1 00:00:02,169 --> 00:00:04,037 - ♪♪ MTV ♪♪ 2 00:00:04,104 --> 00:00:07,141 - Previously on "Teen Mom: The Next Chapter"... 3 00:00:07,208 --> 00:00:08,408 - I don't know about the details, 4 00:00:08,475 --> 00:00:09,977 but apparently you found something going 5 00:00:10,044 --> 00:00:11,878 on with Bar and another woman. 6 00:00:11,945 --> 00:00:15,816 - I feel so disrespected that I might as well be single. 7 00:00:15,883 --> 00:00:18,952 - I got sentenced to 24 months of probation. 8 00:00:19,019 --> 00:00:21,421 - That means divorce is, like... 9 00:00:21,488 --> 00:00:24,391 - I think it's being highly considered. 10 00:00:24,458 --> 00:00:26,860 - When and how would you know that you're ready 11 00:00:26,927 --> 00:00:28,495 for another child? 12 00:00:28,562 --> 00:00:32,365 - If Zach showed up in different ways career-wise. 13 00:00:32,432 --> 00:00:35,068 - Financially, I don't think I am ready 14 00:00:35,135 --> 00:00:37,972 to bring life into the world. - I respect that. 15 00:00:38,038 --> 00:00:40,574 I just want you to hurry up. 16 00:00:40,641 --> 00:00:43,010 - Still on probation for the DUI. 17 00:00:43,076 --> 00:00:45,445 Having that record, trying to do anything, 18 00:00:45,512 --> 00:00:47,414 I know it's just gonna stop me. 19 00:00:47,481 --> 00:00:49,850 - Dad wants to go into detox. 20 00:00:49,917 --> 00:00:52,852 I will not allow my kid to be exposed 21 00:00:52,919 --> 00:00:56,423 to the same trauma or pain that we were exposed to. 22 00:00:56,490 --> 00:00:58,225 - Once he gets through the detox, he's gonna 23 00:00:58,292 --> 00:00:59,894 have to go to--to-- - A long-term. 24 00:00:59,960 --> 00:01:01,595 - A long-term rehab facility. - Mm-hmm. 25 00:01:01,662 --> 00:01:03,030 If you stick to this... 26 00:01:03,097 --> 00:01:05,065 [clears throat] and you follow through 27 00:01:05,131 --> 00:01:07,834 with your recovery, you'll be able to find 28 00:01:07,901 --> 00:01:09,937 healing and building a relationship 29 00:01:10,004 --> 00:01:11,605 with your grandchildren. 30 00:01:11,672 --> 00:01:14,307 - Since she got back, she hasn't, like, done the things 31 00:01:14,374 --> 00:01:15,775 that she used to do. 32 00:01:15,842 --> 00:01:17,812 She would always call me to check up on the kids. 33 00:01:17,878 --> 00:01:19,480 - The person who I was to the person 34 00:01:19,546 --> 00:01:21,048 who I am today is different. 35 00:01:21,115 --> 00:01:24,584 - I can feel the gambling addict coming back in me. 36 00:01:25,919 --> 00:01:27,721 - Of course. I wish she lived with me, [bleep]. 37 00:01:27,788 --> 00:01:29,256 - Yeah. 38 00:01:29,323 --> 00:01:30,891 - What's hindering you from spending more time with her? 39 00:01:30,958 --> 00:01:32,793 - I've been on the [bleep] roller coaster of life, bro. 40 00:01:32,860 --> 00:01:34,361 Like, I work. I don't work. 41 00:01:34,428 --> 00:01:36,597 - But that's what they want, consistency. 42 00:01:36,664 --> 00:01:40,033 - Devoin helps me when he can. He'll pick the kids up. 43 00:01:40,100 --> 00:01:41,535 Hi, mamas. 44 00:01:41,602 --> 00:01:44,905 We're finally at a place where we're co-parenting. 45 00:01:44,972 --> 00:01:49,543 - Me and Amber are engaged now. - Wow. 46 00:01:49,610 --> 00:01:53,314 - I would like to go to some cross-country stuff 47 00:01:53,380 --> 00:01:56,383 and watch you, if it's okay. 48 00:01:56,450 --> 00:01:58,018 - You know, at some point, you and I have 49 00:01:58,084 --> 00:01:59,453 to have a good conversation. 50 00:01:59,520 --> 00:02:01,321 - It was kind of rushed how she just got engaged 51 00:02:01,388 --> 00:02:02,889 and then popped back in. 52 00:02:02,956 --> 00:02:05,392 I don't want to be one big happy family. 53 00:02:05,459 --> 00:02:08,362 [upbeat music] 54 00:02:08,429 --> 00:02:15,535 ♪♪ ♪♪ 55 00:02:19,373 --> 00:02:21,675 - ♪♪ Time just to let go ♪♪ 56 00:02:21,742 --> 00:02:24,578 ♪♪ But, damn, this is closer than you think ♪♪ 57 00:02:24,645 --> 00:02:27,814 ♪♪ You can find a better way, oh, oh ♪♪ 58 00:02:27,881 --> 00:02:30,450 - Should we check the bread? It's puffed up. 59 00:02:32,319 --> 00:02:34,087 - Well, it's just dough. 60 00:02:34,154 --> 00:02:36,390 What is this? 61 00:02:36,457 --> 00:02:37,725 - Cranberry juice. 62 00:02:37,791 --> 00:02:40,227 - Girl, why you drinking out that glass? 63 00:02:40,293 --> 00:02:41,628 - I don't know. 64 00:02:41,695 --> 00:02:43,597 - You better get you a kid's cup, boo. 65 00:02:43,664 --> 00:02:45,899 It's been nine months since Bar cheated on me. 66 00:02:45,966 --> 00:02:48,535 He's still in California, and Holly and I are making 67 00:02:48,601 --> 00:02:50,104 the best life for ourselves here. 68 00:02:50,170 --> 00:02:52,739 But I'm finally ready to let this relationship go. 69 00:02:54,241 --> 00:02:57,143 [cell phone ringing] 70 00:02:59,280 --> 00:03:01,715 Hey, sis. - Hey. 71 00:03:01,782 --> 00:03:03,417 - You'll never guess what I'm doing 72 00:03:03,484 --> 00:03:04,651 at this very freaking moment. 73 00:03:04,718 --> 00:03:06,720 Filing for divorce. 74 00:03:06,787 --> 00:03:09,055 - Are you serious? - Mm-hmm. 75 00:03:13,027 --> 00:03:15,429 - He has to be in California for at least another year. 76 00:03:15,496 --> 00:03:18,665 My life is not running back and forth behind somebody. 77 00:03:18,732 --> 00:03:20,901 Like, I have a very structured schedule, 78 00:03:20,968 --> 00:03:23,537 but we're filing for a joint divorce. 79 00:03:25,906 --> 00:03:28,475 - We've talked about it. We seem to agree on it. 80 00:03:28,542 --> 00:03:32,912 And so I'm anticipating his signature very much so, yes. 81 00:03:32,979 --> 00:03:35,616 You know it's just some [bleep] you can't forget. 82 00:03:35,683 --> 00:03:37,551 I feel like Bar was cheating. 83 00:03:37,618 --> 00:03:39,286 Now, Bar will say it wasn't cheating 84 00:03:39,352 --> 00:03:41,154 because it was never physical, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. 85 00:03:41,221 --> 00:03:43,057 I don't believe none of that [bleep]. 86 00:03:43,124 --> 00:03:45,760 It's always gonna come back up. It's always gonna be a problem. 87 00:03:45,826 --> 00:03:47,794 'm always gonna make it a problem, most definitely. 88 00:03:47,861 --> 00:03:49,363 I'm not getting over that [bleep]. 89 00:03:49,430 --> 00:03:52,832 So I'm not spending another year, another summer 90 00:03:52,899 --> 00:03:54,735 hoping and wishing and praying on a star 91 00:03:54,802 --> 00:03:57,738 that people are holding up their end of the bargain. 92 00:03:57,804 --> 00:03:59,973 I think we both know it's just time. 93 00:04:03,177 --> 00:04:05,646 - Let it go. 94 00:04:05,713 --> 00:04:09,716 [upbeat music] 95 00:04:09,783 --> 00:04:11,385 [all cheering] 96 00:04:11,452 --> 00:04:13,119 - Blow it out, go. 97 00:04:13,186 --> 00:04:17,090 - Ace turned three, and he is growing up way too fast for me. 98 00:04:17,157 --> 00:04:18,959 He's having so many conversations, 99 00:04:19,025 --> 00:04:20,994 and before I know it, he will be in preschool. 100 00:04:21,061 --> 00:04:23,097 Thank you for coming. - Of course, 101 00:04:23,163 --> 00:04:25,866 - It's hard for me to believe that I will no longer 102 00:04:25,933 --> 00:04:27,535 have a baby in my house. 103 00:04:27,601 --> 00:04:29,203 - ♪♪ Look at me ♪♪ 104 00:04:29,270 --> 00:04:30,905 And I do it up good. 105 00:04:30,971 --> 00:04:33,306 - What are you doing, kid? Can I sit here? 106 00:04:33,373 --> 00:04:34,608 - Sit in the chair. 107 00:04:34,675 --> 00:04:36,910 I just want to know what vacation you're on. 108 00:04:36,977 --> 00:04:40,247 - I'm on--you know, I'm on semi-retired mode. 109 00:04:40,313 --> 00:04:43,550 - Ace and Zach went to go run some errands. 110 00:04:43,617 --> 00:04:47,588 We need to get him new stuff because his stuff is too small. 111 00:04:47,655 --> 00:04:50,257 But I want a new little friend. - Ah. 112 00:04:50,323 --> 00:04:53,727 - But I feel like with all the conversation for Zach, 113 00:04:53,794 --> 00:04:56,096 he's like, you may be ready, but I'm not ready. 114 00:04:56,163 --> 00:04:57,431 - When did it flip? 115 00:04:57,497 --> 00:04:58,799 - I'm back on the kid thing. 116 00:04:58,866 --> 00:05:00,868 - I just don't want to be pregnant right now. 117 00:05:00,934 --> 00:05:02,069 I really don't. 118 00:05:02,136 --> 00:05:05,372 I told him that you want another baby. 119 00:05:05,438 --> 00:05:08,509 - I thought you would kind of be more so on board with it. 120 00:05:08,575 --> 00:05:10,978 - I'm thinking, and I'm like, if we're gonna do it, 121 00:05:11,045 --> 00:05:12,779 it needs to happen now. 122 00:05:12,846 --> 00:05:15,049 I think once the reality set in of, 123 00:05:15,115 --> 00:05:18,318 like, what another one really would bring financially-- 124 00:05:18,385 --> 00:05:20,187 - Yeah, I understand the dilemma that you're in 125 00:05:20,253 --> 00:05:22,722 because you would like to continue living 126 00:05:22,789 --> 00:05:24,291 the lifestyle that you do, 127 00:05:24,358 --> 00:05:26,259 and you guys live an expensive lifestyle. 