1 00:00:03,220 --> 00:00:06,658 We've definitely clicked with Becca. 2 00:00:06,658 --> 00:00:08,225 Last night was a workout. 3 00:00:08,225 --> 00:00:10,445 Last night was a fucking workout, girl. 4 00:00:10,445 --> 00:00:13,230 Lauren and I are, like, instantly very comfortable. 5 00:00:13,230 --> 00:00:17,495 But something's definitely off between me and Dylan. 6 00:00:18,192 --> 00:00:20,150 We have had experiences like this in the past 7 00:00:20,150 --> 00:00:22,805 where he's crossed a boundary. 8 00:00:22,805 --> 00:00:24,154 Scott. 9 00:00:24,154 --> 00:00:25,242 - That's a stop. - That's a stop. 10 00:00:25,242 --> 00:00:26,635 We got a safe word. 11 00:00:26,635 --> 00:00:28,811 I wish I hadn't been like your first choice, 12 00:00:28,811 --> 00:00:31,509 because I feel like the first choice is the experiment, 13 00:00:31,509 --> 00:00:34,121 and that just feels really dehumanizing. 14 00:00:34,121 --> 00:00:37,646 Sanu was so serious. It's just too much. 15 00:00:39,387 --> 00:00:42,738 When I kissed Jonathan, there was zero tongue. 16 00:00:42,738 --> 00:00:44,522 Are you okay? 17 00:00:45,436 --> 00:00:48,874 Tonight, the unmatched singles that's about to join us. 18 00:00:48,874 --> 00:00:51,138 Let the party begin. 19 00:00:51,138 --> 00:00:53,183 - Whoo! - Let's go. 20 00:00:53,183 --> 00:00:55,142 We've had a lot of great conversations with Mia 21 00:00:55,142 --> 00:00:57,405 ever since day one. 22 00:00:57,405 --> 00:01:00,625 I am completely checked out. Good luck to you, Mia. 23 00:01:00,625 --> 00:01:03,454 Sean and I wanted to get to know Peach and Darrien. 24 00:01:03,454 --> 00:01:06,327 I would be submissive for you. 25 00:01:06,327 --> 00:01:07,980 Okay. 26 00:01:08,894 --> 00:01:13,073 I really wish I wasn't in the position that I am now. 27 00:01:15,075 --> 00:01:16,641 Becca? 28 00:01:28,610 --> 00:01:33,919 ♪ Maybe today will be the day I tell you how I feel ♪ 29 00:01:33,919 --> 00:01:39,447 ♪ Maybe today will be the day, baby, we get real ♪ 30 00:01:39,447 --> 00:01:44,278 ♪ Maybe today might be that day that we both finally say ♪ 31 00:01:44,278 --> 00:01:47,672 ♪ Those three words 32 00:01:47,672 --> 00:01:51,067 Oh, my God. What a crazy party last night. 33 00:01:51,067 --> 00:01:53,243 I woke up in bed with two women again. 34 00:01:54,984 --> 00:02:00,163 ♪ Maybe today might be that day that we both finally say ♪ 35 00:02:00,163 --> 00:02:02,078 ♪ Those three words 36 00:02:05,516 --> 00:02:08,693 Maybe today we can talk to her. 37 00:02:08,693 --> 00:02:12,262 Becca never came to the room last night. 38 00:02:12,262 --> 00:02:15,178 I'm like, is she going to come back? Is she not? 39 00:02:15,178 --> 00:02:16,788 I hope she's okay. 40 00:02:16,788 --> 00:02:19,356 And if she didn't want to sleep with in our same room, 41 00:02:19,356 --> 00:02:22,054 that's totally fine. She's her own person. 42 00:02:22,054 --> 00:02:24,709 - It doesn't upset us. - No. 43 00:02:24,709 --> 00:02:27,712 What the fuck does she think about us now? 44 00:02:29,627 --> 00:02:32,761 Last night, I didn't want to share a bed 45 00:02:32,761 --> 00:02:35,416 with Lauren and Dylan. At the white party, 46 00:02:35,416 --> 00:02:37,244 Dylan was saying, like, "Oh, my God. I'm so excited 47 00:02:37,244 --> 00:02:38,680 to get to know Mia." 48 00:02:38,680 --> 00:02:40,986 And I'm like, get me the fuck out of this room. 49 00:02:43,511 --> 00:02:46,992 Maybe we should get ready for some breakfast. 50 00:02:46,992 --> 00:02:52,476 Yes. I'm starving, so... 51 00:02:52,476 --> 00:02:54,783 This morning, I just feel anxious. 52 00:02:54,783 --> 00:02:57,742 There's tension in the house between the guys and myself. 53 00:02:57,742 --> 00:03:00,528 - How are you feeling? - Feel good. I don't know. 54 00:03:00,528 --> 00:03:01,746 - Yeah? - How should I feel? 55 00:03:01,746 --> 00:03:05,228 I mean, you guys obviously know better. 56 00:03:05,228 --> 00:03:08,405 We haven't fully been investing in the throuple. 57 00:03:08,405 --> 00:03:10,320 I feel like it's a lot of, like, 58 00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:15,456 Ashmal and myself having conversations, not Rehman. 59 00:03:15,456 --> 00:03:18,720 I just want more reassurance. That's pretty much it. 60 00:03:18,720 --> 00:03:20,635 It was so fun the first day, you know? And like-- 61 00:03:20,635 --> 00:03:22,550 - Yeah. - I just don't know. 62 00:03:22,550 --> 00:03:24,334 I feel like, I don't know if we've gotten like deeper. 63 00:03:24,334 --> 00:03:26,031 We have all of today... - Yeah. 64 00:03:26,031 --> 00:03:29,687 ...to kind of explore our connection, see where it goes. 65 00:03:30,601 --> 00:03:33,038 ♪ I'm waiting for you 66 00:03:34,736 --> 00:03:38,000 I just need to, like, shower, shave really quick. 67 00:03:38,000 --> 00:03:40,002 ♪ Baby 68 00:03:40,002 --> 00:03:41,308 Come on. Breakfast. 69 00:03:41,308 --> 00:03:42,570 I'm gonna sit here. You sit here. 70 00:03:42,570 --> 00:03:44,441 - Yeah, sure. - Okay. 71 00:03:44,441 --> 00:03:47,836 ♪ I'm waiting for you 72 00:03:47,836 --> 00:03:48,967 ♪ Baby 73 00:03:48,967 --> 00:03:50,404 Good morning. How are you guys doing? 74 00:03:50,404 --> 00:03:52,623 - Morning. - Hey. Good morning. 75 00:03:52,623 --> 00:03:54,495 - Get some good sleep? - Yes. 76 00:03:54,495 --> 00:03:57,411 - Rehman, again, no pants. - No pants, yeah. 77 00:03:57,411 --> 00:03:59,195 We have something on. - Speedo! 78 00:03:59,195 --> 00:04:00,936 - Yeah. - Nice. 79 00:04:00,936 --> 00:04:02,851 I would say, like, waking up this morning, 80 00:04:02,851 --> 00:04:06,028 the vibe is-- It's decent, you know? 81 00:04:06,028 --> 00:04:08,596 Unh, unh, unh, unh, unh. 82 00:04:08,596 --> 00:04:11,468 Oh, don't get this girl started. 83 00:04:11,468 --> 00:04:13,470 Yeah. - Wait, that was dope. 84 00:04:13,470 --> 00:04:15,342 But at the same time, the white party, 85 00:04:15,342 --> 00:04:16,821 that shit was kind of weird, 86 00:04:16,821 --> 00:04:18,345 because we're all still getting to know each other, 87 00:04:18,345 --> 00:04:19,955 couples and singles. 88 00:04:19,955 --> 00:04:23,219 So maybe there's something that is lingering in the air 89 00:04:23,219 --> 00:04:25,047 or that needs to be said. 90 00:04:25,047 --> 00:04:27,484 Yesterday, obviously, I wanted you guys to just 91 00:04:27,484 --> 00:04:29,399 do you. You know, obviously after everything, 92 00:04:29,399 --> 00:04:31,662 I kind of wanted us to just pretty much hang out 93 00:04:31,662 --> 00:04:33,403 with, like, different people and like-- 94 00:04:33,403 --> 00:04:34,883 But don't think, like, I wasn't looking like-- 95 00:04:34,883 --> 00:04:37,015 I was for sure looking-- looking around the room 96 00:04:37,015 --> 00:04:38,626 and seeing, like, who you guys were talking to, 97 00:04:38,626 --> 00:04:40,323 but I would never make it obvious. 98 00:04:40,323 --> 00:04:41,629 Like, you know what I mean? 99 00:04:41,629 --> 00:04:44,327 We do want to see some, like, obvious-- 100 00:04:44,327 --> 00:04:46,373 Yeah. 101 00:04:47,330 --> 00:04:48,505 Hmm? 102 00:04:48,505 --> 00:04:49,593 - Yeah. - Yeah, I am. 103 00:04:49,593 --> 00:04:52,553 You were staring into space. 104 00:04:55,382 --> 00:04:58,385 - Hey, baby! - What it do! 105 00:04:58,385 --> 00:05:01,083 - Welcome. - Hi! 106 00:05:01,083 --> 00:05:03,564 - Don't you look cute? - Look at the shoes. 107 00:05:03,564 --> 00:05:06,349 You know if it's one thing I'm going to give you, it's a look. 108 00:05:06,349 --> 00:05:08,525 - That's for sure. - How y'all doing? 109 00:05:08,525 --> 00:05:10,397 We're good, we're good. 110 00:05:10,397 --> 00:05:12,486 Whoa! What an experience, huh? 111 00:05:12,486 --> 00:05:14,575 - Yeah. - Right? I really do hope 112 00:05:14,575 --> 00:05:17,317 that you know that I'm a resource, 113 00:05:17,317 --> 00:05:18,753 especially to you couples, 114 00:05:18,753 --> 00:05:21,233 because I've been in poly experiences before, 115 00:05:21,233 --> 00:05:24,411 and I've had a lot of the same questions that you have. 116 00:05:24,411 --> 00:05:27,283 So, what are some of the things you're learning? 117 00:05:27,283 --> 00:05:29,546 I mean, we're obviously moving 118 00:05:29,546 --> 00:05:31,722 what feels like light speed, 119 00:05:31,722 --> 00:05:36,597 but like Corey and I have been really in tune about choosing 120 00:05:36,597 --> 00:05:40,601 who we think is just like the best fit for our lifestyles 121 00:05:40,601 --> 00:05:42,864 and our personalities and our compatibility. 122 00:05:42,864 --> 00:05:46,389 Like, at this point, it almost seems easy. 123 00:05:46,389 --> 00:05:48,739 I mean-- - Oh, gosh. 124 00:05:48,739 --> 00:05:51,960 I'm melting over here. 125 00:05:51,960 --> 00:05:53,614 This morning, Wilder and I both feel like it 126 00:05:53,614 --> 00:05:56,704 is just completely clear in our minds, you know? 127 00:05:56,704 --> 00:05:58,619 We don't need to change a single thing. 128 00:05:58,619 --> 00:06:00,969 We loved getting to know Darrien last night at the mixer, 129 00:06:00,969 --> 00:06:02,710 but it was, in a way, very reaffirming 130 00:06:02,710 --> 00:06:05,626 that Denyse is a better fit. 131 00:06:05,626 --> 00:06:07,105 Fellas, how about you? 132 00:06:07,105 --> 00:06:08,716 How are you feeling about the experience so far? 133 00:06:08,716 --> 00:06:10,413 For us, I think we're able to figure out 134 00:06:10,413 --> 00:06:11,719 he and I need to be on the same page 135 00:06:11,719 --> 00:06:13,982 before we do have a third person come in. 136 00:06:13,982 --> 00:06:16,985 And I think also we're realizing that, like, first impressions 137 00:06:16,985 --> 00:06:20,467 doesn't always mean that it's the right thing to do. 138 00:06:21,424 --> 00:06:22,991 I just felt super awkward. 139 00:06:22,991 --> 00:06:25,776 Rehman has this wall up, and I don't know how to bring it down. 140 00:06:25,776 --> 00:06:28,475 But if this would have happened outside the villa, 141 00:06:28,475 --> 00:06:31,608 I wouldn't be even dealing with this shit. 142 00:06:31,608 --> 00:06:33,480 For me, I've been polyamorous for half a decade. 143 00:06:33,480 --> 00:06:34,829 It's what I live and breathe. 144 00:06:34,829 --> 00:06:36,613 I think of it as like a foundation of a house. 145 00:06:36,613 --> 00:06:38,659 If the foundation is weak, someone comes on, 146 00:06:38,659 --> 00:06:40,617 we all fall down. You see what I'm saying? 147 00:06:40,617 --> 00:06:43,011 If it's strong, it's easy to bring somebody on, 148 00:06:43,011 --> 00:06:44,752 and they feel really solid with you. 149 00:06:44,752 --> 00:06:46,623 Polyamory's supposed to be fun. - Right. 150 00:06:46,623 --> 00:06:49,757 That's what we struggle with from you. 151 00:06:49,757 --> 00:06:52,716 Let go, girl. Like, you know, like, let loose. 152 00:06:52,716 --> 00:06:55,023 It's like you're a teacher when it comes to Sean and I 153 00:06:55,023 --> 00:06:58,330 instead of, like, actually, like bonding. 