1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:07,000 Downloaded from YTS.MX 2 00:00:05,135 --> 00:00:07,529 [door alarm buzzes] 3 00:00:07,659 --> 00:00:10,053 [Ruby]: Most people spend their lives trying to get 4 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:13,000 Official YIFY movies site: YTS.MX 5 00:00:10,184 --> 00:00:14,275 what I already have, a perfect family, the perfect job, 6 00:00:14,405 --> 00:00:16,625 perfect life. 7 00:00:16,755 --> 00:00:20,542 I've been admired and respecte, and even envied for it. 8 00:00:23,066 --> 00:00:24,111 Now look at me. 9 00:00:25,677 --> 00:00:27,462 How in God's name did I get here? 10 00:00:27,592 --> 00:00:29,986 [tense music] 11 00:00:32,206 --> 00:00:34,643 [all singing] ♪ Happy birthday to you 12 00:00:34,773 --> 00:00:38,777 ♪ Happy birthday to you 13 00:00:38,908 --> 00:00:40,083 ♪ Happy... 14 00:00:40,214 --> 00:00:42,172 Oh wait, hold on, where is Chad? 15 00:00:43,173 --> 00:00:44,435 Probably in his room. 16 00:00:44,566 --> 00:00:46,568 Okay, you know what? Don't open anything, okay? 17 00:00:46,698 --> 00:00:48,091 My candles are melting. 18 00:00:48,222 --> 00:00:49,658 We can get new candles for the cake. 19 00:00:49,788 --> 00:00:51,051 - Don't worry Mom, I got it. - Okay. 20 00:00:53,096 --> 00:00:56,491 So, you guys, Chad had turned into a full-fledged teenager. 21 00:00:56,621 --> 00:00:58,232 You may have noticed that you haven't seen him much 22 00:00:58,362 --> 00:01:01,322 on 8 Passengers lately, and that is because he's been 23 00:01:01,452 --> 00:01:02,758 checking out of family activities. 24 00:01:03,759 --> 00:01:04,499 Come. 25 00:01:04,629 --> 00:01:05,456 [knocking] 26 00:01:05,587 --> 00:01:06,544 Chad? 27 00:01:07,850 --> 00:01:08,764 Honey? 28 00:01:08,894 --> 00:01:10,722 [rap music] 29 00:01:12,507 --> 00:01:14,074 Hey, Chad, honey. 30 00:01:16,076 --> 00:01:18,513 Hey. Can you take the headphones off? 31 00:01:20,080 --> 00:01:21,211 - Hi. - Hey. 32 00:01:21,342 --> 00:01:23,083 Why aren't you downstairs? 33 00:01:23,213 --> 00:01:25,259 I'm not into the whole party thing. 34 00:01:25,389 --> 00:01:27,217 Well, it's Russell's birthday. 35 00:01:27,348 --> 00:01:28,784 You need to show him your love and respect. 36 00:01:31,178 --> 00:01:33,005 Okay, you know what? Let's... just cut. 37 00:01:33,136 --> 00:01:34,485 [recording beeps off] 38 00:01:34,616 --> 00:01:37,488 Hey, honey, this vlogging is our livelihood, 39 00:01:37,619 --> 00:01:38,837 you know that. And as part of this-- 40 00:01:38,968 --> 00:01:41,144 hey, can you look at me? Thank you. 41 00:01:41,275 --> 00:01:43,886 As a member of this family, you need to do your part to increase 42 00:01:44,016 --> 00:01:46,715 the viewership, right? And our viewers wanna see the Chad 43 00:01:46,845 --> 00:01:49,283 they know and love, not Mopey McMopersons. 44 00:01:49,413 --> 00:01:50,762 - Mm-hmm. - Okay? So, what do you say? 45 00:01:51,502 --> 00:01:53,374 Come on, you know how much Russell adores you. 46 00:01:53,504 --> 00:01:54,984 He would be crushed if you weren't there. 47 00:01:56,638 --> 00:01:57,856 All right. 48 00:01:57,987 --> 00:01:59,293 There you go. 49 00:02:01,077 --> 00:02:02,861 Okay. Oh, I'll take that. Thank you so much. 50 00:02:02,992 --> 00:02:06,822 [singing]: Happy birthday to you! 51 00:02:08,998 --> 00:02:10,521 All right, blow them out! 52 00:02:10,652 --> 00:02:11,740 [all laugh] 53 00:02:15,309 --> 00:02:17,093 Oh, my gosh, you guys, I love having kids. 54 00:02:17,224 --> 00:02:18,138 Aw. 55 00:02:18,660 --> 00:02:20,314 Aw. 56 00:02:20,444 --> 00:02:23,926 And obviously YouTube viewers love the Franke family. 57 00:02:24,056 --> 00:02:27,103 This week, the streaming channel announced that 8 Passengers, 58 00:02:27,234 --> 00:02:30,019 Ruby Franke's parenting vlog about herself and her family 59 00:02:30,150 --> 00:02:33,283 has now surpassed 2.5 million viewers. 60 00:02:33,414 --> 00:02:36,417 What looks like an ordinary house in a middle-class 61 00:02:36,547 --> 00:02:38,897 Utah neighborhood is actually home to this 62 00:02:39,028 --> 00:02:41,204 increasingly famous family. 63 00:02:41,335 --> 00:02:44,033 It's officially summer, and you know what that means? 64 00:02:44,164 --> 00:02:46,209 Barbecue season. 65 00:02:46,340 --> 00:02:47,210 [Ruby]: Pass! 66 00:02:47,341 --> 00:02:48,733 [girls giggling] 67 00:02:48,864 --> 00:02:52,259 And pool parties. Woo-hoo! 68 00:02:52,389 --> 00:02:54,304 Honestly, it was all Ruby's idea. I was worried about 69 00:02:54,435 --> 00:02:55,479 the constant filming, but... 70 00:02:56,785 --> 00:02:57,786 you kinda get used to it. 71 00:02:57,916 --> 00:02:59,266 [laughs] 72 00:02:59,396 --> 00:03:01,964 I had no idea that when I started posting 73 00:03:02,094 --> 00:03:05,924 these videos, that it would turn into this... thing. 74 00:03:06,055 --> 00:03:08,753 The thing it turned into was a parenting channel, 75 00:03:08,884 --> 00:03:11,321 that offered families a look at how Ruby and Kevin 76 00:03:11,452 --> 00:03:12,670 raise their children. 77 00:03:12,801 --> 00:03:14,933 Okay, Shari, breakfast. 78 00:03:15,064 --> 00:03:16,283 Anything but omelets. 79 00:03:16,413 --> 00:03:17,545 Chad, Chad, garbage. 80 00:03:17,675 --> 00:03:19,111 - Got it. - Abby, laundry. 81 00:03:19,242 --> 00:03:20,635 No problem. 82 00:03:20,765 --> 00:03:21,984 Okay, and Eve, you're gonna dust the shelves. 83 00:03:22,114 --> 00:03:23,855 - Okay. - Okay. 84 00:03:23,986 --> 00:03:25,770 Uh, Julie, kitchen clean up. 85 00:03:25,901 --> 00:03:27,990 Again? Why can't I make breakfast? 86 00:03:28,120 --> 00:03:30,122 Because the last time you did, nobody wanted to eat it. 87 00:03:30,253 --> 00:03:32,168 [all laugh] 88 00:03:32,299 --> 00:03:34,649 Okay, Russell, recycling. 