1 00:00:01,270 --> 00:00:04,430 -Welcome friends and family. -[all] Woo. 2 00:00:04,430 --> 00:00:08,070 How do you feel about having another child? 3 00:00:08,070 --> 00:00:12,230 That's not an option for me. 4 00:00:12,230 --> 00:00:14,000 I was married for 20 years 5 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:15,370 and I was like, "I'm never getting married again." 6 00:00:15,370 --> 00:00:16,500 -[Jami] Yeah, yeah, yeah. -Right? 7 00:00:16,500 --> 00:00:19,370 But I dunno, girl, I might be living in Texas. 8 00:00:19,370 --> 00:00:20,600 [screams] 9 00:00:20,600 --> 00:00:21,800 He's not ready. 10 00:00:21,800 --> 00:00:22,900 You ain't feeling it? 11 00:00:22,900 --> 00:00:24,870 -He's not there. -Yeah. 12 00:00:24,870 --> 00:00:27,530 I'm sure a lot of good things are worth waiting for, 13 00:00:27,530 --> 00:00:29,800 but I won't wait forever. 14 00:00:29,800 --> 00:00:31,700 -[Barby] You're fake as [bleep]. -[Kelle] I'm fake. 15 00:00:31,700 --> 00:00:33,600 You can't even look at me when I talk to you. 16 00:00:33,600 --> 00:00:36,070 -Because you're weird. -You're up here... I'm weird? 17 00:00:36,070 --> 00:00:37,570 Because I don't wear crop tops, 18 00:00:37,570 --> 00:00:39,100 because I don't have bad extensions? 19 00:00:39,100 --> 00:00:40,200 [bleep]. Damn. 20 00:00:40,200 --> 00:00:42,300 This is, like, too much. 21 00:00:42,300 --> 00:00:44,470 [Barby speaking] 22 00:00:44,470 --> 00:00:47,200 [Chris speaking] 23 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:50,100 The whole point of us being here is to find love. 24 00:00:50,100 --> 00:00:52,030 If I've already found it, why am I still here? 25 00:00:52,030 --> 00:00:55,100 [intense music playing] 26 00:01:01,630 --> 00:01:04,700 [upbeat music playing] 27 00:01:11,500 --> 00:01:14,700 [Kelle speaking] 28 00:01:14,700 --> 00:01:15,930 [Crystal] Mmm-hmm. 29 00:01:16,670 --> 00:01:19,700 [Kelle speaking] 30 00:01:26,500 --> 00:01:28,170 [Crystal speaking] 31 00:01:28,170 --> 00:01:30,370 -[Kelle speaking] -[Crystal] Yeah. 32 00:01:30,370 --> 00:01:33,370 [Kelle speaking] 33 00:01:33,370 --> 00:01:34,800 Waking up this morning, 34 00:01:34,800 --> 00:01:36,770 I'm feeling a little uneasy 35 00:01:36,770 --> 00:01:38,729 because of the altercation 36 00:01:38,729 --> 00:01:40,530 between Barby and I last night. 37 00:01:40,530 --> 00:01:42,930 I was being called all sorts of names 38 00:01:42,930 --> 00:01:44,470 and stuff like that 39 00:01:44,470 --> 00:01:46,770 and it was... It was very hurtful. 40 00:01:46,770 --> 00:01:48,530 -Get beautiful. -[Kelle] I swear. 41 00:01:48,530 --> 00:01:49,970 Get yourself together 42 00:01:49,970 --> 00:01:51,600 and be your beautiful self. 43 00:01:51,600 --> 00:01:53,270 And come on downstairs and have a good time. 44 00:01:53,270 --> 00:01:54,500 [Kelle] All right. 45 00:01:55,830 --> 00:01:58,729 Barby has been starting arguments 46 00:01:58,729 --> 00:02:00,670 almost from the very beginning. 47 00:02:00,670 --> 00:02:02,300 [man] This pasta is gonna be so good. 48 00:02:02,300 --> 00:02:05,370 So on Sundays in Vietnam, we usually eat pho, 49 00:02:05,370 --> 00:02:07,200 but today is Monday, 50 00:02:07,200 --> 00:02:09,570 so we'll pretend like it's Sunday. 51 00:02:09,570 --> 00:02:11,630 [Crystal] Yesterday, people were mingling 52 00:02:11,630 --> 00:02:14,070 and then getting to know each other. 53 00:02:14,070 --> 00:02:15,770 And then all of a sudden, I hear Barby 54 00:02:15,770 --> 00:02:17,530 screaming at Kelle. 55 00:02:17,530 --> 00:02:20,200 And I'm just like, "Why would she do this 56 00:02:20,200 --> 00:02:21,829 and embarrass all of us 57 00:02:21,829 --> 00:02:23,370 when we've got family and friends there?" 58 00:02:23,370 --> 00:02:25,329 Like, this is the worst day to do it. 59 00:02:25,329 --> 00:02:26,930 [woman] Yeah, that's really good. 60 00:02:26,930 --> 00:02:28,329 -[Kelle] How is it? -[man] Spicy fish sauce. 61 00:02:28,329 --> 00:02:29,370 -[woman] Spicy. -[phone vibrates] 62 00:02:29,370 --> 00:02:31,130 Guys, I just got a text. 63 00:02:31,130 --> 00:02:32,900 -[man] Okay. What's going on? -[man 1] All right. Let's hear it. 64 00:02:32,900 --> 00:02:36,300 Chris and Barby have left the journey together. 65 00:02:36,300 --> 00:02:38,430 They have decided to take their love 66 00:02:38,430 --> 00:02:40,400 out into the real world. 67 00:02:40,400 --> 00:02:42,300 -We wish them well. -[woman] Yeah. 68 00:02:42,300 --> 00:02:43,600 -Good for them. -[man] Yes, they're very good. 69 00:02:43,600 --> 00:02:44,770 [Anthony] They're good people. 70 00:02:44,770 --> 00:02:46,300 Salute to Chris and Barby. 71 00:02:46,300 --> 00:02:48,030 [man] Salute to Chris and Barby. 72 00:02:48,030 --> 00:02:49,930 Chris came in the middle of the night 73 00:02:49,930 --> 00:02:51,400 and he told me he's getting out of here. 74 00:02:51,400 --> 00:02:53,070 He wants to take off, him and Barby. 75 00:02:53,070 --> 00:02:54,630 We'll run away in the middle of the night 76 00:02:54,630 --> 00:02:56,570 -like two love birds. -[Joey] Oh. 77 00:02:56,570 --> 00:02:57,970 He don't wanna deal with no more drama nothing. 78 00:02:57,970 --> 00:02:59,500 He says, "I'm getting out of here." 79 00:02:59,500 --> 00:03:01,100 I don't blame them. I'm having a doubt 80 00:03:01,100 --> 00:03:03,100 that, you know, Chris and Barby left, 81 00:03:03,100 --> 00:03:04,800 but I don't blame them, honestly. 82 00:03:04,800 --> 00:03:06,300 You know, they... You've already found a connection, 83 00:03:06,300 --> 00:03:08,830 uh, and they're happy, so yeah. 84 00:03:08,830 --> 00:03:10,100 I just want the best for 'em 85 00:03:10,100 --> 00:03:11,630 and I want them to have a happy future together. 86 00:03:11,630 --> 00:03:14,330 They're gonna make it too, these two. 87 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:16,670 [man] Oh, yeah. 88 00:03:16,670 --> 00:03:18,030 [Darren] They might have been. 89 00:03:18,030 --> 00:03:19,600 -[man 1] Yeah. -[man 2] It's gonna be new. 90 00:03:19,600 --> 00:03:21,530 I'm really excited 91 00:03:21,530 --> 00:03:23,829 that Barby and Chris are not in the house 92 00:03:23,829 --> 00:03:27,100 because now everyone can focus on their own relationships. 93 00:03:27,100 --> 00:03:29,930 Rob and I actually have a chance to get to know one another. 94 00:03:29,930 --> 00:03:32,770 Well, we're not constantly looking over our shoulder 95 00:03:32,770 --> 00:03:36,170 not knowing what explosion is about to happen. 96 00:03:36,170 --> 00:03:38,270 It was hell living with them. 97 00:03:38,270 --> 00:03:39,500 Bye, bitch. 98 00:03:41,170 --> 00:03:43,230 I need a good energy today. 99 00:03:43,230 --> 00:03:45,270 We should, since we don't have certain people here, 100 00:03:45,270 --> 00:03:46,329 -we should. -[Darren] Yeah. 101 00:03:46,329 --> 00:03:47,570 I'm not shocked at all 102 00:03:47,570 --> 00:03:48,730 about Chris and Barby leaving 103 00:03:48,730 --> 00:03:49,800 in the middle of the night. 104 00:03:49,800 --> 00:03:51,700 I'm very happy about it 105 00:03:51,700 --> 00:03:53,329 because I feel like now, 106 00:03:53,329 --> 00:03:55,030 we can be in peace. 107 00:03:55,030 --> 00:03:58,030 Hey, look, I'm not excusing the cray, 108 00:03:58,030 --> 00:04:02,770 but that young man will back her up to the end of days. 109 00:04:02,770 --> 00:04:04,270 I just don't wanna be around that 110 00:04:04,270 --> 00:04:07,300 and I just think we should just move forward. 111 00:04:07,300 --> 00:04:10,770 I think most of us are surprised. 112 00:04:10,770 --> 00:04:12,170 I know there's been a lot of drama 113 00:04:12,170 --> 00:04:15,030 but I didn't expect Chris and Barby to be leaving. 114 00:04:15,030 --> 00:04:16,470 [Darren] I'm happy for them. 115 00:04:16,470 --> 00:04:18,300 [Sam] They're probably the strongest 116 00:04:18,300 --> 00:04:19,630 and craziest couple as... 117 00:04:19,630 --> 00:04:21,870 You know, you hear some couples are fire and ice, 118 00:04:21,870 --> 00:04:23,130 Chris and Barby are like-- 119 00:04:23,130 --> 00:04:26,470 Mount Vesuvius and the sun collide. 120 00:04:26,470 --> 00:04:28,200 Earthquake and tsunami. 121 00:04:28,200 --> 00:04:30,170 Um, they're both amazing people. 122 00:04:30,170 --> 00:04:31,300 -Though I think... -I love it. 123 00:04:31,300 --> 00:04:33,800 ...that's one of my favorite relationships. 124 00:04:33,800 --> 00:04:35,770 There's two sides and usually three at every... 125 00:04:35,770 --> 00:04:38,230 -[Crystal] Mmm-hmm. -Every incident, every story. 126 00:04:38,230 --> 00:04:41,000 [birds chirping] 127 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:44,470 [romantic music playing] 128 00:04:54,700 --> 00:04:56,130 [Chris]We came here for one reason. 