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-So, between me and you, do you
think you're ready for tomorrow?

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-Oh, I'm ready, ready.

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-[ Chuckles ]

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♪♪♪♪

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-You're going to be, like,
worrying about nothing.

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-Well, I'll run through it.

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Tell me if I've got it right.

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You do the two jumps
on the skates,

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and I look like I'm doing...

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-It's one jump.
-Oh, one jump. Okay.

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We start to go into
our two-person turns.

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-No, we're doing
side-by-side spins.

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-Okay, side-by-side spins.

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-It's a one-foot glide
to a lunge.

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-Yeah.
-And then we finish.

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♪♪♪♪

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-I know you're going to do well.

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-Well, so are you.
-Thanks.

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[ Groans ]
Yeah, that's it.

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-And here he goes,
the great Olympic swimmer.

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-I'm in, I think.

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[ Both laugh ]

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-Geronimo!
-Oh, geez!

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Oh, you're something else.
You know that?

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-Yeah.
-Oh, man.

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That's part of the reason
why I love you.

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-Love you, too.
Good night, hon.

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-Good night.
-Okay.

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-Might be a nice idea if we
turned out the lights, though.

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That's one thing we forgot.
-I don't feel like getting up.

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I'm comfortable now.

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-Well, I guess we're going
to sleep with the light on then!

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-Yes. Think of it
as a hotel night-light.

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This way, you don't fall out
the bed in the dark.

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-Yeah, but it's not gonna stop
me from falling out of the bed.

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-It's not going to stop me
from laughing, either.

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[ Laughs ]

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Okay, okay! I'm sorry.
[ Laughs ]

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-Okay. Good night, hon.

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♪♪♪♪

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-Good night, hon.
-Good night.

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♪♪♪♪

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♪♪♪♪

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♪♪♪♪

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[ Coughs ]

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♪♪♪♪

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-Today is our first time
doing Special Olympics pairs

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for figure skating.

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-Please welcome
our next skaters,

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Patrice Jetter
and Garry Wickham.

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-I do the choreography,
and Garry picks the music.

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-♪♪ O, Fortuna ♪♪

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♪♪ Statu variabilis ♪♪

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♪♪ Semper crescis ♪♪

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♪♪ Aut decrescis ♪♪

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♪♪ Vita detestabilis ♪♪

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♪♪ Corde pulsum tangite ♪♪

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♪♪ Mecum omnes plangite ♪♪

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♪♪♪♪

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♪♪♪♪

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[ Cheers and applause ]

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-I love you.

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♪♪♪♪

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♪♪♪♪

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-I really love skating
with Garry a lot.

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I can't even describe it.
He's everything.

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When I'm skating,
I feel like I'm free.

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But in real life,
things aren't so easy.

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Hi. My name is Patrice.

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I am a totally cool person
with a disability

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who could do most anything with
the exception of bungee jumping,

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pyrotechnics,
and uber-dangerous stunts,

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because then I need
a stunt double for that.

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Yes!

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-Patrice is a big magnet
for people.

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-She is, hands down,
the most famous crossing guard

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in Hamilton Township.

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She might as well be Madonna.

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Do that sound, hon, because
you're good at doing the...

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-[ Growls ]
-[ Laughs ]

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-I didn't really have any
friends before I met Patrice.

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-She's the funnest
possible aunt.

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Like "Whoo!
The party has arrived."

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-She's good at making
dreams come true for anybody.

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Never been in a hot tub before.

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-You got to get hit
with one of these bubble jets.

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-Ooh, I get it in my back.
-Yeah, there you go.

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-Ooh.

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Patrice always sees
the best side of life.

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If it can be done,
she will do it.

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-Whee!
[ Crowd cheers ]

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-I couldn't find any
store-bought costumes

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in my size,

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so I decided that
I was going to sew a costume,

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and then I know it would fit me.

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-It was like magic
to see the way she could draw.

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-She even created her
own kids' television show.

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-Kids like me because if I see
something fun...

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[ Crowd cheers ]

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...I want to do it.

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♪♪♪♪

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[ Clock ticking ]

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When I turned 50,

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I realized that I had stories
in my life that need to be told.

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And one day, when I'm not here,

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there'll be nobody
to tell those things.

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And when you tell
a true story to people,

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you need the pictures
to go with the story.

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So, I started making
drawings for all of my stories.

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I'm just thankful that I'm
able to remember all this stuff

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because if I couldn't
remember some of this stuff,

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we wouldn't have
an interesting movie.

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This is
Palisades Amusement Park.

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That was the first amusement
park that I ever went to.

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I was six years old
at the time.

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-♪♪ Palisades has the rides,
Palisades has the fun ♪♪

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♪♪ Come on over ♪♪

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-I had never seen anything
like that in my life.

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Mom, this is amazing!

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I was raised by a single mom.

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She never had time
for stuff like that.

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-So, what do you want to do
first, Patrice?

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-Everything!

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Mom let me ride
the kiddie coaster,

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and we played games,
and we rode on the monorail.

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Even though Mom had a fear
of heights,

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it was one of my most
favorite days with Mom ever.

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I started kindergarten
that same year.

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I didn't know that Mom tried
to pass me off as a kid

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without a disability.

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-Whatever you do, don't stand
out, and no one will notice.

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-Notice what?
-Don't worry about it.

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-Okay.

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-You'll be great.
-Okay.

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But the problem was when I went
to school, people did notice.

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-What's wrong with you?

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-[ Sighs ]

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I was the only kid made
to wear a harness

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with a five-foot leash on it.

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[ School bell rings ]

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Standing out at school
was a bad thing.

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[ Kids laugh ]

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You never got invited
to go to birthday parties.

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They would beat me up,
steal my stuff,

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and throw flaming pieces
of paper at me.

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-Get out here, you retard,
so we can pound you.

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-I wasn't aware
that I had a disability

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until the other kids
treated me different.

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My eyes were opened
to something

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that was never there before.

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London broil that's rare,
with fried potatoes and onions.

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-Oh, man! Aw!

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It's been a while since
we can afford to have steak.

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I tell you that, boy.

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-Well, I found a deal.
Buy one, get one free.

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-You know what's going to happen
later with these onions.

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[ Both laugh ]

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Oops.

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-You might as well forget
that one.

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-You know there's
at least one drop per meal.

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-That just can't be helped.
It is what it is.

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You're like a spiller
and a dribbler.

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-[ Laughs ]

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If we were out to dinner
somewhere,

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and I'd knock over a glass
by mistake

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or whatever
and it'd spill on the table,

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my dad, he'd be rolling
his eyes in his head,

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like everything I did
was embarrassing to him.

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-I would say or do something,
being myself,

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and sometimes I wasn't
even aware

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that my family was embarrassed
by it.

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To us.

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-To us.

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Later, if you want,
I'll rub your feet.

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-Hmm. Okay.

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[ Birds chirping ]

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-Alexa, play Anne Murray's

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"May I Have This Dance?"

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-Playing specific songs

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is only available
with Amazon Music Unlimited.

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-You bitchy...
You bitch, just play it!

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[ Both laugh ]

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Alexa, play "May I Have
This Dance?" by Anne Murray.

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♪♪♪♪

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One night,
we were going to sleep.

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And I just looked at her
and I said,

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"Would you like to be my wife?"

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♪♪ Could I have this dance
for the rest of my life? ♪♪

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-I hugged him, and I gave him
a big kiss and I told him yes.

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♪♪♪♪

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♪♪♪♪

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-But then, somebody
had to drop the anvil and say,

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"No, you can't get married

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because you're going to lose
your benefits."

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-If you get married,

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and you're collecting
a Social Security benefit

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through Supplemental
Security Income,

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SSI, your benefit will be cut,
period.

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That's it.
It just will be cut.

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And you would probably lose
your Medicaid benefits.

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-For me, personally,
I have cerebral palsy.

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I was born with it.

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The Medicare and Medicaid
thing, I have to have it.

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-Right.

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-I mean, we'd never be
able to pay for the bills.

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-Well, they don't care.
It's just simple as that.

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-It's just not right.

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-They punish you
for feeling feelings

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that everybody else feels, and
it's like, "Oh, you're disabled.

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You're not like everybody else."

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-It's completely true,

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but it's not just actually
legally getting married.

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Even if you're living together,
that could jeopardize benefits.

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And, again, your Social Security
would be reduced or lost,

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and the same for your Medicaid.

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It would be, um...

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it would have to be
a very unique circumstance

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for there to be no negative
impact on the two of you

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to actually get married.

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♪♪♪♪

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So, you have to be very careful.

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♪♪♪♪

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♪♪♪♪

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♪♪♪♪

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♪♪♪♪

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[ Birds chirping ]

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[ Lift motor humming ]

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-The hardest thing is never
being able to live with Garry.

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Garry is only 20 minutes away,

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but it feels like we're
in a long-distance relationship.

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[ Birds chirping ]

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-When I come back to my
apartment, and she's not there,

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there's just like a piece
of me missing.

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Up until five years ago, I was
always living with my parents.

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When they died,
my sister died, my dad died,

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and my mom,
I was scared to death.

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I didn't want to spend
the rest of my life just alone.

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♪♪♪♪

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-I've been working on making

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my own model-train world
for 20 years.

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It's called P-Town --
"P" as in Patrice.

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P-Town is like a world where
everything is happy and fun

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and the way I like it.

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P-Town is based
on Palisades Amusement Park.

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It's like an escape
from reality sometimes.

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-When I was younger, my parents
were very, very protective.

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I wasn't really allowed
to do anything

250
00:17:41,254 --> 00:17:44,194
if it was out of the house.

251
00:17:44,260 --> 00:17:47,166
I would watch TV,
play video games.

252
00:17:47,233 --> 00:17:48,603
I know it sounds boring,

253
00:17:48,670 --> 00:17:51,842
but that was the extent
of my life.

254
00:17:54,147 --> 00:17:56,218
My parents were worried about

255
00:17:56,284 --> 00:17:59,123
whether I could take care
of myself.

256
00:18:02,163 --> 00:18:08,275
My dad was an EMT, and he was
in a video with Public Enemy

257
00:18:08,342 --> 00:18:11,181
called "911 Is a Joke."

258
00:18:12,283 --> 00:18:14,688
-♪♪ So, get up, get,
get, get down ♪♪

259
00:18:14,755 --> 00:18:18,328
-The White guy throwing
the body in the ambulance?

260
00:18:18,395 --> 00:18:20,332
That's my dad.
[ Laughs ]

261
00:18:24,040 --> 00:18:27,447
My parents, unfortunately,
as much as I love them,

262
00:18:27,514 --> 00:18:31,388
they were basically bigots.

263
00:18:33,526 --> 00:18:38,168
For me to date
someone of another race

264
00:18:38,235 --> 00:18:40,840
would've upset them.

265
00:18:42,277 --> 00:18:44,347
My mom once told me,

266
00:18:44,414 --> 00:18:49,558
"If you have a Black child
or something,

267
00:18:49,625 --> 00:18:51,529
I'm going to disown you."

268
00:18:56,271 --> 00:19:00,046
I'm tired of people
telling me who I can

269
00:19:00,113 --> 00:19:04,655
and who I can't spend
the rest of my life with.

270
00:19:07,260 --> 00:19:08,830
♪♪♪♪

271
00:19:08,897 --> 00:19:11,234
[ Insects chirping ]

272
00:19:11,301 --> 00:19:20,286
♪♪♪♪

273
00:19:20,353 --> 00:19:29,972
♪♪♪♪

274
00:19:30,039 --> 00:19:39,157
♪♪♪♪

275
00:19:39,224 --> 00:19:44,200
♪♪♪♪

276
00:19:44,267 --> 00:19:51,816
♪♪♪♪

277
00:19:51,883 --> 00:19:55,657
-Alexa,
turn off the bedroom lights.

278
00:19:55,757 --> 00:19:57,561
-Okay.

279
00:19:57,628 --> 00:20:04,942
♪♪♪♪

280
00:20:07,280 --> 00:20:09,752
[ Birds chirping ]

281
00:20:26,451 --> 00:20:30,225
[ Clock ticking in background ]

282
00:20:30,292 --> 00:20:32,030
-Whatcha smiling about?

283
00:20:32,096 --> 00:20:36,572
-Because I look good.
-[ Laughing ] Okay. All right.

284
00:20:36,639 --> 00:20:39,243
Okay.
[ Laughs ]

285
00:20:42,551 --> 00:20:43,954
-I just don't want
to look like --

286
00:20:44,020 --> 00:20:47,360
I just don't want to look like
some porn star.

287
00:20:47,427 --> 00:20:50,365
-Oh, hell. Heck, no.
-Okay.

288
00:20:51,702 --> 00:20:53,973
-We can talk about that
after the ceremony.

289
00:20:54,040 --> 00:20:56,377
-Shut up.
-[ Laughs ]

290
00:20:59,351 --> 00:21:02,824
-Since we can't get
legally married,

291
00:21:02,891 --> 00:21:06,966
we decided to have
a commitment ceremony.

292
00:21:07,033 --> 00:21:09,605
-These are promise rings.

293
00:21:09,672 --> 00:21:13,580
And, hopefully, someday
when we actually get married,

294
00:21:13,646 --> 00:21:19,892
if they change the laws, we can
turn these into wedding rings.

295
00:21:19,959 --> 00:21:27,841
♪♪♪♪

296
00:21:27,908 --> 00:21:28,944
-[ Chuckles ]

297
00:21:29,010 --> 00:21:30,614
I brought invitations

298
00:21:30,680 --> 00:21:35,924
so that everybody has
their information for the day.

299
00:21:35,991 --> 00:21:38,261
-I don't normally take risks
like this

300
00:21:38,328 --> 00:21:42,136
because I want to fly
under the radar,

301
00:21:42,203 --> 00:21:46,211
but this is so important,
and I love her so much,

302
00:21:46,277 --> 00:21:48,549
and I'm willing
to take that risk.

303
00:21:48,616 --> 00:21:50,720
-We got to get
a black dress shirt.

304
00:21:50,787 --> 00:21:53,191
Oh, you need pants, too.
-Okay, no problem.

305
00:21:53,258 --> 00:21:57,601
-We just said, "Fuck this shit.
We're doing this."

306
00:21:57,668 --> 00:21:59,036
-Right behind you. I got you.

307
00:21:59,103 --> 00:22:01,374
-They can stop us
from getting married,

308
00:22:01,441 --> 00:22:03,278
they can stop us
from living together,

309
00:22:03,345 --> 00:22:05,750
but they're never going to stop
us from loving each other.

310
00:22:05,817 --> 00:22:09,959
Isn't it worth it just to take
one single day for ourselves,

311
00:22:10,025 --> 00:22:14,066
God forbid, whether we have
a roof over our heads or not?

312
00:22:18,577 --> 00:22:22,416
-I don't take anything
for granted because I know

313
00:22:22,483 --> 00:22:27,828
that I can lose
everything just like that.

314
00:22:27,895 --> 00:22:31,835
♪♪♪♪

315
00:22:36,946 --> 00:22:39,986
♪♪♪♪

316
00:22:40,053 --> 00:22:45,563
Before I was born, Mom always
dreamed of being a dancer,

317
00:22:45,630 --> 00:22:49,972
but she had to do
other jobs instead.

