1 00:00:04,526 --> 00:00:07,137 Aah! 2 00:00:07,137 --> 00:00:08,965 My boundaries and my feelings 3 00:00:08,965 --> 00:00:10,575 are the ones to be focusing in on. 4 00:00:12,795 --> 00:00:15,450 - You can feel the tension. - For caring more 5 00:00:15,450 --> 00:00:17,452 about what everybody else thinks about you. 6 00:00:17,452 --> 00:00:21,369 You're more concerned about all that than than how I feel. 7 00:00:21,369 --> 00:00:24,111 I'm really not a hypersexual person. 8 00:00:24,111 --> 00:00:25,460 Oh, my gosh. Mia is a little bit 9 00:00:25,460 --> 00:00:28,115 more conservative than what we're used to. 10 00:00:28,115 --> 00:00:30,117 Yes, I feel like there's something about you. 11 00:00:30,117 --> 00:00:32,423 You just seem like a really good time, too. 12 00:00:32,423 --> 00:00:36,079 Please join me in welcoming our newest couple to the resort. 13 00:00:36,079 --> 00:00:37,733 - Ohh! - Ohh! 14 00:00:37,733 --> 00:00:39,256 Maximo and Ash. 15 00:00:39,256 --> 00:00:41,302 [ Cheers and applause ] 16 00:00:41,302 --> 00:00:43,652 They are gonna shake up the dynamic 17 00:00:43,652 --> 00:00:44,870 that we have established. 18 00:00:44,870 --> 00:00:47,003 Are you involved with anyone? 19 00:00:47,003 --> 00:00:48,352 Yes. 20 00:00:48,352 --> 00:00:50,006 - Are we your type? - Yeah. 21 00:00:50,006 --> 00:00:51,529 So I traveled to New York a lot for, like, Fashion Week 22 00:00:51,529 --> 00:00:52,878 and stuff like that because I model. 23 00:00:52,878 --> 00:00:55,620 Of course you do. 24 00:00:55,620 --> 00:00:57,492 - Your eyes are beautiful. - Thank you. 25 00:00:57,492 --> 00:01:01,496 If they come for our Jonathan, I will start a war. 26 00:01:01,496 --> 00:01:12,985 ♪ Love here and now 27 00:01:12,985 --> 00:01:15,292 Alright, Maximo and Ashley. 28 00:01:15,292 --> 00:01:17,903 Of all of our singles here tonight, 29 00:01:17,903 --> 00:01:19,514 chosen and unmatched, 30 00:01:19,514 --> 00:01:22,821 is there someone here you'd like to extend an invitation to 31 00:01:22,821 --> 00:01:25,781 for a night in Eden? 32 00:01:25,781 --> 00:01:32,309 ♪ 33 00:01:32,309 --> 00:01:33,832 Who you gonna choose?! 34 00:01:33,832 --> 00:01:36,139 - Junior. - Junior. 35 00:01:36,139 --> 00:01:37,184 [ All exclaiming ] 36 00:01:37,184 --> 00:01:40,622 [ Cheers and applause ] 37 00:01:40,622 --> 00:01:42,885 I choose you back! 38 00:01:42,885 --> 00:01:44,191 Off you get. 39 00:01:44,191 --> 00:01:50,849 ♪ 40 00:01:50,849 --> 00:01:53,113 That man is running. 41 00:01:53,113 --> 00:01:56,681 Oh, he was so excited. 42 00:01:59,380 --> 00:02:01,730 [ Gasps ] - Hey, beautifuls. 43 00:02:01,730 --> 00:02:03,166 Oh, my goodness. 44 00:02:03,166 --> 00:02:05,908 - Hi. - How are you? 45 00:02:05,908 --> 00:02:08,476 - We're so happy to have you. - Yeah, we are. 46 00:02:08,476 --> 00:02:09,738 Thank you so much for picking me. 47 00:02:09,738 --> 00:02:11,392 - Of course. - Thanks for picking us. 48 00:02:11,392 --> 00:02:13,394 We just felt so comfortable with you. 49 00:02:13,394 --> 00:02:15,178 We felt like there's just so much more 50 00:02:15,178 --> 00:02:16,919 we need to get to know about you. 51 00:02:16,919 --> 00:02:20,183 We got all night! 52 00:02:20,183 --> 00:02:21,706 I think Junior is the right choice. 53 00:02:21,706 --> 00:02:24,100 I'm so glad that I'm here for you now. 54 00:02:24,100 --> 00:02:25,406 Yes! 55 00:02:25,406 --> 00:02:27,147 It was definitely a lot of sexual energy. 56 00:02:27,147 --> 00:02:28,626 Can we just rip this off? 57 00:02:28,626 --> 00:02:31,499 This is somebody that not only we have, like, 58 00:02:31,499 --> 00:02:34,458 this spark with that we are interested in, 59 00:02:34,458 --> 00:02:37,418 but we connect on so many levels. 60 00:02:37,418 --> 00:02:39,811 - You get the middle. - Oh, my God. 61 00:02:39,811 --> 00:02:42,118 Yeah. This is crazy. 62 00:02:42,118 --> 00:02:47,515 Alright. Unmatched singles, it is time to leave the resort. 63 00:02:47,515 --> 00:02:50,082 I know, I know. - I'll see you soon. 64 00:02:50,082 --> 00:02:52,389 - Stay real. - My girl. 65 00:02:52,389 --> 00:02:53,651 - Thank you. - Oh, my baby! 66 00:02:53,651 --> 00:02:56,872 - Bye, guys. - Bye, baby. 67 00:02:56,872 --> 00:03:00,528 Throuples, the resort is once again yours. 68 00:03:00,528 --> 00:03:04,445 Use this time to get to know each other very well. 69 00:03:04,445 --> 00:03:06,621 Very soon, I'll be asking you that question. 70 00:03:06,621 --> 00:03:09,276 If you're gonna stay in the throuple you're in, 71 00:03:09,276 --> 00:03:13,454 or are you feeling like maybe it's time to swap? 72 00:03:13,454 --> 00:03:15,412 - Alright. - Enjoy. 73 00:03:15,412 --> 00:03:18,198 - Bye. - Y'all be good. 74 00:03:18,198 --> 00:03:19,199 See you later, Scott. 75 00:03:19,199 --> 00:03:20,591 - Let's cuddle! - Yay! 76 00:03:20,591 --> 00:03:22,811 Cuddle, puddle, tickle party. 77 00:03:22,811 --> 00:03:25,988 - Snuggles and cuddles with Mia. - Yay. 78 00:03:25,988 --> 00:03:27,816 [ Both laugh ] 79 00:03:27,816 --> 00:03:34,736 ♪ 80 00:03:34,736 --> 00:03:36,955 We said yay! [ Speaks indistinctly ] 81 00:03:36,955 --> 00:03:38,218 Great party. 82 00:03:38,218 --> 00:03:40,002 The Garden of Eden-- pretty fun place. 83 00:03:40,002 --> 00:03:42,483 - Can I feed both of you? - Ahh. 84 00:03:42,483 --> 00:03:45,137 This new couple could fit into the house really well. 85 00:03:45,137 --> 00:03:46,356 Since they're not going for a man, 86 00:03:46,356 --> 00:03:47,966 I think it will be smooth sailing, 87 00:03:47,966 --> 00:03:51,840 but I swear if they try, 88 00:03:51,840 --> 00:03:54,364 I will not be friendly. 89 00:03:56,714 --> 00:03:58,760 Hey. Hey. 90 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:01,328 I'm going bed tonight very excited to wake up. 91 00:04:01,328 --> 00:04:03,417 I really like meeting new people. 92 00:04:03,417 --> 00:04:05,114 I feel like we're gonna get along. 93 00:04:05,114 --> 00:04:06,333 I can't wait to get out 94 00:04:06,333 --> 00:04:09,205 of this fucking rose-bush costume. 95 00:04:09,205 --> 00:04:10,641 [ Laughing ] 96 00:04:12,948 --> 00:04:14,819 - Me too! - Me too! 97 00:04:14,819 --> 00:04:17,082 When I say you are literally the combination of us two... 98 00:04:17,082 --> 00:04:18,345 I love that. 99 00:04:18,345 --> 00:04:20,869 ...I can't get that any more accurate. 100 00:04:20,869 --> 00:04:23,306 Let us introduce you to our child. 101 00:04:23,306 --> 00:04:24,829 - This is our child. - This is alien. 102 00:04:24,829 --> 00:04:27,179 - What's their name? - Alien. 103 00:04:27,179 --> 00:04:29,269 Alien. I adopted. This is Ashley's. 104 00:04:29,269 --> 00:04:30,661 How many kids do you all want? 105 00:04:30,661 --> 00:04:33,708 - At least two. - If we have two... 106 00:04:33,708 --> 00:04:36,319 But we're open to, like, whether it's adopting 107 00:04:36,319 --> 00:04:39,061 or possible surrogate or natural, 108 00:04:39,061 --> 00:04:41,281 depending on you. 109 00:04:41,281 --> 00:04:42,847 How many kids would you have? 110 00:04:42,847 --> 00:04:44,893 Probably after the first one, I'm gonna be like, 111 00:04:44,893 --> 00:04:47,548 "Oh, my God, my body." - My number is eight. 112 00:04:50,681 --> 00:04:51,552 Wow. 113 00:04:51,552 --> 00:04:52,901 - [ Squeals ] - Oh, my gosh. 114 00:04:54,555 --> 00:04:56,252 I love this already. 115 00:04:56,252 --> 00:04:59,386 - Wow. - Oh, my God. 116 00:04:59,386 --> 00:05:01,779 This is literally a dream. 117 00:05:01,779 --> 00:05:24,324 ♪ 118 00:05:27,065 --> 00:05:28,502 [ Laughter ] 119 00:05:28,502 --> 00:05:33,376 I've never had, like, a 3-way kiss like that. 120 00:05:33,376 --> 00:05:35,378 - Junior got us. - Yes. 121 00:05:35,378 --> 00:05:36,988 It was delicious. 122 00:05:38,729 --> 00:05:41,689 Alright. 123 00:05:41,689 --> 00:05:44,561 They're 3-people beds, and it's like, 124 00:05:44,561 --> 00:05:50,001 you're, like, huge in, like, the most beautiful way. 125 00:05:50,001 --> 00:05:52,134 It was a gorgeous night. - It really was. 126 00:05:52,134 --> 00:05:53,309 Yeah. 127 00:05:53,309 --> 00:06:01,404 ♪ 128 00:06:01,404 --> 00:06:04,146 - Wakey, wakey. - Yeah. 129 00:06:04,146 --> 00:06:08,411 ♪ 130 00:06:08,411 --> 00:06:10,848 Good morning. 131 00:06:10,848 --> 00:06:12,720 [ Laughter ] 132 00:06:12,720 --> 00:06:14,896 How do you say tired in Spanish? 133 00:06:14,896 --> 00:06:16,158 Cansado. 134 00:06:16,158 --> 00:06:18,639 Oh, yo muy cansado. 135 00:06:18,639 --> 00:06:22,294 [ Moaning ] [ Screams ] 136 00:06:22,294 --> 00:06:24,340 [ Giggles ] Do you have a boner? 137 00:06:24,340 --> 00:06:27,038 He always has a boner. 138 00:06:27,038 --> 00:06:30,172 Man, what a mixer. 139 00:06:30,172 --> 00:06:31,652 That was so much fun. 140 00:06:31,652 --> 00:06:34,437 - We had a new couple here. - Oh, yeah. 141 00:06:34,437 --> 00:06:36,961 I'm excited to meet 'em today. 142 00:06:39,877 --> 00:06:41,401 Good morning. 143 00:06:41,401 --> 00:06:43,968 - Beautiful day. - Oh! 144 00:06:43,968 --> 00:06:45,840 - Hi, baby. - Oh. 145 00:06:45,840 --> 00:06:49,670 Good morning. 146 00:06:49,670 --> 00:06:51,976 Would you guys have rather been, like, 147 00:06:51,976 --> 00:06:54,414 the couple that comes in, makes an entrance 148 00:06:54,414 --> 00:06:56,590 or, like... I like the way we did it 149 00:06:56,590 --> 00:06:58,722 because we got to make these connections. 150 00:06:58,722 --> 00:07:00,158 I would rather be in with everybody. 151 00:07:00,158 --> 00:07:01,856 Yeah, I would rather be in with everybody. 152 00:07:01,856 --> 00:07:04,685 The Leo in me wants to be the couple that comes in 153 00:07:04,685 --> 00:07:05,686 with a huge splash. 154 00:07:05,686 --> 00:07:07,122 That's the Leo in me. 155 00:07:07,122 --> 00:07:09,907 Let me just assure you, you made a huge splash. 156 00:07:09,907 --> 00:07:12,997 You guys continue to splash every day. 157 00:07:12,997 --> 00:07:14,477 Hey! 158 00:07:14,477 --> 00:07:16,044 [ All exclaiming ] 159 00:07:16,044 --> 00:07:18,002 He fits in between them real nice. 160 00:07:18,002 --> 00:07:19,613 I really did have a good time with you all. 161 00:07:19,613 --> 00:07:21,397 This is the best way for us 162 00:07:21,397 --> 00:07:23,225 to do this for the first time, too. 163 00:07:23,225 --> 00:07:25,401 - I don't want you to go. - I know. 164 00:07:25,401 --> 00:07:28,230 You know what time it is. 165 00:07:28,230 --> 00:07:30,406 [ Gong sounds ] 166 00:07:30,406 --> 00:07:33,278 Oh, Junior! 167 00:07:33,278 --> 00:07:34,976 It's time to leave. 168 00:07:36,586 --> 00:07:38,501 - Hello. - Hello, hello. 169 00:07:38,501 --> 00:07:40,372 That was kind of mean. 170 00:07:40,372 --> 00:07:42,244 Hey, listen, the benefit of it, 171 00:07:42,244 --> 00:07:43,898 of this whole experience is there 172 00:07:43,898 --> 00:07:46,770 will be many more opportunities to connect deeper with Junior. 173 00:07:46,770 --> 00:07:48,816 So bear with me, alright? - Yeah, absolutely. 174 00:07:48,816 --> 00:07:51,079 Why don't you guys say goodbye for now? 175 00:07:51,079 --> 00:07:52,689 For now. 176 00:07:52,689 --> 00:07:54,517 Take care of each other, okay? 177 00:07:54,517 --> 00:07:57,215 - We will. - It's just ta-ta for now. 178 00:07:57,215 --> 00:07:58,521 It's just ta-ta for now. 179 00:07:58,521 --> 00:08:00,567 [ Speaks indistinctly ] 180 00:08:00,567 --> 00:08:02,220 - Bye. - Bye. 181 00:08:02,220 --> 00:08:04,658 Oh, it's okay, it's okay. 182 00:08:06,486 --> 00:08:08,531 What's up, everybody? 