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-[man 1] All happy?
-[man 2] Yeah, I'm happy.
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[man 1] Marking one camera.
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So, we're good?
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[woman] Let me tell you about
the worst Tinder date
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I've ever been on.
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I've been on
some pretty bad dates.
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I went out with a Scottish girl
once.
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I couldn't understand a word
she was saying.
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I had another date
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where the girl attempted to
steal drinks from the bar.
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That ended the date early.
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I've got a little message
I got the other day.
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"I would rip out
my left nipple piercing
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to have you choke me
with those God-gifted arms."
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[man laughs]
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Had a girl one night
just refuse to go home.
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When I went to get in my car
later that night,
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she'd been hiding in my car.
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I once met a guy off Tinder
who came home with me.
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He was lovely.
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We started making out in bed
by watching David Attenborough.
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And then he shat himself.
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Uh, so that was really
interesting.
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And then he left and asked me
for my number, so...
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It's carnage out there.
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I hate the apps,
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but I also can only meet
the love of my life on the apps.
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[narrator] How long
have you been on the apps?
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How many hours have you spent
scrolling and swiping?
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How many bad first dates
have you been on?
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How much hope do you have left?
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♪ Light is fading... ♪
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[man] Sometimes I can be quite
low on self-confidence,
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especially when it comes to
my looks.
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And on dating apps,
looks is, like, everything.
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[woman] I don't fit
that Instagram mould.
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I don't have a tan.
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I don't pose in certain ways.
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[narrator] What if you were
brave enough
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to try something new?
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This season on Love Triangle,
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six new singles
are looking for love
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between two matches
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without any idea
what they look like.
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[woman] There's a massive
part of me
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that's super anxious
about texting
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without knowing what they look
like, what I look like.
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But I think it's also freeing.
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[incoming text tone]
Oh, here we go.
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Okay, I'm in. I'm in.
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[narrator] They have
three days
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to get to know their matches
over the phone.
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[woman] So, we have Sam.
Then we have Jackson.
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[man] I feel like
she's a lot more flirty
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and naughtier and cheekier.
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Wow.
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[narrator] They're looking for
an authentic spark
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based on a real connection
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without looks
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or superficial snap judgments
clouding their decision.
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I can feel my cheeks
getting a little red.
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Each one will take a gamble
on who they'd like to meet
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on the biggest blind date
of their lives.
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First impressions are very good.
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[narrator] But will flames
sparked on the phone
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blaze in real life?
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[woman] Oh, there's
definitely chemistry.
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[narrator] Or go cold?
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[woman] To say I was
swept off my feet would be
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an absolute lie.
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[narrator] Either way,
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once they've made their choice,
they'll have to live with it...
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-Welcome home.
-...literally.
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I'm moving in with a guy that
I've had one date with.
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As they enter
a six week experience...
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It's crazy how close I feel
with him already.
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You haven't apologised for
everything you put me through!
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I don't want to be around you
anymore.
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...living together
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and confronting everything
they thought they knew
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about dating
and relationships...
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Quiet.
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It's called Love Triangle
for a reason. Is it not?
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[intercom rings]
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-Oh, my god!
-Hello there.
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...before the rejected match
enters the experience...
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Oh, hi.
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...and the love triangle
is complete.
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-Hey, [inaudible speech]
-Oh, my god.
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[incoming text tone]
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But if you think you know where
this experience is going...
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Oh, my gosh.
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This is so, so wild.
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...you have no idea.
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What the fuck?
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-That's full on.
-Oh, wow.
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I just need a moment. Wow.
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[man] Maybe this experience
isn't for me. I'm angry.
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[narrator] It won't be easy.
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Packed his bags.
He ordered an Uber and left.
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[woman sighs]
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It won't always be pretty.
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I never fucken tried to
break up with you.
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That's disgusting.
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Fine, bitch!
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[woman 1] He has been
putting on an act.
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[woman 2] He's full of shit.
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[woman 3] I'm out.
I am literally out.
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But it just might be worth it.
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[man] I'm falling for you.
I love you.
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[woman] I've given all of me
to you.
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This love is real.
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[director] Alright. Sammy,
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do you want to find your
position in there?
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-[Sam] Yeah.
-[cameraman] Yep. Rolling.
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[man] OK.
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-[director] So, Sam?
-Mmm?
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-This is your phone.
-Mm-hm.
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-Your password.
-Yep.
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-Two, three, six, five.
-Done.
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-This the app--
-Yep.
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you're going to use
to text them.
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-Okay.
-Ready?
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Yeah.
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[narrator] Across Australia,
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the first three singles
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are about to enter
the Love Triangle experience.
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[director] So, do you know
how this works?
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[Sam] Vaguely, yeah.
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I'm going to be texting
two girls simultaneously,
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and ideally, I could
fall in love with one of them.
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[narrator] They've each got
two matches,
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but they have no idea
what they look like
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and they're not allowed to ask.
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Richard and Daniel.
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Richard is like
a hot substitute teacher name.
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And Daniel is like,
Daniel's nice.
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For three days they can text
and call each other,
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looking for a spark that might
change their lives.
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Let's just...
[woman inhales deeply]
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Woosa.
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Okay. Let's, let's begin.
[woman chuckles]
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It's a little bit strange
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when I have no idea what
they look like, who they are.
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I don't know
anything about them.
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So we're about to find out.
[woman chuckles]
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Okay. I'm in. I'm in.
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My name's Jacinta.
I'm twenty-eight.
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I'm a model.
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Melbourne born and bred.
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Yep.
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Okay.
[Jacinta clears her throat]
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My sexuality is pansexual.
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Pansexuality is
being attracted to someone
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regardless of their gender.
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I don't care whether you're
a man, a woman, non-binary,
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trans, I don't care.
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If our energy aligns,
if we have that connection,
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that's what I'm into.
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That's what turns me on.
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I just want to find love.
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I don't have a love life at all.
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I don't remember the last time
I was in a real relationship.
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But it would have had to be
maybe four or five years ago.
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I tried the dating apps.
I really did.
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I swiped left.
I've swiped right.
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But it hasn't gotten me
anywhere.
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Most hetero men on dating apps
have toxic traits.
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I definitely find it a lot
smoother dating women
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or anyone in the queer world,
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but always dating within
the same circle limits you.
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Turn ons for me would be someone
who can
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express their masculine
and feminine energy,
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that gets me going.
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Like, that's what I want.
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Ready to text my matches.
[Jacinta giggles]
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The first name is Sheree.
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I hope I'm
saying their name right.
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And the second person is Nemo!
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I don't want to categorise them
based off their names.
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What may seem like a boy name.
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What may seem like a girl name.
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Like, I don't think names
identify genders.
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[narrator] In order to keep her
own gender ambiguous,
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Jacinta has chosen to
go by the name Jay.
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She's been matched with Sheree,
a twenty-eight year old
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from Sydney who works in tech,
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and Nemo,
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a twenty-four year old bartender
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from Brisbane.
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Now it's up to Jay to
make the first move.
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Alright, I have
the perfect question.
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[texting sounds]
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-Would you rather...
-[outgoing text sound]
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power or respect?
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No answer is wrong.
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-[typing text alert tone]
-Ooh! Three dots.
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Let's see what Nemo said.
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[incoming text sound]
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Um.
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Okay.
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[outgoing text sound]
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I never thought about it
from that perspective.
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[texting sounds]
[outgoing text sound]
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[incoming text sound]
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Ooh! Okay. Nemo, that's cool.
[texting sounds]
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[outgoing text sound]
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[incoming text sound]
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[Nemo] I do think that
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I have a unique skill set
at connecting with people.
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What I love about deejaying
is making people happy,
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pushing that energy out
to the crowd.
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Whereas bartending
gets a bit more intimate.
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I want to know who you are,
who have you loved,
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who have you lost?
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Like, these things to me are
like worth their weight in gold.
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I get a lot of attention
at the bar,
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but I don't act on much of it.
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So, I have dated
some party girls
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and some wild girls,
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but I'm getting to this point
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where I want something
substantial and real.
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Kind of old fashioned
in the way I love.
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I want to come home after, like,
a long shift
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and know someone's in bed
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and just, like, cuddle
and go to sleep.
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[incoming text sound]
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I don't know, I'm really
an old romantic at heart.
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[Jacinta sighs]
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Nemo is giving me
very traditional hetero vibes.
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As in a straight man.
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[texting sounds]
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I'm thinking about asking
a question.
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[outgoing text sound]
[texting sounds]
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That will open
up a conversation.
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[outgoing text sound]
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Maybe that will continue on
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to asking me about my sexuality
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without throwing it
straight onto them.
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I don't know.
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It's something that's a big part
of me in my life and who I am.
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And it's important that
they accept who I am
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because we're not going to have
a connection if they can't.
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[typing text alert tone]
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[incoming text sound]
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Okay.
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[texting sounds]
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[outgoing text sound]
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[typing text alert tone]
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[incoming text sound]
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[Jacinta exhales]
Okay.
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[Jacinta sighs]
Okay then.
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Kind of just tells me
exactly what I need to know.
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[incoming text sound]
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Finally.
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Ah, Sheree's just replied to me.
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[incoming text sound]
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[incoming text sound]
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Oh my god! Okay. I love that.
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That's such a good answer.
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[Jacinta chuckles]
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Okay. That's definitely, like,
got me.
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[texting sounds]
[outgoing text sound]
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[incoming text sound]
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[woman] I would describe my
approach to life as, like,
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unscripted and chaotic.
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My personality is
like fine glitter gold dust.
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Like that stuff that just
gets everywhere
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and you see it for weeks to come
and you remember, "Oh, yeah.
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Like, she was really funny,"
or "She was really cool."
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My taste in men is definitely
a lot pickier
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than my taste in women.
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Men, I have almost like
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a checklist
of physical attributes.
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Whereas women,
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it's more like the vibe and body
or shape or type.
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-But...
-[incoming text sound]
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the quality that I find sexiest
is high emotional intelligence.
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Oh! I think Sheree is just
like, taken my heart.
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She's, eh, Sheree has just said
the one thing that
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is like my biggest turn on
[Jacinta chuckles]
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which is emotional intelligence.
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Like, that is so sexy to me.
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[texting sounds]
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You've just made my heart
skip a beat.
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[outgoing text sound]
[texting sounds]
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[outgoing text sound]
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[incoming text sound]
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[Jacinta] Okay.
Sheree is, like, super witty.
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-[incoming text sound]
-And funny and playful,
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and can be serious
and flirty,
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and everything in between.
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Like, it's like kind of
too good to be true.
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[texting sounds]
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Like, I'm like,
am I talking to a bot?
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-[outgoing text sound]
-Or is this a real person?
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Because they're just ticking
all my boxes right now.
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[incoming text sound]
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[producer] Sam,
introduce yourself.
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This is all going to be chopped
up, right?
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It's not gonna have to be
like big monologue or is it?
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My name's Sam. I'm thirty-five.
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I own a auto parts business,
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and I'm from Broome,
Western Australia.
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Listen,
I'm thirty-five years old.
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In forty-five years
I'll be dead.
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In twenty years
I'll be irrelevant.
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So, like, enjoy the finer things
while you can really enjoy them,
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I guess.
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It's a good swing there, boys.
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It's not a steady dating market
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around a seasonal town
like Broome.
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We are extremely remote.
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These days
Instagram is a very,
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very powerful little tool.
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I'd say that's one of my fortes
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if you want to
talk about it as a skillset.
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Being on Instagram,
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you can't keep yourself
just to your local market.
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You've got your international
market, your national market.
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So, I have flown girls
into Broome before.
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Extremely.
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I've been brought up around
a certain calibre of women.
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My ideal type might be
a little brunette,
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somewhere south of five nine.
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I'm only five nine myself, so...
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Age range, mid to late twenties.
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Girls that are younger than me,
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ah, is something that's
just come naturally to me.
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But, effectively we're here
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because my choices haven't
really worked out in the past.
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We're here to try
yet another avenue, alright,
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because we are looking
for the Holy Grail,
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and there's only one.
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I am after the real thing.
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I'm after something sustainable.