318
00:22:50,039 --> 00:22:54,948
♪♪♪♪

319
00:22:55,015 --> 00:22:58,690
Mom used to work
in Willowbrook Hospital.

320
00:22:58,757 --> 00:23:01,160
It was a notorious institution

321
00:23:01,227 --> 00:23:05,670
where they used to keep people
with developmental disabilities

322
00:23:05,737 --> 00:23:08,576
and it wasn't a nice place.

323
00:23:08,643 --> 00:23:11,782
[ Door slams, woman screams ]

324
00:23:11,849 --> 00:23:15,557
My mom couldn't take it.
She quit.

325
00:23:15,624 --> 00:23:17,259
[ Screaming continues ]

326
00:23:17,326 --> 00:23:21,234
Mom knew that I could end up
in one of those places,

327
00:23:21,301 --> 00:23:22,838
and she always got worried

328
00:23:22,905 --> 00:23:25,544
when I attracted
too much attention to myself.

329
00:23:25,611 --> 00:23:27,446
-She did what?!

330
00:23:27,514 --> 00:23:29,116
-And I was good at that.

331
00:23:29,183 --> 00:23:30,954
-[ Sighs ]

332
00:23:31,021 --> 00:23:32,824
-Ow, ow, ow!

333
00:23:32,891 --> 00:23:35,930
-You do not act up
in front of your teacher!

334
00:23:35,997 --> 00:23:40,840
You do not tell strangers
to smell your feet!

335
00:23:40,907 --> 00:23:44,114
You do not hit your sister!
Where did you learn that?!

336
00:23:44,180 --> 00:23:46,184
-I got hit a lot.

337
00:23:46,251 --> 00:23:47,787
- ♪♪ I'm fine ♪♪

338
00:23:47,854 --> 00:23:50,225
-I was in counseling.

339
00:23:50,292 --> 00:23:53,599
I've been having
anxiety attacks.

340
00:23:53,666 --> 00:23:58,375
But my mom didn't trust anybody
in the system.

341
00:23:58,442 --> 00:23:59,978
-Well, Patrice,

342
00:24:00,045 --> 00:24:03,787
it seems to me that your
mother is very quick to anger,

343
00:24:03,854 --> 00:24:06,558
and it's the reason
why you are having anxiety.

344
00:24:06,625 --> 00:24:09,330
-Okay, this is over.
I'm not going to sit here

345
00:24:09,397 --> 00:24:12,671
and let this quack fill
your head with such nonsense.

346
00:24:12,738 --> 00:24:15,242
How dare you call me
quick to anger,

347
00:24:15,309 --> 00:24:16,912
you simple-looking motherfu...

348
00:24:19,684 --> 00:24:23,626
-I had to start taking
medication.

349
00:24:23,693 --> 00:24:26,097
I became combative,
and I would hit.

350
00:24:26,164 --> 00:24:27,333
[ Bell dings ]

351
00:24:27,400 --> 00:24:29,370
[ Kids screaming ]

352
00:24:29,437 --> 00:24:33,680
I just didn't give a rat's
butt anymore.

353
00:24:33,747 --> 00:24:36,317
My mom would get mad
and call me the B-word.

354
00:24:36,384 --> 00:24:37,888
Ahh!

355
00:24:37,955 --> 00:24:41,996
-Patrice, stop it
right now, you little B-word!

356
00:24:42,062 --> 00:24:45,670
-B-word? You're the "B"
for calling me a "B."

357
00:24:45,736 --> 00:24:47,708
-You can't call me the B-word.
I'm your mother.

358
00:24:47,775 --> 00:24:51,515
-Well, I'm your kid,
and I'm only nine.

359
00:24:53,451 --> 00:24:55,590
A social worker told my mom

360
00:24:55,657 --> 00:24:58,963
that she found me a group
home with kids my own age.

361
00:24:59,029 --> 00:25:00,767
[ People talking indistinctly ]

362
00:25:00,833 --> 00:25:03,840
-3:00, in Room 5 now.

363
00:25:03,907 --> 00:25:09,951
-What she found me was
a juvenile-detention facility.

364
00:25:11,923 --> 00:25:15,463
When you're
in that kind of environment,

365
00:25:15,530 --> 00:25:19,805
you have to do whatever
the other kids tell you to do.

366
00:25:21,776 --> 00:25:25,482
Mom, I don't like this place.

367
00:25:25,550 --> 00:25:27,353
My mom got me out of there,

368
00:25:27,419 --> 00:25:31,194
and she gave the social worker
a piece of her mind.

369
00:25:31,261 --> 00:25:33,566
[ Alarm blares ]

370
00:25:35,035 --> 00:25:42,183
I went back to school and
finally ended up in Special Ed.

371
00:25:42,249 --> 00:25:47,226
And for the first time,
I blended in.

372
00:25:48,529 --> 00:25:53,906
The people there were equipped
and knew how to talk to me.

373
00:25:53,973 --> 00:25:57,446
I'm feeling angry.
-Far out, man.

374
00:25:57,514 --> 00:25:59,951
Let's make space
for those feelings.

375
00:26:00,018 --> 00:26:01,622
-Really?
-Just start drawing,

376
00:26:01,688 --> 00:26:03,893
and you can totally channel
all that anger

377
00:26:03,960 --> 00:26:06,130
into something beautiful, man.

378
00:26:06,197 --> 00:26:08,536
-Really? Okay.

379
00:26:08,603 --> 00:26:14,313
Every time I started drawing,
I began to calm down,

380
00:26:14,380 --> 00:26:19,858
and I learned how to use
my artwork to feel better.

381
00:26:21,161 --> 00:26:26,204
I met my first childhood friend
at 12 years old

382
00:26:26,271 --> 00:26:27,741
in the special-ed class.

383
00:26:27,808 --> 00:26:31,882
-[ Sniffing ] Mm.
Smells like popcorn.

384
00:26:31,949 --> 00:26:36,190
-Ew, you farted! Ew!

385
00:26:36,257 --> 00:26:37,828
-Got ya!

386
00:26:37,895 --> 00:26:41,434
-That was my first friend
of many.

387
00:26:41,501 --> 00:26:48,950
♪♪♪♪

388
00:26:49,017 --> 00:26:58,435
Elizabeth and Delaney
are two of my closest friends.

389
00:26:58,503 --> 00:27:00,540
They were younger skaters,

390
00:27:00,607 --> 00:27:05,215
and they needed
an older skater like myself

391
00:27:05,282 --> 00:27:09,992
to be a role model
and give them guidance.

392
00:27:10,059 --> 00:27:15,001
They're going to be bridesmaids
at our commitment ceremony.

393
00:27:17,875 --> 00:27:21,380
-Oh, my God!

394
00:27:22,951 --> 00:27:25,624
-It's more about
how it feels than the style.

395
00:27:25,690 --> 00:27:29,632
I wouldn't like that bit.
-Oh, okay.

396
00:27:29,699 --> 00:27:31,602
-Having autism,

397
00:27:31,669 --> 00:27:34,106
for me it's visible enough
that people know I'm different

398
00:27:34,173 --> 00:27:35,476
but don't always know
what it is.

399
00:27:35,543 --> 00:27:36,979
If I don't like them,

400
00:27:37,046 --> 00:27:38,448
it's probably more
to do with sensory issues

401
00:27:38,515 --> 00:27:39,985
than the actual dress.
-Than the actual dress.

402
00:27:40,052 --> 00:27:43,058
-Yeah.
-Ooh, feel this, Elizabeth.

403
00:27:43,124 --> 00:27:44,961
-Sometimes, I just tell them

404
00:27:45,028 --> 00:27:49,103
because I'd rather people don't
label me, like, weird or stupid.

405
00:27:49,170 --> 00:27:50,438
-I think this would look
very pretty on you.

406
00:27:50,506 --> 00:27:51,709
-I like that one.
-Okay.

407
00:27:51,776 --> 00:27:52,811
-Yeah, just keep it like that.

408
00:27:52,878 --> 00:27:54,280
-You can relax.

409
00:27:54,346 --> 00:27:57,887
-I don't want to get married.
Not interested.

410
00:27:57,954 --> 00:28:02,029
I have so many sensory issues
that just, like, kissing

411
00:28:02,096 --> 00:28:04,902
and doing stuff with another
person is, like, too much.

412
00:28:04,968 --> 00:28:10,580
-Oh, pretty!
-That is so awesome! Oh, man!

413
00:28:10,646 --> 00:28:12,150
-Wow.

414
00:28:12,216 --> 00:28:13,886
-That is really pretty.
I love it.

415
00:28:13,953 --> 00:28:15,389
-I do, too.

416
00:28:15,455 --> 00:28:17,927
-Do you ever want to get
married? Do you know?

417
00:28:17,994 --> 00:28:21,167
-If I find the right guy.
-Yeah, maybe?

418
00:28:21,233 --> 00:28:24,240
Have you even had a boyfriend?
-Yeah.

419
00:28:27,948 --> 00:28:33,526
-I never did,
but I also don't really care.

420
00:28:33,593 --> 00:28:34,828
I don't know why.
-I mean,

421
00:28:34,895 --> 00:28:39,871
like, all my friends had
a boyfriend,

422
00:28:39,938 --> 00:28:42,075
so, like, I said, "I might
as well get one."

423
00:28:42,142 --> 00:28:43,879
-Yeah, because everyone else
is doing it.

424
00:28:43,946 --> 00:28:46,852
-Yeah,
so I wouldn't feel left out.

425
00:28:46,919 --> 00:28:48,723
Yeah.
-[ Gasps ]

426
00:28:48,790 --> 00:28:49,925
-Look at all the ruffly.
-So pretty.

427
00:28:49,991 --> 00:28:52,698
-I've only ever seen a picture.

428
00:28:52,764 --> 00:28:54,267
I don't think I've seen it
in person.

429
00:28:54,334 --> 00:28:58,107
It's got a little train.
-It looks so cute.

430
00:28:58,174 --> 00:28:59,210
-Aw!

431
00:28:59,277 --> 00:29:06,324
♪♪♪♪

432
00:29:06,391 --> 00:29:10,131
-That's so pretty.
-Here. Patrice, smile.

433
00:29:10,198 --> 00:29:11,401
-Ha!

434
00:29:11,468 --> 00:29:12,570
♪♪♪♪

435
00:29:12,637 --> 00:29:15,208
[ Camera shutter clicks ]

436
00:29:17,046 --> 00:29:19,016
-They both have, um,
disabilities.

437
00:29:19,083 --> 00:29:21,154
And when two people
with disabilities marry,

438
00:29:21,220 --> 00:29:23,391
they take away
your monthly benefits.

439
00:29:23,458 --> 00:29:25,896
So, they're marrying, but
they're not marrying legally.

440
00:29:25,963 --> 00:29:28,167
They're marrying
like a commitment ceremony.

441
00:29:28,234 --> 00:29:29,938
So, they're going through
the whole marriage.

442
00:29:30,005 --> 00:29:31,407
-Isn't that special?
-Yeah.

443
00:29:31,474 --> 00:29:34,012
I mean, it's good
that they can do that,

444
00:29:34,079 --> 00:29:35,817
but it'd be better
if they could marry legally,

445
00:29:35,883 --> 00:29:37,854
and they wouldn't take
away their benefits.

446
00:29:37,921 --> 00:29:39,289
-That would be very nice.

447
00:29:39,356 --> 00:29:41,662
I don't understand
government sometimes.

448
00:29:41,728 --> 00:29:42,964
-Yeah.

449
00:29:45,102 --> 00:29:47,874
[ Birds chirping ]

450
00:29:58,696 --> 00:30:00,734
-For millions of Americans
with disabilities,

451
00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:04,206
tying the knot can mean losing
federal benefits they rely on.

452
00:30:04,273 --> 00:30:07,079
Last month, Congressman
Jimmy Panetta of California

453
00:30:07,146 --> 00:30:08,883
introduced
the Marriage Equality

454
00:30:08,950 --> 00:30:10,418
for Disabled Adults Act

455
00:30:10,485 --> 00:30:12,123
in the U.S. House
of Representatives.

456
00:30:12,189 --> 00:30:13,425
It would ensure...

457
00:30:13,492 --> 00:30:15,429
-So, there is this bill
in Congress

458
00:30:15,495 --> 00:30:18,101
that would eliminate
the marriage penalty.

459
00:30:18,168 --> 00:30:21,842
Every year,
every two years it gets renewed,

460
00:30:21,909 --> 00:30:23,378
and then it just sits there
in Congress.

461
00:30:23,445 --> 00:30:26,551
So, we could try
to push that through.

462
00:30:28,856 --> 00:30:32,864
-Oh, yeah. All right.

463
00:30:32,930 --> 00:30:35,268
-Should I make the bride
and groom

464
00:30:35,335 --> 00:30:38,308
with happy faces or sad faces?

465
00:30:38,374 --> 00:30:40,680
-Well, they'd be happy
if they got married,

466
00:30:40,746 --> 00:30:43,553
but they're sad that they can't.

467
00:30:43,619 --> 00:30:47,393
-Disability rights are
human rights!

468
00:30:47,459 --> 00:30:51,167
Disability rights are
human rights!

469
00:30:51,233 --> 00:30:54,608
-Disability rights are
human rights!

470
00:30:55,275 --> 00:30:58,247
-Disability rights are
human rights!

471
00:30:58,347 --> 00:31:02,791
-Repeal the marriage penalty.
[ Crowd cheers ]

472
00:31:02,858 --> 00:31:05,328
-Yeah, clap it up.

473
00:31:05,395 --> 00:31:07,399
-Can I talk to you
about the Marriage Equality Act?

474
00:31:07,466 --> 00:31:13,278
-My friend Elizabeth has flyers,
and she's standing right there.

475
00:31:13,345 --> 00:31:15,983
-We're trying to collect
signatures to tell Congress

476
00:31:16,050 --> 00:31:17,920
that disabled people
should be able to marry.

477
00:31:17,987 --> 00:31:19,658
-I want to get married.

478
00:31:19,725 --> 00:31:24,601
I want to be able to live
in the same house as my spouse.

479
00:31:24,667 --> 00:31:27,439
I want to have enough money...
-Wrong with the system

480
00:31:27,507 --> 00:31:31,114
is that people think people
with disabilities have no value.

481
00:31:31,180 --> 00:31:35,322
You're lazy. You can't work.
Go get a job.

482
00:31:35,389 --> 00:31:37,661
We're not contributing
to society in the same way,

483
00:31:37,727 --> 00:31:40,432
so nobody cares
if you can get married or not.

484
00:31:40,498 --> 00:31:43,505
-Marriage equality
for all people.

485
00:31:43,572 --> 00:31:46,277
So, come take action.
[ Crowd cheers ]

486
00:31:46,945 --> 00:31:49,717
-♪♪ ...will be a better place ♪♪

487
00:31:49,784 --> 00:31:52,255
♪♪ And the world... ♪♪

488
00:31:54,895 --> 00:31:56,799
[ Chimes ringing ]

489
00:31:56,866 --> 00:31:58,235
-So, this is mine.

490
00:31:58,301 --> 00:32:01,074
-Yeah, so she got her color.