183 00:08:08,531 --> 00:08:10,490 - Hey! - Hi! 184 00:08:10,490 --> 00:08:13,710 Welcome, Ashley and Maximo. 185 00:08:13,710 --> 00:08:14,929 [ Cheers and applause ] 186 00:08:14,929 --> 00:08:16,583 How are you feeling this morning, 187 00:08:16,583 --> 00:08:18,498 waking up in Eden? 188 00:08:18,498 --> 00:08:20,630 - Cloud 9. Cloud 10. - Cloud 99. 189 00:08:20,630 --> 00:08:22,023 - Right? - Yeah. 190 00:08:22,023 --> 00:08:25,461 Very soon, there will be a stay or swap ceremony. 191 00:08:25,461 --> 00:08:26,854 Ashley and Maximo, for you, 192 00:08:26,854 --> 00:08:29,291 this will be a matching ceremony. 193 00:08:29,291 --> 00:08:32,555 But before that, I'm gonna offer you an invite 194 00:08:32,555 --> 00:08:34,992 to one unmatched single 195 00:08:34,992 --> 00:08:38,387 to have a beautiful date night here at the resort. 196 00:08:38,387 --> 00:08:40,911 - Okay. - Let's go. 197 00:08:43,523 --> 00:08:46,395 Maximum and Ashley are so cute. 198 00:08:46,395 --> 00:08:47,918 Ashley is definitely my type. 199 00:08:47,918 --> 00:08:52,444 I think she's adorable and Maximo is very mysterious 200 00:08:52,444 --> 00:08:54,142 but so compelling at the same time, 201 00:08:54,142 --> 00:08:56,666 so I'm excited to get to know them both more. 202 00:08:56,666 --> 00:09:00,322 The theme for your relationship session today is honesty. 203 00:09:00,322 --> 00:09:02,716 So you're gonna be heading down to the beach 204 00:09:02,716 --> 00:09:04,761 with Shamyra and I a little bit later, 205 00:09:04,761 --> 00:09:06,067 and we're gonna sweat. 206 00:09:06,067 --> 00:09:08,809 Do we get to bring our boyfriend? 207 00:09:11,420 --> 00:09:12,813 Yeah, he's gonna be there. 208 00:09:12,813 --> 00:09:15,337 - Oh! - Oh, yes. 209 00:09:15,337 --> 00:09:17,774 "Boyfriend"? Like, "Whoa. 210 00:09:17,774 --> 00:09:19,646 I don't really feel super comfortable 211 00:09:19,646 --> 00:09:21,778 with the word "boyfriend" in front of everyone, 212 00:09:21,778 --> 00:09:23,040 just because I just want 213 00:09:23,040 --> 00:09:25,347 to have that conversation with them first. 214 00:09:25,347 --> 00:09:28,655 The resort, once again, is yours. 215 00:09:28,655 --> 00:09:30,091 - Whoo! - Wow. 216 00:09:30,091 --> 00:09:32,746 Y'all be good. 217 00:09:32,746 --> 00:09:35,531 So are you guys excited for your new date tonight? 218 00:09:35,531 --> 00:09:36,663 Who are you guys thinking? 219 00:09:36,663 --> 00:09:38,186 I think this person, 220 00:09:38,186 --> 00:09:41,189 we didn't really get to know as much as we wanted to, 221 00:09:41,189 --> 00:09:43,626 and we're interested in getting to know more, 222 00:09:43,626 --> 00:09:45,280 so I mean, Becca. - Yeah. 223 00:09:45,280 --> 00:09:47,021 Ooh. 224 00:09:47,021 --> 00:09:49,197 We only got to talk for a few minutes. 225 00:09:49,197 --> 00:09:51,373 - Do you want to get in there? - Oh, yeah. Get in there. 226 00:09:51,373 --> 00:09:53,027 It's tight in there. 227 00:09:53,027 --> 00:09:55,420 There's definitely sparks there. 228 00:09:55,420 --> 00:09:57,858 We just didn't get to connect. 229 00:09:57,858 --> 00:09:59,686 - We all love Becca. - Yeah. 230 00:09:59,686 --> 00:10:00,948 Okay, cool. Okay, cool. 231 00:10:10,348 --> 00:10:12,786 If Becca comes back, 232 00:10:12,786 --> 00:10:15,789 I hope it doesn't make it weird or awkward, 233 00:10:15,789 --> 00:10:17,704 but it could go either way. 234 00:10:17,704 --> 00:10:21,055 [ Laughter ] 235 00:10:21,055 --> 00:10:24,014 They used the word "boyfriend." Like, that scares me. 236 00:10:24,014 --> 00:10:27,670 I have caught myself wanting more of a thrill. 237 00:10:27,670 --> 00:10:30,673 - My God! - My God! 238 00:10:30,673 --> 00:10:33,633 Do you want me to be your girlfriend? 239 00:10:39,116 --> 00:10:41,815 ♪ Can't get enough 240 00:10:41,815 --> 00:10:44,121 ♪ Get enough of your love, baby ♪ 241 00:10:44,121 --> 00:10:47,124 ♪ Putting out a vibe 242 00:10:47,124 --> 00:10:49,474 ♪ Can't get enough - Scott mentioned this morning 243 00:10:49,474 --> 00:10:50,998 that there's another stay or swap ceremony. 244 00:10:50,998 --> 00:10:52,477 - Yeah. - I don't-- I know 245 00:10:52,477 --> 00:10:54,436 for a fact I don't want to swap out Jonathan. 246 00:10:54,436 --> 00:10:55,916 Right? - Mm-hmm. 247 00:10:55,916 --> 00:10:57,831 I know I feel really good about Jonathan. 248 00:10:57,831 --> 00:10:59,484 Yeah. Me too. 249 00:10:59,484 --> 00:11:01,835 We love talking to everyone, getting to know everyone. 250 00:11:01,835 --> 00:11:03,445 But our heads are with Jonathan. 251 00:11:03,445 --> 00:11:06,187 Yeah, I'm just like, "Where's my baby Jonathan at?" 252 00:11:06,187 --> 00:11:09,016 Like, "What is Jonathan doing? Who is Jonathan talking to?" 253 00:11:09,016 --> 00:11:10,452 And I think that says something 254 00:11:10,452 --> 00:11:12,280 about how we're all feeling about each other. 255 00:11:12,280 --> 00:11:13,977 My heart. 256 00:11:13,977 --> 00:11:16,676 There's a sloth here. 257 00:11:16,676 --> 00:11:18,112 Where? Where's the sloth? 258 00:11:18,112 --> 00:11:20,070 - No, wait. No. - Oh! 259 00:11:20,070 --> 00:11:21,550 Right here. Literally in there. In between. 260 00:11:21,550 --> 00:11:25,206 - Oh, my God, how cute is that? - Yeah. 261 00:11:26,598 --> 00:11:28,513 Tell me more about you guys. Like, what do you guys do? 262 00:11:28,513 --> 00:11:31,473 Yeah, I'm a dancer and a photographer, 263 00:11:31,473 --> 00:11:33,214 all-around creative and performer. 264 00:11:33,214 --> 00:11:35,695 Moved to New York about five years ago. 265 00:11:35,695 --> 00:11:37,044 Originally from Florida. 266 00:11:37,044 --> 00:11:39,176 Came out the closet when I was, like, 20. 267 00:11:39,176 --> 00:11:41,135 We just moved in together about a... 268 00:11:41,135 --> 00:11:42,179 - A month ago. - ...a month ago. 269 00:11:42,179 --> 00:11:44,051 - Wow. - Congrats! 270 00:11:44,051 --> 00:11:45,879 And then y'all said, "Baby, we're going to paradise." 271 00:11:45,879 --> 00:11:48,055 [ Laughter ] 272 00:11:48,055 --> 00:11:51,798 We currently consider ourselves monogamish, 273 00:11:51,798 --> 00:11:55,715 which means we are each other's primary partners. 274 00:11:55,715 --> 00:11:58,021 My pronouns are he, she or they. 275 00:11:58,021 --> 00:12:00,023 It's just all about respect. 276 00:12:00,023 --> 00:12:01,808 Yeah. You can-- You can call me any pronouns. 277 00:12:01,808 --> 00:12:03,374 It don't really matter. 278 00:12:03,374 --> 00:12:06,377 We've always pursued other people separately, 279 00:12:06,377 --> 00:12:09,641 but now we're ready to see what the emotional intimacy 280 00:12:09,641 --> 00:12:11,165 outside of just us looks like 281 00:12:11,165 --> 00:12:13,254 when we can pursue others together. 282 00:12:13,254 --> 00:12:15,212 I mean, we're both non-binary, 283 00:12:15,212 --> 00:12:17,562 and I mean, just talking about sex is like, 284 00:12:17,562 --> 00:12:20,827 I've never bottomed before anybody except for her. 285 00:12:20,827 --> 00:12:22,350 Wow. 286 00:12:22,350 --> 00:12:24,221 So she took that virginity from me. 287 00:12:24,221 --> 00:12:25,788 With that strap-on. 288 00:12:25,788 --> 00:12:28,182 Yeah. No, I'm, like, super feminine and, like, 289 00:12:28,182 --> 00:12:29,792 I'm, like, out here and whatever, 290 00:12:29,792 --> 00:12:31,272 but I'm like... - Literally, yeah. 291 00:12:31,272 --> 00:12:33,274 But, like, I also am such a top, too, 292 00:12:33,274 --> 00:12:35,102 sometimes, you know, I have that energy. 293 00:12:35,102 --> 00:12:36,538 When you guys first came in, 294 00:12:36,538 --> 00:12:38,453 I definitely can sense your feminine energy. 295 00:12:38,453 --> 00:12:40,672 But then when I spoke to you, I was like, "Shit. 296 00:12:40,672 --> 00:12:42,239 His masculine side came through as well." 297 00:12:42,239 --> 00:12:43,850 And I was like, "That's dope as hell, you know?" 298 00:12:43,850 --> 00:12:45,199 That's so dope to hear. 299 00:12:45,199 --> 00:12:46,766 And it was cool that, like, you had both 300 00:12:46,766 --> 00:12:48,942 and they both shined equally. And I was like... 301 00:12:48,942 --> 00:12:50,857 I love that you could catch that. 302 00:12:50,857 --> 00:12:52,423 That's so affirming. Thank you. 303 00:12:52,423 --> 00:12:54,338 I've never met somebody that was, like, non-binary. 304 00:12:54,338 --> 00:12:56,601 And I think that's so dope. So that's cool to, like, 305 00:12:56,601 --> 00:12:58,908 get into his mind and the way that he thinks. 306 00:12:58,908 --> 00:13:01,345 - i feel seen. - Yeah. 307 00:13:01,345 --> 00:13:03,652 - That's amazing. - That's great. 308 00:13:05,741 --> 00:13:07,395 Yeah, obviously, you know, me and the guys 309 00:13:07,395 --> 00:13:09,092 have been really good. - I'm so happy for you guys. 310 00:13:09,092 --> 00:13:10,702 Even so, it has been so good. 311 00:13:10,702 --> 00:13:13,270 Like, I want to keep riding what we're doing... 312 00:13:13,270 --> 00:13:15,490 - Of course. - ...and just keep embracing 313 00:13:15,490 --> 00:13:17,144 that we're finally at a good place. 314 00:13:17,144 --> 00:13:19,581 But it's also okay to be honest about how you feel. 315 00:13:19,581 --> 00:13:22,410 But it does scare me that they quickly 316 00:13:22,410 --> 00:13:24,281 used the word "boyfriend." 317 00:13:24,281 --> 00:13:25,674 Like, that scares me, 318 00:13:25,674 --> 00:13:28,242 and that's a lot for me. I mean, I don't know, 319 00:13:28,242 --> 00:13:30,853 I mean, I don't know where you're at with... 320 00:13:30,853 --> 00:13:32,376 Titles do kind of scare me 321 00:13:32,376 --> 00:13:33,900 because then I feel a little bit more pressure. 322 00:13:33,900 --> 00:13:35,815 That's just how it actually feels like my pressure. 323 00:13:35,815 --> 00:13:37,381 Like, "Oh, my God. Whoa. 324 00:13:37,381 --> 00:13:39,340 I need to breathe, like, a little overwhelmed." 325 00:13:39,340 --> 00:13:42,647 And that's me right now, too, because everyone has seen the... 326 00:13:42,647 --> 00:13:44,824 the big change. - Yeah, we've all seen it. 327 00:13:44,824 --> 00:13:46,086 Yeah. With me and the guys. 328 00:13:46,086 --> 00:13:48,218 And again I'm enjoying it, I love it. 329 00:13:48,218 --> 00:13:50,394 Like I said, I actually feel like I'm dating them. 330 00:13:50,394 --> 00:13:53,745 But that doesn't mean that we're officially boyfriends. 331 00:13:53,745 --> 00:13:55,051 - It's a lot. - Yeah. 332 00:13:55,051 --> 00:13:56,183 And you feel maybe, like, 333 00:13:56,183 --> 00:13:57,749 a little bit of pressure, you know? 334 00:13:57,749 --> 00:14:00,317 I do feel for Jonathan because I know what it's like 335 00:14:00,317 --> 00:14:02,580 when Ash and Rehman-- they had a rough patch. 336 00:14:02,580 --> 00:14:05,627 Things can start great and then end up the complete opposite. 337 00:14:05,627 --> 00:14:07,150 You just never know. 338 00:14:07,150 --> 00:14:08,717 So I totally understand where Jonathan is coming from, 339 00:14:08,717 --> 00:14:11,763 where it's like, "I don't want to make that commitment." 340 00:14:11,763 --> 00:14:13,287 You do that side. I'll do this side. 341 00:14:13,287 --> 00:14:14,984 - Mm-hmm. - Right? So... 342 00:14:14,984 --> 00:14:17,421 Alright. Cool, cool. 343 00:14:17,421 --> 00:14:28,737 ♪ 344 00:14:28,737 --> 00:14:31,783 You guys, I love that the new couple loves Becca. 