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90-day The Last Resort.
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Time to get
the party started.
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Hell, yeah.
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Julia.
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Too much.
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I just worry that Julia
is more focused on
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having fun than what we
actually came here for.
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Which is to work
on our issues.
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I want to be married
to somebody
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who's trying to be a mom.
Not a [bleep] stripper.
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Bye.
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Oh, wow!
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It looks like Biniyam's here
to dance and party,
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but I'm not here
to dance the party.
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I'm here to work
on the marriage.
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I really want to make
this therapy work
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and I really want to make
things work between us.
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So I'm gonna give you
your password
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and you'll be happy.
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How's your night going?
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Good.
How's yours?
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- Oh
Oh, my God.
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You are not gonna play
these games with me.
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I didn't start
and it's not my [bleep] fault
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that you're with that dude
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that doesn't give
a [bleep] about you.
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You are gonna apologize.
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You are going
to apologize
right now, Natalie
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I'm crazier.
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bitch!
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- What happened?
I--
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What did she
want?
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- How did you start it?
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- You started.
- I started?
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You had girl code.
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You were like,
"Girl, let me tell you,
this is what I heard."
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That's girl code.
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She's too much.
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That was too much.
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And I'm very sorry
she called you trash.
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I really appreciate
you sticking up for me,
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- for-- like for real,
like I really appreciate--
- I-- I-- I'm
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I'm always gonna be
on the girl's side.
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Yeah, me too.
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But this is unacceptable.
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With the invitation
to Vegas with Sophie
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the story got blown
way out of proportion.
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Sophie and I
are just friends.
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And this is what happens.
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Natalie gets like this
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and that was the whole
point of coming here
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was to see if this is the part
that we could break.
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this habit, this cycle
of this explosion,
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that is what
needs to change.
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But I'm losing hope
at this point.
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No.
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All right.
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Back to party.
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There wasn't a whole
that I could co.
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Why am I gonna sacrifice
who I am as a person
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to go down to some
bitch's level
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that's 20
30 years older than me.
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- Fifty years
older than me.
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Sixty like-- The bitch
is 78 years old.
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I don't need to do that.
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That bitch is 80 years
older than you.
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That bitch is 93 years old.
I don't care.
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I think Natalie
lashing out at me
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has brought us closer.
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Because even though
Rob doesn't like to admit it,
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he loves the tea,
he loves--
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He loves drama
when it's not with us.
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I guess I would agree.
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He loves the tea.
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- Ah!
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Yeah.
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Oh, my gosh.
I left there.
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That kind of uh...
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- you know, stuff...
- Incident?
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- ...that's not
even acceptable.
- Yeah.
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That is bad.
That is bad.
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I really appreciate
you having my back
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and going outside.
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When I felt--
She was out of control,
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and then I felt someone
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like touching my--
my shoulder,
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and it was you.
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- Yeah, I was trying
to pull you away.
- Yeah.
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Thank you, baby.
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I pulled you away.
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Thank you.
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- Cheers to Jasmine...
- Cheers.
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...the ferocious.
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The ferocious.
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I was so excited
to see Jasmine.
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So, you know, excited
and the protector
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and that, like,
totally turned me on,
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and especially since...
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It wasn't me who she--
whose ass she was kicking.
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I'm okay with that.
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So behave and be careful
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with what you say
or you're next.
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I'm just saying.
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The day didn't
start out that great,
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but we're making a comeback
at the end tonight,
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and kissing her.
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And it makes me
feel positive,
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you know, going into
the rest of the therapy.
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I don't know,
maybe next time,
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It's more than
a good night kiss.
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Who knows?
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Yeah. Don't worry.
Everybody is good.
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Mmm...
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Ooh!
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I love when you rub it in.
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Oh, yeah.
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Get that lymphatic
drainage out.
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Yeah, I get that
cellulite, baby
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- Ooh.
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It's good for everything.
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Cellulite,
lymphatic drainage...
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Toning.
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It's like such
a beautiful day out.
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Look at that blue sky.
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Trying to remember
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what happened last night.
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So we slept together.
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Even though
it was accidental.
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- Technically.
"Technically."
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It was great
waking up in the same bed
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as Jasmine for once.
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I was so tired
and drained
by Natalie's drama
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that we just fell asleep.
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Nothing naughty
happened I wish.
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But you know,
it's progress.
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You see, Baby,
is it really that bad
to wake up to me
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in the morning
in the same bed?
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Last night
there was no fighting.
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Can you believe it?
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For the very first time
in so long,
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I felt like I do
have a husband
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that you were
my husband.
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You kissing me?
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You defending me?
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That's exactly
what I meant from you.
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I could feel like
you loved me last night.
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And I missed that.
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And I don't
wanna--
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- make you feel bad right now.
I understand that
and I appreciate that.
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I just-- I just wish
we would be able
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to get along better
every day.
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I do love you like--
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I know that sometimes
you feel like
I don't love you,
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but I know
in my heart
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that I have never loved
anyone the way I love you.
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Anyone, Gino.
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Aw.
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That's so beautiful.
Aw, one kiss.
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That's nice.
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Brandon, good morning.
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Good morning.
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How do you feel?
Why did you sleep
on that couch?
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Because I didn't want
to sleep next to you.
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Last night, Julia let loose
a little too much
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and she embarrassed me.
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She needs to understand
that I have my limits
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of how much
'm gonna take.
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And if she's gonna
keep acting this way,
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I'm just not
gonna take it anymore.
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I have a question for you.
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What was with the way
you're dressed yesterday?
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I want to have
intimate time with you.
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And maybe
you could wear lingerie,
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but you won't even do that.
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But you're gonna
go out dressed
like that for everyone?
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You don't want
to even be sexy for me.
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I'm the one you're
supposed to be sexy for.
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At the end of the day,
we're here to work
on us as a couple.
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And you look like
you're here
to have single fun.
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No. We come to bar
to have fun in a group.
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You were practically
exposed out there.
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You should support me.
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- You should support--
- You were dressed
like a whore.
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You are my husband.
You should be my side.
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And you call me a whore.
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You were dancing
on the bar.
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Okay.
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Well, I have never
hit on her,
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and I approached her
as a friend.
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- And it was incredibly--
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Listen, I gotta go.
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I hope that you apologize
to everybody.
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I have not heard
from Natalie today.
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Um, kind of giving her
some space.
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Last night was a little...
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over the top.
I would say.
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Last night I went
back to the hotel.
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I definitely had to have
my own room
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because right now
there's no way
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I'm staying in the room
with Natalie.