491
00:32:01,141 --> 00:32:03,979
-Oh, Patrice.
This is so pretty.

492
00:32:04,046 --> 00:32:06,417
That is cool.

493
00:32:06,484 --> 00:32:11,093
-Believe it or not,
that's a $20 ring from Walmart.

494
00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:12,897
-Really? Wow.

495
00:32:13,766 --> 00:32:18,843
-All right, so everybody take
a handful of the kinetic sand

496
00:32:18,909 --> 00:32:22,917
and put it in your fishbowl.

497
00:32:22,984 --> 00:32:25,121
-So, what are these for,
the tables?

498
00:32:25,188 --> 00:32:26,892
-Yeah.
-Yeah.

499
00:32:26,959 --> 00:32:32,136
-These were, um, centerpieces
from another person's wedding.

500
00:32:32,202 --> 00:32:33,471
And when they were
done with them,

501
00:32:33,539 --> 00:32:36,443
they sold them
on Facebook Marketplace.

502
00:32:36,511 --> 00:32:38,482
-Oh, cool.

503
00:32:38,549 --> 00:32:41,889
-And since we're
on a tight budget,

504
00:32:41,955 --> 00:32:43,860
that's where we're at.

505
00:32:43,926 --> 00:32:45,663
-That's really pretty.

506
00:32:52,109 --> 00:32:54,246
[ Garry laughs ]

507
00:32:54,313 --> 00:32:56,250
-I don't like loud noises.

508
00:32:56,317 --> 00:32:58,121
I don't like when there's
a bazillion people talking.

509
00:32:58,188 --> 00:33:00,358
-Okay. No, I got it.

510
00:33:00,425 --> 00:33:02,462
-Kelly, am I doing every one
of these?

511
00:33:02,530 --> 00:33:06,237
-No, I put two pens
inside my clipboard.

512
00:33:06,337 --> 00:33:07,807
-You just feel it all
over your body.

513
00:33:07,874 --> 00:33:11,347
Your whole body just feels
dysregulated and awful.

514
00:33:11,414 --> 00:33:18,795
♪♪♪♪

515
00:33:18,862 --> 00:33:22,402
I can't just stand there and
pretend I'm having a great time.

516
00:33:24,373 --> 00:33:27,279
-No, that's the second part!

517
00:33:30,486 --> 00:33:33,424
-[ Panting ]

518
00:33:46,084 --> 00:33:48,321
[ Squealing ]

519
00:33:52,764 --> 00:33:55,837
The annoying part is when
somebody sees you overwhelmed,

520
00:33:55,903 --> 00:33:57,073
then they think it's a problem,

521
00:33:57,139 --> 00:33:58,609
where actually that was
a problem.

522
00:33:58,675 --> 00:34:00,679
This is not a problem.
This is me calming down.

523
00:34:00,746 --> 00:34:03,986
This is the opposite
of a problem.

524
00:34:04,053 --> 00:34:05,689
Usually,
when people see me frustrated,

525
00:34:05,756 --> 00:34:07,459
this is when they step in.

526
00:34:07,527 --> 00:34:10,131
This is when I'm like, "Don't
step in. Just leave me alone."

527
00:34:16,010 --> 00:34:18,682
I feel like I'm stuck
in this one room right now.

528
00:34:30,540 --> 00:34:32,543
[ Whimpers ]

529
00:34:37,319 --> 00:34:40,091
[ Rattling window blind ]

530
00:34:50,713 --> 00:34:53,250
[ Humming ]

531
00:34:55,088 --> 00:34:57,594
[ Telephone dialing ]

532
00:34:57,661 --> 00:35:01,935
Hi.
-Hey, how are you?

533
00:35:02,002 --> 00:35:10,786
-Um, I'm fine now,
but...it was stressful,

534
00:35:10,853 --> 00:35:12,657
but thanks for checking in
on me.

535
00:35:12,724 --> 00:35:15,128
I don't really ever have
friends check up on me.

536
00:35:15,194 --> 00:35:17,165
-Well, that's what friends
are for,

537
00:35:17,232 --> 00:35:18,702
so that's one thing

538
00:35:18,769 --> 00:35:24,180
that you'll never have to worry
about ever again.

539
00:35:24,246 --> 00:35:26,552
-That's awesome.

540
00:35:26,619 --> 00:35:28,254
-You take care.

541
00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:30,459
-All right.
Thanks, Patrice. Bye.

542
00:35:30,526 --> 00:35:34,332
-Bye-bye.
-Bye.

543
00:35:36,971 --> 00:35:39,911
-Glad she's in good spirits.

544
00:35:39,978 --> 00:35:43,084
[ Clock ticking ]

545
00:35:43,150 --> 00:35:45,723
-Welcome to Wells Fargo online.

546
00:35:47,928 --> 00:35:50,065
Please tell me the reason
for your call.

547
00:35:50,132 --> 00:35:51,067
You can say things like...

548
00:35:51,134 --> 00:35:52,971
-Account balance.

549
00:35:53,038 --> 00:35:56,611
-Okay. Account balance.

550
00:35:56,678 --> 00:35:59,817
Your checking account has
an available balance of...

551
00:36:01,153 --> 00:36:04,927
...$58.82.

552
00:36:04,994 --> 00:36:08,234
-Okay. Everything
is all cleared up and paid off.

553
00:36:08,300 --> 00:36:09,837
I got 58 bucks to play with,

554
00:36:09,904 --> 00:36:14,781
but I got to save 30
of that 58 bucks for my phone

555
00:36:14,847 --> 00:36:16,317
and for the computer.

556
00:36:16,384 --> 00:36:20,192
So, I got like 28 bucks
to play with.

557
00:36:20,259 --> 00:36:21,862
So, we're good.

558
00:36:21,929 --> 00:36:25,435
I'm actually glad that I'm
ahead of the game for a change.

559
00:36:25,503 --> 00:36:28,174
It doesn't happen too often
at the end of the month.

560
00:36:28,241 --> 00:36:33,184
-I just made the payment
on the water bill.

561
00:36:33,251 --> 00:36:35,690
And then,
when I get my check in January,

562
00:36:35,757 --> 00:36:38,294
I'll pay the rest of it.
-Yeah.

563
00:36:38,361 --> 00:36:45,743
♪♪♪♪

564
00:36:45,810 --> 00:36:48,782
Putting together
a commitment ceremony,

565
00:36:48,849 --> 00:36:52,355
we're running into
how expensive it is.

566
00:36:52,422 --> 00:36:55,362
Once you count all
the decorations, the food,

567
00:36:55,428 --> 00:37:00,004
the venue,
it's going to be close.

568
00:37:00,539 --> 00:37:04,714
-Trying to even save money
is impossible

569
00:37:04,781 --> 00:37:11,060
because I'm only allowed to have
$2,000 in the bank.

570
00:37:11,126 --> 00:37:16,738
If I go $1 over that,
I'm going to lose my Medicaid,

571
00:37:16,805 --> 00:37:21,515
and I could never pay for
my medications out of pocket

572
00:37:21,581 --> 00:37:24,654
because they cost
a small fortune.

573
00:37:25,488 --> 00:37:29,931
But even with my benefits,

574
00:37:29,998 --> 00:37:35,776
I have virtually no money
left to save anything.

575
00:37:38,048 --> 00:37:39,416
-This is $2.49.

576
00:37:39,483 --> 00:37:43,725
-Well, you know what?
This one's $2.22.

577
00:37:43,792 --> 00:37:46,698
So, it's like
I'm on this hamster wheel

578
00:37:46,764 --> 00:37:52,008
that just keeps going round and
round, and you can't get off.

579
00:37:52,075 --> 00:37:54,346
♪♪♪♪

580
00:37:58,220 --> 00:38:00,057
Okay.

581
00:38:05,268 --> 00:38:07,239
-No, I wasn't...

582
00:38:07,305 --> 00:38:09,677
That guy's screaming.

583
00:38:13,318 --> 00:38:17,626
-Hey, Mike. Dessert is ready.

584
00:38:17,693 --> 00:38:20,465
And we have to wait
because I gotta say something

585
00:38:20,533 --> 00:38:21,801
before we eat it.

586
00:38:21,868 --> 00:38:24,607
-Oh, okay. Of course.
-No problem.

587
00:38:24,674 --> 00:38:31,588
-In celebration of Mom's
100th birthday,

588
00:38:31,655 --> 00:38:34,226
happy heavenly birthday, Mom.

589
00:38:34,293 --> 00:38:35,796
-Happy birthday.

590
00:38:35,863 --> 00:38:41,040
-And now we celebrate
with Mom's favorite cake,

591
00:38:41,106 --> 00:38:43,812
strawberry shortcake.

592
00:38:47,386 --> 00:38:49,924
I wish my big sister was here.

593
00:38:49,991 --> 00:38:55,536
She's like the exact opposite
of Mom.

594
00:38:55,603 --> 00:38:58,374
-Your mom. Boy. Oof.

595
00:38:58,441 --> 00:38:59,978
I never got to meet her,

596
00:39:00,044 --> 00:39:02,382
and somehow,
I feel like I didn't miss out

597
00:39:02,449 --> 00:39:04,152
on anything from the attitude

598
00:39:04,219 --> 00:39:07,760
that she gave Trish about some
of the guys she hung out with.

599
00:39:07,827 --> 00:39:10,332
-Yep.
-She probably would've said,

600
00:39:10,398 --> 00:39:14,874
"Oh, he's a nice guy," and then
if the relationship broke up,

601
00:39:14,941 --> 00:39:19,283
my mom would've said, "The only
person that loves you is me.

602
00:39:19,350 --> 00:39:22,923
That's why you need to stay
away from all these guys."

603
00:39:22,990 --> 00:39:26,397
-I mean,
when I used to come visit you,

604
00:39:26,463 --> 00:39:30,438
Lee didn't like it
that I was there.

605
00:39:30,506 --> 00:39:33,712
-My mom had issues of her own.

606
00:39:33,778 --> 00:39:40,091
I think that she
didn't want to be by herself.

607
00:39:40,158 --> 00:39:41,661
-So, in other words,

608
00:39:41,728 --> 00:39:44,199
your mother felt you
should grow old like an old maid

609
00:39:44,265 --> 00:39:47,606
and just live home by yourself.

610
00:39:50,144 --> 00:39:53,084
[ Dance music plays ]

611
00:39:53,151 --> 00:39:56,691
♪♪♪♪

612
00:39:56,758 --> 00:40:01,500
-I had never been to a club.

613
00:40:01,568 --> 00:40:04,173
I was 21 years old.

614
00:40:04,240 --> 00:40:07,479
The DJ is playing
all this great music,

615
00:40:07,547 --> 00:40:09,884
and all of a sudden...
[ Music stops ]

616
00:40:12,222 --> 00:40:17,499
-Ladies and gentlemen, may
I please have your attention?

617
00:40:17,567 --> 00:40:23,044
Patrice Jetter...
your mother just called.

618
00:40:23,111 --> 00:40:25,114
And she wants you to go
home right now.

619
00:40:25,181 --> 00:40:28,254
She says it's too late
for you to be out.

620
00:40:28,321 --> 00:40:29,857
She also says,

621
00:40:29,924 --> 00:40:32,897
"Only drug dealers and
prostitutes stay out this late."

622
00:40:32,964 --> 00:40:35,936
[ Laughter ]

623
00:40:37,272 --> 00:40:40,512
-Mom, how could you humiliate me
like that?

624
00:40:40,579 --> 00:40:42,617
-Patrice, I'm not going to
let you go out

625
00:40:42,683 --> 00:40:44,353
and come home all pregnant.

626
00:40:44,419 --> 00:40:46,792
Do you know what would happen
to you if it wasn't for me?

627
00:40:46,859 --> 00:40:49,964
-I'd have a life?
-You ungrateful little B-word!

628
00:40:50,031 --> 00:40:53,370
While you live in my house,
you will follow my rules.

629
00:40:53,437 --> 00:40:56,845
-I'm going to live my life,
and you can't stop me!

630
00:40:56,911 --> 00:41:00,519
-Ugh!

631
00:41:00,586 --> 00:41:03,892
-You're not supposed
to hit your mom,

632
00:41:03,958 --> 00:41:10,806
but I was angry, and
I didn't know what else to do.

633
00:41:10,940 --> 00:41:15,583
[ Siren wails ]

634
00:41:15,650 --> 00:41:17,119
What's going on?

635
00:41:17,185 --> 00:41:19,523
-Officers, this woman
is no longer allowed

636
00:41:19,590 --> 00:41:21,493
to live in my home.
-What?!

637
00:41:21,561 --> 00:41:23,698
-I just can't take care of her
anymore.

638
00:41:23,765 --> 00:41:26,470
I don't know who can.
-Come with us, please.

639
00:41:26,538 --> 00:41:30,712
-♪♪ And since we've no place
to go ♪♪

640
00:41:30,779 --> 00:41:34,887
♪♪ Let it snow, let it snow,
let it snow ♪♪

641
00:41:34,954 --> 00:41:39,396
-My mom spent most of her life
trying to keep me

642
00:41:39,463 --> 00:41:41,801
out of institutions,

643
00:41:41,868 --> 00:41:45,175
but it was somewhat ironic
that she was the one

644
00:41:45,241 --> 00:41:47,613
that ended up putting me there.

645
00:41:47,680 --> 00:41:49,149
-♪♪ Let it snow, let it... ♪♪

646
00:41:49,216 --> 00:41:51,186
[ Alarm blares ]

647
00:41:51,253 --> 00:41:58,100
♪♪♪♪

648
00:41:58,167 --> 00:42:03,678
♪♪♪♪

649
00:42:03,745 --> 00:42:07,018
When I was in that place,

650
00:42:07,085 --> 00:42:15,536
me and a couple of my friends
were being physically

651
00:42:15,603 --> 00:42:20,177
and sexually abused
by a couple of the staff.

652
00:42:23,484 --> 00:42:26,924
I had to testify as a witness,

653
00:42:26,991 --> 00:42:30,231
and the staff were trying
to stop me.

654
00:42:30,297 --> 00:42:33,671
-Come with us, Jetter.

655
00:42:36,143 --> 00:42:42,923
-They stripped me out of
my clothing, and it was cold.

656
00:42:43,057 --> 00:42:46,698
And they doused me
with a bucket of water

657
00:42:46,765 --> 00:42:49,235
and made me stand there.

658
00:42:53,311 --> 00:42:59,757
I know my mom didn't want
anything bad to happen to me.

659
00:42:59,824 --> 00:43:02,930
She didn't know what to do.

660
00:43:02,997 --> 00:43:05,401
♪♪♪♪

661
00:43:05,468 --> 00:43:10,110
Mom was abused as a child.

662
00:43:10,177 --> 00:43:14,753
She ended up in foster care.

663
00:43:14,820 --> 00:43:21,266
Mom's first husband
was abusive, too.

664
00:43:21,333 --> 00:43:25,643
When I was born,
my mom already had four kids

665
00:43:25,710 --> 00:43:29,617
who were a lot older than me.

666
00:43:29,684 --> 00:43:34,159
I don't think my mom was
expecting to be a mom again.

667
00:43:44,412 --> 00:43:49,289
You're up.
Good morning to you, too.

