1 00:00:02,741 --> 00:00:04,569 [tense music] 2 00:00:16,624 --> 00:00:17,538 - What's up, dog? 3 00:00:18,452 --> 00:00:19,279 I was charged with 4 00:00:19,366 --> 00:00:20,411 two counts of 5 00:00:20,498 --> 00:00:22,108 delivery of a controlled substance, 6 00:00:22,195 --> 00:00:24,023 possession of a controlled substance, 7 00:00:24,110 --> 00:00:25,242 and a count of stealing. 8 00:00:31,291 --> 00:00:32,858 - I made the choice to bring Nick here to help, 9 00:00:32,945 --> 00:00:35,078 'cause I knew his father who passed away. 10 00:00:35,165 --> 00:00:36,688 Out of respect for his dad, 11 00:00:36,818 --> 00:00:37,950 I thought it would be a good idea that I could help him 12 00:00:38,081 --> 00:00:40,039 by allowing him a safe place to stay. 13 00:00:40,170 --> 00:00:42,172 - Are you married now? - Yes. 14 00:00:42,302 --> 00:00:43,434 - I'm not [beep] dumb. 15 00:00:43,521 --> 00:00:44,913 You can lie to yourself all you want. 16 00:00:45,044 --> 00:00:46,567 I know you were on something. 17 00:00:46,654 --> 00:00:48,221 - We're done here, everybody. 18 00:00:48,308 --> 00:00:49,440 I'm [beep] moving out. 19 00:00:49,570 --> 00:00:51,442 I'm not hooked on pills or doing heroin. 20 00:00:51,572 --> 00:00:53,487 If I wanna party, I'm gonna do that. 21 00:00:53,618 --> 00:00:55,054 I'm not doing this [beep] no more, dude. 22 00:00:55,185 --> 00:00:58,710 - [Doctor] Darquavion was a patient of mine seven years ago. 23 00:00:58,797 --> 00:01:01,234 [men cheering] 24 00:01:02,627 --> 00:01:04,846 - Very anxious to get on with my life. 25 00:01:04,977 --> 00:01:06,500 I feel like I'm in good hands on this side. 26 00:01:06,587 --> 00:01:09,199 If you was to see me and Jamal around each other 27 00:01:09,286 --> 00:01:11,288 and we was to be here, what would you do? 28 00:01:11,418 --> 00:01:12,637 - I'm supposed to call the police. 29 00:01:12,767 --> 00:01:13,681 You're both on parole and you're not supposed 30 00:01:13,812 --> 00:01:15,118 to see each other. 31 00:01:15,205 --> 00:01:17,250 - For him to say that though is [beep] up. 32 00:01:17,337 --> 00:01:19,034 I'm ain't trying to, I'm not trying to hear none of that. 33 00:01:19,122 --> 00:01:20,427 - He has a sense of freedom 34 00:01:20,514 --> 00:01:23,256 but he needs to know he's not really free. 35 00:01:23,387 --> 00:01:24,475 - I'm taking my nephew with me. 36 00:01:24,562 --> 00:01:25,998 Let's go, get your stuff. 37 00:01:26,085 --> 00:01:31,351 - So after I went and stayed with Joe, it was havoc. 38 00:01:31,482 --> 00:01:35,007 - You can come stay at my house and call it home. 39 00:01:36,356 --> 00:01:37,401 - How you doing, man? 40 00:01:37,531 --> 00:01:39,490 - Hello, hi, hey. 41 00:01:39,620 --> 00:01:41,665 I finally get to meet you. - Yeah. 42 00:01:41,753 --> 00:01:42,449 - Jovan, that's my son. 43 00:01:42,536 --> 00:01:44,103 That's Steve. 44 00:01:44,234 --> 00:01:45,278 - It's a random man coming to stay at my mother's house 45 00:01:45,409 --> 00:01:46,236 since he got outta prison. 46 00:01:46,366 --> 00:01:47,976 You know what I mean? 47 00:01:48,107 --> 00:01:50,153 You disrespect her house, things could go left real fast. 48 00:01:50,240 --> 00:01:52,284 [loud knocking] 49 00:01:52,372 --> 00:01:53,417 - [Artie] [beep] you coming over here 50 00:01:53,546 --> 00:01:54,853 at one in the morning? 51 00:01:54,983 --> 00:01:56,115 - 'Cause I want to man, that's how. 52 00:01:56,201 --> 00:01:58,117 - What the [beep] is going on down here? 53 00:01:58,248 --> 00:01:59,466 My house, my rules. 54 00:01:59,597 --> 00:02:01,599 Do it my way or go. 55 00:02:01,686 --> 00:02:04,123 - Today is the first time for me to see my daughter 56 00:02:04,254 --> 00:02:05,472 in over three years. 57 00:02:05,559 --> 00:02:06,952 [daughter crying] Oh no, no. 58 00:02:07,039 --> 00:02:08,170 - [Mother] Come on, it's okay. 59 00:02:08,301 --> 00:02:09,781 - The feeling that I'm having right now 60 00:02:09,867 --> 00:02:12,262 is one of the worst feelings that a dad can feel. 61 00:02:13,524 --> 00:02:14,786 - What? 62 00:02:14,916 --> 00:02:16,875 - I had to fight to stay in my son Steven's life 63 00:02:17,005 --> 00:02:18,833 and I'm gonna help Jovan fight 64 00:02:18,964 --> 00:02:20,444 to stay in his daughter's life. 65 00:02:20,574 --> 00:02:22,576 - My name is Arielle. 66 00:02:22,707 --> 00:02:25,275 I was charged with aggravated identity theft 67 00:02:25,405 --> 00:02:27,059 and bank fraud. 68 00:02:27,190 --> 00:02:28,582 - I ended up writing Ari a letter 69 00:02:28,669 --> 00:02:30,280 and we just developed a really strong friendship 70 00:02:30,410 --> 00:02:31,629 while she was in prison. 71 00:02:31,716 --> 00:02:34,240 Oh, how are you? 72 00:02:34,327 --> 00:02:36,851 - I'm feeling nervous, anxious, excited. 73 00:02:36,938 --> 00:02:38,984 Just a whole lot of emotions. 74 00:02:39,071 --> 00:02:40,942 [women cheering] 75 00:02:41,073 --> 00:02:42,640 This is on me to you. 76 00:02:42,770 --> 00:02:44,771 - This bottle is $350. 77 00:02:44,903 --> 00:02:46,905 I'm confused on where the money's coming from. 78 00:02:47,035 --> 00:02:48,211 All right, nobody trusts you. 79 00:02:48,298 --> 00:02:50,343 Like seriously, I don't have no drama. 80 00:02:50,473 --> 00:02:51,779 I'm not a convicted felon. 81 00:02:51,910 --> 00:02:53,085 - All right, so- 82 00:02:53,172 --> 00:02:53,999 - But I'm just being real. 83 00:02:54,129 --> 00:02:55,000 I'm being real. - I get that 84 00:02:55,130 --> 00:02:55,870 and I don't care what you feeling 85 00:02:55,957 --> 00:02:56,871 so I'm gonna walk away. 86 00:02:58,830 --> 00:03:01,528 - I think we really need to scratch 87 00:03:01,659 --> 00:03:02,964 this whole living situation. 88 00:03:03,095 --> 00:03:04,923 We're just in two different spaces. 89 00:03:06,794 --> 00:03:08,622 - I've never met Bill in person. 90 00:03:08,709 --> 00:03:12,017 I only know Bill from the time that I've been writing to him 91 00:03:12,146 --> 00:03:15,194 through a prison pen pal program. 92 00:03:15,325 --> 00:03:16,761 - After all these years. - Hi. 93 00:03:16,891 --> 00:03:17,892 - Hi, Bill. 94 00:03:18,023 --> 00:03:20,199 - Just extraordinarily grateful 95 00:03:20,330 --> 00:03:23,115 for Mark and Sharna that they opened their home to me. 96 00:03:23,202 --> 00:03:26,031 - Over here, we do have your list of rules. 97 00:03:26,118 --> 00:03:28,163 - I seriously don't know how to respond. 98 00:03:28,294 --> 00:03:29,469 What the hell did I get myself into here? 99 00:03:29,600 --> 00:03:30,557 - [Mark] You wouldn't believe all the crap 100 00:03:30,688 --> 00:03:32,124 that's been going on here. 101 00:03:32,211 --> 00:03:34,082 - Mark said he kept a ledger of my toilet paper use. 102 00:03:34,213 --> 00:03:35,432 - The last two or three weeks 103 00:03:35,562 --> 00:03:38,478 Bill has been more confrontational. 104 00:03:38,609 --> 00:03:40,001 - We're gonna have to change these locks. 105 00:03:40,132 --> 00:03:41,568 [drill buzzing] 106 00:03:41,655 --> 00:03:44,092 - Since we were expecting Bill to come back, 107 00:03:44,223 --> 00:03:46,007 I've been on pins and needles. 108 00:03:46,094 --> 00:03:47,618 I don't know what to expect. 109 00:03:47,747 --> 00:03:48,749 - The hell? 110 00:03:48,836 --> 00:03:50,185 Okay, they changed the locks. 111 00:03:50,273 --> 00:03:52,362 This is the most underhanded thing you could do 112 00:03:52,449 --> 00:03:54,799 to somebody in my status when I'm very vulnerable. 113 00:03:54,886 --> 00:03:57,018 Sharna, you are just so self absorbed. 114 00:03:57,149 --> 00:03:58,368 It's not right. 115 00:03:58,455 --> 00:03:59,847 I don't wanna make you cry there Sharna. 