1 00:00:04,166 --> 00:00:07,575 ♪ ALL:♪ Happy birthday to you. ♪ 2 00:00:08,779 --> 00:00:11,518 [CHEERING] Whoo! 3 00:00:11,713 --> 00:00:13,058 Right, can you start getting undressed? 4 00:00:13,083 --> 00:00:13,883 No. 5 00:00:14,100 --> 00:00:16,540 He is now starting to push on boundaries 6 00:00:16,540 --> 00:00:19,108 and find his own voice, so if I ask him to do something 7 00:00:19,133 --> 00:00:20,953 a certain way sometimes, it will be like, "No." 8 00:00:21,102 --> 00:00:22,547 Listen, dude, I'm not arguing with you. 9 00:00:22,572 --> 00:00:24,572 You're gonna walk to that bathroom, or I'm gonna carry you. 10 00:00:24,604 --> 00:00:26,102 Pretend this is Fifi. 11 00:00:27,319 --> 00:00:28,946 The nappy's appalling. 12 00:00:28,970 --> 00:00:31,058 Oh! That's a bit harsh. 13 00:00:31,260 --> 00:00:33,959 If she wees, it's just gonna come all up her front, or if she poos. 14 00:00:33,984 --> 00:00:35,703 [HE WHEEZES] 15 00:00:35,841 --> 00:00:38,147 They say it is worse at night. 16 00:00:38,172 --> 00:00:40,230 So what's he gonna be like tonight? We don't know. 17 00:00:40,566 --> 00:00:43,789 Last night in hospital was absolutely awful. 18 00:00:43,820 --> 00:00:45,640 I haven't got a clue what position she's in. 19 00:00:45,665 --> 00:00:47,035 I'm going in for an induction. 20 00:00:47,266 --> 00:00:49,665 I'm worried in case it ends in a C-section. 21 00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:51,640 Baby will be in your arms next week. 22 00:00:51,879 --> 00:00:52,522 I know. 23 00:00:52,546 --> 00:00:53,367 That's it. 24 00:00:53,859 --> 00:00:54,859 It's scary. 25 00:01:01,912 --> 00:01:05,892 ♪ One more night Go ahead, make it hurt... ♪ 26 00:01:05,917 --> 00:01:08,587 Whoo-whoo, boop! 27 00:01:08,668 --> 00:01:11,863 ♪ Maybe if it makes me cry 28 00:01:12,097 --> 00:01:14,725 ♪ I can stop being the same... ♪ 29 00:01:14,750 --> 00:01:17,679 'After giving us a big scare and having to stay in hospital 30 00:01:17,704 --> 00:01:19,045 'for two nights with croup...' 31 00:01:19,070 --> 00:01:20,070 What's he doing? 32 00:01:20,250 --> 00:01:23,377 '..Carter-James is back home, where he belongs.' 33 00:01:23,417 --> 00:01:26,490 Kisses. Mwah. Mwah! 34 00:01:27,164 --> 00:01:29,385 That was one of the most "worriest" times ever 35 00:01:29,410 --> 00:01:30,770 as being mum with Carter-James, 36 00:01:31,055 --> 00:01:33,934 because he is normally just so happy, bubbly, cheeky. 37 00:01:34,329 --> 00:01:36,101 Everything that he shouldn't be doing, he does, 38 00:01:36,354 --> 00:01:37,620 where I'm like, "No, Carter-James." 39 00:01:37,645 --> 00:01:39,100 Where it wasn't, it was like, "Oh, come on." 40 00:01:39,226 --> 00:01:41,166 Like, I was trying to get him to play, 41 00:01:41,191 --> 00:01:43,651 just to get him a little bit more active, and he just wasn't doing it. 42 00:01:43,676 --> 00:01:44,676 It was so upsetting. 43 00:01:44,866 --> 00:01:47,179 But now seeing that he's trying to get my phone, 44 00:01:47,204 --> 00:01:49,664 he's going to the Hoover, I just feel so much better. 45 00:01:50,628 --> 00:01:53,027 AMANDA:We've had an horrible weekend, haven't we? Horrible. 46 00:01:53,681 --> 00:01:55,560 You can tell how much better he is, though. 47 00:01:55,585 --> 00:01:58,466 Yeah. It's just still horrible, that sound, though, in't it? 48 00:01:58,694 --> 00:02:01,593 They said that will stay, though, and it does get worse at night. 49 00:02:02,268 --> 00:02:05,394 Have you heard anything from Tyler, about t'baby? 50 00:02:05,419 --> 00:02:07,036 Obviously, I was messaging him. 51 00:02:07,060 --> 00:02:07,740 Yeah. 52 00:02:08,488 --> 00:02:12,061 Saying, like, "He's in hospital." I felt like he should know. 53 00:02:12,086 --> 00:02:13,372 He's still his dad at the end of the day. 54 00:02:13,397 --> 00:02:14,657 Even if he doesn't speak to him, I thought... 55 00:02:15,460 --> 00:02:17,700 Yeah, you've done the decent thing there, really.Yeah. 56 00:02:18,439 --> 00:02:21,609 ♪ We've been here before... ♪ 57 00:02:21,634 --> 00:02:23,995 And then he said he's so-called coming up today. 58 00:02:24,566 --> 00:02:26,026 So I told him, like, "We've gone home." 59 00:02:26,652 --> 00:02:28,515 Oh. "What do you mean?" 60 00:02:29,327 --> 00:02:31,429 How much more can I say? We've gone home. 61 00:02:31,454 --> 00:02:33,069 Yeah. What do you want me to say? 62 00:02:33,207 --> 00:02:35,210 We got in the car. We drove here. We parked up. 63 00:02:35,235 --> 00:02:37,675 I walked in. I put him down. 64 00:02:37,889 --> 00:02:40,042 Like, what do you wanna know? We've gone home. 65 00:02:40,168 --> 00:02:41,861 ♪ There's nothing left to say. ♪ 66 00:02:44,581 --> 00:02:47,637 It's a bit mad. I'm not bothered. It is what it is. 67 00:02:47,868 --> 00:02:50,942 Let him do what he wants. I'll carry on being a mum to Carter. 68 00:02:51,353 --> 00:02:53,016 At the end of the day, I've got summat to live for. 69 00:02:53,041 --> 00:02:55,430 ♪ Standing beside you together... ♪ 70 00:02:55,456 --> 00:02:57,408 'It does hurt. Obviously, it does. 71 00:02:57,433 --> 00:03:01,393 'I do feel like I'm doing it more alone now than I was before.' 72 00:03:01,608 --> 00:03:02,988 He only wants to see the good times, 73 00:03:03,034 --> 00:03:05,750 but obviously, with a child, there is never just good times. 74 00:03:05,775 --> 00:03:08,427 There's always gonna be ups and downs along the way. 75 00:03:08,452 --> 00:03:09,712 You've got 18 years of it. 76 00:03:09,828 --> 00:03:12,336 'And obviously, now I've just got to accept it, move on. 77 00:03:12,630 --> 00:03:14,384 'It's me and Carter for the rest of our life.' 78 00:03:14,409 --> 00:03:17,164 He's got me. He'll have everything and more he needs. 79 00:03:17,901 --> 00:03:19,944 ♪ We'll be strong. ♪ 80 00:03:29,307 --> 00:03:32,450 ♪ Running scared, running scared 81 00:03:32,636 --> 00:03:34,836 ♪ From an absent lover... ♪ 82 00:03:34,861 --> 00:03:37,859 It's crazy, because I never saw myself being a parent. 83 00:03:37,883 --> 00:03:38,761 No. 84 00:03:39,534 --> 00:03:41,274 And to think that I'm actually gonna be a mum, 85 00:03:41,299 --> 00:03:42,639 I wouldn't change it for the world now. 86 00:03:43,567 --> 00:03:46,807 'I can't believe it, but I'm getting induced tomorrow. 87 00:03:47,388 --> 00:03:51,211 'Me and George could be holding our daughter in less than 24 hours.' 88 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:54,392 A few weeks ago, when I thought I was in labour, 89 00:03:54,661 --> 00:03:57,001 I was absolutely petrified. 90 00:03:57,026 --> 00:04:00,387 I wasn't ready. I didn't know what was gonna happen. 91 00:04:00,588 --> 00:04:03,467 But now that I've had the date booked in, 92 00:04:03,492 --> 00:04:04,986 I'm feeling more relaxed, 93 00:04:05,011 --> 00:04:07,872 and I just think I'm ready for her to come now. 94 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:12,181 I feel like we need to just have a little run-through, 95 00:04:12,206 --> 00:04:14,510 just so you know where everything is. 96 00:04:14,781 --> 00:04:17,141 'I'm gonna be focusing on pushing a baby out, 97 00:04:17,166 --> 00:04:20,127 'and all George needs to do is hand me things when I want them... 98 00:04:20,574 --> 00:04:21,815 'and not mess up.' 99 00:04:22,173 --> 00:04:23,862 Dummy steriliser. Yeah. 100 00:04:23,887 --> 00:04:27,263 Socks, mittens, hats, dummies. And I've packed the hat with a bow. 101 00:04:27,481 --> 00:04:29,774 But when she's first born, you're gonna put this hat on her. 102 00:04:29,799 --> 00:04:33,753 If it gets blood or any yucky stuff on it, it's fine. 103 00:04:33,778 --> 00:04:35,978 This one is for when she's got a clean head. 104 00:04:36,332 --> 00:04:38,453 OK. Muslins and bibs. 105 00:04:38,478 --> 00:04:41,024 Are we gonna need a bib? For when she's feeding. 106 00:04:41,049 --> 00:04:43,530 What, at the hospital? Yeah, in case she throws up. 107 00:04:43,633 --> 00:04:46,062 OK. Sorry, nah, I didn't... 108 00:04:46,087 --> 00:04:47,648 OK?I didn't know we had to feed her there. 109 00:04:47,673 --> 00:04:49,442 What are we gonna do, starve our child? 110 00:04:49,761 --> 00:04:52,480 Sorry. Sorry. Yeah, we need to feed her. 111 00:04:55,752 --> 00:04:57,510 It's crazy to think that... 112 00:04:57,666 --> 00:04:59,938 Parents, like... ..this could actually be 113 00:05:00,626 --> 00:05:03,132 our last day of just us. 114 00:05:03,231 --> 00:05:05,854 And then our whole world is just gonna change. 115 00:05:05,879 --> 00:05:08,202 It's so mad, innit? How are you feeling? 116 00:05:08,227 --> 00:05:10,044 Cos I... I'm getting a little bit nervous. 117 00:05:10,069 --> 00:05:11,069 I'm... I'm just excited. 118 00:05:11,251 --> 00:05:13,001 You know what I was dreading? Like, the nappy changing. 119 00:05:13,105 --> 00:05:15,445 But, like, I wouldn't mind doing her first nappy change. 