128 00:05:26,326 --> 00:05:27,761 - Yeah, we do. 129 00:05:27,828 --> 00:05:30,664 - And in order to do that, you have to have consistency 130 00:05:30,730 --> 00:05:32,099 and, you know, good income coming in. 131 00:05:32,166 --> 00:05:33,934 - So he's just kind of like-- 132 00:05:34,001 --> 00:05:37,671 - Where's his head at in terms of these other projects 133 00:05:37,738 --> 00:05:39,273 or avenues to launch a career? 134 00:05:39,339 --> 00:05:41,208 I know he was talking about the EM-- 135 00:05:41,275 --> 00:05:44,044 - But he can't do a lot of things because of his record. 136 00:05:44,111 --> 00:05:45,646 - You know, you got to teach him, 137 00:05:45,712 --> 00:05:48,149 if he can't go in the front door, you go around the back. 138 00:05:48,215 --> 00:05:52,853 - How was it when you and Mom were, like, around my age 139 00:05:52,920 --> 00:05:56,390 and you guys were married by then and already had kids 140 00:05:56,457 --> 00:05:58,592 and, like, building a business? - You know what? 141 00:05:58,659 --> 00:06:01,061 The reason we started ImageQuest-- 142 00:06:01,128 --> 00:06:03,063 your mom's sister told us about this business... 143 00:06:03,129 --> 00:06:04,331 - Mm-hmm. 144 00:06:04,398 --> 00:06:06,033 - Because she was working at a law firm. 145 00:06:06,100 --> 00:06:08,068 But she saw the kind of money that was going 146 00:06:08,135 --> 00:06:09,636 through their copy center. 147 00:06:09,703 --> 00:06:11,472 They had an in-house copy center. 148 00:06:11,539 --> 00:06:13,040 - Okay. - Okay? 149 00:06:13,106 --> 00:06:15,309 So, when the opportunity for this business came up, I said, 150 00:06:15,376 --> 00:06:17,277 will this be a good opportunity? 151 00:06:17,344 --> 00:06:19,980 - When people ask me, what do your parents do, or, like, 152 00:06:20,046 --> 00:06:21,515 what is ImageQuest... - Yeah. 153 00:06:21,582 --> 00:06:25,118 - My answer is, like, an upscale version of a Kinko's. 154 00:06:25,185 --> 00:06:26,720 - That's the way I say it, too. - Okay, good. 155 00:06:26,787 --> 00:06:30,257 - Okay. I mean, I'm definitely ready to go about my business. 156 00:06:30,323 --> 00:06:32,693 And, you know, toes in the sand, cocktail in my hand, 157 00:06:32,759 --> 00:06:34,195 you know, different parts of the world. 158 00:06:34,261 --> 00:06:35,863 You know, at one point, I thought 159 00:06:35,930 --> 00:06:38,398 you and Kyle could take it over, but, you know, 160 00:06:38,465 --> 00:06:40,133 you got Nails by Ryder. 161 00:06:40,200 --> 00:06:42,302 You've got your social media program. 162 00:06:42,369 --> 00:06:45,039 - We just started the podcast. - Yeah, you've got the podcast. 163 00:06:45,106 --> 00:06:46,940 You couldn't handle anything more on your plate. 164 00:06:47,007 --> 00:06:48,943 I'd love for Kyle to be able to do it, 165 00:06:49,009 --> 00:06:51,444 but me and Kyle just can't mesh business-wise. 166 00:06:51,511 --> 00:06:53,947 - Mm-hmm, I think Kyle is better with Mom's side. 167 00:06:54,014 --> 00:06:57,985 - Maybe Zach would be interested in it. 168 00:06:58,051 --> 00:07:00,421 - I think that you should mention it 169 00:07:00,487 --> 00:07:02,222 and see what he says. 170 00:07:02,289 --> 00:07:04,158 I mean, I think it's a great opportunity. 171 00:07:04,224 --> 00:07:06,126 - Are we getting together for dinner tomorrow? 172 00:07:06,193 --> 00:07:07,494 - Yeah, we have a family dinner. 173 00:07:07,561 --> 00:07:09,229 - All right, maybe I'll talk to him then. 174 00:07:09,296 --> 00:07:11,965 - I know he wants something. I know he needs something. 175 00:07:12,032 --> 00:07:13,434 I want it to work. 176 00:07:13,500 --> 00:07:16,070 I want him to feel good about, you know, what he's doing 177 00:07:16,136 --> 00:07:18,104 and feel good about himself. - Yeah. 178 00:07:19,907 --> 00:07:22,909 [steady music] 179 00:07:22,976 --> 00:07:25,979 ♪♪ ♪♪ 180 00:07:26,046 --> 00:07:27,948 [cell phone chimes] 181 00:07:28,015 --> 00:07:30,484 ♪♪ ♪♪ 182 00:07:30,550 --> 00:07:33,220 - ♪♪ Bittersweet, the feelings ♪♪ 183 00:07:33,287 --> 00:07:36,156 ♪♪ Desperately on my knees I pray ♪♪ 184 00:07:36,223 --> 00:07:38,859 ♪♪ This bittersweet game you play ♪♪ 185 00:07:38,926 --> 00:07:43,197 ♪♪ ♪♪ 186 00:07:43,264 --> 00:07:45,399 - I have some news to tell you guys. 187 00:07:45,466 --> 00:07:46,733 - What? 188 00:07:46,800 --> 00:07:49,836 - Devoin is moving to Michigan. 189 00:07:49,903 --> 00:07:52,539 Yeah, he got a job opportunity. 190 00:07:52,605 --> 00:07:55,276 - What kind of job? - Mm-mm-mm, some job. 191 00:07:55,342 --> 00:07:57,511 He's leaving next week. - Wow. 192 00:07:57,578 --> 00:08:00,180 - I want to be supportive, but then I'm also, 193 00:08:00,247 --> 00:08:02,082 like, angry at the same time. 194 00:08:02,149 --> 00:08:04,117 - You have every right to feel how you feel. 195 00:08:04,184 --> 00:08:05,952 - So it's like I have mixed emotions. 196 00:08:06,019 --> 00:08:07,754 - How's Nova? Did you tell her? 197 00:08:07,821 --> 00:08:09,356 - Not yet. - Okay. 198 00:08:09,422 --> 00:08:12,158 - To me, I think he's running away from whatever problems 199 00:08:12,225 --> 00:08:14,261 he has here, whether that's him gambling, 200 00:08:14,328 --> 00:08:16,130 him being around certain people. 201 00:08:16,196 --> 00:08:19,066 - Look, he's got a job opportunity. 202 00:08:19,133 --> 00:08:20,400 - You always on they side, girl. 203 00:08:20,467 --> 00:08:22,403 - It's hard, Brittany. It's hard. 204 00:08:22,470 --> 00:08:24,938 - Well, he still has a gambling addiction, and he went online-- 205 00:08:25,005 --> 00:08:26,340 - And that makes it even harder. 206 00:08:26,406 --> 00:08:28,708 - He said that he relapsed. - Wait, what? 207 00:08:28,775 --> 00:08:30,277 - Yeah, he relapsed. 208 00:08:30,344 --> 00:08:32,346 He, like, posted something, like, I'm ashamed to say 209 00:08:32,413 --> 00:08:33,447 that I relapsed. 210 00:08:33,514 --> 00:08:37,217 [tense music] 211 00:08:37,284 --> 00:08:40,221 So I don't know if this is the reason why he's, like, leaving, 212 00:08:40,287 --> 00:08:41,889 because he has nothing here. 213 00:08:41,956 --> 00:08:44,825 I don't--I don't know. - That's crazy. 214 00:08:44,892 --> 00:08:46,861 - Leaving Nova, it's pretty sad. 215 00:08:46,927 --> 00:08:48,662 - Nova is gonna be 13. 216 00:08:48,729 --> 00:08:50,431 And then Stella is gonna be seven. 217 00:08:50,498 --> 00:08:52,265 - Nova and Stella are gonna be like, 218 00:08:52,332 --> 00:08:55,369 what did I do wrong that my father 219 00:08:55,435 --> 00:08:57,003 couldn't get it together? 220 00:08:57,070 --> 00:08:58,839 Then they're gonna have, like, blame on themselves. 221 00:08:58,905 --> 00:09:00,975 - That's when you tell them, girl, ain't nothing about you. 222 00:09:01,041 --> 00:09:02,576 That's his kid. 223 00:09:02,643 --> 00:09:04,945 And he kind of, like, took on the role for Stella, too. 224 00:09:05,011 --> 00:09:08,115 - Before he leaves, if you can meet up to talk with him... 225 00:09:08,182 --> 00:09:11,318 [somber music] 226 00:09:11,385 --> 00:09:13,220 ♪♪ ♪♪ 227 00:09:13,287 --> 00:09:14,988 - Hope the best for him, but he will 228 00:09:15,055 --> 00:09:17,558 be missing some vital moments in Nova's life. 229 00:09:17,624 --> 00:09:18,859 - I know. 230 00:09:18,925 --> 00:09:20,761 - And for that, I hope that check 231 00:09:20,828 --> 00:09:22,596 was worth it... - Mm-hmm. 232 00:09:22,663 --> 00:09:25,799 - Because that's something you can never get back. 233 00:09:25,866 --> 00:09:29,603 ♪♪ ♪♪ 234 00:09:34,541 --> 00:09:39,313 - ♪♪ 'Cause it feels, it feels like family ♪♪ 235 00:09:39,380 --> 00:09:42,183 ♪♪ ♪♪ 236 00:09:42,249 --> 00:09:44,718 - So my dad got out of rehab about two months ago, 237 00:09:44,785 --> 00:09:46,520 and he's doing really good. 238 00:09:46,587 --> 00:09:50,024 We are working on building our trust 239 00:09:50,090 --> 00:09:51,858 and building a better relationship 240 00:09:51,925 --> 00:09:53,126 before he can see the girls. 241 00:09:53,193 --> 00:09:55,596 So, while the girls are at school today, 242 00:09:55,663 --> 00:09:58,065 he's gonna come over and help me with some yard work. 243 00:09:58,132 --> 00:10:01,068 And I haven't done anything like this with my dad 244 00:10:01,135 --> 00:10:02,603 since I was a child. 245 00:10:02,670 --> 00:10:04,271 - How are the girls doing? - They're doing great. 246 00:10:04,338 --> 00:10:06,640 They're in school. This is their last year of 8th grade. 247 00:10:06,707 --> 00:10:08,875 - Last year of junior high, going to high school. 248 00:10:08,942 --> 00:10:10,811 - Junior high, middle school. 249 00:10:10,877 --> 00:10:12,746 And you know how fast it's-- 250 00:10:12,813 --> 00:10:14,014 Like, I think of middle school, I feel like they 251 00:10:14,080 --> 00:10:16,350 just started sixth grade. 