668
00:43:49,356 --> 00:43:51,728
I know. I got to go to work.
I know.

669
00:43:52,563 --> 00:43:57,238
♪♪ She brings happiness
to all the children ♪♪

670
00:43:57,305 --> 00:44:03,585
♪♪ She's a very, very special
friend ♪♪

671
00:44:03,651 --> 00:44:10,464
♪♪ Who is that lady
who crosses the children ♪♪

672
00:44:10,532 --> 00:44:12,302
♪♪ Who walk to school? ♪♪

673
00:44:12,369 --> 00:44:17,478
♪♪ She waves hi to us
on the yellow school bus ♪♪

674
00:44:17,546 --> 00:44:23,390
♪♪ It's Trish,
the crossing guard, Trish ♪♪

675
00:44:23,457 --> 00:44:28,066
♪♪♪♪

676
00:44:28,133 --> 00:44:34,547
My favorite part about being
a crossing guard is those kids.

677
00:44:34,614 --> 00:44:35,949
Okay, guys.

678
00:44:36,016 --> 00:44:37,787
-Thank you, Miss Patrice.

679
00:44:37,853 --> 00:44:39,690
-You're welcome.
See you tomorrow.

680
00:44:39,757 --> 00:44:43,932
♪♪♪♪

681
00:44:43,998 --> 00:44:46,538
See you tomorrow.
-Thank you.

682
00:44:46,605 --> 00:44:47,539
-You're welcome.

683
00:44:47,606 --> 00:44:51,146
♪♪♪♪

684
00:44:51,213 --> 00:44:52,481
Growing up,

685
00:44:52,549 --> 00:44:55,555
it was really hard
for me to make friends with kids

686
00:44:55,622 --> 00:45:00,966
my own age, so I just played
with the little kids.

687
00:45:01,033 --> 00:45:02,435
Hey, guys.
How was your day?

688
00:45:02,502 --> 00:45:04,105
-Good.
-All right!

689
00:45:04,172 --> 00:45:05,374
-Thank you.
-You're welcome.

690
00:45:05,441 --> 00:45:07,445
See you tomorrow.

691
00:45:07,513 --> 00:45:12,824
And nobody picked on the little
kids because I wasn't having it.

692
00:45:12,890 --> 00:45:15,295
Hey!
[ Laughs ]

693
00:45:15,361 --> 00:45:17,065
See you tomorrow.
-Thank you.

694
00:45:17,132 --> 00:45:19,169
Have a good day.
-You're welcome. You too.

695
00:45:19,236 --> 00:45:25,816
I'm still protecting little kids
after all these years.

696
00:45:25,883 --> 00:45:30,792
♪♪♪♪

697
00:45:33,064 --> 00:45:36,537
[ Engine starts ]

698
00:45:38,908 --> 00:45:44,353
I have to take the van
to get it inspected.

699
00:45:44,419 --> 00:45:45,822
There.

700
00:45:47,158 --> 00:45:49,697
I had this van for three years,

701
00:45:49,764 --> 00:45:54,405
and I just finished making
the payment six months ago.

702
00:45:57,412 --> 00:46:00,886
I don't know what they're
going to find wrong with it,

703
00:46:00,953 --> 00:46:03,290
if they find something.

704
00:46:03,357 --> 00:46:04,994
[ Beeping ]

705
00:46:05,061 --> 00:46:07,165
Like this stupid beeping,

706
00:46:07,231 --> 00:46:10,672
And it's been
to, like, four different places,

707
00:46:10,739 --> 00:46:15,782
and they don't know where
the beeping is coming from.

708
00:46:15,849 --> 00:46:18,521
So, we're keeping
the fingers crossed.

709
00:46:23,798 --> 00:46:26,504
-What's actually happened with
the van is it's rotting out.

710
00:46:26,571 --> 00:46:29,811
Um, rotting out
causes everything to sag,

711
00:46:29,877 --> 00:46:31,280
so everything doesn't work
properly.

712
00:46:31,346 --> 00:46:34,019
Doors don't line up.
Car can split in half.

713
00:46:34,085 --> 00:46:36,489
-Yeah, I don't need that.
-Mm-hmm.

714
00:46:36,557 --> 00:46:38,896
Um, you have other issues.

715
00:46:38,962 --> 00:46:42,168
Your gas lines are
extremely rusty.

716
00:46:42,235 --> 00:46:44,940
Basic risk is an explosion.
[ Laughs ]

717
00:46:47,245 --> 00:46:49,984
Um, this car should
not be on the road.

718
00:46:50,050 --> 00:46:51,987
It is very unsafe to drive.

719
00:46:52,054 --> 00:46:56,262
To be honest, it's
at its life span, to be honest.

720
00:46:56,329 --> 00:47:01,741
If it was my van,
it would be at a junkyard...

721
00:47:01,808 --> 00:47:04,345
to be honest.

722
00:47:11,861 --> 00:47:18,374
♪♪♪♪

723
00:47:18,441 --> 00:47:25,789
♪♪♪♪

724
00:47:25,856 --> 00:47:34,205
♪♪♪♪

725
00:47:34,372 --> 00:47:42,388
♪♪♪♪

726
00:47:42,455 --> 00:47:51,507
♪♪♪♪

727
00:47:51,574 --> 00:47:58,588
♪♪♪♪

728
00:48:02,996 --> 00:48:05,400
[ Telephone dialing ]

729
00:48:08,074 --> 00:48:09,977
-Good morning.
Traffic.

730
00:48:10,044 --> 00:48:12,181
-Hey, it's Patrice.
-Hi.

731
00:48:12,248 --> 00:48:18,761
-I have to talk to you,
um, about my situation.

732
00:48:18,828 --> 00:48:20,131
-Mm-hmm.

733
00:48:20,197 --> 00:48:24,105
-My van broke down
over the weekend.

734
00:48:24,172 --> 00:48:26,042
-Sorry to hear that.

735
00:48:27,813 --> 00:48:30,586
-And I know that at this time,

736
00:48:30,652 --> 00:48:35,829
all the posts that are close
by my house are already taken.

737
00:48:35,896 --> 00:48:37,231
-Right.

738
00:48:37,298 --> 00:48:40,137
-And If I have to take Uber
every day,

739
00:48:40,204 --> 00:48:43,845
it's going to take
an entire paycheck.

740
00:48:43,912 --> 00:48:46,316
-Right. Right.

741
00:48:48,154 --> 00:48:53,263
Um...I have no idea.

742
00:48:53,330 --> 00:48:55,836
I mean, we could just put you
out without pay.

743
00:48:55,903 --> 00:48:58,473
[ Clock ticking ]

744
00:49:07,726 --> 00:49:10,799
[ Indistinct talking ]

745
00:49:10,866 --> 00:49:18,648
♪♪♪♪

746
00:49:26,931 --> 00:49:29,202
-We're looking for

747
00:49:29,269 --> 00:49:33,678
a new wheelchair-accessible van
for us.

748
00:49:33,745 --> 00:49:36,416
How much you think,

749
00:49:36,483 --> 00:49:39,690
ballpark figure,
I would need to come up with

750
00:49:39,757 --> 00:49:43,030
to get a reliable vehicle?

751
00:49:43,097 --> 00:49:47,171
-We have some good used,
reliable vehicles.

752
00:49:47,237 --> 00:49:49,577
Right now, we have them
starting about $40,000

753
00:49:49,643 --> 00:49:51,480
for a good pre-owned.

754
00:49:51,548 --> 00:49:55,187
If they need anything from
brakes to tires to mobility,

755
00:49:55,254 --> 00:49:56,891
we go over all the equipment,
make sure

756
00:49:56,958 --> 00:49:59,830
that we get you a vehicle
that's in excellent condition.

757
00:49:59,897 --> 00:50:09,683
♪♪♪♪

758
00:50:09,750 --> 00:50:15,160
♪♪♪♪

759
00:50:22,208 --> 00:50:25,180
-We were looking at vans
when we went to the expo.

760
00:50:25,247 --> 00:50:33,397
$66,000, $70,000, $82,000.

761
00:50:33,464 --> 00:50:36,838
-It's just a complete insult
to want that much money

762
00:50:36,904 --> 00:50:38,373
for an accessible van.

763
00:50:38,440 --> 00:50:40,946
Your average person
with a disability

764
00:50:41,012 --> 00:50:45,555
barely get a thousand dollars,
and they want...pfft.

765
00:50:47,124 --> 00:50:50,297
Everything is an arm
and both your legs,

766
00:50:50,364 --> 00:50:51,901
and they basically tie...

767
00:50:51,968 --> 00:50:54,338
-Yeah, because they're
not going to take the other arm

768
00:50:54,405 --> 00:50:56,877
because then you can't hand
them the check.

769
00:50:56,944 --> 00:50:58,548
-[ Laughing ] Right.

770
00:50:58,614 --> 00:51:01,352
Is there any way
you can get you a cheaper car

771
00:51:01,419 --> 00:51:04,526
while you're saving for the one
you really want?

772
00:51:04,593 --> 00:51:08,266
-None of these cars
out here are cheap.

773
00:51:08,333 --> 00:51:11,039
I can't keep throwing
money away on cars

774
00:51:11,106 --> 00:51:13,210
that only last two years.

775
00:51:13,276 --> 00:51:16,817
It's not happening.
-Yeah, I know. I know.

776
00:51:16,950 --> 00:51:21,259
-You deserve to have at least
one decent car in your life.

777
00:51:21,326 --> 00:51:23,063
[ Clock ticking ]

778
00:51:23,130 --> 00:51:25,602
-Here's yours.
-Thank you.

779
00:51:25,669 --> 00:51:26,837
-And here's yours.

780
00:51:26,904 --> 00:51:31,815
-Oh, thank you.
Haven't had a real meal in days.

781
00:51:32,616 --> 00:51:35,922
-I don't know what they expect
people like us to do.

782
00:51:35,989 --> 00:51:37,859
Not pay my rent and bills

783
00:51:37,926 --> 00:51:39,863
and then I'm going to find
myself getting

784
00:51:39,930 --> 00:51:41,567
an eviction notice.

785
00:51:41,634 --> 00:51:45,809
And then, I'm going to be living
in my car like my friend is.

786
00:51:45,876 --> 00:51:47,211
-Yeah, I know.

787
00:51:49,950 --> 00:51:54,626
-I'm just -- I'm scared.

788
00:51:54,693 --> 00:51:58,233
♪♪♪♪

789
00:51:58,300 --> 00:52:00,839
-[ Sighs ]

790
00:52:00,906 --> 00:52:07,953
♪♪♪♪

791
00:52:08,020 --> 00:52:15,836
♪♪♪♪

792
00:52:15,903 --> 00:52:17,338
-The only reason

793
00:52:17,405 --> 00:52:22,816
why I was able to get
the last van I had is

794
00:52:22,883 --> 00:52:26,623
because of raising money
through GoFundMe.

795
00:52:29,696 --> 00:52:34,071
I didn't know
that GoFundMe counted as income

796
00:52:34,138 --> 00:52:37,078
against my benefits.

797
00:52:37,145 --> 00:52:39,850
So, the government cut me off.

798
00:52:44,225 --> 00:52:49,402
I ended up
in homelessness prevention,

799
00:52:50,805 --> 00:52:55,080
and I had got
extremely depressed.

800
00:52:55,147 --> 00:53:02,896
♪♪♪♪

801
00:53:02,963 --> 00:53:05,033
I have no idea

802
00:53:05,100 --> 00:53:09,810
how I'm going to be able
to raise the money this time.

803
00:53:09,876 --> 00:53:13,517
[ Birds chirping,
chimes ringing ]

804
00:53:20,297 --> 00:53:25,074
Okay.

805
00:53:25,141 --> 00:53:30,752
"Enter the loan amount
you would like to borrow."

806
00:53:30,818 --> 00:53:36,196
I'm going to see what happens
if I ask for, um, 15.

807
00:53:36,798 --> 00:53:41,273
Okay. Going to ask
for 84 months.

808
00:53:41,340 --> 00:53:46,984
-It's like 40...
It's 8 years.

809
00:53:47,050 --> 00:53:49,856
-Well, yeah, but if I ask for
sooner, we're going to end up...

810
00:53:49,923 --> 00:53:53,163
What are we going to do?
Pay $1,000 a month?

811
00:53:53,230 --> 00:53:56,537
-Okay, okay. All right.
Yeah.

812
00:53:57,471 --> 00:54:00,410
-"Are you trading in?"
Nope, I'm not.

813
00:54:01,880 --> 00:54:05,955
Then I got to put down
gross annual income.

814
00:54:11,667 --> 00:54:16,042
So, that's my annual
gross income.

815
00:54:19,315 --> 00:54:21,987
[ Clock ticking ]

816
00:54:22,823 --> 00:54:26,462
Right.
Let's see what happens.

817
00:54:36,584 --> 00:54:40,390
"After careful review
of your credit report,

818
00:54:40,457 --> 00:54:43,463
your application was denied."

819
00:54:49,977 --> 00:54:55,054
-Well it was worth a try.
We have to try.

820
00:54:55,120 --> 00:54:57,826
[ Ticking continues ]

821
00:54:57,892 --> 00:55:00,998
I know, honey. I know.
Believe me, I know.

822
00:55:04,606 --> 00:55:08,313
-I just think that my chances
of going back to work

823
00:55:08,380 --> 00:55:10,952
are just going to be
real slim right now.

824
00:55:11,018 --> 00:55:12,755
-Yeah.

825
00:55:12,822 --> 00:55:18,099
Well, that is something that we
can't really do anything about.

826
00:55:21,106 --> 00:55:22,709
-I-I don't know

827
00:55:22,776 --> 00:55:27,018
if we're going to be able to do
the commitment ceremony.

828
00:55:27,084 --> 00:55:28,119
-Yeah.

829
00:55:34,198 --> 00:55:36,502
[ Thunder rumbles ]

830
00:55:47,258 --> 00:55:51,800
Last couple of days, she's been
down in the dumps so far.

831
00:55:51,867 --> 00:55:55,608
I can just about barely pull her
out of the hole.

832
00:55:55,675 --> 00:55:57,344
Mike and I are trying
to pull her up,

833
00:55:57,411 --> 00:56:00,552
and, you know,
she just keeps slipping

834
00:56:00,618 --> 00:56:03,657
longer and lower into the hole.

835
00:56:05,060 --> 00:56:08,500
And I'm trying to be
as supportive as I can be,

836
00:56:08,568 --> 00:56:11,974
but I don't know what
to say anymore.

837
00:56:12,542 --> 00:56:16,516
It just bothers me more
that I can't do more.

838
00:56:28,440 --> 00:56:31,980
-Yikes. That's not good.
-What happened?

839
00:56:36,122 --> 00:56:37,525
-Okay.

840
00:56:41,465 --> 00:56:45,574
-Okay, so what are we testing
so I know what I'm looking for?

841
00:56:49,449 --> 00:56:54,359
-I don't see it.

842
00:56:54,425 --> 00:56:56,429
-All right. Lights on.

843
00:56:56,496 --> 00:57:01,005
-Oh, wait. Let me try.
Wait, shoot.

844
00:57:01,072 --> 00:57:03,176
I hate that.