120 00:05:16,004 --> 00:05:17,435 Yeah, cos it's like tar. 121 00:05:17,931 --> 00:05:20,331 It's like... It's like tar? Yeah. 122 00:05:20,938 --> 00:05:24,100 It's like thick tar that don't come off their bum. 123 00:05:28,143 --> 00:05:31,117 So, George, I think I need to test you. 124 00:05:31,610 --> 00:05:33,409 Go on, then. Right. She's just been born. 125 00:05:33,435 --> 00:05:34,815 What is the first thing you need to put on her? 126 00:05:35,271 --> 00:05:36,271 This one. 127 00:05:36,851 --> 00:05:38,799 The grey one, yeah. OK, fine. 128 00:05:38,824 --> 00:05:42,064 And then when she's clean, whatever, slap one of these on. 129 00:05:42,653 --> 00:05:44,259 And you just put the mittens on. Yeah. 130 00:05:44,618 --> 00:05:45,618 When we're leaving, no? 131 00:05:45,643 --> 00:05:47,884 No, straightaway. Straightaway. Cos it's cold? 132 00:05:48,417 --> 00:05:51,324 Yeah. And also if she has fingernails. 133 00:05:51,750 --> 00:05:52,870 Yeah, you don't want her to scratch herself. 134 00:05:52,895 --> 00:05:54,227 She's gonna scratch herself, hurt herself. 135 00:05:54,252 --> 00:05:55,794 Well, yeah. I've got that one in the bag. 136 00:05:58,564 --> 00:06:00,788 Terriann tried to quiz me to catch me out, 137 00:06:01,071 --> 00:06:03,082 but I know about the hat, the nappies, 138 00:06:03,107 --> 00:06:06,697 the tarmac poo... everything. 139 00:06:07,977 --> 00:06:11,037 'Now I just have to make sure my own bag is ready to go.' 140 00:06:12,463 --> 00:06:13,961 What's that?Well, I've got my Spritz for Bits. 141 00:06:13,986 --> 00:06:16,921 Spritz for Bits. Face wipes. 142 00:06:19,011 --> 00:06:20,771 Oh! It ain't for you, mate, 143 00:06:20,796 --> 00:06:22,517 so don't even bother looking in this bag. 144 00:06:24,683 --> 00:06:26,124 Erm... pads. Mm. 145 00:06:28,591 --> 00:06:30,591 Underwear. Is that all? 146 00:06:31,104 --> 00:06:33,224 Yeah. I think we're all set for her. 147 00:06:33,771 --> 00:06:34,771 Oh, your sweets. 148 00:06:34,904 --> 00:06:36,796 I know, but I'm gonna put that in my food bag. 149 00:06:36,838 --> 00:06:39,709 You've got a food bag? Yeah. Duh! 150 00:06:42,545 --> 00:06:44,745 ♪ Are you trying to blame me? ♪ 151 00:06:45,627 --> 00:06:47,784 'Did he just say what I think he just said?' 152 00:06:47,810 --> 00:06:49,418 ♪ You call me crazy... ♪ 153 00:06:49,867 --> 00:06:51,767 Are you serious? That... That come out wrong. 154 00:06:52,214 --> 00:06:54,274 Mm. I'm not fat, I'm pregnant. 155 00:06:54,386 --> 00:06:57,015 ♪ It's all because of you 156 00:06:57,108 --> 00:06:59,060 ♪ Call me crazy... ♪ 157 00:06:59,254 --> 00:07:01,293 This conversation is over. 158 00:07:01,318 --> 00:07:03,638 "You're done." You're done. You need to leave. 159 00:07:04,040 --> 00:07:05,555 You need to leave. It's my bedroom. 160 00:07:05,580 --> 00:07:07,957 No, it's not. This is my bedroom. 161 00:07:09,167 --> 00:07:10,167 You're just in here. 162 00:07:10,954 --> 00:07:12,594 I'm comfy. Yeah, I'm glad. 163 00:07:12,922 --> 00:07:16,970 I'm not. I'm fat. ♪ You commit the crime... ♪ 164 00:07:16,995 --> 00:07:17,995 Throughout my pregnancy, 165 00:07:18,020 --> 00:07:20,920 I have struggled with my body changing quite a lot. 166 00:07:20,967 --> 00:07:22,690 And I've been very open with it, 167 00:07:22,715 --> 00:07:25,345 and George has always been the first person to reassure me 168 00:07:25,370 --> 00:07:27,058 that I'm still very beautiful. 169 00:07:27,427 --> 00:07:30,046 But then he makes little jokes and comments like this, 170 00:07:30,071 --> 00:07:32,610 which can just knock you down a little bit. 171 00:07:35,747 --> 00:07:38,148 You just better play your cards right, mate, while I'm in labour. 172 00:07:38,334 --> 00:07:41,094 Because if I'm getting called "fatty, fatty" under your breath 173 00:07:41,481 --> 00:07:42,942 while I'm pushing your child out... 174 00:07:42,967 --> 00:07:44,129 Don't test me. I'm just letting... 175 00:07:44,154 --> 00:07:45,154 Yeah, no. 176 00:07:45,981 --> 00:07:47,433 Are you actually being serious? 177 00:07:47,457 --> 00:07:48,693 No, I'm joking. I'm joking. I'm joking. 178 00:07:48,718 --> 00:07:51,358 See, this is why, when we argue, it carries on, 179 00:07:51,688 --> 00:07:53,047 because you just don't know when to stop. 180 00:07:53,707 --> 00:07:55,717 And you just keep making little jokes and digs. 181 00:07:55,742 --> 00:07:57,683 I'm joking. I'm just joking. Cos you find yourself funny. 182 00:07:59,495 --> 00:08:02,504 I'm sorry. All right, cool. I'll be locked in when we're there anyway. 183 00:08:02,529 --> 00:08:04,191 Yeah, yeah. So I won't even talk to you, 184 00:08:04,216 --> 00:08:05,895 unless when... Yeah, don't bother. 185 00:08:10,915 --> 00:08:12,874 Nah, it wasn't... it wasn't the best thing to say 186 00:08:12,899 --> 00:08:14,886 but I said it. 187 00:08:14,911 --> 00:08:17,523 I can't... can't go back in the past and change it. 188 00:08:17,548 --> 00:08:20,398 I've said it, got to own it. But I didn't mean it. 189 00:08:21,638 --> 00:08:22,707 'I don't think she's fat.' 190 00:08:22,814 --> 00:08:24,754 I don't see her any different to what she was before. 191 00:08:26,368 --> 00:08:28,818 I still see her as my Terriann. 192 00:08:29,842 --> 00:08:32,640 'If he can't be serious tomorrow while I'm labour, 193 00:08:33,059 --> 00:08:35,077 'I'm going to absolutely lose it.' 194 00:08:36,597 --> 00:08:40,212 ♪ With lights across the sky 195 00:08:40,337 --> 00:08:43,238 ♪ You just electrify 196 00:08:45,028 --> 00:08:47,549 ♪ Let's forget us tonight... ♪ 197 00:08:47,614 --> 00:08:49,554 TIGI: We got some money and the keys. 198 00:08:50,987 --> 00:08:53,607 'My baby Fifi could arrive any time now.' 199 00:08:54,487 --> 00:08:55,487 [TOY JINGLES] Oh! 200 00:08:55,920 --> 00:08:58,982 'So today, my mum's helping me get the nursery ready.' 201 00:09:01,407 --> 00:09:03,581 Yeah! Do you wanna put the Barbie in there? 202 00:09:03,967 --> 00:09:07,353 'And I've got another little helper, too - my niece, Birdie.' 203 00:09:07,787 --> 00:09:08,966 Yeah, and the key. 204 00:09:09,266 --> 00:09:12,286 Tigi, that's all of it in now. OK, perfect. 205 00:09:12,533 --> 00:09:13,668 All right. Shall we start making it? Do we need...? 206 00:09:13,692 --> 00:09:14,062 Yeah. 207 00:09:14,087 --> 00:09:16,021 Are you gonna help me? Yes, of course. 208 00:09:16,147 --> 00:09:17,948 This is one of the first times 209 00:09:17,948 --> 00:09:20,986 that me and Mum have ever built something together, 210 00:09:21,011 --> 00:09:22,932 so I don't really know how it's gonna go 211 00:09:22,932 --> 00:09:26,491 because me and Mum are both quite strong-willed and wanna get it done, 212 00:09:26,516 --> 00:09:30,202 so there could be, like, a potential bit of bickering. 213 00:09:30,637 --> 00:09:33,397 So, this turns into a bed, does it?Yeah, it's a cot bed. 214 00:09:33,422 --> 00:09:35,931 I think you can have it till they're about five. 215 00:09:36,022 --> 00:09:36,744 Oh! 216 00:09:36,972 --> 00:09:39,038 But you'll... you'll be filling it with more babies by then. 217 00:09:39,062 --> 00:09:39,676 No. 218 00:09:39,979 --> 00:09:41,918 We're building a house before we have any more children. 219 00:09:41,943 --> 00:09:43,346 Really? Yes, really. 220 00:09:43,371 --> 00:09:44,631 All right, let's get that in writing. 221 00:09:45,651 --> 00:09:47,887 Have you shown Will the baby yet? Yeah. 222 00:09:47,912 --> 00:09:49,595 There was a bottle that came in the pack. 223 00:09:49,640 --> 00:09:51,368 Aw.And he was holding it and feeding it, 224 00:09:51,393 --> 00:09:54,134 and I was looking at him like, "Oh, God, this is really realistic." 225 00:09:54,159 --> 00:09:56,289 And that was, like, the first time I've seen him, and I was like... 226 00:09:56,723 --> 00:09:58,543 Did he do its nappy? Yes. 227 00:09:58,568 --> 00:10:00,979 Oh!Oh, gosh. He didn't even know where the tabs were. 228 00:10:01,004 --> 00:10:03,529 See, when we had nappies, with Lauren... 229 00:10:03,554 --> 00:10:05,067 Yeah. ..they were sticky, 230 00:10:05,092 --> 00:10:08,773 so if you'd got baby cream on your fingers, it wouldn't stick. 231 00:10:08,798 --> 00:10:11,118 They're sticky now.So you'd waste a nappy cos they used to be really... 232 00:10:11,143 --> 00:10:13,118 No, but they're Velcro now. Oh, yeah. 233 00:10:13,143 --> 00:10:16,643 And they wouldn't stick, so... We didn't have any... much money, 234 00:10:16,668 --> 00:10:19,438 so nappies were exp... They used to be really expensive. 235 00:10:19,463 --> 00:10:22,523 So Dad used to have to masking tape you into the nappy 236 00:10:22,770 --> 00:10:24,110 so we didn't waste it. 237 00:10:24,184 --> 00:10:25,658 Will just needs to improve on, 238 00:10:25,683 --> 00:10:27,984 like, not worrying so much about it and just do it. 239 00:10:28,009 --> 00:10:30,309 Yeah. Yeah, but it's like... I still learn things every day. 240 00:10:30,589 --> 00:10:32,475 Yeah.There's nothing to say I'm right or wrong. 241 00:10:32,500 --> 00:10:33,867 What are you doing to Nanny? 242 00:10:33,892 --> 00:10:35,118 I think we'll just keep on doing it. 243 00:10:35,143 --> 00:10:38,034 Yeah.Like, most nights, and then he'll get really good at it. 244 00:10:38,059 --> 00:10:40,276 Everyone thinks, "Oh, let's have a baby. It's easy." 245 00:10:40,301 --> 00:10:41,301 It's not. It's not easy. 246 00:10:41,326 --> 00:10:43,704 You've got to try not to fall out when you're tired. 