89 00:03:34,779 --> 00:03:36,085 - Sure. - Great. 90 00:03:38,305 --> 00:03:40,568 This household is not a democracy. 91 00:03:40,698 --> 00:03:42,004 [kids snickering] 92 00:03:42,134 --> 00:03:44,093 Tough love or loving mother? 93 00:03:44,224 --> 00:03:46,356 Either way, millions of viewers agree, 94 00:03:46,487 --> 00:03:48,576 8 Passengers is worth the watc. 95 00:03:48,706 --> 00:03:51,492 For Channel 8 News Utah, I'm Morgan Riley. 96 00:03:51,622 --> 00:03:52,536 [recording beeps off] 97 00:03:53,972 --> 00:03:55,409 - They're cute, aren't they? - Oh, delightful. 98 00:03:55,539 --> 00:03:57,454 The model Christian family. 99 00:03:57,585 --> 00:03:59,891 And Kevin is a professor at the university, right? 100 00:04:00,022 --> 00:04:00,849 Mm-hmm. 101 00:04:02,633 --> 00:04:04,548 Wait, aren't you on the church Christmas committee? 102 00:04:04,679 --> 00:04:06,289 I mean, the Frankes would be perfect 103 00:04:06,420 --> 00:04:07,551 for the family that lights the tree. 104 00:04:07,682 --> 00:04:08,422 [strained chuckle] 105 00:04:10,119 --> 00:04:12,687 Well, between you and me, they're not perfect. 106 00:04:12,817 --> 00:04:14,689 Ruby's such a stickler for perfection and she would 107 00:04:14,819 --> 00:04:17,344 never show it but I know for a fact that they've been 108 00:04:17,474 --> 00:04:18,954 having some problems with their eldest son, Chad. 109 00:04:20,651 --> 00:04:21,783 Teenagers. 110 00:04:21,913 --> 00:04:24,046 Hmm. Apparently he's a handful. 111 00:04:24,176 --> 00:04:26,483 Hmm. As you know, my schedule is tight, 112 00:04:26,614 --> 00:04:28,050 but I would like to offer my help. 113 00:04:29,269 --> 00:04:30,661 Would you like me to make an introduction? 114 00:04:30,792 --> 00:04:32,272 I think they would be grateful. 115 00:04:33,098 --> 00:04:34,535 [chuckles] 116 00:04:34,665 --> 00:04:35,927 I'll call her right away. 117 00:04:37,015 --> 00:04:40,236 Kids all looked so great today. I cannot imagine 118 00:04:40,367 --> 00:04:42,804 how much more attention they're gonna get in school. 119 00:04:42,934 --> 00:04:44,675 Yeah, I'm not so crazy about that. 120 00:04:44,806 --> 00:04:47,809 Oh, come on, it's the local news. They can handle it. 121 00:04:49,680 --> 00:04:50,768 [sighs] 122 00:04:50,899 --> 00:04:52,466 What are we gonna do about Chad? 123 00:04:53,075 --> 00:04:54,381 What do you mean? 124 00:04:54,511 --> 00:04:56,600 He was so grumpy at Russell's birthday. 125 00:04:57,122 --> 00:04:59,821 Oh, I wouldn't worry too much. 126 00:05:00,952 --> 00:05:02,127 Boys will be boys. 127 00:05:02,258 --> 00:05:03,477 Hmm, true, but... 128 00:05:05,566 --> 00:05:08,133 hmm, I do worry that his acting out is gonna cause bigger 129 00:05:08,264 --> 00:05:09,700 problems in the future. 130 00:05:09,831 --> 00:05:12,094 [gentle music] 131 00:05:12,224 --> 00:05:13,704 What's this? 132 00:05:13,835 --> 00:05:16,446 Oh, I don't know, just a little something 133 00:05:16,577 --> 00:05:19,797 for the best wife in the world. 134 00:05:32,419 --> 00:05:33,898 Is this not more of a gift for you? 135 00:05:34,029 --> 00:05:34,986 Uh-uh. 136 00:05:36,945 --> 00:05:38,250 - Kevin? - Mm-hmm? 137 00:05:39,730 --> 00:05:41,341 Kevin, I'm serious, we need to talk about this. 138 00:05:42,211 --> 00:05:42,994 Okay. 139 00:05:48,217 --> 00:05:51,046 I spoke to Darcy Bastow today and she mentioned 140 00:05:51,176 --> 00:05:52,352 Jodi Hildebrandt. 141 00:05:53,222 --> 00:05:54,441 You know, the family therapist? 142 00:05:55,572 --> 00:05:57,574 You've always done such a great job with the kids. 143 00:05:57,705 --> 00:05:59,707 Are you sure we really need a therapist? 144 00:05:59,837 --> 00:06:03,406 I think Chad might need some expert help. And Jodi is super 145 00:06:03,537 --> 00:06:06,191 popular in the community, and so hard to get in with, 146 00:06:06,322 --> 00:06:08,019 but Darcy said she'd put in a good word for us. 147 00:06:10,239 --> 00:06:15,375 Uh, well, if you think it'll help, what have we got to lose? 148 00:06:16,114 --> 00:06:17,028 Great. 149 00:06:38,963 --> 00:06:42,489 [mysterious music] 150 00:06:52,107 --> 00:06:54,588 - Ruby? - Yeah, I'm sorry. I'm sorry. 151 00:06:54,718 --> 00:06:55,763 It's paradise, isn't it? 152 00:06:57,068 --> 00:06:58,156 Are you building a home there? 153 00:06:58,287 --> 00:06:59,419 Well, actually, it's a potential spot 154 00:06:59,549 --> 00:07:00,855 for my Garden of Eden. 155 00:07:00,985 --> 00:07:03,074 A place where I can do God's work in peace. 156 00:07:04,075 --> 00:07:05,120 Come on, let's go talk outside. 157 00:07:06,730 --> 00:07:08,166 - Thank you for having me. - Of course. 158 00:07:09,254 --> 00:07:11,605 I pride myself on making time for children in need. 159 00:07:11,735 --> 00:07:14,129 Well, it sure is gonna be nice to have somebody 160 00:07:14,259 --> 00:07:15,783 to talk to about Chad's antics. 161 00:07:17,219 --> 00:07:19,787 Ruby, clearly you're ahead of the game when it comes 162 00:07:19,917 --> 00:07:22,920 to raising children. But in my experience, I have found that 163 00:07:23,051 --> 00:07:25,575 the parents need to help themselves before they can help 164 00:07:25,706 --> 00:07:28,796 their kids. That oftentimes, when children act up, 165 00:07:28,926 --> 00:07:30,580 it's usually because something's off balance in the home. 166 00:07:33,191 --> 00:07:35,498 Would you say that Kevin is a good role model? 167 00:07:35,629 --> 00:07:39,067 Oh, the kids worship him. 168 00:07:39,197 --> 00:07:40,111 Is he virtuous? 169 00:07:42,200 --> 00:07:44,681 With all those raging hormones, young men need a steady rudder. 