129 00:04:56,130 --> 00:04:57,230 We found that reason. 130 00:04:57,230 --> 00:04:58,670 I want us to be able to leave this Manor 131 00:04:58,670 --> 00:05:01,500 knowing that we have all the reassurance in the world. 132 00:05:01,500 --> 00:05:04,570 And so, um, I got a little date plan for us. 133 00:05:04,570 --> 00:05:06,970 I got a little surprise plan for us. 134 00:05:06,970 --> 00:05:08,270 You look so nice. 135 00:05:08,270 --> 00:05:09,500 Thank you. 136 00:05:11,930 --> 00:05:13,130 [Chris speaking] 137 00:05:13,130 --> 00:05:14,770 I think it was necessary... 138 00:05:14,770 --> 00:05:16,070 -That was needed. -...for us to leave. 139 00:05:16,070 --> 00:05:17,770 I had to get out of there. 140 00:05:17,770 --> 00:05:20,470 There's no point for us to even be in the house anymore. 141 00:05:20,470 --> 00:05:21,830 I don't wanna go back to the house 142 00:05:21,830 --> 00:05:22,930 just because it's a headache. 143 00:05:22,930 --> 00:05:25,130 I just wanna get away from all these other people, 144 00:05:25,130 --> 00:05:26,430 all these other factors, 145 00:05:26,430 --> 00:05:28,030 and just focus on what I found. 146 00:05:28,030 --> 00:05:31,000 Now, the next step is back to reality. 147 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:32,700 -Mmm-hmm. -Yeah. 148 00:05:32,700 --> 00:05:34,870 Just know like I'm here, so you can call me. 149 00:05:34,870 --> 00:05:37,100 I would... I have no problem coming out there to see you. 150 00:05:37,100 --> 00:05:39,530 I will catch an overnight flight if I... If I have to. 151 00:05:39,530 --> 00:05:42,370 I will be there, like, the second you need me. 152 00:05:43,330 --> 00:05:44,830 You're my person. 153 00:05:44,830 --> 00:05:46,370 [Chris] You're my person, baby. 154 00:05:49,230 --> 00:05:50,600 And as crazy as it sounds, 155 00:05:52,730 --> 00:05:54,470 um, I can truly say I like... 156 00:05:54,470 --> 00:05:55,970 Barby, I... Like, I love you. 157 00:05:58,730 --> 00:06:01,130 I love... I love being with you. 158 00:06:01,130 --> 00:06:02,470 I love being around you. 159 00:06:02,470 --> 00:06:04,600 I love who you are as a person. 160 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:05,970 I love what you bring to me. 161 00:06:05,970 --> 00:06:07,670 I love that you make me a better man. 162 00:06:08,970 --> 00:06:10,800 Actually saying it and putting it out there that, 163 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:12,800 you know, I love you. 164 00:06:12,800 --> 00:06:14,930 The age don't mean [bleep]. 165 00:06:14,930 --> 00:06:16,500 Yeah, I know it sounds crazy 166 00:06:16,500 --> 00:06:17,800 because we've only been together for two weeks. 167 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:19,200 No, it's not 'cause I've had to tell myself... 168 00:06:19,200 --> 00:06:20,630 -[Chris] I know-- -...not to say it out loud because it's... 169 00:06:20,630 --> 00:06:22,230 -[Chris] And then... -I wanna say I love you... 170 00:06:22,230 --> 00:06:23,870 -[Chris] ...what do you feel... -...before we go to bed. 171 00:06:26,800 --> 00:06:28,700 I love you too. 172 00:06:28,700 --> 00:06:30,170 But... 173 00:06:32,770 --> 00:06:35,730 -I love you, baby. -I love you. 174 00:06:35,730 --> 00:06:38,230 In order for me to allow a man into my life, 175 00:06:38,230 --> 00:06:39,530 he would have to make my life better, 176 00:06:39,530 --> 00:06:41,130 -not harder. -Period. 177 00:06:41,130 --> 00:06:43,100 And that's just been why it's been so hard 178 00:06:43,100 --> 00:06:44,500 for me to find anybody. 179 00:06:44,500 --> 00:06:46,600 And I saw the bigger picture with you. 180 00:06:46,600 --> 00:06:49,370 And damn, I never thought 181 00:06:49,370 --> 00:06:52,100 that I was gonna be walking out of here all boo'd up. 182 00:06:52,100 --> 00:06:53,500 This is my queen. This is my goddess. 183 00:06:53,500 --> 00:06:55,700 This is my rock. This is my backbone. 184 00:06:55,700 --> 00:06:58,300 This is my lover now. This is my woman. 185 00:06:58,300 --> 00:07:00,330 -Are we weird? -Mmm-hmm. 186 00:07:01,730 --> 00:07:03,470 -Are we crazy? -Yeah. 187 00:07:06,030 --> 00:07:09,100 [upbeat music playing] 188 00:07:10,500 --> 00:07:13,000 [Darren] Hey, y'all, I got a text. 189 00:07:13,000 --> 00:07:16,470 All right. You have the opportunity 190 00:07:16,470 --> 00:07:18,570 to build meaningful relationships, 191 00:07:18,570 --> 00:07:22,600 but now it's time to find out just how compatible you are 192 00:07:22,600 --> 00:07:24,500 with the people you're dating. 193 00:07:25,870 --> 00:07:27,830 Each of you will be texted a series 194 00:07:27,830 --> 00:07:29,870 of relationship-focused questions. 195 00:07:29,870 --> 00:07:31,870 -[woman] Mmm-hmm. -Remember to be open 196 00:07:31,870 --> 00:07:34,230 and truthful in your responses 197 00:07:34,230 --> 00:07:36,530 as only those individuals 198 00:07:36,530 --> 00:07:39,170 who show the highest compatibility 199 00:07:39,170 --> 00:07:41,870 will continue on this journey. 200 00:07:41,870 --> 00:07:44,130 -Good luck. -Mmm-hmm. 201 00:07:44,130 --> 00:07:46,230 The compatibility test concerns me 202 00:07:46,230 --> 00:07:48,800 because I'm thinking about me and David, 203 00:07:48,800 --> 00:07:50,470 and the time we spent together 204 00:07:50,470 --> 00:07:52,270 and, you know, possibly the future. 205 00:07:52,270 --> 00:07:54,230 But sometimes who we think we should be with 206 00:07:54,230 --> 00:07:55,900 is not the person that we should be with, 207 00:07:55,900 --> 00:07:59,370 so I'm feeling kind of anxious about this. 208 00:07:59,370 --> 00:08:01,800 All right. Let's get to it. Let's get out there. 209 00:08:01,800 --> 00:08:02,970 -[man] All right. -[woman] All right. 210 00:08:02,970 --> 00:08:04,230 -Let's do it. -[Darren] Come on. Go. 211 00:08:04,230 --> 00:08:06,030 [singer]♪ Start anew ♪ 212 00:08:06,030 --> 00:08:08,330 ♪ When it was growing ♪ 213 00:08:09,900 --> 00:08:13,230 ♪ And I wanted to take you Home and have some fun ♪ 214 00:08:13,230 --> 00:08:16,130 [Sam] Well, you wanna be compatible with who you're 215 00:08:16,130 --> 00:08:17,900 going to be spending the rest of your life with, 216 00:08:17,900 --> 00:08:21,330 so I think to find out these questions right away 217 00:08:21,330 --> 00:08:22,530 is really helpful. 218 00:08:22,530 --> 00:08:23,770 I'm a little nervous. 219 00:08:23,770 --> 00:08:26,300 I thought Shauna and I had something but... 220 00:08:27,730 --> 00:08:29,930 I'm not... I don't know if we're compatible anymore, 221 00:08:29,930 --> 00:08:31,630 so I guess the test will let us know. 222 00:08:34,299 --> 00:08:36,570 How would you handle serious arguments 223 00:08:36,570 --> 00:08:39,270 with your partner? Oh, geez. 224 00:08:39,270 --> 00:08:42,400 Being certain that every day before we go to bed 225 00:08:42,400 --> 00:08:47,130 that we realize we're on the same team. 226 00:08:47,130 --> 00:08:49,470 With Kelle, the things I'm not compatible with 227 00:08:49,470 --> 00:08:51,970 is, uh, she comes across as very brash 228 00:08:51,970 --> 00:08:54,200 and bold woman, very strong woman. 229 00:08:54,200 --> 00:08:57,070 So it's nice to know that deep down inside of her, 230 00:08:57,070 --> 00:09:00,430 she does have a very soft side and she's very vulnerable. 231 00:09:00,430 --> 00:09:02,930 But you wonder how that's gonna last 232 00:09:02,930 --> 00:09:04,870 after weeks and months together. 233 00:09:05,830 --> 00:09:09,170 Am I ready for a serious commitment? 234 00:09:09,170 --> 00:09:13,270 I was married for almost 18 years and that ended. 235 00:09:13,270 --> 00:09:15,470 And then, I got in a long-term relationship 236 00:09:15,470 --> 00:09:18,100 and then got engaged, and that ended. 237 00:09:18,100 --> 00:09:20,530 Look, I'm human, I don't wanna get hurt again. 238 00:09:21,570 --> 00:09:24,030 How important is physical intimacy 239 00:09:24,030 --> 00:09:26,270 in a relationship? 240 00:09:26,270 --> 00:09:29,870 Even though I feel that we do have some compatibility, 241 00:09:29,870 --> 00:09:31,370 I'm a little scared 242 00:09:31,370 --> 00:09:34,300 because Stacy is not allowing us 243 00:09:34,300 --> 00:09:36,300 to get on a deeper connection. 244 00:09:36,300 --> 00:09:40,770 Physical intimacy would be top of... 245 00:09:40,770 --> 00:09:45,870 On my list outside of God and family for sure. 246 00:09:45,870 --> 00:09:49,400 Do you want children with your new partner? 