247 00:10:43,729 --> 00:10:45,229 Yeah. Good girl. 248 00:10:45,843 --> 00:10:46,843 [TIGI YAWNS] 249 00:10:48,708 --> 00:10:49,855 Gosh, Tigi. 250 00:10:50,846 --> 00:10:52,106 Which way up does it go? 251 00:10:52,661 --> 00:10:53,661 YAWNING: I don't know. 252 00:10:54,253 --> 00:10:56,633 'It's me and Mum that need to worry about falling out.' 253 00:10:56,999 --> 00:10:59,079 Turn yours round! That's the outside. 254 00:10:59,104 --> 00:11:00,987 'This cot is driving us mad.' 255 00:11:01,012 --> 00:11:02,927 Right, now lay it on its side like I've done. 256 00:11:02,952 --> 00:11:07,116 ♪ Oh, na-na-na I got my armour on... ♪ 257 00:11:07,434 --> 00:11:10,174 You wanna get it the other way round, cos that's the drawer, look. 258 00:11:10,199 --> 00:11:12,279 ♪ I've never felt so strong... ♪ 259 00:11:12,304 --> 00:11:14,473 'Mum's really stressing me out today.' 260 00:11:14,694 --> 00:11:17,034 Just get the side, Tigi. There's a thin side. 261 00:11:17,188 --> 00:11:18,188 My blood pressure. 262 00:11:19,661 --> 00:11:21,201 Why have we got three here? 263 00:11:21,608 --> 00:11:23,673 I don't know. Just ignore that. And we've only got one. 264 00:11:23,698 --> 00:11:26,293 So this isn't right, then. Has this one got three? 265 00:11:26,318 --> 00:11:28,298 ♪ I don't think You're listening... ♪ 266 00:11:28,367 --> 00:11:31,423 That will have a dowel in, and then it goes into there. 267 00:11:31,460 --> 00:11:32,949 And then we'll screw in the top. 268 00:11:33,183 --> 00:11:34,790 As long as it's a little bit straight. No! 269 00:11:34,816 --> 00:11:38,016 That can't be right. That's a dowel! 270 00:11:38,040 --> 00:11:40,076 Oh, my God, that's a blinking dowel. These screw. 271 00:11:40,101 --> 00:11:41,540 And the top one is a screw. Yeah. 272 00:11:41,565 --> 00:11:42,995 You can see, cos they've got the fittings in. 273 00:11:43,439 --> 00:11:44,980 Why would there be this hole? 274 00:11:45,307 --> 00:11:47,214 To put the dowel in! What do you mean? 275 00:11:47,239 --> 00:11:50,398 ♪ I don't think You'll ever get it... ♪ 276 00:11:50,423 --> 00:11:53,408 Hopefully, Tigi won't lose her temper like that with Will, 277 00:11:53,433 --> 00:11:55,769 but they haven't been together very long. 278 00:11:55,794 --> 00:11:58,039 So, in the relationship at the beginning, 279 00:11:58,064 --> 00:12:01,179 you definitely, you know, tolerate each other more. 280 00:12:01,274 --> 00:12:03,434 Oh, my God, look. This perfectly lines up. 281 00:12:03,459 --> 00:12:04,920 Oh, no, it doesn't. It doesn't! 282 00:12:04,945 --> 00:12:08,805 Hopefully, Will will just ignore her or just do what I did 283 00:12:08,830 --> 00:12:10,830 and laugh it off, and then it'll be fine. 284 00:12:10,953 --> 00:12:13,421 How do you stop this from falling all the way to the ground? 285 00:12:14,894 --> 00:12:16,714 We'll just roughly screw one in. 286 00:12:17,294 --> 00:12:18,294 Here you are. 287 00:12:18,319 --> 00:12:21,457 I definitely lost my cool a little bit. 288 00:12:21,482 --> 00:12:24,103 But I think that's just because everything just started to hurt. 289 00:12:24,594 --> 00:12:26,506 I don't know what these black washers are for. 290 00:12:26,531 --> 00:12:28,232 Mum, please, can you stop banging this cot? 291 00:12:28,694 --> 00:12:30,934 'This is much harder than I thought it would be. 292 00:12:31,313 --> 00:12:34,039 'Fifi will have arrived by the time me and Mum get this done.' 293 00:12:34,221 --> 00:12:37,752 You're stroppy with me. No, I'm hormonal. 294 00:12:37,777 --> 00:12:41,224 ♪ Ha, crazy is an understatement Hey! ♪ 295 00:12:41,495 --> 00:12:42,495 Oh! 296 00:12:45,785 --> 00:12:48,182 ♪ I ain't get no sleep... ♪ 297 00:12:50,526 --> 00:12:52,848 Come here, babe. Mam will just take your jumper off. 298 00:12:54,552 --> 00:12:57,702 ♪ The thought of swimming Going round and round... ♪ 299 00:12:57,944 --> 00:13:00,641 You've got a big head like your father, haven't you? 300 00:13:00,962 --> 00:13:03,118 'Arlo's now four, and I've decided 301 00:13:03,143 --> 00:13:05,802 'it's time to change his bedtime routine. 302 00:13:05,827 --> 00:13:08,056 'He's always fallen asleep in the lounge, 303 00:13:08,081 --> 00:13:09,541 'and then I take him upstairs. 304 00:13:09,610 --> 00:13:11,485 'But he's getting too big for that now.' 305 00:13:11,756 --> 00:13:15,537 Good boy. I heard you've been a lot better in school today. 306 00:13:16,050 --> 00:13:19,230 'He should be falling asleep in his bed by himself by now. 307 00:13:19,470 --> 00:13:21,531 'But I'm really nervous about trying. 308 00:13:22,310 --> 00:13:23,910 'When I do send him up awake, 309 00:13:24,597 --> 00:13:28,517 'I have had constant screaming, shouting.' 310 00:13:28,542 --> 00:13:29,662 And I think it's something 311 00:13:29,687 --> 00:13:33,767 that I've got to prepare myself for as well, not just him. 312 00:13:35,410 --> 00:13:38,130 'But I wanna try the new routine right away 313 00:13:38,483 --> 00:13:42,022 'because the longer I put it off, the harder it's gonna be.' 314 00:13:42,047 --> 00:13:44,047 SING-SONG: I've run out of gas! 315 00:13:44,796 --> 00:13:46,897 Have I run out of electric as well, again? 316 00:13:47,216 --> 00:13:50,615 'But it already looks like tonight will not be going to plan.' 317 00:13:50,915 --> 00:13:53,544 Oh! Mummy! Mummy, help. 318 00:13:53,626 --> 00:13:57,049 I can't. A minute, babe. My ga... Our gas electric's... 319 00:13:57,395 --> 00:13:59,597 Gas and electric is gone, 320 00:13:59,622 --> 00:14:03,582 which means no water, no TV, no lights. 321 00:14:03,929 --> 00:14:06,069 So I'm ringing them, so you're gonna wait. 322 00:14:07,037 --> 00:14:09,336 'I just feel like I've been hit by a train.' 323 00:14:09,810 --> 00:14:13,151 I'm off supply AGAIN with my gas and electric. 324 00:14:13,176 --> 00:14:15,343 ♪ So give me thunder... ♪ 325 00:14:15,626 --> 00:14:19,425 I just want help to turn my gas and electric on. 326 00:14:19,450 --> 00:14:22,090 As soon as it's on, I can make a payment. 327 00:14:22,559 --> 00:14:24,310 MAN ON PHONE:'Can you tell me what's been happening 328 00:14:24,335 --> 00:14:26,829 'that has made it difficult for you to top up your meter?' 329 00:14:29,906 --> 00:14:31,994 Erm, nothing difficult about it... 330 00:14:32,058 --> 00:14:35,763 YELLING: Down! Down! 331 00:14:38,513 --> 00:14:39,206 Yeah. 332 00:14:41,092 --> 00:14:44,296 Where my head has been everywhere the last week, 333 00:14:44,793 --> 00:14:47,832 I just haven't been thinking to do the little things like that 334 00:14:47,857 --> 00:14:49,297 that could lead to bigger things. 335 00:14:49,322 --> 00:14:54,155 And I just can't keep up. I feel like I'm slowly just drowning. 336 00:14:55,805 --> 00:14:57,211 'Isha?' Yeah. 337 00:14:57,384 --> 00:15:00,124 'I'm still here, OK?' Yeah. No worries. 338 00:15:00,392 --> 00:15:02,770 'So, this is for both gas and electric?' 339 00:15:02,802 --> 00:15:03,802 Yes. 340 00:15:04,467 --> 00:15:06,204 'This is a nightmare. 341 00:15:06,281 --> 00:15:09,960 'There's no way I can face a bedtime battle with Arlo after this.' 342 00:15:16,894 --> 00:15:18,194 [KHALIL FUSSES] 343 00:15:19,652 --> 00:15:23,179 ♪ I see the light in your eyes 344 00:15:23,326 --> 00:15:24,666 ♪ Like the stars... ♪ 345 00:15:24,904 --> 00:15:26,514 WHITNEY: Right, Lil-Lil, come on, let's get dressed. 346 00:15:26,981 --> 00:15:28,597 KHALIL:I can't. Right, come on. 347 00:15:28,795 --> 00:15:31,287 Trousers on, dude. Good job. 348 00:15:31,854 --> 00:15:33,894 'I've been so tired recently. 349 00:15:34,101 --> 00:15:38,020 'On top of uni, work and revising for my theory test, 350 00:15:38,106 --> 00:15:40,225 'Khalil's nights have been really difficult.' 351 00:15:40,446 --> 00:15:41,446 Right, come here. 352 00:15:41,606 --> 00:15:43,787 So, Khalil had quite a troubled night last night. 353 00:15:44,101 --> 00:15:45,461 He was waking up constantly, 354 00:15:45,461 --> 00:15:47,694 and his night terrors were starting up again. 355 00:15:47,719 --> 00:15:49,560 OK, right, Khalil. Stop doing this. Stop that. 356 00:15:49,585 --> 00:15:50,946 Why? Stop it. Come and stand here. 357 00:15:51,020 --> 00:15:52,810 So neither of us got adequate sleep. 358 00:15:52,993 --> 00:15:53,993 Bleurgh! 359 00:15:55,280 --> 00:15:56,611 La-la-la-la-la. 360 00:15:56,713 --> 00:15:58,674 Why do you have this much energy in the morning? Why? 361 00:15:59,121 --> 00:16:00,821 Mixing the night terrors with the fact 362 00:16:00,846 --> 00:16:03,776 that getting to bed itself has been quite a struggle 363 00:16:03,801 --> 00:16:06,060 is a recipe for disaster because it just means 364 00:16:06,085 --> 00:16:08,225 there's a chance he's gonna be more temperamental on mornings 365 00:16:08,520 --> 00:16:10,279 or just not as cooperative. 366 00:16:10,304 --> 00:16:13,825 ♪ However I want it I'ma have it all... ♪ 367 00:16:13,951 --> 00:16:15,557 'I've dropped Khalil at nursery, 368 00:16:15,717 --> 00:16:18,076 'and by some miracle, I have some free time today, 369 00:16:18,449 --> 00:16:20,720 'so I'm catching up with some mum friends.' 