845
00:57:03,243 --> 00:57:05,648
[ Farts ]
Sorry.

846
00:57:05,715 --> 00:57:08,721
[ Both laugh ]

847
00:57:12,494 --> 00:57:14,131
-Oh, God!

848
00:57:14,198 --> 00:57:19,943
-Yeah. I'm a stinker like that.
-What am I going to do with you?

849
00:57:20,010 --> 00:57:26,322
♪♪♪♪

850
00:57:26,389 --> 00:57:35,474
♪♪♪♪

851
00:57:35,542 --> 00:57:38,413
♪♪♪♪

852
00:57:38,480 --> 00:57:45,996
♪♪♪♪

853
00:57:46,062 --> 00:57:50,303
-Garry and I met when we were
both working at the same job.

854
00:57:50,370 --> 00:57:53,544
-Hi. I'm Garry.
-Hey.

855
00:57:53,611 --> 00:57:56,550
And I met Mike there, too.

856
00:57:58,453 --> 00:58:01,359
What got to me was the laugh.

857
00:58:01,426 --> 00:58:03,296
-[ Laughs ]

858
00:58:03,363 --> 00:58:08,239
-I had never heard
anybody laugh the way he did.

859
00:58:10,444 --> 00:58:14,251
[ Both laugh ]

860
00:58:14,318 --> 00:58:18,193
-We became best friends.

861
00:58:18,260 --> 00:58:19,495
♪♪♪♪

862
00:58:19,563 --> 00:58:23,069
And then, a few years ago,

863
00:58:23,135 --> 00:58:27,879
I was starting to have
these feelings.

864
00:58:27,946 --> 00:58:31,820
I said, "No, I can't have
those kind of feelings

865
00:58:31,887 --> 00:58:34,191
for my best friend."

866
00:58:34,258 --> 00:58:40,237
And I just took a chance,
and I just wrote a letter.

867
00:58:40,304 --> 00:58:41,405
I was like...

868
00:58:41,472 --> 00:58:43,911
Well, what if?

869
00:58:48,386 --> 00:58:50,023
After I mailed it, I'm like,

870
00:58:50,090 --> 00:58:52,061
"Oh, man, what did I do
that for?

871
00:58:52,127 --> 00:58:56,169
Now I'm going to ruin my
friendship with my best friend.

872
00:58:56,236 --> 00:58:58,707
I don't want that."

873
00:59:02,314 --> 00:59:05,554
Hey, I accidentally mailed
a letter to you

874
00:59:05,621 --> 00:59:07,859
that I wasn't supposed
to send to you.

875
00:59:07,926 --> 00:59:12,736
So, when you get it,
can you just send it back to me?

876
00:59:12,802 --> 00:59:16,242
But then it turned out
that he read it.

877
00:59:16,308 --> 00:59:21,385
-I just like you like a friend.

878
00:59:21,452 --> 00:59:25,226
-Oh, okay.

879
00:59:27,866 --> 00:59:31,740
Sometime after that,
Garry got really sick.

880
00:59:31,807 --> 00:59:33,744
-[ Groans ]

881
00:59:33,811 --> 00:59:37,151
-He could barely
hold himself up.

882
00:59:37,217 --> 00:59:39,254
Garry!

883
00:59:39,321 --> 00:59:42,795
-If you came in here even
one day later, you'd be dead.

884
00:59:42,862 --> 00:59:45,066
She saved your life.

885
00:59:45,133 --> 00:59:50,277
-Why don't you come back
and recover at my place?

886
00:59:50,343 --> 00:59:51,279
-Okay.

887
00:59:51,346 --> 00:59:53,216
[ TV plays ]

888
00:59:53,283 --> 00:59:59,428
♪♪♪♪

889
00:59:59,495 --> 01:00:04,138
-We just kept getting closer
and closer,

890
01:00:07,010 --> 01:00:14,258
and we realized that we were
destined to be together.

891
01:00:14,325 --> 01:00:19,803
♪♪♪♪

892
01:00:19,870 --> 01:00:21,239
-We were sitting in the room
talking.

893
01:00:21,306 --> 01:00:22,809
And then I said,

894
01:00:22,876 --> 01:00:25,080
"I'm getting ready to go to bed,
so let's go to bed."

895
01:00:25,146 --> 01:00:28,588
And she was getting ready
to go sleep on the couch.

896
01:00:28,654 --> 01:00:31,894
And I'm like, "No, you're
not sleeping on the couch.

897
01:00:31,960 --> 01:00:34,331
You're coming in the room
with me."

898
01:00:34,398 --> 01:00:38,607
She barely -- she just
about tripped over her own feet.

899
01:00:38,674 --> 01:00:41,613
[ Laughs ]
Yeah.

900
01:00:41,680 --> 01:00:45,186
And that's about as far as
I'm going to go with that night.

901
01:00:47,190 --> 01:00:49,662
I learned a few things.
[ Laughs ]

902
01:00:49,729 --> 01:00:52,334
-Mm-hmm.

903
01:00:54,806 --> 01:00:59,649
♪♪♪♪

904
01:00:59,716 --> 01:01:07,431
♪♪♪♪

905
01:01:07,498 --> 01:01:12,508
♪♪♪♪

906
01:01:12,575 --> 01:01:20,089
-Next to being in Trish's arms,
being in water is heaven to me.

907
01:01:22,461 --> 01:01:26,469
If the whole world was covered
with four feet of water,

908
01:01:26,537 --> 01:01:30,711
it would be accessible for me.

909
01:01:30,778 --> 01:01:33,249
But that's another one
of those dreams

910
01:01:33,316 --> 01:01:37,124
like in a fantasy movie
or something.

911
01:01:37,191 --> 01:01:44,138
♪♪♪♪

912
01:01:44,204 --> 01:01:46,476
I could get really used to this.

913
01:01:46,543 --> 01:01:47,912
-Yeah.

914
01:01:50,417 --> 01:01:54,726
-If I had a dream house,

915
01:01:54,793 --> 01:01:58,867
everything would just be
ranch-type house.

916
01:01:58,934 --> 01:02:05,313
and I'd have my
own bocce court in the back.

917
01:02:05,380 --> 01:02:08,821
And oh, what the heck?
Outdoor bowling alley.

918
01:02:08,888 --> 01:02:14,031
-How about his-and-hers
accessible vans?

919
01:02:14,097 --> 01:02:18,239
-Yeah, but I don't drive.
So, why would I need one?

920
01:02:18,305 --> 01:02:21,880
-Well, because I could drive
the other one

921
01:02:21,947 --> 01:02:25,487
when the other one is
in the shop.

922
01:02:25,555 --> 01:02:30,430
-True, true, true.
Okay, we'll make it two vans.

923
01:02:30,497 --> 01:02:33,470
Oh, God.

924
01:02:33,537 --> 01:02:35,774
-You want to get out?

925
01:02:40,116 --> 01:02:41,419
All right, take your time.

926
01:02:41,485 --> 01:02:44,291
I'm going to go get the chair.
Okay?

927
01:02:44,358 --> 01:02:51,640
-All right.

928
01:02:51,706 --> 01:02:53,877
-Aah!

929
01:02:56,482 --> 01:02:58,787
Shit.

930
01:03:04,164 --> 01:03:06,135
Okay.

931
01:03:20,598 --> 01:03:22,434
[ Tablet beeps ]

932
01:03:22,501 --> 01:03:23,971
-Hi, everybody.

933
01:03:24,038 --> 01:03:28,480
It's your girl Patrice,
and there's Garry.

934
01:03:28,547 --> 01:03:29,649
-Hey.

935
01:03:29,716 --> 01:03:31,686
-And Elizabeth.
-Hi.

936
01:03:31,753 --> 01:03:37,397
-We are in the process of
having to pay for a newer van.

937
01:03:37,464 --> 01:03:41,940
Now, these special vans are
not cheap.

938
01:03:42,007 --> 01:03:45,313
So, instead of throwing out
your cans,

939
01:03:45,380 --> 01:03:49,956
you put them aside
and donate them to us.

940
01:03:50,023 --> 01:03:52,962
We're going to take
the cans to Scarpati's.

941
01:03:53,028 --> 01:03:57,805
They'll pay us 70 cents a pound,
so it adds up.

942
01:03:57,872 --> 01:04:00,577
See ya!

943
01:04:10,029 --> 01:04:13,035
-Okay, now I'm getting
a little beer on me.

944
01:04:17,243 --> 01:04:19,215
Whoop.

945
01:04:19,282 --> 01:04:24,458
There's a lot of sensory things
involved with cans.

946
01:04:24,893 --> 01:04:26,328
They're loud.

947
01:04:26,395 --> 01:04:29,602
I hate feeling all
the wetness and textures.

948
01:04:32,073 --> 01:04:33,977
Now he's got to weigh 'em.

949
01:04:34,044 --> 01:04:36,916
-Thank you very much.
-Thank you.

950
01:04:36,983 --> 01:04:41,526
-If I wasn't doing this for
Patrice, I just wouldn't do it.

951
01:04:41,593 --> 01:04:47,505
But I go through stuff like that
for Patrice, I think.

952
01:04:47,572 --> 01:04:50,277
-$51.35.

953
01:04:50,343 --> 01:04:52,314
-That's great.
-Yeah.

954
01:04:52,381 --> 01:04:55,453
♪♪♪♪

955
01:04:55,521 --> 01:05:02,968
♪♪♪♪

956
01:05:03,035 --> 01:05:05,240
Is there anyone in sales

957
01:05:05,306 --> 01:05:07,945
that I could just have
a conversation with?

958
01:05:08,947 --> 01:05:11,519
-Yeah, I don't have anything
in that price range.

959
01:05:11,586 --> 01:05:14,357
-All right, no problem.
We're plugging away at it.

960
01:05:16,129 --> 01:05:19,401
So, we got 60 bucks.
-Oh, real good.

961
01:05:19,467 --> 01:05:21,405
-Yes.

962
01:05:21,472 --> 01:05:24,278
-♪♪ It's good enough for me ♪♪

963
01:05:24,345 --> 01:05:26,616
♪♪ Yeah, yeah, yeah,
yeah, yeah ♪♪

964
01:05:26,683 --> 01:05:30,791
♪♪♪♪

965
01:05:30,858 --> 01:05:33,062
-It's in the floor.

966
01:05:33,129 --> 01:05:41,045
♪♪♪♪

967
01:05:41,111 --> 01:05:44,351
You can get your picture taken
with Santa.

968
01:05:44,418 --> 01:05:48,760
♪♪♪♪

969
01:05:48,827 --> 01:05:50,096
-Aahhh!

970
01:05:50,163 --> 01:05:53,670
-♪♪ It's good enough for me ♪♪

971
01:05:53,737 --> 01:05:57,244
-That's a lot of cat food.

972
01:05:57,310 --> 01:05:59,682
We are having
an artwork fundraiser.

973
01:05:59,749 --> 01:06:06,997
This piece is for sale.
This totally cool piece, too.

974
01:06:07,097 --> 01:06:10,269
$27.15.

975
01:06:10,336 --> 01:06:12,976
-♪♪ It's good, it's good enough ♪♪

976
01:06:13,043 --> 01:06:15,279
♪♪ It's good enough for me ♪♪

977
01:06:15,346 --> 01:06:19,355
-Okay. That's disgusting!

978
01:06:19,556 --> 01:06:23,229
♪♪♪♪

979
01:06:23,296 --> 01:06:25,667
-Some more cans.
-Thanks.

980
01:06:25,734 --> 01:06:28,038
-Yep.
-I got them.

981
01:06:31,311 --> 01:06:35,788
-You know you only got,
like, $16?

982
01:06:35,855 --> 01:06:38,259
-What?!
Yeah, like, seriously.

983
01:06:43,502 --> 01:06:48,413
-I guess cost of aluminum
fluctuates on the market,

984
01:06:48,479 --> 01:06:52,655
so, when it drops,
they pay out less.

985
01:06:52,722 --> 01:06:55,628
-I just have a love-hate
relationship with these cans.

986
01:06:55,694 --> 01:06:59,569
-Well, it's free money.
-I get it.

987
01:06:59,636 --> 01:07:03,811
It's free money,
but, like, I lug six bags.

988
01:07:03,878 --> 01:07:06,048
I spent an hour going over there
bringing them back,

989
01:07:06,114 --> 01:07:08,486
and then you got, like,
16 bucks.

990
01:07:08,553 --> 01:07:10,558
-I mean, hell, to get 20 bucks,

991
01:07:10,625 --> 01:07:13,329
what they got to be,
30 bags or what?

992
01:07:13,396 --> 01:07:17,003
-A lot of bags.
-This is not working out.

993
01:07:17,070 --> 01:07:18,540
I mean...

994
01:07:18,607 --> 01:07:22,882
-It was just worth trying
to see what we could get

995
01:07:22,949 --> 01:07:24,018
for a few months.

996
01:07:24,084 --> 01:07:25,486
-Oh, yeah, I totally get it.

997
01:07:25,554 --> 01:07:27,959
-But if we're going to get
so little money,

998
01:07:28,026 --> 01:07:32,334
at this rate, we're never going
to get there if we're --

999
01:07:32,400 --> 01:07:36,175
-$16. Is it worth it?

1000
01:07:36,242 --> 01:07:38,345
[ Clock ticking ]

1001
01:07:38,412 --> 01:07:41,419
-We had a good run.

1002
01:07:41,485 --> 01:07:47,598
-But...
something's got to change.

1003
01:08:03,362 --> 01:08:05,567
The Disability
Marriage Equality Act,

1004
01:08:05,634 --> 01:08:07,204
it's cycling around in limbo.

1005
01:08:07,271 --> 01:08:08,674
Why is that?

1006
01:08:08,740 --> 01:08:10,310
Is there just
not enough attention to it?

1007
01:08:10,376 --> 01:08:12,047
Do people not understand
the bill?

1008
01:08:12,114 --> 01:08:13,550
Why is it stuck?

1009
01:08:13,616 --> 01:08:15,888
-Right, so according
to their calculations,

1010
01:08:15,955 --> 01:08:19,729
the big problem that's standing
in the way is cost...

1011
01:08:21,599 --> 01:08:24,639
...at least the way
they're accounting it.

1012
01:08:24,705 --> 01:08:27,978
But there isn't really
a thought to what would happen

1013
01:08:28,045 --> 01:08:29,281
if people lose their benefits

1014
01:08:29,348 --> 01:08:32,253
and have to be
in an institution,

1015
01:08:32,320 --> 01:08:35,226
which is also
much more expensive.

1016
01:08:35,292 --> 01:08:37,799
-I worry about what would happen

1017
01:08:37,865 --> 01:08:43,075
if I end up back
in another state institution.

1018
01:08:43,142 --> 01:08:49,589
I'm so afraid
because I can't go back.

1019
01:08:49,656 --> 01:08:53,462
-I'm so sorry.

1020
01:08:57,805 --> 01:09:02,280
-I had to learn
how to be outside all over again

1021
01:09:02,347 --> 01:09:05,654
because it's
like a self-contained world,

1022
01:09:05,721 --> 01:09:09,929
and that took a while
to get used to.

1023
01:09:09,996 --> 01:09:14,606
And the fear of ending up
back in one of these places,

1024
01:09:14,672 --> 01:09:19,682
I don't take anything
that I have for granted.