154 00:06:58,330 --> 00:06:59,984 Who are you outside of-- 155 00:06:59,984 --> 00:07:03,118 of this shell? Like, we don't know who you are. 156 00:07:05,033 --> 00:07:07,644 Sanu feels like her needs aren't being met, 157 00:07:07,644 --> 00:07:10,386 and we feel like our needs aren't being met, as well. 158 00:07:10,386 --> 00:07:12,040 Being that she's this coach, 159 00:07:12,040 --> 00:07:16,784 I feel like she has to be super like educational all the time. 160 00:07:16,784 --> 00:07:19,526 But, like, I kind of want that fun, craziness, 161 00:07:19,526 --> 00:07:21,702 like, just being just true to yourself. 162 00:07:21,702 --> 00:07:23,921 We're not getting that. 163 00:07:23,921 --> 00:07:27,229 It's particularly important for you to dig in a little deeper 164 00:07:27,229 --> 00:07:30,537 to that connection, deeper to that relationship, 165 00:07:30,537 --> 00:07:35,977 because tomorrow, there is a stay or swap ceremony. 166 00:07:35,977 --> 00:07:38,196 You're going to be confronted with a reality 167 00:07:38,196 --> 00:07:41,678 of either staying in the current throuple that you're in, 168 00:07:41,678 --> 00:07:45,769 or making a choice to swap for something 169 00:07:45,769 --> 00:07:47,510 that feels a little different. 170 00:07:47,510 --> 00:07:50,731 This is on you. 171 00:07:50,731 --> 00:07:52,254 Alright, y'all good? 172 00:07:52,254 --> 00:07:53,560 - Yeah. - Yes. 173 00:07:55,083 --> 00:07:57,825 With the swap ceremony coming up, I think Becca, 174 00:07:57,825 --> 00:07:59,740 Lauren, and I just need an opportunity 175 00:07:59,740 --> 00:08:01,698 to just kind of chat together to make sure that we know 176 00:08:01,698 --> 00:08:03,308 how she's actually feeling. 177 00:08:03,308 --> 00:08:05,180 Now that Breakfast Scott is over, this is Lunch Scott, 178 00:08:05,180 --> 00:08:07,269 and he's here to fuck a little bit of shit up. 179 00:08:07,269 --> 00:08:08,575 - Oh! - Oh, no. 180 00:08:08,575 --> 00:08:10,098 - Knew it! - Well, because you'll probably 181 00:08:10,098 --> 00:08:12,100 see on the board that today's relationship session 182 00:08:12,100 --> 00:08:13,101 is jealousy. 183 00:08:13,101 --> 00:08:15,103 - Too good to be true, see? - No! 184 00:08:15,103 --> 00:08:18,759 Shamyra, she's going to be leading the session with you. 185 00:08:18,759 --> 00:08:21,588 Just be as open and honest as possible, so... 186 00:08:21,588 --> 00:08:22,632 - Okay. - Fun. 187 00:08:22,632 --> 00:08:24,329 Exactly! Thank you guys. 188 00:08:24,329 --> 00:08:26,114 Thank you, Scott! 189 00:08:26,114 --> 00:08:28,377 Y'all be good. 190 00:08:28,377 --> 00:08:32,990 ♪ We stand up tall 191 00:08:32,990 --> 00:08:34,992 I'm just telling you, Rehman, I can't be around you 192 00:08:34,992 --> 00:08:37,604 if you're going to be rude to Jonathan. 193 00:08:37,604 --> 00:08:38,953 And I get that you've written him off, 194 00:08:38,953 --> 00:08:40,650 but just treat him like a human being. 195 00:08:40,650 --> 00:08:42,130 - Yeah, I will. - It's an unattractive trait 196 00:08:42,130 --> 00:08:45,220 when you're treating someone inhumanly. 197 00:08:45,220 --> 00:08:47,135 I think it's a little dramatic. I don't think I'm treating him 198 00:08:47,135 --> 00:08:48,919 in-- inhumane or anything like that. 199 00:08:48,919 --> 00:08:51,008 Okay, not inhuman, okay, but focus on the essence 200 00:08:51,008 --> 00:08:54,142 of what I'm saying, is that it's absolutely rude 201 00:08:54,142 --> 00:08:56,361 when we're-- us three are trying to have a conversation, 202 00:08:56,361 --> 00:08:58,973 and you're staring into space to where I have to remind you, 203 00:08:58,973 --> 00:09:00,801 "Hey, you want to look this way?" 204 00:09:00,801 --> 00:09:01,889 It's not who you are. - I didn't realize you guys 205 00:09:01,889 --> 00:09:03,804 were trying to talk to me. 206 00:09:03,804 --> 00:09:05,849 You didn't know? I think you were actively avoiding it. 207 00:09:05,849 --> 00:09:07,677 Biggest difference between Rehman and I 208 00:09:07,677 --> 00:09:10,593 is that when there's a sinking ship, 209 00:09:10,593 --> 00:09:11,899 I'm still trying to plug the holes. 210 00:09:11,899 --> 00:09:14,510 And Rehman is looking for a life raft. 211 00:09:14,510 --> 00:09:16,077 Try to just talk to him, 212 00:09:16,077 --> 00:09:19,167 'cause you're-- you're preventing me and us 213 00:09:19,167 --> 00:09:21,996 from actually being in this experiment. 214 00:09:21,996 --> 00:09:26,304 And the way you're being rude in conversation is not acceptable. 215 00:09:26,304 --> 00:09:29,003 I'm getting more and more irritated by the second. 216 00:09:29,003 --> 00:09:32,702 Ashmal is really trying to police my behavior and police 217 00:09:32,702 --> 00:09:34,922 the way that I'm having conversations with people, 218 00:09:34,922 --> 00:09:37,751 and I'm just not about that. I'm my own person, 219 00:09:37,751 --> 00:09:41,493 and however I decide to react, I own it. 220 00:09:41,493 --> 00:09:44,540 ♪ Can't knock us down 221 00:09:50,677 --> 00:09:52,635 - Whoa. - The tension is-- 222 00:09:52,635 --> 00:09:53,897 You can cut it with a fucking knife. 223 00:09:53,897 --> 00:09:55,377 I don't think you know. Like, 224 00:09:55,377 --> 00:09:57,771 I am very physically attracted to you. Like-- 225 00:09:57,771 --> 00:10:00,687 This throuple isn't really working. 226 00:10:00,687 --> 00:10:02,602 Oh, my God. 227 00:10:05,692 --> 00:10:08,651 ♪ Turn up the heat to feel the beat and take a deep breath ♪ 228 00:10:10,958 --> 00:10:13,395 - Did I take your mat? - No. Just enjoying the view. 229 00:10:13,395 --> 00:10:15,919 ♪ Turn up the heat to feel the beat ♪ 230 00:10:15,919 --> 00:10:18,226 - Oh, great. - Really? 231 00:10:18,226 --> 00:10:22,317 Uh, Lauren clogged the toilet. Can we get a plunger up here? 232 00:10:25,886 --> 00:10:27,670 - My God. - That whole conversation 233 00:10:27,670 --> 00:10:29,324 at breakfast? - Bro, the shit 234 00:10:29,324 --> 00:10:32,066 I'm going through? With them? - Yeah. I know. 235 00:10:32,066 --> 00:10:33,676 It's so-- It makes it harder. You know what I mean? 236 00:10:33,676 --> 00:10:35,286 - I know. - And then you look at Corey and 237 00:10:35,286 --> 00:10:37,071 Wilder, and that's-- Like, that's what I came here for. 238 00:10:37,071 --> 00:10:38,681 - Exactly. - Alright. 239 00:10:38,681 --> 00:10:41,771 Well, I'm going to jump in, too. 240 00:10:41,771 --> 00:10:44,687 That looks really good. Really nice. 241 00:10:44,687 --> 00:10:46,036 Ugh. He's just so annoying. 242 00:10:46,036 --> 00:10:47,559 Everything he says I'm just like, ugh. 243 00:10:47,559 --> 00:10:50,824 Just, like, have such a ick towards him right now. 244 00:10:50,824 --> 00:10:53,348 The tiny, little mannerisms that make him him 245 00:10:53,348 --> 00:10:57,047 reminds me a lot of my ex. It's just a very awkward situation, 246 00:10:57,047 --> 00:10:58,962 because I still think Lauren's amazing. 247 00:10:58,962 --> 00:11:01,704 I think she still wants to build a connection, and, like, 248 00:11:01,704 --> 00:11:03,097 he's a little bit jealous. 249 00:11:03,097 --> 00:11:05,055 That's where some of my saltiness is coming from, 250 00:11:05,055 --> 00:11:07,841 because if Dylan was more secure in himself, 251 00:11:07,841 --> 00:11:10,974 me and Lauren could still continue this. 252 00:11:10,974 --> 00:11:15,979 ♪ Ain't nobody beat my love for you ♪ 253 00:11:15,979 --> 00:11:17,546 - Hey. - What's going on? 254 00:11:17,546 --> 00:11:20,375 How are you? - Mm. 255 00:11:20,375 --> 00:11:22,029 I want to make sure that you're okay, 256 00:11:22,029 --> 00:11:23,334 'cause I know you're a quiet type, 257 00:11:23,334 --> 00:11:25,597 and you kind of keep to yourself more, 258 00:11:25,597 --> 00:11:27,034 and you're still doing fine? 259 00:11:27,034 --> 00:11:29,036 Oh, yeah. It's just, like, a wish, 260 00:11:29,036 --> 00:11:31,865 like, our situation had gone the way 261 00:11:31,865 --> 00:11:33,431 that your situation went. 262 00:11:33,431 --> 00:11:35,346 And I think that's what we thought it was going to be like. 263 00:11:35,346 --> 00:11:38,741 I was, like, ready to, like, run off into the sunset, 264 00:11:38,741 --> 00:11:40,047 and, like, it didn't happen. 265 00:11:40,047 --> 00:11:42,136 And I don't know if it's, like, maybe on me, 266 00:11:42,136 --> 00:11:43,920 and I'm just not realizing it or whatever. 267 00:11:43,920 --> 00:11:45,400 - That's fine. - But also the thing is, 268 00:11:45,400 --> 00:11:48,055 they both relate to each other by being bisexual 269 00:11:48,055 --> 00:11:50,274 and their family and their experiences. 270 00:11:50,274 --> 00:11:52,973 I don't relate to that and stuff like that, 271 00:11:52,973 --> 00:11:55,323 so I'm just on the outskirts. 272 00:11:55,323 --> 00:11:58,413 I think Jonathan feels more connected with Ashmal. 273 00:11:58,413 --> 00:12:01,851 When he starts building deeper connections with guys, 274 00:12:01,851 --> 00:12:04,593 I can get a little insecure. 275 00:12:04,593 --> 00:12:07,074 I would love to have a conversation with Jonathan. 276 00:12:07,074 --> 00:12:10,077 But at the same time, talking about my feelings, 277 00:12:10,077 --> 00:12:11,731 it's challenging for me. 278 00:12:11,731 --> 00:12:15,256 This wasn't something that I was encouraged to do in my family. 279 00:12:15,256 --> 00:12:17,432 As children, we were told to not cry 280 00:12:17,432 --> 00:12:19,608 or not show people how we were feeling. 281 00:12:19,608 --> 00:12:22,437 Allowing myself to be vulnerable is really just difficult 282 00:12:22,437 --> 00:12:25,092 for me to do that. - How are you doing, too? 283 00:12:25,092 --> 00:12:27,616 Because we're all looking at you, Wilder, and Denyse like, 284 00:12:27,616 --> 00:12:30,053 "Oh, my God. Everything's going perfect," or whatever. 285 00:12:30,053 --> 00:12:31,185 You still need support, you know? 286 00:12:31,185 --> 00:12:32,882 I think in the very beginning, 287 00:12:32,882 --> 00:12:34,275 when we're getting to know a third person, 288 00:12:34,275 --> 00:12:36,364 I need to do everything, you know, as a three, 289 00:12:36,364 --> 00:12:40,063 for the most part, to gain trust and to gain understanding. 290 00:12:40,063 --> 00:12:41,543 - Okay. - There have been things 291 00:12:41,543 --> 00:12:44,198 that have happened with Wilder with other girls, 292 00:12:44,198 --> 00:12:46,113 so I just have a little bit of, like, trust issues 293 00:12:46,113 --> 00:12:49,638 when it comes to bringing a woman in. 294 00:12:49,638 --> 00:12:53,468 ♪ It's a day from heaven sent, ain't no reason to pretend ♪ 295 00:12:53,468 --> 00:12:54,686 Squat. 296 00:12:57,646 --> 00:13:02,129 ♪ Holding freedom in her hands feels like it should never end ♪ 297 00:13:02,129 --> 00:13:04,522 They did choose me, so, like, did they stop liking me 298 00:13:04,522 --> 00:13:07,961 after day one, or is there still something possibly, you know-- 299 00:13:07,961 --> 00:13:09,571 - Right. - It's hard to say. 300 00:13:09,571 --> 00:13:11,094 They're hard to read. 301 00:13:11,094 --> 00:13:12,487 The situation that we're in now, 302 00:13:12,487 --> 00:13:16,012 this throuple isn't really, like, working. 