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The worst thing about the corset, by far,

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was when I dropped some change
and had to pretend not to care.

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I couldn't bend down to pick them up.

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Since then, I pretend not to care
about what I can't have.

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THE END OF LOVE

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It stings a lot.

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-The cucumber?
-No, the cream on my face.

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-I'll get some aloe vera.
-Debi, don't be such a crybaby.

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Mijal! Focus. I need you to focus.

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Show me more joy. Lift your leg up.

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Be like Ofelia. Look at her pose.

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You need more flair. Come on.

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Put your legs closer.
I need to show both pantyhose.

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-They're the same!
-No, yours is tighter.

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-Do we need to do this now?
-Yes, Tam. Go help.

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I am. But you help me.
I have to do this by tomorrow.

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My first clients. I can't mess up.

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Clients?

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Nothing. I'm a community manager now.

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-Ofelia, shut up.
-A job is a job.

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I had to replace the radio show.

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You're a CM?
So is my friend and she's doing great.

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She handles international brands.

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Give me her number!
I'm sure we can collaborate.

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I work with a factory
that makes pantyhose for diabetics.

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It's family-owned.

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What about the newspaper?
It didn't work out?

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Since they fired Martín,
they hired Gen-Zers

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who won't give me a single column.

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They say feminism
and relationships are old topics.

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They say I always talk
about the same thing. Unbelievable.

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Tami, I'll do your brows
after your sister's done.

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Okay, girls, come on. Mijal.

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Cheer up! Smile!
Being diabetic isn't so bad. Come on.

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THE WOMEN OF MY LIFE

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Religion isn't my thing.

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But I don't ignore it
or act like nothing happened.

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That's why I can't stand this city.

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Tami's love for it is baffling.
She sells it like a politician.

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I have nothing against it, but...

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I'm the youngest, so I have to live
the story as they lived it

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and do what they did with the past.

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I won't do that.

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Tami, isn't it weird
to record in the bathroom?

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Can I stay with a tourist visa
until I renew mine?

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You don't know? Isn't this your job?
I'll hold the line.

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Wait.

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-Mom! You jabbed me!
-All right, all right.

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-Sorry.
-We need a stapler for this.

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-Tami, do you have a stapler?
-No.

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What? How do you not have a stapler here?

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Mom, if I don't send money,
I lose my roomie.

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-Does it have to be now?
-Yes.

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-You can say no, Mom.
-Don't start, Tami.

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Why should she do everything you say?

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Ow! This dress looks terrible on me.

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-It doesn't.
-All wedding dresses are the same.

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No, Shirley Plotka's was like Lady Di's.

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Stop, I can't. Let it go.

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I'm the one who can't.

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Shouldn't you take this off me now?

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-Five minutes, doll.
-If I'm bald, I'll kill you.

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It's in the instructions.

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Hi, Dad. I've been calling you
for a while, please pick up.

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It's urgent.

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-Don't freak me out, Laura.
-I won't say a thing.

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Calm down and call again.

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-Okay, I'll call him.
-Relax!

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-I still need to get my makeup done!
-Bye.

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I'll get a heart attack.

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Dad, call me back, please.
I'm calling Mom.

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Can you pick up?

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Since I was a girl, I wanted
the perfect family but without the kids.

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Is that a thing?

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I think it is.

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I've always imagined
growing old with someone.

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A sturdy, unyielding love.

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A love of many years. The love of my life.

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For straight girls, that's hand in hand
with motherhood, right?

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Come on, Debi, don't cry.

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Is it about the money?

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Forget about it!

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A canceled wedding
is cheaper than a divorce.

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-Think of it...
-It's not that!

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If you're not calling it off, get up!

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Your face will look swollen in photos.

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-I don't want photos.
-Right.

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-Debi, come on.
-I don't like to be looked at. Never did.

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It's a bit late for that, babe.
You're the bride.

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I can't do it.

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What's upsetting you?

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Married life?
It's no different from the one you have.

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It's not that.

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Living together?
You already live with Gaby.

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I like living with Gaby.

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I'll never live with anyone ever again.

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I think about it and...

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What is it then?

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I'm embarrassed.

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You know?

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Getting married?

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No, walking in there...

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Having everyone stare at me.
I don't like it.

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Oh, you have stage fright!

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No, listen, don't cry. I'll solve it.

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I'll fix it in a second.