1025
01:09:19,749 --> 01:09:21,352
Even combs,

1026
01:09:21,419 --> 01:09:26,061
they never sold any hair
products for people like myself.

1027
01:09:26,128 --> 01:09:28,700
They always give you the
little combs that don't work.

1028
01:09:28,767 --> 01:09:30,571
-With the fine teeth.
The fine-teeth combs?

1029
01:09:30,638 --> 01:09:33,208
-Yes, it always --
-They break in my hair.

1030
01:09:33,275 --> 01:09:34,779
I need, like, 150 combs...

1031
01:09:34,846 --> 01:09:36,348
[ Both laugh ]

1032
01:09:36,414 --> 01:09:40,290
-But I just want to say
I just get pissed off.

1033
01:09:40,356 --> 01:09:44,197
It costs way more money,
and it's dehumanizing,

1034
01:09:44,264 --> 01:09:47,037
and it's ableist,
and it's just not...

1035
01:09:47,103 --> 01:09:48,774
You're a human being.

1036
01:09:48,840 --> 01:09:51,278
Like, you need to, like, tell
your story and people can listen

1037
01:09:51,345 --> 01:09:52,714
and say this is why.

1038
01:09:52,781 --> 01:09:55,788
This is why benefits are
extremely important.

1039
01:09:55,854 --> 01:09:59,027
-I agree.
One thing that, you know,

1040
01:09:59,093 --> 01:10:01,465
we've been working on
is in action in D.C.

1041
01:10:01,533 --> 01:10:03,336
to call for marriage equality.

1042
01:10:03,402 --> 01:10:05,907
And you might be interested
in joining us

1043
01:10:05,974 --> 01:10:09,114
and helping to speak
directly about

1044
01:10:09,180 --> 01:10:11,519
how important this issue is.

1045
01:10:11,586 --> 01:10:15,994
-Done.
-Okay. All right. Thank you.

1046
01:10:16,061 --> 01:10:17,497
This will be great.

1047
01:10:19,101 --> 01:10:26,115
-I was committed because
people thought I had bipolar,

1048
01:10:26,182 --> 01:10:29,121
which I did not.

1049
01:10:29,187 --> 01:10:32,995
It was a short-term psych ward.

1050
01:10:33,062 --> 01:10:35,433
Patrice's was a long-term.

1051
01:10:35,500 --> 01:10:37,470
There was a point

1052
01:10:37,538 --> 01:10:40,376
where they threatened
to put me in a long-term thing,

1053
01:10:40,443 --> 01:10:44,919
but my parents would
not let that happen.

1054
01:10:44,985 --> 01:10:49,294
So, we did not have
the same experiences.

1055
01:10:58,513 --> 01:11:03,990
-After two and a half years,
I got out of the institution,

1056
01:11:04,057 --> 01:11:07,899
and I could finally make
my own decisions.

1057
01:11:07,966 --> 01:11:10,904
[ Gavel bangs ]

1058
01:11:10,971 --> 01:11:15,180
My mom wanted me
to live with her,

1059
01:11:15,246 --> 01:11:18,754
but I wanted to live on my own.

1060
01:11:19,722 --> 01:11:23,295
I was the last person
in Montclair

1061
01:11:23,362 --> 01:11:25,834
to receive a housing voucher

1062
01:11:25,901 --> 01:11:31,044
before the senior Bush
administration cut the funding.

1063
01:11:33,884 --> 01:11:38,392
♪♪♪♪

1064
01:11:38,459 --> 01:11:42,233
Living on my own was a dream.

1065
01:11:42,300 --> 01:11:50,850
♪♪♪♪

1066
01:11:50,917 --> 01:11:54,525
I decided I was going to do
everything

1067
01:11:54,592 --> 01:11:58,700
that I couldn't do
living with my mom.

1068
01:11:58,767 --> 01:12:02,508
I remember having ice cream
at 4:30 a.m.

1069
01:12:02,575 --> 01:12:05,446
just because I could.

1070
01:12:05,513 --> 01:12:07,752
I also had ice cream
for breakfast

1071
01:12:07,819 --> 01:12:09,956
because I could do that, too.

1072
01:12:10,023 --> 01:12:11,526
-♪♪ Gloria ♪♪

1073
01:12:11,593 --> 01:12:15,400
-I had never experienced
that kind of freedom...

1074
01:12:15,467 --> 01:12:19,876
[ Music fades ]

1075
01:12:19,943 --> 01:12:26,589
...but I had no idea
how much anything cost.

1076
01:12:26,656 --> 01:12:29,294
I had to start looking
for work.

1077
01:12:29,361 --> 01:12:33,001
I would like to apply
for the crossing-guard job.

1078
01:12:33,068 --> 01:12:36,509
The ad said
no experience necessary.

1079
01:12:36,575 --> 01:12:38,379
-Do you have any experience?

1080
01:12:38,446 --> 01:12:41,686
-No.
-Great. We'll let you know.

1081
01:12:42,153 --> 01:12:43,724
-Okay.

1082
01:12:43,790 --> 01:12:48,365
I got turned down due
to lack of experience,

1083
01:12:48,432 --> 01:12:50,671
so I just reapplied.

1084
01:12:50,738 --> 01:12:53,644
-Do you have any experience?
-No.

1085
01:12:53,710 --> 01:13:00,757
And got denied again and again.

1086
01:13:00,824 --> 01:13:05,900
The only job I was able to find
was at a sheltered workshop.

1087
01:13:08,105 --> 01:13:11,979
-Okay, so for each one
you assemble, you get 5 cents.

1088
01:13:12,046 --> 01:13:14,686
So, the only limit
to your earning potential

1089
01:13:14,752 --> 01:13:16,421
is your drive and ambition.

1090
01:13:16,488 --> 01:13:22,400
-A sheltered workshop is
something like a sweatshop

1091
01:13:22,467 --> 01:13:24,838
for disabled people.

1092
01:13:24,905 --> 01:13:30,149
All we did was glue tips
on American flags.

1093
01:13:30,216 --> 01:13:33,088
And then we had
all these holidays

1094
01:13:33,155 --> 01:13:37,430
that needed American flags
back to back...

1095
01:13:39,568 --> 01:13:47,851
Memorial Day, Flag Day, 4th of
July, Labor Day, Veterans Day.

1096
01:13:47,918 --> 01:13:51,191
[ "Yankee Doodle" plays ]

1097
01:13:51,258 --> 01:13:58,873
♪♪♪♪

1098
01:13:58,940 --> 01:14:06,956
♪♪♪♪

1099
01:14:07,023 --> 01:14:09,193
♪♪♪♪

1100
01:14:14,806 --> 01:14:18,245
-We shouldn't have people
sacrificing

1101
01:14:18,312 --> 01:14:19,982
them being on medical benefits

1102
01:14:20,049 --> 01:14:22,186
just because they want to get
married,

1103
01:14:22,253 --> 01:14:24,090
and that's
why I put forward this bill.

1104
01:14:24,157 --> 01:14:28,599
And we're slowly seeing
people get on board with this.

1105
01:14:28,666 --> 01:14:31,405
-But why is it so slow?
Like, who doesn't agree

1106
01:14:31,472 --> 01:14:33,677
that disabled people shouldn't
have the right to get married?

1107
01:14:33,744 --> 01:14:36,081
-Yeah.
I wish it was that simple.

1108
01:14:36,148 --> 01:14:39,387
It's not just about making
people happy, unfortunately.

1109
01:14:39,454 --> 01:14:40,924
It's also about paying for it.

1110
01:14:40,990 --> 01:14:43,229
And that's what makes
it difficult.

1111
01:14:43,295 --> 01:14:44,932
-I don't see how this is a cost.

1112
01:14:44,998 --> 01:14:47,336
-It's about the federal
government paying for

1113
01:14:47,403 --> 01:14:49,709
the Medicaid benefits.
-But they already are

1114
01:14:49,775 --> 01:14:51,478
because if two people
are having Medicaid benefits,

1115
01:14:51,546 --> 01:14:52,781
and then those
two people get married,

1116
01:14:52,848 --> 01:14:54,384
and they just don't lose
their benefits,

1117
01:14:54,451 --> 01:14:56,689
how is the government making
or losing any money?

1118
01:14:56,756 --> 01:14:58,727
They just like to have
someone lose their benefits?

1119
01:14:58,793 --> 01:15:00,196
Like, this does not make sense.

1120
01:15:00,262 --> 01:15:02,099
-I wouldn't say they like
to do it.

1121
01:15:02,166 --> 01:15:03,604
I just think, like I said --
-They would rather that happen?

1122
01:15:03,670 --> 01:15:06,207
-So, if they lose
those benefits,

1123
01:15:06,274 --> 01:15:07,578
that's what
the federal government

1124
01:15:07,645 --> 01:15:09,247
doesn't have to pay for.

1125
01:15:09,314 --> 01:15:12,086
If they keep the benefits,
which my bill puts in place,

1126
01:15:12,153 --> 01:15:13,557
which it should,

1127
01:15:13,623 --> 01:15:15,259
then the federal government
has to step up

1128
01:15:15,326 --> 01:15:16,996
and provide that sort of funding
for that.

1129
01:15:17,063 --> 01:15:18,466
-But they're providing it
in the first place.

1130
01:15:18,533 --> 01:15:20,068
The system is so complicated

1131
01:15:20,135 --> 01:15:22,373
that a small percentage
of people who aren't aware

1132
01:15:22,440 --> 01:15:23,710
are probably getting
married,

1133
01:15:23,776 --> 01:15:25,213
losing their medical insurance.

1134
01:15:25,279 --> 01:15:28,051
And now, the government has
a cost saving?

1135
01:15:28,118 --> 01:15:29,287
That's
where they're saving money?

1136
01:15:29,353 --> 01:15:30,990
-Yes.

1137
01:15:31,057 --> 01:15:33,195
The federal government wouldn't
have to pay for it anymore.

1138
01:15:33,262 --> 01:15:37,070
-They can knock them off it.
-That's... Yep.

1139
01:15:37,137 --> 01:15:39,608
-I don't understand
why they would want to take away

1140
01:15:39,675 --> 01:15:43,048
from people
who really don't have anything.

1141
01:15:43,115 --> 01:15:46,254
-It literally doesn't
make sense to me.

1142
01:15:46,321 --> 01:15:52,000
-We're not taking that much
money away from Congress.

1143
01:15:52,066 --> 01:15:53,903
-You know, a bill like this

1144
01:15:53,970 --> 01:15:56,308
that would affect as many people
as it would,

1145
01:15:56,375 --> 01:15:58,311
which is going to be

1146
01:15:58,378 --> 01:16:00,583
in the millions and hundreds
of millions.

1147
01:16:00,650 --> 01:16:02,687
But that being said,
it's worth it,

1148
01:16:02,754 --> 01:16:05,827
and that takes --
uh, it's a long time.

1149
01:16:05,894 --> 01:16:08,633
We got a lot of work
to do to make sure

1150
01:16:08,699 --> 01:16:12,942
that this bill gets passed
into law.

1151
01:16:13,008 --> 01:16:15,547
-Until we all
become a united front

1152
01:16:15,614 --> 01:16:21,826
and try to keep fighting this,
it's not going to change.

1153
01:16:21,893 --> 01:16:25,801
-Years ago, when all
of the benefits were organized,

1154
01:16:25,868 --> 01:16:27,470
they were made available
to serve people in institutions

1155
01:16:27,538 --> 01:16:29,909
because
everyone was in an institution.

1156
01:16:29,976 --> 01:16:31,478
And when people were
in institutions,

1157
01:16:31,546 --> 01:16:33,348
they didn't have rights.
They couldn't make choices.

1158
01:16:33,415 --> 01:16:36,154
So, there was no assumption
anyone would get married,

1159
01:16:36,220 --> 01:16:39,661
let alone have a job
or live independently.

1160
01:16:39,728 --> 01:16:43,001
-And now we've got something
embedded in federal policies

1161
01:16:43,068 --> 01:16:44,972
that precludes people
from getting married,

1162
01:16:45,038 --> 01:16:47,611
which is a violation of civil
and human rights

1163
01:16:47,678 --> 01:16:49,615
and it needs to be fixed.

1164
01:16:49,682 --> 01:16:51,552
-Living with a disability
is hard enough,

1165
01:16:51,619 --> 01:16:54,090
and then add on
to the top of it

1166
01:16:54,157 --> 01:16:55,727
that you have to fight
for services

1167
01:16:55,794 --> 01:16:58,331
that you actually really need.

1168
01:17:17,336 --> 01:17:19,942
-Right now,
the push is to try to make sure

1169
01:17:20,009 --> 01:17:21,444
that the people
who are in Congress

1170
01:17:21,512 --> 01:17:24,417
care enough to try
to get this bill through.

1171
01:17:24,483 --> 01:17:25,821
-A lot of elected officials

1172
01:17:25,888 --> 01:17:28,660
don't understand
the real-life implications

1173
01:17:28,726 --> 01:17:31,966
that a marriage penalty has on
two people who love each other,

1174
01:17:32,033 --> 01:17:35,874
and we need people driving
the conversation.

1175
01:17:35,940 --> 01:17:38,245
It's got to be front and center.

1176
01:17:38,311 --> 01:17:42,954
-What if we got different
couples with disabilities

1177
01:17:43,021 --> 01:17:48,031
to go to Washington and
talk to the legislators there?

1178
01:17:48,098 --> 01:17:49,635
-So, our next meeting is
in Washington?

1179
01:17:49,701 --> 01:17:56,381
-Yes, party train.
Yes. Yes, guys.

1180
01:18:00,991 --> 01:18:03,261
[ Clock ticking ]

1181
01:18:08,539 --> 01:18:14,652
-So, what have we got?
-The art show, we raised $281.

1182
01:18:14,718 --> 01:18:18,258
-Okay. I'll take that.

1183
01:18:18,325 --> 01:18:24,104
-Well, also, too, one
of my friends found a nonprofit

1184
01:18:24,170 --> 01:18:26,909
that helps people
with disabilities

1185
01:18:26,976 --> 01:18:33,288
like myself raise money
for stuff that we need.

1186
01:18:33,355 --> 01:18:36,161
So, the money doesn't come
to me,

1187
01:18:36,227 --> 01:18:38,666
and they can't count it
as income.

1188
01:18:38,733 --> 01:18:40,303
-Well, I hope it works better,

1189
01:18:40,369 --> 01:18:41,672
because I think you're
going to make a lot more money

1190
01:18:41,739 --> 01:18:43,142
just by sharing a link,

1191
01:18:43,208 --> 01:18:45,045
because you can reach
so many more people.

1192
01:18:45,112 --> 01:18:47,150
You have friends
at all different places.

1193
01:18:47,216 --> 01:18:48,352
-Yeah.

1194
01:18:48,419 --> 01:18:51,793
-Are you going to post it
on social media?

1195
01:18:51,859 --> 01:18:54,164
-I hate asking people for money

1196
01:18:54,231 --> 01:18:59,040
because it always feels
like you're begging, and, then,

1197
01:18:59,107 --> 01:19:02,982
sometimes, they get mad
and they never let you forget

1198
01:19:03,048 --> 01:19:06,856
that they gave you something.
-Yeah.

