1 00:00:00,600 --> 00:00:02,367 [upbeat music playing] 2 00:00:02,367 --> 00:00:03,367 [Fletcher] Damn, look at this place. 3 00:00:03,367 --> 00:00:04,867 You ready to cause some trouble? 4 00:00:04,867 --> 00:00:06,100 -Ooh. -[Rob] Hey, I hear 5 00:00:06,100 --> 00:00:07,567 there's a party going on here. 6 00:00:07,567 --> 00:00:09,266 -How you doing? I'm Rob. -Oh. 7 00:00:09,266 --> 00:00:10,867 Now that Connor is dead to me, 8 00:00:10,867 --> 00:00:14,533 I'm definitely ready to mingle. 9 00:00:16,767 --> 00:00:18,400 I don't do [bleep] relationships. 10 00:00:18,400 --> 00:00:20,066 If I'm gonna settle down with somebody, 11 00:00:20,066 --> 00:00:21,867 it's endgame. That's it. 12 00:00:21,867 --> 00:00:24,000 [Shauna speaking] 13 00:00:25,367 --> 00:00:27,100 [Stacy] We should be able to have a conversation 14 00:00:27,100 --> 00:00:29,500 -and not be all hostile. -I was a little hurt. 15 00:00:29,500 --> 00:00:31,367 But by you talking this out, 16 00:00:31,367 --> 00:00:32,767 that's a good thing. 17 00:00:32,767 --> 00:00:34,567 I think we're making progress. 18 00:00:34,567 --> 00:00:36,900 I just hope he makes a bigger step. 19 00:00:38,266 --> 00:00:39,567 [Barby] In a perfect world, 20 00:00:39,567 --> 00:00:40,700 you do the chores 21 00:00:40,700 --> 00:00:43,367 and I get to spend your money. 22 00:00:43,367 --> 00:00:46,166 I'm a single mom who's provided for everybody. 23 00:00:46,166 --> 00:00:48,200 It's not a bad thing that I want somebody 24 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:50,367 to take me shopping once in a while. 25 00:00:50,367 --> 00:00:52,367 So you're just gonna shut down like this? 26 00:00:52,367 --> 00:00:54,066 -[Chris speaking] -Okay. Well, I'll [bleep] go home 27 00:00:54,066 --> 00:00:56,300 tonight too then like Lannette. 28 00:00:56,300 --> 00:00:58,000 Good communication is something 29 00:00:58,000 --> 00:00:59,700 I never had in any relationship 30 00:00:59,700 --> 00:01:01,266 in my entire life 31 00:01:01,266 --> 00:01:03,467 and I can't invest my feelings 32 00:01:03,467 --> 00:01:05,767 in somebody who's being so dismissive. 33 00:01:05,767 --> 00:01:09,000 [Barby crying, speaking] 34 00:01:23,066 --> 00:01:26,233 [dramatic music playing] 35 00:01:32,967 --> 00:01:36,000 [indistinct chatter] 36 00:01:36,000 --> 00:01:37,767 [Barby speaking] 37 00:01:37,767 --> 00:01:39,367 Can I please? 38 00:01:39,367 --> 00:01:40,800 [Barby] Uh-uh. 39 00:01:40,800 --> 00:01:44,400 -Can we please talk? -[Barby speaking] 40 00:01:47,266 --> 00:01:49,500 [sobs] 41 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:54,400 Yes, I did shut down 42 00:01:54,400 --> 00:01:56,800 and I said... And I apologize 43 00:01:56,800 --> 00:01:58,800 for not hearing you out whenever you came down there, 44 00:01:58,800 --> 00:02:01,567 but I was just too in my own head 45 00:02:01,567 --> 00:02:04,500 and I was too already worked up 46 00:02:04,500 --> 00:02:07,000 'cause I felt as though I've been disrespected. 47 00:02:07,000 --> 00:02:09,100 I would have left with my dad if it was not for you. 48 00:02:09,100 --> 00:02:11,567 So after the other night being so [bleep] perfect, 49 00:02:11,567 --> 00:02:13,266 so perfect-- 50 00:02:13,266 --> 00:02:16,467 -[Barby speaking] -Because I don't... 51 00:02:16,467 --> 00:02:18,166 Because it's scary. Because I've... 52 00:02:18,166 --> 00:02:20,166 -Because we're both scared. -[Barby speaking] 53 00:02:20,166 --> 00:02:21,500 We're both scared right now, 54 00:02:21,500 --> 00:02:26,166 and it came out the wrong way. 55 00:02:26,166 --> 00:02:27,600 I was not trying to shut you out. 56 00:02:27,600 --> 00:02:29,900 I was just too in my own head. 57 00:02:29,900 --> 00:02:32,667 [cries] 58 00:02:32,667 --> 00:02:35,000 -[Barby speaking] -Yeah. 59 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:37,867 -[Barby speaking] -You know, I will not... 60 00:02:37,867 --> 00:02:39,166 [Barby speaking] 61 00:02:39,166 --> 00:02:41,000 I will not be up here right now... 62 00:02:41,000 --> 00:02:42,667 Barby, look at me. 63 00:02:42,667 --> 00:02:45,166 -I can't. -Then don't. Just listen. 64 00:02:45,166 --> 00:02:46,467 I would not be up here right now 65 00:02:46,467 --> 00:02:48,667 if I didn't wanna work on this. 66 00:02:48,667 --> 00:02:50,500 I'm... You know, I'm becoming a better man 67 00:02:50,500 --> 00:02:52,667 and that's why I'm trying to communicate that now. 68 00:02:52,667 --> 00:02:55,934 Please don't leave. Please do not leave. 69 00:03:01,266 --> 00:03:03,300 You know, I've tried so hard 70 00:03:03,300 --> 00:03:05,367 in the past couple of days to show you that 71 00:03:05,367 --> 00:03:07,600 you're the only woman I am interested in. 72 00:03:20,266 --> 00:03:21,500 [Chris speaking] 73 00:03:27,667 --> 00:03:29,000 I know. 74 00:03:30,600 --> 00:03:33,800 [Chris speaking] 75 00:03:35,767 --> 00:03:38,500 [Barby] It's obvious I have feelings for Chris already. 76 00:03:38,500 --> 00:03:41,166 And it's a lot to take in, you know? 77 00:03:41,166 --> 00:03:44,000 I definitely like Chris, so the thought of him 78 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:48,500 not being a part of my journey, it's sad. 79 00:03:54,400 --> 00:03:55,600 [Chris speaking] 80 00:03:55,600 --> 00:03:59,000 [insects chirping] 81 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:02,000 [upbeat music playing] 82 00:04:04,100 --> 00:04:05,767 ♪♪ I'll be like ♪ 83 00:04:05,767 --> 00:04:07,266 ♪♪ "Let's welcome In the sunshine ♪ 84 00:04:07,266 --> 00:04:09,166 ♪♪ Till the clouds fly by" ♪ 85 00:04:09,166 --> 00:04:10,667 [Kelle] I would like to ask Crystal 86 00:04:10,667 --> 00:04:12,867 what has been your favorite experience 87 00:04:12,867 --> 00:04:14,500 -living with me. -[Crystal] Mmm-hmm. 88 00:04:14,500 --> 00:04:15,867 [Kelly] Say it, Crystal. Say it. 89 00:04:15,867 --> 00:04:17,467 Every day. Every day. 90 00:04:17,467 --> 00:04:19,767 There's no day that like sticks out. 91 00:04:19,767 --> 00:04:22,000 -Every day. -It's a new thing every day. 92 00:04:22,000 --> 00:04:23,500 [Crystal] Yes, every day. 93 00:04:25,100 --> 00:04:27,367 Have y'all thought about marriage, 94 00:04:27,367 --> 00:04:29,166 family, having kids of your own? 95 00:04:29,166 --> 00:04:32,400 Definitely want a wife. I want two, max three. 96 00:04:33,166 --> 00:04:34,400 [Chris] I mean, I definitely wanna get married 97 00:04:34,400 --> 00:04:36,800 -but I don't know-- -Don't know about kids? 98 00:04:36,800 --> 00:04:38,467 I don't think really think I've had a chance 99 00:04:38,467 --> 00:04:40,867 to connect with all the women here just yet. 100 00:04:40,867 --> 00:04:42,600 Me and Christina didn't hit it off 101 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:45,100 and I'm kinda at a crossroads here. 102 00:04:45,100 --> 00:04:47,000 I'm not really certain what my next move is. 103 00:04:49,000 --> 00:04:51,000 I wanna get married and I want seven kids. 104 00:04:51,000 --> 00:04:52,300 -[Joey S] Damn. -I mean... 105 00:04:52,300 --> 00:04:54,000 -[Connor] Yes, sir. -[Anthony] You gotta hurry the [bleep] up. 106 00:04:54,000 --> 00:04:56,100 -I mean... Right? [bleep] -[laughter] 107 00:04:56,100 --> 00:04:58,066 -[Darren] That's right. -[Anthony] It's time. 108 00:04:58,066 --> 00:04:59,233 Let's go. 109 00:05:05,700 --> 00:05:07,400 [Joey S] What have we got here? 110 00:05:08,066 --> 00:05:10,533 -[David] [bleep] God. -[Sam speaking] 111 00:05:15,467 --> 00:05:18,667 -[screams] -[laughs] 112 00:05:18,667 --> 00:05:20,600 Holy [bleep]. 113 00:05:20,600 --> 00:05:23,767 -Hi, pretty. -Happy birthday. 114 00:05:23,767 --> 00:05:26,467 -What the [bleep] are you doing... -[laughs] 115 00:05:26,467 --> 00:05:28,266 -How are you? -I don't know. I don't know. 116 00:05:28,266 --> 00:05:29,567 -Oh. -I'm losing my mind here. 117 00:05:29,567 --> 00:05:30,567 -Okay. -I love you. 118 00:05:30,567 --> 00:05:33,767 So the women start screaming, crying, hugging. 119 00:05:33,767 --> 00:05:36,567 And I'm excited 'cause we got more women in the house. 120 00:05:36,567 --> 00:05:38,967 And then wondering, "Why are they here?" 121 00:05:38,967 --> 00:05:40,667 [laughs] 122 00:05:40,667 --> 00:05:42,567 -David, this is Gailyn. -[David] David. 123 00:05:42,567 --> 00:05:43,500 [both] Nice to meet you. 124 00:05:43,500 --> 00:05:45,000 [Christina] My best friend. I call her G. 125 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:46,233 -We're beach girls. -Okay. 126 00:05:47,367 --> 00:05:50,600 -Yeah. -[Christina speaking] 127 00:05:53,900 --> 00:05:56,567 [Christina] We do. Everybody knows the Trike Girls. 128 00:05:56,567 --> 00:05:58,166 -Yeah. -[David] Okay. 129 00:05:58,166 --> 00:05:59,900 [Gailyn] Well, that's 'cause we can drink. 130 00:05:59,900 --> 00:06:01,100 -You know what I mean? -Mmm-hmm. 131 00:06:01,100 --> 00:06:02,266 -Safety first. -Okay. 132 00:06:02,266 --> 00:06:04,367 -Right? Drink-- -Do you wear a helmet? 133 00:06:04,367 --> 00:06:07,200 -Oh, not safety first, right? -No, no, no. 134 00:06:07,200 --> 00:06:09,700 I've never had a scenario where meeting a family member 135 00:06:09,700 --> 00:06:12,100 has ever made me second-guess the relationship. 136 00:06:12,100 --> 00:06:15,200 But it does give you an idea of where their values lie 137 00:06:15,200 --> 00:06:17,000 and what their day-to-day life is 138 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:18,900 and kind of... I get to pick the brain of them 139 00:06:18,900 --> 00:06:21,000 to figure out, you know, what do they do 140 00:06:21,000 --> 00:06:23,266 on a daily basis outside of this. 141 00:06:23,266 --> 00:06:24,667 -Good to see you. I'm Joey. -[Gailyn] Good to meet you. 142 00:06:24,667 --> 00:06:25,767 -[Christina] I call her G. It's G. -[Gailyn] Joey? 143 00:06:25,767 --> 00:06:26,700 -Yeah. -[Christina] It's G. 144 00:06:26,700 --> 00:06:28,266 -[Gailyn] Good to meet you. -G? Got it. G. 145 00:06:28,266 --> 00:06:29,400 [Gailyn] And what is your name? Sam? 146 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:30,600 -Sam, yeah. -[Gailyn] Sam. 147 00:06:30,600 --> 00:06:32,867 Christina and David are making a connection, 148 00:06:32,867 --> 00:06:34,867 which I'm not gonna lie, it sucks. 