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Don't worry. Hold on.

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Lau, we need to have
an intervention for Debi.

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Talk to your dealer.
We need a fantasy kit.

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Some Molly for me.
You'll probably get pills. For Debi...

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Is cocaine fine?

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I don't know.

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I don't know. It makes me lucid.
It might get you paranoid.

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Joint. A joint.

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Get a joint for Debi.
We're good with that for now.

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Come on, bring that emergency kit.

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Listen. Look at me.

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Look at your face!

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-Calm down.
-Yes.

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Let's put makeup on
and finish getting ready.

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And we'll get going, okay?

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I started working very young.

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I moved to Israel.

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And while I was studying

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to teach the Torah,

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I worked as a babysitter.

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I was in Israel for five years.

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That's why I married a bit late.

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At 25.

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Stop brushing that wig,
you'll make it bald!

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Why don't you do it? You comb it better.

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-I'm busy.
-Hello!

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-Hi!
-Look.

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How do you like this look?

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It's perfect
for a granddaughter's wedding, right?

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Beautiful. I'll help you with...

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What's going on, Dad?

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You're not dressed. It's late.

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-I'm not going.
-What do you mean?

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Did you know about this?

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I'm not meddling.

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-Why aren't you coming?
-It's a Reform temple.

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Yes, Dad. It's a Reform one.

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It's a Reform one.

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-Ouch.
-You should be thankful.

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She'll probably be your only granddaughter
to marry in a temple.

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And perhaps the only married one.

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What do you mean, the only one married?

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Come on, Dad, enough theatrics for today.

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No one asked me.

151
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Why would anyone ask you?

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Men and women all mixed up.

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You know what? Do what you want.

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You're the one missing
your granddaughter's wedding.

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The good thing about the vape is
it doesn't make you cough.

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And your throat doesn't itch.
Burning paper smells.

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I don't feel anything.

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You keep going.

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Is it safe for you?

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I'm not pregnant.

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But maybe mixing Molly

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with the hormones can have side effects.

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Should we ask Ruthie?

164
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Can you imagine getting married for real?

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What do you mean, for real?

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Well, if we were still religious.

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A virgin.

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-A virgin!
-A virgin! Horrible.

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If you have stage fright for this,
imagine when you're fucking.

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No one fucks on their wedding night.

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Drunk, sweaty, dressed up, high,

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feet all blistered...

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Whoever says they fucked is a liar.

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-Will you marry Mora?
-I don't know. I hope so.

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What if she leaves you?

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You keep the kid. You give birth
and put him under your name.

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Get married and get alimony.

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Girls, Laura paid for the pills.

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-Yes.
-The Molly...

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Well, it's on me.

181
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-Really?
-Can I pay you Monday?

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My dad had to pay me back
today and didn't.

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I told you not to give
your savings to your dad.

184
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It was obvious you'd lose it.

185
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Can you stop scaring me, Laura?

186
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You say I'll be a single mom,
and I can't say your dad's a bastard?

187
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Girls.

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00:10:03,438 --> 00:10:05,273
I need to walk.

189
00:10:06,149 --> 00:10:07,484
-Let's go.
-No, grab her.

190
00:10:07,567 --> 00:10:08,610
Leave her alone.

191
00:10:10,278 --> 00:10:11,488
She left...

192
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And I stayed
on the other side of the wall.

193
00:10:16,117 --> 00:10:17,035
No, I mean...

194
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She left me on the other side.

195
00:10:21,081 --> 00:10:23,541
She was my only ally.

196
00:10:25,710 --> 00:10:27,087
I have friends.

197
00:10:28,088 --> 00:10:31,508
But there was a world
I could only share with you.

198
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I had to hold it tight,
so it wouldn't disappear when you left.

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I kept reading novels,

200
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as if they were the Torah.

201
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So I wouldn't get lost.

202
00:10:53,696 --> 00:10:55,448
When you came to my wedding,

203
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it was like that world returned, reloaded.

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Blossomed.

205
00:11:05,250 --> 00:11:07,710
And it's not just Tamara's world anymore.

206
00:11:09,671 --> 00:11:12,132
It's not you pushing me to be brave.

207
00:11:13,967 --> 00:11:15,844
It's also Ofelia's world.

208
00:11:17,762 --> 00:11:19,431
Maybe it could be mine too.

209
00:11:21,057 --> 00:11:22,183
And my baby's.