252 00:10:16,416 --> 00:10:19,153 It goes by way too fast. It really does. 253 00:10:19,219 --> 00:10:22,656 - And I'm just so sorry for being messed up on them things 254 00:10:22,723 --> 00:10:25,092 for so long. - I know. 255 00:10:25,159 --> 00:10:28,896 - I wasn't around because I was ashamed of the way I was. 256 00:10:28,963 --> 00:10:31,298 The hardest part has been forgiving myself. 257 00:10:31,364 --> 00:10:32,632 - Mm-hmm. 258 00:10:32,699 --> 00:10:34,735 - You realize that once you get off of it... 259 00:10:34,801 --> 00:10:37,103 - Mm-hmm. - It seems like everything... 260 00:10:37,170 --> 00:10:39,373 - Mm-hmm. - Is lit up. 261 00:10:39,439 --> 00:10:41,408 You know what I'm saying? - Yeah. 262 00:10:41,475 --> 00:10:43,143 When you're actively in addiction, 263 00:10:43,210 --> 00:10:46,379 you don't realize how big of a toll it takes on you. 264 00:10:46,446 --> 00:10:48,748 How was the facility that you went to? 265 00:10:48,815 --> 00:10:50,784 Did you have, like, meaningful moments? 266 00:10:50,851 --> 00:10:52,786 - It was great. It was really helpful for me in there 267 00:10:52,853 --> 00:10:55,255 to listen to the other people, what they went through. 268 00:10:55,322 --> 00:10:58,825 And, I mean, I still go to groups and therapy. 269 00:10:58,892 --> 00:11:00,927 - You're doing great, and I'm proud of you. 270 00:11:00,994 --> 00:11:03,063 And I think that we'll continue to build on that 271 00:11:03,130 --> 00:11:04,898 and, when the girls feel comfortable, 272 00:11:04,965 --> 00:11:06,867 start building a relationship with them, too. 273 00:11:06,934 --> 00:11:08,235 - Right. 274 00:11:08,302 --> 00:11:10,837 If you think that I'm in the place 275 00:11:10,904 --> 00:11:13,040 to where I can develop a relationship with them, 276 00:11:13,107 --> 00:11:14,174 allow them to. 277 00:11:14,241 --> 00:11:16,009 Don't you push it on them. 278 00:11:16,076 --> 00:11:18,679 - I will definitely talk to them. 279 00:11:18,746 --> 00:11:22,082 I just wanted to establish some kind of relationship 280 00:11:22,148 --> 00:11:23,917 with you myself first. 281 00:11:23,984 --> 00:11:27,021 - That's my number one-- is to be around you all 282 00:11:27,087 --> 00:11:30,223 and be with my grandkids and y'all to trust me. 283 00:11:32,026 --> 00:11:35,329 - ♪♪ Every no is a yes ♪♪ 284 00:11:35,395 --> 00:11:38,632 ♪♪ To a future yes you seek ♪♪ 285 00:11:38,698 --> 00:11:40,835 - This is pretty freaking amazing, by the way. 286 00:11:40,901 --> 00:11:42,002 - Mm-hmm. 287 00:11:42,068 --> 00:11:44,371 - I'm more than happy. - I love you. 288 00:11:44,437 --> 00:11:47,942 And I know that you envision, you know, a family together. 289 00:11:48,008 --> 00:11:50,410 I want kids, and that's something that I would love 290 00:11:50,477 --> 00:11:52,078 to experience with you. 291 00:11:52,145 --> 00:11:54,214 - I'm really gonna marry you. Holy crap. 292 00:11:54,281 --> 00:11:56,116 [laughs] 293 00:11:56,183 --> 00:12:00,087 - ♪♪ I don't know why I don't know ♪♪ 294 00:12:00,154 --> 00:12:02,156 - What are you doing? Just put the whole piece on it. 295 00:12:02,223 --> 00:12:04,625 And then you can use the other cheese 296 00:12:04,692 --> 00:12:07,027 because we like this cheese, too. 297 00:12:07,094 --> 00:12:09,630 - So what do you think about Leah saying she doesn't want 298 00:12:09,696 --> 00:12:11,365 to spend time with her mom? 299 00:12:11,431 --> 00:12:13,867 - If she don't want to talk to her mom, she don't have to. 300 00:12:13,934 --> 00:12:15,536 I'm not gonna push her into something anymore, 301 00:12:15,603 --> 00:12:18,105 you know, kind of, like--but if her mom's coming in and out, 302 00:12:18,172 --> 00:12:20,207 then it's like, it's kind of awkward. 303 00:12:20,274 --> 00:12:21,942 It's like, okay, are you in, or are you out? 304 00:12:22,008 --> 00:12:23,577 Are you in, or are you out? 305 00:12:23,643 --> 00:12:24,745 - It's almost like a tease in a way, but-- 306 00:12:24,812 --> 00:12:26,246 - It's in and out. 307 00:12:26,313 --> 00:12:28,014 How can you get acclimated and feel comfortable if, 308 00:12:28,081 --> 00:12:30,017 boom, it's just changing all the time? 309 00:12:30,083 --> 00:12:32,085 - It's like an uncertainty, like come and go, 310 00:12:32,152 --> 00:12:34,388 but yet you don't know how to feel. 311 00:12:34,455 --> 00:12:35,922 You don't know what to expect. 312 00:12:35,989 --> 00:12:38,225 - So it affects her in many different ways, you know? 313 00:12:38,292 --> 00:12:40,294 - What do you think we can do going forward 314 00:12:40,360 --> 00:12:44,398 to protect Leah and her heart and her emotions 315 00:12:44,465 --> 00:12:45,899 and feelings and-- 316 00:12:45,966 --> 00:12:47,701 - Amber is wanting to try to spend more time with Leah. 317 00:12:47,768 --> 00:12:50,203 But at this point, I can't push no more. 318 00:12:50,270 --> 00:12:53,273 - Going forward, I'm gonna continue to be there for Leah. 319 00:12:53,340 --> 00:12:55,576 - I think that's gonna be the best thing we can do right now 320 00:12:55,642 --> 00:12:57,878 and support her with her decision 321 00:12:57,945 --> 00:12:59,447 that she chooses to do. 322 00:12:59,513 --> 00:13:03,383 [serious music] 323 00:13:03,450 --> 00:13:05,986 I feel like there's another conversation that has to happen 324 00:13:06,053 --> 00:13:08,122 between me and Amber solo. - Yeah. 325 00:13:08,188 --> 00:13:10,758 - I can take what Leah says and just kind of make it 326 00:13:10,824 --> 00:13:14,395 not sound so edgy, but... - Yeah. 327 00:13:14,461 --> 00:13:16,730 - If she feels like I'm coming at her or she feels-- 328 00:13:16,796 --> 00:13:18,432 she'll instantly go on the defensive, like, 329 00:13:18,499 --> 00:13:21,201 and that's the problem with having a conversation with her. 330 00:13:21,268 --> 00:13:27,340 ♪♪ ♪♪ 331 00:13:31,612 --> 00:13:35,182 - ♪♪ I'm fine, yeah ♪♪ 332 00:13:35,249 --> 00:13:38,319 ♪♪ ♪♪ 333 00:13:38,385 --> 00:13:41,154 [line trilling] 334 00:13:41,221 --> 00:13:43,590 - Hello? - Hey, what's up? 335 00:13:43,657 --> 00:13:45,792 - What's going on? - Nothing much. 336 00:13:45,859 --> 00:13:47,094 I got your text message. 337 00:13:47,160 --> 00:13:49,062 Do you want to meet me at the coffee shop 338 00:13:49,129 --> 00:13:52,566 to talk about you leaving and Nova and all that stuff? 339 00:13:52,632 --> 00:13:54,034 - Yeah, yeah, yeah. When you free? 340 00:13:54,100 --> 00:13:56,436 - Today. Meet me, like, in a half hour, if you can. 341 00:13:56,503 --> 00:13:58,838 - All right, that work. - All right, bye. 342 00:13:58,905 --> 00:14:01,241 - All right, bae, I'll see you soon. Bye. 343 00:14:01,308 --> 00:14:06,213 ♪♪ ♪♪ 344 00:14:06,280 --> 00:14:08,382 - Hey. - What's up? 345 00:14:08,449 --> 00:14:11,017 - Nothing much. What have you been up to? 346 00:14:11,084 --> 00:14:12,820 - Packing. - Yeah. 347 00:14:12,886 --> 00:14:15,889 What are you gonna be doing? - Working at GM at the plant. 348 00:14:15,956 --> 00:14:17,958 I'm gonna start on the assembly line. 349 00:14:18,025 --> 00:14:20,661 - Do you see yourself, like, staying at that job? 350 00:14:20,728 --> 00:14:22,762 What if you don't like it? What happens then? 351 00:14:22,829 --> 00:14:24,832 - I like what they're offering to pay. 352 00:14:24,898 --> 00:14:26,900 For me, that's the most deciding factor. 353 00:14:26,966 --> 00:14:28,969 I'll do a lot of [bleep] for the right amount. 354 00:14:29,036 --> 00:14:30,971 I want to expand myself. 355 00:14:31,037 --> 00:14:34,674 I want to put my foot on the ground and go forward. 356 00:14:34,741 --> 00:14:37,544 Like, I really been staying stagnant since I been here. 357 00:14:37,611 --> 00:14:39,580 And I fell right back into that rabbit hole, 358 00:14:39,646 --> 00:14:41,615 and I'm pulling myself out before I get deeper. 359 00:14:41,681 --> 00:14:43,517 I just got to get away from what I know, 360 00:14:43,584 --> 00:14:45,518 because what I know don't work for me. 361 00:14:45,585 --> 00:14:47,454 I want to lifetime ban myself from the casino. 362 00:14:47,521 --> 00:14:48,922 I couldn't shake it. 363 00:14:48,989 --> 00:14:50,858 - But do you think that's gonna change up there? 364 00:14:50,924 --> 00:14:53,593 Like, you not gambling up there, I feel like-- 365 00:14:53,660 --> 00:14:55,830 - That's what I'm really looking for, self-discipline. 366 00:14:55,896 --> 00:14:59,232 - But you can't find that by just moving somewhere else. 367 00:14:59,299 --> 00:15:02,168 That takes actual work. - I mean, true. 368 00:15:02,235 --> 00:15:04,704 - But I know exactly where to find all the distractions here. 369 00:15:04,771 --> 00:15:06,607 I know every loophole out here. 370 00:15:06,673 --> 00:15:08,809 - I'm supporting you, and I want you 371 00:15:08,876 --> 00:15:11,645 to do what you have to do to be the man that you need to be. 372 00:15:11,712 --> 00:15:14,348 But at the same time, I'm, like, I'm angry at you 373 00:15:14,414 --> 00:15:16,717 because you're leaving your daughter. 374 00:15:16,784 --> 00:15:20,020 You're leaving me to handle parenting by myself. 