149 00:06:34,867 --> 00:06:36,166 I feel like I'm an afterthought. 150 00:06:36,166 --> 00:06:37,867 I came here to find a connection. 151 00:06:37,867 --> 00:06:40,300 It'd be kinda bad to leave without one. 152 00:06:40,300 --> 00:06:42,100 Have an open heart, 153 00:06:42,100 --> 00:06:44,266 but don't let it get stomped on. 154 00:06:44,266 --> 00:06:45,867 Hi. I'm Kate. 155 00:06:45,867 --> 00:06:47,100 -Give each other a hug. -Nice to meet you. 156 00:06:47,100 --> 00:06:48,200 Nice to meet you. What's your name? 157 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:49,367 -Chris. -Chris. 158 00:06:49,367 --> 00:06:51,867 Kate is my rock back home. 159 00:06:51,867 --> 00:06:54,567 So Kate is one of my closest friends. 160 00:06:54,567 --> 00:06:57,200 -We've traveled the world together. -Yeah. 161 00:06:57,200 --> 00:06:58,967 [Chris] Having friends and family here 162 00:06:58,967 --> 00:07:00,667 is definitely gonna put some people on edge. 163 00:07:00,667 --> 00:07:02,567 We know we're about to have to answer a lot of questions. 164 00:07:02,567 --> 00:07:04,100 We know that we're about to get interrogated. 165 00:07:04,100 --> 00:07:05,867 If I say some dumb [bleep] to the friend 166 00:07:05,867 --> 00:07:08,567 and the friend starts to hate me... [sighs] 167 00:07:08,567 --> 00:07:10,700 Yup, that's probably... Failed that one. 168 00:07:10,700 --> 00:07:12,700 [Barby] This has been my hunka hunk in the house. 169 00:07:12,700 --> 00:07:14,500 [Kate] Ah, you're a lucky man. 170 00:07:14,500 --> 00:07:16,467 -Did you... What do you think? -Lucky man. 171 00:07:16,467 --> 00:07:19,567 Yeah, I mean, aesthetically, very pretty. 172 00:07:19,567 --> 00:07:20,800 But the same humor. 173 00:07:20,800 --> 00:07:22,100 -You will see. -Okay. 174 00:07:22,100 --> 00:07:23,867 -You think we look good? -Yeah. 175 00:07:23,867 --> 00:07:27,400 [dramatic music playing] 176 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:32,900 Oh, my God, you guys. [cries] 177 00:07:32,900 --> 00:07:34,300 [Darren] What happened? 178 00:07:34,700 --> 00:07:36,667 [Kelly] Oh, my God. 179 00:07:36,667 --> 00:07:38,300 [Darren] Oh, my God. It's your daughter. 180 00:07:38,300 --> 00:07:39,900 Oh, my God. 181 00:07:40,567 --> 00:07:42,533 That's my life. 182 00:07:43,467 --> 00:07:46,300 Oh, my God. Oh, my God. 183 00:07:46,300 --> 00:07:48,400 [cries] 184 00:07:48,400 --> 00:07:50,367 Oh, my God. 185 00:07:50,367 --> 00:07:54,166 So this is Michelle. And this is... This is Darren 186 00:07:54,166 --> 00:07:56,700 -Hi, Darren. -Hello. Very nice to meet you. 187 00:07:56,700 --> 00:07:58,166 Sorry. A little emotional. 188 00:07:58,166 --> 00:07:59,767 She's really important in my life, 189 00:07:59,767 --> 00:08:01,467 -just so you know. -[Darren] I know. I know. 190 00:08:01,467 --> 00:08:03,266 Michelle, this is my son, Sam. 191 00:08:03,266 --> 00:08:04,467 -[Michelle] Oh, hi, Sam. -Nice to meet you. 192 00:08:04,467 --> 00:08:05,767 -I'm a hugger. -Yeah. 193 00:08:05,767 --> 00:08:07,400 She's the type of person that 194 00:08:07,400 --> 00:08:09,100 would have been awesome to have here. 195 00:08:09,100 --> 00:08:10,867 [Darren] It's not gonna happen. 196 00:08:10,867 --> 00:08:12,900 There's no way in the world 197 00:08:12,900 --> 00:08:15,900 Sam can be dating Michelle 198 00:08:15,900 --> 00:08:17,500 while I'm dating Kelly. 199 00:08:18,100 --> 00:08:19,600 -Too weird. -Then again, 200 00:08:19,600 --> 00:08:21,266 doing a striptease in front of your dad 201 00:08:21,266 --> 00:08:23,667 or eating watermelon like that with your dad 202 00:08:23,667 --> 00:08:25,100 is also weird. 203 00:08:25,100 --> 00:08:26,467 So we're trying out new experiences. 204 00:08:26,467 --> 00:08:28,300 Yeah, not that one. 205 00:08:28,300 --> 00:08:31,900 -Oh, that's my auntie. -[Sheron screams] 206 00:08:31,900 --> 00:08:33,433 Hey. 207 00:08:35,100 --> 00:08:36,500 Oh. 208 00:08:36,500 --> 00:08:39,567 [Shauna] My Aunt Sheron is... She's a great judge of character. 209 00:08:39,567 --> 00:08:41,667 She can weed through all the BS, 210 00:08:41,667 --> 00:08:43,467 which I don't think Joey has BS. 211 00:08:43,467 --> 00:08:45,400 But I really want her to talk to Joey 212 00:08:45,400 --> 00:08:46,900 and see what their vibe is. 213 00:08:46,900 --> 00:08:49,367 -[Joey S] Hi. How are you? -Joey, this is my Aunt Sheron. 214 00:08:49,367 --> 00:08:51,100 -Sheron, this is Joey. -[Joey S] I'm Joey. It's nice to meet you. 215 00:08:51,100 --> 00:08:53,600 -Nice meeting you too. -She's like my mom... 216 00:08:53,600 --> 00:08:55,266 -Lovely to meet you. -...literally. 217 00:08:55,266 --> 00:08:57,100 -You live in Chicago too? -I do. 218 00:08:57,100 --> 00:08:59,066 I live in the suburbs of Chicago. 219 00:08:59,066 --> 00:09:00,767 -Nice, nice. -And this is his dad. 220 00:09:00,767 --> 00:09:02,467 -This is my dad, Anthony. -Hi. Nice to meet you. 221 00:09:02,467 --> 00:09:04,200 -Nice to meet you. -Thank you. 222 00:09:04,200 --> 00:09:06,467 [upbeat music playing] 223 00:09:06,467 --> 00:09:10,066 [screams] 224 00:09:10,066 --> 00:09:12,600 JoJo! Woo! 225 00:09:13,100 --> 00:09:14,667 What's up, sis? 226 00:09:14,667 --> 00:09:17,834 [laughter,, giggles] 227 00:09:21,367 --> 00:09:23,166 Oh, my Lord. 228 00:09:23,166 --> 00:09:25,667 [Mesha] Don't get no makeup on your white shirt. 229 00:09:25,667 --> 00:09:27,300 I know. I know. 230 00:09:27,300 --> 00:09:28,467 -Hi. How are you? -This is Connor. 231 00:09:28,467 --> 00:09:29,500 -Connor? -Connor, yes. 232 00:09:29,500 --> 00:09:30,567 My boyfriend. Nice to meet you. 233 00:09:30,567 --> 00:09:33,800 -Oh, nice to meet you, Connor. -Stacy. 234 00:09:33,800 --> 00:09:35,500 -Stacy, nice to meet you. -That's my other boyfriend. 235 00:09:35,500 --> 00:09:37,266 -I'm her other boyfriend. -[laughter] 236 00:09:37,266 --> 00:09:39,800 -This is Anthony. -Nice to meet you. 237 00:09:39,800 --> 00:09:42,000 Me and Stacy over there, we don't wanna mention anything. 238 00:09:42,000 --> 00:09:43,100 -Mmm-hmm. -[laughs] 239 00:09:43,100 --> 00:09:44,467 [Mesha] Okay. I'mma be watching you. 240 00:09:44,467 --> 00:09:46,867 -[Crystal] No. -[laughter] 241 00:09:46,867 --> 00:09:49,166 Okay. So how old is this baby right here? 242 00:09:49,166 --> 00:09:50,967 -I'm 28. -[woman] He's 28. 243 00:09:50,967 --> 00:09:52,867 Of course. Of course. 244 00:09:52,867 --> 00:09:54,066 [indistinct chatter] 245 00:09:54,066 --> 00:09:55,400 [Stacy] Here we go again. 246 00:09:56,000 --> 00:09:58,500 Yeah! 247 00:09:58,500 --> 00:10:00,467 [cheering] 248 00:10:00,467 --> 00:10:02,600 Hi. 249 00:10:03,500 --> 00:10:06,600 I'm Joey, the OG, and I'm Kelle's son. 250 00:10:06,600 --> 00:10:08,367 I'm back in the house. 251 00:10:08,367 --> 00:10:11,467 -Come on. How you doing? -Hey, what are you doing here? 252 00:10:11,467 --> 00:10:13,800 Why are you following me on the retreat, Joey? 253 00:10:13,800 --> 00:10:16,667 I'm here to find love. Don't get in my way. 254 00:10:16,667 --> 00:10:19,567 Honestly, honestly, older women are very hot. 255 00:10:19,567 --> 00:10:23,266 And I know I got the swag and I got the game for them. 256 00:10:23,266 --> 00:10:25,200 Wow. This is like news to me. 257 00:10:25,200 --> 00:10:27,400 [Joey B] I'm so happy I could make it. 258 00:10:27,400 --> 00:10:29,767 -[Kelle] I love you. -[Joey B] I love you, Mom. 259 00:10:29,767 --> 00:10:31,900 It's a lot harder when you're not here. 260 00:10:32,800 --> 00:10:34,266 [Rob] Family is very important 261 00:10:34,266 --> 00:10:36,800 because it's not easy to have a relationship with someone 262 00:10:36,800 --> 00:10:40,066 if the kid doesn't like the person you're dating. 263 00:10:40,066 --> 00:10:41,500 So I know if Joey doesn't like me, 264 00:10:41,500 --> 00:10:43,467 I have no chance with his mom. 265 00:10:43,467 --> 00:10:45,767 -[Joey B] Let's meet some people. -[Kelle] This is Joey. 266 00:10:45,767 --> 00:10:47,467 -[Joey B] How are you guys doing? I'm Joey. -Joey. I'm Rob, man. 267 00:10:47,467 --> 00:10:48,600 -Nice to meet you. -Rob. Nice to meet you, man. 268 00:10:48,600 --> 00:10:51,000 -Connor. Nice to meet you. -Connor. Are you father-son? 269 00:10:51,000 --> 00:10:52,100 -No. -[Kelle] No. 270 00:10:52,100 --> 00:10:54,867 -[Rob] Yeah. No. Yeah, this is my dad. -This is mine. 271 00:10:54,867 --> 00:10:56,767 [Joey B] Joey. Nice to meet you, dude. 272 00:10:56,767 --> 00:10:58,100 [phone vibrates] 273 00:10:58,100 --> 00:11:00,166 Oh, I got a text! 274 00:11:00,166 --> 00:11:01,367 -[Anthony] Hey! -[Joey S] We got text. 275 00:11:01,367 --> 00:11:02,567 [Barby] Oh, okay. 276 00:11:02,567 --> 00:11:04,266 "Welcome, friends and family." 277 00:11:04,266 --> 00:11:07,200 [cheering] 278 00:11:07,200 --> 00:11:08,667 [Joey S] "As we approach the final stretch, 279 00:11:08,667 --> 00:11:10,266 these friends and family have come 280 00:11:10,266 --> 00:11:12,100 to support each of the incredible women 281 00:11:12,100 --> 00:11:14,467 and help them navigate the path that lies ahead. 282 00:11:14,467 --> 00:11:16,800 Ladies, please take this opportunity 283 00:11:16,800 --> 00:11:19,266 to get the wisdom, love, and guidance 284 00:11:19,266 --> 00:11:21,266 that only your friends and family can provide." 