1 00:00:05,230 --> 00:00:07,274 - I think I'm probably gonna marry her. 2 00:00:07,307 --> 00:00:08,609 - You mean we're gonna have two babies? 3 00:00:08,642 --> 00:00:10,544 - We don't have my dad to fall back on. 4 00:00:10,644 --> 00:00:11,778 It is up to us four. 5 00:00:11,845 --> 00:00:14,748 - ♪ Bring this battle to an end ♪ 6 00:00:14,848 --> 00:00:16,750 - There's your boys. - No way. 7 00:00:16,850 --> 00:00:19,286 - These mini Highland cows are going to be what changes 8 00:00:19,419 --> 00:00:20,520 the fortunes for our farm. 9 00:00:20,621 --> 00:00:22,956 - It's my business. I'm not giving Allie 20%. 10 00:00:23,023 --> 00:00:24,958 I know we need to have a conversation, 11 00:00:24,992 --> 00:00:26,827 but I'm really dreading it. 12 00:00:27,561 --> 00:00:28,862 The bank, they're pulling the loan. 13 00:00:28,929 --> 00:00:30,163 - It's in your dad's name? 14 00:00:30,230 --> 00:00:31,765 We could lose the house? - We don't have the money. 15 00:00:31,832 --> 00:00:33,025 So I don't really know what we're gonna do. 16 00:00:33,091 --> 00:00:34,660 - When is this sh-- gonna end, dude? 17 00:00:34,693 --> 00:00:36,194 I can't lose my house. 18 00:00:36,261 --> 00:00:37,504 We've got to figure it out. 19 00:00:37,571 --> 00:00:39,006 - What did your dad think about Steven? 20 00:00:39,072 --> 00:00:40,641 - He didn't say anything. 21 00:00:40,674 --> 00:00:41,642 I don't know. I'm a little stressed. 22 00:00:41,775 --> 00:00:43,377 - I'm gonna move to Texas. 23 00:00:43,443 --> 00:00:46,046 For me, in my mind, long distance is the kiss of death. 24 00:00:46,146 --> 00:00:47,681 - I don't want Steven to get hurt. 25 00:00:47,748 --> 00:00:49,650 - It's crazy news, the timing of it all. 26 00:00:49,683 --> 00:00:51,351 All the banks calling our loans, 27 00:00:51,385 --> 00:00:53,954 it feels selfish that he's just up and moving away. 28 00:00:54,054 --> 00:01:01,061 - ♪ What don't kill us makes us stronger ♪ 29 00:01:04,548 --> 00:01:06,725 [country music] 30 00:01:06,792 --> 00:01:09,236 - ♪ The tires just keep on spinning ♪ 31 00:01:09,303 --> 00:01:13,407 ♪ It's a game, and I'm still in it ♪ 32 00:01:13,473 --> 00:01:15,075 ♪ Ooh, ooh ♪ 33 00:01:15,142 --> 00:01:18,845 ♪ Is this the end or the beginning ♪ 34 00:01:18,879 --> 00:01:21,381 ♪ Ooh ♪ 35 00:01:21,415 --> 00:01:23,016 - Hey. - Hello! How are you? 36 00:01:23,050 --> 00:01:24,017 - Good, how are you? 37 00:01:24,151 --> 00:01:26,954 - I'm doing good. 38 00:01:27,054 --> 00:01:28,021 I've had a long day. 39 00:01:28,155 --> 00:01:30,357 I'm sure you have too. - Trying to catch up 40 00:01:30,390 --> 00:01:33,026 especially, you know, with all of the changes 41 00:01:33,093 --> 00:01:34,494 that are taking place. 42 00:01:34,595 --> 00:01:36,096 - Yeah, there's a lot going on right now, that's for sure. 43 00:01:36,196 --> 00:01:38,298 - You know, Steve was handling so many things, 44 00:01:38,365 --> 00:01:40,701 and now you know how he is. 45 00:01:40,734 --> 00:01:41,935 - Oh, yes. 46 00:01:42,002 --> 00:01:44,563 - That's why I'm so glad I'm not the only one 47 00:01:44,596 --> 00:01:46,431 who kind of knows how Steve McBee operates. 48 00:01:46,498 --> 00:01:48,508 - I understand the madness. 49 00:01:48,608 --> 00:01:50,477 - Even though Steve and I have not 50 00:01:50,577 --> 00:01:52,838 been dating for quite some time now, 51 00:01:52,904 --> 00:01:54,381 we still are business partners. 52 00:01:54,481 --> 00:01:58,318 So I am doing everything I can to not let 53 00:01:58,418 --> 00:02:00,988 my personal feelings to get in the way of the business, 54 00:02:01,054 --> 00:02:03,423 but sometimes it's extremely hard. 55 00:02:03,490 --> 00:02:05,459 It's just gonna be, you know, obviously, 56 00:02:05,559 --> 00:02:07,728 a little transition period. - Yes. 57 00:02:07,828 --> 00:02:10,914 - But the best thing we can do for him is all come together, 58 00:02:10,947 --> 00:02:13,458 step up, and, you know, make sure 59 00:02:13,525 --> 00:02:15,627 that all the businesses are here blossoming 60 00:02:15,694 --> 00:02:18,096 by the time he is back. - Exactly. 61 00:02:18,130 --> 00:02:20,941 - Him not being in my life every day hopefully 62 00:02:21,008 --> 00:02:25,646 will increase the speed of my moving on and getting better. 63 00:02:25,712 --> 00:02:28,348 - And I really appreciate your willingness to do that. 64 00:02:28,415 --> 00:02:30,951 You know, obviously, these businesses affect the boys, 65 00:02:31,018 --> 00:02:32,919 and that will always be a priority to me. 66 00:02:32,953 --> 00:02:35,781 They're gonna need my guidance still. 67 00:02:35,814 --> 00:02:38,825 I have never had anything to do with farms or anything, 68 00:02:38,892 --> 00:02:41,653 but I will be there for the boys, of course, 69 00:02:41,720 --> 00:02:45,991 and the boys have definitely vented to me about Galyna. 70 00:02:46,058 --> 00:02:47,167 - Galyna has taken the lead 71 00:02:47,234 --> 00:02:48,635 financial reporting-wise. - Yeah. 72 00:02:48,702 --> 00:02:50,537 - To say she's dropped the ball on that the last six months 73 00:02:50,604 --> 00:02:51,972 would be an understatement. 74 00:02:52,005 --> 00:02:53,106 Have any of you guys heard from Galyna? 75 00:02:53,240 --> 00:02:54,274 - Uh-uh. 76 00:02:54,408 --> 00:02:55,442 - She should be in this meeting right now. 77 00:02:55,475 --> 00:02:58,278 These car washes are your entire focus. 78 00:02:58,311 --> 00:03:01,448 - Why don't you guys step in and do what I do every day? 79 00:03:01,515 --> 00:03:04,284 - Seems like I'm the only one that can get through to her. 80 00:03:04,317 --> 00:03:07,587 They've been through a lot, and they're gonna need help. 81 00:03:07,688 --> 00:03:09,089 - Yeah, you know, I know you're already 82 00:03:09,156 --> 00:03:11,425 running a business, too, so, you know, 83 00:03:11,525 --> 00:03:14,853 what can I do to make your life easier? 84 00:03:14,920 --> 00:03:16,897 - If you'll just-- 85 00:03:16,997 --> 00:03:20,367 if you'll just buckle down and focus. 86 00:03:20,434 --> 00:03:23,336 Get it cleaned up and maybe limit traveling, 87 00:03:23,403 --> 00:03:29,101 and your credibility with the boys will get better. 88 00:03:29,167 --> 00:03:30,644 - It's a little bit awkward for me 89 00:03:30,777 --> 00:03:34,614 because we just started establishing the friendship 90 00:03:34,714 --> 00:03:37,617 and, like, getting to know each other. 91 00:03:37,718 --> 00:03:39,845 I'm offering to help the boys, 92 00:03:39,878 --> 00:03:43,390 and then Kristi telling me what to do and how to do my job. 93 00:03:43,457 --> 00:03:46,093 - I really think you and the boys can work together. 94 00:03:46,159 --> 00:03:48,895 Whatever you need help with, 95 00:03:48,962 --> 00:03:50,263 whatever the boys need help with, 96 00:03:50,363 --> 00:03:52,733 I want these businesses to succeed. 97 00:03:52,799 --> 00:03:55,669 - I've been working for this business for years now, 98 00:03:55,802 --> 00:04:00,340 and Kristi does not really know anything about this business, 99 00:04:00,373 --> 00:04:03,110 so it's a little bit confusing for me. 100 00:04:03,176 --> 00:04:05,737 - Thank you for having me stop by. 101 00:04:05,804 --> 00:04:08,081 All right, have a good night. - Good night. 102 00:04:08,148 --> 00:04:11,076 [tense music] 103 00:04:11,143 --> 00:04:14,871 ♪ ♪ 104 00:04:14,905 --> 00:04:16,690 - ♪ I've been up before the rooster ♪ 105 00:04:16,723 --> 00:04:18,383 ♪ I've been up before the sun ♪ 106 00:04:18,416 --> 00:04:20,026 ♪ I ain't quit when it goes down ♪ 107 00:04:20,060 --> 00:04:21,595 ♪ Ain't stopping till it's done ♪ 108 00:04:21,695 --> 00:04:22,896 - Been hitting the gym much? 109 00:04:22,963 --> 00:04:24,489 - Yeah. - Are you dialed in yet? 110 00:04:24,589 --> 00:04:25,532 That alcohol. 111 00:04:25,565 --> 00:04:27,534 - I just--the weekends keep getting me. 112 00:04:27,567 --> 00:04:28,894 But, like, during the week, I'm on it. 113 00:04:28,927 --> 00:04:31,371 I've been on it. 114 00:04:31,404 --> 00:04:32,672 What's up? 115 00:04:32,739 --> 00:04:34,107 - What up? 116 00:04:34,174 --> 00:04:35,675 - Running a little late there, bud. 117 00:04:35,776 --> 00:04:39,004 - Yeah, feeding cows. 118 00:04:39,070 --> 00:04:40,280 - At least we're not out planting 119 00:04:40,380 --> 00:04:42,407 a bunch of fields that are not gonna make us any money 120 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:43,917 like we have been in years past. 121 00:04:43,950 --> 00:04:46,236 - I think it's already a dry year, if you ask me. 122 00:04:46,269 --> 00:04:47,721 - I think so too. 123 00:04:47,854 --> 00:04:49,156 I can tell you there's already been a weight lifted off 124 00:04:49,222 --> 00:04:50,724 my shoulders going into this year, 125 00:04:50,757 --> 00:04:51,825 knowing we aren't having to worry about covering 126 00:04:51,925 --> 00:04:54,027 thousands of acres. - I don't know. 127 00:04:54,094 --> 00:04:55,328 That weight's been lifted off, 128 00:04:55,428 --> 00:04:58,565 but there's, like, other stress now that has been put on. 129 00:04:58,598 --> 00:05:00,125 We are pulling back on row crop, 130 00:05:00,192 --> 00:05:01,793 and now we're really able to focus on things 131 00:05:01,860 --> 00:05:03,236 that we know we can make money at. 132 00:05:03,370 --> 00:05:07,465 We have mini Highlands and the tallow business starting up, 133 00:05:07,532 --> 00:05:10,310 which is good, but that doesn't just happen overnight. 