1 00:00:33,908 --> 00:00:38,329 I was hired in January of '95 with the Pilmar family. 2 00:00:39,205 --> 00:00:44,502 Howard and Ros Pilmar really needed someone to help with their son, Philip. 3 00:00:46,212 --> 00:00:48,631 After I'd been working for them for over a year, 4 00:00:49,424 --> 00:00:52,802 I went to work, I walked back to Philip's room, 5 00:00:52,802 --> 00:00:55,764 and he was in his school clothes, 6 00:00:55,764 --> 00:00:58,099 on a made bed, staring at the ceiling. 7 00:00:59,100 --> 00:01:02,520 And he said, "Oh, my dad didn't come home last night." 8 00:01:03,146 --> 00:01:05,440 I could tell he was upset. 9 00:01:06,816 --> 00:01:10,320 A little bit later, I was standing in the foyer, 10 00:01:10,320 --> 00:01:16,618 and Ros just walked in just with a look of shock on her face. 11 00:01:17,202 --> 00:01:18,912 I could tell she had been crying. 12 00:01:18,912 --> 00:01:21,831 She just stood there, opened her hands, and said, 13 00:01:22,373 --> 00:01:23,374 "Howard's dead." 14 00:01:23,875 --> 00:01:27,295 And I remember just thinking, 15 00:01:28,713 --> 00:01:29,923 "This... This can't be." 16 00:01:33,051 --> 00:01:37,138 In the 1990s, the murder rate was off the charts in New York City. 17 00:01:39,057 --> 00:01:43,394 But to have a businessman that's murdered in his own business in Midtown Manhattan, 18 00:01:43,394 --> 00:01:45,271 that's a rare occasion. 19 00:01:49,859 --> 00:01:53,363 Howard Pilmar was stabbed 20, 30, 40 times. 20 00:01:54,113 --> 00:01:56,324 Everybody had a theory. None of us had an answer. 21 00:01:56,324 --> 00:02:01,663 It was unsolved, but you never close an unsolved homicide. 22 00:02:06,835 --> 00:02:09,629 Every single case takes a little piece out of your soul. 23 00:02:12,298 --> 00:02:16,219 You cannot do this job unless you really care. 24 00:02:18,304 --> 00:02:20,557 You want to find out the truth. 25 00:02:21,683 --> 00:02:23,226 That's what detectives do. 26 00:02:23,810 --> 00:02:26,187 I've always liked the peek behind the curtain. 27 00:02:26,187 --> 00:02:28,022 What really happened? 28 00:02:28,523 --> 00:02:32,193 It's so important for a family to know who murdered their relative. 29 00:02:32,193 --> 00:02:33,319 That's my job. 30 00:02:33,945 --> 00:02:38,199 In New York City, the NYPD... 31 00:02:41,161 --> 00:02:42,370 This is it. 32 00:02:59,179 --> 00:03:03,474 1996, I'm the commanding officer of the Midtown South Detective Squad, 33 00:03:03,474 --> 00:03:07,103 which is the busiest detective squad in the city of New York. 34 00:03:07,103 --> 00:03:08,897 Over 2,000 cases a year. 35 00:03:09,731 --> 00:03:12,775 Get a call early in the morning, before I report to work, 36 00:03:12,775 --> 00:03:16,613 that we have a... a murder in an office building in Midtown. 37 00:03:18,740 --> 00:03:21,075 It was a Friday. Walked to work. It was payday. 38 00:03:21,075 --> 00:03:22,744 I was in a great mood. 39 00:03:22,744 --> 00:03:24,913 Doing fabulously in sales 40 00:03:24,913 --> 00:03:29,250 {\an8}at King Office Supply Company, Incorporated. 41 00:03:30,043 --> 00:03:33,213 I think I arrived about 8:20. I was always early. 42 00:03:33,213 --> 00:03:37,967 And outside the entrance to the building on 33rd Street 43 00:03:37,967 --> 00:03:41,137 was standing an employee who's never outside. 44 00:03:41,137 --> 00:03:43,014 He was always in his office. 45 00:03:43,640 --> 00:03:45,016 He was outside. 46 00:03:50,230 --> 00:03:52,690 And I asked him, "Ed, why are you standing here?" 47 00:03:52,690 --> 00:03:56,694 And he turned to me and said, "Howard is dead." 48 00:04:01,950 --> 00:04:05,370 The controller, King's controller, came in at 5:30 in the morning 49 00:04:05,370 --> 00:04:07,247 and found Howard's body. 50 00:04:07,247 --> 00:04:09,791 He immediately went downstairs and called 911. 51 00:04:14,879 --> 00:04:18,091 I learned, when I first got to the crime scene, 52 00:04:18,091 --> 00:04:21,386 that King was a big office supply 53 00:04:21,386 --> 00:04:24,347 with a storefront on the first floor, 54 00:04:24,347 --> 00:04:27,141 and then an employee office on the fourth floor. 55 00:04:33,022 --> 00:04:35,817 His body was found right outside the elevator 56 00:04:36,651 --> 00:04:39,279 in the reception section on the fourth floor. 57 00:04:41,614 --> 00:04:43,157 We have a stab victim. 58 00:04:45,243 --> 00:04:46,869 There was lots of blood. 59 00:04:51,833 --> 00:04:54,502 Down the hallway, there was a sink with blood in it 60 00:04:54,502 --> 00:04:57,088 that led you to believe that someone was washing their hands 61 00:04:57,088 --> 00:04:59,090 or washing the murder weapon. 62 00:05:03,928 --> 00:05:05,221 I remember... 63 00:05:08,391 --> 00:05:09,934 the shock of it. 64 00:05:10,852 --> 00:05:12,687 I remember screaming, "No." 65 00:05:14,022 --> 00:05:17,025 And at that point is when they brought the body out, 66 00:05:18,234 --> 00:05:19,402 Howard's body. 67 00:05:24,032 --> 00:05:28,786 When I found out that Howard's body was discovered in the office, 68 00:05:28,786 --> 00:05:30,955 I was knocked off my feet. 69 00:05:31,581 --> 00:05:35,501 I felt like I guess any parent would feel 70 00:05:35,501 --> 00:05:40,298 {\an8}when they heard their child was dead, especially from a murder. 71 00:05:40,298 --> 00:05:45,887 I can't even try to express my... my feelings today. 72 00:05:47,472 --> 00:05:50,558 Howard and my father, they worked together every day. 73 00:05:50,558 --> 00:05:52,352 They were very, very close. 74 00:05:52,352 --> 00:05:54,187 Howard just turned 40. 75 00:05:55,605 --> 00:05:56,939 {\an8}They... They looked alike. 76 00:05:56,939 --> 00:05:59,984 {\an8}You know, they had the same fun personality. 77 00:06:01,235 --> 00:06:04,614 Very outgoing, very personable. 78 00:06:04,614 --> 00:06:06,157 Everybody liked them. 79 00:06:07,825 --> 00:06:10,912 Howard must have been four or five years old 80 00:06:10,912 --> 00:06:13,414 when he came to the store the first time. 81 00:06:13,414 --> 00:06:15,875 He always wanted to work for my company. 82 00:06:17,835 --> 00:06:23,007 My partner and I started in the stationery business March 1st, 1958. 83 00:06:23,007 --> 00:06:24,550 Office supplies. 84 00:06:24,550 --> 00:06:27,678 You know, any kind of commercial printing. 85 00:06:27,678 --> 00:06:29,138 Things of that nature. 86 00:06:29,639 --> 00:06:32,600 I gave him the business, like, uh, 87 00:06:33,935 --> 00:06:36,604 five or six months before he was murdered. 88 00:06:38,523 --> 00:06:42,485 Frank was devastated by, uh, the murder. 89 00:06:42,485 --> 00:06:44,737 It's unnatural for a parent to bury a child. 90 00:06:44,737 --> 00:06:47,949 I can't imagine going through life and not being a father, 91 00:06:47,949 --> 00:06:52,537 and not seeing my sons succeed, and develop, and do what they're doing. 92 00:06:52,537 --> 00:06:56,707 I wouldn't trade that in for anything. I mean, I think being a father's probably... 93 00:06:59,460 --> 00:07:01,838 the most important title I've ever held. 94 00:07:06,717 --> 00:07:08,845 The sun rose and set... 95 00:07:08,845 --> 00:07:11,055 In my eyes, Howard... 96 00:07:14,142 --> 00:07:15,435 ...was my whole life. 97 00:07:23,568 --> 00:07:25,862 We're trying to figure out what's going on. 98 00:07:25,862 --> 00:07:28,364 Who do we need to speak to? Security cameras. 99 00:07:30,450 --> 00:07:34,328 We did many canvasses. You do initial canvass that day. 100 00:07:34,328 --> 00:07:38,082 {\an8}We canvass for weapons, garbage pails, elevator shafts. 101 00:07:38,833 --> 00:07:41,711 He still had his cash, all his personal effects. 102 00:07:41,711 --> 00:07:44,046 Kinda told us this wasn't a random robbery. 103 00:07:46,090 --> 00:07:50,011 Howard was murdered in the office. Police were there. 104 00:07:50,011 --> 00:07:52,638 It was very unsettling to even be there. 105 00:07:54,015 --> 00:07:59,353 The detectives asked me to look for records of employees 106 00:07:59,353 --> 00:08:01,856 that might have wished him ill, 107 00:08:02,773 --> 00:08:05,860 might've hated him, that he had a dispute with. 108 00:08:05,860 --> 00:08:10,489 All I found was one person who... who left in the last few months. 109 00:08:10,489 --> 00:08:13,493 This guy worked in the copy center, in the store. 