116 00:03:59,978 --> 00:04:01,632 You know, it's just reality. - I'm not gonna cry. 117 00:04:01,719 --> 00:04:04,287 - You don't seem like you care about us or our marriage. 118 00:04:04,374 --> 00:04:06,201 Why don't you just get out? 119 00:04:06,332 --> 00:04:08,116 - Friends don't do that. - We're done with it. 120 00:04:08,247 --> 00:04:09,683 - Get your hand outta my face. 121 00:04:09,770 --> 00:04:10,989 You don't rob me of my ability to speak, Sharna. 122 00:04:11,119 --> 00:04:12,295 - I'm not talking about it anymore. 123 00:04:12,382 --> 00:04:14,906 - I don't put my fingers in your face. 124 00:04:14,993 --> 00:04:17,735 [dramatic music] 125 00:04:28,093 --> 00:04:29,877 I'm angry at Mark and Sharna for not giving me 126 00:04:29,964 --> 00:04:31,749 a chance to figure it out. 127 00:04:31,836 --> 00:04:33,707 Instead they're forcing me to the street, 128 00:04:33,794 --> 00:04:35,405 where the little bit of money I have left has 129 00:04:35,535 --> 00:04:38,886 to go now for sleeping in a fleabag hotel, 130 00:04:38,973 --> 00:04:40,932 instead of being over here packing my stuff up. 131 00:04:41,062 --> 00:04:41,933 Very frustrating. 132 00:04:46,633 --> 00:04:48,635 My parole officer's aware of it. 133 00:04:48,722 --> 00:04:50,855 He's given me his blessings to do what I have to do. 134 00:04:53,597 --> 00:04:55,773 But man, this place stinks. 135 00:04:55,903 --> 00:04:56,687 It smells like, 136 00:04:59,080 --> 00:05:00,647 I don't know if I could say it in polite company 137 00:05:00,778 --> 00:05:02,214 but it's really smells bad. 138 00:05:05,609 --> 00:05:11,441 It's got that musty, crack house, sweaty type smell to it. 139 00:05:21,886 --> 00:05:24,367 [mellow music] 140 00:05:35,508 --> 00:05:37,380 - With moving outta Kyle and Sandra's, 141 00:05:37,467 --> 00:05:40,121 I've got a friend who's renting a room 142 00:05:40,252 --> 00:05:42,820 and I'm just gonna work as much as possible. 143 00:05:42,907 --> 00:05:45,388 I'm out, I'm good, I'm moving on. 144 00:05:49,653 --> 00:05:51,568 - What's up, dude? - What's up, dude? 145 00:05:51,655 --> 00:05:52,743 What you doing? 146 00:05:55,136 --> 00:05:56,355 I gotta use the bathroom. 147 00:05:59,402 --> 00:06:00,751 - I asked Nick to come over and talk 148 00:06:00,838 --> 00:06:03,318 'cause yesterday was a big [beep] show 149 00:06:03,449 --> 00:06:05,408 and I would really like to see things 150 00:06:05,495 --> 00:06:07,061 go down smoother today. 151 00:06:07,148 --> 00:06:09,237 Sandra's still pretty fired up and angry. 152 00:06:09,324 --> 00:06:11,718 But she accused him of slipping up and getting high 153 00:06:11,849 --> 00:06:14,939 and I'd really like to hear Nick's side of the story. 154 00:06:15,069 --> 00:06:16,549 A little on edge here to see how this is 155 00:06:16,680 --> 00:06:17,550 all gonna play out. 156 00:06:19,770 --> 00:06:20,423 - Hi Sandra. 157 00:06:24,731 --> 00:06:27,952 Nick, do you want to fill Sandra in 158 00:06:28,082 --> 00:06:30,563 on your plan of action for today? 159 00:06:32,130 --> 00:06:35,046 - Well, I just made, I secured a place to go. 160 00:06:35,133 --> 00:06:37,309 I'm gonna pack my stuff up and I'm gonna move on. 161 00:06:39,093 --> 00:06:41,400 It'll be good for all three of us. 162 00:06:41,531 --> 00:06:42,836 - [Sandra] I agree. 163 00:06:42,967 --> 00:06:44,142 - It was only meant to be temporary anyway. 164 00:06:44,229 --> 00:06:46,753 So I got a car, job, and things are in motion. 165 00:06:48,320 --> 00:06:52,280 It makes sense to move on. - Yeah, I agree. 166 00:06:52,367 --> 00:06:53,847 - [Kyle] We're not making you leave. 167 00:06:53,978 --> 00:06:56,197 So I mean, I'm glad that we can talk about it 168 00:06:56,284 --> 00:06:57,851 and it can be civil. 169 00:06:57,938 --> 00:07:00,332 - It feels like at times you guys are just waiting 170 00:07:00,463 --> 00:07:02,203 for me to go right back to how I was 171 00:07:02,334 --> 00:07:03,596 before I went to prison. 172 00:07:03,683 --> 00:07:06,033 Which is I can understand somewhat, 173 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:08,427 but I don't wanna keep reliving the way I used 174 00:07:08,514 --> 00:07:09,994 to live life. 175 00:07:10,081 --> 00:07:11,299 - For somebody who hasn't been in those shoes, 176 00:07:11,386 --> 00:07:12,953 it's hard not to immediately think like, oh, 177 00:07:13,084 --> 00:07:15,390 that person was a screw up. 178 00:07:15,478 --> 00:07:16,783 They're just gonna continue down that. 179 00:07:16,914 --> 00:07:19,917 And you're right and I apologize. 180 00:07:20,004 --> 00:07:22,441 I mean, we both can apologize for that. 181 00:07:24,835 --> 00:07:26,967 - I don't ever wanna go back to where I was at. 182 00:07:31,668 --> 00:07:32,669 - And the other day, I mean, 183 00:07:32,799 --> 00:07:33,496 I'm sorry we disagreed a little bit 184 00:07:33,625 --> 00:07:34,932 about you having people over, 185 00:07:35,019 --> 00:07:37,412 but I felt as if we were pretty cut and dry 186 00:07:37,543 --> 00:07:39,763 about that from before you even got released. 187 00:07:39,850 --> 00:07:41,547 - When you moved in, 188 00:07:41,634 --> 00:07:43,723 we said that this isn't a place for you to get comfortable. 189 00:07:43,810 --> 00:07:45,769 This is a place for you to get up on your feet 190 00:07:45,856 --> 00:07:47,988 and find your own place to have people over at. 191 00:07:51,731 --> 00:07:54,604 I don't really know where Nick is mentally. 192 00:07:54,734 --> 00:07:56,997 If you're not serious about your sobriety, 193 00:07:57,084 --> 00:07:59,826 you're gonna end up either back in prison or dead, 194 00:07:59,913 --> 00:08:01,611 just ultimately. 195 00:08:01,741 --> 00:08:04,352 Everybody in my past that I know that have 196 00:08:04,483 --> 00:08:08,443 struggled with an addiction like that is, they're dead. 197 00:08:08,574 --> 00:08:10,141 They're all dead. 198 00:08:10,228 --> 00:08:11,969 At that point, then you need to go to their house 199 00:08:12,056 --> 00:08:13,361 and hang out. 200 00:08:13,448 --> 00:08:15,494 So y'all need to not get comfortable. 201 00:08:15,581 --> 00:08:18,149 Get up on your feet and figure your [beep] out. 202 00:08:18,279 --> 00:08:22,327 This isn't a time for you to just be relaxing in the room, 203 00:08:22,457 --> 00:08:23,894 hanging out with some girl. 204 00:08:29,769 --> 00:08:31,292 - I'm [beep] done here, dude. 205 00:08:31,379 --> 00:08:32,946 This is it, dude. - What? 206 00:08:33,077 --> 00:08:34,469 - I'm just packing my [beep] up. 207 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:37,081 I just don't like hearing this [beep], dude. 208 00:08:37,211 --> 00:08:38,038 - Like why? 209 00:08:38,125 --> 00:08:39,431 Just let it go. 210 00:08:39,562 --> 00:08:40,736 Quit, quit [beep] antagonizing him. 211 00:08:42,826 --> 00:08:44,044 - [Sandra] Nick's making it dramatic. 212 00:08:44,130 --> 00:08:45,480 - No, he's not. 213 00:08:45,568 --> 00:08:46,438 Your mouth sometimes makes it dramatic. 214 00:08:47,874 --> 00:08:49,354 - I feel like I'm kind of walking around 215 00:08:49,441 --> 00:08:52,575 on eggshells or I don't ever feel welcome in this house. 216 00:08:53,967 --> 00:08:54,925 Why would you wanna be somewhere 217 00:08:55,055 --> 00:08:56,927 where you don't feel welcome? 218 00:08:57,057 --> 00:08:57,928 It's just time to move on. 219 00:09:04,369 --> 00:09:05,283 [mellow music] 220 00:09:08,634 --> 00:09:10,288 - [Henry] You feel pretty good about the interview? 221 00:09:10,418 --> 00:09:13,378 - Yeah, I feel great about it. 222 00:09:13,508 --> 00:09:14,466 - Cool. - Definitely. 223 00:09:16,294 --> 00:09:19,166 It was a big blow to me losing both of my jobs. 224 00:09:19,253 --> 00:09:21,299 I considered going back to my old life 225 00:09:21,386 --> 00:09:23,301 and doing the things that I knew to survive. 