210
00:11:26,729 --> 00:11:28,064
Thanks, Tam.

211
00:11:32,235 --> 00:11:34,237
I'd love to get into a mikveh.

212
00:11:34,946 --> 00:11:36,114
What if we go to one?

213
00:11:36,197 --> 00:11:39,159
Let's say I'm getting married too
and go together.

214
00:11:39,242 --> 00:11:40,994
Laura and I want to see it.

215
00:11:41,077 --> 00:11:42,370
Please.

216
00:11:42,454 --> 00:11:45,373
Naked women immersed in a fountain...

217
00:11:45,457 --> 00:11:48,001
It's not a fountain. It's a pool.

218
00:11:48,084 --> 00:11:49,377
Naked or with panties?

219
00:11:49,461 --> 00:11:51,671
Stop, Laura! I'm getting horny.

220
00:11:51,754 --> 00:11:54,048
-Me too.
-Stop, it's a pure thing.

221
00:11:54,132 --> 00:11:56,259
Purity always got me horny.

222
00:11:56,342 --> 00:11:58,011
When water reaches the clitoris,

223
00:11:58,094 --> 00:12:00,763
they know they'll have sex again
with their husbands.

224
00:12:01,681 --> 00:12:03,141
That intimacy.

225
00:12:03,224 --> 00:12:06,019
That preparation is so sexy.

226
00:12:06,102 --> 00:12:10,440
Debi, do you also think
there are no Orthodox lesbians?

227
00:12:25,580 --> 00:12:27,540
-Has she arrived?
-Apparently not.

228
00:12:27,624 --> 00:12:29,918
-Should be here, right?
-She was with Tamara.

229
00:12:30,001 --> 00:12:31,336
Where did she go?

230
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I don't know.

231
00:12:33,254 --> 00:12:34,839
Tamara's not answering.

232
00:12:37,800 --> 00:12:39,594
Mom, where are Debi and Tamara?

233
00:12:39,677 --> 00:12:42,388
No, but they can't be far.
Should be here now.

234
00:12:42,472 --> 00:12:44,390
She won't pick up the phone.

235
00:12:44,474 --> 00:12:46,768
Excuse me, are you the bride's mom?

236
00:12:46,851 --> 00:12:49,354
-Yes.
-The rabbi can't make it. He's sick.

237
00:12:49,437 --> 00:12:50,396
What does he have?

238
00:12:50,480 --> 00:12:51,689
Just food poisoning.

239
00:12:52,315 --> 00:12:53,691
So who will marry her?

240
00:12:53,775 --> 00:12:56,194
Don't worry, we have a replacement.

241
00:12:56,277 --> 00:12:58,613
We don't take replacements in our family.

242
00:12:58,696 --> 00:12:59,906
Such bad luck.

243
00:12:59,989 --> 00:13:01,449
-This is a bad omen.
-Relax.

244
00:13:01,533 --> 00:13:03,493
Since when do Jews believe in bad luck?

245
00:13:03,576 --> 00:13:04,994
Enough. Girls.

246
00:13:05,119 --> 00:13:07,247
What do I always say? Life's a plan B.

247
00:13:07,705 --> 00:13:11,417
Okay? We'll take the replacement rabbi.

248
00:13:11,501 --> 00:13:14,504
Ma'am, she's a female rabbi.

249
00:13:14,587 --> 00:13:17,298
-It's Rabbi Marcovsky.
-That's awesome.

250
00:13:17,382 --> 00:13:20,969
A female rabbi?
Plan B is better than plan A.

251
00:13:21,386 --> 00:13:23,012
Let the female rabbi come.

252
00:13:23,846 --> 00:13:25,848
A great omen.

253
00:13:25,932 --> 00:13:26,849
Ruthie!

254
00:13:28,476 --> 00:13:29,852
Can I put gemstones on you?

255
00:13:30,520 --> 00:13:32,272
Sure, go ahead. What the heck.

256
00:13:32,897 --> 00:13:35,358
You're the ultimate mother, Ruthie.

257
00:13:35,942 --> 00:13:37,986
The only thing I envy Tam for.

258
00:13:38,069 --> 00:13:38,987
Honey.

259
00:13:41,739 --> 00:13:44,576
The chosen family thing
is very popular nowadays.

260
00:13:45,368 --> 00:13:47,328
Right? I have two questions.

