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Welcome to the Season 3
Love Triangle reunion.

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I'm Chrishell Stause,

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and I do know a thing or two
about modern dating,

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and it is a minefield out there.

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But the Love Triangle experience
takes all of that away.

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Five brave singles
matched with two suitors

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in the hopes of forming
a life-changing connection,

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sight unseen.

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Tonight, we will be looking back

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on the most explosive
season yet.

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It's been several weeks

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since we last saw our singles
and their suitors.

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The question is,
who's still together?

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And who will be armed and ready
to deliver some shocking truths?

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Hard questions will be asked,
pressure will be applied,

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and no-one is safe
from the firing line.

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Get ready, because tonight,

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no stone will be left unturned.

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<i>This season,
our singles built connections</i>

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<i>over text with no idea what
their two matches looked like.</i>

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First impressions,
personality only, banter.

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Do I like you or not?

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<i>Each faced a massive choice.</i>

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I feel like
we've connected

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on a really deep level.

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<i>Which one to take on
a first date and move in with?</i>

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- Hi!
- Hi, pretty lady!

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How are you?

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How you going?

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- I'm Emma.
- Oh, my God!

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Nice to meet you.

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-Hello.
- Hello.

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- How's it going?
- Oh, my God!

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- It's not Dante, is it?
- Yeah.

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<i>With the triangles completed...</i>

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<i>...some got burned...</i>

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We can either sit here
and keep bickering

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or we can just move on and...

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Again, you just walked in, mate.

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<i>...but others found a spark.</i>

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Melissa's just
a breath of fresh air.

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So we're on
the up and up, maybe.

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Does that mean we are officially
out of the friend zone?

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I'd say we're out
of the friend zone.

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<i>Tonight, which couples
have stayed together?</i>

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Are you guys officially
boyfriend and girlfriend?

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Why are you always
playing the victim?

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- I literally...
- I don't know that I am.

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I can't agree that I am.

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<i>What feuds are still bubbling?</i>

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Alright, here we go.

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- Everyone's rolling.
- Here we go. Marking.

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<i>What they have said
behind the scenes exposed.</i>

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Marking.

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Hi, I'm Jaz.

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I'm not attracted
to her at all.

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That's bad.

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<i>And...</i>

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Oh, my God.

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<i>...the season's
biggest scandal revealed.</i>

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You kissed her while we
were all together at a party.

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You went behind
all of our backs.

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Don't put words in my mouth

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because that's not gonna work.

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Wow!

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Oh, my God, you look amazing!

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You look stunning.

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Thank you.

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Oh, my goodness!

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Here we are all together again.

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You guys look amazing.

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- How's everyone feeling?
- Excited.

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- Excited?
- Yeah, good.

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- Very good.
- OK.

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Anyone nervous?

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- I'm nervous.
- Yeah.

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- OK, some nerves.
- Nah.

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OK, maybe a little bit
of everything.

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-Mm.
- OK.

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Well, are you guys ready?

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- Yes!
- OK.

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Tonight we are going to
spill the tea

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and unpack everything that went
down over the last few weeks.

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You guys were very busy. OK.

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So let's get stuck in.

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Now I'm sweating.

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Alright, Mike,

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you are in the hot seat first.

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I'm gonna start with you.

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I know this isn't
your first rodeo,

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having appeared on
'Married at First Sight'.

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How do you feel your experience
was the second time around?

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Whew, I...

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Look, there's
been some good moments,

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I'm not gonna lie, um...

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It's been spicy too,

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and it's been emotional
and a bit exhausting.

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But, in general, I have enjoyed
it and I'm glad I've done this,

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so no regrets.

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OK, well, I'm seeing
a lot of reactions

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coming from this side
of the couch.

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So let's take a look
at what happened.

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Michael!

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- Hey!
- Hello!

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- Hello.
- How are you?

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- Nice to meet you.
- It's good to meet you.

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Melinda's beautiful,

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and I didn't expect her

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to be so attractive.

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Do I remind you of anyone?

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No.

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No?

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Oh, sh...

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I did a TV thing,
'Married at First Sight'.

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- Oh.
- Mm. Do you watch that?

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Yeah, I've seen... I haven't
seen you on it, though.

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- OK, well, good.
- Sorry.

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I googled Mike
last night.

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Holy shit,
who the hell am I living with?

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Last night, I heard her
in her bedroom

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with a male member
of production.

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I went into the room
and it got pretty heated.

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Are you gonna apologise
for yelling at me,

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or are we gonna just not mention
that you also yelled at me?

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-I didn't yell at you.
- You did yell at me.

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OK, so you're
out-and-out lying there.

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OK.

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The people that are
gonna be watching this...

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Yeah?

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...they don't all like me,
but you know what?

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They trust me
'cause I never tell bullshit.

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So I really hate to say this,

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but you're nowhere near as
relevant as you think you are.

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You are a 50-year-old
washed-up reality TV star.

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Mike has a very self-focused
personality

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and he's incredibly entitled.

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Your lack of ownership,
basically,

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to any situation

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is really a trait that
I don't admire in a person.

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What about
if I spoke to you that way?

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What about if I called you

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a 41-year-old washed-up
mother of three?

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How would that make you feel?

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I'm gonna ask you to
pack your stuff and leave.

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And, frankly,
I wanted a nice goodbye,

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but I'm gonna get up and
I'm gonna walk in the kitchen

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and I don't want to
see you again.

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- Melissa.
- Michael!

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- Hello!
- Hi, how are you?

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I'm good.

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Sorry, I'm really wet
from the rain.

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-That's OK.
-How are you?

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- I'm good. Let me get your bag.
- Can I come in?

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- Yeah, yeah, I'll get that.
- Thank you.

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Melissa is lovely.

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She's just
a breath of fresh air.

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♪ Stop right now

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♪ Thank you very much

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♪ I need somebody
with a human touch... ♪

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I'm gonna be
honest with you, Mike.

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I feel like your attitude

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and, like, your mentality

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has completely changed.

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If someone's bringing you down,
your mood's gonna be down.

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Yeah, that's true.

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You came in with someone
that wasn't positive,

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that was tearing you apart.

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Did you meet her?
- No. Didn't have the privilege.

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So how can you speak to
someone's character

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if you've never met her?

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Well, I'm going off
what Mike's been telling me.

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So I think
that that is a very unfair...

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This is Chloe.
Chloe's irritating.

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And this is Chloe just trying
to send a shot...

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...across the bow to you.

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Oh, well, what can I say?

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- That's how I feel.
- That's rude.

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Oh, come on, darling,
you're trying to line her up.

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I can see what
you're doing here.

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I can see it a mile off.

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She intentionally set out

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to make me appear shit to you.

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- And that's irritating?
- Oh, yeah.

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Yeah, it's totally unacceptable.

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You know, it's your
choice if you want to apologise.

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If you don't, it makes
no difference to me.

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Well, if it's not about you,
then there won't be an apology.

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That says a lot
about who you are, then.

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And that tells me
a little bit more.

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- Do you know what I mean? Like.
- What?!

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This is escalating now
unnecessarily.

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- This is an unnecessary...
- No. This is a discussion.

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And if you can't handle
a discussion,

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then that's another issue.

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Now I just feel like
you're belittling me a bit.

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This isn't an argument.
This is an adult conversation.

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And sometimes
they are confronting

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and they're challenging,
but they need to be had.

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I'm sensing
a patronising tone, though, now.

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This happens to me all the time.

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I'm just not a very good person.

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This stuff doesn't
happen to good people.

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I don't want to stuff this up

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and potentially lose
her respect.

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And it was a mean thing to say.

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It was very rude
and I am genuinely sorry.

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Um, you know what?

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You couldn't have done anything
better than come here today

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and just go,
"Chlo, I'm so sorry."

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Yeah, I'm proud of him for that.

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I have to thank you,
actually, for... for everything.

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Oh!

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I really do.

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Just for being understanding.

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Patient.

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I guess, for me,
you can't always expect someone

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to, you know, respond
or... or act how... how you would.

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As you know now, I do pull
people up on their behaviour.

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If you leave things unsaid,

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nothing's ever gonna work
in a relationship.

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I don't get, uh, too many
complaints in general.

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But you can't take on board
any constructive criticism.

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Do you not want to grow?

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I don't want one more
life coaching session from you.

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Obviously,
this is not gonna work.

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I know you weren't
trying to hurt me.

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I know you were trying
to make me a better man,

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and I have to appreciate that,
and I'll acknowledge that.

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-OK.
- That was intense!

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How do you guys feel after that?

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Melinda, I actually
want to start with you.

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Do you feel like you really
gave this a fair shot?

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Um, it was a little bit hard

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not to be reactive to certain
things that were said and done.

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Um, obviously, I need to
work on that a little bit.

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However, Mike still
hasn't been accountable.

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But I tried my best. I did.

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- Mike, do you want to respond?
- No, that's, uh...

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No, that's not right.

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It feels like there was
a lingering resentment

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that kind of happened
from the start with us,

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and, uh, and I don't think
we ever stood a chance.

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I mean, look, you know,
I've dated single mums before.

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And they're usually kind
and caring and gentle.

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Let's not bring the fact
that I'm a mother into anything.

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- And all of those things. But...
- Don't.

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Oh, well.

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I didn't see any
of the qualities

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that I would have expected
from someone like her.

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None.
Not from the minute we met.

252
00:11:58,699 --> 00:12:00,639
You know, try as I might,

253
00:12:00,739 --> 00:12:02,899
I just never got
any affection from her.

254
00:12:04,579 --> 00:12:09,680
So, you guys obviously didn't
make a match from the beginning.

255
00:12:09,780 --> 00:12:13,121
But a lot of this experience
is kind of, you know,

256
00:12:13,221 --> 00:12:15,401
seeing that, you know,
maybe sometimes

257
00:12:15,501 --> 00:12:17,721
what you look for in
the real world is not working,

258
00:12:17,821 --> 00:12:19,802
and so to try
and look past that.

259
00:12:19,902 --> 00:12:23,522
So, you know, that is
the goal of the experiment.

260
00:12:23,622 --> 00:12:25,882
Do you have any
regrets, Melinda?

261
00:12:25,982 --> 00:12:28,483
I regret not leaving
sooner than I did, yeah.

262
00:12:28,583 --> 00:12:30,583
OK.

263
00:12:31,023 --> 00:12:34,324
But then we had
Melissa join your house.

264
00:12:34,424 --> 00:12:36,604
And you guys
really looked so cute.

265
00:12:36,704 --> 00:12:38,644
I mean, I think we all
were just watching that,

266
00:12:38,744 --> 00:12:40,164
and it was so charming.

267
00:12:40,264 --> 00:12:43,445
So we started with
such hope, what happened?

268
00:12:45,585 --> 00:12:50,306
Mike's behaviour
started to crack at the seams.

269
00:12:51,306 --> 00:12:54,646
And at the party,
how he attacked Chloe.

270
00:12:54,746 --> 00:12:57,847
And I tried to have a
conversation with him about it,

271
00:12:57,947 --> 00:12:59,447
an adult conversation.

272
00:12:59,547 --> 00:13:01,627
And he took
no accountability for it.

273
00:13:02,908 --> 00:13:06,588
Mike, do you think that you have
some ownership in this?

274
00:13:07,748 --> 00:13:10,049
Look, I'm not justifying
what I said to Chloe,

275
00:13:10,149 --> 00:13:14,089
but... but she was deliberately
seeking to discredit me

276
00:13:14,189 --> 00:13:16,449
to this new partner
she'd known about five minutes.

277
00:13:16,549 --> 00:13:18,290
Why are you always
playing the victim?

278
00:13:18,390 --> 00:13:21,250
I don't know that I am.
I can't agree that I am.

279
00:13:21,350 --> 00:13:22,850
You questioned her
two minutes after meeting her

280
00:13:22,950 --> 00:13:24,491
and you were trying
to throw me in the shit.

281
00:13:24,591 --> 00:13:26,011
I didn't question her.

282
00:13:26,111 --> 00:13:27,691
I can see clear as day
what you were doing.

283
00:13:27,791 --> 00:13:30,371
- No, Mike, I'm really sorry...
- No, I can't agree with it.