170 00:07:44,812 --> 00:07:47,118 - Yeah. Yeah, absolutely. - Hmm. 171 00:07:48,293 --> 00:07:51,296 So, he's an attentive father who puts the welfare 172 00:07:51,427 --> 00:07:52,472 of his family first? 173 00:07:54,386 --> 00:07:56,084 Actually... 174 00:07:58,956 --> 00:08:02,090 lately I have been having some trouble getting him to focus 175 00:08:02,220 --> 00:08:03,787 on Chad's issues. 176 00:08:03,918 --> 00:08:04,745 And why is that? 177 00:08:06,877 --> 00:08:08,488 He seems to be more interested in... 178 00:08:10,968 --> 00:08:15,277 Sex? Don't be ashamed. This is a very common problem 179 00:08:15,407 --> 00:08:17,453 with married men in our community. How many times a day 180 00:08:17,584 --> 00:08:19,324 do you think your husband thinks about sex? 181 00:08:19,455 --> 00:08:23,154 Oh, I don't know, no more than the average male I -- 182 00:08:23,285 --> 00:08:26,854 Be careful. Don't downplay it. Sexual addiction 183 00:08:26,984 --> 00:08:28,725 is toxic within the home. 184 00:08:28,856 --> 00:08:31,989 Addiction? I've never thought of it like that. 185 00:08:33,164 --> 00:08:35,993 A supersized libido can lead to perversions. 186 00:08:36,124 --> 00:08:38,039 And in the eyes of the church... 187 00:08:38,169 --> 00:08:41,521 Right. Right, I think I see where you're going with that. 188 00:08:44,175 --> 00:08:46,700 You know what? I have a men's therapy group that would be 189 00:08:46,830 --> 00:08:50,051 fantastic for Kevin. It's Kevin, right? 190 00:08:50,181 --> 00:08:52,532 - Yeah. - It's an open forum for men 191 00:08:52,662 --> 00:08:56,666 to speak freely on men's issues. It's a great group of men. 192 00:08:56,797 --> 00:09:00,017 My counseling has saved a lot of marriages. But don't take 193 00:09:00,148 --> 00:09:03,804 my word for it. Tell Kevin to speak to the church elders. 194 00:09:03,934 --> 00:09:05,022 They endorse me. 195 00:09:09,157 --> 00:09:11,202 I thought the counseling was for Chad, not for me? 196 00:09:13,030 --> 00:09:16,120 I know. I wasn't keen on it at first either, but then, 197 00:09:16,251 --> 00:09:19,863 I had to be honest with myself and admit that 198 00:09:19,994 --> 00:09:23,650 our relationship is not perfect. 199 00:09:24,564 --> 00:09:25,695 Because of me? 200 00:09:25,826 --> 00:09:29,351 No. Not just because of you. 201 00:09:30,787 --> 00:09:33,703 But I do really think that we could both benefit 202 00:09:33,834 --> 00:09:35,052 from this therapy. 203 00:09:35,183 --> 00:09:36,619 [inhales] 204 00:09:36,750 --> 00:09:38,229 Do you know how much Jodi charges for those 205 00:09:38,360 --> 00:09:41,145 men's sessions? It's almost double what we're paying 206 00:09:41,276 --> 00:09:42,364 for Chad, and with Shari starting college -- 207 00:09:42,494 --> 00:09:46,020 Honey, we're doing okay. We can afford it. 208 00:09:46,150 --> 00:09:50,154 And money aside, Jodi is very insightful. 209 00:09:50,285 --> 00:09:52,287 She's not preachy at all, and I just think 210 00:09:52,417 --> 00:09:56,465 if you gave her a chance, you'd really like her. Plus... 211 00:09:58,423 --> 00:09:59,903 it would mean a lot to me. 212 00:10:02,340 --> 00:10:06,083 Okay, now this is spot on. Stitching looks very elegant. 213 00:10:06,214 --> 00:10:08,956 Sorry you had to tell the manufacturer to do it again. 214 00:10:09,086 --> 00:10:10,479 [Lindsey]: I'm your business manager. It's my job 215 00:10:10,610 --> 00:10:11,915 to make you happy. - Hmm. 216 00:10:12,046 --> 00:10:13,395 [Lindsey]: What do you think about the hats? 217 00:10:13,525 --> 00:10:15,876 Hats. Um, hang on, I'm looking for them. 218 00:10:16,006 --> 00:10:18,052 [phone pings] 219 00:10:18,182 --> 00:10:19,793 [Lindsey]: Personally, I think they should be red instead of-- 220 00:10:19,923 --> 00:10:21,490 Lindsey, sorry, I have to call you back. 221 00:10:21,621 --> 00:10:23,100 [call beeps off] 222 00:10:28,105 --> 00:10:29,716 [recording beeps on] 223 00:10:31,152 --> 00:10:34,111 [dark music] 224 00:10:34,242 --> 00:10:38,986 Um, so I just got a text message from Eve's teacher. 225 00:10:39,116 --> 00:10:42,337 Eve forgot her lunch today, and could I bring it to her? 226 00:10:45,122 --> 00:10:48,952 I know it makes her teacher uncomfortable for Eve to go 227 00:10:49,083 --> 00:10:51,651 hungry, and it would ease her discomfort if I could just 228 00:10:51,781 --> 00:10:54,741 come to the school with a lunch. But um, I... 229 00:10:54,871 --> 00:10:59,310 I responded and said Eve is responsible for making 230 00:10:59,441 --> 00:11:01,573 her lunches in the morning, and she told me she did. 231 00:11:01,704 --> 00:11:02,792 [computer mouse clicks] 232 00:11:02,923 --> 00:11:04,533 [recording rewinds] 233 00:11:04,664 --> 00:11:06,753 Eve is responsible for making her lunches in the morning, 234 00:11:06,883 --> 00:11:08,624 and she told me she did. 235 00:11:08,755 --> 00:11:12,236 So, the natural outcome is Eve will need to go hungry. 236 00:11:12,367 --> 00:11:13,673 [mouse clicks] 237 00:11:14,891 --> 00:11:15,544 [knocking] 238 00:11:15,675 --> 00:11:16,850 Hey. 239 00:11:16,980 --> 00:11:18,416 - How's is going? - Good. 240 00:11:19,287 --> 00:11:21,768 Just putting final touches on this episode 241 00:11:21,898 --> 00:11:23,683 and I can upload it. - I don't mean to interrupt 242 00:11:23,813 --> 00:11:26,555 but I wanted to say that if it's that important to you, 243 00:11:26,686 --> 00:11:29,036 I'll do it. I'll try the therapy. 244 00:11:31,778 --> 00:11:34,084 Thank you. 245 00:11:34,215 --> 00:11:36,043 I really don't think you'll regret it. 246 00:11:37,827 --> 00:11:39,133 Don't stay up too late. 247 00:11:41,439 --> 00:11:42,876 [footsteps receding] 248 00:11:44,312 --> 00:11:46,183 [recording rewinds] 249 00:11:46,314 --> 00:11:49,056 So, the natural outcome is, Eve will need to go hungry. 