110 00:08:14,076 --> 00:08:15,870 It was a low-level job. 111 00:08:16,412 --> 00:08:17,788 It was a lead. 112 00:08:17,788 --> 00:08:18,998 They pursued it. 113 00:08:18,998 --> 00:08:22,627 They spoke to other employees about him, then also spoke to him, 114 00:08:22,627 --> 00:08:25,880 {\an8}and then saw it was a nonissue there. 115 00:08:28,591 --> 00:08:30,343 To me, Howard was a great boss. 116 00:08:31,302 --> 00:08:34,180 When he came into a room, you noticed it. 117 00:08:34,180 --> 00:08:38,809 He was connected to all of us. Howard made you feel like family. 118 00:08:40,603 --> 00:08:42,480 He... He was in the prime... 119 00:08:42,980 --> 00:08:45,525 the absolute prime of his life. 120 00:08:46,025 --> 00:08:51,781 A healthy, successful, outgoing... 121 00:08:51,781 --> 00:08:53,449 A wonderful man. 122 00:08:53,449 --> 00:08:55,618 To be murdered? Oh, God. 123 00:09:03,334 --> 00:09:06,295 I went to the last hour of Howard's autopsy. 124 00:09:07,713 --> 00:09:09,632 He had over 40 stab wounds. 125 00:09:10,132 --> 00:09:11,926 Not all were penetrating. 126 00:09:11,926 --> 00:09:15,096 There was five that may have been considered fatal enough 127 00:09:15,096 --> 00:09:16,931 if they were just by themselves. 128 00:09:16,931 --> 00:09:20,142 There was also a postmortem, 129 00:09:20,142 --> 00:09:23,312 which is after his heart stops beating, 130 00:09:23,312 --> 00:09:27,316 after he's legitimately dead, he's continually getting stabbed. 131 00:09:29,151 --> 00:09:33,239 This was a fierce, emotional attack of Howard. 132 00:09:38,202 --> 00:09:40,037 We go to the funeral service. 133 00:09:40,621 --> 00:09:45,001 We had detectives inside that were overt. 134 00:09:45,001 --> 00:09:48,504 We were showing support to the family by being there. 135 00:09:48,504 --> 00:09:52,717 But what you're also doing is looking for some strange interaction 136 00:09:52,717 --> 00:09:55,094 between anybody, right? 137 00:09:55,094 --> 00:10:00,016 It could be as simple as a female, not the wife, losing her mind, 138 00:10:00,016 --> 00:10:01,892 or two people arguing. 139 00:10:01,892 --> 00:10:04,228 On top of that, we were outside the funeral 140 00:10:04,228 --> 00:10:06,314 filming everybody coming in and out. 141 00:10:06,314 --> 00:10:09,608 So in case there was something, we can later go back to the film. 142 00:10:11,694 --> 00:10:14,405 There were over 1,000 people at the funeral. 143 00:10:15,406 --> 00:10:18,075 So it was... it was kind of daunting. 144 00:10:19,952 --> 00:10:22,830 In the Jewish religion, after the funeral, 145 00:10:22,830 --> 00:10:26,959 people come and visit at the house of the person who dies, 146 00:10:26,959 --> 00:10:29,462 and they pay their respects that way. 147 00:10:29,962 --> 00:10:31,380 This is called "shiva." 148 00:10:32,214 --> 00:10:38,846 Howard's wife, Ros, asked if she could have the shiva at our house 149 00:10:40,222 --> 00:10:46,395 because it would upset Philip to have it at their apartment. 150 00:10:46,395 --> 00:10:48,564 And, naturally, we said yes. 151 00:10:52,526 --> 00:10:55,738 Philip loved his dad, and his dad adored him. 152 00:10:58,074 --> 00:10:59,241 Philip was eight. 153 00:10:59,742 --> 00:11:02,411 Very, very smart for an eight-year-old. 154 00:11:02,411 --> 00:11:08,084 He was a really talkative kid, and happy, and just full of energy. 155 00:11:08,584 --> 00:11:12,880 To see how Philip changed after he lost his dad... 156 00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:15,424 His vibrancy left. 157 00:11:15,424 --> 00:11:18,219 His chattiness left. 158 00:11:18,219 --> 00:11:20,888 His confidence was different. 159 00:11:20,888 --> 00:11:25,226 So all of these things that I saw in him as a spunky little boy, 160 00:11:25,226 --> 00:11:28,437 that was all stripped. That was all taken away from him. 161 00:11:29,313 --> 00:11:31,440 He was lonely without his dad. 162 00:11:39,657 --> 00:11:44,161 {\an8}After shiva, Ros comes into the office. 163 00:11:45,162 --> 00:11:50,543 {\an8}And she brought with her two gentlemen from a large business products dealer. 164 00:11:51,669 --> 00:11:55,923 She made an arrangement to sell them the business. 165 00:11:57,466 --> 00:11:58,968 She couldn't run the business. 166 00:11:58,968 --> 00:12:02,221 She didn't know anything about the stationery business. 167 00:12:02,221 --> 00:12:03,764 We all were conflicted. 168 00:12:04,265 --> 00:12:07,977 "She's selling the business? Oh no. What does that mean?" 169 00:12:08,602 --> 00:12:12,189 We were close to $1,000,000 a month in business at that time. 170 00:12:13,232 --> 00:12:15,025 We had about 15 salesmen. 171 00:12:16,277 --> 00:12:19,572 Without us, there was no business, there were no customers. 172 00:12:19,572 --> 00:12:22,992 And we told them, "If you buy, we're all leaving." 173 00:12:24,118 --> 00:12:26,912 Which is how we bought the business from her. 174 00:12:29,915 --> 00:12:33,627 Frank explained the dynamics of the business and who was who. 175 00:12:33,627 --> 00:12:37,715 'Cause that's part of what you have to do, understand even how the business works 176 00:12:37,715 --> 00:12:40,301 and who's responsible for what. 177 00:12:40,801 --> 00:12:43,387 We interviewed everybody who had worked for Howard. 178 00:12:44,138 --> 00:12:46,348 There was 50 to 60 employees that we interviewed. 179 00:12:46,348 --> 00:12:48,851 I bet each one of them was interviewed two to three times. 180 00:12:48,851 --> 00:12:50,561 That's 180 interviews. 181 00:12:51,937 --> 00:12:55,983 Detectives, in their due diligence, 182 00:12:56,525 --> 00:12:58,778 interviewed all of us twice. 183 00:12:59,695 --> 00:13:02,490 So the first was a very cursory... 184 00:13:02,990 --> 00:13:06,410 But the second time, I think he might have asked me, 185 00:13:07,161 --> 00:13:08,996 "Did you overhear any arguments?" 186 00:13:10,748 --> 00:13:16,045 I overheard at 5:30, the day before we found Howard's body, 187 00:13:16,712 --> 00:13:23,219 Howard's side of a brutal, vicious argument 188 00:13:23,219 --> 00:13:24,637 between he and Ros. 189 00:13:24,637 --> 00:13:26,847 He was yelling and screaming. 190 00:13:27,348 --> 00:13:30,935 Howard screamed into the phone, 191 00:13:30,935 --> 00:13:34,855 "You effin' C-U-N-T." 192 00:13:35,689 --> 00:13:37,441 I'm sayin' to myself, 193 00:13:38,484 --> 00:13:42,321 "That's a hard one to come back from in a marriage." 194 00:13:47,660 --> 00:13:52,289 {\an8}Ros was the first girl that Howard ever had, 195 00:13:52,289 --> 00:13:53,791 if you know what I mean. 196 00:13:53,791 --> 00:13:58,045 They went to high school together, and then they moved in together. 197 00:13:58,045 --> 00:14:00,548 And before I knew it, they got married. 198 00:14:01,507 --> 00:14:04,426 It was a nice, big Jewish wedding at that time. 199 00:14:04,426 --> 00:14:07,137 You know, we made a nice... nice party. 200 00:14:07,972 --> 00:14:10,015 Howard was very happy. 201 00:14:10,015 --> 00:14:16,689 I never had an inkling of any... any kind of, um... problem with his marriage. 202 00:14:18,357 --> 00:14:21,944 Under any circumstances, you're looking for more witnesses. 203 00:14:21,944 --> 00:14:26,907 Spoke to friends, family, and things become apparent. 204 00:14:26,907 --> 00:14:28,951 The marriage is not so good. 205 00:14:29,577 --> 00:14:31,954 We were thinking maybe there was an affair involved, 206 00:14:31,954 --> 00:14:33,330 and that would cause motive. 207 00:14:34,623 --> 00:14:36,792 Who knows if Howard Pilmar had a girlfriend? 208 00:14:36,792 --> 00:14:39,920 {\an8}That he said, "Listen, that's it. We're done." 209 00:14:39,920 --> 00:14:42,548 {\an8}"I'm married, and you're not... you're not gettin' the money." 210 00:14:42,548 --> 00:14:43,632 {\an8}Or whatever it is. 211 00:14:43,632 --> 00:14:46,635 {\an8}And she didn't snap and stab him? You don't know that. 212 00:14:46,635 --> 00:14:49,054 That's why you draw that circle around the victim 213 00:14:49,054 --> 00:14:52,725 and find out what was goin' on in his life at that time 214 00:14:52,725 --> 00:14:56,478 in order to exclude any possibility that that's what happened. 215 00:14:57,563 --> 00:15:02,860 There were a number of females we identified during the investigation 216 00:15:02,860 --> 00:15:05,029 that had casual relationships with Howard. 