247 00:09:49,400 --> 00:09:51,970 One of the biggest desires in my life 248 00:09:51,970 --> 00:09:53,800 is to have a lot of kids. 249 00:09:53,800 --> 00:09:56,000 And my concern was, uh, was Christina 250 00:09:56,000 --> 00:09:57,930 having a 22-year-old already in the house 251 00:09:57,930 --> 00:10:00,230 and having already gone through that stage of her life, 252 00:10:00,230 --> 00:10:02,330 if she would be open and willing to, you know, 253 00:10:02,330 --> 00:10:03,970 start all over again 254 00:10:03,970 --> 00:10:05,700 and have a house full of kids. 255 00:10:05,700 --> 00:10:07,230 [Christina] Do you want children 256 00:10:07,230 --> 00:10:08,900 with your new partner? 257 00:10:08,900 --> 00:10:10,930 Interesting. 258 00:10:10,930 --> 00:10:13,230 Do you want children with your new partner? 259 00:10:16,770 --> 00:10:18,170 [bleep]. 260 00:10:18,170 --> 00:10:20,770 [sighs] I definitely want children. 261 00:10:22,000 --> 00:10:23,230 I'm really hoping that the results 262 00:10:23,230 --> 00:10:24,830 of that me and Shauna are compatible 263 00:10:24,830 --> 00:10:27,000 even though we have some obstacles to get over. 264 00:10:27,000 --> 00:10:28,770 Um, if I'm in a relationship, 265 00:10:28,770 --> 00:10:30,300 I'm gonna be in the relationship 100%. 266 00:10:30,300 --> 00:10:32,330 And hey, deal with things as they come. 267 00:10:32,330 --> 00:10:34,530 They say in a restaurant... [speaking Spanish] 268 00:10:34,530 --> 00:10:37,030 you always move in forward, you know, 269 00:10:37,030 --> 00:10:39,170 instead of dwelling on stuff, right Joe? 270 00:10:39,170 --> 00:10:41,430 -Yup. -Always move in forward. 271 00:10:41,430 --> 00:10:43,700 I wanna be a dad sooner than later. 272 00:10:43,700 --> 00:10:45,130 I thought it'd be, like, on the... 273 00:10:45,130 --> 00:10:46,930 On the DILF team 274 00:10:46,930 --> 00:10:48,800 by this point in time of my life. 275 00:10:48,800 --> 00:10:51,730 How important is physical intimacy 276 00:10:51,730 --> 00:10:53,730 to you in a relationship? 277 00:10:53,730 --> 00:10:55,630 Yeah, it's very important, you know. 278 00:10:55,630 --> 00:10:57,970 Very important. 279 00:10:57,970 --> 00:10:59,900 I know how important it is 280 00:10:59,900 --> 00:11:02,630 to have physical intimacy in a... In a relationship 281 00:11:02,630 --> 00:11:05,030 because I, you know, have that problem 282 00:11:05,030 --> 00:11:06,430 in my past relationship. 283 00:11:07,400 --> 00:11:10,770 I've basically, like, built a little bit of a PTSD 284 00:11:10,770 --> 00:11:12,600 with, like, older guys 'cause I'm afraid 285 00:11:12,600 --> 00:11:14,430 that there's gonna be a problem 286 00:11:14,430 --> 00:11:17,370 and I'm not gonna be able to, like, have a sex life. 287 00:11:17,370 --> 00:11:19,170 But Connor and Anthony 288 00:11:19,170 --> 00:11:21,570 are very physical with their touch, 289 00:11:21,570 --> 00:11:23,430 so I am feeling pretty confident 290 00:11:23,430 --> 00:11:26,370 that I am compatible with both of them. 291 00:11:26,370 --> 00:11:28,530 [Connor] [sighs] These are challenging questions. 292 00:11:28,530 --> 00:11:30,400 I just... I'm not really sure where to go. 293 00:11:30,400 --> 00:11:32,930 I'm very confident with my relationship with Rebecca, 294 00:11:32,930 --> 00:11:34,330 but what if it shows 295 00:11:34,330 --> 00:11:36,070 that she's more compatible with Anthony? 296 00:11:36,070 --> 00:11:38,270 They live closer together, they're closer in age, 297 00:11:38,270 --> 00:11:39,870 he doesn't want kids, 298 00:11:39,870 --> 00:11:41,570 she doesn't want kids. 299 00:11:41,570 --> 00:11:43,100 So I'm worried about 300 00:11:43,100 --> 00:11:44,830 if they're a better match together. 301 00:11:49,200 --> 00:11:51,130 [crickets chirping] 302 00:11:51,130 --> 00:11:53,570 -[cell phone vibrates] -[Stacy] Everyone, I got a text. 303 00:11:53,570 --> 00:11:56,100 Oh, here we go. 304 00:11:56,100 --> 00:11:57,400 Yikes. 305 00:11:57,400 --> 00:11:58,500 -[man] All right. -[woman] Oh, no. 306 00:11:58,500 --> 00:11:59,800 -[man 1] Okay. -[man 2] Oh, geez. 307 00:11:59,800 --> 00:12:01,700 [man 3] Oh, man. 308 00:12:01,700 --> 00:12:03,000 What we got? 309 00:12:06,970 --> 00:12:09,170 Thank you everyone for taking the time 310 00:12:09,170 --> 00:12:11,030 to thoughtfully reply to the questions 311 00:12:11,030 --> 00:12:13,230 sent earlier today. 312 00:12:13,230 --> 00:12:15,170 Your thoughts have brought clarity 313 00:12:15,170 --> 00:12:17,300 to who is committing romantically 314 00:12:17,300 --> 00:12:18,430 and who is not. 315 00:12:18,430 --> 00:12:22,230 [dramatic music playing] 316 00:12:23,700 --> 00:12:25,470 [Stacy] Fletcher and Sam, 317 00:12:25,470 --> 00:12:29,330 your answers did not line up with the women here. 318 00:12:29,330 --> 00:12:31,570 And your journey has sadly come to an end. 319 00:12:32,870 --> 00:12:34,870 Please say your goodbyes and go. 320 00:12:37,630 --> 00:12:40,100 Oh, my God. 321 00:12:40,100 --> 00:12:42,430 All right. See you on the other side. 322 00:12:42,430 --> 00:12:43,500 Later, guys. 323 00:12:43,500 --> 00:12:45,730 [woman] Oh, my God. 324 00:12:48,930 --> 00:12:51,870 It's been amazing to meet all of you. 325 00:12:51,870 --> 00:12:53,970 Joey, day one. 326 00:12:53,970 --> 00:12:56,070 I think I'm feeling a little bit of guilt 327 00:12:56,070 --> 00:12:57,270 because Sam's having to leave, 328 00:12:57,270 --> 00:13:01,070 but David is definitely putting in the effort. 329 00:13:01,070 --> 00:13:04,470 After friends and family he got along with everyone. 330 00:13:04,470 --> 00:13:06,170 He was very attentive to me. 331 00:13:06,170 --> 00:13:07,500 And I feel like, you know, 332 00:13:07,500 --> 00:13:08,900 there could be a future here. 333 00:13:08,900 --> 00:13:10,670 Sam, I adore you. 334 00:13:10,670 --> 00:13:12,970 I adore you too. Have a good one. 335 00:13:12,970 --> 00:13:15,870 -Best of luck. -[Christina speaking] 336 00:13:15,870 --> 00:13:18,000 [Sam] I know. Thank you. Thank you very much. 337 00:13:18,000 --> 00:13:19,270 Have a great time. 338 00:13:19,270 --> 00:13:20,370 I'll see you back at Jackson. 339 00:13:20,370 --> 00:13:22,400 I know, I know, I know. 340 00:13:22,400 --> 00:13:23,800 [Fletcher sighs] It... 341 00:13:23,800 --> 00:13:26,270 It's not really a big surprise. 342 00:13:26,270 --> 00:13:28,800 I didn't make any love connections, 343 00:13:28,800 --> 00:13:31,300 but this experience 344 00:13:31,300 --> 00:13:33,700 reaffirmed what I want out of life. 345 00:13:33,700 --> 00:13:36,270 I wanna be a dad. 346 00:13:37,330 --> 00:13:38,800 [Rob]You're a diamond in the rough 347 00:13:38,800 --> 00:13:40,430 as far as a guy who is your age, 348 00:13:40,430 --> 00:13:41,530 who's coming right out 349 00:13:41,530 --> 00:13:42,670 and saying that's what he wants. 350 00:13:42,670 --> 00:13:44,670 Not too many guys like you out there. 351 00:13:44,670 --> 00:13:46,500 [Sam speaking] 352 00:13:48,370 --> 00:13:49,930 -All right. -[Darren speaking] 353 00:13:49,930 --> 00:13:54,000 [Sam speaking] 354 00:13:54,000 --> 00:13:55,470 Okay? 355 00:13:55,470 --> 00:13:58,070 As awkward as it was having my dad here at first. 356 00:13:58,070 --> 00:14:00,900 Now I also don't think I could have done 357 00:14:00,900 --> 00:14:02,130 anything without him here. 358 00:14:11,100 --> 00:14:13,430 -[Kelly speaking] -He's gonna act... 359 00:14:13,430 --> 00:14:15,670 -[Sam speaking] -[Kelly] Mmm-hmm. 360 00:14:15,670 --> 00:14:17,130 [Sam speaking] 361 00:14:18,570 --> 00:14:20,100 -We love you. -I love you too. 362 00:14:20,100 --> 00:14:21,500 He's in great hands. 363 00:14:21,500 --> 00:14:22,770 Thank you. I appreciate it. 364 00:14:22,770 --> 00:14:25,100 In all honesty, the whole point of this experience 365 00:14:25,100 --> 00:14:27,670 is to come out and meet new people 366 00:14:27,670 --> 00:14:29,230 and explore a bunch of different options. 367 00:14:29,230 --> 00:14:31,470 So I'm extremely grateful 368 00:14:31,470 --> 00:14:33,430 for all the time I had with Christina. 369 00:14:33,430 --> 00:14:37,000 But I'm also brokenhearted that I didn't find love. 370 00:14:37,000 --> 00:14:39,730 But I think love is definitely out there. 371 00:14:39,730 --> 00:14:41,300 I'll find it. 372 00:14:41,300 --> 00:14:43,530 [Darren] It's not about whether he found 373 00:14:43,530 --> 00:14:44,770 a connection or not. 374 00:14:44,770 --> 00:14:46,800 That's not what makes me sad that he's leaving. 375 00:14:46,800 --> 00:14:48,270 It's that I've really enjoyed 376 00:14:48,270 --> 00:14:49,970 doing this whole experience with him. 377 00:14:49,970 --> 00:14:51,730 I mean, I'm gonna miss you, 378 00:14:51,730 --> 00:14:53,630 but you got Kelly Mac, you got Mama K. 379 00:14:56,500 --> 00:14:57,900 -[woman 1] Huge heart. -[woman 2] Yeah. 380 00:14:57,900 --> 00:14:59,130 [woman 1] Huge heart. 