226 00:09:25,042 --> 00:09:27,261 But staying at Henry's has helped me wanna try again. 227 00:09:29,089 --> 00:09:32,266 I'm going to an interview at a factory that makes car parts. 228 00:09:32,353 --> 00:09:33,180 I'm stoked. 229 00:09:33,267 --> 00:09:34,138 Hoping I get the job. 230 00:09:35,226 --> 00:09:38,664 [mellow music] 231 00:09:38,751 --> 00:09:40,187 - [GPS Voice] At the next road, then turn left 232 00:09:40,274 --> 00:09:41,928 onto Six Mile Road. 233 00:09:42,059 --> 00:09:44,975 - Even though Darquavion and I have had our ups and downs, 234 00:09:45,062 --> 00:09:46,759 I'm really glad I can drive him today 235 00:09:46,846 --> 00:09:49,501 because I really do think he's got a bright future. 236 00:09:49,588 --> 00:09:52,939 Darquavion has these things imprinted in him 237 00:09:53,026 --> 00:09:55,463 that are wonderful and are real. 238 00:09:55,550 --> 00:09:57,901 He has my support to help him find the path 239 00:09:58,031 --> 00:10:01,034 he really wants to be on that will take him along 240 00:10:01,165 --> 00:10:04,690 in life to where he wants to get to. 241 00:10:04,777 --> 00:10:06,474 - You gotta keep your blinkers on? 242 00:10:07,737 --> 00:10:09,782 - Yeah, it's an emergency. 243 00:10:11,262 --> 00:10:12,872 - What's the emergency? 244 00:10:12,959 --> 00:10:14,221 You would have to have the hazard lights on, bro. 245 00:10:14,352 --> 00:10:16,006 - Yeah. 246 00:10:16,093 --> 00:10:18,748 The emergency is you're going to get this great job. 247 00:10:18,835 --> 00:10:21,011 - I left once from Henry's thinking 248 00:10:21,098 --> 00:10:23,753 that I was going to achieve more. 249 00:10:23,883 --> 00:10:27,234 But Joe's was something similar to prison, 250 00:10:27,321 --> 00:10:29,584 it was not good for me neither though. 251 00:10:29,672 --> 00:10:31,456 Hopefully once I get a job, 252 00:10:31,543 --> 00:10:33,719 I will be able to save up a lot more money living 253 00:10:33,806 --> 00:10:36,026 at Henry's, since I don't have to pay rent, 254 00:10:36,113 --> 00:10:38,028 and I'm getting financial support from him. 255 00:10:39,420 --> 00:10:41,248 I'm very enthused with myself though. 256 00:10:41,335 --> 00:10:42,902 It's a lot of opportunities - Yeah 257 00:10:42,989 --> 00:10:44,034 coming my way. 258 00:10:49,256 --> 00:10:50,518 - That's an answer I really don't know. 259 00:10:50,605 --> 00:10:52,912 I still ask myself that to this day. 260 00:10:52,999 --> 00:10:55,393 I would probably be living day-by-day, I'd be lost. 261 00:10:55,523 --> 00:10:57,656 I wouldn't have no direction. 262 00:10:57,743 --> 00:11:00,180 Pretty soon here, I'm gonna be my own boss. 263 00:11:00,267 --> 00:11:02,356 - I bet you are going to be your own boss 264 00:11:02,443 --> 00:11:03,706 somewhere down the road here. 265 00:11:06,230 --> 00:11:08,711 [mellow music] 266 00:11:13,585 --> 00:11:14,891 - Hello? 267 00:11:14,978 --> 00:11:15,848 - Hi. - Hi. 268 00:11:15,979 --> 00:11:16,893 You Kelly? - Yes. 269 00:11:16,980 --> 00:11:18,024 - [Artie] Hey Kelly, Artie. 270 00:11:18,155 --> 00:11:18,938 - Hello, how you doing? 271 00:11:19,025 --> 00:11:20,070 - Good, good. - Good. 272 00:11:21,593 --> 00:11:23,421 - I'm meeting with Jovan's ex, Kelly, 273 00:11:23,508 --> 00:11:27,642 'cause Kelly just served Jovan with divorce papers. 274 00:11:27,773 --> 00:11:30,428 I think Jovan adores his daughter. 275 00:11:30,515 --> 00:11:33,083 She's a beautiful girl and I think he really, 276 00:11:33,170 --> 00:11:35,172 really wants to be in her life. 277 00:11:35,302 --> 00:11:38,915 I know this divorce is a huge step back for Jovan. 278 00:11:39,045 --> 00:11:42,483 It could jeopardize his relationship with his daughter 279 00:11:42,570 --> 00:11:46,313 and make it where he can't really see her like he wants to. 280 00:11:46,400 --> 00:11:50,753 I'm gonna step in for Jovan because it's not fair 281 00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:52,624 to keep a loving parent from their kid. 282 00:11:55,148 --> 00:11:58,151 Well, I wanna thank you for meeting with me. 283 00:11:58,238 --> 00:11:59,936 So tell me your story. 284 00:12:03,243 --> 00:12:06,377 - I think when it comes to Jovan, he was very, 285 00:12:06,464 --> 00:12:09,467 very verbal all the time to me and my children. 286 00:12:11,730 --> 00:12:12,470 Thank you. 287 00:12:13,645 --> 00:12:15,081 - [Artie] Yeah, I'm so sorry. 288 00:12:22,001 --> 00:12:23,350 - I hit my breaking point and I was like, 289 00:12:23,437 --> 00:12:24,830 okay, I'm leaving him. 290 00:12:24,961 --> 00:12:27,224 So that's where I'm at now with him. 291 00:12:27,354 --> 00:12:30,227 We did not leave things good when he went to jail. 292 00:12:30,314 --> 00:12:33,491 I'm trying to get through this. 293 00:12:33,578 --> 00:12:34,884 - Right. - You know. 294 00:12:35,014 --> 00:12:38,278 So that's it like 295 00:12:39,889 --> 00:12:43,414 and with Kaylana, I think this is all kind of 296 00:12:43,501 --> 00:12:45,938 just trying to figure out what's best for her. 297 00:12:46,025 --> 00:12:48,114 So she's got a very small group of people 298 00:12:48,201 --> 00:12:49,899 that she's been around her whole life 299 00:12:49,986 --> 00:12:51,857 and bouncing from this place, that place. 300 00:12:51,988 --> 00:12:53,816 Her father still doesn't know her too. 301 00:12:53,903 --> 00:12:55,556 She doesn't really know him. 302 00:12:55,643 --> 00:12:56,208 - Yeah, yeah, she's not used to him. 303 00:12:56,296 --> 00:12:57,254 - She's not. 304 00:12:57,341 --> 00:12:59,386 And I know when he's outside, 305 00:12:59,517 --> 00:13:02,259 where he's going and what he's doing. 306 00:13:02,389 --> 00:13:04,478 If someone calls him and say, hey, let's go do this, 307 00:13:04,565 --> 00:13:06,263 he's going. 308 00:13:06,350 --> 00:13:09,527 And I don't want my daughter in those situations. 309 00:13:09,614 --> 00:13:12,660 - I wanna tell you this, it's been 24 years ago, 310 00:13:12,747 --> 00:13:14,140 I went to prison. 311 00:13:14,227 --> 00:13:15,838 I did 14 months. 312 00:13:15,925 --> 00:13:18,666 I lost my son, they took him from me. 313 00:13:18,753 --> 00:13:23,497 And coming out, I had to fight to get him 314 00:13:24,890 --> 00:13:26,413 and we've been all right ever since. 315 00:13:26,500 --> 00:13:29,677 But it takes time when you've been gone 316 00:13:29,808 --> 00:13:31,201 for some years and whatnot. 317 00:13:32,593 --> 00:13:34,813 You want him to have somewhere stable? 318 00:13:34,944 --> 00:13:35,858 My place is stable. 319 00:13:37,642 --> 00:13:39,905 If you don't want her leaving, going off places with him, 320 00:13:39,992 --> 00:13:42,212 which I can understand- - Right. 321 00:13:42,299 --> 00:13:43,300 - She won't. 322 00:13:43,387 --> 00:13:45,215 She'll be right there with me. 323 00:13:45,302 --> 00:13:48,696 I don't deal with riff raff, bull [beep]. 324 00:13:50,089 --> 00:13:52,091 If your daughter's ever at my house, 325 00:13:52,222 --> 00:13:53,701 I'm gonna be watching him and her, 326 00:13:54,877 --> 00:13:55,747 like a hawk. 327 00:13:56,748 --> 00:13:58,532 Then he can build a bond 328 00:13:58,619 --> 00:14:02,101 'cause daughters and fathers and mothers and sons, 329 00:14:02,188 --> 00:14:04,321 that bond is unbreakable. - They have that, yeah. 330 00:14:04,408 --> 00:14:07,672 - So all I'm saying is if you give him the chance 331 00:14:07,759 --> 00:14:10,588 to bring her to my house, it could work. 332 00:14:15,767 --> 00:14:17,638 - Okay, that sounds good. - Okay. 333 00:14:17,769 --> 00:14:19,249 - I think Imma agree with it. - Okay fine. 334 00:14:19,379 --> 00:14:21,120 - And then we can, if it's okay with you, talk through you, 335 00:14:21,207 --> 00:14:23,035 'cause I don't want any communication with him. 336 00:14:23,166 --> 00:14:24,036 - Okay. - With that. 337 00:14:25,342 --> 00:14:26,821 - I was a little nervous coming in here 338 00:14:26,909 --> 00:14:29,041 'cause I kind of didn't know what I was walking into, 339 00:14:29,128 --> 00:14:31,130 but she seems like we're kind of on the same page 340 00:14:31,217 --> 00:14:34,917 with keeping Kaylana safe and Kaylana comfortable. 