345 00:14:31,783 --> 00:14:34,743 Yeah, I think she's definitely gonna come into the house. 346 00:14:34,743 --> 00:14:36,266 You think so? 347 00:14:36,266 --> 00:14:38,312 I mean, everyone loves Becca. 348 00:14:44,144 --> 00:14:47,712 So you guys called me your boyfriend? 349 00:14:47,712 --> 00:14:49,627 Like, my heart was racing when you guys said boyfriend. 350 00:14:49,627 --> 00:14:52,369 And I was like, "Wait." - Mm-hmm. 351 00:14:52,369 --> 00:14:53,893 It was just a little scary hearing it. 352 00:14:53,893 --> 00:14:55,198 Yeah. 353 00:14:55,198 --> 00:14:57,592 I think it's more of like if we're doing it-- 354 00:14:57,592 --> 00:14:59,724 if we're doing it in terms of the experiment, yeah, 355 00:14:59,724 --> 00:15:02,205 I think you're our boyfriend in this experiment, for sure. 356 00:15:02,205 --> 00:15:05,556 You know? Like, I don't see anyone else. 357 00:15:05,556 --> 00:15:09,778 But you guys know that word-- that word obviously scares me. 358 00:15:09,778 --> 00:15:12,563 Like, at least-- at least right now. 359 00:15:12,563 --> 00:15:14,565 - Yeah, yeah, yeah. - You know what I mean? 360 00:15:14,565 --> 00:15:17,220 We really want to move forward 361 00:15:17,220 --> 00:15:19,570 with a relationship with him and I am worrying 362 00:15:19,570 --> 00:15:22,269 he doesn't feel like he's ready to go at the pace 363 00:15:22,269 --> 00:15:24,836 that maybe we want him to go at. 364 00:15:30,146 --> 00:15:31,843 My tattoo? 365 00:15:31,843 --> 00:15:33,236 She's gonna see it now. 366 00:15:33,236 --> 00:15:34,411 Oh, she-- she hasn't seen it yet? 367 00:15:34,411 --> 00:15:36,022 She hasn't seen any of my tattoos. 368 00:15:36,022 --> 00:15:38,067 No way. 369 00:15:38,067 --> 00:15:39,329 Like, I'm the type of person, 370 00:15:39,329 --> 00:15:41,766 like, if I want to bring who I'm dating, 371 00:15:41,766 --> 00:15:44,987 which was my ex-boyfriend at the time, around-- 372 00:15:44,987 --> 00:15:46,728 Christmas parties, New Year's-- 373 00:15:46,728 --> 00:15:48,382 if my parents or anyone in my family 374 00:15:48,382 --> 00:15:50,688 were in a party and they want me there, 375 00:15:50,688 --> 00:15:52,647 you guys have to accept who I'm bringing. 376 00:15:52,647 --> 00:15:54,692 In some ways, like, you are, like, 377 00:15:54,692 --> 00:15:58,305 way further ahead than me how you can-- 378 00:15:58,305 --> 00:16:00,960 Even though, you know, it's like certain awkward 379 00:16:00,960 --> 00:16:02,962 or tough situations, you still put yourself through it 380 00:16:02,962 --> 00:16:04,572 because you're like, "This is my boundary." 381 00:16:04,572 --> 00:16:06,661 And that's, like, I'm not there yet. 382 00:16:06,661 --> 00:16:09,098 And I mean, that's something I can learn from you 383 00:16:09,098 --> 00:16:10,752 is, like... 384 00:16:10,752 --> 00:16:14,625 I've always just kind of chosen the easier route with it. 385 00:16:14,625 --> 00:16:16,976 So you've never brought, like, Rehman 386 00:16:16,976 --> 00:16:18,194 to, like, a family party or... 387 00:16:18,194 --> 00:16:19,848 I brought him to, like, my birthday 388 00:16:19,848 --> 00:16:22,851 when my parents came to Michigan to, like, celebrate my birthday. 389 00:16:22,851 --> 00:16:25,288 But, like, I've never, like, brought him back to Georgia 390 00:16:25,288 --> 00:16:27,725 for, like, a family wedding or anything. 391 00:16:27,725 --> 00:16:31,077 I would want to bring who I'm dating around, you know, 392 00:16:31,077 --> 00:16:33,296 and, like, they would just have to be okay with it 393 00:16:33,296 --> 00:16:35,559 or I would not come. 394 00:16:35,559 --> 00:16:39,389 But, yeah, I think it would even be tougher 395 00:16:39,389 --> 00:16:42,697 for my mom seeing two guys. 396 00:16:45,004 --> 00:16:48,703 Something that is very serious to Ashmal, which is his family, 397 00:16:48,703 --> 00:16:51,662 is something that he hasn't been able to share with me. 398 00:16:51,662 --> 00:16:54,926 And I think Ashmal opening up and sharing with Jonathan 399 00:16:54,926 --> 00:16:58,495 is starting to bring some of those deeper insecurities 400 00:16:58,495 --> 00:17:00,932 out of me that don't even have anything to do 401 00:17:00,932 --> 00:17:02,325 with us being in a throuple, 402 00:17:02,325 --> 00:17:05,241 or us bringing Jonathan into our relationship. 403 00:17:11,204 --> 00:17:13,336 ♪ If you really think you're ready ♪ 404 00:17:13,336 --> 00:17:15,599 ♪ Baby, come and get it 405 00:17:15,599 --> 00:17:17,079 ♪ If you really think you're ready ♪ 406 00:17:17,079 --> 00:17:19,647 ♪ Come and get it, come and get it ♪ 407 00:17:19,647 --> 00:17:22,780 Alright, Becca, I'm getting all this effort right now. 408 00:17:22,780 --> 00:17:24,739 Mm-hmm. 409 00:17:24,739 --> 00:17:27,394 Blow us out the water, please. 410 00:17:27,394 --> 00:17:31,006 I mean, Junior set a very high bar. 411 00:17:31,006 --> 00:17:32,399 Mm-hmm. 412 00:17:34,401 --> 00:17:35,576 Oh, my God. 413 00:17:35,576 --> 00:17:37,143 Feels like a 100-pound dumbbell. 414 00:17:37,143 --> 00:17:40,102 - Hey, I'm a smart bell. - I know. You're a smart bell. 415 00:17:40,102 --> 00:17:42,539 Scott said we were gonna be doing a challenge today. 416 00:17:42,539 --> 00:17:45,455 And he said... -"Get ready to sweat." 417 00:17:45,455 --> 00:17:46,891 Get ready to sweat. 418 00:17:46,891 --> 00:17:49,372 Honestly, I have no clue what we're gonna be doing. 419 00:17:49,372 --> 00:17:52,419 - Hot yoga. - Ooh, I like hot yoga. 420 00:17:52,419 --> 00:17:55,335 Same. 421 00:17:55,335 --> 00:17:56,640 I'm excited. 422 00:17:56,640 --> 00:18:00,122 as long as it doesn't involve like... 423 00:18:00,122 --> 00:18:03,082 emotions are crying or something. 424 00:18:03,082 --> 00:18:08,261 ♪ 425 00:18:08,261 --> 00:18:10,437 - Well, hello. - Hello, hello. 426 00:18:10,437 --> 00:18:11,742 Alright. Throuples on the beach. 427 00:18:11,742 --> 00:18:14,397 Good to see you, throuples. Hey. 428 00:18:14,397 --> 00:18:15,746 Hey. - You all look so nervous. 429 00:18:15,746 --> 00:18:18,445 Y'all look so nervous. 430 00:18:20,621 --> 00:18:22,101 Alright, throuples. As you can see, 431 00:18:22,101 --> 00:18:27,149 we're here on the beach, and here is a sweat lodge. 432 00:18:29,369 --> 00:18:34,243 So within the lodge, heat is generated by hot stones. 433 00:18:34,243 --> 00:18:35,897 The intense heat is meant 434 00:18:35,897 --> 00:18:40,162 to encourage the capacity for truth-telling. 435 00:18:41,598 --> 00:18:43,122 [ Chuckles nervously ] 436 00:18:43,122 --> 00:18:47,126 Tonight's relationship session is all about honesty. 437 00:18:47,126 --> 00:18:48,649 Ohh. 438 00:18:48,649 --> 00:18:50,825 So the best way to build trust and connection 439 00:18:50,825 --> 00:18:54,872 in polyamorous relationship is by telling the truth. 440 00:18:55,917 --> 00:18:58,180 Okay, now I'm feeling anxious and nervous. 441 00:18:58,180 --> 00:19:00,748 Sometimes I don't really know if being 100% honest 442 00:19:00,748 --> 00:19:02,228 is the right thing to do. 443 00:19:02,228 --> 00:19:05,056 Y'all know I always have a twist. 444 00:19:05,056 --> 00:19:06,188 Always. 445 00:19:06,188 --> 00:19:09,148 So tonight we're giving the opportunity 446 00:19:09,148 --> 00:19:12,194 for the singles 447 00:19:12,194 --> 00:19:16,807 to ask questions to their couple to find out the truth they need 448 00:19:16,807 --> 00:19:20,594 to build a relationship with the couple. 449 00:19:20,594 --> 00:19:22,813 I am mind-blown. 450 00:19:22,813 --> 00:19:25,990 Now, not anybody can run a sweat lodge, 451 00:19:25,990 --> 00:19:28,819 so we brought one of the very best to do it. 452 00:19:28,819 --> 00:19:30,995 Our medicine woman, Marta. 453 00:19:30,995 --> 00:19:33,433 Hi. How are you? 454 00:19:33,433 --> 00:19:35,304 - Are you ready? - Hello. 455 00:19:35,304 --> 00:19:37,219 Alright. Ready to start? 456 00:19:37,219 --> 00:19:42,485 ♪ 457 00:19:42,485 --> 00:19:45,706 - I'm excited now. - Me too. 458 00:19:47,490 --> 00:19:49,666 - Hello. - [ Gasps ] 459 00:19:49,666 --> 00:19:53,061 - Oh, my God. - Oh, my God. 460 00:19:53,061 --> 00:19:55,368 - Speechless. - Just gagged. 461 00:19:55,368 --> 00:19:57,587 Gagged, gooped and gagged. 462 00:19:57,587 --> 00:19:59,850 - I had to bring it for you guys. - Oh, my God. 463 00:19:59,850 --> 00:20:03,506 - Come on. - You are drop-dead gorgeous. 464 00:20:03,506 --> 00:20:04,942 Hi. - Thank you. 465 00:20:04,942 --> 00:20:07,945 - Becca did not come to play. - No. 466 00:20:07,945 --> 00:20:09,817 Well, let's do a little toast. 467 00:20:09,817 --> 00:20:11,819 We're on this beautiful date just for us. 468 00:20:11,819 --> 00:20:14,474 I know. This is so romantic. 469 00:20:14,474 --> 00:20:16,476 Cheers. 470 00:20:16,476 --> 00:20:19,043 - Cheers to having me. - Mmm. 471 00:20:20,306 --> 00:20:21,698 We actually are curious. 472 00:20:21,698 --> 00:20:24,266 What is your life like outside of this paradise? 473 00:20:24,266 --> 00:20:25,746 I'm from Canada. 474 00:20:25,746 --> 00:20:28,052 I'm from, like, a small, cold town in Canada. 475 00:20:28,052 --> 00:20:29,880 Calgary? 476 00:20:29,880 --> 00:20:31,839 - Yes. - Okay. 477 00:20:31,839 --> 00:20:34,537 When did you, like, officially come out? 478 00:20:34,537 --> 00:20:36,931 - When I was, like, 21. - Oh, shit. Okay. 479 00:20:36,931 --> 00:20:39,020 - Yeah, I came out as bi. - Yeah. 480 00:20:39,020 --> 00:20:40,891 And then I came out as pansexual. 481 00:20:40,891 --> 00:20:43,764 Like, I guess I started to more understand my sexuality. 482 00:20:43,764 --> 00:20:45,592 Yeah, I did the exact same thing. 483 00:20:45,592 --> 00:20:47,724 But my whole life. I feel like I, you know, 484 00:20:47,724 --> 00:20:51,206 I always knew that I was attracted to everyone. 485 00:20:51,206 --> 00:20:54,775 You were saying that you were identifying more as bi than pan? 486 00:20:54,775 --> 00:20:56,994 No, I'm definitely more pan. Yeah. 487 00:20:56,994 --> 00:20:59,780 All I need is if you're funny, if you have nice eyes, 488 00:20:59,780 --> 00:21:02,739 nice teeth. That's it. - Oh, wow. 489 00:21:02,739 --> 00:21:04,175 Nice teeth is a big one for me, too. 490 00:21:04,175 --> 00:21:05,829 - We say that all the time. - Seriously. 491 00:21:05,829 --> 00:21:09,006 We were all on the same wavelength, 492 00:21:09,006 --> 00:21:10,573 like so... - In sync. 493 00:21:10,573 --> 00:21:12,314 ...in sync. 494 00:21:12,314 --> 00:21:14,577 Have you ever been into non-monogamy? 495 00:21:14,577 --> 00:21:16,623 - I have, I'm very into it. - What? 496 00:21:16,623 --> 00:21:19,103 - Oh, wow. - So you've got to teach us then. 497 00:21:19,103 --> 00:21:21,889 - Are you guys new? - This is our first. 498 00:21:21,889 --> 00:21:23,282 - Date. You're our first date. - Date. 499 00:21:23,282 --> 00:21:25,240 You're our first date with someone. 500 00:21:25,240 --> 00:21:26,937 - Stop. I feel so lucky. - No, really. 501 00:21:26,937 --> 00:21:29,288 This is not your first rodeo. - No. 502 00:21:29,288 --> 00:21:32,639 But what made you really get interested to try? 503 00:21:32,639 --> 00:21:34,118 Was it a person? - No. 504 00:21:34,118 --> 00:21:36,860 It was the fact that I kept getting cheated on. 505 00:21:36,860 --> 00:21:39,950 And I wasn't mad that they were dating other people. 