- [whooping] - [Natalie in English]
[narrator] 90-day The Last Resort.
[in English]
Time to get the party started.
Hell, yeah.
[crowd cheering]
[woman in English]
[Brandon] Julia.
Too much.
I just worry that Julia is more focused on
having fun than what we actually came here for.
Which is to work on our issues.
I want to be married to somebody
who's trying to be a mom. Not a [bleep] stripper.
Bye.
[whooping]
[Natalie speaking]
[Natalie] Oh, wow!
It looks like Biniyam's here to dance and party,
but I'm not here to dance the party.
I'm here to work on the marriage.
[in English]
I really want to make this therapy work
and I really want to make things work between us.
So I'm gonna give you your password
and you'll be happy.
[Biniyam speaking]
How's your night going?
[Josh] Good. How's yours?
[in English]
[Jasmine speaking]
[in English]
[indistinct chatter]
- Oh - [woman] Oh, my God.
You are not gonna play these games with me.
I didn't start [bleep] and it's not my [bleep] fault
that you're with that dude
that doesn't give a [bleep] about you.
You are gonna apologize.
You are going to apologize right now, Natalie
[Biniyam speaking indistinctly]
[in English]
I'm crazier.
[engine sputtering]
[bleep] bitch!
[in English]
[bleep]
[Jasmine in English]
[bleep]
- What happened? - [Jasmine] I--
[in English]
[Sophie] What did she [bleep] want?
[in English]
- How did you start it? - [Jasmine speaking]
- You started. - I started?
[Stacey] You had girl code.
You were like, "Girl, let me tell you, this is what I heard."
That's girl code.
She's too much.
That was too much.
And I'm very sorry she called you trash.
I really appreciate you sticking up for me,
- for-- like for real, like I really appreciate-- - I-- I-- I'm
I'm always gonna be on the girl's side.
[Stacey] Yeah, me too.
But this is unacceptable.
[Josh] With the invitation to Vegas with Sophie
the story got blown way out of proportion.
Sophie and I are just friends.
And this is what happens.
Natalie gets like this
and that was the whole point of coming here
was to see if this is the part that we could break.
this habit, this cycle of this explosion,
that is what needs to change.
But I'm losing hope at this point.
[in English]
[Julia speaking]
[in other language]
[bleep]
[Julia speaking in other language]
[bleep]
[Julia in English]
[Natalie] No.
[Julia in Ukrainian]
[Natalie in Ukrainian]
- [Julia in Ukrainian] - [sniffing]
[Natalie in Ukrainian]
[bleep]
[Julia speaking]
[Natalie speaking]
[bleep]
[sobbing]
- [in Spanish] - [Julia in English]
[in English]
[Josh] All right.
[Julia whooping]
Back to party.
[chuckles]
- [Sophie in English] - [Rob] There wasn't a whole [bleep] that I could co.
Why am I gonna sacrifice who I am as a person
to go down to some bitch's level
that's 20 [bleep] 30 years older than me.
- Fifty years older than me. - [laughing]
Sixty like-- The bitch is 78 years old.
I don't need to do that.
That bitch is 80 years older than you.
That bitch is 93 years old. I don't care.
I think Natalie lashing out at me
has brought us closer.
Because even though Rob doesn't like to admit it,
he loves the tea, he loves-- [chuckles]
He loves drama when it's not with us.
I guess I would agree.
He loves the tea.
- Ah! - [chuckles]
[Jasmine in English]
[Gino] Yeah.
Oh, my gosh. I left there.
[Gino] That kind of uh...
- you know, stuff... - Incident?
- ...that's not even acceptable. - Yeah.
That is bad. That is bad.
[in English]
I really appreciate you having my back
and going outside.
When I felt-- She was out of control,
and then I felt someone
like touching my-- my shoulder,
and it was you.
- Yeah, I was trying to pull you away. - Yeah.
Thank you, baby.
I pulled you away.
Thank you.
- Cheers to Jasmine... - Cheers.
...the ferocious.
[laughing] The ferocious.
[Gino] I was so excited to see Jasmine.
So, you know, excited and the protector
and that, like, totally turned me on,
and especially since...