285 00:11:21,266 --> 00:11:22,867 -[Anthony] Hmm. -[Joey S] "And, men, 286 00:11:22,867 --> 00:11:26,100 this is your chance to make a lasting first impression, 287 00:11:26,100 --> 00:11:27,567 so use this time wisely. 288 00:11:27,567 --> 00:11:29,100 And let's get this party started." 289 00:11:29,100 --> 00:11:30,400 -[cheering] -[Joey S] By the way, 290 00:11:30,400 --> 00:11:32,166 I wanna say, guys. 291 00:11:32,166 --> 00:11:33,867 -It is Barby's birthday. -[Kate] Happy birthday! 292 00:11:33,867 --> 00:11:36,367 -Happy birthday, Barby! -[cheering] 293 00:11:36,367 --> 00:11:37,867 [Joey S] Cheers, cheers, cheers. 294 00:11:37,867 --> 00:11:40,367 -[Anthony speaking Italian] -[speaking Italian] 295 00:11:40,367 --> 00:11:42,567 -[laughter] -[Anthony whistles] 296 00:11:42,567 --> 00:11:45,500 I'm not gonna say I'm intimidated, 297 00:11:45,500 --> 00:11:48,300 but I... I'm a little taken aback 298 00:11:48,300 --> 00:11:50,200 'cause it's a big moment. 299 00:11:50,200 --> 00:11:51,667 Think about it, you might be 300 00:11:51,667 --> 00:11:54,567 just making a new connection 301 00:11:54,567 --> 00:11:57,800 and a family member or a really close friend 302 00:11:57,800 --> 00:11:59,367 could come in and go, "Oh, no." 303 00:11:59,367 --> 00:12:00,867 They could just... 304 00:12:00,867 --> 00:12:02,367 They could put the quash on it. 305 00:12:02,367 --> 00:12:04,467 Right now is my only chance 306 00:12:04,467 --> 00:12:05,600 at a first impression. 307 00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:07,333 And it's huge. 308 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:11,767 [Anthony] All your mother's been saying, "My son reminds me of your son." 309 00:12:11,767 --> 00:12:13,800 -That's why I had to go out with him. -Mmm-hmm. 310 00:12:13,800 --> 00:12:16,967 -[laughs] -[Joey S] Wait. Wait, Joe. 311 00:12:16,967 --> 00:12:19,700 -We could talk about this another time. -We will. We will. 312 00:12:20,767 --> 00:12:22,266 I will tell it like it is. 313 00:12:22,266 --> 00:12:23,900 Oh, my God. Is she fighting with her? 314 00:12:23,900 --> 00:12:25,667 You're over here forcing a connection with this guy, 315 00:12:25,667 --> 00:12:27,100 so you stay [bleep] relevant. 316 00:12:27,100 --> 00:12:30,367 So go to [bleep] hell, you [bleep]. [laughs] 317 00:12:30,367 --> 00:12:32,266 [Joey S] Family and friends day was supposed to be peaceful. 318 00:12:32,266 --> 00:12:34,100 And now we just got Barbecue Barby 319 00:12:34,100 --> 00:12:35,567 and Barbecue Kelle [bleep] up. 320 00:12:35,567 --> 00:12:37,100 Yeah, you could stick a fork in this barbecue. 321 00:12:37,100 --> 00:12:39,300 -It's basically wrapped up. -[chuckles] 322 00:12:40,200 --> 00:12:42,900 [upbeat music playing] 323 00:12:43,767 --> 00:12:45,400 [laughs] 324 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:47,767 [Kelle] We had a conversation about 325 00:12:47,767 --> 00:12:50,400 if my kids didn't like somebody I dated, what would I do, 326 00:12:50,400 --> 00:12:52,166 and I think my kids just love who I love. 327 00:12:52,166 --> 00:12:53,667 -Yeah. -Wouldn't you say? 328 00:12:53,667 --> 00:12:55,266 I mean, you're pretty good at picking 329 00:12:55,266 --> 00:12:57,200 -and choosing your man, so... -Yeah. 330 00:12:57,200 --> 00:12:59,667 Your mom is definitely my only choice. 331 00:12:59,667 --> 00:13:01,867 The men have had family here the entire time. 332 00:13:01,867 --> 00:13:04,166 Finally, the women get their family members 333 00:13:04,166 --> 00:13:05,767 to support them. 334 00:13:05,767 --> 00:13:07,767 She's definitely by far the coolest one here. 335 00:13:07,767 --> 00:13:08,934 -Hell yeah. -And the most attractive, 336 00:13:08,934 --> 00:13:11,100 so... why would I make... Why would I... Why would I... 337 00:13:11,100 --> 00:13:12,700 -Why would I go-- -I agree with that. 338 00:13:13,467 --> 00:13:15,600 -She's beautiful. Beautiful woman. -Thank you. 339 00:13:16,100 --> 00:13:18,000 That's sweet. 340 00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:19,767 -[Kelle] He's like-- -Did y'all just kiss on the lips? 341 00:13:19,767 --> 00:13:21,166 -[Kelle] No. I kissed him on his cheek. -Okay. 342 00:13:21,166 --> 00:13:23,166 -Yeah. You know how bashful I am. -Relax. 343 00:13:23,166 --> 00:13:24,266 [laughs] 344 00:13:24,266 --> 00:13:26,266 [Kelle] My relationships are very important to me, 345 00:13:26,266 --> 00:13:28,867 so if any of my children don't like who I'm with, 346 00:13:28,867 --> 00:13:31,767 they're gonna tell me and that's gonna be the end of it. 347 00:13:31,767 --> 00:13:34,967 If my kids don't like you, I don't like you. 348 00:13:34,967 --> 00:13:37,467 -Oh, that was terrible. -Oh, that was... 349 00:13:37,467 --> 00:13:38,433 -Yeah, let me see another one. -[laughs] 350 00:13:38,433 --> 00:13:40,600 [Michelle] I really want to know what happened 351 00:13:40,600 --> 00:13:42,567 to your first marriage. 352 00:13:42,567 --> 00:13:44,800 I was raised that the man's primary role 353 00:13:44,800 --> 00:13:46,467 is to provide for his family. 354 00:13:46,467 --> 00:13:47,467 -Mmm-hmm. -Mmm-hmm. 355 00:13:47,467 --> 00:13:49,367 [Darren] I worked on my career, 356 00:13:49,367 --> 00:13:51,867 got to the point where I was traveling. 357 00:13:51,867 --> 00:13:54,166 I was averaging over 200 hotel nights a year. 358 00:13:54,166 --> 00:13:55,166 [Kelly] Hmm. 359 00:13:55,166 --> 00:13:57,767 [Darren] But I think we had grown so far apart 360 00:13:57,767 --> 00:13:59,200 without noticing it, 361 00:13:59,200 --> 00:14:01,667 that she didn't like who I'd become. 362 00:14:01,667 --> 00:14:03,300 Mmm-hmm. 363 00:14:03,300 --> 00:14:05,600 -You're gonna make me cry. -[laughs] Good. 364 00:14:05,600 --> 00:14:07,367 Let's get to the bottom of this. 365 00:14:07,367 --> 00:14:10,200 [Michelle] My mom and I are best friends. 366 00:14:10,200 --> 00:14:12,800 And she deserves somebody 367 00:14:12,800 --> 00:14:16,567 who not only recognizes all the value that she brings, 368 00:14:16,567 --> 00:14:18,600 but really celebrates her 369 00:14:18,600 --> 00:14:20,867 and really allows her to be herself. 370 00:14:20,867 --> 00:14:22,567 Now that you know 371 00:14:22,567 --> 00:14:26,166 that a high-value woman requires a lot of time, 372 00:14:26,166 --> 00:14:27,667 a lot of attention, 373 00:14:27,667 --> 00:14:30,100 are you available to provide, 374 00:14:30,100 --> 00:14:33,500 like, that emotional stability and security? 375 00:14:33,500 --> 00:14:38,800 Um, work is insane. 376 00:14:38,800 --> 00:14:41,300 It really is, but I do believe 377 00:14:41,300 --> 00:14:43,166 I've learned how to have a work-life balance. 378 00:14:43,166 --> 00:14:47,033 And my point is that I want to focus on... 379 00:14:47,500 --> 00:14:49,567 This will sound selfish, 380 00:14:49,567 --> 00:14:51,066 on me and what's important to me, 381 00:14:51,066 --> 00:14:52,600 and fortunately, 382 00:14:52,600 --> 00:14:54,467 your mom happens to be important to me. 383 00:14:54,467 --> 00:14:56,400 -[Michelle] Yeah. -So that's what I wanna focus on. 384 00:14:57,567 --> 00:14:59,700 My mom wears her heart on her sleeve, 385 00:14:59,700 --> 00:15:01,266 and because of this, 386 00:15:01,266 --> 00:15:03,066 I don't care about what his job is. 387 00:15:03,066 --> 00:15:05,767 I want to know about his heart. 388 00:15:05,767 --> 00:15:08,467 And Darren is handling my questions 389 00:15:08,467 --> 00:15:10,166 with such vulnerability, 390 00:15:10,166 --> 00:15:13,367 so I'm really excited about this for her. 391 00:15:13,367 --> 00:15:15,767 It's all, like, a blur to me because I've done so much. 392 00:15:15,767 --> 00:15:19,100 And it feels like I've been here a month. 393 00:15:19,100 --> 00:15:21,266 -Hey, guys. What's happening? -[Jo-Ann] Hello, Anthony. 394 00:15:21,266 --> 00:15:22,166 You want to sit and talk? 395 00:15:22,166 --> 00:15:23,867 -Yeah. -I love your belt. He's so cool. 396 00:15:23,867 --> 00:15:25,000 -Like, I told, you know-- -Anthony, you got... 397 00:15:25,000 --> 00:15:27,300 -You got to get in the middle. -So, I think I told you. 398 00:15:27,300 --> 00:15:28,667 -Okay. -We go to, like, Tony D's 399 00:15:28,667 --> 00:15:29,834 on Friday nights in Rochester. 400 00:15:29,834 --> 00:15:31,767 -Yes. She's... She was like-- -You gotta go to Tony D's. 401 00:15:31,767 --> 00:15:33,266 She goes, "You're gonna fit so well, Anthony." 402 00:15:33,266 --> 00:15:34,433 -You'll fit right in. -Yeah. 403 00:15:34,433 --> 00:15:37,467 Yeah. You have no idea how much fun we're having, right? 404 00:15:37,467 --> 00:15:39,000 -Come on. -Yeah. We have so much fun. 405 00:15:39,000 --> 00:15:40,767 -Anthony is so cool. -Silly things. 406 00:15:40,767 --> 00:15:43,667 First guy she goes for is, you know, her son's age. 407 00:15:43,667 --> 00:15:46,767 I think I've seen your son over there, I say. 408 00:15:46,767 --> 00:15:48,867 Definitely, Connor has his work cut out. 409 00:15:48,867 --> 00:15:50,200 You know, he's a little younger. 410 00:15:50,200 --> 00:15:51,767 He doesn't have the gift of the gab. 411 00:15:51,767 --> 00:15:55,800 He has a lot of kissing up to do to compete with me. 412 00:15:55,800 --> 00:15:59,467 You're looking at Anthony, like he's the GOAT. [laughs] 413 00:15:59,467 --> 00:16:01,467 It's hard to level up to that with anybody. 414 00:16:01,467 --> 00:16:04,166 Connor, best of luck to you, I guess. 415 00:16:04,166 --> 00:16:06,100 Do you like young guys, too, like her? 416 00:16:06,100 --> 00:16:07,500 Oh, Lord Jesus. 417 00:16:07,500 --> 00:16:08,967 -[Rebecca] I know. -What? 418 00:16:08,967 --> 00:16:10,100 Not as bad as Rebecca probably. 