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I'm after something
conventional.
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[narrator]
Looking to shake things up,
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Sam has been matched
with Emily,
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a personal trainer from Sydney,
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and Sophie,
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a mental health professional
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from the Gold Coast.
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[Sam] I like to play coy
when I text. Okay?
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I like to come in very,
very understated. Okay?
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So, I generally start with
like, a hello.
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I mean
there's no other sort of...
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We don't really have
any other in here.
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We know nothing about them
other than their name.
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I'm not going to come in
with a quip or a joke.
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Alright? I've got class in this.
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[texting sounds]
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[outgoing text sound]
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Oh yeah, jeez, we got some
action immediately.
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[incoming text sound]
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Emily's like,
straight out of the blocks here.
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[incoming text sound]
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[incoming text sound]
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-[incoming text sound]
-Oh shit. Okay. So we've got...
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-[incoming text sound]
-Five messages.
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Em's, ah,
Em's hitting it with pace.
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It's how she likes to do things
apparently.
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[texting sounds]
[outgoing text sound]
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[incoming text sound]
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So she's got ambition,
which is appreciated.
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[incoming text sound]
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[Emily] I am a personal trainer
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and I live in Bondi, in Sydney,
New South Wales, Australia.
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The love affair with fitness
I think
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started about ten years ago.
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I'm definitely where
I want to be now.
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I feel strong and I feel ready
to take on the next chapter.
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Now is the time.
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I'm ready to share my life
with someone,
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and I'm ready to feel loved,
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and give love back to someone
that deserves it.
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And I think it's time.
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[incoming text sound]
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I am 36. I don't have any more
time to waste.
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[Sam] Ooh!
So Emily is 36.
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Ahh, that's, you know,
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the first domino to fall,
really.
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That's interesting.
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I've dated everything up until
my own age before, really.
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There's a few more Ks
in the older models, alright?
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So like, they've been around
the block.
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Obviously, she's probably gonna
have a little bit more mileage.
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-[incoming text sound]
-Okay, here we go.
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We got a new message, finally.
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-Sophie.
-[incoming text sound]
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Alright. Nice.
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-Ahh...
-[texting sounds]
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It's rude to ask a girl her age.
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-[outgoing text sound]
-I went to.
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And then I said I'm not going to
ask your age.
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[Sam chuckles]
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[incoming text sound]
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Twenty-six or twenty-seven
would be ideal.
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[incoming text sound]
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And Sophie is 26.
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Mmm. We like this, Soph.
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Sophie is probably the ideal one
here so far.
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I mean, Emily is a bit older
than Sophie.
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I am obviously
going to be...
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drawn to
the twenty-six year old.
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[incoming text sound]
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It's 100% a green flag.
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[texting sounds]
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Think we're off to the races.
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[outgoing text sound]
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[woman] My friends would
describe me as fun,
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caring, and a little bit crazy.
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My spare time consists of beach,
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hanging out with my dog,
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partying every weekend.
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That is about it.
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I've been single for three years
and I'm over it.
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And I am going to give this
experience my absolute all.
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[incoming text sound]
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I'm 26 and I'm
so ready to fall in love.
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00:19:32,560 --> 00:19:34,560
Yeah, it's all pretty generic.
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[incoming text sound]
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00:19:41,960 --> 00:19:43,960
[incoming text sound]
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00:19:45,520 --> 00:19:48,380
[texting sounds]
[outgoing text sound]
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00:19:48,480 --> 00:19:49,980
[texting sounds]
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00:19:50,080 --> 00:19:52,080
[outgoing text sound]
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[incoming text sound]
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[Sam] You know, she sounds
like a cutie.
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[incoming text sound]
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But she just seems like she's,
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she might be
a little bit immature.
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That's all I can tell you
about Sophie.
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At this stage, you know,
I've got potentially
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more chemistry with the crew at
the moment and the camera man.
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I have.
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-[crowd cheers and applauds]
-[man] Alright.
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Welcome to the stage,
it's Nellie Ryan!
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[crowd cheers and applauds]
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00:20:30,400 --> 00:20:33,660
Hi, everyone. Thank you so much
for coming.
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So if you don't know me,
my name's Nel.
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So, I recently found out that
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tampons sometimes have
motivational quotes on them.
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00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:47,660
And there is nothing
that gets my blood flowing more
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than a TED talk from my tampon,
am I right ladies?
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00:20:49,960 --> 00:20:51,960
[crowd laughs]
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00:20:53,560 --> 00:20:56,940
My name's Nel.
I'm a comedian from Tassie.
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I've been single for about
a year and a half.
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00:21:00,520 --> 00:21:04,900
The thing is, it's really hard
to find someone in Tassie
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that you're not related to.
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00:21:07,000 --> 00:21:10,060
Instead of Tinder
we just use Ancestry.com
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Ahh. But...
[Nellie laughs]
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00:21:14,560 --> 00:21:16,900
No, I'll do that again.
I can't help it.
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I'm so sorry.
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I definitely think I'm a catch,
of course I do.
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00:21:23,840 --> 00:21:28,360
But I hesitate to reach out
to guys on dating apps
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because I'm insecure that they
won't find me attractive enough.
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I really feel like I don't fit
that Instagram mould.
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I'm not blonde.
I don't have a tan.
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00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:41,940
I don't pose in certain ways.
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00:21:42,040 --> 00:21:45,660
I get insecure about my belly
or my arms.
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00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:49,880
A lot of guys on the app will
very quickly swipe no on me.
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00:21:52,280 --> 00:21:53,740
What's shitty about that is
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you can't see my best qualities
in a photo.
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You can't see that I'm funny
or intelligent or kind.
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00:22:01,560 --> 00:22:04,300
No-one asks the questions
you really want them to ask.
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No-one really wants to get to
know who you are.
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So, this is the perfect
experience for me
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to meet someone
who is going to
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fall in love with who
I am as an entire person.
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00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:21,500
I'm looking for someone
that can just envelop me
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in a total hug like a bear,
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and I can just put my head
into their chest
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and just feel like I'm safe.
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Last resort is MAFS.
[Nellie laughs]
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00:22:36,680 --> 00:22:38,680
No, I'm just kidding.
[Nellie laughs]
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[narrator] But before Nellie
sends her MAFS audition tape,
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she'll be choosing between
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27-year-old Daniel
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from Newcastle,
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00:22:47,800 --> 00:22:49,620
and 28-year-old Richard
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from the Gold Coast.
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[Nellie] The first message
has to be something
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that takes them off their guard
a little bit.
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So, I wrote some options down
last night.
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Can you fold a fitted sheet?
487
00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:05,780
How's your relationship
with your mother?
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00:23:05,880 --> 00:23:07,540
What do you smell like?
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00:23:07,640 --> 00:23:10,860
How many chickens do you think
it would take to kill a hippo?
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00:23:10,960 --> 00:23:12,660
What's your favourite colour?
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00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:14,580
And, are you circumcised?
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Nothing too intense.
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00:23:17,080 --> 00:23:19,180
Would you consume human flesh?
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[Nellie giggles]
Okay. Okay.
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00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:24,800
-If you had to, what mammal...
-[texting sounds]
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00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:29,680
[outgoing text sound]
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00:23:30,600 --> 00:23:32,600
And then do I put in an emoji?
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00:23:34,800 --> 00:23:37,400
Maybe like the eyes
looking like this.
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00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:40,220
[outgoing text sound]
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00:23:40,320 --> 00:23:41,660
-[incoming text sound]
-[Nellie gasps]
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00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:43,940
Someone's typing. Oh!
[Nellie laughs]
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00:23:44,040 --> 00:23:46,760
Oh, my god.
I got a typer. Whoo.
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00:23:47,680 --> 00:23:50,540
This text is going to tell me
instantly
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00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:53,000
if we have
the same energy or not.
505
00:23:54,800 --> 00:23:55,900
[incoming text sound]
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00:23:56,000 --> 00:23:58,300
[Nellie giggles]
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00:23:58,400 --> 00:23:59,700
[incoming text sound]
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Is punching on with animals
509
00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:03,400
something
you usually do for fun?
510
00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:08,640
[Nellie laughs]
511
00:24:09,240 --> 00:24:12,500
Oh, I should have gone with
the circumcised question.
512
00:24:12,600 --> 00:24:13,940
[Nellie chuckles]
513
00:24:14,040 --> 00:24:16,040
[outgoing text sound]
514
00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:18,260
[incoming text sound]
515
00:24:18,360 --> 00:24:21,060
Okay. Glad he's confident.
516
00:24:21,160 --> 00:24:24,820
See, I can feel my cheeks
getting a little red. For sure.
517
00:24:24,920 --> 00:24:26,900
Think I'm just going to
go past that.
518
00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:30,060
I don't think he needs to
go more into that at all.
519
00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:31,540
-[texting sounds]
-I'm a little nervous.
520
00:24:31,640 --> 00:24:32,980
-[typing text alert tone]
-He's typing!
521
00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:35,500
I have... No, Dan, don't!
Don't keep going!
522
00:24:35,600 --> 00:24:37,260
No, no, no, wait for me!
523
00:24:37,360 --> 00:24:38,740
[incoming text sound]
524
00:24:38,840 --> 00:24:40,700
[Nellie bursts out laughing]
525
00:24:40,800 --> 00:24:43,820
I don't think you can say that
you have a big penis
526
00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:47,820
because what if I go,
"Big Roo, are you there?"
527
00:24:47,920 --> 00:24:50,180
And I pull down his pants
and it's more like a joey?
528
00:24:50,280 --> 00:24:52,100
You know what I mean? Ahh...
529
00:24:52,200 --> 00:24:53,940
[Nellie laughs]
530
00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:55,740
How do I respond to that?
531
00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:58,240
Should I tell him that
I also have a big penis?
532
00:24:59,200 --> 00:25:00,740
[outgoing text sound]
533
00:25:00,840 --> 00:25:02,820
[texting sounds]
534
00:25:02,920 --> 00:25:05,140
[outgoing text sound]
535
00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:06,980
-[incoming text sound]
-[man] Big, tall and handsome.
536
00:25:07,080 --> 00:25:09,300
[man laughs]
Nah, I'm joking.
537
00:25:09,400 --> 00:25:11,100
I'm just a twenty-seven year old
bloke who
538
00:25:11,200 --> 00:25:13,780
loves his footy and
going to the pub with my mates.
539
00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:16,460
I've been single
for a few years now.
540
00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:19,780
Been focusing on
self-development.
541
00:25:19,880 --> 00:25:22,460
Definitely try
and look after myself.
542
00:25:22,560 --> 00:25:25,540
For my field of work you got to
take care of your fitness.
543
00:25:25,640 --> 00:25:27,860
I'm working in a high risk job
544
00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:30,340
but it's something
I absolutely love.
545
00:25:30,440 --> 00:25:31,700
It's the best opportunity to
546
00:25:31,800 --> 00:25:33,660
be able to work
in my local community.
547
00:25:33,760 --> 00:25:34,900
[incoming text sound]
548
00:25:35,000 --> 00:25:37,000
It's something
I'm very proud of.
549
00:25:37,920 --> 00:25:39,700
[texting sounds]
550
00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:41,380
[outgoing text sound]
551
00:25:41,480 --> 00:25:45,320
So Dan and I are guessing
each other's occupation.
552
00:25:46,480 --> 00:25:48,660
[incoming text sound]
553
00:25:48,760 --> 00:25:50,100
[incoming text sound]
554
00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:51,740
"You might say
I look good in uniform."
555
00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:53,580
[Nellie gasps]
Is he a policeman?
556
00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:56,260
[Nellie squeals, excited]
Oh my god!
557
00:25:56,360 --> 00:25:57,500
[texting sounds]
558
00:25:57,600 --> 00:25:59,300
No, you can't,
you can't be a policeman.
559
00:25:59,400 --> 00:26:00,500
[Nellie chuckles]
560
00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:02,100
Oh god, he's probably
a bus driver.