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I have to leave
for a few days
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and you know,
I need to reset.
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I need to think about
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if this is--
If this is right for me.
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I've never crossed any lines
with Sophie whatsoever.
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Um, I've not,
like, hit on her.
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I've not done anything.
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You know, I want--
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I want things to get better
for Natalie, like I do.
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I want her to be happy.
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And I care for her.
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But she needs to learn
how to be normal.
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Like... serious.
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She needs to learn
how to be normal
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and how to interact
with normal people.
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I mean...
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I'm here to ultimately
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figure things out
with Natalie,
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but that blow up was probably
in the top 10, for sure.
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Maybe even top three.
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Like it was up there.
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And I'd like to,
like, squash this
and just like,
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leave her be okay.
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I mean, that's my hope.
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Um, we'll see what I get.
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Who is it?
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It's me.
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Oh, hi.
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Hello
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How are you?
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- Good.
- Good.
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- That's good.
- You want to go outside?
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Sure.
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Pretty wild night.
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Don't you think?
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Did you forget?
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Then what do you need--
Then why are you asking me
the question for?
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Mmm-hmm.
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I see a situation
that was blown
out of proportion.
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I think it could have been
handled much differently.
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Okay, well, I can tell you
that I've never hit on her.
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And I approached her
as a friend.
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- You don't any-- any--
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And you don't even know
what happened.
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- And it was incredibly--
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Okay?
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I'm a little afraid
that I might catch crazy
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- if we keep go on this.
Mmm-hmm.
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So listen, I gotta go.
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Good luck with everybody.
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I hope that you
apologize to everybody
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because they deserve it.
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What is this?
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Uh-oh.
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Fruit tray over here.
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I guess we pick a seat.
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- Oh, look at you guys
- Hey.
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Hello.
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Stacey,
I love your cowgirl outfit.
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- Yes. Yes.
I need
a cowboy hat.
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Did you see the--
the signs?
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No. Maybe. Yes.
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00:19:39,179 --> 00:19:40,680
Well, hello, everyone.
264
00:19:40,680 --> 00:19:41,848
Hi.
Hello.
265
00:19:41,848 --> 00:19:43,683
How are you today?
266
00:19:43,683 --> 00:19:45,185
- Good.
- All right.
267
00:19:45,185 --> 00:19:47,771
Ooh, sex therapy.
268
00:19:47,771 --> 00:19:49,939
I know.
269
00:19:49,939 --> 00:19:51,566
We're gonna
have some fun today.
270
00:19:51,566 --> 00:19:52,817
Sexy time.
271
00:19:52,817 --> 00:19:53,943
Sexy time.
- Um...
272
00:19:54,569 --> 00:19:55,570
So welcome.
273
00:19:55,570 --> 00:19:56,988
I'm super excited
to be here with you
274
00:19:56,988 --> 00:19:59,741
for your first
sex therapy session.
275
00:19:59,741 --> 00:20:02,494
Unfortunately,
Natalie and Josh
couldn't be here today.
276
00:20:02,494 --> 00:20:05,330
Um, but we are going to have
a really good time.
277
00:20:05,330 --> 00:20:08,375
Creating conversation
and exploring pleasure
with each other.
278
00:20:08,875 --> 00:20:10,877
- Oh.
Yes.
279
00:20:10,877 --> 00:20:12,837
When I hear
that it's sex therapy,
280
00:20:12,837 --> 00:20:14,589
I'll get a little excited.
281
00:20:14,589 --> 00:20:16,299
I mean, how could I not?
282
00:20:16,299 --> 00:20:19,427
Hopefully we can
fix our sex life.
283
00:20:19,427 --> 00:20:22,055
For me, my first thoughts
honestly is like
284
00:20:22,055 --> 00:20:24,224
it's gonna be around
the other couples.
285
00:20:24,224 --> 00:20:26,976
So it's like,
I'm interested
to see what it is.
286
00:20:26,976 --> 00:20:28,978
But I'm like, oh God,
whatever we have to do,
287
00:20:28,978 --> 00:20:30,939
I have to do it
around everyone else.
288
00:20:31,981 --> 00:20:34,025
So first,
before we even begin,
289
00:20:34,025 --> 00:20:35,777
I want to ask you guys
a question.
290
00:20:35,777 --> 00:20:38,947
How comfortable
do you feel
talking about sex?
291
00:20:38,947 --> 00:20:40,073
A scale of 1 to 10.
292
00:20:40,073 --> 00:20:41,074
You can blurt it out.
293
00:20:41,074 --> 00:20:42,450
- Ten.
Ten.
294
00:20:42,450 --> 00:20:43,660
Like with who?
295
00:20:43,660 --> 00:20:44,911
With your partner.
296
00:20:44,911 --> 00:20:46,454
- Oh.
- Oh, with the partner?
297
00:20:46,454 --> 00:20:47,789
Zero.
- Zero.
298
00:20:47,789 --> 00:20:49,624
Zero?
Interesting.
299
00:20:49,624 --> 00:20:51,710
So we don't feel
comfortable talking about
sex with our partners.
300
00:20:51,710 --> 00:20:52,752
Is that what I'm hearing?
301
00:20:54,254 --> 00:20:55,630
You guys
don't talk about sex?
302
00:20:55,630 --> 00:20:56,631
No.
No?
303
00:20:57,173 --> 00:20:58,008
What about you guys?
304
00:20:58,008 --> 00:21:00,051
- No.
305
00:21:00,051 --> 00:21:01,553
No, you're not--
You don't--
306
00:21:01,553 --> 00:21:02,512
You don't talk about sex.
307
00:21:02,512 --> 00:21:04,139
You're not
comfortable with it.
308
00:21:04,139 --> 00:21:07,475
I think it's more easy
for me than-- than him,
I would say.
309
00:21:07,475 --> 00:21:10,520
You're each married
to someone from
a different culture. Right?
310
00:21:10,520 --> 00:21:14,357
And culturally,
those differences
can sometimes cause
311
00:21:14,357 --> 00:21:17,736
us to not really
be able to communicate
with each other.
312
00:21:17,736 --> 00:21:19,404
I'm hoping that
we can help everybody
313
00:21:19,404 --> 00:21:21,406
open the lines
of communication.
314
00:21:21,406 --> 00:21:23,700
So what we're going
to do is less talking
315
00:21:23,700 --> 00:21:25,744
and more exploring.
Okay?
316
00:21:25,744 --> 00:21:27,495
- So--
317
00:21:27,495 --> 00:21:31,291
Yeah!