303 00:13:16,012 --> 00:13:18,319 I'm still thinking about, like, who we want to, 304 00:13:18,319 --> 00:13:21,278 you know, take things to the next level with. 305 00:13:21,278 --> 00:13:23,106 You know how we feel about Darrien, so... 306 00:13:23,106 --> 00:13:25,369 Darrien, she has like this cute little smile, 307 00:13:25,369 --> 00:13:27,067 and she just look right into your eyes, 308 00:13:27,067 --> 00:13:28,546 and it, like, makes me nervous. 309 00:13:28,546 --> 00:13:30,331 - It makes me feel sexual. - Yeah. Peach, as well. 310 00:13:30,331 --> 00:13:32,246 You know what it is for me about Peach? 311 00:13:32,246 --> 00:13:34,204 It's just her aura, like-- - Yeah. For Peach, it's not-- 312 00:13:34,204 --> 00:13:36,337 And she talks to you in this real, like, slow, sensual voice. 313 00:13:36,337 --> 00:13:38,339 And she's literally just talking to you about anything. 314 00:13:38,339 --> 00:13:39,993 Literally, it could be about ice cream, 315 00:13:39,993 --> 00:13:41,777 and you just feel, like, that heat. 316 00:13:41,777 --> 00:13:43,126 Yeah. 317 00:13:43,126 --> 00:13:44,911 There's nothing like when you meet somebody 318 00:13:44,911 --> 00:13:46,260 for the first time. 319 00:13:46,260 --> 00:13:50,742 That shit just makes you feel... sexy. Crazy. 320 00:13:52,440 --> 00:13:55,486 You know, you get that weird boner for no reason. 321 00:13:55,486 --> 00:13:57,358 I don't know what happens to girls, 322 00:13:57,358 --> 00:14:00,274 but you know what I'm saying? You're like, "Alright." 323 00:14:00,274 --> 00:14:02,885 - Let's go. - Let's go! 324 00:14:02,885 --> 00:14:08,543 ♪ Are you looking for love? Are you looking for something? ♪ 325 00:14:08,543 --> 00:14:10,632 We're lucky, the fact that we found a person 326 00:14:10,632 --> 00:14:14,375 who we genuinely feel like this could work with. 327 00:14:14,375 --> 00:14:16,464 Like, I'm ready for this to be physical. 328 00:14:16,464 --> 00:14:19,467 Sounds like you might be ready to trust her. 329 00:14:19,467 --> 00:14:22,383 Yeah. Wilder and I are both very much feeling 330 00:14:22,383 --> 00:14:26,213 like we're ready to move forward with Denyse. 331 00:14:26,213 --> 00:14:30,043 But I'm the one who is a little bit more cautious. 332 00:14:30,043 --> 00:14:33,046 Just communicating, like, what is on the table 333 00:14:33,046 --> 00:14:35,700 will reduce my level of anxiety. 334 00:14:35,700 --> 00:14:40,705 And I also am just curious what her limitations are right now. 335 00:14:40,705 --> 00:14:43,273 Wilder and Corey are wanting little baby steps. 336 00:14:43,273 --> 00:14:45,101 But, like, I like these two people. 337 00:14:45,101 --> 00:14:46,798 I want to kiss them. 338 00:14:46,798 --> 00:14:48,539 But I just want to give her 339 00:14:48,539 --> 00:14:52,239 that respect until it, like, feels ready. 340 00:14:52,239 --> 00:14:53,893 Just because you're a kinky freak 341 00:14:53,893 --> 00:14:56,808 doesn't mean you want to get kinky and freaky right away. 342 00:14:58,593 --> 00:15:01,161 Why am I making such a big deal out of just a kiss? 343 00:15:01,161 --> 00:15:02,379 It's literally just, like, a kiss. 344 00:15:02,379 --> 00:15:05,208 But I would like it to be "noice." 345 00:15:05,208 --> 00:15:07,254 I'm sorry. 346 00:15:07,254 --> 00:15:09,169 I want to set up a space where we feel comfortable, 347 00:15:09,169 --> 00:15:11,258 we feel relaxed, and it's just us. 348 00:15:11,258 --> 00:15:13,086 And then we're feeling like we want 349 00:15:13,086 --> 00:15:14,652 to actually move this into physical. 350 00:15:14,652 --> 00:15:18,830 So just like, "Can I kiss you?" basically-- Just ask her. 351 00:15:18,830 --> 00:15:24,662 ♪ Soy el fuego, fuego, soy el fuego, I'm the fire ♪ 352 00:15:27,752 --> 00:15:30,581 ♪ So can you rock my world the way I know ♪ 353 00:15:30,581 --> 00:15:32,366 - Okay. - Oh. What the hell? 354 00:15:32,366 --> 00:15:34,063 This is all my shit. 355 00:15:34,063 --> 00:15:36,022 But I'm thinking I can just, like, 356 00:15:36,022 --> 00:15:37,327 throw everything in this bag 357 00:15:37,327 --> 00:15:40,069 and bring it all over. - Okay. Yeah. 358 00:15:48,251 --> 00:15:50,601 ♪ Rock my world 359 00:15:50,601 --> 00:15:52,429 - Oh, everything here? - And then I also have shit 360 00:15:52,429 --> 00:15:54,301 in the closet. - This is yours, too, 361 00:15:54,301 --> 00:15:56,477 one of these? 362 00:15:56,477 --> 00:15:59,349 Let's move out. - I know. 363 00:16:02,091 --> 00:16:03,832 Give me a hug. 364 00:16:10,491 --> 00:16:14,016 - So you were sleeping here? - Yeah. 365 00:16:14,016 --> 00:16:17,324 The shoes are gone. 366 00:16:17,324 --> 00:16:18,847 I feel bad for Lauren, though. 367 00:16:18,847 --> 00:16:21,589 Like, she really wanted to be open to this experience. 368 00:16:21,589 --> 00:16:23,721 It feels like a big weight off of my shoulders. 369 00:16:23,721 --> 00:16:25,506 I have a lot of confidence in going into this 370 00:16:25,506 --> 00:16:28,552 next swapping ceremony and pursuing Mia. 371 00:16:28,552 --> 00:16:30,598 It sucks, too. Like, I felt a connection, 372 00:16:30,598 --> 00:16:33,383 but I think it was more towards me, not you. 373 00:16:33,383 --> 00:16:35,907 So that won't work. 374 00:16:35,907 --> 00:16:39,259 If she wanted to keep pursuing this throuple, 375 00:16:39,259 --> 00:16:40,825 it would just be me and her 376 00:16:40,825 --> 00:16:43,480 and like girlfriends, but not really Dylan involved. 377 00:16:43,480 --> 00:16:47,745 So that's an out for me, so we're leaving it at that. 378 00:16:48,442 --> 00:16:49,965 How are you feeling? 379 00:16:49,965 --> 00:16:53,273 'Cause that breakfast was kind of giving me the vibes of, 380 00:16:53,273 --> 00:16:54,709 like, they-- - They want me to go? 381 00:16:54,709 --> 00:16:56,406 - They want you to go, yeah. - The tension is-- 382 00:16:56,406 --> 00:16:57,973 You can cut it with a fucking knife. 383 00:16:57,973 --> 00:17:01,063 I feel like Rehman is just kind of, like, shutting it down. 384 00:17:01,063 --> 00:17:02,630 You know what's funny? - What? 385 00:17:02,630 --> 00:17:05,502 I'm actually more physically attracted to Rehman. 386 00:17:05,502 --> 00:17:06,982 - Okay. - Even though, like, he's, like, 387 00:17:06,982 --> 00:17:09,376 not fucking talking to me pretty much, I want to 388 00:17:09,376 --> 00:17:10,855 have a conversation with him alone. 389 00:17:10,855 --> 00:17:12,988 I want to flirt. I want to like, you know, touch his leg 390 00:17:12,988 --> 00:17:16,165 or maybe, like, touch his neck. I want to kiss him. 391 00:17:16,165 --> 00:17:17,601 I think you really need to sit down 392 00:17:17,601 --> 00:17:20,256 and have a conversation with Rehman. 393 00:17:22,084 --> 00:17:23,694 I mean, are you guys like 50/50 394 00:17:23,694 --> 00:17:26,567 on possibly keeping Jonathan around or swapping out? 395 00:17:26,567 --> 00:17:28,743 Yeah, it is 50/50. Like, you know, like we do want-- 396 00:17:28,743 --> 00:17:31,137 - But it can change. - Ideally, we'd love to keep him 397 00:17:31,137 --> 00:17:32,486 and have that spark we did day one. 398 00:17:32,486 --> 00:17:34,053 You need to start that conversation. 399 00:17:34,053 --> 00:17:36,316 We need to hug it out, and we need to be the friend. 400 00:17:36,316 --> 00:17:37,621 Like, just be his friend right now. 401 00:17:37,621 --> 00:17:39,232 Everything that you're going through, 402 00:17:39,232 --> 00:17:40,581 and I know how you're expressing it 403 00:17:40,581 --> 00:17:42,452 is because, like, someone's coming in 404 00:17:42,452 --> 00:17:44,889 and probably taking away from our time together. 405 00:17:44,889 --> 00:17:47,501 It's a lot, you know, and that is going to happen 406 00:17:47,501 --> 00:17:50,721 in the beginning of this whole situation. 407 00:17:50,721 --> 00:17:54,029 I honestly think Ash and Rehman really like Jonathan, 408 00:17:54,029 --> 00:17:56,423 but obviously when there's three, there's going to be two 409 00:17:56,423 --> 00:17:58,599 probably more closer than the other one. 410 00:17:58,599 --> 00:18:03,343 I personally don't think that it would work if it's not equal. 411 00:18:03,343 --> 00:18:05,693 - Love you, Brittne. Thank you. - Love you guys. 412 00:18:05,693 --> 00:18:10,089 ♪ You call on me, I count to three ♪ 413 00:18:10,089 --> 00:18:11,090 Whoa. 414 00:18:11,090 --> 00:18:13,396 ♪ Baby, baby 415 00:18:13,396 --> 00:18:15,355 Hey, Jonathan? 416 00:18:15,355 --> 00:18:17,139 Can I pull you aside? 417 00:18:17,139 --> 00:18:18,184 Okay. 418 00:18:18,184 --> 00:18:19,663 Oh. 419 00:18:19,663 --> 00:18:22,101 I am starting to realize that with Jonathan, 420 00:18:22,101 --> 00:18:26,017 there are some things that I did on my part that were not right. 421 00:18:26,017 --> 00:18:29,934 I feel like this is, like, long overdue between you and I. 422 00:18:29,934 --> 00:18:32,502 I want to let him know where I was coming from 423 00:18:32,502 --> 00:18:34,504 and see what happens after that. 424 00:18:34,504 --> 00:18:36,637 I first want to just, like, 425 00:18:36,637 --> 00:18:39,379 apologize for like the last few days. 426 00:18:39,379 --> 00:18:40,945 Nothing to do with you. Like, Ashmal and I 427 00:18:40,945 --> 00:18:43,644 just had some, like, issues that we needed to work on. 428 00:18:43,644 --> 00:18:46,560 You and him have had the opportunity to bond with, 429 00:18:46,560 --> 00:18:48,083 like, certain things that you've talked about. 430 00:18:48,083 --> 00:18:50,172 And then I was kind of just like on the outskirts. 431 00:18:50,172 --> 00:18:53,697 And that's kind of what I felt. I recognize that. I own it now, 432 00:18:53,697 --> 00:18:57,571 and I don't think that it made the situation any better. 433 00:18:57,571 --> 00:18:59,747 I take your apology. Like, apology accepted. 434 00:18:59,747 --> 00:19:01,531 I'm glad you actually pulled me to the side, 435 00:19:01,531 --> 00:19:03,533 'cause I wanted to pull you to the side 436 00:19:03,533 --> 00:19:05,187 and, like, really have a conversation with you, 437 00:19:05,187 --> 00:19:08,669 because I don't think you know. Like, walking into the house, 438 00:19:08,669 --> 00:19:10,410 the first person I looked at was you. 439 00:19:10,410 --> 00:19:12,586 Like, I am very physically attracted to you. 440 00:19:12,586 --> 00:19:14,109 I've been wanting to tell you that, 441 00:19:14,109 --> 00:19:15,937 but I don't want to just randomly pull you to the side 442 00:19:15,937 --> 00:19:17,721 like, "Hey, just so you know, I think you're hot." 443 00:19:17,721 --> 00:19:19,941 I'm not just here for, like, fun or like, 444 00:19:19,941 --> 00:19:22,422 to just hang out with Becca. Like, I did come here 445 00:19:22,422 --> 00:19:24,032 to genuinely make a connection, 446 00:19:24,032 --> 00:19:26,426 'cause I want to see if I can actually date two people. 447 00:19:26,426 --> 00:19:28,950 Yeah, yeah. No, that makes sense. 