284
00:13:30,471 --> 00:13:32,572
You could talk all night,
I can't agree with it.

285
00:13:32,672 --> 00:13:33,852
I think
just, like, sometimes

286
00:13:33,952 --> 00:13:36,132
the approach might not be,
like, to attack back,

287
00:13:36,232 --> 00:13:37,652
do you know what I mean?

288
00:13:37,752 --> 00:13:39,053
- I haven't...
- Let me just finish.

289
00:13:39,153 --> 00:13:40,493
Like, for example,
like, that happened,

290
00:13:40,593 --> 00:13:41,573
and Chloe said something

291
00:13:41,673 --> 00:13:43,173
that wasn't necessarily
attacking you.

292
00:13:43,273 --> 00:13:45,614
She was defending Melinda
because Melinda wasn't there.

293
00:13:45,714 --> 00:13:47,414
But your first instinct
was to go after her.

294
00:13:47,514 --> 00:13:49,214
And I feel like
that's happened so many times.

295
00:13:49,314 --> 00:13:52,054
- I can't agree with that.
- Here we go again.

296
00:13:52,154 --> 00:13:54,935
I copped it hard,
like I'm getting it here now.

297
00:13:55,035 --> 00:13:56,495
- How many conversations...
- At what point do I have...

298
00:13:56,595 --> 00:13:57,935
...did we have before...

299
00:13:58,035 --> 00:14:00,576
I do want to help. I can see
you're on the defence here.

300
00:14:00,676 --> 00:14:03,136
You just had
this moral superiority

301
00:14:03,236 --> 00:14:04,696
over me the whole time.

302
00:14:04,796 --> 00:14:06,857
Like, apparently, I just put
my foot wrong left and right.

303
00:14:06,957 --> 00:14:09,457
No, no, no,
what you did is you came in...

304
00:14:09,557 --> 00:14:11,297
This is easy...
It's easy to attack me.

305
00:14:11,397 --> 00:14:12,617
Again, you're talking over me.

306
00:14:12,717 --> 00:14:14,938
You come in,
you play the villain,

307
00:14:15,038 --> 00:14:17,418
and when people pull you up
on your poor behaviour,

308
00:14:17,518 --> 00:14:19,138
you go straight into
victim mentality...

309
00:14:19,238 --> 00:14:20,458
OK.

310
00:14:20,558 --> 00:14:23,019
...and you take zero
accountability for your actions.

311
00:14:23,119 --> 00:14:24,219
You are 50 years old.

312
00:14:24,319 --> 00:14:26,419
You are a grown man.

313
00:14:26,519 --> 00:14:28,339
- You can't go...
-Well, this is the...

314
00:14:28,439 --> 00:14:31,340
...walking around in life
treating people unkind

315
00:14:31,440 --> 00:14:34,340
and then when someone has the
responsibility to pull you up,

316
00:14:34,440 --> 00:14:36,501
like you said to me,
"Take me as I am,"

317
00:14:36,601 --> 00:14:38,461
they're not gonna take someone
as they are the way you are.

318
00:14:38,561 --> 00:14:40,261
You know how easy it is
for two people

319
00:14:40,361 --> 00:14:41,821
to sit either side of you
and attack you?

320
00:14:41,921 --> 00:14:42,982
- No.
- It is really easy.

321
00:14:43,082 --> 00:14:44,902
But we're doing it
based on facts.

322
00:14:45,002 --> 00:14:48,462
We're doing it based on facts
and we're not attacking you.

323
00:14:48,562 --> 00:14:50,143
Exactly. It's based on fact.

324
00:14:50,243 --> 00:14:51,823
We're actually giving you
constructive criticism.

325
00:14:51,923 --> 00:14:53,343
You can't handle
any constructive criticism.

326
00:14:53,443 --> 00:14:55,863
No, this isn't... No, this
isn't constructive criticism.

327
00:14:55,963 --> 00:14:59,824
OK, well, clearly,
there's no love lost here.

328
00:14:59,924 --> 00:15:02,584
Maybe you guys are gonna
be able to, you know, take this

329
00:15:02,684 --> 00:15:07,285
and use it towards a positive
outcome in the future.

330
00:15:10,205 --> 00:15:12,106
And it's never
too late to work on yourself.

331
00:15:12,206 --> 00:15:13,106
I've done that.

332
00:15:13,206 --> 00:15:14,266
I feel like anyone

333
00:15:14,366 --> 00:15:15,365
that's in a successful
relationship

334
00:15:15,366 --> 00:15:17,586
has to do that at some point.

335
00:15:17,686 --> 00:15:20,427
- So...
- Yeah. Yeah.

336
00:15:20,527 --> 00:15:22,107
...I'm saying that
to all of you guys.

337
00:15:22,207 --> 00:15:23,747
You know, I feel like

338
00:15:23,847 --> 00:15:25,507
it's easy to point the finger
at someone else,

339
00:15:25,607 --> 00:15:27,308
and sometimes you have to
point it at yourself.

340
00:15:37,969 --> 00:15:40,490
On to you, Payton and Jordan.

341
00:15:41,570 --> 00:15:43,230
How are you two going?

342
00:15:43,330 --> 00:15:45,230
Yeah, great.

343
00:15:45,330 --> 00:15:47,230
You look loved-up over there.

344
00:15:47,330 --> 00:15:50,631
Well, I feel like the show,
the experience, worked,

345
00:15:50,731 --> 00:15:53,791
because, you know, that's
what the whole point was.

346
00:15:53,891 --> 00:15:56,432
I think, you know,
just to stick with it,

347
00:15:56,532 --> 00:15:59,032
and this is, like, proof here.

348
00:15:59,132 --> 00:16:01,993
Well, how has life been
outside of the experiment?

349
00:16:02,093 --> 00:16:04,433
Yeah, well, she lives in Coffs,

350
00:16:04,533 --> 00:16:06,233
I live in Brissie,
so long distance.

351
00:16:06,333 --> 00:16:09,314
But, um, yeah, from my side,

352
00:16:09,414 --> 00:16:10,834
like, the feelings
are still there.

353
00:16:10,934 --> 00:16:12,034
For sure. So...

354
00:16:12,134 --> 00:16:13,394
- And me too.
- Yeah.

355
00:16:13,494 --> 00:16:16,175
Are you guys officially
boyfriend and girlfriend?

356
00:16:17,575 --> 00:16:18,875
- Yeah.
- Yeah.

357
00:16:18,975 --> 00:16:20,755
Oh, really?

358
00:16:22,095 --> 00:16:23,476
OK.

359
00:16:23,576 --> 00:16:24,756
We won. We won the game.

360
00:16:26,176 --> 00:16:27,916
- Do we get our prize money now?
- We won.

361
00:16:30,937 --> 00:16:33,397
So do you think, you know,
with the long distance,

362
00:16:33,497 --> 00:16:35,837
does anyone foresee
themselves moving?

363
00:16:35,937 --> 00:16:37,758
We're both open
to the idea of moving.

364
00:16:37,858 --> 00:16:40,318
Yeah, and we both could move,
potentially,

365
00:16:40,418 --> 00:16:42,118
because we both, like,
run our own businesses.

366
00:16:42,218 --> 00:16:44,318
So it's possible for both of us.

367
00:16:44,418 --> 00:16:46,199
- Mm.
- And Coffs has a beach, so...

368
00:16:47,339 --> 00:16:49,119
- A nice one too. Yeah.
- Yeah.

369
00:16:49,219 --> 00:16:51,239
- Winner.
-Mm.

370
00:16:51,339 --> 00:16:52,720
I better be at this wedding, though.

371
00:16:52,820 --> 00:16:54,440
If I'm not there, honestly...

372
00:16:54,540 --> 00:16:56,600
- Dante, you're the groomsman.
- He's a flower boy.

373
00:16:58,060 --> 00:17:00,121
Dante, I know
you really like Payton as well.

374
00:17:00,221 --> 00:17:01,161
I did, yeah.

375
00:17:01,261 --> 00:17:02,761
So how are you feeling,

376
00:17:02,861 --> 00:17:04,681
knowing that they're
going strong?

377
00:17:04,781 --> 00:17:07,922
Like, I actually am
genuinely happy for them, yeah.

378
00:17:08,022 --> 00:17:10,242
'Cause, um, at the end of it,

379
00:17:10,342 --> 00:17:12,962
I came out, like, having
love for both of these guys.

380
00:17:13,062 --> 00:17:14,683
So if they're happy together,

381
00:17:14,783 --> 00:17:17,303
I'm sincerely happy
for both of them, yeah.

382
00:17:18,943 --> 00:17:20,203
Well, Payton, it's obvious

383
00:17:20,303 --> 00:17:22,564
you had both guys competing
for your attention.

384
00:17:22,664 --> 00:17:25,424
So let's take a look
at how it panned out.

385
00:17:27,824 --> 00:17:30,085
- Hello.
- Hi.

386
00:17:30,185 --> 00:17:31,565
-How you going?
- I'm good. How are you?

387
00:17:31,665 --> 00:17:32,565
Good.

388
00:17:32,665 --> 00:17:35,366
- Jordan?
- Yes.

389
00:17:35,466 --> 00:17:38,086
Yeah, he's handsome. So, yeah,
it'll be, um, interesting.

390
00:17:38,186 --> 00:17:40,566
I'm excited to
get to know him more.

391
00:17:40,666 --> 00:17:43,127
-You look amazing.
- Thanks. Nice yellow shirt.

392
00:17:43,227 --> 00:17:45,567
We could definitely
have a love story on our hands.

393
00:17:45,667 --> 00:17:48,407
Yeah, fingers crossed,
it just keeps going well.

394
00:17:48,507 --> 00:17:50,528
Everything so far
has been amazing.

395
00:17:50,628 --> 00:17:53,648
Payton and I have formed
a, yeah, very good connection.

396
00:17:53,748 --> 00:17:57,389
You said that it was the
friend zone, and that was it.

397
00:17:58,509 --> 00:18:00,489
I just would rather
you not babble the bullshit

398
00:18:00,589 --> 00:18:02,649
and rather
just be honest about it.

399
00:18:02,749 --> 00:18:04,890
Payton's not
my, uh, normal type.

400
00:18:04,990 --> 00:18:06,650
That doesn't matter at all,

401
00:18:06,750 --> 00:18:08,750
'cause in the past,
it hasn't mattered either.

402
00:18:10,470 --> 00:18:11,531
-Hello.
- Hello.

403
00:18:11,631 --> 00:18:12,931
How's it going?

404
00:18:13,031 --> 00:18:14,571
It's not Dante, is it?

405
00:18:14,671 --> 00:18:16,531
Yeah, not... not Uber Eats.

406
00:18:21,312 --> 00:18:24,052
I am jealous, but I don't know
whether I'm jealous

407
00:18:24,152 --> 00:18:26,613
of Payton's time just because
I enjoy her company so much

408
00:18:26,713 --> 00:18:28,713
or if it's a romantic thing.

409
00:18:29,473 --> 00:18:30,893
I'm attracted to you.

410
00:18:30,993 --> 00:18:34,894
I think you're really cool,
and I would like to see

411
00:18:34,994 --> 00:18:37,974
if this could turn
into a relationship.

412
00:18:38,074 --> 00:18:39,495
What about you?

413
00:18:39,595 --> 00:18:40,695
Just, like,

414
00:18:40,795 --> 00:18:43,055
I've never had anyone say
anything like...

415
00:18:45,715 --> 00:18:47,456
I've got... I've got no English.

416
00:18:47,556 --> 00:18:49,256
No notes. No notes.

417
00:18:50,996 --> 00:18:52,996
Yeah,
I just don't love it.

418
00:18:54,797 --> 00:18:58,737
I need to just take a slower
and steadier approach, maybe.

419
00:18:58,837 --> 00:18:59,937
I don't know.

420
00:19:00,037 --> 00:19:02,358
- Yeah, I know.
-He's giving you nothing.

421
00:19:07,358 --> 00:19:09,719
I just feel like sometimes
we're on different pages.

422
00:19:13,559 --> 00:19:15,380
- I didn't mean it, what I said.
- Yeah, whatever.

423
00:19:17,040 --> 00:19:19,040
Payton.

424
00:19:20,280 --> 00:19:21,420
No, Payton, come on.