341 00:14:35,004 --> 00:14:38,398 I think Artie being the middle man between me and Jovan, 342 00:14:38,485 --> 00:14:40,835 I think we could really make this work. 343 00:14:40,923 --> 00:14:43,447 - I will talk with Jovan. - Okay. 344 00:14:43,534 --> 00:14:45,492 - And I'll do it today, if I can catch up with him. 345 00:14:45,579 --> 00:14:46,754 - Okay. - Okay? 346 00:14:46,841 --> 00:14:48,191 - All right. - But you got my number. 347 00:14:48,278 --> 00:14:50,062 - I do. - Call me anytime. 348 00:14:50,149 --> 00:14:52,630 - Thank you. [mellow music] 349 00:15:01,421 --> 00:15:02,292 -Okay. 350 00:15:03,989 --> 00:15:05,773 - When I started writing to Bill 351 00:15:05,860 --> 00:15:07,862 and when we made the decision to allow him 352 00:15:07,993 --> 00:15:09,603 to come and parole here, 353 00:15:09,734 --> 00:15:13,259 we definitely didn't know as much as we should've known. 354 00:15:15,218 --> 00:15:18,656 I've definitely been hurt by Bill's behavior toward me. 355 00:15:18,743 --> 00:15:20,963 You were my friend and yet you're gonna cast me aside 356 00:15:21,093 --> 00:15:23,095 and treat me like a piece of trash. 357 00:15:23,182 --> 00:15:25,445 - You've come down here dressed kind of inappropriately 358 00:15:25,532 --> 00:15:27,926 for saying you're a Christian, when your husband's at work. 359 00:15:28,013 --> 00:15:29,145 - Never. - So please. 360 00:15:31,277 --> 00:15:33,453 - It's been a hard thing to deal with. 361 00:15:33,540 --> 00:15:35,586 What I've learned from this is 362 00:15:35,673 --> 00:15:38,458 that people aren't always what they seem. 363 00:15:38,545 --> 00:15:41,809 Someone can seem nice writing letters 364 00:15:41,896 --> 00:15:43,898 and be a whole different ball game 365 00:15:44,029 --> 00:15:45,335 when they come into your home. 366 00:15:47,032 --> 00:15:49,208 Mark is going to make sure that Bill gets 367 00:15:49,295 --> 00:15:51,080 all of his things out of the room. 368 00:15:51,210 --> 00:15:54,126 I'm gonna be away from the house somewhere else 369 00:15:54,257 --> 00:15:56,520 because I don't wanna have any more contact with him. 370 00:15:56,650 --> 00:15:58,870 I did reach my breaking point with this. 371 00:15:58,957 --> 00:15:59,697 I've had enough. 372 00:16:04,876 --> 00:16:07,357 [phone ringing] 373 00:16:09,576 --> 00:16:10,360 - Hey, it's Mark. 374 00:16:12,710 --> 00:16:15,365 - Hey, just checking in with you. 375 00:16:15,495 --> 00:16:16,714 I need to see when you can come over 376 00:16:16,844 --> 00:16:18,716 and we can get your stuff out. 377 00:16:23,025 --> 00:16:25,157 - Well I'm gonna have to start without you then. 378 00:16:42,957 --> 00:16:47,179 - Bill enjoys playing with our heads, but the game is over. 379 00:16:47,266 --> 00:16:50,400 It's been nothing but chaos since he came 380 00:16:50,487 --> 00:16:53,142 and Bill only has a small window of time 381 00:16:53,272 --> 00:16:56,014 to get his stuff outta here while Sharna is gone. 382 00:16:56,145 --> 00:16:58,364 I don't wanna wait for Bill to start moving his stuff out, 383 00:16:58,495 --> 00:17:00,497 but I can't start packing without him 384 00:17:00,627 --> 00:17:03,413 because before Bill left to visit his girlfriend 385 00:17:03,543 --> 00:17:05,632 in California, he installed a lock on his door 386 00:17:05,718 --> 00:17:06,894 and we don't have the key. 387 00:17:08,635 --> 00:17:10,159 - I feel ridiculous that I need to put a lock 388 00:17:10,246 --> 00:17:13,292 in a Christian family's home to stop them 389 00:17:13,423 --> 00:17:17,208 from violating my privacy and Sharna from wanting 390 00:17:17,340 --> 00:17:19,646 to creep in in the middle of the night when I'm in bed. 391 00:17:19,776 --> 00:17:22,519 Yeah, I had the lock installed on my bedroom 392 00:17:22,649 --> 00:17:23,868 for security purposes 393 00:17:23,997 --> 00:17:26,088 because I can't trust the people I live with. 394 00:17:27,524 --> 00:17:29,613 - I think Bill has a lot of paranoia. 395 00:17:29,743 --> 00:17:32,833 The fact is, Shana's very uncomfortable 396 00:17:32,964 --> 00:17:37,099 with the way that he's insinuated feelings 397 00:17:37,229 --> 00:17:40,189 that she may have towards him. 398 00:17:40,276 --> 00:17:43,279 Bill's challenged me as man of the house 399 00:17:43,366 --> 00:17:46,369 and I do feel kind of a emasculated at this point. 400 00:17:46,456 --> 00:17:50,112 But I'm not gonna allow Bill to try to control my life. 401 00:18:11,959 --> 00:18:14,266 [slow music] 402 00:18:30,761 --> 00:18:33,242 After everything that's happened with me and Artie, 403 00:18:33,329 --> 00:18:35,679 I finally gained a little trust with her. 404 00:18:35,766 --> 00:18:37,681 Artie gave me a set of keys to her house 405 00:18:37,768 --> 00:18:40,858 'cause she see that I'm mainly focused on my family, 406 00:18:40,945 --> 00:18:43,643 my business, and building the trust with her. 407 00:18:44,818 --> 00:18:46,907 Keys might not seem like much, 408 00:18:47,038 --> 00:18:49,867 but the freedom to come and go as you please is amazing. 409 00:18:49,954 --> 00:18:51,999 They don't give you keys in prison. 410 00:18:52,086 --> 00:18:54,828 [paper crackling] 411 00:19:05,012 --> 00:19:07,189 [slow music] 412 00:19:12,716 --> 00:19:13,717 Damn. 413 00:19:13,847 --> 00:19:16,110 I missed my daughter's birthday. 414 00:19:16,241 --> 00:19:18,939 I got outta prison 10 days after her birthday. 415 00:19:19,026 --> 00:19:20,898 So now I'm sitting here wrapping these gifts, 416 00:19:20,985 --> 00:19:23,770 trying to let her know daddy ain't forget 417 00:19:23,901 --> 00:19:24,728 it was your birthday. 418 00:19:26,208 --> 00:19:28,166 Getting these divorce papers from Kelly 419 00:19:28,253 --> 00:19:29,820 was a big blow to me. 420 00:19:29,950 --> 00:19:32,170 Because of my criminal past, it might be harder for me 421 00:19:32,257 --> 00:19:33,824 to secure time with my daughter, 422 00:19:33,954 --> 00:19:35,869 especially if the legal system all up in my business. 423 00:19:37,567 --> 00:19:39,960 I don't wanna miss any more time from my daughter. 424 00:19:40,091 --> 00:19:43,355 I already lost plenty of time being in prison. 425 00:19:43,442 --> 00:19:45,227 And time is something you can't get back. 426 00:19:46,880 --> 00:19:48,099 Hey. - Hey Jovan. 427 00:19:48,230 --> 00:19:49,970 What's going on? - What's up, Artie? 428 00:19:50,057 --> 00:19:51,972 - Oh, I went and had lunch. 429 00:19:52,103 --> 00:19:54,018 I met with Kelly. 430 00:19:54,148 --> 00:19:56,194 - I didn't think she was gonna sit down and talk with you. 431 00:19:56,281 --> 00:19:58,109 - Well, she did, hon'ty. 432 00:19:58,240 --> 00:20:00,372 Had a nice little talk, you know. 433 00:20:01,678 --> 00:20:03,723 I want Jovan to be able to see his child. 434 00:20:03,810 --> 00:20:07,336 I want him to be able to spend quality time with his child 435 00:20:07,466 --> 00:20:09,860 and not be stressed out. 436 00:20:09,947 --> 00:20:11,122 'Cause if he's stressed out, 437 00:20:11,253 --> 00:20:13,298 the child's gonna see he's stressed out 438 00:20:13,385 --> 00:20:17,302 and he doesn't need that and neither does she. 439 00:20:17,389 --> 00:20:19,696 Well, one thing, she does want you 440 00:20:19,783 --> 00:20:22,220 to have a relationship with your daughter, Jovan. 