448 00:19:28,950 --> 00:19:32,127 I am super happy that we're finally talking. 449 00:19:32,127 --> 00:19:33,389 I find him very sexy. 450 00:19:33,389 --> 00:19:35,565 ♪ Like bunny, baby 451 00:19:35,565 --> 00:19:39,569 - I wanted to, like... mm. - ♪ Just like déjà vu ♪ 452 00:19:39,569 --> 00:19:41,049 Do you think they're going to kiss? 453 00:19:41,049 --> 00:19:42,790 What if they did? Have you guys discussed that? 454 00:19:42,790 --> 00:19:45,575 - I would be so happy. - You would be? 455 00:19:45,575 --> 00:19:46,968 You are definitely the type of guy 456 00:19:46,968 --> 00:19:48,839 that I would date outside of this house. 457 00:19:48,839 --> 00:19:52,713 And I think that's why I, like, reacted the way that I have. 458 00:19:52,713 --> 00:19:54,584 And I'm like, "Oh, my God. I wish he was, like, 459 00:19:54,584 --> 00:19:56,456 so much more, like, into me," or whatever, 460 00:19:56,456 --> 00:19:58,980 because I'm like, I do really like you. 461 00:19:58,980 --> 00:20:00,851 Whatever happens, happens tomorrow night. 462 00:20:00,851 --> 00:20:03,245 But, like, in the meantime, I think, yeah, 463 00:20:03,245 --> 00:20:04,464 I'm totally down to just like, 464 00:20:04,464 --> 00:20:05,987 get to know each other naturally. 465 00:20:05,987 --> 00:20:09,251 What can I say? Jonathan is a cutie with a booty, 466 00:20:09,251 --> 00:20:10,992 and I'm just so happy. 467 00:20:10,992 --> 00:20:13,037 In that moment, I was going to grab Jonathan's hand, 468 00:20:13,037 --> 00:20:16,302 and we were just going to ride off into the sunset together. 469 00:20:16,302 --> 00:20:18,695 ♪ So cliche 470 00:20:21,002 --> 00:20:23,004 With jealousy, like, what makes people jealous? 471 00:20:23,004 --> 00:20:26,094 'Cause you and I are not the jealous type. 472 00:20:31,099 --> 00:20:34,189 I'm excited to see what Shamyra brings to us, 473 00:20:34,189 --> 00:20:40,326 and I'm feeling pretty prepared to tackle this session. 474 00:20:40,326 --> 00:20:41,849 Word of the day is jealousy. 475 00:20:41,849 --> 00:20:44,155 You feel like your couple is jealous? 476 00:20:44,155 --> 00:20:46,027 I think that Dylan was. 477 00:20:46,027 --> 00:20:48,377 I just don't know if he's going to be able to recognize it. 478 00:20:48,377 --> 00:20:50,292 Let's go! 479 00:20:50,292 --> 00:20:52,860 - Bye. - Bye! 480 00:21:01,129 --> 00:21:02,696 Hello, couples. Hi. 481 00:21:02,696 --> 00:21:04,698 - Hello. - Welcome back to our 482 00:21:04,698 --> 00:21:06,569 next relationship session on the beach. 483 00:21:06,569 --> 00:21:08,963 Come on in and have a seat! - Thank you. 484 00:21:10,834 --> 00:21:13,750 These past few days have been much, right? 485 00:21:13,750 --> 00:21:17,188 - Yeah. - I know that coming here 486 00:21:17,188 --> 00:21:18,625 and search for a third 487 00:21:18,625 --> 00:21:22,672 has potentially changed the dynamic of the relationship 488 00:21:22,672 --> 00:21:23,934 with the person sitting next to you. 489 00:21:23,934 --> 00:21:27,547 Right? And it's probably even presented 490 00:21:27,547 --> 00:21:29,592 a little bit of jealousy. 491 00:21:29,592 --> 00:21:30,854 - Never heard of it. - Never heard of-- 492 00:21:30,854 --> 00:21:32,682 We don't know what that is. Who? 493 00:21:32,682 --> 00:21:34,075 - What is that? - We don't know her. 494 00:21:34,075 --> 00:21:35,990 - Who is she? - What we're going to do today 495 00:21:35,990 --> 00:21:39,733 is we're going to confront jealousy to see if 496 00:21:39,733 --> 00:21:42,213 it's stopping you from growing. - Wait. 497 00:21:44,955 --> 00:21:47,349 There's, like, this huge spider or something. 498 00:21:47,349 --> 00:21:49,525 Okay. 499 00:21:49,525 --> 00:21:52,441 Oh! I felt something on me. 500 00:21:52,441 --> 00:21:54,356 It's just a hermit. 501 00:21:54,356 --> 00:21:56,097 Oh. 502 00:21:56,097 --> 00:21:58,839 That way, little bro! It's a little shell with legs. 503 00:21:58,839 --> 00:22:01,929 There's a lot of them. Don't look down. 504 00:22:01,929 --> 00:22:04,105 Alright, I'm just not going to focus on the ground. 505 00:22:04,105 --> 00:22:05,585 Alright. 506 00:22:05,585 --> 00:22:07,543 - Oh! See? - I'm so sorry. 507 00:22:07,543 --> 00:22:10,372 It's okay. 508 00:22:12,548 --> 00:22:14,681 I did want to know if any of you guys 509 00:22:14,681 --> 00:22:16,857 felt any kind of way 510 00:22:16,857 --> 00:22:19,599 that the couples were going to go do a session without us. 511 00:22:19,599 --> 00:22:21,252 I hope that they come back 512 00:22:21,252 --> 00:22:23,864 and they-- maybe something substantial happens for them. 513 00:22:23,864 --> 00:22:25,953 - Yeah. - Like a giant breakthrough? 514 00:22:25,953 --> 00:22:27,563 Yeah. - Yeah, and they're like, whoa, 515 00:22:27,563 --> 00:22:29,957 like, we got to talk, you know? 516 00:22:29,957 --> 00:22:31,872 I have to continue to be around the energy 517 00:22:31,872 --> 00:22:35,354 of, like, "You're not what we expected, what we wanted. 518 00:22:35,354 --> 00:22:36,790 You failed us." 519 00:22:36,790 --> 00:22:38,879 They haven't told me nothing about how they feel. 520 00:22:38,879 --> 00:22:40,881 They say at the table at breakfast when they were like-- 521 00:22:40,881 --> 00:22:42,883 - That was probably fresh to you. - That was the first time 522 00:22:42,883 --> 00:22:44,841 I had heard that. - That's shitty. 523 00:22:44,841 --> 00:22:48,367 No conversation. No discussion about it. 524 00:22:48,367 --> 00:22:50,020 Like, "You failed. You lost." 525 00:22:50,020 --> 00:22:53,328 It felt like I came, you know, in peace, 526 00:22:53,328 --> 00:22:56,636 and they came to the ring. 527 00:22:56,636 --> 00:23:02,555 ♪ Sometimes life gets hard 528 00:23:02,555 --> 00:23:05,166 It's-- 529 00:23:08,343 --> 00:23:10,650 There is jealousy here. 530 00:23:10,650 --> 00:23:12,565 I want to do some ratchet shit. 531 00:23:15,002 --> 00:23:18,962 Welcome to the first stay or swap ceremony. 532 00:23:18,962 --> 00:23:22,052 - We are... - Terrified. 533 00:23:27,231 --> 00:23:30,017 ♪ I don't want to lose this battle ♪ 534 00:23:30,017 --> 00:23:33,586 Jealousy is not necessarily a negative thing. 535 00:23:33,586 --> 00:23:35,109 In its most primal form, 536 00:23:35,109 --> 00:23:39,722 jealousy relates to just a person detecting a threat 537 00:23:39,722 --> 00:23:42,812 to the very core of their relationship. 538 00:23:42,812 --> 00:23:44,771 Healthy expressions of jealousy involve 539 00:23:44,771 --> 00:23:47,164 you confronting the jealousy with your partner 540 00:23:47,164 --> 00:23:50,298 and finding ways to work through it. 541 00:23:50,298 --> 00:23:53,867 The purpose of today's session is for the couples 542 00:23:53,867 --> 00:23:56,783 to admit a jealousy they have. 543 00:23:56,783 --> 00:24:00,830 In front of you, there is a card and a pen. 544 00:24:00,830 --> 00:24:03,006 It's not only important to know your jealousies, 545 00:24:03,006 --> 00:24:04,791 but it's also important to understand them 546 00:24:04,791 --> 00:24:06,923 so that they don't become irrational 547 00:24:06,923 --> 00:24:08,490 and unhealthy emotions, 548 00:24:08,490 --> 00:24:12,668 and you don't display them in unhealthy, irrational ways. 549 00:24:12,668 --> 00:24:15,628 I want you to write down one moment 550 00:24:15,628 --> 00:24:18,152 you've experienced jealousy, 551 00:24:18,152 --> 00:24:23,200 and when you're done, drop it in my box. 552 00:24:23,200 --> 00:24:27,509 I know that I need to work on my jealousy. 553 00:24:27,509 --> 00:24:30,207 In the beginnings of doing something with a third person, 554 00:24:30,207 --> 00:24:32,079 I'm the one who might be the most sensitive 555 00:24:32,079 --> 00:24:35,169 around new developments and new actions. 556 00:24:35,169 --> 00:24:37,954 Hopefully we can actually get through it 557 00:24:37,954 --> 00:24:41,436 with Shamyra's advice. 558 00:24:41,436 --> 00:24:42,829 Thank you. 559 00:24:48,225 --> 00:24:53,100 Here is our first jealousy confession. 560 00:24:53,927 --> 00:24:56,364 Quality time. 561 00:24:56,364 --> 00:25:00,150 I would like the author of this jealousy confession 562 00:25:00,150 --> 00:25:03,632 to raise your hand. Who's jealous? 563 00:25:03,632 --> 00:25:05,373 - Bingo. - It's you. 564 00:25:07,201 --> 00:25:09,551 I remember when we were supposed to hang out 565 00:25:09,551 --> 00:25:10,857 for that Halloween party, 566 00:25:10,857 --> 00:25:12,206 and you chose to go with your friends, 567 00:25:12,206 --> 00:25:14,208 and I felt like you were leaving me behind. 568 00:25:14,208 --> 00:25:15,949 And I got pissed off about it, right? 569 00:25:15,949 --> 00:25:18,647 Because, like, how dare you go off and have fun 570 00:25:18,647 --> 00:25:19,996 without me. - Aw. 571 00:25:19,996 --> 00:25:22,695 You know? And realize now, I'm like, hmm. 572 00:25:22,695 --> 00:25:24,087 I was jealous then. 573 00:25:24,087 --> 00:25:25,959 I love you so much more for just like, you know, 574 00:25:25,959 --> 00:25:27,569 saying that, 'cause I remember, like, that night, 575 00:25:27,569 --> 00:25:31,007 it was like an intense night. Like, you were really mad at me. 576 00:25:31,007 --> 00:25:33,357 I appreciate you for saying how you feel. 577 00:25:33,357 --> 00:25:34,837 Yeah. 578 00:25:34,837 --> 00:25:40,582 You can decide to release this jealousy and burn it, 579 00:25:40,582 --> 00:25:42,149 set it ablaze in the fire. 580 00:25:42,149 --> 00:25:46,893 Or you can take this jealousy back with you and realize 581 00:25:46,893 --> 00:25:49,112 that, "I need to work on this some more." 582 00:25:49,112 --> 00:25:51,506 What you want to do with this jealousy? 583 00:25:56,729 --> 00:25:58,818 I think I can let this burn for sure. 584 00:25:58,818 --> 00:26:00,515 See ya. 585 00:26:02,256 --> 00:26:04,432 - Next card. Are you ready? - Yes. 586 00:26:04,432 --> 00:26:05,825 Alright. 587 00:26:05,825 --> 00:26:07,783 I want to be wild. I want to be fun. 588 00:26:07,783 --> 00:26:09,742 I want to do some ratchet shit. 589 00:26:11,221 --> 00:26:15,617 ♪ Girl, pretty girl 590 00:26:15,617 --> 00:26:16,923 Oh! 591 00:26:16,923 --> 00:26:19,316 ♪ Pretty girl 592 00:26:34,810 --> 00:26:36,420 Bring it on. 593 00:26:36,420 --> 00:26:38,814 Oh! 594 00:26:42,688 --> 00:26:44,777 "Getting closer to each other 595 00:26:44,777 --> 00:26:49,433 or bonding without me being there. 596 00:26:50,652 --> 00:26:52,132 Corey. 597 00:26:52,132 --> 00:26:54,395 If I'm not feeling included in a moment 598 00:26:54,395 --> 00:26:58,660 where you're getting to know, in this example, obviously, 599 00:26:58,660 --> 00:27:00,357 Denyse, sometimes I'm like, 600 00:27:00,357 --> 00:27:02,664 "Sick! They're getting along. Perfect." 