506 00:21:39,950 --> 00:21:41,691 - Because they were lying. - They were lying to me. 507 00:21:41,691 --> 00:21:43,389 That was the biggest fucking issue. 508 00:21:43,389 --> 00:21:45,521 And I was like, it's a lack of honesty, 509 00:21:45,521 --> 00:21:46,914 it's a lack of communication. 510 00:21:46,914 --> 00:21:48,350 So I was like, "Fuck it, why don't I try 511 00:21:48,350 --> 00:21:51,658 an open a relationship?" Worked out so much better. 512 00:21:51,658 --> 00:21:54,443 You're a gem. What the fuck? 513 00:21:54,443 --> 00:21:57,141 Just the more I get to learn about Becca, 514 00:21:57,141 --> 00:22:00,841 the more I'm like, "Damn, how lucky are we?" 515 00:22:00,841 --> 00:22:02,495 Like, "Whoo." 516 00:22:02,495 --> 00:22:04,584 Whoo. She brought it. - Right. 517 00:22:04,584 --> 00:22:13,375 ♪ 518 00:22:13,375 --> 00:22:16,335 You repeat after from me. 519 00:22:16,335 --> 00:22:18,162 Ahhh... 520 00:22:18,162 --> 00:22:22,166 All: Ahhh... 521 00:22:22,166 --> 00:22:29,304 Ehhhh... 522 00:22:29,304 --> 00:22:38,226 ♪ 523 00:22:38,226 --> 00:22:40,010 Breathe in slowly. 524 00:22:40,010 --> 00:22:42,361 Start conversation. 525 00:22:42,361 --> 00:22:45,102 Alright. So I'm gonna ask you guys, 526 00:22:45,102 --> 00:22:48,671 what is it about me that you guys find the most attractive? 527 00:22:48,671 --> 00:22:52,327 Your ease, how you are kind of really easy to talk to. 528 00:22:52,327 --> 00:22:54,982 I think it's your ease in conversation. 529 00:22:54,982 --> 00:22:58,812 It's your ease in just the way you go about life. 530 00:22:58,812 --> 00:23:01,118 And I can just tell from speaking to you 531 00:23:01,118 --> 00:23:03,991 that you, deep down, have, like, a really good heart. 532 00:23:03,991 --> 00:23:07,124 And that's something that I really like about you. 533 00:23:09,039 --> 00:23:12,173 Is there something that I bring to this throuple 534 00:23:12,173 --> 00:23:17,178 that you have a difficult time with? 535 00:23:17,178 --> 00:23:20,311 Yes. [ Laughs ] 536 00:23:20,311 --> 00:23:23,445 So quick. Okay. 537 00:23:23,445 --> 00:23:26,579 Not, I think, not in the way that you think. I... 538 00:23:26,579 --> 00:23:31,714 You bring a level of, like, passion 539 00:23:31,714 --> 00:23:33,063 and, like, sexuality 540 00:23:33,063 --> 00:23:37,241 that sometimes I feel like I don't have. 541 00:23:37,241 --> 00:23:40,593 The difficulty is not something that's negative about you. 542 00:23:40,593 --> 00:23:46,033 It's more of for me because I'm dealing with some other, 543 00:23:46,033 --> 00:23:51,430 like, feelings of, like, lacking and lacking in confidence. 544 00:23:52,822 --> 00:23:55,042 Corey is nervous and unsure, 545 00:23:55,042 --> 00:23:57,871 and she's kind of trying to melt away her own layers, 546 00:23:57,871 --> 00:23:59,612 but she's the one I want to feel 547 00:23:59,612 --> 00:24:03,442 like she can be herself with me, and she can be sexy with me, 548 00:24:03,442 --> 00:24:07,184 and she can remove her mask and just feel good. 549 00:24:07,184 --> 00:24:12,059 ♪ 550 00:24:12,059 --> 00:24:14,496 How would you feel if I were to kiss somebody else 551 00:24:14,496 --> 00:24:16,324 at the resort? 552 00:24:18,282 --> 00:24:20,023 Me, personally, I wouldn't like it. 553 00:24:20,023 --> 00:24:22,939 Yeah, I wouldn't like it. Yeah. 554 00:24:22,939 --> 00:24:24,985 And I don't see that as a bad thing. 555 00:24:24,985 --> 00:24:26,290 I see that as a good thing. 556 00:24:26,290 --> 00:24:28,423 Being that we feel that way about you. 557 00:24:28,423 --> 00:24:31,948 It would be weird almost if I didn't feel that way. 558 00:24:31,948 --> 00:24:34,342 I feel like if I didn't feel the way 559 00:24:34,342 --> 00:24:37,432 it was because I wasn't as interested in you... 560 00:24:37,432 --> 00:24:39,347 - Yeah. - ...as I actually am. 561 00:24:39,347 --> 00:24:43,786 - Yeah. - I am a little bit disappointed 562 00:24:43,786 --> 00:24:45,658 just because being in a poly dynamic, 563 00:24:45,658 --> 00:24:47,529 I want to at least be able to have the freedom 564 00:24:47,529 --> 00:24:50,532 to receive affection 565 00:24:50,532 --> 00:24:53,143 in the form of kisses if I wanted to. 566 00:24:54,710 --> 00:24:57,887 How soon do you expect 567 00:24:57,887 --> 00:25:00,411 to develop a sexual connection? 568 00:25:00,411 --> 00:25:05,678 ♪ 569 00:25:05,678 --> 00:25:08,811 Honestly... 570 00:25:08,811 --> 00:25:13,163 we do like physical touch and that physical connection, 571 00:25:13,163 --> 00:25:15,339 and we just want to make sure we do so 572 00:25:15,339 --> 00:25:20,127 in a very respectful manner because we want this to work. 573 00:25:20,127 --> 00:25:23,652 I have caught myself kind of wanting more of a-- 574 00:25:23,652 --> 00:25:26,263 like a thrill, 575 00:25:26,263 --> 00:25:27,917 but I've even caught myself even now, 576 00:25:27,917 --> 00:25:29,745 just, like, maybe wanting a little bit more. 577 00:25:29,745 --> 00:25:32,182 But I would hate to disrespect boundaries 578 00:25:32,182 --> 00:25:35,664 because the boundaries is the biggest thing. 579 00:25:35,664 --> 00:25:37,013 We haven't kissed yet. 580 00:25:37,013 --> 00:25:38,537 We're not expecting anything more than that, 581 00:25:38,537 --> 00:25:40,321 but that's just something that we're ready for. 582 00:25:40,321 --> 00:25:42,453 We just kind of let her know, like, "We're ready, 583 00:25:42,453 --> 00:25:45,108 but we'll wait on you, so the ball's in your court. 584 00:25:45,108 --> 00:25:46,632 - Yeah. - I love that. 585 00:25:46,632 --> 00:25:49,373 That was beautiful. This is beautiful. 586 00:25:49,373 --> 00:25:52,551 - This is beautiful. - This is beautiful. 587 00:25:52,551 --> 00:25:53,769 It's so beautiful. 588 00:25:53,769 --> 00:25:59,862 ♪ 589 00:25:59,862 --> 00:26:01,560 What is your guys' history? 590 00:26:01,560 --> 00:26:02,996 We started, like, very much like, 591 00:26:02,996 --> 00:26:05,259 "Let's create our own rules." - Okay. 592 00:26:05,259 --> 00:26:06,608 That felt comfortable. 593 00:26:06,608 --> 00:26:09,002 How many D.A.s can you have a week? 594 00:26:09,002 --> 00:26:10,873 D.A.s are just, like, hookups. 595 00:26:10,873 --> 00:26:12,919 It's, like, short for dick appointments. 596 00:26:12,919 --> 00:26:14,529 It's a familiar term. Yeah. 597 00:26:14,529 --> 00:26:18,228 D.A. can also be for a vagina or a dick. 598 00:26:18,228 --> 00:26:20,274 So it could be a V.A., but it's always just a D.A. 599 00:26:20,274 --> 00:26:23,364 Every day, every month, it kind of, like, fluctuated. 600 00:26:23,364 --> 00:26:25,584 "What are you comfortable with? What do you want to do?" 601 00:26:25,584 --> 00:26:29,457 At first it used to be, "You can only be with the same sex." 602 00:26:29,457 --> 00:26:31,981 But I did not know what it's like for girls 603 00:26:31,981 --> 00:26:33,504 to hook up with girls. - We got to, like, 604 00:26:33,504 --> 00:26:36,769 get to know the person before we get intimate, usually. 605 00:26:36,769 --> 00:26:40,686 And me, I'm just like, "You know, gloryhole, whatever." 606 00:26:40,686 --> 00:26:42,122 Literally. 607 00:26:42,122 --> 00:26:45,604 I was very much coming into my queerness, 608 00:26:45,604 --> 00:26:48,084 coming into my pansexuality. - Amazing. 609 00:26:48,084 --> 00:26:49,999 And, you know, sometimes your girl 610 00:26:49,999 --> 00:26:51,435 want to suck a dick. Sometimes-- 611 00:26:51,435 --> 00:26:53,220 Honestly, as long as we can watch. 612 00:26:53,220 --> 00:26:55,657 That's what I said! 613 00:26:55,657 --> 00:26:57,354 Like, as long as you do it properly, 614 00:26:57,354 --> 00:26:59,530 I don't care whose dick you're sucking. 615 00:26:59,530 --> 00:27:01,097 You're so cute! 616 00:27:01,097 --> 00:27:06,842 ♪ 617 00:27:06,842 --> 00:27:09,279 Do you think that we have more 618 00:27:09,279 --> 00:27:11,281 of an emotional connection 619 00:27:11,281 --> 00:27:13,240 rather than a physical connection? 620 00:27:13,240 --> 00:27:16,547 And then, Rehman, do you feel like we have more 621 00:27:16,547 --> 00:27:20,464 of a physical connection rather than an emotional connection? 622 00:27:20,464 --> 00:27:22,771 I think we have more of an emotional connection 623 00:27:22,771 --> 00:27:25,208 than a physical connection. 624 00:27:25,208 --> 00:27:27,646 Even talking to you from day one and to now, 625 00:27:27,646 --> 00:27:32,346 I think that emotional connection has grown so much. 626 00:27:33,826 --> 00:27:37,394 I think that we also have more of an emotional connection. 627 00:27:37,394 --> 00:27:40,789 I feel like sometimes without even speaking words like, 628 00:27:40,789 --> 00:27:44,314 I see you looking into my eyes and I look back into your eyes 629 00:27:44,314 --> 00:27:47,404 and you can just tell that there is something there 630 00:27:47,404 --> 00:27:49,537 and that we really just understand each other. 631 00:27:49,537 --> 00:27:51,582 And I think we do have a physical connection, 632 00:27:51,582 --> 00:27:53,541 but I just feel like that emotional connection 633 00:27:53,541 --> 00:27:57,719 is just so much stronger than the physical side. 634 00:27:57,719 --> 00:28:00,722 I feel like emotionally, I'm there with Ashmal. 635 00:28:00,722 --> 00:28:02,376 So physically, I feel like I'm there-- 636 00:28:02,376 --> 00:28:03,943 I'm there with you for sure. 637 00:28:03,943 --> 00:28:08,425 But I do feel like emotionally, I am stronger with Ashmal. 638 00:28:09,383 --> 00:28:10,340 And it's just-- it's just sometimes 639 00:28:10,340 --> 00:28:12,299 a little harder to read you. 640 00:28:12,299 --> 00:28:14,997 And, like, I need Rehman to understand 641 00:28:14,997 --> 00:28:16,651 that I do see something here, 642 00:28:16,651 --> 00:28:18,740 you know, potentially I can actually see something with him, 643 00:28:18,740 --> 00:28:20,350 but they come as a package. 644 00:28:20,350 --> 00:28:22,004 So if I'm only seeing something emotionally with Ashmal 645 00:28:22,004 --> 00:28:23,571 and I can't get there with Rehman, 646 00:28:23,571 --> 00:28:26,879 I'm not gonna be able to proceed in a throuple. 647 00:28:26,879 --> 00:28:28,881 I want to be able to, like, balance you both out 648 00:28:28,881 --> 00:28:31,187 because I am dating you both. 649 00:28:31,187 --> 00:28:33,668 At the end of the day, if he doesn't feel 650 00:28:33,668 --> 00:28:35,888 as strong of an emotional connection with me 651 00:28:35,888 --> 00:28:37,367 as he does Ashmal, 652 00:28:37,367 --> 00:28:39,326 well, Jonathan, what are you doing to fix that? 653 00:28:39,326 --> 00:28:42,198 What are you doing to kind of make me feel 654 00:28:42,198 --> 00:28:43,765 like I can share my emotions with you? 655 00:28:43,765 --> 00:28:46,289 Because right now, I don't feel like that's the case. 656 00:28:54,167 --> 00:28:56,343 I would love to know what interested you 657 00:28:56,343 --> 00:28:57,866 and even trying this. 658 00:28:57,866 --> 00:28:59,955 What would you like to get out of this experiment? 659 00:28:59,955 --> 00:29:03,132 I would love to actually come out of this with a relationship. 