134 00:05:10,377 --> 00:05:11,611 It takes time. 135 00:05:11,678 --> 00:05:13,513 I feel like we still have some things to figure out, 136 00:05:13,613 --> 00:05:16,016 some changes to make, and I think one of them 137 00:05:16,082 --> 00:05:17,876 is gonna have to be a big change. 138 00:05:17,976 --> 00:05:20,187 - What's that? 139 00:05:20,253 --> 00:05:23,490 - I really think that the car washes 140 00:05:23,557 --> 00:05:26,493 are gonna have to go eventually. 141 00:05:26,593 --> 00:05:29,029 I mean, I think sooner than later. 142 00:05:29,095 --> 00:05:31,298 I think we can show some numbers this year. 143 00:05:31,364 --> 00:05:34,367 I think we work on maybe getting them sold. 144 00:05:34,467 --> 00:05:37,003 - I thought we were planning to hold them out for a while 145 00:05:37,070 --> 00:05:39,239 and actually try to grow them into something before we 146 00:05:39,339 --> 00:05:42,642 just up and sold them. 147 00:05:42,676 --> 00:05:44,611 I'm the most involved brother 148 00:05:44,744 --> 00:05:45,779 with this side of the business, 149 00:05:45,846 --> 00:05:47,647 and I'm not sure if selling the car washes 150 00:05:47,714 --> 00:05:49,216 is the right route to go. 151 00:05:49,282 --> 00:05:51,801 I mean, we're doing everything we can to keep things pushing. 152 00:05:51,835 --> 00:05:54,487 That wouldn't be an easy one to just get rid of. 153 00:05:54,521 --> 00:05:56,156 I mean, would we even be able to sell them high? 154 00:05:56,189 --> 00:05:57,123 Are we even gonna get our money's worth 155 00:05:57,190 --> 00:05:58,758 out of what we've built so far? 156 00:05:58,859 --> 00:06:01,027 - We'd get our money back, but we wouldn't be making money 157 00:06:01,094 --> 00:06:02,821 on them, that's for sure. - Yeah. 158 00:06:02,854 --> 00:06:04,264 - It pays off all debt. 159 00:06:04,364 --> 00:06:07,467 And all of a sudden, tomorrow, every company is profitable. 160 00:06:07,601 --> 00:06:09,302 - Honestly, it's not a bad idea. 161 00:06:09,336 --> 00:06:11,596 We have nine locations with the car washes, 162 00:06:11,696 --> 00:06:15,333 and they are worth $60 million to $70 million. 163 00:06:15,367 --> 00:06:18,545 We only have $44 million in debt on those car washes. 164 00:06:18,612 --> 00:06:21,615 So that'd be an additional $20-ish million 165 00:06:21,715 --> 00:06:23,817 that we'd be able to pay off every piece of debt 166 00:06:23,850 --> 00:06:27,387 we have across all entities. 167 00:06:27,454 --> 00:06:29,514 - So then what do we dive into after this? 168 00:06:29,547 --> 00:06:32,325 What's our business that we actually thrive off of 169 00:06:32,459 --> 00:06:34,494 for the rest of our lives? 170 00:06:34,561 --> 00:06:37,497 - Up north, we have obviously the farm, the meat company. 171 00:06:37,631 --> 00:06:39,566 - I don't want to spend the rest of my life 172 00:06:39,633 --> 00:06:42,469 up north working at a meat facility or on the farm. 173 00:06:42,569 --> 00:06:43,603 - I'm gonna be honest. 174 00:06:43,670 --> 00:06:45,730 I want to be able to go to sleep at my house 175 00:06:45,797 --> 00:06:48,241 and know I'm gonna wake up and own the house tomorrow. 176 00:06:50,568 --> 00:06:52,178 I'm not losing my house. 177 00:06:52,245 --> 00:06:53,480 I'm not gonna let Blair go through this. 178 00:06:53,580 --> 00:06:54,848 I'm not gonna let Kacie go through this. 179 00:06:54,881 --> 00:06:57,584 We've got 60 days to figure it out, pay it off in full. 180 00:06:57,651 --> 00:06:58,910 I need this to close really bad. 181 00:06:58,977 --> 00:07:00,312 I want to get this through, 182 00:07:00,378 --> 00:07:02,038 or I don't know what's gonna happen. 183 00:07:02,072 --> 00:07:04,582 - The bank that has the lien on Cole's house, 184 00:07:04,649 --> 00:07:06,393 they also have two car wash loans. 185 00:07:06,426 --> 00:07:08,628 And I know, with Kacie pregnant again, 186 00:07:08,728 --> 00:07:10,430 I can only imagine the pressure that's on your shoulders, 187 00:07:10,497 --> 00:07:11,923 thinking, am I gonna have a house 188 00:07:11,990 --> 00:07:13,892 for my family to grow up in? 189 00:07:13,925 --> 00:07:16,736 - We would be able to sleep again at night. 190 00:07:16,803 --> 00:07:18,038 I'd be able to, you know, 191 00:07:18,104 --> 00:07:19,506 not lay there at 3:00 AM in the morning, 192 00:07:19,606 --> 00:07:20,607 staring at the ceiling, thinking about 193 00:07:20,674 --> 00:07:23,234 the worst-case scenario, and actually be able 194 00:07:23,268 --> 00:07:26,730 to focus on the future. 195 00:07:26,763 --> 00:07:28,581 - I'm definitely on board for that. 196 00:07:28,648 --> 00:07:31,518 I mean, I can't not want that to happen. 197 00:07:31,618 --> 00:07:34,587 - Man, we spent so much time building those car washes out. 198 00:07:34,654 --> 00:07:36,990 So much time. 199 00:07:37,090 --> 00:07:40,760 - There's just so much problems tied up in them. 200 00:07:40,827 --> 00:07:43,163 And I mean that with the people. 201 00:07:43,229 --> 00:07:47,000 I mean, I'm not gonna lie, I think we've all realized-- 202 00:07:47,067 --> 00:07:49,302 I think it's time for us and Galyna to part ways. 203 00:07:49,369 --> 00:07:51,471 [tense music] 204 00:07:51,538 --> 00:07:52,706 And I don't really see it happening 205 00:07:52,772 --> 00:07:56,109 without the car washes going. 206 00:07:56,142 --> 00:07:58,845 - Galyna has been working at the car washes since day one. 207 00:07:58,912 --> 00:08:01,181 That has been her main focus, her main role. 208 00:08:01,281 --> 00:08:03,183 Anyone that's buying the car washes, 209 00:08:03,283 --> 00:08:06,152 they usually require the one who's running that business 210 00:08:06,219 --> 00:08:08,154 to stay on for three to five years. 211 00:08:08,221 --> 00:08:10,607 If we sell the car washes, Galyna is gonna 212 00:08:10,640 --> 00:08:11,983 be a part of that package. 213 00:08:12,050 --> 00:08:13,493 Whatever company buys the car washes, 214 00:08:13,593 --> 00:08:15,462 they're gonna give her one hell of a salary. 215 00:08:15,528 --> 00:08:17,330 So it's gonna be better for her income. 216 00:08:17,397 --> 00:08:19,115 - Galyna has her family in Erena, 217 00:08:19,149 --> 00:08:21,201 and we'd always, you know, 218 00:08:21,301 --> 00:08:22,802 be there if they never need anything. 219 00:08:22,836 --> 00:08:26,706 But I think it's time that we just go separate directions. 220 00:08:26,773 --> 00:08:32,012 - Galyna has been around for the past five or six years. 221 00:08:32,078 --> 00:08:34,781 We could not do what we do every day without her, 222 00:08:34,814 --> 00:08:36,182 and we know that. 223 00:08:36,249 --> 00:08:40,253 But we've been so connected not only through business 224 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:42,555 but emotionally, through relationships 225 00:08:42,655 --> 00:08:43,923 with her and my dad. 226 00:08:44,024 --> 00:08:46,026 And it was a headache for our entire family. 227 00:08:46,092 --> 00:08:49,729 I think her going with the car wash is best for her, 228 00:08:49,829 --> 00:08:51,698 and I think it's best for us. 229 00:08:51,765 --> 00:08:53,333 - She'll definitely run to Dad about this 230 00:08:53,400 --> 00:08:54,501 the second we tell her. 231 00:08:54,567 --> 00:08:56,536 Does Dad even know-- - But he's in jail. 232 00:08:56,636 --> 00:08:58,071 - She'll go visit him this weekend to tell him 233 00:08:58,138 --> 00:08:59,472 everything that's happened. 234 00:08:59,572 --> 00:09:01,441 Have you guys talked to Dad about the car washes? 235 00:09:01,508 --> 00:09:03,168 How would he feel about that? 236 00:09:03,201 --> 00:09:05,378 - Hey, we're running the businesses now. 237 00:09:05,445 --> 00:09:07,497 When Dad gets out, he's gonna see where things are, 238 00:09:07,530 --> 00:09:09,215 and he's gonna be very, very happy. 239 00:09:09,282 --> 00:09:10,942 That's all he needs to know. - That's fair. 240 00:09:11,042 --> 00:09:12,152 You're right. 241 00:09:12,285 --> 00:09:13,920 - Now that my dad's away, we're going 242 00:09:14,020 --> 00:09:16,322 to rip up the foundation from the ground up, 243 00:09:16,389 --> 00:09:18,525 and we're going to rebuild it the right way, 244 00:09:18,558 --> 00:09:21,953 not this crazy, explosive, uncontrollable growth 245 00:09:22,020 --> 00:09:23,596 that my dad likes to do. 246 00:09:23,663 --> 00:09:24,931 We're going to take things slower, 247 00:09:24,998 --> 00:09:26,499 and we're gonna do it right. 248 00:09:26,633 --> 00:09:28,134 It'll be fine. - Yeah. 249 00:09:28,234 --> 00:09:30,437 - I guess the hardest part is gonna be, 250 00:09:30,537 --> 00:09:33,440 we got to break this down for Galyna. 251 00:09:33,540 --> 00:09:34,566 She's not gonna take it well. 252 00:09:34,632 --> 00:09:39,871 ♪ ♪ 253 00:09:44,768 --> 00:09:47,187 - ♪ One man in a burning building ♪ 254 00:09:47,253 --> 00:09:49,848 ♪ Another man in Calexico ♪ 255 00:09:49,881 --> 00:09:53,518 ♪ One man in a steel glass tower ♪ 256 00:09:53,585 --> 00:09:54,627 - Oh, (BLEEP). 257 00:09:54,694 --> 00:09:55,687 - Dude. 258 00:09:55,753 --> 00:09:57,230 - We're good. 259 00:09:57,330 --> 00:09:59,991 I thought I just put a hole in the ceiling. 260 00:10:00,024 --> 00:10:01,593 Oh, Jakey. 261 00:10:01,693 --> 00:10:04,395 - Missed a few spots, it looks like. 262 00:10:04,496 --> 00:10:05,705 I honestly thought maybe you was in here watching 263 00:10:05,772 --> 00:10:06,906 football or something. 264 00:10:06,973 --> 00:10:07,907 But this is the last place I'm gonna sit 265 00:10:08,007 --> 00:10:09,142 and watch a football game. 266 00:10:09,175 --> 00:10:12,045 - Well, with everything happening up here, 267 00:10:12,112 --> 00:10:15,114 I wanted to make sure that Alli felt comfortable 268 00:10:15,215 --> 00:10:16,741 staying up here with Summer. 