601 00:27:02,664 --> 00:27:06,102 At other strange times that I don't understand yet, 602 00:27:06,102 --> 00:27:09,105 I see you two bonding without me, and it's like, ooh. 603 00:27:09,105 --> 00:27:11,238 It hurts a little. Yeah. 604 00:27:11,238 --> 00:27:13,240 I know you've taken a lot of trust 605 00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:17,984 in me welcoming somebody else into our relationship, 606 00:27:17,984 --> 00:27:20,116 and part of my job 607 00:27:20,116 --> 00:27:23,990 is to make sure that you have enough 608 00:27:23,990 --> 00:27:28,255 before I go out and give to someone else. 609 00:27:28,255 --> 00:27:31,258 - Okay, thanks. - Thank you for sharing that. 610 00:27:31,258 --> 00:27:37,220 Considering that a huge part of creating a throuple 611 00:27:37,220 --> 00:27:39,440 is bonding with your partner 612 00:27:39,440 --> 00:27:42,051 to create a romantic relationship, 613 00:27:42,051 --> 00:27:44,880 and understanding that Wilder is going to have 614 00:27:44,880 --> 00:27:48,014 to bond with a third partner. 615 00:27:48,014 --> 00:27:49,450 So I'm going to ask you to come 616 00:27:49,450 --> 00:27:52,714 and get your card and make a decision. 617 00:27:54,150 --> 00:27:57,719 This is jealousy that 618 00:27:57,719 --> 00:28:02,942 is definitely going to take more than one night at a fire 619 00:28:02,942 --> 00:28:04,726 to fully get over. 620 00:28:04,726 --> 00:28:06,336 I'm going to take this home, 621 00:28:06,336 --> 00:28:10,079 and we are going to work on it together. 622 00:28:10,079 --> 00:28:12,821 And hopefully by the end of this exercise, 623 00:28:12,821 --> 00:28:17,086 we will be able to light this little piece of paper on fire. 624 00:28:17,086 --> 00:28:20,568 Good job. 625 00:28:20,568 --> 00:28:22,309 ♪ Ain't nobody that could check me ♪ 626 00:28:22,309 --> 00:28:26,008 Yes! Skinny dipping. Skinny dip in here. 627 00:28:26,008 --> 00:28:27,401 ♪ Ain't nobody that could check me ♪ 628 00:28:27,401 --> 00:28:29,620 ♪ Ain't nobody that could check me ♪ 629 00:28:31,927 --> 00:28:33,233 Yeah, we didn't decide on the dare. 630 00:28:33,233 --> 00:28:36,889 You guys should kiss! Kiss! 631 00:28:36,889 --> 00:28:38,760 ♪ Baby, what you thinking? 632 00:28:38,760 --> 00:28:40,196 We can kiss. 633 00:28:40,196 --> 00:28:43,243 Kiss, kiss, kiss, kiss, kiss, kiss, kiss. 634 00:28:43,243 --> 00:28:45,636 - Wow. - Oh, that's good. 635 00:28:45,636 --> 00:28:47,029 Oh, my God. 636 00:28:47,029 --> 00:28:48,509 ♪ Do you want to put the work in? ♪ 637 00:28:48,509 --> 00:28:51,338 - Oh, my God! - ♪ Both of us ain't perfect 638 00:28:51,338 --> 00:28:54,210 I gotta go. This is the throuple that I would see 639 00:28:54,210 --> 00:28:56,560 also, this one right here. 640 00:28:57,736 --> 00:29:00,042 I got to-- - We're both just so horny! 641 00:29:00,042 --> 00:29:02,479 - I know. - I'm just like, oh, my God! 642 00:29:04,830 --> 00:29:05,918 Oh, my God. 643 00:29:05,918 --> 00:29:07,354 It was honestly the best kiss 644 00:29:07,354 --> 00:29:09,008 that I've had since I've been here, 645 00:29:09,008 --> 00:29:11,227 and, like, thank God for that. 646 00:29:11,227 --> 00:29:13,664 Well, my bed is available tonight. 647 00:29:16,232 --> 00:29:19,583 Oh, dang. She like that. 648 00:29:22,630 --> 00:29:27,635 "Truly never been jealous since being with my person." 649 00:29:27,635 --> 00:29:32,858 Let's find out who is the only person here on earth-- 650 00:29:32,858 --> 00:29:34,685 Just kidding. 651 00:29:34,685 --> 00:29:38,385 Who has never been jealous since being with their person? 652 00:29:38,385 --> 00:29:41,997 Oh. We have an author. Dylan. - Yeah. 653 00:29:41,997 --> 00:29:43,477 I'm sure there has been a time 654 00:29:43,477 --> 00:29:46,132 where I have been jealous, but maybe I personally 655 00:29:46,132 --> 00:29:48,699 didn't look at it as a sense of jealousy. 656 00:29:48,699 --> 00:29:51,790 But I also think the fact that I can't think 657 00:29:51,790 --> 00:29:55,097 of a moment of jealousy is also why we're here today. 658 00:29:55,097 --> 00:29:56,664 To be 100% honest, 659 00:29:56,664 --> 00:30:01,016 I did notice that after the matching ceremony, 660 00:30:01,016 --> 00:30:03,497 we had Becca in our room. 661 00:30:03,497 --> 00:30:05,847 We had a really great connection, 662 00:30:05,847 --> 00:30:07,283 and I could tell that there was 663 00:30:07,283 --> 00:30:09,677 maybe not as much of a connection with you. 664 00:30:09,677 --> 00:30:12,506 I got chills, because I might have had 665 00:30:12,506 --> 00:30:15,161 a slight bit of jealousy, just because-- 666 00:30:15,161 --> 00:30:17,380 You weren't receiving as much of it as I was. 667 00:30:17,380 --> 00:30:20,775 Yes. So I understand that. 668 00:30:20,775 --> 00:30:24,561 Thank you for sharing. There is jealousy here 669 00:30:24,561 --> 00:30:29,218 because Becca and Lauren had a deeper connection 670 00:30:29,218 --> 00:30:32,395 than you might have wanted them to have without you. 671 00:30:32,395 --> 00:30:34,180 Correct? Right. - Mm-hmm. 672 00:30:34,180 --> 00:30:37,574 As you continue to grow in polyamory, 673 00:30:37,574 --> 00:30:41,274 you might meet somebody else who connects with Lauren 674 00:30:41,274 --> 00:30:43,711 more than they connect with you. 675 00:30:43,711 --> 00:30:45,756 This was the first time that we have ever experienced that, 676 00:30:45,756 --> 00:30:48,498 and we have grown that much closer together 677 00:30:48,498 --> 00:30:50,587 and grew from that experience. - Gotcha. 678 00:30:50,587 --> 00:30:53,460 So I'm thankful for that experience. I truly am. 679 00:30:53,460 --> 00:30:56,680 Well, come get your card and make your decision. 680 00:31:02,425 --> 00:31:05,907 I'm ready to grow from it and let it go. 681 00:31:12,044 --> 00:31:16,091 Our last jealousy is 682 00:31:16,091 --> 00:31:19,225 emotional connections. 683 00:31:21,053 --> 00:31:22,663 Rehman? - Mm-hmm. 684 00:31:22,663 --> 00:31:25,013 A lot of the connections that you and I have made 685 00:31:25,013 --> 00:31:26,406 on an emotional level 686 00:31:26,406 --> 00:31:29,235 have been very sacred between the two of us. 687 00:31:29,235 --> 00:31:30,671 When I see you potentially 688 00:31:30,671 --> 00:31:32,760 making those connections with Jonathan, 689 00:31:32,760 --> 00:31:34,849 it makes me feel like that special bond 690 00:31:34,849 --> 00:31:38,635 that you and I had maybe isn't just special between us, 691 00:31:38,635 --> 00:31:43,162 and it could potentially be special with other people. 692 00:31:43,162 --> 00:31:46,382 I understand you so much better 693 00:31:46,382 --> 00:31:48,254 because you shared that with me. 694 00:31:48,254 --> 00:31:52,214 So thank you. - Thank you. 695 00:31:52,214 --> 00:31:55,304 Thank you so much for sharing that. 696 00:31:55,304 --> 00:31:57,524 I had felt really jealous and insecure. 697 00:31:57,524 --> 00:31:59,743 It's weird 'cause I don't think it was necessarily silly, 698 00:31:59,743 --> 00:32:02,964 because we just have not been in the dating pool 699 00:32:02,964 --> 00:32:04,270 for such a long time. 700 00:32:04,270 --> 00:32:06,141 It's starting to bring up some emotions 701 00:32:06,141 --> 00:32:08,274 that we maybe haven't felt in a while. 702 00:32:08,274 --> 00:32:10,493 This is not something that I can commit 703 00:32:10,493 --> 00:32:12,669 to fully overcoming today, 704 00:32:12,669 --> 00:32:14,671 but I will commit to working on this 705 00:32:14,671 --> 00:32:17,109 while we're in this experience together. 706 00:32:20,155 --> 00:32:21,809 Thank you. 707 00:32:21,809 --> 00:32:26,596 Seeing you be so vulnerable, so honest, and so brave, 708 00:32:26,596 --> 00:32:30,687 I could not help but just feel so, so proud. 709 00:32:30,687 --> 00:32:33,125 Y'all expressed a lot of vulnerability, 710 00:32:33,125 --> 00:32:34,735 a lot of reassurance. 711 00:32:34,735 --> 00:32:38,826 And that is important when you're deciding to throuple up. 712 00:32:38,826 --> 00:32:43,309 This exercise has helped the couples tonight, one, 713 00:32:43,309 --> 00:32:45,702 acknowledge jealousy is a natural emotion, 714 00:32:45,702 --> 00:32:48,314 two, address their jealousy, three, 715 00:32:48,314 --> 00:32:51,012 find a safe space within their partner 716 00:32:51,012 --> 00:32:52,405 to talk about it, and, four, 717 00:32:52,405 --> 00:32:53,754 give their partner what they need 718 00:32:53,754 --> 00:32:55,886 to provide reassurance around the issue. 719 00:32:55,886 --> 00:32:59,412 Give each other a hug, because y'all really did this. 720 00:32:59,412 --> 00:33:02,328 - Get me on that. - ♪ Should have known 721 00:33:02,328 --> 00:33:05,896 ♪ Should have known 722 00:33:07,289 --> 00:33:09,378 ♪ Oh, no, no, goodbye, hello 723 00:33:09,378 --> 00:33:10,814 ♪ Stay the night away 724 00:33:10,814 --> 00:33:13,295 Is my hair okay, or is it, like, weird? 725 00:33:13,295 --> 00:33:14,775 - Huh? No, it looks great. - Yeah? 726 00:33:14,775 --> 00:33:16,472 - You honestly look amazing. - Really? 727 00:33:16,472 --> 00:33:19,519 - Yeah, you do. - Hello. 728 00:33:19,519 --> 00:33:23,044 My packages arrived. 729 00:33:26,091 --> 00:33:27,179 What'd you guys do? 730 00:33:27,179 --> 00:33:28,658 We had a little fun. 731 00:33:30,138 --> 00:33:32,401 What's this fun? 732 00:33:32,401 --> 00:33:34,360 This session was really eye opening, 733 00:33:34,360 --> 00:33:35,883 and it was just so cool for me to, like, 734 00:33:35,883 --> 00:33:38,886 actually, you know, have that happen in real time. 735 00:33:38,886 --> 00:33:42,368 Like, shit, I can be jealous, and that's okay, you know? 736 00:33:42,368 --> 00:33:45,371 So, a learning lesson for everybody, so yay. 737 00:33:45,371 --> 00:33:47,373 - Do you guys want to share? - I'll share mine. 738 00:33:47,373 --> 00:33:48,765 So, I've been jealous. 739 00:33:48,765 --> 00:33:50,767 You have more of a connection with Lauren. 740 00:33:50,767 --> 00:33:52,465 - Yeah. - I was like, yo, I was jealous 741 00:33:52,465 --> 00:33:53,727 in that situation, looking back at it. 742 00:33:53,727 --> 00:33:55,685 And I appreciate you for that, too. 743 00:33:55,685 --> 00:33:57,644 - Yeah, of course. No problem. - I thank you because I've-- 744 00:33:57,644 --> 00:34:00,429 I've actually-- Yeah. Yeah. I mean, as weird as it sounds, 745 00:34:00,429 --> 00:34:02,736 though, like, yeah, like, I've-- 746 00:34:02,736 --> 00:34:05,739 I have grown from that, and we have grown from that, too, 747 00:34:05,739 --> 00:34:09,569 'cause that's a different scenario, so, yeah. 748 00:34:09,569 --> 00:34:11,658 It was nice for him to acknowledge 749 00:34:11,658 --> 00:34:13,399 that he was a little bit jealous. 750 00:34:13,399 --> 00:34:15,792 I was like, "Wow, okay, so you actually do 751 00:34:15,792 --> 00:34:17,881 have, like, this vulnerable side of you. 752 00:34:17,881 --> 00:34:19,796 It's not just, like, tough all the time." 753 00:34:19,796 --> 00:34:23,583 And I think that-- seeing that made me try and take a step back 754 00:34:23,583 --> 00:34:25,802 and look at him for what he is. 755 00:34:25,802 --> 00:34:28,153 - We going to eat again? - Let's go. 756 00:34:28,153 --> 00:34:34,594 ♪ Remember when 757 00:34:34,594 --> 00:34:38,815 ♪ Fun didn't have to be hard, remember when ♪ 758 00:34:38,815 --> 00:34:40,687 ♪ We thought we could count all the stars ♪ 759 00:34:40,687 --> 00:34:43,994 ♪ And we could make friends 760 00:34:43,994 --> 00:34:47,433 Babe, you ain't gon' flush the toilet? 