250 00:11:51,754 --> 00:11:54,365 [tender music] 251 00:11:55,192 --> 00:11:57,717 [Ruby]: The truth is, it was only an hour before 252 00:11:57,847 --> 00:12:02,591 school let out. Eve would come home and eat all she wanted. 253 00:12:02,722 --> 00:12:07,074 Even so, I can't say I didn't feel bad for her. I did. 254 00:12:07,204 --> 00:12:10,512 No parent ever wants to see their child suffer. 255 00:12:12,035 --> 00:12:14,864 But I know Eve will be all the stronger for it. 256 00:12:17,649 --> 00:12:19,086 I'm proud of my decision 257 00:12:20,565 --> 00:12:22,002 and I think Jodi would be, too. 258 00:12:24,004 --> 00:12:25,614 She's really helping with Chad. 259 00:12:27,964 --> 00:12:29,183 Which is good. 260 00:12:29,313 --> 00:12:30,967 [door creaks] 261 00:12:31,489 --> 00:12:33,796 Because Jodi is right, 262 00:12:33,927 --> 00:12:36,190 we wouldn't want to jeopardize the 8 Passengers brand. 263 00:12:40,324 --> 00:12:42,065 [birds chirping] 264 00:12:43,458 --> 00:12:46,722 See, I know what I'm doing is wrong, but I... 265 00:12:46,853 --> 00:12:48,506 I just can't seem to stop. 266 00:12:48,637 --> 00:12:50,770 Addictions are compulsive. 267 00:12:50,900 --> 00:12:53,294 You need to focus on not putting yourself in a position 268 00:12:53,424 --> 00:12:54,643 where you'll be tempted. 269 00:12:54,774 --> 00:12:56,384 But I can't help myself, right? I have, 270 00:12:56,514 --> 00:12:58,255 I have urges. 271 00:12:58,386 --> 00:13:01,128 Your self-pollution is a violation of the church's 272 00:13:01,258 --> 00:13:03,478 law of chastity. Now, say it. 273 00:13:04,305 --> 00:13:06,176 Uh... 274 00:13:06,307 --> 00:13:08,744 I want you to say because I don't think you believe it. 275 00:13:14,445 --> 00:13:16,534 Um... 276 00:13:16,665 --> 00:13:18,972 my impure thoughts are a danger to my family. 277 00:13:20,451 --> 00:13:23,237 That's right, Braxton. Speak the truth. 278 00:13:23,367 --> 00:13:25,761 Live in truth. No more living in distortion. 279 00:13:28,329 --> 00:13:31,593 Kevin? I know this is your first session, 280 00:13:31,723 --> 00:13:33,943 but are you ready to talk about your sex addiction? 281 00:13:34,901 --> 00:13:37,425 Uh... sex addiction? 282 00:13:37,555 --> 00:13:41,690 I, don't uh, mean... it's not an addiction. 283 00:13:43,431 --> 00:13:46,521 There can be no healing with hubris and self-deceit. 284 00:13:46,651 --> 00:13:48,653 I don't mean to be difficult but I, I don't think this 285 00:13:48,784 --> 00:13:50,960 is a problem for my wife and I. - Is that right? 286 00:13:51,091 --> 00:13:53,484 So, your lustfulness doesn't impact your marriage? 287 00:13:53,615 --> 00:13:55,138 Not that I'm aware of. 288 00:13:55,878 --> 00:13:57,837 Your wife is hurting. Were you aware of that? 289 00:13:59,142 --> 00:14:00,056 No. 290 00:14:00,187 --> 00:14:02,189 She cries about it in private. 291 00:14:02,929 --> 00:14:04,017 She told you that? 292 00:14:04,147 --> 00:14:06,497 I'm only telling you so you understand 293 00:14:06,628 --> 00:14:07,847 how you're affecting her. 294 00:14:11,720 --> 00:14:14,984 [bike motor whirring] [exhaling] 295 00:14:16,768 --> 00:14:17,726 [phone pings] 296 00:14:28,955 --> 00:14:32,393 [dark music] 297 00:14:51,803 --> 00:14:55,372 I mean, who would do that? And how did they get my number? 298 00:14:55,503 --> 00:14:58,027 Is this the first time you've gotten a text like that? 299 00:14:58,158 --> 00:15:00,943 No. You don't think they'd come to my house, do you? 300 00:15:01,074 --> 00:15:03,467 It's probably just jealous fans. 301 00:15:03,598 --> 00:15:05,861 You know, if everybody had your parenting skills, 302 00:15:05,992 --> 00:15:08,646 they wouldn't all be watching 8 Passengers. 303 00:15:08,777 --> 00:15:10,257 You think so? 304 00:15:10,387 --> 00:15:12,433 Numbers don't lie. 305 00:15:12,563 --> 00:15:15,697 So um, how's Kevin doing? 306 00:15:15,827 --> 00:15:18,743 Good. Yeah, he says the men's sessions are going well. 307 00:15:21,094 --> 00:15:21,833 Are they not? 308 00:15:21,964 --> 00:15:23,009 [sighs] 309 00:15:25,011 --> 00:15:27,404 I'm sorry to say but I think your husband's manipulating you. 310 00:15:28,623 --> 00:15:30,059 Really? 311 00:15:30,190 --> 00:15:32,496 He's good at projecting that he's being receptive 312 00:15:32,627 --> 00:15:35,847 but on the inside, he's not being truthful. 313 00:15:35,978 --> 00:15:37,588 Why else would he tell you it's been going good? 314 00:15:38,981 --> 00:15:41,418 Yeah um, I guess I could see that. 315 00:15:41,549 --> 00:15:45,205 When he comes home tonight, challenge him to have a real 316 00:15:45,335 --> 00:15:48,469 conversation about your feelings. About the lust, 317 00:15:48,599 --> 00:15:51,254 about the emotional toll it's taking on you. About the pain 318 00:15:51,385 --> 00:15:53,953 he's inflicting. Don't let him off the hook. 319 00:15:54,083 --> 00:15:56,390 I have to go. Be firm. 320 00:15:56,520 --> 00:15:57,826 [call beeps off] 321 00:15:57,957 --> 00:15:59,132 [dark music] 322 00:16:03,527 --> 00:16:05,573 [shoes clack to floor] 323 00:16:07,923 --> 00:16:10,186 Sorry, I woke you. 324 00:16:10,317 --> 00:16:13,059 Oh, it's okay. How was the meeting? 325 00:16:13,189 --> 00:16:15,670 [sighs] To be honest, 326 00:16:15,800 --> 00:16:16,801 I don't know why I'm there. 327 00:16:18,978 --> 00:16:21,328 Jodi said you might say that. 328 00:16:21,458 --> 00:16:22,503 Did she call you? 329 00:16:23,983 --> 00:16:25,506 Should she be telling you what's going on 330 00:16:25,636 --> 00:16:26,333 in these meetings? 331 00:16:28,030 --> 00:16:31,947 I mean, I thought it was a bit weird at first 332 00:16:32,078 --> 00:16:35,298 but we're married so... 333 00:16:35,429 --> 00:16:36,996 It's unconventional to me. 334 00:16:39,346 --> 00:16:41,000 Are you hiding something? 