381 00:15:00,970 --> 00:15:02,630 [phone beeps] 382 00:15:02,630 --> 00:15:05,230 So I just got a message as well. 383 00:15:05,230 --> 00:15:07,830 -[man] All right. -Congratulations 384 00:15:07,830 --> 00:15:09,330 on making it this far 385 00:15:09,330 --> 00:15:10,870 in your journey to find love. 386 00:15:10,870 --> 00:15:13,700 Tomorrow will be your final day here. 387 00:15:13,700 --> 00:15:16,500 Tonight, the women will be leaving the house. 388 00:15:16,500 --> 00:15:18,230 The men will stay here. 389 00:15:18,230 --> 00:15:20,770 Tonight is for reflecting. 390 00:15:20,770 --> 00:15:23,370 Are you confident in what you have found? 391 00:15:23,370 --> 00:15:26,400 Tomorrow, you will meet down at the dock 392 00:15:26,400 --> 00:15:28,400 to make your final choice. 393 00:15:28,400 --> 00:15:30,130 Good luck. 394 00:15:30,130 --> 00:15:31,730 Wow. 395 00:15:33,370 --> 00:15:35,630 Everyone, I have something to say. 396 00:15:35,630 --> 00:15:38,230 [dramatic music playing] 397 00:15:45,500 --> 00:15:47,330 [Kelle]Tomorrow is such a big day. 398 00:15:47,330 --> 00:15:49,070 We have to make a huge decision 399 00:15:49,070 --> 00:15:51,930 and I'm definitely nervous. 400 00:15:51,930 --> 00:15:53,630 [Rebecca] So I made my decision. 401 00:15:55,300 --> 00:15:57,400 -Oh, this is hard. -Life's short. 402 00:15:57,400 --> 00:15:59,030 And you have to take chances 403 00:15:59,030 --> 00:16:01,330 and go after what you want. 404 00:16:01,330 --> 00:16:03,200 If that's what you really want. 405 00:16:03,200 --> 00:16:04,600 -Right. -So... 406 00:16:07,800 --> 00:16:09,330 [dramatic music playing] 407 00:16:12,400 --> 00:16:17,130 I've been on a journey to find love. 408 00:16:17,130 --> 00:16:20,130 I've been very blessed to connect with Joey 409 00:16:20,130 --> 00:16:23,300 because Joey was very truthful yesterday. 410 00:16:23,300 --> 00:16:27,230 That has really put a big impact on my decision 411 00:16:27,230 --> 00:16:31,400 and this is the end of the road for me. 412 00:16:32,970 --> 00:16:36,030 So thank you. Thank you. Thank you. 413 00:16:40,670 --> 00:16:42,200 I followed my heart 414 00:16:42,200 --> 00:16:44,070 and that's what I did with Joey. 415 00:16:44,070 --> 00:16:46,430 But we couldn't make it work. 416 00:16:46,430 --> 00:16:49,700 And so it hurts going back home. 417 00:16:49,700 --> 00:16:51,670 But I know I'll just... 418 00:16:51,670 --> 00:16:53,430 I'll be okay. 419 00:16:55,970 --> 00:16:57,700 Shauna, thank you. Okay? 420 00:16:57,700 --> 00:17:00,370 You showed me more than any woman I've ever met 421 00:17:00,370 --> 00:17:01,830 in my life on how to treat somebody 422 00:17:01,830 --> 00:17:03,300 and how to value certain things in life. 423 00:17:03,300 --> 00:17:05,230 So I wanna say thank you for that. 424 00:17:05,230 --> 00:17:06,530 You're welcome. 425 00:17:06,530 --> 00:17:08,730 [dramatic music playing] 426 00:17:12,400 --> 00:17:13,400 [Joey speaking] 427 00:17:20,599 --> 00:17:23,200 -Thank you so much. -Oh, we love you. 428 00:17:23,200 --> 00:17:26,130 This was a huge journey for me being in the manor 429 00:17:26,130 --> 00:17:29,500 and just getting out of my comfort zone. 430 00:17:29,500 --> 00:17:32,500 I'm leaving here with hope, pride. 431 00:17:32,500 --> 00:17:35,730 A girl just ready to take on the world 432 00:17:36,900 --> 00:17:38,570 and find my partner, 433 00:17:38,570 --> 00:17:40,300 find my husband. 434 00:17:46,330 --> 00:17:47,770 She's so sweet. 435 00:17:50,530 --> 00:17:52,730 Shauna, class act 436 00:17:52,730 --> 00:17:54,970 and I understand what Joey's going through 437 00:17:54,970 --> 00:17:58,500 because sometimes you can have such a beautiful relationship 438 00:17:58,500 --> 00:18:01,300 but you don't have the same vision for your future. 439 00:18:01,300 --> 00:18:03,600 -[Joey] Yup. -So I guess just learn from it 440 00:18:03,600 --> 00:18:06,370 and create a beautiful friendship. 441 00:18:06,370 --> 00:18:08,070 [Joey] Coming into this experience, 442 00:18:08,070 --> 00:18:09,470 I was honestly just looking to have fun. 443 00:18:09,470 --> 00:18:11,430 So, you know, building a connection with Shauna 444 00:18:11,430 --> 00:18:14,230 was something that I'm very grateful for. 445 00:18:15,670 --> 00:18:18,370 I love this experience we had too, Joe. 446 00:18:18,370 --> 00:18:20,630 Proud of you. Always be proud of you. 447 00:18:20,630 --> 00:18:23,800 All right? This is my why. 448 00:18:23,800 --> 00:18:25,830 I love you. 449 00:18:25,830 --> 00:18:27,070 Love you. 450 00:18:27,070 --> 00:18:29,130 Thank you for everybody here. 451 00:18:29,130 --> 00:18:33,230 But at the same time, this is also my time to leave, 452 00:18:33,230 --> 00:18:34,800 -so... -[Christina] Oh, wow. 453 00:18:34,800 --> 00:18:36,600 So he's leaving? 454 00:18:36,600 --> 00:18:38,330 Oh, my God. 455 00:18:39,430 --> 00:18:40,930 [Joey] As soon as Shauna opened up to the house, 456 00:18:40,930 --> 00:18:42,230 you know, about how she felt. 457 00:18:42,230 --> 00:18:43,470 I knew I had to tell everyone 458 00:18:43,470 --> 00:18:45,070 what was going on in my head. 459 00:18:45,070 --> 00:18:47,200 And, you know, speaking to her aunt 460 00:18:47,200 --> 00:18:50,070 really opened up my mind about how Shauna and I 461 00:18:50,070 --> 00:18:51,370 are not ready to, you know, 462 00:18:51,370 --> 00:18:52,730 take this outside of the manor. 463 00:18:55,530 --> 00:18:57,270 I'll go with you. You want me to go with you? 464 00:18:57,270 --> 00:18:58,800 -I'll go with you. -No, I can't... You stay here. 465 00:18:58,800 --> 00:18:59,900 -You gotta stay here. -[man] Ah, leave. 466 00:18:59,900 --> 00:19:01,000 -Come on. -You gotta stay. 467 00:19:01,000 --> 00:19:02,800 You're staying. 468 00:19:02,800 --> 00:19:04,470 I mean it. 469 00:19:04,470 --> 00:19:06,630 Going through this experience with my father was, you know, 470 00:19:06,630 --> 00:19:08,270 something that I'll never forget. 471 00:19:08,270 --> 00:19:09,630 It's something I'm grateful for, you know. 472 00:19:09,630 --> 00:19:11,130 I'm thinking I'm one of the only guys at the house 473 00:19:11,130 --> 00:19:12,430 who when they saw their dad 474 00:19:12,430 --> 00:19:14,430 was actually happy about it. [chuckles] 475 00:19:16,170 --> 00:19:18,330 I'm so proud of him and I'm proud of us 476 00:19:18,330 --> 00:19:19,870 for being able to get through this 477 00:19:19,870 --> 00:19:22,300 from the strip teases 478 00:19:22,300 --> 00:19:24,070 to the tantric yoga sessions. 479 00:19:24,070 --> 00:19:25,070 It was all fun. 480 00:19:25,070 --> 00:19:26,130 And, uh... 481 00:19:28,330 --> 00:19:31,200 That's what I want. He deserves it. 482 00:19:31,200 --> 00:19:34,400 [Anthony speaking] 483 00:19:35,400 --> 00:19:37,470 [Anthony speaking] 484 00:19:37,470 --> 00:19:38,670 -Mmm-hmm. -Love you. 485 00:19:38,670 --> 00:19:40,370 Love you too. 486 00:19:41,500 --> 00:19:43,700 Being here really opened my eyes 487 00:19:43,700 --> 00:19:45,730 on what I'm looking for exactly in a woman. 488 00:19:45,730 --> 00:19:47,030 It doesn't matter how old you are, 489 00:19:47,030 --> 00:19:49,470 you can be 21, 44, 58 490 00:19:49,470 --> 00:19:50,770 and the connections that you build 491 00:19:50,770 --> 00:19:52,030 aren't based on your age. 492 00:19:52,030 --> 00:19:53,770 It just matters who you are inside. 493 00:19:59,470 --> 00:20:01,830 Okay, ladies, we need to go pack now. 494 00:20:01,830 --> 00:20:03,300 Unfortunately. 495 00:20:03,300 --> 00:20:05,130 [Rebecca] Making sure what I'm gonna... 496 00:20:05,130 --> 00:20:07,630 It's coming from my heart, all right? 497 00:20:07,630 --> 00:20:10,070 [laughs] 498 00:20:10,070 --> 00:20:11,300 Bye, honey. 499 00:20:13,830 --> 00:20:16,100 -[Rebecca speaking] -[David] Okay. 500 00:20:25,270 --> 00:20:26,870 [Darren] Make sure you were making the right decision. 501 00:20:26,870 --> 00:20:27,970 -Mmm-hmm. -Go think. 502 00:20:29,200 --> 00:20:31,230 [Kelly] I wanna see this to the end. 503 00:20:31,230 --> 00:20:33,100 And I wanna leave with Darren, 504 00:20:33,100 --> 00:20:34,670 but I don't wanna have to guess. 505 00:20:34,670 --> 00:20:36,300 You know, I want him to just like, 506 00:20:36,300 --> 00:20:38,000 you know, this is how I feel, 507 00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:41,300 and lay it all out on the table, all his cards. 508 00:20:41,300 --> 00:20:43,000 [Crystal] Just like that. It's over. 509 00:20:43,000 --> 00:20:44,830 Tomorrow is a big day. 510 00:20:44,830 --> 00:20:47,130 That's why I'm feeling down a little bit. 511 00:20:47,130 --> 00:20:48,970 I mean, with these men, they can't make up 512 00:20:48,970 --> 00:20:52,000 their minds and, like, you're almost 55. 