It's 'caused we want to find
that physical connection.
318
00:21:39,883 --> 00:21:41,718
You seemed
being very open
319
00:21:41,718 --> 00:21:42,927
to dancing on bars,
320
00:21:42,927 --> 00:21:46,056
but not being a part
of this sex therapy.
321
00:21:50,852 --> 00:21:52,771
The way you dance
it seems sexual.
322
00:21:58,735 --> 00:22:02,530
So in this exercise,
you'll decide
who's being the explorer,
323
00:22:02,530 --> 00:22:05,658
and then the other person
is going to be the explored.
324
00:22:05,658 --> 00:22:09,371
The explorer is going to take
the larger paintbrush
325
00:22:09,371 --> 00:22:13,041
and you're going to lightly
326
00:22:13,041 --> 00:22:15,960
search for places
that feel good, right?
327
00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:18,296
It can be your neck,
the small of your back.
328
00:22:18,296 --> 00:22:19,631
How about your feet?
329
00:22:19,631 --> 00:22:21,925
Your feet, the soles
of your feet.
330
00:22:21,925 --> 00:22:24,260
Especially right.
331
00:22:24,260 --> 00:22:26,388
When that partner
gets to a point
that feels good,
332
00:22:26,388 --> 00:22:27,722
you're going
to say green light.
333
00:22:27,722 --> 00:22:30,266
And they're gonna
mark that zone with an X
334
00:22:30,266 --> 00:22:31,601
and that's with the syrup.
335
00:22:32,394 --> 00:22:34,854
Almost all
of the couples here
336
00:22:34,854 --> 00:22:38,191
have not had sex
or been intimate in months.
337
00:22:38,191 --> 00:22:42,821
So the point of this exercise
is to reignite the spark
338
00:22:42,821 --> 00:22:44,989
that that set them off
in the first place.
339
00:22:44,989 --> 00:22:48,326
So I'm hoping that
by encouraging them
340
00:22:48,326 --> 00:22:49,619
to be physically intimate.
341
00:22:49,619 --> 00:22:52,455
They'll start to kind of open
those doors for themselves.
342
00:22:55,041 --> 00:22:56,459
No, I'm good.
I'm good.
343
00:22:56,459 --> 00:22:59,087
- Leave the shoe.
No. No
344
00:22:59,087 --> 00:23:00,130
Can you
take my boots off?
345
00:23:04,134 --> 00:23:05,301
You could stand up.
346
00:23:05,885 --> 00:23:07,220
Oh, God.
347
00:23:07,220 --> 00:23:10,432
Oh, my gosh,
this is really
it's gonna be messy.
348
00:23:14,060 --> 00:23:14,894
Watch your feet.
349
00:23:25,155 --> 00:23:26,072
I feel weird.
350
00:23:27,490 --> 00:23:29,409
Okay, from the back
it's not working.
351
00:23:31,494 --> 00:23:32,829
- You're so [bleep] sweaty.
- What's up?
352
00:23:32,829 --> 00:23:34,497
- What's wrong with you.
- I got sweaty feet
353
00:23:34,497 --> 00:23:35,749
- Cowboy...
354
00:23:36,416 --> 00:23:37,250
- Okay.
355
00:23:37,792 --> 00:23:39,419
Hmm, hmm.
356
00:23:39,419 --> 00:23:40,670
Hmm.
357
00:23:40,670 --> 00:23:43,048
Right there Is the green.
Yeah, right there.
358
00:23:43,048 --> 00:23:44,132
You okay?
359
00:23:46,009 --> 00:23:48,345
- So, lift that up.
Yeah.
360
00:23:50,597 --> 00:23:51,431
Nipple?
361
00:23:52,098 --> 00:23:53,308
No, not really.
362
00:23:53,308 --> 00:23:54,184
Yeah.
363
00:23:54,768 --> 00:23:55,602
Yeah.
364
00:23:55,602 --> 00:23:57,062
I don't feel anything.
365
00:23:57,062 --> 00:23:58,897
I know you're going to feel
tickled right here.
366
00:23:58,897 --> 00:24:00,482
I know you.
367
00:24:00,482 --> 00:24:02,025
Probably all
the liposuction.
368
00:24:04,652 --> 00:24:05,487
No.
369
00:24:09,115 --> 00:24:09,949
Red light? Okay.
370
00:24:12,410 --> 00:24:13,370
Okay.
371
00:24:14,662 --> 00:24:16,289
This is your green light.
Right here.
372
00:24:17,332 --> 00:24:18,583
This is green light.
373
00:24:18,583 --> 00:24:20,710
- No, red light.
This is--
I never forget.
374
00:24:20,710 --> 00:24:21,711
It's green light.
You're-- your--
375
00:24:23,797 --> 00:24:25,548
Why don't you be honest?
376
00:24:25,548 --> 00:24:27,175
You love the ears.
I'll, I'll mark it.
377
00:24:28,551 --> 00:24:30,178
- I'm not. I'm telling you--
Maybe I--
I don't like it
378
00:24:30,178 --> 00:24:32,472
- Oh, you've changed
in the last four months.
Yeah.
379
00:24:47,237 --> 00:24:48,154
Red light.
380
00:24:48,154 --> 00:24:49,739
I've had sex
with you so many times.
381
00:24:49,739 --> 00:24:52,075
This is not a red light.
382
00:24:52,075 --> 00:24:54,369
Ooh,
that's kind of nice.
Uh, huh?
383
00:24:54,369 --> 00:24:56,913
I feel good, like,
getting turned on.
384
00:24:59,207 --> 00:25:01,084
This tickle session.
385
00:25:01,084 --> 00:25:02,460
I'm liking it.
I'm loving it.
386
00:25:02,460 --> 00:25:05,422
I feel like it's,
you know, it's sexual,
387
00:25:05,422 --> 00:25:07,090
and I feel like
it's something
388
00:25:07,090 --> 00:25:08,591
you know, we should
do more of.
389
00:25:11,678 --> 00:25:14,597
But to me,
Stacy is happy.
390
00:25:14,597 --> 00:25:16,683
So everything is good,
you know,
391
00:25:20,770 --> 00:25:22,355
I mean, if you wanna
put some sunscreen
392
00:25:22,355 --> 00:25:24,566
- while you're there,
Shut up.
393
00:25:28,945 --> 00:25:29,779
This ain't working.
394
00:25:30,947 --> 00:25:32,365
Jasmine.
How about this?
395
00:25:32,365 --> 00:25:34,242
I hear a lot of red lights
over here, right.