335 00:16:41,130 --> 00:16:42,001 No. 336 00:16:47,180 --> 00:16:48,572 Can we have an honest conversation about 337 00:16:48,703 --> 00:16:49,530 our relationship? 338 00:16:54,143 --> 00:16:56,276 Of course. What's wrong? 339 00:16:58,626 --> 00:17:00,454 Um... 340 00:17:02,151 --> 00:17:04,893 it feels like you'd rather have sex than talk about our son. 341 00:17:05,937 --> 00:17:06,851 Is this about the sexy lingerie? 342 00:17:06,982 --> 00:17:08,549 No, it's not just that. 343 00:17:10,029 --> 00:17:12,292 Making love should be about romance. 344 00:17:13,684 --> 00:17:15,208 Right? Not lust. Lust... 345 00:17:17,471 --> 00:17:19,864 it doesn't feel loving to me. 346 00:17:19,995 --> 00:17:23,564 Ruby, I had no idea. 347 00:17:26,219 --> 00:17:28,177 I just wanna feel like you love me. 348 00:17:28,308 --> 00:17:30,875 Oh. I love you. 349 00:17:31,876 --> 00:17:34,923 More than anything in the world. 350 00:17:36,446 --> 00:17:40,494 I'm sorry that my behavior made you feel that way. 351 00:17:42,278 --> 00:17:46,195 I would do anything to make this marriage work. 352 00:17:48,458 --> 00:17:50,156 - Okay. - Okay. 353 00:17:50,895 --> 00:17:53,072 Yeah. Thank you. 354 00:17:57,772 --> 00:17:58,686 [distant banging] 355 00:17:58,816 --> 00:18:01,471 Huh? Do you hear that? 356 00:18:01,602 --> 00:18:02,777 [groans] 357 00:18:04,126 --> 00:18:05,258 What is that? 358 00:18:06,041 --> 00:18:07,608 Somebody's in the house. 359 00:18:10,176 --> 00:18:11,873 Do you think it could be that person sending those texts? 360 00:18:12,961 --> 00:18:14,354 [door creaks open] 361 00:18:15,659 --> 00:18:19,272 [banging continues] 362 00:18:23,798 --> 00:18:25,191 [sighs] 363 00:18:25,321 --> 00:18:26,279 Russell? 364 00:18:27,454 --> 00:18:29,412 What on earth are you doing? 365 00:18:29,543 --> 00:18:31,545 Chad woke me up and told me to hurry up and pack 366 00:18:31,675 --> 00:18:34,461 because we're leaving for California, right now. 367 00:18:34,591 --> 00:18:37,203 Oh, buddy, not tonight. Why don't you come upstairs 368 00:18:37,333 --> 00:18:38,378 and we'll put your suitcase away? 369 00:18:38,508 --> 00:18:40,119 [Chad laughing] 370 00:18:40,249 --> 00:18:42,295 You think this is funny? 371 00:18:42,425 --> 00:18:44,035 Yeah, I think it's pretty funny. 372 00:18:44,166 --> 00:18:45,994 You got Russell up in the middle of the night? 373 00:18:46,125 --> 00:18:47,909 He has school in the morning. You have school in the morning. 374 00:18:48,039 --> 00:18:49,954 What's the big deal? It's a joke. 375 00:18:50,085 --> 00:18:51,869 Okay, well pal, joke's on you. You can get your blanky 376 00:18:52,000 --> 00:18:53,480 and get your pillow and you can get out. 377 00:18:53,610 --> 00:18:55,090 Wait, what, where am I supposed to go? 378 00:18:55,221 --> 00:18:56,700 I don't care. 379 00:18:56,831 --> 00:18:58,441 You have tormented Russell for the last time. 380 00:18:58,572 --> 00:18:59,877 You can sleep anywhere in the house but here. 381 00:19:00,008 --> 00:19:01,227 Okay? Get out. 382 00:19:01,966 --> 00:19:03,272 Uh... 383 00:19:04,969 --> 00:19:06,667 Go, now. 384 00:19:10,453 --> 00:19:12,673 [footsteps stomp away] 385 00:19:12,803 --> 00:19:14,240 What? 386 00:19:14,370 --> 00:19:15,328 Nothing. 387 00:19:22,117 --> 00:19:26,643 It's a big day. Shari is coming home for the first 388 00:19:26,774 --> 00:19:30,256 time after being away at college. We're all so excited 389 00:19:30,386 --> 00:19:34,173 to see her. There she is! My first born. 390 00:19:34,303 --> 00:19:36,827 [laughs lovingly] 391 00:19:36,958 --> 00:19:38,655 Wait a minute, is that? 392 00:19:38,786 --> 00:19:41,484 Yeah, laundry. What? At school we don't do it every day 393 00:19:41,615 --> 00:19:42,703 like you do, Mom. 394 00:19:42,833 --> 00:19:44,487 There's another one in the truck. 395 00:19:44,618 --> 00:19:45,706 But it's so good to have her home. 396 00:19:45,836 --> 00:19:47,490 [laughs] 397 00:19:48,709 --> 00:19:50,928 It's a good thing my daughter can depend on the kindness 398 00:19:51,059 --> 00:19:51,799 of her mother. 399 00:19:51,929 --> 00:19:53,366 [laughs] 400 00:19:54,628 --> 00:19:56,195 We missed you. 401 00:19:57,587 --> 00:19:58,675 And how's the dorm? 402 00:19:58,806 --> 00:20:00,590 - Well, my room is small. - Mm-hmm. 403 00:20:00,721 --> 00:20:03,245 Smaller than my room here. But I decorated it nicely. 404 00:20:03,376 --> 00:20:05,726 I'm just happy to be back in my bedroom. 405 00:20:06,683 --> 00:20:08,381 Hmm, I've been sleeping in the beanbag for like, 406 00:20:08,511 --> 00:20:09,904 how many months now? 407 00:20:10,034 --> 00:20:12,036 I don't think our viewers know that. 408 00:20:12,167 --> 00:20:14,125 Wait, what happened? 409 00:20:14,256 --> 00:20:17,041 Okay, I'll tell you why I lost my bedroom. So, 410 00:20:17,172 --> 00:20:19,566 basically I woke Russell up in the middle of the night. 411 00:20:19,696 --> 00:20:22,612 I told him we were going to California. He got his bags 412 00:20:22,743 --> 00:20:24,614 packed and put on his sunglasses and everything. 413 00:20:24,745 --> 00:20:25,833 [laughs] 414 00:20:25,963 --> 00:20:27,182 You think it's funny? 415 00:20:28,662 --> 00:20:30,229 Because if you still think it's funny maybe you 416 00:20:30,359 --> 00:20:31,404 don't deserve your bedroom back. 417 00:20:34,276 --> 00:20:35,408 Definitely not funny. 418 00:20:37,453 --> 00:20:38,324 Can we cut? 419 00:20:40,500 --> 00:20:42,719 Okay, you know full well that we gave you the option to sleep 420 00:20:42,850 --> 00:20:45,592 anywhere in the house. You chose the beanbag. 