10:01,268 no one is ever going to tell her girls can't wrestle. 249 00:10:01,334 --> 00:10:05,138 I need to come off the adrenaline and the excitement 250 00:10:05,205 --> 00:10:07,808 to, like, realistically think about it. 251 00:10:07,874 --> 00:10:10,544 [sighs] It's not just me that it affects. 252 00:10:10,611 --> 00:10:12,279 It would affect you. - Yeah. 253 00:10:12,345 --> 00:10:13,580 - It would affect our kids. 254 00:10:13,647 --> 00:10:14,949 It would affect a lot of people, 255 00:10:15,015 --> 00:10:16,716 so I can't just do it because I want to do it. 256 00:10:18,219 --> 00:10:21,121 - ♪♪ We're gonna burn like fire, here we go ♪♪ 257 00:10:21,188 --> 00:10:24,257 ♪♪ Turning that silver into gold ♪♪ 258 00:10:24,324 --> 00:10:26,894 - I'm still in Vegas, and I'm really digging the vibe. 259 00:10:26,961 --> 00:10:29,196 I can definitely see myself living here. 260 00:10:29,263 --> 00:10:30,530 - Oh, [bleep]. 261 00:10:30,597 --> 00:10:32,065 - [laughs] 262 00:10:32,132 --> 00:10:35,769 I do not know how David would take the news or react, 263 00:10:35,836 --> 00:10:38,171 and I'm scared of the actions and repercussions 264 00:10:38,238 --> 00:10:39,472 that he might do. 265 00:10:39,539 --> 00:10:41,174 So I have a court date next week 266 00:10:41,241 --> 00:10:43,910 to try and get a restraining order for me and the kids. 267 00:10:47,080 --> 00:10:49,917 - Best way to see the city, though. 268 00:10:49,983 --> 00:10:51,785 Are you excited to come to Vegas? 269 00:10:51,852 --> 00:10:53,720 - Definitely. - Yeah? 270 00:10:53,787 --> 00:10:55,756 - Yeah, I definitely want to take the kids to do this. 271 00:10:55,823 --> 00:10:58,692 - ♪♪ Coming in hot ♪♪ 272 00:10:58,759 --> 00:11:01,495 ♪♪ Get ready ♪♪ 273 00:11:01,562 --> 00:11:04,231 ♪♪ We're coming in hot ♪♪ 274 00:11:04,298 --> 00:11:06,533 ♪♪ It's gonna get heavy ♪♪ 275 00:11:06,600 --> 00:11:09,002 ♪♪ We're coming in hot ♪♪ 276 00:11:10,670 --> 00:11:12,573 - I have a couple of houses for you to see. 277 00:11:12,640 --> 00:11:14,441 Best neighborhood in Las Vegas due 278 00:11:14,507 --> 00:11:16,810 to its safety, good schools. 279 00:11:16,877 --> 00:11:19,179 - Yeah. This will be Jace's fourth high school 280 00:11:19,246 --> 00:11:20,514 that he started this year. 281 00:11:20,580 --> 00:11:21,915 - Wow. - Yeah. 282 00:11:21,982 --> 00:11:24,251 I got to keep an eye on who he's with. 283 00:11:24,318 --> 00:11:27,821 I don't want him getting in any trouble here, you know? 284 00:11:27,888 --> 00:11:31,058 [dramatic hip-hop music] 285 00:11:31,125 --> 00:11:32,959 ♪♪ ♪♪ 286 00:11:33,026 --> 00:11:35,096 - It's the first time that you've 287 00:11:35,162 --> 00:11:39,967 ever had Jace where you're able to really parent him. 288 00:11:40,034 --> 00:11:41,802 - Yeah, without anyone-- - Without-- 289 00:11:41,868 --> 00:11:43,737 - Without my mom. Without my mom. 290 00:11:43,804 --> 00:11:45,505 - Without anybody. Without CPS. 291 00:11:45,572 --> 00:11:47,340 - I know. I know. - Without courts. 292 00:11:47,407 --> 00:11:50,044 - Jace feels like he's not walking on eggshells anymore, 293 00:11:50,110 --> 00:11:51,712 and I feel like he's more comfortable in the house 294 00:11:51,778 --> 00:11:53,547 because David's already moved to the boat. 295 00:11:53,614 --> 00:11:56,283 - Yeah. So there's a lot riding on this move. 296 00:11:56,350 --> 00:11:57,651 - Yeah. 297 00:11:57,718 --> 00:11:59,319 I'm really excited to look at these houses. 298 00:11:59,386 --> 00:12:05,626 ♪♪ ♪♪ 299 00:12:05,693 --> 00:12:06,927 - Hey. How's it going? 300 00:12:06,994 --> 00:12:08,595 - Guillermo. - Nice to meet you. 301 00:12:08,662 --> 00:12:09,864 - Good to meet you. - Hey, I'm Jenelle. 302 00:12:09,930 --> 00:12:11,164 - Hey, Jenelle. - Nice to meet you. 303 00:12:11,231 --> 00:12:13,299 - Nice to meet you. - Come on in. 304 00:12:13,366 --> 00:12:15,102 Do you see yourself staying in Vegas long or-- 305 00:12:15,169 --> 00:12:16,971 - Yeah, but I want to give it, like, 306 00:12:17,037 --> 00:12:21,308 one to two years of renting, so I get familiar 307 00:12:21,375 --> 00:12:23,277 with what I want permanently. 308 00:12:23,343 --> 00:12:25,011 - So this is a single story. 309 00:12:25,078 --> 00:12:28,915 - I prefer two story, so everyone has their own space. 310 00:12:28,982 --> 00:12:31,652 - So we'll go ahead and take a look at another property. 311 00:12:31,719 --> 00:12:33,587 [upbeat music] 312 00:12:33,654 --> 00:12:34,921 - ♪♪ Let's have some fun ♪♪ 313 00:12:34,988 --> 00:12:36,523 - It is a four bedroom, four bath. 314 00:12:36,590 --> 00:12:37,757 - I love it. 315 00:12:37,824 --> 00:12:39,092 I love the openness of it. 316 00:12:39,159 --> 00:12:40,627 I think my kids will have enough space. 317 00:12:40,694 --> 00:12:41,829 I love the neighborhood. 318 00:12:41,895 --> 00:12:43,297 - You may have to jump on it right away. 319 00:12:43,364 --> 00:12:45,633 This property in particular, I can tell it's probably 320 00:12:45,699 --> 00:12:47,134 going to be gone soon, so-- 321 00:12:47,201 --> 00:12:48,535 - OK. - OK? 322 00:12:48,602 --> 00:12:50,037 - I'm going to think about it and get back to you. 323 00:12:50,103 --> 00:12:51,271 - OK. 324 00:12:57,344 --> 00:12:59,046 - ♪♪ Look at the stars shining for you ♪♪ 325 00:12:59,113 --> 00:13:00,380 ♪♪ For you, for you ♪♪ 326 00:13:00,447 --> 00:13:02,582 ♪♪ Slip in to bed, make it smooth ♪♪ 327 00:13:02,649 --> 00:13:04,251 ♪♪ ♪♪ 328 00:13:04,317 --> 00:13:06,586 [doorbell chimes] 329 00:13:08,054 --> 00:13:10,057 - Hey, slow down. - Knock, knock. 330 00:13:10,124 --> 00:13:12,960 - Who is it? - What's up, Ace? 331 00:13:13,026 --> 00:13:14,562 - It's Cory. - Cory. 332 00:13:14,628 --> 00:13:16,964 - Good job, Ace. - What's up, Chey. 333 00:13:17,030 --> 00:13:18,532 - Hi. - Hi. Hi. Hi. 334 00:13:18,599 --> 00:13:21,134 I like how these brown pants look with this green chair. 335 00:13:21,201 --> 00:13:22,469 - Bye. - Bye. 336 00:13:22,536 --> 00:13:24,037 How was the guy's trip? 337 00:13:24,104 --> 00:13:27,307 - Guy's trip was perfect, until I got that phone call 338 00:13:27,374 --> 00:13:29,677 from you talking about Ryder. 339 00:13:29,744 --> 00:13:32,179 It's hard because we can't control 340 00:13:32,246 --> 00:13:34,281 the ignorance of other people. - Right. 341 00:13:34,348 --> 00:13:36,416 - Daddy growing up didn't respond well 342 00:13:36,483 --> 00:13:38,085 to when I was called that. 343 00:13:38,151 --> 00:13:39,519 You know what I mean? 344 00:13:39,586 --> 00:13:42,656 - But I remember growing up, multiple conversations 345 00:13:42,723 --> 00:13:46,326 with my parents of them talking about race. 346 00:13:46,393 --> 00:13:48,728 - And I think you're lucky that you were raised 347 00:13:48,795 --> 00:13:50,931 in a family that provided that for you 348 00:13:50,998 --> 00:13:53,767 and told you, hey, this is what it's like to be Black. 