1199
01:19:06,922 --> 01:19:09,026
-Like, for those cans,

1200
01:19:09,093 --> 01:19:12,667
I was afraid that
you were going to get mad at me.

1201
01:19:12,734 --> 01:19:14,337
-No. Why would I be mad?

1202
01:19:14,404 --> 01:19:19,113
-Because, sometimes, when
you need money, people get mad.

1203
01:19:22,287 --> 01:19:25,493
-There shouldn't be
contingencies to friendship.

1204
01:19:25,560 --> 01:19:27,230
Right?

1205
01:19:27,296 --> 01:19:30,637
But I think you've had people in
your past who have gotten mad.

1206
01:19:30,704 --> 01:19:34,678
-Well, an adjective
that was used to describe me

1207
01:19:34,745 --> 01:19:40,055
by some of the people that were
my friends was "needy."

1208
01:19:40,122 --> 01:19:42,059
And even though they tell you

1209
01:19:42,126 --> 01:19:46,334
that you shouldn't care about
what other people think,

1210
01:19:46,401 --> 01:19:48,506
sometimes you do.

1211
01:19:51,478 --> 01:19:53,448
-Yeah, I just,

1212
01:19:53,516 --> 01:19:56,789
I know you don't really
like asking people for money,

1213
01:19:56,855 --> 01:19:59,160
but, in this case,
you kinda have to.

1214
01:19:59,226 --> 01:20:00,597
Right?

1215
01:20:00,664 --> 01:20:05,238
[ Clock ticking ]

1216
01:20:05,305 --> 01:20:07,109
[ Beeps ]

1217
01:20:10,382 --> 01:20:11,953
-Hi, guys.

1218
01:20:12,019 --> 01:20:14,157
This is your girl Patrice here.

1219
01:20:14,224 --> 01:20:17,931
I need to go back
to my crossing-guard job

1220
01:20:17,998 --> 01:20:19,568
because I miss the kids,

1221
01:20:19,635 --> 01:20:24,612
so I really need your help
to get my dream van.

1222
01:20:24,678 --> 01:20:27,951
And I do appreciate everyone's
generosity.

1223
01:20:28,018 --> 01:20:30,724
Thank you.

1224
01:20:30,791 --> 01:20:37,837
[ Clock ticking ]

1225
01:20:37,904 --> 01:20:40,309
[ Beeps ]

1226
01:20:40,376 --> 01:20:44,216
All right.
I just sent it.

1227
01:20:55,707 --> 01:20:57,242
[ Bell rings ]

1228
01:20:57,309 --> 01:20:59,948
I was never able to make
enough money

1229
01:21:00,015 --> 01:21:02,821
at the sheltered workshop.

1230
01:21:02,887 --> 01:21:08,432
If I brought home $35,
that was a good week.

1231
01:21:08,498 --> 01:21:14,845
One time, I had a paycheck
that was 77 cents.

1232
01:21:14,912 --> 01:21:16,983
I couldn't afford food.

1233
01:21:17,049 --> 01:21:19,287
-Paging Dr. Harris...
Dr. Kyla Harris.

1234
01:21:19,353 --> 01:21:23,361
-I didn't know
that I was making myself sick.

1235
01:21:23,428 --> 01:21:27,604
My older sister
would send me money.

1236
01:21:27,671 --> 01:21:30,711
And Mom would help me out
when she could,

1237
01:21:30,777 --> 01:21:33,349
but she didn't have a lot
of money, either.

1238
01:21:33,415 --> 01:21:34,951
-If you managed your money
better,

1239
01:21:35,018 --> 01:21:36,421
you would have food
in the house.

1240
01:21:36,487 --> 01:21:38,993
This is your problem.
You're on your own.

1241
01:21:39,059 --> 01:21:40,696
I can't afford to bail you out.

1242
01:21:40,763 --> 01:21:43,603
-I felt like such a failure.

1243
01:21:43,670 --> 01:21:46,742
-You get Social Security
benefits, you get Section 8,

1244
01:21:46,809 --> 01:21:48,646
and you get food stamps.

1245
01:21:48,713 --> 01:21:51,986
-And you still don't have
enough money?

1246
01:21:52,052 --> 01:21:54,524
-It's got to be your fault.

1247
01:21:54,591 --> 01:22:00,703
-[ Echoing ] I don't get
any help, and I manage.

1248
01:22:02,473 --> 01:22:05,580
-I was determined
to get the crossing-guard job.

1249
01:22:05,647 --> 01:22:10,924
After applying 13 times,
I went to see the mayor.

1250
01:22:10,991 --> 01:22:13,797
-Uh, I'll call you back later.

1251
01:22:13,863 --> 01:22:19,340
-Mr. Mayor, I can't prove that
I'm being discriminated against,

1252
01:22:19,407 --> 01:22:23,816
but I can prove
that I'm being treated unfairly.

1253
01:22:23,883 --> 01:22:25,252
-Oh!

1254
01:22:25,319 --> 01:22:26,788
-And I turned out to be one

1255
01:22:26,855 --> 01:22:29,628
of the best crossing guards
they had.

1256
01:22:29,695 --> 01:22:32,801
[ Whistle blows ]

1257
01:22:32,867 --> 01:22:38,244
-Ta-da!
Trish, the crossing guard.

1258
01:22:38,311 --> 01:22:43,088
Trish takes an oath
to keep all the children safe,

1259
01:22:43,155 --> 01:22:46,796
smiling
as she crosses the children.

1260
01:22:46,863 --> 01:22:51,672
Trish is happy that
the first day of school is here.

1261
01:22:51,739 --> 01:22:53,609
-Beep-beep-beep-beep-beep.

1262
01:22:53,676 --> 01:22:57,617
The unusual, awesome Tina
herself now reporting live.

1263
01:22:57,684 --> 01:23:00,256
-All you Patrice Jetter Facebook
fans...

1264
01:23:00,322 --> 01:23:03,562
-The situation is now dire.

1265
01:23:03,629 --> 01:23:06,167
-We need some more money
for this van.

1266
01:23:06,234 --> 01:23:07,871
-We're trying,

1267
01:23:07,938 --> 01:23:09,507
but none of our fundraisers
are bringing in that much money.

1268
01:23:09,574 --> 01:23:12,614
-These vehicles are
down payments on a home.

1269
01:23:12,680 --> 01:23:17,155
-She needs a van to go to work.
She needs a van to be social.

1270
01:23:17,222 --> 01:23:19,795
-And do Special Olympics
with me.

1271
01:23:19,862 --> 01:23:20,997
-I'm really hoping
there are people out there

1272
01:23:21,064 --> 01:23:22,600
that can help us.

1273
01:23:22,667 --> 01:23:25,640
-We want her to be happy
because we love her to death.

1274
01:23:25,707 --> 01:23:27,911
-Hey, everybody.
-Hi, guys. It's Delaney.

1275
01:23:27,978 --> 01:23:30,616
-Coach Jen here, coming at you
from Iceland Arena.

1276
01:23:30,683 --> 01:23:33,690
-Reaching out to you
today with a favor.

1277
01:23:33,757 --> 01:23:36,427
-Listen up, chumps.
My Aunt Patrice needs a new van.

1278
01:23:36,494 --> 01:23:39,500
-Just wondering if anybody
can chip in some couple dollars.

1279
01:23:39,568 --> 01:23:43,141
-Every little penny,
dime, nickel.

1280
01:23:43,208 --> 01:23:44,545
-Every little bit helps.

1281
01:23:44,612 --> 01:23:47,049
-Patrice is this person
who I love.

1282
01:23:47,116 --> 01:23:48,484
-Patrice is so nice,

1283
01:23:48,552 --> 01:23:51,525
and she always makes
everybody feel welcome.

1284
01:23:51,592 --> 01:23:54,598
-She says hi to everybody.
-She's just an amazing person.

1285
01:23:54,665 --> 01:23:57,637
-One of my favorite aunties.
-She buys me model trains.

1286
01:23:57,704 --> 01:23:59,373
-She'll give you the shirt
off her back.

1287
01:23:59,440 --> 01:24:01,310
-The rink needs Patrice.

1288
01:24:01,377 --> 01:24:03,481
-She's a wonderful lady
in the world.

1289
01:24:03,549 --> 01:24:06,522
-If you like what you have seen
and heard or like,

1290
01:24:06,589 --> 01:24:08,759
"Yes, Queen" or whatever,
click the link.

1291
01:24:08,826 --> 01:24:11,866
-Click on the link.
-Anything you can contribute.

1292
01:24:11,933 --> 01:24:13,235
-Any amount.

1293
01:24:13,301 --> 01:24:14,905
-Whatever you can,
help her, please.

1294
01:24:14,971 --> 01:24:16,542
-Help my baby sister.

1295
01:24:16,609 --> 01:24:19,815
-Everybody should help
Patrice get a new van.

1296
01:24:19,882 --> 01:24:22,453
-Please, everyone.
-Help Patrice get a van.

1297
01:24:22,521 --> 01:24:25,793
-Let's get on the ball, and get
her a van. Woo-hoo!

1298
01:24:25,860 --> 01:24:28,498
-Thank you and goodbye.

1299
01:24:34,678 --> 01:24:37,583
-So, fundraising.

1300
01:24:37,650 --> 01:24:41,123
Because we've got
the link out there...

1301
01:24:41,190 --> 01:24:43,227
-Yeah.
-Um, other ideas?

1302
01:24:43,294 --> 01:24:45,031
Fundraising.
-For fund...

1303
01:24:45,098 --> 01:24:47,470
We thought about having
a penny drive.

1304
01:24:47,537 --> 01:24:49,741
-What is a penny drive?
What is a penny drive?

1305
01:24:49,808 --> 01:24:52,747
-When people have pennies
they don't want.

1306
01:24:52,814 --> 01:24:55,386
Well, I mean, like...
-How many pennies?

1307
01:24:55,452 --> 01:24:57,991
-You can't predict ahead of time

1308
01:24:58,058 --> 01:24:59,695
how many pennies
you're going to get.

1309
01:24:59,761 --> 01:25:02,734
-Yeah.
We'll take whatever, you know,

1310
01:25:02,801 --> 01:25:04,971
whatever we can get
our hands on.

1311
01:25:05,038 --> 01:25:06,709
-Yeah, we got to do something.

1312
01:25:06,775 --> 01:25:11,518
-Or else who's going to do it?
I mean, you know, it just...

1313
01:25:16,261 --> 01:25:20,035
-This is -- you can't --
you're so limited

1314
01:25:20,102 --> 01:25:21,638
in what you can do,
and I'm here.

1315
01:25:21,705 --> 01:25:24,978
I'm helping you 100%,
but, even for me, this is a lot.

1316
01:25:25,045 --> 01:25:28,552
-Well, getting frustrated
isn't going to help me.

1317
01:25:28,619 --> 01:25:30,489
-Yeah, I get it does nothing,

1318
01:25:30,556 --> 01:25:33,562
but, like, how come you're not
just like annoyed all the time?

1319
01:25:33,629 --> 01:25:35,465
-Well, I'm tired.
-Yeah.

1320
01:25:35,533 --> 01:25:38,940
-It almost makes me
sometimes not want to do it,

1321
01:25:39,006 --> 01:25:44,083
but I have to do something.

1322
01:25:44,551 --> 01:25:47,422
-Can I see how much you have?

1323
01:25:47,489 --> 01:25:48,926
Is there a way
to show me on there?

1324
01:25:48,993 --> 01:25:52,767
-Yeah. All right, so...

1325
01:25:56,274 --> 01:25:58,444
What the hell?

1326
01:25:58,512 --> 01:25:59,714
-What?
-What?

1327
01:26:00,448 --> 01:26:02,787
-We got 50 -- what the hell?

1328
01:26:02,854 --> 01:26:06,695
-Wow! Well, wait a minute. What?
-That's got to be a mistake.

1329
01:26:06,762 --> 01:26:09,701
-It's got to -- wait a minute.
-No, that can't be right.

1330
01:26:09,768 --> 01:26:11,639
-Wait, wait, wait, wait,
but who's put anything?

1331
01:26:11,705 --> 01:26:16,314
-I don't -- it's not $55,000.
-No, but total funds raised.

1332
01:26:16,380 --> 01:26:17,850
-That can't be right.

1333
01:26:17,950 --> 01:26:21,257
[ Telephone ringing ]

1334
01:26:23,829 --> 01:26:25,365
-This is Jen.
How can we help you?

1335
01:26:25,432 --> 01:26:28,772
-Hi, Jen.
This is Patrice Jetter calling.

1336
01:26:28,839 --> 01:26:35,285
Today, my campaign is showing
that I'm at $55,000.

1337
01:26:35,352 --> 01:26:36,988
-Oh, my gosh.

1338
01:26:37,055 --> 01:26:40,395
-And I just wanted to make
sure I didn't make a mistake,

1339
01:26:40,462 --> 01:26:45,339
because that means I
can finally get my van,

1340
01:26:45,405 --> 01:26:49,815
and I just was double-checking.

1341
01:26:49,882 --> 01:26:51,818
-Okay. Let me look.

1342
01:26:53,088 --> 01:26:54,791
Let's see.

1343
01:26:56,696 --> 01:27:00,102
All right. It looks
like something's weird.

1344
01:27:00,168 --> 01:27:02,740
Um, wait a minute.

1345
01:27:02,807 --> 01:27:04,376
I need to double-check
with finance.

1346
01:27:04,443 --> 01:27:06,715
I'm seeing two
different numbers.

1347
01:27:06,781 --> 01:27:08,285
-Okay.

1348
01:27:08,352 --> 01:27:10,990
[ Clock ticking ]

1349
01:27:11,057 --> 01:27:17,069
-Hang on one second.
[ Typing ]

1350
01:27:17,135 --> 01:27:20,976
Oh, there we go.

1351
01:27:21,043 --> 01:27:22,379
Okay.

1352
01:27:22,446 --> 01:27:24,049
That amount is accurate.

1353
01:27:24,116 --> 01:27:27,023
-Oh, my gosh!

1354
01:27:27,089 --> 01:27:29,026
-It's real.

1355
01:27:29,093 --> 01:27:31,598
-[ Laughs ]

1356
01:27:31,665 --> 01:27:34,403
-I'm so happy for you.

1357
01:27:34,470 --> 01:27:36,006
-[ Laughs ]

1358
01:27:37,744 --> 01:27:40,716
Oh, my gosh.

1359
01:27:40,783 --> 01:27:44,356
-Have an awesome afternoon.

1360
01:27:50,069 --> 01:27:52,907
-[ Crying ]

1361
01:27:59,287 --> 01:28:01,925
-Oh, my God!

1362
01:28:08,204 --> 01:28:10,743
-I gotcha. I got you.

1363
01:28:23,100 --> 01:28:25,104
-I know!
[ Laughs ]

1364
01:28:29,113 --> 01:28:31,685
-We did it.

1365
01:28:34,123 --> 01:28:35,826
We did it.

1366
01:28:45,445 --> 01:28:53,729
♪♪♪♪

1367
01:28:53,796 --> 01:28:57,102
The last day I spent
with my mom,

1368
01:28:57,169 --> 01:29:02,580
I had lunch with her
at the hospital.