425
00:19:28,761 --> 00:19:29,742
I feel really sad.

426
00:19:29,842 --> 00:19:31,542
I feel bad that I did that.

427
00:19:31,642 --> 00:19:32,982
I didn't mean it like that.

428
00:19:37,043 --> 00:19:39,643
Yeah, I guess Dante's
misstep made us closer.

429
00:19:40,643 --> 00:19:42,923
What?!

430
00:19:50,124 --> 00:19:51,465
Hello!

431
00:19:51,565 --> 00:19:53,565
How you going?

432
00:19:54,285 --> 00:19:55,785
Every day
I got to spend with you,

433
00:19:55,885 --> 00:19:58,666
I liked you a little bit more,

434
00:19:58,766 --> 00:20:03,946
and to the point where
I could see you as,

435
00:20:04,046 --> 00:20:09,447
you know, the mother to my kids,
a wife, all of that, you know?

436
00:20:10,767 --> 00:20:13,108
You're someone
I want to be with.

437
00:20:13,208 --> 00:20:15,248
I'd like to give things a go
with you too.

438
00:20:16,448 --> 00:20:18,748
Does that mean
you're choosing me?

439
00:20:18,848 --> 00:20:20,849
That means I'm choosing you.

440
00:20:21,649 --> 00:20:24,529
I think we need a kiss
to seal the deal now.

441
00:20:51,613 --> 00:20:53,613
That's good.

442
00:22:10,584 --> 00:22:12,584
That's bad.

443
00:22:13,824 --> 00:22:15,285
- That's fucked.
- Yeah, that's fucked.

444
00:22:15,385 --> 00:22:17,545
- Oh, my God.
- Oh, my God.

445
00:22:18,625 --> 00:22:20,625
Payton, are you OK?

446
00:22:31,787 --> 00:22:34,847
Payton, I understand that was
a lot to watch all at once.

447
00:22:34,947 --> 00:22:36,928
But when you're ready,

448
00:22:37,028 --> 00:22:39,028
what's going through
your head right now?

449
00:22:42,468 --> 00:22:44,729
I'd... I'd love you to
take the floor, actually.

450
00:22:44,829 --> 00:22:46,809
I'd love you to explain
your way out of that.

451
00:22:46,909 --> 00:22:49,029
Hmm. There is no explanation.
That was terrible.

452
00:22:51,310 --> 00:22:54,250
But that was...

453
00:22:54,350 --> 00:22:56,970
That... that is how I felt
in the first week.

454
00:22:57,070 --> 00:22:59,951
I told you that
you weren't my normal type.

455
00:23:05,992 --> 00:23:07,732
I don't know who
I was talking to then,

456
00:23:07,832 --> 00:23:11,092
but obviously got carried away

457
00:23:11,192 --> 00:23:13,773
and, yeah, I did.

458
00:23:13,873 --> 00:23:14,973
You were speaking to Nuri.

459
00:23:15,073 --> 00:23:15,973
Talking to me.

460
00:23:23,634 --> 00:23:25,814
Payton, do you believe that?

461
00:23:25,914 --> 00:23:29,255
Honestly, at this point,
it's expected.

462
00:23:29,355 --> 00:23:32,215
It's, like, I'm just used... I'm
so used to being disappointed.

463
00:23:36,076 --> 00:23:38,336
My biggest thing is honesty.

464
00:23:38,436 --> 00:23:41,377
And... yeah,

465
00:23:41,477 --> 00:23:45,757
and that just... just genuinely
doesn't feel like it was honest.

466
00:23:51,918 --> 00:23:55,699
Payton, I just want to say,

467
00:23:55,799 --> 00:23:57,699
you are so beautiful.

468
00:23:57,799 --> 00:24:00,639
I hope you feel that,
and I hope you know that.

469
00:24:05,080 --> 00:24:07,620
And just because
of someone's opinion of you,

470
00:24:07,720 --> 00:24:11,581
that in no way, shape or form

471
00:24:11,681 --> 00:24:13,681
means anything about your worth.

472
00:24:16,441 --> 00:24:19,302
It just means that person
has an inability to see it,

473
00:24:19,402 --> 00:24:21,302
but I hope you do not feel that.

474
00:24:21,402 --> 00:24:23,262
Yeah, I'm not... not thrilled

475
00:24:23,362 --> 00:24:25,363
about the situation,
to be honest.

476
00:24:26,283 --> 00:24:28,183
And, like, the fact that
you're the creator of that

477
00:24:28,283 --> 00:24:29,463
is even more shithouse.

478
00:24:29,563 --> 00:24:31,424
- I know. That was all me.
- So...

479
00:24:31,524 --> 00:24:33,704
That wasn't prompted...

480
00:24:33,804 --> 00:24:34,944
- Pfft!
- ...at all.

481
00:24:35,044 --> 00:24:37,624
Like, I said it.

482
00:24:37,724 --> 00:24:40,565
I forgot I said it,
but I said it.

483
00:24:41,685 --> 00:24:42,785
I think what we're missing

484
00:24:42,885 --> 00:24:46,246
is a genuine, remorseful
apology to Payton.

485
00:24:47,246 --> 00:24:49,866
I'm genuinely sorry
for saying it.

486
00:24:49,966 --> 00:24:51,346
Like, I can't even
imagine what you felt.

487
00:24:51,446 --> 00:24:53,447
Like, it's just betrayal.

488
00:24:54,887 --> 00:24:57,747
Dante, it was clear that you had
real feelings for Payton.

489
00:24:57,847 --> 00:25:00,388
How did that make
you feel watching that?

490
00:25:00,488 --> 00:25:02,508
I feel sorry for Payton.

491
00:25:02,608 --> 00:25:06,388
It's pretty disappointing to
hear that Jordan did say that.

492
00:25:06,488 --> 00:25:09,909
'Cause, um, I do believe
that Jordan cares about Payton.

493
00:25:10,009 --> 00:25:11,949
I believe that that's real.

494
00:25:12,049 --> 00:25:14,590
I'm not saying
she should forgive any of that.

495
00:25:14,690 --> 00:25:16,910
Could you forgive someone
for saying that about you?

496
00:25:17,010 --> 00:25:19,010
I don't know if I could.

497
00:25:20,530 --> 00:25:22,031
Payton, I just have to ask,

498
00:25:22,131 --> 00:25:25,371
do you see a way forward
for the two of you?

499
00:25:27,451 --> 00:25:29,452
I don't know. I don't know.

500
00:25:30,012 --> 00:25:31,512
I really don't know.

501
00:25:31,612 --> 00:25:33,512
I wouldn't blame you
at all if you didn't.

502
00:25:33,612 --> 00:25:36,593
But I think at least you would
know my feelings are real

503
00:25:36,693 --> 00:25:38,673
if... if I did say that,

504
00:25:38,773 --> 00:25:41,233
and then why would I
keep pursuing it,

505
00:25:41,333 --> 00:25:42,553
even after the show?

506
00:25:42,653 --> 00:25:44,474
Well, I can think
of a few reasons.

507
00:25:44,574 --> 00:25:45,954
Wow.

508
00:25:46,054 --> 00:25:48,054
There is the reason of clout.

509
00:25:49,134 --> 00:25:51,315
And to want to look
like the good guy on TV.

510
00:25:51,415 --> 00:25:53,275
And then, you know,
before this airs,

511
00:25:53,375 --> 00:25:55,375
you will have broken up
with her.

512
00:25:57,616 --> 00:25:59,676
I'm well versed
in reality television.

513
00:25:59,776 --> 00:26:03,276
It is a very valid option that
people do this for all the time.

514
00:26:03,376 --> 00:26:05,037
Right.
OK, well, that's a reason.

515
00:26:05,137 --> 00:26:06,797
But not that reason.

516
00:26:06,897 --> 00:26:08,897
It's, uh...

517
00:26:09,337 --> 00:26:13,518
I genuinely hope
that's not the case.

518
00:26:13,618 --> 00:26:14,678
But I don't feel like

519
00:26:14,778 --> 00:26:17,058
you're fighting for Payton
in this moment.

520
00:26:18,859 --> 00:26:21,279
I don't think there's any,
like, apology I can say now

521
00:26:21,379 --> 00:26:22,319
to make up for that.

522
00:26:22,419 --> 00:26:24,119
The only thing I can do
is show you

523
00:26:24,219 --> 00:26:27,040
in the next few weeks
how much you do mean to me now

524
00:26:27,140 --> 00:26:29,720
and how much I have changed,

525
00:26:29,820 --> 00:26:32,400
you know, my feelings
towards you.

526
00:26:32,500 --> 00:26:34,281
There you go. There you go.
There's some oomph.

527
00:26:34,381 --> 00:26:36,641
Right, well...

528
00:26:36,741 --> 00:26:39,361
But, you know,
there's nothing I can say.

529
00:26:39,461 --> 00:26:40,962
- No, there isn't. No.
- Because that...

530
00:26:41,062 --> 00:26:43,062
'Cause that... that was fucked.

531
00:26:45,422 --> 00:26:50,443
Payton,
could you move past this?

532
00:26:58,584 --> 00:27:00,584
We'll see.

533
00:27:03,585 --> 00:27:05,525
If there's any advice
I could give you,

534
00:27:05,625 --> 00:27:09,066
it would be to trust your gut
and don't second-guess it.

535
00:27:22,907 --> 00:27:25,548
Alright, Ariana and Nuri.

536
00:27:26,588 --> 00:27:29,048
It seemed like you guys went
from strength to strength

537
00:27:29,148 --> 00:27:30,569
in this experience.

538
00:27:30,669 --> 00:27:33,329
Although, unlike
the others here, Ariana,

539
00:27:33,429 --> 00:27:35,889
you never really got
the full triangle experience

540
00:27:35,989 --> 00:27:38,210
because your other suitor, Sam,

541
00:27:38,310 --> 00:27:41,370
left before things
really got started.

542
00:27:41,470 --> 00:27:42,570
And, unfortunately,

543
00:27:42,670 --> 00:27:45,411
Sam isn't here tonight
to weigh in on anything,

544
00:27:45,511 --> 00:27:46,931
so, Ariana and Nuri,

545
00:27:47,031 --> 00:27:50,211
let's have a look back
at your time together.

546
00:27:50,311 --> 00:27:53,312
I can't wait to get an update
on where you guys are today.

547
00:27:54,512 --> 00:27:58,212
I have heard nothing
from Sam at all, all day.

548
00:27:58,312 --> 00:28:00,493
He basically said
he just decided

549
00:28:00,593 --> 00:28:03,373
you're not his cup of tea,
and that's why he's pulling out.

550
00:28:03,473 --> 00:28:06,834
Amazing. Cool.

551
00:28:10,074 --> 00:28:14,375
I'm just gonna go on a date
with Nuri and see what happens.

552
00:28:17,915 --> 00:28:19,975
-Ari?
- Hey.

553
00:28:20,075 --> 00:28:21,496
- How are you?
- I'm good.

554
00:28:21,596 --> 00:28:23,176
Ooh, sorry.

555
00:28:23,276 --> 00:28:25,376
- How are you going?
- I'm good. How are you?

556
00:28:25,476 --> 00:28:28,137
- Good to finally meet you.
- Yeah, I know! Finally.

557
00:28:28,237 --> 00:28:29,377
Would you like a drink?

558
00:28:29,477 --> 00:28:31,377
Yeah, 100%.

559
00:28:31,477 --> 00:28:33,257
I'm nervous.
I'm fucking sweating.

560
00:28:33,357 --> 00:28:34,297
Yeah, I can see.

561
00:28:34,397 --> 00:28:35,738
- What about you?
- Chill. Just relax.

562
00:28:35,838 --> 00:28:37,538
- You're a chill guy.
- Yeah, give me your hand.

563
00:28:37,638 --> 00:28:38,938
- Yeah.
- Yeah. Just relax.

564
00:28:39,038 --> 00:28:40,218
You're a bit sweaty,
though, too.

565
00:28:40,318 --> 00:28:41,538
Yeah.

566
00:28:41,638 --> 00:28:44,519
He's so hot.

567
00:28:48,079 --> 00:28:49,500
I'm gonna kiss you now.

568
00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:52,380
Oh, that's so cringe.