370 00:16:20,745 --> 00:16:21,905 Hey, guys. BOTH:Hey. 371 00:16:22,662 --> 00:16:25,070 Long time no see. I know. 372 00:16:26,111 --> 00:16:28,310 'It's nice to talk to people who get it.' 373 00:16:28,931 --> 00:16:29,931 How have you been? 374 00:16:29,956 --> 00:16:31,536 I was gonna say "good", but that's a lie. 375 00:16:31,561 --> 00:16:34,049 I'm tired, stressed, and just... Yeah. 376 00:16:35,450 --> 00:16:36,871 ALYSSA: What's Khalil's behaviour like? 377 00:16:37,117 --> 00:16:39,181 [SIGHS] He's not been too bad, you know. 378 00:16:39,206 --> 00:16:41,206 He's started having, obviously, temper tantrums and stuff. 379 00:16:41,564 --> 00:16:43,493 And his sleep, like, some nights, it's been taking us 380 00:16:43,518 --> 00:16:45,319 an hour and a half, two hours, to get him down. 381 00:16:45,997 --> 00:16:47,377 Oh, sorry. Thank you. 382 00:16:47,703 --> 00:16:49,964 But, yeah, behaviour-wise, numerous times, 383 00:16:49,989 --> 00:16:52,292 I have to try and remind myself, maybe he's not being naughty, 384 00:16:52,317 --> 00:16:54,037 he's just acting the way he should be for his age. 385 00:16:54,171 --> 00:16:55,612 And I'm just finding it stressful. 386 00:16:55,637 --> 00:16:57,189 I'm scared for the discipline side. 387 00:16:57,549 --> 00:17:00,109 But that's how I am. Like, I'll be like, "No, you can't do that." 388 00:17:00,134 --> 00:17:02,088 Then I'm like, "Oh, no. I've just shouted at her. 389 00:17:02,113 --> 00:17:03,660 "Now I feel really bad," and she's like, "Mummy..." 390 00:17:03,685 --> 00:17:05,415 And I'm like, "Oh, come and give me a cuddle." 391 00:17:05,440 --> 00:17:06,961 Women, we're so counterproductive. 392 00:17:06,986 --> 00:17:08,490 We have all of these maternal instincts. 393 00:17:08,583 --> 00:17:11,167 But when it comes to discipline, the maternal instincts get in the way, 394 00:17:11,193 --> 00:17:13,432 cos we just wanna pick them up, but we shouldn't be doing that, 395 00:17:13,457 --> 00:17:15,396 cos they need to learn, "You can't do that behaviour."Yeah. 396 00:17:17,589 --> 00:17:19,010 Khalil's about to be four years old, 397 00:17:19,041 --> 00:17:20,821 and he's about to be starting school, 398 00:17:20,847 --> 00:17:22,670 gonna be in a completely different environment. 399 00:17:22,730 --> 00:17:25,117 And I wanna make sure what I've taught him at home 400 00:17:25,176 --> 00:17:27,996 and the way that I've parented him at home 401 00:17:28,021 --> 00:17:30,122 shows in how he's like at school. 402 00:17:30,258 --> 00:17:32,448 Cos I think my issue is, when I do tell him off, 403 00:17:32,603 --> 00:17:34,224 for so long, I've been so soft 404 00:17:34,249 --> 00:17:35,749 and so quick to go back on the telling-off, 405 00:17:35,875 --> 00:17:38,339 but then it hinders me trying to parent 406 00:17:38,364 --> 00:17:40,824 and teach him right from wrong at the same time. 407 00:17:41,750 --> 00:17:43,482 I don't know if Miley's experienced night terrors, 408 00:17:43,507 --> 00:17:45,337 cos Khalil's been having them for some time now. 409 00:17:45,651 --> 00:17:47,257 It could be three in the morning, 410 00:17:47,437 --> 00:17:49,497 he's woken up just screaming his eyes out. 411 00:17:49,787 --> 00:17:51,770 And you go in the room, he's screaming more now 412 00:17:51,795 --> 00:17:53,188 because he doesn't recognise who you are. 413 00:17:53,213 --> 00:17:54,752 Apparently, you're not meant to go right up to them, are you? 414 00:17:54,777 --> 00:17:57,686 You can't wake them or shake them cos you'll scare them even more. 415 00:17:57,711 --> 00:17:58,442 Oh, like, he's actually asleep still? 416 00:17:58,467 --> 00:18:00,912 He's still asleep. It's because he's not in a deep sleep. 417 00:18:00,937 --> 00:18:03,997 He's in the REM stage of sleep, so rapid eye movement, 418 00:18:04,291 --> 00:18:05,853 just before he goes down into the deep sleep. 419 00:18:05,878 --> 00:18:07,293 And he's stuck between the two cycles. 420 00:18:07,318 --> 00:18:08,641 Oh, my goodness. That's quite scary. Yeah. 421 00:18:08,666 --> 00:18:10,801 I wouldn't wish it on anyone cos it's really not nice to see. 422 00:18:11,410 --> 00:18:15,842 Watching Khalil experience night terrors is so heartbreaking 423 00:18:15,917 --> 00:18:18,115 because as much as I try to be tough Mum, 424 00:18:18,330 --> 00:18:21,138 listen, my first instinct is to just sprint to him, 425 00:18:21,290 --> 00:18:24,333 is to just give him a big cuddle, make sure he knows I'm here. 426 00:18:24,457 --> 00:18:26,098 But with night terrors, you can't do that. 427 00:18:26,456 --> 00:18:27,637 All you can do is sit there 428 00:18:27,662 --> 00:18:31,062 and, hopefully, they know that it's your presence there. 429 00:18:33,430 --> 00:18:36,470 When it happens and I'm in uni, the episodes can last anywhere 430 00:18:36,495 --> 00:18:39,070 from ten minutes to an hour, and that's at 2am in the morning, 431 00:18:39,095 --> 00:18:40,415 so I'm just there trying to console him. 432 00:18:40,596 --> 00:18:42,456 Yeah.And then I've got to be up at six, seven, getting ready. 433 00:18:42,481 --> 00:18:43,993 So, will he just grow out of it, or...? 434 00:18:44,018 --> 00:18:45,558 Yeah, literally. They have to grow out of them. 435 00:18:46,636 --> 00:18:49,356 It's like, gosh, I've been doing this for three years. 436 00:18:49,381 --> 00:18:50,881 You got anything else to throw at me, motherhood? 437 00:18:51,244 --> 00:18:52,443 Come on! Gosh. Just wait. 438 00:18:53,269 --> 00:18:55,957 Just constant hurdles being thrown at you. 439 00:18:55,982 --> 00:19:00,492 ♪ Got to let you go With every beat of my heart. ♪ 440 00:19:02,954 --> 00:19:04,799 ♪ Think you're gonna know me 441 00:19:04,922 --> 00:19:07,053 ♪ Think you're gonna love me 442 00:19:07,176 --> 00:19:08,693 ♪ Think you're gonna have me 443 00:19:08,816 --> 00:19:10,373 ♪ Ooh-ooh 444 00:19:10,496 --> 00:19:12,956 ♪ You better think again... ♪ 445 00:19:14,801 --> 00:19:16,441 TERRIANN: 'I'm absolutely fuming. 446 00:19:16,900 --> 00:19:19,739 'George has just called me fat, and now he's running off - 447 00:19:20,318 --> 00:19:22,076 'probably to get Mum onside.' 448 00:19:22,101 --> 00:19:25,178 ♪ Ooh-ooh, better think again... ♪ 449 00:19:25,203 --> 00:19:28,284 With George, when we've spoke about birth, labour, delivery, 450 00:19:28,309 --> 00:19:30,006 things like that, I've always told him, 451 00:19:30,031 --> 00:19:33,374 "Be serious. No funny business. No jokes, none of that." 452 00:19:33,690 --> 00:19:36,418 And it just seems that that's all he's doing. 453 00:19:37,117 --> 00:19:39,157 'I can't even deal with him right now.' 454 00:19:39,743 --> 00:19:40,919 You all right, mate? All right? 455 00:19:41,001 --> 00:19:42,903 Yeah, you? [GEORGE SIGHS] 456 00:19:42,931 --> 00:19:45,211 Bag all packed? Yeah, yeah, yeah. 457 00:19:45,236 --> 00:19:46,915 Good.I think she's a bit annoyed, though, innit? 458 00:19:47,430 --> 00:19:48,430 Why, what have you done now? 459 00:19:48,621 --> 00:19:50,085 Cos she was packing her sweets away, innit? 460 00:19:50,109 --> 00:19:52,233 Yeah.And I just, like, made a little joke, innit? 461 00:19:52,258 --> 00:19:53,258 I was like, "Oh, fatty, fatty." 462 00:19:55,885 --> 00:19:56,946 [SHE SUCKS TEETH] 463 00:19:56,971 --> 00:19:58,621 Not good there, mate. Nah. 464 00:19:58,772 --> 00:20:03,014 ♪ It's one of my greatest fears 465 00:20:03,551 --> 00:20:07,639 ♪ I don't really know What I'm doing... ♪ 466 00:20:07,891 --> 00:20:10,188 He probably didn't mean it in a nasty way. 467 00:20:10,213 --> 00:20:11,830 He was just probably having a laugh. 468 00:20:13,033 --> 00:20:16,432 But this is George for you. He doesn't think before he speaks. 469 00:20:16,457 --> 00:20:19,935 ♪ Imposter syndrome. ♪ 470 00:20:19,970 --> 00:20:21,567 Did you apologise? 471 00:20:21,592 --> 00:20:23,972 Yeah, I did. Hundreds of times, like I always do, innit? 472 00:20:24,196 --> 00:20:26,289 You do say silly things. Yeah. 473 00:20:26,403 --> 00:20:27,914 I know. I know. I can't help it. 474 00:20:28,283 --> 00:20:29,780 It's all right, don't worry. I just can't. 475 00:20:31,137 --> 00:20:34,516 Just don't be like this tomorrow.No, tomorrow, I won't. 476 00:20:34,563 --> 00:20:37,970 Yeah, no joking, just... Straight seriousness. 477 00:20:38,009 --> 00:20:39,845 Yeah. No, SERIOUSLY, seriously. 478 00:20:39,870 --> 00:20:41,342 No, I will. I will, yeah. Yeah. 479 00:20:43,991 --> 00:20:45,772 How are you feeling about tomorrow? I'm excited. 480 00:20:45,797 --> 00:20:48,865 It's gonna be such a, erm... an experience. 481 00:20:49,643 --> 00:20:51,953 Obviously, like, there's a little bit of nervousness there. 482 00:20:52,257 --> 00:20:53,257 But I'm just more excited. 483 00:20:53,595 --> 00:20:55,685 You'll be all right. It's nerve-wracking. It'll be... 484 00:20:55,710 --> 00:20:58,148 No pressure! Well, there's gonna be pressure, 485 00:20:58,173 --> 00:21:00,075 no matter what - even from me, do you know what I mean? 486 00:21:00,100 --> 00:21:02,251 We're both gonna see her in pain, not know what to do. 487 00:21:02,276 --> 00:21:03,356 Yeah. She's gonna... 488 00:21:03,390 --> 00:21:06,844 I can't... I hate it. You know, like, when I see her in pain, yeah? 489 00:21:06,869 --> 00:21:08,921 And she's upset and that, it's hard for me to just, like... 490 00:21:09,330 --> 00:21:11,671 Just as long as we stay calm for her sake... 491 00:21:11,696 --> 00:21:13,695 Yeah, for her, yeah. ..then we'll be all right. 