269 00:10:21,104 --> 00:10:22,213 - Jesse? 270 00:10:22,247 --> 00:10:24,040 - There's-- 271 00:10:24,107 --> 00:10:25,750 - Hello. 272 00:10:26,826 --> 00:10:28,094 - What's up, little mama? 273 00:10:28,161 --> 00:10:30,688 - Surprise. - I surprised you. 274 00:10:30,722 --> 00:10:31,890 - You weren't supposed to be up here. 275 00:10:31,956 --> 00:10:34,058 - What the heck? 276 00:10:34,125 --> 00:10:35,702 - It looks like a mess. 277 00:10:35,768 --> 00:10:37,537 This is the remodel. 278 00:10:37,604 --> 00:10:39,222 Surprised? 279 00:10:39,289 --> 00:10:40,473 - Wow. 280 00:10:40,573 --> 00:10:41,574 - I'm heading out. 281 00:10:41,674 --> 00:10:43,610 - You're out? - All right. You have fun. 282 00:10:43,676 --> 00:10:44,978 I'm heading out. - Later. 283 00:10:45,078 --> 00:10:46,971 - Do you want to come down from there, maybe? 284 00:10:47,071 --> 00:10:48,314 - I can. - Show me the house. 285 00:10:48,414 --> 00:10:49,415 - Yeah. 286 00:10:49,482 --> 00:10:50,884 - Did you pick out this color yourself? 287 00:10:50,950 --> 00:10:54,070 - Well, you said you wanted a brighter, creamier color. 288 00:10:54,137 --> 00:10:55,088 - Do you like it? 289 00:10:55,154 --> 00:10:56,389 - I like it. 290 00:10:56,456 --> 00:10:57,941 Wait till you see the bedroom. 291 00:10:57,974 --> 00:10:59,259 - Oh. - Yep. 292 00:10:59,359 --> 00:11:00,493 - We got new light fixtures? - That's the new fan. 293 00:11:00,560 --> 00:11:02,253 - Those look like expensive fans. 294 00:11:02,287 --> 00:11:04,964 - They weren't cheap. 295 00:11:05,064 --> 00:11:09,327 - Well, you're picking out the thing, so it's on you. 296 00:11:09,394 --> 00:11:12,038 I'm really happy that Jesse is renovating the house. 297 00:11:12,105 --> 00:11:14,040 I was communicating to him that I 298 00:11:14,073 --> 00:11:16,901 wanted some changes made at the farmhouse, 299 00:11:16,968 --> 00:11:18,945 so he listened to me in that aspect. 300 00:11:19,012 --> 00:11:22,607 But this isn't, like, gonna fix our relationship 301 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:24,117 by renovating the house. 302 00:11:24,184 --> 00:11:27,845 I still need him to focus on quality time together. 303 00:11:27,946 --> 00:11:29,806 That's what we need right now. 304 00:11:29,839 --> 00:11:32,283 - It'll be another couple weeks before we get carpet in here. 305 00:11:32,350 --> 00:11:34,085 - Yeah, definitely not gonna have Summer 306 00:11:34,118 --> 00:11:35,862 be crawling on this. 307 00:11:35,962 --> 00:11:37,163 - No, that's fair. 308 00:11:37,263 --> 00:11:39,691 I was hoping she would be super enthusiastic 309 00:11:39,791 --> 00:11:42,794 and be in complete disbelief about it. 310 00:11:42,860 --> 00:11:44,671 It's hard to see the vision when it's a mess, 311 00:11:44,771 --> 00:11:47,765 so I'm hoping that's why she's not as excited 312 00:11:47,799 --> 00:11:50,368 as I was hoping she would be. 313 00:11:50,435 --> 00:11:51,678 Just give it a couple weeks. 314 00:11:51,744 --> 00:11:52,845 I was hoping you weren't gonna come up here 315 00:11:52,946 --> 00:11:54,180 until everything was done. 316 00:11:54,247 --> 00:11:55,415 - Oops, sorry. 317 00:11:55,481 --> 00:11:57,108 - Well, no, I mean, it is--you get 318 00:11:57,141 --> 00:11:58,718 to see the progress, I guess. 319 00:11:58,785 --> 00:12:01,512 [upbeat music] 320 00:12:01,613 --> 00:12:08,228 ♪ ♪ 321 00:12:10,822 --> 00:12:11,931 - Glad to be back in Missouri? 322 00:12:11,965 --> 00:12:13,933 - I felt like a bowling ball this morning. 323 00:12:13,967 --> 00:12:16,035 - Three days painting and getting your house ready. 324 00:12:16,102 --> 00:12:18,004 - Mm-hmm. My whole body is sore. 325 00:12:18,071 --> 00:12:19,872 - It is relieving to know that the house 326 00:12:19,973 --> 00:12:21,658 is pretty much moved into. 327 00:12:21,724 --> 00:12:22,842 - It is. 328 00:12:22,909 --> 00:12:24,402 - Allie has been traveling for work, 329 00:12:24,469 --> 00:12:26,838 and she decided to swing into Missouri on her way 330 00:12:26,904 --> 00:12:28,014 back to Texas. 331 00:12:28,081 --> 00:12:29,415 I've been missing her. 332 00:12:29,515 --> 00:12:32,785 I've been missing having her presence around. 333 00:12:32,819 --> 00:12:36,656 Obviously, the first trip down to visit your family, you know, 334 00:12:36,723 --> 00:12:39,917 it threw a little bit of a wrench in my initial timeline. 335 00:12:40,018 --> 00:12:42,320 But, you know, where I'm at in life, 336 00:12:42,387 --> 00:12:44,631 I've lived enough life to know, and I've always been a man 337 00:12:44,664 --> 00:12:48,760 that doesn't waver and doesn't-- 338 00:12:48,860 --> 00:12:52,538 doesn't make a decision and then question that decision. 339 00:12:52,605 --> 00:12:53,906 When I know what I want and I see it, 340 00:12:53,973 --> 00:12:56,834 I don't have to have a timeline around it 341 00:12:56,901 --> 00:12:57,977 or I don't have to think on it. 342 00:12:58,011 --> 00:12:59,437 I don't have to ponder about it, 343 00:12:59,537 --> 00:13:00,847 whether it's the right decision or not. 344 00:13:00,913 --> 00:13:02,699 I make the decision, and I go with it. 345 00:13:04,984 --> 00:13:10,081 Like, I'm all in and ready to go to move down to Texas and-- 346 00:13:10,181 --> 00:13:12,083 and spend the majority of my time down there. 347 00:13:16,095 --> 00:13:18,956 - Like, this is a massive decision. 348 00:13:19,023 --> 00:13:20,383 - Mm-hmm. 349 00:13:22,302 --> 00:13:24,220 - I mean, we've only been dating a couple months. 350 00:13:24,287 --> 00:13:25,229 This is a really big deal. 351 00:13:25,296 --> 00:13:26,389 - No, it absolutely is. 352 00:13:26,456 --> 00:13:28,241 It absolutely is. 353 00:13:28,308 --> 00:13:30,635 You know, if we started here, we started dating, 354 00:13:30,735 --> 00:13:32,245 things are moving quickly... - Yeah. 355 00:13:32,312 --> 00:13:34,881 - You would want for things to continue... 356 00:13:34,947 --> 00:13:39,385 - Yeah. - Going on the upward trend. 357 00:13:39,419 --> 00:13:41,921 - If we were to move in together, and we talked about 358 00:13:42,021 --> 00:13:46,726 maybe getting engaged, but I just feel like, after 359 00:13:46,793 --> 00:13:48,820 you meeting my family, it just really-- 360 00:13:48,920 --> 00:13:51,497 my gut was just saying that I think 361 00:13:51,597 --> 00:13:53,291 that we just need more time. 362 00:13:55,768 --> 00:13:59,639 I think my mom could kind of tell that there was, like, 363 00:13:59,739 --> 00:14:03,142 a little bit of, like, something in the air 364 00:14:03,209 --> 00:14:06,446 because I think that we both are trying to figure out 365 00:14:06,512 --> 00:14:09,749 what next steps look like, and we're taking it day by day. 366 00:14:09,782 --> 00:14:11,651 But people are asking us questions, 367 00:14:11,751 --> 00:14:14,587 and I don't think we even have the answers to it yet. 368 00:14:14,620 --> 00:14:17,323 And I think that my mom could sense that a little bit. 369 00:14:17,423 --> 00:14:20,560 [tense music] 370 00:14:20,593 --> 00:14:24,589 Maybe I wasn't being as clear as I thought I was with Steven. 371 00:14:24,655 --> 00:14:28,459 I really wanted to take this next year 372 00:14:28,526 --> 00:14:30,203 to live with my sister. 373 00:14:30,236 --> 00:14:34,273 I've made decisions in the past on moving places for boys 374 00:14:34,340 --> 00:14:37,268 and living with boys, and it just didn't-- 375 00:14:37,335 --> 00:14:38,511 it just didn't work out. 376 00:14:38,578 --> 00:14:40,079 And so I'm trying to do things different. 377 00:14:40,146 --> 00:14:41,514 I'm trying to stay true to myself. 378 00:14:41,581 --> 00:14:44,809 I'm trying to keep a boundary that I set. 379 00:14:44,876 --> 00:14:46,177 So what's the rush there? 380 00:14:46,277 --> 00:14:47,820 - I think that it feels weird for me 381 00:14:47,920 --> 00:14:50,556 because, you know, we lived together for two months. 382 00:14:50,656 --> 00:14:51,958 - Yeah. 383 00:14:52,024 --> 00:14:53,359 - Now you're moving down to Texas for a yearlong 384 00:14:53,426 --> 00:14:54,894 lease with your sister. 385 00:14:54,961 --> 00:14:56,963 It's like we're taking a step--major step backwards. 386 00:14:56,996 --> 00:15:03,736 ♪ ♪ 387 00:15:03,836 --> 00:15:05,738 - I think I just feel a little dumb. 388 00:15:08,141 --> 00:15:11,110 I think people have mentioned that, like, 389 00:15:11,177 --> 00:15:15,548 the people closest to Steven have a hard time 390 00:15:15,615 --> 00:15:18,684 communicating with him. 391 00:15:18,751 --> 00:15:22,021 And I just didn't see that side of him. 392 00:15:22,088 --> 00:15:29,028 I'm not used to being talked to a certain way. 393 00:15:29,095 --> 00:15:31,923 They really do say you don't know someone until six months. 394 00:15:32,023 --> 00:15:34,200 I'm, like, laughing at myself at the beginning 395 00:15:34,267 --> 00:15:36,761 where I was like, I've never seen Steven get mad. 396 00:15:36,861 --> 00:15:38,387 - That's the last ----ing conversation about it. 397 00:15:38,421 --> 00:15:40,239 Say one ----ing thing right now. 398 00:15:40,339 --> 00:15:41,507 (BLEEP). 399 00:15:41,574 --> 00:15:43,442 I'm not going to allow myself to talk 400 00:15:43,543 --> 00:15:46,704 to you without Cole present. 401 00:15:46,771 --> 00:15:50,249 - I know that he's under a lot of pressure, 402 00:15:50,349 --> 00:15:52,610 which is why I've tried to have grace. 