569
00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:55,200
Yeah, don't.

570
00:28:57,641 --> 00:28:59,461
I get it.

571
00:28:59,561 --> 00:29:01,661
I did deny a kiss tonight.

572
00:29:01,761 --> 00:29:03,662
But I'm looking forward
to next time,

573
00:29:03,762 --> 00:29:05,142
that's for sure.

574
00:29:05,242 --> 00:29:08,142
So you remember the first date?

575
00:29:08,242 --> 00:29:09,502
When I got rejected.

576
00:29:09,602 --> 00:29:12,683
Oh, fuck off.

577
00:29:13,883 --> 00:29:15,823
- We're on our second date now.
- What?

578
00:29:15,923 --> 00:29:17,463
I've been wanting to do this.

579
00:29:17,563 --> 00:29:18,704
What?

580
00:29:24,564 --> 00:29:25,985
Oh!

581
00:29:26,085 --> 00:29:28,665
I like her chat. I like
her banter. I like her jokes.

582
00:29:28,765 --> 00:29:30,225
You know,
you get those butterflies.

583
00:29:30,325 --> 00:29:32,586
You get those, like, buzzy bees
in your willy kind of thing.

584
00:29:32,686 --> 00:29:34,686
Oh!

585
00:29:40,887 --> 00:29:43,027
-Hey, how are you?
- Hello.

586
00:29:43,127 --> 00:29:45,127
I'm Sam.

587
00:29:47,248 --> 00:29:48,508
Come in, I guess.

588
00:29:48,608 --> 00:29:50,188
With a knife in hand, look out.

589
00:29:52,008 --> 00:29:53,748
I'm kind of confused

590
00:29:53,848 --> 00:29:57,949
as to what the fuck
you're doing here, really.

591
00:29:58,049 --> 00:29:59,749
Have you never been
rejected before?

592
00:29:59,849 --> 00:30:01,070
Is that the big problem?

593
00:30:01,170 --> 00:30:04,190
-Oh, no, I have.
- So what's the big problem?

594
00:30:04,290 --> 00:30:05,510
This is a whole experience.

595
00:30:05,610 --> 00:30:07,790
You chose him first,
and I was second.

596
00:30:07,890 --> 00:30:09,951
I had... No, I had no choice.

597
00:30:10,051 --> 00:30:12,051
You robbed me of that.

598
00:30:29,693 --> 00:30:31,634
I just want
to get out of here.

599
00:30:31,734 --> 00:30:33,434
Get my bag. I'm out.

600
00:30:33,534 --> 00:30:35,534
That's all you need to know.

601
00:30:36,734 --> 00:30:38,435
Sam skedaddled.

602
00:30:38,535 --> 00:30:41,395
I'm not gonna get myself
worked up over it.

603
00:30:41,495 --> 00:30:43,195
Not when I have
a really good guy here

604
00:30:43,295 --> 00:30:45,296
that's actually
putting in the effort.

605
00:30:47,416 --> 00:30:49,416
Oh, no.

606
00:30:52,537 --> 00:30:54,917
Bath was hot.

607
00:30:55,017 --> 00:30:59,158
Both hot and, like,
fucking steaming.

608
00:30:59,258 --> 00:31:00,518
We're two peas in a pod,

609
00:31:00,618 --> 00:31:02,318
like, and that doesn't
come around very often.

610
00:31:02,418 --> 00:31:03,318
Mmm.

611
00:31:03,418 --> 00:31:07,039
So, yeah, I would like to see

612
00:31:07,139 --> 00:31:09,699
how we go on the outside
of the bubble.

613
00:31:10,739 --> 00:31:14,120
Oh, my God.

614
00:31:14,220 --> 00:31:16,040
Would you like to join me
on a date on the outside?

615
00:31:18,540 --> 00:31:20,541
Yeah, I would. Yeah.

616
00:31:22,261 --> 00:31:24,461
- That was awkward.
- Yeah.

617
00:31:26,821 --> 00:31:28,642
Wow!

618
00:31:28,742 --> 00:31:31,882
OK, watching that back,
you guys have amazing chemistry.

619
00:31:31,982 --> 00:31:33,562
I'm finding myself
cheesing over here.

620
00:31:33,662 --> 00:31:36,263
Please tell me
that the dream is still alive.

621
00:31:39,423 --> 00:31:42,524
- Um, not exactly, no.
- No!

622
00:31:45,584 --> 00:31:47,764
What happened?

623
00:31:47,864 --> 00:31:50,265
Um, well, we left.

624
00:31:51,425 --> 00:31:53,325
Uh...

625
00:31:53,425 --> 00:31:55,165
It's so weird to,
like, watch that back.

626
00:31:55,265 --> 00:31:57,006
It's just so weird.

627
00:31:57,106 --> 00:31:59,206
Um, no, we left.

628
00:31:59,306 --> 00:32:01,646
He went back to the Gold Coast,
I went back to Melbourne.

629
00:32:01,746 --> 00:32:04,287
Yeah, we texted,
I guess, a little bit.

630
00:32:04,387 --> 00:32:07,547
But there hasn't
really been anything.

631
00:32:08,547 --> 00:32:12,308
I feel like there hasn't really
been any effort with that.

632
00:32:14,108 --> 00:32:15,808
So were you texting
and calling him

633
00:32:15,908 --> 00:32:17,208
and he wouldn't return them?

634
00:32:17,308 --> 00:32:18,249
We were texting,

635
00:32:18,349 --> 00:32:22,889
and the replies
got more drawn out.

636
00:32:22,989 --> 00:32:24,570
It's, like,
I'm not gonna sit there

637
00:32:24,670 --> 00:32:26,670
and beg for someone's attention.

638
00:32:28,230 --> 00:32:29,330
Nuri?

639
00:32:29,430 --> 00:32:30,610
Like, yeah, me and Ariana

640
00:32:30,710 --> 00:32:32,411
had, like, a fantastic
experience together.

641
00:32:32,511 --> 00:32:34,491
But, like,
she's not in the same state.

642
00:32:34,591 --> 00:32:37,771
And I've made it very clear
I don't... I hate...

643
00:32:37,871 --> 00:32:39,952
I had a very bad experience
with, like, long distance.

644
00:32:42,672 --> 00:32:43,892
And, like,

645
00:32:43,992 --> 00:32:46,873
that's, like, obviously
a major thing for me.

646
00:32:48,273 --> 00:32:52,173
But she has also spoke about
moving to the Gold Coast.

647
00:32:52,273 --> 00:32:54,094
But I don't know when that is.

648
00:32:54,194 --> 00:32:56,134
Within the next year
is what she's saying.

649
00:32:56,234 --> 00:32:58,374
Long distance can work.

650
00:33:01,435 --> 00:33:04,615
Ariana, how are
your feelings for Nuri?

651
00:33:04,715 --> 00:33:08,336
I mean, we get along
really great.

652
00:33:08,436 --> 00:33:11,136
Yeah, I did catch feelings
for him and I was...

653
00:33:11,236 --> 00:33:14,016
It's a bit hard, like, looking
at that, it was hard not to.

654
00:33:14,116 --> 00:33:16,977
We were like two little kids
in the house

655
00:33:17,077 --> 00:33:20,337
just having so much fun,
and it was easy.

656
00:33:20,437 --> 00:33:21,697
Is it hard to see him tonight?

657
00:33:21,797 --> 00:33:24,918
Um, yes and no.

658
00:33:26,678 --> 00:33:28,738
It is a little bit hard,
but also it's easy.

659
00:33:28,838 --> 00:33:31,699
Like, it's easy to
get along with him.

660
00:33:31,799 --> 00:33:33,999
Is it hard for you to see her?

661
00:33:35,519 --> 00:33:38,900
No, like, I think we have, like,
a genuinely good connection.

662
00:33:39,000 --> 00:33:41,900
Like, I don't think
it's hard at all seeing her.

663
00:33:42,000 --> 00:33:45,461
Like, obviously, I did say
to her before that I...

664
00:33:45,561 --> 00:33:47,501
I'm just hearing her laugh, eh?

665
00:33:47,601 --> 00:33:49,601
So we were laughing, so...

666
00:33:52,522 --> 00:33:55,982
OK, so, I mean, I
picked up on so much chemistry.

667
00:33:56,082 --> 00:33:58,863
I haven't heard, like,
a deal-breaker type reason.

668
00:33:58,963 --> 00:34:00,383
Is there any chance

669
00:34:00,483 --> 00:34:03,843
that you guys could have a shot
after tonight?

670
00:34:08,484 --> 00:34:10,504
Yeah, there's a possibility, yeah.

671
00:34:10,604 --> 00:34:14,425
If she comes to the Gold Coast
and we're in the same city,

672
00:34:14,525 --> 00:34:16,565
then, like, 100% open to...

673
00:34:17,565 --> 00:34:20,066
If she doesn't wanna punch me
in the face after this, but...

674
00:34:21,366 --> 00:34:22,946
Yeah, after that answer, Ariana,

675
00:34:23,046 --> 00:34:24,946
I would say,
"Do not pack your bags."

676
00:34:25,046 --> 00:34:26,987
- That was not...
- She's not coming for me.

677
00:34:27,087 --> 00:34:29,907
I wouldn't be going for him. I
just want to make that so clear.

678
00:34:30,007 --> 00:34:32,007
Already made it clear.

679
00:34:35,928 --> 00:34:39,308
Well, I don't know what
the future holds for you guys,

680
00:34:39,408 --> 00:34:41,149
but I'm gonna hold out hope.

681
00:34:43,969 --> 00:34:45,509
But you should never settle.

682
00:34:45,609 --> 00:34:47,189
- No.
- You have a gorgeous heart.

683
00:34:47,289 --> 00:34:49,550
And if somebody's not giving you
what you're giving,

684
00:34:49,650 --> 00:34:50,910
then, you know...

685
00:34:51,010 --> 00:34:53,110
Yeah.

686
00:34:53,210 --> 00:34:55,210
Same for you, Nuri.

687
00:35:07,092 --> 00:35:12,293
OK, so now we're onto something
that really excited me.

688
00:35:13,373 --> 00:35:15,273
- Hello!
- Hi!

689
00:35:15,373 --> 00:35:17,234
Chloe, Beck and Emma.

690
00:35:17,334 --> 00:35:20,754
Ah! I was very excited
to see a queer triangle,

691
00:35:20,854 --> 00:35:24,675
being queer myself, so how was
the experience as a whole?

692
00:35:24,775 --> 00:35:29,235
It was far more overwhelming
and emotional and challenging

693
00:35:29,335 --> 00:35:32,156
than any of us had expected,

694
00:35:32,256 --> 00:35:35,276
but I feel like
we've come out of it

695
00:35:35,376 --> 00:35:37,436
very, very proud of us

696
00:35:37,536 --> 00:35:39,437
unconditionally having
each other's backs

697
00:35:39,537 --> 00:35:43,077
and supporting each other
through the highs and the lows.

698
00:35:43,177 --> 00:35:48,058
OK, we're going to see what
happened with your dating story.

699
00:35:51,498 --> 00:35:54,239
I am bisexual.

700
00:35:54,339 --> 00:35:57,119
So I don't actually
want to know the gender

701
00:35:57,219 --> 00:35:58,919
of either of my suitors.

702
00:35:59,019 --> 00:36:02,120
-Chloe, hello.
- Hi!

703
00:36:02,220 --> 00:36:03,560
- Lovely to meet you.
- Are you 'B'?

704
00:36:03,660 --> 00:36:06,160
- Yeah, I'm 'B'!
- Oh, so nice to meet you.

705
00:36:06,260 --> 00:36:08,401
- How are you?
- I'm good. So, Beck.

706
00:36:08,501 --> 00:36:09,841
Beck, nice to meet you.

707
00:36:09,941 --> 00:36:11,961
Am I what you expected?
I'm not a man.

708
00:36:13,061 --> 00:36:15,362
She's absolutely beautiful.

709
00:36:15,462 --> 00:36:19,122
For sure that initial
attraction is there.

710
00:36:19,222 --> 00:36:21,222
Do you like feminine girls?

711
00:36:21,783 --> 00:36:22,923
Different from what I'm used to.

712
00:36:23,023 --> 00:36:25,023
I normally go for
quite masculine.