349 00:13:53,834 --> 00:13:55,936 This is what it's like growing up being Black. 350 00:13:56,003 --> 00:13:57,270 - Yeah. I was going to ask you 351 00:13:57,337 --> 00:13:59,373 what it was in your house. 352 00:13:59,440 --> 00:14:01,074 - In my house it wasn't like that. 353 00:14:01,141 --> 00:14:02,576 I was raised by my white mother. 354 00:14:02,642 --> 00:14:04,278 We never talked about color. 355 00:14:04,345 --> 00:14:06,313 Even when these situations would arise 356 00:14:06,379 --> 00:14:08,415 and like I'd be getting racist phone calls 357 00:14:08,481 --> 00:14:09,883 and things like that-- 358 00:14:09,950 --> 00:14:12,419 - Would you tell your mom? - Not really. 359 00:14:12,486 --> 00:14:13,888 I don't know. 360 00:14:13,954 --> 00:14:15,422 I would just keep it all in. 361 00:14:15,489 --> 00:14:17,424 - I couldn't imagine the things that I've gone through 362 00:14:17,491 --> 00:14:19,360 and come home, and then I'm just sitting there, 363 00:14:19,426 --> 00:14:22,263 and it's like no one's talking about it. 364 00:14:22,329 --> 00:14:24,364 Or I don't have a place to talk about it 365 00:14:24,431 --> 00:14:27,701 and feel like I'm heard or understood. 366 00:14:27,768 --> 00:14:30,337 It's like you just had to deal with that by yourself. 367 00:14:30,404 --> 00:14:32,706 - How can I tell my white mother, 368 00:14:32,773 --> 00:14:35,275 tell me what it's like to be Black? 369 00:14:35,342 --> 00:14:37,377 That's putting her in a weird situation, 370 00:14:37,444 --> 00:14:39,279 where my dad should have had that talk with me, 371 00:14:39,346 --> 00:14:41,448 but he wasn't around when I was a kid. 372 00:14:41,515 --> 00:14:44,117 - Of course, we come from very different backgrounds, 373 00:14:44,184 --> 00:14:48,522 and a part of raising a child is figuring out, OK, 374 00:14:48,589 --> 00:14:50,157 what are the good things that we want 375 00:14:50,224 --> 00:14:52,026 to take from our parents, or what are things that we want 376 00:14:52,092 --> 00:14:55,362 to do differently that maybe our parents didn't do for us? 377 00:14:55,429 --> 00:14:58,299 And how do we pass that on to Ryder? 378 00:14:58,365 --> 00:15:01,468 So Color of Change, they educate other people 379 00:15:01,534 --> 00:15:03,036 on how to educate themselves on how to deal 380 00:15:03,103 --> 00:15:05,805 with like racial differences or how to talk to kids 381 00:15:05,872 --> 00:15:07,641 and just make sure we're doing everything 382 00:15:07,708 --> 00:15:10,611 as parents to educate ourselves on how 383 00:15:10,678 --> 00:15:12,679 to speak properly to our kids. 384 00:15:12,746 --> 00:15:13,947 - Yeah. 385 00:15:14,014 --> 00:15:16,683 - Would you guys be open to doing that? 386 00:15:16,750 --> 00:15:18,085 - Yeah. 387 00:15:18,152 --> 00:15:20,654 It's just something to add to our toolbox, right? 388 00:15:20,721 --> 00:15:22,389 It's getting help from a professional. 389 00:15:22,456 --> 00:15:24,892 How do we explain it to a six-year-old 390 00:15:24,959 --> 00:15:27,328 and break it down in terms that she understands? 391 00:15:27,394 --> 00:15:28,562 - And we're going to have to deal 392 00:15:28,628 --> 00:15:29,897 with this in different ways. 393 00:15:29,963 --> 00:15:31,165 I mean, at the end of the day, I'm Black. 394 00:15:31,232 --> 00:15:32,499 Taylor is white. 395 00:15:32,566 --> 00:15:34,034 - I told Taylor, and she was really upset 396 00:15:34,101 --> 00:15:35,969 and wants to learn however she can help. 397 00:15:36,036 --> 00:15:38,805 - We need to all educate ourselves, so I want Taylor-- 398 00:15:38,872 --> 00:15:40,507 I want Zach to do the call also. 399 00:15:40,574 --> 00:15:42,209 - Sounds good. - Good. 400 00:15:42,276 --> 00:15:43,710 - Yeah. 401 00:15:45,212 --> 00:15:48,315 - ♪♪ This is gonna be good ♪♪ 402 00:15:48,382 --> 00:15:49,816 ♪♪ This is gonna be good ♪♪ 403 00:15:49,883 --> 00:15:52,719 - That house on Lexington is currently pending. 404 00:15:52,786 --> 00:15:55,055 Did you see any other houses you want me 405 00:15:55,122 --> 00:15:56,323 to look up some information on? 406 00:15:56,390 --> 00:15:57,892 Question mark. 407 00:15:57,958 --> 00:15:59,993 Kloie is at her first day of school, 408 00:16:00,060 --> 00:16:03,030 and I've been a nervous wreck thinking about her, 409 00:16:03,096 --> 00:16:06,466 but I've been trying to keep myself busy with work. 410 00:16:06,533 --> 00:16:08,768 Luckily, today, me and Sean are going to go 411 00:16:08,835 --> 00:16:10,737 out and have lunch together. 412 00:16:10,804 --> 00:16:12,205 So it's going to be nice to just have 413 00:16:12,272 --> 00:16:13,541 some time for me and him. 414 00:16:13,607 --> 00:16:16,477 Oh, thank you, my good man. 415 00:16:16,543 --> 00:16:18,745 Beer cheese and pretzels? 416 00:16:18,812 --> 00:16:20,347 - Sure. 417 00:16:20,414 --> 00:16:23,216 Well, I'm definitely happy that Kloie is in this new school 418 00:16:23,283 --> 00:16:26,019 because I was worried about her being scared to go back 419 00:16:26,086 --> 00:16:28,088 to school and stuff like that. - Yeah. 420 00:16:28,155 --> 00:16:30,690 - She was not thrilled with that last school, 421 00:16:30,757 --> 00:16:32,960 and homeschooling was very stressful. 422 00:16:33,027 --> 00:16:34,828 It's not for the weak hearted at all. 423 00:16:34,895 --> 00:16:38,198 Now I'm going to start, you know, looking for a new job 424 00:16:38,265 --> 00:16:39,833 and a career path. 425 00:16:39,900 --> 00:16:42,269 - Sean has always struggled figuring out what 426 00:16:42,336 --> 00:16:44,238 he wants to do for a career. 427 00:16:44,305 --> 00:16:45,872 What's going on with the job? 428 00:16:45,939 --> 00:16:47,508 I thought you said you put in your two weeks, 429 00:16:47,575 --> 00:16:49,609 and then you just never went back. 430 00:16:49,676 --> 00:16:51,245 - I'm doing all of this for you. 431 00:16:51,312 --> 00:16:52,613 - Oh, yeah. 432 00:16:52,679 --> 00:16:54,181 - Got a job interview on Thursday-- 433 00:16:54,248 --> 00:16:56,650 spraying people's yards with mosquito repellent. 434 00:16:56,717 --> 00:16:59,486 I don't mind doing general labor. 435 00:16:59,553 --> 00:17:01,454 Just kind of going with the flow right now. 436 00:17:01,521 --> 00:17:03,590 - But now that we're married, I want him to have 437 00:17:03,657 --> 00:17:05,559 a job that he can be proud of. 438 00:17:05,626 --> 00:17:07,460 I think you should think about doing 439 00:17:07,527 --> 00:17:10,263 trades or schooling, like I did real estate-- 440 00:17:10,330 --> 00:17:12,332 like even home inspection. 