403 00:15:52,677 --> 00:15:58,624 And I love him a lot, but... 404 00:15:58,691 --> 00:16:04,730 I really worry about what that looks like long-term. 405 00:16:04,797 --> 00:16:07,892 - One of the things that you told me early on is, 406 00:16:07,959 --> 00:16:10,728 you're a bit of a person, out of sight, out of mind. 407 00:16:10,795 --> 00:16:12,605 - Yeah. - And so us being apart, 408 00:16:12,705 --> 00:16:14,307 out of sight, out of mind. 409 00:16:14,407 --> 00:16:15,675 - Yeah. 410 00:16:15,741 --> 00:16:19,445 - And that's where we start to drift apart and talking 411 00:16:19,512 --> 00:16:20,872 for five minutes a day. 412 00:16:20,938 --> 00:16:23,566 I mean, and that's what it's gonna be. 413 00:16:23,633 --> 00:16:26,377 When you're around your family, around your friends, 414 00:16:26,444 --> 00:16:31,624 or around your work, we're not going to be talking as much. 415 00:16:31,724 --> 00:16:33,326 And so it feels like it's a step backwards 416 00:16:33,392 --> 00:16:35,077 and we're losing traction. 417 00:16:37,964 --> 00:16:40,967 - I just haven't gotten that confirmation from my family. 418 00:16:41,067 --> 00:16:42,401 It's very important to me. 419 00:16:42,435 --> 00:16:45,071 And I--I told myself that I wasn't 420 00:16:45,104 --> 00:16:46,606 going to make this mistake again, 421 00:16:46,706 --> 00:16:48,207 similar to how you wouldn't want 422 00:16:48,274 --> 00:16:49,667 to make that mistake with your family 423 00:16:49,767 --> 00:16:51,177 not supporting your last relationship 424 00:16:51,244 --> 00:16:52,745 and you letting it go on for years. 425 00:16:52,812 --> 00:16:55,715 Like, I think we've both agreed we don't ever want 426 00:16:55,781 --> 00:16:56,949 to be put in that position. 427 00:16:57,016 --> 00:16:58,784 And I did the same exact thing. 428 00:16:58,851 --> 00:17:01,512 I was in a relationship the same amount of time, 429 00:17:01,612 --> 00:17:03,606 and my family didn't support it. 430 00:17:03,673 --> 00:17:06,284 So I think we both have to take the past and learn from that. 431 00:17:06,350 --> 00:17:10,187 - ♪ Got a taste of something sweet ♪ 432 00:17:10,288 --> 00:17:13,124 - I had, in my head, the rest of my life planned out. 433 00:17:13,157 --> 00:17:16,068 Get married, start a family, enjoy life with this girl. 434 00:17:16,135 --> 00:17:19,430 And I just don't know what to think right now. 435 00:17:19,463 --> 00:17:21,440 I'm honestly--I'm embarrassed. 436 00:17:21,507 --> 00:17:23,701 I'm a little upset. 437 00:17:23,801 --> 00:17:26,112 I am ready to upend my entire life, 438 00:17:26,145 --> 00:17:32,451 move away from my family to live down in Texas with her. 439 00:17:32,485 --> 00:17:35,955 - ♪ I can feel you in my bloodstream ♪ 440 00:17:35,988 --> 00:17:37,323 - You know, I thought that our relationship 441 00:17:37,390 --> 00:17:38,691 was at a solid point. 442 00:17:38,791 --> 00:17:40,259 I thought that I was confident in our future. 443 00:17:40,326 --> 00:17:42,228 And now I'm rethinking everything. 444 00:17:42,328 --> 00:17:44,564 - ♪ Whoa, oh ♪ 445 00:17:44,664 --> 00:17:49,568 ♪ ♪ 446 00:17:54,890 --> 00:17:57,410 [country music] 447 00:17:57,510 --> 00:17:58,903 ♪ ♪ 448 00:17:58,970 --> 00:18:00,071 - Oh, look at him. 449 00:18:00,171 --> 00:18:01,881 I see him. 450 00:18:01,981 --> 00:18:03,249 - Which one's which? Do you know? 451 00:18:03,349 --> 00:18:04,809 - I can tell by their eyes. 452 00:18:04,875 --> 00:18:08,387 One has really, really freakishly long eyelashes. 453 00:18:08,421 --> 00:18:10,081 - Come here. 454 00:18:10,181 --> 00:18:12,391 We don't have our food, but we'll act like it. 455 00:18:12,491 --> 00:18:15,252 - You think this Highland cow thing is gonna take off? 456 00:18:15,353 --> 00:18:17,188 - What even are their plans for it? 457 00:18:17,254 --> 00:18:19,265 - I don't really know. - Are they selling the cows? 458 00:18:19,332 --> 00:18:20,591 Like, I know we're starting a herd, 459 00:18:20,691 --> 00:18:22,193 but how are we making money from it? 460 00:18:22,259 --> 00:18:26,430 - I don't know, but I mean, they're cute. 461 00:18:26,530 --> 00:18:27,940 It's kind of crazy kind of with the-- 462 00:18:28,007 --> 00:18:29,742 your--how it's come to you now. 463 00:18:29,842 --> 00:18:31,210 - Yeah, I know. 464 00:18:31,243 --> 00:18:34,013 - Go from farming to selling the farms 465 00:18:34,080 --> 00:18:37,016 to Highland cows, new babies. 466 00:18:37,116 --> 00:18:39,685 - Yeah. Yeah, it's crazy. - Engagements. 467 00:18:39,752 --> 00:18:42,788 I feel like the boys have done a lot of this on their own 468 00:18:42,855 --> 00:18:46,792 and kind of taken the burden of having to try 469 00:18:46,859 --> 00:18:48,461 and figure it out all themselves. 470 00:18:48,527 --> 00:18:52,923 And I think that they can rely on us and our daughters 471 00:18:52,957 --> 00:18:54,300 especially too, you know? 472 00:18:54,400 --> 00:18:56,594 - Yeah, we're raising the next generation of the farm. 473 00:18:56,627 --> 00:18:58,237 - Yeah, exactly. 474 00:18:58,337 --> 00:18:59,705 - Whether they'll admit it or not. 475 00:18:59,772 --> 00:19:01,065 But they do need us. 476 00:19:01,132 --> 00:19:02,808 - Absolutely. 477 00:19:02,875 --> 00:19:06,112 I know for me, for sure, it's hard to get through here, 478 00:19:06,145 --> 00:19:07,613 being a woman with this family. 479 00:19:07,713 --> 00:19:09,348 - Yes, it is. - Navigating it by yourself. 480 00:19:09,415 --> 00:19:12,710 So to have you is a huge... 481 00:19:12,777 --> 00:19:14,712 - Yeah. - Like, plus for me. 482 00:19:14,779 --> 00:19:17,723 I think, under all of our life circumstances 483 00:19:17,790 --> 00:19:20,384 over the past year or so, if I did not have Kacie, 484 00:19:20,451 --> 00:19:22,820 you know, not being able to have an outlet would 485 00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:24,430 probably make me go insane. 486 00:19:24,463 --> 00:19:26,899 I wish I would have seen Jesse 487 00:19:26,966 --> 00:19:28,868 show up for me in that same way. 488 00:19:28,934 --> 00:19:30,895 I just want to see a lot more effort 489 00:19:30,961 --> 00:19:35,274 being shown in our relationship and in him being a father. 490 00:19:35,307 --> 00:19:37,668 - I think the girls should take over the farm. 491 00:19:37,768 --> 00:19:39,111 - I probably agree. 492 00:19:39,211 --> 00:19:40,846 - It's time for-- it's time for a change. 493 00:19:40,946 --> 00:19:43,416 It's very important for me to show Blair 494 00:19:43,482 --> 00:19:45,584 that you can have your own voice. 495 00:19:45,685 --> 00:19:48,979 I have obviously struggled with that so many times. 496 00:19:49,013 --> 00:19:51,590 The boys have had free rein for way too long, 497 00:19:51,657 --> 00:19:53,793 and I'm ready to stand up to Steven 498 00:19:53,893 --> 00:19:57,763 and take charge with the tallow business. 499 00:19:57,830 --> 00:19:59,290 Bye, cows. 500 00:19:59,356 --> 00:20:00,800 There's gonna be a lot more of you in the future. 501 00:20:00,900 --> 00:20:02,259 - I wish you had names. 502 00:20:02,326 --> 00:20:05,129 - Yeah. - Nice to meet you. 503 00:20:05,196 --> 00:20:06,472 - ♪ I want it all ♪ 504 00:20:06,572 --> 00:20:10,142 [vocalizing] 505 00:20:10,209 --> 00:20:11,644 ♪ I want it all ♪ 506 00:20:11,744 --> 00:20:14,939 [vocalizing] 507 00:20:15,005 --> 00:20:17,316 - You haven't felt any movement yet, have you? 508 00:20:17,383 --> 00:20:18,918 - Yes, I told Cole I did the other day. 509 00:20:18,951 --> 00:20:20,352 - We were listening to the heartbeat the other day, 510 00:20:20,453 --> 00:20:21,787 that little deal. 511 00:20:21,854 --> 00:20:23,214 - Yeah, and Blair loves it. She does it on herself now. 512 00:20:23,314 --> 00:20:25,216 - I mean, I can totally remember doing that with Blair. 513 00:20:25,282 --> 00:20:27,359 - Yeah. 514 00:20:27,460 --> 00:20:28,886 What up? 515 00:20:28,986 --> 00:20:31,355 - Hi, Blair. - Look who's here, Blair. 516 00:20:31,388 --> 00:20:34,225 - Go say, hi, Uncle Steven. - Go say hi. 517 00:20:34,291 --> 00:20:36,902 Hi. - Hi, bud. 518 00:20:36,969 --> 00:20:38,370 - What have you guys been up to? 519 00:20:38,404 --> 00:20:39,697 - Not much. 520 00:20:39,730 --> 00:20:41,073 What have you been up to? 521 00:20:41,173 --> 00:20:42,575 - Well... 522 00:20:45,111 --> 00:20:46,846 - Everything all right? 523 00:20:46,946 --> 00:20:48,447 - I figured I'd come over and tell you guys 524 00:20:48,514 --> 00:20:52,743 that I'm not going to Texas. 525 00:20:52,843 --> 00:20:54,186 - Oh, boy. 526 00:20:54,286 --> 00:20:55,588 What happened? 527 00:20:55,654 --> 00:20:58,524 [somber music] 528 00:20:58,624 --> 00:21:01,827 - You know, she was like, hey, I think we 529 00:21:01,894 --> 00:21:04,663 should slow things down a bit. 530 00:21:04,764 --> 00:21:06,924 It's taking a little bit of an emotional toll on me 531 00:21:07,024 --> 00:21:08,033 because I thought I was up and moving 532 00:21:08,134 --> 00:21:11,003 to Texas there for a bit. 533 00:21:11,070 --> 00:21:12,505 It's a little embarrassing because we 534 00:21:12,571 --> 00:21:15,007 did come on so hot and heavy. 535 00:21:15,074 --> 00:21:16,342 - I fell for it too. 536 00:21:16,442 --> 00:21:17,943 Like, it was kind of a-- 537 00:21:18,043 --> 00:21:20,346 - I felt really good about things. 538 00:21:20,446 --> 00:21:21,705 - Dude, people break up all the time. 539 00:21:21,772 --> 00:21:22,615 - They do. - They do. 540 00:21:22,681 --> 00:21:24,542 - People, they-- - You meet people. 