713
00:36:25,703 --> 00:36:27,003
I was a little bit disappointed

714
00:36:27,103 --> 00:36:28,724
that it wasn't, like,
an instant spark,

715
00:36:28,824 --> 00:36:30,404
but I'm pretty quick
to cut things off

716
00:36:30,504 --> 00:36:32,964
and not allow them to grow,
so this is a good opportunity,

717
00:36:33,064 --> 00:36:36,005
as it obviously hasn't been
working in the past.

718
00:36:36,105 --> 00:36:38,045
I just want to say thank you.

719
00:36:38,145 --> 00:36:40,285
You've made me want to
share parts of myself

720
00:36:40,385 --> 00:36:41,765
that I've long hidden.

721
00:36:41,865 --> 00:36:43,886
I was gonna ask you
if I can kiss you,

722
00:36:43,986 --> 00:36:45,486
but I feel like
now we've just shared...

723
00:36:45,586 --> 00:36:47,526
...tears.

724
00:36:52,747 --> 00:36:54,887
This has really
set Beck and I

725
00:36:54,987 --> 00:36:57,628
in a very strong direction now.

726
00:36:58,668 --> 00:37:00,328
How you going? I'm Emma.

727
00:37:00,428 --> 00:37:02,488
- Oh, my God!
- Nice to meet you.

728
00:37:02,588 --> 00:37:05,169
I have this beautiful
woman knocking on the door

729
00:37:05,269 --> 00:37:08,009
that I thought
was gonna be a man.

730
00:37:08,109 --> 00:37:11,129
100% my type, to a T.

731
00:37:11,229 --> 00:37:14,610
What about your perspective
towards Emma?

732
00:37:14,710 --> 00:37:16,410
Are you hoping to build
a connection with Emma?

733
00:37:16,510 --> 00:37:18,010
I'd like to
get to know her, yeah.

734
00:37:18,110 --> 00:37:19,611
Yeah.

735
00:37:19,711 --> 00:37:21,811
OK, yeah.

736
00:37:21,911 --> 00:37:23,771
This is a three-way
triangle, officially.

737
00:37:25,911 --> 00:37:28,852
If there wasn't a third person
in the situation,

738
00:37:28,952 --> 00:37:30,692
I would kiss you.

739
00:37:30,792 --> 00:37:32,792
- Oh, really?
- It's OK. Just kiss me.

740
00:37:34,873 --> 00:37:36,373
There's a lot of tongue
in there.

741
00:37:36,473 --> 00:37:37,853
Oh, my God,

742
00:37:37,953 --> 00:37:39,893
we really fucking went for it,
didn't we?

743
00:37:39,993 --> 00:37:41,574
Do I feel a spark?

744
00:37:41,674 --> 00:37:43,534
I feel fucking fireworks.

745
00:37:43,634 --> 00:37:45,494
Aw!

746
00:37:45,594 --> 00:37:47,294
I'm excited.

747
00:37:47,394 --> 00:37:49,395
-So am I.
- Fun little activity.

748
00:37:50,795 --> 00:37:52,415
How do we want to bowl together?

749
00:37:54,595 --> 00:37:57,736
I feel my feelings
for Emma growing.

750
00:37:57,836 --> 00:38:02,137
Yeah.

751
00:38:02,237 --> 00:38:04,537
Is this something
you want to continue to pursue?

752
00:38:04,637 --> 00:38:06,637
I'm into you.

753
00:38:07,237 --> 00:38:11,538
When you want that kiss,
please go for it.

754
00:38:14,758 --> 00:38:17,179
I feel jealous,
and I can't work out

755
00:38:17,279 --> 00:38:18,939
if I'm jealous because of Beck

756
00:38:19,039 --> 00:38:21,299
or if I'm jealous
because of Emma.

757
00:38:25,000 --> 00:38:27,680
I'm just feeling,
like, a sense of jealousy.

758
00:38:31,361 --> 00:38:33,661
It's literally just, like,
consuming me,

759
00:38:33,761 --> 00:38:35,941
and something
needs to be removed,

760
00:38:36,041 --> 00:38:38,322
and I feel that something
is myself.

761
00:38:40,642 --> 00:38:42,182
Alright, bye-bye.

762
00:38:46,923 --> 00:38:47,823
Whew.

763
00:38:47,923 --> 00:38:50,223
I'm nervous, I'm not gonna lie.

764
00:38:50,323 --> 00:38:54,604
I came here looking for love
and I'm choosing you.

765
00:38:57,004 --> 00:39:01,145
I was really, really hurt

766
00:39:01,245 --> 00:39:05,825
when you said to me
that you wanted to pursue Beck

767
00:39:05,925 --> 00:39:08,586
and it's just not the love

768
00:39:08,686 --> 00:39:11,606
that I'm... that I'm
willing to... to accept.

769
00:39:14,687 --> 00:39:16,687
Fucking brutal.

770
00:39:17,367 --> 00:39:18,867
Yeah.

771
00:39:18,967 --> 00:39:20,187
- Oh, my fucking God.
- Wow.

772
00:39:20,287 --> 00:39:21,828
OK.

773
00:39:21,928 --> 00:39:24,908
Wow, you guys
really were a love triangle.

774
00:39:25,008 --> 00:39:26,348
- Yeah.
- Yes.

775
00:39:26,448 --> 00:39:29,189
Emma, were you expecting that?

776
00:39:29,289 --> 00:39:31,309
Obviously, it was a bitter pill
to swallow,

777
00:39:31,409 --> 00:39:32,949
like, obviously it hurt,

778
00:39:33,049 --> 00:39:35,830
but there's absolutely
no bad blood there.

779
00:39:35,930 --> 00:39:38,910
Like, I get it.
I totally do get it.

780
00:39:39,010 --> 00:39:41,890
And as much as that hurt me...

781
00:39:42,891 --> 00:39:46,111
...like, wanting you
the happiest you can ever be

782
00:39:46,211 --> 00:39:48,311
is at the forefront of that,
tenfold, so...

783
00:39:48,411 --> 00:39:50,752
How did I get so lucky?

784
00:39:50,852 --> 00:39:53,392
- Yeah, yeah, it's OK.
- Thank you.

785
00:39:53,492 --> 00:39:54,992
Well, now I have to ask, Emma,

786
00:39:55,092 --> 00:39:57,893
do you still have feelings
for Chloe?

787
00:40:01,373 --> 00:40:03,313
Feelings just don't go away
like that.

788
00:40:03,413 --> 00:40:08,514
But in saying that,
we've firmly established

789
00:40:08,614 --> 00:40:10,554
that this is going forward
as friends,

790
00:40:10,654 --> 00:40:15,195
and I've put Chloe there
in my mind,

791
00:40:15,295 --> 00:40:16,315
so...

792
00:40:16,415 --> 00:40:19,736
And how do you feel
about that, Chloe?

793
00:40:21,176 --> 00:40:23,236
That's what we've
decided to do together.

794
00:40:23,336 --> 00:40:26,637
And I think that, for us,

795
00:40:26,737 --> 00:40:29,697
that's... that's all it will be.

796
00:40:30,857 --> 00:40:33,358
Can I ask, do you think
if Emma came in first,

797
00:40:33,458 --> 00:40:35,458
you guys would have had
more of a chance?

798
00:40:36,298 --> 00:40:38,938
Look, I mean,
it's a possibility.

799
00:40:40,379 --> 00:40:41,839
But at the same time,

800
00:40:41,939 --> 00:40:46,679
if the decision to pursue
each other still happened,

801
00:40:46,779 --> 00:40:49,820
I just wouldn't have been able
to move past it.

802
00:40:53,100 --> 00:40:54,361
I have to say this

803
00:40:54,461 --> 00:40:56,361
because it's kind of
a funny known thing

804
00:40:56,461 --> 00:40:57,361
in the queer space,

805
00:40:57,461 --> 00:40:58,761
but there's a masc shortage,

806
00:40:58,861 --> 00:41:00,681
so it was very funny

807
00:41:00,781 --> 00:41:03,162
that you showed up to the house

808
00:41:03,262 --> 00:41:06,042
and all of a sudden
you had the pick of the litter.

809
00:41:06,142 --> 00:41:08,403
It wasn't a good position
to be in, though.

810
00:41:08,503 --> 00:41:12,603
Like, honestly,
like, nobody should envy me

811
00:41:12,703 --> 00:41:14,843
walking into the house like
that, because it was crazy.

812
00:41:14,943 --> 00:41:16,944
Oh, my God.

813
00:41:17,624 --> 00:41:19,124
Beck, is there anything
you can tell us

814
00:41:19,224 --> 00:41:22,244
to kind of fill us in
as to what happened?

815
00:41:22,344 --> 00:41:24,725
I found it
incredibly overwhelming.

816
00:41:24,825 --> 00:41:27,405
I felt in a sense
that, you know,

817
00:41:27,505 --> 00:41:28,925
I had built this foundation
with Chloe,

818
00:41:29,025 --> 00:41:31,806
and then when Emma stepped in,
I felt I ruined that

819
00:41:31,906 --> 00:41:34,246
in a sense of, like,
"I want to get to know Emma."

820
00:41:34,346 --> 00:41:36,366
And I just, in a way,
it felt like cheating.

821
00:41:36,466 --> 00:41:39,607
So I was, like,
I know within myself

822
00:41:39,707 --> 00:41:42,287
I need to remove myself
from the situation.

823
00:41:42,387 --> 00:41:45,568
So, Emma, do you think
that came into play at all

824
00:41:45,668 --> 00:41:48,488
when you then tried to pursue
a relationship with Chloe?

825
00:41:48,588 --> 00:41:49,728
Of course.

826
00:41:49,828 --> 00:41:52,929
Chlo felt that
she was just my default,

827
00:41:53,029 --> 00:41:55,809
whereas, in actual fact,
that was not the case at all.

828
00:41:55,909 --> 00:41:59,610
Well, I have to say,
in the queer female space,

829
00:41:59,710 --> 00:42:01,410
a lot of times
we are famously known

830
00:42:01,510 --> 00:42:04,290
for being able
to amicably stay friends.

831
00:42:04,390 --> 00:42:07,811
So I do hope that you guys
can come to a place

832
00:42:07,911 --> 00:42:10,331
where you can,
you know, be friends.

833
00:42:10,431 --> 00:42:13,432
- Yeah.
- Yeah, I hope so. For sure.

834
00:42:25,913 --> 00:42:28,134
Alright, Bernie,

835
00:42:28,234 --> 00:42:30,894
very different triangle for you.

836
00:42:30,994 --> 00:42:34,775
Coming into this experience,
you had owned the fact

837
00:42:34,875 --> 00:42:36,775
that you were part of
the problem in modern dating.

838
00:42:36,875 --> 00:42:39,695
100%, 100%, yeah.

839
00:42:39,795 --> 00:42:43,176
So I'm curious, in what way?

840
00:42:43,276 --> 00:42:45,616
Um, I think just, like, with
dating these days, like apps,

841
00:42:45,716 --> 00:42:47,936
you meet someone,
something doesn't tick the box

842
00:42:48,036 --> 00:42:50,457
and you go...
"Alright, see you later."

843
00:42:50,557 --> 00:42:52,737
And I came into this
being, like,

844
00:42:52,837 --> 00:42:54,997
"Right, let's try
not to do that again."

845
00:42:56,398 --> 00:42:59,178
OK, well, I know things
didn't end well with you guys.

846
00:42:59,278 --> 00:43:01,738
- No.
-So...

847
00:43:01,838 --> 00:43:03,299
...we are going to see why.

848
00:43:03,399 --> 00:43:05,819
- Let's take a look.
-Love this, loving this.

849
00:43:05,919 --> 00:43:07,919
For fuck's sake.

850
00:43:09,359 --> 00:43:11,220
- Hi.
- Fuck!

851
00:43:11,320 --> 00:43:13,060
- How are you?
- I'm good, how are you?

852
00:43:13,160 --> 00:43:14,460
So nice to meet you.
You're gorgeous.

853
00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:15,980
- Nice to meet you.
- How are you?

854
00:43:16,080 --> 00:43:18,781
Oh, God.

855
00:43:18,881 --> 00:43:21,421
Oh, I'm so shaky,
I'm so shaky.