396
00:25:34,242 --> 00:25:36,786
How about you
give him a directive?
397
00:25:36,786 --> 00:25:38,705
Where do you think
there might be
a green light for you?
398
00:25:38,705 --> 00:25:40,915
- Oh, here.
Oh.
399
00:25:40,915 --> 00:25:41,958
All right.
400
00:25:43,960 --> 00:25:44,878
Maybe my neck.
401
00:25:47,964 --> 00:25:50,008
Green light, green light.
402
00:25:50,008 --> 00:25:51,634
Green here?
- Mmm-hmm.
403
00:25:51,634 --> 00:25:52,802
There?
- Mmm-hmm.
404
00:25:59,809 --> 00:26:04,522
Sex is the biggest
obstacle in our marriage.
405
00:26:04,522 --> 00:26:07,525
I can't even remember
when was the last time
that I had sex.
406
00:26:07,525 --> 00:26:09,694
I think I'm virgin again.
No joke.
407
00:26:09,694 --> 00:26:12,197
That thing is close.
408
00:26:12,197 --> 00:26:13,823
But we have
a good night
409
00:26:13,823 --> 00:26:15,658
and we slept
in the same bed.
410
00:26:15,658 --> 00:26:18,661
And during this exercise
he's listening to me,
411
00:26:18,661 --> 00:26:20,747
and that is kind
of turning me on.
412
00:26:20,747 --> 00:26:23,416
I'm starting
to like this class.
413
00:26:26,503 --> 00:26:28,713
- Toe?
- There's a little bit
of something happening
414
00:26:28,713 --> 00:26:29,798
- down there.
- Big toe?
415
00:26:29,798 --> 00:26:31,299
There's a little something
happening down there.
416
00:26:38,139 --> 00:26:40,850
All right.
Now we have the explorers.
417
00:26:40,850 --> 00:26:41,768
They've marked
their spot.
418
00:26:41,768 --> 00:26:44,187
Now it's time
to remove the syrup.
419
00:26:45,021 --> 00:26:46,231
With what?
420
00:26:46,231 --> 00:26:47,524
- With your mouth.
421
00:26:49,442 --> 00:26:50,694
I knew it.
422
00:26:54,447 --> 00:26:55,657
Oh, my gosh.
- Eat it!
423
00:26:56,199 --> 00:26:57,033
Eat it!
424
00:26:57,784 --> 00:26:58,660
Come.
425
00:26:59,369 --> 00:27:00,829
- Come.
Oh, my...
426
00:27:00,829 --> 00:27:01,705
All right.
427
00:27:04,874 --> 00:27:06,543
There--
Look at this, man.
428
00:27:08,712 --> 00:27:10,213
Oh, my God,
that's a lot of syrup.
429
00:27:16,469 --> 00:27:17,679
Do it more, baby.
430
00:27:19,222 --> 00:27:20,724
Oh, my God.
431
00:27:20,724 --> 00:27:22,142
Oh, my...
432
00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:29,315
Gino and Jasmine,
they're having a blast.
433
00:27:36,156 --> 00:27:38,283
Their relationship
might be fine after this.
434
00:27:39,325 --> 00:27:40,410
Suck it like...
435
00:27:41,578 --> 00:27:42,996
Yes, like that.
436
00:27:42,996 --> 00:27:44,831
It's good.
437
00:27:45,707 --> 00:27:47,876
- I like this exercise.
438
00:27:51,338 --> 00:27:53,882
You licked it,
just like suck it off.
439
00:27:56,051 --> 00:27:58,219
Julia, these kiwis
aren't gonna eat themselves.
440
00:27:59,179 --> 00:28:00,680
Where you-- Oh!
441
00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:07,896
I got it. Don't worry.
I got it.
442
00:28:08,605 --> 00:28:09,439
That's it.
443
00:28:10,440 --> 00:28:11,274
That's it.
444
00:28:14,110 --> 00:28:16,279
Biniyam doesn't want
to, like, admit to like,
445
00:28:16,279 --> 00:28:18,239
enjoying the exercise like
446
00:28:18,239 --> 00:28:22,369
grow up like this
is supposed to be
a fun exercise.
447
00:28:22,369 --> 00:28:25,246
When things were good,
like we could have sex
and we could still laugh.
448
00:28:25,246 --> 00:28:27,749
He would do, like,
naked dancing in the shower
449
00:28:27,749 --> 00:28:30,210
or, like, do a striptease
with me and like...
450
00:28:30,210 --> 00:28:32,754
I mean, you know,
we did have that closeness
for a while.
451
00:28:32,754 --> 00:28:34,381
I do miss that.
452
00:28:34,381 --> 00:28:36,299
I'm not sucking that off.
Delete that.
453
00:28:36,966 --> 00:28:38,468
Get that off.
454
00:28:38,468 --> 00:28:40,637
That's gone.
I'm not sucking that.
455
00:28:42,389 --> 00:28:43,431
Just gonna erase it.
456
00:28:45,308 --> 00:28:47,018
I really don't wanna
suck the nipple.
457
00:28:47,018 --> 00:28:48,144
Stop being so weird about it.
458
00:28:48,144 --> 00:28:49,771
And I put
so much on there.
459
00:28:49,771 --> 00:28:51,147
Stop being weird
about it.
460
00:28:52,232 --> 00:28:53,441
I don't wanna do it.
461
00:28:53,441 --> 00:28:55,276
- Jesus Christ.
I will. Lift it up.
462
00:28:55,276 --> 00:28:57,445
No, it makes me feel
very unwanted and very unsexy.
463
00:28:59,823 --> 00:29:01,074
It's not you.
464
00:29:01,074 --> 00:29:02,951
You're making it feel
like it's me.
465
00:29:02,951 --> 00:29:05,537
It's that it can't be sexy
if this is a nipple.
466
00:29:05,537 --> 00:29:07,330
Yeah, which is sexy.
467
00:29:07,330 --> 00:29:09,749
No, it's not.
It's a man's nipple.
468
00:29:09,749 --> 00:29:10,959
It's my nipple.
469
00:29:12,752 --> 00:29:15,714
Sophie's acting like my body
repulses her right now.
470
00:29:15,714 --> 00:29:17,590
And as her husband,
that's pretty [bleep] up.
471
00:29:17,590 --> 00:29:19,843
Here I am,
willing to try anything,
472
00:29:19,843 --> 00:29:23,513
and she just...
She stops herself,
so she stops us.
473
00:29:24,472 --> 00:29:26,141
I feel rejected,
I feel not wanted,
474
00:29:26,141 --> 00:29:27,600
I feel...