419 00:16:10,100 --> 00:16:11,867 Not as bad as Rebecca. I love that. 420 00:16:11,867 --> 00:16:13,266 -What up? -[Rebecca] What up? 421 00:16:13,266 --> 00:16:14,767 -[Jo-Ann] I'm afraid. -What up, papa? 422 00:16:14,767 --> 00:16:16,500 -What's up, baby? -Oh, you're going with the red. 423 00:16:16,500 --> 00:16:18,266 -Oh, I'm going to-- -I know she likes the red. 424 00:16:18,266 --> 00:16:20,467 -Yeah, I like the double-- -We're gonna tag team. 425 00:16:20,467 --> 00:16:22,166 We're gonna go like this. We tag team out? 426 00:16:22,166 --> 00:16:23,767 -All right. All right. All right. -I'm in. 427 00:16:23,767 --> 00:16:24,900 -You got it. -All right. Connor's turn. 428 00:16:24,900 --> 00:16:26,300 -Nice meeting you. -Connor's turn. 429 00:16:26,300 --> 00:16:27,867 -Nice meeting you. Cheers. -Cheers. 430 00:16:27,867 --> 00:16:30,266 -All right. Ciao. -Yeah. Ciao. 431 00:16:30,266 --> 00:16:31,600 All right, Connor, see you later. 432 00:16:31,600 --> 00:16:32,667 -Goodbye, brother. -Hopefully the shirt... 433 00:16:32,667 --> 00:16:34,000 -The shirt stays intact. -I know. 434 00:16:34,000 --> 00:16:35,100 -I'll be up there in a bit. -[Anthony] All right. 435 00:16:35,100 --> 00:16:36,166 -See you later. -How are you? 436 00:16:36,166 --> 00:16:37,667 So what's up? Good, how are you? 437 00:16:37,667 --> 00:16:39,000 Good. Jojo. 438 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:41,467 -Hello. -We'll do... We'll do cheers four times. 439 00:16:41,467 --> 00:16:43,200 -Cheers. -Cheers. 440 00:16:43,200 --> 00:16:44,300 Cheers. 441 00:16:44,300 --> 00:16:45,867 -You live in Texas? -[Connor] I do. 442 00:16:45,867 --> 00:16:47,266 I live in Houston. 443 00:16:47,266 --> 00:16:49,266 I've been there for five years. 444 00:16:49,266 --> 00:16:50,967 [Jo-Ann] Okay. Where did you... Where were you before that? 445 00:16:50,967 --> 00:16:53,467 So I lived in Colorado Springs... 446 00:16:53,467 --> 00:16:55,166 -Cool. -...for three years. 447 00:16:55,166 --> 00:16:57,200 -Okay. Oh, because of-- -I was deployed in Kuwait... 448 00:16:57,200 --> 00:16:58,367 -[Jo-Ann] Okay. -...for eight months. 449 00:16:58,367 --> 00:17:00,066 -What branch are you in? -[Rebecca] I forgot to ask you-- 450 00:17:00,066 --> 00:17:01,767 -I was Air Force. -[Jo-Ann] Very cool. 451 00:17:01,767 --> 00:17:03,667 Have you ever dated an older girl? 452 00:17:03,667 --> 00:17:06,867 [Connor] One of my exes was four years older than me. 453 00:17:06,867 --> 00:17:09,567 -Oh, yeah. That doesn't count. -[Rebecca] I know. 454 00:17:09,567 --> 00:17:11,066 -A year doesn't count. -And you're in the same decade. 455 00:17:11,066 --> 00:17:13,767 -It doesn't count. -[laughter] 456 00:17:13,767 --> 00:17:16,166 [Jo-Ann] I would advise her to go with somebody closer with her age 457 00:17:16,166 --> 00:17:19,500 because she has been involved with somebody younger before 458 00:17:19,500 --> 00:17:21,867 and I don't want to see her get her heart broken. 459 00:17:21,867 --> 00:17:23,266 I feel like someone that much younger than her 460 00:17:23,266 --> 00:17:26,300 may not be able to be in it 461 00:17:26,300 --> 00:17:28,266 for the long haul. 462 00:17:28,266 --> 00:17:30,867 It's... I mean, it's just not practical. 463 00:17:30,867 --> 00:17:32,667 [upbeat music playing] 464 00:17:32,667 --> 00:17:34,567 [Crystal] Okay. So when I first got here, 465 00:17:34,567 --> 00:17:36,100 it was the younger guys 466 00:17:36,100 --> 00:17:37,300 and I was like, "Oh, my God." 467 00:17:37,300 --> 00:17:38,767 Like, "They're younger than my kids." 468 00:17:38,767 --> 00:17:39,767 -You know? -[laughs] 469 00:17:39,767 --> 00:17:41,200 And then the next day, 470 00:17:41,200 --> 00:17:42,567 they brought the fathers in. 471 00:17:42,567 --> 00:17:45,867 So I instantly focused in on Stacy. 472 00:17:45,867 --> 00:17:47,700 And it's like he wasn't catching on. 473 00:17:47,700 --> 00:17:49,166 So I'm thinking like, 474 00:17:49,166 --> 00:17:51,367 "Okay, maybe you just ain't into me." 475 00:17:51,367 --> 00:17:53,000 And he told me, he was like, 476 00:17:53,000 --> 00:17:54,567 "It's not that I'm not interested in you." 477 00:17:54,567 --> 00:17:56,266 He was like, "I am." He was like, 478 00:17:56,266 --> 00:17:58,567 "But I went through a lot with my ex-wife." 479 00:17:58,567 --> 00:18:01,266 -So it's been slow. -Mmm-hmm. 480 00:18:01,266 --> 00:18:02,967 In my past relationships, 481 00:18:02,967 --> 00:18:05,467 you have been, like, one of the best coaches for me. 482 00:18:05,467 --> 00:18:07,066 And I would like you 483 00:18:07,066 --> 00:18:09,767 to get to know Stacy a little bit better. 484 00:18:09,767 --> 00:18:13,266 -Okay. -I want you to just kind of pick his brain 485 00:18:13,266 --> 00:18:14,900 and let him know, at the end of the day, 486 00:18:14,900 --> 00:18:16,867 don't [bleep] with my sister. And that's it. 487 00:18:16,867 --> 00:18:18,100 -That's it. -All right. 488 00:18:18,100 --> 00:18:19,500 Let's go. 489 00:18:20,166 --> 00:18:23,467 [upbeat music playing] 490 00:18:23,467 --> 00:18:26,166 -[Kelle] Look who I got! Joey! -Hello. 491 00:18:26,166 --> 00:18:28,567 -I thought you just brought my son over. -Joey! 492 00:18:28,567 --> 00:18:29,967 How you doing, Joe? I'm Anthony. 493 00:18:29,967 --> 00:18:31,767 -Anthony? Nice to meet you. -Yes. This is my son, Joey. 494 00:18:31,767 --> 00:18:32,667 -This is Joey. -Joey? 495 00:18:32,667 --> 00:18:34,367 -Oh, yeah. -All your mother's been doing 496 00:18:34,367 --> 00:18:35,900 since she... I've been here is saying, 497 00:18:35,900 --> 00:18:37,300 "My son reminds me of your son. 498 00:18:37,300 --> 00:18:38,767 My son reminds me of your son." 499 00:18:38,767 --> 00:18:39,967 [Kelle] But I have a taller version. 500 00:18:39,967 --> 00:18:41,000 -I can see it. -Yeah. 501 00:18:41,000 --> 00:18:42,066 That's why I had to go out with him. 502 00:18:42,066 --> 00:18:44,667 -Mmm-hmm. -[Anthony] Did you hear what she said? 503 00:18:44,667 --> 00:18:46,767 Wait, wait, Joe. It's worse than that. Come here. 504 00:18:46,767 --> 00:18:49,266 -We both did tantric yoga with your mother. -[Joey B] Yoga? 505 00:18:49,266 --> 00:18:50,900 -A sex yoga. -It's sex yoga, right? 506 00:18:50,900 --> 00:18:52,800 So, wait, wait, wait. [chuckles] 507 00:18:52,800 --> 00:18:56,100 So my son and me had to take your mom. 508 00:18:56,100 --> 00:18:57,367 [Kelle speaking] 509 00:18:57,367 --> 00:18:58,667 -The hell. -[Anthony] Well, she picked us, 510 00:18:58,667 --> 00:19:00,400 but it wasn't that bad, right? 511 00:19:01,867 --> 00:19:03,367 -Yeah. I did. -We can talk about this 512 00:19:03,367 --> 00:19:05,166 -at another time. -We will. And we will. 513 00:19:05,166 --> 00:19:06,166 All right. One more thing, Joe. 514 00:19:06,166 --> 00:19:07,500 -Just... Let's get all clear. -[Joey B] Yeah. 515 00:19:07,500 --> 00:19:08,734 Let him know you kissed his mother. 516 00:19:08,734 --> 00:19:10,166 -Oh, God. -[Anthony] So this is out of the way, all right? 517 00:19:10,166 --> 00:19:13,266 -[laughs] -We'll move on. 518 00:19:13,266 --> 00:19:16,367 [upbeat music playing] 519 00:19:16,367 --> 00:19:18,266 [Sheron] How many connections you have here? 520 00:19:18,266 --> 00:19:19,700 -[Joey S] Uh, right now? -Mmm-hmm. 521 00:19:19,700 --> 00:19:21,667 Just me and Shauna. She is so cool. 522 00:19:21,667 --> 00:19:24,400 Like, she gets it. You know? 523 00:19:24,400 --> 00:19:25,567 She's so sure of herself. 524 00:19:25,567 --> 00:19:27,000 She knows exactly what she wants. 525 00:19:27,000 --> 00:19:28,500 And that's the problem with girls my age, 526 00:19:28,500 --> 00:19:29,967 is that they don't really have that. 527 00:19:29,967 --> 00:19:33,166 I've never had a serious relationship for that reason. 528 00:19:33,166 --> 00:19:35,400 I've never experienced love yet, so... 529 00:19:36,367 --> 00:19:39,700 So how do you feel that, you know, she has two kids? 530 00:19:39,700 --> 00:19:41,367 -Yeah, I know. -[Sheron] Mmm-hmm. 531 00:19:41,367 --> 00:19:42,767 It's a lot to take in at once, you know, 532 00:19:42,767 --> 00:19:44,867 because I do want my own kids, you know, a mini-me 533 00:19:44,867 --> 00:19:47,367 -that I can coach throughout life. -[Sheron] Yeah. 534 00:19:47,367 --> 00:19:49,266 Me, personally, as an older woman, 535 00:19:49,266 --> 00:19:51,667 that would be the first thing I would want you to bring 536 00:19:51,667 --> 00:19:53,300 to my attention, 537 00:19:53,300 --> 00:19:56,667 because that can cut a relationship right away. 538 00:19:56,667 --> 00:19:58,567 You like to date an older woman. 539 00:19:58,567 --> 00:20:00,567 Mmm-hmm. 540 00:20:00,567 --> 00:20:02,467 But, you know, most of them, when they get to a age, 541 00:20:02,467 --> 00:20:04,567 they don't want kids. 542 00:20:04,567 --> 00:20:06,567 Shauna's aunt honestly opened my eyes a lot. 543 00:20:06,567 --> 00:20:08,266 Like, I want to have kids. 544 00:20:08,266 --> 00:20:09,467 And Shauna's at a point in her life 545 00:20:09,467 --> 00:20:11,367 where she has two kids already. 546 00:20:11,367 --> 00:20:13,800 This is just stuff that I got to really take into perspective 547 00:20:13,800 --> 00:20:16,100 and understand that after this, 548 00:20:16,100 --> 00:20:17,467 you know, where can we go from there? 549 00:20:17,467 --> 00:20:19,467 And I'm not sure. 550 00:20:19,467 --> 00:20:21,467 It's a lot. 551 00:20:21,467 --> 00:20:24,600 [Sheron] I know Shauna doesn't want to have any more kids. 552 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:26,467 So you do have a lot to think about. 553 00:20:26,467 --> 00:20:28,467 -Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. -Okay. 554 00:20:28,467 --> 00:20:30,600 Shauna listen to my advice sometimes, 555 00:20:30,600 --> 00:20:33,600 but we not always on the same page. 556 00:20:33,600 --> 00:20:36,800 So the only way I can help is just give her my feedback. 