856
00:43:21,521 --> 00:43:22,741
Aw!

857
00:43:22,841 --> 00:43:24,501
-Oh, you're so cute.
- You're so pretty.

858
00:43:24,601 --> 00:43:26,542
You're so pretty.

859
00:43:26,642 --> 00:43:28,642
Hell, yeah.

860
00:43:31,202 --> 00:43:32,823
What are we cheering to?

861
00:43:32,923 --> 00:43:36,743
Um... to new beginnings?

862
00:43:36,843 --> 00:43:38,904
So deep. You're so American.

863
00:43:44,324 --> 00:43:46,265
I don't want to see
that shit. Fuck.

864
00:43:47,845 --> 00:43:50,585
Look how beautiful.
I love a good patio.

865
00:43:50,685 --> 00:43:52,225
-I know.
-It's massive.

866
00:43:52,325 --> 00:43:53,746
"I love a good patio."

867
00:43:53,846 --> 00:43:55,026
What would you say?

868
00:43:55,126 --> 00:43:57,146
No, just the way you said it.
It was funny.

869
00:43:57,246 --> 00:43:59,986
Stupid boy. Stupid.

870
00:44:00,086 --> 00:44:01,427
Are you just gonna keep up with

871
00:44:01,527 --> 00:44:03,107
the American stereotypes
this whole time?

872
00:44:03,207 --> 00:44:04,587
It'll wear off
at some point.

873
00:44:04,687 --> 00:44:06,347
- Mm-hm. Yeah.
- It's just too fresh.

874
00:44:06,447 --> 00:44:08,068
Shut the fuck up, bro.

875
00:44:08,168 --> 00:44:11,908
I don't know if... if this is
Bernie's way of flirting.

876
00:44:12,008 --> 00:44:13,508
What's happening?

877
00:44:13,608 --> 00:44:14,829
There were a couple moments

878
00:44:14,929 --> 00:44:17,069
where I almost felt, like,
insulted, to be honest.

879
00:44:17,169 --> 00:44:19,709
Like, making fun about your
accent, for being American?

880
00:44:19,809 --> 00:44:21,229
- Yeah, it's alright.
- Yeah.

881
00:44:21,329 --> 00:44:23,230
- Like, here and there.
- No, and I... I am...

882
00:44:23,330 --> 00:44:24,470
- I'm really sorry.
- It's OK.

883
00:44:24,570 --> 00:44:25,870
No, I am really sorry.
Like, I...

884
00:44:25,970 --> 00:44:28,270
My joking
is a bit too far sometimes.

885
00:44:28,370 --> 00:44:30,511
I just, like, I feel
like that whole thing

886
00:44:30,611 --> 00:44:32,951
just kind of made me cri...

887
00:44:33,051 --> 00:44:35,671
Like, I'm more, like, cringing
a bit, do you know what I mean?

888
00:44:35,771 --> 00:44:37,772
Like, I've had more moments
where I'm just like...

889
00:44:46,053 --> 00:44:48,053
Hi, I'm Jaz.

890
00:44:49,973 --> 00:44:51,394
- Nice to meet you.
- How are you, doll?

891
00:44:51,494 --> 00:44:53,574
Bernie? Yeah, I'm good!

892
00:44:59,655 --> 00:45:01,655
Whoa!

893
00:45:03,455 --> 00:45:05,636
This was not expected at all.

894
00:45:05,736 --> 00:45:07,736
Yeah, that's the point.

895
00:45:14,497 --> 00:45:16,397
It's so hard to have someone
that you're not into

896
00:45:16,497 --> 00:45:18,557
and now have two people that
you're not into, that's crazy.

897
00:45:18,657 --> 00:45:21,358
- How are you? Nice to meet you.
- I'm Marisa, nice to meet you.

898
00:45:21,458 --> 00:45:23,618
I didn't feel threatened at all.

899
00:45:25,058 --> 00:45:27,379
Quite frankly,
I think that I'm better looking.

900
00:45:34,940 --> 00:45:36,160
Yeah,
what are your thoughts

901
00:45:36,260 --> 00:45:38,320
on coming into
this whole bizarre thing?

902
00:45:38,420 --> 00:45:40,160
I was happy no-one
slammed the door in my face.

903
00:45:40,260 --> 00:45:42,641
It's more for me, like,
I want to live my life.

904
00:45:42,741 --> 00:45:44,641
I want to be happy every day,
laughing every day.

905
00:45:44,741 --> 00:45:46,121
I want to be smiling every day.

906
00:45:46,221 --> 00:45:47,321
I don't surround myself
with anyone

907
00:45:47,421 --> 00:45:49,422
that's, like, not,
like, doing something.

908
00:45:50,302 --> 00:45:52,302
Jazmin, she's just fucking loud.

909
00:45:53,542 --> 00:45:55,723
It's just been yap, yap, yap.

910
00:45:55,823 --> 00:45:58,203
This is like an experience
that's supposed to be, like, me

911
00:45:58,303 --> 00:45:59,883
giving my two matches a shot,

912
00:45:59,983 --> 00:46:03,244
which I genuinely, genuinely,
genuinely have tried.

913
00:46:03,344 --> 00:46:05,764
But that romantic spark
just wasn't there.

914
00:46:08,984 --> 00:46:11,425
Oh, I'm so tired, guys.

915
00:46:16,265 --> 00:46:18,166
Uh, should we go to bed?
Should we wrap it up?

916
00:46:18,266 --> 00:46:19,886
- Let's go to bed.
- It's been a long day.

917
00:46:19,986 --> 00:46:21,486
Long day.

918
00:46:21,586 --> 00:46:23,766
- Alright. Goodnight.
- Goodnight.

919
00:46:23,866 --> 00:46:24,887
Goodnight.

920
00:46:29,107 --> 00:46:30,327
It's fucking bullshit, like,

921
00:46:30,427 --> 00:46:31,888
I haven't seen anything
in return,

922
00:46:31,988 --> 00:46:33,988
and it's offensive to me.

923
00:46:35,428 --> 00:46:36,728
You say you're open,

924
00:46:36,828 --> 00:46:39,829
but I haven't seen your words
and your actions aligned.

925
00:46:40,829 --> 00:46:42,929
All I wanted was him to
just give me a fucking chance

926
00:46:43,029 --> 00:46:44,449
to get to know me,
and he didn't.

927
00:46:44,549 --> 00:46:46,490
He didn't want to
give me the time of day.

928
00:46:46,590 --> 00:46:48,250
He didn't want
to, like, talk to me.

929
00:46:48,350 --> 00:46:50,770
I feel like,
at the end of the day,

930
00:46:50,870 --> 00:46:52,871
there is something
holding me back.

931
00:47:00,112 --> 00:47:01,492
There's no decision to make.

932
00:47:01,592 --> 00:47:04,812
You've disrespected us time
and time again, and wasted...

933
00:47:04,912 --> 00:47:06,912
Yeah, he wasted our time.

934
00:47:12,073 --> 00:47:14,013
We don't want to hear
any more of your bullshit.

935
00:47:14,113 --> 00:47:16,114
We've had enough
of your bullshit.

936
00:47:23,835 --> 00:47:26,015
Wow, OK, well, Bernie,

937
00:47:26,115 --> 00:47:28,255
I know you didn't
have a say in me being here,

938
00:47:28,355 --> 00:47:29,656
seeing as I'm American.

939
00:47:29,756 --> 00:47:31,976
But I want to...

940
00:47:32,076 --> 00:47:33,896
...speak to the women first.

941
00:47:33,996 --> 00:47:36,017
And first of all, Jazmin,
I just want to say,

942
00:47:36,117 --> 00:47:37,937
I'm speaking for everybody
watching this,

943
00:47:38,037 --> 00:47:39,377
you are absolutely stunning.

944
00:47:39,477 --> 00:47:40,657
You're beautiful.

945
00:47:40,757 --> 00:47:43,258
The first thing I wanted to say
was, like, I...

946
00:47:43,358 --> 00:47:46,698
The shittest part of watching
that was what I said about you.

947
00:47:46,798 --> 00:47:48,698
And it obviously came
from a place of pretending

948
00:47:48,798 --> 00:47:50,779
I wasn't threatened but was.

949
00:47:50,879 --> 00:47:53,459
And it's... it's not true.

950
00:47:53,559 --> 00:47:55,059
And I'm sorry for everything.

951
00:47:55,159 --> 00:47:57,220
No, it's OK.

952
00:47:57,320 --> 00:48:00,420
Jazmin, how did that
make you feel, watching that?

953
00:48:00,520 --> 00:48:02,140
It's just really sad.

954
00:48:02,240 --> 00:48:04,501
I don't think I'm ugly,
so thanks for that.

955
00:48:04,601 --> 00:48:07,181
Um, but I don't need
your validation 'cause, like,

956
00:48:07,281 --> 00:48:08,901
your opinion doesn't mean
anything to me anyway.

957
00:48:09,001 --> 00:48:11,221
I think a lot of the stuff
you said was very projectile

958
00:48:11,321 --> 00:48:13,502
and very rude and,
like, actually disgusting.

959
00:48:13,602 --> 00:48:15,862
So, you know,
I hope you work on yourself

960
00:48:15,962 --> 00:48:18,843
and you don't continue to cause
turmoil towards other people.

961
00:48:21,283 --> 00:48:23,263
Marisa, were you shocked,
watching that?

962
00:48:23,363 --> 00:48:26,264
Yeah, I'm, like, getting upset
seeing Jazmin get upset.

963
00:48:26,364 --> 00:48:29,664
Like, I had this inkling
the whole time

964
00:48:29,764 --> 00:48:31,224
that he wasn't interested,

965
00:48:31,324 --> 00:48:34,425
but I still kept giving him
the benefit of the doubt.

966
00:48:34,525 --> 00:48:37,425
To see that he's saying all
that stuff behind the scenes

967
00:48:37,525 --> 00:48:38,945
is really hurtful

968
00:48:39,045 --> 00:48:41,646
because I wouldn't have
done that about him.

969
00:48:44,766 --> 00:48:46,026
It is interesting

970
00:48:46,126 --> 00:48:47,947
that the whole concept
of the show

971
00:48:48,047 --> 00:48:50,747
is to go into something
and maybe, you know,

972
00:48:50,847 --> 00:48:52,707
date someone that
doesn't meet the things

973
00:48:52,807 --> 00:48:54,267
that you normally go for.

974
00:48:54,367 --> 00:48:55,548
And you said yourself

975
00:48:55,648 --> 00:48:58,388
you're part of the problem
with modern dating.

976
00:48:58,488 --> 00:49:00,488
So what do you have to say
for yourself?

977
00:49:02,049 --> 00:49:04,049
Well, I'm sorry
that I made that comment.

978
00:49:05,609 --> 00:49:06,509
Like, I am sorry.

979
00:49:09,010 --> 00:49:12,430
What did you mean when you said
the comment "two plus two"?

980
00:49:12,530 --> 00:49:15,710
We're 100% not the same type.

981
00:49:15,810 --> 00:49:17,471
But that's kind of
the point of being here.

982
00:49:17,571 --> 00:49:19,311
I feel like a lot of us
were matched with people

983
00:49:19,411 --> 00:49:21,411
that aren't our type.

984
00:49:22,691 --> 00:49:24,592
But you had specifically said,

985
00:49:24,692 --> 00:49:26,192
"I mean,
look at me, look at her."

986
00:49:26,292 --> 00:49:28,312
- So I'm just curious...
- We're so different.

987
00:49:28,412 --> 00:49:29,312
- We're so different.
- And?

988
00:49:29,412 --> 00:49:31,413
And I know what...

989
00:49:32,253 --> 00:49:34,433
Like, you're on
some high pedestal.

990
00:49:34,533 --> 00:49:36,633
-No!
- Are you joking?

991
00:49:39,214 --> 00:49:41,634
How is that... I know what
you're trying to do right now.

992
00:49:41,734 --> 00:49:43,734
What am I trying to do?

993
00:49:45,055 --> 00:49:46,355
It's what you actually said.

994
00:49:46,455 --> 00:49:48,475
Yeah, I did say...
And I'm sorry for saying it.