541 00:21:24,608 --> 00:21:26,343 - They meet people, and you have a fun few months, 542 00:21:26,410 --> 00:21:27,620 and you can be thankful for it. 543 00:21:27,686 --> 00:21:30,222 - I'm glad I got to meet her, yeah. 544 00:21:30,322 --> 00:21:34,026 I know he's ready to settle down and start a family. 545 00:21:34,093 --> 00:21:35,594 And I thought he had met the person 546 00:21:35,628 --> 00:21:37,463 that would fit his lifestyle, 547 00:21:37,530 --> 00:21:39,298 but that didn't end up happening. 548 00:21:39,365 --> 00:21:42,535 - I think we just--we hit it off so strong and so well 549 00:21:42,601 --> 00:21:45,095 that we both kind of got caught up in the fun and, 550 00:21:45,129 --> 00:21:48,040 like, thinking, oh, we're gonna get married and settle down. 551 00:21:48,140 --> 00:21:51,076 But then real life happened real quick. 552 00:21:51,177 --> 00:21:52,812 - It's disappointing. 553 00:21:52,912 --> 00:21:55,940 I think I was caught up in this fairy-tale world too. 554 00:21:55,973 --> 00:21:59,451 I think I just want it so bad for Steven. 555 00:21:59,552 --> 00:22:02,154 Selfishly, I'm glad you're not going away. 556 00:22:02,254 --> 00:22:03,756 - Yeah. - Blair's glad. 557 00:22:03,856 --> 00:22:06,150 - Blair, Steven's staying. - Uncle Steven's staying. 558 00:22:06,217 --> 00:22:08,427 - Uncle Steven's not going anywhere. 559 00:22:08,527 --> 00:22:10,296 - He's gonna stay here. 560 00:22:10,396 --> 00:22:12,464 - I'm just gonna focus in on the businesses, 561 00:22:12,565 --> 00:22:14,458 make a lot of movement here over the next few months, 562 00:22:14,491 --> 00:22:17,903 and be in a better place. 563 00:22:17,970 --> 00:22:20,072 - I thought, with Steven leaving, 564 00:22:20,172 --> 00:22:21,665 I was planning on having full control, 565 00:22:21,765 --> 00:22:23,475 but that's just not happening. 566 00:22:23,576 --> 00:22:25,144 I'm fine with it, but he needs to put 567 00:22:25,177 --> 00:22:26,712 his focus all into our businesses 568 00:22:26,779 --> 00:22:28,848 and not his next girlfriend. 569 00:22:28,914 --> 00:22:30,341 Blair is starting to get old enough, though, 570 00:22:30,441 --> 00:22:31,550 where she's gonna be like, how many different girlfriends 571 00:22:31,617 --> 00:22:32,551 is Uncle Steven gonna have? 572 00:22:32,618 --> 00:22:34,253 - Oh, my goodness. 573 00:22:34,320 --> 00:22:35,921 - Actually, they all look the same, 574 00:22:35,988 --> 00:22:37,514 so she won't notice anything. 575 00:22:37,581 --> 00:22:39,959 - That's the good thing about having a type. 576 00:22:39,992 --> 00:22:42,728 - Are you guys gonna get back together 30 times? 577 00:22:42,795 --> 00:22:43,929 - That was a mess. 578 00:22:43,963 --> 00:22:45,965 I don't want to get into that toxic behavior. 579 00:22:46,065 --> 00:22:49,526 - Didn't I say let's see how it goes in a few months? 580 00:22:49,627 --> 00:22:52,972 - I wear my heart on my sleeve, and I jump into things. 581 00:22:53,072 --> 00:22:56,133 I hate myself for that, but, man, I can't help it. 582 00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:58,944 Kacie, I think you and I need to sit down about the tallow, 583 00:22:58,978 --> 00:23:01,113 get this finalized. - I think we do. 584 00:23:01,180 --> 00:23:03,749 I have a few things to say, Steven. 585 00:23:03,782 --> 00:23:06,952 I do feel really bad seeing Steven so upset 586 00:23:07,019 --> 00:23:08,520 about his breakup with Allie, 587 00:23:08,621 --> 00:23:11,323 but this shows me exactly why I didn't want Allie involved 588 00:23:11,423 --> 00:23:12,992 in the tallow business. 589 00:23:13,025 --> 00:23:14,960 If she would have had a percentage of the business, 590 00:23:14,994 --> 00:23:17,363 we would be in some real trouble right now. 591 00:23:17,396 --> 00:23:19,999 I told you. 592 00:23:20,065 --> 00:23:22,059 I told you to slow down. 593 00:23:22,126 --> 00:23:23,360 - Yeah. 594 00:23:25,971 --> 00:23:28,908 [dramatic music] 595 00:23:29,008 --> 00:23:34,213 ♪ ♪ 596 00:23:34,313 --> 00:23:35,848 - Come on, bud. 597 00:23:35,914 --> 00:23:37,416 - ♪ Shadow fades ♪ 598 00:23:37,483 --> 00:23:39,376 ♪ You're walking away ♪ 599 00:23:39,410 --> 00:23:41,478 ♪ A hundred steps ♪ 600 00:23:41,545 --> 00:23:42,980 - Good boy. 601 00:23:43,047 --> 00:23:44,957 - ♪ On my heart ♪ 602 00:23:45,024 --> 00:23:47,559 - The last 48 hours with Allie have been 603 00:23:47,593 --> 00:23:49,086 a roller-coaster ride. 604 00:23:49,153 --> 00:23:51,188 We have had some very, very tough conversations 605 00:23:51,255 --> 00:23:53,899 about our relationship. 606 00:23:53,932 --> 00:23:57,027 - ♪ Falling down ♪ 607 00:23:57,094 --> 00:24:00,164 - I told Steven exactly what I was going to do with my move, 608 00:24:00,230 --> 00:24:02,099 going to Texas, building my business, 609 00:24:02,199 --> 00:24:05,210 and I am scared that he expected me 610 00:24:05,311 --> 00:24:07,905 to now drop all of that and to just fully 611 00:24:07,938 --> 00:24:09,740 immerse my life into his. 612 00:24:09,773 --> 00:24:12,609 I have only known him a few months, 613 00:24:12,710 --> 00:24:15,346 and I've gone 28 years building a life, 614 00:24:15,412 --> 00:24:18,724 and I can't just leave that behind, as much as I love him. 615 00:24:18,824 --> 00:24:23,295 - ♪ And now whatever I see coming up ahead ♪ 616 00:24:23,395 --> 00:24:26,165 ♪ Now I know ♪ 617 00:24:26,198 --> 00:24:29,034 - I think I just feel confused because I didn't see-- 618 00:24:29,068 --> 00:24:32,905 honestly, I didn't see this coming, and it's a bummer. 619 00:24:32,938 --> 00:24:35,808 - ♪ The devil's gonna come when the sun goes down ♪ 620 00:24:35,908 --> 00:24:39,269 ♪ ♪ 621 00:24:44,508 --> 00:24:45,751 - ♪ I'm ready to fight ♪ 622 00:24:45,851 --> 00:24:47,386 ♪ Want to survive ♪ 623 00:24:47,453 --> 00:24:49,813 ♪ I got that lust in me ♪ 624 00:24:49,913 --> 00:24:51,248 - Well, hello there. 625 00:24:51,315 --> 00:24:52,291 Hi. 626 00:24:52,324 --> 00:24:54,159 Can I have my eggies? 627 00:24:54,293 --> 00:24:55,861 Thank you. 628 00:24:55,928 --> 00:24:57,496 - Whoo! All right. 629 00:24:57,596 --> 00:24:59,365 Just three guys and a chicken in a hot tub. 630 00:24:59,431 --> 00:25:01,300 - It's not weird, I promise. 631 00:25:01,333 --> 00:25:03,402 - ♪ I got fire in my blood ♪ 632 00:25:03,469 --> 00:25:05,671 ♪ Strike a match and burn it up ♪ 633 00:25:05,804 --> 00:25:08,741 ♪ It's what I'm driving towards ♪ 634 00:25:08,807 --> 00:25:10,709 ♪ I'm gonna take it all ♪ 635 00:25:10,776 --> 00:25:12,745 - What's going on? - Hello. 636 00:25:12,811 --> 00:25:14,004 What are you doing? 637 00:25:14,104 --> 00:25:15,180 - I was gonna crunch into a pork rind, 638 00:25:15,247 --> 00:25:16,348 but I guess that can wait. 639 00:25:16,482 --> 00:25:18,517 What you been up to today? - Nothing. 640 00:25:22,521 --> 00:25:24,022 - Well, you want to see this downstairs? 641 00:25:24,123 --> 00:25:25,157 - Sure. 642 00:25:25,290 --> 00:25:27,292 - It's not done yet, but it's getting there. 643 00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:30,529 I'm excited about it. 644 00:25:30,629 --> 00:25:33,198 So I still got to do the trim, paint. 645 00:25:33,265 --> 00:25:34,358 Check this out. 646 00:25:34,458 --> 00:25:35,501 It's getting there. 647 00:25:35,634 --> 00:25:38,695 We're three or four days away from being done. 648 00:25:38,829 --> 00:25:40,906 - I need to have another conversation with Steven 649 00:25:40,973 --> 00:25:42,499 about the tallow business. 650 00:25:42,533 --> 00:25:45,210 But whenever Steven and I have conversations about business, 651 00:25:45,310 --> 00:25:47,546 he talks down to me the entire time. 652 00:25:47,646 --> 00:25:51,517 And it's upsetting because I don't know about business, 653 00:25:51,550 --> 00:25:53,010 but I'm not an idiot. 654 00:25:53,043 --> 00:25:55,220 - For the tallow, we're gonna do live sales out of here too. 655 00:25:55,320 --> 00:25:57,322 - And it's time for me to stand up 656 00:25:57,356 --> 00:25:59,516 for myself in this situation. 657 00:25:59,550 --> 00:26:01,151 - We'll have three different camera setups in here. 658 00:26:01,218 --> 00:26:02,561 It's all hooked up to that new computer, 659 00:26:02,661 --> 00:26:04,496 and it'll be live selling. - Yeah. 660 00:26:04,596 --> 00:26:05,998 Now that you and Allie broke up, 661 00:26:06,064 --> 00:26:08,233 who's gonna be the cohost for the podcast? 662 00:26:08,300 --> 00:26:11,570 - Yeah, I honestly haven't thought that far. 663 00:26:11,703 --> 00:26:13,664 - Yeah. Taking it one day at a time? 664 00:26:13,730 --> 00:26:17,042 - Yeah, yeah. - How's it going? 665 00:26:17,076 --> 00:26:18,535 - I don't really know. 666 00:26:18,569 --> 00:26:22,080 - You wanted to give Allie 20%, and you were so, like, sure 667 00:26:22,214 --> 00:26:23,282 that that was gonna work out, and now 668 00:26:23,348 --> 00:26:25,050 you guys obviously broke up. 669 00:26:25,117 --> 00:26:27,553 - I'm someone that jumps in with both feet forward 670 00:26:27,653 --> 00:26:29,388 with someone, and it's come back 671 00:26:29,488 --> 00:26:32,015 to bite me in the butt a couple of times, many times. 