441 00:17:12,399 --> 00:17:16,470 Since you already have all that experience in construction, 442 00:17:16,537 --> 00:17:18,472 I feel like it's an easy transition. 443 00:17:18,538 --> 00:17:20,207 - This actually sounds like a good idea. 444 00:17:20,274 --> 00:17:21,475 - Yeah. 445 00:17:21,542 --> 00:17:23,277 So you do electrical, like roof-- 446 00:17:23,343 --> 00:17:25,279 it's basically like you do a little bit of everything 447 00:17:25,345 --> 00:17:26,781 that you're checking. 448 00:17:26,847 --> 00:17:29,617 I feel like that would be something that would be easy. 449 00:17:29,683 --> 00:17:30,951 You could be your own boss. - Yeah. 450 00:17:31,018 --> 00:17:33,053 That sounds like a good idea, though. 451 00:17:33,120 --> 00:17:34,521 Thank you. 452 00:17:34,587 --> 00:17:36,223 - If you can have self-discipline and be able 453 00:17:36,290 --> 00:17:38,826 to push yourself to grow, that's the big thing that 454 00:17:38,892 --> 00:17:42,329 you have to have is just major self-discipline. 455 00:17:42,396 --> 00:17:44,665 - So I think when we get home tonight, 456 00:17:44,731 --> 00:17:48,201 I'll start doing some research, see what kind of classes 457 00:17:48,268 --> 00:17:50,404 are available out there and get the ball rolling 458 00:17:50,471 --> 00:17:53,740 with the home inspector. - Yeah. 459 00:17:53,807 --> 00:17:57,544 I think that'd be dope, and we could be a little dream team. 460 00:17:57,611 --> 00:17:59,513 - Perfect. 461 00:17:59,579 --> 00:18:02,316 [acoustic music] 462 00:18:02,383 --> 00:18:05,218 - ♪♪ Let us dream again ♪♪ 463 00:18:05,285 --> 00:18:07,320 ♪♪ Doesn't have to end ♪♪ 464 00:18:07,387 --> 00:18:08,789 ♪♪ We leave it all behind ♪♪ 465 00:18:08,855 --> 00:18:11,591 - How's school? - Good. Good. 466 00:18:11,658 --> 00:18:14,161 - If you guys want A1, I'll put it on the table. 467 00:18:14,227 --> 00:18:16,163 You're welcome. 468 00:18:16,229 --> 00:18:19,700 - Addie has been asking if she can come up 469 00:18:19,767 --> 00:18:21,668 to the house sometimes. 470 00:18:21,735 --> 00:18:24,238 - Yeah. That's something-- we can look at it. 471 00:18:24,304 --> 00:18:28,642 We just gotta make sure, like, all parties are in favor. 472 00:18:28,709 --> 00:18:30,911 - When we're not there, it's just her and my mom. 473 00:18:30,977 --> 00:18:32,646 My mom takes her, does a bunch of stuff. 474 00:18:32,713 --> 00:18:35,015 But a mom can only be one person. 475 00:18:35,082 --> 00:18:37,184 And I think she looks up to how close 476 00:18:37,251 --> 00:18:39,319 me and Allie are with our dad. 477 00:18:39,386 --> 00:18:40,955 - Yeah. That's something that 478 00:18:41,021 --> 00:18:42,923 I've strived to do since y'all was born. 479 00:18:42,989 --> 00:18:45,025 Even though y'all came early in my life, 480 00:18:45,091 --> 00:18:47,394 it was like I knew what I had to do. 481 00:18:47,461 --> 00:18:49,996 So I made it a priority. 482 00:18:50,063 --> 00:18:51,865 - She just wants a father figure. 483 00:18:51,932 --> 00:18:53,067 - Right. 484 00:18:53,133 --> 00:18:55,002 - And I don't know how to help her, 485 00:18:55,069 --> 00:18:56,871 but I've always had my dad, so I don't know. 486 00:18:56,937 --> 00:18:59,073 - So the best thing to do, I think, 487 00:18:59,139 --> 00:19:04,678 to help her would be just to, like, let her talk about it. 488 00:19:04,745 --> 00:19:06,280 Just listen. 489 00:19:06,346 --> 00:19:08,182 Mainly listen to her. 490 00:19:08,249 --> 00:19:14,888 - ♪♪ Darlin', I know that you're waiting ♪♪ 491 00:19:14,955 --> 00:19:20,694 ♪♪ And lately, I've been waiting here too ♪♪ 492 00:19:20,761 --> 00:19:23,197 ♪♪ Maybe ♪♪ 493 00:19:23,263 --> 00:19:24,598 - What is that? 494 00:19:24,665 --> 00:19:26,934 - Jelly. - Ooh. 495 00:19:27,000 --> 00:19:28,468 So how you been? - Good. 496 00:19:28,535 --> 00:19:30,070 - Good. 497 00:19:30,136 --> 00:19:32,840 I know you keep asking to go to your sister's dad's house. 498 00:19:32,906 --> 00:19:34,842 Why do you want to go? 499 00:19:34,908 --> 00:19:37,278 - I just feel like I've always wanted to see Sissy's at, 500 00:19:37,344 --> 00:19:39,813 like, their dad's and like, what they do there 501 00:19:39,880 --> 00:19:41,615 because they always come back having 502 00:19:41,681 --> 00:19:43,017 fun stories and stuff. 503 00:19:43,084 --> 00:19:45,452 - Well, it's probably not going to happen right now, 504 00:19:45,519 --> 00:19:46,987 but I'm sure it's something that we 505 00:19:47,054 --> 00:19:49,757 can explore in the future. You know? 506 00:19:49,823 --> 00:19:52,325 - Yeah. - Are you open to feedback? 507 00:19:53,560 --> 00:19:54,895 - Yeah. 508 00:19:54,962 --> 00:19:58,865 - You're very expressive, and bubbly, 509 00:19:58,932 --> 00:20:01,602 the go-to comedian in this family. 510 00:20:01,668 --> 00:20:04,638 And sometimes I think when we exude 511 00:20:04,705 --> 00:20:08,342 those personalities, we oftentimes 512 00:20:08,408 --> 00:20:11,278 suppress big emotions. 513 00:20:11,345 --> 00:20:13,214 Something that I do-- and I think it's something 514 00:20:13,280 --> 00:20:15,315 that you might like-- is counseling. 515 00:20:15,382 --> 00:20:17,184 - What do you do at counseling? 516 00:20:17,250 --> 00:20:21,555 - You can openly express the good, the bad, the in-between. 517 00:20:21,622 --> 00:20:24,325 It opens the door for you to explore 518 00:20:24,391 --> 00:20:26,794 those emotions that sometimes we want to keep 519 00:20:26,860 --> 00:20:29,062 under laughter and jokes. 520 00:20:29,129 --> 00:20:33,734 As your mom, I think it would 100% be in your best interest 521 00:20:33,801 --> 00:20:36,403 to be able to express even the stuff that's 522 00:20:36,470 --> 00:20:39,573 not so great to talk about to someone 523 00:20:39,640 --> 00:20:42,476 that is a neutral party. 524 00:20:42,543 --> 00:20:43,844 - Yeah, I'm open to it. 525 00:20:43,911 --> 00:20:45,813 I'd like to go. - You would? 526 00:20:45,880 --> 00:20:48,114 - Yeah. - Okay. 527 00:20:48,181 --> 00:20:50,918 I took in to consideration Addie wanting 528 00:20:50,984 --> 00:20:54,388 to go to Corey's house, and I just don't think that 529 00:20:54,454 --> 00:20:56,156 it's a great idea right now. 530 00:20:56,222 --> 00:20:58,959 And I don't want any more confusion for Addie. 531 00:20:59,026 --> 00:21:01,362 I don't want her to see Allie and Leah's relationship 532 00:21:01,428 --> 00:21:05,899 with their dad and become upset with that, 533 00:21:05,966 --> 00:21:10,003 so I just think that it's best we kind of work through 534 00:21:10,070 --> 00:21:12,639 what we're going through together right now. 535 00:21:12,706 --> 00:21:15,142 She can talk to me, but it's hard to talk to a parent 536 00:21:15,209 --> 00:21:17,011 when they're also arguing with the other parent, 537 00:21:17,077 --> 00:21:18,612 and I think that's why it's important for her 538 00:21:18,679 --> 00:21:20,247 to have a counselor. 