375 00:15:20,087 --> 00:15:22,423 I've been doing it pretty much by myself 376 00:15:22,489 --> 00:15:24,191 for the last 12 years. 377 00:15:24,258 --> 00:15:27,094 But to know that you're actually, like, 378 00:15:27,161 --> 00:15:30,297 leaving leaving, it's like, what the [bleep]? 379 00:15:30,364 --> 00:15:31,832 I don't think it's fair. 380 00:15:31,898 --> 00:15:34,402 - If you was to have to pick up and move somewhere else, 381 00:15:34,468 --> 00:15:36,670 what was I to do? - But I didn't. 382 00:15:36,737 --> 00:15:38,639 - But I'm saying, if you did, though, I would not be sitting 383 00:15:38,706 --> 00:15:40,474 here saying, that's not fair. 384 00:15:40,541 --> 00:15:42,876 You're doing what's best for you, what works for you. 385 00:15:42,943 --> 00:15:45,145 - What's your game plan when it comes 386 00:15:45,212 --> 00:15:47,714 to, like, bonding with Nova when you're states away? 387 00:15:47,781 --> 00:15:49,716 Like, what does that look like for you? 388 00:15:49,783 --> 00:15:52,352 - I just got to stay on top of communicating with her. 389 00:15:52,419 --> 00:15:53,787 It's communication. 390 00:15:53,854 --> 00:15:55,755 - If you don't-- She's growing. 391 00:15:55,822 --> 00:15:57,591 She's becoming such a different person. 392 00:15:57,658 --> 00:16:00,760 So, when you come back, she may be somebody 393 00:16:00,827 --> 00:16:02,563 that doesn't even want to tolerate you. 394 00:16:02,630 --> 00:16:04,131 - That's not happening. 395 00:16:04,197 --> 00:16:07,434 - That's up to you, like, to keep that relationship going. 396 00:16:07,500 --> 00:16:08,869 - At the end of the day, she's gonna be at the age 397 00:16:08,935 --> 00:16:10,437 where she needs to talk about things. 398 00:16:10,504 --> 00:16:11,839 Gonna start dating eventually, 399 00:16:11,906 --> 00:16:14,174 [bleep] like that, all of that [bleep], you know? 400 00:16:14,241 --> 00:16:16,744 And I definitely don't want to be outside of that box. 401 00:16:16,810 --> 00:16:18,812 You know? - You're her dad. 402 00:16:18,879 --> 00:16:20,814 You need to be there to show her things that I can't. 403 00:16:20,881 --> 00:16:22,049 - Exactly. 404 00:16:22,116 --> 00:16:23,984 - And I don't know how that looks like 405 00:16:24,051 --> 00:16:26,453 with you being far away, because that happened to me. 406 00:16:26,520 --> 00:16:28,788 You know, like, we moved to Florida. 407 00:16:28,855 --> 00:16:31,591 My dad stayed behind, and I didn't have that. 408 00:16:31,658 --> 00:16:33,360 And, yeah, there was phone calls. 409 00:16:33,427 --> 00:16:36,530 There was text messages here and there, but it wasn't-- 410 00:16:36,597 --> 00:16:37,932 - Not the same... - It's not the same. 411 00:16:37,998 --> 00:16:39,966 - Especially when you're used to it growing up. 412 00:16:40,033 --> 00:16:41,435 - It's not the same. 413 00:16:41,501 --> 00:16:45,305 I think I should have the initial conversation with her, 414 00:16:45,372 --> 00:16:49,242 and then maybe you can say what you have to say to her. 415 00:16:49,309 --> 00:16:50,745 - Definitely. 416 00:16:50,811 --> 00:16:52,379 - Tomorrow you can have that conversation with her. 417 00:16:52,446 --> 00:16:54,348 - That's cool. 418 00:16:54,415 --> 00:16:59,220 - I'm just concerned about Nova's well-being and Stella 419 00:16:59,286 --> 00:17:03,624 and now all the things that I have to do to overcompensate 420 00:17:03,690 --> 00:17:07,027 for him not being here and try to fulfill those voids 421 00:17:07,094 --> 00:17:08,929 as much as possible. 422 00:17:08,995 --> 00:17:12,399 [dramatic music] 423 00:17:12,466 --> 00:17:15,035 - ♪♪ This thing we call life ♪♪ 424 00:17:15,102 --> 00:17:17,971 ♪♪ Show me there's more to... ♪♪ 425 00:17:18,038 --> 00:17:19,873 - What are you gonna get, babe? - I got to try it. 426 00:17:19,940 --> 00:17:21,375 I'm over here about to miss out. 427 00:17:21,441 --> 00:17:24,544 - I just can't believe that I have a seven-year-old 428 00:17:24,611 --> 00:17:26,747 and a three-year-old-- I feel old. 429 00:17:26,814 --> 00:17:28,682 - I'm really scared for when he goes to school. 430 00:17:28,749 --> 00:17:30,351 I can't believe he's going to school. 431 00:17:30,417 --> 00:17:32,018 - Those are expensive, too. 432 00:17:32,085 --> 00:17:35,155 - Yeah, so how are you gonna put kids in private school, 433 00:17:35,222 --> 00:17:36,923 continue your travel lifestyle? 434 00:17:36,990 --> 00:17:39,025 I just want to know how this is gonna work. 435 00:17:39,092 --> 00:17:40,460 - I make more money. 436 00:17:40,527 --> 00:17:42,196 We make more money. - What? 437 00:17:42,262 --> 00:17:43,563 - We. 438 00:17:43,630 --> 00:17:45,432 - Okay, I'm gonna share one thing with you. 439 00:17:45,498 --> 00:17:47,134 I want to exit out of what I'm doing. 440 00:17:47,201 --> 00:17:48,702 - Are you retiring? 441 00:17:48,769 --> 00:17:51,638 - I'd love to find somebody who could actively do what I do 442 00:17:51,705 --> 00:17:54,941 with sales, who could take it either where I am 443 00:17:55,008 --> 00:17:57,711 and improve it or at least maintain it. 444 00:17:57,777 --> 00:17:59,947 I'd love to find that. - ImageQuest. 445 00:18:00,013 --> 00:18:02,249 - And you can come do what I do, man. 446 00:18:02,315 --> 00:18:03,617 I'm done. 447 00:18:03,684 --> 00:18:05,853 - Zach, are you willing to jump in a little bit? 448 00:18:05,919 --> 00:18:08,822 - If I can't do it, it makes sense for you to do it. 449 00:18:08,889 --> 00:18:10,791 - If you will do it, you can come do it. 450 00:18:10,858 --> 00:18:12,993 I mean, look, it's an opportunity. 451 00:18:13,060 --> 00:18:15,629 The thing is, you got to be willing to participate 452 00:18:15,696 --> 00:18:17,831 and give up time and energy and hours 453 00:18:17,898 --> 00:18:19,500 because you can't just walk in 454 00:18:19,567 --> 00:18:21,368 and say, okay, I know what to do. 455 00:18:21,435 --> 00:18:23,670 - I'm really trying to practice stepping back and releasing, 456 00:18:23,737 --> 00:18:27,274 but I just want to know, if he decides to do this-- 457 00:18:27,340 --> 00:18:30,043 - Then he needs to be there shadowing me each 458 00:18:30,110 --> 00:18:31,278 and every day I'm there. - Okay. 459 00:18:31,345 --> 00:18:32,679 - If I'm there, he needs to be there. 460 00:18:32,746 --> 00:18:34,114 - I want you to think about it. 461 00:18:34,181 --> 00:18:36,249 But at the end of the day, like, ImageQuest has fed 462 00:18:36,316 --> 00:18:37,618 all of us at this table. 463 00:18:37,685 --> 00:18:39,987 And I think that that is a beautiful thing. 464 00:18:40,054 --> 00:18:43,156 So, for you to even present it to him and to us, 465 00:18:43,223 --> 00:18:45,092 like this is something that you're 466 00:18:45,158 --> 00:18:48,562 willing to step away from and you can step in, 467 00:18:48,629 --> 00:18:50,664 I think that that-- I'm gonna say thank you. 468 00:18:50,731 --> 00:18:52,432 - I appreciate the offer, and, you know-- 469 00:18:52,499 --> 00:18:53,734 - Well, think about it. 470 00:18:53,800 --> 00:18:55,836 - No, I just want to give it some serious thought. 471 00:18:55,903 --> 00:18:57,004 - Yeah. 472 00:18:57,071 --> 00:18:59,607 ♪♪ ♪♪ 473 00:18:59,673 --> 00:19:03,176 [upbeat pop music] 474 00:19:03,243 --> 00:19:09,716 ♪♪ ♪♪ 475 00:19:09,783 --> 00:19:11,451 - I signed the divorce paperwork, 476 00:19:11,518 --> 00:19:13,086 and I'm sending it to Bar. 477 00:19:13,153 --> 00:19:16,657 I hope he'll sign it soon so that we can both move on. 478 00:19:16,724 --> 00:19:23,763 ♪♪ ♪♪ 479 00:19:23,830 --> 00:19:25,632 - So what's going on with you and Bar? 480 00:19:25,699 --> 00:19:26,967 You gave him the paperwork. - Mm-hmm. 481 00:19:27,034 --> 00:19:28,736 - Now what's the process now? Did he sign them? 482 00:19:28,802 --> 00:19:30,070 What's the tea? 483 00:19:30,137 --> 00:19:32,139 - I mean, all I can do is hope that he turns it in. 484 00:19:32,206 --> 00:19:34,141 I mean, the ball's in his court. 485 00:19:34,208 --> 00:19:36,676 - We gonna watch, but I ain't holding my breath. 486 00:19:36,743 --> 00:19:38,712 - I mean, he has to have some responsibility. 487 00:19:38,779 --> 00:19:40,147 This is his divorce. 488 00:19:40,214 --> 00:19:42,016 - Yeah, and when you need a good babysitter, 489 00:19:42,082 --> 00:19:43,750 call him because he's excellent at that. 490 00:19:43,817 --> 00:19:46,520 - Yeah, he gonna take care of his kid, 491 00:19:46,587 --> 00:19:48,422 and I'm gonna let him, you know? 492 00:19:48,489 --> 00:19:52,726 We talked about Holly spending some of her summer down there. 493 00:19:52,792 --> 00:19:54,595 - As long as there is some accountability, 494 00:19:54,661 --> 00:19:56,096 that's all I'm saying. 495 00:19:56,163 --> 00:19:57,965 - I told him, I said, this is just a formality because, 496 00:19:58,031 --> 00:19:59,599 honestly, if you call me and you're like, 497 00:19:59,666 --> 00:20:00,901 hey, can I have my daughter this weekend, 498 00:20:00,968 --> 00:20:02,303 you're more than welcome to have her. 499 00:20:02,369 --> 00:20:04,171 I'm not gonna be like, no, it's my weekend. 