761 00:34:47,433 --> 00:34:50,479 Your pee stinks. 762 00:34:50,479 --> 00:34:52,873 ♪ No boundaries 763 00:34:52,873 --> 00:34:56,964 ♪ Easy-peasy, lemon, you squeeze me ♪ 764 00:34:56,964 --> 00:35:02,143 ♪ Your zest for life runs dry so please me ♪ 765 00:35:02,143 --> 00:35:06,452 ♪ Let me go outside 766 00:35:06,452 --> 00:35:09,672 ♪ Let's play the game of life 767 00:35:09,672 --> 00:35:11,544 We unpacked it a lot today. 768 00:35:11,544 --> 00:35:14,460 Learning that jealousy isn't always a bad thing. 769 00:35:14,460 --> 00:35:15,809 I think it's just like, 770 00:35:15,809 --> 00:35:18,594 oh, you like let it either control you 771 00:35:18,594 --> 00:35:21,597 or like how you control the jealousy or whatever. 772 00:35:21,597 --> 00:35:22,903 I like the progress for sure. 773 00:35:22,903 --> 00:35:24,600 Hopefully tomorrow we'll get to like, 774 00:35:24,600 --> 00:35:26,124 hang out more. You know, like we could do, like, 775 00:35:26,124 --> 00:35:27,995 a little breakfast date or like, something like that. 776 00:35:27,995 --> 00:35:30,650 - I'm totally down for that. - I think all that awkward space 777 00:35:30,650 --> 00:35:32,826 between Rehman and Jonathan is kind of gone, 778 00:35:32,826 --> 00:35:35,176 and I think we're finally on our path 779 00:35:35,176 --> 00:35:39,963 to trying to make a connection, so I'm really excited. 780 00:35:42,705 --> 00:35:47,319 Basically, like, I get, like, 781 00:35:47,319 --> 00:35:49,059 little pangs of-- of jealousy, 782 00:35:49,059 --> 00:35:53,629 insecurity when there is a connection being made 783 00:35:53,629 --> 00:35:55,588 and I'm not in the progression. 784 00:35:55,588 --> 00:35:58,721 Trusting you more makes me feel so much more secure 785 00:35:58,721 --> 00:36:02,682 in any actions that take place. 786 00:36:02,682 --> 00:36:07,121 I'm feeling I think just really reassured. 787 00:36:07,121 --> 00:36:10,951 Just felt really good to know that we for sure 788 00:36:10,951 --> 00:36:14,520 do like each other, and we're doing this thing. 789 00:36:16,522 --> 00:36:21,266 And we're on the same page. 790 00:36:21,266 --> 00:36:25,748 ♪ When I say those words 791 00:36:25,748 --> 00:36:30,362 ♪ I say wait for me, wait for me ♪ 792 00:36:33,974 --> 00:36:36,542 I-- This is great. 793 00:36:36,542 --> 00:36:38,370 Do it again. 794 00:36:49,685 --> 00:36:52,035 ♪ You flew out west for the summer ♪ 795 00:36:52,035 --> 00:36:56,475 ♪ Green eyes and a fresh tattoo ♪ 796 00:36:56,475 --> 00:36:58,520 Good morning, sleepyhead. 797 00:37:00,522 --> 00:37:03,003 Guess what today is. 798 00:37:03,003 --> 00:37:05,266 - It's a swappy day. - Swap. Swap. Swap. 799 00:37:05,266 --> 00:37:06,441 Swap day. 800 00:37:06,441 --> 00:37:09,488 I'm just ready to start fresh. 801 00:37:09,488 --> 00:37:12,230 How is everyone feeling today? 802 00:37:12,230 --> 00:37:14,449 Oh, my God. No. 803 00:37:17,278 --> 00:37:19,280 Is that how you're feeling? 804 00:37:20,629 --> 00:37:23,241 At least we know you're healthy. 805 00:37:23,241 --> 00:37:26,505 ♪ I can't deny it, I try to hide it ♪ 806 00:37:26,505 --> 00:37:27,767 Hey. 807 00:37:27,767 --> 00:37:29,072 ♪ I get so excited 808 00:37:29,072 --> 00:37:32,641 - Hello. - I fucking love that shirt. 809 00:37:32,641 --> 00:37:35,557 Hi. 810 00:37:35,557 --> 00:37:37,820 Today we're just super excited, 811 00:37:37,820 --> 00:37:39,909 because it is the first swap ceremony. 812 00:37:39,909 --> 00:37:42,651 We don't really know what's in store yet again, but-- 813 00:37:42,651 --> 00:37:46,176 - Who the fuck knows? - Yeah, who the fuck knows? 814 00:37:47,787 --> 00:37:50,659 ♪ You rocked up 815 00:37:50,659 --> 00:37:54,620 ♪ Your bags are packed 816 00:37:54,620 --> 00:37:57,275 I want to tell Sean and Brittne, like, 817 00:37:57,275 --> 00:37:58,580 let's work through this. 818 00:37:58,580 --> 00:38:01,017 I really like them. I like their vibe. 819 00:38:01,017 --> 00:38:03,193 But it's really hard when somebody decides 820 00:38:03,193 --> 00:38:07,241 that their perception of you, how they experienced you 821 00:38:07,241 --> 00:38:09,591 is the only truth. 822 00:38:09,591 --> 00:38:13,378 That's really tough for me. 823 00:38:14,640 --> 00:38:16,119 Hello? 824 00:38:16,119 --> 00:38:18,296 - Hi. Can I come in? - How's it going? 825 00:38:18,296 --> 00:38:19,471 Yeah. Of course. 826 00:38:19,471 --> 00:38:20,820 I really, really, really want 827 00:38:20,820 --> 00:38:22,474 to just kind of clear the air with Becca. 828 00:38:22,474 --> 00:38:26,260 I feel like there's some awkward tension the past couple of days, 829 00:38:26,260 --> 00:38:28,871 and I think it's just because we're letting her 830 00:38:28,871 --> 00:38:30,830 do her own thing. I just want to make sure, 831 00:38:30,830 --> 00:38:32,788 like, I'm not losing, like, a really good friend. 832 00:38:32,788 --> 00:38:34,660 No, God, no. I needed to kind of, like, 833 00:38:34,660 --> 00:38:37,358 figure out where my emotions were coming from 834 00:38:37,358 --> 00:38:39,229 and why I was so angry. 835 00:38:39,229 --> 00:38:41,971 It's good that this almost happened, because now-- 836 00:38:41,971 --> 00:38:43,973 - Yeah. - Like, you know what kind 837 00:38:43,973 --> 00:38:45,671 of connection you want and going into this-- 838 00:38:45,671 --> 00:38:47,063 - And what to do differently. - Exactly. 839 00:38:47,063 --> 00:38:49,979 It's all like a learning experience. 840 00:38:49,979 --> 00:38:53,374 I'm really glad that she ended up making the first move. 841 00:38:53,374 --> 00:38:55,898 Now we can, you know, get back to all being friends 842 00:38:55,898 --> 00:38:58,031 and it not being uncomfortable for anybody. 843 00:38:58,031 --> 00:39:00,729 There was definitely that different feeling of connection 844 00:39:00,729 --> 00:39:02,252 between you and I and then not him. 845 00:39:02,252 --> 00:39:05,255 I definitely am glad that Dylan was able to, like, 846 00:39:05,255 --> 00:39:07,127 accept that he was jealous in that moment. 847 00:39:07,127 --> 00:39:09,434 He's not this douche bag that I thought he was. 848 00:39:09,434 --> 00:39:10,826 Right, right, yeah. 849 00:39:10,826 --> 00:39:12,437 You know, he's a sweet, sensitive, funny guy, 850 00:39:12,437 --> 00:39:14,830 and, like, I wish I could have seen a little bit more of that. 851 00:39:14,830 --> 00:39:17,659 Right, right. I feel so much better now. 852 00:39:17,659 --> 00:39:19,487 Yeah, I know. I was like-- 853 00:39:20,967 --> 00:39:23,926 As much as I want to pursue something with her, 854 00:39:23,926 --> 00:39:25,406 because of the boundaries they've set, 855 00:39:25,406 --> 00:39:27,408 I'm not going to do that. So I'm kind of just stuck 856 00:39:27,408 --> 00:39:30,759 with having a crush on her and being her friend. 857 00:39:30,759 --> 00:39:32,674 I've-- Oh, my God. I've been friend-zoned. 858 00:39:33,936 --> 00:39:37,287 ♪ You look perfect tonight 859 00:39:37,287 --> 00:39:41,553 ♪ Sonoma lover dressed in white ♪ 860 00:39:41,553 --> 00:39:43,381 Hey, guys. 861 00:39:43,381 --> 00:39:44,947 - Hi. - Hello. 862 00:39:44,947 --> 00:39:46,819 I wanted to have a little chat. 863 00:39:46,819 --> 00:39:48,037 Honestly, if we're going to chat about 864 00:39:48,037 --> 00:39:49,865 where we stand, I'd prefer-- 865 00:39:49,865 --> 00:39:51,389 We already talked about where we stand. 866 00:39:51,389 --> 00:39:54,130 I don't have any energy for it. - It wasn't about that. 867 00:39:54,130 --> 00:39:56,132 It was just about why I've been acting so weird. 868 00:39:56,132 --> 00:39:57,656 I just wanted to explain myself. - Oh, okay. 869 00:39:57,656 --> 00:39:58,831 - Is that okay? - Sure. 870 00:39:58,831 --> 00:40:05,490 - Yeah, you're good. - Okay. 871 00:40:05,490 --> 00:40:06,795 I understand some things 872 00:40:06,795 --> 00:40:08,710 about the way I've been showing up. 873 00:40:08,710 --> 00:40:12,192 - Mm-hmm. - So, I got here. 874 00:40:12,192 --> 00:40:15,151 And without even knowing it, I think I just started 875 00:40:15,151 --> 00:40:17,806 filtering myself, trying to behave a certain way, trying 876 00:40:17,806 --> 00:40:21,506 to control how things go. 877 00:40:21,506 --> 00:40:23,464 And I think that's why, 878 00:40:23,464 --> 00:40:26,249 when you shared like that you experienced me as being like 879 00:40:26,249 --> 00:40:28,251 some kind of therapist or trying to be a therapist 880 00:40:28,251 --> 00:40:30,906 or not connecting human to human, 881 00:40:30,906 --> 00:40:32,995 I think that's why I was coming off that way. 882 00:40:32,995 --> 00:40:36,390 Trying to control things made me look bad. 883 00:40:36,390 --> 00:40:37,565 No. 884 00:40:37,565 --> 00:40:39,611 No, don't. 885 00:40:39,611 --> 00:40:41,961 Honestly, Sanu, you right now 886 00:40:41,961 --> 00:40:44,224 is the most of who you really are. 887 00:40:44,224 --> 00:40:47,488 I really appreciate you just opening up. 888 00:40:47,488 --> 00:40:49,447 Yeah, 'cause I can get-- I can feel you on that shit. 889 00:40:49,447 --> 00:40:52,232 You can get caught up in that. - Oh, yeah. It's alright. 890 00:40:52,232 --> 00:40:54,103 Just you talking about this, like I just feel-- 891 00:40:54,103 --> 00:40:56,932 Everything I may have thought about you 892 00:40:56,932 --> 00:40:58,499 just goes out the window, you know what I mean? 893 00:40:58,499 --> 00:41:02,372 Like, I just want to get to know this Sanu, who you are. 894 00:41:02,372 --> 00:41:05,288 I mean, you just seem like a beautiful person inside and out 895 00:41:05,288 --> 00:41:07,203 just from just talking with us. - That's why we chose you. 896 00:41:07,203 --> 00:41:08,944 Yeah, that's the reason why we chose you. 897 00:41:08,944 --> 00:41:11,512 I appreciate you guys saying that. 898 00:41:11,512 --> 00:41:13,819 That was a needed chat that we had to have with her, 899 00:41:13,819 --> 00:41:15,168 because we couldn't wrap our minds 900 00:41:15,168 --> 00:41:16,865 around what the hell happened. 901 00:41:16,865 --> 00:41:18,563 - In a way, it was like a relief. - Yeah. 902 00:41:18,563 --> 00:41:19,955 Because we were like, wow. 903 00:41:19,955 --> 00:41:21,566 Like, that's really what it was. But I didn't-- 904 00:41:21,566 --> 00:41:25,134 Honestly, I didn't think that she was ever going to say that. 905 00:41:25,134 --> 00:41:26,875 The perception you guys had of me 906 00:41:26,875 --> 00:41:28,398 is, like, something I've never gotten before. 907 00:41:28,398 --> 00:41:30,749 And it told me, like, I'm just not being myself. 908 00:41:30,749 --> 00:41:32,054 Mm-hmm. 909 00:41:32,054 --> 00:41:34,013 We're going into tonight unsure of who 910 00:41:34,013 --> 00:41:35,318 we're actually going to pick. 911 00:41:35,318 --> 00:41:37,233 Maybe now it will be a different story. 