It wasn't me who she-- whose ass she was kicking.
I'm okay with that.
So behave and be careful
with what you say or you're next.
I'm just saying.
[Gino] The day didn't start out that great,
but we're making a comeback at the end tonight,
and kissing her.
And it makes me feel positive,
you know, going into the rest of the therapy.
I don't know, maybe next time,
It's more than a good night kiss.
Who knows?
[Gino speaking]
- [Florian] Yeah. Don't worry. Everybody is good. - [in English]
[Stacey] Mmm...
Ooh!
I love when you rub it in.
Oh, yeah.
Get that lymphatic drainage out. [sighs]
Yeah, I get that cellulite, baby
- Ooh. - [Florian in English]
It's good for everything.
Cellulite, lymphatic drainage...
Toning.
[chuckles]
[Gino] It's like such a beautiful day out.
Look at that blue sky.
Trying to remember
what happened last night.
[in English]
So we slept together.
Even though it was accidental.
- Technically. - [Jasmine] "Technically."
[Gino] It was great waking up in the same bed
as Jasmine for once.
I was so tired and drained by Natalie's drama
that we just fell asleep.
Nothing naughty happened I wish.
But you know, it's progress.
You see, Baby, is it really that bad to wake up to me
in the morning in the same bed?
[sighs]
[in English]
Last night there was no fighting.
Can you believe it?
For the very first time in so long,
I felt like I do have a husband
that you were my husband.
You kissing me?
You defending me?
That's exactly what I meant from you.
I could feel like you loved me last night.
And I missed that.
[tearfully] And I don't wanna--
- make you feel bad right now. - [Gino] I understand that and I appreciate that.
I just-- I just wish we would be able
to get along better every day.
I do love you like--
I know that sometimes you feel like I don't love you,
[sniffles] but I know in my heart
that I have never loved anyone the way I love you.
Anyone, Gino.
Aw.
That's so beautiful. Aw, one kiss.
[kissing]
That's nice.
Brandon, good morning.
Good morning.
How do you feel? Why did you sleep on that couch?
[grunts softly] Because I didn't want to sleep next to you.
Last night, Julia let loose a little too much
and she embarrassed me.
She needs to understand that I have my limits
of how much 'm gonna take.
And if she's gonna keep acting this way,
I'm just not gonna take it anymore.
I have a question for you.
What was with the way you're dressed yesterday?
I want to have intimate time with you.
And maybe you could wear lingerie,
but you won't even do that.
But you're gonna go out dressed like that for everyone?
[Julia in English]
[Brandon] You don't want to even be sexy for me.
I'm the one you're supposed to be sexy for.
At the end of the day, we're here to work on us as a couple.
And you look like you're here to have single fun.
No. We come to bar to have fun in a group.
[in English]
You were practically exposed out there.
You should support me.
- You should support-- - You were dressed like a whore.
You are my husband. You should be my side.
And you call me a whore.
[in English]
You were dancing on the bar.
[Julia speaking]
Okay.
[Natalie in English]
Well, I have never hit on her,
and I approached her as a friend.
- And it was incredibly-- - [in English]
Listen, I gotta go.
I hope that you apologize to everybody.
[in English]
I have not heard from Natalie today.
Um, kind of giving her some space.
Last night was a little...
[smacks lips] over the top. I would say.
Last night I went back to the hotel.
I definitely had to have my own room
because right now there's no way
I'm staying in the room with Natalie.
I have to leave for a few days
and you know, I need to reset.
I need to think about
if this is-- If this is right for me.
I've never crossed any lines with Sophie whatsoever.
Um, I've not, like, hit on her.
I've not done anything.
You know, I want--
I want things to get better for Natalie, like I do.
I want her to be happy.
And I care for her.
But she needs to learn how to be normal.
Like... serious.
She needs to learn how to be normal
and how to interact with normal people.
[exhales] I mean...
I'm here to ultimately
figure things out with Natalie,
but that blow up was probably in the top 10, for sure.
Maybe even top three.
Like it was up there.
And I'd like to, like, squash this and just like,
leave her be okay.
I mean, that's my hope.
Um, we'll see what I get.
Who is it?
[Josh] It's me.
Oh, hi.