441 00:20:22,307 --> 00:20:25,963 You know, it's just, it's gonna take time 442 00:20:26,050 --> 00:20:28,574 'cause nothing can make up for being gone, you know. 443 00:20:30,576 --> 00:20:32,317 I'm hoping that keeping Jovan involved 444 00:20:32,448 --> 00:20:35,494 with his daughter will keep him off the streets. 445 00:20:35,625 --> 00:20:39,498 And I'm hoping that it'll give him the motivation 446 00:20:39,629 --> 00:20:42,284 to get his life together and not go back to prison. 447 00:20:43,720 --> 00:20:45,983 But it's up to him to put in the work 448 00:20:46,070 --> 00:20:47,289 'cause I can't do that for him. 449 00:20:48,812 --> 00:20:50,727 - I'm her father so I'm equal as a parent 450 00:20:50,857 --> 00:20:51,945 so why I don't get equal rights? 451 00:20:52,032 --> 00:20:53,469 - She's just concerned. 452 00:20:53,556 --> 00:20:56,036 She just wants stability. 453 00:20:56,167 --> 00:21:01,520 I told her that my home is one of the safest places 454 00:21:01,651 --> 00:21:03,174 her child could be. 455 00:21:03,261 --> 00:21:04,654 So let's just do that for a while. 456 00:21:04,741 --> 00:21:06,308 - We can do that. - You know what I'm saying? 457 00:21:06,395 --> 00:21:09,311 Just no matter what, just keep on pushing. 458 00:21:12,009 --> 00:21:15,752 For me, the biggest thing in helping Jovan, 459 00:21:15,882 --> 00:21:18,494 I wanna see him succeed. 460 00:21:18,581 --> 00:21:20,800 It's like just giving someone a chance, you know. 461 00:21:21,758 --> 00:21:25,805 where maybe nobody else did or could. 462 00:21:25,892 --> 00:21:28,199 - I've been wrapping these up and they look kind of funny. 463 00:21:28,286 --> 00:21:29,983 - Yeah, you kind of butchered 'em. 464 00:21:30,114 --> 00:21:30,854 - Yeah. - But the kid 465 00:21:30,984 --> 00:21:32,203 just gonna tear it up anyway. 466 00:21:32,334 --> 00:21:32,986 But you know what- - But you think 467 00:21:33,073 --> 00:21:33,857 you could help me though? 468 00:21:33,944 --> 00:21:35,075 - Yeah, I think I will. 469 00:21:35,162 --> 00:21:36,250 Leave the paper there- - Okay. 470 00:21:36,381 --> 00:21:37,339 - I'll wrap 'em for you. 471 00:21:37,426 --> 00:21:38,296 - I appreciate it, Artie. 472 00:21:42,953 --> 00:21:44,346 [dramatic music] 473 00:21:46,391 --> 00:21:48,219 - I just can't stand her [beep] attitude. 474 00:21:49,873 --> 00:21:53,006 I knew it was gonna be issues even coming here with her. 475 00:21:53,093 --> 00:21:55,357 I tried to look past it 476 00:21:55,444 --> 00:21:59,230 but then I'm being treated as if I'm still 477 00:22:00,274 --> 00:22:01,711 the person I was before prison. 478 00:22:05,454 --> 00:22:06,890 - I was really good friends with Nick's dad. 479 00:22:06,977 --> 00:22:08,544 We used to go hunting together and stuff 480 00:22:08,631 --> 00:22:11,503 and I could see me and Nick being old men hunting together 481 00:22:11,590 --> 00:22:13,853 and doing projects at the farm and stuff. 482 00:22:15,377 --> 00:22:17,509 But I mean, I would never turn my back on my girlfriend. 483 00:22:19,685 --> 00:22:20,512 What's up? 484 00:22:20,643 --> 00:22:21,818 Packing your stuff? 485 00:22:22,253 --> 00:22:23,385 - [Nick] Mmm-hmm. 486 00:22:23,472 --> 00:22:26,126 - If you need any more time and stuff, 487 00:22:26,257 --> 00:22:27,998 I ain't kicking you out or nothing today. 488 00:22:28,085 --> 00:22:31,305 But I just wanna see you, wherever it is 489 00:22:31,393 --> 00:22:33,830 that you are going, keep yourself on the right path. 490 00:22:33,917 --> 00:22:35,658 You know. Don't fall back into that [beep]. 491 00:22:35,745 --> 00:22:37,007 Don't be running around with the riff raff. 492 00:22:37,094 --> 00:22:39,401 So I'm glad we could open the doors for you. 493 00:22:39,488 --> 00:22:41,490 I'd do it again in a heartbeat. 494 00:22:41,577 --> 00:22:44,014 I'm sorry that sometimes things are a little wonky 495 00:22:44,144 --> 00:22:45,276 between you and Sandra. 496 00:22:45,363 --> 00:22:46,843 I don't want you to be mad at her. 497 00:22:46,930 --> 00:22:49,323 I'm sorry that she upset you. 498 00:22:49,454 --> 00:22:52,065 But I still got your back and you always 499 00:22:52,152 --> 00:22:53,415 got a spot to crash here, man. 500 00:22:54,154 --> 00:22:55,417 You know. 501 00:22:56,722 --> 00:22:58,681 - Looking back on it, 502 00:22:58,768 --> 00:23:01,727 this was part of what was leading into my anxiety 503 00:23:01,814 --> 00:23:02,598 and [beep] that I was having. 504 00:23:02,685 --> 00:23:03,425 You know what I'm saying? 505 00:23:04,991 --> 00:23:06,558 We all do, it's human nature. 506 00:23:06,645 --> 00:23:09,431 So I'm glad we could help you out. 507 00:23:11,215 --> 00:23:12,477 At the end of the day, 508 00:23:12,564 --> 00:23:14,044 I wish it would've ended a little better, 509 00:23:14,131 --> 00:23:16,786 but still we provided him with what he needed. 510 00:23:17,961 --> 00:23:18,962 That's all we could do. 511 00:23:22,139 --> 00:23:23,096 - I don't think I could have done 512 00:23:23,183 --> 00:23:24,750 anything differently for Nick. 513 00:23:24,837 --> 00:23:26,404 We opened up our home to him, 514 00:23:26,535 --> 00:23:30,277 we gave him every opportunity to do what he needed to do. 515 00:23:31,931 --> 00:23:33,890 If you don't wanna stay sober and do it for yourself, 516 00:23:33,977 --> 00:23:35,152 then I don't give a [beep]. 517 00:23:36,545 --> 00:23:37,676 - Appreciate you for everything, dude. 518 00:23:37,763 --> 00:23:38,590 Love you, dude. - Appreciate you, man. 519 00:23:42,028 --> 00:23:42,942 - Relieved. 520 00:23:43,029 --> 00:23:45,815 [engine starting] 521 00:23:45,945 --> 00:23:47,120 I don't regret doing anything. 522 00:23:47,207 --> 00:23:48,295 I was planning on going my separate way 523 00:23:48,426 --> 00:23:49,862 as soon as I could anyways. 524 00:23:49,993 --> 00:23:52,256 This just kind of fast tracked things. 525 00:23:52,343 --> 00:23:54,345 We can all move on from here. 526 00:23:54,432 --> 00:23:57,130 I think it's just gonna be, it'll be a relief for everyone. 527 00:23:59,002 --> 00:24:00,177 - I don't need this anymore. 528 00:24:12,929 --> 00:24:15,192 [slow music] 529 00:24:28,031 --> 00:24:29,728 - [Henry] Hey. 530 00:24:29,815 --> 00:24:31,425 - I got the job at the auto parts place 531 00:24:31,513 --> 00:24:33,993 that I interviewed for a few weeks ago. 532 00:24:34,080 --> 00:24:36,648 But I've been doing well and I've been saving money. 533 00:24:36,735 --> 00:24:39,129 I finally saved up enough to get my own place 534 00:24:39,216 --> 00:24:42,436 and I'm moving out, thanks to Henry's support 535 00:24:42,567 --> 00:24:44,134 and helping me. 536 00:24:44,221 --> 00:24:46,136 Listen, I wanted to come to you say 537 00:24:46,223 --> 00:24:47,529 I appreciate you for everything. 538 00:24:47,659 --> 00:24:49,313 You've been my stepping stone. 539 00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:53,535 And I just wanna tell you, we done had our up and downs. 540 00:24:53,622 --> 00:24:55,798 Everything is going the way that I needed to go right now 541 00:24:55,928 --> 00:24:59,453 and I'm just happy that I took the initiative 542 00:24:59,541 --> 00:25:02,282 and the time to go back to Henry's 543 00:25:02,369 --> 00:25:05,547 and figure things out and now it's happening for me. 544 00:25:08,114 --> 00:25:09,942 You've been my role model since I known you. 545 00:25:10,029 --> 00:25:11,378 - Yeah. 546 00:25:11,465 --> 00:25:12,902 - You the reason why I'm where I am today. 547 00:25:14,425 --> 00:25:16,166 I was locked up when I was 17 so it was like, 548 00:25:16,253 --> 00:25:19,343 when I came home, I wanted to do everything 549 00:25:19,430 --> 00:25:21,650 that I couldn't do 'cause I missed. 