557 00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:38,800 I let her make the decision. 558 00:20:41,300 --> 00:20:44,367 Crystal would let me know and let everybody else know 559 00:20:44,367 --> 00:20:46,066 that she's very interested in me. 560 00:20:46,066 --> 00:20:48,667 You're not ready. You're not ready. 561 00:20:48,667 --> 00:20:50,867 [Kate] I thought that you would really enjoy 562 00:20:50,867 --> 00:20:52,867 speaking to your son. 563 00:20:52,867 --> 00:20:55,166 My son's opinion means a lot to me. 564 00:20:55,166 --> 00:20:56,834 Hi. 565 00:20:59,200 --> 00:21:00,400 Wow. 566 00:21:02,166 --> 00:21:04,000 [upbeat music playing] 567 00:21:05,367 --> 00:21:07,500 [Christina] Okay. So Gailyn wants to ask you a few questions. 568 00:21:07,500 --> 00:21:08,667 -[Gailyn] Yeah. Okay. -Go ahead. 569 00:21:08,667 --> 00:21:13,200 So what would you say your purpose is? 570 00:21:13,200 --> 00:21:16,166 I donate my time for missionaries to do... 571 00:21:16,166 --> 00:21:17,800 Drill water wells for communities 572 00:21:17,800 --> 00:21:20,000 -that don't have access to clean water. -Okay, beautiful. 573 00:21:20,000 --> 00:21:22,500 And then I work in the energy space 574 00:21:22,500 --> 00:21:24,300 to provide people with energy. 575 00:21:24,300 --> 00:21:26,100 What was it about Christina 576 00:21:26,100 --> 00:21:27,900 -that drew you to her? -[Christina] And here we go. 577 00:21:27,900 --> 00:21:29,500 It was just the energy level that... 578 00:21:29,500 --> 00:21:31,600 It was just, like, I, kind of, hit it off. 579 00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:33,567 It was easy to have the conversation with. 580 00:21:33,567 --> 00:21:35,667 -She was really, um... -Oh, nice. 581 00:21:35,667 --> 00:21:37,533 -Very natural, right? -Yeah. 582 00:21:38,200 --> 00:21:39,467 [Gailyn] You know, you can tell 583 00:21:39,467 --> 00:21:41,066 he's so mission-oriented... 584 00:21:41,066 --> 00:21:43,667 -[Christina] Yeah. -...that he needs someone to be like, 585 00:21:43,667 --> 00:21:45,667 "Listen, we're gonna party right now. 586 00:21:45,667 --> 00:21:48,000 -We're gonna to laugh. We're gonna to have fun." -[Christina] Yeah. 587 00:21:48,000 --> 00:21:49,567 "We're gonna to play." 588 00:21:49,567 --> 00:21:51,567 Like, I balance him, he balances me. 589 00:21:51,567 --> 00:21:53,100 Yeah, so good. 590 00:21:53,100 --> 00:21:55,066 -I love that. -[Christina] Yeah. 591 00:21:55,066 --> 00:21:58,767 Yeah. So you're a very laser-focused energy 592 00:21:58,767 --> 00:22:00,667 of getting it done. 593 00:22:00,667 --> 00:22:03,867 And, like, she's... She has the energy of... 594 00:22:03,867 --> 00:22:06,567 Like, she brings you back to, like, life. 595 00:22:06,567 --> 00:22:08,400 You know what I mean? To, like, have fun. 596 00:22:08,400 --> 00:22:10,367 Like, just to be silly and just to be crazy. 597 00:22:10,367 --> 00:22:12,200 -[Christina] Yeah. Live life. -[Gailyn] Yeah. Yeah, yeah. 598 00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:13,967 Just to, like, live, you know? 599 00:22:13,967 --> 00:22:17,867 And so I just think that that's really beautiful. 600 00:22:17,867 --> 00:22:19,567 [David] Gailyn had a lot to say. 601 00:22:19,567 --> 00:22:21,667 It kind of gives me, you know, a perspective 602 00:22:21,667 --> 00:22:23,100 into Christina. 603 00:22:23,100 --> 00:22:24,567 You described that perfectly. 604 00:22:24,567 --> 00:22:26,367 Yeah, because I know your heart. 605 00:22:26,367 --> 00:22:29,767 I am concerned that their normal activities 606 00:22:29,767 --> 00:22:31,266 tended to be partying a lot 607 00:22:31,266 --> 00:22:34,000 and being the... 608 00:22:34,000 --> 00:22:35,867 you know, "girls that go out" and things like that. 609 00:22:35,867 --> 00:22:38,166 So it kind of gave me the impression 610 00:22:38,166 --> 00:22:41,000 that her values were in a different spot than mine. 611 00:22:43,667 --> 00:22:45,900 [dramatic music playing] 612 00:22:45,900 --> 00:22:47,266 [Stacy] So what's going on? 613 00:22:47,266 --> 00:22:49,700 Crystal gave me a ground down about you a little bit. 614 00:22:49,700 --> 00:22:52,367 [laughs] I want to hear this one. 615 00:22:52,367 --> 00:22:54,567 Well, she told me about the divorce. 616 00:22:54,567 --> 00:22:57,100 -Mmm-hmm. -And with it being so recent. 617 00:22:57,100 --> 00:22:59,000 -Mmm-hmm. -And that was kind of, 618 00:22:59,000 --> 00:23:01,567 like, concerning for me. 619 00:23:01,567 --> 00:23:04,367 Well, it's concerning for myself 620 00:23:04,367 --> 00:23:06,266 as far as jumping into another relationship 621 00:23:06,266 --> 00:23:09,100 is because I was with one person for 18 years 622 00:23:09,100 --> 00:23:11,100 -and married for 15. -Mmm-hmm. 623 00:23:11,100 --> 00:23:14,266 And I'm very cognizant of how I move. 624 00:23:14,266 --> 00:23:19,500 And I don't want to give all into someone 625 00:23:19,500 --> 00:23:23,467 until I understand where I stand with that person. 626 00:23:23,467 --> 00:23:26,367 Because I see now, no matter how long you're with somebody, 627 00:23:26,367 --> 00:23:28,000 they could shift on you. 628 00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:30,000 -That's why I said-- -That was my thing. 629 00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:31,467 From hearing both of you 630 00:23:31,467 --> 00:23:33,000 and then you saying 631 00:23:33,000 --> 00:23:36,000 for you what happened with your wife. 632 00:23:36,000 --> 00:23:37,166 Your ex-wife, I'm sorry. 633 00:23:37,166 --> 00:23:39,066 Even if it wasn't Crystal, 634 00:23:39,066 --> 00:23:43,266 I just don't see anybody jumping in a relationship 635 00:23:43,266 --> 00:23:45,467 immediate after a divorce. 636 00:23:45,467 --> 00:23:48,667 -You're not ready for... nothing too serious. -Yeah. 637 00:23:48,667 --> 00:23:50,266 For out of divorce, 638 00:23:50,266 --> 00:23:52,266 I'm kind of like, "Do I want a relationship? 639 00:23:52,266 --> 00:23:53,900 Yeah." Because I'm a... I'm a family guy. 640 00:23:53,900 --> 00:23:55,567 Crystal has let me know 641 00:23:55,567 --> 00:23:57,867 and let everybody else in this house know 642 00:23:57,867 --> 00:23:59,300 that she's very interested in me. 643 00:23:59,300 --> 00:24:01,166 It has nothing to do with Crystal. 644 00:24:01,166 --> 00:24:03,367 It has a lot to do with me where I'm at. 645 00:24:03,367 --> 00:24:06,567 I don't think Stacy is a love match for Crystal 646 00:24:06,567 --> 00:24:08,800 because I think he does need some time. 647 00:24:08,800 --> 00:24:11,667 And knowing where my sister is and what she wants, 648 00:24:11,667 --> 00:24:13,700 which is something more long-term, 649 00:24:13,700 --> 00:24:16,166 I don't know if he's ready for that. 650 00:24:16,166 --> 00:24:19,400 [upbeat music playing] 651 00:24:20,100 --> 00:24:23,266 So what do you think of Joey? 652 00:24:23,266 --> 00:24:24,600 [Sheron speaking] 653 00:24:36,500 --> 00:24:38,700 Which is way down the line, you know? 654 00:24:38,700 --> 00:24:40,700 [Sheron] But this is what I'm saying, 655 00:24:40,700 --> 00:24:44,767 is how do you feel about having another child? 656 00:24:44,767 --> 00:24:46,467 [dramatic music playing] 657 00:24:46,467 --> 00:24:48,867 [Shauna] Joey tells my aunt he wants kids. 658 00:24:48,867 --> 00:24:52,467 And me and him hadn't even had that conversation. 659 00:24:52,467 --> 00:24:57,000 That's not an option for me. 660 00:24:57,000 --> 00:24:58,800 And I didn't even think about that. 661 00:24:58,800 --> 00:25:04,834 But once my aunt said it, I was like, "Yeah. No." 662 00:25:19,667 --> 00:25:21,266 Right. 663 00:25:21,266 --> 00:25:22,967 So being with David, 664 00:25:22,967 --> 00:25:24,700 what do you want to happen with him? 665 00:25:24,700 --> 00:25:26,567 -Yeah. -I know you haven't known him that long. 666 00:25:26,567 --> 00:25:31,100 Yeah. So David did not pursue anyone else. 667 00:25:31,100 --> 00:25:32,500 Okay, okay. 668 00:25:32,500 --> 00:25:34,100 [Christina] Which, to me, says a lot. 669 00:25:34,100 --> 00:25:35,800 I was married for 20 years 670 00:25:35,800 --> 00:25:37,300 and I was like, "I'm never getting married again." 671 00:25:37,300 --> 00:25:39,800 -[Gailyn] Yeah, yeah, yeah. -Right? But as crazy 672 00:25:39,800 --> 00:25:43,000 as it's gonna sound, I don't know, girl. 673 00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:45,000 I might be living in Texas. 674 00:25:45,000 --> 00:25:46,900 [screams] 675 00:25:46,900 --> 00:25:48,967 When you know what you don't want, you know what you want. 676 00:25:48,967 --> 00:25:51,166 So right now, Christina's heart 677 00:25:51,166 --> 00:25:55,367 is completely with David, 100% non-negotiable. 678 00:25:55,367 --> 00:25:58,367 With David being more traditional 679 00:25:58,367 --> 00:26:00,667 and Christina being so modern, 680 00:26:00,667 --> 00:26:02,500 I have concerns, 681 00:26:02,500 --> 00:26:05,667 but I definitely believe that this could work. 682 00:26:05,667 --> 00:26:07,500 I love it! 683 00:26:09,600 --> 00:26:12,066 [Mesha] When I talked to Stacy, 684 00:26:12,066 --> 00:26:14,266 you all definitely connected, 685 00:26:14,266 --> 00:26:18,500 but I think that, you know, he's not ready. 686 00:26:18,500 --> 00:26:19,934 Mmm-hmm. 687 00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:23,200 You know, I was really thinking 688 00:26:23,200 --> 00:26:25,367 about making a move 689 00:26:25,367 --> 00:26:26,700 to get him to kiss me. 690 00:26:26,700 --> 00:26:28,166 I just feel like, you know, 691 00:26:28,166 --> 00:26:30,000 you gotta make them earn what you give, 692 00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:32,100 because you come with so much. 693 00:26:32,100 --> 00:26:35,700 I think it's more so recognizing if this is it, 694 00:26:35,700 --> 00:26:36,967 right out the gate. 695 00:26:36,967 --> 00:26:38,867 And if it's not, move along. 