475
00:29:27,600 --> 00:29:31,354
I feel like,
"Why am I here with somebody
who doesn't want me?"
476
00:29:32,188 --> 00:29:33,982
It's not like
I'm a disgusting person.
477
00:29:38,361 --> 00:29:40,864
Something
from your past
is affecting you.
478
00:29:40,864 --> 00:29:42,198
What's the first thing
that comes up
479
00:29:42,198 --> 00:29:44,534
when you think about trauma?
480
00:29:50,790 --> 00:29:52,000
And this
is what I'm talking about.
481
00:29:52,000 --> 00:29:53,084
There's direct links.
482
00:29:53,084 --> 00:29:55,503
You got so upset with Sophie
483
00:29:55,503 --> 00:29:57,881
instead of dealing
with your relationship
with Josh.
484
00:30:21,654 --> 00:30:24,491
- Hi. How are you?
Hello!
485
00:30:24,491 --> 00:30:25,575
How are you doing?
486
00:30:25,575 --> 00:30:26,868
I'm good.
How are you?
487
00:30:26,868 --> 00:30:28,703
Good. I'm glad
we had a chance to meet up.
488
00:30:28,703 --> 00:30:30,497
- Yes.
- Here's some water.
I know it's hot out here.
489
00:30:30,497 --> 00:30:33,667
Thank you, yeah,
for giving me therapy time.
490
00:30:33,667 --> 00:30:35,001
- Of course.
- Thank you.
491
00:30:35,001 --> 00:30:36,294
- Let's walk.
- Okay.
492
00:30:36,294 --> 00:30:38,129
Let's maybe find a place
to sit and relax.
493
00:31:03,613 --> 00:31:06,074
So, Natalie,
you reached out to me today.
494
00:31:06,074 --> 00:31:07,158
What prompted that?
495
00:31:07,701 --> 00:31:11,538
Um, I had...
496
00:31:13,206 --> 00:31:16,209
kind of emotional breakdown
yesterday.
497
00:31:17,544 --> 00:31:20,296
- We had a party.
- Okay.
498
00:31:31,474 --> 00:31:32,726
What was that like?
Hearing that?
499
00:31:39,399 --> 00:31:40,400
Don't apologize.
500
00:31:42,569 --> 00:31:45,155
That's a lot to take in.
That's a lot to hear.
501
00:31:48,033 --> 00:31:51,411
How did things wind up going
between you and Josh
this morning?
502
00:31:52,245 --> 00:31:53,079
Well...
503
00:31:55,999 --> 00:32:00,754
because I said to him
not nice things and he left.
504
00:32:02,714 --> 00:32:03,840
Okay.
505
00:32:07,844 --> 00:32:11,014
So it was, like, painful.
506
00:32:11,014 --> 00:32:13,892
I'm hearing things
didn't go so well this morning
with Josh,
507
00:32:13,892 --> 00:32:16,144
but you're here for therapy.
508
00:32:16,144 --> 00:32:17,812
What do you want with Josh?
509
00:32:17,812 --> 00:32:19,439
What do you want
to get out of this with him?
510
00:32:34,621 --> 00:32:35,705
Also...
511
00:32:51,888 --> 00:32:53,223
So a few things
are going through my brain.
512
00:32:53,223 --> 00:32:55,809
I hear you,
and I've been experiencing you
513
00:32:55,809 --> 00:32:57,602
and you say, "You know,
I wanna be accepted."
514
00:32:57,602 --> 00:33:02,357
And I can't help but to think,
"What is really
at the core here?"
515
00:33:02,357 --> 00:33:04,484
There's something more
happening.
516
00:33:04,484 --> 00:33:07,278
Clearly you have
all of these stressors.
517
00:33:07,278 --> 00:33:08,738
You have your relationship.
518
00:33:09,823 --> 00:33:11,491
There's something deeper.
519
00:33:17,789 --> 00:33:24,170
And I would almost think
that something from your past
is affecting you,
520
00:33:24,170 --> 00:33:27,382
that is causing your actions,
your behaviors,
521
00:33:27,382 --> 00:33:33,471
for you to respond
in a certain way with Josh,
with other people around you.
522
00:33:35,265 --> 00:33:36,433
What's the first thing
that comes up
523
00:33:36,433 --> 00:33:40,687
when you think
about trauma, past childhood?
524
00:33:40,687 --> 00:33:41,646
Well...
525
00:33:55,952 --> 00:33:57,954
- Bullying.
Yeah.
526
00:34:27,150 --> 00:34:28,610
And this
is what I'm talking about.
527
00:34:28,610 --> 00:34:29,778
There's direct links.
528
00:34:29,778 --> 00:34:31,821
This brings us back
to last night, actually.
529
00:34:31,821 --> 00:34:33,698
Or last night
actually brings us back
530
00:34:33,698 --> 00:34:35,658
to all this past stuff
that you've been through.
531
00:34:36,826 --> 00:34:38,828
You got so upset with Sophie
532
00:34:38,828 --> 00:34:41,164
instead of dealing
with your relationship
with Josh.
533
00:35:03,269 --> 00:35:05,647
I really don't wanna
suck the nipple.
534
00:35:05,647 --> 00:35:10,360
Sophie is refusing
to trust the process
535
00:35:10,360 --> 00:35:12,445
and just go for it.
536
00:35:12,445 --> 00:35:14,572
I cannot help but feel
a little rejected.
537
00:35:18,743 --> 00:35:20,954
No, it's not you.
It's not you, I promise.
538
00:35:38,680 --> 00:35:39,973
It's sweet, right?
539
00:35:41,474 --> 00:35:42,559
Shut up!
540
00:35:45,562 --> 00:35:46,855
I can't even...
541
00:35:47,480 --> 00:35:48,606
This side--
542
00:35:48,606 --> 00:35:49,566
Hold on,
I don't want it
to get on my shirt.
543
00:35:57,157 --> 00:35:59,492
No, it's not you.
It's not you, I promise.
544
00:36:06,708 --> 00:36:08,543
Okay, I'ma do it,
but I'm gonna cover myself.
545
00:36:11,546 --> 00:36:14,174
Okay. Okay,
we're having fun over here.
546
00:36:14,174 --> 00:36:15,175
I have to lick
his nipple!
547
00:36:15,175 --> 00:36:17,552
Okay. Okay,
how does that feel, Rob?
548
00:36:18,261 --> 00:36:20,722
It feels great,
but she won't...
549
00:36:20,722 --> 00:36:22,766
I'm having to do
so much convincing.