550 00:25:21,737 --> 00:25:23,216 But now that I can do those things, 551 00:25:23,303 --> 00:25:25,044 it's like damn, that [beep] is boring. 552 00:25:25,131 --> 00:25:26,785 What is it, what is it doing for me? 553 00:25:26,872 --> 00:25:29,179 - I see that Darquavion has made some 554 00:25:29,266 --> 00:25:33,139 really difficult changes and I think he is going to succeed. 555 00:25:33,270 --> 00:25:34,967 And it's very exciting, isn't it? 556 00:25:35,054 --> 00:25:37,013 That all the hell that you went through 557 00:25:37,100 --> 00:25:40,016 and you're gonna turn out good in your life like you are. 558 00:25:40,103 --> 00:25:42,671 - Yeah, I got something to show you though. 559 00:25:42,801 --> 00:25:44,890 - Darquavion is having a chance to make his 560 00:25:44,977 --> 00:25:47,850 next changes into the successful life 561 00:25:47,980 --> 00:25:50,722 like most people want that he couldn't get to. 562 00:25:50,853 --> 00:25:51,897 But he can get to it now. 563 00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:56,293 - Well though, well, let me tell you my surprise. 564 00:25:56,380 --> 00:25:57,773 - You have a surprise? 565 00:25:57,903 --> 00:25:59,949 - Yeah, I do got one. - Okay. 566 00:26:02,516 --> 00:26:03,474 What is it? 567 00:26:04,606 --> 00:26:05,302 Oh. 568 00:26:09,915 --> 00:26:10,873 [dramatic music] 569 00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:11,830 - [Henry] You have a surprise? 570 00:26:11,917 --> 00:26:12,788 - Yeah, I do got one. 571 00:26:15,051 --> 00:26:15,747 - [Henry] Whoa. 572 00:26:17,488 --> 00:26:18,315 - [Darquavion] You know what that is right there? 573 00:26:19,751 --> 00:26:20,491 - I sort of recognize it, what is it? 574 00:26:21,927 --> 00:26:24,974 - Oh. - I got a child on the way. 575 00:26:25,104 --> 00:26:26,062 - You have a child on the way? 576 00:26:26,149 --> 00:26:28,107 - Yeah, my first child. - Cool. 577 00:26:28,194 --> 00:26:31,981 - [laughing] Right now I am definitely very excited, 578 00:26:32,068 --> 00:26:33,417 very happy. 579 00:26:33,504 --> 00:26:35,245 I can't wait to bring my child into this world 580 00:26:35,375 --> 00:26:39,162 and be a father that I never had to my child. 581 00:26:39,249 --> 00:26:40,772 It means so much to me. 582 00:26:40,859 --> 00:26:42,948 Even though my baby mama is crazy as hell, 583 00:26:43,035 --> 00:26:44,558 I mean crazy. 584 00:26:44,689 --> 00:26:47,039 But I love her and anything that come at me, 585 00:26:47,126 --> 00:26:48,562 I know how to maneuver through it 586 00:26:48,650 --> 00:26:50,739 and handle it to the best way that is possible. 587 00:26:50,826 --> 00:26:52,001 I see good things happening. 588 00:26:53,437 --> 00:26:55,004 That's for you though. 589 00:26:55,134 --> 00:26:57,267 So you can put it up on a refrigerator and keep it though. 590 00:26:57,354 --> 00:27:00,357 That's something very special to me though. 591 00:27:00,444 --> 00:27:03,186 - I didn't know anything about Darquavion 592 00:27:03,273 --> 00:27:05,667 now being in a serious relationship. 593 00:27:05,797 --> 00:27:07,799 But that doesn't really matter much 594 00:27:07,886 --> 00:27:11,107 because Darquavion is a remarkable person, 595 00:27:11,194 --> 00:27:13,283 he will be a remarkable father. 596 00:27:13,370 --> 00:27:15,807 I see great hope for Darquavion. 597 00:27:15,938 --> 00:27:18,201 I think he could turn out to do great things. 598 00:27:19,593 --> 00:27:21,465 - I'm in a place in my life right now 599 00:27:21,595 --> 00:27:23,510 where I'm at peace and I appreciate you very much. 600 00:27:23,597 --> 00:27:24,860 - Yeah. - You know, it's love. 601 00:27:24,990 --> 00:27:26,035 - Yeah. - And I'll see you soon. 602 00:27:26,122 --> 00:27:27,036 - All right. 603 00:27:28,428 --> 00:27:31,040 - When I saw how amazing Darquavion was, 604 00:27:31,127 --> 00:27:35,174 my goals from the beginning were to help him find his way 605 00:27:35,261 --> 00:27:37,916 to what it was that mattered for his future. 606 00:27:38,003 --> 00:27:39,178 Okay. - All right, thank you. 607 00:27:39,265 --> 00:27:40,484 - Very good. 608 00:27:40,571 --> 00:27:42,486 He doesn't need me as much anymore. 609 00:27:42,573 --> 00:27:43,835 He's moving on into adulthood 610 00:27:45,532 --> 00:27:48,405 and he's going to succeed at it in wonderful ways. 611 00:27:53,889 --> 00:27:56,630 - Me being here was a safety net. 612 00:27:56,761 --> 00:27:59,242 It was something for me to get on my feet. 613 00:28:01,810 --> 00:28:03,028 Ain't no telling what's gonna happen next. 614 00:28:03,115 --> 00:28:04,290 It's just the beginning. 615 00:28:04,377 --> 00:28:06,205 I've got a lot to look forward to. 616 00:28:09,600 --> 00:28:12,037 [mellow music] 617 00:28:15,127 --> 00:28:15,911 [door slamming] 618 00:28:19,653 --> 00:28:22,178 [door knocking] 619 00:28:22,265 --> 00:28:24,267 - I have a lot of mixed feelings about moving out 620 00:28:24,397 --> 00:28:25,790 and coming here to pack up. 621 00:28:25,877 --> 00:28:27,531 But in a way it's good because it'll be 622 00:28:27,618 --> 00:28:29,707 that much less stress, that much less drama. 623 00:28:29,794 --> 00:28:30,752 - So I see you got in. 624 00:28:32,449 --> 00:28:34,277 Yeah, you left the windows unlocked 625 00:28:35,669 --> 00:28:36,801 - I could put up with anything, 626 00:28:36,932 --> 00:28:38,542 having done so much time in prison, 627 00:28:38,629 --> 00:28:40,674 but this is kind of to a new level. 628 00:28:40,762 --> 00:28:42,589 It's kind of a relief that I can actually be somewhere 629 00:28:42,676 --> 00:28:44,287 where I could eat pepperoni. 630 00:28:44,374 --> 00:28:46,071 Why are you evicting me anyway? 631 00:28:47,507 --> 00:28:49,205 What's the real reason? 632 00:28:49,335 --> 00:28:52,817 - Bill, you know the ongoing problems with Sharna. 633 00:28:52,904 --> 00:28:55,907 And the big factor that drives that is you. 634 00:28:56,038 --> 00:28:58,257 - So why don't you make this easy and evict her? 635 00:29:00,390 --> 00:29:02,958 - Well, here's the problem, you couldn't lay off Sharna. 636 00:29:05,047 --> 00:29:07,832 - I asked you a thousand times to please check her 637 00:29:07,963 --> 00:29:10,008 for her nasty comments towards me. 638 00:29:10,095 --> 00:29:13,664 - I told you a red line in the sand is you continuing 639 00:29:13,751 --> 00:29:14,926 to harass her. 640 00:29:15,013 --> 00:29:16,275 - [Bill] Nobody harassed her. 641 00:29:17,755 --> 00:29:19,235 - [Mark] You're way too worried about her, Bill. 642 00:29:19,322 --> 00:29:20,105 - [Bill] I'm not worried about her. 643 00:29:20,236 --> 00:29:21,324 I worry about you. 644 00:29:23,152 --> 00:29:24,544 Why don't you worry about yourself? 645 00:29:24,631 --> 00:29:25,850 - I am. 646 00:29:25,981 --> 00:29:28,070 To have Bill disrespect my wife like that 647 00:29:28,157 --> 00:29:30,028 is definitely not cool. 648 00:29:30,115 --> 00:29:34,685 I have to put my wife and our sanity before Bill. 649 00:29:36,426 --> 00:29:40,473 We need to bring peace into our house and reclaim our lives. 650 00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:45,304 Unfortunately, time has come to end this. 651 00:29:48,046 --> 00:29:49,265 - A good friend of mine is gonna let me live 652 00:29:49,395 --> 00:29:51,702 with him while I get on my feet going forward 653 00:29:51,789 --> 00:29:53,835 and while I look for a place to live permanently. 654 00:29:55,271 --> 00:29:56,272 Am I hurt? 655 00:29:56,359 --> 00:29:57,795 Sure. 656 00:29:57,882 --> 00:29:59,231 Am I disappointed? 657 00:29:59,318 --> 00:30:00,102 Am I upset? 658 00:30:00,189 --> 00:30:01,146 Am I angry? 