539 00:21:20,314 --> 00:21:23,183 ♪♪ ♪♪ 540 00:21:27,054 --> 00:21:29,956 [upbeat music] 541 00:21:30,023 --> 00:21:36,197 ♪♪ ♪♪ 542 00:21:36,263 --> 00:21:38,232 [doorbell chimes] 543 00:21:38,298 --> 00:21:40,433 - Hello. What up? 544 00:21:40,500 --> 00:21:42,102 - Hi, guys. - Hi. 545 00:21:42,169 --> 00:21:43,470 - What's up? What's up? 546 00:21:43,537 --> 00:21:45,105 - How are you doing? - I'm okay. How are you? 547 00:21:45,172 --> 00:21:46,540 - Good, good, good. - Hi. 548 00:21:46,606 --> 00:21:48,775 - Hi. - Hi, Maymay. 549 00:21:48,842 --> 00:21:50,878 - Glad that we were all able to get together 550 00:21:50,944 --> 00:21:52,579 to have this talk, you know? 551 00:21:52,646 --> 00:21:55,949 Just to come up, and I mean, have experts tell us, 552 00:21:56,016 --> 00:21:58,652 you know, their opinions on the situation and how to handle it 553 00:21:58,718 --> 00:22:00,454 because it's going to happen again. 554 00:22:00,521 --> 00:22:02,355 - Yeah, it's easier when sometimes you 555 00:22:02,422 --> 00:22:04,258 bring in an outside opinion. - All right. 556 00:22:04,325 --> 00:22:06,560 Let's get on this call. - Yeah. 557 00:22:06,626 --> 00:22:09,397 So the kids can go upstairs and hang with the babysitter. 558 00:22:09,463 --> 00:22:11,131 [line trilling] 559 00:22:11,198 --> 00:22:12,600 - Hi, you all. 560 00:22:12,666 --> 00:22:14,601 My name is Brittany Hogan. - I'm Cheyenne. 561 00:22:14,668 --> 00:22:15,770 Hi. 562 00:22:15,836 --> 00:22:17,470 This is my husband, Zach. 563 00:22:17,537 --> 00:22:19,906 We co-parent Ryder with Cory and Taylor. 564 00:22:19,973 --> 00:22:21,408 - How's it going? 565 00:22:21,475 --> 00:22:25,112 - So our wonderful friends at Color of Change 566 00:22:25,179 --> 00:22:28,248 told me that there have been some situations going on 567 00:22:28,315 --> 00:22:29,950 that you need assistance with. 568 00:22:30,017 --> 00:22:32,386 And so my first question is, Have any of your children 569 00:22:32,452 --> 00:22:34,555 experienced any racial hostility? 570 00:22:34,622 --> 00:22:38,825 - Ryder experienced it by getting called the n-word. 571 00:22:38,892 --> 00:22:42,263 This is her first encounter with, like, blatant racism. 572 00:22:42,329 --> 00:22:45,399 I think for us, we want to know how 573 00:22:45,465 --> 00:22:48,335 to have those uncomfortable conversations 574 00:22:48,402 --> 00:22:52,272 without it being an innocence breaker 575 00:22:52,339 --> 00:22:53,907 because she is only six? 576 00:22:53,974 --> 00:22:56,544 And how do you navigate them as she gets older 577 00:22:56,610 --> 00:22:58,812 and she's going to continue to experience it more? 578 00:22:58,879 --> 00:23:03,016 - I think that one of the best ways of being able to do this, 579 00:23:03,083 --> 00:23:06,687 I feel like, is through books, especially when it comes 580 00:23:06,753 --> 00:23:08,788 to stories that you're reading with her 581 00:23:08,855 --> 00:23:12,192 in the evening before bed, having conversations. 582 00:23:12,259 --> 00:23:14,161 There are so many stories that tell the stories 583 00:23:14,228 --> 00:23:16,029 of Black people who stood up for themselves 584 00:23:16,096 --> 00:23:18,766 and showing the power of what it means to be Black, 585 00:23:18,832 --> 00:23:21,835 and then also showing us just loving and living 586 00:23:21,902 --> 00:23:23,971 and thriving and feeling worthy. 587 00:23:24,038 --> 00:23:25,673 - I like the book idea. - I like the book idea. 588 00:23:25,739 --> 00:23:27,441 - That's a really good idea. 589 00:23:27,508 --> 00:23:29,309 - That's the beauty of Black stories 590 00:23:29,376 --> 00:23:30,611 being in your household. 591 00:23:30,678 --> 00:23:32,246 Representation matters. 592 00:23:32,313 --> 00:23:33,847 - I can't relate to her in that way, 593 00:23:33,914 --> 00:23:38,118 so I don't know how to go about talking to her 594 00:23:38,185 --> 00:23:39,886 about something like that. 595 00:23:39,953 --> 00:23:42,122 - It is a different experience than what you have, 596 00:23:42,189 --> 00:23:44,891 but there are ways that you can still show up. 597 00:23:44,958 --> 00:23:46,827 There are ways to say that, you know, 598 00:23:46,894 --> 00:23:50,030 I don't know what this is like, but I empathize with you. 599 00:23:50,097 --> 00:23:51,932 I hear you. I see you. 600 00:23:51,998 --> 00:23:53,900 I support you, and I love you. - Yeah. 601 00:23:53,967 --> 00:23:56,003 - Sometimes, it's just the words that get us there, 602 00:23:56,070 --> 00:23:58,038 and then we have to do that individual work, 603 00:23:58,105 --> 00:24:00,907 so we can show up and be great in these spaces as well. 604 00:24:00,974 --> 00:24:03,911 As parents, as co-parents, you all will continue 605 00:24:03,977 --> 00:24:06,146 to have to have a meeting of the minds 606 00:24:06,212 --> 00:24:09,049 and realize that you all come from this in a different way 607 00:24:09,115 --> 00:24:10,417 and a different background. 608 00:24:10,484 --> 00:24:12,052 We've all been socialized. 609 00:24:12,118 --> 00:24:13,621 We all have bias. 610 00:24:13,687 --> 00:24:16,022 That is just a natural part of this experience, 611 00:24:16,089 --> 00:24:19,059 and we have to know when to check our biases, 612 00:24:19,126 --> 00:24:21,728 when to listen, when to be empathetic. 613 00:24:21,795 --> 00:24:25,599 And then you all will do what's best for your children. 614 00:24:25,665 --> 00:24:27,501 - I really appreciate you taking the time 615 00:24:27,567 --> 00:24:29,002 and having the conversation with us. 616 00:24:29,069 --> 00:24:30,438 - Yes. Thank you. 617 00:24:30,504 --> 00:24:32,206 Thank you. - Thank you all so much. 618 00:24:32,273 --> 00:24:33,874 You all have a good night. - OK. 619 00:24:33,941 --> 00:24:36,143 We'll see you. Have a good one. 620 00:24:36,210 --> 00:24:39,179 - ♪♪ I'm out here working on my all-time high ♪♪ 621 00:24:39,246 --> 00:24:41,715 ♪♪ ♪♪ 622 00:24:41,782 --> 00:24:43,550 - Girls, you're never going to believe this. 623 00:24:43,617 --> 00:24:46,921 I got offered a job to be the girls' 624 00:24:46,987 --> 00:24:49,756 wrestling coach at a high school. 625 00:24:49,823 --> 00:24:53,127 I don't even know what to say, but I can't think about it 626 00:24:53,193 --> 00:24:55,095 because today, I have to focus on Jade 627 00:24:55,162 --> 00:24:57,831 and Maverick's wrestling team that I coach 628 00:24:57,898 --> 00:25:00,100 because we have to go get a state title. 629 00:25:00,167 --> 00:25:01,902 I don't even know what to think. 630 00:25:01,968 --> 00:25:03,637 I'm so excited. 631 00:25:03,704 --> 00:25:05,705 Good. Wrestle, wrestle, wrestle. 