261
00:13:48,329 --> 00:13:51,207
First, what do we do
with the non-chosen family?

262
00:13:51,291 --> 00:13:53,835
I have a "chosen family."

263
00:13:54,419 --> 00:13:56,879
Laura, Tam, Ruthie...

264
00:13:57,589 --> 00:14:00,258
What about the other one?
They're still there.

265
00:14:00,758 --> 00:14:04,429
It's easier to form a family
than to get rid of one.

266
00:14:09,017 --> 00:14:11,019
You didn't tell me how it looks on me.

267
00:14:12,270 --> 00:14:14,063
Tam and Debi are here already.

268
00:14:14,856 --> 00:14:17,191
Excuse me, I'm looking
for the bride's parents.

269
00:14:17,275 --> 00:14:19,027
The bride only has a mother.

270
00:14:19,110 --> 00:14:20,653
Sorry, the rabbi told me.

271
00:14:20,737 --> 00:14:23,990
-What do you need her for?
-I'm Sandra, the replacement rabbi.

272
00:14:24,073 --> 00:14:25,992
Wait, I'll get Ruthie.

273
00:14:26,075 --> 00:14:26,993
Thanks.

274
00:14:30,038 --> 00:14:33,124
Excuse me, are there many
female rabbis in Buenos Aires?

275
00:14:33,207 --> 00:14:35,168
There are a few. I know three.

276
00:14:35,251 --> 00:14:38,838
Do they study with men?

277
00:14:38,921 --> 00:14:40,381
Yes, at the same place.

278
00:14:40,465 --> 00:14:42,175
The rabbinical seminary.

279
00:14:42,258 --> 00:14:44,177
So, anyone can enroll?

280
00:14:44,260 --> 00:14:45,219
Yes, anyone can.

281
00:14:45,720 --> 00:14:46,804
Anyone who's Jewish.

282
00:14:46,888 --> 00:14:48,264
Converted or by birth.

283
00:14:50,600 --> 00:14:53,227
I thought about being
an actress, a singer...

284
00:14:53,853 --> 00:14:55,188
It was a fun idea.

285
00:14:57,482 --> 00:15:01,277
But I always thought
a calling was something

286
00:15:02,028 --> 00:15:04,906
that isn't fun, but fulfilling.

287
00:15:05,823 --> 00:15:06,949
It crushes you.

288
00:15:07,784 --> 00:15:08,993
I want that.

289
00:15:09,577 --> 00:15:11,788
Being crushed by the burden of work.

290
00:15:15,166 --> 00:15:16,542
If I think about it...

291
00:15:18,378 --> 00:15:19,879
communities are my thing.

292
00:15:20,713 --> 00:15:22,382
To think about a community.

293
00:15:23,466 --> 00:15:25,677
What I didn't know was

294
00:15:25,760 --> 00:15:27,762
that it could come from tradition.

295
00:15:28,846 --> 00:15:30,556
Although it's not weird.

296
00:15:31,140 --> 00:15:32,767
I'm a traditional person.

297
00:15:33,559 --> 00:15:35,895
Yes. In many ways.

298
00:18:40,580 --> 00:18:41,831
Excuse me.

299
00:18:41,956 --> 00:18:43,207
Hi, David.

300
00:18:44,333 --> 00:18:45,793
You brought Goliath?

301
00:18:47,795 --> 00:18:49,338
Careful. Is she there?

302
00:18:49,422 --> 00:18:50,965
There she is.

303
00:18:53,509 --> 00:18:54,677
Hi!

304
00:18:56,888 --> 00:19:00,391
Tami, Tami... We're all tipsy already.

305
00:19:00,474 --> 00:19:03,019
Play the video
or no one will pay attention.

306
00:19:03,102 --> 00:19:05,021
Bring the laptop and I'll do it.

307
00:19:05,521 --> 00:19:09,817
-What video?
-The confessions in the bathroom.

308
00:19:09,901 --> 00:19:13,905
But I recorded those for myself.

309
00:19:13,988 --> 00:19:18,075
You didn't do it for Debi's wedding?

310
00:19:18,159 --> 00:19:20,828
It was your only job, Tam. Making a video!

311
00:19:20,912 --> 00:19:24,040
But it's not for this.
People won't understand it.

312
00:19:24,123 --> 00:19:25,917
It's for us.

313
00:19:26,000 --> 00:19:30,338
A memoir of the women
in the family. The power...