672 00:26:32,082 --> 00:26:33,092 - Yeah, it does. 673 00:26:33,158 --> 00:26:35,519 - I mean, with the tallow business, 674 00:26:35,586 --> 00:26:37,629 I feel like you, Cole, and I taking it on together, 675 00:26:37,696 --> 00:26:39,798 we can really blow this thing up. 676 00:26:39,865 --> 00:26:42,701 But I absolutely want your blessing and your excitement 677 00:26:42,801 --> 00:26:44,219 behind it too. 678 00:26:44,253 --> 00:26:45,571 If you guys don't want me to be a part of it 679 00:26:45,671 --> 00:26:47,639 and you want to take it on, I'm good with that too. 680 00:26:47,706 --> 00:26:49,241 - Yeah. 681 00:26:49,374 --> 00:26:51,602 I mean, there for a while, I thought I could do it all 682 00:26:51,702 --> 00:26:54,680 on my own, but I know I can't. 683 00:26:54,746 --> 00:26:57,249 And we really need your help. 684 00:26:57,349 --> 00:27:00,452 - Well, if we can just figure out how to-- 685 00:27:00,586 --> 00:27:02,571 to stay in our own lanes and just stick 686 00:27:02,604 --> 00:27:04,248 to what we're good at, I think we're gonna blow this thing up. 687 00:27:04,281 --> 00:27:06,391 - We also need a mutual respect. 688 00:27:06,425 --> 00:27:07,493 - I agree. 689 00:27:07,559 --> 00:27:08,552 - Like, you couldn't do what I do. 690 00:27:08,619 --> 00:27:10,245 I can't do what you do. 691 00:27:10,279 --> 00:27:13,799 And the products I already have are obviously extremely good. 692 00:27:13,932 --> 00:27:16,768 So I'm gonna take the lead on the products and what's new 693 00:27:16,802 --> 00:27:17,794 and what we're doing with that. 694 00:27:17,895 --> 00:27:20,172 And you can take the lead on-- 695 00:27:20,239 --> 00:27:21,590 - All the technology, the website. 696 00:27:21,623 --> 00:27:22,908 - Yes, all the stuff I know nothing about. 697 00:27:23,008 --> 00:27:24,076 - I can do that. 698 00:27:24,109 --> 00:27:25,310 - I think we'd be a good team. 699 00:27:25,377 --> 00:27:27,095 - I think so too. 700 00:27:27,129 --> 00:27:28,780 We'll have some fun with this thing over the next six months. 701 00:27:28,847 --> 00:27:30,265 - Yeah, now we can actually get to work. 702 00:27:30,299 --> 00:27:31,433 - That's right. 703 00:27:31,466 --> 00:27:32,351 Now we can actually get to work. 704 00:27:32,417 --> 00:27:33,819 - Yeah. 705 00:27:33,886 --> 00:27:36,321 - ♪ Heading to the city, what you think of that ♪ 706 00:27:36,455 --> 00:27:39,892 ♪ I'm gonna leave this town but keep this packed ♪ 707 00:27:39,958 --> 00:27:43,428 ♪ I'll be rocking these jeans and drinking this jam ♪ 708 00:27:43,529 --> 00:27:45,631 ♪ I'm leaving this town, this town ♪ 709 00:27:45,731 --> 00:27:48,033 ♪ And not looking back ♪ 710 00:27:48,100 --> 00:27:52,955 ♪ ♪ 711 00:27:52,988 --> 00:27:54,573 - Hello. 712 00:27:54,640 --> 00:27:55,766 - What up? 713 00:27:55,832 --> 00:27:56,942 - Say hi to Dad. 714 00:27:57,042 --> 00:27:58,844 Got some toys. 715 00:27:58,977 --> 00:28:00,646 - Why are you bringing toys in here? 716 00:28:00,746 --> 00:28:05,651 - Summer wants to tell you that you need to watch her tonight. 717 00:28:05,684 --> 00:28:07,753 - Summer wants to tell me that I need to watch her tonight? 718 00:28:07,786 --> 00:28:09,621 - Yes. - Where you going? 719 00:28:09,688 --> 00:28:10,681 You got work tomorrow. 720 00:28:10,814 --> 00:28:12,291 - I'm going out with the girls. 721 00:28:12,357 --> 00:28:14,151 - Do I have her all night or just, like, an hour? 722 00:28:14,184 --> 00:28:15,143 - You got it. 723 00:28:15,177 --> 00:28:16,395 You're her daddy. 724 00:28:16,461 --> 00:28:19,131 - Yeah, but normally, you're here. 725 00:28:19,198 --> 00:28:20,699 What if she poops? - You don't need me. 726 00:28:20,766 --> 00:28:22,534 - Change her poopy diaper? - That's right. 727 00:28:22,601 --> 00:28:25,137 And she has not pooped today, so have fun with that. 728 00:28:25,170 --> 00:28:26,872 - You better hold it in, then. 729 00:28:29,366 --> 00:28:30,834 - What's the present for? 730 00:28:30,867 --> 00:28:32,536 - I got Alli a little something special. 731 00:28:32,636 --> 00:28:33,879 - You did? 732 00:28:33,979 --> 00:28:35,080 - Do you want me to throw your name on it too? 733 00:28:35,147 --> 00:28:36,515 - Yeah. 734 00:28:36,615 --> 00:28:37,683 Now we have to get her to actually have fun 735 00:28:37,816 --> 00:28:39,218 when we're out. - I know. 736 00:28:39,351 --> 00:28:40,519 - She needs a drink. 737 00:28:40,586 --> 00:28:42,921 - How long has it been since Alli's even gotten out 738 00:28:42,988 --> 00:28:45,157 away from Summer and Jesse? 739 00:28:45,224 --> 00:28:47,492 - Mm. How old is Summer? 740 00:28:47,526 --> 00:28:49,895 - [laughs] 741 00:28:49,962 --> 00:28:51,463 - Hey. 742 00:28:51,530 --> 00:28:53,632 You're making Summer mad, talking about going out. 743 00:28:53,699 --> 00:28:56,568 - Put her binky in. 744 00:28:56,668 --> 00:28:58,904 Jesse has the freedom to be able to, you know, 745 00:28:58,971 --> 00:29:02,190 hang out with his friends and do what he wants to do. 746 00:29:02,224 --> 00:29:04,576 And I stay home with Summer and watch her. 747 00:29:04,676 --> 00:29:06,878 - Has Jesse been helping out with Summer more? 748 00:29:06,979 --> 00:29:11,483 - Well, she's here with me, so no, not necessarily. 749 00:29:11,550 --> 00:29:14,086 - I encourage you to go out with your friends, 750 00:29:14,152 --> 00:29:15,579 to go do this, go do that. 751 00:29:15,712 --> 00:29:17,422 Well, if you're not gonna take advantage of this free night 752 00:29:17,522 --> 00:29:19,249 that we have, then I'm gonna go up to the farm and hunt 753 00:29:19,349 --> 00:29:20,659 and hang out with my buddies. 754 00:29:20,726 --> 00:29:22,894 - I just want to see more effort 755 00:29:22,928 --> 00:29:25,664 from Jesse in showing up for Summer, 756 00:29:25,731 --> 00:29:27,933 be able to watch her by himself. 757 00:29:28,066 --> 00:29:29,568 That's also him stepping up in a way 758 00:29:29,635 --> 00:29:31,553 that I need him to for our relationship. 759 00:29:31,586 --> 00:29:33,005 - Hey, why are you getting crazy? 760 00:29:33,071 --> 00:29:36,108 - [crying] 761 00:29:36,208 --> 00:29:37,309 - Here. 762 00:29:37,376 --> 00:29:39,878 - No, you're gonna take her. 763 00:29:39,978 --> 00:29:40,979 - Oh, my gosh. 764 00:29:41,046 --> 00:29:43,081 Hey, hey, it's OK. 765 00:29:43,181 --> 00:29:44,316 It's OK. 766 00:29:44,383 --> 00:29:46,451 - I did--I did her nighttime bottles for you. 767 00:29:46,585 --> 00:29:48,053 You got to fill up her formula thing. 768 00:29:48,086 --> 00:29:49,446 She can take a bath. 769 00:29:49,546 --> 00:29:50,580 - So when are you coming back? 770 00:29:50,614 --> 00:29:51,490 When are you-- 771 00:29:51,556 --> 00:29:52,783 - When we're done. 772 00:29:52,883 --> 00:29:54,526 It's like, what else can I give? 773 00:29:54,593 --> 00:29:55,886 You know, it's just, I don't know. 774 00:29:55,952 --> 00:29:57,045 I don't know what to do. 775 00:30:01,199 --> 00:30:03,060 - Alli! - We're here! 776 00:30:03,126 --> 00:30:04,970 - About time! 777 00:30:05,037 --> 00:30:05,904 - Yay! 778 00:30:06,004 --> 00:30:06,905 - You look good. 779 00:30:07,005 --> 00:30:08,740 - Oh, you guys look good. 780 00:30:08,807 --> 00:30:10,901 - I got you a little something. 781 00:30:10,967 --> 00:30:12,811 - Open it. - Open it. 782 00:30:12,878 --> 00:30:14,738 - I felt like you needed a little pick-me-up. 783 00:30:14,805 --> 00:30:15,714 - I'm scared. 784 00:30:15,747 --> 00:30:17,099 I don't know if I want to open it. 785 00:30:17,132 --> 00:30:18,108 I don't know if I trust you guys. 786 00:30:18,141 --> 00:30:19,318 - Open it. - It's a sweet gift. 787 00:30:19,418 --> 00:30:21,269 It's very thoughtful. - Thoughtful for who? 788 00:30:21,303 --> 00:30:23,889 - For you. I think about you all the time. 789 00:30:23,955 --> 00:30:25,157 - Guys, I am not opening that. 790 00:30:25,290 --> 00:30:26,625 - Open it. I want to see it. 791 00:30:26,692 --> 00:30:27,693 - So thoughtful. 792 00:30:27,759 --> 00:30:29,995 - Just show Kacie. 793 00:30:30,095 --> 00:30:32,097 - Whoo! 794 00:30:32,197 --> 00:30:33,098 - Oh, my God. 795 00:30:33,198 --> 00:30:34,666 I'm embarrassed. 796 00:30:34,766 --> 00:30:36,101 - If the drinks don't get you going tonight, 797 00:30:36,168 --> 00:30:37,002 that definitely will. 798 00:30:37,069 --> 00:30:38,670 - Thanks, guys. 799 00:30:40,839 --> 00:30:42,274 - Are you ready, Alli? 800 00:30:42,340 --> 00:30:45,444 More importantly, are you ready, Jesse? 801 00:30:45,477 --> 00:30:46,837 - Ask her. 802 00:30:46,970 --> 00:30:47,938 - This is near her eating area. 803 00:30:48,004 --> 00:30:48,947 Let's put this elsewhere. 804 00:30:49,047 --> 00:30:50,816 - It's not used. 805 00:30:50,916 --> 00:30:53,285 - Feeding area. 806 00:30:53,352 --> 00:30:54,978 - OK, love you, honey. 807 00:30:55,011 --> 00:30:56,012 Bye. - Bye. 808 00:30:56,146 --> 00:30:57,089 - I'll see you later. 809 00:30:57,155 --> 00:30:58,156 - Yeah, she's turning away from you. 810 00:30:58,256 --> 00:31:00,158 - Bye. - Bye. 811 00:31:00,192 --> 00:31:01,960 - Come on, Alli. - Say bye-bye. 812 00:31:02,027 --> 00:31:05,664 That's your mama. - Don't look back, Alli. 813 00:31:05,731 --> 00:31:08,366 Tegan, get in the middle. 814 00:31:08,433 --> 00:31:10,660 - We'll take better ones. - Meow. 815 00:31:10,694 --> 00:31:13,205 - Aw. - Oh, yeah, she's crying. 816 00:31:13,305 --> 00:31:14,840 Oh, maybe she's not crying. 817 00:31:14,940 --> 00:31:16,742 - Alli, you're already listening to the baby monitor? 818 00:31:16,808 --> 00:31:17,743 - What? 819 00:31:17,809 --> 00:31:18,944 I just want to check on her. 820 00:31:18,977 --> 00:31:20,328 - How long has it been since you've been out? 821 00:31:20,362 --> 00:31:21,646 - Vegas. 822 00:31:21,713 --> 00:31:23,340 - I feel like you guys were pretty good in Vegas. 823 00:31:23,373 --> 00:31:26,384 - We were good in Vegas, but we very easily 824 00:31:26,518 --> 00:31:28,879 slipped back into how we kind of were. 825 00:31:29,012 --> 00:31:32,958 I want him to be able to, like, tell me 826 00:31:32,991 --> 00:31:35,327 what he needs out of our relationship in order 827 00:31:35,394 --> 00:31:36,795 so that he can be happy. 