Hello
How are you?
- Good. - Good.
- That's good. - You want to go outside?
Sure.
[sighs]
Pretty wild night.
Don't you think?
[in English]
[sighs in exasperation]
[Josh] Did you forget?
[in English]
Then what do you need-- Then why are you asking me the question for?
[in English]
[Josh] Mmm-hmm.
I see a situation that was blown out of proportion.
I think it could have been handled much differently.
[in English]
Okay, well, I can tell you that I've never hit on her.
And I approached her as a friend.
- You don't any-- any-- - [in English]
And you don't even know what happened.
- And it was incredibly-- - [in English]
Okay?
[in English]
[chuckles]
I'm a little afraid that I might catch crazy
- if we keep go on this. - [Natalie] Mmm-hmm.
So listen, I gotta go.
Good luck with everybody.
I hope that you apologize to everybody
because they deserve it.
[Stacey] What is this?
Uh-oh.
Fruit tray over here.
I guess we pick a seat.
- Oh, look at you guys - Hey.
[Stacey] Hello.
[Gino] Stacey, I love your cowgirl outfit.
- Yes. Yes. - [Gino] I need a cowboy hat.
[Biniyam in English]
Did you see the-- the signs?
No. Maybe. Yes.
Well, hello, everyone.
- [women] Hi. - [man] Hello.
How are you today?
- Good. - All right.
Ooh, sex therapy. [laughing]
[Jasmine] I know.
[Reba] We're gonna have some fun today.
[Rob] Sexy time.
- [Jasmine chuckles] Sexy time. - Um...
So welcome.
I'm super excited to be here with you
for your first sex therapy session.
Unfortunately, Natalie and Josh couldn't be here today.
Um, but we are going to have a really good time.
Creating conversation and exploring pleasure with each other.
- Oh. - [Reba] Yes.
When I hear that it's sex therapy,
I'll get a little excited.
I mean, how could I not?
[chuckles] Hopefully we can fix our sex life.
For me, my first thoughts honestly is like
it's gonna be around the other couples.
So it's like, I'm interested to see what it is.
But I'm like, oh God, whatever we have to do,
I have to do it around everyone else.
[Reba] So first, before we even begin,
I want to ask you guys a question.
How comfortable do you feel talking about sex?
A scale of 1 to 10.
You can blurt it out.
- Ten. - [Reba] Ten.
Like with who?
[Reba] With your partner.
- Oh. - Oh, with the partner?
- [Ariela] Zero. - Zero.
- [chuckles] - [Reba] Zero? Interesting.
So we don't feel comfortable talking about sex with our partners.
Is that what I'm hearing?
[in English]
[Reba] You guys don't talk about sex?
- [Biniyam] No. - [Reba] No?
What about you guys?
- [in English] - No.
No, you're not-- You don't--
You don't talk about sex.
You're not comfortable with it.
I think it's more easy for me than-- than him, I would say.
You're each married to someone from a different culture. Right?
And culturally, those differences can sometimes cause
us to not really be able to communicate with each other.
I'm hoping that we can help everybody
open the lines of communication.
So what we're going to do is less talking
and more exploring. Okay?
- So-- [chuckles] - [squealing]
[Reba] Yeah! It's 'caused we want to find that physical connection.
[Julia in English]
You seemed being very open
to dancing on bars,
but not being a part of this sex therapy.
[in English]
The way you dance it seems sexual.
[in English]
So in this exercise, you'll decide who's being the explorer,
and then the other person is going to be the explored.
The explorer is going to take the larger paintbrush
and you're going to lightly
search for places that feel good, right?
It can be your neck, the small of your back.
How about your feet?
Your feet, the soles of your feet.
- [chuckles softly] - [Reba] Especially right.
When that partner gets to a point that feels good,
you're going to say green light.
And they're gonna mark that zone with an X
and that's with the syrup.
Almost all of the couples here
have not had sex or been intimate in months.
So the point of this exercise is to reignite the spark
that that set them off in the first place.
So I'm hoping that by encouraging them
to be physically intimate.
They'll start to kind of open those doors for themselves.
[Gino in English]
[Jasmine] No, I'm good. I'm good.