492 00:21:13,720 --> 00:21:15,339 Cos she is a nervous wreck. She can panic, like... 493 00:21:15,817 --> 00:21:18,561 She panics too much, and I think that's the problem. 494 00:21:18,586 --> 00:21:22,146 You don't panic, and she's like, "Well, do you not care?" 495 00:21:22,436 --> 00:21:24,540 Yeah. Nah, it'll be fine. Just show her a bit of emotion. 496 00:21:24,643 --> 00:21:28,459 What type of emotion? Just, like, smile a lot. Yeah. 497 00:21:28,484 --> 00:21:30,318 Oh, all right.Yeah, well, you're gonna cry when baby's born. 498 00:21:30,343 --> 00:21:32,358 Everyone does when their baby's born. 499 00:21:32,469 --> 00:21:34,450 They have tears coming through their eyes and that. 500 00:21:34,628 --> 00:21:35,786 Do they? Yeah. 501 00:21:35,995 --> 00:21:37,661 Nah, I feel like there'll be emotions, 502 00:21:37,686 --> 00:21:39,151 but I don't know if I'll cry. Like, I'll be like... 503 00:21:39,844 --> 00:21:40,844 You will. 504 00:21:41,628 --> 00:21:45,626 ♪ I don't need any more proof I see it right in front of me 505 00:21:45,658 --> 00:21:49,104 ♪ I know there's no use You always get the best of me... ♪ 506 00:21:49,490 --> 00:21:52,530 So... are you ready to be a dad? 507 00:21:52,708 --> 00:21:53,467 Yeah. 508 00:21:53,826 --> 00:21:55,603 OK. I weren't ready to be a mum. 509 00:21:55,769 --> 00:21:59,110 I was scared.I feel like I'm ready, but we'll see when it happens. 510 00:21:59,356 --> 00:22:01,377 Yeah.You know, I haven't really, like, done stuff 511 00:22:01,402 --> 00:22:02,461 with babies and that, right? 512 00:22:02,563 --> 00:22:03,884 So it's just gonna be so new. 513 00:22:04,075 --> 00:22:05,332 Terriann will be a bit... 514 00:22:05,972 --> 00:22:07,769 like, you know what I mean? Yeah, cos she's been around younger siblings. 515 00:22:08,069 --> 00:22:09,569 But it'll just be so new to me. 516 00:22:10,477 --> 00:22:12,323 Yeah, but even if you feel you're getting something wrong, 517 00:22:12,348 --> 00:22:14,343 don't be worried to ask. 518 00:22:14,396 --> 00:22:15,763 I might not even know. 519 00:22:15,788 --> 00:22:18,125 No, I'll be asking questions, like, "What shall I do?" 520 00:22:18,175 --> 00:22:20,553 Yeah, you've got enough support, both of you. 521 00:22:21,082 --> 00:22:23,082 Mm. But you'll be fine. 522 00:22:24,863 --> 00:22:26,085 'Me and Jade are like...' 523 00:22:26,110 --> 00:22:27,880 Like, obviously, it's Terriann's mum, 524 00:22:27,905 --> 00:22:30,563 it's like my mother-in-law, but we're like good friends, you know? 525 00:22:30,588 --> 00:22:31,588 Like, we can have a joke. 526 00:22:32,317 --> 00:22:35,131 Obviously, like, if I've annoyed Terriann and Terriann tells her, 527 00:22:35,156 --> 00:22:36,353 Jade will just tell me straight, 528 00:22:36,378 --> 00:22:38,538 like, "Yeah, you've annoyed her, and now I'm annoyed." 529 00:22:38,656 --> 00:22:40,080 And I'll be like, "All right, Jade. I'm sorry." 530 00:22:40,609 --> 00:22:41,848 'But I can speak to her about anything. 531 00:22:41,992 --> 00:22:44,665 'She tells me that. So I respect Jade a lot.' 532 00:22:45,383 --> 00:22:47,744 All right, you better go and see her, make sure she's all right. 533 00:22:47,929 --> 00:22:49,920 Mm. After calling her "fatty". 534 00:22:51,568 --> 00:22:52,529 [HE EXHALES] I was about to say, 535 00:22:52,750 --> 00:22:54,540 "Shall I make her something?" But I'm not gonna do that. 536 00:22:54,916 --> 00:22:57,231 Yeah, I wouldn't do that.No, yeah, I wouldn't either, mate. 537 00:22:57,256 --> 00:22:59,455 All right, I'll see you in a bit.See you in a bit, mate. 538 00:22:59,609 --> 00:23:04,144 ♪ We end up back To where we started. ♪ 539 00:23:09,249 --> 00:23:13,386 ♪ D-D-D-DJ, come on Let the beat play... ♪ 540 00:23:13,411 --> 00:23:15,957 Can you imagine lying him down now to put a nappy on, Leonie? 541 00:23:16,397 --> 00:23:17,591 [LEONIE LAUGHS] 542 00:23:19,233 --> 00:23:22,213 Do you think you're a bunny rabbit, jumping up and down all t'time? 543 00:23:22,907 --> 00:23:24,187 Eh? [HE BABBLES] 544 00:23:24,767 --> 00:23:27,687 LEONIE: 'Carter-James is growing up so much every day.' 545 00:23:28,145 --> 00:23:29,980 I love you. 546 00:23:30,250 --> 00:23:32,209 Carter, you carry on like that, I'll be like... 547 00:23:32,373 --> 00:23:35,713 'And with me going to work and college, Mum's had him a lot. 548 00:23:35,992 --> 00:23:38,432 'I'm so grateful, but I do want him 549 00:23:38,457 --> 00:23:40,637 'to start spending time with other children.' 550 00:23:41,867 --> 00:23:43,267 [HE GIGGLES] It's the perfect time now 551 00:23:43,292 --> 00:23:46,195 to get him into nursery, so there is pros and cons. 552 00:23:46,407 --> 00:23:48,132 Obviously pick bad habits up, 553 00:23:49,019 --> 00:23:50,938 but I've just got to look at the positive side. 554 00:23:50,963 --> 00:23:52,808 I'm definitely excited for him to make friends, 555 00:23:52,866 --> 00:23:54,174 give him the best start, 556 00:23:54,199 --> 00:23:55,699 obviously with school and everything like that. 557 00:23:56,446 --> 00:23:58,507 'There's a nursery right near my work, 558 00:23:58,820 --> 00:24:01,119 'and me and Mum are going to take a look.' 559 00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:02,896 I'm excited. 560 00:24:02,921 --> 00:24:05,589 Yeah. I'm scared. I'm nervous. 561 00:24:05,726 --> 00:24:07,346 It's like another chapter for him, isn't it? 562 00:24:07,371 --> 00:24:09,890 Well, that's it. Yeah, it is. It's another milestone. 563 00:24:10,107 --> 00:24:13,087 I think the thing I'm worried about, if he comes back 564 00:24:13,112 --> 00:24:16,632 and says, like, the teacher slapped him, and... 565 00:24:17,327 --> 00:24:19,427 They can't do that. Can they not? 566 00:24:19,873 --> 00:24:22,413 Can they heck!What, they can't put him on the time-out step? 567 00:24:22,438 --> 00:24:24,539 No, there's so many laws now. 568 00:24:25,101 --> 00:24:26,831 That's a question. All different things. 569 00:24:26,856 --> 00:24:28,275 "Do you have a naughty step?" 570 00:24:29,966 --> 00:24:30,966 Trick question. 571 00:24:32,067 --> 00:24:33,225 Why is it a trick question? 572 00:24:33,250 --> 00:24:34,329 Cos if they say yeah, he's not going. 573 00:24:36,634 --> 00:24:39,143 I do think it's one of them, as soon as you walk in, 574 00:24:39,168 --> 00:24:42,408 you're gonna know if it's the right place for your child or not. 575 00:24:43,700 --> 00:24:45,780 I won't leave him somewhere if I don't think it's right. 576 00:24:45,972 --> 00:24:48,146 ♪ And it could be cool Being with you 577 00:24:48,171 --> 00:24:51,633 ♪ It could be better when it's two As long as we're double... ♪ 578 00:24:52,017 --> 00:24:53,323 Ofsted, "good". 579 00:24:53,964 --> 00:24:56,324 'This nursery is so close to my work, 580 00:24:56,590 --> 00:24:58,490 'and I really hope it's the one.' 581 00:24:59,010 --> 00:25:00,250 Hello. Hiya, love, you all right? 582 00:25:00,275 --> 00:25:01,343 Yes, you? Yeah. 583 00:25:01,368 --> 00:25:02,485 Come to have a look round. 584 00:25:02,510 --> 00:25:03,732 Yes, no problem. Thank you. 585 00:25:04,163 --> 00:25:05,667 Hello, Carter-James! OK? 586 00:25:08,563 --> 00:25:11,643 So, just head through this way. This is our baby room. 587 00:25:13,530 --> 00:25:14,530 Do you like it? 588 00:25:15,210 --> 00:25:17,550 We can have up to six babies in this room. 589 00:25:17,946 --> 00:25:19,604 We try and keep it very calm in here, 590 00:25:19,629 --> 00:25:22,566 not wild with loads of colours, cos then the children come up as well. 591 00:25:22,591 --> 00:25:24,772 Hyper. Yeah, yeah. Yeah. 592 00:25:32,490 --> 00:25:35,479 So, the food, like, dinner, what is it they have, roughly? 593 00:25:35,504 --> 00:25:36,830 There's different things every day. 594 00:25:36,855 --> 00:25:39,430 There's all kinds of different meals. 595 00:25:39,455 --> 00:25:42,412 Oh, no, it's good, that. Corned beef and potato pie. 596 00:25:42,489 --> 00:25:45,910 Chicken korma. Pie. Oh, chicken korma and rice. 597 00:25:45,935 --> 00:25:48,247 Oh, that's really good, isn't it?Little naan bread. 598 00:25:48,390 --> 00:25:50,935 You love your food, don't you? You like your porridge. 599 00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:54,118 Would you like to come here and play with little boys and girls? 600 00:25:54,162 --> 00:25:56,213 If he had an accident, would you ring me straightaway? 601 00:25:56,238 --> 00:25:56,746 Yeah, course I would. 602 00:25:56,771 --> 00:25:59,295 Would you prefer to be contacted with any accident or...? 603 00:25:59,320 --> 00:26:00,320 Yeah. Yeah, that's fine. 604 00:26:01,492 --> 00:26:04,300 ♪ It's never too late To make a change... ♪ 605 00:26:04,729 --> 00:26:06,370 'It was a lovely nursery. 606 00:26:06,989 --> 00:26:09,163 'I really liked the food options.' 607 00:26:09,497 --> 00:26:11,517 I think the pointers for me was just... 608 00:26:12,242 --> 00:26:14,097 a little few things like the colours. 