561
00:26:02,200 --> 00:26:03,460
[outgoing text sound]
562
00:26:03,560 --> 00:26:05,560
[incoming text sound]
563
00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:07,340
[incoming text sound]
564
00:26:07,440 --> 00:26:10,980
[nellie screams, excited]
Oh, my god! Dan's a firefighter.
565
00:26:11,080 --> 00:26:13,080
Stop!
566
00:26:16,640 --> 00:26:21,260
Oh, god. That's so hot.
567
00:26:21,360 --> 00:26:22,980
That is so hot.
568
00:26:23,080 --> 00:26:25,940
This man isn't real.
He can't be.
569
00:26:26,040 --> 00:26:28,860
[Nellie giggles]
Firefighter!
570
00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:30,960
Oh, my god.
571
00:26:32,320 --> 00:26:34,740
That is such a hot occupation.
572
00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:38,020
There are dancers
that dress up as firefighters,
573
00:26:38,120 --> 00:26:42,880
and he, he fights fires
and I fight hecklers.
574
00:26:44,280 --> 00:26:45,420
[incoming text sound]
575
00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:47,900
He fights fires and I tell
dick jokes on stage.
576
00:26:48,000 --> 00:26:50,000
-[outgoing text sound]
-They're not the same.
577
00:26:51,360 --> 00:26:56,900
When I imagine Dan now,
I imagine The Rock with hair.
578
00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:59,000
[Nellie laughs]
579
00:27:01,920 --> 00:27:04,360
Richard, crickets. Nothin'.
580
00:27:05,640 --> 00:27:07,660
He's playing hard to get.
581
00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:11,320
And that works for me because
I'm a little insecure. So...
582
00:27:12,880 --> 00:27:13,980
[incoming text sound]
583
00:27:14,080 --> 00:27:16,160
Richard's replied.
Good old Richard.
584
00:27:17,120 --> 00:27:19,420
[incoming text sound]
585
00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:21,900
That's quite a small message.
586
00:27:22,000 --> 00:27:27,500
Like, it's not really pushing
into another conversation.
587
00:27:27,600 --> 00:27:28,860
I'm not too sure
588
00:27:28,960 --> 00:27:30,900
if it just takes a while
to get to know him,
589
00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:35,920
or he's just being
a bit reserved.
590
00:27:36,840 --> 00:27:38,840
[outgoing text sound]
591
00:27:40,160 --> 00:27:42,160
[incoming text sound]
592
00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:44,540
[incoming text sound]
593
00:27:44,640 --> 00:27:46,380
[man] I'd say I was a cheeky,
fucking bastard.
594
00:27:46,480 --> 00:27:48,140
I'm a writer director.
595
00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:50,460
I just finished
my first feature film.
596
00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:52,820
And I don't think there's
anything funner in life
597
00:27:52,920 --> 00:27:54,380
than being behind the camera,
598
00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:56,940
working with actors,
working with the crew.
599
00:27:57,040 --> 00:28:00,660
Oh, it's, it's like bliss,
bliss.
600
00:28:00,760 --> 00:28:03,300
But, when I'm not doing that,
I'm just sitting at a cafe.
601
00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:04,580
[incoming text sound]
602
00:28:04,680 --> 00:28:06,660
Sipping coffees,
writing my next film,
603
00:28:06,760 --> 00:28:08,220
working on my next project.
604
00:28:08,320 --> 00:28:10,180
[texting sounds]
605
00:28:10,280 --> 00:28:12,280
[outgoing text sound]
606
00:28:13,400 --> 00:28:15,400
[typing text alert tone]
607
00:28:15,920 --> 00:28:17,920
[incoming text sound]
608
00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:20,700
I'm worried for Richard because
he hasn't
609
00:28:20,800 --> 00:28:22,820
asked me very many questions,
610
00:28:22,920 --> 00:28:24,620
and it feel like...
611
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:27,740
It feels like I'm taking
the lead a little bit.
612
00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:32,000
Whereas Dan and I
are just flowing straight away.
613
00:28:33,600 --> 00:28:35,740
[outgoing text sound]
614
00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:37,100
[incoming text sound]
615
00:28:37,200 --> 00:28:39,500
I think Dan being a firefighter
is really hot,
616
00:28:39,600 --> 00:28:41,180
and he knows it's hot.
617
00:28:41,280 --> 00:28:43,100
Everyone knows it's hot.
618
00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:47,140
And I just imagine him just
holding me when we get married
619
00:28:47,240 --> 00:28:49,220
and running down the aisle
620
00:28:49,320 --> 00:28:52,460
pretending that I had come out
of a building on fire.
621
00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:53,860
[incoming text sound]
622
00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:55,960
[Nellie chuckles]
623
00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:03,380
[narrator] In Broome,
man of action, Sam,
624
00:29:03,480 --> 00:29:05,260
has woken up on day two
625
00:29:05,360 --> 00:29:09,100
and decided he already has
all the information he needs
626
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:11,200
to make his big decision.
627
00:29:18,360 --> 00:29:20,220
On paper I'm drawn to Sophie.
628
00:29:20,320 --> 00:29:21,820
I guess I normally go
for girls
629
00:29:21,920 --> 00:29:23,940
around that
sort of mid-twenties.
630
00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:25,940
But effectively we're here
631
00:29:26,040 --> 00:29:29,860
because my choices haven't
really worked out in the past.
632
00:29:29,960 --> 00:29:32,740
So my gut tells me to
go with Emily.
633
00:29:32,840 --> 00:29:34,620
A woman slightly older than me.
634
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:36,180
[phone's outgoing ringtone]
635
00:29:36,280 --> 00:29:39,660
I'm making a bold call
without being well-informed,
636
00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:43,140
but I feel like it's
a responsible decision.
637
00:29:43,240 --> 00:29:45,240
[phone's outgoing ringtone]
638
00:29:46,000 --> 00:29:47,180
[woman, over phone] Hello.
639
00:29:47,280 --> 00:29:48,860
-Emily.
-Yeah.
640
00:29:48,960 --> 00:29:50,900
How are you? It's Sam.
641
00:29:51,000 --> 00:29:52,540
Hi Sam, how are you going?
642
00:29:52,640 --> 00:29:54,260
I'm really good. How are you?
643
00:29:54,360 --> 00:29:55,820
I'm good. I'm good.
644
00:29:55,920 --> 00:29:57,740
I actually wasn't expecting
this call.
645
00:29:57,840 --> 00:29:59,540
-It's so weird, it's ringing.
-Mmm.
646
00:29:59,640 --> 00:30:01,340
-[Sam chuckles]
-How's it all going?
647
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:03,620
Day two of texting, how are you
feeling about everything?
648
00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:05,860
Listen, there's not a lot of
texting going on over here.
649
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:07,380
No.
650
00:30:07,480 --> 00:30:08,740
I want to let you know that
651
00:30:08,840 --> 00:30:11,740
I would love to take you out
for dinner and drinks
652
00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:13,340
if you'd be keen.
653
00:30:13,440 --> 00:30:15,860
-And so I--
-My heart's just skipped a beat.
654
00:30:15,960 --> 00:30:19,060
Yes, I would absolutely love to.
655
00:30:19,160 --> 00:30:21,500
[Sam] There's definitely
some risk.
656
00:30:21,600 --> 00:30:24,680
Let's hope that
it pays off for me.
657
00:30:25,840 --> 00:30:27,500
Definitely not here
to fuck spiders,
658
00:30:27,600 --> 00:30:29,980
nor any other arachnids.
659
00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:32,080
[Sam sighs]
660
00:30:42,560 --> 00:30:44,940
Emily is not my usual type.
661
00:30:45,040 --> 00:30:48,200
I do tend to,
to shop a little younger.
662
00:30:58,960 --> 00:31:02,520
Oh, if she's like a big
jacked-up personal trainer,
663
00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:04,900
taller than me,
664
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:06,820
like, eyeballs,
like, popping out of her head,
665
00:31:06,920 --> 00:31:08,920
that would give me the ick.
666
00:31:09,920 --> 00:31:11,820
I think you can't come back
from the ick.
667
00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:15,440
I think once there's an ick,
it's terminal.
668
00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:34,340
[Emily] Sam.
669
00:31:34,440 --> 00:31:36,460
-Are you Em? Em, how are you?
-[Emily chuckles]
670
00:31:36,560 --> 00:31:37,940
-How are you?
-Hi. How are you going?
671
00:31:38,040 --> 00:31:39,820
-[Sam pecks Emily on cheek]
-Nice to finally meet you.
672
00:31:39,920 --> 00:31:41,300
-Pleasure to meet you.
-How's it going?
673
00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:43,340
I'm good. I didn't realise
you were going to be this tall.
674
00:31:43,440 --> 00:31:45,980
I know. Well, I could say
the same about you.
675
00:31:46,080 --> 00:31:48,080
[Emily chuckles]
676
00:31:51,480 --> 00:31:54,100
Uh. Yeah, it's a surprise.
677
00:31:54,200 --> 00:31:56,420
Pictured like a short brunette,
678
00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:57,740
personal trainer chick,
679
00:31:57,840 --> 00:32:00,300
and I got like,
this leggy blonde thing.
680
00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:01,860
[Emily] Have you
been waiting long?
681
00:32:01,960 --> 00:32:03,460
Hope I haven't
kept you waiting.
682
00:32:03,560 --> 00:32:05,460
Ah, it's been about ten minutes.
I'm not sure how long it was.
683
00:32:05,560 --> 00:32:06,820
But it wasn't too bad.
684
00:32:06,920 --> 00:32:08,540
-Oh good.
-Um.
685
00:32:08,640 --> 00:32:11,500
I think she could bench
more than me at the gym.
686
00:32:11,600 --> 00:32:12,900
You know, she could
687
00:32:13,000 --> 00:32:15,760
step out of the Australian
men's basketball team.
688
00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:19,820
Um. Anyways,
so, follow me inside.
689
00:32:19,920 --> 00:32:21,100
-Yep.
-Okay?
690
00:32:21,200 --> 00:32:22,780
[Sam] She's not my type.
691
00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:25,540
If I saw her on a dating app,
would I go for her?
692
00:32:25,640 --> 00:32:27,300
No. No, way.
693
00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:30,880
So, yeah, it's quite jarring.
694
00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:33,960
I definitely need a drink.
695
00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:38,100
[waiter] How are we going?
Welcome to Luna Lu.
696
00:32:38,200 --> 00:32:39,900
Can I get you started off
with a drink or anything?
697
00:32:40,000 --> 00:32:41,900
Absolutely.
What would you like, Em?
698
00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:43,980
Oh, look, I'm going to have a
glass of champagne. Why not?
699
00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:46,860
Hey, mate, I'll just have
a vodka lime and soda.
700
00:32:46,960 --> 00:32:48,960
-Vodka lime and soda.
-Stiff one, bro.
701
00:32:49,720 --> 00:32:52,780
Okay. That's not a good sign
that you need a stiff drink.
702
00:32:52,880 --> 00:32:54,860
-You need a stiff drink.
-No, no, no, no, no.
703
00:32:54,960 --> 00:32:57,060
I just want to, um,
I just want to get us into it.
704
00:32:57,160 --> 00:32:58,540
Yeah.
705
00:32:58,640 --> 00:33:00,640
So...
706
00:33:02,440 --> 00:33:05,700
Um. So tell me, was I
what you were expecting?
707
00:33:05,800 --> 00:33:07,800
Ahh...
708
00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:13,400
I guess, I was picturing,
like...
709
00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:16,360
I'm going to be brutally honest.
710
00:33:17,080 --> 00:33:19,260
You're slightly taller than
the girls I've normally dated.
711
00:33:19,360 --> 00:33:21,340
Yeah.
[Emily chuckles]
712
00:33:21,440 --> 00:33:23,960
I've never been with someone
shorter than me.
713
00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:26,780
Not to say it's a bad thing.
714
00:33:26,880 --> 00:33:28,420
Nah.
715
00:33:28,520 --> 00:33:32,420
[Emily] My usual type would be
sort of tall, dark and handsome
716
00:33:32,520 --> 00:33:34,020
kind of guy.
717
00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:37,900
Usually little bit more manly.
718
00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:40,000
Like a manly
sort of looking guy.