659 00:30:01,233 --> 00:30:02,060 A little bit. 660 00:30:02,147 --> 00:30:03,453 But it is what it is. 661 00:30:03,583 --> 00:30:06,369 I have to live my life, let them live theirs, 662 00:30:06,456 --> 00:30:08,632 go about my business, put them in the rearview mirror 663 00:30:08,719 --> 00:30:10,025 'cause I know where I'm going. 664 00:30:11,896 --> 00:30:15,204 I know I'm leaving behind a good environment physically, 665 00:30:16,901 --> 00:30:18,990 but emotionally and mentally, it was killing me. 666 00:30:21,166 --> 00:30:23,125 I think that's about it. 667 00:30:23,255 --> 00:30:27,172 - The most difficult thing about seeing Bill go is 668 00:30:27,259 --> 00:30:29,348 that I'm unsure of his future. 669 00:30:29,435 --> 00:30:31,481 He could fall through the cracks. 670 00:30:31,568 --> 00:30:33,178 He could end up somewhere else where he'd have 671 00:30:33,265 --> 00:30:36,703 much more temptation for the things out in the world 672 00:30:36,834 --> 00:30:39,010 that can get him in trouble. 673 00:30:40,446 --> 00:30:42,231 - Sorry things turned out the way they did. 674 00:30:42,361 --> 00:30:43,188 No hugs. 675 00:30:43,275 --> 00:30:44,537 Hugs are for brothers. 676 00:30:44,624 --> 00:30:45,364 I don't know if we're brothers anymore. 677 00:30:45,451 --> 00:30:49,716 But anyway, I gotta get going 678 00:30:49,847 --> 00:30:52,894 'cause I gotta go get this stuff put in a friend's house. 679 00:30:53,938 --> 00:30:55,418 Take care, man. 680 00:30:55,548 --> 00:30:57,072 - All right, Bill. - Anything else? 681 00:30:59,248 --> 00:31:01,903 - I just hope that time and space 682 00:31:03,730 --> 00:31:05,994 could make things better [crying]. 683 00:31:06,124 --> 00:31:07,082 - [Bill] Yeah. 684 00:31:09,214 --> 00:31:14,132 - Sorry we failed you. 685 00:31:14,219 --> 00:31:16,178 - Sorry about it, man. 686 00:31:16,308 --> 00:31:17,222 Sorry man. 687 00:31:20,269 --> 00:31:22,662 - I know we all three had our times 688 00:31:22,749 --> 00:31:27,102 where we fell short and I believe in taking responsibility 689 00:31:27,189 --> 00:31:28,842 for my part. 690 00:31:28,930 --> 00:31:32,759 I know Sharna's struggled with the times that she was... 691 00:31:32,846 --> 00:31:34,674 that she could have done better 692 00:31:34,761 --> 00:31:38,940 and we've all had our times where we could've done better. 693 00:31:40,202 --> 00:31:41,855 All right. - All right. 694 00:31:41,943 --> 00:31:43,466 Take care of yourself. - All right. 695 00:31:46,164 --> 00:31:48,819 It's too bad that it had to end like this. 696 00:31:50,168 --> 00:31:53,345 [engine firing] 697 00:31:53,476 --> 00:31:56,305 - For me, a thing that I felt the most was 698 00:31:56,392 --> 00:31:58,742 that I felt very betrayed because Bill had made 699 00:31:58,872 --> 00:32:01,963 all of these promises the months before he got out 700 00:32:02,050 --> 00:32:04,139 and he didn't do any of it. 701 00:32:04,226 --> 00:32:07,751 Instead, he turned on us and he harassed us, 702 00:32:07,838 --> 00:32:09,318 he accused us of things. 703 00:32:10,928 --> 00:32:14,323 It was just a time that I'm never gonna forget, 704 00:32:14,410 --> 00:32:17,282 but I would like to forget and wish it never had happened. 705 00:32:27,597 --> 00:32:28,641 [mellow music] 706 00:32:45,441 --> 00:32:47,443 - Things are going really good. 707 00:32:47,573 --> 00:32:50,315 I've been working for a company that rehabs 708 00:32:50,402 --> 00:32:51,621 and renovates houses. 709 00:32:51,751 --> 00:32:53,144 I'm stacking money. 710 00:32:53,231 --> 00:32:55,277 I got a stable place to stay. 711 00:32:55,364 --> 00:32:59,368 And I'm right on schedule to buy my first property to flip. 712 00:33:03,328 --> 00:33:05,896 Living at Kyle and Sandra's reminded me of being in prison. 713 00:33:05,983 --> 00:33:09,378 But even though it was a rocky start, 714 00:33:09,465 --> 00:33:11,641 I have a whole life ahead of me and things are headed 715 00:33:11,771 --> 00:33:12,859 in the right direction. 716 00:33:12,990 --> 00:33:15,297 It takes time to get there. 717 00:33:15,384 --> 00:33:18,343 There's a lot of time in there to make the wrong decision, 718 00:33:18,430 --> 00:33:19,692 start sliding backwards. 719 00:33:23,435 --> 00:33:25,916 - Yeah, I might be a little tired and stressed, 720 00:33:27,396 --> 00:33:29,702 maybe drinking a little more than I should, 721 00:33:29,833 --> 00:33:34,490 but at least I'm not hooked on pills and doing heroin. 722 00:33:34,577 --> 00:33:35,752 I don't know. 723 00:33:39,147 --> 00:33:41,192 I know that, I'm sorry. 724 00:33:42,933 --> 00:33:43,890 Let's see. 725 00:33:50,114 --> 00:33:52,769 [dramatic music] 726 00:34:13,224 --> 00:34:15,487 - You ready to see your new home, Nicholas? 727 00:34:15,574 --> 00:34:16,880 - Looking back on it, 728 00:34:16,967 --> 00:34:18,708 it probably wasn't the healthiest environment 729 00:34:18,838 --> 00:34:20,797 for me to move into coming fresh out of prison. 730 00:34:20,884 --> 00:34:22,929 There's just a lot of partying. 731 00:34:23,016 --> 00:34:25,758 [people cheering] 732 00:34:28,021 --> 00:34:29,806 I felt susceptible too pretty quickly. 733 00:34:31,373 --> 00:34:32,590 Things are going great. 734 00:34:32,678 --> 00:34:35,376 I'm sober, I have a great job. 735 00:34:35,507 --> 00:34:38,293 It's giving me the opportunity to follow my dreams. 736 00:34:38,380 --> 00:34:41,425 I'm excited to see what the future holds in this new life 737 00:34:41,512 --> 00:34:43,124 and I couldn't be any more grateful. 738 00:34:44,603 --> 00:34:46,474 [dramatic music] 739 00:34:52,001 --> 00:34:53,264 - It's going good. 740 00:34:53,351 --> 00:34:55,527 I'm back in my parents' house and trying 741 00:34:55,614 --> 00:34:59,140 to get readjusted and comfortable with everything. 742 00:34:59,227 --> 00:35:01,098 I'm going through a box of stuff right now 743 00:35:01,185 --> 00:35:03,274 and some of it belongs to my sister 744 00:35:03,405 --> 00:35:05,668 and it's definitely stirring up old memories. 745 00:35:07,713 --> 00:35:10,977 Tiffane kicking me out actually turned out to be a blessing. 746 00:35:11,064 --> 00:35:13,241 I was so afraid to come back home, 747 00:35:13,328 --> 00:35:16,505 but it had nothing to do with being independent. 748 00:35:18,028 --> 00:35:21,771 It was the fact that I didn't wanna deal 749 00:35:21,858 --> 00:35:25,078 with all the pain I had wrapped up with losing my sister. 750 00:35:25,166 --> 00:35:32,869 This is me and my twin sister, my brother, and his kids. 751 00:35:34,175 --> 00:35:36,307 It's gonna be a long road until I dig up everything 752 00:35:36,438 --> 00:35:39,310 I had buried for so long and I just miss her so much. 753 00:35:41,443 --> 00:35:44,141 Coming out of a situation like being in prison, 754 00:35:44,272 --> 00:35:45,577 not knowing what's next 755 00:35:45,708 --> 00:35:47,623 is probably the scariest thing ever. 756 00:35:47,710 --> 00:35:49,886 And if you don't have those support systems, 757 00:35:50,016 --> 00:35:51,931 your risk of recidivism is high. 758 00:35:52,062 --> 00:35:54,064 I work a lot. 759 00:35:54,151 --> 00:35:57,110 I work two jobs, which keeps me busy within them self. 760 00:35:57,241 --> 00:35:58,851 I go to therapy. 761 00:35:58,938 --> 00:36:01,593 I'm definitely just making changes. 762 00:36:01,724 --> 00:36:04,683 Tiffane was really a lifesaver for me 763 00:36:04,770 --> 00:36:06,555 for taking me in from prison. 764 00:36:06,642 --> 00:36:08,905 I may not have acted like it but I am grateful for it. 765 00:36:08,992 --> 00:36:10,907 She's definitely a real one for that. 766 00:36:10,994 --> 00:36:12,256 I'm actually at peace. 767 00:36:12,343 --> 00:36:14,519 I'm not hurting anymore. 768 00:36:14,606 --> 00:36:16,739 I'm healing and I'm happy about that. 769 00:36:17,914 --> 00:36:20,003 I'm genuinely happy about that. 770 00:36:20,090 --> 00:36:22,571 [mellow music] 771 00:36:28,707 --> 00:36:32,058 - My living situation right now is I have my own place. 