- Leave the shoe. No. No - [Gino in English]
[Stacey] Can you take my boots off?
[woman laughs]
You could stand up.
[grunts] Oh, God.
[Gino] Oh, my gosh, this is really it's gonna be messy.
Watch your feet.
[Jasmine chuckles]
[in English]
[Jasmine] I feel weird.
Okay, from the back it's not working.
- You're so [bleep] sweaty. - What's up?
- What's wrong with you. - I got sweaty feet
- Cowboy... - [bleep]
- [both grunt] - Okay.
Hmm, hmm.
Hmm.
Right there Is the green. Yeah, right there.
[Sophie] You okay?
- So, lift that up. - [Rob] Yeah.
[Rob grunts]
[Sophie] Nipple?
No, not really.
Yeah.
I don't feel anything.
I know you're going to feel tickled right here.
I know you.
[Stacey] Probably all the liposuction.
[Biniyam] No.
[in English]
[Ariela] Red light? Okay.
[Biniyam in English]
[Ariela] Okay.
This is your green light. Right here.
[Biniyam in English]
This is green light.
- No, red light. - [Ariela] This is-- I never forget.
It's green light. You're-- your--
Why don't you be honest?
You love the ears. I'll, I'll mark it.
[Biniyam in English]
- I'm not. I'm telling you-- - [Biniyam] Maybe I-- I don't like it
- Oh, you've changed in the last four months. - [Biniyam] Yeah.
[Biniyam in English]
Red light.
I've had sex with you so many times.
This is not a red light. [chuckles]
- [Stacey] Ooh, that's kind of nice. - [Florian] Uh, huh?
I feel good, like, getting turned on.
[both chuckle]
This tickle session.
I'm liking it. I'm loving it.
I feel like it's, you know, it's sexual,
and I feel like it's something
you know, we should do more of.
[in English]
But to me, Stacy is happy.
So everything is good, you know,
[Julia in English]
I mean, if you wanna put some sunscreen
- while you're there, - [Julia] Shut up.
[in English]
[Gino] This ain't working.
[Reba] Jasmine. How about this?
I hear a lot of red lights over here, right.
How about you give him a directive?
Where do you think there might be a green light for you?
- Oh, here. - [Gino] Oh.
[whispers] All right.
Maybe my neck.
[chuckles]
Green light, green light.
- [Gino] Green here? - Mmm-hmm.
- [Gino] There? - Mmm-hmm.
[Jasmine] Sex is the biggest obstacle in our marriage.
I can't even remember when was the last time that I had sex.
I think I'm virgin again. No joke.
That thing is close.
But we have a good night
and we slept in the same bed.
And during this exercise he's listening to me,
and that is kind of turning me on.
I'm starting to like this class.
[screams, chuckles]
- Toe? - There's a little bit of something happening
- down there. - Big toe?
There's a little something happening down there.
[Sophie speaking]
[Reba] All right. Now we have the explorers.
They've marked their spot.
Now it's time to remove the syrup.
[Rob] With what?
- With your mouth. - [Jasmine gasps]
[chuckles nervously]
I knew it.
[laughing]
- [Gino] Oh, my gosh. - Eat it!
Eat it!
Come.
- Come. - [Gino] Oh, my...
All right.
[both laugh]
There-- Look at this, man.
Oh, my God, that's a lot of syrup.
[screams]
[all laughing]
[Jasmine] Do it more, baby.
- [laughing] - [Sophie] Oh, my God.
Oh, my... [laughs]
Gino and Jasmine, they're having a blast.
[Julia in English]
Their relationship might be fine after this.
[in English]
Suck it like... [slurping]
Yes, like that.
[laughs] It's good.
- I like this exercise. - [Gino laughs]
[chuckles]
You licked it, just like suck it off.
[chuckles]
Julia, these kiwis aren't gonna eat themselves.
Where you-- Oh!
I got it. Don't worry. I got it.
[Biniyam] That's it.
That's it.
[in English]
[Ariela] Biniyam doesn't want to, like, admit to like,
enjoying the exercise like
grow up like this is supposed to be a fun exercise.
When things were good, like we could have sex and we could still laugh.