696 00:26:38,867 --> 00:26:40,900 If you ain't feeling it, it's not there. 697 00:26:40,900 --> 00:26:42,300 Yeah. 698 00:26:42,300 --> 00:26:45,000 You deserve it more than anybody. 699 00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:48,367 My sister can read people better than I can. 700 00:26:48,367 --> 00:26:50,867 But deep inside, I feel like Stacy 701 00:26:50,867 --> 00:26:52,367 is finally coming around. 702 00:26:52,367 --> 00:26:55,567 He did express to me that he's open to a relationship 703 00:26:55,567 --> 00:26:57,100 and that he's a family man. 704 00:26:57,100 --> 00:27:00,066 I would like him to explore those options with me. 705 00:27:00,066 --> 00:27:03,100 It's true that good things are worth waiting for, 706 00:27:03,100 --> 00:27:05,600 but I won't wait forever. 707 00:27:05,600 --> 00:27:07,900 So I gotta do what I gotta do. 708 00:27:07,900 --> 00:27:08,967 I love you. 709 00:27:08,967 --> 00:27:10,967 -And you know I'm here for you. -Thank you, sis. 710 00:27:10,967 --> 00:27:12,767 Thank you, poo-poo. 711 00:27:12,767 --> 00:27:13,800 -Love you, too. -Yes. 712 00:27:13,800 --> 00:27:14,934 [Crystal] Mmm. 713 00:27:16,767 --> 00:27:19,000 [Kate] I wanted to surprise you. 714 00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:20,266 It's your birthday. 715 00:27:20,266 --> 00:27:23,367 I know it's been a long few weeks, 716 00:27:23,367 --> 00:27:25,500 and I thought that you would 717 00:27:25,500 --> 00:27:30,000 really enjoy speaking to your son. 718 00:27:30,000 --> 00:27:31,400 Oh. 719 00:27:35,600 --> 00:27:36,900 Hi. 720 00:27:36,900 --> 00:27:38,500 -[Elijah] Hello. -I love you. 721 00:27:38,500 --> 00:27:40,166 I love you. 722 00:27:40,166 --> 00:27:42,800 Did you know it's my birthday today? 723 00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:45,100 Yes, I was gonna ask how old you are now. 724 00:27:45,100 --> 00:27:47,266 [laughter] 725 00:27:47,266 --> 00:27:48,667 [Barby] I'm nervous. 726 00:27:48,667 --> 00:27:52,467 I'm really nervous, because my son's opinion 727 00:27:52,467 --> 00:27:53,500 means a lot to me. 728 00:27:53,500 --> 00:27:56,667 And the last time I brought a younger guy home 729 00:27:56,667 --> 00:27:58,867 and he said, "Date somebody your own age." 730 00:27:58,867 --> 00:28:03,367 So he's not gonna like it. 731 00:28:03,367 --> 00:28:05,600 This has been really wild. 732 00:28:05,600 --> 00:28:07,667 The first guys that came in to the scene 733 00:28:07,667 --> 00:28:09,166 were younger guys. 734 00:28:09,166 --> 00:28:12,100 And then, as the experience progressed, 735 00:28:12,100 --> 00:28:13,900 they brought in their dads. 736 00:28:13,900 --> 00:28:17,467 I came here thinking hopefully I would meet somebody, 737 00:28:17,467 --> 00:28:19,567 but I wasn't relying on it. 738 00:28:19,567 --> 00:28:22,467 And then that's, like, exactly what happened. 739 00:28:22,467 --> 00:28:25,600 So with that being said, he's one of the young guys. 740 00:28:25,600 --> 00:28:26,700 [Elijah] Okay. 741 00:28:33,667 --> 00:28:35,300 [chuckles] 742 00:28:35,300 --> 00:28:37,200 Twenty-seven. 743 00:28:42,400 --> 00:28:43,600 How are you feeling right now? 744 00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:45,300 Because I can see in your face, I can... 745 00:28:45,300 --> 00:28:46,300 I know you. 746 00:28:49,567 --> 00:28:52,066 Wow. He's... My... Are you really... Do you... 747 00:28:52,066 --> 00:28:53,767 Are you feeling that type of way right now? 748 00:28:53,767 --> 00:28:54,967 Just be honest with me. 749 00:28:54,967 --> 00:28:57,166 [Elijah speaking] 750 00:28:57,166 --> 00:28:58,967 [Kate] I'll go get him. 751 00:28:58,967 --> 00:29:04,100 EJ's reaction to Chris is very hesitant. 752 00:29:04,100 --> 00:29:07,767 So you're gonna meet EJ, Barby's son. 753 00:29:07,767 --> 00:29:08,867 Oh, yes. 754 00:29:08,867 --> 00:29:10,567 He cares deeply about his mother 755 00:29:10,567 --> 00:29:15,066 and Chris needs to win EJ over and his trust. 756 00:29:15,066 --> 00:29:18,166 I hope that EJ can give him a chance. 757 00:29:18,166 --> 00:29:21,266 And also I hope that Chris can 758 00:29:21,266 --> 00:29:23,467 also not [bleep] it up. 759 00:29:23,467 --> 00:29:25,166 -Okay. -[Chris nervously] Hello. 760 00:29:25,166 --> 00:29:28,000 Just be yourself. Just be yourself. 761 00:29:28,000 --> 00:29:30,166 Her son is the most important person in her life. 762 00:29:30,166 --> 00:29:31,967 I'm 27, he's 26. 763 00:29:31,967 --> 00:29:33,767 I hope it isn't much of an ordeal 764 00:29:33,767 --> 00:29:36,200 but I know if the shoes were on the other foot, 765 00:29:36,200 --> 00:29:37,900 I'd be raising hell. 766 00:29:37,900 --> 00:29:40,300 But I hope he's not me. 767 00:29:43,367 --> 00:29:45,367 I laugh and joke with everyone here. 768 00:29:45,367 --> 00:29:46,500 Yeah, because you're fake as [bleep]. 769 00:29:46,500 --> 00:29:47,700 -[Joey B] Hey, chill. -I'm fake? 770 00:29:47,700 --> 00:29:48,834 -Chill, chill, chill. -[Barby] [bleep]. 771 00:29:48,834 --> 00:29:51,367 -Damn. -You can't even look at me when I talk to you. 772 00:29:51,367 --> 00:29:53,000 -Because you're weird. -You're up here... 773 00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:54,367 I'm weird? 774 00:29:54,367 --> 00:29:55,867 Because I don't wear crop tops, 775 00:29:55,867 --> 00:29:57,567 because I don't have bad extensions? 776 00:29:57,567 --> 00:29:59,000 Right. I got it. 777 00:30:02,800 --> 00:30:03,800 [Chris] Yo. 778 00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:05,266 -What's up, what's up, boss? -[Elijah] Hi. 779 00:30:05,266 --> 00:30:06,400 [Chris] How you doing? 780 00:30:09,166 --> 00:30:13,667 [Elijah speaking] 781 00:30:13,667 --> 00:30:15,266 As you should, man. I'mma say that's... 782 00:30:15,266 --> 00:30:16,667 Because... I'mma say I can... 783 00:30:16,667 --> 00:30:17,834 From what I've heard from your mom, 784 00:30:17,834 --> 00:30:19,800 I say you're very respectful. You care about her a lot. 785 00:30:19,800 --> 00:30:21,033 What are your... 786 00:30:23,166 --> 00:30:26,100 I do have pretty strong feelings for your mom 787 00:30:26,100 --> 00:30:28,367 and I'm fully aware, like, in order for this 788 00:30:28,367 --> 00:30:31,100 to go any further, I have to meet you. 789 00:30:31,100 --> 00:30:34,000 I have to make sure I get your approval mostly because... 790 00:30:34,000 --> 00:30:36,467 As my... Like, I'm also very protective of my mother 791 00:30:36,467 --> 00:30:38,467 and anytime she brings a guy around, 792 00:30:38,467 --> 00:30:41,400 I'm also very... "Bro, what the hell are you doing here? 793 00:30:41,400 --> 00:30:42,667 Like what are you for... Like what's your... What are--" 794 00:30:42,667 --> 00:30:44,567 Yeah, which is what he's feeling right now. 795 00:30:44,567 --> 00:30:46,266 -[Chris] Yeah. -[Barby] Because I know the look in his face right now 796 00:30:46,266 --> 00:30:48,367 and he's having a real moment. 797 00:30:48,367 --> 00:30:50,300 [Chris] I want Barby's son to know that 798 00:30:50,300 --> 00:30:52,500 I have nothing but the best intentions for her. 799 00:30:52,500 --> 00:30:54,367 Since I've been talking to Barby, 800 00:30:54,367 --> 00:30:56,900 I've realized that she has spent a lot of her time 801 00:30:56,900 --> 00:30:58,667 and a lot of her life caring for others. 802 00:30:58,667 --> 00:31:00,500 And at times, putting her wants and needs 803 00:31:00,500 --> 00:31:02,000 aside for her son. 804 00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:03,800 And so now I believe it's time that somebody 805 00:31:03,800 --> 00:31:06,266 should step up to the plate and take care of her. 806 00:31:06,266 --> 00:31:08,300 I'm a passionate guy 807 00:31:08,300 --> 00:31:10,867 and I just wanna try to make your mom's life 808 00:31:10,867 --> 00:31:12,600 just a little bit easier in any way I can. 809 00:31:16,000 --> 00:31:17,734 [Barby] I don't think Elijah was happy. 810 00:31:18,467 --> 00:31:19,867 And I don't blame him. 811 00:31:19,867 --> 00:31:20,800 It's not every day 812 00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:22,367 that your mom gets to call you and say, 813 00:31:22,367 --> 00:31:24,367 "I hooked up with somebody your age." 814 00:31:24,367 --> 00:31:26,367 It's uncomfortable 815 00:31:26,367 --> 00:31:29,600 and I don't blame him for not liking it. 816 00:31:31,166 --> 00:31:32,100 I care about my son. 817 00:31:32,100 --> 00:31:35,266 I care about his feelings, so that's a lot. 818 00:31:35,266 --> 00:31:36,667 Thank you for doing this with me. 819 00:31:36,667 --> 00:31:38,100 -I know-- -Thank you. 820 00:31:38,100 --> 00:31:39,467 Thank you, brother. Hopefully all... 821 00:31:39,467 --> 00:31:41,166 We can all be happy. 822 00:31:41,166 --> 00:31:43,467 [Elijah speaking] 823 00:31:43,467 --> 00:31:44,567 -Okay. -Thank you. 824 00:31:44,567 --> 00:31:46,433 Thank you, brother. See you, see you. 825 00:31:48,600 --> 00:31:49,967 [Joey S] I learned so much here. 826 00:31:49,967 --> 00:31:51,367 I'm glad we did this, Joe. 827 00:31:51,367 --> 00:31:52,767 -[Joey S] Yeah, me too. -We were always close. 828 00:31:52,767 --> 00:31:55,100 Listen, I don't know if there's even a possibility 829 00:31:55,100 --> 00:31:55,900 that we could be closer than this. 830 00:31:55,900 --> 00:31:57,467 -[Joey S] Hey, Kelle. -[Kelle] Hi. 831 00:31:57,467 --> 00:31:58,300 Ciao, bella. 