217 00:15:06,113 --> 00:15:07,489 I don't know that they were sexual, 218 00:15:07,489 --> 00:15:11,160 but they were something beyond a little bit more than "hello." 219 00:15:12,161 --> 00:15:15,664 I heard those same rumors. 220 00:15:15,664 --> 00:15:19,126 Never saw Howard with anyone else. 221 00:15:19,126 --> 00:15:22,212 Howard never talked about being with anyone else. 222 00:15:22,212 --> 00:15:28,594 No person ever in my eight years there said to me, "I saw Howard with..." 223 00:15:28,594 --> 00:15:30,220 So it was a rumor. 224 00:15:30,971 --> 00:15:35,434 We interviewed these women and found that he was a flirtatious guy, 225 00:15:35,434 --> 00:15:37,770 but we came up with nothing. 226 00:15:39,605 --> 00:15:41,523 Some people get frustrated following a lead 227 00:15:41,523 --> 00:15:44,401 that doesn't come to fruition, that gets shut down. 228 00:15:44,401 --> 00:15:46,278 But that's actually a very good thing, 229 00:15:46,278 --> 00:15:50,157 because you don't have to go back to that, and it can't come back to haunt you later. 230 00:15:53,035 --> 00:15:55,245 In the investigation of Howard's death, 231 00:15:55,245 --> 00:15:58,540 we find out Howard was a very driven individual. 232 00:15:58,540 --> 00:16:01,085 Frank gives Howard a lot of credit, 233 00:16:01,085 --> 00:16:03,504 taking the business to new levels. 234 00:16:03,504 --> 00:16:05,381 Howard was a visionary. 235 00:16:05,381 --> 00:16:10,052 He put a coffee bar in an otherwise office supply store. 236 00:16:10,052 --> 00:16:15,224 Before Starbucks, there was Philip's. Before anything, there was Philip's. 237 00:16:15,808 --> 00:16:18,102 There were people out the door, waiting on line 238 00:16:18,102 --> 00:16:21,313 to buy the lattes and cappuccinos and espressos. 239 00:16:21,313 --> 00:16:26,902 Having a coffee bar in there brought us an entirely new segment of purchasers. 240 00:16:27,486 --> 00:16:30,906 It was such a success that he opened up another one in Carnegie Hall. 241 00:16:32,074 --> 00:16:35,411 I said, "You'll never find people in New York City 242 00:16:35,411 --> 00:16:37,913 walking in the streets, drinking coffee." 243 00:16:37,913 --> 00:16:39,957 I... I couldn't imagine it, 244 00:16:39,957 --> 00:16:43,544 but it shows you what I knew and what Howard knew. 245 00:16:44,461 --> 00:16:47,756 Howard named the coffee bar after his son, Philip. 246 00:16:47,756 --> 00:16:49,758 {\an8}It became "Philip's Coffee Bar." 247 00:16:50,426 --> 00:16:52,428 It was a family business. 248 00:16:53,303 --> 00:16:55,848 I worked with his wife, Roslyn, 249 00:16:55,848 --> 00:16:59,226 on West 56th Street by Carnegie Hall. 250 00:16:59,935 --> 00:17:04,481 And Ros's brother, Evan, worked at Philip's Coffee on 33rd Street. 251 00:17:06,984 --> 00:17:11,363 We learned Howard did not like Roslyn's brother, Evan, very much. 252 00:17:11,363 --> 00:17:14,283 Evan was working in Philip's Coffee 253 00:17:14,283 --> 00:17:17,494 that was inside King Office Supply. 254 00:17:18,287 --> 00:17:22,374 As a favor to Ros, Howard hired Evan, who was unemployed. 255 00:17:22,374 --> 00:17:25,711 So, Ros and Evan managed both coffee shops. 256 00:17:25,711 --> 00:17:29,256 I started at Philip's Coffee in '94. 257 00:17:29,256 --> 00:17:32,134 He started shortly after I did. 258 00:17:33,427 --> 00:17:38,766 I don't think Howard wanted Evan to manage the coffee shop. 259 00:17:38,766 --> 00:17:40,559 Because... 260 00:17:40,559 --> 00:17:42,686 Uh, you know, it was Howard's, you know? 261 00:17:42,686 --> 00:17:46,231 And I think Evan was taking... like, taking charge. 262 00:17:46,231 --> 00:17:49,818 Like, "This is mine." You know? But it's not. 263 00:17:50,402 --> 00:17:53,280 About the time I started working for the Pilmars, 264 00:17:53,280 --> 00:17:55,491 Philip said, "Let's go to the coffee shop." 265 00:17:55,491 --> 00:17:58,285 When we got there, Ros was explaining to Evan 266 00:17:58,285 --> 00:18:01,371 how Howard wanted the pastries arranged in the case. 267 00:18:02,372 --> 00:18:06,710 Evan lost it, and he flew open the case, 268 00:18:06,710 --> 00:18:09,713 pulled a tray out, threw it, and said, 269 00:18:09,713 --> 00:18:12,299 "I don't give an eff how Howard wants it." 270 00:18:12,299 --> 00:18:14,510 That was really shocking. 271 00:18:15,010 --> 00:18:18,639 Especially that he would act that way in front of his nephew, 272 00:18:19,139 --> 00:18:20,641 in front of customers. 273 00:18:20,641 --> 00:18:24,061 And it left a big first impression. 274 00:18:29,233 --> 00:18:35,614 After the shiva, we had Roslyn and Evan come in to be interviewed. 275 00:18:36,115 --> 00:18:38,659 We wanted to know Ros's timeline 276 00:18:38,659 --> 00:18:41,620 and Evan's timeline on the night of the murder. 277 00:18:42,371 --> 00:18:47,126 They told us that day, Howard and Evan went to the gym together 278 00:18:47,126 --> 00:18:51,338 to discuss his moving up, so to speak, in the company. 279 00:18:52,548 --> 00:18:55,884 Evan wanted to make a jump from the coffee shop 280 00:18:55,884 --> 00:18:59,054 to sales in the paper company 281 00:18:59,054 --> 00:19:01,932 because the salespeople could make good money at the time. 282 00:19:03,016 --> 00:19:07,396 Evan was, to me, very unapproachable. 283 00:19:08,397 --> 00:19:10,816 If you talked to him, he would grunt. 284 00:19:10,816 --> 00:19:13,485 He would grunt "hello" or "goodbye." 285 00:19:13,485 --> 00:19:16,446 It didn't look like he had a future in our business. 286 00:19:17,281 --> 00:19:20,284 And then after this meeting at the gym, 287 00:19:20,284 --> 00:19:25,080 Howard and Evan met Roslyn in the office. 288 00:19:26,081 --> 00:19:30,085 Because it was complicated to work the security there, 289 00:19:30,085 --> 00:19:32,212 Ros did not know how to lock up. 290 00:19:32,921 --> 00:19:35,090 {\an8}That's why Howard came back to lock up. 291 00:19:35,757 --> 00:19:38,385 Evan and Ros left Howard behind to work. 292 00:19:39,136 --> 00:19:40,971 They're the last two that see him alive. 293 00:19:41,555 --> 00:19:45,184 If his wife and brother-in-law left him at about eight o'clock, 294 00:19:45,184 --> 00:19:46,185 and he was fine, 295 00:19:46,185 --> 00:19:48,687 and then you find him at 5:00 in the morning, 296 00:19:48,687 --> 00:19:53,025 who came between 8:00 p.m. and 5:00 a.m. and did this to him? 297 00:19:53,901 --> 00:19:58,113 Remember, this was a time where there weren't video cameras everywhere, 298 00:19:58,113 --> 00:20:01,283 and we didn't have, like, the surveillance in the offices. 299 00:20:03,076 --> 00:20:05,245 We never recovered the murder weapon. 300 00:20:06,246 --> 00:20:10,042 But the police officer at the scene, the uniformed police officer, 301 00:20:10,042 --> 00:20:13,962 {\an8}made mentions in his memo book that Evan had cuts on his left hand, 302 00:20:13,962 --> 00:20:15,797 {\an8}and that he was left-handed. 303 00:20:17,299 --> 00:20:21,595 When a person is stabbed multiple times like Howard Pilmar was, 304 00:20:22,095 --> 00:20:26,308 blood is like oil, and it gets on the handle of the knife, 305 00:20:26,308 --> 00:20:31,313 and almost universally the stabber will end up with injuries 306 00:20:31,313 --> 00:20:33,899 because they can't hold on to the handle of the knife 307 00:20:33,899 --> 00:20:35,817 'cause it's too slippery. 308 00:20:36,401 --> 00:20:40,530 Evan said it was picking up broken dishes from a night or two before. 309 00:20:41,031 --> 00:20:43,784 The cuts weren't really consistent with the story, 310 00:20:43,784 --> 00:20:45,869 but we needed more evidence. 311 00:20:47,037 --> 00:20:50,082 What we hoped to find was another drop of blood 312 00:20:50,082 --> 00:20:51,833 that was not Howard's. 313 00:20:52,793 --> 00:20:55,712 I remember talking to the ME that was in charge of the lab, 314 00:20:55,712 --> 00:20:57,130 and he would say to you, 315 00:20:57,130 --> 00:21:01,009 "You could do the DNA test, but you lose the sample after we do it." 316 00:21:01,009 --> 00:21:03,720 "So you should hold off on this sample 317 00:21:03,720 --> 00:21:06,473 because I think technology will be advanced, 318 00:21:06,473 --> 00:21:09,226 and we could do the sample better in the future." 319 00:21:18,360 --> 00:21:20,279 About two months into the investigation, 320 00:21:20,279 --> 00:21:25,325 we found out that Philip's Coffee owed $14,500 in state taxes. 