632 00:25:07,474 --> 00:25:10,110 [cheering] 633 00:25:10,177 --> 00:25:12,513 [indistinct] 634 00:25:12,580 --> 00:25:15,515 [tense music] 635 00:25:15,582 --> 00:25:20,987 ♪♪ ♪♪ 636 00:25:30,664 --> 00:25:37,737 ♪♪ ♪♪ 637 00:25:39,673 --> 00:25:41,475 - Maverick wrestled so good. 638 00:25:41,541 --> 00:25:42,976 He was on a roll there for a little bit, 639 00:25:43,043 --> 00:25:48,249 and then it kind of just ended badly. 640 00:25:48,315 --> 00:25:50,951 You know what I mean? - Babe. 641 00:25:51,018 --> 00:25:53,087 - It was just--what? 642 00:25:53,153 --> 00:25:55,889 - Can we not do this? I'm so tired. 643 00:25:55,956 --> 00:26:00,327 - I was just telling a story. - I'm over it. 644 00:26:00,394 --> 00:26:02,129 - Over me talking? 645 00:26:02,196 --> 00:26:03,663 - It's just a lot. 646 00:26:03,730 --> 00:26:04,898 - I mean, I hadn't got to talk to you all day. 647 00:26:04,965 --> 00:26:06,600 I was just telling the story. 648 00:26:06,667 --> 00:26:08,669 - My brain is so mushy. 649 00:26:08,735 --> 00:26:11,271 I don't even feel like I have the capacity 650 00:26:11,338 --> 00:26:14,574 to, like, interact. 651 00:26:14,641 --> 00:26:17,978 - When you just shut me down, like, I can't-- 652 00:26:18,045 --> 00:26:19,913 I can't talk. 653 00:26:19,980 --> 00:26:22,249 And it seems little. I get it. 654 00:26:22,316 --> 00:26:24,584 But this is where I just put it in, put it to the side, 655 00:26:24,651 --> 00:26:26,353 bury it down inside. 656 00:26:26,420 --> 00:26:29,556 But then it'll happen again, and then it'll happen again. 657 00:26:29,623 --> 00:26:32,693 - Our lives are busy, and hard, and hectic. 658 00:26:32,760 --> 00:26:34,428 It's so much. 659 00:26:34,495 --> 00:26:37,130 I don't get to sit down. 660 00:26:37,197 --> 00:26:40,768 - Sometimes I just want you to listen for just a sec. 661 00:26:40,834 --> 00:26:44,104 - It's never on purpose, but I'll try my best. 662 00:26:44,170 --> 00:26:45,706 - OK. 663 00:26:45,773 --> 00:26:48,842 - I do appreciate when you do talk to me like this 664 00:26:48,909 --> 00:26:52,746 because I feel like this conversation is productive. 665 00:26:52,812 --> 00:26:56,150 - Yeah. - I'm sorry. 666 00:26:56,217 --> 00:26:57,684 - All good. 667 00:26:57,751 --> 00:26:59,386 - Can't promise I'll change it overnight, 668 00:26:59,453 --> 00:27:02,389 but I'll definitely try. 669 00:27:02,455 --> 00:27:03,858 - All right. How about this? 670 00:27:03,924 --> 00:27:06,293 Let's get these bags and go inside. 671 00:27:06,360 --> 00:27:09,029 - Give me a hug. 672 00:27:09,096 --> 00:27:10,697 Mm. 673 00:27:10,764 --> 00:27:12,499 All right. You carry all the bags. 674 00:27:12,566 --> 00:27:14,601 - Oh, great. - [laughs] 675 00:27:14,668 --> 00:27:18,405 - ♪♪ We only want to go wild ♪♪ 676 00:27:18,472 --> 00:27:20,374 ♪♪ Only want to go wild ♪♪ 677 00:27:20,440 --> 00:27:24,044 - I found a place I love, and things are falling into place, 678 00:27:24,111 --> 00:27:26,046 but I need to run it all by my lawyer. 679 00:27:26,113 --> 00:27:28,615 What would be the custody situation with Ensley 680 00:27:28,682 --> 00:27:30,417 if I did decide to move? 681 00:27:30,484 --> 00:27:32,653 - That's something that we can work out, hopefully. 682 00:27:32,720 --> 00:27:34,555 - After speaking with my lawyer, 683 00:27:34,622 --> 00:27:36,357 I'm way more comfortable moving out 684 00:27:36,423 --> 00:27:37,858 of North Carolina with my kids. 685 00:27:37,924 --> 00:27:39,793 - So what do you think about everything? 686 00:27:39,859 --> 00:27:41,862 - I'm really happy about the last house we saw. 687 00:27:41,929 --> 00:27:44,131 I think I want to sign on it, too. 688 00:27:44,198 --> 00:27:45,966 - Really? - Mm-hm. 689 00:27:46,033 --> 00:27:47,635 - When? 690 00:27:47,701 --> 00:27:49,903 - Like, as soon as I can. 691 00:27:49,970 --> 00:27:51,539 - Like, right now? - Yeah. 692 00:27:51,605 --> 00:27:55,109 You can do it right now, OK? 693 00:27:55,176 --> 00:27:57,478 [tense music] 694 00:27:57,544 --> 00:27:59,880 [line trilling] 695 00:27:59,946 --> 00:28:01,381 - Luis Guillermo. 696 00:28:01,448 --> 00:28:03,817 - Hey, this is Jenelle Eason from yesterday. 697 00:28:03,884 --> 00:28:05,386 - Yeah, hi, Jenelle. How are you? 698 00:28:05,452 --> 00:28:07,121 - I was just calling because I just wanted 699 00:28:07,188 --> 00:28:08,889 to let you know I'm going to sign 700 00:28:08,956 --> 00:28:10,591 on that second house. - All right. 701 00:28:10,657 --> 00:28:12,192 Sounds great. - Thank you. 702 00:28:12,259 --> 00:28:13,393 - All right. We'll see you soon. 703 00:28:13,460 --> 00:28:15,362 - Thanks. Bye. 704 00:28:15,429 --> 00:28:18,298 - That's big. - Done. 705 00:28:18,365 --> 00:28:19,766 Don't test me. 706 00:28:19,833 --> 00:28:21,068 I think Vegas is definitely going 707 00:28:21,135 --> 00:28:23,036 to be a space like my safe haven 708 00:28:23,103 --> 00:28:26,206 and definitely a good safe haven for my kids. 709 00:28:26,273 --> 00:28:28,542 There's just so much to look forward to 710 00:28:28,609 --> 00:28:30,110 for this move to Vegas. 711 00:28:30,177 --> 00:28:31,378 - Cheers to that. 712 00:28:31,445 --> 00:28:33,013 - [laughs] 713 00:28:33,080 --> 00:28:35,349 This is definitely a new start for me and the kids. 714 00:28:35,416 --> 00:28:37,785 - ♪♪ All night, yeah, you been on a mission ♪♪ 715 00:28:37,852 --> 00:28:39,987 - But I have to first face Dave in court 716 00:28:40,054 --> 00:28:41,821 for the restraining order, so I'm excited 717 00:28:41,888 --> 00:28:43,990 and scared at the same time now. 718 00:28:44,057 --> 00:28:46,059 So much has happened in North Carolina. 719 00:28:46,126 --> 00:28:49,296 It's just traumatized all of us in different ways. 720 00:28:49,363 --> 00:28:50,864 Cool. Thank you. 721 00:28:50,931 --> 00:28:52,932 I appreciate it. Thank you, sir. 722 00:28:52,999 --> 00:28:54,568 - It's official. - Thank you. 723 00:28:54,634 --> 00:28:56,237 I got the key. - Yay. 724 00:28:56,303 --> 00:28:57,337 - Got it. 725 00:29:03,377 --> 00:29:05,079 - ♪♪ Whoo-hoo ♪♪ 726 00:29:05,145 --> 00:29:07,380 ♪♪ Uh-huh, uh-huh ♪♪ 727 00:29:07,447 --> 00:29:09,883 ♪♪ You got me feeling whoo-hoo ♪♪ 728 00:29:09,950 --> 00:29:11,785 ♪♪ ♪♪ 729 00:29:11,851 --> 00:29:13,420 - Sissy, do you have your lunch box? 730 00:29:13,486 --> 00:29:14,989 - No. Your lunch box is right here. 731 00:29:15,055 --> 00:29:16,056 - OK, then we're good. 732 00:29:16,122 --> 00:29:17,057 - You love your new school? 733 00:29:17,124 --> 00:29:18,492 - Who put this in here? 734 00:29:18,559 --> 00:29:20,060 - I did, silly goose. - You want this? 735 00:29:20,127 --> 00:29:22,329 - I figured you might want a snack when we got out. 736 00:29:22,396 --> 00:29:24,398 - How was it? - Good. 737 00:29:24,465 --> 00:29:25,999 - Was it good? - Yeah. 738 00:29:26,066 --> 00:29:28,035 - Did you have fun? Your teacher said it was good. 739 00:29:28,102 --> 00:29:29,303 - Yeah. - Yeah. 740 00:29:29,370 --> 00:29:30,971 - That's awesome. 