500 00:20:04,238 --> 00:20:06,674 - I know how it be-- once a dude is not attached 501 00:20:06,740 --> 00:20:08,342 to the mama no more, he ain't really 502 00:20:08,408 --> 00:20:12,579 interested like he was in the kids, but time will tell. 503 00:20:13,914 --> 00:20:17,751 - I mean, I'm just gonna do my own thing. 504 00:20:17,818 --> 00:20:21,221 I haven't been single in the summer in 10 years. 505 00:20:21,288 --> 00:20:22,790 - You ready to have a hot-girl summer. 506 00:20:22,856 --> 00:20:24,759 - I mean, lukewarm, [bleep]. 507 00:20:24,825 --> 00:20:27,361 - A old-lady hot-girl summer, 'cause you ain't even 508 00:20:27,428 --> 00:20:28,762 hot girl no more--you medium. 509 00:20:28,829 --> 00:20:30,464 - I know. - [laughs] 510 00:20:30,531 --> 00:20:33,166 [upbeat music] 511 00:20:38,939 --> 00:20:41,842 [upbeat music] 512 00:20:41,909 --> 00:20:48,048 ♪♪ ♪♪ 513 00:20:48,115 --> 00:20:50,651 - Hello. - Hi. 514 00:20:50,718 --> 00:20:53,053 One, two, three. 515 00:20:53,120 --> 00:20:55,556 I wanted to ask you guys a question. 516 00:20:55,622 --> 00:20:58,325 I talked to my dad, and he's really 517 00:20:58,391 --> 00:21:00,961 doing great after he went to detox and then 518 00:21:01,028 --> 00:21:02,196 the long-term recovery. 519 00:21:02,263 --> 00:21:04,265 He still goes to his meetings and seems 520 00:21:04,331 --> 00:21:06,032 like he's following through. 521 00:21:06,099 --> 00:21:07,301 He's sticking to it. 522 00:21:07,368 --> 00:21:08,836 Addie, do you remember Granddad? 523 00:21:08,902 --> 00:21:11,172 - Mm-mm. - How old do you think she was? 524 00:21:11,238 --> 00:21:13,974 - She was a baby. She was very young, yeah. 525 00:21:14,041 --> 00:21:16,543 - I only remember a little bit from when I was little. 526 00:21:16,610 --> 00:21:18,311 - I wanted to come see if you guys were 527 00:21:18,378 --> 00:21:21,115 open to getting to know him more 528 00:21:21,182 --> 00:21:22,983 and kind of having a visit with him. 529 00:21:23,050 --> 00:21:24,418 - Possibly. 530 00:21:24,485 --> 00:21:26,353 I mean, there's pros and cons. 531 00:21:26,420 --> 00:21:27,721 It's like, what if he leaves? 532 00:21:27,788 --> 00:21:29,756 But then also, what if he stays clean? 533 00:21:29,823 --> 00:21:31,291 I think we need to meet him first. 534 00:21:31,358 --> 00:21:33,360 - Are you open to getting to know him? 535 00:21:33,427 --> 00:21:35,295 - Yeah. - Yeah? 536 00:21:35,362 --> 00:21:37,664 And it's okay to be uncomfortable at first. 537 00:21:37,731 --> 00:21:40,667 - Or scared or nervous. It's just a natural thing. 538 00:21:40,734 --> 00:21:43,370 - It's a completely new person that for 11 years of life, 539 00:21:43,437 --> 00:21:45,439 and you never known until now. 540 00:21:45,506 --> 00:21:47,241 - Yeah, I'd like to know what he'd say about you 541 00:21:47,307 --> 00:21:48,876 when you were younger. 542 00:21:48,942 --> 00:21:51,478 - Well, he remembers me up until I was, like, five or six. 543 00:21:51,545 --> 00:21:53,814 - Mom, how do you feel, like, about, 544 00:21:53,880 --> 00:21:55,783 like, getting to know him since you've never known him? 545 00:21:55,849 --> 00:21:57,785 - How would you guys feel if you hadn't really 546 00:21:57,852 --> 00:21:59,519 had a relationship with your dad 547 00:21:59,586 --> 00:22:01,888 since you were five years old and he's coming 548 00:22:01,955 --> 00:22:03,256 back into your life at 32? 549 00:22:03,323 --> 00:22:06,093 I feel excited but still nervous but just cautious. 550 00:22:06,159 --> 00:22:07,294 I would say cautious. 551 00:22:07,360 --> 00:22:09,696 I think that we can start with a visit, 552 00:22:09,763 --> 00:22:11,799 maybe paint a little bit... - Mm-hmm. 553 00:22:11,865 --> 00:22:14,067 - And see how it goes. 554 00:22:14,134 --> 00:22:15,068 - Yeah. - Yeah. 555 00:22:15,135 --> 00:22:16,670 - That's really all we can do. 556 00:22:16,736 --> 00:22:21,475 - ♪♪ I can't seem to shake your shadow ♪♪ 557 00:22:21,541 --> 00:22:23,677 ♪♪ It's always... ♪♪ 558 00:22:23,744 --> 00:22:27,314 - Call Gary Messer. [line trilling] 559 00:22:27,380 --> 00:22:28,849 - Hey. - Hey. 560 00:22:28,916 --> 00:22:31,818 I thought about extending the offer-- 561 00:22:31,885 --> 00:22:34,088 visiting with the girls. 562 00:22:34,155 --> 00:22:37,625 We're getting river rock around my landscape. 563 00:22:37,691 --> 00:22:39,592 Maybe you guys can paint it together, 564 00:22:39,659 --> 00:22:42,362 just spend some quality time and see how it goes. 565 00:22:42,429 --> 00:22:45,332 Would you like that? - Yeah. 566 00:22:45,399 --> 00:22:47,034 - We should be available tomorrow evening. 567 00:22:47,101 --> 00:22:48,335 - Sounds good to me. 568 00:22:48,402 --> 00:22:49,703 - All right, let's rock and roll. 569 00:22:49,770 --> 00:22:52,039 I'm picking up Addie. I'll talk to you later. 570 00:22:52,105 --> 00:22:55,275 - Okay, babe, I love you. - All right, love you. 571 00:22:55,342 --> 00:22:57,378 - Bye-bye. - All right, later. 572 00:22:57,445 --> 00:23:00,914 [upbeat music] 573 00:23:00,981 --> 00:23:07,855 ♪♪ ♪♪ 574 00:23:07,921 --> 00:23:11,291 - I'm going to call Gary, because, I mean, 575 00:23:11,358 --> 00:23:14,495 I think he had said something like he wanted to talk, 576 00:23:14,562 --> 00:23:16,564 but I don't really know what we need 577 00:23:16,630 --> 00:23:18,766 to talk about, to be honest. 578 00:23:18,832 --> 00:23:21,401 I just want to figure out what we're doing about me seeing 579 00:23:21,468 --> 00:23:24,972 Leah because, I don't know, it seems like it's 580 00:23:25,038 --> 00:23:26,473 a lot of, like, deflection. 581 00:23:26,540 --> 00:23:28,241 Every time I ask to do something, 582 00:23:28,308 --> 00:23:30,110 it's like, we're gonna deflect and say, 583 00:23:30,177 --> 00:23:31,545 go back to the schedule. 584 00:23:31,611 --> 00:23:33,747 It always seems like when it comes to Leah, 585 00:23:33,813 --> 00:23:37,418 it's like, keep me, like, at arm's length or [bleep] more. 586 00:23:37,484 --> 00:23:39,286 Back in the day when I used to pick her up 587 00:23:39,353 --> 00:23:41,021 from school and stuff like that, 588 00:23:41,088 --> 00:23:43,357 they're the ones who stopped me from going and picking her up. 589 00:23:43,423 --> 00:23:45,358 They're the ones who said, Christina's got it, 590 00:23:45,425 --> 00:23:46,694 Christina's got it. 591 00:23:46,760 --> 00:23:48,429 And I've been here over six months, 592 00:23:48,495 --> 00:23:50,330 and she has not been here one time. 593 00:23:50,397 --> 00:23:52,265 So I just want them to be more open. 594 00:23:52,332 --> 00:23:54,668 I want Gary to be a little bit more honest 595 00:23:54,735 --> 00:23:57,771 about why I'm being pushed out of Leah's life so much. 596 00:23:57,838 --> 00:24:01,075 But I think he's at the point now where he thinks, 597 00:24:01,141 --> 00:24:02,676 like, oh, Leah's 15, and... 598 00:24:02,743 --> 00:24:04,578 - What do you think? - It's her decision. 599 00:24:04,644 --> 00:24:06,546 No, the [bleep] it's not. 600 00:24:06,613 --> 00:24:09,816 - I think, from my perspective, you know, you have 601 00:24:09,883 --> 00:24:11,218 done everything that you can. 602 00:24:11,285 --> 00:24:12,519 You're doing all the right things. 603 00:24:12,586 --> 00:24:14,287 - So I just want to know what we 604 00:24:14,354 --> 00:24:17,157 need to talk about here because I don't know what's going on. 605 00:24:17,224 --> 00:24:19,126 I don't know the issue. I don't know the reason. 606 00:24:19,192 --> 00:24:23,264 If anything, I need to let him know either I'm gonna start 607 00:24:23,330 --> 00:24:27,134 seeing my daughter, or... 608 00:24:27,201 --> 00:24:29,103 what do you want? 609 00:24:29,170 --> 00:24:32,739 [tense music] 610 00:24:38,879 --> 00:24:41,615 - ♪♪ Adrenaline rushing up my spine, yo ♪♪ 611 00:24:41,682 --> 00:24:45,953 ♪♪ When they sound the alarm, I-I-I-I turn on ♪♪ 612 00:24:46,020 --> 00:24:49,056 - Since I sent Bar my signed copy of the divorce papers, 613 00:24:49,123 --> 00:24:51,458 I'm ready to start my single life. 614 00:24:51,525 --> 00:24:53,594 So Holly is staying with the babysitter, and me and my mom 615 00:24:53,661 --> 00:24:54,795 are going out. 616 00:24:54,861 --> 00:24:57,064 - ♪♪ I turn on ♪♪ 617 00:24:57,131 --> 00:24:58,465 - I'm happy you're moving on. 618 00:24:58,532 --> 00:25:01,201 - It's gonna be a change, but I think 619 00:25:01,268 --> 00:25:03,637 it's a change I'm ready for. - Mm-hmm. 620 00:25:03,704 --> 00:25:05,639 Can I just speak candidly? 621 00:25:05,706 --> 00:25:07,307 - I mean, when do you not? 622 00:25:07,374 --> 00:25:10,810 - I don't think he's willing to give up what little piece 623 00:25:10,877 --> 00:25:14,248 of control he think he has. - I think he will. 624 00:25:14,315 --> 00:25:17,251 - I think the season of scrubs is over. 625 00:25:17,318 --> 00:25:20,955 - Closing a chapter. - Yeah, a total new chapter. 