719
00:33:40,840 --> 00:33:43,480
Thank you, man. Good man.
Thank you, bro.
720
00:33:44,400 --> 00:33:45,780
-Do a cheers.
-Cheers.
721
00:33:45,880 --> 00:33:47,880
-To finally meeting you.
-Absolutely.
722
00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:52,820
-Ooh, it is stiff.
-Is it?
723
00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:54,260
-Oh yeah, yeah.
-Good.
724
00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:56,520
We can get the conversation
really flowing now.
725
00:33:58,440 --> 00:34:01,140
I mean, are you happy with what
you see or are you...?
726
00:34:01,240 --> 00:34:02,380
-Of course.
-Okay.
727
00:34:02,480 --> 00:34:04,480
How could I not?
728
00:34:07,280 --> 00:34:11,220
Um. So, are you hungry?
What are you vibing?
729
00:34:11,320 --> 00:34:14,340
Well, listen, I have
a bit of a different plan.
730
00:34:14,440 --> 00:34:16,440
Okay.
731
00:34:17,280 --> 00:34:20,700
Okay. I don't think eating on
a first date, it's not my thing.
732
00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:22,180
-Like, as in, like--
-What would you do?
733
00:34:22,280 --> 00:34:23,740
Well, no, we'll have
some dessert, right?
734
00:34:23,840 --> 00:34:26,940
Do you really want to knock back
like a big 300g steak?
735
00:34:27,040 --> 00:34:28,300
[Emily puffs]
736
00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:30,620
It's just 'cause I'm,
I don't want to be hangry.
737
00:34:30,720 --> 00:34:33,540
-I've only had one meal today.
-Right.
738
00:34:33,640 --> 00:34:36,440
And I'm just like,
getting a bit hangry.
739
00:34:37,640 --> 00:34:41,060
Look, a dealbreaker for me
is usually a guy that's,
740
00:34:41,160 --> 00:34:43,380
you know, shorter than me.
741
00:34:43,480 --> 00:34:45,500
So this is interesting.
742
00:34:45,600 --> 00:34:49,220
But we were able to have
a great connection on the phone.
743
00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:53,220
So you never know
what might come up.
744
00:34:53,320 --> 00:34:55,320
Not his height, though.
[Emily laughs]
745
00:34:56,720 --> 00:34:58,900
I'm going to hell.
[Emily chuckles]
746
00:34:59,000 --> 00:35:01,000
I'm going to hell.
747
00:35:06,640 --> 00:35:08,820
[narrator] In Melbourne,
Jacinta has found herself
748
00:35:08,920 --> 00:35:13,340
overwhelmingly drawn
to Sheree's feminine energy.
749
00:35:13,440 --> 00:35:16,300
[Jacinta] I feel like there is
this really strong connection
750
00:35:16,400 --> 00:35:20,300
between us and I want to see
if Sheree feels the same way.
751
00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:21,980
My plan with Sheree
is just to
752
00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:24,180
really see where their
head's at about, you know,
753
00:35:24,280 --> 00:35:27,500
their sexuality,
their relationship.
754
00:35:27,600 --> 00:35:29,460
[texting sounds]
755
00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:31,560
[outgoing text sound]
756
00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:35,000
[typing text alert tone]
757
00:35:35,840 --> 00:35:37,840
[incoming text sound]
758
00:35:38,240 --> 00:35:40,240
[incoming text sound]
759
00:35:41,320 --> 00:35:43,320
[incoming text sound]
760
00:35:53,040 --> 00:35:55,040
I got a reply.
761
00:35:56,880 --> 00:36:00,300
Ahh, Sheree's saying that
762
00:36:00,400 --> 00:36:03,940
she hasn't had a romantic
relationship with a woman,
763
00:36:04,040 --> 00:36:08,160
so that's new for me.
764
00:36:16,400 --> 00:36:18,540
[Jacinta] Based on past
experiences,
765
00:36:18,640 --> 00:36:20,140
I've had a hard time
766
00:36:20,240 --> 00:36:22,980
dating women who are
still discovering themselves.
767
00:36:23,080 --> 00:36:24,860
[texting sounds]
[outgoing text sound]
768
00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:27,860
Or who are exploring
their sexuality.
769
00:36:27,960 --> 00:36:29,220
[incoming text sound]
770
00:36:29,320 --> 00:36:32,180
Because I don't know if they
truly want to be with me
771
00:36:32,280 --> 00:36:33,740
or they just want to try me out.
772
00:36:33,840 --> 00:36:35,840
[texting sounds]
[outgoing text sound]
773
00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:40,520
[incoming text sound]
774
00:36:41,440 --> 00:36:43,260
[incoming text sound]
775
00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:45,960
I don't want to be
an experiment.
776
00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:48,960
And that's where I get scared.
777
00:36:49,680 --> 00:36:51,680
[phone rings]
778
00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:55,500
Nemo's calling me.
779
00:36:55,600 --> 00:36:57,600
[phone rings]
780
00:36:58,560 --> 00:37:00,560
Hello.
781
00:37:01,360 --> 00:37:04,240
Yeah. This is Jay. Is this Nemo?
782
00:37:07,160 --> 00:37:10,120
My day has been intense.
783
00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:14,640
But it's been a really,
really good, productive day.
784
00:37:15,960 --> 00:37:17,660
Was there anything that you were
curious about
785
00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:19,760
that you wanted to know?
786
00:37:26,040 --> 00:37:29,960
So, I was actually
adopted by a family.
787
00:37:31,280 --> 00:37:34,820
Lived with them
until I was legal age, eighteen,
788
00:37:34,920 --> 00:37:38,040
moved out, and I've just kind
of been doing me ever since.
789
00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:44,960
Ahh, yeah. See, there you go.
790
00:37:50,040 --> 00:37:51,500
Do you feel like you're more of
791
00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:53,640
like, a face-to-face
type of person?
792
00:37:57,440 --> 00:37:59,440
I'm really happy that
we had a chat.
793
00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:03,180
[Jacinta chuckles]
Thank you.
794
00:38:03,280 --> 00:38:05,280
I like your voice, too.
795
00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:08,280
We'll talk soon, okay?
796
00:38:09,440 --> 00:38:11,440
Alright. Bye.
797
00:38:14,400 --> 00:38:16,880
Okay, then. Alright.
798
00:38:18,520 --> 00:38:21,920
He has a really nice voice.
I really like his voice.
799
00:38:23,520 --> 00:38:25,520
Mmm.
[Jacinta chuckles]
800
00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:28,420
I'm a bit...
801
00:38:28,520 --> 00:38:31,720
I'm a little bit
lost for words at the moment.
802
00:38:33,040 --> 00:38:34,580
I don't want to make
assumptions,
803
00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:37,220
but I'm getting, like,
mixed race vibes like me.
804
00:38:37,320 --> 00:38:38,900
I don't know why.
805
00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:42,440
I don't... I feel like he
is also a person of colour.
806
00:38:44,240 --> 00:38:47,540
He could be Caucasian,
and that's completely fine.
807
00:38:47,640 --> 00:38:49,900
But there's
a little swag in his voice,
808
00:38:50,000 --> 00:38:52,740
and I'm like, ooh okay,
there's something in there.
809
00:38:52,840 --> 00:38:54,380
[Jacinta chuckles]
810
00:38:54,480 --> 00:38:56,140
There's a little chocolate
in the milkshake.
811
00:38:56,240 --> 00:38:58,240
[Jacinta laughs]
812
00:38:59,520 --> 00:39:02,620
Oh, I don't think I'm thinking
with my mind right now.
813
00:39:02,720 --> 00:39:04,720
I'm not using my brain.
814
00:39:05,280 --> 00:39:06,820
Oh, I'm not going there.
815
00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:08,920
We're not going there right now.
816
00:39:10,800 --> 00:39:12,800
Mmm. Mmm.
817
00:39:23,560 --> 00:39:26,740
It's been a rollercoaster
of an experience
818
00:39:26,840 --> 00:39:30,400
speaking to Sheree and Nemo,
and here I am.
819
00:39:31,760 --> 00:39:34,180
Nemo put a smile on my face.
820
00:39:34,280 --> 00:39:35,700
And I don't know,
821
00:39:35,800 --> 00:39:37,380
there was definitely
some connection there.
822
00:39:37,480 --> 00:39:40,120
There was definitely
some fire there.
823
00:39:40,840 --> 00:39:42,580
But...
824
00:39:42,680 --> 00:39:45,380
I haven't been with a man,
I haven't dated a man,
825
00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:47,940
I haven't been in a relationship
with a man,
826
00:39:48,040 --> 00:39:50,240
I haven't slept with a man
in years.
827
00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:53,020
Whereas with Sheree,
828
00:39:53,120 --> 00:39:56,420
I feel like there is
this really strong connection
829
00:39:56,520 --> 00:39:58,700
between us
and there was a great balance
830
00:39:58,800 --> 00:40:00,800
and a lot of feminine energy
between us.
831
00:40:01,800 --> 00:40:04,020
But I know that
she hasn't had any romantic
832
00:40:04,120 --> 00:40:07,960
relationships with a woman,
and that scares me.
833
00:40:08,840 --> 00:40:11,080
I don't want to
be Sheree's experiment.
834
00:40:15,520 --> 00:40:17,500
[woman] Hey, lovely.
How are you doing tonight?
835
00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:19,600
-Hi. Good. How are you?
-Very well, thank you.
836
00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:23,020
[Jacinta] At the end of the day,
837
00:40:23,120 --> 00:40:25,780
I don't care whether
you're a man, a woman,
838
00:40:25,880 --> 00:40:28,480
non-binary, trans, I don't care.
839
00:40:30,400 --> 00:40:32,940
I feel like any relationship
you go into,
840
00:40:33,040 --> 00:40:35,080
there is going to be the risk.
841
00:40:36,880 --> 00:40:38,700
If our energy aligns,
842
00:40:38,800 --> 00:40:40,820
if we have that connection,
843
00:40:40,920 --> 00:40:43,600
let's just jump
right in the deep end.
844
00:40:45,440 --> 00:40:47,020
Just do it.
845
00:40:47,120 --> 00:40:48,620
I don't really know how to swim
that well
846
00:40:48,720 --> 00:40:51,080
but we'll figure it out.
847
00:41:00,400 --> 00:41:02,400
[door opens]
848
00:41:10,760 --> 00:41:12,760
[Jacinta chuckles]
849
00:41:13,800 --> 00:41:15,380
[Nemo chuckles]
Are you Jay?
850
00:41:15,480 --> 00:41:17,020
-Hi. Yes.
-Nice to meet you.
851
00:41:17,120 --> 00:41:18,540
-I'm a hugger.
-Yeah, of course.
852
00:41:18,640 --> 00:41:20,060
-Nice to meet you.
-You're gorgeous, girl.
853
00:41:20,160 --> 00:41:21,300
-Thank you.
-Yeah.
854
00:41:21,400 --> 00:41:23,400
-Sit, get comfy.
-Thank you.
855
00:41:25,760 --> 00:41:27,580
Um. Would you like a drink?
856
00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:30,060
-Of course. Yeah.
-[barmaid] How you doing?
857
00:41:30,160 --> 00:41:32,020
Ah, could I please do a Negroni
858
00:41:32,120 --> 00:41:33,700
with, like,
a splash of orange juice?
859
00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:35,800
-Absolutely.
-Thank you.
860
00:41:37,560 --> 00:41:39,020
You're gorgeous.
861
00:41:39,120 --> 00:41:40,300
You're nothing like I expected
862
00:41:40,400 --> 00:41:41,620
but like, in the best ways
possible.
863
00:41:41,720 --> 00:41:43,900
-What did you expect?
-I don't know.
864
00:41:44,000 --> 00:41:45,740
I just didn't expect you.
Like, you're so cool.
865
00:41:45,840 --> 00:41:47,840
-[both chuckle]
-Okay.
866
00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:52,080
Ah! You guys picked a good one.
867
00:41:53,840 --> 00:41:55,140
[beep]
868
00:41:55,240 --> 00:41:57,180
My nosey arse was
trying to do some stalking.