321 00:21:26,159 --> 00:21:28,245 $14,000 is really not enough 322 00:21:28,245 --> 00:21:31,081 for most of us to be motivated to do something. 323 00:21:31,081 --> 00:21:34,376 But it was just something to be aware of, 324 00:21:34,376 --> 00:21:36,586 that there was some financial issue. 325 00:21:38,088 --> 00:21:43,093 And then we find out about Ros's previous employer 326 00:21:43,093 --> 00:21:45,721 from '91 to '95. 327 00:21:46,221 --> 00:21:51,893 Uh, she ended up embezzling like $160,000 in checks from him. 328 00:21:52,978 --> 00:21:54,604 Ros was a dental hygienist, 329 00:21:54,604 --> 00:21:58,150 and she was also taking care of some of the books for him. 330 00:22:00,193 --> 00:22:02,738 Finding out the marriage is not so good, 331 00:22:02,738 --> 00:22:08,368 finding out that she owes 14.5 to the state, 332 00:22:08,368 --> 00:22:12,914 160,000 to the dentist. 333 00:22:13,999 --> 00:22:17,544 It's starting to make us look at things differently. 334 00:22:17,544 --> 00:22:19,921 And the second effect to this 335 00:22:20,422 --> 00:22:23,091 is that when you talk to people about this money, 336 00:22:23,091 --> 00:22:25,177 the biggest comment she makes is, 337 00:22:25,177 --> 00:22:28,430 "Don't tell Howard. Don't tell Howard. He'll leave me." 338 00:22:28,430 --> 00:22:30,849 "He'll take Philip away from me." 339 00:22:30,849 --> 00:22:34,644 She inherited $1.2 million in life insurance. 340 00:22:34,644 --> 00:22:38,565 She inherited the King business, Philip's Coffee Shop, 341 00:22:39,066 --> 00:22:42,736 the apartment that they own on East 72nd Street, 342 00:22:42,736 --> 00:22:46,073 the summer home in Millerton, New York, 343 00:22:46,573 --> 00:22:50,786 a share of a ski home in Vermont, and Philip. 344 00:22:53,622 --> 00:22:57,501 And this kinda changes our focus a little bit more. 345 00:22:59,002 --> 00:23:02,380 Then we learned Howard may have been looking for a divorce. 346 00:23:02,380 --> 00:23:04,007 And have more than one source 347 00:23:04,007 --> 00:23:07,010 that tells us he may be looking for a divorce was... 348 00:23:07,010 --> 00:23:08,512 Made it very interesting. 349 00:23:10,472 --> 00:23:12,182 If there was a divorce, 350 00:23:12,182 --> 00:23:15,018 Ros wouldn't have wanted to give up Philip. 351 00:23:15,018 --> 00:23:19,981 Howard wouldn't give up Philip either, because Philip was everything to Howard. 352 00:23:20,607 --> 00:23:25,779 As time went along, I was convinced Philip is the reason for the murder. 353 00:23:28,073 --> 00:23:29,199 It had to be Ros. 354 00:23:29,199 --> 00:23:33,453 I... I can't think of anyone else who had the motive to do that. 355 00:23:34,704 --> 00:23:38,291 Ros told me that her and Evan were still being questioned, 356 00:23:38,291 --> 00:23:41,461 and that Frank was causing a big stink. 357 00:23:41,461 --> 00:23:44,172 She said, "Frank doesn't want to talk to me, 358 00:23:44,172 --> 00:23:47,050 and is angry, and thinks I did this." 359 00:23:47,050 --> 00:23:49,886 I just remember thinking 360 00:23:49,886 --> 00:23:55,559 that it was strange that the grandfather was... was upset with her. 361 00:23:58,145 --> 00:24:02,357 I believed that Evan had been involved in Howard's death. 362 00:24:02,357 --> 00:24:06,528 I didn't really have that idea that she was involved at all. 363 00:24:07,821 --> 00:24:10,323 I remember having a conversation with her, 364 00:24:10,323 --> 00:24:15,370 and Ros was saying I had to choose between her and Philip, and my parents. 365 00:24:15,954 --> 00:24:19,541 And I'm 24 years old. You're gonna pick your parents. 366 00:24:22,043 --> 00:24:25,547 It was hard for me to understand, "Why do I have to choose?" 367 00:24:26,047 --> 00:24:30,427 And then, after that conversation, we never saw her and Philip. 368 00:24:31,595 --> 00:24:35,390 My dad lost his son, and then he lost his grandson. 369 00:24:35,390 --> 00:24:40,061 Not having that ability to see someone that you know is still living is hard. 370 00:24:40,896 --> 00:24:42,856 And it wasn't Philip's choice. 371 00:24:42,856 --> 00:24:45,275 His mother made that choice for him. 372 00:24:45,859 --> 00:24:49,279 Just months after Howard's murder, 373 00:24:50,363 --> 00:24:54,576 Ros stopped the communication between Philip and me, and us. 374 00:24:56,620 --> 00:24:58,663 It's more than a tragic story. 375 00:24:58,663 --> 00:25:00,916 The whole family's broken up. 376 00:25:03,210 --> 00:25:06,296 I think the sting of losing contact with the grandchild, 377 00:25:06,296 --> 00:25:08,798 who looks and resembles Howard so much, 378 00:25:08,798 --> 00:25:11,510 has gotta be tremendously hurtful. 379 00:25:13,261 --> 00:25:16,223 I can't imagine the stress that puts on his family. 380 00:25:16,932 --> 00:25:21,353 I... Howard, myself, and Philip used to go for breakfast 381 00:25:22,145 --> 00:25:23,563 once a week before school. 382 00:25:24,314 --> 00:25:28,610 We used to go to every Ranger game and the Yankee games. 383 00:25:28,610 --> 00:25:30,737 And I think about that often. 384 00:25:31,738 --> 00:25:36,993 No one knows how it feels that I can't see my grandson. 385 00:25:36,993 --> 00:25:41,831 Because this is my... my first son's son. 386 00:25:43,250 --> 00:25:45,669 And my only son's son. 387 00:25:52,759 --> 00:25:56,012 I was convinced circumstantially that Evan and Roslyn were involved, 388 00:25:56,012 --> 00:25:57,889 but I knew we needed more. 389 00:25:57,889 --> 00:26:00,183 So we're canvassing a year later. 390 00:26:00,183 --> 00:26:05,146 And on the anniversary of the homicide, we put up posters 391 00:26:05,146 --> 00:26:09,985 at the scene of the murder and at the coffee shop on 56th Street. 392 00:26:12,445 --> 00:26:16,491 Very often, murderers come back to relive that fantasy again 393 00:26:16,491 --> 00:26:18,910 or somehow pay their respects, 394 00:26:18,910 --> 00:26:21,788 or homage to their work a year later. 395 00:26:23,248 --> 00:26:26,626 And the posters were gettin' torn down. 396 00:26:28,086 --> 00:26:31,506 We really saw this as an opportunity. 397 00:26:31,506 --> 00:26:33,300 So we put the posters back up, 398 00:26:33,300 --> 00:26:35,969 and then we set up to observe the location. 399 00:26:36,720 --> 00:26:38,430 And who's tearin' it down? 400 00:26:38,430 --> 00:26:43,727 They got a surveillance van, and they found out that it was... 401 00:26:45,103 --> 00:26:49,232 ...Ros's sister and her brother Evan taking the posters down. 402 00:26:50,775 --> 00:26:54,654 I don't think anyone would like to see those posters up there, 403 00:26:54,654 --> 00:26:57,699 and you're the one they're looking for, and you're the murderer. 404 00:26:57,699 --> 00:27:01,161 The reasoning they gave was it was interfering with business, 405 00:27:01,745 --> 00:27:03,496 which just rocked us. 406 00:27:06,750 --> 00:27:08,877 I used to call the police every day. 407 00:27:08,877 --> 00:27:11,129 Sometimes twice a day or more. 408 00:27:12,088 --> 00:27:15,842 One time, Roger Parrino said, "Frank, listen to this." 409 00:27:15,842 --> 00:27:18,678 "I'll let you know when we hit the brick wall." 410 00:27:18,678 --> 00:27:21,014 The district attorney did not want to prosecute. 411 00:27:21,014 --> 00:27:23,600 He didn't have enough evidence. It was circumstantial. 412 00:27:27,771 --> 00:27:30,523 Three years after the murder of Howard Pilmar, 413 00:27:30,523 --> 00:27:35,570 the investigation was going on, 414 00:27:35,570 --> 00:27:39,908 and I don't think the police felt like they were getting anywhere. 415 00:27:39,908 --> 00:27:42,243 But even though we're looking at Ros for murder, 416 00:27:42,243 --> 00:27:44,037 she embezzled money, 417 00:27:44,037 --> 00:27:46,373 so they arrested her for that. 418 00:27:47,707 --> 00:27:50,627 Maybe they were hoping to put pressure on her 419 00:27:50,627 --> 00:27:55,340 so she would give up Evan or admit to something, but she didn't. 420 00:27:56,174 --> 00:27:59,552 Her attorneys timed it so well. They had to postpone the sentencing once. 421 00:27:59,552 --> 00:28:02,597 By the time she was sentenced, she had paid everything back. 422 00:28:02,597 --> 00:28:05,058 And so she got probation. 423 00:28:07,477 --> 00:28:10,980 She made payment, and had the money, 'cause she had the insurance policy, 424 00:28:10,980 --> 00:28:14,192 and all these other things she got from the homicide. 