421 00:20:52,120 --> 00:20:54,253 [tense music] 422 00:20:58,518 --> 00:21:00,998 I talked to Lindsey today. 423 00:21:01,129 --> 00:21:03,044 She said viewership has decreased 424 00:21:03,174 --> 00:21:04,654 over the last few months. 425 00:21:04,785 --> 00:21:06,526 Oh, it's probably just seasonal. 426 00:21:06,656 --> 00:21:08,049 Yeah, maybe. 427 00:21:10,225 --> 00:21:12,183 I don't know, I worry that it has something to do with 428 00:21:12,314 --> 00:21:13,446 the negative comments. 429 00:21:15,491 --> 00:21:17,624 [tender music] 430 00:21:17,754 --> 00:21:19,713 [giggling]: Oh... 431 00:21:20,453 --> 00:21:22,281 What is this? 432 00:21:24,108 --> 00:21:25,371 For my queen. 433 00:21:30,027 --> 00:21:31,638 [chuckles] 434 00:21:34,510 --> 00:21:35,816 Oh. 435 00:21:37,818 --> 00:21:39,428 This is nice. 436 00:21:39,559 --> 00:21:41,082 You said you wanted romance. 437 00:22:07,543 --> 00:22:09,153 Mom! Mom! Hurry up! 438 00:22:09,284 --> 00:22:10,154 [running footsteps approach] 439 00:22:10,285 --> 00:22:12,287 What? Oh, my gosh, Shari, 440 00:22:12,418 --> 00:22:13,680 I thought the house was on fire. 441 00:22:13,810 --> 00:22:16,247 - You've gotta see this. - What is this? 442 00:22:16,378 --> 00:22:18,424 Well someone, someone started a petition to have you 443 00:22:18,554 --> 00:22:22,036 investigated by Child Services for being a bad mother. 444 00:22:22,166 --> 00:22:23,864 Are you kidding? 445 00:22:23,994 --> 00:22:26,780 No, it's got over 12,000 signatures. 446 00:22:26,910 --> 00:22:28,869 No, no, no, no, this is not real. This cannot be real. 447 00:22:28,999 --> 00:22:30,958 No, it's real, Mom. What did you do? 448 00:22:31,915 --> 00:22:33,743 Me? What did I do? 449 00:22:33,874 --> 00:22:35,484 I loved my family. That's what I did. 450 00:22:35,615 --> 00:22:37,268 You know that nothing is more important to me in the world 451 00:22:37,399 --> 00:22:38,574 than you guys, right? 452 00:22:38,705 --> 00:22:40,620 - What's going on? - [scoffs] 453 00:22:40,750 --> 00:22:43,187 I just... apparently they hate me now. 454 00:22:43,318 --> 00:22:45,364 - Who hates you? - The internet. 455 00:22:45,494 --> 00:22:47,627 Well, I'll check its legal merit, but still, it's not good. 456 00:22:49,019 --> 00:22:52,327 This is not good, not good. No, it's a disaster actually. 457 00:22:52,458 --> 00:22:54,198 This is gonna ruin me. This is going to destroy 458 00:22:54,329 --> 00:22:55,635 everything I built! 459 00:22:55,765 --> 00:22:56,897 [tense music] 460 00:23:00,901 --> 00:23:02,337 [birds chirping] 461 00:23:02,468 --> 00:23:05,079 [gentle music] 462 00:23:09,170 --> 00:23:12,042 [footsteps approaching] 463 00:23:15,698 --> 00:23:16,830 Hey. 464 00:23:18,092 --> 00:23:19,702 Can I talk to you for a second? 465 00:23:19,833 --> 00:23:22,009 Yeah, of course. Do you wanna wait in the car? 466 00:23:24,054 --> 00:23:25,186 I just wanna give you an update. 467 00:23:25,316 --> 00:23:27,014 Okay. Nothing bad, I hope? 468 00:23:27,144 --> 00:23:29,320 Oh, no. Chad's making great progress. 469 00:23:29,451 --> 00:23:31,235 That's a relief. 470 00:23:31,366 --> 00:23:33,150 Well, he wouldn't have come this far this fast 471 00:23:33,281 --> 00:23:34,630 without your diligence. 472 00:23:34,761 --> 00:23:37,067 Thank you. We've been working on his focus. 473 00:23:37,198 --> 00:23:39,156 You know, I want him to feel like he can be more serious, 474 00:23:39,287 --> 00:23:40,897 rather than always the class clown. 475 00:23:41,028 --> 00:23:44,031 Right. Well, I only have an hour per session with him 476 00:23:44,161 --> 00:23:46,076 and I think we could achieve greater results 477 00:23:46,207 --> 00:23:48,427 if Chad comes in more than two times a week. 478 00:23:48,557 --> 00:23:50,472 It's just something to think about. 479 00:23:50,603 --> 00:23:54,041 Yeah, sure. Um, let me talk to Kevin. Okay? 480 00:23:54,171 --> 00:23:56,478 It's just, it's the money thing. Our viewership has decreased. 481 00:23:56,609 --> 00:23:57,827 - Hmm. - Since that whole silly 482 00:23:57,958 --> 00:24:00,961 petition campaign and it's... 483 00:24:01,091 --> 00:24:02,919 and thank heavens nothing ever came of it. 484 00:24:03,050 --> 00:24:03,964 Can I be candid? 485 00:24:04,094 --> 00:24:05,487 Of course. 486 00:24:05,618 --> 00:24:08,142 Your show, 8 Passengers, is terrific, 487 00:24:08,272 --> 00:24:10,361 but it's more of an entertainment piece. 488 00:24:10,492 --> 00:24:12,015 I see bigger things in your future. 489 00:24:13,103 --> 00:24:15,497 - Like what? - Well, you have great values. 490 00:24:15,628 --> 00:24:19,414 You have a knack for helping people. And you have the magic. 491 00:24:21,590 --> 00:24:24,288 Oh, my gosh, I... 492 00:24:24,419 --> 00:24:26,900 I don't know what to say. That means so much coming from you. 493 00:24:27,030 --> 00:24:29,555 Well, you should think about a career in mental health. 494 00:24:29,685 --> 00:24:31,470 I could not do that. 495 00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:35,256 I mean, can I do that? I didn't, I didn't go to college. 496 00:24:35,386 --> 00:24:38,389 God gifted you a talent. It would be a sin 497 00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:39,565 to let it go to waste. 498 00:24:43,525 --> 00:24:46,702 Hello, Passengers. I am sure you're all wondering 499 00:24:46,833 --> 00:24:49,009 what's going on, so let me catch you up. 500 00:24:49,139 --> 00:24:55,537 Shari is thrilled with college. Chad moved out and got a job. 501 00:24:55,668 --> 00:24:58,584 And Eve is getting baptized. 502 00:24:58,714 --> 00:25:00,803 My kids are growing up. 503 00:25:02,501 --> 00:25:05,895 And their lives are getting busy. So, I wanted you to know 504 00:25:06,026 --> 00:25:07,767 that I'm gonna be cutting back on the vlogging. 