609 00:26:14,122 --> 00:26:17,489 I want it bright. I want it just to feel, like, so... 610 00:26:17,514 --> 00:26:19,554 like, a happy mood when he's going, 611 00:26:19,670 --> 00:26:21,524 just so he's not like, "Oh, it's just dull," 612 00:26:21,549 --> 00:26:23,149 and he comes home, he's got all bright toys. 613 00:26:23,489 --> 00:26:25,309 So I think that was the only downfall for me. 614 00:26:25,334 --> 00:26:27,324 But the girl was absolutely lovely. 615 00:26:27,716 --> 00:26:29,856 'I don't think that's the place for us. 616 00:26:30,109 --> 00:26:33,543 'I know I'm being fussy, but I won't send Carter-James somewhere 617 00:26:33,568 --> 00:26:35,968 'if it doesn't hit absolutely everything.' 618 00:26:35,993 --> 00:26:37,753 Right, see you later. Bye. See you, love. Bye-bye, love. 619 00:26:37,778 --> 00:26:38,947 Bye! Bye, see you. Thank you. 620 00:26:39,222 --> 00:26:41,822 'But I do feel better about sending him to nursery now, 621 00:26:41,847 --> 00:26:44,157 'and I am glad I bought Mum along for her opinion.' 622 00:26:44,316 --> 00:26:46,096 'I'm excited for him to go now.' 623 00:26:46,763 --> 00:26:49,543 He'll trash the place. He'll have everything out. 624 00:26:49,909 --> 00:26:52,092 It's just we've got to find the right one. 625 00:26:52,117 --> 00:26:53,924 ♪ I feel your heart beat fast 626 00:26:53,949 --> 00:26:56,660 ♪ I know you want this. ♪ 627 00:26:57,220 --> 00:27:00,587 ♪ Oh, yeah, uh-huh 628 00:27:01,762 --> 00:27:03,344 ♪ We did it, you know 629 00:27:03,947 --> 00:27:06,652 ♪ We did, we did that... ♪ 630 00:27:07,138 --> 00:27:08,295 BIRDIE:Bye-bye, guy! 631 00:27:08,320 --> 00:27:09,863 TINA:Yeah, bye-bye! TIGI: Bye-bye, guys. 632 00:27:10,183 --> 00:27:13,786 That was definitely tiring, but we did a great job. 633 00:27:13,811 --> 00:27:16,448 We did. Oh. We should be proud of ourselves. 634 00:27:16,473 --> 00:27:18,303 And we did it with you, as well! 635 00:27:18,749 --> 00:27:20,529 'Me and Mum finally built the cot, 636 00:27:20,982 --> 00:27:23,236 'and I can't believe how exhausted I'm feeling.' 637 00:27:23,650 --> 00:27:25,205 Shall we go and make some lunch? 638 00:27:25,230 --> 00:27:26,926 Yeah. We can have some lunch. Cos I'm hungry. 639 00:27:27,062 --> 00:27:29,806 My body is starting to struggle now, 640 00:27:29,831 --> 00:27:32,289 especially getting to the end of my pregnancy. 641 00:27:32,617 --> 00:27:34,610 'It was struggling anyway, but now... 642 00:27:34,635 --> 00:27:38,492 'I didn't realise how much I generally was struggling.' 643 00:27:38,517 --> 00:27:39,897 Like, my back is really hurting, 644 00:27:40,204 --> 00:27:42,128 and I'm constantly tired all the time. 645 00:27:42,153 --> 00:27:44,085 ♪ We did, we did that, that You know. ♪ 646 00:27:44,295 --> 00:27:46,815 Do you think it's scary to think that Fifi will be 647 00:27:46,840 --> 00:27:49,889 in your next-to-me cot in, like, three-and-a-half weeks? 648 00:27:50,196 --> 00:27:51,196 Very scary. [TINA LAUGHS] 649 00:27:51,221 --> 00:27:54,163 I was thinking about that the other day, 650 00:27:54,894 --> 00:27:56,484 like, how quick it's come round. 651 00:27:56,677 --> 00:27:58,438 ♪ I'll be OK... ♪ 652 00:27:59,203 --> 00:28:01,223 'Not only is Fifi gonna be here soon, 653 00:28:01,456 --> 00:28:03,656 'but me and Will are gonna be living together, as well. 654 00:28:04,182 --> 00:28:07,142 'It's gonna be completely different to living with my family.' 655 00:28:08,142 --> 00:28:10,263 Will you be sad when you move out from home? 656 00:28:11,116 --> 00:28:13,077 Yeah, but I think, obviously, 657 00:28:13,102 --> 00:28:15,501 because me and Will have not lived together, 658 00:28:15,526 --> 00:28:16,973 it'll be nice to live together. 659 00:28:17,743 --> 00:28:19,483 I think I'll realise how much you do. 660 00:28:20,728 --> 00:28:23,429 And then I won't be like... I'll be like, "Oh, Mum, 661 00:28:23,454 --> 00:28:24,907 "please can you do my washing?" "Can you do my washing?" 662 00:28:24,932 --> 00:28:27,368 Yeah, but you know how to do that now, so you'll be all right. 663 00:28:27,393 --> 00:28:29,793 ♪ I know I can get lost Along the way... ♪ 664 00:28:30,136 --> 00:28:33,633 Next week, the gas is arriving, which is really exciting 665 00:28:33,703 --> 00:28:36,822 as it means we can finally properly move in, 666 00:28:36,943 --> 00:28:39,483 and we'll have hot water so we can have showers, 667 00:28:39,483 --> 00:28:43,063 and we don't have to live between the caravan and our family homes. 668 00:28:43,362 --> 00:28:47,074 I know Tigi's only 17, and I think she is quite mature for her age, 669 00:28:47,099 --> 00:28:49,780 but sometimes, certain things she does or says 670 00:28:49,805 --> 00:28:52,412 that you can tell she is only 17. 671 00:28:52,437 --> 00:28:55,358 'I'm hoping that she is mature enough, 672 00:28:55,383 --> 00:28:57,982 'in a way, to be able to cope with all this.' 673 00:28:58,016 --> 00:29:00,697 But she's always got me or Dan or her... 674 00:29:00,722 --> 00:29:03,205 you know, her family members to help her through it, 675 00:29:03,230 --> 00:29:04,838 and we will always be there for her. 676 00:29:04,863 --> 00:29:06,733 ♪ I'll be OK. ♪ 677 00:29:06,936 --> 00:29:10,108 It will be difficult, you know, cos you'll have a screaming baby. 678 00:29:10,133 --> 00:29:12,754 You know, something might go wrong with the caravan and... 679 00:29:13,482 --> 00:29:14,717 Yeah. ..you need to... 680 00:29:14,742 --> 00:29:16,302 Knowing our luck, it probably will, but... 681 00:29:16,569 --> 00:29:20,127 Yeah. So, is Will having any time off when you have the baby? 682 00:29:20,550 --> 00:29:22,250 Yeah, he's got two weeks off. 683 00:29:22,655 --> 00:29:24,496 Yeah, but I do think... 684 00:29:24,521 --> 00:29:26,052 Like, when he goes back to work, though, 685 00:29:26,077 --> 00:29:27,077 how are you gonna cope? 686 00:29:27,944 --> 00:29:29,240 I don't know. I am scared. 687 00:29:31,017 --> 00:29:33,740 I think it'll all be fine, but, you know, 688 00:29:33,765 --> 00:29:36,024 we couldn't have wished for a nicer boy 689 00:29:36,049 --> 00:29:38,008 for you to be having a baby with...Yeah. 690 00:29:38,277 --> 00:29:40,056 ..and, hopefully, getting married to. 691 00:29:40,081 --> 00:29:40,930 Well, yeah. 692 00:29:40,955 --> 00:29:44,195 I know you appreciate that he's really nice to you.Yeah. 693 00:29:45,063 --> 00:29:48,345 ♪ Everything will be all right For us... ♪ 694 00:29:49,019 --> 00:29:50,788 'I have loads of faith in Will.' 695 00:29:50,813 --> 00:29:53,792 He's one of the nicest people that I've ever met, 696 00:29:53,817 --> 00:29:57,965 and we couldn't wish for a lovelier person to be with Tigi. 697 00:29:57,990 --> 00:30:01,530 I know he will always look after her, always love her. 698 00:30:01,803 --> 00:30:04,363 You know, I know Tigi can be irritating sometimes, 699 00:30:04,388 --> 00:30:06,071 which, obviously, you've seen with me, 700 00:30:06,373 --> 00:30:08,415 but I do think that he's... 701 00:30:08,463 --> 00:30:10,823 he's just a lovely lad who... 702 00:30:11,109 --> 00:30:13,642 his best interest is Tigi all the time. 703 00:30:19,927 --> 00:30:22,473 ♪ I wish you never Would've talked in your sleep... ♪ 704 00:30:22,498 --> 00:30:25,981 And then the scary monster goes back here. 705 00:30:26,030 --> 00:30:26,960 Come on, then, babe. 706 00:30:28,295 --> 00:30:29,890 What do you want for your breakfast? 707 00:30:29,915 --> 00:30:32,738 Waffles and beans. Waffles and beans. 708 00:30:32,851 --> 00:30:35,290 ♪ Talk in your sleep And tell me everything... ♪ 709 00:30:35,513 --> 00:30:37,381 'Last night was terrible. 710 00:30:37,466 --> 00:30:40,283 'I finally sorted out the gas and electric, 711 00:30:40,506 --> 00:30:43,112 'but even without trying the new bedtime routine, 712 00:30:43,137 --> 00:30:44,993 'Arlo just wouldn't go to sleep.' 713 00:30:46,092 --> 00:30:48,216 Weren't the best for me last night, was you? 714 00:30:48,512 --> 00:30:51,969 ♪ You have a talk in your sleep And tell me everything... ♪ 715 00:30:52,749 --> 00:30:55,549 'In the end, he slept in bed with me. 716 00:30:55,776 --> 00:30:57,938 'Getting him to fall asleep in his own bed 717 00:30:57,963 --> 00:31:00,255 'and stay there feels impossible.' 718 00:31:00,374 --> 00:31:02,216 You need to start being a good boy... 719 00:31:02,406 --> 00:31:04,813 OK. ..and going to bed on your own. 720 00:31:04,838 --> 00:31:06,139 [HE COUGHS] 721 00:31:06,270 --> 00:31:08,590 I don't know what I'm gonna do with Arlo's routine. 722 00:31:08,615 --> 00:31:11,844 I don't think I am comfortable in any way slightest 723 00:31:11,869 --> 00:31:13,649 to get him in his bed on his own yet. 724 00:31:13,911 --> 00:31:17,151 I thought I was, and I was trying to egg myself on with it. 725 00:31:17,442 --> 00:31:20,378 But after last night, it just goes to prove 726 00:31:20,403 --> 00:31:22,484 he will not stay in his room on his own. 727 00:31:22,536 --> 00:31:24,867 Hiya, you all right? Come in. Hiya! 728 00:31:24,892 --> 00:31:27,731 'I've asked my friend Claire to come around this morning. 729 00:31:27,877 --> 00:31:29,775 'She's got three kids of her own, 730 00:31:29,929 --> 00:31:32,309 'so maybe she can help me decide on what to do, 731 00:31:32,649 --> 00:31:34,900 'because right now, I'm spiralling.' 