314
00:19:30,421 --> 00:19:33,007
It's for you. Fine.
We get it. It's for you.

315
00:19:33,090 --> 00:19:35,176
She's not listening to me. Please.

316
00:19:35,259 --> 00:19:37,428
It's for the family. It's...

317
00:19:38,846 --> 00:19:40,514
You didn't even record yourself.

318
00:19:40,598 --> 00:19:42,850
You always want to be the different one.

319
00:19:42,934 --> 00:19:44,268
Are you kidding?

320
00:19:44,352 --> 00:19:46,896
Talk about yourself.
Don't make our things public.

321
00:19:46,979 --> 00:19:48,981
-You only do it for your columns.
-Stop.

322
00:19:49,065 --> 00:19:50,524
I'm talking to you, Tamara!

323
00:19:50,608 --> 00:19:52,568
Please, don't get into a fight now.

324
00:19:52,652 --> 00:19:56,906
I'll ask Gaby's mom to put up
pictures of them and that's it.

325
00:19:56,989 --> 00:19:58,908
-It's done.
-You know what, Miju?

326
00:19:58,991 --> 00:20:01,494
-What?
-At least I make my own money.

327
00:20:01,577 --> 00:20:03,329
And spend it in my country.

328
00:20:03,412 --> 00:20:05,498
-That has nothing to do with this!
-Stop.

329
00:20:05,581 --> 00:20:07,291
Stop. Don't fight now!

330
00:20:07,416 --> 00:20:10,211
Mijal will live here
and spend her dollars here.

331
00:20:10,711 --> 00:20:13,172
I already told you I won't stay here.

332
00:20:13,255 --> 00:20:15,049
You won't go anywhere illegally.

333
00:20:15,132 --> 00:20:17,760
-You'll stay here. Dance.
-I won't talk about it.

334
00:20:23,099 --> 00:20:25,393
Juani! Everything okay?

335
00:20:25,476 --> 00:20:27,687
Tell me if I'm hearing this right.

336
00:20:29,522 --> 00:20:32,984
I asked him to tell you himself,
to have the balls to tell you.

337
00:20:33,067 --> 00:20:34,944
But he wouldn't on Tamara's wedding.

338
00:20:35,027 --> 00:20:37,488
But it's not Tamara's,
it's her sister's wedding!

339
00:20:37,571 --> 00:20:39,865
Tamara will never get married!

340
00:20:39,949 --> 00:20:41,450
The important part's coming.

341
00:20:41,534 --> 00:20:45,538
The loan guy screwed him over
and hanged himself, that son of a bitch.

342
00:20:45,621 --> 00:20:49,083
He hanged himself at his office,
can you believe it?

343
00:20:49,166 --> 00:20:50,876
-No!
-And your dad, of course...

344
00:20:50,960 --> 00:20:54,088
He doesn't dare to tell you,
but it's not his fault.

345
00:20:54,171 --> 00:20:56,549
The guy fucked up and killed himself.

346
00:20:56,632 --> 00:20:59,927
I know it's your lifetime savings, honey.

347
00:21:00,011 --> 00:21:01,846
Let it go, Juani. You're young.

348
00:21:01,929 --> 00:21:05,141
You'll save again. People died, honey.

349
00:21:05,224 --> 00:21:06,267
But we're alive.

350
00:21:06,350 --> 00:21:07,268
All my money!

351
00:21:07,852 --> 00:21:10,146
They fucking lost all my money.

352
00:21:10,229 --> 00:21:12,106
This is it. I'm done.

353
00:21:12,189 --> 00:21:14,191
I'm an orphan now. I'm done.

354
00:21:14,275 --> 00:21:16,485
I'll block them. They're dead to me.

355
00:21:16,569 --> 00:21:18,279
That's horrible, Juani.

356
00:21:18,362 --> 00:21:20,031
This is a fucking mess.

357
00:21:22,074 --> 00:21:24,452
She said I would never get married?

358
00:21:59,195 --> 00:22:00,946
Lau! Lau.

359
00:22:01,030 --> 00:22:01,989
-Lau!
-Hey!

360
00:22:02,073 --> 00:22:04,700
I've been texting you.
Been outside for 40 minutes!

361
00:22:04,784 --> 00:22:07,453
-Why didn't you come in?
-I barely know anyone, Lau.

362
00:22:07,536 --> 00:22:08,954
You look so pretty.