626 00:25:21,021 --> 00:25:22,590 Where are we going tonight, though? 627 00:25:22,656 --> 00:25:24,691 Because I'm excited for wherever we going. 628 00:25:24,758 --> 00:25:28,695 I done got all dressed up. - We're going to Chippendales. 629 00:25:30,664 --> 00:25:33,200 - We used to be a mess back in the day with the strippers. 630 00:25:33,267 --> 00:25:35,602 - Mm-mm. Mom, I'm gonna tell you something right now. 631 00:25:35,669 --> 00:25:36,904 Tonight... - What? 632 00:25:36,970 --> 00:25:38,372 - There's a few rules. 633 00:25:38,439 --> 00:25:40,073 I think you should keep your hands to yourself. 634 00:25:40,140 --> 00:25:41,708 - Okay. You don't trust me? 635 00:25:41,775 --> 00:25:43,177 - Absolutely not. 636 00:25:43,244 --> 00:25:45,045 [bleep] be passed down. 637 00:25:45,112 --> 00:25:46,480 Trifling needs to be passed down. 638 00:25:46,547 --> 00:25:48,182 - You checking me on your behavior? 639 00:25:48,249 --> 00:25:49,816 - Uh-huh. [laughter] 640 00:25:49,883 --> 00:25:52,019 - ♪♪ Started at the bottom, now we flying high ♪♪ 641 00:25:52,086 --> 00:25:55,189 ♪♪ Throw your hands up, now we gonna touch the sky ♪♪ 642 00:25:55,255 --> 00:25:58,525 - Make some noise for the men of Chippendales. 643 00:25:58,592 --> 00:26:01,928 - ♪♪ We probably never thought we'd be where we got to now ♪♪ 644 00:26:01,995 --> 00:26:04,364 ♪♪ Nah, never thought we'd make it through the rain ♪♪ 645 00:26:04,431 --> 00:26:07,201 ♪♪ But ain't no gain unless there's pain ♪♪ 646 00:26:07,268 --> 00:26:08,936 - [screams] 647 00:26:09,003 --> 00:26:10,538 - Who's ready to play with these men? 648 00:26:10,604 --> 00:26:13,707 - Oh, what the [bleep]? Oh, [bleep]. 649 00:26:13,773 --> 00:26:16,209 It feels really weird to be single, 650 00:26:16,276 --> 00:26:18,445 but this is, like, a real single, 651 00:26:18,512 --> 00:26:20,481 like, a real "do me" single. 652 00:26:20,547 --> 00:26:24,985 If nice men want to come and take me out and treat me nice, 653 00:26:25,051 --> 00:26:27,153 I'm receptive to that. 654 00:26:29,222 --> 00:26:31,525 Show us what you got. Hit it. 655 00:26:31,592 --> 00:26:34,861 [upbeat music] 656 00:26:34,928 --> 00:26:36,229 - Oh, my God! 657 00:26:36,296 --> 00:26:38,898 - I feel like I've been locked away 658 00:26:38,965 --> 00:26:41,602 in a [bleep] cage for too long. 659 00:26:41,669 --> 00:26:44,538 - Show us your most creative way 660 00:26:44,604 --> 00:26:49,043 to put this Chippendale condom onto Jesus. 661 00:26:49,109 --> 00:26:51,511 - She got kids! 662 00:26:51,578 --> 00:26:53,213 She got kids! 663 00:26:53,280 --> 00:26:54,848 - ♪♪ I'm the hottest [...] in town ♪♪ 664 00:26:54,915 --> 00:26:57,684 ♪♪ We the hottest [...] in town, yeah ♪♪ 665 00:26:57,751 --> 00:27:00,487 - ♪♪ She got it big-time swagging and big-time go ♪♪ 666 00:27:00,554 --> 00:27:03,089 ♪♪ You got to pick the right path and spin the row ♪♪ 667 00:27:03,156 --> 00:27:05,659 ♪♪ Too fly for a tussle, got to flex a little muscle ♪♪ 668 00:27:05,726 --> 00:27:07,528 ♪♪ Pick your hustle up, baby... ♪♪ 669 00:27:07,595 --> 00:27:09,630 - I love it. Ooh, hold up. 670 00:27:09,697 --> 00:27:11,365 - Wait, why you ain't serve me first? 671 00:27:11,432 --> 00:27:13,500 - Ladies, let me know how it is. 672 00:27:13,567 --> 00:27:14,768 - Thank you. 673 00:27:14,835 --> 00:27:16,469 - You can tell me if it don't taste good. 674 00:27:16,536 --> 00:27:18,439 - He DoorDashed. That's DoorDash right there. 675 00:27:18,506 --> 00:27:21,308 - So my dad had an interesting proposal for Zach. 676 00:27:21,375 --> 00:27:22,909 - What's the proposal? Catch us up. 677 00:27:22,976 --> 00:27:25,245 - He's retiring. He wants to give up ImageQuest. 678 00:27:25,312 --> 00:27:26,747 But he's also like, I want to make sure 679 00:27:26,814 --> 00:27:28,548 I'm giving to somebody that wants to work it. 680 00:27:28,615 --> 00:27:30,250 Wants somebody to carry out the family business, 681 00:27:30,317 --> 00:27:31,819 the legacy, so... 682 00:27:31,886 --> 00:27:34,021 - Have you thought about it, like, what you want to do? 683 00:27:34,087 --> 00:27:35,855 - I've had a lot of thought. 684 00:27:35,922 --> 00:27:37,858 I thought about it last night, and let's get the ball rolling. 685 00:27:37,925 --> 00:27:40,160 - Well, I'm proud of you, and I'm happy that this is-- 686 00:27:40,227 --> 00:27:41,428 - Don't be proud of me. 687 00:27:41,495 --> 00:27:42,929 Be proud of your parents, God damn it. 688 00:27:42,996 --> 00:27:45,599 - I am proud of you. And that's okay to say. 689 00:27:45,666 --> 00:27:47,835 Like, you have to also acknowledge yourself in it. 690 00:27:47,901 --> 00:27:50,037 And I feel like you've been under a lot of pressure 691 00:27:50,104 --> 00:27:53,039 as a husband and a dad and a man. 692 00:27:53,106 --> 00:27:54,808 So it is a big decision. 693 00:27:54,874 --> 00:27:56,110 I'm happy you're making it, 694 00:27:56,176 --> 00:27:58,079 and I'm happy that's the one you're making. 695 00:27:58,145 --> 00:27:59,947 Now go call my dad. [laughter] 696 00:28:00,013 --> 00:28:04,118 - Now we talking. Now we talking. 697 00:28:04,184 --> 00:28:06,821 - ♪♪ I got big, big dreams ♪♪ 698 00:28:06,887 --> 00:28:09,189 [line trilling] 699 00:28:09,256 --> 00:28:10,624 - What's cracking? - Nothing much. 700 00:28:10,691 --> 00:28:12,526 What's going on? - Not a lot, man. 701 00:28:12,593 --> 00:28:14,528 Just sitting here putting in a little bit of work. 702 00:28:14,594 --> 00:28:16,163 - Well, speaking of, that's what I was calling you about. 703 00:28:16,230 --> 00:28:18,799 I wanted to, you know, pick your brain a little bit more 704 00:28:18,866 --> 00:28:21,502 about the opportunity you presented the other day. 705 00:28:21,568 --> 00:28:23,336 - And I've been thinking about it also 706 00:28:23,403 --> 00:28:25,672 in terms of some things I want to make sure 707 00:28:25,739 --> 00:28:28,208 you understand if you want to take this venture on. 708 00:28:28,275 --> 00:28:31,779 The only way this is gonna work with me stepping out 709 00:28:31,846 --> 00:28:35,382 is if you take this on as your primary source of income. 710 00:28:35,448 --> 00:28:37,418 Whatever else you do is secondary. 711 00:28:37,484 --> 00:28:39,519 - Yeah. I mean, I'm ready to make a sacrifice. 712 00:28:39,586 --> 00:28:41,988 Whatever I can do to provide for my family at this point 713 00:28:42,055 --> 00:28:43,356 is what I'm willing to do. 714 00:28:43,423 --> 00:28:44,958 So I feel like, I don't know, it's just 715 00:28:45,025 --> 00:28:46,293 a good opportunity for me. 716 00:28:46,360 --> 00:28:47,995 I've been struggling trying to figure it out 717 00:28:48,062 --> 00:28:49,496 within the last couple years. 718 00:28:49,563 --> 00:28:51,064 - Let me teach you what I know. 719 00:28:51,131 --> 00:28:52,732 - Okay. 720 00:28:52,799 --> 00:28:54,501 - Once you get what I know, take what you want to try, 721 00:28:54,567 --> 00:28:56,170 what you want to experiment with, 722 00:28:56,236 --> 00:28:58,138 and apply it to the business. - Okay. 723 00:28:58,205 --> 00:29:00,641 - Once I see that you're committed to the business, 724 00:29:00,708 --> 00:29:02,476 I'm gonna really let you go free because I'm 725 00:29:02,543 --> 00:29:03,877 trying to step back. - Yeah. 726 00:29:03,944 --> 00:29:05,645 - Now, I can still come in and help. 727 00:29:05,712 --> 00:29:07,581 I'm gonna expect you to perform well. 728 00:29:07,648 --> 00:29:09,416 - Yeah. I'm accepting the offer. 729 00:29:09,482 --> 00:29:11,084 I'm trying to take it over. 730 00:29:11,151 --> 00:29:13,587 I'm just trying to figure out when I can come down there 731 00:29:13,654 --> 00:29:14,821 and start. 732 00:29:14,888 --> 00:29:16,924 - Let's meet down there tomorrow. 733 00:29:16,991 --> 00:29:19,326 - All right, what time? - I'll be there at 6:30. 734 00:29:19,393 --> 00:29:21,828 - Goddamn. All right, I'll be there at 6:00. 735 00:29:21,895 --> 00:29:25,065 [laughter] 736 00:29:25,132 --> 00:29:27,500 He hit me off the back. [bleep]. 737 00:29:29,170 --> 00:29:30,370 - All right, cool. 738 00:29:30,437 --> 00:29:31,972 All right, I'll see you there tomorrow. 739 00:29:32,038 --> 00:29:33,573 [line beeps] 740 00:29:33,640 --> 00:29:36,510 - What are you doing? - I was talking to your dad. 741 00:29:36,576 --> 00:29:38,212 - You didn't hear me calling you? 742 00:29:38,278 --> 00:29:39,579 - Oh, no. What happened? 743 00:29:39,646 --> 00:29:41,649 - Nothing. Me and Ryder were trying to find you. 744 00:29:41,715 --> 00:29:44,118 - I accepted the offer. - Wow. 745 00:29:44,184 --> 00:29:45,686 It's a great opportunity. 746 00:29:45,753 --> 00:29:47,988 I just want you to take it seriously. 747 00:29:48,055 --> 00:29:50,858 - I would like you to sit back and just, you know, trust me. 748 00:29:50,924 --> 00:29:52,092 I got it. 749 00:29:52,159 --> 00:29:55,262 - Well, I'm happy for you. I'm excited. 