869
00:41:57,280 --> 00:41:59,460
Like, all I had was Jay, model,
Melbourne, right?
870
00:41:59,560 --> 00:42:01,940
So, my nosey arse is on, like,
Google like, just
871
00:42:02,040 --> 00:42:05,220
typing those three things,
Jay, Melbourne, model.
872
00:42:05,320 --> 00:42:06,980
[Nemo laughs]
873
00:42:07,080 --> 00:42:09,500
And then, I got, like,
a few results, right?
874
00:42:09,600 --> 00:42:11,380
And I'm thinking,
maybe this could be her.
875
00:42:11,480 --> 00:42:12,900
Maybe this could be her.
876
00:42:13,000 --> 00:42:14,500
But none of them were her.
877
00:42:14,600 --> 00:42:17,740
And like, when I saw her,
I was like, "Wow."
878
00:42:17,840 --> 00:42:20,420
Yeah, she's gorgeous.
I'm attracted to Jay.
879
00:42:20,520 --> 00:42:22,300
She is beautiful.
880
00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:24,060
-Oh, this is very nice.
-[Jacinta giggles]
881
00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:25,980
I'm very excited now.
[Nemo chuckles]
882
00:42:26,080 --> 00:42:28,080
Did you know I was...
883
00:42:28,720 --> 00:42:30,720
No!
884
00:42:31,200 --> 00:42:33,380
I'm glad that you kind of
look like what I expected.
885
00:42:33,480 --> 00:42:35,140
-Oh, really?
-Yeah.
886
00:42:35,240 --> 00:42:36,780
Yeah. Pictured me like this,
hey?
887
00:42:36,880 --> 00:42:38,260
It's kind of nice.
888
00:42:38,360 --> 00:42:39,900
[Jacinta] The moment Nemo
called me
889
00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:42,100
and I heard his voice,
I was all happy.
890
00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:44,300
We were strong,
we were connected.
891
00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:46,140
[Jacinta laughs]
892
00:42:46,240 --> 00:42:49,780
So, I chose to be in
a relationship with Nemo.
893
00:42:49,880 --> 00:42:52,060
Oh, I love that. It's beautiful.
894
00:42:52,160 --> 00:42:54,440
-Nice to meet you.
-Nice to meet you as well.
895
00:42:57,480 --> 00:43:00,620
He's more than what I thought.
He's more than what I expected.
896
00:43:00,720 --> 00:43:02,740
He is so cute.
897
00:43:02,840 --> 00:43:05,460
There's definitely a spark,
for sure.
898
00:43:05,560 --> 00:43:08,820
Like, there's definitely energy
between us right now,
899
00:43:08,920 --> 00:43:11,060
and I'm just enjoying it.
900
00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:13,900
I love this dress, by the way,
girl. This is so good.
901
00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:15,900
Thank you. I've actually
never worn this dress before.
902
00:43:16,000 --> 00:43:17,220
-Really?
-Mm-hm.
903
00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:18,860
And you've given me
a reason to wear it.
904
00:43:18,960 --> 00:43:20,860
Imma give you a lot of reasons
to wear it.
905
00:43:20,960 --> 00:43:22,700
We are going on more dates
than this.
906
00:43:22,800 --> 00:43:25,540
[Jacinta] I haven't been
sexually attracted to a man
907
00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:27,260
in a very long time.
908
00:43:27,360 --> 00:43:30,620
So this is a whole
new experience for me.
909
00:43:30,720 --> 00:43:34,100
I think that we balance off each
other really, really well.
910
00:43:34,200 --> 00:43:35,300
Yeah.
911
00:43:35,400 --> 00:43:36,620
I feel like
I'm very open-minded.
912
00:43:36,720 --> 00:43:37,940
Yeah, I--
913
00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:39,460
I feel like there's a lot
to learn from each other,
914
00:43:39,560 --> 00:43:43,380
but to be
completely honest with you,
915
00:43:43,480 --> 00:43:45,900
I haven't gone
on a date with a man...
916
00:43:46,000 --> 00:43:48,260
-Mmm!
-In like, four or five years.
917
00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:50,360
-Oh, wow.
-Yeah.
918
00:43:51,760 --> 00:43:53,760
'Cause I'm queer.
919
00:44:03,800 --> 00:44:05,340
[narrator] In Hobart,
920
00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:07,500
comedian Nellie has been
pleasantly surprised
921
00:44:07,600 --> 00:44:10,820
by Richard, who has begun to
show a lot more interest
922
00:44:10,920 --> 00:44:12,780
on the second day of texting.
923
00:44:12,880 --> 00:44:16,560
But, is it a case of too little,
too late?
924
00:44:17,480 --> 00:44:19,940
[Nellie] I know that I would
get along with Richard
925
00:44:20,040 --> 00:44:22,580
just based on our interests.
926
00:44:22,680 --> 00:44:27,180
Richard would give me a mind
orgasm. I know that for sure.
927
00:44:27,280 --> 00:44:31,660
But I'm just constantly
thinking about Dan.
928
00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:34,940
I think Dan would give me
a real orgasm.
929
00:44:35,040 --> 00:44:38,140
A mind numbing,
can't feel my face orgasm.
930
00:44:38,240 --> 00:44:39,820
-[crowd laughs]
-Thank you so much, everyone.
931
00:44:39,920 --> 00:44:41,020
It's been amazing.
[crowd applause]
932
00:44:41,120 --> 00:44:43,120
I'm Nellie Ryan.
933
00:44:43,840 --> 00:44:45,220
[phone's outgoing ringtone]
934
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:46,660
[narrator] Nellie has now
decided to
935
00:44:46,760 --> 00:44:49,460
call Daniel on the phone
for the very first time.
936
00:44:49,560 --> 00:44:51,560
[phone's outgoing ringtone]
937
00:44:52,680 --> 00:44:54,580
-Dan speaking.
-[Nellie giggles]
938
00:44:54,680 --> 00:44:56,020
Hey Dan. It's Nellie.
939
00:44:56,120 --> 00:44:57,460
-Hey, Nellie. How are you going?
-I'm--
940
00:44:57,560 --> 00:44:59,820
-So good to talk to you.
-So good to talk to you.
941
00:44:59,920 --> 00:45:03,460
I just kind of had a bit of
a nervous energy after the gig
942
00:45:03,560 --> 00:45:04,900
and I wanted to call you.
943
00:45:05,000 --> 00:45:07,620
Mate, I was waiting for you
to finish your performance.
944
00:45:07,720 --> 00:45:09,060
I was wondering how you went.
945
00:45:09,160 --> 00:45:10,860
You know what?
You sound like a firefighter.
946
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:12,580
-Is that weird?
-[Daniel chuckles]
947
00:45:12,680 --> 00:45:14,100
-[Nellie laughs]
-I hope it's a good thing.
948
00:45:14,200 --> 00:45:15,740
It's a very strong like,
949
00:45:15,840 --> 00:45:17,900
I feel like you could hug me
like a bear
950
00:45:18,000 --> 00:45:20,060
-and just completely...
-[Daniel chuckles]
951
00:45:20,160 --> 00:45:22,580
Like a big kangaroo hug.
Like a big kangaroo.
952
00:45:22,680 --> 00:45:24,140
-Hey.
-Like a joey in the pouch.
953
00:45:24,240 --> 00:45:26,020
It's a call back.
Are you a comedian also?
954
00:45:26,120 --> 00:45:27,580
-[Daniel chuckles]
-[Nellie giggles]
955
00:45:27,680 --> 00:45:30,060
I'm a self-proclaimed comedian.
You know, I make me-self laugh.
956
00:45:30,160 --> 00:45:32,160
That's true.
957
00:45:33,160 --> 00:45:36,020
Another man takes my job.
The would just be...
958
00:45:36,120 --> 00:45:37,860
Oh! Don't be like that.
959
00:45:37,960 --> 00:45:39,380
No, I won't.
[Nellie chuckles]
960
00:45:39,480 --> 00:45:41,340
Mate, there's so
many good female comedians.
961
00:45:41,440 --> 00:45:43,720
-Mate, you'll get there one day.
-Okay. Dan, name one.
962
00:45:45,880 --> 00:45:47,380
Oh!
963
00:45:47,480 --> 00:45:49,480
Julia Roberts the actress?
[Nellie laughs]
964
00:45:50,200 --> 00:45:53,420
No, what's the chick in like,
who hosts that, um...
965
00:45:53,520 --> 00:45:54,940
It's probably
a different network.
966
00:45:55,040 --> 00:45:56,620
-I won't say it, but you...
-[Nellie laughs]
967
00:45:56,720 --> 00:45:58,380
No, no, that's good.
That's good stuff, man.
968
00:45:58,480 --> 00:46:01,500
You sound like an absolute
ripper of a chick and, um...
969
00:46:01,600 --> 00:46:03,340
Thanks so much for the chat,
Nel.
970
00:46:03,440 --> 00:46:04,980
It's been bloody fantastic.
971
00:46:05,080 --> 00:46:06,780
Okay. See you, Big Roo. Bye.
972
00:46:06,880 --> 00:46:08,260
-See you. See ya, Nel.
-[Nellie giggles]
973
00:46:08,360 --> 00:46:10,360
Bye.
974
00:46:11,120 --> 00:46:13,300
[Nellie laughs]
975
00:46:13,400 --> 00:46:15,400
Okay.
976
00:46:18,000 --> 00:46:20,460
He's got, he...
[Nellie giggles]
977
00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:23,180
He's got that, like,
I'm going to pick you up
978
00:46:23,280 --> 00:46:24,780
and put you over my shoulder
979
00:46:24,880 --> 00:46:28,280
and take you down my fireman's
pole energy about him.
980
00:46:30,520 --> 00:46:33,340
[narrator] Nellie still has one
day left to make her decision
981
00:46:33,440 --> 00:46:35,860
about who she wants to meet
on a blind date.
982
00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:37,220
[texting sounds]
983
00:46:37,320 --> 00:46:39,820
-But sometimes when you know...
-[outgoing text sound]
984
00:46:39,920 --> 00:46:41,920
You just know.
985
00:46:42,320 --> 00:46:44,320
[incoming text sound]
986
00:46:45,120 --> 00:46:47,120
[incoming text sound]
987
00:46:54,360 --> 00:46:57,300
[Nellie sighs]
I'm on my way
988
00:46:57,400 --> 00:47:01,940
to my date with Dan the man,
the fireman, the Big Roo.
989
00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:04,440
[Nellie chuckles]
990
00:47:06,240 --> 00:47:09,840
I'm really excited to meet Dan
and see what he looks like.
991
00:47:10,920 --> 00:47:12,700
I also worry, though,
992
00:47:12,800 --> 00:47:15,440
that he's not going to
like the way I look.
993
00:47:18,120 --> 00:47:24,340
I know we'll get along, but I'm
worried as soon as he sees me,
994
00:47:24,440 --> 00:47:26,440
he's going to be disappointed.
995
00:47:28,960 --> 00:47:30,580
He's going to think that
996
00:47:30,680 --> 00:47:32,420
I'm too thick
'cause I have no bum.
997
00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:33,620
[Nellie chuckles]
998
00:47:33,720 --> 00:47:36,220
Or that he's gonna rather
someone blonde and tall.
999
00:47:36,320 --> 00:47:38,500
Or he's just going to stand
there and look at me,
1000
00:47:38,600 --> 00:47:41,300
turn around
and pretend he never
1001
00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:44,000
wanted to be in this experience
in the first place.
1002
00:47:47,680 --> 00:47:49,180
-Hey! Nel.
-Hey!
1003
00:47:49,280 --> 00:47:50,380
[Daniel chuckles]
Hey.
1004
00:47:50,480 --> 00:47:51,700
-Big Roo, is that you?
-Yeah.
1005
00:47:51,800 --> 00:47:53,220
-How are ya?
-I'm good.
1006
00:47:53,320 --> 00:47:55,060
[Daniel pecks Nellie]
Nice to meet ya. How you going?
1007
00:47:55,160 --> 00:47:56,780
-I'm good.
-You're nice rugged up and that.