513 00:20:52,000 --> 00:20:54,530 I only have one good relationship left in me. 514 00:20:54,530 --> 00:20:56,430 And the reason why I say that 515 00:20:56,430 --> 00:20:59,900 is because I'm 48 years old 516 00:20:59,900 --> 00:21:02,200 and on the fact that I lost my son 517 00:21:02,200 --> 00:21:04,170 and I'm still grieving over him, 518 00:21:04,170 --> 00:21:07,270 I can't take another heartbreak. I just can't. 519 00:21:07,270 --> 00:21:09,230 The next man's the one that I'm gonna be with 520 00:21:09,230 --> 00:21:10,930 for the rest of my life. 521 00:21:12,030 --> 00:21:13,530 [Kelle] Girl, if you even tried to leave, 522 00:21:13,530 --> 00:21:14,800 I would've like knocked you out. 523 00:21:14,800 --> 00:21:18,770 -[Crystal] You said what? -[Kelle speaking] 524 00:21:18,770 --> 00:21:20,100 [Crystal chuckles] 525 00:21:20,100 --> 00:21:21,970 [Kelle] You ain't going nowhere. 526 00:21:21,970 --> 00:21:23,700 Even though my sister Mesha came to me 527 00:21:23,700 --> 00:21:25,700 and told me after her conversation with Stacy 528 00:21:25,700 --> 00:21:27,730 that he was not ready. 529 00:21:27,730 --> 00:21:30,030 I know that when we're together, 530 00:21:30,030 --> 00:21:32,400 we get along really, really good. 531 00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:34,070 I like Stacy a lot. 532 00:21:34,070 --> 00:21:37,270 He's very genuine. He's very honest. 533 00:21:37,270 --> 00:21:38,730 He's been very open with me. 534 00:21:38,730 --> 00:21:40,630 He makes me laugh. 535 00:21:40,630 --> 00:21:43,230 Of course I like his swag. 536 00:21:43,230 --> 00:21:45,000 He did express to me that 537 00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:47,200 he still wanted to get married again 538 00:21:47,200 --> 00:21:49,000 and that he's open to a relationship 539 00:21:49,000 --> 00:21:51,700 and that he's a family man and he would rather, 540 00:21:51,700 --> 00:21:53,170 you know, be with someone. 541 00:21:54,170 --> 00:21:56,800 So I know me and Stacy could be good together, 542 00:21:56,800 --> 00:21:59,430 but it's either now or never. 543 00:22:03,700 --> 00:22:05,730 Now you and Connor are like... 544 00:22:05,730 --> 00:22:07,470 -Yeah. -...really into each other? 545 00:22:07,470 --> 00:22:08,930 -Definitely have a connection. -[Christina] Yeah. 546 00:22:08,930 --> 00:22:10,430 -And I really like him. -[Christina] Mmm-hmm. 547 00:22:10,430 --> 00:22:11,970 But I also don't wanna stop him 548 00:22:11,970 --> 00:22:14,330 from, you know, his life 549 00:22:14,330 --> 00:22:15,430 -'cause he's so young. -Mmm-hmm. 550 00:22:15,430 --> 00:22:17,870 Obviously, there could be a possibility 551 00:22:17,870 --> 00:22:19,470 with Anthony as well. 552 00:22:19,470 --> 00:22:21,130 The thing with Connor 553 00:22:21,130 --> 00:22:23,870 is that I know that he still wants four children. 554 00:22:23,870 --> 00:22:25,930 He has a lot of life to live. 555 00:22:25,930 --> 00:22:27,430 I've already lived all of that. 556 00:22:27,430 --> 00:22:29,300 -[Christina] Mmm-hmm. -We'll see... 557 00:22:29,300 --> 00:22:31,430 -[Christina] Yeah. -...what happens tomorrow. 558 00:22:31,430 --> 00:22:33,570 -[laughs] -[Christina] I know. 559 00:22:33,570 --> 00:22:35,900 After Jo-Ann left yesterday, 560 00:22:35,900 --> 00:22:37,200 she thought that Anthony 561 00:22:37,200 --> 00:22:39,270 was probably the better pick for me 562 00:22:39,270 --> 00:22:41,500 because he's older, more mature, 563 00:22:41,500 --> 00:22:43,130 and I should be with that one 564 00:22:43,130 --> 00:22:45,330 versus Connor, the hot young one. 565 00:22:45,330 --> 00:22:49,570 I don't know. I don't... I'm torn. I am torn. 566 00:22:49,570 --> 00:22:52,100 How about you? Like, what do you feel like? 567 00:22:52,100 --> 00:22:56,570 Um, I mean, I'm happy, you know? 568 00:22:56,570 --> 00:22:58,670 I hope David feels the same way. 569 00:22:58,670 --> 00:23:00,130 -I mean, we'll see. -[Rebecca] Yeah. 570 00:23:00,130 --> 00:23:03,630 -Yeah. -So, we can go from there. 571 00:23:03,630 --> 00:23:06,630 I am a hopeless romantic. I believe in love. 572 00:23:06,630 --> 00:23:08,930 And there was something about David. 573 00:23:08,930 --> 00:23:10,770 When I first saw him, you know, 574 00:23:10,770 --> 00:23:12,170 I felt like there was an attraction. 575 00:23:12,170 --> 00:23:14,330 Our conversation just kind of flowed and, you know, 576 00:23:14,330 --> 00:23:16,670 we told each other exactly what we were looking for. 577 00:23:16,670 --> 00:23:18,970 And I'm honestly not concerned at all that, 578 00:23:18,970 --> 00:23:20,730 you know, David lives in Texas, 579 00:23:20,730 --> 00:23:22,500 I live in North Carolina. 580 00:23:22,500 --> 00:23:24,770 I feel like you fall for who you fall for. 581 00:23:27,830 --> 00:23:30,170 [intense music playing] 582 00:23:30,170 --> 00:23:31,730 [Kelle]Tomorrow is such a big day. 583 00:23:31,730 --> 00:23:33,430 We have to make a huge decision. 584 00:23:33,430 --> 00:23:35,600 And I'm definitely nervous 585 00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:39,330 because I'm not really sure where Rob stands exactly. 586 00:23:39,330 --> 00:23:41,200 I hope that, you know, we're aligned in everything 587 00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:42,670 that we've been talking about. 588 00:23:42,670 --> 00:23:45,370 If not, I could be heartbroken. 589 00:23:45,370 --> 00:23:48,300 [intense music playing] 590 00:23:51,330 --> 00:23:54,100 [Crystal]I am nervous as hell. 591 00:23:54,100 --> 00:23:55,430 I'm literally shaking. 592 00:23:55,430 --> 00:23:57,400 I made my decision and I wanna make sure 593 00:23:57,400 --> 00:23:59,800 that he knows exactly how I feel. 594 00:23:59,800 --> 00:24:01,900 I thought I was coming here 595 00:24:01,900 --> 00:24:04,070 to find a connection, love. 596 00:24:04,070 --> 00:24:06,630 -Mmm-hmm. -I have to admit, 597 00:24:06,630 --> 00:24:08,270 that's not what I came here for. 598 00:24:08,270 --> 00:24:09,530 Hmm. 599 00:24:11,330 --> 00:24:12,700 ["Where It All Begins" playing] 600 00:24:16,130 --> 00:24:19,900 [singer] ♪ This is where Forever starts ♪ 601 00:24:19,900 --> 00:24:23,900 ♪ This is where It all begins ♪ 602 00:24:23,900 --> 00:24:27,600 ♪ This is where Forever starts ♪ 603 00:24:27,600 --> 00:24:31,300 ♪ This is where It all begins ♪ 604 00:24:31,300 --> 00:24:33,730 ♪ Forever ♪ 605 00:24:33,730 --> 00:24:36,270 I'm nervous because on the one hand, 606 00:24:36,270 --> 00:24:38,800 there's Anthony who's full of life, 607 00:24:38,800 --> 00:24:40,430 so fun to be around. 608 00:24:40,430 --> 00:24:42,500 He's handsome. He dresses great, 609 00:24:42,500 --> 00:24:45,030 good personality, and he's Italian. [laughs] 610 00:24:45,030 --> 00:24:46,500 There's Connor. 611 00:24:46,500 --> 00:24:48,700 And he's gorgeous, great body, 612 00:24:48,700 --> 00:24:50,500 loves fitness like I do. 613 00:24:50,500 --> 00:24:53,400 He's got a lot... A lot of things going for him. 614 00:24:53,400 --> 00:24:55,530 I'm ready. I'm happy in my decision, 615 00:24:55,530 --> 00:24:57,300 but I'm also very concerned 616 00:24:57,300 --> 00:24:59,630 about the person I'm gonna let down. 617 00:25:01,870 --> 00:25:05,030 [Anthony] I came here to find love, 618 00:25:05,030 --> 00:25:06,430 and I think I did. 619 00:25:06,430 --> 00:25:08,930 I definitely found a connection. 620 00:25:08,930 --> 00:25:11,970 I definitely feel me and Rebecca are suited for each other 621 00:25:11,970 --> 00:25:14,230 because, you know, our age, first of all, 622 00:25:14,230 --> 00:25:17,470 you know, we both have kids that are out of the house 623 00:25:17,470 --> 00:25:19,570 and we're at a point in life that we know who we are. 624 00:25:19,570 --> 00:25:22,330 We've experienced life, you know, 625 00:25:22,330 --> 00:25:23,970 and Connor still has to do that. 626 00:25:25,670 --> 00:25:27,670 [Connor] I think Rebecca's amazing. I mean, starting 627 00:25:27,670 --> 00:25:30,100 from when she came into the house, I was in awe. 628 00:25:30,100 --> 00:25:31,970 And she was absolutely stunning. 629 00:25:31,970 --> 00:25:34,070 And she is 20 years older than I am. 630 00:25:34,070 --> 00:25:36,230 But I think that we did have probably one 631 00:25:36,230 --> 00:25:38,070 of the best connections in the house. 632 00:25:38,070 --> 00:25:40,030 Definitely didn't expect to walk down with Anthony. 633 00:25:40,030 --> 00:25:42,670 And I don't know what's gonna happen, 634 00:25:42,670 --> 00:25:45,300 but I believe if a relationship is meant to be, 635 00:25:45,300 --> 00:25:46,330 it will be. 636 00:25:48,600 --> 00:25:50,430 Wow. Look at that. 637 00:25:54,700 --> 00:25:56,800 -All right. -[bleep]. 