660 00:29:03,132 --> 00:29:04,307 - Really? - Yeah. 661 00:29:04,307 --> 00:29:06,222 What are you guys looking for? 662 00:29:06,222 --> 00:29:10,096 Honestly, like, coming into this, we are just-- 663 00:29:10,096 --> 00:29:11,880 We have just been open to, like, 664 00:29:11,880 --> 00:29:14,317 one, trying non-monogamy together 665 00:29:14,317 --> 00:29:15,797 because we've been non-monogamous 666 00:29:15,797 --> 00:29:18,495 but always separate. We've never had a threesome. 667 00:29:18,495 --> 00:29:19,975 We've never dated anyone together. 668 00:29:19,975 --> 00:29:22,238 - Wild. - We've never flirted together. 669 00:29:22,238 --> 00:29:24,371 We just want to stay true to how we're feeling 670 00:29:24,371 --> 00:29:27,113 and how we're feeling is, like, this is so possible for us, 671 00:29:27,113 --> 00:29:29,028 and we want to continue to explore it 672 00:29:29,028 --> 00:29:32,553 and find the right person to explore it further with. 673 00:29:32,553 --> 00:29:34,033 You know? - Yeah. 674 00:29:34,033 --> 00:29:36,818 I think connecting with her on pansexuality, 675 00:29:36,818 --> 00:29:38,777 like, you're not just here to be with a guy and a girl. 676 00:29:38,777 --> 00:29:41,649 You're really here to be with two people 677 00:29:41,649 --> 00:29:43,782 that you feel connected to. 678 00:29:43,782 --> 00:29:46,654 I think, like, what's really important for us 679 00:29:46,654 --> 00:29:49,657 going into a throuple... - Yeah. 680 00:29:49,657 --> 00:29:52,791 ...is that it's equal love all around. 681 00:29:52,791 --> 00:29:54,140 Equal attention. - Very important. 682 00:29:54,140 --> 00:29:55,532 - Yeah. - But... 683 00:29:55,532 --> 00:29:57,143 So are you saying you're into both of us? 684 00:29:57,143 --> 00:29:59,798 I am very into both of you. 685 00:29:59,798 --> 00:30:01,495 Okay, give me those lips. 686 00:30:01,495 --> 00:30:19,818 ♪ 687 00:30:19,818 --> 00:30:23,212 This is a whole different kind of kissing. 688 00:30:23,212 --> 00:30:25,954 - I've never felt that. - No. 689 00:30:25,954 --> 00:30:28,043 - Like... - Never. 690 00:30:28,043 --> 00:30:29,958 I mean, never. 691 00:30:29,958 --> 00:30:31,873 Oh, wow. Yeah. 692 00:30:31,873 --> 00:30:33,135 You look great between us. 693 00:30:33,135 --> 00:30:35,137 - Wow. - I feel great between you guys. 694 00:30:35,137 --> 00:30:37,400 That smile. 695 00:30:37,400 --> 00:30:40,534 You guys are gonna make me blush. 696 00:30:40,534 --> 00:30:42,841 Oh. [ Sighs ] 697 00:30:42,841 --> 00:30:43,929 Okay. 698 00:30:45,582 --> 00:30:49,717 How would you rate our sexual tension on a scale of 1 to 10? 699 00:30:49,717 --> 00:30:52,198 I would say... 700 00:30:53,808 --> 00:30:56,724 ...like, a 9, 10. Like, 9. 701 00:30:56,724 --> 00:30:58,030 Like, you feel like it's really high, 702 00:30:58,030 --> 00:30:59,901 like there's a lot of sexual tension? 703 00:30:59,901 --> 00:31:03,383 I feel like there's a lot of curiosity there. 704 00:31:03,383 --> 00:31:04,906 - Yeah. - Yeah. 705 00:31:04,906 --> 00:31:06,908 Really? 706 00:31:06,908 --> 00:31:09,911 [ Laughs ] Okay. Really? 707 00:31:09,911 --> 00:31:13,262 Do you feel like you're waiting for me to make the first move? 708 00:31:13,262 --> 00:31:17,223 No. [ Laughs nervously ] 709 00:31:17,223 --> 00:31:19,965 Initially, I thought I was, 710 00:31:19,965 --> 00:31:24,883 but I realized that I'm not waiting for you 711 00:31:24,883 --> 00:31:26,841 to make the first move. It's... 712 00:31:26,841 --> 00:31:29,931 I think it's more so waiting for me to make the first move. 713 00:31:29,931 --> 00:31:31,585 Yeah. 714 00:31:31,585 --> 00:31:33,630 I never make the first move with anything. 715 00:31:33,630 --> 00:31:35,850 I'm used to just being, like, pursued, so... 716 00:31:35,850 --> 00:31:38,113 I forgot. You're just that hot. 717 00:31:38,113 --> 00:31:40,724 No, it's not even that. I just never... 718 00:31:40,724 --> 00:31:43,466 I just never had... - Hottie. Hottie alert. 719 00:31:43,466 --> 00:31:45,816 [ Sighs ] - Thank you. 720 00:31:45,816 --> 00:31:48,080 - Come on out. - Alright. 721 00:31:48,080 --> 00:31:49,646 Did you sweat? 722 00:31:49,646 --> 00:31:52,519 - Okay. Sweat lodge. - Can we help y'all cool off? 723 00:31:52,519 --> 00:31:55,174 How was it? Brother, you sweating. 724 00:31:55,174 --> 00:31:56,653 - Yes. - Yeah, geez. 725 00:31:56,653 --> 00:31:58,568 You had to get some stuff out, huh? 726 00:31:58,568 --> 00:32:00,005 You got a lot of stuff out? 727 00:32:00,005 --> 00:32:02,703 I mean, yeah, but also I like to sweat. 728 00:32:02,703 --> 00:32:04,357 Did you feel like you learned some things 729 00:32:04,357 --> 00:32:05,662 that they were answering honestly 730 00:32:05,662 --> 00:32:08,013 and openly and truthfully? 731 00:32:08,013 --> 00:32:11,799 Yeah, honestly, their sexual-tension number 732 00:32:11,799 --> 00:32:14,367 was a lot higher than I was expecting. 733 00:32:14,367 --> 00:32:15,934 - Really? - What did you expect? 734 00:32:15,934 --> 00:32:19,589 I was expecting it to be more on, like, the 6, 7... 735 00:32:19,589 --> 00:32:20,851 - What's your number? - ...range. 736 00:32:20,851 --> 00:32:23,985 I was gonna say 3 because I feel like... 737 00:32:23,985 --> 00:32:26,292 What? 738 00:32:26,292 --> 00:32:27,989 So you're a 3 right now. 739 00:32:27,989 --> 00:32:30,861 What do you think it would take to even get you to a 5? 740 00:32:30,861 --> 00:32:33,168 I feel like more physical touch. 741 00:32:33,168 --> 00:32:34,865 - Mm-hmm. - Yeah. 742 00:32:34,865 --> 00:32:36,563 So are you asking them for more physical touch right now? 743 00:32:36,563 --> 00:32:37,956 - Yeah. - Okay. 744 00:32:37,956 --> 00:32:40,610 Darrien clearly wants more physical touch. 745 00:32:40,610 --> 00:32:42,003 She-- she craves that. - She craves it. 746 00:32:42,003 --> 00:32:43,657 So it's like something that, like, 747 00:32:43,657 --> 00:32:45,093 she needs continuously throughout the day, 748 00:32:45,093 --> 00:32:48,705 which we're also trying to be those people. 749 00:32:48,705 --> 00:32:51,795 We're working on it. We're working on it. 750 00:32:53,406 --> 00:32:55,930 The last question is... 751 00:32:58,150 --> 00:33:02,676 ...do you guys want me to be your girlfriend? 752 00:33:02,676 --> 00:33:06,636 ♪ 753 00:33:06,636 --> 00:33:08,421 You beat us to it. 754 00:33:08,421 --> 00:33:12,164 [ Laughing ] 755 00:33:12,164 --> 00:33:14,296 Very much. Yes. 756 00:33:16,603 --> 00:33:18,213 We were not expecting to find a person 757 00:33:18,213 --> 00:33:23,218 who we would connect with so much, but here we are. 758 00:33:23,218 --> 00:33:25,568 Yeah. [ Speaks indistinctly ] 759 00:33:25,568 --> 00:33:27,483 Okay. 760 00:33:27,483 --> 00:33:31,357 Yeah, I think that would be really, really cool. 761 00:33:33,620 --> 00:33:34,838 Cool. 762 00:33:34,838 --> 00:33:36,840 I'm a girlfriend. 763 00:33:36,840 --> 00:33:39,365 I have a boyfriend and a girlfriend. 764 00:33:42,455 --> 00:33:44,674 We have a lot more to learn about each other. 765 00:33:44,674 --> 00:33:46,981 But all of the beginning necessities, 766 00:33:46,981 --> 00:33:48,765 they're already there. They're there. 767 00:33:48,765 --> 00:33:51,246 I'm feeling this heat. 768 00:33:51,246 --> 00:33:53,466 [ Laughter ] 769 00:33:53,466 --> 00:33:56,251 - Wait, before you go... - Oh, yeah. All three. 770 00:33:56,251 --> 00:33:57,426 Oh. Ooh. 771 00:33:57,426 --> 00:34:12,920 ♪ 772 00:34:12,920 --> 00:34:14,487 Even with mouthfuls of strawberries, 773 00:34:14,487 --> 00:34:16,750 you guys are amazing kissers. 774 00:34:16,750 --> 00:34:19,405 I surprised myself that I could lean in 775 00:34:19,405 --> 00:34:22,973 and feel this comfortable with both queer men and queer women 776 00:34:22,973 --> 00:34:24,236 and you. 777 00:34:24,236 --> 00:34:26,542 Well, I'll see you guys at the stay or swap. 778 00:34:26,542 --> 00:34:28,066 - We'll see you soon. - Yeah. 779 00:34:28,066 --> 00:34:30,633 There are so many, so many more possibilities 780 00:34:30,633 --> 00:34:34,028 now that we've just tapped into this for the first time. 781 00:34:34,028 --> 00:34:36,291 And it's already going so well. 782 00:34:36,291 --> 00:34:40,513 I'm like, "Damn, we've been holding back, babe." 783 00:34:40,513 --> 00:34:44,952 ♪ 784 00:34:44,952 --> 00:34:46,606 So after we do leave the resort, 785 00:34:46,606 --> 00:34:51,654 can you guys seriously see yourself staying in a throuple? 786 00:34:51,654 --> 00:34:54,962 I can absolutely see that. 787 00:34:56,311 --> 00:34:58,661 Maybe I haven't got to talk to you about this a lot, 788 00:34:58,661 --> 00:35:02,796 but there is nothing in my life that would hold me back 789 00:35:02,796 --> 00:35:04,580 from bringing you into our relationship 790 00:35:04,580 --> 00:35:06,104 and us being a throuple. 791 00:35:06,104 --> 00:35:08,323 So I do think that we are able 792 00:35:08,323 --> 00:35:10,151 to make it work between the three of us, 793 00:35:10,151 --> 00:35:14,547 and that is what I would like to have happen after-- 794 00:35:14,547 --> 00:35:17,941 after we're out of the resort. 795 00:35:17,941 --> 00:35:19,987 I do fear Rehman is hard to read 796 00:35:19,987 --> 00:35:23,121 and it's hard to see it long term with the guys 797 00:35:23,121 --> 00:35:27,037 when I just feel like I can't get past that wall. 798 00:35:27,951 --> 00:35:31,825 - How was it in there? - It was hot. We got deep. 799 00:35:31,825 --> 00:35:34,001 - Okay. - You feel like you got honest? 800 00:35:34,001 --> 00:35:36,221 I feel-- I feel-- I feel, like, yeah. 801 00:35:36,221 --> 00:35:38,353 Are y'all feeling more connected or more distanced 802 00:35:38,353 --> 00:35:42,183 since going in a sweat lodge? - How do you feel? 803 00:35:42,183 --> 00:35:47,014 - I feel good, yeah. - More connected, more distant? 804 00:35:47,014 --> 00:35:49,364 - Um... - I don't know why he was being 805 00:35:49,364 --> 00:35:51,888 a little hesitant with that, so it makes me wonder 806 00:35:51,888 --> 00:35:54,152 maybe he's just-- maybe he's not-- 807 00:35:54,152 --> 00:35:55,849 He doesn't feel as connected. 808 00:35:55,849 --> 00:35:58,373 Well, this is about honesty. Do you think he's being honest? 809 00:35:58,373 --> 00:36:02,203 I don't know, I think it's questionable. 810 00:36:02,203 --> 00:36:05,554 I feel so confused because I think that I've kind of had 811 00:36:05,554 --> 00:36:09,254 a breakthrough in this resort as far as opening up to Jonathan 812 00:36:09,254 --> 00:36:11,908 in ways that I normally don't do with others 813 00:36:11,908 --> 00:36:14,041 and letting my guard down. 814 00:36:14,041 --> 00:36:17,131 I think the good thing about throupledom is that 815 00:36:17,131 --> 00:36:19,829 it's three people sharing the responsibilities and needs, 816 00:36:19,829 --> 00:36:22,397 so it shouldn't all be, like, everyone 817 00:36:22,397 --> 00:36:25,400 has to give the same thing. I am not a super PDA person, 818 00:36:25,400 --> 00:36:29,230 but him and Jonathan are and I'm enjoying seeing that. 819 00:36:29,230 --> 00:36:31,189 I don't know, I think we need to just reassess 820 00:36:31,189 --> 00:36:34,192 what we're expecting from throupledom. 821 00:36:36,716 --> 00:36:39,109 What a crazy 24 hours. 822 00:36:39,109 --> 00:36:41,851 Definitely it was just high emotions and energy. 823 00:36:41,851 --> 00:36:44,245 So many high emotions and energies. 824 00:36:44,245 --> 00:36:47,117 - From the kids. - Like, I can understand how 825 00:36:47,117 --> 00:36:50,773 more people in a relationship actually does make sense. 