He would do, like, naked dancing in the shower
or, like, do a striptease with me and like...
I mean, you know, we did have that closeness for a while.
I do miss that.
I'm not sucking that off. Delete that.
Get that off.
That's gone. I'm not sucking that.
Just gonna erase it.
I really don't wanna suck the nipple.
Stop being so weird about it.
[Sophie] And I put so much on there.
[Rob] Stop being weird about it.
I don't wanna do it.
- Jesus Christ. - [Sophie] I will. Lift it up.
No, it makes me feel very unwanted and very unsexy.
[Sophie] It's not you.
You're making it feel like it's me.
It's that it can't be sexy if this is a nipple.
Yeah, which is sexy.
No, it's not. It's a man's nipple.
It's my nipple.
Sophie's acting like my body repulses her right now.
And as her husband, that's pretty [bleep] up.
Here I am, willing to try anything,
and she just... She stops herself, so she stops us.
I feel rejected, I feel not wanted,
I feel...
I feel like, "Why am I here with somebody who doesn't want me?"
It's not like I'm a disgusting person.
[James] Something from your past is affecting you.
What's the first thing that comes up
when you think about trauma?
And this is what I'm talking about.
There's direct links.
You got so upset with Sophie
instead of dealing with your relationship with Josh.
[sobbing]
- Hi. How are you? - [Natalie] Hello!
How are you doing?
[Natalie] I'm good. How are you?
Good. I'm glad we had a chance to meet up.
- Yes. - Here's some water. I know it's hot out here.
Thank you, yeah, for giving me therapy time.
- Of course. - Thank you.
- Let's walk. - Okay.
Let's maybe find a place to sit and relax.
[James] So, Natalie, you reached out to me today.
What prompted that?
Um, I had...
kind of emotional breakdown yesterday.
- We had a party. - Okay.
What was that like? Hearing that?
[James] Don't apologize.
That's a lot to take in. That's a lot to hear.
How did things wind up going between you and Josh this morning?
[Natalie] Well...
because I said to him not nice things and he left.
[James] Okay.
[Natalie speaking]
So it was, like, painful.
I'm hearing things didn't go so well this morning with Josh,
but you're here for therapy.
What do you want with Josh?
What do you want to get out of this with him?
Also...
So a few things are going through my brain.
I hear you, and I've been experiencing you
and you say, "You know, I wanna be accepted."
And I can't help but to think, "What is really at the core here?"
There's something more happening.
Clearly you have all of these stressors.
You have your relationship.
There's something deeper.
And I would almost think that something from your past is affecting you,
that is causing your actions, your behaviors,
for you to respond in a certain way with Josh, with other people around you.
What's the first thing that comes up
when you think about trauma, past childhood?
Well...
- Bullying. - [Natalie] Yeah.
And this is what I'm talking about.
There's direct links.
This brings us back to last night, actually.
Or last night actually brings us back
to all this past stuff that you've been through.
You got so upset with Sophie
instead of dealing with your relationship with Josh.
[crying]
[sobbing]
I really don't wanna suck the nipple.
Sophie is refusing to trust the process
and just go for it.
I cannot help but feel a little rejected.
[Sophie] No, it's not you. It's not you, I promise.
[Stacey] It's sweet, right?
- [Julia] Shut up! - [Brandon laughing]
[Brandon giggling]
I can't even...
This side--
[Gino] Hold on, I don't want it to get on my shirt.
[Sophie] No, it's not you. It's not you, I promise.
[Gino exclaims]
[Sophie] Okay, I'ma do it, but I'm gonna cover myself.
[Reba] Okay. Okay, we're having fun over here.
[Sophie] I have to lick his nipple!
Okay. Okay, how does that feel, Rob?
It feels great, but she won't...
I'm having to do so much convincing.
Sophie is refusing to trust the process
and just go for it.
I know that she's a little bit shy,
but I cannot help but feel a little rejected.
[Sophie] I licked the nipple.
[Rob] Hey, but there's a difference between
[mimicking Sophie] "I really have to do it? Okay, I'll [bleep] do it."
And, like actually making me feel, like, it's like you're into it.
There's a huge difference. [chuckles] It's not the same.