363
00:22:10,956 --> 00:22:12,958
Can you imagine our wedding?

364
00:22:13,042 --> 00:22:16,921
But we'll wait after the baby's born,
so he can be the ring bearer.

365
00:22:17,004 --> 00:22:18,089
What did you take?

366
00:22:18,172 --> 00:22:21,175
Molly, pills. Want some? I have a kit.

367
00:22:21,258 --> 00:22:23,719
Tel Aviv!

368
00:22:25,221 --> 00:22:26,764
Are you serious?

369
00:22:26,847 --> 00:22:28,265
Why?

370
00:22:28,349 --> 00:22:29,767
Just look at you!

371
00:22:29,850 --> 00:22:31,727
What? You're being uptight?

372
00:22:31,852 --> 00:22:34,605
Me? What's with you?

373
00:22:34,688 --> 00:22:37,399
You have to take care of your body!

374
00:22:37,483 --> 00:22:40,361
What's going on?
You stood me up at the gynecologist's.

375
00:22:40,444 --> 00:22:42,947
You don't care if I'm here or not.
What's wrong?

376
00:22:43,030 --> 00:22:45,116
Hey, come on. Cheer up!

377
00:22:45,199 --> 00:22:47,201
I'm not pregnant yet. It's all good.

378
00:22:47,284 --> 00:22:49,912
-I'm leaving. You're such a brat.
-What?

379
00:22:52,081 --> 00:22:53,374
Mora!

380
00:22:54,542 --> 00:22:55,459
Hey!

381
00:22:56,168 --> 00:22:57,461
Are you leaving me?

382
00:22:58,337 --> 00:23:01,715
Are you leaving me when I'm hormonal
and ready to be pregnant?

383
00:23:01,799 --> 00:23:04,468
You're not. You're just high.

384
00:23:06,470 --> 00:23:08,681
-We'll talk some other time.
-Wait!

385
00:23:14,937 --> 00:23:17,439
Don't even think about crying, okay?

386
00:23:18,983 --> 00:23:19,900
Let's go.

387
00:23:26,031 --> 00:23:28,659
My reason always betrays me

388
00:23:28,742 --> 00:23:30,995
My heart dominates me

389
00:23:32,621 --> 00:23:35,082
I don't know how to fight against love

390
00:23:37,126 --> 00:23:39,420
I'll always fall in love

391
00:23:39,503 --> 00:23:42,339
With those who don't fall in love with me

392
00:23:43,507 --> 00:23:47,178
And that's why my soul cries

393
00:23:47,720 --> 00:23:49,513
I can't take it any more

394
00:23:49,597 --> 00:23:52,099
I can't take it any more

395
00:23:52,183 --> 00:23:56,395
It's the same old story

396
00:23:56,478 --> 00:23:58,564
I can't take it any more

397
00:23:58,647 --> 00:24:00,941
I can't take it any more

398
00:24:01,025 --> 00:24:05,029
I'm sick of spinning like a Ferris wheel

399
00:24:07,114 --> 00:24:12,036
To live like this is to die of love

400
00:24:12,661 --> 00:24:16,916
For love, my soul is wounded

401
00:24:16,999 --> 00:24:18,918
For love

402
00:24:19,001 --> 00:24:22,254
I have no life but your life

403
00:24:22,338 --> 00:24:24,798
Melancholy

404
00:24:27,092 --> 00:24:31,639
To live like this is to die of love

405
00:24:31,722 --> 00:24:36,101
I'm a slave to his kisses

406
00:24:36,936 --> 00:24:38,646
I'm a friend

407
00:24:38,729 --> 00:24:42,066
And I want to be more than that

408
00:24:42,149 --> 00:24:45,110
Melancholy...

409
00:24:45,194 --> 00:24:48,072
-Grandpa missed a hell of a party!
-Yes!

410
00:24:48,155 --> 00:24:50,741
Speaking of Grandpa,

411
00:24:50,824 --> 00:24:53,369
we need to rent out Grandpa
and Grandma's apartment

412
00:24:53,452 --> 00:24:54,954
to pay for the nursing home.

413
00:24:55,037 --> 00:24:56,247
You'll have to move.

414
00:24:58,207 --> 00:25:00,876
Don't laugh! You'll have to move!

415
00:25:00,960 --> 00:25:02,503
Hey, Mom-in-law!