550
00:36:24,267 --> 00:36:29,606
Sophie is refusing
to trust the process
551
00:36:29,606 --> 00:36:31,524
and just go for it.
552
00:36:31,524 --> 00:36:34,027
I know that she's
a little bit shy,
553
00:36:34,027 --> 00:36:36,196
but I cannot help but feel
a little rejected.
554
00:36:36,196 --> 00:36:37,280
I licked the nipple.
555
00:36:37,280 --> 00:36:38,740
Hey, but there's
a difference between
556
00:36:38,740 --> 00:36:41,785
"I really have to do it?
Okay, I'll [bleep] do it."
557
00:36:41,785 --> 00:36:45,121
And, like actually
making me feel, like,
it's like you're into it.
558
00:36:46,456 --> 00:36:48,792
There's a huge difference.
It's not the same.
559
00:37:00,095 --> 00:37:03,390
So, Natalie,
I'm picking up these beliefs
560
00:37:03,390 --> 00:37:04,599
that have been stored.
561
00:37:04,599 --> 00:37:06,768
And the beliefs
that are in your brain
562
00:37:06,768 --> 00:37:09,896
sound something like,
"I'm not good enough.
563
00:37:11,106 --> 00:37:13,108
I'm less than. I'm weak."
564
00:37:18,822 --> 00:37:20,240
"I don't deserve to be loved."
565
00:37:29,165 --> 00:37:31,251
That's the work
that needs to be done.
566
00:37:31,251 --> 00:37:34,671
The belief that I would
like to see for you
567
00:37:34,671 --> 00:37:37,590
would be related to
"I am good enough.
568
00:37:38,508 --> 00:37:39,509
I am loved."
569
00:37:41,928 --> 00:37:43,638
And then, in turn,
570
00:37:43,638 --> 00:37:46,349
when we're in these
romantic relationships
or friendships,
571
00:37:46,349 --> 00:37:47,976
that will translate.
572
00:37:47,976 --> 00:37:49,936
I think the very first step...
573
00:37:49,936 --> 00:37:54,733
I would love for you
to be able to share
a little bit with Josh,
574
00:37:54,733 --> 00:37:58,695
of what you've been through,
what you've maybe shared
in our session.
575
00:37:58,695 --> 00:37:59,863
The vulnerability piece.
576
00:38:01,031 --> 00:38:03,033
I think it's important
that you trust Josh.
577
00:38:05,201 --> 00:38:08,038
I feel like Natalie needs
to do some significant work
578
00:38:08,038 --> 00:38:13,376
on past childhood traumas
and how that affects
her behaviors today
579
00:38:13,376 --> 00:38:15,920
in order for her to have
a healthy relationship
with Josh.
580
00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:17,881
I feel like there needs
to be more communication,
581
00:38:17,881 --> 00:38:20,175
a stronger connection
between the two of them,
582
00:38:20,175 --> 00:38:24,346
and hopes that that will
facilitate more commitment.
583
00:38:24,346 --> 00:38:28,558
She wants to be loved,
she wants to be cared for,
she wants the support.
584
00:38:28,558 --> 00:38:30,143
And that
is not unreasonable at all.
585
00:38:30,143 --> 00:38:32,270
She deserves
all of those things.
586
00:38:32,270 --> 00:38:34,356
Again, that's the importance
of having therapy,
587
00:38:34,356 --> 00:38:36,107
group therapy,
and even individual therapy
588
00:38:36,107 --> 00:38:39,527
to deal with some
of these emotions
that are built up.
589
00:38:39,527 --> 00:38:44,199
I'm also thinking
it's important
if we address the group
590
00:38:44,199 --> 00:38:47,535
for you to say your piece,
possibly have an apology
in that,
591
00:38:48,578 --> 00:38:50,747
and give a little bit
of information
592
00:38:50,747 --> 00:38:53,333
as to how and why
you respond in that way.
593
00:39:01,758 --> 00:39:03,510
There's more work to be done,
594
00:39:03,510 --> 00:39:05,261
but this was
a great first step.
595
00:39:05,762 --> 00:39:06,763
Thank you.
596
00:39:08,598 --> 00:39:09,849
You should be
proud of yourself.
597
00:39:10,934 --> 00:39:12,268
- Thank you.
Yeah.
598
00:39:55,729 --> 00:40:02,527
I have start thinking
about having a person
that will satisfy me,
599
00:40:02,527 --> 00:40:03,903
but it's not like a threesome.
600
00:40:34,934 --> 00:40:36,227
All right, guys.
601
00:40:36,227 --> 00:40:40,273
I've got a next step
for you all.
602
00:40:40,273 --> 00:40:42,734
One thing that we've talked
about today
603
00:40:42,734 --> 00:40:44,361
is it's really hard
for some of us
604
00:40:44,361 --> 00:40:46,321
to talk about sex, right?
605
00:40:46,321 --> 00:40:48,365
So for our next activity,
we're gonna play a game
606
00:40:48,365 --> 00:40:53,244
called Yes, no, maybe. Okay?
607
00:40:53,244 --> 00:40:57,165
I'm gonna pass around
some blank sheets of paper
and pens,
608
00:40:57,165 --> 00:41:00,502
and I want you
to think of one thing
609
00:41:00,502 --> 00:41:04,297
you'd like to try
in the bedroom, okay?
610
00:41:04,297 --> 00:41:06,299
We're gonna put it
in the bucket
611
00:41:06,299 --> 00:41:08,885
and then I'm gonna read off
the things that you've shared.
612
00:41:08,885 --> 00:41:12,639
So if you're a yes
to the activity that you
hear me say,
613
00:41:12,639 --> 00:41:14,641
you're gonna walk over
to the "Yes" sign.
614
00:41:14,641 --> 00:41:18,144
If you're a no, you're going
to walk over to the "No" sign.
615
00:41:18,144 --> 00:41:21,356
If you're a maybe,
you're going to walk over
to the "Maybe" sign.
616
00:41:21,356 --> 00:41:23,233
- Okay? Does that make sense?
- Yep.
617
00:41:23,233 --> 00:41:25,568
- How dirty can these ideas be?
- Oh...
618
00:41:26,653 --> 00:41:28,488
As dirty
as you want, Gino.
619
00:41:28,488 --> 00:41:31,408
Get as imaginative
as you like, sir.
620
00:41:39,916 --> 00:41:41,167
Gino and Jasmine.
621
00:41:43,670 --> 00:41:47,882
Gino and Jasmine
definitely seem like the most
sexually aggressive couple,
622
00:41:47,882 --> 00:41:51,344
so it is surprising,
the fact that they're
even not having sex.