505 00:25:09,943 --> 00:25:12,989 My original motive for vlogging was to create a support system 506 00:25:13,120 --> 00:25:18,691 for families, for mothers, to see an example of what 507 00:25:18,821 --> 00:25:21,520 a healthy mom looks like. But lately, 508 00:25:23,260 --> 00:25:27,961 it's... been discouraging because my content has been 509 00:25:28,091 --> 00:25:30,137 twisted and distorted. 510 00:25:32,313 --> 00:25:36,360 Luckily, God has taken this painful moment in my life 511 00:25:36,491 --> 00:25:41,235 and turned lemons into lemonade. He has given me a new avenue, 512 00:25:43,019 --> 00:25:48,329 which has been just an absolute blessing in my life. 513 00:25:48,459 --> 00:25:52,376 And my family's. I'm gonna be starting some new, exciting 514 00:25:52,507 --> 00:25:55,989 mental health work, which I will get into at a later date. 515 00:25:56,119 --> 00:25:59,470 For now, I just wanted to wish you all a merry Christmas 516 00:25:59,601 --> 00:26:01,908 and a blessed and happy new year. 517 00:26:03,387 --> 00:26:05,259 [recording beeps off] [inhales deeply] 518 00:26:05,389 --> 00:26:07,957 Oh, I am beat. How did that sound? 519 00:26:08,088 --> 00:26:10,046 Sounds like I'm gonna have to get a second job. 520 00:26:10,177 --> 00:26:11,047 [phone ringing] 521 00:26:11,178 --> 00:26:12,614 Shari, can you get my phone? 522 00:26:12,745 --> 00:26:14,877 Yeah, I mean, we've talked about this. 523 00:26:15,008 --> 00:26:16,749 I have to be expanding my horizons. The kids don't 524 00:26:16,879 --> 00:26:18,228 wanna be in the vlog anymore. [phone continues ringing] 525 00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:19,926 Ruby, then we're gonna have to start tightening 526 00:26:20,056 --> 00:26:20,753 our belts around here. 527 00:26:21,492 --> 00:26:22,581 It's Jodi. 528 00:26:23,712 --> 00:26:24,974 Aunt... Jodi. 529 00:26:25,105 --> 00:26:26,715 [call beeps on] 530 00:26:28,064 --> 00:26:30,153 When did we start calling her Aunt Jodi? 531 00:26:30,284 --> 00:26:32,460 Hello. How was your Christmas? 532 00:26:32,591 --> 00:26:35,942 Peacefully observant. And you? 533 00:26:36,072 --> 00:26:39,554 Overwhelming. But the kids had a terrific Christmas. 534 00:26:39,685 --> 00:26:42,078 Terrific, as in overabundance? 535 00:26:42,209 --> 00:26:46,605 Let's just say Santa brought a lot of presents. 536 00:26:46,735 --> 00:26:50,826 Hmm. Well, indulgence is the devil's candy. 537 00:26:50,957 --> 00:26:53,133 [dark music] 538 00:26:53,263 --> 00:26:57,224 Yeah. Um, you know, I wanted to thank you for your 539 00:26:57,354 --> 00:27:00,531 emotional support with all the social media scrutiny 540 00:27:00,662 --> 00:27:01,707 over 8 Passengers. 541 00:27:01,837 --> 00:27:04,666 Oh, snowflakes. Every one of them. 542 00:27:04,797 --> 00:27:06,625 I was calling you to see if you're all set 543 00:27:06,755 --> 00:27:08,278 for your first ConneXions video? 544 00:27:08,409 --> 00:27:10,019 Absolutely. Yep. 545 00:27:10,150 --> 00:27:11,760 Couldn't have asked for a better Christmas present. 546 00:27:11,891 --> 00:27:13,414 Aside from the love of God. 547 00:27:13,544 --> 00:27:15,895 Well, I mean, of course. That goes without saying. 548 00:27:16,025 --> 00:27:18,419 Well, good. I'll see you at my house on Tuesday. 549 00:27:18,549 --> 00:27:19,899 Okay. 550 00:27:20,029 --> 00:27:21,117 [call beeps off] 551 00:27:25,556 --> 00:27:27,994 [dark music] 552 00:27:31,171 --> 00:27:32,781 I'll take out the garbage. 553 00:27:32,912 --> 00:27:35,828 No, it is not your job. 554 00:27:35,958 --> 00:27:37,656 These kids are spoiled rotten. 555 00:27:42,356 --> 00:27:44,010 [footsteps stomping] 556 00:27:45,272 --> 00:27:47,187 [garbage clatters] 557 00:27:47,317 --> 00:27:49,363 You cannot indulge in materialism all day 558 00:27:49,493 --> 00:27:51,539 and not do your chores. So, you're gonna pick up this 559 00:27:51,670 --> 00:27:53,976 garbage, you're gonna put it in the trash, or every single 560 00:27:54,107 --> 00:27:56,109 one of your presents is going back to the store. 561 00:27:57,327 --> 00:27:59,025 Ruby, it's Christmas. 562 00:27:59,155 --> 00:28:01,070 Exactly. There's no better time for him to learn about 563 00:28:01,201 --> 00:28:03,420 responsibility. Okay? I want my kids to live in the truth. 564 00:28:03,551 --> 00:28:04,552 Don't you, Kevin? 565 00:28:05,248 --> 00:28:06,075 You sound like Jodi. 566 00:28:06,206 --> 00:28:07,686 Thank you. 567 00:28:07,816 --> 00:28:10,079 She's an inspiration and she approves of my parenting 568 00:28:10,210 --> 00:28:12,647 methods, unlike those idiots on the internet. 569 00:28:12,778 --> 00:28:15,084 I know this petition issue has been rough on you. 570 00:28:15,215 --> 00:28:17,304 But you've always been obsessed with being liked. 571 00:28:17,434 --> 00:28:19,785 I don't care about being liked, I care about being right. 572 00:28:19,915 --> 00:28:22,135 Please just take it slow with this Jodi project. 573 00:28:23,527 --> 00:28:25,660 - I don't wanna see you get hurt. - Oh, stop. Stop! 574 00:28:30,883 --> 00:28:32,232 [sighs] 575 00:28:33,189 --> 00:28:34,147 - Okay, bud? - Yeah. 576 00:28:39,065 --> 00:28:41,154 I think that first part was a great set up, 577 00:28:41,284 --> 00:28:43,547 but on the next segment, we need to go deeper. 578 00:28:43,678 --> 00:28:44,984 Oh, deeper how? 579 00:28:45,114 --> 00:28:47,464 Hmm, we'll feel it out. Speak from your gut. 580 00:28:47,595 --> 00:28:48,639 [inhales deeply] 581 00:28:48,770 --> 00:28:49,989 You're doing great. 582 00:28:51,077 --> 00:28:52,295 - Ready? - Yep. 583 00:28:52,426 --> 00:28:53,166 All right. 584 00:28:55,864 --> 00:28:56,822 [recording beeps on] 585 00:29:00,086 --> 00:29:04,307 Three, two, one. Welcome back to ConneXions. 