741 00:29:31,037 --> 00:29:35,242 - I mean, all my friends are girls, except one. 742 00:29:35,309 --> 00:29:37,044 - All your class friends like you? 743 00:29:37,111 --> 00:29:39,213 - Mm-hmm. - I'm so happy, dude. 744 00:29:39,279 --> 00:29:41,281 Yay. - That's great. 745 00:29:41,348 --> 00:29:42,950 - And it was less boring, too. 746 00:29:43,017 --> 00:29:44,251 - Oh, yeah? 747 00:29:44,318 --> 00:29:46,386 - So this school is funner? - Mm-hm. 748 00:29:46,453 --> 00:29:48,154 - So you're excited to go back tomorrow? 749 00:29:48,221 --> 00:29:50,190 - Mm-hm. - Oh, yeah, baby. 750 00:29:50,257 --> 00:29:52,259 I'm going to cry. - You're so happy. 751 00:29:52,326 --> 00:29:54,628 - I don't know why. - We had a long day. 752 00:29:54,694 --> 00:29:57,397 - Yeah. I'm so happy for you, baby. 753 00:29:58,966 --> 00:30:00,501 - Yeah. - Oh, yes. 754 00:30:00,567 --> 00:30:02,936 - Yes. - Can I just eat? 755 00:30:03,003 --> 00:30:04,337 [indistinct speech] 756 00:30:04,404 --> 00:30:07,241 [laughter] 757 00:30:07,307 --> 00:30:08,842 - You're happy for me? 758 00:30:08,909 --> 00:30:10,144 both: I'm so happy. 759 00:30:10,211 --> 00:30:11,512 - Dad's so happy for you he's crying. 760 00:30:11,578 --> 00:30:13,413 - 'Cause you're so happy. 761 00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:16,183 I'm so emotional. 762 00:30:16,250 --> 00:30:18,652 - ♪♪ If I keep on moving ♪♪ 763 00:30:18,719 --> 00:30:21,221 ♪♪ ♪♪ 764 00:30:21,288 --> 00:30:23,190 - Can you make me a red panda? 765 00:30:23,257 --> 00:30:25,792 ♪♪ ♪♪ 766 00:30:25,859 --> 00:30:29,162 - Babe, can you help me with this real quick? 767 00:30:29,229 --> 00:30:31,765 So this one looks pretty good. 768 00:30:31,831 --> 00:30:34,100 Professional Home Inspection Institute. 769 00:30:34,167 --> 00:30:36,670 Qualifications are you have to be at least 18, 770 00:30:36,737 --> 00:30:39,639 complete a pre-licensing course of at least 60 hours 771 00:30:39,706 --> 00:30:41,809 provided by a board-approved course provider. 772 00:30:41,876 --> 00:30:43,610 - Yes. So you just do the online? 773 00:30:43,677 --> 00:30:45,145 - Yeah. 774 00:30:45,212 --> 00:30:48,515 I have to pass the National Home Inspector Examination, 775 00:30:48,582 --> 00:30:51,418 and it says that this course fully prepares me. 776 00:30:51,485 --> 00:30:53,754 - If you--once you start something, though-- 777 00:30:53,821 --> 00:30:55,188 you know how I am. 778 00:30:55,255 --> 00:30:58,225 I don't start anything, unless I'm 100% dedicated. 779 00:30:58,292 --> 00:31:02,529 You're going to start this and put 100% into it, right? 780 00:31:02,595 --> 00:31:04,131 I'm guessing that's why you want to do it. 781 00:31:04,197 --> 00:31:05,599 - Yeah. Yeah. 782 00:31:05,666 --> 00:31:07,467 I think I'm going to go with this class over here. 783 00:31:07,534 --> 00:31:09,336 - I'm proud of you. I think that'll be-- 784 00:31:09,403 --> 00:31:11,271 that'll be a great new journey. 785 00:31:11,338 --> 00:31:12,706 - Yeah. 786 00:31:14,108 --> 00:31:16,910 - I want to be able to be there and support him 787 00:31:16,977 --> 00:31:20,080 and support him through school, like he's always supported me, 788 00:31:20,147 --> 00:31:23,650 and I'm really proud of him for starting this whole new career. 789 00:31:23,717 --> 00:31:25,886 I feel like life is a crazy roller coaster, 790 00:31:25,953 --> 00:31:29,957 but boy, is it so amazing compared to, like, 791 00:31:30,023 --> 00:31:31,324 five years ago. 792 00:31:31,391 --> 00:31:33,194 I just really hope he follows through. 793 00:31:33,260 --> 00:31:34,928 - Bam. 794 00:31:34,995 --> 00:31:36,730 I registered for school. 795 00:31:36,797 --> 00:31:37,865 - Good job. 796 00:31:37,932 --> 00:31:40,867 [upbeat music] 797 00:31:40,934 --> 00:31:42,803 ♪♪ ♪♪ 798 00:31:42,869 --> 00:31:44,371 - I'm home. 799 00:31:46,240 --> 00:31:48,175 Come on. You're the food reviewer. 800 00:31:48,242 --> 00:31:50,411 - Hot. - You helped me make this. 801 00:31:50,477 --> 00:31:52,479 I really don't want to be here. 802 00:31:52,545 --> 00:31:54,314 But this week, I have a court case 803 00:31:54,381 --> 00:31:55,715 for a pending restraining order, 804 00:31:55,782 --> 00:31:57,384 so we'll see how that goes. 805 00:31:57,451 --> 00:31:59,886 I don't feel safe when I'm in North Carolina 806 00:31:59,953 --> 00:32:04,424 because I don't know if or where I can run into David. 807 00:32:04,491 --> 00:32:07,661 I think that's David's white truck. 808 00:32:09,063 --> 00:32:11,832 David's just capable of intimidating me. 809 00:32:11,899 --> 00:32:13,300 I feel harassed. 810 00:32:13,366 --> 00:32:15,101 I feel stalked. 811 00:32:15,168 --> 00:32:19,440 Now, every white truck on the highway I'm staring at, 812 00:32:19,507 --> 00:32:22,042 and I don't know if it's him. 813 00:32:22,109 --> 00:32:24,978 [tense music] 814 00:32:25,045 --> 00:32:26,580 ♪♪ ♪♪ 815 00:32:26,646 --> 00:32:29,016 So I just woke up, and I have court today, 816 00:32:29,083 --> 00:32:31,885 and my nerves are shot. 817 00:32:33,587 --> 00:32:36,523 [somber music] 818 00:32:36,590 --> 00:32:38,925 ♪♪ ♪♪ 819 00:32:38,992 --> 00:32:42,162 [breathing heavily] 820 00:32:42,229 --> 00:32:46,700 ♪♪ ♪♪ 821 00:32:46,766 --> 00:32:49,369 I keep having panic attacks. 822 00:32:50,804 --> 00:32:54,608 I keep thinking about how I have to go on stand. 823 00:32:54,674 --> 00:32:59,045 It's just all very scary. 824 00:33:01,148 --> 00:33:05,986 I'm, like, shaking, but I got to do it. 825 00:33:06,052 --> 00:33:07,854 I'm really sick of feeling this way. 826 00:33:07,921 --> 00:33:10,424 And just even though he's not here, 827 00:33:10,491 --> 00:33:14,794 it's like I'm still walking on eggshells, which sucks. 828 00:33:16,163 --> 00:33:21,134 - ♪♪ And I should have known by now ♪♪ 829 00:33:21,201 --> 00:33:25,105 ♪♪ Why do you got a let me down ♪♪ 830 00:33:25,172 --> 00:33:27,574 [phone ringing] ♪♪ Alone together ♪♪ 831 00:33:27,641 --> 00:33:29,410 - Hey. - How are you? 832 00:33:29,476 --> 00:33:31,979 - Good. How are you? 833 00:33:32,045 --> 00:33:33,547 - I'm good. 834 00:33:33,614 --> 00:33:35,182 What are you up to? 835 00:33:35,249 --> 00:33:38,385 - My restraining order between me and David got put in place. 836 00:33:38,452 --> 00:33:43,390 - ♪♪ I can't stay here anymore ♪♪ 837 00:33:43,457 --> 00:33:46,060 - Oh, my God. 838 00:33:46,126 --> 00:33:48,528 - That includes the kids. 839 00:33:48,595 --> 00:33:53,233 - Oh. Do the kids know that the restraining order is in place? 