828 00:31:36,828 --> 00:31:39,931 Like, I can't just constantly be the only one 829 00:31:39,998 --> 00:31:41,892 trying to put in an effort. 830 00:31:41,992 --> 00:31:43,160 - I feel like every time I talk to you, 831 00:31:43,226 --> 00:31:44,703 you are the one who's constantly 832 00:31:44,736 --> 00:31:46,071 putting something in. 833 00:31:46,204 --> 00:31:49,232 - Or having to initiate the conversations about change. 834 00:31:49,366 --> 00:31:50,734 - Oh, 100%. 835 00:31:50,867 --> 00:31:51,943 I mean, I can't even hardly get the man 836 00:31:52,010 --> 00:31:53,670 to talk about his feelings. 837 00:31:53,737 --> 00:31:55,447 He did mention, like, you're not cooking anymore. 838 00:31:55,514 --> 00:31:57,983 Like, it's just--we have to DoorDash every single night, 839 00:31:58,049 --> 00:31:59,050 which I understand. 840 00:31:59,084 --> 00:32:00,051 - You work. 841 00:32:00,118 --> 00:32:02,554 You work a full-time job. 842 00:32:02,654 --> 00:32:06,124 - He needs to be able to make a change, and I need to see it. 843 00:32:06,191 --> 00:32:07,225 - Yeah. 844 00:32:07,259 --> 00:32:09,052 - Or where are we going? 845 00:32:16,368 --> 00:32:17,661 - So what bar are we going to? 846 00:32:17,761 --> 00:32:18,870 - Alli's choice. 847 00:32:18,937 --> 00:32:21,832 - ♪ You can hold me to my word ♪ 848 00:32:21,932 --> 00:32:23,175 - We're here. 849 00:32:23,275 --> 00:32:25,911 - Whoo! Girls' night! 850 00:32:25,944 --> 00:32:28,313 - I think Alli really needs this night for her confidence. 851 00:32:28,380 --> 00:32:30,849 Alli is hot. She's funny. She's fun. 852 00:32:30,949 --> 00:32:33,151 You drag her off, right? - Yeah. Oh, yeah. 853 00:32:33,218 --> 00:32:34,286 OK, maybe I should do that. 854 00:32:34,352 --> 00:32:35,287 - Ready? - Yes. 855 00:32:35,353 --> 00:32:36,488 - ♪ You don't own me ♪ 856 00:32:36,588 --> 00:32:38,290 ♪ I'm not your property ♪ 857 00:32:38,390 --> 00:32:39,791 ♪ So take your ♪ 858 00:32:39,858 --> 00:32:41,760 [laughter] - Yes, that was good. 859 00:32:41,827 --> 00:32:43,295 - That was good. 860 00:32:43,395 --> 00:32:44,588 - I want to be able to feel sexy. 861 00:32:44,621 --> 00:32:46,665 I want to be able to go out and have fun. 862 00:32:46,731 --> 00:32:49,501 If Jesse is not gonna be that or make me feel that way, 863 00:32:49,568 --> 00:32:50,719 I'm gonna do it for myself. 864 00:32:52,904 --> 00:32:54,222 - Whoo! 865 00:32:55,941 --> 00:32:57,242 Thank you. - You're welcome. 866 00:32:57,375 --> 00:32:59,544 - Can I actually get the raspberry spritz? 867 00:32:59,611 --> 00:33:00,579 Thank you. 868 00:33:00,612 --> 00:33:01,813 - We'll wait till you have your drink, 869 00:33:01,913 --> 00:33:03,640 and then we'll do a cheers. - Thanks, guys. 870 00:33:03,707 --> 00:33:05,016 - It's definitely creamy. I like it. 871 00:33:05,116 --> 00:33:09,020 - Just a sports bar and three gals. 872 00:33:09,120 --> 00:33:10,522 - That's true. - All right. 873 00:33:10,589 --> 00:33:11,773 - OK. - Cheers. 874 00:33:11,806 --> 00:33:13,441 - Cheers to Alli. 875 00:33:13,475 --> 00:33:15,861 - OK, I have a toast, and then you have to chug it. 876 00:33:15,927 --> 00:33:18,196 There are good ships and wood ships 877 00:33:18,263 --> 00:33:20,490 and ships that sail the sea. 878 00:33:20,557 --> 00:33:24,202 - A farmer farms the land, and a sailor sails the sea. 879 00:33:24,269 --> 00:33:26,396 - But the best ships are friendships, 880 00:33:26,496 --> 00:33:28,006 and may they always be. 881 00:33:28,073 --> 00:33:30,467 - But a tequila glass and a stripper's ass 882 00:33:30,500 --> 00:33:31,576 is home to me. 883 00:33:31,676 --> 00:33:32,777 - Hell yeah, brother. 884 00:33:32,811 --> 00:33:34,379 - Aw, that's sweet. 885 00:33:34,446 --> 00:33:36,406 - At least it wasn't about a stripper's ass. 886 00:33:36,506 --> 00:33:39,509 - All the girls in this family, I truly 887 00:33:39,576 --> 00:33:41,144 thank God for them every day because you 888 00:33:41,177 --> 00:33:43,246 can get through anything if you have a good support system. 889 00:33:43,346 --> 00:33:45,682 - You want to smell it? 890 00:33:45,749 --> 00:33:47,058 - Just a little foam taste. 891 00:33:47,125 --> 00:33:49,152 - Oh, yeah, it smells good. 892 00:33:49,995 --> 00:33:51,521 - Chug it. 893 00:33:51,588 --> 00:33:52,797 - Guys, I'm pretty close down there. 894 00:33:52,931 --> 00:33:57,068 - Don't make me chug my raspberry spritzer. 895 00:33:57,135 --> 00:34:01,039 Alli, you did not! 896 00:34:01,106 --> 00:34:02,707 - Shame on you. 897 00:34:04,209 --> 00:34:07,662 - No, Jesse was questioning me going out on a weekday too. 898 00:34:07,696 --> 00:34:10,665 [dramatic music] 899 00:34:10,699 --> 00:34:16,154 I will do what I need to do to work on my marriage, 900 00:34:16,221 --> 00:34:20,025 but I also need him to as well. 901 00:34:20,058 --> 00:34:23,028 I didn't get married to him to end in a divorce. 902 00:34:23,094 --> 00:34:26,498 I didn't. But there needs to be a change. 903 00:34:26,531 --> 00:34:28,892 There needs to be a change in our relationship. 904 00:34:28,959 --> 00:34:31,403 Or where do I go from there? 905 00:34:36,241 --> 00:34:39,110 Oh, I got Kacie's boobs. 906 00:34:39,210 --> 00:34:41,613 [laughter] 907 00:34:41,680 --> 00:34:42,981 - Show them off, girlfriend. 908 00:34:43,048 --> 00:34:44,240 - Oh, God. 909 00:34:44,307 --> 00:34:49,646 ♪ ♪ 910 00:34:49,746 --> 00:34:55,994 - ♪ There's a countdown to the end ♪ 911 00:34:56,094 --> 00:34:58,096 - You ready for this? 912 00:34:58,163 --> 00:34:59,497 - No. 913 00:34:59,564 --> 00:35:00,832 - Morning. 914 00:35:00,899 --> 00:35:02,033 - This should be interesting. 915 00:35:02,067 --> 00:35:04,928 I wonder--I wonder how it's gonna go. 916 00:35:04,995 --> 00:35:05,937 - What's going on? 917 00:35:06,004 --> 00:35:07,097 - What's up? - What up? 918 00:35:07,163 --> 00:35:09,733 - Any last-minute thoughts? 919 00:35:09,766 --> 00:35:11,710 I know I've been debating it for the last few days, 920 00:35:11,843 --> 00:35:14,946 and this is still the right decision, no matter what. 921 00:35:15,046 --> 00:35:17,273 - I mean, I know she's gonna be upset, but-- 922 00:35:17,340 --> 00:35:18,883 - She'll for sure be upset. 923 00:35:18,984 --> 00:35:20,910 But again, like, there's a lot of good that comes from this, 924 00:35:20,944 --> 00:35:21,953 too, for her. 925 00:35:22,053 --> 00:35:22,988 - Yeah. 926 00:35:23,088 --> 00:35:24,122 Do you want me to go grab her? 927 00:35:24,222 --> 00:35:26,925 - Yeah. - It's time. Now or never. 928 00:35:26,958 --> 00:35:28,460 - All right. 929 00:35:28,560 --> 00:35:32,397 ♪ ♪ 930 00:35:32,430 --> 00:35:34,432 - Hey, Galyna, do you want to come talk in the conference 931 00:35:34,499 --> 00:35:35,834 room real quick? 932 00:35:35,900 --> 00:35:37,502 - Sure. 933 00:35:37,569 --> 00:35:39,971 - Steven's in here, and I think he wanted to talk a little bit. 934 00:35:43,867 --> 00:35:45,977 - Yeah. 935 00:35:46,044 --> 00:35:47,946 - Hey, Galyna. - Oh, wow. What's up, guys? 936 00:35:47,979 --> 00:35:49,147 - Oh, not a whole lot. 937 00:35:49,214 --> 00:35:50,415 How's your day been going? 938 00:35:50,448 --> 00:35:53,151 - Good, just, you know, normal, working away. 939 00:35:53,251 --> 00:35:56,788 ♪ ♪ 940 00:35:56,855 --> 00:36:00,158 - Well, just wanted to bring you in here 941 00:36:00,225 --> 00:36:01,526 and tell you something that we've 942 00:36:01,593 --> 00:36:04,329 been thinking about pretty heavily 943 00:36:04,396 --> 00:36:07,323 and made the decision that we're 944 00:36:07,390 --> 00:36:09,000 gonna move forward with it. 945 00:36:09,067 --> 00:36:10,502 - OK. 946 00:36:12,654 --> 00:36:17,509 - We're gonna sell the car washes as soon as we can. 947 00:36:17,575 --> 00:36:18,710 - OK. 948 00:36:18,777 --> 00:36:21,629 - I know the plan was to wait until we have 949 00:36:21,663 --> 00:36:23,615 a few more years of operations to sell them, 950 00:36:23,648 --> 00:36:26,651 but now is the time. 951 00:36:26,718 --> 00:36:29,888 We have some banks that are getting nervous with some loans 952 00:36:29,954 --> 00:36:31,589 that we have up at the farm, 953 00:36:31,690 --> 00:36:34,059 specifically one that's on Cole's house. 954 00:36:34,159 --> 00:36:35,593 And selling the car washes would be 955 00:36:35,694 --> 00:36:38,496 a clean slate debt-wise. 956 00:36:38,530 --> 00:36:41,666 Honestly, this is a good thing. 957 00:36:41,733 --> 00:36:45,929 You would get a payday, and whatever buyer ends up 958 00:36:45,995 --> 00:36:47,672 buying the car washes, 959 00:36:47,706 --> 00:36:49,641 they're gonna want the leadership team to stay on 960 00:36:49,708 --> 00:36:50,909 for three to five years. 961 00:36:51,009 --> 00:36:53,369 And they're gonna pay them a damn good salary. 962 00:36:53,436 --> 00:36:58,650 This is a good deal for everyone. 963 00:36:58,783 --> 00:37:00,510 - OK. 964 00:37:00,543 --> 00:37:01,553 - What are your thoughts? 965 00:37:01,653 --> 00:37:02,854 I don't-- 966 00:37:02,887 --> 00:37:06,391 - Let me sink it in here for a second. 967 00:37:09,360 --> 00:37:11,454 I mean, are you ----ing kidding me? 968 00:37:11,554 --> 00:37:13,498 They have not been involved in the car wash operations. 969 00:37:13,565 --> 00:37:16,768 They absolutely do not know the financial state 970 00:37:16,868 --> 00:37:18,461 of the car washes. 