750 00:29:55,328 --> 00:29:58,432 I've watched my dad build this business 751 00:29:58,499 --> 00:30:00,734 and my mom build this business since I was a kid. 752 00:30:00,801 --> 00:30:03,237 I worked in their office when I was Ryder's age. 753 00:30:03,303 --> 00:30:06,006 And now for Zach to have the opportunity 754 00:30:06,072 --> 00:30:09,009 to not only come in and learn the business 755 00:30:09,075 --> 00:30:13,981 but to be able to run it is a huge opportunity. 756 00:30:14,047 --> 00:30:15,983 Not the shoe kick-off. 757 00:30:16,050 --> 00:30:18,118 [laughing] Oh, my God. 758 00:30:18,185 --> 00:30:21,622 My dad's timing of wanting to retire, honestly, 759 00:30:21,689 --> 00:30:24,258 probably couldn't have come at a better time. 760 00:30:24,324 --> 00:30:27,594 I just hope that Zach takes it seriously. 761 00:30:27,661 --> 00:30:31,665 I hope that he takes advantage of this opportunity. 762 00:30:31,732 --> 00:30:33,967 I hope he learns it from front to back 763 00:30:34,034 --> 00:30:37,304 and that this is something that could... 764 00:30:37,371 --> 00:30:40,708 provide stability for us and our family 765 00:30:40,774 --> 00:30:44,277 and could just help him get to the next phase 766 00:30:44,344 --> 00:30:45,913 and chapter of his life. 767 00:30:45,980 --> 00:30:47,948 New job, new baby. 768 00:30:48,015 --> 00:30:51,385 - ♪♪ Your legacy, your legacy ♪♪ 769 00:30:51,451 --> 00:30:55,088 - ♪♪ I'll find my way back ♪♪ 770 00:30:55,155 --> 00:30:57,324 ♪♪ I'll find my way back ♪♪ 771 00:30:57,391 --> 00:31:00,594 ♪♪ I'll find my way back ♪♪ 772 00:31:00,661 --> 00:31:02,829 ♪♪ I'll find my way back ♪♪ 773 00:31:02,896 --> 00:31:04,731 ♪♪ I'll find my way back ♪♪ 774 00:31:04,798 --> 00:31:07,334 ♪♪ I'll find my way back ♪♪ 775 00:31:11,805 --> 00:31:13,873 - Devoin is going to talk to Nova, 776 00:31:13,940 --> 00:31:16,310 and I'm hoping she gets whatever she needs 777 00:31:16,377 --> 00:31:18,278 out of the conversation with him. 778 00:31:18,345 --> 00:31:19,680 Hey. 779 00:31:19,746 --> 00:31:22,048 - ♪♪ I'll find my way back ♪♪ 780 00:31:24,150 --> 00:31:26,420 - You heard the news? 781 00:31:26,487 --> 00:31:30,090 What you heard? - That you're moving. 782 00:31:30,156 --> 00:31:31,859 - Yeah, moving to Michigan. 783 00:31:31,926 --> 00:31:34,428 I'll be settled in within the next 30 days. 784 00:31:34,494 --> 00:31:38,331 Got to get you out there for a good week or two... 785 00:31:38,398 --> 00:31:40,200 I promise. 786 00:31:40,267 --> 00:31:42,203 I ain't leaving you behind at all. 787 00:31:42,269 --> 00:31:43,804 Don't ever think that. 788 00:31:43,870 --> 00:31:45,439 Gonna try to have some cool stuff 789 00:31:45,506 --> 00:31:47,041 set up for when you do pop up. 790 00:31:47,108 --> 00:31:48,642 Definitely gonna miss you, though. 791 00:31:48,709 --> 00:31:50,777 - I'm gonna miss you, too. 792 00:31:50,844 --> 00:31:53,013 - But... 793 00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:55,449 phone call away. 794 00:31:55,516 --> 00:31:57,551 Give me a hug. 795 00:31:57,618 --> 00:31:59,586 Give me a greasy chicken hug. 796 00:31:59,653 --> 00:32:01,822 Where my chicken kisses? 797 00:32:01,889 --> 00:32:03,323 Mm, mm, mm. 798 00:32:03,390 --> 00:32:05,359 Love you. - Love you, too. 799 00:32:05,426 --> 00:32:08,262 - I'll be back in a few days to say goodbye, all right? 800 00:32:08,328 --> 00:32:10,631 [serious music] 801 00:32:10,697 --> 00:32:14,167 - ♪♪ This weight on my shoulders ♪♪ 802 00:32:14,234 --> 00:32:17,004 ♪♪ Is too much to bear ♪♪ 803 00:32:17,070 --> 00:32:20,140 ♪♪ It feels like we're strangers ♪♪ 804 00:32:20,207 --> 00:32:22,109 - You're leaving your daughter. 805 00:32:22,176 --> 00:32:26,881 ♪♪ ♪♪ 806 00:32:26,947 --> 00:32:28,382 - Yeah, I know. 807 00:32:28,449 --> 00:32:30,684 - But if you got to go, you got to go. 808 00:32:30,750 --> 00:32:31,819 - Mm-hmm. 809 00:32:31,886 --> 00:32:33,120 - All right. - All right, later. 810 00:32:33,186 --> 00:32:34,521 - Bye. 811 00:32:34,588 --> 00:32:38,358 - ♪♪ Where do we go from here? ♪♪ 812 00:32:38,425 --> 00:32:39,860 - I'm just sad for the kids, 813 00:32:39,927 --> 00:32:44,265 and I'm heartbroken for Nova. 814 00:32:44,331 --> 00:32:47,034 This year has been rough. 815 00:32:47,100 --> 00:32:48,435 It's such a blur. 816 00:32:48,502 --> 00:32:51,872 It was hard dealing with a lot of different things 817 00:32:51,939 --> 00:32:55,208 and finding out that my mom was going through so much. 818 00:32:55,275 --> 00:32:58,545 And with my mom still needing to work on herself 819 00:32:58,612 --> 00:33:00,747 and now with Devoin leaving, Nova and Stella 820 00:33:00,814 --> 00:33:02,416 don't really have anybody. 821 00:33:02,483 --> 00:33:05,319 You guys are my besties for the resty. 822 00:33:05,386 --> 00:33:07,954 I don't want Nova to be angry. I don't want Nova to be sad. 823 00:33:08,021 --> 00:33:10,791 So I hope him going out there, his life changes, 824 00:33:10,857 --> 00:33:15,529 and he can be the best version of himself for Nova. 825 00:33:15,596 --> 00:33:18,365 - ♪♪ So where do we go? ♪♪ 826 00:33:18,432 --> 00:33:22,135 ♪♪ Where do we go from here? ♪♪ 827 00:33:26,573 --> 00:33:29,309 [somber pop music] 828 00:33:29,376 --> 00:33:31,445 - ♪♪ Who knew ♪♪ 829 00:33:31,512 --> 00:33:33,380 ♪♪ ♪♪ 830 00:33:33,447 --> 00:33:36,450 ♪♪ That life would be a journey spent with you? ♪♪ 831 00:33:36,516 --> 00:33:41,054 - Everyone pick out a rock to paint for the flower garden. 832 00:33:41,121 --> 00:33:42,222 You got one? - Yep. 833 00:33:42,289 --> 00:33:45,492 - Granddad will be here soon. 834 00:33:45,559 --> 00:33:47,160 The only thing I would keep in mind 835 00:33:47,227 --> 00:33:49,697 is that he is very eager to get to know you guys. 836 00:33:49,764 --> 00:33:53,734 So it might be a lot. Be patient with him, okay? 837 00:33:53,800 --> 00:33:56,169 - Mm-hmm. - Yeah. 838 00:33:56,236 --> 00:33:57,871 - I think he's here. 839 00:33:57,938 --> 00:34:01,208 ♪♪ Who knew? ♪♪ 840 00:34:01,275 --> 00:34:03,644 - [laughing] Hi. - Hi. 841 00:34:03,711 --> 00:34:06,413 How are you? - Good, how are you? 842 00:34:06,479 --> 00:34:08,448 - Good. - How are y'all? 843 00:34:08,515 --> 00:34:10,117 - Good, how are you? - Good, how are you? 844 00:34:10,184 --> 00:34:12,386 - Good. What are you doing? 845 00:34:12,453 --> 00:34:14,221 - Painting these rocks for my mommy. 846 00:34:14,287 --> 00:34:16,256 - I'm painting a rock, too? - Yeah. 847 00:34:16,323 --> 00:34:18,892 - Girls, it's gonna be great spending time with y'all. 848 00:34:18,959 --> 00:34:22,429 I know y'all don't remember when you was little, do you? 849 00:34:22,495 --> 00:34:24,131 - I have an amazing memory, though. 850 00:34:24,198 --> 00:34:25,565 You do have an amazing memory. 851 00:34:25,632 --> 00:34:27,801 - Do you remember me? - No. 852 00:34:27,867 --> 00:34:30,171 - Huh? [laughing] No. 853 00:34:30,237 --> 00:34:32,072 Ali, how's school? - It's okay. 854 00:34:32,139 --> 00:34:33,340 I don't love school. 855 00:34:33,407 --> 00:34:34,675 - [laughs] Okay. 856 00:34:34,742 --> 00:34:38,011 What about you, Leah? - I like it, kind of. 857 00:34:38,078 --> 00:34:40,180 - What about you, Addie? - I love school. 858 00:34:40,247 --> 00:34:41,414 - You like it? 859 00:34:41,481 --> 00:34:43,650 Well, what's your favorite subject? 860 00:34:43,717 --> 00:34:45,118 - I like science. 861 00:34:45,185 --> 00:34:47,555 - You still wanting to be the marine biologist? 862 00:34:47,621 --> 00:34:48,822 - Yep. 863 00:34:48,889 --> 00:34:50,557 - You're gonna be, not wanting to, right? 864 00:34:50,624 --> 00:34:51,659 - Yeah. 865 00:34:51,725 --> 00:34:53,494 - What about you, Ali? - Band. 866 00:34:53,561 --> 00:34:57,131 - Hey, I was in band, too. I played the snare drums. 867 00:34:57,198 --> 00:34:58,966 - Really? That's pretty cool. 868 00:34:59,032 --> 00:35:01,168 And you still know how to play drums? 869 00:35:01,235 --> 00:35:02,369 - Yeah. 870 00:35:02,436 --> 00:35:04,238 What instrument you like? - Clarinet. 871 00:35:04,305 --> 00:35:05,972 - Clarinet? 872 00:35:06,039 --> 00:35:09,109 Well, girls, I hope we get to spend more time together... 873 00:35:09,175 --> 00:35:11,812 - Me too. - So that you get to know me. 874 00:35:11,879 --> 00:35:13,147 - Yeah. 875 00:35:13,213 --> 00:35:15,281 - I'm a nut, but I'm screwed on the right bolt 876 00:35:15,348 --> 00:35:17,685 because I'll tell you--them prescription drugs 877 00:35:17,751 --> 00:35:19,553 had me all messed up. 878 00:35:19,619 --> 00:35:22,823 You know, I didn't realize it until after I got off of it. 879 00:35:22,890 --> 00:35:25,126 And I can understand why you didn't want the girls around me 880 00:35:25,192 --> 00:35:27,594 because that wasn't me. - Mm-hmm. 881 00:35:27,661 --> 00:35:30,330 I love this. And it means a lot to me. 882 00:35:30,397 --> 00:35:32,132 I love you being a part of our lives 883 00:35:32,198 --> 00:35:35,001 and wanting to get to know us better. 