840 00:33:53,300 --> 00:33:54,635 - Jace does know. 841 00:33:54,701 --> 00:33:55,803 I did tell Jace because he was like, 842 00:33:55,869 --> 00:33:57,270 why are you going to court? 843 00:33:57,337 --> 00:33:59,573 You know, all these fears in my head, they are just-- 844 00:33:59,640 --> 00:34:02,075 like, they're just poof, gone now. 845 00:34:02,142 --> 00:34:04,711 But also, I signed the lease in Vegas. 846 00:34:04,778 --> 00:34:06,713 I can move in, like, immediately. 847 00:34:06,780 --> 00:34:09,416 - Vegas! - Yeah. 848 00:34:09,482 --> 00:34:11,585 - You finally decided to leave. 849 00:34:11,652 --> 00:34:13,187 - I know, finally. 850 00:34:13,254 --> 00:34:14,989 - Well, you know, you can always call me 851 00:34:15,055 --> 00:34:17,291 if you need any help with anything 852 00:34:17,358 --> 00:34:19,192 or just to vent, you know. 853 00:34:19,259 --> 00:34:20,961 - Yeah. I appreciate it. 854 00:34:21,027 --> 00:34:23,597 - Big things happening for Jenelle. 855 00:34:30,304 --> 00:34:32,839 [intense electronic music] 856 00:34:32,906 --> 00:34:34,875 - ♪♪ Don't you underestimate me ♪♪ 857 00:34:34,942 --> 00:34:37,243 ♪♪ Size you up, bring on the heat ♪♪ 858 00:34:37,310 --> 00:34:39,946 - So the state tournament was so much fun. 859 00:34:40,013 --> 00:34:41,882 Maverick got fourth place. 860 00:34:41,949 --> 00:34:45,118 And Jade, she didn't place, but she wrestled hard. 861 00:34:45,185 --> 00:34:46,553 She tried her best. 862 00:34:46,620 --> 00:34:48,155 I'm really, really proud of her. 863 00:34:48,221 --> 00:34:50,190 We had an absolute blast. 864 00:34:50,257 --> 00:34:53,326 And I would love to do this full time, 865 00:34:53,393 --> 00:34:55,829 but it is exhausting and draining. 866 00:34:55,896 --> 00:34:57,831 And It a lot out of me, 867 00:34:57,897 --> 00:35:01,434 and then that trickles down into my marriage. 868 00:35:01,501 --> 00:35:03,937 Taylor and I, we got in a small argument. 869 00:35:04,004 --> 00:35:05,505 We were able to work through it, 870 00:35:05,572 --> 00:35:08,142 but I just feel like if I take this 871 00:35:08,208 --> 00:35:10,610 full-time coaching job that 872 00:35:10,677 --> 00:35:12,546 this is going to happen more often. 873 00:35:12,612 --> 00:35:15,415 So I really don't know what to do. 874 00:35:15,482 --> 00:35:17,751 Can I get a Bud Light with a cold glass? 875 00:35:17,818 --> 00:35:21,055 - Can I get a half and a half tea? 876 00:35:21,121 --> 00:35:22,556 - The high school offered me 877 00:35:22,622 --> 00:35:24,825 the girls' wrestling head coaching job. 878 00:35:24,891 --> 00:35:26,960 - Wow. - Yeah. 879 00:35:27,027 --> 00:35:30,897 Kind of [bleep] my pants and said whoo-hoo at the same time. 880 00:35:30,964 --> 00:35:32,466 [laughter] 881 00:35:32,533 --> 00:35:35,635 - That's so cool first of all that girls wrestling is 882 00:35:35,702 --> 00:35:37,304 becoming so big that they're starting, 883 00:35:37,370 --> 00:35:39,907 but then to think of you when they were looking 884 00:35:39,973 --> 00:35:41,608 for a coach, that's awesome. 885 00:35:41,675 --> 00:35:43,777 Have you given much thought about how 886 00:35:43,844 --> 00:35:46,313 you would be able to manage anything like that? 887 00:35:46,380 --> 00:35:49,116 - I mean, basically, from 1:00 p.m. I would either be 888 00:35:49,182 --> 00:35:51,151 leaving my house or leaving and not 889 00:35:51,218 --> 00:35:53,287 getting home until 8:30, 9:00. 890 00:35:53,353 --> 00:35:58,058 Taylor would have to be with Jade, Mav, or Bentley. 891 00:35:58,125 --> 00:35:59,960 If I take this, everything looks 892 00:36:00,027 --> 00:36:01,729 totally different for Taylor. 893 00:36:01,795 --> 00:36:03,130 - What did Taylor say? 894 00:36:03,197 --> 00:36:04,998 - He's like, if you want to do it, we'll find a way. 895 00:36:05,065 --> 00:36:06,634 We'll figure it out. 896 00:36:06,700 --> 00:36:08,268 - I think if your kids were a little bit older, 897 00:36:08,335 --> 00:36:09,703 it might be a little bit easier. 898 00:36:09,769 --> 00:36:11,972 - I feel like there will be time for that 899 00:36:12,038 --> 00:36:13,607 in the next few years. 900 00:36:13,674 --> 00:36:16,543 But right now, I feel like it is the time that's 901 00:36:16,610 --> 00:36:19,279 supposed to be about them. 902 00:36:19,346 --> 00:36:22,349 This opportunity is like a dream come true, 903 00:36:22,416 --> 00:36:25,151 but to be the parent that I want to be, 904 00:36:25,218 --> 00:36:28,755 be the mom and wife, friend, person that 905 00:36:28,822 --> 00:36:31,459 I want to be, I can't take the job right now, 906 00:36:31,525 --> 00:36:35,495 so that's how I know that this is the right decision. 907 00:36:35,562 --> 00:36:38,599 - ♪♪ I don't know how you did it ♪♪ 908 00:36:38,666 --> 00:36:40,934 ♪♪ But all I know is I can't get enough ♪♪ 909 00:36:41,001 --> 00:36:42,335 ♪♪ ♪♪ 910 00:36:42,402 --> 00:36:44,038 - I think the books is the best way 911 00:36:44,104 --> 00:36:45,739 to communicate to a six-year old. 912 00:36:45,805 --> 00:36:47,308 - Because that was our biggest thing. 913 00:36:47,374 --> 00:36:49,043 How do we get through to a six-year-old 914 00:36:49,109 --> 00:36:50,711 these world problems? 915 00:36:50,777 --> 00:36:52,913 - Stories. - You know, racism itself. 916 00:36:52,979 --> 00:36:55,449 And by her suggesting books, it was just like, boom, 917 00:36:55,516 --> 00:36:57,484 there it is. Ryder loves to read. 918 00:36:57,551 --> 00:37:00,320 She loves to sit down at night and just have a story. 919 00:37:00,387 --> 00:37:02,623 - I'm going to order a book for Ryder. 920 00:37:02,689 --> 00:37:05,259 - ♪♪ I let it go ♪♪ 921 00:37:05,325 --> 00:37:08,261 [vocalizing] 922 00:37:08,328 --> 00:37:12,966 ♪♪ ♪♪ 923 00:37:13,033 --> 00:37:15,769 - Whoa, a book. A book. 924 00:37:15,836 --> 00:37:17,504 It has chickens. 925 00:37:17,571 --> 00:37:19,306 - OK. - Wow. 926 00:37:19,373 --> 00:37:20,941 - How about we take a break and we read it? 927 00:37:21,007 --> 00:37:22,709 Come up here with me. 928 00:37:24,010 --> 00:37:25,246 - OK. 929 00:37:25,312 --> 00:37:26,947 It's called "Preaching"-- 930 00:37:27,014 --> 00:37:30,383 - "To The Chickens." 931 00:37:30,450 --> 00:37:32,853 - She's still a kid, so everything to her 932 00:37:32,920 --> 00:37:34,488 is still a story. 933 00:37:34,555 --> 00:37:38,125 I just want her to hear the stories and to empower her. 934 00:37:38,191 --> 00:37:41,695 "One day the rolling store man stopped by to make a trade. 935 00:37:41,761 --> 00:37:44,531 But John did not want to part with any of his chickens. 936 00:37:44,598 --> 00:37:46,633 He knew that they would want to stay with him. 937 00:37:46,700 --> 00:37:48,569 The chickens stayed on the farm. 938 00:37:48,636 --> 00:37:51,405 And John learned to speak up for those who could 939 00:37:51,472 --> 00:37:53,574 not speak up for themselves." 