732 00:31:35,236 --> 00:31:36,236 How have you been? 733 00:31:36,436 --> 00:31:38,258 Yeah, it's been quite hard, to be honest with you. 734 00:31:38,283 --> 00:31:41,195 One thing after another has just been happening this week, 735 00:31:41,220 --> 00:31:43,898 and I just feel like I haven't been able to come down. 736 00:31:43,923 --> 00:31:44,923 [ISHA LAUGHS] Right. 737 00:31:44,949 --> 00:31:47,389 I think Arlo can pick up on it, as well. 738 00:31:47,414 --> 00:31:48,414 Like, last night, 739 00:31:48,837 --> 00:31:52,037 I found it was a bit hard to settle him. 740 00:31:52,550 --> 00:31:56,894 If he's not asleep within 15 to 20 minutes of being in his chair... 741 00:31:56,919 --> 00:31:59,175 Yeah. Right. ..I'll take him up away. 742 00:31:59,463 --> 00:32:02,596 And it has ended in absolute nightmare. 743 00:32:02,621 --> 00:32:05,680 Like, he's constantly running out of his room. 744 00:32:05,705 --> 00:32:07,966 He's screaming. He's shouting. 745 00:32:08,448 --> 00:32:11,048 I'm having it for, like, four hours straight.Oh. 746 00:32:11,073 --> 00:32:13,073 And by the time it gets to, like, 747 00:32:13,116 --> 00:32:15,950 two hours' worth of all that, 748 00:32:16,344 --> 00:32:19,563 I start losing my patience and start raising my voice. 749 00:32:19,588 --> 00:32:22,770 ♪ And night-time makes me anxious 750 00:32:23,636 --> 00:32:26,865 ♪ It's hard for me to breathe... ♪ 751 00:32:27,450 --> 00:32:31,671 I feel terrible. He goes to sleep, but I'm crying all night then. 752 00:32:31,696 --> 00:32:33,420 I think, "Oh! I shouldn't have shouted. 753 00:32:33,445 --> 00:32:34,707 "I shouldn't have done this, shouldn't have done that." 754 00:32:34,732 --> 00:32:37,658 Have you tried to settle him upstairs in his bedroom? 755 00:32:37,836 --> 00:32:39,898 To be honest with you, like, I haven't, 756 00:32:40,569 --> 00:32:44,868 because that's not what we've done since he was a newborn. 757 00:32:45,557 --> 00:32:46,836 It's so hard. 758 00:32:46,861 --> 00:32:50,690 ♪ Time won't wait, time won't wait 759 00:32:50,992 --> 00:32:53,097 ♪ Time won't wait for you... ♪ 760 00:32:53,736 --> 00:32:55,377 What's his bedroom set-up as now? 761 00:32:55,515 --> 00:32:57,280 Do you wanna show me Arlo's room so I can see...? 762 00:32:57,305 --> 00:32:59,125 Yeah, yeah. Come on, then. Let's have a look. 763 00:33:01,090 --> 00:33:02,570 This is Arlo's room. 764 00:33:03,722 --> 00:33:06,042 It looks really cosy and nice. 765 00:33:06,857 --> 00:33:09,657 I think he'd be good in a double bed, to be honest with you. 766 00:33:10,069 --> 00:33:12,232 What about if you get new blankets there with... 767 00:33:12,257 --> 00:33:13,651 that have got trains on it? 768 00:33:13,676 --> 00:33:16,324 Yeah, that'd be good. And maybe like spruce up the bedroom a little bit. 769 00:33:16,623 --> 00:33:18,309 Yeah.Cos then he'd be like, "Ooh, I like this bedroom." 770 00:33:18,700 --> 00:33:20,635 Yeah."I wanna stay in here tonight, Mam!" 771 00:33:20,660 --> 00:33:24,880 ♪ It gets hard and heavy Then it gets easy... ♪ 772 00:33:25,116 --> 00:33:28,617 I think the last time I done Arlo's room, 773 00:33:28,642 --> 00:33:29,782 put new stuff in there, 774 00:33:30,204 --> 00:33:35,224 was probably while or just after I split up with Jamie. 775 00:33:35,736 --> 00:33:38,425 So where, obviously, I'm now single, 776 00:33:38,450 --> 00:33:40,789 and I've got a lot more stuff on my plate, 777 00:33:40,844 --> 00:33:42,604 like the bills, keeping up with the house, 778 00:33:42,629 --> 00:33:44,109 it can be really, really hard, 779 00:33:44,134 --> 00:33:46,583 and I haven't thought about doing his room out. 780 00:33:46,608 --> 00:33:49,333 ♪ It's bittersweet Yeah, it's bittersweet... ♪ 781 00:33:49,704 --> 00:33:52,603 It just needs to be more of a four-year-old's room. 782 00:33:52,628 --> 00:33:55,628 Yeah, 100%. Then he'd wanna sleep in his bedroom.Yeah. 783 00:33:56,083 --> 00:33:57,083 Definitely. 784 00:33:58,197 --> 00:34:00,977 Claire has been through this herself with her kids, 785 00:34:01,211 --> 00:34:04,894 and it was nice to just get honest feedback from her. 786 00:34:05,622 --> 00:34:08,422 Yeah, see how it goes. I think Arlo will surprise you. 787 00:34:08,447 --> 00:34:10,748 Yeah, I'm hoping.Especially... You know, give it a couple of days. 788 00:34:10,773 --> 00:34:13,628 Yeah. I'm hoping. Yeah. 789 00:34:20,966 --> 00:34:22,579 ♪ All right, now 790 00:34:23,001 --> 00:34:26,509 ♪ I'm a woman, hey 791 00:34:28,612 --> 00:34:30,536 ♪ I'm a woman... ♪ 792 00:34:30,904 --> 00:34:32,382 ELIZABETH: Get off your phone, young lady. 793 00:34:32,408 --> 00:34:34,009 I'm revising! Ah, OK. 794 00:34:36,210 --> 00:34:39,809 'On top of being full time at uni and looking after Khalil, 795 00:34:40,077 --> 00:34:43,136 'I've been revising like crazy for my driving theory test.' 796 00:34:44,522 --> 00:34:47,045 My theory is today! Yay! 797 00:34:47,409 --> 00:34:49,210 No, not really "yay". I'm so scared. 798 00:34:49,835 --> 00:34:52,803 I know the theory is such a small part of everything overall, 799 00:34:52,828 --> 00:34:54,089 but this is important to me 800 00:34:54,114 --> 00:34:56,313 because I've been wanting to get my licence for so long, 801 00:34:56,338 --> 00:34:58,557 and my mum's been wanting me to get my licence for so long. 802 00:34:58,802 --> 00:35:01,282 And this is, like, a big step towards that. 803 00:35:01,383 --> 00:35:02,562 Have you got an orange or anything in here? 804 00:35:02,923 --> 00:35:04,003 Yeah, in that little plastic. 805 00:35:05,600 --> 00:35:08,620 Oh, thank... I forget to take one before I left. Feel a bit sick. 806 00:35:08,733 --> 00:35:12,727 ♪ Nothin' but a woman, woman. ♪ 807 00:35:13,316 --> 00:35:16,063 Right. You're gonna make it! 808 00:35:16,088 --> 00:35:17,543 Thank you.Give me a big cuddle before you go. 809 00:35:17,568 --> 00:35:20,120 Gosh, you're so mushy. A good-luck cuddle! 810 00:35:20,397 --> 00:35:23,296 Don't you know? You are so mushy, Mum. 811 00:35:23,928 --> 00:35:25,026 [ELIZABETH CHUCKLES] 812 00:35:25,659 --> 00:35:28,475 Bye, bye, bye. I'm gonna do fine.You're gonna be all right. 813 00:35:28,740 --> 00:35:30,636 Mate, I'm not moving to Africa for five years. 814 00:35:30,661 --> 00:35:31,758 I'm taking a theory test! 815 00:35:32,336 --> 00:35:34,940 Make sure you bring it, of course, 816 00:35:35,051 --> 00:35:37,692 or else I don't know you. Yeah, yeah, yeah. 817 00:35:37,717 --> 00:35:39,000 All right, I'll see you later. Nah, I'm joking! 818 00:35:40,851 --> 00:35:42,934 ♪ There is no mistaking 819 00:35:43,228 --> 00:35:47,065 ♪ This is a new world 820 00:35:47,791 --> 00:35:49,993 ♪ Yeah, the times are changing 821 00:35:51,200 --> 00:35:53,716 ♪ And I know that we made it 822 00:35:54,520 --> 00:35:56,602 ♪ There is no mistaking 823 00:35:56,627 --> 00:35:59,695 ♪ This is a new world... ♪ 824 00:35:59,720 --> 00:36:02,560 'The test is done, and I've been given my results already.' 825 00:36:02,585 --> 00:36:04,360 Oh, I feel sick. I feel sick. I feel sick. 826 00:36:06,293 --> 00:36:08,373 'But I'm actually afraid to look.' 827 00:36:10,002 --> 00:36:13,507 Yeah! ♪ We are, we are, we are 828 00:36:13,909 --> 00:36:15,334 ♪ The first to break The ceiling... ♪ 829 00:36:15,359 --> 00:36:16,212 Oh, my God, yes! 830 00:36:17,200 --> 00:36:21,020 I've passed! I've just come out of the test centre, and I'm ecstatic. 831 00:36:21,045 --> 00:36:23,341 "You've passed your car theory test." Lovely! 832 00:36:23,694 --> 00:36:25,134 I'm absolutely proud of myself. 833 00:36:25,159 --> 00:36:26,429 I'm gonna get a picture of this. 834 00:36:27,627 --> 00:36:30,067 All of my hard efforts and work paid off in the end. 835 00:36:30,401 --> 00:36:33,201 'I can't wait to tell my mum, Khalil and AJ, 836 00:36:33,226 --> 00:36:34,555 'cos I know they're all just gonna be screaming.' 837 00:36:35,293 --> 00:36:36,724 ELIZABETH:Good job! 838 00:36:37,161 --> 00:36:38,421 You're even better than me. 839 00:36:39,060 --> 00:36:40,627 Oh, hello! 840 00:36:40,732 --> 00:36:43,532 FLATLY: Hey. Oh, what's that face for? 841 00:36:44,488 --> 00:36:45,703 I thought I did... [SIGHS] 842 00:36:45,953 --> 00:36:47,305 Are you serious? AJ:Aw! 843 00:36:48,008 --> 00:36:51,198 Aw, it's OK! Don't worry! 844 00:36:51,941 --> 00:36:54,925 Don't worry. It's OK. 845 00:36:54,974 --> 00:36:56,926 Just book another one straight away. 846 00:36:57,098 --> 00:36:58,346 Look how many points that I lost. 847 00:36:58,371 --> 00:37:00,839 I know, I know. Look how many points that I... 848 00:37:02,893 --> 00:37:03,893 No! [WHITNEY LAUGHS] 849 00:37:06,274 --> 00:37:09,145 No! I just went here, where it says you got number... 850 00:37:09,170 --> 00:37:12,985 You see, I trust you, and I believe you! She passed! 851 00:37:13,184 --> 00:37:15,066 [ALL CHEER] 852 00:37:18,035 --> 00:37:19,416 [ELIZABETH LAUGHS] Oh, congratulations. 853 00:37:19,441 --> 00:37:20,975 I passed! I did it! Mummy has passed! 854 00:37:21,000 --> 00:37:23,169 [CHEERING] 855 00:37:23,840 --> 00:37:27,304 I fell for it because I trust my daughter. 