623
00:42:00,311 --> 00:42:02,480
Like, is there
something you want to try?
624
00:42:02,480 --> 00:42:07,152
Like cuddling or,
I don't know,
like kissing more.
625
00:42:07,152 --> 00:42:11,156
This is an exercise in, like,
really thinking about
what you desire.
626
00:42:15,201 --> 00:42:16,286
Sure. Yeah.
627
00:42:21,875 --> 00:42:24,002
The point of this
Yes, no, maybe exercise
628
00:42:24,002 --> 00:42:26,880
is partners will learn a lot
about each other
that they didn't know,
629
00:42:26,880 --> 00:42:30,050
where their desires
and their pleasure lies,
630
00:42:30,050 --> 00:42:31,718
where there are yeses
and maybes
631
00:42:31,718 --> 00:42:36,014
so we can help to inject
some fun, new things
to their intimacy.
632
00:42:36,723 --> 00:42:38,808
But some of them may learn
633
00:42:38,808 --> 00:42:41,019
that they don't know
their partner the way
they thought they did.
634
00:42:42,395 --> 00:42:43,688
All right. First one.
635
00:42:44,564 --> 00:42:46,191
"Make a sexy video"
636
00:42:46,191 --> 00:42:50,528
So walk to the sign
that represents how you feel
637
00:42:50,528 --> 00:42:53,573
about your willingness
to do or try this thing.
638
00:42:54,199 --> 00:42:55,408
Oh.
639
00:43:00,872 --> 00:43:01,873
Oh, yes, the three of us.
640
00:43:03,667 --> 00:43:06,336
Yes, Stacey! Whoo!
641
00:43:06,336 --> 00:43:09,381
So you'd like to try
making a sexy video.
Feels good?
642
00:43:09,381 --> 00:43:10,382
I have done it.
643
00:43:10,382 --> 00:43:12,550
- You've done it? Okay.
Yeah.
644
00:43:12,550 --> 00:43:14,344
With Gino?
Or by yourself, like...
645
00:43:14,344 --> 00:43:15,720
Uh...
646
00:43:17,180 --> 00:43:21,309
Oh, it was... Okay. TMI.
647
00:43:21,309 --> 00:43:25,021
So it looks like we have
a "Yes" and a "Maybe"
together. Okay.
648
00:43:25,021 --> 00:43:26,272
I have some hope.
649
00:43:26,272 --> 00:43:28,108
Okay.
- I have some hope, yeah.
650
00:43:29,275 --> 00:43:32,320
I'm mostly in "Maybe" section
because, you know,
651
00:43:32,320 --> 00:43:34,239
I'm just a little worried
about the security of it.
652
00:43:35,699 --> 00:43:37,951
Have I done it before? Yeah.
653
00:43:37,951 --> 00:43:39,953
Some freaky
floating around about Gino.
654
00:43:40,620 --> 00:43:41,788
Not with me.
655
00:43:44,416 --> 00:43:50,964
Yes, I have done, like,
sex videos in the past
for academic purposes.
656
00:43:52,090 --> 00:43:53,758
Like, so you can get better.
657
00:43:53,758 --> 00:43:57,387
I've done it in the past,
yes, I have,
with ex-girlfriends.
658
00:44:09,399 --> 00:44:11,609
- Yeah, I don't recall that.
659
00:44:12,485 --> 00:44:13,695
So...
660
00:44:13,695 --> 00:44:17,323
Okay, has anyone else
done this before
on the "Yes" side?
661
00:44:17,323 --> 00:44:19,284
I've done it,
just not with my wife.
662
00:44:19,284 --> 00:44:22,037
- Oh, well, it looks like
this is a good time to try.
Tonight.
663
00:44:22,037 --> 00:44:24,456
- Look at that.
- Look at that.
Who would have thought?
664
00:44:24,456 --> 00:44:26,666
Okay. All right,
the next one is...
665
00:44:28,418 --> 00:44:30,795
a third person.
666
00:44:37,177 --> 00:44:38,261
Welcome to club.
667
00:44:39,679 --> 00:44:42,057
Okay, so we're gonna go
to the "Maybes".
668
00:44:42,057 --> 00:44:44,100
Look at the couple
under the "Maybe".
669
00:44:44,684 --> 00:44:46,311
I'm shocked.
670
00:44:46,311 --> 00:44:47,479
- I couldn't believe it.
Really?
671
00:44:47,479 --> 00:44:49,022
- You're just copying me.
- I'm not copying you.
672
00:44:50,357 --> 00:44:53,276
I couldn't believe
that she would be here.
673
00:44:53,276 --> 00:44:54,778
- Okay, we have the threesome.
Her jealousy makes
it so...
674
00:44:54,778 --> 00:44:57,072
There we have
the threesome in the "Maybe".
675
00:45:04,704 --> 00:45:07,582
Brandon, how do you feel
about Julia being under
the "Maybe" sign?
676
00:45:07,582 --> 00:45:08,833
She doesn't even want
to have sex with me.
677
00:45:08,833 --> 00:45:10,210
She wants to have sex
with someone else?
678
00:45:10,210 --> 00:45:11,670
All right.
With a third person.
679
00:45:11,670 --> 00:45:14,047
- I don't understand that.
Got it.
680
00:45:14,881 --> 00:45:15,965
Seriously?
681
00:45:15,965 --> 00:45:18,009
I was like, don't you dare
walk over to "Maybe".
682
00:45:18,009 --> 00:45:19,386
Are you kidding me?
683
00:45:21,721 --> 00:45:23,098
So I trying
to be honest, so...
684
00:45:23,098 --> 00:45:24,933
I mean... And I'm here.
685
00:45:24,933 --> 00:45:26,309
Maybe
I should go over to "Yes"
686
00:45:26,309 --> 00:45:29,688
because I mean, I feel like
what more guys want to have,
687
00:45:29,688 --> 00:45:32,315
you know, a threesome with
with multiple girls, whatever,
688
00:45:32,315 --> 00:45:35,694
but I wouldn't say that
because I don't want
to hurt my partner.
689
00:45:35,694 --> 00:45:37,153
Okay, Brandon,
come to the "Yes".
690
00:45:37,153 --> 00:45:38,238
Maybe I should.
691
00:45:38,238 --> 00:45:41,241
- We got another one.
692
00:45:41,241 --> 00:45:42,283
Whoo!