826 00:36:50,773 --> 00:36:57,432 ♪ 827 00:36:57,432 --> 00:36:59,956 What's up, girlfriend? 828 00:36:59,956 --> 00:37:13,187 ♪ 829 00:37:13,187 --> 00:37:15,276 Okay, so I have a question. 830 00:37:15,276 --> 00:37:16,973 Sure. 831 00:37:16,973 --> 00:37:19,846 Can we have our first kiss? 832 00:37:19,846 --> 00:37:22,457 - I think so. - Ooh. 833 00:37:22,457 --> 00:37:24,285 She's like, "Ooh." 834 00:37:24,285 --> 00:37:33,990 ♪ 835 00:37:33,990 --> 00:37:35,470 Worth the wait. 836 00:37:35,470 --> 00:37:41,563 ♪ 837 00:37:41,563 --> 00:37:42,999 Oh. 838 00:37:42,999 --> 00:37:45,654 Yay. Finally. 839 00:37:45,654 --> 00:37:47,874 That's the feeling I was wanting to feel. 840 00:37:47,874 --> 00:37:51,138 - Oh. - Yay. 841 00:37:51,138 --> 00:37:52,661 Why would I ever feel comfortable 842 00:37:52,661 --> 00:37:54,402 sharing anything about me? - Don't have an attitude with me. 843 00:37:54,402 --> 00:37:56,012 I don't want to have a forced conversation about it. 844 00:37:56,012 --> 00:37:57,362 I definitely didn't see this coming. 845 00:37:57,362 --> 00:37:59,320 So who do you want to kiss in the house? 846 00:37:59,320 --> 00:38:02,367 Do you want to stay. or do you want to swap? 847 00:38:06,066 --> 00:38:07,937 - Staying. - Whoa! 848 00:38:12,594 --> 00:38:16,990 ♪ I can't hold 849 00:38:16,990 --> 00:38:22,082 ♪ Myself back from you 850 00:38:22,082 --> 00:38:23,823 Good morning. 851 00:38:23,823 --> 00:38:25,128 [ Smooching sounds ] 852 00:38:25,128 --> 00:38:28,958 ♪ 853 00:38:28,958 --> 00:38:33,180 That's better. 854 00:38:33,180 --> 00:38:35,878 First night official. 855 00:38:35,878 --> 00:38:37,967 We don't need a swap ceremony. 856 00:38:37,967 --> 00:38:43,538 ♪ 857 00:38:50,676 --> 00:38:58,292 ♪ 858 00:38:58,292 --> 00:39:01,556 Oh, damn. Clean white sneaks for breakfast. 859 00:39:01,556 --> 00:39:03,079 [ Door closes ] 860 00:39:05,995 --> 00:39:08,258 This morning is awkward. 861 00:39:10,913 --> 00:39:12,611 Ready? - Yeah. 862 00:39:12,611 --> 00:39:16,397 ♪ 863 00:39:16,397 --> 00:39:17,790 Rehman... I feel like 864 00:39:17,790 --> 00:39:20,793 he's kind of giving me the cold shoulder. 865 00:39:20,793 --> 00:39:30,237 ♪ 866 00:39:30,237 --> 00:39:32,718 Another beautiful morning in paradise 867 00:39:32,718 --> 00:39:34,850 with some beautiful people. - Beautiful. 868 00:39:34,850 --> 00:39:37,026 - Yo, yo. - How did you sleep? 869 00:39:37,026 --> 00:39:38,463 I actually slept really well. 870 00:39:38,463 --> 00:39:41,335 I sleep much better when the shades aren't kept down. 871 00:39:41,335 --> 00:39:43,598 So, like, the morning, I can, like, slowly wake up 872 00:39:43,598 --> 00:39:47,080 and it's just like, "Oh, there's the light coming in." 873 00:39:47,080 --> 00:39:49,430 So I want to hear about how your guys' 874 00:39:49,430 --> 00:39:51,214 sweat-lodge experience was. 875 00:39:51,214 --> 00:39:52,738 [ Giggles ] 876 00:39:52,738 --> 00:39:56,959 I asked them both to be my boyfriend and girlfriend. 877 00:39:56,959 --> 00:40:00,789 [ All cheering ] 878 00:40:00,789 --> 00:40:02,138 We took the bait. 879 00:40:02,138 --> 00:40:05,098 We took it. We are an official throuple. 880 00:40:05,098 --> 00:40:07,448 [ Cheering continues ] 881 00:40:10,059 --> 00:40:12,235 I'm so happy. They deserve it. 882 00:40:12,235 --> 00:40:14,237 They did deserve it. I'm happy for them. 883 00:40:14,237 --> 00:40:16,109 Yeah. I'm proud of them, too. 884 00:40:16,109 --> 00:40:18,416 It's really cool. 885 00:40:18,416 --> 00:40:20,418 How was your guys'? 886 00:40:20,418 --> 00:40:22,115 I think overall, it went pretty well. 887 00:40:22,115 --> 00:40:23,638 Like, my heart was racing. 888 00:40:23,638 --> 00:40:26,293 I did feel like I was being as honest as possible. 889 00:40:26,293 --> 00:40:27,816 He said that he feels like 890 00:40:27,816 --> 00:40:29,731 he has more of an emotional connection with Ashmal, 891 00:40:29,731 --> 00:40:32,778 but he has more of a physical connection with me, 892 00:40:32,778 --> 00:40:38,131 and, um, it did kind of make me feel weird in a sense, 893 00:40:38,131 --> 00:40:40,481 because, like, you guys talk about stuff 894 00:40:40,481 --> 00:40:42,048 and you guys get deep or whatever 895 00:40:42,048 --> 00:40:43,528 and, like, that's your bond. 896 00:40:43,528 --> 00:40:45,747 And then, like, I don't know if we've created a space 897 00:40:45,747 --> 00:40:48,271 where I feel comfortable enough to open up with you, 898 00:40:48,271 --> 00:40:49,490 especially when it's the three of us 899 00:40:49,490 --> 00:40:51,797 and you start opening up about your life. 900 00:40:51,797 --> 00:40:53,407 And no offense, but, like, 901 00:40:53,407 --> 00:40:55,017 you control the conversation a lot or you like to talk a lot. 902 00:40:55,017 --> 00:40:57,803 So, like, I don't feel like it's even comfortable for me 903 00:40:57,803 --> 00:41:01,023 to even open up about a lot of serious things in my life 904 00:41:01,023 --> 00:41:04,331 that maybe, like, it takes a lot for me to talk about. 905 00:41:04,331 --> 00:41:05,811 That's not the only reason 906 00:41:05,811 --> 00:41:08,422 he doesn't have an emotional connection with Jonathan. 907 00:41:08,422 --> 00:41:09,945 It's because you either don't share your feelings, 908 00:41:09,945 --> 00:41:12,470 or when you do share your feelings, you're barking them. 909 00:41:12,470 --> 00:41:16,343 So don't put your lack of effort on me, 910 00:41:16,343 --> 00:41:18,519 and don't put your lack of effort on Jonathan. 911 00:41:18,519 --> 00:41:20,390 Because when you were sharing your experiences, 912 00:41:20,390 --> 00:41:21,783 it was just you two going back and forth. 913 00:41:21,783 --> 00:41:23,698 And at no point did anyone ever turn and say, 914 00:41:23,698 --> 00:41:26,005 "Oh, Rehman, like, I'm gonna ask you about your life." 915 00:41:26,005 --> 00:41:28,355 So it's like, then why would I ever feel comfortable 916 00:41:28,355 --> 00:41:29,661 sharing anything about me 917 00:41:29,661 --> 00:41:31,880 when you guys are just deep in conversation? 918 00:41:31,880 --> 00:41:36,494 Oh, my God, I definitely didn't see this coming. 919 00:41:38,408 --> 00:41:41,107 Just from knowing you two guys, too, 920 00:41:41,107 --> 00:41:44,197 you're obviously very open and, like, sociable. 921 00:41:44,197 --> 00:41:47,374 And we know, like, Rehman, you can be a little bit more 922 00:41:47,374 --> 00:41:48,680 too closed, so maybe just 923 00:41:48,680 --> 00:41:50,943 give it a little extra in that area. 924 00:41:50,943 --> 00:41:52,161 You know what I'm saying? 925 00:41:52,161 --> 00:41:53,728 Rehman, I know exactly how you feel. 926 00:41:53,728 --> 00:41:55,643 I mean, Sean has, like, sometimes a bigger personality. 927 00:41:55,643 --> 00:41:58,254 So, like, we'll be talking about some things with someone, 928 00:41:58,254 --> 00:41:59,778 and he'll just keep going. I'm like, "Hello? 929 00:41:59,778 --> 00:42:01,606 Like, why am I here? Should I just walk away? 930 00:42:01,606 --> 00:42:03,695 Because, like, I'm not part of this conversation." 931 00:42:03,695 --> 00:42:07,481 So I had to learn to just, like, interject. 932 00:42:07,481 --> 00:42:09,614 It takes both of us because I felt like 933 00:42:09,614 --> 00:42:11,354 that's my partner, that's how she works. 934 00:42:11,354 --> 00:42:13,139 And I'm gonna protect her at all costs. 935 00:42:13,139 --> 00:42:14,401 So fuck it. - Yeah. 936 00:42:14,401 --> 00:42:15,620 Yeah, absolutely. Thank you. 937 00:42:15,620 --> 00:42:18,666 Alright, we got more therapy for lunch. 938 00:42:18,666 --> 00:42:20,146 [ Laughter ] 939 00:42:20,146 --> 00:42:23,802 [ Indistinct conversations ] 940 00:42:23,802 --> 00:42:26,239 No, I don't want to do that right now. 941 00:42:26,239 --> 00:42:28,371 I think we just need to recap what happened, dude. 942 00:42:28,371 --> 00:42:30,243 Oh, okay. 943 00:42:30,243 --> 00:42:31,897 I don't want to have a forced conversation right after this. 944 00:42:31,897 --> 00:42:33,638 Wait, don't have an attitude with me. 945 00:42:33,638 --> 00:42:35,422 I don't want to have a forced conversation about it. 946 00:42:35,422 --> 00:42:37,772 No, listen, no one is having an attitude. 947 00:42:37,772 --> 00:42:40,166 The only animosity coming is from you. 948 00:42:40,166 --> 00:42:42,734 There's this kind of hate coming. 949 00:42:42,734 --> 00:42:44,866 Okay. 950 00:42:47,913 --> 00:42:49,654 How do you feel? 951 00:42:50,480 --> 00:42:53,614 - Just, like... - I'm a little confused honestly. 952 00:42:53,614 --> 00:42:55,094 [ Indistinct conversations ] 953 00:42:55,094 --> 00:42:56,574 Yeah. 954 00:42:56,574 --> 00:42:58,097 I struggle with that with him all the time. 955 00:42:58,097 --> 00:42:59,446 I think it's like he didn't say anything in the moment 956 00:42:59,446 --> 00:43:00,795 and then it's pent up. 957 00:43:00,795 --> 00:43:02,754 [ Sighs deeply ] 958 00:43:02,754 --> 00:43:05,583 But also it makes me question, like, 959 00:43:05,583 --> 00:43:06,932 are you guys even ready for a third? 960 00:43:06,932 --> 00:43:09,282 I feel like if you guys are not solid, 961 00:43:09,282 --> 00:43:11,284 clearly there's still a lack of communication there. 962 00:43:11,284 --> 00:43:12,633 So if you guys are not solid with that 963 00:43:12,633 --> 00:43:15,027 and lack of communication is very big for me. 964 00:43:15,027 --> 00:43:16,550 Poor Jonathan's perspective. 965 00:43:16,550 --> 00:43:18,987 Imagine being a third trying to date a couple 966 00:43:18,987 --> 00:43:21,468 who fights on the clock every four days 967 00:43:21,468 --> 00:43:23,252 right before a stay and swap ceremony, 968 00:43:23,252 --> 00:43:26,865 but holy hell, it is exhausting. 969 00:43:26,865 --> 00:43:32,131 ♪ 970 00:43:32,131 --> 00:43:33,523 - Yes. - Go, team! 971 00:43:33,523 --> 00:43:34,829 Go, team positive energy. 972 00:43:34,829 --> 00:43:36,614 Go, team it ain't easy being threesy. 973 00:43:36,614 --> 00:43:38,964 - It ain't easy being a threesy. - Yes. 974 00:43:38,964 --> 00:43:43,316 ♪ 975 00:43:43,316 --> 00:43:44,665 Perfect. We didn't-- 976 00:43:44,665 --> 00:43:47,189 We were trying to, like, save the hot combos. 977 00:43:47,189 --> 00:43:49,844 Oh, my God. Hot. Give me hot, hot, spicy, spicy. 978 00:43:49,844 --> 00:43:53,239 Well, you know, navigating coming in later, 979 00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:54,675 not knowing about, like, people 980 00:43:54,675 --> 00:43:56,285 who are already throupled up. 981 00:43:56,285 --> 00:43:57,591 - Dynamics. - Dynamics 982 00:43:57,591 --> 00:43:59,854 and wanting to be respectful. - Right. 983 00:43:59,854 --> 00:44:03,205 You don't want to come in and be like, "Oh, well. 984 00:44:03,205 --> 00:44:04,816 I want to mess up your throuple." 985 00:44:04,816 --> 00:44:06,905 Honestly, I'm right in the same freaking boat. 986 00:44:06,905 --> 00:44:08,950 In the teepee, I asked Sean and Brittne, 987 00:44:08,950 --> 00:44:10,299 "How would you feel 988 00:44:10,299 --> 00:44:11,518 if I were to kiss somebody else in the house?" 989 00:44:11,518 --> 00:44:12,780 What did they-- How do they feel? 990 00:44:12,780 --> 00:44:14,303 They said they would not like it. 991 00:44:14,303 --> 00:44:16,828 You know, so there is, like, this level of loyalty, 992 00:44:16,828 --> 00:44:18,438 but there's also curiosity. 