971 00:37:18,561 --> 00:37:21,272 I don't even know what to think about it. 972 00:37:21,372 --> 00:37:23,700 I'm the one that's really aware of what's truly 973 00:37:23,733 --> 00:37:25,844 going on financially with the car washes 974 00:37:25,877 --> 00:37:28,179 and when it would be the right time to sell it. 975 00:37:28,213 --> 00:37:30,406 - Galyna, this isn't a debate. 976 00:37:30,473 --> 00:37:32,417 This is happening. 977 00:37:32,484 --> 00:37:34,018 - This is insane. 978 00:37:34,052 --> 00:37:35,286 - We've already made this decision, 979 00:37:35,353 --> 00:37:36,546 and the boys are behind it. 980 00:37:43,244 --> 00:37:46,197 [dramatic music] 981 00:37:46,264 --> 00:37:48,867 - This stress, we can't take it anymore. 982 00:37:48,933 --> 00:37:50,185 The boys are starting families. 983 00:37:50,251 --> 00:37:51,703 Cole is on his second kid. 984 00:37:51,770 --> 00:37:53,037 - I need to be able to sleep at night in my house 985 00:37:53,104 --> 00:37:54,531 knowing that it's still gonna be there. 986 00:37:54,564 --> 00:37:57,242 - Why do you guys again making the decisions on my behalf? 987 00:37:57,308 --> 00:37:59,335 That's what was happening in the past with your dad. 988 00:37:59,402 --> 00:38:01,312 He always would make a decision what he 989 00:38:01,379 --> 00:38:02,939 thinks that is good for everybody. 990 00:38:03,006 --> 00:38:03,882 - The banks are calling us. 991 00:38:03,948 --> 00:38:05,383 I mean, we don't know if my house 992 00:38:05,450 --> 00:38:06,451 could be gone next week with this bank 993 00:38:06,484 --> 00:38:07,552 wanting to cool the note. 994 00:38:07,652 --> 00:38:09,220 And I hope that everything would go good 995 00:38:09,287 --> 00:38:10,922 for you working for a new company and all that. 996 00:38:11,022 --> 00:38:12,248 But at some point, we have to worry 997 00:38:12,348 --> 00:38:13,616 about our salary, too, and what we're making 998 00:38:13,716 --> 00:38:17,028 and what's the best for our family. 999 00:38:17,095 --> 00:38:18,521 - We've been there for each other 1000 00:38:18,588 --> 00:38:22,358 through the most difficult situations. 1001 00:38:22,392 --> 00:38:26,296 We stuck together through all of those moments. 1002 00:38:26,396 --> 00:38:27,572 - You can vent to me anytime. 1003 00:38:27,672 --> 00:38:28,940 - Same is here. - I love you. 1004 00:38:29,007 --> 00:38:30,567 - I love you. 1005 00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:32,302 - You do a lot for us. 1006 00:38:32,402 --> 00:38:33,878 I just want to say thank you for that 1007 00:38:33,945 --> 00:38:36,080 and that you're obviously a big part of our lives. 1008 00:38:36,147 --> 00:38:38,741 - You are our family, and we all have your back. 1009 00:38:38,775 --> 00:38:39,984 - Thank you. 1010 00:38:40,051 --> 00:38:42,153 - Galyna really has felt like she 1011 00:38:42,253 --> 00:38:44,088 is part of the McBee family. 1012 00:38:44,155 --> 00:38:45,315 - We're always gonna care for her, 1013 00:38:45,415 --> 00:38:47,050 and she's always gonna care for us. 1014 00:38:47,116 --> 00:38:49,244 But with the bank loans that we have, 1015 00:38:49,310 --> 00:38:51,095 seeing Galyna go with the sale of the car washes, 1016 00:38:51,162 --> 00:38:52,363 as bad as it sucks, 1017 00:38:52,430 --> 00:38:54,891 that's a sacrifice I'd make any day. 1018 00:38:54,924 --> 00:38:57,101 - There is no other options 1019 00:38:57,168 --> 00:38:59,495 if we want to work our way out of this. 1020 00:38:59,562 --> 00:39:01,164 - Got it. 1021 00:39:01,264 --> 00:39:02,173 - I'm gonna be honest, Galyna. 1022 00:39:02,273 --> 00:39:04,542 We want what's best for you, 1023 00:39:04,609 --> 00:39:07,779 but we have to do what's best for our family. 1024 00:39:07,846 --> 00:39:09,297 It's just time to, like, cut ties 1025 00:39:09,330 --> 00:39:11,616 and kind of go our separate ways. 1026 00:39:11,683 --> 00:39:14,143 - Oh, we're taking it that far? 1027 00:39:16,688 --> 00:39:19,949 You guys are getting rid of me. 1028 00:39:20,016 --> 00:39:22,018 What's going to happen? 1029 00:39:22,085 --> 00:39:27,065 ♪ ♪ 1030 00:39:27,131 --> 00:39:29,425 I've treated you guys as a family, 1031 00:39:29,492 --> 00:39:31,628 and I feel like now you guys are making decision 1032 00:39:31,661 --> 00:39:32,929 like you're a family. 1033 00:39:32,962 --> 00:39:34,998 Like, we decided that it is good for you. 1034 00:39:35,098 --> 00:39:37,308 I need to make a decision what's good for me. 1035 00:39:37,408 --> 00:39:39,294 It's not your decision. 1036 00:39:39,360 --> 00:39:42,038 I've been with McBees for over seven years now, 1037 00:39:42,138 --> 00:39:45,450 and I was here to support them no matter what. 1038 00:39:45,483 --> 00:39:47,819 - We have to do what's best for our family. 1039 00:39:47,886 --> 00:39:51,055 I feel it's best if we both just kind of go our own ways. 1040 00:39:51,122 --> 00:39:52,190 - OK. 1041 00:39:52,257 --> 00:39:55,460 I made a lot of sacrifices for this family. 1042 00:39:55,526 --> 00:40:00,965 It feels like the boys completely betrayed me. 1043 00:40:01,032 --> 00:40:05,820 You know, on this note, if you chose to make it personal, 1044 00:40:05,887 --> 00:40:07,906 let's just go ahead and make it personal. 1045 00:40:10,500 --> 00:40:11,576 - Where's she going? 1046 00:40:14,946 --> 00:40:18,808 - What does she mean by make it personal? 1047 00:40:18,841 --> 00:40:21,152 - (BLEEP). 1048 00:40:21,219 --> 00:40:22,353 - Where's she going? 1049 00:40:22,420 --> 00:40:23,746 - You can see her on the camera, Steven. 1050 00:40:23,846 --> 00:40:24,822 She's about to be-- 1051 00:40:24,889 --> 00:40:25,840 - Oh, she's going down over-- 1052 00:40:25,907 --> 00:40:27,859 oh, there she is. 1053 00:40:27,926 --> 00:40:30,995 What'd she just grab? 1054 00:40:31,062 --> 00:40:33,923 - ♪ Go on and surrender ♪ 1055 00:40:33,990 --> 00:40:35,433 ♪ Whoa-oh-oh ♪ 1056 00:40:35,533 --> 00:40:38,528 - Is that a ----ing crowbar? 1057 00:40:38,594 --> 00:40:40,338 - No way. - There ain't no way. 1058 00:40:40,371 --> 00:40:41,773 - She's not gonna break it, right? 1059 00:40:41,806 --> 00:40:43,007 - No, she's not. 1060 00:40:43,074 --> 00:40:44,909 - She's gonna hit your truck. - Dude, she is. 1061 00:40:44,976 --> 00:40:46,944 Oh! - Oh! 1062 00:40:47,011 --> 00:40:49,539 Steven, she smashed your window. 1063 00:40:49,572 --> 00:40:52,016 - No way. - Get out there now. 1064 00:40:52,083 --> 00:40:54,410 - Oh, my goodness. [crowbar clatters] 1065 00:40:54,510 --> 00:40:55,987 ♪ ♪ 1066 00:40:56,054 --> 00:40:57,947 - ♪ I'm about to tear the world apart ♪ 1067 00:40:58,014 --> 00:40:59,557 ♪ Whoa-oh-oh ♪ 1068 00:40:59,624 --> 00:41:01,050 ♪ Whoa-oh-oh-oh ♪ 1069 00:41:01,117 --> 00:41:04,954 - ♪ Break things in the dark ♪ 1070 00:41:05,054 --> 00:41:06,789 - You got to be ----ing kidding me. 1071 00:41:06,889 --> 00:41:07,857 - ♪ Tear the world apart ♪ 1072 00:41:07,924 --> 00:41:10,468 ♪ Whoa-oh-oh-oh ♪ 1073 00:41:10,535 --> 00:41:12,337 - Are you ----ing serious? 1074 00:41:12,403 --> 00:41:14,222 - ♪ I'm about to tear the world apart ♪ 1075 00:41:17,342 --> 00:41:19,727 - She's so done. 1076 00:41:19,794 --> 00:41:20,812 - Wow. 1077 00:41:20,912 --> 00:41:22,730 I'm glad she went to yours. 1078 00:41:22,797 --> 00:41:24,148 - Crazy. 1079 00:41:24,248 --> 00:41:25,750 - Oh, my goodness. 1080 00:41:25,850 --> 00:41:27,518 - I'm gonna hide that so nobody sees it. 1081 00:41:27,585 --> 00:41:29,103 - Dude. 1082 00:41:29,137 --> 00:41:31,647 - It's been a long time since I've seen this Galyna. 1083 00:41:31,748 --> 00:41:33,324 - I'm gonna drop this ----ing Escalade 1084 00:41:33,424 --> 00:41:35,718 on this bitch's front porch. 1085 00:41:35,752 --> 00:41:37,328 - $7,000 in damage. 1086 00:41:37,428 --> 00:41:38,329 - What happened to her car? 1087 00:41:38,396 --> 00:41:39,822 - I don't know. 1088 00:41:39,889 --> 00:41:41,165 - We've been through a hell of a lot, 1089 00:41:41,265 --> 00:41:45,261 and Galyna going scorched earth was not in our cards. 1090 00:41:45,328 --> 00:41:47,830 - I didn't think it'd go that bad. 1091 00:41:47,930 --> 00:41:49,774 - We're selling these things as soon as we can. 1092 00:41:49,841 --> 00:41:51,342 She's gone. 1093 00:41:51,376 --> 00:41:53,611 - It's not been too much fun the last few years 1094 00:41:53,678 --> 00:41:56,147 with my dad's situation. 1095 00:41:56,247 --> 00:41:58,307 - From the car washes to getting 1096 00:41:58,408 --> 00:42:00,810 rid of all of our row crop, growing our cattle side, 1097 00:42:00,910 --> 00:42:03,187 there's so much going on. 1098 00:42:03,254 --> 00:42:06,391 - Honestly, I can't believe we are in this situation. 1099 00:42:06,424 --> 00:42:07,959 I don't know what's gonna happen with the farm, 1100 00:42:08,059 --> 00:42:10,628 with my house, with-- with everything. 1101 00:42:10,695 --> 00:42:12,563 I'm really not sure. 1102 00:42:12,630 --> 00:42:14,857 - I always say that at some point, 1103 00:42:14,957 --> 00:42:17,101 I feel like our life is going to settle down, 1104 00:42:17,135 --> 00:42:18,528 and I feel like that timeline just 1105 00:42:18,594 --> 00:42:20,705 keeps getting extended out because every year 1106 00:42:20,738 --> 00:42:24,108 gets crazier and crazier. 1107 00:42:24,175 --> 00:42:25,543 Our backs are up against the wall, 1108 00:42:25,576 --> 00:42:28,938 and the banks are calling us nonstop. 1109 00:42:29,005 --> 00:42:31,315 It's gonna be really tough to make this work. 1110 00:42:31,382 --> 00:42:35,011 But I'll be damned if we don't save the farm. 1111 00:42:35,111 --> 00:42:39,807 ♪ ♪