772 00:36:33,059 --> 00:36:34,583 My baby mama stays with me. 773 00:36:34,713 --> 00:36:36,498 We have a child on the way. 774 00:36:36,628 --> 00:36:39,240 I just found out the news, I'm having a boy. 775 00:36:43,113 --> 00:36:45,681 ♪ Darquavion came one day ♪ 776 00:36:45,811 --> 00:36:48,553 ♪ Came to live in the place where I stay ♪ 777 00:36:48,640 --> 00:36:49,946 - The relationship I have with Henry is 778 00:36:50,076 --> 00:36:51,339 still like father, like son. 779 00:36:51,469 --> 00:36:53,993 But he's been one of my biggest supporters 780 00:36:54,124 --> 00:36:56,431 through this whole journey and trial. 781 00:36:57,823 --> 00:36:59,390 Regardless of the ups and down we had, 782 00:36:59,521 --> 00:37:02,263 he's still gonna always be a hero in my book. 783 00:37:03,786 --> 00:37:07,137 I gained a lot over the last couple months. 784 00:37:07,224 --> 00:37:09,052 I really don't have all the answers right now though. 785 00:37:09,182 --> 00:37:10,923 But all I know is I'm moving forward though 786 00:37:11,010 --> 00:37:12,969 and I don't put on looking back at all. 787 00:37:13,056 --> 00:37:13,926 I made it. 788 00:37:14,057 --> 00:37:15,188 I came this far, you know. 789 00:37:15,276 --> 00:37:16,581 Wouldn't dare [beep] up now. 790 00:37:18,496 --> 00:37:20,933 [mellow music] 791 00:37:23,632 --> 00:37:24,981 - Well, here I am in the new house. 792 00:37:25,068 --> 00:37:26,461 Just got a new house with Mary. 793 00:37:26,591 --> 00:37:28,289 Wanna give you a tour of it. 794 00:37:28,419 --> 00:37:30,769 Since I moved out of Mark and Sharna's, life has been great. 795 00:37:30,856 --> 00:37:33,729 Mary has now moved to Indiana with me 796 00:37:33,816 --> 00:37:35,470 and we have own place together. 797 00:37:35,557 --> 00:37:37,210 Watch this. 798 00:37:37,298 --> 00:37:40,997 I can now wipe my butt without it being documented by Mark. 799 00:37:41,084 --> 00:37:42,433 I have all the food I want. 800 00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:43,478 I have my own ice. 801 00:37:45,393 --> 00:37:46,263 It's wonderful. 802 00:37:46,350 --> 00:37:47,612 Life is good. 803 00:37:47,699 --> 00:37:48,613 Guess what I have? 804 00:37:48,744 --> 00:37:50,180 I have smoked ham. 805 00:37:50,267 --> 00:37:51,399 You see the ham? 806 00:37:51,529 --> 00:37:52,748 I'm very happy. 807 00:37:52,878 --> 00:37:55,533 Our wedding plans are as soon as we can afford it 808 00:37:55,620 --> 00:37:58,797 and decide where we wanna go, we're gonna get married. 809 00:37:58,884 --> 00:38:02,540 Say hello to my new Cadillac. 810 00:38:02,671 --> 00:38:04,934 Beautiful Cadillac, as you can see. 811 00:38:05,021 --> 00:38:06,675 I put my criminal life behind me. 812 00:38:06,762 --> 00:38:08,851 I'm writing books now about people I've met along the way, 813 00:38:08,938 --> 00:38:12,202 about criminal justice reform, crime victim advocacy. 814 00:38:12,289 --> 00:38:13,682 I've never been happier in my life. 815 00:38:13,812 --> 00:38:15,597 I'm so thrilled that I'm in love 816 00:38:15,684 --> 00:38:17,947 and I have a woman who accepts me unconditionally. 817 00:38:18,077 --> 00:38:20,297 I'm grateful for the initial offer and willingness 818 00:38:20,384 --> 00:38:23,474 to take me in, get on my feet post-incarceration, 819 00:38:23,561 --> 00:38:25,346 not be a victim of recidivism, 820 00:38:25,433 --> 00:38:27,173 like so many people back and forth to prison. 821 00:38:27,260 --> 00:38:28,784 I pray for Mark and Sharna. 822 00:38:28,914 --> 00:38:31,264 I hope they learn to treat people a little better. 823 00:38:31,352 --> 00:38:33,658 I'm open to wherever the future lies. 824 00:38:33,745 --> 00:38:36,269 Every day of this challenge and this things I'm learning 825 00:38:36,400 --> 00:38:38,359 is better than one more day in prison 826 00:38:38,446 --> 00:38:41,057 or the prison of Mark and Sharna's house. 827 00:38:41,144 --> 00:38:42,363 I have nobody ridiculing me. 828 00:38:42,450 --> 00:38:45,104 I have nothing but love and support now 829 00:38:45,235 --> 00:38:48,586 in a very, very peaceful household. 830 00:38:48,673 --> 00:38:49,370 God bless. 831 00:38:51,415 --> 00:38:53,722 [tense music] 832 00:38:59,554 --> 00:39:01,251 - You gotta take your good with the bad. 833 00:39:01,338 --> 00:39:05,516 Everything is not gonna be just so good all the time. 834 00:39:05,603 --> 00:39:08,345 You know, you gotta be prepared for that. 835 00:39:08,476 --> 00:39:10,391 I was at the point one time where I was ready 836 00:39:10,521 --> 00:39:12,175 just to say [beep] everything. 837 00:39:12,305 --> 00:39:15,004 I'm just about to just go out here and do me. 838 00:39:15,134 --> 00:39:19,400 But the new logic of me thinking was like, wait a minute. 839 00:39:19,530 --> 00:39:22,141 If you wanna stay free, you gonna have to find something 840 00:39:22,228 --> 00:39:24,622 that's gonna keep you outta trouble. 841 00:39:24,709 --> 00:39:27,973 Right now, my cleaning business, I just got it going. 842 00:39:28,104 --> 00:39:29,758 I'm starting to make a little cash flow. 843 00:39:31,324 --> 00:39:33,152 - I got you this. 844 00:39:33,239 --> 00:39:34,806 - Whoa. 845 00:39:34,893 --> 00:39:38,244 - Well, the back fell off cause it got warm but- 846 00:39:38,331 --> 00:39:39,681 - Oh [beep]. 847 00:39:39,768 --> 00:39:41,770 Oh man, I gotta give you a hug for that. 848 00:39:43,598 --> 00:39:45,600 I'm very grateful that Artie ain't give up on me 849 00:39:45,687 --> 00:39:47,079 or kick me out. 850 00:39:47,166 --> 00:39:47,906 You know what I'm saying? 851 00:39:48,037 --> 00:39:49,734 'Cause like I said, 852 00:39:49,865 --> 00:39:50,866 that could've triggered me to doing something stupid, 853 00:39:50,953 --> 00:39:52,650 like going back to selling drugs. 854 00:39:52,737 --> 00:39:55,740 And that's my best friend. 855 00:39:55,871 --> 00:39:57,960 When I ain't have nowhere to go, she was there for me. 856 00:39:58,047 --> 00:40:01,703 So she's always gonna be forever in my heart 857 00:40:01,833 --> 00:40:05,141 and part of my, whatever I'm doing, she there. 858 00:40:05,271 --> 00:40:06,969 That's my homie right there. 859 00:40:07,056 --> 00:40:08,927 Look at that lady's hair in the wind. 860 00:40:09,058 --> 00:40:10,320 Geez. - My hair's done. 861 00:40:16,848 --> 00:40:18,850 I'm finally starting to spend a lot of more time 862 00:40:18,937 --> 00:40:20,635 with my daughter, Kaylana. 863 00:40:20,765 --> 00:40:23,376 Getting divorced papers from Kelly was a big blow to me. 864 00:40:23,464 --> 00:40:27,076 But now me and Kelly are having a open communication now. 865 00:40:27,163 --> 00:40:29,208 We actually set a schedule for when I'll be able 866 00:40:29,295 --> 00:40:30,601 to come get Kaylana. 867 00:40:30,732 --> 00:40:33,082 She see that I'm not the same person that I was 868 00:40:33,169 --> 00:40:34,692 before I got locked up. 869 00:40:34,779 --> 00:40:36,520 Everything worked out the way it was supposed to. 870 00:40:36,607 --> 00:40:40,176 I'm here now talking to y'all, ain't got no worries. 871 00:40:40,306 --> 00:40:42,744 Me and my baby having fun, y'all. 872 00:40:42,831 --> 00:40:45,921 It's been a hell of a journey, but hey, 873 00:40:46,051 --> 00:40:48,401 if you really wanna be in your child's life, 874 00:40:48,489 --> 00:40:49,794 stick with it, man. 875 00:40:49,881 --> 00:40:51,274 I'm proof right here. 876 00:40:51,361 --> 00:40:53,189 The streets ain't your friend. 877 00:40:53,276 --> 00:40:54,843 It's for nobody, trust me. 878 00:40:54,973 --> 00:40:56,366 I've been there and done that. 879 00:40:56,497 --> 00:40:57,367 Peace.