832 00:31:58,300 --> 00:32:01,500 We're talking about how this place, 833 00:32:01,500 --> 00:32:03,467 it changed us a little bit, you know, like-- 834 00:32:03,467 --> 00:32:05,000 -Yeah. -[Joey S] It changed me for sure. 835 00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:06,567 And even how I look at Joe. 836 00:32:06,567 --> 00:32:07,767 I look at him more of a, like, a-- 837 00:32:07,767 --> 00:32:09,200 -Man. -Yeah. 838 00:32:09,200 --> 00:32:10,700 This experience, the only thing I hope 839 00:32:10,700 --> 00:32:12,266 Joey gets out of it 840 00:32:12,266 --> 00:32:15,266 is to see what a beautiful relationship 841 00:32:15,266 --> 00:32:18,100 we actually have and it's a beautiful thing. 842 00:32:18,100 --> 00:32:21,000 Even other families cherish what we have, yeah. 843 00:32:22,166 --> 00:32:23,300 Love you. 844 00:32:24,367 --> 00:32:25,634 [laughs] 845 00:32:26,900 --> 00:32:28,967 -[Joey S] Hey, Barby. -[Barby] Hi. 846 00:32:28,967 --> 00:32:31,100 -How's your birthday going? -[Barby sighs] Pretty good. 847 00:32:31,100 --> 00:32:33,300 I just got off the phone with my son. 848 00:32:33,300 --> 00:32:34,667 So that was intense. 849 00:32:34,667 --> 00:32:35,567 -Ooh. -Sure. 850 00:32:35,567 --> 00:32:36,767 -Right? -Yeah, my son's very protective. 851 00:32:36,767 --> 00:32:38,166 -[Anthony] And he met Chris too, right? -Yeah. 852 00:32:38,166 --> 00:32:40,467 How was that? Did he like him? 853 00:32:40,467 --> 00:32:41,667 I mean, I think initially 854 00:32:41,667 --> 00:32:44,266 he's just concerned for me, you know. 855 00:32:44,266 --> 00:32:46,000 We're very close. He's my only child, 856 00:32:46,000 --> 00:32:48,467 so Chris held his own pretty well though. 857 00:32:48,467 --> 00:32:50,867 -Very confident. -So he didn't say nothing bad. 858 00:32:50,867 --> 00:32:52,467 -So that's a good sign. -[Barby] No, but I saw it... 859 00:32:52,467 --> 00:32:54,667 I saw that it's gonna take him a minute. 860 00:32:54,667 --> 00:32:57,300 Initially when Elijah and I talked about this show, 861 00:32:57,300 --> 00:32:58,467 we were very honest with each other 862 00:32:58,467 --> 00:33:03,300 about how could very well be like cringy and obviously, 863 00:33:03,300 --> 00:33:06,700 no offense to Season 1, but Season 1 was a little tacky. 864 00:33:06,700 --> 00:33:07,700 What part? 865 00:33:09,066 --> 00:33:12,300 Anyway, so I kind of already had that in mind. 866 00:33:12,300 --> 00:33:14,300 Is that how they got another season out of it? 867 00:33:14,300 --> 00:33:16,433 Because Season 1 was a fail? 868 00:33:17,100 --> 00:33:18,233 Different vibe. 869 00:33:19,467 --> 00:33:20,467 -Going back to you-- -Anyway-- 870 00:33:20,467 --> 00:33:22,367 -Yeah. -Anyway, more about Barby. 871 00:33:22,367 --> 00:33:23,867 Yeah, I know. 872 00:33:23,867 --> 00:33:25,667 You don't like the spotlight not on you. 873 00:33:25,667 --> 00:33:27,000 -It was a-- -No, that was very generic... 874 00:33:27,000 --> 00:33:28,800 -Your answers were so generic. -You're just [bleep]... 875 00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:30,300 You're just [bleep] rude. 876 00:33:30,300 --> 00:33:32,066 She asked you some specific questions 877 00:33:32,066 --> 00:33:34,467 and you generically answered them to insult her. 878 00:33:34,467 --> 00:33:36,100 How? I just told her what I thought of Season 1. 879 00:33:36,100 --> 00:33:37,100 No, you said... You... 880 00:33:37,100 --> 00:33:38,266 All your answers were very generic. 881 00:33:38,266 --> 00:33:40,066 How? I thought it was tacky. 882 00:33:40,066 --> 00:33:41,900 -How's that generic? -[Rob] How? 883 00:33:41,900 --> 00:33:42,900 Give the one instance. 884 00:33:42,900 --> 00:33:44,600 [Joey S] Rob, you're out here for five seconds 885 00:33:44,600 --> 00:33:45,533 and you weren't here for half the conversation. 886 00:33:45,533 --> 00:33:46,767 -Yeah, exactly. Shut up, yeah. -All right. 887 00:33:46,767 --> 00:33:47,767 You can't get in on this. 888 00:33:47,767 --> 00:33:48,634 No, he's trying to protect me. 889 00:33:48,634 --> 00:33:49,767 If they're gonna argue, let them argue. 890 00:33:49,767 --> 00:33:50,767 But we don't have to get involved. 891 00:33:50,767 --> 00:33:51,600 -No, but he's... -You're right. 892 00:33:51,600 --> 00:33:52,667 As a man, he's trying to protect me. 893 00:33:52,667 --> 00:33:53,634 -I get that. -Just like Chris was with her. 894 00:33:53,634 --> 00:33:55,567 I'm not gonna do this on my birthday 895 00:33:55,567 --> 00:33:57,166 because I wouldn't give you the time of day 896 00:33:57,166 --> 00:33:58,367 -out of this place. -Babe, I don't know 897 00:33:58,367 --> 00:34:00,500 -why you're coming at me. -I don't care. 898 00:34:00,500 --> 00:34:02,200 -Do you not understand... -[Kelle] You've come at me from day one. 899 00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:03,700 You literally... You literally-- 900 00:34:03,700 --> 00:34:04,867 I don't even know why you don't like me. 901 00:34:04,867 --> 00:34:06,166 [Barby] She's a big personality 902 00:34:06,166 --> 00:34:08,367 and I think she was kind of the personality 903 00:34:08,367 --> 00:34:10,066 -of the first season. -Oh, yeah? 904 00:34:10,066 --> 00:34:12,500 She's gonna give us a run for our money. 905 00:34:12,500 --> 00:34:14,967 I laugh and joke with everyone here. 906 00:34:14,967 --> 00:34:16,166 Yeah, because you're fake as [bleep]. 907 00:34:16,166 --> 00:34:17,066 -I'm fake? -You're fake as [bleep]. 908 00:34:17,066 --> 00:34:19,367 [Joey B] Hey, chill, chill, chill, chill. 909 00:34:19,367 --> 00:34:20,800 -[bleep] damn. -No. 910 00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:22,000 I would tell it like it is. 911 00:34:22,000 --> 00:34:23,367 No, because you are. 912 00:34:23,367 --> 00:34:25,266 [Rebecca] Oh, my God. Is she fighting with her? 913 00:34:25,266 --> 00:34:26,367 She called me fake as [bleep]. 914 00:34:26,367 --> 00:34:28,300 You [bleep] can't even look at me when I talk to you. 915 00:34:28,300 --> 00:34:29,800 -Because you're weird. -You're up here-- 916 00:34:29,800 --> 00:34:31,166 I'm weird? 917 00:34:31,166 --> 00:34:32,667 Because I don't wear crop tops, 918 00:34:32,667 --> 00:34:34,400 because I don't have bad extensions? 919 00:34:34,400 --> 00:34:35,767 Right. I got it. 920 00:34:35,767 --> 00:34:37,467 They're feisty. 921 00:34:37,467 --> 00:34:39,066 [Kelle] Why are you attacking me? 922 00:34:39,066 --> 00:34:40,567 What is going on with you? What happened? 923 00:34:40,567 --> 00:34:42,367 [Barby] Because you're so two-faced. 924 00:34:42,367 --> 00:34:44,400 -[Kelle] How am I two-faced? -You're so two-faced. 925 00:34:44,400 --> 00:34:45,667 -"I'm your friend." -[Kelle] She's called me 926 00:34:45,667 --> 00:34:46,867 every name in the book, Chris. 927 00:34:46,867 --> 00:34:47,834 She called me two-faced. 928 00:34:47,834 --> 00:34:48,734 Why are you talking to him like he's my dad? 929 00:34:48,734 --> 00:34:49,867 -[Kelle] Bad extensions. -Come on. 930 00:34:49,867 --> 00:34:51,266 We were out here having a pleasant conversation. 931 00:34:51,266 --> 00:34:52,767 [Barby] Don't act all innocent. 932 00:34:52,767 --> 00:34:54,567 You're over here forcing a connection with this guy, 933 00:34:54,567 --> 00:34:55,867 so you stay [bleep] relevant 934 00:34:55,867 --> 00:34:57,500 and everybody [bleep] knows it. 935 00:34:57,500 --> 00:35:00,367 What in the [bleep] is wrong with her? 936 00:35:00,367 --> 00:35:02,567 [Barby] Chris, she's doing this and she's doing that. 937 00:35:02,567 --> 00:35:03,533 [Chris] Oh, babe. Babe, babe, I don't care. 938 00:35:03,533 --> 00:35:04,767 [Barby] Like, what are you, my [bleep] dad? 939 00:35:04,767 --> 00:35:07,400 -[Chris] I don't care. -What is going on? 940 00:35:07,400 --> 00:35:09,467 [Joey S] Family and friends' day was supposed to be peaceful 941 00:35:09,467 --> 00:35:11,100 and now we just got barbecue Barby 942 00:35:11,100 --> 00:35:13,700 and barbecue Kelle [bleep] it up honestly for everybody. 943 00:35:13,700 --> 00:35:15,000 Barbecue. 944 00:35:15,000 --> 00:35:16,867 And it's not ideal for a day like this, you know. 945 00:35:16,867 --> 00:35:19,266 -[Anthony] Stick a fork in it. -Yeah, you can stick a fork 946 00:35:19,266 --> 00:35:22,066 in this barbecue. It's basically wrapped up. 947 00:35:22,066 --> 00:35:22,967 Oh, Crystal, 948 00:35:22,967 --> 00:35:24,667 you don't even know what just happened. 949 00:35:24,667 --> 00:35:27,400 Barby just attacked me, said I was fake as [bleep]. 950 00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:30,467 She always like that because why, it's her [bleep] birthday 951 00:35:30,467 --> 00:35:32,400 and nobody's paying her no [bleep] attention. 952 00:35:32,400 --> 00:35:34,767 Why would I? I'm not singing happy birthday to her. 953 00:35:34,767 --> 00:35:37,400 That's how she was with me when we had [bleep] bar fight, 954 00:35:37,400 --> 00:35:39,467 like bitch, you ain't think nobody was gonna come in here 955 00:35:39,467 --> 00:35:40,467 and be better than you? 956 00:35:40,467 --> 00:35:43,233 You think you was gonna be top ho? No, you not. 957 00:35:45,000 --> 00:35:46,767 Listen, I'm just trying to calm my-- 958 00:35:46,767 --> 00:35:48,400 -What are you doing? -I promise. 959 00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:49,500 -I swear to God. -Listen. 960 00:35:49,500 --> 00:35:51,667 -Please swear on this. Please. -Swear on this, okay? 961 00:35:51,667 --> 00:35:53,400 Please. 962 00:35:53,400 --> 00:35:54,233 So I'm not trying to... 963 00:35:54,233 --> 00:35:55,200 I'm not trying to have a crazy night. 964 00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:57,767 No, we're not. Like, I'm disengaging. 965 00:35:57,767 --> 00:35:59,400 Thank you. 966 00:36:03,266 --> 00:36:04,400 [Barby laughs] 967 00:36:05,266 --> 00:36:06,400 Okay. 968 00:36:06,400 --> 00:36:09,300 -[Kelle speaking] -I know. 969 00:36:12,667 --> 00:36:15,433 [Kelle] Happy [bleep] birthday, psycho. 