884 00:35:35,068 --> 00:35:39,306 Seeing us all come together and bond, that meant a lot to me. 885 00:35:39,373 --> 00:35:41,609 - Girls, love y'all. 886 00:35:41,676 --> 00:35:44,110 - Love you. 887 00:35:44,177 --> 00:35:45,546 - [grunts] 888 00:35:45,612 --> 00:35:47,614 - It does feel like a healing experience. 889 00:35:47,681 --> 00:35:49,216 See ya. 890 00:35:49,283 --> 00:35:51,184 The biggest fear is of my daughters 891 00:35:51,251 --> 00:35:53,253 building a relationship and loving this person 892 00:35:53,320 --> 00:35:55,856 and seeing them walk away or get hooked on drugs. 893 00:35:55,923 --> 00:36:00,427 However, I know my dad is a great person within. 894 00:36:00,494 --> 00:36:03,064 It's just him finding that person 895 00:36:03,130 --> 00:36:05,932 and my daughters experiencing that. 896 00:36:08,002 --> 00:36:11,238 [upbeat music] 897 00:36:11,305 --> 00:36:13,441 ♪♪ ♪♪ 898 00:36:13,507 --> 00:36:16,043 - I'm going to call Gary. 899 00:36:16,109 --> 00:36:19,213 [line trilling] 900 00:36:19,279 --> 00:36:21,749 - Hello? - Hey. 901 00:36:21,815 --> 00:36:23,317 - Hey, what's up? 902 00:36:23,384 --> 00:36:26,420 - What's going on? I like the red hat. 903 00:36:26,486 --> 00:36:28,555 Are you okay? - Yeah, I'm good. 904 00:36:28,622 --> 00:36:30,991 - Okay. [chuckles] 905 00:36:31,058 --> 00:36:32,293 So what's going on? 906 00:36:32,359 --> 00:36:34,461 You wanted to talk. - Yes. 907 00:36:34,528 --> 00:36:38,465 No, I mean, it's probably always-- 908 00:36:38,532 --> 00:36:40,100 it's always good for us to at least, you know, 909 00:36:40,167 --> 00:36:42,636 communicate and be on the same page with things, so... 910 00:36:42,702 --> 00:36:45,139 - Well, I think we do that on the phone a lot. 911 00:36:45,206 --> 00:36:47,007 - Yeah, no, this isn't like that. 912 00:36:47,074 --> 00:36:48,341 This isn't like that. 913 00:36:48,408 --> 00:36:51,011 This is just us talking in general. 914 00:36:51,078 --> 00:36:52,813 It's not, like, a bad thing. - I just want to know-- 915 00:36:52,879 --> 00:36:54,648 I just want to know from you, like, 916 00:36:54,715 --> 00:36:57,351 if there's anything that you guys are worried about. 917 00:36:57,417 --> 00:37:01,388 Like, how can me and you talk about that, too? 918 00:37:01,455 --> 00:37:03,424 And if there's not, then there's not, right? 919 00:37:03,490 --> 00:37:05,426 But if there is, yeah. 920 00:37:05,493 --> 00:37:07,561 - Listen, everything can be talked about. 921 00:37:07,627 --> 00:37:09,763 - No, I know. That's what I mean, though. 922 00:37:09,829 --> 00:37:11,832 I mean, like, to ask, like, specifically, 923 00:37:11,898 --> 00:37:13,433 you know what I mean? 924 00:37:13,500 --> 00:37:15,603 For me to ask you--Like, the questions I'd have specifically 925 00:37:15,669 --> 00:37:17,805 is like, you know, what's the reasons 926 00:37:17,871 --> 00:37:20,807 why Leah is not able to come over here and stay the night? 927 00:37:20,874 --> 00:37:24,145 What's the reasons why I'm not able to go 928 00:37:24,211 --> 00:37:26,080 to her cross country? 929 00:37:26,146 --> 00:37:29,816 What are the reasons why I'm not being told certain things? 930 00:37:29,883 --> 00:37:34,221 So, when it comes to Leah saying certain things, 931 00:37:34,288 --> 00:37:36,690 like, if she doesn't want to do anything, 932 00:37:36,757 --> 00:37:40,460 well, I'm at the point now that it doesn't really matter. 933 00:37:40,527 --> 00:37:42,429 I want to see my daughter. 934 00:37:42,495 --> 00:37:45,966 So this is when I say to you, facts are facts, 935 00:37:46,032 --> 00:37:49,669 and we can't sit here and act like it's Amber, it's Amber, 936 00:37:49,736 --> 00:37:51,472 it's Amber, because the [bleep] if it is me. 937 00:37:51,538 --> 00:37:54,408 I've been doing nothing but trying to get Leah back 938 00:37:54,475 --> 00:37:56,376 in my life while I'm getting pushed out for years 939 00:37:56,443 --> 00:37:58,044 and years and years now. 940 00:37:58,111 --> 00:38:00,648 If I start to see Leah more-- - She's not ready for that. 941 00:38:00,714 --> 00:38:02,116 - Why? 942 00:38:02,182 --> 00:38:04,451 - Amber, you are very hard to get a hold of. 943 00:38:04,518 --> 00:38:07,921 - I have to get a message to reply to. 944 00:38:07,988 --> 00:38:10,190 I've got my phone. I got my phone. 945 00:38:10,257 --> 00:38:12,760 - And there's days that go by where you don't reply to us. 946 00:38:12,826 --> 00:38:15,429 - How is that? That's not even possible. 947 00:38:15,496 --> 00:38:17,531 I'm not gonna reply to Christina 948 00:38:17,598 --> 00:38:19,032 about some bull[bleep]. 949 00:38:19,099 --> 00:38:20,434 - She was telling you-- 950 00:38:20,501 --> 00:38:22,169 - She wasn't telling me anything. 951 00:38:22,236 --> 00:38:23,503 Where are you? 952 00:38:23,570 --> 00:38:25,405 - You haven't been reaching out and-- 953 00:38:25,472 --> 00:38:27,174 - Oh, I haven't been reaching out? 954 00:38:27,241 --> 00:38:28,475 Okay, first of all, 955 00:38:28,541 --> 00:38:30,477 this is what's been going on for years now. 956 00:38:30,544 --> 00:38:34,247 Everybody has an excuse, even after I change. 957 00:38:34,314 --> 00:38:36,050 So what's your excuse now? 958 00:38:36,116 --> 00:38:38,752 - I'm not doing this. - And I'm not doing it, either. 959 00:38:38,819 --> 00:38:41,121 But you have an excuse for everything. 960 00:38:41,188 --> 00:38:42,589 - No, I don't have an excuse. 961 00:38:42,656 --> 00:38:44,424 - You do, but what you don't understand is, 962 00:38:44,491 --> 00:38:46,059 this is my daughter. 963 00:38:46,126 --> 00:38:47,661 This is my daughter. 964 00:38:49,797 --> 00:38:51,398 - And I'm 100%-- 965 00:38:51,465 --> 00:38:53,367 Thank you for saying that. 966 00:38:53,434 --> 00:38:55,435 [somber music] 967 00:38:55,502 --> 00:38:56,971 - All right, Amber, I'm getting off here. 968 00:38:57,037 --> 00:38:59,239 - Yeah, I'm getting off here, too, buddy. 969 00:38:59,306 --> 00:39:01,274 What the [bleep]? 970 00:39:01,341 --> 00:39:03,277 That's too much to take. 971 00:39:03,343 --> 00:39:06,213 Gary. [bleep] Gary. 972 00:39:06,280 --> 00:39:09,350 - ♪♪ With open eyes ♪♪ 973 00:39:09,416 --> 00:39:11,785 ♪♪ We can see it ♪♪ 974 00:39:11,852 --> 00:39:15,356 ♪♪ With open hearts ♪♪ 975 00:39:15,422 --> 00:39:18,626 ♪♪ We can feel it ♪♪ 976 00:39:18,692 --> 00:39:21,495 ♪♪ After the dawn ♪♪ 977 00:39:21,562 --> 00:39:24,765 ♪♪ There will be light ♪♪ 978 00:39:24,832 --> 00:39:28,135 ♪♪ With open hearts ♪♪ 979 00:39:28,201 --> 00:39:32,272 ♪♪ And open eyes ♪♪ 980 00:39:32,339 --> 00:39:36,143 ♪♪ Follow me the sun ♪♪ 981 00:39:36,210 --> 00:39:38,612 ♪♪ Oh, oh, oh ♪♪ 982 00:39:38,679 --> 00:39:42,048 ♪♪ We've only just begun ♪♪ 983 00:39:42,115 --> 00:39:44,551 ♪♪ Are you ready now, ready now ♪♪ 984 00:39:44,618 --> 00:39:47,955 ♪♪ Ready now, ready for more? ♪♪ 985 00:39:48,022 --> 00:39:50,857 ♪♪ This is everything, everything ♪♪ 986 00:39:50,924 --> 00:39:55,195 ♪♪ Everything we've waited for ♪♪ 987 00:39:55,262 --> 00:39:58,865 ♪♪ So take my hand, and we'll run into a world ♪♪ 988 00:39:58,932 --> 00:40:01,435 ♪♪ We've never known ♪♪ 989 00:40:01,502 --> 00:40:06,240 ♪♪ Are you ready now, ready now, ready to let go ♪♪ 990 00:40:06,307 --> 00:40:10,311 ♪♪ And dive into the unknown? ♪♪ 991 00:40:10,377 --> 00:40:13,180 ♪♪ Whoa, oh, oh ♪♪ 992 00:40:13,247 --> 00:40:15,916 ♪♪ Dive into the unknown ♪♪ 993 00:40:15,983 --> 00:40:17,985 ♪♪ ♪♪ 994 00:40:18,052 --> 00:40:21,855 - I'm glad I'm with somebody who's understanding 995 00:40:21,922 --> 00:40:23,424 and not... 996 00:40:23,490 --> 00:40:26,093 you know? - Yeah. 997 00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:27,294 - Thank you. 998 00:40:27,361 --> 00:40:30,263 [tense music] 999 00:40:30,330 --> 00:40:37,437 ♪♪ ♪♪ 1000 00:40:40,007 --> 00:40:43,444 [crying] My fiancé is missing right now, 1001 00:40:43,511 --> 00:40:45,913 and we don't know where he is. 1002 00:40:45,979 --> 00:40:47,113 I'm worried. 1003 00:41:02,729 --> 00:41:03,964 - On the season finale 1004 00:41:04,030 --> 00:41:05,800 of "Teen Mom: The Next Chapter"... 1005 00:41:05,866 --> 00:41:07,334 - Mackenzie, will you marry me? 1006 00:41:07,401 --> 00:41:11,005 - Me and you are going to see your dad. 1007 00:41:11,071 --> 00:41:12,272 - Yay! 1008 00:41:12,339 --> 00:41:13,908 - I want to bring Carly over here. 1009 00:41:13,974 --> 00:41:15,876 - Adoption equals trauma. 1010 00:41:15,943 --> 00:41:17,311 - When I first got into my house, 1011 00:41:17,378 --> 00:41:19,513 I see Bar sitting on my couch. 1012 00:41:19,580 --> 00:41:21,514 He was pissed. 1013 00:41:23,316 --> 00:41:25,786 - Gary 2.0 is missing? 1014 00:41:25,853 --> 00:41:27,687 I'm just getting in the car, and I'm gonna go. 1015 00:41:27,754 --> 00:41:29,689 - Andrew didn't break me. Matt didn't break me. 1016 00:41:29,756 --> 00:41:31,758 Ain't nobody but this man. 1017 00:41:31,825 --> 00:41:33,393 - It's okay, babe. - [cries]