425 00:28:14,859 --> 00:28:17,237 Three years after Howard was murdered, 426 00:28:17,237 --> 00:28:21,950 things had advanced with technology and DNA. 427 00:28:21,950 --> 00:28:27,414 There was a blood drop in between the sink and where the... the actual body was found. 428 00:28:28,248 --> 00:28:30,834 That drop of blood ends up turning out to be Evan's. 429 00:28:31,960 --> 00:28:33,962 That was pretty interesting information to get. 430 00:28:33,962 --> 00:28:35,755 Unfortunately, it leaves an issue, 431 00:28:35,755 --> 00:28:38,842 because that drop could have been days before the murder, right? 432 00:28:38,842 --> 00:28:40,510 He had access to that location. 433 00:28:40,510 --> 00:28:44,305 This is why domestic violence cases are so difficult to do. 434 00:28:44,305 --> 00:28:45,682 Because, many times, 435 00:28:45,682 --> 00:28:50,353 your murderer had access to the victim and the area long before the homicide. 436 00:28:54,274 --> 00:28:59,112 The evidence all directed itself towards Roslyn Pilmar and her brother Evan. 437 00:28:59,112 --> 00:29:02,907 There was nothing else that came up that led us in any other direction. 438 00:29:02,907 --> 00:29:03,825 Nothin'. 439 00:29:03,825 --> 00:29:07,662 Your audience is gonna believe that this is a simple case 440 00:29:07,662 --> 00:29:09,497 based on what they're hearing, 441 00:29:09,497 --> 00:29:11,833 but it's not simple when it comes to the laws, 442 00:29:11,833 --> 00:29:12,792 and rightfully so. 443 00:29:12,792 --> 00:29:15,920 You have to be able to prove this stuff beyond a reasonable doubt. 444 00:29:16,504 --> 00:29:19,924 You don't want to make an arrest unless you're ready to go to court, 445 00:29:19,924 --> 00:29:21,926 go to trial, go to a grand jury. 446 00:29:21,926 --> 00:29:23,928 It was clear to us we needed more. 447 00:29:25,847 --> 00:29:27,724 One day, Parrino came to me. 448 00:29:27,724 --> 00:29:31,186 He said to me, "Frank, I think we hit that brick wall." 449 00:29:33,396 --> 00:29:36,858 I put this obituary in the New York Times 450 00:29:36,858 --> 00:29:41,070 every year on the anniversary of Howard's murder. 451 00:29:41,070 --> 00:29:47,118 Maybe someone out there would tell me what they may know about the case. 452 00:29:47,619 --> 00:29:53,374 Even after Parrino was not the lieutenant in charge of the murder anymore, 453 00:29:53,875 --> 00:29:58,713 I still called Midtown South practically every day. 454 00:29:59,714 --> 00:30:01,216 I wouldn't let go. 455 00:30:03,593 --> 00:30:07,347 My father felt that one day it was gonna be solved. 456 00:30:07,347 --> 00:30:10,308 This is what got him up out of bed every day. 457 00:30:10,308 --> 00:30:12,977 You know, "The case is gonna be solved one day." 458 00:30:12,977 --> 00:30:15,897 "We're gonna pray. The case is gonna get solved." 459 00:30:16,898 --> 00:30:19,567 {\an8}Just dealing with it, that Howard is dead... 460 00:30:20,568 --> 00:30:24,781 and the murderers walk around free. 461 00:30:25,490 --> 00:30:26,950 It's a gnawing ache. 462 00:30:29,327 --> 00:30:33,414 All these years, you know, we'd go out to dinner with friends, 463 00:30:33,414 --> 00:30:36,709 and they just wanted to hear what's new. 464 00:30:36,709 --> 00:30:40,380 They were looking for information about the case. 465 00:30:40,380 --> 00:30:41,881 I used to sit down and say, 466 00:30:41,881 --> 00:30:44,592 "Is it possible they could get away with this?" 467 00:31:00,900 --> 00:31:04,404 In 2013, I was serving with the Marine Corps 468 00:31:04,404 --> 00:31:05,947 {\an8}as a civilian advisor. 469 00:31:09,409 --> 00:31:13,329 After 9/11, I think survival guilt from September 11th 470 00:31:13,329 --> 00:31:16,165 is what motivates me to go to the Middle East 471 00:31:16,165 --> 00:31:18,626 for seven years and five deployments. 472 00:31:18,626 --> 00:31:21,963 During my last deployment, I got a call telling me 473 00:31:21,963 --> 00:31:25,258 that they were gonna reopen the Howard Pilmar case. 474 00:31:25,258 --> 00:31:27,844 There's very few cases I continue to think about 475 00:31:27,844 --> 00:31:29,512 because they're unsolved, 476 00:31:29,512 --> 00:31:31,472 but this was the number one one. 477 00:31:32,932 --> 00:31:36,769 I think every single detective on the face of the earth has a case 478 00:31:36,769 --> 00:31:40,023 {\an8}that has eluded them for some reason or another, 479 00:31:40,857 --> 00:31:44,277 and it becomes the Moby Dick of their careers. 480 00:31:44,944 --> 00:31:48,031 And so you always think about it. 481 00:31:48,031 --> 00:31:50,617 Lots of times, people don't like Cold Case to get involved. 482 00:31:50,617 --> 00:31:52,619 They're afraid they're gonna criticize your case. 483 00:31:52,619 --> 00:31:53,911 I wasn't concerned about that. 484 00:31:54,996 --> 00:31:59,125 In 2013, I was retired from the police department about three years, 485 00:31:59,125 --> 00:32:03,379 and was working at the New York County District Attorney's office 486 00:32:03,379 --> 00:32:07,216 as the Deputy Chief Investigator for the Trial Division. 487 00:32:07,216 --> 00:32:11,220 Rob Mooney is one of the smartest detectives ever. 488 00:32:11,220 --> 00:32:14,724 He was called in just to, you know, give advice or direction. 489 00:32:17,644 --> 00:32:19,437 When they called me in Afghanistan, 490 00:32:19,437 --> 00:32:21,939 I thought it was great that the Pilmar case was alive, 491 00:32:21,939 --> 00:32:24,067 and somebody was gonna give it a fresh look. 492 00:32:24,067 --> 00:32:29,739 I remember explaining how the evidence all directed itself 493 00:32:29,739 --> 00:32:32,867 towards Roslyn Pilmar and her brother Evan. 494 00:32:34,243 --> 00:32:36,162 In cold case work, 495 00:32:36,162 --> 00:32:39,624 you can't focus on what was focused on originally, 496 00:32:39,624 --> 00:32:41,626 because that didn't end the right way. 497 00:32:42,460 --> 00:32:45,380 So you gotta look at everything right from the start. 498 00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:48,841 If we were close-minded in some way and missed something, 499 00:32:48,841 --> 00:32:50,843 then let's find out the truth. 500 00:32:50,843 --> 00:32:53,471 I think it's great that new eyes look at it. 501 00:32:54,097 --> 00:32:55,515 The case was in good hands. 502 00:33:01,729 --> 00:33:03,815 One day, Liz called me 503 00:33:03,815 --> 00:33:07,443 and told me that she was working on the case. 504 00:33:07,944 --> 00:33:10,988 The first time that I met Liz Lederer, 505 00:33:10,988 --> 00:33:13,866 we were in her office full of cartons, 506 00:33:13,866 --> 00:33:15,910 and they all said "Pilmar" on it. 507 00:33:15,910 --> 00:33:18,621 I know she was working very, very hard at the case. 508 00:33:20,123 --> 00:33:23,292 There was so much you had to do before you got to even solving it. 509 00:33:24,585 --> 00:33:28,005 You have to read every piece of paper. You gotta look at every video. 510 00:33:28,005 --> 00:33:30,550 You gotta talk to every single person you can find. 511 00:33:30,550 --> 00:33:32,093 We kept going through boxes. 512 00:33:32,802 --> 00:33:37,432 There's one scrap of paper that had the name Arnold Brewer on it. 513 00:33:37,432 --> 00:33:38,933 We tracked him down. 514 00:33:39,559 --> 00:33:42,145 He was a really close friend of Howard's. 515 00:33:42,895 --> 00:33:45,481 Howard Pilmar was supposed to meet his friend Arnold Brewer 516 00:33:45,481 --> 00:33:48,860 and go watch the NCAA, and didn't show up. 517 00:33:49,444 --> 00:33:50,778 He said, "Howard told me 518 00:33:50,778 --> 00:33:52,822 he was going to the gym with his brother-in-law, 519 00:33:52,822 --> 00:33:54,574 but he'd come straight after." 520 00:33:55,283 --> 00:33:58,703 Evan Wald and Ros Pilmar had both told the police 521 00:33:58,703 --> 00:34:02,498 that Evan and Howard got back from the gym at about 8:00 p.m. 522 00:34:02,498 --> 00:34:05,209 Howard was gonna stay in the office and work. 523 00:34:05,209 --> 00:34:10,840 Turns out that Arnold Brewer had a date with Howard that very night, 524 00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:12,258 that very moment. 525 00:34:12,258 --> 00:34:15,470 So Howard wasn't gonna stay and work. 526 00:34:15,470 --> 00:34:19,474 Arnold Brewer closed that window for the murder 527 00:34:19,474 --> 00:34:22,769 into just the smallest timeframe. 