638 00:25:56,800 --> 00:25:59,870 [dramatic music playing] 639 00:26:03,300 --> 00:26:05,000 -Hi. [laughs] -[Anthony] Hi. 640 00:26:05,000 --> 00:26:06,300 -How are you? -How are you, guys? 641 00:26:06,300 --> 00:26:07,800 -Good. -You look beautiful. 642 00:26:07,800 --> 00:26:09,770 -Stunning. -Thank you. Thank you. 643 00:26:09,770 --> 00:26:11,400 -[Anthony] Yes. -Good to see you. 644 00:26:12,130 --> 00:26:13,630 -Hi. How are you? -Hi. 645 00:26:13,630 --> 00:26:15,170 -Good... -Good. 646 00:26:15,170 --> 00:26:16,170 Um... 647 00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:24,100 So, I just wanted to tell you both, 648 00:26:24,100 --> 00:26:25,930 like, how much fun I had with you guys. 649 00:26:25,930 --> 00:26:27,730 -Thanks. -Thanks. Yeah. 650 00:26:27,730 --> 00:26:29,370 So, I loved how when I came in the house, 651 00:26:29,370 --> 00:26:31,830 you know, you took me right away in your hands 652 00:26:31,830 --> 00:26:33,870 and took me around the house 653 00:26:33,870 --> 00:26:35,470 and introduced me to everyone 654 00:26:35,470 --> 00:26:37,400 -and showed me around. -It was my pleasure. 655 00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:38,900 -You deserved it. -And I loved our first date. 656 00:26:38,900 --> 00:26:42,100 I had so much fun, like, rolling around, doing paint. 657 00:26:42,100 --> 00:26:45,000 That was a good, like, icebreaker touching each other. 658 00:26:45,000 --> 00:26:46,570 We had our first kiss there too. 659 00:26:46,570 --> 00:26:48,830 -Thank you. -And, Connor, you as well, 660 00:26:48,830 --> 00:26:50,530 like you are so much fun to be around. 661 00:26:50,530 --> 00:26:52,430 Like, we have a lot of the same interests 662 00:26:52,430 --> 00:26:55,070 and you're a lot like me in a lot of ways. 663 00:26:55,070 --> 00:26:57,870 And I love spending all those times that we did together. 664 00:26:57,870 --> 00:26:59,470 It was... It was special. 665 00:26:59,470 --> 00:27:01,670 -Thank you. You too. -[Rebecca] Thank you. 666 00:27:01,670 --> 00:27:04,870 [intense music playing] 667 00:27:04,870 --> 00:27:06,900 [Rebecca] So, I made my decision... 668 00:27:10,670 --> 00:27:13,070 Oh, this is hard. [laughs] 669 00:27:13,900 --> 00:27:16,630 [intense music playing] 670 00:27:16,630 --> 00:27:18,730 You have the whole package for me, 671 00:27:20,070 --> 00:27:22,800 but I have to go with, like, how I feel inside. 672 00:27:23,370 --> 00:27:25,570 And I... 673 00:27:25,570 --> 00:27:27,900 Anthony, I care so much about you, 674 00:27:31,930 --> 00:27:33,400 but I'm choosing Connor. 675 00:27:33,400 --> 00:27:36,470 [dramatic music playing] 676 00:27:37,200 --> 00:27:38,700 I wish you both well. 677 00:27:38,700 --> 00:27:40,200 -You know, you're good people. -[Rebecca] So are you. 678 00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:41,600 -So are you. -Definitely, yeah. Thank you. 679 00:27:41,600 --> 00:27:43,130 -You too, bro. -[Anthony] Yeah. 680 00:27:43,130 --> 00:27:44,630 All right. I'll give you some privacy. 681 00:27:44,630 --> 00:27:45,870 -All right. -[Connor] Bye, brother. 682 00:27:45,870 --> 00:27:47,070 -Bye. -Ciao. Bye. 683 00:27:47,070 --> 00:27:49,470 Bye, sweetie. Ciao. [laughs] 684 00:27:49,470 --> 00:27:51,570 -Ciao bella. [laughs] -Ciao bella. 685 00:27:51,570 --> 00:27:54,630 [dramatic music playing] 686 00:27:56,130 --> 00:27:58,130 I'm definitely disappointed. 687 00:27:58,130 --> 00:27:59,970 I didn't find love here, 688 00:27:59,970 --> 00:28:03,430 but I just had this beautiful connection with my son. 689 00:28:03,430 --> 00:28:06,630 And Joey's a special, special person, 690 00:28:06,630 --> 00:28:09,930 a beautiful part of me that I... I'm lucky to have. 691 00:28:09,930 --> 00:28:12,130 So, I'm looking forward to going back home 692 00:28:12,130 --> 00:28:15,330 and, you know, looking for the love of my life. 693 00:28:16,730 --> 00:28:19,900 I'm just like living in the moment right now. 694 00:28:19,900 --> 00:28:21,570 And the moment feels really good, you know. 695 00:28:21,570 --> 00:28:23,830 -I do like the moment. -I like the moment. 696 00:28:23,830 --> 00:28:25,900 I think these... You've really made these 697 00:28:25,900 --> 00:28:28,000 past couple of weeks 698 00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:29,470 quite the journey for me. 699 00:28:29,470 --> 00:28:31,330 -Aw. -And thank you for that. 700 00:28:31,330 --> 00:28:32,800 Aw, thank you. 701 00:28:34,970 --> 00:28:37,400 -I got my man. -[laughter] 702 00:28:40,300 --> 00:28:42,030 You're so cute. 703 00:28:42,030 --> 00:28:45,430 -You are. -Oh, you're cuter. [laughs] 704 00:28:45,430 --> 00:28:47,400 [Connor]I think it's gonna be fun. I'm looking forward 705 00:28:47,400 --> 00:28:49,200 to all the new memories that we can build outside 706 00:28:49,200 --> 00:28:51,070 -of the house. -Yeah. 707 00:28:53,370 --> 00:28:55,100 -[laughs] -[Connor] All right. 708 00:28:55,100 --> 00:28:56,600 -This way. -[Rebecca] Oh, my God. 709 00:29:00,230 --> 00:29:03,270 [dramatic music playing] 710 00:29:07,030 --> 00:29:08,700 [Kelle]I'm excited and nervous. 711 00:29:08,700 --> 00:29:10,930 This is my second time getting to this stage. 712 00:29:10,930 --> 00:29:14,000 And honestly, I was ready to leave 713 00:29:14,000 --> 00:29:15,500 the day before Rob came. 714 00:29:15,500 --> 00:29:17,730 I felt like there was nobody here for me. 715 00:29:17,730 --> 00:29:19,530 And then he came in the next day. 716 00:29:19,530 --> 00:29:21,700 So, I'm shocked. 717 00:29:21,700 --> 00:29:23,830 There's so many things I like about Rob. 718 00:29:23,830 --> 00:29:26,530 He is smart, disciplined. 719 00:29:26,530 --> 00:29:28,330 He stands up for me. 720 00:29:28,330 --> 00:29:31,500 But the fact that he's on the completely opposite side 721 00:29:31,500 --> 00:29:32,970 of my country, it's like... 722 00:29:32,970 --> 00:29:35,100 It makes me question a lot of things. 723 00:29:36,870 --> 00:29:39,130 [Rob] Today is the day I've been waiting for her. 724 00:29:39,130 --> 00:29:40,700 I came in the house late 725 00:29:40,700 --> 00:29:42,530 and I was a little skeptical 726 00:29:42,530 --> 00:29:44,030 that I could make anything happen. 727 00:29:44,030 --> 00:29:46,400 I took a shot and went for the diamond. 728 00:29:46,400 --> 00:29:48,500 And I'm constantly surprised at how compatible 729 00:29:48,500 --> 00:29:50,730 me and Kelle seem to be. 730 00:29:50,730 --> 00:29:53,430 In normal circumstances, I probably would not approach Kelle. 731 00:29:53,430 --> 00:29:56,630 She looks a little bit like she's out of my league. 732 00:29:56,630 --> 00:29:59,030 I've learned a lot from past relationships. 733 00:29:59,500 --> 00:30:01,330 Oh, look at this. 734 00:30:01,330 --> 00:30:04,430 So, I'm very hopeful that I made the right choice. 735 00:30:04,430 --> 00:30:06,770 I won't know for certain until I hear it from her lips. 736 00:30:08,170 --> 00:30:09,870 Thank you. 737 00:30:14,700 --> 00:30:16,070 Well, I'm glad you came. 738 00:30:16,070 --> 00:30:18,000 Thanks. 739 00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:19,430 -You look stunning. -Thank you. 740 00:30:19,430 --> 00:30:20,970 -So do you. -As you always do. 741 00:30:21,570 --> 00:30:23,470 Well... 742 00:30:25,430 --> 00:30:31,030 I did come here trying to find, you know, a partner. 743 00:30:31,030 --> 00:30:34,470 And the biggest thing for me is... 744 00:30:34,470 --> 00:30:36,600 And I told you this, is that, you know, 745 00:30:36,600 --> 00:30:40,130 I've never really had someone to, like, have my back 746 00:30:40,130 --> 00:30:42,100 and you stood up for me. 747 00:30:42,100 --> 00:30:45,400 And that was huge. And that means a lot to me. 748 00:30:45,400 --> 00:30:47,300 And I love... 749 00:30:47,300 --> 00:30:50,270 We can just hang out with each other 750 00:30:50,270 --> 00:30:51,700 and chill with each other. 751 00:30:51,700 --> 00:30:53,200 And it just feels to me 752 00:30:53,200 --> 00:30:56,830 it's so calming, and peaceful, and easy. 753 00:30:58,900 --> 00:31:00,370 It's almost, like, unreal 754 00:31:00,370 --> 00:31:03,370 that we communicate on so many levels. 755 00:31:03,370 --> 00:31:06,070 And you're so... You're fun, spontaneous, 756 00:31:06,070 --> 00:31:08,730 and you're also surprisingly so sensitive. 757 00:31:08,730 --> 00:31:10,530 I have enjoyed our time together 758 00:31:10,530 --> 00:31:15,600 but, you know, you live so far away. 759 00:31:15,600 --> 00:31:18,030 I'm in Florida. You're in California. 