1008
00:47:56,880 --> 00:47:58,620
-You a bit cold?
-I am a little bit cold.
1009
00:47:58,720 --> 00:48:00,660
But you'd be used to it,
the go in Tasmania.
1010
00:48:00,760 --> 00:48:01,860
-Yeah.
-Yeah.
1011
00:48:01,960 --> 00:48:03,740
It Tas it's so cold. It's like
minus five at the moment.
1012
00:48:03,840 --> 00:48:05,100
-Oh, my god. It's crazy.
1013
00:48:05,200 --> 00:48:07,140
-Have a seat.
-I'll have a seat. Yeah, 100%.
1014
00:48:07,240 --> 00:48:10,180
He's fucken massive!
[Nellie giggles]
1015
00:48:10,280 --> 00:48:11,940
He's so tall!
1016
00:48:12,040 --> 00:48:13,260
[Daniel chuckles]
1017
00:48:13,360 --> 00:48:17,460
Oh my gosh. When I hugged him,
I hugged his dick.
1018
00:48:17,560 --> 00:48:20,620
That's how tall he is.
[Nellie laughs hysterically]
1019
00:48:20,720 --> 00:48:22,620
Fireman Dan is hot.
1020
00:48:22,720 --> 00:48:23,980
[Daniel and Nellie laugh]
1021
00:48:24,080 --> 00:48:26,060
At the train station,
I was, like...
1022
00:48:26,160 --> 00:48:27,780
You kind of look like my dad.
[Nellie laughs hysterically]
1023
00:48:27,880 --> 00:48:29,980
-I didn't mean...
-Wow. Daddy.
1024
00:48:30,080 --> 00:48:32,080
[Nellie and Daniel laugh]
1025
00:48:32,680 --> 00:48:34,460
-Oh, I didn't--
-Well, that's, um.
1026
00:48:34,560 --> 00:48:36,060
That's, there, you're right.
1027
00:48:36,160 --> 00:48:37,420
[Daniel and Nellie laugh]
1028
00:48:37,520 --> 00:48:39,100
Hey, not like enough
that's it's weird but
1029
00:48:39,200 --> 00:48:40,580
you know, you have an essence.
1030
00:48:40,680 --> 00:48:41,860
Mate, I don't mind.
1031
00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:43,660
If a girl's going to call me
Daddy, that's fine.
1032
00:48:43,760 --> 00:48:45,660
If you're going to call me
Daddy, that's, that's sweet.
1033
00:48:45,760 --> 00:48:47,820
I'm going to call you
Fireman Dan/Big Roo.
1034
00:48:47,920 --> 00:48:49,700
Fireman Dan. Yeah, it flows
off the tongue, doesn't it?
1035
00:48:49,800 --> 00:48:51,800
-Yeah.
-[Daniel and Nellie chuckle]
1036
00:48:52,400 --> 00:48:54,400
[producer] Do you think
he's into you?
1037
00:48:55,240 --> 00:48:57,220
I don't know if he's into me,
honestly.
1038
00:48:57,320 --> 00:48:58,860
Maybe?
1039
00:48:58,960 --> 00:49:00,620
Your voice matches your face.
1040
00:49:00,720 --> 00:49:02,820
-The big voice, big head.
-[Nellie giggles]
1041
00:49:02,920 --> 00:49:05,060
I did say, um, like, I always
wanted someone that can just,
1042
00:49:05,160 --> 00:49:06,940
like, hug me completely.
1043
00:49:07,040 --> 00:49:08,500
[Daniel laughs]
Lift up like Lion King like.
1044
00:49:08,600 --> 00:49:12,020
Always just been a big human,
eh? Big, kind human I am.
1045
00:49:12,120 --> 00:49:13,700
-But...
-Are you close with your mum?
1046
00:49:13,800 --> 00:49:16,060
Yeah, Mum and Dad, yeah.
Love them both dearly.
1047
00:49:16,160 --> 00:49:17,820
Brought me up the right way.
1048
00:49:17,920 --> 00:49:19,420
Dad brought me up in a way,
1049
00:49:19,520 --> 00:49:21,420
like, where you respect shit out
of women and...
1050
00:49:21,520 --> 00:49:23,220
[Nellie laughs]
Respect the shit out of 'em!
1051
00:49:23,320 --> 00:49:24,580
Yeah. Yeah, yeah.
1052
00:49:24,680 --> 00:49:26,380
Stand up to the best of your
ability my whole life,
1053
00:49:26,480 --> 00:49:27,820
you know what I mean?
1054
00:49:27,920 --> 00:49:29,300
I feel like that's how
everyone should be.
1055
00:49:29,400 --> 00:49:30,780
-I believe you completely.
-Yeah.
1056
00:49:30,880 --> 00:49:32,900
[Daniel] What's your priorities
with, like, relationship,
1057
00:49:33,000 --> 00:49:36,380
friends, your career, like,
your career goals and that?
1058
00:49:36,480 --> 00:49:38,340
Like, where does
the relationship side of things
1059
00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:39,900
stack up on Nel's...
1060
00:49:40,000 --> 00:49:42,740
Is it the Richter scale?
Like, the know what I mean?
1061
00:49:42,840 --> 00:49:44,460
Yeah.
1062
00:49:44,560 --> 00:49:46,100
Like, to be honest,
1063
00:49:46,200 --> 00:49:49,440
I just want someone
that's just a best friend.
1064
00:49:50,400 --> 00:49:52,180
Yeah. Mm.
1065
00:49:52,280 --> 00:49:53,660
[Nellie] That you can
kind of figure out
1066
00:49:53,760 --> 00:49:54,940
what you want to do, together.
1067
00:49:55,040 --> 00:49:56,860
Yeah. Having a partner
as a best friend is cool.
1068
00:49:56,960 --> 00:49:59,500
But, like, keep on getting
friend zoned and stuff
1069
00:49:59,600 --> 00:50:00,740
all the time
1070
00:50:00,840 --> 00:50:02,060
-Yeah.
-It kind, it's so annoying.
1071
00:50:02,160 --> 00:50:03,740
I think in the word
"best friend", I just mean
1072
00:50:03,840 --> 00:50:06,580
someone that it doesn't
feel like girlfriend, boyfriend,
1073
00:50:06,680 --> 00:50:08,420
these are the rules.
1074
00:50:08,520 --> 00:50:10,900
Do you not like rules and that,
like, in a relationship?
1075
00:50:11,000 --> 00:50:13,060
Or are you kind of just like
to be with the flow?
1076
00:50:13,160 --> 00:50:15,320
-What do you mean rules?
-As in...
1077
00:50:16,960 --> 00:50:20,100
I'm very old school
when it comes to relationships.
1078
00:50:20,200 --> 00:50:21,820
Yeah, okay.
1079
00:50:21,920 --> 00:50:24,020
Like, the male, the female
coming together.
1080
00:50:24,120 --> 00:50:26,180
[Daniel claps hands together]
Yeah, it sounds so weird.
1081
00:50:26,280 --> 00:50:28,300
See, I sound like I'm
such a controlling freak
1082
00:50:28,400 --> 00:50:30,500
and stuff like that but
it's not like that at all.
1083
00:50:30,600 --> 00:50:31,900
I just like to be,
I'm very set in my ways.
1084
00:50:32,000 --> 00:50:33,660
So, you just want to feel safe
in a relationship.
1085
00:50:33,760 --> 00:50:34,980
I wanna feel like
I'm in a relationship.
1086
00:50:35,080 --> 00:50:36,420
I don't wanna feel like
it's best friends,
1087
00:50:36,520 --> 00:50:37,860
you know what I mean?
1088
00:50:37,960 --> 00:50:39,860
'Cause I get friend zoned all
the time and it's just like, oh.
1089
00:50:39,960 --> 00:50:41,580
Well, let me clear it up.
1090
00:50:41,680 --> 00:50:43,860
I want a best friend
that I can also have sex with.
1091
00:50:43,960 --> 00:50:45,740
Well, hey, mate,
that's the answer.
1092
00:50:45,840 --> 00:50:47,460
That's the answer
I was looking for.
1093
00:50:47,560 --> 00:50:48,980
-So I'll write that one down.
-Yeah, yeah,
1094
00:50:49,080 --> 00:50:51,080
Write that down
in your little notebook.
1095
00:50:52,280 --> 00:50:53,780
Yeah, yeah.
1096
00:50:53,880 --> 00:50:56,100
I'm like... I've had such
a good time talking to you.
1097
00:50:56,200 --> 00:50:57,900
-Oh, yeah. I much appre--
-It's been really nice.
1098
00:50:58,000 --> 00:50:59,620
You got some yarns. I'm sure
there's more out there
1099
00:50:59,720 --> 00:51:01,340
the more we get, the more we get
to know each other, so yeah.
1100
00:51:01,440 --> 00:51:03,220
Well, I'm excited to
move in together.
1101
00:51:03,320 --> 00:51:04,900
[Daniel claps hands together]
Let's get it.
1102
00:51:05,000 --> 00:51:06,300
-Yeah, let's get it.
-Are you ready?
1103
00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:07,820
-Yeah, man.
-It'll be interesting.
1104
00:51:07,920 --> 00:51:10,140
You might have to stand up there
to give me a hug. You ready?
1105
00:51:10,240 --> 00:51:11,420
[Daniel and Nellie laugh]
1106
00:51:11,520 --> 00:51:13,140
-[Daniel] It was so nice--
-[Daniel and Nellie peck]
1107
00:51:13,240 --> 00:51:14,660
-It's so nice to meet you.
-Nice to meet you.
1108
00:51:14,760 --> 00:51:16,260
You want me to help you down
or are you right?
1109
00:51:16,360 --> 00:51:17,860
-Ready?
-[Nellie giggles]
1110
00:51:17,960 --> 00:51:19,660
-[Nellie laughs hysterically]
-[Daniel chuckles]
1111
00:51:19,760 --> 00:51:21,380
-You're right.
-Did you see that?
1112
00:51:21,480 --> 00:51:23,340
He full on was like...
1113
00:51:23,440 --> 00:51:26,900
No, no hassle at all.
1114
00:51:27,000 --> 00:51:28,580
It was like I was a grain
of sand,
1115
00:51:28,680 --> 00:51:30,300
and he was like, bloop.
[Nellie pops lips]
1116
00:51:30,400 --> 00:51:31,700
[Daniel] I'll take that
if you want.
1117
00:51:31,800 --> 00:51:33,340
-Oh, thank you.
-No worries.
1118
00:51:33,440 --> 00:51:34,780
-Nice to meet you, Nel, anyway.
-Nice to meet you.
1119
00:51:34,880 --> 00:51:36,540
I don't know why I was
going for a handshake. See ya.
1120
00:51:36,640 --> 00:51:38,640
[Nellie chuckles]
1121
00:51:39,720 --> 00:51:42,580
[Nellie chuckles]
It was such a good first date.
1122
00:51:42,680 --> 00:51:45,780
After the way he picked me up,
I think he might be into me.
1123
00:51:45,880 --> 00:51:48,400
The way he held me so,
so swiftly.
1124
00:51:49,400 --> 00:51:51,860
Then I was like, oh, yes.
1125
00:51:51,960 --> 00:51:54,440
[Nellie giggles]
This is good stuff.
1126
00:51:55,440 --> 00:51:58,340
I could feel my heart pattering
as I was walking away,
1127
00:51:58,440 --> 00:52:00,440
which I think is a good sign.
1128
00:52:10,080 --> 00:52:13,320
Do I think there's any chemistry
between Nel and I?
1129
00:52:14,240 --> 00:52:15,860
[Daniel sighs]
1130
00:52:15,960 --> 00:52:17,960
I don't think so.
1131
00:52:20,040 --> 00:52:21,740
She seems like a nice girl
1132
00:52:21,840 --> 00:52:25,140
but It seemed like I was talking
to a mate that's a female.
1133
00:52:25,240 --> 00:52:27,240
That's what it felt like.
1134
00:52:28,560 --> 00:52:30,740
Was there a spark there?
1135
00:52:30,840 --> 00:52:32,840
I don't think there was.