528 00:34:23,436 --> 00:34:26,981 We learned during the investigation, the night of the murder, 529 00:34:26,981 --> 00:34:32,153 Ros called Howard in the office and left him a voicemail. 530 00:34:33,362 --> 00:34:36,491 Hi, How. It's, um, like, a quarter to ten, 531 00:34:36,491 --> 00:34:39,577 and Philip and I were wondering if you were still at work working, 532 00:34:39,577 --> 00:34:42,789 or if you went off to some sports bar, like you said you wanted to, 533 00:34:42,789 --> 00:34:44,791 to go watch the NCAAs. 534 00:34:44,791 --> 00:34:49,212 Anyway, I got home, I guess, by, like, uh, 8:10, 8:15. 535 00:34:49,212 --> 00:34:52,465 Give me a call. Let me know what time you're gonna be home. 536 00:34:52,465 --> 00:34:57,011 She lays out in so much more detail than you would ever leave for somebody 537 00:34:57,011 --> 00:35:00,973 that you had just spoken to and you expect to see in half an hour. 538 00:35:00,973 --> 00:35:04,685 I remember hearing the voice message. Once you start looking at everything... 539 00:35:04,685 --> 00:35:07,855 Any one thing is not good enough by itself. 540 00:35:07,855 --> 00:35:11,484 You start attaching all the circumstantial evidence together, 541 00:35:11,484 --> 00:35:13,528 and it really lays out one path, 542 00:35:14,028 --> 00:35:16,989 to Evan and Roslyn killing Howard that night. 543 00:35:18,199 --> 00:35:20,576 After looking at all the evidence 544 00:35:20,576 --> 00:35:23,663 and talking to so many of Howard's friends, 545 00:35:23,663 --> 00:35:27,208 we were sure that Ros Pilmar and Evan Wald did it. 546 00:35:28,543 --> 00:35:34,298 Ron Tucker hears Howard cursing at his wife. He's furious at her. 547 00:35:34,298 --> 00:35:36,300 That's at, like, 5:30. 548 00:35:36,300 --> 00:35:39,470 I mean, calling her all sorts of names. 549 00:35:39,470 --> 00:35:41,848 The same night, she leaves the message. 550 00:35:41,848 --> 00:35:46,018 And she ends it with, "Love ya, Howie." 551 00:35:49,397 --> 00:35:54,485 And there's something so calculated about that voice message. 552 00:35:54,485 --> 00:35:57,446 She knows what she's doing is leaving a piece of evidence. 553 00:35:57,446 --> 00:36:00,324 It will show that I missed him. I thought he was alive. 554 00:36:00,324 --> 00:36:02,160 I called him and said I love you. 555 00:36:02,785 --> 00:36:07,915 Given the timing of it, Howard was already dead on the floor. 556 00:36:13,462 --> 00:36:15,715 Ros created this whole story. 557 00:36:15,715 --> 00:36:19,927 She created the whole scenario so that Howard could be killed. 558 00:36:19,927 --> 00:36:21,929 Without her, it never would have happened. 559 00:36:21,929 --> 00:36:25,474 Ros had planned it that she would get the life insurance, 560 00:36:25,474 --> 00:36:29,979 the businesses, the summer house, the interest in the ski house. 561 00:36:29,979 --> 00:36:32,982 She would get sole custody of their son. 562 00:36:32,982 --> 00:36:35,693 But after it became clear to us, 563 00:36:35,693 --> 00:36:39,447 then it became clear we needed to be able to prove it in court. 564 00:36:41,240 --> 00:36:44,410 Evan had the cuts, and Evan's blood is at the scene, 565 00:36:44,410 --> 00:36:47,955 and we have 100 people who know how much Evan hates Howard. 566 00:36:47,955 --> 00:36:51,292 What we needed to find was evidence that tied Ros to it 567 00:36:51,292 --> 00:36:53,544 so that we could charge them both. 568 00:36:55,004 --> 00:36:56,589 Ms. Lederer said to me, 569 00:36:56,589 --> 00:37:01,302 "I know we're gonna get Evan, but I can't promise anything about Ros." 570 00:37:01,302 --> 00:37:04,347 But I felt very confident with her. 571 00:37:07,266 --> 00:37:10,645 We realized the only person left was the babysitter. 572 00:37:11,896 --> 00:37:14,857 And I said, "We have to find that babysitter." 573 00:37:14,857 --> 00:37:18,027 Allyson Lewis lived inside that family. 574 00:37:18,027 --> 00:37:20,529 She knew how things usually ran, 575 00:37:20,529 --> 00:37:24,825 and she could answer things for us that we wouldn't have known. 576 00:37:26,410 --> 00:37:29,789 We, as the detectives, spoke to the babysitter early in the investigation 577 00:37:29,789 --> 00:37:33,334 and didn't feel that we got a great amount of cooperation. 578 00:37:33,334 --> 00:37:39,382 I think, at the time, she was a very young woman, and, uh... 579 00:37:39,382 --> 00:37:45,888 perhaps was not thinking clearly about the ramifications. 580 00:37:49,100 --> 00:37:53,813 As a 21-year-old, to be questioned by police, it was scary. 581 00:37:53,813 --> 00:37:57,233 I was really just answering their questions to the best I could. 582 00:37:57,233 --> 00:38:00,027 The questions were primarily about Howard, 583 00:38:00,027 --> 00:38:03,239 and I didn't have a lot of interactions with Howard. 584 00:38:04,281 --> 00:38:10,538 And then I got a job in Japan and ended up leaving the country. 585 00:38:10,538 --> 00:38:13,249 I didn't stay in contact with Ros. 586 00:38:13,874 --> 00:38:15,668 Twenty years later, I get a phone call. 587 00:38:15,668 --> 00:38:19,839 And I was like, "Whoa, gosh." 588 00:38:19,839 --> 00:38:24,969 And she says, "I'd like to talk to you about the murder of Howard Pilmar." 589 00:38:25,636 --> 00:38:29,265 Allyson Lewis said she wanted to meet us at the office of her lawyer. 590 00:38:29,265 --> 00:38:32,143 I wondered what she thought she might have done wrong 591 00:38:32,143 --> 00:38:36,897 that she wanted, um... she wanted to have a lawyer there. 592 00:38:36,897 --> 00:38:39,692 But when she came in, she was lovely. 593 00:38:39,692 --> 00:38:41,819 She just spilled her heart out. 594 00:38:42,361 --> 00:38:44,447 And it was fascinating. 595 00:38:44,447 --> 00:38:47,658 It just gave us a glimpse into a world we wouldn't have known. 596 00:38:48,409 --> 00:38:53,247 When I met them, Liz asked me, "What was it usually like?" 597 00:38:53,247 --> 00:38:56,125 "Tell me about a week in the life." 598 00:38:56,125 --> 00:38:58,085 "Tell me about their house." 599 00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:05,009 For the Pilmars, and for Philip, everything was a regimented schedule. 600 00:39:05,009 --> 00:39:06,093 So, tight. 601 00:39:06,093 --> 00:39:10,556 For all the time that I worked for Ros, she was very specific about time. 602 00:39:11,390 --> 00:39:15,936 She described everything about the apartment, and the lifestyle, 603 00:39:15,936 --> 00:39:18,773 and... and how Ros ran that house. 604 00:39:19,523 --> 00:39:20,733 And when we said, 605 00:39:20,733 --> 00:39:25,196 "Was there anything unusual about the week in which he was murdered?" 606 00:39:25,196 --> 00:39:28,491 She said, "It's not that anything so unusual happened." 607 00:39:28,491 --> 00:39:31,202 "It's how many things happened for the first time." 608 00:39:34,330 --> 00:39:38,626 In the weeks leading up to Howard's murder, Ros told me, 609 00:39:38,626 --> 00:39:41,379 "I'm gonna need you to work late in a couple weeks." 610 00:39:42,880 --> 00:39:46,050 And then the night of the murder, 611 00:39:46,675 --> 00:39:49,470 Ros told me she would be meeting with Evan and Howard 612 00:39:49,470 --> 00:39:52,598 at King that night for a finance meeting. 613 00:39:53,557 --> 00:39:57,728 I took Philip to hockey practice. 614 00:39:57,728 --> 00:40:02,108 Philip had about a two-hour practice four nights a week. 615 00:40:02,108 --> 00:40:06,737 And over the loudspeaker is my name. She had me paged. 616 00:40:06,737 --> 00:40:09,323 That had never happened before. That was the first time. 617 00:40:10,032 --> 00:40:12,618 She said, "How's it going over there?" 618 00:40:12,618 --> 00:40:17,081 I was like, "We're still first scrimmage. They're talking about second scrimmage." 619 00:40:17,081 --> 00:40:19,166 She was like, "That's fine. Sounds good." 620 00:40:19,166 --> 00:40:22,586 She said even that call was weird because she didn't have anything to say. 621 00:40:22,586 --> 00:40:26,465 It wasn't 20 to 30 minutes later, 622 00:40:27,591 --> 00:40:31,303 I hear my name over the loudspeaker again to come to the front desk. 623 00:40:31,887 --> 00:40:32,972 I call her again. 