1369
01:29:02,647 --> 01:29:06,120
We had a nice afternoon
together,

1370
01:29:06,187 --> 01:29:08,992
and there was no fighting
and stuff.

1371
01:29:12,533 --> 01:29:17,877
And she passed away
the next morning.

1372
01:29:21,017 --> 01:29:22,520
At that moment,

1373
01:29:22,587 --> 01:29:26,327
none of that stuff
that we fought over mattered.

1374
01:29:26,394 --> 01:29:35,145
♪♪♪♪

1375
01:29:35,212 --> 01:29:39,687
And I felt my heart break.

1376
01:29:43,494 --> 01:29:48,605
I still love Mom,
and I know that she loved me.

1377
01:29:50,743 --> 01:30:00,161
It was just sorta like
my mom felt very alone and sad.

1378
01:30:03,569 --> 01:30:06,908
If my mom got to be a dancer,

1379
01:30:06,975 --> 01:30:11,584
I know that her life would
have been a lot different.

1380
01:30:14,290 --> 01:30:17,830
The world would've loved Mom.

1381
01:30:17,897 --> 01:30:26,447
♪♪♪♪

1382
01:30:29,053 --> 01:30:31,624
[ Birds chirping ]

1383
01:30:36,100 --> 01:30:43,515
♪♪♪♪

1384
01:30:43,582 --> 01:30:45,352
[ Horn honks ]

1385
01:30:45,419 --> 01:30:53,201
♪♪♪♪

1386
01:30:53,268 --> 01:30:57,710
♪♪♪♪

1387
01:30:57,777 --> 01:31:00,348
-I can't believe this is hers.

1388
01:31:00,415 --> 01:31:02,018
Oh!

1389
01:31:05,759 --> 01:31:09,199
Oh, it's just --
it's just crazy.

1390
01:31:09,266 --> 01:31:10,301
♪♪♪♪

1391
01:31:10,368 --> 01:31:12,205
-Patrice, it's all yours.

1392
01:31:14,945 --> 01:31:16,113
-Thank you.

1393
01:31:16,180 --> 01:31:18,117
-I hope you have it
for years and years,

1394
01:31:18,184 --> 01:31:21,858
and it brings you
so much joy and happiness.

1395
01:31:21,925 --> 01:31:31,110
♪♪♪♪

1396
01:31:31,177 --> 01:31:40,095
♪♪♪♪

1397
01:31:40,162 --> 01:31:47,209
♪♪♪♪

1398
01:31:47,276 --> 01:31:53,154
♪♪♪♪

1399
01:31:53,221 --> 01:31:57,195
[ Engine starts ]

1400
01:31:57,262 --> 01:32:06,113
♪♪♪♪

1401
01:32:06,180 --> 01:32:14,363
♪♪♪♪

1402
01:32:14,430 --> 01:32:15,699
♪♪♪♪

1403
01:32:21,010 --> 01:32:23,080
-[ Laughs ]

1404
01:32:23,147 --> 01:32:24,517
This is great.

1405
01:32:24,584 --> 01:32:28,759
♪♪♪♪

1406
01:32:28,826 --> 01:32:30,563
-I just got my new car!

1407
01:32:30,630 --> 01:32:32,132
[ All cheering ]

1408
01:32:32,199 --> 01:32:35,338
Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah.

1409
01:32:35,405 --> 01:32:39,446
♪♪♪♪

1410
01:32:39,514 --> 01:32:40,816
[ Horn honks ]

1411
01:32:40,883 --> 01:32:42,653
What do you think?

1412
01:32:42,720 --> 01:32:45,258
-♪♪ It had been a long night ♪♪

1413
01:32:45,324 --> 01:32:46,260
-♪♪ Sitting by the fire ♪♪

1414
01:32:46,327 --> 01:32:48,331
-This is like not real.

1415
01:32:48,397 --> 01:32:50,469
-Yeah.

1416
01:32:50,536 --> 01:32:52,941
-♪♪ It may only last a moment ♪♪

1417
01:32:53,007 --> 01:32:56,280
♪♪ But a moment
can last a lifetime ♪♪

1418
01:32:56,347 --> 01:33:02,693
♪♪♪♪

1419
01:33:02,760 --> 01:33:05,799
-It's just so cool
that all of us are together.

1420
01:33:06,133 --> 01:33:14,383
♪♪♪♪

1421
01:33:14,450 --> 01:33:17,523
♪♪♪♪

1422
01:33:17,590 --> 01:33:19,794
-Everyone came through.

1423
01:33:19,861 --> 01:33:24,269
That was a miracle,
which we're thankful for,

1424
01:33:24,336 --> 01:33:30,616
but it doesn't change
the problem with the system.

1425
01:33:30,683 --> 01:33:33,655
Disabled people
shouldn't have to fundraise

1426
01:33:33,722 --> 01:33:36,059
to get their needs met.

1427
01:33:36,126 --> 01:33:41,137
It just means
that the system is broken.

1428
01:33:41,337 --> 01:33:49,219
♪♪♪♪

1429
01:33:49,286 --> 01:33:57,135
♪♪♪♪

1430
01:33:57,202 --> 01:34:02,513
♪♪♪♪

1431
01:34:02,580 --> 01:34:07,823
♪♪♪♪

1432
01:34:07,890 --> 01:34:10,630
-This law needs to change,

1433
01:34:10,696 --> 01:34:15,238
and we're going to do what we
have to do to make this happen.

1434
01:34:15,305 --> 01:34:19,113
-Patrice is going to lead
an event in D.C.,

1435
01:34:19,180 --> 01:34:22,318
and we're hoping to have
people from all over the country

1436
01:34:22,385 --> 01:34:23,889
declare their love,

1437
01:34:23,956 --> 01:34:26,227
celebrate their love,
and also call for change.

1438
01:34:26,294 --> 01:34:27,997
-Thank you.

1439
01:34:30,636 --> 01:34:32,139
-Washington, D.C.,

1440
01:34:32,206 --> 01:34:34,911
we haven't quite figured
out what we want to do yet.

1441
01:34:34,978 --> 01:34:37,850
You're very theatrical.

1442
01:34:37,917 --> 01:34:39,720
You know
what performance art is?

1443
01:34:39,787 --> 01:34:42,993
-Like theater, right?
-Basically. Okay.

1444
01:34:43,060 --> 01:34:48,706
-This one is my favorite.
-Oh, that's pretty cool.

1445
01:34:48,772 --> 01:34:50,408
Say, we had a performance thing

1446
01:34:50,475 --> 01:34:54,249
where you could "pretend" to
marry people as a demonstration.

1447
01:34:57,590 --> 01:35:02,833
-Do you promise to push forward
disabled marriage equality?

1448
01:35:02,900 --> 01:35:04,369
-You can put a little
more attitude into it.

1449
01:35:04,436 --> 01:35:06,307
I know you have the attitude
in you.

1450
01:35:06,374 --> 01:35:11,283
-We are planning a big event
in Washington, D.C.

1451
01:35:11,350 --> 01:35:13,120
Be there.

1452
01:35:13,187 --> 01:35:16,928
-Repeal the marriage penalty!
-Repeal the marriage penalty.

1453
01:35:16,995 --> 01:35:19,567
-Say it again!
-Repeal the marriage penalty!

1454
01:35:19,634 --> 01:35:24,911
-♪♪ We belong to the light,
we belong to the thunder ♪♪

1455
01:35:24,978 --> 01:35:27,850
♪♪ We belong ♪♪

1456
01:35:27,917 --> 01:35:32,492
♪♪ We belong,
we belong together ♪♪

1457
01:35:32,559 --> 01:35:35,966
-♪♪ We belong ♪♪

1458
01:35:47,790 --> 01:35:51,798
♪♪♪♪

1459
01:35:51,865 --> 01:36:01,518
♪♪♪♪

1460
01:36:01,585 --> 01:36:04,189
-Dearly beloved,

1461
01:36:04,256 --> 01:36:09,132
we are all gathered here
today to create radical change.

1462
01:36:10,468 --> 01:36:15,913
-We must make it clear
to our legislators and society

1463
01:36:15,979 --> 01:36:19,720
that our love matters.

1464
01:36:19,787 --> 01:36:26,868
-It is a fundamental human right
that should never be denied.

1465
01:36:26,935 --> 01:36:29,974
[ Crowd cheers ]

1466
01:36:30,843 --> 01:36:33,213
-Who wants to get married?
-I do!

1467
01:36:33,280 --> 01:36:36,521
-Yes!
-Come on up.

1468
01:36:43,301 --> 01:36:45,338
Repeat after me.

1469
01:36:45,405 --> 01:36:48,979
We would like to get married...
-We would like to get married...

1470
01:36:49,046 --> 01:36:51,050
-And be able to go
to the doctor.

1471
01:36:51,117 --> 01:36:53,287
-And be able
to go to the doctor.

1472
01:36:53,354 --> 01:36:56,994
-We would like to get married...
-We would like to get married...

1473
01:36:57,061 --> 01:36:59,968
-And be able to buy
groceries and medicine.

1474
01:37:00,034 --> 01:37:03,240
-And be able
to buy groceries and medicine.

1475
01:37:03,307 --> 01:37:07,082
-We would like to get married...
-We would like to get married...

1476
01:37:07,148 --> 01:37:09,419
-And be able to pay rent
and bills.

1477
01:37:09,486 --> 01:37:11,792
-And be able
to pay rent and bills.

1478
01:37:11,858 --> 01:37:15,231
-And not end up living...
-And not end up living...

1479
01:37:15,298 --> 01:37:18,672
-in a cardboard box.
-in a cardboard box.

1480
01:37:18,739 --> 01:37:23,749
-By the powers invested in me,
I pronounce you all together.

1481
01:37:23,816 --> 01:37:28,391
[ Crowd cheers ]

1482
01:37:28,458 --> 01:37:35,973
♪♪♪♪

1483
01:37:36,040 --> 01:37:42,820
♪♪♪♪

1484
01:37:42,887 --> 01:37:46,595
♪♪♪♪

1485
01:37:46,661 --> 01:37:55,779
We got to have our commitment
ceremony, and it was beautiful.

1486
01:37:55,846 --> 01:38:04,262
♪♪♪♪

1487
01:38:04,329 --> 01:38:13,281
♪♪♪♪

1488
01:38:13,347 --> 01:38:15,986
But we still can't get married.

1489
01:38:18,157 --> 01:38:20,461
-Okay, kids,
gather up all that stuff.

1490
01:38:20,529 --> 01:38:23,635
-I'm afraid he did, even though
it was just a fantastic effort.

1491
01:38:23,702 --> 01:38:26,139
-Well, you're the boss, Jim.
Would you excuse me?

1492
01:38:26,206 --> 01:38:28,411
-We still can't live together.

1493
01:38:28,478 --> 01:38:30,147
-♪♪ We wish you
a merry Christmas ♪♪

1494
01:38:30,214 --> 01:38:31,918
♪♪ We wish you
a merry Christmas ♪♪

1495
01:38:31,985 --> 01:38:35,357
♪♪ We wish you a merry Christmas
and a happy new year ♪♪

1496
01:38:35,424 --> 01:38:37,830
-We still can't ever call
each other husband and wife...

1497
01:38:37,897 --> 01:38:41,169
-♪♪ We wish you
a Merry Christmas ♪♪

1498
01:38:47,015 --> 01:38:48,986
[ Horn honks ]

1499
01:38:49,052 --> 01:38:50,421
-Hey!

1500
01:38:50,488 --> 01:38:52,459
-But at least we still have
each other.

1501
01:38:52,527 --> 01:38:53,662
-[ Laughs ]

1502
01:38:53,729 --> 01:38:55,732
[ Crowd cheers ]

1503
01:38:55,799 --> 01:39:02,478
♪♪♪♪

1504
01:39:02,546 --> 01:39:04,517
-Let's go, Patrice!

1505
01:39:04,584 --> 01:39:06,555
Let's go, Patrice!

1506
01:39:06,655 --> 01:39:08,825
Let's go, Patrice!

1507
01:39:08,892 --> 01:39:11,865
♪♪♪♪

1508
01:39:11,932 --> 01:39:13,334
-Are you ready for this?
-Yeah.

1509
01:39:13,400 --> 01:39:17,475
-Here they come to the ice.

1510
01:39:17,543 --> 01:39:21,483
♪♪♪♪

1511
01:39:21,718 --> 01:39:26,059
[ Dolly Parton and Kenny Rogers'
"Islands in the Stream" plays ]

1512
01:39:26,126 --> 01:39:31,203
♪♪♪♪

1513
01:39:31,270 --> 01:39:35,444
♪♪ Baby, when I met you,
there was peace unknown ♪♪

1514
01:39:35,512 --> 01:39:39,921
♪♪ I set out to get you
with a fine-tooth comb ♪♪

1515
01:39:39,988 --> 01:39:42,158
-♪♪ I was soft inside ♪♪

1516
01:39:42,225 --> 01:39:46,299
♪♪ There was something
going on ♪♪

1517
01:39:47,703 --> 01:39:52,412
♪♪ Islands in the stream,
that is what we are ♪♪

1518
01:39:52,479 --> 01:39:57,188
♪♪ No one in between,
how can we be wrong? ♪♪

1519
01:39:57,255 --> 01:40:01,598
♪♪ Sail away with me
to another world ♪♪

1520
01:40:01,664 --> 01:40:04,704
-♪♪ And we rely on each other ♪♪

1521
01:40:04,771 --> 01:40:06,439
-♪♪ Uh-huh ♪♪

1522
01:40:06,507 --> 01:40:10,716
♪♪ From one lover to another,
uh-huh ♪♪

1523
01:40:10,783 --> 01:40:14,857
♪♪ Islands in the stream,
that is what we are ♪♪

1524
01:40:14,924 --> 01:40:19,533
♪♪ No one in between,
how can we be wrong? ♪♪

1525
01:40:19,600 --> 01:40:24,944
♪♪ Sail away with me
to another world ♪♪

1526
01:40:25,011 --> 01:40:34,396
♪♪♪♪

1527
01:40:34,463 --> 01:40:43,414
♪♪♪♪

1528
01:40:43,481 --> 01:40:51,931
♪♪♪♪

1529
01:40:51,998 --> 01:41:01,618
♪♪♪♪

1530
01:41:01,685 --> 01:41:10,034
♪♪♪♪

1531
01:41:10,101 --> 01:41:19,452
♪♪♪♪

1532
01:41:19,520 --> 01:41:27,736
♪♪♪♪

1533
01:41:27,803 --> 01:41:36,888
♪♪♪♪

1534
01:41:36,955 --> 01:41:45,037
♪♪♪♪

1535
01:41:45,104 --> 01:41:54,757
♪♪♪♪

1536
01:41:54,824 --> 01:42:03,541
♪♪♪♪

1537
01:42:03,608 --> 01:42:12,526
♪♪♪♪

1538
01:42:12,593 --> 01:42:21,811
♪♪♪♪

1539
01:42:21,878 --> 01:42:30,127
♪♪♪♪

1540
01:42:30,194 --> 01:42:39,914
♪♪♪♪

1541
01:42:39,981 --> 01:42:43,821
♪♪♪♪