1136
00:52:35,640 --> 00:52:37,980
[narrator] In the Love Triangle
experience,
1137
00:52:38,080 --> 00:52:41,220
a bad first date is
never the end of the story.
1138
00:52:41,320 --> 00:52:44,220
The next time Nellie and Dan
see each other,
1139
00:52:44,320 --> 00:52:47,400
they'll be moving in together
for six weeks.
1140
00:52:50,440 --> 00:52:53,060
Sam and Emily
still have an opportunity
1141
00:52:53,160 --> 00:52:56,320
to push past their
own bad first impressions.
1142
00:52:57,600 --> 00:52:59,780
-When's your birthday?
-Eighth of July.
1143
00:52:59,880 --> 00:53:01,100
Ahh. Cancer?
1144
00:53:01,200 --> 00:53:02,700
So, I'm turning thirty-six
this year. I'm a Cancer.
1145
00:53:02,800 --> 00:53:03,980
-Ahh.
-What are you?
1146
00:53:04,080 --> 00:53:06,020
I'm a Virgo,
but second of September.
1147
00:53:06,120 --> 00:53:07,540
Okay. Right.
1148
00:53:07,640 --> 00:53:09,640
So, I'm turning thirty-seven
this year.
1149
00:53:11,120 --> 00:53:16,060
You're technically the only girl
that I've dated
1150
00:53:16,160 --> 00:53:18,160
that's older than me.
1151
00:53:19,600 --> 00:53:21,100
-Well...
-Listen, that's... Oi, that's--
1152
00:53:21,200 --> 00:53:22,420
That is so embarrassing.
1153
00:53:22,520 --> 00:53:23,660
-My god.
-Ah, excuse me.
1154
00:53:23,760 --> 00:53:25,760
Cheque.
1155
00:53:27,800 --> 00:53:31,180
It's not at all like a,
like a bad thing, Em.
1156
00:53:31,280 --> 00:53:33,880
I'm here to try something
different, effectively.
1157
00:53:35,120 --> 00:53:36,700
I never feel old.
1158
00:53:36,800 --> 00:53:38,340
-Do you know what I mean?
-No, you wouldn't.
1159
00:53:38,440 --> 00:53:40,500
This is the first time
I feel old. It's bizarre.
1160
00:53:40,600 --> 00:53:43,180
It's the most shitty feeling.
It's not ideal.
1161
00:53:43,280 --> 00:53:45,660
Oh, my god, dear. Don't like...
We've both got our own--
1162
00:53:45,760 --> 00:53:47,100
No, no, no, not old.
1163
00:53:47,200 --> 00:53:49,100
Just like, it's a new thing.
You know what I mean?
1164
00:53:49,200 --> 00:53:50,740
-Yeah, yeah.
-But it's new for both of us.
1165
00:53:50,840 --> 00:53:52,840
So it's, you know, it's fine.
1166
00:53:53,440 --> 00:53:56,660
It's not at all like a... I'm
half a foot shorter than you.
1167
00:53:56,760 --> 00:53:59,100
-[Emily laughs]
-Okay? So let's just, like...
1168
00:53:59,200 --> 00:54:00,460
[Emily] That's okay.
1169
00:54:00,560 --> 00:54:02,460
[waiter] Guys, I have our
raspberry and lychee ice cream.
1170
00:54:02,560 --> 00:54:03,660
[Emily gasps]
Yum.
1171
00:54:03,760 --> 00:54:05,460
-Oh, right. Yes. Sorry, mate.
-There we are.
1172
00:54:05,560 --> 00:54:08,540
We have our sticky date pudding
as well. And just this one.
1173
00:54:08,640 --> 00:54:09,740
-Yeah.
-Yum.
1174
00:54:09,840 --> 00:54:11,840
[Emily gasps]
Ooh.
1175
00:54:13,080 --> 00:54:14,540
-I'll put this here.
-Is that edible? No?
1176
00:54:14,640 --> 00:54:16,220
-No, it's not edible.
-Okay. Thank you.
1177
00:54:16,320 --> 00:54:17,700
How's this guy putting his sauce
1178
00:54:17,800 --> 00:54:20,100
on my woman's fucken pudding,
man?
1179
00:54:20,200 --> 00:54:21,580
-I know.
-Stop it, bro.
1180
00:54:21,680 --> 00:54:23,180
Oh, he's getting a little bit...
1181
00:54:23,280 --> 00:54:24,700
He's getting too familiar,
my guy.
1182
00:54:24,800 --> 00:54:25,900
-I know.
-I know.
1183
00:54:26,000 --> 00:54:28,000
[Emily chuckles]
A little bit.
1184
00:54:31,760 --> 00:54:33,820
-How tall are you on paper?
-Not tall.
1185
00:54:33,920 --> 00:54:35,260
You're not that tall. No.
1186
00:54:35,360 --> 00:54:36,780
I think I'm five nine.
So what's that?
1187
00:54:36,880 --> 00:54:39,860
-You're same as me.
-Five nine?
1188
00:54:39,960 --> 00:54:41,540
Yeah.
1189
00:54:41,640 --> 00:54:44,960
No way. No, you're not.
1190
00:54:46,520 --> 00:54:47,740
Are you?
[Emily chuckles]
1191
00:54:47,840 --> 00:54:49,860
I just mean, like, how come...
Really?
1192
00:54:49,960 --> 00:54:51,060
[Sam chuckles]
1193
00:54:51,160 --> 00:54:53,100
-That's selective...
-What...
1194
00:54:53,200 --> 00:54:54,740
[Emily laughs]
1195
00:54:54,840 --> 00:54:56,780
I'd like to think I'm five nine,
yeah.
1196
00:54:56,880 --> 00:54:58,340
Are you?
Okay, we're the same height.
1197
00:54:58,440 --> 00:55:01,060
So, it's the heels. So, why
don't we do this, not now.
1198
00:55:01,160 --> 00:55:04,620
I'll take my heels off and we'll
just do a back to back.
1199
00:55:04,720 --> 00:55:05,820
Okay.
1200
00:55:05,920 --> 00:55:07,220
And we could just, yeah,
really...
1201
00:55:07,320 --> 00:55:08,940
-We'll really nut it out.
-Make it official.
1202
00:55:09,040 --> 00:55:10,540
-Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
-[Emily and Sam chuckle]
1203
00:55:10,640 --> 00:55:12,300
'Cause that's what you wanna do.
1204
00:55:12,400 --> 00:55:13,660
That's exactly
what you wanna do.
1205
00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:15,580
I just wanna pair up with you
the same height.
1206
00:55:15,680 --> 00:55:17,140
Ah, you just wanna get
a bit closer to me.
1207
00:55:17,240 --> 00:55:18,420
I don't mind, actually. Yeah.
1208
00:55:18,520 --> 00:55:19,820
I'll get my hands on you
a little bit.
1209
00:55:19,920 --> 00:55:21,060
-[Emily giggles]
-But yeah.
1210
00:55:21,160 --> 00:55:23,180
Stop it.
1211
00:55:23,280 --> 00:55:25,340
Emily may be not what
I was expecting.
1212
00:55:25,440 --> 00:55:27,380
At the start obviously
it's quite jarring.
1213
00:55:27,480 --> 00:55:30,100
You know, on the spec sheet,
she's maybe not my type.
1214
00:55:30,200 --> 00:55:32,580
But the vibe between us
both at this stage,
1215
00:55:32,680 --> 00:55:34,840
it's very, very early,
but I think the vibe's good.
1216
00:55:39,120 --> 00:55:42,220
There's, ah, there's elements
of sexual chemistry, definitely.
1217
00:55:42,320 --> 00:55:44,260
-[Emily] That was so nice.
-[Sam] Did you have a good time?
1218
00:55:44,360 --> 00:55:45,540
-I did.
-Yeah?
1219
00:55:45,640 --> 00:55:46,980
-Thank you so much.
-It's alright.
1220
00:55:47,080 --> 00:55:48,420
It was such a nice place.
1221
00:55:48,520 --> 00:55:51,380
We'll only get more time
together from now I think. So...
1222
00:55:51,480 --> 00:55:53,480
[Emily] I'm really excited.
1223
00:55:55,720 --> 00:55:57,780
We're going to be living
together next,
1224
00:55:57,880 --> 00:55:59,660
next couple of days.
1225
00:55:59,760 --> 00:56:01,260
As of this weekend,
I dare say.
1226
00:56:01,360 --> 00:56:03,020
-Yeah.
-Yeah. I look forward to it.
1227
00:56:03,120 --> 00:56:05,120
Bye.
1228
00:56:06,440 --> 00:56:08,380
[Emily] He's got a sexy vibe
about him,
1229
00:56:08,480 --> 00:56:10,740
and I actually
almost feel a little bit
1230
00:56:10,840 --> 00:56:14,060
not great about my initial view
on him.
1231
00:56:14,160 --> 00:56:15,460
Yeah.
1232
00:56:15,560 --> 00:56:18,740
We've definitely got something,
and I don't know what it is,
1233
00:56:18,840 --> 00:56:20,960
but we definitely get along
really well.
1234
00:56:23,080 --> 00:56:25,120
[Sam] Yeah, it's a surprise.
1235
00:56:26,160 --> 00:56:28,060
Emily's not necessarily my type.
1236
00:56:28,160 --> 00:56:30,160
I do feel like...
1237
00:56:30,680 --> 00:56:33,380
I guess I generally date
in a younger age group,
1238
00:56:33,480 --> 00:56:35,140
so it's nice to,
1239
00:56:35,240 --> 00:56:37,640
it's nice when you can stir up
the old ducks as well.
1240
00:56:44,160 --> 00:56:46,160
[car honks]
1241
00:56:53,760 --> 00:56:55,300
I'm queer.
1242
00:56:55,400 --> 00:56:57,540
Ahh.
1243
00:56:57,640 --> 00:56:59,340
[Jacinta] So, I'm pansexual.
1244
00:56:59,440 --> 00:57:02,960
-Okay.
-So... But yeah.
1245
00:57:05,040 --> 00:57:07,040
[Nemo] Right. Okay.
1246
00:57:09,400 --> 00:57:11,480
[Jacinta] Like, do you
understand that?
1247
00:57:12,520 --> 00:57:15,680
[Nemo] You connect to people
on a personality level, right?
1248
00:57:18,160 --> 00:57:20,340
You're like that.
That's cool. Yeah.
1249
00:57:20,440 --> 00:57:22,960
Okay. Cool.
How do you feel about that?
1250
00:57:24,000 --> 00:57:26,000
Um...
1251
00:57:27,920 --> 00:57:30,580
I'm really not insecure
about that.
1252
00:57:30,680 --> 00:57:34,100
My partner, who I dated for,
like, four years,
1253
00:57:34,200 --> 00:57:37,500
like, we had experimented a bit
in our relationship with women.
1254
00:57:37,600 --> 00:57:39,500
So, would you say
you're open-minded?
1255
00:57:39,600 --> 00:57:41,180
Oh, a hundred percent.
1256
00:57:41,280 --> 00:57:43,100
I ask because
it's important to me.
1257
00:57:43,200 --> 00:57:44,740
It's a part of my life.
1258
00:57:44,840 --> 00:57:46,180
To be a pansexual,
1259
00:57:46,280 --> 00:57:48,300
to be a part of the community
is important to me,
1260
00:57:48,400 --> 00:57:49,700
and I needed to know that
1261
00:57:49,800 --> 00:57:51,300
you would be comfortable enough
with that.
1262
00:57:51,400 --> 00:57:52,860
-I rock with the community too.
-Exactly.
1263
00:57:52,960 --> 00:57:54,380
I get you. Okay.
1264
00:57:54,480 --> 00:57:55,900
'Cause if you didn't
it would be a problem.
1265
00:57:56,000 --> 00:57:57,260
I get that.
1266
00:57:57,360 --> 00:58:00,260
I got to ask,
are you like, the dom
1267
00:58:00,360 --> 00:58:02,220
or are you usually
like the fem?
1268
00:58:02,320 --> 00:58:03,700
-[Jacinta bursts out laughing]
-Huh?