993 00:44:18,438 --> 00:44:20,353 So who do you want to kiss in the house? 994 00:44:20,353 --> 00:44:22,660 Yeah. What's up? 995 00:44:22,660 --> 00:44:25,575 What's the tea? 996 00:44:25,575 --> 00:44:27,534 Come on, Darrien, spill the beans. 997 00:44:27,534 --> 00:44:30,058 - What's going on? - I want to kiss you. 998 00:44:31,712 --> 00:44:33,888 Oh, my heart just, like... 999 00:44:33,888 --> 00:44:35,890 Whoo! 1000 00:44:35,890 --> 00:44:38,327 Alright. - So the feeling is mutual. 1001 00:44:38,327 --> 00:44:39,807 Yeah. 1002 00:44:39,807 --> 00:44:41,243 And we haven't even gotten to know you that much. 1003 00:44:41,243 --> 00:44:44,203 Which is, like, we just feel your energy and... 1004 00:44:44,203 --> 00:44:45,639 You are so intriguing. 1005 00:44:45,639 --> 00:44:47,119 ...electric, and we want to get to know you more. 1006 00:44:47,119 --> 00:44:49,556 But we also don't want to disrespect what you have. 1007 00:44:49,556 --> 00:44:51,776 - Right. - I don't want to be messy. 1008 00:44:51,776 --> 00:44:54,082 I just feel like it would be-- It would be so hard. 1009 00:44:54,082 --> 00:44:57,651 Like, imagine if I said yes. Like, I would go with you all 1010 00:44:57,651 --> 00:44:58,826 and then I'm in the house with them. 1011 00:44:58,826 --> 00:45:01,437 - I know, I know. - That's the whole thing. 1012 00:45:01,437 --> 00:45:12,927 ♪ 1013 00:45:12,927 --> 00:45:14,189 It's crazy. 1014 00:45:14,189 --> 00:45:17,149 The next swapping ceremony is, like, soon. 1015 00:45:17,149 --> 00:45:18,759 Yeah. 1016 00:45:18,759 --> 00:45:22,154 Mia's communication is just, like, a lot better. 1017 00:45:22,154 --> 00:45:23,416 Oh, yeah. So that's great. 1018 00:45:23,416 --> 00:45:24,939 I think we can still have a great, 1019 00:45:24,939 --> 00:45:28,247 like, throuple relationship after this experience. 1020 00:45:28,247 --> 00:45:31,772 - See, I don't think we can. - You don't think? 1021 00:45:31,772 --> 00:45:35,080 - No, I'm disagreeing with that. - Okay. 1022 00:45:35,080 --> 00:45:38,736 I think we both realized through this experience so far, 1023 00:45:38,736 --> 00:45:42,391 these last couple of days with Mia, we need more physical. 1024 00:45:42,391 --> 00:45:46,831 We need more physical touch and not a fast pace, 1025 00:45:46,831 --> 00:45:51,009 but a little quicker than where I really think I see this going. 1026 00:45:51,009 --> 00:45:55,230 I'm kind of at this, like, I'm bored. 1027 00:45:55,230 --> 00:45:57,972 Dylan and I really want to get the most out of this experience, 1028 00:45:57,972 --> 00:46:00,453 and I don't know if Mia can match that energy, 1029 00:46:00,453 --> 00:46:01,889 but I... 1030 00:46:01,889 --> 00:46:04,022 I think it's gonna be a game-time decision. 1031 00:46:04,022 --> 00:46:06,938 - Yeah, I think so, too. - We'll feel it out and... 1032 00:46:06,938 --> 00:46:08,809 - We'll see. - ...we'll go from there. 1033 00:46:10,289 --> 00:46:12,639 I have no idea what's gonna happen tonight. 1034 00:46:12,639 --> 00:46:14,032 - Yeah? - Really? 1035 00:46:14,032 --> 00:46:16,034 They haven't given you, like, any reassurances? 1036 00:46:16,034 --> 00:46:18,036 - Literally completely unsure. - Have you guys talked about 1037 00:46:18,036 --> 00:46:20,342 what's gonna happen or anything? - No. 1038 00:46:20,342 --> 00:46:22,127 I do want to stay with them. 1039 00:46:22,127 --> 00:46:24,172 I think that we're just getting really comfortable 1040 00:46:24,172 --> 00:46:26,131 with each other, and we're just pushing 1041 00:46:26,131 --> 00:46:28,524 through those boundaries that we've had before. 1042 00:46:28,524 --> 00:46:29,874 If we swapped right now, 1043 00:46:29,874 --> 00:46:32,006 it would kill a lot of that momentum. 1044 00:46:32,006 --> 00:46:34,139 I'm confident that they will choose you. 1045 00:46:34,139 --> 00:46:38,012 ♪ 1046 00:46:38,012 --> 00:46:40,493 We need to talk this shit out. 1047 00:46:40,493 --> 00:46:41,755 I don't necessarily feel good 1048 00:46:41,755 --> 00:46:43,583 about all of these issues coming to light, 1049 00:46:43,583 --> 00:46:45,106 but after we had some time to cool down, 1050 00:46:45,106 --> 00:46:48,980 I would just love to resolve this issue with Ashmal. 1051 00:46:48,980 --> 00:46:51,330 You know I love you more than anything in the world. 1052 00:46:51,330 --> 00:46:52,853 You know that. 1053 00:46:52,853 --> 00:46:54,420 And you guys have shared a very special moment together. 1054 00:46:54,420 --> 00:46:56,117 And I wanted to be included in that special moment, 1055 00:46:56,117 --> 00:46:58,685 and I wasn't. That's all I'm saying. 1056 00:46:58,685 --> 00:47:01,166 I apologize that I got so charged at the thing, 1057 00:47:01,166 --> 00:47:02,732 but I just-- 1058 00:47:02,732 --> 00:47:05,648 I feel like there was no awareness from either of you. 1059 00:47:05,648 --> 00:47:07,650 And it's like, "Oh, my God, 1060 00:47:07,650 --> 00:47:11,176 I thought you of all people would know that." 1061 00:47:11,176 --> 00:47:12,568 I do hear you. 1062 00:47:12,568 --> 00:47:15,658 But whatever you expect of me in the real world, 1063 00:47:15,658 --> 00:47:18,226 remember that this is a different situation 1064 00:47:18,226 --> 00:47:21,012 and I am just as new to it as you are. 1065 00:47:21,012 --> 00:47:24,885 Sometimes I need to hold myself to a higher standard. 1066 00:47:24,885 --> 00:47:28,193 I really am allowing my insecurities to take control, 1067 00:47:28,193 --> 00:47:31,109 and that's something that I think I do need to work on. 1068 00:47:31,109 --> 00:47:32,414 Listen, I don't think-- 1069 00:47:32,414 --> 00:47:33,981 If we didn't care about each other this much, 1070 00:47:33,981 --> 00:47:36,027 we would not be working through these things 1071 00:47:36,027 --> 00:47:37,898 and going through these difficult times. 1072 00:47:37,898 --> 00:47:39,639 I think this shows how serious 1073 00:47:39,639 --> 00:47:41,510 and how committed we are to one another. 1074 00:47:41,510 --> 00:47:43,208 - I agree. - Okay? 1075 00:47:43,208 --> 00:47:45,688 Give me a hug. 1076 00:47:45,688 --> 00:47:47,865 I love you so much. 1077 00:47:50,911 --> 00:47:52,913 The ups and downs, like, this roller coaster, 1078 00:47:52,913 --> 00:47:54,436 I don't know how I can keep going. 1079 00:47:54,436 --> 00:47:56,264 I'm exhausted. 1080 00:47:59,833 --> 00:48:02,314 Do you want to share? 1081 00:48:02,314 --> 00:48:03,881 Yeah. 1082 00:48:03,881 --> 00:48:06,361 So I'm just answering his question. 1083 00:48:06,361 --> 00:48:07,928 - Oh, my God. - No, no, no. 1084 00:48:07,928 --> 00:48:11,540 Again, go on your-- Share however-- 1085 00:48:11,540 --> 00:48:12,890 Whatever way you want to share it. 1086 00:48:12,890 --> 00:48:14,892 I get that, like, I'm an intense person 1087 00:48:14,892 --> 00:48:17,677 and sometimes, like, that's the only way 1088 00:48:17,677 --> 00:48:19,287 I know how to express myself. 1089 00:48:19,287 --> 00:48:21,159 And I will try to get better at that 1090 00:48:21,159 --> 00:48:23,204 so that you feel comfortable and when I do express myself, 1091 00:48:23,204 --> 00:48:24,902 you don't feel like you're being attacked 1092 00:48:24,902 --> 00:48:27,905 because I don't want you to feel like that. 1093 00:48:27,905 --> 00:48:31,125 And through all of this, I don't dislike any of you. 1094 00:48:31,125 --> 00:48:34,302 I really enjoy spending time with the both of you, 1095 00:48:34,302 --> 00:48:39,090 and I want to spend time with the both of you moving forward. 1096 00:48:39,090 --> 00:48:41,788 But the reality is that outside of this resort, 1097 00:48:41,788 --> 00:48:43,833 like, I really wouldn't put up with this. 1098 00:48:45,835 --> 00:48:48,012 I can't control how the feelings are gonna be 1099 00:48:48,012 --> 00:48:50,057 when there's a third person. 1100 00:48:50,057 --> 00:48:51,624 Like, I totally don't blame you 1101 00:48:51,624 --> 00:48:53,234 saying you wouldn't put up with this in the real world. 1102 00:48:53,234 --> 00:48:56,020 Like, part of me doesn't want to put up with it, 1103 00:48:56,020 --> 00:48:59,980 like, in, you know, like, this kind of lack of communication. 1104 00:48:59,980 --> 00:49:02,940 Like, I get it, there's like-- this is a big red flag. 1105 00:49:02,940 --> 00:49:05,333 I hope that Jonathan would want to stay. 1106 00:49:05,333 --> 00:49:07,379 But if I was Jonathan, I wouldn't-- 1107 00:49:07,379 --> 00:49:08,684 My bag would be double-packed. 1108 00:49:08,684 --> 00:49:10,599 Like, I would get the hell out of there. 1109 00:49:10,599 --> 00:49:12,471 And right now, if I don't want to be your second, 1110 00:49:12,471 --> 00:49:14,734 how the hell is he gonna want to be a third? 1111 00:49:24,700 --> 00:49:26,224 So what do you want to say? 1112 00:49:26,224 --> 00:49:27,616 Well, we got the right ingredients. 1113 00:49:27,616 --> 00:49:29,923 Maybe we're just making the wrong dish. 1114 00:49:29,923 --> 00:49:31,142 Something or something kind of like that. 1115 00:49:31,142 --> 00:49:32,621 Maybe. I think I'm going too far. 1116 00:49:32,621 --> 00:49:34,101 You know, I think you maybe lead it, and... 1117 00:49:34,101 --> 00:49:35,668 Tonight is gonna be interesting. 1118 00:49:35,668 --> 00:49:39,411 I think two people are gonna switch out, for sure. 1119 00:49:41,152 --> 00:49:42,501 My boobs might pop out the side, 1120 00:49:42,501 --> 00:49:44,677 which might be even more of a sneak snack. 1121 00:49:44,677 --> 00:49:46,722 Let me see. 1122 00:49:46,722 --> 00:49:48,246 Oh, yeah. Love it. 1123 00:49:48,246 --> 00:49:53,468 ♪ 1124 00:49:53,468 --> 00:49:54,687 I'm scared. 1125 00:49:54,687 --> 00:49:56,950 Here they come. 1126 00:49:56,950 --> 00:49:58,691 I think we are confident 1127 00:49:58,691 --> 00:50:02,042 that, you know, Jonathan will decide to stay with us 1128 00:50:02,042 --> 00:50:03,696 and work through all these issues 1129 00:50:03,696 --> 00:50:05,132 for the rest of the experiment. 1130 00:50:05,132 --> 00:50:07,874 We'll find out very soon. 1131 00:50:07,874 --> 00:50:10,007 Wow, wow, wow. 1132 00:50:10,007 --> 00:50:12,052 How are you doing? - Hi. 1133 00:50:12,052 --> 00:50:15,142 Y'all look great. All coordinated. 1134 00:50:15,142 --> 00:50:19,494 Welcome to our second stay or swap ceremony. 1135 00:50:19,494 --> 00:50:22,889 Tonight we will find out if our throuples want 1136 00:50:22,889 --> 00:50:25,196 to swap their chosen single 1137 00:50:25,196 --> 00:50:29,200 for one of our beautiful singles over here. 1138 00:50:29,200 --> 00:50:32,116 As usual, the decision must be mutual. 1139 00:50:32,116 --> 00:50:35,336 If it's a swap all around, 1140 00:50:35,336 --> 00:50:37,077 we ask these beautiful people to step forward, 1141 00:50:37,077 --> 00:50:41,081 to see who might be interested in joining them in the resort. 1142 00:50:42,909 --> 00:50:44,215 So Maximo and Ash, 1143 00:50:44,215 --> 00:50:47,435 you are our newest couple here in the resort. 1144 00:50:47,435 --> 00:50:49,742 What have the last few days been like for you? 1145 00:50:49,742 --> 00:50:53,702 We've had some really crazy, crazy moments 1146 00:50:53,702 --> 00:50:55,226 with both Junior and Becca. 1147 00:50:55,226 --> 00:50:57,228 Crazy moments, huh? 1148 00:50:57,228 --> 00:50:59,186 Yeah, they definitely turned our world 1149 00:50:59,186 --> 00:51:02,189 upside down and around. - Okay. 1150 00:51:04,452 --> 00:51:06,019 Alright, beautiful people. 