995
00:49:48,575 --> 00:49:50,755
So what do you mean by
"look at you and look at me"?

996
00:49:50,855 --> 00:49:51,956
We're so different!

997
00:49:52,056 --> 00:49:53,476
You think you're better
than everybody else?

998
00:49:53,576 --> 00:49:55,636
Literally what I said was
you're more dolled up.

999
00:49:55,736 --> 00:49:57,556
Like, you're dolled up
a bit more.

1000
00:49:57,656 --> 00:49:59,697
Like, that's your type.
I'm a bit more, like, low-key.

1001
00:50:05,457 --> 00:50:07,498
Marisa, do you have
anything to say?

1002
00:50:10,218 --> 00:50:12,398
It's really, really upsetting,

1003
00:50:12,498 --> 00:50:15,739
and I feel like he just gets
defensive about what happened.

1004
00:50:17,259 --> 00:50:20,439
Yes, I probably didn't
put my heart into this 100%.

1005
00:50:20,539 --> 00:50:22,880
Not a 'probably'. 100% didn't
put my heart into this.

1006
00:50:22,980 --> 00:50:24,980
My head was elsewhere.

1007
00:50:25,620 --> 00:50:27,740
And I apologise for that
to both of you.

1008
00:50:31,301 --> 00:50:34,561
Well, you said that there was
something holding you back.

1009
00:50:34,661 --> 00:50:36,662
Yeah.

1010
00:50:39,942 --> 00:50:44,443
So, let's have a look
at what that was.

1011
00:50:47,543 --> 00:50:49,744
Oh, there's more.

1012
00:50:59,985 --> 00:51:02,825
- Hi!
- Hi!

1013
00:51:06,386 --> 00:51:07,726
Fuck me!

1014
00:51:07,826 --> 00:51:10,987
Chloe is a stunner!

1015
00:51:12,827 --> 00:51:15,327
Hello, doll. How are you?
I'm Bernie.

1016
00:51:16,987 --> 00:51:18,128
Take me back in time

1017
00:51:18,228 --> 00:51:19,968
and somebody make me
a suitor for her,

1018
00:51:20,068 --> 00:51:23,508
'cause I will fight
tooth, nail and fucking hair!

1019
00:51:28,829 --> 00:51:31,209
So tell me about
this letter you sent Chloe.

1020
00:51:31,309 --> 00:51:32,450
Oh, fucking hell.

1021
00:51:32,550 --> 00:51:34,870
Here we go.
I knew this was happening.

1022
00:51:38,790 --> 00:51:41,531
Last night at the party,

1023
00:51:41,631 --> 00:51:44,351
Bernie slipped me a note.

1024
00:51:48,952 --> 00:51:52,412
"I have absolutely no intention
of putting you on the spot."

1025
00:51:52,512 --> 00:51:53,732
Oh, my God, what?

1026
00:51:53,832 --> 00:51:58,293
"BUT..." - in capitals -
"..I'm not big on what-ifs."

1027
00:51:58,393 --> 00:52:00,993
Oh, this is gonna make me cry.

1028
00:52:07,714 --> 00:52:09,855
"Last time we had a chat
about seeing someone

1029
00:52:09,955 --> 00:52:11,295
"and having that feeling

1030
00:52:11,395 --> 00:52:13,855
"when you look at someone

1031
00:52:13,955 --> 00:52:17,776
"and kind of lose
your train of thought.

1032
00:52:17,876 --> 00:52:20,256
"I immediately had that
when I saw you."

1033
00:52:20,356 --> 00:52:22,416
Oh, my God, that's so sweet.

1034
00:52:24,477 --> 00:52:26,617
"I want to get to know you.

1035
00:52:26,717 --> 00:52:28,737
"I have good intentions.

1036
00:52:28,837 --> 00:52:30,258
"Love is such a beautiful thing.

1037
00:52:30,358 --> 00:52:33,698
"I just wish I had
a chance at it here."

1038
00:52:33,798 --> 00:52:36,218
That's the kind of, like...

1039
00:52:36,318 --> 00:52:37,539
That's the sort...

1040
00:52:37,639 --> 00:52:40,619
That's the kind of passion
and drive and desire

1041
00:52:40,719 --> 00:52:42,819
I want from someone who...

1042
00:52:42,919 --> 00:52:45,960
...sees me and sees my worth.

1043
00:52:51,521 --> 00:52:53,521
No.

1044
00:52:57,881 --> 00:53:00,062
I'm... I'm just gonna go
to the bathroom.

1045
00:53:19,164 --> 00:53:20,745
I feel bad.

1046
00:53:20,845 --> 00:53:22,265
What do you feel bad about?

1047
00:53:22,365 --> 00:53:23,505
Putting you
in that awkward position.

1048
00:53:23,605 --> 00:53:25,605
Oh, my God, no.

1049
00:53:26,165 --> 00:53:29,346
Are you ready for something
legit, or are you just, like...

1050
00:53:29,446 --> 00:53:34,547
I'm so done with just fucking
having random shit with people.

1051
00:53:34,647 --> 00:53:37,767
And I want to get to know you,
I want to spend time with you.

1052
00:53:39,167 --> 00:53:41,427
Have you said anything
to the girls?

1053
00:53:41,527 --> 00:53:43,108
Not about this, no.

1054
00:53:43,208 --> 00:53:45,588
I know I'm not
gonna pick any of them.

1055
00:53:45,688 --> 00:53:49,449
So if you don't pick either
of them, who are you choosing?

1056
00:53:52,089 --> 00:53:53,389
Can I choose you?

1057
00:53:53,489 --> 00:53:55,929
That's... that's my choice.

1058
00:53:59,370 --> 00:54:02,410
Oh, my God.

1059
00:54:10,772 --> 00:54:12,992
You're a fucking twat.

1060
00:54:18,333 --> 00:54:21,353
Yeah, I feel bad that I...
Actually, I can't lie to you.

1061
00:54:21,453 --> 00:54:24,173
Like, I don't feel bad
that I did it sneakily.

1062
00:54:25,534 --> 00:54:28,074
This is the one thing
in this whole process

1063
00:54:28,174 --> 00:54:30,174
that I'm 100% sure about.

1064
00:54:30,774 --> 00:54:33,515
What the fuck is going on?

1065
00:54:33,615 --> 00:54:37,975
I just got a message
from Bernie.

1066
00:54:39,496 --> 00:54:43,076
It says, "Chloe, I don't know
what you would choose to do,

1067
00:54:43,176 --> 00:54:45,836
"but if you want to see
where something could go,

1068
00:54:45,936 --> 00:54:48,277
"meet me at Hyde Park fountain."

1069
00:54:48,377 --> 00:54:50,817
Isn't Wednesday decision day?

1070
00:54:53,017 --> 00:54:55,018
Whew.

1071
00:54:55,698 --> 00:54:57,698
'Bye!

1072
00:55:01,379 --> 00:55:03,939
Bernie is a huge risk.

1073
00:55:05,459 --> 00:55:08,580
What if I'm
just the chase to him?

1074
00:55:09,580 --> 00:55:11,580
Oh!

1075
00:55:14,060 --> 00:55:16,081
-Hi!
-Hello.

1076
00:55:19,821 --> 00:55:21,681
How are you, babe?
Are you OK?

1077
00:55:24,142 --> 00:55:25,722
I thought
you weren't gonna come.

1078
00:55:25,822 --> 00:55:27,822
- You didn't think I'd come?
- Yeah.

1079
00:55:28,622 --> 00:55:32,043
I really want
to pursue...

1080
00:55:33,943 --> 00:55:35,963
...you.

1081
00:55:51,586 --> 00:55:53,806
OK.

1082
00:55:53,906 --> 00:55:58,127
Now I see why you didn't
choose either of the girls.

1083
00:55:58,227 --> 00:56:01,947
Bernie, Chloe, why don't
you guys take a seat next to me?

1084
00:56:03,107 --> 00:56:05,228
Let's try and unpack this.

1085
00:56:19,830 --> 00:56:21,610
Beck.

1086
00:56:21,710 --> 00:56:23,170
I'm gonna have a panic attack.

1087
00:56:23,270 --> 00:56:25,330
I'm so sorry. Whew!

1088
00:56:25,430 --> 00:56:27,251
Are you OK, Beck?

1089
00:56:41,633 --> 00:56:46,373
Emma, I understand you would
be really upset seeing that too.

1090
00:56:46,473 --> 00:56:48,454
Oh, such a fucking blindside.
What is that?

1091
00:56:48,554 --> 00:56:50,574
I was there
in those dinner parties

1092
00:56:50,674 --> 00:56:51,774
making sure that you were OK,

1093
00:56:51,874 --> 00:56:53,134
making sure
that you were eating,

1094
00:56:53,234 --> 00:56:55,895
making sure that you had
wine in your fucking glass.

1095
00:56:55,995 --> 00:56:58,535
Fuck! Oh, my God. Oh!

1096
00:56:58,635 --> 00:57:00,935
What a fool I feel like.

1097
00:57:01,035 --> 00:57:02,095
- What a fool.
- No.

1098
00:57:02,195 --> 00:57:05,536
Honestly,
I feel like such a fool.

1099
00:57:05,636 --> 00:57:08,176
Em, you're not a fool at all.

1100
00:57:08,276 --> 00:57:11,057
And every single word
I've ever said to you

1101
00:57:11,157 --> 00:57:13,157
I have meant from
the bottom of my heart.

1102
00:57:14,277 --> 00:57:16,978
I-I'm so, so sorry.

1103
00:57:17,078 --> 00:57:19,658
I'm so sorry, but I did tell
you I was following my heart.

1104
00:57:19,758 --> 00:57:21,138
- And I did.
- Oh, my God.

1105
00:57:21,238 --> 00:57:22,898
Right until the end.

1106
00:57:22,998 --> 00:57:28,199
And Bernie being in the picture
did not change anything.

1107
00:57:30,839 --> 00:57:33,020
For me, the note,
it meant nothing.

1108
00:57:33,120 --> 00:57:35,940
It wasn't until the conversation
at the final party

1109
00:57:36,040 --> 00:57:38,080
that I actually felt something.

1110
00:57:50,682 --> 00:57:53,183
OK, obviously
there's a lot of emotions

1111
00:57:53,283 --> 00:57:55,283
happening right now.

1112
00:57:56,003 --> 00:57:57,063
Beck, how are you feeling?

1113
00:57:57,163 --> 00:57:59,023
I just feel invalidated.

1114
00:57:59,123 --> 00:58:00,904
Like, I feel completely lied to.

1115
00:58:01,004 --> 00:58:04,164
I'm hurt, really hurt.

1116
00:58:05,244 --> 00:58:08,485
I'm questioning, like,
I'm questioning everything now.

1117
00:58:11,085 --> 00:58:13,985
I can imagine that answered a
lot of questions for you ladies.

1118
00:58:14,085 --> 00:58:15,706
He's just a liar.

1119
00:58:15,806 --> 00:58:18,786
You kissed her while
we were all together at a party.

1120
00:58:18,886 --> 00:58:20,506
You went behind
all of our backs.

1121
00:58:20,606 --> 00:58:22,147
Four of us are
collateral damage.

1122
00:58:22,247 --> 00:58:23,667
You couldn't have waited?

1123
00:58:23,767 --> 00:58:26,427
Like, honestly, it's just...
It's so disrespectful.

1124
00:58:26,527 --> 00:58:28,387
It's a game to you.
It's all a game to you.

1125
00:58:28,487 --> 00:58:30,188
- Yeah.
- It's actually a game.

1126
00:58:30,288 --> 00:58:32,288
It was never,
it was never a game.

1127
00:58:35,688 --> 00:58:37,229
Chloe,
how do you reconcile

1128
00:58:37,329 --> 00:58:39,749
the way Bernie was
with his matches...

1129
00:58:39,849 --> 00:58:42,309
-Oh, I...
- ...in choosing him?

1130
00:58:42,409 --> 00:58:46,150
I quite frankly think
it was disgusting.

1131
00:58:46,250 --> 00:58:48,310
Fair.

1132
00:58:48,410 --> 00:58:51,311
Um, and I feel
like such an idiot.

1133
00:58:56,611 --> 00:59:00,112
So that obviously
leads me to the question,

1134
00:59:00,212 --> 00:59:01,872
are you guys still together?