760 00:31:18,900 --> 00:31:20,000 And... 761 00:31:25,600 --> 00:31:28,670 I'd still like to continue to see you 762 00:31:28,670 --> 00:31:31,930 and see what we can do to make things work with us. 763 00:31:35,100 --> 00:31:36,300 How do you feel? 764 00:31:36,300 --> 00:31:38,200 [laughs] 765 00:31:38,200 --> 00:31:39,800 I am definitely interested 766 00:31:39,800 --> 00:31:41,630 in, like, trying to make it work. 767 00:31:41,630 --> 00:31:44,430 I feel like we're both very disciplined people. 768 00:31:44,430 --> 00:31:47,530 And if we want something, we just go for it. 769 00:31:48,530 --> 00:31:49,970 -[laughs] -So... 770 00:31:51,530 --> 00:31:54,270 [dramatic music playing] 771 00:31:56,200 --> 00:31:59,930 Second time's a charm. [laughs] 772 00:31:59,930 --> 00:32:01,830 I came here to date younger men, 773 00:32:01,830 --> 00:32:04,570 but I'm leaving with, like, an older man. 774 00:32:04,570 --> 00:32:07,730 I've learned that maybe I'm more open 775 00:32:07,730 --> 00:32:10,030 to dating older men as well 776 00:32:10,030 --> 00:32:13,300 because I feel like Rob and I are more similar 777 00:32:13,300 --> 00:32:15,000 in where we're at in our life, 778 00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:16,330 in our career, in our families. 779 00:32:16,330 --> 00:32:17,970 So, I feel like, you know, 780 00:32:17,970 --> 00:32:19,630 we may have a better chance. 781 00:32:19,630 --> 00:32:21,130 He's very young at heart 782 00:32:21,130 --> 00:32:23,300 and he looks good for his age. 783 00:32:23,300 --> 00:32:25,670 [Rob] Everything worked out just as planned. 784 00:32:25,670 --> 00:32:30,600 I'm excited that she accepted my proposal. 785 00:32:30,600 --> 00:32:32,900 -You proposed? -Proposed to come see you. 786 00:32:32,900 --> 00:32:35,700 Oh. I was like, "Did I get a ring?" 787 00:32:35,700 --> 00:32:37,600 -I don't see a ring on this finger. -Oh, but it was... 788 00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:39,300 It was a visitation proposal. 789 00:32:39,300 --> 00:32:41,030 Oh, visitation proposal. 790 00:32:41,030 --> 00:32:42,270 Yes. 791 00:32:42,270 --> 00:32:45,330 [boat engine revving] 792 00:32:47,000 --> 00:32:50,070 [upbeat music playing] 793 00:32:53,170 --> 00:32:56,900 The bonding that me and Stacy has is, like, beyond crazy. 794 00:32:56,900 --> 00:33:02,000 I haven't gotten along with a guy like this in so long. 795 00:33:02,000 --> 00:33:06,100 We like the same things. We're from the same place. 796 00:33:06,100 --> 00:33:10,670 So, I care for Stacy. I do. 797 00:33:11,700 --> 00:33:14,500 And I am nervous as hell. 798 00:33:14,500 --> 00:33:16,370 I'm literally shaking 799 00:33:16,370 --> 00:33:18,870 because I made my decision and I wanna make sure 800 00:33:18,870 --> 00:33:20,900 that he knows exactly how I feel. 801 00:33:23,670 --> 00:33:25,700 [Stacy] The experience with Crystal down here 802 00:33:25,700 --> 00:33:27,870 has been eye-opening. 803 00:33:27,870 --> 00:33:30,200 She's taught me a lot about myself 804 00:33:30,200 --> 00:33:33,230 and what I need to do as far as growth. 805 00:33:33,230 --> 00:33:37,400 I know that she's more than a friend, no question. 806 00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:40,470 [intense music playing] 807 00:34:00,430 --> 00:34:01,670 [Stacy] Oh, wow. 808 00:34:04,900 --> 00:34:06,430 [intense music playing] 809 00:34:11,969 --> 00:34:13,870 "Crystal made a difficult decision 810 00:34:13,870 --> 00:34:15,900 to not show up today. 811 00:34:15,900 --> 00:34:18,699 She ultimately realized there is no romantic connection 812 00:34:18,699 --> 00:34:20,500 between the two of you. 813 00:34:20,500 --> 00:34:23,600 Therefore, she's choosing to leave this journey single." 814 00:34:23,600 --> 00:34:26,670 [dramatic music playing] 815 00:34:29,630 --> 00:34:31,600 [Stacy]I'm definitely shocked, because I thought 816 00:34:31,600 --> 00:34:33,370 that we were, you know, close enough 817 00:34:33,370 --> 00:34:35,800 to where, whether or not I wanted to move forward 818 00:34:35,800 --> 00:34:37,330 in a relationship, I would've let her know. 819 00:34:37,330 --> 00:34:39,170 I would've at least showed up. 820 00:34:39,170 --> 00:34:40,530 Never really hurt. 821 00:34:40,530 --> 00:34:42,699 But this experience 822 00:34:42,699 --> 00:34:47,300 has let me know that next time I fall in love, 823 00:34:47,300 --> 00:34:52,870 I'm going to make sure that person feels appreciated. 824 00:34:54,500 --> 00:34:57,370 And one thing that Crystal reminded me 825 00:34:57,370 --> 00:35:01,970 is that your son Miles may have left, 826 00:35:01,970 --> 00:35:03,570 but he's not gone. 827 00:35:03,570 --> 00:35:07,100 And that really stuck with me. 828 00:35:07,100 --> 00:35:09,700 And the way I look at it is that I found new love 829 00:35:09,700 --> 00:35:11,070 with my son. 830 00:35:13,170 --> 00:35:15,800 Yeah, definitely. 831 00:35:15,800 --> 00:35:17,970 [dramatic music playing] 832 00:35:17,970 --> 00:35:21,130 [Crystal] I decided not to meet Stacy on the dock today, 833 00:35:21,130 --> 00:35:23,430 because I felt like we don't need 834 00:35:23,430 --> 00:35:26,870 to talk about what is already been shown. 835 00:35:26,870 --> 00:35:30,970 It's been a, a hard lesson, but it's been a good lesson. 836 00:35:32,630 --> 00:35:34,770 You know, I'm happy to go back home 837 00:35:34,770 --> 00:35:37,470 to see my family, see my... See my best friends. 838 00:35:37,470 --> 00:35:39,030 And I'm very hopeful 839 00:35:39,030 --> 00:35:41,630 that I can find love again someday. 840 00:35:45,130 --> 00:35:48,300 [upbeat music playing] 841 00:35:48,300 --> 00:35:50,730 [David] I have immense feelings towards Christina. 842 00:35:50,730 --> 00:35:52,500 She possesses so many of the qualities 843 00:35:52,500 --> 00:35:54,830 that I desire and a partner. 844 00:35:54,830 --> 00:35:57,270 She's beautiful, she's honest, she's loving. 845 00:35:57,270 --> 00:35:59,200 She's just a wonderful, wonderful person. 846 00:35:59,200 --> 00:36:01,400 And this last 24 hours, 847 00:36:01,400 --> 00:36:03,500 but there's been a lot of thoughts going through my mind. 848 00:36:03,500 --> 00:36:07,030 You know, just some of the hangups that I have 849 00:36:07,030 --> 00:36:10,330 in the long term of our relationship together. 850 00:36:10,330 --> 00:36:12,970 How we see our lives playing out from here forward. 851 00:36:12,970 --> 00:36:16,130 So this decision could be a very big turning point 852 00:36:16,130 --> 00:36:17,970 in both of our lives. 853 00:36:24,200 --> 00:36:26,900 [dramatic music playing] 854 00:36:28,700 --> 00:36:30,730 I am excited, but I'm nervous as hell. 855 00:36:30,730 --> 00:36:33,000 I feel like I'm gonna throw up. I never feel like this. 856 00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:34,600 Coming in to this experience, 857 00:36:34,600 --> 00:36:36,530 it's definitely changed my mind 858 00:36:36,530 --> 00:36:38,700 on what I want in life. 859 00:36:38,700 --> 00:36:40,500 After my divorce, you know, I was like, "I'm done. 860 00:36:40,500 --> 00:36:42,470 I'm never marrying, you know, again." 861 00:36:42,470 --> 00:36:44,800 But hopefully, me and David can, 862 00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:46,170 you know, move forward 863 00:36:46,170 --> 00:36:48,670 and hopefully plan... 864 00:36:48,670 --> 00:36:52,030 I can't believe I'm saying this, a future together. 865 00:36:57,230 --> 00:36:58,500 I'm gonna cry. 866 00:37:04,970 --> 00:37:06,870 [chuckles] 867 00:37:10,200 --> 00:37:12,330 He just brings out a different side of me 868 00:37:12,330 --> 00:37:15,170 and, you know, that something I want long-term. 869 00:37:15,170 --> 00:37:17,170 -How are you? -Fantastic. 870 00:37:17,170 --> 00:37:19,030 -And you look amazingly gorgeous. -Thank you. You too. 871 00:37:19,030 --> 00:37:20,830 -Absolutely. -It's good to see you. 872 00:37:20,830 --> 00:37:22,600 -Good to see you too. -Did you miss me last night? 873 00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:24,700 I was... Yeah, I was, um... 874 00:37:24,700 --> 00:37:26,700 -I like this. Yeah, it's hot. -It's good? 875 00:37:26,700 --> 00:37:28,170 -So hot, yeah. -All right. I appreciate it. 876 00:37:28,170 --> 00:37:30,030 -Yeah. -Okay. So I'm nervous. 877 00:37:30,030 --> 00:37:32,170 [dramatic music playing] 878 00:37:32,170 --> 00:37:35,500 -I had time to reflect... -Yeah. 879 00:37:35,500 --> 00:37:40,030 and, um, it's just crazy me saying this. 880 00:37:40,030 --> 00:37:43,400 But, like... I'm gonna cry. 881 00:37:43,400 --> 00:37:46,000 -[bleep]. Oh, my God. -[David] No, don't cry. 882 00:37:47,130 --> 00:37:49,630 You just, like, feel, like, at home for me, 883 00:37:49,630 --> 00:37:51,070 like, very safe. 884 00:37:54,000 --> 00:37:56,770 Again, my God, what's wrong with me today? [laughs] 885 00:37:56,770 --> 00:37:59,100 -Golly. [laughs] -Golly. Yeah. 886 00:37:59,100 --> 00:38:01,770 Um, so, I hope 887 00:38:01,770 --> 00:38:04,930 that we can move forward 888 00:38:04,930 --> 00:38:07,170 and possible build on this connection. 