970 00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:20,667 Happy [bleep] birthday, psycho. 971 00:36:20,667 --> 00:36:22,100 [Barby] I know it's not your day. 972 00:36:22,100 --> 00:36:24,800 It's hard for you. Process. 973 00:36:24,800 --> 00:36:26,667 Process. 974 00:36:26,667 --> 00:36:28,100 So go to [bleep] hell, 975 00:36:28,100 --> 00:36:31,467 you [bleep]. You're a [bleep] bitch. 976 00:36:31,467 --> 00:36:32,700 I [bleep] hate you. 977 00:36:32,700 --> 00:36:34,166 Why did you say I'm sorry? 978 00:36:34,166 --> 00:36:36,667 I don't speak [bleep]. 979 00:36:36,667 --> 00:36:39,266 I had just come out of a conversation with my son 980 00:36:39,266 --> 00:36:42,667 that was hard, wanting to tell my friends 981 00:36:42,667 --> 00:36:44,367 from the house what had just happened. 982 00:36:44,367 --> 00:36:46,867 And of course Kelle has to make it about her 983 00:36:46,867 --> 00:36:51,100 and throw her little temper tantrum in her crop top. 984 00:36:51,100 --> 00:36:52,767 Why would you wanna ruin somebody's birthday 985 00:36:52,767 --> 00:36:54,767 in front of other people 986 00:36:54,767 --> 00:36:57,033 and their family members and friends? 987 00:36:58,100 --> 00:36:59,400 Go to your room. 988 00:37:02,567 --> 00:37:04,567 [dramatic music playing] 989 00:37:04,567 --> 00:37:06,266 It was really lovely to meet you. 990 00:37:06,266 --> 00:37:07,767 It was lovely to meet you too. 991 00:37:07,767 --> 00:37:10,100 [Mesha] My baby. 992 00:37:10,100 --> 00:37:11,800 My baby. 993 00:37:11,800 --> 00:37:14,166 You got some good brownie points for me, 994 00:37:14,166 --> 00:37:15,767 -so don't [bleep] it up. -Oh. 995 00:37:15,767 --> 00:37:17,367 I have no intentions to. 996 00:37:17,367 --> 00:37:19,467 [Joey B] Stay strong. You got this, Mom. 997 00:37:19,467 --> 00:37:21,400 You're right. I have you saying I leave. 998 00:37:21,400 --> 00:37:23,200 You've got this, Mom. Come on. 999 00:37:23,200 --> 00:37:24,266 -Okay, bye. -Bye-bye. 1000 00:37:24,266 --> 00:37:25,400 I love you. 1001 00:37:28,467 --> 00:37:29,867 [Rob] It's all right. 1002 00:37:29,867 --> 00:37:32,767 [crying] 1003 00:37:32,767 --> 00:37:34,400 [Kelle speaking] 1004 00:37:36,367 --> 00:37:38,667 I literally did nothing wrong. 1005 00:37:38,667 --> 00:37:40,400 I was just sitting there. 1006 00:37:42,166 --> 00:37:45,100 -[Rob] I'm sorry that-- -[Kelle speaking] 1007 00:37:45,100 --> 00:37:47,900 That's why I kept saying, like, give a specific example. 1008 00:37:47,900 --> 00:37:49,266 -I know. -I wanna... 1009 00:37:49,266 --> 00:37:50,367 I wanna hear that specifically. 1010 00:37:50,367 --> 00:37:51,800 [Kelle] No, but I appreciate you, like, defending me, 1011 00:37:51,800 --> 00:37:53,400 like, nobody ever defends me. 1012 00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:54,667 Never. Never. 1013 00:37:54,667 --> 00:37:56,300 Not even my own [bleep] father. 1014 00:37:56,300 --> 00:37:58,100 That's my number one thing as a masculine man 1015 00:37:58,100 --> 00:37:59,467 is I take care of my woman, right? 1016 00:37:59,467 --> 00:38:01,800 I'm not gonna let my woman get [bleep] hurt. 1017 00:38:01,800 --> 00:38:03,800 I didn't know... I really didn't know 1018 00:38:03,800 --> 00:38:06,467 that this had you that beat up on the inside. 1019 00:38:06,467 --> 00:38:08,233 I really did not know that. 1020 00:38:09,800 --> 00:38:11,867 I thought you... I mean, I knew you were a little bit upset, 1021 00:38:11,867 --> 00:38:14,400 but I didn't realize it still had you that bothered. 1022 00:38:16,967 --> 00:38:19,567 You portray yourself as so hard that I didn't... 1023 00:38:19,567 --> 00:38:21,467 I didn't think you that deep inside 1024 00:38:21,467 --> 00:38:24,600 you were that, like, soft. 1025 00:38:24,600 --> 00:38:26,033 Okay? 1026 00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:29,567 [Kelle] When someone pierces me to the core like that, 1027 00:38:29,567 --> 00:38:33,400 feeling him console me just makes me feel loved. 1028 00:38:36,667 --> 00:38:38,767 All right. Take as much time as you need. 1029 00:38:38,767 --> 00:38:40,233 I'm here for you, okay, babe? 1030 00:38:43,600 --> 00:38:46,700 [dramatic music playing] 1031 00:38:54,700 --> 00:38:57,100 [Barby] Today was very emotional, 1032 00:38:57,100 --> 00:38:59,900 between the conversation that I had with my son 1033 00:38:59,900 --> 00:39:02,867 and all of the drama with Kelle. 1034 00:39:02,867 --> 00:39:05,467 I think I'm having a moment of clarity. 1035 00:39:05,467 --> 00:39:08,867 Chris and I found a common dynamic. 1036 00:39:08,867 --> 00:39:10,567 Our connection is pretty solid, 1037 00:39:10,567 --> 00:39:13,400 so we don't have to stay in the house with Kelle. 1038 00:39:13,400 --> 00:39:15,266 We don't need to be in that mix 1039 00:39:15,266 --> 00:39:18,166 than whatever [bleep] they have going on. 1040 00:39:18,166 --> 00:39:21,066 [Barby speaking] 1041 00:39:21,066 --> 00:39:24,700 [Chris speaking] 1042 00:39:24,700 --> 00:39:26,900 [Barby speaking] 1043 00:39:26,900 --> 00:39:29,100 [Chris speaking] 1044 00:39:32,867 --> 00:39:35,900 [dramatic music playing] 1045 00:39:48,300 --> 00:39:50,200 -You okay, Chris? -Yeah, I'm good, Pops. 1046 00:39:50,200 --> 00:39:51,867 It would mean the world to me right now 1047 00:39:51,867 --> 00:39:54,100 if it could just be me and Barby, 1048 00:39:54,100 --> 00:39:55,967 focused on just me and Barby right now. 1049 00:39:55,967 --> 00:39:58,066 Look, I'll tell you this, you can't tell anybody else. 1050 00:39:58,066 --> 00:40:00,800 All the little bickering, all the little fights, 1051 00:40:00,800 --> 00:40:02,767 that's not gonna help us getting to know each other. 1052 00:40:02,767 --> 00:40:04,767 That's actually taking away time. 1053 00:40:04,767 --> 00:40:06,367 The last... Like, the last couple days 1054 00:40:06,367 --> 00:40:07,667 that we have left together. 1055 00:40:07,667 --> 00:40:10,834 [Chris speaking] 1056 00:40:15,867 --> 00:40:17,367 Yes. 1057 00:40:17,367 --> 00:40:20,300 [Anthony speaking] 1058 00:40:20,300 --> 00:40:24,867 [Chris speaking] 1059 00:40:24,867 --> 00:40:27,834 The whole point of us being here is to find love. 1060 00:40:29,066 --> 00:40:30,400 Night, night. 1061 00:40:34,166 --> 00:40:36,500 If I've already found it, why am I still here? 1062 00:40:36,500 --> 00:40:38,367 So with all the [bleep] going on in the house, 1063 00:40:38,367 --> 00:40:40,767 me and Barby just snuck out. 1064 00:40:40,767 --> 00:40:43,100 We came here for one reason. 1065 00:40:43,100 --> 00:40:45,467 We found that reason. 1066 00:40:45,467 --> 00:40:47,500 I'm happy. I'm good. 1067 00:40:50,200 --> 00:40:52,500 [Barby] Chris and I decided that we're gonna leave. 1068 00:40:52,500 --> 00:40:55,400 We're gonna spend some time together outside of the house 1069 00:40:55,400 --> 00:40:57,634 and we're really looking forward to it. 1070 00:40:59,600 --> 00:41:02,200 "Chris and Barby have left the journey together. 1071 00:41:02,200 --> 00:41:04,266 They have decided to take their love 1072 00:41:04,266 --> 00:41:06,066 out into the real world." 1073 00:41:06,066 --> 00:41:07,100 Came in the middle of the night, 1074 00:41:07,100 --> 00:41:08,700 wants to take off, him and Barby. 1075 00:41:08,700 --> 00:41:10,000 Like two love birds. 1076 00:41:10,000 --> 00:41:12,467 [Kelle] It was hell living with them. 1077 00:41:12,467 --> 00:41:14,066 Bye, bitch. 1078 00:41:14,066 --> 00:41:15,133 I had to get out of there. 1079 00:41:15,133 --> 00:41:17,767 I just wanna get away from all these other people, 1080 00:41:17,767 --> 00:41:20,000 all these other factors and just focus on what I found. 1081 00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:23,567 And as crazy as it sounds, Barby, I, like, I love you. 1082 00:41:23,567 --> 00:41:26,166 [Barby] In order for me to allow a man into my life, 1083 00:41:26,166 --> 00:41:28,433 he would have to make my life better, not harder. 1084 00:41:29,767 --> 00:41:33,000 "Your journey here is rapidly coming to a close." 1085 00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:34,867 [Crystal] I can't take another heartbreak. 1086 00:41:34,867 --> 00:41:36,767 The next man is the one that I'm gonna be with 1087 00:41:36,767 --> 00:41:38,000 for the rest of my life. 1088 00:41:38,000 --> 00:41:41,166 "Tomorrow, you will make your final choice." 1089 00:41:41,166 --> 00:41:42,667 [Joey S] Me and Shauna are compatible, 1090 00:41:42,667 --> 00:41:44,567 even though we have some obstacles to get over. 1091 00:41:44,567 --> 00:41:46,900 I'm gonna deal with things as they come. 1092 00:41:46,900 --> 00:41:50,000 [Rebecca] I'm nervous because I'm very concerned 1093 00:41:50,000 --> 00:41:52,367 about the person I'm gonna let down. 1094 00:41:52,367 --> 00:41:54,100 I'm torn. I am torn. 1095 00:41:54,100 --> 00:41:55,400 This is hard. 1096 00:41:57,266 --> 00:41:59,400 [Kelle] I did have a connection last year, 1097 00:41:59,400 --> 00:42:03,000 but my search for love is completely different. 1098 00:42:03,000 --> 00:42:05,166 We have to make a huge decision. 1099 00:42:05,166 --> 00:42:07,300 I could be heartbroken. 1100 00:42:07,300 --> 00:42:11,000 I'm nervous because there's always that sliver of a chance 1101 00:42:11,000 --> 00:42:13,100 that, you know, people do change their mind. 1102 00:42:14,400 --> 00:42:18,100 This journey has definitely changed what I want in life. 1103 00:42:18,100 --> 00:42:19,567 You know, it's like, "I'm done. 1104 00:42:19,567 --> 00:42:21,100 I'm never marrying again." 1105 00:42:21,100 --> 00:42:22,800 But I believe in love 1106 00:42:22,800 --> 00:42:24,867 and that's something I want long-term. 1107 00:42:24,867 --> 00:42:26,066 I'm gonna cry.