1135
00:59:03,452 --> 00:59:06,733
So, um...

1136
00:59:10,373 --> 00:59:12,394
Bernie and I have been
getting to know each other

1137
00:59:12,494 --> 00:59:14,494
for the past couple of weeks.

1138
00:59:15,734 --> 00:59:19,055
Bernie took us on a weekend
to the Blue Mountains.

1139
00:59:22,255 --> 00:59:26,756
Things were going really,
really, really, really well.

1140
00:59:26,856 --> 00:59:29,396
- I'm sensing a 'but'.
- Yes. Yeah, there is a 'but'.

1141
00:59:31,936 --> 00:59:35,037
Last night, Bernie told me

1142
00:59:35,137 --> 00:59:38,797
that he didn't want to continue

1143
00:59:38,897 --> 00:59:41,118
pursuing me.

1144
00:59:44,858 --> 00:59:46,398
Why did you change
your mind, Bernie?

1145
00:59:46,498 --> 00:59:48,599
Yes, that's what
I would like to know as well.

1146
00:59:48,699 --> 00:59:50,439
I think that's
what we all want to know.

1147
00:59:50,539 --> 00:59:54,680
I was told Bernie doesn't want
to continue pursuing things

1148
00:59:54,780 --> 00:59:59,060
because we have
a different sense of humour.

1149
01:00:01,460 --> 01:00:03,521
What?

1150
01:00:03,621 --> 01:00:06,841
- Bernie, do you want to explain?
-It wasn't just that.

1151
01:00:06,941 --> 01:00:10,242
I feel like sometimes
I hold myself back a little bit

1152
01:00:10,342 --> 01:00:12,802
just in sense of humour,
just, like, feeling comfortable.

1153
01:00:12,902 --> 01:00:14,842
Like, I feel like
most of the times

1154
01:00:14,942 --> 01:00:16,002
I'm trying to impress you

1155
01:00:16,102 --> 01:00:18,103
and not, like,
letting my guard down.

1156
01:00:20,583 --> 01:00:25,484
Why has that outweighed
everything else that is so good?

1157
01:00:25,584 --> 01:00:26,884
I think, from my perspective,

1158
01:00:26,984 --> 01:00:29,164
if I don't feel like I can be,
like, 100% myself

1159
01:00:29,264 --> 01:00:30,965
and I feel like I'm trying
to impress someone,

1160
01:00:31,065 --> 01:00:32,605
I'm just not gonna be happy.

1161
01:00:36,185 --> 01:00:37,525
I'm not gonna sit here and beg,

1162
01:00:37,625 --> 01:00:42,566
but, like, I feel, I, honestly,
I felt blindsided, I did.

1163
01:00:42,666 --> 01:00:45,887
And I feel like you really
reassured me multiple times

1164
01:00:45,987 --> 01:00:48,387
in those two weeks that things
were going really, really well.

1165
01:00:51,907 --> 01:00:53,248
Bernie, do you think that

1166
01:00:53,348 --> 01:00:56,068
it has anything to do with
the art of the chase?

1167
01:00:57,508 --> 01:00:58,648
No, not at all.

1168
01:00:58,748 --> 01:01:01,089
Like, there was never
a moment where, like...

1169
01:01:01,189 --> 01:01:02,529
'Cause, otherwise,
after the show,

1170
01:01:02,629 --> 01:01:04,729
I could have just
not hung out with her.

1171
01:01:04,829 --> 01:01:07,610
Like, I literally booked us
a weekend in the Blue Mountains,

1172
01:01:07,710 --> 01:01:10,570
not for anything else but
for us to spend time together.

1173
01:01:10,670 --> 01:01:11,570
Like, alone.

1174
01:01:11,670 --> 01:01:13,370
Like, what other reason?

1175
01:01:13,470 --> 01:01:15,011
Like, why would
I spend money on something?

1176
01:01:17,631 --> 01:01:21,492
Like, if I don't feel, if I
don't feel anything for someone,

1177
01:01:21,592 --> 01:01:22,692
why would I spend the money?

1178
01:01:22,792 --> 01:01:23,972
We could literally just...

1179
01:01:24,072 --> 01:01:27,032
Well, that's literally
the playbook of fuckboys.

1180
01:01:29,593 --> 01:01:30,613
Excuse my language,

1181
01:01:30,713 --> 01:01:32,293
but it's all
to sleep with someone

1182
01:01:32,393 --> 01:01:33,853
and then move onto the next.

1183
01:01:33,953 --> 01:01:34,853
Right.

1184
01:01:34,953 --> 01:01:36,014
Look, I know my intentions.

1185
01:01:36,114 --> 01:01:37,414
I know there was
never that intention.

1186
01:01:37,514 --> 01:01:39,514
I feel like you could see that.

1187
01:01:41,794 --> 01:01:44,055
- I know this is still fresh.
-Yeah.

1188
01:01:44,155 --> 01:01:46,095
So are you sad
that the relationship is over?

1189
01:01:46,195 --> 01:01:48,395
Yeah, I'm... I'm...
I'm devastated.

1190
01:01:52,636 --> 01:01:55,536
How does it go from, like,
100%, like,

1191
01:01:55,636 --> 01:01:59,137
"Yep, down for her,
no doubt about it..."

1192
01:01:59,237 --> 01:02:00,577
-Yeah.
- ...to, like, nothing?

1193
01:02:00,677 --> 01:02:01,937
Like, this is what...

1194
01:02:02,037 --> 01:02:03,657
Yeah, but no doubt
about getting to know her,

1195
01:02:03,757 --> 01:02:05,758
that's the thing,
do you know what I mean?

1196
01:02:08,118 --> 01:02:09,498
No, that's not
what you said, buddy.

1197
01:02:11,359 --> 01:02:12,779
That's not what you said.

1198
01:02:12,879 --> 01:02:15,739
That letter... that letter, you
poured your heart out, right?

1199
01:02:15,839 --> 01:02:17,059
- Trust me.
- Get the letter out.

1200
01:02:17,159 --> 01:02:18,780
Get the letter out, buddy.
We have receipts for it.

1201
01:02:18,880 --> 01:02:19,900
We literally
have receipts for it.

1202
01:02:23,400 --> 01:02:25,261
Honestly, this is the thing
I've noticed about you.

1203
01:02:25,361 --> 01:02:26,741
You're never wrong.
You've hurt these two girls.

1204
01:02:26,841 --> 01:02:28,261
You've hurt those two girls.

1205
01:02:28,361 --> 01:02:32,201
You can't take acknowledgement
of the fact you're a fuckboy.

1206
01:02:34,442 --> 01:02:36,902
You snatched her up,
you had your way with her,

1207
01:02:37,002 --> 01:02:39,002
and last night, you flicked her.

1208
01:02:42,923 --> 01:02:44,903
I do think
it was a bit rich earlier

1209
01:02:45,003 --> 01:02:46,383
that you did turn around to Mike

1210
01:02:46,483 --> 01:02:49,964
and you gave Mike
that talk about accountability.

1211
01:02:51,204 --> 01:02:53,344
I actually, no, actually,
the talk that I gave you

1212
01:02:53,444 --> 01:02:55,345
actually was about
being on the attack.

1213
01:02:55,445 --> 01:02:57,445
Yeah, save your breath,
alright? Save your breath.

1214
01:02:58,565 --> 01:03:00,585
After what I've seen, mate,
you are a scrub.

1215
01:03:00,685 --> 01:03:02,686
- End of story.
- Fair enough.

1216
01:03:03,646 --> 01:03:05,706
I think the thing,
Bernie, is that

1217
01:03:05,806 --> 01:03:09,347
if you've been able to recognise
that pattern in the past,

1218
01:03:09,447 --> 01:03:11,527
why... why are you
still repeating that?

1219
01:03:14,607 --> 01:03:17,488
It's so hard to repeat...
to break patterns.

1220
01:03:19,928 --> 01:03:21,108
That's why they're patterns.

1221
01:03:21,208 --> 01:03:22,709
It's because you're fucked up
in the head

1222
01:03:22,809 --> 01:03:25,149
with things that you deal with,
and you try to break it,

1223
01:03:25,249 --> 01:03:27,249
but it's really, really hard.

1224
01:03:28,849 --> 01:03:30,830
- And as much as you have...
- So what are you doing...

1225
01:03:30,930 --> 01:03:32,510
Can I please finish, please?

1226
01:03:35,050 --> 01:03:37,591
And as much... as much as
you can be rational about it,

1227
01:03:37,691 --> 01:03:38,991
and you can think, "Fuck, like,

1228
01:03:39,091 --> 01:03:41,071
"what I'm doing is wrong,"
you try to break it,

1229
01:03:41,171 --> 01:03:43,171
but it's so, so fucking hard,
OK?

1230
01:03:50,012 --> 01:03:52,733
Bernie, do you have
any final thoughts?

1231
01:03:57,173 --> 01:04:00,334
I'm sorry
that I called things off.

1232
01:04:01,774 --> 01:04:04,834
Like, I genuinely
do want you in my life.

1233
01:04:04,934 --> 01:04:06,555
I'm sorry that
I just don't see, like,

1234
01:04:06,655 --> 01:04:09,855
a romantic possibility
of us being together.

1235
01:04:12,415 --> 01:04:14,536
So you're saying
you want to be friends with her?

1236
01:04:15,736 --> 01:04:17,276
OK, whatever.

1237
01:04:17,376 --> 01:04:19,376
Oh!

1238
01:04:21,697 --> 01:04:24,117
That sounds
very genuine, Bernie.

1239
01:04:24,217 --> 01:04:26,077
I'm saying it because it's
everything that you're saying,

1240
01:04:26,177 --> 01:04:27,838
is just a word to me,
like, you're saying,

1241
01:04:27,938 --> 01:04:29,938
like, "Are you
friend-zoning her?"

1242
01:04:31,538 --> 01:04:33,158
I didn't say,
"Are you friend-zon..."

1243
01:04:33,258 --> 01:04:35,359
I'm saying, "You're saying you
want to be friends with her."

1244
01:04:35,459 --> 01:04:37,839
And then you said,
"Yeah, whatever."

1245
01:04:37,939 --> 01:04:40,119
Don't put words in my mouth,
because that's not gonna work.

1246
01:04:43,340 --> 01:04:45,960
If possible, I want to have her
in my life, if possible.

1247
01:04:46,060 --> 01:04:47,560
I understand that
it might not be possible

1248
01:04:47,660 --> 01:04:50,301
if she doesn't feel like
she can be friends with me.

1249
01:04:52,741 --> 01:04:55,161
Chloe, would you want him
in your life?

1250
01:04:55,261 --> 01:04:58,082
I don't...
I don't know at this point.

1251
01:04:58,182 --> 01:04:59,762
I don't know what I want.

1252
01:04:59,862 --> 01:05:02,482
I literally just got dumped
less than 12 hours ago.

1253
01:05:02,582 --> 01:05:05,943
So, I'm still
processing everything.

1254
01:05:08,863 --> 01:05:10,203
OK.

1255
01:05:10,303 --> 01:05:11,364
Well, that was certainly not

1256
01:05:11,464 --> 01:05:14,064
how I expected this
to pan out tonight.

1257
01:05:15,944 --> 01:05:18,165
I have to note,
I have noticed a pattern

1258
01:05:18,265 --> 01:05:19,685
throughout the experience

1259
01:05:19,785 --> 01:05:22,245
of people getting wrapped up
in the excitement of a person,

1260
01:05:22,345 --> 01:05:25,206
the thrill of the chase,
and, in turn,

1261
01:05:25,306 --> 01:05:27,926
missing out on
a stable and reliable match

1262
01:05:28,026 --> 01:05:30,246
right in front of them.

1263
01:05:30,346 --> 01:05:33,827
I hope that this can be
a lesson in the future.

1264
01:05:35,667 --> 01:05:38,887
At the end of the day,
we are all just human beings,

1265
01:05:38,987 --> 01:05:41,928
and we're looking for
that human connection.

1266
01:05:42,028 --> 01:05:44,068
Thank you, guys,
for sharing your hearts with us.

1267
01:05:47,229 --> 01:05:48,369
Goodnight.