912 00:41:37,233 --> 00:41:39,018 I just really appreciate you coming here today 913 00:41:39,018 --> 00:41:41,063 and just-- just being real, you know, 914 00:41:41,063 --> 00:41:43,239 just letting your guard down. And we really needed this. 915 00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:45,372 - We're getting somewhere. - Mm-hmm. 916 00:41:45,372 --> 00:41:50,899 ♪ Summer in the air, summer in the air ♪ 917 00:41:50,899 --> 00:41:52,945 What is, like, you guys' typical date? 918 00:41:52,945 --> 00:41:55,774 I love to go shopping, have brunch, get dinner, 919 00:41:55,774 --> 00:41:57,079 and then, like, go out with our friends. 920 00:41:57,079 --> 00:41:59,081 - Yeah. - One thing we also find, like, 921 00:41:59,081 --> 00:42:01,040 really hot is, like, take a HIIT workout class. 922 00:42:01,040 --> 00:42:02,650 Like, leaving, like, super sweaty, 923 00:42:02,650 --> 00:42:04,217 and then it's like, okay, like, we just need to shower first. 924 00:42:04,217 --> 00:42:07,089 Oh, we fucking. Like-- 925 00:42:07,089 --> 00:42:08,656 This is definitely more what I wanted. 926 00:42:08,656 --> 00:42:11,398 We are having a great time. And there has been a big, 927 00:42:11,398 --> 00:42:13,182 big change, especially from day one. 928 00:42:13,182 --> 00:42:16,577 How do you guys, like, see me as a third? Like-- 929 00:42:16,577 --> 00:42:19,362 The first time you walked in with all the other singles, 930 00:42:19,362 --> 00:42:21,103 like we just looked at each other, 931 00:42:21,103 --> 00:42:23,279 and we immediately knew. - I wish I knew that. 932 00:42:23,279 --> 00:42:26,021 Yeah. No, I wish you did, too. It just all made sense. 933 00:42:26,021 --> 00:42:28,067 I could totally see all three of us in our apartment 934 00:42:28,067 --> 00:42:30,156 right now in Chicago and stuff like that, so... 935 00:42:30,156 --> 00:42:31,897 - I'll be open to going. - Yeah, yeah, yeah. 936 00:42:31,897 --> 00:42:33,333 - For sure. - In our house, 937 00:42:33,333 --> 00:42:35,944 he's only allowed to wear 4-inch shorts or higher. 938 00:42:35,944 --> 00:42:37,598 It's like a house rule, you know? 939 00:42:37,598 --> 00:42:39,557 That's why every time I show you guys, like, "Should I wear 940 00:42:39,557 --> 00:42:41,471 these shorts or these shorts?" you guys go for the shortest. 941 00:42:41,471 --> 00:42:43,473 They're all really short? Yeah. Hey, the shorter, the better. 942 00:42:43,473 --> 00:42:46,476 It feels good. I do love that they already have a foundation. 943 00:42:46,476 --> 00:42:48,696 They kind of have their lifestyle set, 944 00:42:48,696 --> 00:42:49,958 and that's what I'm looking for, 945 00:42:49,958 --> 00:42:51,394 so I do find that very attractive. 946 00:42:51,394 --> 00:42:53,832 Do you think we should head back to the resort? 947 00:42:53,832 --> 00:42:55,224 No. 948 00:42:55,224 --> 00:42:59,968 ♪ I want you be my lightning strike ♪ 949 00:42:59,968 --> 00:43:02,710 ♪ Yes, I want you to be my lightning strike ♪ 950 00:43:02,710 --> 00:43:04,625 Swap it. 951 00:43:04,625 --> 00:43:09,717 ♪ Yes, I want you to be my lightning strike ♪ 952 00:43:09,717 --> 00:43:11,066 It's crazy. 953 00:43:11,066 --> 00:43:12,415 The second ceremony is already here. 954 00:43:12,415 --> 00:43:15,984 - I know. - Tonight's the big night. 955 00:43:15,984 --> 00:43:17,986 At least we were able to use this time 956 00:43:17,986 --> 00:43:19,814 to really think about what we want. 957 00:43:19,814 --> 00:43:21,207 How do you feel? 958 00:43:21,207 --> 00:43:22,817 I think it's pretty obvious things are done 959 00:43:22,817 --> 00:43:25,603 with Dylan and Lauren, and, fuck, that was a roller coaster. 960 00:43:25,603 --> 00:43:27,039 No, no, I get that. 961 00:43:27,039 --> 00:43:30,738 Kind of got to go on what we feel is right. 962 00:43:30,738 --> 00:43:33,045 We like Peach, Darrien. 963 00:43:33,045 --> 00:43:35,395 - Yeah. - But glad we were able to have 964 00:43:35,395 --> 00:43:38,093 that little chat a little bit earlier. 965 00:43:38,093 --> 00:43:40,748 I'm glad that she was able to open up. 966 00:43:40,748 --> 00:43:42,532 It's interesting. 967 00:43:42,532 --> 00:43:46,232 I'm really proud of her, and I commend her for owning up to it, 968 00:43:46,232 --> 00:43:48,234 'cause how I felt this morning and how I feel now, 969 00:43:48,234 --> 00:43:51,019 two different things. And we came here to-- 970 00:43:51,019 --> 00:43:52,542 - Grow. - To grow. 971 00:43:52,542 --> 00:43:56,024 Stay or swap ceremony, like, I pretty much prepared, 972 00:43:56,024 --> 00:43:57,852 you know, to pack my stuff up. 973 00:43:57,852 --> 00:43:59,462 - Yeah. - You know? 974 00:43:59,462 --> 00:44:03,771 I just hope that our next week or whatever is better. 975 00:44:03,771 --> 00:44:05,555 - Let's hope. - You know. 976 00:44:05,555 --> 00:44:08,907 We've been through a lot with Jonathan. 977 00:44:08,907 --> 00:44:10,212 Today has probably been like 978 00:44:10,212 --> 00:44:12,171 one of the best days at the resort. 979 00:44:12,171 --> 00:44:14,390 Ever since Rehman pulled me to the side, everything 980 00:44:14,390 --> 00:44:17,567 has been great after that, but I am a little scared. 981 00:44:17,567 --> 00:44:19,657 Like, there is still that thought in my mind. 982 00:44:19,657 --> 00:44:22,181 Like, what if they do just swap me out? Because they are 983 00:44:22,181 --> 00:44:25,924 those-- They are a little bit of a wild card. 984 00:44:26,925 --> 00:44:28,230 I really am enjoying him. 985 00:44:28,230 --> 00:44:30,842 I'm enjoying our three connection. 986 00:44:30,842 --> 00:44:33,235 - Yeah. - But if we take a risk, 987 00:44:33,235 --> 00:44:35,455 we're all like, oh, we love Jonathan! 988 00:44:35,455 --> 00:44:37,849 And then what if another couple comes along that, 989 00:44:37,849 --> 00:44:41,156 like, he's more attracted to, and he leaves us in the dust? 990 00:44:41,156 --> 00:44:43,158 Can we just postpone this next ceremony? 991 00:44:43,158 --> 00:44:44,594 I know, just one more day. 992 00:44:44,594 --> 00:44:47,641 Yeah, I know one more day to just, like, hang out. 993 00:44:47,641 --> 00:44:49,251 Yeah. 994 00:44:49,251 --> 00:44:53,168 I do want to stay, and I do want to see what we have 995 00:44:53,168 --> 00:44:56,084 and what it can actually lead to. 996 00:44:56,084 --> 00:44:59,958 I don't know, I just-- Yeah. Guess we'll see. 997 00:45:06,355 --> 00:45:08,706 ♪ All of the young hearts together ♪ 998 00:45:09,924 --> 00:45:11,796 ♪ Like dynamite 999 00:45:11,796 --> 00:45:13,014 Good? Okay. 1000 00:45:13,014 --> 00:45:15,190 It's time to decide to stay or swap. 1001 00:45:15,190 --> 00:45:17,889 We kind of have our decision made. 1002 00:45:17,889 --> 00:45:18,933 Mm-hmm. 1003 00:45:18,933 --> 00:45:20,805 ♪ Like dynamite 1004 00:45:23,895 --> 00:45:25,374 I'm just feeling everything. 1005 00:45:25,374 --> 00:45:27,550 Given that we now had this good conversation, 1006 00:45:27,550 --> 00:45:32,381 we made some progress. And so it's really hard to say. 1007 00:45:32,381 --> 00:45:36,472 ♪ All of the lovers forever 1008 00:45:36,472 --> 00:45:38,910 ♪ Like dynamite 1009 00:45:44,872 --> 00:45:46,700 Here they come. 1010 00:45:52,053 --> 00:45:53,402 Okay, Brittne. 1011 00:45:53,402 --> 00:45:55,100 - You look good, too. - Okay. Okay. 1012 00:45:55,100 --> 00:45:57,493 All of y'all look good. 1013 00:45:57,493 --> 00:46:00,670 - We are literally... - Terrified. 1014 00:46:00,670 --> 00:46:03,369 Yeah, because we're about to make a big decision. 1015 00:46:03,369 --> 00:46:05,850 - Yeah. - This time, we want to make 1016 00:46:05,850 --> 00:46:08,417 the right decision. 1017 00:46:08,417 --> 00:46:12,508 Welcome to the first stay or swap ceremony. 1018 00:46:12,508 --> 00:46:14,423 Yeah. - Ooh, girl. 1019 00:46:14,423 --> 00:46:17,731 Okay. So, this is how this is going to go, right? 1020 00:46:17,731 --> 00:46:20,342 We're going to ask our beautiful throuples here 1021 00:46:20,342 --> 00:46:22,431 if they are interested in staying 1022 00:46:22,431 --> 00:46:26,609 in their current relationship, or if they're interested in 1023 00:46:26,609 --> 00:46:31,789 maybe swapping for one of you beautiful individuals over here. 1024 00:46:31,789 --> 00:46:34,879 If either the couple or the chosen single decide 1025 00:46:34,879 --> 00:46:37,882 what they have right now isn't actually working out, 1026 00:46:37,882 --> 00:46:41,450 a swap may happen, which means we'll find out 1027 00:46:41,450 --> 00:46:44,453 which one of you beautiful individuals are interested 1028 00:46:44,453 --> 00:46:49,154 and see where we go from there. 1029 00:46:49,154 --> 00:46:50,938 First throuple up, 1030 00:46:50,938 --> 00:46:53,593 Lauren, Dylan, and Becca. 1031 00:46:53,593 --> 00:46:55,290 Been a lot going on. - It has. 1032 00:46:55,290 --> 00:46:57,510 It has. Couple days have felt like months. 1033 00:46:57,510 --> 00:46:59,817 So much has happened in this short few days. 1034 00:46:59,817 --> 00:47:01,470 It's crazy. 1035 00:47:01,470 --> 00:47:04,517 All three learned a lot about what we wanted in a throuple, 1036 00:47:04,517 --> 00:47:06,519 as well as what we didn't necessarily want. 1037 00:47:06,519 --> 00:47:08,782 - Totally. Yeah. - Wow. So then 1038 00:47:08,782 --> 00:47:11,785 do you want to stay, or do you want to swap? 1039 00:47:13,874 --> 00:47:15,093 Lauren? Dylan? 1040 00:47:15,093 --> 00:47:18,444 We would... 1041 00:47:18,444 --> 00:47:20,402 like to swap. - We'd like to swap. 1042 00:47:20,402 --> 00:47:21,839 - You'd like to swap? - We'd like to swap. 1043 00:47:21,839 --> 00:47:24,580 Really what Dylan and I need right now, 1044 00:47:24,580 --> 00:47:27,235 after just, you know, the past couple days, 1045 00:47:27,235 --> 00:47:28,671 is, like, brighter energy. 1046 00:47:28,671 --> 00:47:30,891 I think this is the best thing for all of us. 1047 00:47:30,891 --> 00:47:34,329 So, Lauren and I are in agreement about Mia, 1048 00:47:34,329 --> 00:47:36,810 so hopefully she steps forward for us three. 1049 00:47:36,810 --> 00:47:38,246 Yeah. 1050 00:47:38,246 --> 00:47:41,206 Unmatched singles, those of you who are interested 1051 00:47:41,206 --> 00:47:45,340 in joining Lauren and Dylan, 1052 00:47:45,340 --> 00:47:48,953 please take a step... 1053 00:47:48,953 --> 00:47:50,171 now. 1054 00:47:57,700 --> 00:47:58,919 Okay. 1055 00:48:02,488 --> 00:48:04,011 - Mm? - Yeah? 1056 00:48:04,011 --> 00:48:05,795 Mm-hmm. 1057 00:48:08,711 --> 00:48:11,540 Lauren and Dylan, who would you like to invite 1058 00:48:11,540 --> 00:48:14,152 to throuple up with? 1059 00:48:14,152 --> 00:48:15,370 Want to go? 1060 00:48:15,370 --> 00:48:17,372 We're going to go with... 1061 00:48:21,550 --> 00:48:22,725 - Mia. - Mia. 1062 00:48:22,725 --> 00:48:24,858 - Ah! - In unison. Alright. 1063 00:48:27,208 --> 00:48:30,037 Well, Mia, cross that bridge. 1064 00:48:30,037 --> 00:48:32,387 Becca, cross that bridge. 