693
00:45:42,283 --> 00:45:43,660
It's a male fantasy,
694
00:45:43,660 --> 00:45:45,954
and I don't wanna admit it
because I don't wanna
hurt my partner,
695
00:45:45,954 --> 00:45:49,040
because if it was reversed,
it would hurt me.
696
00:45:49,040 --> 00:45:52,168
So it hurts me
for her to go over there,
and that's not fair.
697
00:45:54,754 --> 00:45:58,049
Well,
I can't believe Julia
accepted a threesome card.
698
00:45:58,049 --> 00:45:59,259
I'm like, "If you and I
can't even have sex,
699
00:45:59,259 --> 00:46:02,554
why would another person
ever be involved?
That is insane."
700
00:46:02,554 --> 00:46:03,930
You moved to "Yes".
701
00:46:04,597 --> 00:46:06,808
Oh, yeah, to spite you.
702
00:46:06,808 --> 00:46:10,228
I would like to start
being intimate, you and I,
you know?
703
00:46:10,228 --> 00:46:11,938
That's all I really want.
704
00:46:19,946 --> 00:46:24,701
Okay, so we have a couple
under the "Yes" section.
705
00:46:25,452 --> 00:46:26,786
This is a big deal.
706
00:46:27,704 --> 00:46:29,080
Either one of you,
have you ever tried,
707
00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:30,957
in this relationship
or any other relationship,
708
00:46:30,957 --> 00:46:33,084
bringing a third person
into your relationship?
709
00:46:34,294 --> 00:46:35,462
- No
No.
710
00:46:36,296 --> 00:46:37,505
- Have you ever tried it?
- No.
711
00:46:37,505 --> 00:46:39,132
No.
What makes you interested?
712
00:46:40,467 --> 00:46:42,177
It's kind of like
one of my fantasies.
713
00:46:42,177 --> 00:46:43,636
Oh, really?
- Yeah.
714
00:46:47,474 --> 00:46:48,600
Let him speak.
715
00:46:48,600 --> 00:46:51,102
That is a good question,
that's a huge question.
716
00:46:51,102 --> 00:46:54,981
Girl all the way,
'cause for me,
I'm thinking "girl," so...
717
00:46:54,981 --> 00:46:56,358
Okay.
- Yeah... You know.
718
00:46:56,358 --> 00:46:59,527
Okay. All right,
what about you, Jasmine?
719
00:46:59,527 --> 00:47:02,864
Now, I realize that
even though we are both a yes,
720
00:47:02,864 --> 00:47:04,824
our perspective
or understanding
721
00:47:04,824 --> 00:47:06,618
of a third person
is different.
722
00:47:06,618 --> 00:47:08,411
Tell me more.
723
00:47:08,411 --> 00:47:10,413
When you said yes
to a third person,
what were you thinking?
724
00:47:12,248 --> 00:47:16,961
I was thinking,
since our main issue is sex
725
00:47:16,961 --> 00:47:21,007
and we've been
going around for nine months,
726
00:47:21,007 --> 00:47:26,346
I have start thinking
about having a person
727
00:47:26,346 --> 00:47:28,807
that will satisfy
that need for me,
728
00:47:28,807 --> 00:47:33,311
but it's not like a threesome,
it's...
729
00:47:34,813 --> 00:47:37,816
Sounds like
what you're describing
is like an open relationship.
730
00:47:41,611 --> 00:47:45,782
Where you guys
kind of make an agreement
and have an understanding
731
00:47:45,782 --> 00:47:48,451
that you see other people
for certain needs.
732
00:47:51,705 --> 00:47:53,039
- Yes.
- Yes?
733
00:48:14,686 --> 00:48:17,689
When I think
about third person,
that's the way I look at it.
734
00:48:17,689 --> 00:48:18,857
Got it.
735
00:48:21,735 --> 00:48:25,488
We were having
so much fun here
in the sex therapy today.
736
00:48:25,488 --> 00:48:28,116
You know,
feeling some intimacy,
feeling good.
737
00:48:28,116 --> 00:48:30,326
We haven't done this
in so long.
738
00:48:31,244 --> 00:48:32,871
And you know...
739
00:48:32,871 --> 00:48:35,999
You're talking about
an open marriage
with somebody else.
740
00:48:35,999 --> 00:48:37,917
What the
is up with that?
741
00:48:37,917 --> 00:48:41,254
Maybe we're
in a lot more trouble
than I thought we were.
742
00:48:50,430 --> 00:48:51,806
Let's go!
743
00:48:51,806 --> 00:48:54,434
Next time on
90 Day: The Last Resort...
744
00:48:54,434 --> 00:48:57,395
Go jump! Yay!
745
00:48:57,395 --> 00:48:59,856
It's fun
being out in the desert.
746
00:48:59,856 --> 00:49:03,693
If our relationship could be
like this all the time,
we'd be golden.
747
00:49:03,693 --> 00:49:05,695
Yeah! Whoo!
748
00:49:08,531 --> 00:49:10,825
So I guess at this point,
it's like, what do you guys
think?
749
00:49:10,825 --> 00:49:13,203
You even gonna get
to the recommitment ceremony?
750
00:49:13,203 --> 00:49:15,080
At this point, I don't know.
751
00:49:15,080 --> 00:49:16,373
There's no way
I can predict that.
752
00:49:21,461 --> 00:49:24,798
I don't know how much
a husband is supposed to give
753
00:49:24,798 --> 00:49:27,300
before it's justified
to walk away.
754
00:49:33,264 --> 00:49:34,641
I'm done with her.
755
00:49:44,484 --> 00:49:45,485
Let's go.
756
00:49:48,321 --> 00:49:49,322
Here goes nothing.
757
00:49:54,911 --> 00:49:58,415
Let's go!
- Whoo!
758
00:49:58,415 --> 00:50:00,041
Never seen Gino like this.
759
00:50:00,041 --> 00:50:02,919
Florian, stop being
a bad influence
760
00:50:02,919 --> 00:50:03,837
for my husband.
761
00:50:07,132 --> 00:50:08,091
Whoo!
762
00:50:08,091 --> 00:50:09,134
Y'all were having--
763
00:50:09,134 --> 00:50:11,136
- No, no, no. No.
- No, no, no.
764
00:50:15,473 --> 00:50:16,474
Jasmine,
what the [bleep] is this?
765
00:50:16,474 --> 00:50:18,018
Let have [bleep] fun, okay?
766
00:50:18,018 --> 00:50:19,686
That's not normal
- No, no, no.
767
00:50:19,686 --> 00:50:21,187
- Whoa, whoa. No!
No, no more drinks.