So, Natalie, I'm picking up these beliefs
that have been stored.
And the beliefs that are in your brain
sound something like, "I'm not good enough.
I'm less than. I'm weak."
"I don't deserve to be loved."
That's the work that needs to be done.
The belief that I would like to see for you
would be related to "I am good enough.
I am loved."
And then, in turn,
when we're in these romantic relationships or friendships,
that will translate.
I think the very first step...
I would love for you to be able to share a little bit with Josh,
of what you've been through, what you've maybe shared in our session.
The vulnerability piece.
I think it's important that you trust Josh.
I feel like Natalie needs to do some significant work
on past childhood traumas and how that affects her behaviors today
in order for her to have a healthy relationship with Josh.
I feel like there needs to be more communication,
a stronger connection between the two of them,
and hopes that that will facilitate more commitment.
She wants to be loved, she wants to be cared for, she wants the support.
And that is not unreasonable at all.
She deserves all of those things.
Again, that's the importance of having therapy,
group therapy, and even individual therapy
to deal with some of these emotions that are built up.
I'm also thinking it's important if we address the group
for you to say your piece, possibly have an apology in that,
and give a little bit of information
as to how and why you respond in that way.
There's more work to be done,
but this was a great first step.
Thank you.
You should be proud of yourself.
- Thank you. - [James] Yeah.
I have start thinking about having a person that will satisfy me,
but it's not like a threesome.
[Florian speaking]
[Reba] All right, guys.
I've got a next step for you all.
One thing that we've talked about today
is it's really hard for some of us
to talk about sex, right?
So for our next activity, we're gonna play a game
called Yes, no, maybe. Okay?
I'm gonna pass around some blank sheets of paper and pens,
and I want you to think of one thing
you'd like to try in the bedroom, okay?
We're gonna put it in the bucket
and then I'm gonna read off the things that you've shared.
So if you're a yes to the activity that you hear me say,
you're gonna walk over to the "Yes" sign.
If you're a no, you're going to walk over to the "No" sign.
If you're a maybe, you're going to walk over to the "Maybe" sign.
- Okay? Does that make sense? - Yep.
- How dirty can these ideas be? - Oh...
[Reba] As dirty as you want, Gino.
Get as imaginative as you like, sir.
[people laughing]
[Brandon] Gino and Jasmine.
Gino and Jasmine definitely seem like the most sexually aggressive couple,
so it is surprising, the fact that they're even not having sex.
[Reba] Like, is there something you want to try?
Like cuddling or, I don't know, like kissing more.
This is an exercise in, like, really thinking about what you desire.
[Reba] Sure. Yeah.
[Reba laughs]
[Jasmine speaking]
[Reba] The point of this Yes, no, maybe exercise
is partners will learn a lot about each other that they didn't know,
where their desires and their pleasure lies,
where there are yeses and maybes
so we can help to inject some fun, new things to their intimacy.
But some of them may learn
that they don't know their partner the way they thought they did.
All right. First one.
"Make a sexy video"
So walk to the sign that represents how you feel
about your willingness to do or try this thing.
Oh.
Oh, yes, the three of us.
Yes, Stacey! Whoo!
So you'd like to try making a sexy video. Feels good?
[Jasmine] I have done it.
- You've done it? Okay. - [Jasmine] Yeah.
With Gino? Or by yourself, like...
Uh...
Oh, it was... Okay. TMI.
So it looks like we have a "Yes" and a "Maybe" together. Okay.
I have some hope.
- [Reba] Okay. - I have some hope, yeah.
I'm mostly in "Maybe" section because, you know,
I'm just a little worried about the security of it.
Have I done it before? Yeah.
Some freaky [bleep] floating around about Gino.
Not with me.
Yes, I have done, like, sex videos in the past for academic purposes.
Like, so you can get better.
I've done it in the past, yes, I have, with ex-girlfriends.
- Yeah, I don't recall that. - [Jasmine laughs]
So...
Okay, has anyone else done this before on the "Yes" side?
I've done it, just not with my wife.
- Oh, well, it looks like this is a good time to try. - [Jasmine] Tonight.
- Look at that. - Look at that. Who would have thought?
[Reba] Okay. All right, the next one is...