1065 00:48:32,387 --> 00:48:33,606 Wah-wah. 1066 00:48:33,606 --> 00:48:37,088 Good luck. 1067 00:48:37,088 --> 00:48:38,959 Love you guys. 1068 00:48:40,743 --> 00:48:42,310 Thanks for prepping that for me. 1069 00:48:42,310 --> 00:48:44,051 Oh, of course. It's all yours now. 1070 00:48:44,051 --> 00:48:46,967 Take it over. 1071 00:48:46,967 --> 00:48:49,056 Mia! Hello! 1072 00:48:50,884 --> 00:48:52,451 - Hello, hello, welcome. - Hi. Mia. 1073 00:48:52,451 --> 00:48:54,932 Hi! - Hello, beautiful. 1074 00:48:54,932 --> 00:48:56,846 Welcome over here. 1075 00:48:56,846 --> 00:48:59,588 I'm just so happy to finally be here 1076 00:48:59,588 --> 00:49:01,939 and to finally actually be throupled up with you guys. 1077 00:49:01,939 --> 00:49:03,592 - Oh, we're excited. - Look how cute she is! 1078 00:49:03,592 --> 00:49:05,420 - I've been waiting forever. - She's adorable. 1079 00:49:07,248 --> 00:49:08,858 Moving on now to our next throuple, 1080 00:49:08,858 --> 00:49:12,558 Corey and Wilder, how have the last few days been for you? 1081 00:49:12,558 --> 00:49:15,865 It's been a lot of emotions and a lot of pressure. 1082 00:49:15,865 --> 00:49:19,260 This experience is making us make decisions quicker 1083 00:49:19,260 --> 00:49:22,611 than we might normally make, and it's really encouraging us 1084 00:49:22,611 --> 00:49:24,744 to have challenging conversations 1085 00:49:24,744 --> 00:49:27,268 and to look at our relationship with a closer eye 1086 00:49:27,268 --> 00:49:29,314 and what we really want from a third. 1087 00:49:29,314 --> 00:49:32,621 So what are you going to do, stay, 1088 00:49:32,621 --> 00:49:34,014 or do you want to swap? 1089 00:49:36,016 --> 00:49:38,018 We've decided to stay. 1090 00:49:40,107 --> 00:49:43,981 We're gonna give you this little token. 1091 00:49:43,981 --> 00:49:45,895 Aww. 1092 00:49:45,895 --> 00:49:48,028 Isn't that so cute. 1093 00:49:48,028 --> 00:49:50,639 I love them so much. 1094 00:49:50,639 --> 00:49:52,815 - Aww. - Come on. 1095 00:49:52,815 --> 00:49:55,079 The luck that we've run into 1096 00:49:55,079 --> 00:49:58,299 having just the right amount of communication, 1097 00:49:58,299 --> 00:50:01,041 the right amount of chemistry... - Yeah. 1098 00:50:01,041 --> 00:50:03,348 ...I'm feeling really good about it, too. 1099 00:50:03,348 --> 00:50:05,219 So I would like to stay. 1100 00:50:05,219 --> 00:50:06,786 Alright. Give it up. 1101 00:50:06,786 --> 00:50:10,398 Our first stay. 1102 00:50:10,398 --> 00:50:13,053 Weight off my shoulders. 1103 00:50:13,053 --> 00:50:14,663 I can finally just relax 1104 00:50:14,663 --> 00:50:19,973 and know I'm going to have this time and be certain. 1105 00:50:19,973 --> 00:50:23,020 Sean and Brittne. 1106 00:50:23,020 --> 00:50:25,239 How have the last couple of days been? 1107 00:50:25,239 --> 00:50:27,241 - It has been, like, a lot. - Yeah. 1108 00:50:27,241 --> 00:50:31,811 Today was the first day we really got to know Sanu. 1109 00:50:31,811 --> 00:50:35,162 There was a bit of a wall the first couple of days. 1110 00:50:35,162 --> 00:50:37,730 But overall, she's an amazing, amazing woman, 1111 00:50:37,730 --> 00:50:40,515 so we're-- we're happy to have her, for sure. 1112 00:50:40,515 --> 00:50:41,908 - Yeah. - Thank you. 1113 00:50:41,908 --> 00:50:43,040 Yes. 1114 00:50:44,998 --> 00:50:49,524 Brittne, Sean, are you going to stay in your current throuple, 1115 00:50:49,524 --> 00:50:53,224 or are you going to swap? 1116 00:50:53,224 --> 00:50:57,532 We decided that we are... 1117 00:51:02,102 --> 00:51:05,018 ...definitely going to swap. 1118 00:51:05,018 --> 00:51:07,586 Definitely? Ooh. 1119 00:51:08,456 --> 00:51:11,894 Sanu, do you agree? 1120 00:51:11,894 --> 00:51:13,592 I would have liked more time. 1121 00:51:13,592 --> 00:51:17,596 I would prefer to stay to continue to get to know them. 1122 00:51:17,596 --> 00:51:19,902 From the time that we spent with Sanu, 1123 00:51:19,902 --> 00:51:23,080 we didn't really get to figure out like who she really is 1124 00:51:23,080 --> 00:51:25,386 or like what we really, like, love about her. 1125 00:51:25,386 --> 00:51:26,953 But today we got to know her and-- 1126 00:51:26,953 --> 00:51:29,129 - She showed up today but-- - Yeah, today, she showed up. 1127 00:51:29,129 --> 00:51:31,914 - It's too late. - Alright, unmatched singles. 1128 00:51:31,914 --> 00:51:37,224 Which of you would be interested in joining Brittne and Sean? 1129 00:51:49,454 --> 00:51:52,457 With the biggest cheeses on. 1130 00:51:52,457 --> 00:51:56,374 Y'all are smiling from ear to ear. 1131 00:51:56,374 --> 00:52:01,422 We were like super between both Peach and Darrien. 1132 00:52:01,422 --> 00:52:03,032 - Yeah. - Okay. 1133 00:52:03,032 --> 00:52:05,557 Peach, Darrien, would you be interested in telling us 1134 00:52:05,557 --> 00:52:08,516 why you stepped forward for Sean and Brittne? 1135 00:52:08,516 --> 00:52:10,170 I relate to you guys a lot. 1136 00:52:10,170 --> 00:52:12,259 Getting to know you guys the past couple of days 1137 00:52:12,259 --> 00:52:14,261 has actually made me more attracted to you, 1138 00:52:14,261 --> 00:52:18,744 so I'm just really excited to see where this could go. 1139 00:52:18,744 --> 00:52:21,573 - Darrien, how about you? - I feel very similarly. 1140 00:52:21,573 --> 00:52:23,270 You took the words out of my mouth, 1141 00:52:23,270 --> 00:52:25,968 but I can honestly see it just really working. 1142 00:52:25,968 --> 00:52:27,274 And when I think about you all, 1143 00:52:27,274 --> 00:52:28,841 I kind of get butterflies in my stomach, 1144 00:52:28,841 --> 00:52:30,364 so I feel like there's-- - Is that right? 1145 00:52:30,364 --> 00:52:33,324 Yes, yes. 1146 00:52:33,324 --> 00:52:35,848 Brittne, Sean, tell us 1147 00:52:35,848 --> 00:52:38,067 which of these beautiful ladies would you like 1148 00:52:38,067 --> 00:52:40,635 to throuple up with? 1149 00:52:40,635 --> 00:52:42,811 It was really hard, because we really get, 1150 00:52:42,811 --> 00:52:45,945 like, this spark with both of you. 1151 00:52:45,945 --> 00:52:46,989 Yeah. 1152 00:52:46,989 --> 00:52:50,341 But the person that we decided 1153 00:52:50,341 --> 00:52:54,171 to throuple up with... 1154 00:52:54,171 --> 00:52:57,304 is... 1155 00:52:57,304 --> 00:52:59,393 Darrien. 1156 00:52:59,393 --> 00:53:01,178 Alright. 1157 00:53:03,528 --> 00:53:05,617 - No. - Can I hug you? 1158 00:53:08,881 --> 00:53:12,667 Sanu, Darrien, please cross the bridge. 1159 00:53:12,667 --> 00:53:16,105 - Oh. - Thank you. Thank you. 1160 00:53:16,105 --> 00:53:18,020 I'm devastated. 1161 00:53:22,677 --> 00:53:26,203 - Hey! - You look so beautiful. 1162 00:53:29,249 --> 00:53:31,208 Probably. 1163 00:53:33,253 --> 00:53:34,820 At the last mixer, 1164 00:53:34,820 --> 00:53:38,302 they made it seem like they wanted me to join their couple. 1165 00:53:38,302 --> 00:53:39,520 They gave me the beads. 1166 00:53:39,520 --> 00:53:41,696 Like, what was all of that about? 1167 00:53:41,696 --> 00:53:45,222 If I am too hot for Sean and Brittne to handle, 1168 00:53:45,222 --> 00:53:46,571 it is what it is. 1169 00:53:46,571 --> 00:53:49,313 I am a sexy bitch. Like, I've always been that, 1170 00:53:49,313 --> 00:53:51,924 and I'm never going to change for anybody. 1171 00:53:51,924 --> 00:53:53,708 How does it feel to be sitting over there now? 1172 00:53:53,708 --> 00:53:56,842 I feel elated. 1173 00:53:56,842 --> 00:53:58,974 Just the biggest smile. I love it. 1174 00:53:58,974 --> 00:54:02,717 Ashmal, Rehman, Jonathan, 1175 00:54:02,717 --> 00:54:05,546 here we go. What are you thinking about? 1176 00:54:05,546 --> 00:54:10,203 The last few days have been pretty life-changing for me. 1177 00:54:10,203 --> 00:54:13,902 We went through some pretty dark times, 1178 00:54:13,902 --> 00:54:16,383 but also some times that were pretty lit. 1179 00:54:16,383 --> 00:54:19,778 And I think by bringing Jonathan into our relationship, 1180 00:54:19,778 --> 00:54:22,259 it brought a lot of things out of us 1181 00:54:22,259 --> 00:54:25,262 that we needed to learn about ourselves. 1182 00:54:25,262 --> 00:54:26,872 Ashmal, do you feel the same way? 1183 00:54:26,872 --> 00:54:28,395 Scott, I mean, the past few days, 1184 00:54:28,395 --> 00:54:33,531 I saw Rehman be so vulnerable, so brave, 1185 00:54:33,531 --> 00:54:37,143 and it's kind of like falling in love with him all over again. 1186 00:54:37,143 --> 00:54:41,321 In a way, once we were able to move past our issues, 1187 00:54:41,321 --> 00:54:43,105 we got to know Jonathan more 1188 00:54:43,105 --> 00:54:44,890 and then also worked with how we made him feel. 1189 00:54:44,890 --> 00:54:48,023 So we got to see each other's emotions 1190 00:54:48,023 --> 00:54:52,811 from a whole new perspective. And, oh, man. 1191 00:54:52,811 --> 00:54:56,162 The question is, what would you like to do now? 1192 00:54:56,162 --> 00:54:59,470 Are you both on the same page with your decision? 1193 00:54:59,470 --> 00:55:04,692 Well, Scott, we talked it over, and after talking it over, 1194 00:55:04,692 --> 00:55:06,520 we have decided that we would like 1195 00:55:06,520 --> 00:55:09,349 to move on to something new. 1196 00:55:22,188 --> 00:55:25,887 This is the day I've been waiting for! 1197 00:55:25,887 --> 00:55:28,150 Please join me in welcoming our newest couple. 1198 00:55:28,150 --> 00:55:29,456 Shut up! 1199 00:55:31,893 --> 00:55:34,635 - Speechless. - Just gagged. 1200 00:55:34,635 --> 00:55:36,768 Gagged, gooped and gagged. 1201 00:55:36,768 --> 00:55:39,640 - Do you have a boner? - He always has a boner. 1202 00:55:41,294 --> 00:55:42,469 Oh, snap! 1203 00:55:42,469 --> 00:55:46,125 - Look at this view. - Look at this view. 1204 00:55:46,125 --> 00:55:46,952 I'm back. 1205 00:55:46,952 --> 00:55:48,388 This is so romantic. 1206 00:55:48,388 --> 00:55:49,824 Cheers. 1207 00:55:49,824 --> 00:55:50,999 Oh, fuck. 1208 00:55:50,999 --> 00:55:52,523 - Time's up. - The best way 1209 00:55:52,523 --> 00:55:55,482 to build trust and connection is telling the truth. 1210 00:55:55,482 --> 00:55:57,789 How do you feel about just you and I as a couple? 1211 00:55:57,789 --> 00:55:59,486 I mean, I honestly don't know. 1212 00:55:59,486 --> 00:56:02,141 I feel kind of insecure. 1213 00:56:02,141 --> 00:56:03,534 I'm bored. 1214 00:56:03,534 --> 00:56:05,449 I think we can still have a throuple with Mia. 1215 00:56:05,449 --> 00:56:07,233 See, I don't think we can. 1216 00:56:08,408 --> 00:56:10,584 The sparks are, like, definitely there. 1217 00:56:10,584 --> 00:56:12,151 - Yeah. - So it's exciting. 1218 00:56:12,151 --> 00:56:14,283 I really love hearing everything you all are saying. 1219 00:56:14,283 --> 00:56:15,676 So who you want to kiss in the house? 1220 00:56:15,676 --> 00:56:16,721 Yeah. What's up? 1221 00:56:16,721 --> 00:56:18,331 I want to kiss you. 1222 00:56:18,331 --> 00:56:21,029 Not to put any pressure on, but, like, I'm here. 1223 00:56:21,029 --> 00:56:23,292 There's this kind of hate coming. 1224 00:56:23,292 --> 00:56:26,818 - Okay. - Holy hell, it is exhausting. 1225 00:56:26,818 --> 00:56:28,167 We can end this right now.