889 00:38:18,500 --> 00:38:21,600 [dramatic music playing] 890 00:38:25,070 --> 00:38:26,800 [dramatic music playing] 891 00:38:26,800 --> 00:38:31,100 Okay. Well, um, you know, you have so many qualities 892 00:38:31,100 --> 00:38:33,430 that I desire in a woman. 893 00:38:33,430 --> 00:38:36,600 You're confident, you're gorgeous, 894 00:38:36,600 --> 00:38:38,200 -you're humble as well... -Mmm-hmm. 895 00:38:38,200 --> 00:38:41,630 which the combination of those is amazing. 896 00:38:41,630 --> 00:38:46,770 And, uh, our future being with geographical difference 897 00:38:46,770 --> 00:38:49,730 that, you know... You know, your son being in North Carolina as well. 898 00:38:49,730 --> 00:38:51,830 And me being in Houston, 899 00:38:51,830 --> 00:38:57,730 um, the distance between us is somewhat unrealistic. 900 00:38:57,730 --> 00:38:59,130 -Mmm-hmm. -Right? 901 00:38:59,130 --> 00:39:00,800 You know, I mean, just to, um-- 902 00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:02,800 -I mean, maybe. -[David] Yeah. [laughs] 903 00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:04,970 I mean, I feel like life's short 904 00:39:04,970 --> 00:39:06,800 and you have to take chances 905 00:39:06,800 --> 00:39:10,300 and, you know, go after what you want 906 00:39:10,300 --> 00:39:11,930 if that's what you really want, so. 907 00:39:11,930 --> 00:39:13,170 Right. 908 00:39:15,970 --> 00:39:19,800 It's just, uh, about, you know, um, having something 909 00:39:19,800 --> 00:39:22,900 that you... It might feel right, 910 00:39:22,900 --> 00:39:24,870 but it might not be right on paper. 911 00:39:28,130 --> 00:39:30,430 To make such a drastic move, 912 00:39:30,430 --> 00:39:31,970 um, we move forward from here 913 00:39:31,970 --> 00:39:33,970 is something that I'm not willing to do. 914 00:39:36,630 --> 00:39:39,470 [intense music playing] 915 00:39:39,470 --> 00:39:40,700 Hmm. 916 00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:45,300 I don't know what else to say. 917 00:39:45,300 --> 00:39:47,500 I mean, I'm actually a little shock. 918 00:39:47,500 --> 00:39:49,270 I'm not gonna lie, so... 919 00:39:49,270 --> 00:39:52,900 But, um, you know, 920 00:39:52,900 --> 00:39:55,170 I just I wish I would've known sooner. 921 00:39:58,800 --> 00:40:00,670 I'm not very good at goodbyes. 922 00:40:00,670 --> 00:40:03,070 -That's fine. -And I don't know where-- 923 00:40:04,330 --> 00:40:05,770 I'm just gonna walk off. 924 00:40:05,770 --> 00:40:08,500 -All right. -Oh. I'm good. Thank you. 925 00:40:08,500 --> 00:40:09,800 Well, yeah. 926 00:40:14,030 --> 00:40:16,300 You never wanna be the person that break someone's heart. 927 00:40:16,300 --> 00:40:21,430 And the sad thing is a genuine connection did formulate. 928 00:40:21,430 --> 00:40:23,100 I learned through going through this experience 929 00:40:23,100 --> 00:40:26,100 that I had a very hard set of values. 930 00:40:26,100 --> 00:40:28,900 The factors that just continue to pile up 931 00:40:28,900 --> 00:40:32,070 are the destination as well as the kids. 932 00:40:32,070 --> 00:40:33,900 And I'm in that nesting-phase 933 00:40:33,900 --> 00:40:36,600 and I think that she's more of the going-out- 934 00:40:36,600 --> 00:40:39,430 and-experiencing- and-enjoying life phase. 935 00:40:39,430 --> 00:40:41,830 And our timing is just not quite there for that 936 00:40:41,830 --> 00:40:43,570 and there's not always a fairytale ending 937 00:40:43,570 --> 00:40:46,070 at the end of all relationships 938 00:40:46,070 --> 00:40:49,370 and it's unfortunate. 939 00:40:49,370 --> 00:40:52,430 [dramatic music playing] 940 00:40:53,870 --> 00:40:56,230 Why didn't you say something like... 941 00:40:57,800 --> 00:40:59,970 I just... It just doesn't add up. 942 00:41:01,370 --> 00:41:04,270 I also, you know... 943 00:41:05,830 --> 00:41:10,730 ruined a potential other relationship with Sam. 944 00:41:11,570 --> 00:41:13,230 I'm 46 years old 945 00:41:13,230 --> 00:41:16,370 and, you know, I wanna be in a relationship 946 00:41:16,370 --> 00:41:20,670 and grow with someone and have a partner. 947 00:41:20,670 --> 00:41:24,370 And this is exactly why I don't allow myself 948 00:41:24,370 --> 00:41:25,530 to be vulnerable. 949 00:41:28,430 --> 00:41:31,630 [dramatic music playing] 950 00:41:33,800 --> 00:41:36,300 [Kelly] When I went into this experience, 951 00:41:36,300 --> 00:41:40,770 I would not have thought that I would end up here. 952 00:41:40,770 --> 00:41:42,830 Like, here with someone. 953 00:41:42,830 --> 00:41:45,730 Darren represent the man that I've always searched for. 954 00:41:45,730 --> 00:41:48,630 I mean, just everything that I've ever wanted. 955 00:41:48,630 --> 00:41:50,800 Whoo! 956 00:41:51,330 --> 00:41:53,570 [dramatic music playing] 957 00:41:53,570 --> 00:41:55,930 I've only been in love a couple of times in my life 958 00:41:55,930 --> 00:41:58,400 and, uh, I know when I'm in love. 959 00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:00,500 I'm afraid to say I'm falling in love, 960 00:42:00,500 --> 00:42:03,600 because that will trigger 961 00:42:03,600 --> 00:42:05,870 my automatic response to put up a wall 962 00:42:05,870 --> 00:42:08,000 to protect myself from getting hurt, 963 00:42:08,000 --> 00:42:10,570 because I don't know if I deserve Kelly. 964 00:42:10,570 --> 00:42:12,370 I don't know if anyone deserves Kelly. 965 00:42:21,030 --> 00:42:22,870 Holy [bleep] nervous. 966 00:42:27,230 --> 00:42:28,670 [exhales] 967 00:42:30,330 --> 00:42:33,870 I'm nervous because there's always that one sliver 968 00:42:33,870 --> 00:42:36,930 of a chance that, you know, people do change their mind. 969 00:42:43,530 --> 00:42:46,130 -So, here we are. -I know. [laughs] 970 00:42:46,130 --> 00:42:51,370 I came on this experience with an open heart, open mind. 971 00:42:51,370 --> 00:42:53,670 That's how I live my life. 972 00:42:53,670 --> 00:42:57,600 So, with that being said, I took this opportunity 973 00:42:57,600 --> 00:43:01,300 and ran with it with an open heart. 974 00:43:01,300 --> 00:43:05,200 And I can't wait to continue this journey with you. 975 00:43:08,170 --> 00:43:11,570 [exclaims] Okay. [laughs] 976 00:43:11,570 --> 00:43:14,130 All my confidence went away and I'm scared. 977 00:43:14,130 --> 00:43:16,500 [laughter] 978 00:43:16,500 --> 00:43:18,770 Uh, Kelly... 979 00:43:20,970 --> 00:43:24,730 oh, you are the kind of woman 980 00:43:24,730 --> 00:43:27,970 that I have been hiding from for most of my life 981 00:43:27,970 --> 00:43:30,400 'cause I didn't think I deserved you. 982 00:43:30,400 --> 00:43:33,670 I thought that I was coming here 983 00:43:33,670 --> 00:43:36,700 to find a connection or love. 984 00:43:36,700 --> 00:43:38,030 Mmm-hmm. 985 00:43:39,130 --> 00:43:41,030 I have to admit 986 00:43:41,030 --> 00:43:42,430 that's not what I came here for. 987 00:43:42,430 --> 00:43:43,630 Mmm-hmm. 988 00:43:46,070 --> 00:43:47,670 I came here to find Kelly. 989 00:43:48,600 --> 00:43:50,430 Oh. 990 00:43:50,430 --> 00:43:53,070 I have been doing a lot of soul searching 991 00:43:53,070 --> 00:43:55,630 over the last year, year and a half, 992 00:43:55,630 --> 00:43:57,600 and I decided I did deserve love. 993 00:43:57,600 --> 00:43:59,330 I deserved a second chance at love. 994 00:43:59,330 --> 00:44:00,830 Mmm-hmm. 995 00:44:00,830 --> 00:44:02,300 And I don't know what else to say 996 00:44:02,300 --> 00:44:04,230 other than I'm so looking forward 997 00:44:04,230 --> 00:44:06,770 -to where we go next. -Yay! 998 00:44:06,770 --> 00:44:07,900 Come here. 999 00:44:09,870 --> 00:44:13,600 Hmm, I'm so excited. 1000 00:44:14,530 --> 00:44:18,970 I manifested Darren years ago. 1001 00:44:18,970 --> 00:44:22,830 And I've gotten lots of knockoffs 1002 00:44:22,830 --> 00:44:25,370 and I knew that wasn't the real deal. 1003 00:44:25,370 --> 00:44:28,770 Three marriages, nearly 60 years, 1004 00:44:28,770 --> 00:44:30,430 it's about damn time. 1005 00:44:30,430 --> 00:44:31,570 Sorry I'm late. 1006 00:44:33,870 --> 00:44:35,530 I am the luckiest man in the world. 1007 00:44:35,530 --> 00:44:37,400 I don't feel like the luckiest man in the world, 1008 00:44:37,400 --> 00:44:38,870 I am the luckiest man in the world. 1009 00:44:38,870 --> 00:44:40,230 So how do I feel? 1010 00:44:40,230 --> 00:44:42,230 Like, I just won the damn lottery. 1011 00:44:42,230 --> 00:44:44,170 Aw. 1012 00:44:44,170 --> 00:44:47,230 [dramatic music playing]