416
00:25:02,586 --> 00:25:04,964
I can't get used to you calling me that.

417
00:25:09,510 --> 00:25:12,221
That's why I always say life's a plan B.

418
00:25:12,972 --> 00:25:14,348
For example...

419
00:25:15,975 --> 00:25:19,645
I would have never wanted Javier to die,

420
00:25:20,688 --> 00:25:21,605
but...

421
00:25:22,523 --> 00:25:24,149
If he was still alive...

422
00:25:25,067 --> 00:25:25,943
I don't know.

423
00:25:26,026 --> 00:25:28,028
Maybe the girls wouldn't...

424
00:25:28,862 --> 00:25:30,906
Wouldn't have followed their own paths.

425
00:25:32,324 --> 00:25:34,785
No. Nonsense. They would have.

426
00:25:34,868 --> 00:25:36,787
Yes. They...

427
00:25:36,870 --> 00:25:39,373
They would have found the way.

428
00:25:39,456 --> 00:25:40,291
Yes...

429
00:25:41,250 --> 00:25:42,167
And he...

430
00:25:49,675 --> 00:25:50,676
No, he...

431
00:25:51,260 --> 00:25:53,178
He would've adapted too.

432
00:25:54,221 --> 00:25:55,055
Yes.

433
00:26:00,894 --> 00:26:03,897
No, Tami. Cut out that last part. Cut it.

434
00:26:19,204 --> 00:26:20,289
-Hey!
-Hey!

435
00:26:20,372 --> 00:26:21,206
Hi.

436
00:26:22,082 --> 00:26:24,960
I'm so glad you came! So glad!

437
00:26:25,044 --> 00:26:26,879
It's Gaby's wedding. We had to.

438
00:26:26,962 --> 00:26:28,964
Let me introduce you. This is Irina.

439
00:26:30,341 --> 00:26:31,925
Hi, Irina. You're so beautiful.

440
00:26:32,009 --> 00:26:33,719
She's pretty.

441
00:26:33,802 --> 00:26:35,721
-Yes.
-I'm such a big fan.

442
00:26:35,804 --> 00:26:38,891
-I am. I had to tell her.
-That's fine.

443
00:26:38,974 --> 00:26:40,309
All right.

444
00:26:40,392 --> 00:26:41,810
So cute.

445
00:26:41,894 --> 00:26:44,104
I really want to thank you.

446
00:26:44,188 --> 00:26:45,689
Thanks for coming.

447
00:26:45,773 --> 00:26:47,066
You both look cute.

448
00:26:47,149 --> 00:26:50,235
You look cute together.
You look so handsome, Fede.

449
00:26:50,319 --> 00:26:52,404
-Thanks.
-Really handsome.

450
00:26:53,030 --> 00:26:54,365
What's this?

451
00:26:54,448 --> 00:26:56,742
-It's an arrow.
-It's a ring.

452
00:27:03,290 --> 00:27:04,333
Wow!

453
00:27:04,416 --> 00:27:05,959
Matching tattoos!

454
00:27:06,585 --> 00:27:09,213
Guys! But what is it? I don't get it.

455
00:27:10,381 --> 00:27:11,882
-An arrow.
-It's a symbol.

456
00:27:11,965 --> 00:27:14,676
An arrow, because you met...

457
00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:16,720
And Cupid's arrow hit.

458
00:27:16,804 --> 00:27:17,721
Wow!

459
00:27:18,263 --> 00:27:20,391
But it's permanent.

460
00:27:20,516 --> 00:27:21,934
-Permanent.
-Yes, I know.

461
00:27:22,017 --> 00:27:23,852
-You look so cute.
-Thanks.

462
00:27:23,936 --> 00:27:25,687
-No, thank you.
-Tam!

463
00:27:26,271 --> 00:27:28,524
-Champagne's calling you.
-Yes.

464
00:27:28,649 --> 00:27:30,484
-Hi.
-Thank you for coming.

465
00:27:30,567 --> 00:27:32,361
-Bye.
-See you.

466
00:27:32,444 --> 00:27:33,695
Bye.

467
00:27:33,779 --> 00:27:35,030
Engagement rings!

468
00:27:35,781 --> 00:27:38,867
They tattooed engagement rings!
They're engaged!

469
00:27:40,202 --> 00:27:42,121
Do they live in an American sitcom?