940 00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:55,810 Maybe one day something happens at school, 941 00:37:55,876 --> 00:37:57,777 and she picks it up from the story, 942 00:37:57,844 --> 00:37:59,547 and then she comes home and says, why did this 943 00:37:59,613 --> 00:38:01,015 because the story said this? 944 00:38:01,081 --> 00:38:02,816 So you know how mommy's always telling you 945 00:38:02,883 --> 00:38:05,886 to be a advocate for yourself and to stand up for yourself? 946 00:38:05,952 --> 00:38:07,187 - Yes. 947 00:38:07,254 --> 00:38:08,856 - That's the same thing. 948 00:38:08,922 --> 00:38:10,657 Sometimes you can stand up for yourself, 949 00:38:10,724 --> 00:38:12,459 and sometimes you help to stand up for those who 950 00:38:12,526 --> 00:38:14,160 can't stand up for themselves. 951 00:38:14,227 --> 00:38:17,665 I like this part where it says, "blessed are the peacemakers. 952 00:38:17,731 --> 00:38:21,501 Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness." 953 00:38:21,568 --> 00:38:23,370 - What does righteousness mean? 954 00:38:23,437 --> 00:38:24,471 - Like, to do the right thing. 955 00:38:24,538 --> 00:38:25,939 - Oh. - Mm-hmm. 956 00:38:26,006 --> 00:38:28,509 This is something that now we're doing more 957 00:38:28,575 --> 00:38:31,845 and definitely with more reason behind it. 958 00:38:31,912 --> 00:38:33,414 What did you think about the book, Ry? 959 00:38:33,480 --> 00:38:35,249 - I think it was awesome. 960 00:38:35,315 --> 00:38:36,550 - You think it was awesome? 961 00:38:38,352 --> 00:38:43,791 - ♪♪ You and I get through the wreckage ♪♪ 962 00:38:43,858 --> 00:38:46,360 - Hey. You snuck up on me. 963 00:38:46,426 --> 00:38:47,961 - Hi, ladies. - Hi. 964 00:38:48,028 --> 00:38:49,096 - How are you today? 965 00:38:49,163 --> 00:38:50,397 - I'll just have a glass of Moscato. 966 00:38:50,464 --> 00:38:51,698 - And I'll take a dirty Martini. 967 00:38:51,765 --> 00:38:53,066 - Dirty Martini. - Thank you. 968 00:38:53,133 --> 00:38:54,234 - Thank you. - Of course. 969 00:38:54,301 --> 00:38:55,436 - Where's the girls? - With their dad. 970 00:38:55,503 --> 00:38:56,670 - Where's Addie? With her dad? 971 00:38:56,737 --> 00:38:58,305 - No. Addie is with my mom. 972 00:38:58,372 --> 00:39:01,074 Jeremy is being a pain in the ass. 973 00:39:01,141 --> 00:39:02,776 Basically, it's our custody arrangement. 974 00:39:02,842 --> 00:39:05,613 We both have shared decision making 975 00:39:05,679 --> 00:39:08,516 when it comes to medical, education. 976 00:39:08,582 --> 00:39:09,817 Thank you. - Thank you so much. 977 00:39:09,884 --> 00:39:11,084 - Thank you. 978 00:39:11,151 --> 00:39:12,686 - After everything happened with Jeremy, 979 00:39:12,752 --> 00:39:14,722 I think that it's important that Addie goes to counseling, 980 00:39:14,789 --> 00:39:17,257 so that way she can express her emotions freely 981 00:39:17,324 --> 00:39:20,694 and work through the emotions behind coping mechanism. 982 00:39:20,761 --> 00:39:23,497 Jeremy doesn't want to sign the consent for Addie 983 00:39:23,564 --> 00:39:26,000 to go to counseling. 984 00:39:26,066 --> 00:39:27,501 - Why? 985 00:39:27,568 --> 00:39:28,969 - He doesn't even give a reason. 986 00:39:29,036 --> 00:39:30,571 - That's ridiculous. 987 00:39:30,638 --> 00:39:33,540 - It's ridiculous because what are you benefiting from that? 988 00:39:33,607 --> 00:39:35,142 - If you think that Addie needs the therapy, 989 00:39:35,209 --> 00:39:36,577 why would he go against that? 990 00:39:36,644 --> 00:39:38,078 It's just therapy. 991 00:39:38,144 --> 00:39:39,480 Like, what is the big deal? 992 00:39:39,546 --> 00:39:40,848 Why do you not want her in therapy? 993 00:39:40,914 --> 00:39:43,016 - What are you gaining from her not going? 994 00:39:43,083 --> 00:39:44,718 - Right. 995 00:39:44,785 --> 00:39:47,187 - Are you afraid she's going to say something to the counselor 996 00:39:47,254 --> 00:39:48,622 that would get you in trouble? 997 00:39:48,688 --> 00:39:50,023 - So what are you supposed to do? 998 00:39:50,090 --> 00:39:51,859 - Call my family attorney. 999 00:39:51,926 --> 00:39:53,294 It's all I can do. 1000 00:39:53,360 --> 00:39:55,595 It does feel like everything with Jeremy 1001 00:39:55,662 --> 00:39:58,365 is going to get more and more dysfunctional. 1002 00:39:58,432 --> 00:40:02,469 It's really challenging to try to have 1003 00:40:02,535 --> 00:40:05,105 a relationship with a toxic ex. 1004 00:40:05,171 --> 00:40:08,709 And over time I have covered up many things 1005 00:40:08,775 --> 00:40:10,978 to make sure she had a good relationship with her father, 1006 00:40:11,044 --> 00:40:13,047 probably because I didn't have a good relationship 1007 00:40:13,113 --> 00:40:14,714 with my father. 1008 00:40:14,781 --> 00:40:17,751 And I wanted to make sure that my kids never experienced that. 1009 00:40:17,818 --> 00:40:21,454 I feel like I let her down by being 1010 00:40:21,521 --> 00:40:23,824 in a split home situation. 1011 00:40:23,890 --> 00:40:27,661 But... 1012 00:40:27,727 --> 00:40:29,997 I don't know. We just do the best we can. 1013 00:40:30,064 --> 00:40:31,899 [somber music] 1014 00:40:31,965 --> 00:40:34,634 - ♪♪ I can see it happening ♪♪ 1015 00:40:34,701 --> 00:40:37,771 ♪♪ Some kind of awakening ♪♪ 1016 00:40:37,838 --> 00:40:42,609 ♪♪ Here the sound, it calls to me ♪♪ 1017 00:40:42,676 --> 00:40:45,779 ♪♪ Do you feel it? ♪♪ 1018 00:40:45,846 --> 00:40:50,050 ♪♪ Do you feel it? ♪♪ 1019 00:40:50,117 --> 00:40:54,488 ♪♪ Do you feel it now? ♪♪ 1020 00:40:54,555 --> 00:40:56,990 ♪♪ Do you feel it? ♪♪ 1021 00:40:57,057 --> 00:41:03,196 ♪♪ ♪♪ 1022 00:41:08,469 --> 00:41:09,569 - Next on "Teen Mom: The Next Chapter"... 1023 00:41:09,636 --> 00:41:10,871 - Are you ready to go on our date? 1024 00:41:10,938 --> 00:41:12,172 - Daddy-Daughter Dance. 1025 00:41:12,238 --> 00:41:14,407 - Did you know that Aleeah's dating a boy? 1026 00:41:15,943 --> 00:41:17,912 - Did you know Amanda before her and Ryan got together? 1027 00:41:17,978 --> 00:41:19,313 - She was in my class. 1028 00:41:19,380 --> 00:41:21,182 - The things they've heard or read, it's not me. 1029 00:41:21,248 --> 00:41:22,850 I just want them to be comfortable around me. 1030 00:41:22,916 --> 00:41:24,318 - Birth control to get pregnant-- 1031 00:41:24,385 --> 00:41:26,754 that will cancel my insulin, which is very dangerous. 1032 00:41:26,821 --> 00:41:29,289 - My mom's therapist says that she isn't doing too well. 1033 00:41:29,356 --> 00:41:30,991 - She's a liar and I don't trust her. 1034 00:41:31,057 --> 00:41:32,926 - We have this toxic triangle going on, 1035 00:41:32,993 --> 00:41:34,461 and it has to stop.