624 00:40:33,472 --> 00:40:39,687 And Ros just says nothing more really informative, 625 00:40:39,687 --> 00:40:44,442 except for, "If I'm not there by the time he gets done with the scrimmage, 626 00:40:44,442 --> 00:40:46,485 you'll take the car back to the house." 627 00:40:46,485 --> 00:40:50,197 "I don't know if I'm coming or not, 'cause we're not done here." 628 00:40:50,781 --> 00:40:52,700 She said, "We're not done here," 629 00:40:52,700 --> 00:40:55,703 which, in the context of what they were really doing, 630 00:40:55,703 --> 00:40:57,371 is so chilling to me. 631 00:40:57,913 --> 00:41:00,499 That was what was really unusual for her. 632 00:41:00,499 --> 00:41:02,960 She always knew what time she was gonna be home. 633 00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:06,255 She always had the specifics of what I was to do 634 00:41:06,255 --> 00:41:07,840 and what she was going to do. 635 00:41:12,470 --> 00:41:15,764 Most evenings, it was a really vibrant household. 636 00:41:16,265 --> 00:41:18,350 Phones ringing. She's on the phone. 637 00:41:18,934 --> 00:41:21,520 Neighbors are coming over to visit. All the lights are on. 638 00:41:21,520 --> 00:41:23,439 The TVs were on. 639 00:41:23,439 --> 00:41:27,484 Like, it was just a very loud, exciting house. 640 00:41:27,484 --> 00:41:28,402 And not that night. 641 00:41:30,988 --> 00:41:34,074 The light above the stove was on. 642 00:41:34,700 --> 00:41:36,827 That was the only light on in the house. 643 00:41:36,827 --> 00:41:41,707 I opened the door, and she peeked around this threshold. 644 00:41:41,707 --> 00:41:43,792 Had a bathrobe, wet hair. 645 00:41:43,792 --> 00:41:45,669 Never seen her like that ever. 646 00:41:46,212 --> 00:41:50,257 And she said, "Oh, how'd it go?" 647 00:41:50,257 --> 00:41:54,428 "I'm sure you're really tired. It's time for bed. Thank you, Allyson." 648 00:41:54,929 --> 00:41:58,807 And, you know, all her body language was like, "We're done." 649 00:41:58,807 --> 00:42:00,392 "You're not coming in." 650 00:42:00,392 --> 00:42:02,478 She said, "You can leave the bag there." 651 00:42:02,478 --> 00:42:07,233 I didn't even get the bag practically past the door, and she said, "Good night." 652 00:42:08,234 --> 00:42:11,028 When I ended my day, she'd never do that. 653 00:42:11,028 --> 00:42:12,988 She wanted to talk, every time, 654 00:42:12,988 --> 00:42:17,451 about every detail that Philip had experienced during the day. 655 00:42:17,451 --> 00:42:19,078 She would want to know everything. 656 00:42:19,078 --> 00:42:21,914 And so that, that was very different. 657 00:42:23,707 --> 00:42:26,585 Siobhan Berry and I... Siobhan was the investigator. 658 00:42:26,585 --> 00:42:29,838 We were both just looking at Allyson and thought, 659 00:42:31,674 --> 00:42:35,261 "This is gonna make the difference." I knew she was thinking the same thing. 660 00:42:35,261 --> 00:42:36,595 They were making notes, 661 00:42:36,595 --> 00:42:39,974 and they were looking across the table at each other 662 00:42:39,974 --> 00:42:44,186 like this was all really important information. 663 00:42:44,186 --> 00:42:49,858 Allyson filled in so many blanks and gray areas. 664 00:42:49,858 --> 00:42:52,152 We both came out and it was just like, 665 00:42:52,152 --> 00:42:54,947 "Wow. That was amazing." 666 00:42:55,739 --> 00:43:02,246 The new information from Allyson Lewis that described atypical behavior by Ros, 667 00:43:02,746 --> 00:43:05,416 both in the days leading up to and afterwards... 668 00:43:05,416 --> 00:43:09,461 {\an8}These deviations from the norm are huge indicators. 669 00:43:10,546 --> 00:43:14,174 People tell on themselves when they do something they never did before 670 00:43:14,174 --> 00:43:16,427 and that needs to be explained. 671 00:43:18,220 --> 00:43:21,640 Allyson Lewis gave us information 672 00:43:21,640 --> 00:43:24,852 that brought Ros into this much more 673 00:43:24,852 --> 00:43:30,065 and showed how much she actually had to do to set this up. 674 00:43:30,065 --> 00:43:35,654 And we could find things that corroborated what she told us. 675 00:43:35,654 --> 00:43:37,698 This had taken us over the hurdle. 676 00:43:38,991 --> 00:43:41,327 You build your circumstantial case 677 00:43:41,327 --> 00:43:42,786 with little stones. 678 00:43:44,079 --> 00:43:46,874 And you just keep going out and finding little stones 679 00:43:46,874 --> 00:43:49,460 until you get a big enough pile of stones 680 00:43:49,460 --> 00:43:52,379 that you have overwhelming evidence now. 681 00:43:52,379 --> 00:43:56,091 Albeit circumstantial, but powerful evidence. 682 00:43:56,842 --> 00:44:00,387 With the new information from what Howard Pilmar's friend Arnold 683 00:44:00,387 --> 00:44:02,556 and the nanny told the detectives, 684 00:44:03,140 --> 00:44:05,267 there was enough to make an arrest. 685 00:44:06,518 --> 00:44:08,937 The arrest took place in 2017. 686 00:44:08,937 --> 00:44:12,232 {\an8}Ros was arrested in her apartment, six o'clock in the morning. 687 00:44:12,232 --> 00:44:14,401 She was livin' with her boyfriend at the time. 688 00:44:14,401 --> 00:44:16,862 Evan Wald was arrested at the same time. 689 00:44:17,738 --> 00:44:20,074 I felt elated! 690 00:44:20,074 --> 00:44:23,118 I couldn't believe it, that they were both arrested. 691 00:44:24,078 --> 00:44:27,247 A long time coming, to say the very least. 692 00:44:28,332 --> 00:44:29,458 But it came. 693 00:44:31,168 --> 00:44:32,169 It came. 694 00:44:34,797 --> 00:44:38,342 This is something I've been waiting for for over 20-something years. 695 00:44:38,342 --> 00:44:42,346 We went to the trial every single day. 696 00:44:43,013 --> 00:44:47,434 First day of the trial, I was going into the men's room, 697 00:44:47,935 --> 00:44:50,854 and Philip was coming out of the men's room. 698 00:44:51,855 --> 00:44:56,276 Last time I saw him was at breakfast, just after Howard's murder. 699 00:44:57,027 --> 00:45:01,824 When I saw him, he looked just like Howard. 700 00:45:02,533 --> 00:45:04,827 And I said, "Howard." 701 00:45:04,827 --> 00:45:06,954 That's how much they looked alike. 702 00:45:07,454 --> 00:45:10,833 He didn't say a word back to me. Not a word. 703 00:45:13,252 --> 00:45:16,880 It's a circumstantial case, and every single piece of it mattered. 704 00:45:18,048 --> 00:45:20,509 I knew this case backwards and forwards. 705 00:45:20,509 --> 00:45:24,221 Whatever their defense was, we were prepared for it. 706 00:45:24,847 --> 00:45:29,935 Giving testimony against those two, it was phenomenal. 707 00:45:29,935 --> 00:45:33,981 It was an unbelievable feeling. Great satisfaction. 708 00:45:33,981 --> 00:45:36,066 I could see Frank in the audience. 709 00:45:36,066 --> 00:45:39,319 I could see Frank shaking his head when I testified. 710 00:45:39,987 --> 00:45:41,196 It was wonderful. 711 00:45:42,406 --> 00:45:45,743 But it doesn't mean shit without a guilty verdict. 712 00:45:45,743 --> 00:45:46,994 Doesn't mean anything. 713 00:45:47,494 --> 00:45:50,038 There was an enormous amount of work that went into this. 714 00:45:50,748 --> 00:45:52,624 The trial lasted two months. 715 00:45:55,377 --> 00:45:57,463 I cleaned it up, and I cut my hand. 716 00:45:58,714 --> 00:46:00,382 I wasn't aware 717 00:46:00,966 --> 00:46:04,720 that Howard was so brutally murdered. 718 00:46:05,846 --> 00:46:09,516 I knew he was stabbed, but I didn't know the extent 719 00:46:10,350 --> 00:46:14,480 of the actual murder until I heard it in court. 720 00:46:15,439 --> 00:46:19,359 I think that Evan got Howard from behind and just slashed his throat. 721 00:46:20,027 --> 00:46:22,863 Because he never would have been able to scream. 722 00:46:22,863 --> 00:46:26,825 And, to me, that would've been your first concern 723 00:46:26,825 --> 00:46:28,494 when you ambush somebody like that. 724 00:46:28,494 --> 00:46:33,081 So I think that was the first wound, and then it was a free-for-all. 725 00:46:33,081 --> 00:46:35,918 They slaughtered him. They didn't just kill him. 726 00:46:35,918 --> 00:46:39,046 They slaughtered him like a... like a pig in a pigsty. 