[exhales] a third person.
[people laughing]
Welcome to club.
Okay, so we're gonna go to the "Maybes".
Look at the couple under the "Maybe".
I'm shocked.
- I couldn't believe it. - [Reba] Really?
- You're just copying me. - I'm not copying you.
I couldn't believe that she would be here.
- Okay, we have the threesome. - [Rob] Her jealousy makes it so...
[Jasmine] There we have the threesome in the "Maybe".
[Julia speaking]
Brandon, how do you feel about Julia being under the "Maybe" sign?
She doesn't even want to have sex with me.
She wants to have sex with someone else?
[Reba] All right. With a third person.
- I don't understand that. - [Reba] Got it.
Seriously?
I was like, don't you dare walk over to "Maybe".
Are you kidding me?
So I trying to be honest, so...
I mean... And I'm here.
[Brandon] Maybe I should go over to "Yes"
because I mean, I feel like what more guys want to have,
you know, a threesome with with multiple girls, whatever,
but I wouldn't say that because I don't want to hurt my partner.
[Jasmine] Okay, Brandon, come to the "Yes".
Maybe I should.
- [Gino and Jasmine cheering] - We got another one.
Whoo!
It's a male fantasy,
and I don't wanna admit it because I don't wanna hurt my partner,
because if it was reversed, it would hurt me.
So it hurts me for her to go over there, and that's not fair.
[Brandon] Well, I can't believe Julia accepted a threesome card.
I'm like, "If you and I can't even have sex,
why would another person ever be involved? That is insane."
You moved to "Yes".
Oh, yeah, to spite you.
I would like to start being intimate, you and I, you know?
That's all I really want.
Okay, so we have a couple under the "Yes" section.
This is a big deal.
Either one of you, have you ever tried,
in this relationship or any other relationship,
bringing a third person into your relationship?
- No - [Reba] No.
- Have you ever tried it? - No.
[Reba] No. What makes you interested?
It's kind of like one of my fantasies.
- [Reba] Oh, really? - Yeah.
[Stacey] Let him speak.
That is a good question, that's a huge question.
Girl all the way, 'cause for me, I'm thinking "girl," so...
- [Reba] Okay. - Yeah... You know.
Okay. All right, what about you, Jasmine?
Now, I realize that even though we are both a yes,
our perspective or understanding
of a third person is different.
[Reba] Tell me more.
When you said yes to a third person, what were you thinking?
I was thinking, since our main issue is sex
and we've been going around for nine months,
I have start thinking about having a person
that will satisfy that need for me,
but it's not like a threesome, it's...
Sounds like what you're describing is like an open relationship.
Where you guys kind of make an agreement and have an understanding
that you see other people for certain needs.
- Yes. - Yes?
[Florian speaking]
[Jasmine] When I think about third person, that's the way I look at it.
[Reba] Got it.
We were having so much fun here in the sex therapy today.
You know, feeling some intimacy, feeling good.
We haven't done this in so long.
And you know...
You're talking about an open marriage with somebody else.
What the [bleep] is up with that?
Maybe we're in a lot more trouble than I thought we were.
[Biniyam] Let's go!
[Brandon] Next time on 90 Day: The Last Resort...
[Biniyam] Go jump! Yay!
[Ariela] It's fun being out in the desert.
If our relationship could be like this all the time, we'd be golden.
[Biniyam] Yeah! Whoo!
So I guess at this point, it's like, what do you guys think?
You even gonna get to the recommitment ceremony?
At this point, I don't know.
There's no way I can predict that.
[Florian speaking]
I don't know how much a husband is supposed to give
before it's justified to walk away.
[Jasmine speaking]
I'm done with her.
Let's go.
Here goes nothing.
- [Brandon] Let's go! - Whoo!
Never seen Gino like this.
Florian, stop being a bad influence
for my husband.
Whoo!
Y'all were having--
- No, no, no. No. - No, no, no.
[Jasmine speaking]
[Florian] Jasmine, what the [bleep] is this?
Let have [bleep] fun, okay?
- [Stacey] That's not normal [yells imperceptibly] - No, no, no.
- Whoa, whoa. No! - [Jasmine] No, no more drinks.