1151 00:51:06,019 --> 00:51:07,542 You know what time it is. 1152 00:51:07,542 --> 00:51:09,501 If any of you unmatched singles would be interested 1153 00:51:09,501 --> 00:51:14,071 in joining Maximo and Ash in the resort 1154 00:51:14,071 --> 00:51:15,811 and throupling up, 1155 00:51:15,811 --> 00:51:18,292 please take a step forward... 1156 00:51:21,600 --> 00:51:24,951 ...now. 1157 00:51:24,951 --> 00:51:26,561 Ooh, snap. 1158 00:51:26,561 --> 00:51:28,128 Wow. 1159 00:51:28,128 --> 00:51:30,565 Y'all made quite an impression. 1160 00:51:30,565 --> 00:51:32,959 Ooh! 1161 00:51:32,959 --> 00:51:35,440 So Maximo and Ashley, 1162 00:51:35,440 --> 00:51:39,183 who would you like to throuple up with? 1163 00:51:41,185 --> 00:51:44,840 Well, I think based on just the very short time 1164 00:51:44,840 --> 00:51:46,277 that we have been here, 1165 00:51:46,277 --> 00:51:48,061 we are both really excited 1166 00:51:48,061 --> 00:51:50,498 to spend a little bit more time... 1167 00:51:50,498 --> 00:51:54,894 ♪ 1168 00:51:54,894 --> 00:51:57,375 ...with Becca. - Alright. 1169 00:52:00,247 --> 00:52:03,511 I'm back. [ Laughs ] 1170 00:52:03,511 --> 00:52:07,950 ♪ 1171 00:52:07,950 --> 00:52:10,170 Hello. Thank you. 1172 00:52:10,170 --> 00:52:11,867 Welcome back to the resort. How does it feel? 1173 00:52:11,867 --> 00:52:13,217 Really good. 1174 00:52:13,217 --> 00:52:15,175 I don't-- I don't want this to sound bad, 1175 00:52:15,175 --> 00:52:18,961 but it feels a lot better the second time around. 1176 00:52:18,961 --> 00:52:21,660 Is that right? 1177 00:52:21,660 --> 00:52:23,140 Alright, now let's head 1178 00:52:23,140 --> 00:52:26,143 to the throuple Lauren, Dylan and Mia. 1179 00:52:26,143 --> 00:52:28,145 How are you feeling today? 1180 00:52:28,145 --> 00:52:29,494 - Feeling pretty good. - Feeling pretty good. 1181 00:52:29,494 --> 00:52:31,191 How have the last few days been for you? 1182 00:52:31,191 --> 00:52:32,410 They have been awesome. 1183 00:52:32,410 --> 00:52:35,021 Mia has just been, like, a ball of energy. 1184 00:52:35,021 --> 00:52:36,588 Amazing, positive vibes. 1185 00:52:36,588 --> 00:52:38,807 It's everything that we really needed right now. 1186 00:52:38,807 --> 00:52:40,200 - Really? - Yeah. 1187 00:52:40,200 --> 00:52:42,420 Mia, how about you? How are you feeling? 1188 00:52:42,420 --> 00:52:45,510 - I feel amazing. - Well, snap, alright. 1189 00:52:45,510 --> 00:52:48,295 Well, then, without further ado, 1190 00:52:48,295 --> 00:52:50,036 Lauren and Dylan, are you interested 1191 00:52:50,036 --> 00:52:55,433 in staying in your current throuple or hoping to swap? 1192 00:52:57,435 --> 00:53:00,046 There are so many amazing opportunities to get to know 1193 00:53:00,046 --> 00:53:01,787 and to learn from a lot of new people. 1194 00:53:01,787 --> 00:53:05,007 So we do want to... 1195 00:53:05,007 --> 00:53:10,752 ♪ 1196 00:53:10,752 --> 00:53:13,538 - Swap. - ...swap. 1197 00:53:13,538 --> 00:53:17,368 ♪ 1198 00:53:17,368 --> 00:53:21,241 Okay, Mia, you have a pretty strong reaction to that. 1199 00:53:21,241 --> 00:53:23,243 I had no idea what was gonna happen tonight, 1200 00:53:23,243 --> 00:53:24,853 and we've had the most amazing week. 1201 00:53:24,853 --> 00:53:28,205 And if that means that they want to taste some other flavors 1202 00:53:28,205 --> 00:53:31,382 and then be for certain that I am the one, 1203 00:53:31,382 --> 00:53:34,733 then I trust it, so... 1204 00:53:34,733 --> 00:53:37,257 Mia. 1205 00:53:37,257 --> 00:53:38,867 Alright. On that, singles, 1206 00:53:38,867 --> 00:53:42,262 if any of you are interested in joining Dylan and Lauren, 1207 00:53:42,262 --> 00:53:46,919 please take a step forward now. 1208 00:53:46,919 --> 00:53:53,926 ♪ 1209 00:53:53,926 --> 00:53:56,407 Two beautiful young ladies. 1210 00:53:56,407 --> 00:54:00,280 Has your first choice stepped forward? 1211 00:54:00,280 --> 00:54:02,456 - Yes. - Yeah. 1212 00:54:02,456 --> 00:54:05,285 Alright, so, Lauren and Dylan, 1213 00:54:05,285 --> 00:54:09,507 please tell us who you would like to swap for tonight. 1214 00:54:09,507 --> 00:54:11,944 We are really excited. 1215 00:54:11,944 --> 00:54:15,295 We would love to invite... 1216 00:54:15,295 --> 00:54:17,210 Jess. - Jess. 1217 00:54:17,210 --> 00:54:18,472 Alright. 1218 00:54:25,479 --> 00:54:27,525 Alright. You can cross the bridge. 1219 00:54:27,525 --> 00:54:28,917 Always. 1220 00:54:28,917 --> 00:54:30,615 [ Laughter ] 1221 00:54:33,879 --> 00:54:35,359 I am shocked. 1222 00:54:35,359 --> 00:54:38,318 Like, I'm not trying to compete for anyone's love. 1223 00:54:38,318 --> 00:54:39,624 I know that I am a prize. 1224 00:54:39,624 --> 00:54:41,669 I don't want to be second choice. 1225 00:54:41,669 --> 00:54:44,324 Hello. 1226 00:54:44,324 --> 00:54:46,370 - Oh, my gosh. - Look who's here. 1227 00:54:46,370 --> 00:54:48,894 Jess is here. 1228 00:54:48,894 --> 00:54:50,156 It's a long time coming. 1229 00:54:50,156 --> 00:54:51,723 Jess, you feel good about this? 1230 00:54:51,723 --> 00:54:53,464 Oh, yeah. I mean, when they said they were gonna swap, 1231 00:54:53,464 --> 00:54:56,118 my heart started pounding. And, like, patience is a virtue. 1232 00:54:56,118 --> 00:54:57,729 And I'm excited to be here. 1233 00:54:57,729 --> 00:54:59,034 Boom! There it is. 1234 00:54:59,034 --> 00:55:03,343 Alright. Two new throuples. 1235 00:55:03,343 --> 00:55:05,998 Sean, Brittne and Darrien. 1236 00:55:05,998 --> 00:55:07,478 How y'all feeling tonight? 1237 00:55:07,478 --> 00:55:09,349 - Feeling good. - Yeah. Feeling good? 1238 00:55:09,349 --> 00:55:10,481 - Yeah. - Alright. 1239 00:55:10,481 --> 00:55:12,352 The question is, Brittne, Sean, 1240 00:55:12,352 --> 00:55:15,355 do you want to stay in the throuple as it is now, 1241 00:55:15,355 --> 00:55:18,445 or... do you want to swap? 1242 00:55:20,621 --> 00:55:23,189 Honestly, like, you know, coming into here, 1243 00:55:23,189 --> 00:55:26,453 we had an idea of where we wanted to go. 1244 00:55:26,453 --> 00:55:28,847 Once you get here, it kind of like reaffirms 1245 00:55:28,847 --> 00:55:31,763 exactly where you want to go. [ Sighs ] 1246 00:55:31,763 --> 00:55:37,551 And I mean, it may come as a shock to some, but... 1247 00:55:41,338 --> 00:55:43,949 ...I think we're gonna stay. 1248 00:55:43,949 --> 00:55:45,342 We gonna stay. 1249 00:55:45,342 --> 00:55:48,127 Darrien was, like, "A shock to some?" 1250 00:55:48,127 --> 00:55:51,391 [ Laughter ] 1251 00:55:51,391 --> 00:55:53,872 - Well, you know... - Do you agree? 1252 00:55:53,872 --> 00:55:55,830 After hearing that... 1253 00:55:55,830 --> 00:55:57,484 [ Laughter ] 1254 00:55:57,484 --> 00:56:00,444 ...I'm gonna stay. - Alright. 1255 00:56:03,185 --> 00:56:04,578 With Brittne and Sean, 1256 00:56:04,578 --> 00:56:06,188 even though I feel like I know them well, 1257 00:56:06,188 --> 00:56:09,409 I know there's still so much to unpack and after everything 1258 00:56:09,409 --> 00:56:11,368 that happened today, I hope that they are able 1259 00:56:11,368 --> 00:56:15,415 to really tune in with my sexual energy. 1260 00:56:15,415 --> 00:56:18,636 Corey, Wilder and Denyse, how are you doing? 1261 00:56:18,636 --> 00:56:21,073 - We're good. - It's the boots for me. 1262 00:56:21,073 --> 00:56:22,422 We're chillin'. Oh, yeah. 1263 00:56:22,422 --> 00:56:23,641 I mean, the boots-- they're not playing. 1264 00:56:23,641 --> 00:56:25,686 And the matching heel. I mean, come on. 1265 00:56:25,686 --> 00:56:28,428 She's wearing my clothes at this point. I mean... 1266 00:56:28,428 --> 00:56:30,430 I'm curious. What do you want to do? 1267 00:56:30,430 --> 00:56:32,519 Do you want to stay or do you want to swap? 1268 00:56:32,519 --> 00:56:34,652 Well, you know, would you mind stepping down, like, 1269 00:56:34,652 --> 00:56:37,655 just-- just-- just stand next to her, right? 1270 00:56:37,655 --> 00:56:41,093 You know, just look at him. - Okay. 1271 00:56:41,093 --> 00:56:44,357 So if your question, Scott, is stay or swap... 1272 00:56:44,357 --> 00:56:45,706 Stay or swap. 1273 00:56:45,706 --> 00:56:48,448 I don't think we need swap anymore. 1274 00:56:48,448 --> 00:56:49,841 We're staying. 1275 00:56:49,841 --> 00:56:53,061 [ All cheering ] 1276 00:56:53,061 --> 00:56:55,934 Oh, snap! 1277 00:56:55,934 --> 00:56:57,718 Yeah! 1278 00:56:59,590 --> 00:57:01,113 - Oh, my God. - Alright, Wilder. 1279 00:57:01,113 --> 00:57:04,464 - That's my boyfriend! - That's my boyfriend! 1280 00:57:04,464 --> 00:57:08,947 ♪ 1281 00:57:08,947 --> 00:57:10,078 Oh. 1282 00:57:10,078 --> 00:57:11,689 Now that Denyse doesn't have a chair. 1283 00:57:11,689 --> 00:57:14,474 We got to figure out the real hard stuff, 1284 00:57:14,474 --> 00:57:18,565 which is how to make this actually work. 1285 00:57:20,045 --> 00:57:23,004 I think that this is probably what we should be looking at 1286 00:57:23,004 --> 00:57:24,484 as far as a goal. 1287 00:57:24,484 --> 00:57:27,705 You guys found a connection that is pretty beautiful. 1288 00:57:27,705 --> 00:57:30,751 Proud of y'all. - Thank you, Scott. 1289 00:57:30,751 --> 00:57:33,406 Alright, Rehman, Ashmal, and Jonathan, 1290 00:57:33,406 --> 00:57:34,712 how are y'all feeling tonight? 1291 00:57:34,712 --> 00:57:36,191 - Pretty good. - Pretty good. 1292 00:57:36,191 --> 00:57:37,628 - Pretty good? - Yeah. 1293 00:57:37,628 --> 00:57:40,195 Are you on the same page about your choice tonight? 1294 00:57:40,195 --> 00:57:41,414 - Yes. - Yes. 1295 00:57:41,414 --> 00:57:42,937 Yeah? Okay. 1296 00:57:42,937 --> 00:57:46,201 Do you want to stay in the throuple that you're in, 1297 00:57:46,201 --> 00:57:48,508 or do you perhaps want to swap 1298 00:57:48,508 --> 00:57:50,336 for one of these beautiful people? 1299 00:57:50,336 --> 00:57:52,947 Scott, um, 1300 00:57:52,947 --> 00:57:55,602 salt and pepper have always brought the spice. 1301 00:57:55,602 --> 00:58:00,520 And cilantro taught us to focus on the nice. 1302 00:58:00,520 --> 00:58:02,348 I have no idea what you're saying. 1303 00:58:02,348 --> 00:58:06,004 [ Laughter ] 1304 00:58:06,004 --> 00:58:10,095 So basically, to translate our craziness into English, Scott, 1305 00:58:10,095 --> 00:58:12,227 we would like to stay. 1306 00:58:12,227 --> 00:58:14,403 - You'd like to stay? - Yes. 1307 00:58:15,753 --> 00:58:17,842 Okay. 1308 00:58:17,842 --> 00:58:19,757 Alright. Okay. This is great. 1309 00:58:19,757 --> 00:58:21,280 Jonathan, how about you? Do you want to-- 1310 00:58:21,280 --> 00:58:23,282 Do you want to stay? - Um, I feel like 1311 00:58:23,282 --> 00:58:27,547 the last few days, things haven't gone super well 1312 00:58:27,547 --> 00:58:30,071 as a throuple. 1313 00:58:30,071 --> 00:58:32,770 But I feel like today, I'm just trying to figure out 1314 00:58:32,770 --> 00:58:35,294 if this is, like, the right couple for me, 1315 00:58:35,294 --> 00:58:37,426 or am I the right single for them? 1316 00:58:37,426 --> 00:58:41,648 ♪ 1317 00:58:41,648 --> 00:58:44,303 And I just-- I don't know. I feel like-- 1318 00:58:44,303 --> 00:58:45,696 I just feel like I don't think, like, 1319 00:58:45,696 --> 00:58:47,480 I'm the right single for them. 1320 00:58:47,480 --> 00:58:51,136 ♪ 1321 00:58:51,136 --> 00:58:53,791 So I feel like I should swap tonight.