856 00:37:27,329 --> 00:37:28,946 High five. Say, "Clock it!" 857 00:37:29,259 --> 00:37:30,350 Go on. Say, "Clock it!" 858 00:37:30,375 --> 00:37:32,241 Mummy was just joking. Clock it! 859 00:37:32,366 --> 00:37:34,360 I am such a proud mother, 860 00:37:34,385 --> 00:37:36,486 cos obviously, she takes after me, 861 00:37:36,511 --> 00:37:39,425 so, you know, I pat myself on the shoulder 862 00:37:39,450 --> 00:37:43,482 that I'm raising a strong, fine, beautiful queen. 863 00:37:44,140 --> 00:37:45,468 Look, do you know what this means? 864 00:37:45,492 --> 00:37:46,718 Oh, I'm so happy. 865 00:37:46,743 --> 00:37:48,610 It means Mummy's passed her theory test, 866 00:37:48,935 --> 00:37:52,238 so it means we can get... Nana's gonna buy Mummy a car soon! 867 00:37:52,263 --> 00:37:54,545 Yeah? Can you say, "Yeah"? Yeah! 868 00:37:55,013 --> 00:37:56,804 WHITNEY AND KHALIL:Yeah! 869 00:37:56,829 --> 00:37:58,844 High five, honey. Yay! 870 00:37:59,258 --> 00:38:01,477 I passed! That is so good. 871 00:38:02,110 --> 00:38:04,224 ♪ See you soon 872 00:38:06,478 --> 00:38:09,176 ♪ I'm not far away 873 00:38:11,307 --> 00:38:13,461 ♪ See you soon... ♪ 874 00:38:13,835 --> 00:38:15,735 TERRIANN: 'I'm due to be induced tomorrow, 875 00:38:16,255 --> 00:38:18,883 'but I couldn't feel my baby girl moving very much, 876 00:38:19,300 --> 00:38:20,861 'so I've come into hospital. 877 00:38:22,480 --> 00:38:24,221 'They've said everything's fine, 878 00:38:24,246 --> 00:38:26,450 'but they want to start my induction now.' 879 00:38:26,475 --> 00:38:28,313 ♪ When you're holdin' on... ♪ 880 00:38:29,281 --> 00:38:31,650 So, I am on the ward now. 881 00:38:31,675 --> 00:38:34,695 A midwife has just come in, did my observations 882 00:38:34,720 --> 00:38:36,621 and said that everything's OK. 883 00:38:36,646 --> 00:38:38,386 My blood pressure's a little bit high, though, 884 00:38:38,411 --> 00:38:40,558 but I think that's just where I'm panicking myself. 885 00:38:40,793 --> 00:38:42,458 ♪ See you soon... ♪ 886 00:38:43,218 --> 00:38:47,270 'I've opted for a pessary induction, and hopefully, it works fast. 887 00:38:47,977 --> 00:38:50,244 'George and Mum aren't allowed to stay with me overnight 888 00:38:50,269 --> 00:38:53,129 'until I'm in active labour, so I'm all alone.' 889 00:38:54,291 --> 00:38:57,451 I've been on the monitor now for nearly two hours. 890 00:38:57,476 --> 00:39:00,041 Baby girl's heart rate was really, really high, 891 00:39:00,066 --> 00:39:01,539 and then really, really low, 892 00:39:01,678 --> 00:39:04,833 and then couldn't be found because she was moving around so much. 893 00:39:04,858 --> 00:39:06,784 So she's causing me a lot of trouble. 894 00:39:07,199 --> 00:39:10,819 But I have just been checked, and I am one centimetre dilated, 895 00:39:10,844 --> 00:39:13,588 so hopefully, it's not long 896 00:39:13,613 --> 00:39:17,452 until my body just kick-starts and I'm in labour. 897 00:39:18,112 --> 00:39:20,444 But, yeah, it's so real now, 898 00:39:20,469 --> 00:39:22,572 and I'm so excited to just be a mummy. 899 00:39:34,844 --> 00:39:36,235 I'm in a lot of pain, 900 00:39:36,260 --> 00:39:39,105 but I don't know if it's contractions or not. 901 00:39:39,130 --> 00:39:41,609 I've never had contractions, 902 00:39:42,358 --> 00:39:44,343 and I just feel like I'm being a little bit silly. 903 00:39:44,368 --> 00:39:47,371 It feel likes I have got so much pressure 904 00:39:47,396 --> 00:39:49,586 in my bum and my back, 905 00:39:49,611 --> 00:39:52,492 and I feel like I need a poo, but I can't poo. 906 00:39:53,158 --> 00:39:56,255 But then, contractions, your belly's meant to be tight, 907 00:39:56,280 --> 00:39:58,801 and my belly just doesn't seem to be tight, 908 00:39:58,826 --> 00:40:00,247 so I don't really know... 909 00:40:01,811 --> 00:40:03,035 what's going on. 910 00:40:03,060 --> 00:40:06,159 But hopefully, this is just my body dilating. 911 00:40:06,391 --> 00:40:10,076 But I can't sleep. I'm really, really struggling. 912 00:40:13,752 --> 00:40:16,948 'I've been at the hospital for over 17 hours, 913 00:40:17,325 --> 00:40:19,845 'and I definitely know what a contraction is now.' 914 00:40:21,310 --> 00:40:22,790 [TERRIANN GROANS] 'I'm not dilated enough 915 00:40:22,815 --> 00:40:25,729 'to be in active labour, and my waters haven't broken. 916 00:40:25,972 --> 00:40:28,472 'But Mum and George came back as soon as they could, 917 00:40:28,798 --> 00:40:30,217 'so at least I'm not alone.' 918 00:40:30,242 --> 00:40:31,788 Quite windy out here, innit? 919 00:40:32,805 --> 00:40:34,108 JADE:Bit of nice fresh air, though. 920 00:40:34,133 --> 00:40:35,893 You've been inside for hours, haven't you? 921 00:40:36,038 --> 00:40:37,217 Yeah, I needed to get out. 922 00:40:37,242 --> 00:40:39,542 Ah! Ah. How are you feeling? 923 00:40:40,392 --> 00:40:42,452 The contractions were really, really strong. 924 00:40:43,205 --> 00:40:46,592 I know. Just breathe through 'em. 925 00:40:46,617 --> 00:40:47,617 [TERRIANN EXHALES] Yeah. 926 00:40:48,664 --> 00:40:50,205 Everything seems to be going well. 927 00:40:50,371 --> 00:40:52,872 Yeah, so, she's done the stretch and sweep. 928 00:40:52,897 --> 00:40:55,958 Yeah, I've just got to be active now on my ball, walking. 929 00:40:55,991 --> 00:40:58,586 Yeah. Of course. And just push through the pain. 930 00:40:58,611 --> 00:41:00,221 You can do it. Mm-hm. You've got that. 931 00:41:01,605 --> 00:41:02,605 Having it again? 932 00:41:03,917 --> 00:41:06,629 ♪ It's only time... ♪ Right, that was four minutes again. 933 00:41:06,654 --> 00:41:09,333 ♪ When you're counting... ♪ 934 00:41:09,511 --> 00:41:11,190 'It's horrible to see Terriann in pain.' 935 00:41:11,645 --> 00:41:13,395 'I don't like seeing her upset as it is, 936 00:41:13,871 --> 00:41:16,427 'but her, like, sounding in pain and crying, 937 00:41:16,452 --> 00:41:19,693 'it's... it's a lot for me to hear, you know?' 938 00:41:19,718 --> 00:41:22,201 But I'm gonna be there for her and make sure everything's all right. 939 00:41:22,226 --> 00:41:24,348 Keep... Keep reassuring her that it's gonna be OK. 940 00:41:27,720 --> 00:41:28,720 Are you excited? 941 00:41:29,948 --> 00:41:31,587 Do you know, I'm excited to meet her, 942 00:41:31,878 --> 00:41:34,178 but I'm not excited for the pain that's about to come. 943 00:41:35,259 --> 00:41:38,120 It's nerve-wracking now, innit? This is actually the real deal. 944 00:41:38,145 --> 00:41:39,145 It's about to go down. Yeah. 945 00:41:39,178 --> 00:41:41,478 Nine months ago, when I told you I was pregnant... 946 00:41:41,503 --> 00:41:42,904 I know. ..and I called you... 947 00:41:43,585 --> 00:41:44,746 It's all surreal now it's here. 948 00:41:44,771 --> 00:41:47,116 Mad, innit? Like, I've waited so long... 949 00:41:47,423 --> 00:41:49,080 Yeah. ..and we're finally here. 950 00:41:49,193 --> 00:41:51,559 And we can literally meet her today if she... 951 00:41:52,037 --> 00:41:53,294 if she hurries up. 952 00:41:53,491 --> 00:41:54,792 Don't worry, I'll chat to her. 953 00:41:55,935 --> 00:41:57,015 [THEY LAUGH] Have a word with her. 954 00:41:57,040 --> 00:41:59,294 I'll have a word. Aw. 955 00:42:01,198 --> 00:42:03,598 'I couldn't do this without Mum and George.' 956 00:42:04,625 --> 00:42:06,825 'I think George is coping really well, to be fair.' 957 00:42:06,850 --> 00:42:09,045 They haven't even argued yet, which is quite a surprise. 958 00:42:09,070 --> 00:42:10,383 He's been really helpful, 959 00:42:10,408 --> 00:42:14,595 and she said that she's happy with the way he's acting with her 960 00:42:14,620 --> 00:42:16,859 and helping her out and massaging her back. 961 00:42:17,198 --> 00:42:20,745 So I'm glad they're really getting along and it's going well. 962 00:42:20,779 --> 00:42:23,369 Come on, then. Let's go. Oh! [TERRIANN INHALES] 963 00:42:23,589 --> 00:42:26,664 You all right? The pressure when I stand up is unbelievable. 964 00:42:27,085 --> 00:42:28,326 Feels like she's gonna fall out of me. 965 00:42:29,025 --> 00:42:31,148 'I can't wait till I'm holding my little girl, 966 00:42:31,605 --> 00:42:34,946 'but I have a feeling the pain's going to get way worse before then.' 967 00:42:37,890 --> 00:42:41,014 WHINING:I want that... I want that stick! 968 00:42:41,039 --> 00:42:43,478 I've never experienced a tantrum from Khalil to that extent. 969 00:42:43,601 --> 00:42:45,636 SCREAMING:I want the stick! 970 00:42:45,848 --> 00:42:48,390 No! No! 971 00:42:49,840 --> 00:42:51,105 This was the one thing 972 00:42:51,130 --> 00:42:54,145 that I was nervous about doing as a single parent. 973 00:42:55,906 --> 00:42:57,151 I will be the momager. 974 00:42:57,176 --> 00:43:00,495 If you know what you want, perfect. Yeah, we can give it you. 975 00:43:00,610 --> 00:43:02,801 Carter-James! Good lad. 976 00:43:03,615 --> 00:43:06,023 I think, like, the worst-case scenario today 977 00:43:06,048 --> 00:43:10,914 would be, like, them telling me that they're gonna induce me at 39 weeks. 978 00:43:10,939 --> 00:43:13,259 Yeah.And they expect me to push out a 10lb baby. 979 00:43:13,780 --> 00:43:16,899 You're doing brilliantly. Oh, this is so hard. 980 00:43:16,971 --> 00:43:19,429 [TERRIANN GROANS IN PAIN] 981 00:43:19,668 --> 00:43:21,557 CRYING:I've got you! Well done, Terriann.