727 00:46:39,797 --> 00:46:43,967 And Ros was at the scene of the crime. They proved that she was. 728 00:46:45,886 --> 00:46:48,388 I did really admire Ros. 729 00:46:48,931 --> 00:46:54,478 And I had a picture of her that I thought was who I knew. 730 00:46:55,103 --> 00:46:57,815 And so when I realized, 731 00:46:57,815 --> 00:47:00,817 wow, there was so much that I didn't see, 732 00:47:00,817 --> 00:47:02,569 it was like the bottom fell out. 733 00:47:05,739 --> 00:47:08,742 The jury deliberated for at least four days. 734 00:47:08,742 --> 00:47:11,328 Not so good. Couldn't understand it. 735 00:47:15,624 --> 00:47:16,959 All rise! 736 00:47:16,959 --> 00:47:22,923 Ros and Evan were announced guilty right then and there. 737 00:47:25,467 --> 00:47:27,928 Guilty of murder in the second degree. 738 00:47:28,762 --> 00:47:32,182 That courtroom was echoing in the word "guilty." 739 00:47:34,852 --> 00:47:36,228 It was really powerful. 740 00:47:37,437 --> 00:47:41,316 My mother kept yelling, "Guilty, guilty, guilty!" 741 00:47:41,984 --> 00:47:43,819 It was like euphoria, you know? 742 00:47:43,819 --> 00:47:48,699 Like, this... this emotion of beyond happiness 743 00:47:48,699 --> 00:47:53,328 that we got justice for Howard after all these years. 744 00:47:53,829 --> 00:47:58,917 I know we would not have ever had a trial, much less the conviction, 745 00:47:58,917 --> 00:48:01,169 if not for Elizabeth Lederer. 746 00:48:02,879 --> 00:48:04,631 I went back to see Frank, 747 00:48:04,631 --> 00:48:07,593 who, you know, had been so patient all these years. 748 00:48:07,593 --> 00:48:08,927 And he just... 749 00:48:09,511 --> 00:48:12,514 It was, "Guilty, guilty! They're both guilty!" 750 00:48:12,514 --> 00:48:16,768 He had his cell phone out, and he started calling everybody he knew. 751 00:48:16,768 --> 00:48:19,104 "Guilty! Guilty!" And then call the next one. 752 00:48:19,104 --> 00:48:23,483 It was, um... He'd waited so long for this to happen. 753 00:48:37,623 --> 00:48:40,334 Frank stood up to speak at the sentencing. 754 00:48:41,168 --> 00:48:45,255 I can't get sleep because I keep thinking 755 00:48:45,255 --> 00:48:51,428 about the terror and the fear that went through Howard's mind 756 00:48:51,428 --> 00:48:53,764 in those last seconds 757 00:48:53,764 --> 00:48:57,351 that he was slaughtered and butchered by those two. 758 00:48:58,685 --> 00:49:03,482 That day in March, I lost three things. 759 00:49:04,232 --> 00:49:09,112 Two of which I can never ever get back, my son and my business. 760 00:49:09,112 --> 00:49:11,281 But I also lost Philip. 761 00:49:11,782 --> 00:49:13,867 And I know Philip doesn't want to look at me. 762 00:49:13,867 --> 00:49:15,744 I'm sorry about that, 763 00:49:15,744 --> 00:49:17,871 but I just want him to know 764 00:49:17,871 --> 00:49:20,999 we love you and we want you back. 765 00:49:21,500 --> 00:49:22,501 Please. 766 00:49:23,961 --> 00:49:28,090 As much as Frank wanted the people responsible to be held accountable, 767 00:49:28,590 --> 00:49:31,426 he really wanted to have a relationship with Philip. 768 00:49:33,553 --> 00:49:38,475 I found out that Philip went to the London School of Economics. 769 00:49:38,975 --> 00:49:41,061 And I didn't know anything about this. 770 00:49:41,687 --> 00:49:45,399 I couldn't get any of this wonderful news 771 00:49:45,399 --> 00:49:48,568 about this kid who grew up. 772 00:49:49,987 --> 00:49:51,446 My grandson. 773 00:49:51,446 --> 00:49:54,241 My... My son's only son. 774 00:49:56,660 --> 00:49:57,786 I want him back. 775 00:49:57,786 --> 00:50:00,455 We love him, and that's it. 776 00:50:00,956 --> 00:50:02,499 And it still holds. 777 00:50:11,049 --> 00:50:15,178 Philip pled before the judge 778 00:50:15,679 --> 00:50:18,515 for leniency for his mother 779 00:50:18,515 --> 00:50:20,183 who murdered his father. 780 00:50:21,685 --> 00:50:23,770 How... How... 781 00:50:23,770 --> 00:50:25,856 You're asking for lenience? 782 00:50:27,899 --> 00:50:29,526 I don't know. 783 00:50:30,861 --> 00:50:34,656 I haven't heard Philip speak 784 00:50:35,240 --> 00:50:38,160 until at the sentencing. 785 00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:40,620 {\an8}And he was talking about his mother. 786 00:50:40,620 --> 00:50:43,665 {\an8}How great she was, bringing him up. 787 00:50:44,166 --> 00:50:46,084 I think the only thing she did 788 00:50:46,084 --> 00:50:49,755 was to fill his mind with hatred for our family. 789 00:50:49,755 --> 00:50:51,631 And I'm sure he blames me. 790 00:50:51,631 --> 00:50:54,176 Her whole family must blame me. 791 00:50:54,176 --> 00:50:58,180 Because they know I was the hawk on this for trial. 792 00:50:58,180 --> 00:50:59,431 I wouldn't let them go. 793 00:51:01,224 --> 00:51:05,479 He wants to defend her over his father's murder... 794 00:51:06,730 --> 00:51:07,856 so be it. 795 00:51:11,485 --> 00:51:13,779 It's gotta be very tough to be him. 796 00:51:13,779 --> 00:51:17,908 He's truly the second victim of this whole thing. 797 00:51:17,908 --> 00:51:19,242 Uh, after Howard. 798 00:51:19,242 --> 00:51:21,578 You're convinced your mother's saving you, 799 00:51:21,578 --> 00:51:24,748 and your grandfather's trying to get your mother in trouble 800 00:51:24,748 --> 00:51:26,666 when your mother didn't do anything. 801 00:51:26,666 --> 00:51:30,003 And this all gets played out legally, in a court of law. 802 00:51:30,921 --> 00:51:34,466 And it's not the way you were led to believe all those years. 803 00:51:34,466 --> 00:51:37,010 That's, uh... That's gotta be very rough. 804 00:51:37,010 --> 00:51:39,971 For this crime, for this murder, 805 00:51:40,472 --> 00:51:45,018 I sentence each of you to 25-years-to-life incarceration. 806 00:51:45,727 --> 00:51:48,313 Ros and Evan got 25 years to life. 807 00:51:48,313 --> 00:51:50,816 At their age, that's a life sentence for them. 808 00:51:50,816 --> 00:51:54,611 Evan and... and Ros got what they deserve. 809 00:51:54,611 --> 00:51:57,989 {\an8}They got to live free for 23 years. 810 00:51:58,657 --> 00:52:02,410 And now they should be locked up for at least 23 years. 811 00:52:04,788 --> 00:52:08,166 Judge gives the sentence. Philip gets up abruptly. 812 00:52:10,043 --> 00:52:13,171 Like, in a huff, and walks out of there. 813 00:52:14,548 --> 00:52:17,259 I was invited to the sentencing. 814 00:52:17,968 --> 00:52:22,973 I ended up being late, and the door comes swinging open, 815 00:52:24,307 --> 00:52:28,436 and the image in front of me is Howard Pilmar, 816 00:52:28,937 --> 00:52:31,565 which really knocked me for a loop. 817 00:52:31,565 --> 00:52:33,233 Even though I never met Howard, 818 00:52:33,233 --> 00:52:37,112 I had seen enough photographs during the investigation 819 00:52:37,112 --> 00:52:38,947 to know exactly what he looked like. 820 00:52:38,947 --> 00:52:41,867 And that person was Philip. 821 00:52:46,037 --> 00:52:51,293 Closing a cold case is a big deal for the people that do it. 822 00:52:51,793 --> 00:52:53,044 It's very satisfying. 823 00:52:54,546 --> 00:52:59,759 But for the families, a guilty verdict doesn't cure the pain. 824 00:53:03,513 --> 00:53:05,056 I just picture Howard, 825 00:53:05,682 --> 00:53:10,103 the fear that went through Howard's mind 826 00:53:10,604 --> 00:53:16,443 in those few seconds that he was being stabbed and slaughtered. 827 00:53:17,527 --> 00:53:21,156 That's the part that you can... can never get over. 828 00:53:21,823 --> 00:53:26,036 When I go to bed every night, I talk to him. 829 00:53:26,036 --> 00:53:29,122 And I said, "How could this have happened to you?" 830 00:53:29,122 --> 00:53:30,916 "Why didn't you tell me 831 00:53:30,916 --> 00:53:33,668 that you were having trouble with this woman?" 832 00:53:35,670 --> 00:53:37,547 But I can't get any answers. 833 00:53:56,608 --> 00:53:59,236 A couple of years after Howard Pilmar's murder, 834 00:53:59,236 --> 00:54:02,656 we had a case with seven families involved. 835 00:54:02,656 --> 00:54:05,825 The level of intensity was enormous. 836 00:54:08,078 --> 00:54:11,373 This case was heartbreaking in the extreme. 837 00:54:12,332 --> 00:54:15,460 All of the victims were innocent, young girls. 838 00:54:16,670 --> 00:54:22,092 The magnitude of his crimes kinda punched everybody in the head. 839 00:54:22,842 --> 00:54:24,970 He has been on the lam since Valentine's Day 840 00:54:24,970 --> 00:54:28,598 with at least one murder and two rapes, and that may not be all. 841 00:54:29,432 --> 00:54:33,311 "Serial killers." That phrase gets thrown around a lot. 842 00:54:33,311 --> 00:54:34,562 He was one of them.