470
00:27:42,871 --> 00:27:45,207
People watch too much TV,
then do this stuff.

471
00:27:46,041 --> 00:27:48,752
It's fine. It's a commitment symbol.

472
00:27:48,836 --> 00:27:51,171
The ability to do something for others.

473
00:27:51,255 --> 00:27:53,257
-Some of us don't have that.
-Lau.

474
00:27:54,466 --> 00:27:56,385
If anyone has the ability, it's you.

475
00:27:56,468 --> 00:27:59,054
Evidently not. I clearly have a limit.

476
00:27:59,138 --> 00:28:00,305
That's different.

477
00:28:00,889 --> 00:28:03,016
You can't just go around giving.

478
00:28:04,518 --> 00:28:07,062
In order to give, you have
to want to first.

479
00:28:07,146 --> 00:28:09,982
You can't just give it away
like an object.

480
00:28:13,110 --> 00:28:14,111
Just like that.

481
00:28:16,864 --> 00:28:18,115
And there are things...

482
00:28:20,993 --> 00:28:22,911
that you would have liked to be.

483
00:28:25,873 --> 00:28:27,291
And that you will never be.

484
00:28:29,585 --> 00:28:30,586
At least, not now.

485
00:28:35,340 --> 00:28:37,759
It's okay to mourn
the kid you'll never have.

486
00:28:41,972 --> 00:28:43,974
Or the relationship you'll never have.

487
00:28:46,393 --> 00:28:49,480
Even if you chose it "freely."

488
00:28:50,105 --> 00:28:51,440
You'll make me cry.

489
00:28:53,942 --> 00:28:54,943
Hey, calm down.

490
00:28:55,027 --> 00:28:57,279
It's exactly what you're saying.

491
00:28:57,362 --> 00:28:59,490
You give... You put yourself out there,

492
00:28:59,573 --> 00:29:03,285
your job, your time, your body,

493
00:29:03,368 --> 00:29:06,330
your love, your money... Your money!

494
00:29:06,413 --> 00:29:07,873
To shitty people!

495
00:29:08,499 --> 00:29:10,959
People that can't take care of anything!

496
00:29:11,043 --> 00:29:12,085
Get it?

497
00:29:19,551 --> 00:29:23,680
Incapable of giving love,
care or whatever.

498
00:29:26,099 --> 00:29:29,937
The funny thing is I give
because I want to be taken care of!

499
00:29:31,813 --> 00:29:35,275
I want them to give me
something they can't give me.

500
00:29:35,359 --> 00:29:37,653
It's impossible. It doesn't exist.

501
00:29:42,950 --> 00:29:44,910
It's Lacan's definition of love.

502
00:29:45,827 --> 00:29:46,703
What?

503
00:29:49,456 --> 00:29:50,457
"Loving...

504
00:29:51,959 --> 00:29:54,711
"is giving what one does not have."

505
00:29:58,840 --> 00:30:00,551
He talks about castration.

506
00:30:02,302 --> 00:30:03,554
In order to love,

507
00:30:04,805 --> 00:30:06,807
you have to accept incompleteness.

508
00:30:08,225 --> 00:30:09,601
That you're incomplete,

509
00:30:10,769 --> 00:30:12,145
and the other is, too.

510
00:30:21,780 --> 00:30:22,781
Okay, let's go.

511
00:30:24,575 --> 00:30:26,660
Let's go dance with Debi.

512
00:30:26,743 --> 00:30:28,036
Let's do the mitzvah.

513
00:30:29,621 --> 00:30:30,581
What's a mitzvah?

514
00:31:24,301 --> 00:31:26,386
A mitzvah is the opposite of a sin.

515
00:31:27,012 --> 00:31:29,139
An action that adds value to the world.

516
00:31:33,268 --> 00:31:34,770
I don't believe in anything.

517
00:31:36,438 --> 00:31:38,190
But I believe in mitzvot.

518
00:31:40,359 --> 00:31:43,320
I got that when I was 10
and attended a wedding.

519
00:31:44,363 --> 00:31:46,281
I was sitting alone in a corner,

520
00:31:46,823 --> 00:31:49,743
and my mom came
and told me to dance with the bride.

521
00:31:51,912 --> 00:31:53,705
Because dancing with the bride

522
00:31:54,539 --> 00:31:56,166
and making her happy...

523
00:31:59,378 --> 00:32:00,379
It's a mitzvah.