1269
00:58:03,800 --> 00:58:05,300
[Nemo giggles]
I know my stuff.
1270
00:58:05,400 --> 00:58:06,700
Don't play with me.
1271
00:58:06,800 --> 00:58:10,100
So, in the queer world, I would
be known as the dom fem.
1272
00:58:10,200 --> 00:58:11,300
Right.
1273
00:58:11,400 --> 00:58:13,780
Which means I have dominance,
but I'm very feminine energy.
1274
00:58:13,880 --> 00:58:15,880
Mm-hm. I like that.
1275
00:58:17,560 --> 00:58:20,420
But I got to ask you, like, am I
the first guy you've seen in,
1276
00:58:20,520 --> 00:58:21,740
like, four or five years?
1277
00:58:21,840 --> 00:58:23,840
-Swear to god.
-Swear to god.
1278
00:58:24,360 --> 00:58:26,820
Oh, okay.
That's a lot of pressure.
1279
00:58:26,920 --> 00:58:29,100
-[Nemo chuckles]
-Seen, dated, been with.
1280
00:58:29,200 --> 00:58:30,660
-Holy shit!
-Everything in between.
1281
00:58:30,760 --> 00:58:32,620
-If you get what I mean.
-Yeah.
1282
00:58:32,720 --> 00:58:34,940
I haven't been with a man
in a very long time.
1283
00:58:35,040 --> 00:58:36,940
Am I doing alright for myself
so far?
1284
00:58:37,040 --> 00:58:39,520
-I mean, you're still here.
-Oh, okay.
1285
00:58:41,400 --> 00:58:44,020
[Jacinta] He was very
open-minded about, you know,
1286
00:58:44,120 --> 00:58:46,520
who I am and my sexuality
and being pansexual.
1287
00:58:47,360 --> 00:58:52,020
I was very surprised
at his terminology
1288
00:58:52,120 --> 00:58:54,860
when it came to
the queer community.
1289
00:58:54,960 --> 00:58:56,820
Some things he knew.
Some slang he understood.
1290
00:58:56,920 --> 00:58:58,740
And I was like, "Okay."
1291
00:58:58,840 --> 00:59:01,760
-Oh!
-Miss dom fem. I see you.
1292
00:59:04,280 --> 00:59:05,700
-Oh, I can't wait.
-Here we are.
1293
00:59:05,800 --> 00:59:07,140
It's going to be a fun time,
I think.
1294
00:59:07,240 --> 00:59:09,100
It's going to be fun and crazy
and experimental
1295
00:59:09,200 --> 00:59:10,540
and everything in between.
1296
00:59:10,640 --> 00:59:12,820
And then we're definitely going
to have some, like, barriers
1297
00:59:12,920 --> 00:59:14,180
where we're gonna fight.
1298
00:59:14,280 --> 00:59:15,380
Yeah.
1299
00:59:15,480 --> 00:59:16,820
Like, we're gonna, like,
not fight in a bad way.
1300
00:59:16,920 --> 00:59:18,380
We're going to really,
like, push our limits
1301
00:59:18,480 --> 00:59:20,060
and challenge each other,
and that's what I need.
1302
00:59:20,160 --> 00:59:21,580
I need that too.
1303
00:59:21,680 --> 00:59:24,180
But you have to be vulnerable
with me. Can you be vulnerable?
1304
00:59:24,280 --> 00:59:25,620
Yeah, for sure.
1305
00:59:25,720 --> 00:59:27,100
But we need to get there,
you know.
1306
00:59:27,200 --> 00:59:29,300
I'm not going to pull out my
poetry right now
1307
00:59:29,400 --> 00:59:31,500
and be like, "Here's all the
things I've loved and lost."
1308
00:59:31,600 --> 00:59:33,300
I mean, you're a poet?
1309
00:59:33,400 --> 00:59:36,620
I wouldn't... Okay.
1310
00:59:36,720 --> 00:59:38,860
I did write a poem called
"All or Nothing,"
1311
00:59:38,960 --> 00:59:40,860
which might describe me.
1312
00:59:40,960 --> 00:59:43,180
-Can I hear it?
-Oh, god.
1313
00:59:43,280 --> 00:59:44,860
[Jacinta giggles]
1314
00:59:44,960 --> 00:59:46,580
-[Nemo sighs]
-[Jacinta] It's okay.
1315
00:59:46,680 --> 00:59:48,300
-This is a lot.
-It's fine.
1316
00:59:48,400 --> 00:59:49,780
Know it's just a very
safe space right now.
1317
00:59:49,880 --> 00:59:51,060
-And I've done poetry.
-Safe space.
1318
00:59:51,160 --> 00:59:52,300
It's a safe space.
1319
00:59:52,400 --> 00:59:53,780
Let's pinkie promise
on safe space.
1320
00:59:53,880 --> 00:59:55,020
It's a safe space.
1321
00:59:55,120 --> 00:59:56,380
[Nemo and Jacinta
peck their hands]
1322
00:59:56,480 --> 00:59:58,180
[Nemo and Jacinta giggle]
I promise.
1323
00:59:58,280 --> 01:00:00,260
Okay. So, the poem is called
"All or Nothing."
1324
01:00:00,360 --> 01:00:02,360
All or Nothing.
1325
01:00:02,920 --> 01:00:06,340
"Don't praise my abilities
and understate my flaws.
1326
01:00:06,440 --> 01:00:10,260
Like God, I am everything
or nothing.
1327
01:00:10,360 --> 01:00:14,360
Peace and war, life and death,
freedom and bondage.
1328
01:00:18,520 --> 01:00:22,680
Do not disregard my darkness,
and appreciate my light.
1329
01:00:26,280 --> 01:00:27,420
[texting sounds]
1330
01:00:27,520 --> 01:00:28,820
Love me for all I am
1331
01:00:28,920 --> 01:00:31,140
[outgoing text sound]
1332
01:00:31,240 --> 01:00:32,780
Or dismiss me.
1333
01:00:32,880 --> 01:00:34,620
[incoming text sound]
1334
01:00:34,720 --> 01:00:37,100
Like the tree with leaves
touching heaven
1335
01:00:37,200 --> 01:00:39,020
And roots reaching hell
1336
01:00:39,120 --> 01:00:41,120
Accept my totality."
1337
01:00:41,840 --> 01:00:43,260
-Okay.
-You know what I mean?
1338
01:00:43,360 --> 01:00:44,900
-So, all of you.
-The whole thing. Yeah.
1339
01:00:45,000 --> 01:00:46,220
Okay.
1340
01:00:46,320 --> 01:00:49,340
[Jacinta] This date exceeded my
expectations on so many levels.
1341
01:00:49,440 --> 01:00:50,980
He showed himself.
1342
01:00:51,080 --> 01:00:53,500
He showed exactly who he is
and that's what I wanted,
1343
01:00:53,600 --> 01:00:55,380
and that's what I got,
and I loved it.
1344
01:00:55,480 --> 01:00:56,940
Just wanted to say thank you
for tonight.
1345
01:00:57,040 --> 01:00:58,500
-Yeah.
-And I had a good time and I--
1346
01:00:58,600 --> 01:01:00,020
-Yeah?
1347
01:01:00,120 --> 01:01:01,380
-See you?
-Yeah.
1348
01:01:01,480 --> 01:01:02,900
Yeah?
1349
01:01:03,000 --> 01:01:04,900
[Jacinta] I'm a bit scared
that we're too perfect.
1350
01:01:05,000 --> 01:01:06,700
Like, we're too similar.
1351
01:01:06,800 --> 01:01:08,220
-See you.
-See ya.
1352
01:01:08,320 --> 01:01:10,940
[Jacinta giggles]
That can be crazy and intense.
1353
01:01:11,040 --> 01:01:14,400
But it's also so exhilarating
and exciting.
1354
01:01:16,800 --> 01:01:18,380
I'm excited to see him again.
1355
01:01:18,480 --> 01:01:22,040
I... Like, let's just move in
tonight. Seriously.
1356
01:01:23,640 --> 01:01:25,540
[narrator] Next time
on Love Triangle
1357
01:01:25,640 --> 01:01:28,900
three new singles are
entering a dating experience...
1358
01:01:29,000 --> 01:01:31,020
[man 1] I probably didn't
put myself out there enough
1359
01:01:31,120 --> 01:01:33,020
'cause I don't like
being rejected.
1360
01:01:33,120 --> 01:01:35,300
[man 2] There's no substance
to a dating app.
1361
01:01:35,400 --> 01:01:38,220
A lot of people don't see me
for what I've been through.
1362
01:01:38,320 --> 01:01:40,580
...that swipes looks
off the table...
1363
01:01:40,680 --> 01:01:41,940
[man 1] I definitely think
1364
01:01:42,040 --> 01:01:43,420
my personality's
better than my looks.
1365
01:01:43,520 --> 01:01:45,300
I'd hope so.
Or else I've got nothing.
1366
01:01:45,400 --> 01:01:47,620
...in the search for
real chemistry.
1367
01:01:47,720 --> 01:01:49,880
"What really turns me on
is when a guy..."
1368
01:01:50,840 --> 01:01:52,180
Wow.
1369
01:01:52,280 --> 01:01:53,420
[woman] Nice to meet you.
1370
01:01:53,520 --> 01:01:55,220
But what happens when fantasy...
1371
01:01:55,320 --> 01:01:57,420
[man] The sexual chemistry
I'm probably not feeling.
1372
01:01:57,520 --> 01:01:59,520
What do you think about the
mullet? I have to ask you.
1373
01:02:00,920 --> 01:02:02,180
...becomes reality.
1374
01:02:02,280 --> 01:02:04,300
I feel right now like
I'm wasting my time.
1375
01:02:04,400 --> 01:02:06,260
-Hey!
-[Nemo chuckles]
1376
01:02:06,360 --> 01:02:07,860
And later this season...
1377
01:02:07,960 --> 01:02:09,100
[Jacinta] Not sure if
1378
01:02:09,200 --> 01:02:10,860
I should allow him
to take the first move,
1379
01:02:10,960 --> 01:02:12,540
or if I should
just let loose.
1380
01:02:12,640 --> 01:02:14,100
Can infatuation...
1381
01:02:14,200 --> 01:02:15,540
[Sam] Things are heating up
a little bit.
1382
01:02:15,640 --> 01:02:17,220
...survive cohabitation...
1383
01:02:17,320 --> 01:02:19,680
Do I want to have sex with you?
No, like, no, I don't.
1384
01:02:20,560 --> 01:02:22,620
Before the Love Triangle
twist...
1385
01:02:22,720 --> 01:02:24,180
-Hello there.
-Ooh!
1386
01:02:24,280 --> 01:02:26,540
...brings back
the rejected suitors.
1387
01:02:26,640 --> 01:02:28,140
-Hi.
-Hi, Jay.
1388
01:02:28,240 --> 01:02:29,580
[Sheree chuckles]
1389
01:02:29,680 --> 01:02:31,220
Can't wait to get back to dating
girls, huh?
1390
01:02:31,320 --> 01:02:32,820
You need to calm down
for a second.
1391
01:02:32,920 --> 01:02:35,140
And a twist within the twist...
1392
01:02:35,240 --> 01:02:36,540
No!
1393
01:02:36,640 --> 01:02:37,900
Fucken hell.
1394
01:02:38,000 --> 01:02:39,100
That's wild.
1395
01:02:39,200 --> 01:02:40,540
changes everything.
1396
01:02:40,640 --> 01:02:42,380
[Emily] She's younger than me.
She's beautiful.
1397
01:02:42,480 --> 01:02:44,260
Are you trying to play me
like I'm a clinger?
1398
01:02:44,360 --> 01:02:46,300
[Daniel] I wasn't expecting it,
but I'm jealous.
1399
01:02:46,400 --> 01:02:48,940
[Jacinta] There is a deep
insecurity happening with you.
1400
01:02:49,040 --> 01:02:50,180
It's not like I was
1401
01:02:50,280 --> 01:02:51,660
intentionally
trying to hurt anyone.
1402
01:02:51,760 --> 01:02:53,760
But you did.