586 00:29:04,438 --> 00:29:08,659 We were talking about children and entitlement, something Ruby 587 00:29:08,790 --> 00:29:10,444 has a lot of experience with, right, Ruby? 588 00:29:10,574 --> 00:29:12,228 You bet. 589 00:29:12,359 --> 00:29:15,710 Uh, because of 8 Passengers, I felt like my kids were 590 00:29:15,841 --> 00:29:19,235 becoming entitled and swayed by the opinions of others. 591 00:29:19,366 --> 00:29:20,846 And what kind of opinions? 592 00:29:21,585 --> 00:29:25,328 Um, just some negative feedback on my parenting 593 00:29:25,459 --> 00:29:27,983 choices. But I felt like I needed to teach my kids 594 00:29:28,114 --> 00:29:30,159 that the opinions of others did not matter. 595 00:29:30,290 --> 00:29:33,380 That I was their mother. And that this is where I stood. 596 00:29:34,598 --> 00:29:36,209 So, your viewership disapproved of you? 597 00:29:36,339 --> 00:29:37,776 [worrying music] 598 00:29:39,255 --> 00:29:41,910 No, is that why you're not posting your vlog anymore? 599 00:29:43,259 --> 00:29:45,435 No, I'm, I still am, just not as much. 600 00:29:46,785 --> 00:29:49,309 Well, I guess that disapproval had a big impact on you. 601 00:29:50,963 --> 00:29:53,052 No, it was like you said, 602 00:29:53,182 --> 00:29:56,098 it was, I was losing my family to distortion. 603 00:29:56,229 --> 00:29:58,057 Well, I'd imagine if you no longer had subscribers-- 604 00:29:58,187 --> 00:30:00,189 I have subscribers. 605 00:30:00,320 --> 00:30:03,236 Let's be honest. You were receiving hate mail. 606 00:30:03,366 --> 00:30:05,499 Your children were out of control. You were failing. 607 00:30:07,109 --> 00:30:09,242 [inhales shakily] 608 00:30:16,989 --> 00:30:22,342 I was making millions with my channel. 609 00:30:22,472 --> 00:30:26,825 But I backed off because my kids were being hurt. 610 00:30:27,608 --> 00:30:29,479 Hurt by entitlement. 611 00:30:30,916 --> 00:30:31,786 And now? 612 00:30:33,483 --> 00:30:34,920 They're seeing truth and loving it. 613 00:30:36,095 --> 00:30:37,531 You saved them. 614 00:30:38,271 --> 00:30:39,315 Yes. 615 00:30:40,142 --> 00:30:40,969 I did. 616 00:30:42,797 --> 00:30:45,191 And not just them. Now you've been liberated 617 00:30:45,321 --> 00:30:46,670 by the truth yourself, right? 618 00:30:48,498 --> 00:30:49,717 Yeah, I guess that's true. 619 00:30:51,806 --> 00:30:55,810 Truth. If you're interested in finding truth in your life, 620 00:30:55,941 --> 00:30:58,769 we still have tickets left for our family conference 621 00:30:58,900 --> 00:31:01,642 in Phoenix next weekend. And just go to our website 622 00:31:01,772 --> 00:31:04,036 and order now. We hope to see you there. 623 00:31:07,604 --> 00:31:08,475 [recording beeps off] 624 00:31:08,605 --> 00:31:10,390 You were spectacular. 625 00:31:10,520 --> 00:31:12,914 - So sincere. - You caught me off guard. 626 00:31:13,045 --> 00:31:15,786 Well, you rolled with it. You're so comfortable on camera. 627 00:31:15,917 --> 00:31:17,658 I knew you'd be perfect as my co-host. 628 00:31:17,788 --> 00:31:19,660 I don't know, I feel like I came off as unlikeable. 629 00:31:19,790 --> 00:31:22,010 Oh, not at all. 630 00:31:23,359 --> 00:31:25,405 If we do this, you're gonna have to trust me. 631 00:31:26,972 --> 00:31:27,755 - Okay. - Okay. 632 00:31:33,021 --> 00:31:33,848 [phone ringing] 633 00:31:36,459 --> 00:31:38,722 [call beeps on] Jodi? 634 00:31:38,853 --> 00:31:40,768 Have you seen the response to our first video? 635 00:31:40,899 --> 00:31:42,465 Oh! The comments are through the roof. 636 00:31:42,596 --> 00:31:43,553 Did they like us? 637 00:31:43,684 --> 00:31:45,164 - They love us! - Who is that? 638 00:31:45,294 --> 00:31:47,122 It's the middle of the night for crying out loud. 639 00:31:47,253 --> 00:31:48,384 It's Jodi. Just go back to sleep. 640 00:31:48,515 --> 00:31:50,256 I'm sorry to interrupt. 641 00:31:50,386 --> 00:31:52,345 I forget other people have families. 642 00:31:52,475 --> 00:31:53,955 Oh no, it's fine. Don't worry about it. 643 00:31:54,086 --> 00:31:56,523 Logging on to the site right now. 644 00:31:56,653 --> 00:31:58,742 This proves we're delivering the message. 645 00:31:58,873 --> 00:32:01,658 Now we need to get some of your 8 Passengers subscribers 646 00:32:01,789 --> 00:32:03,747 to sign up for memberships. 647 00:32:03,878 --> 00:32:05,706 Of course, of course. Yeah, yeah, yeah, whatever I can do 648 00:32:05,836 --> 00:32:09,362 to help. Um... this is so exciting! 649 00:32:09,492 --> 00:32:12,843 Yeah! I mean it must be so gratifying to know that 650 00:32:12,974 --> 00:32:15,716 you're finally accomplishing something important. 651 00:32:15,846 --> 00:32:17,457 [concerning music] 652 00:32:20,242 --> 00:32:22,288 [indistinct spirited chatter] 653 00:32:25,552 --> 00:32:27,902 Wasn't Jodi's speech inspiring? 654 00:32:28,033 --> 00:32:30,426 She is so motivating. I'm tingling. 655 00:32:30,557 --> 00:32:32,733 I mean, no wonder she has so many followers. 656 00:32:32,863 --> 00:32:35,431 I'm surprised Connie or Braxton aren't here. 657 00:32:35,562 --> 00:32:37,781 Matter of fact, he missed the last group session. 658 00:32:37,912 --> 00:32:39,131 Have any of you heard from them? 659 00:32:41,046 --> 00:32:42,612 Jodi Hildebrandt's a liar! 660 00:32:44,266 --> 00:32:47,704 You're a fraud! Everything you do, it's a lie! 661 00:32:48,836 --> 00:32:51,056 She ruined my life. She's gonna ruin yours! 662 00:32:51,186 --> 00:32:53,145 You're not a therapist! 663 00:32:53,275 --> 00:32:55,974 You should be in jail for what you've done! 664 00:32:56,104 --> 00:32:57,976 You don't help families, you hurt them! 665 00:32:59,238 --> 00:33:00,979 Get out from the shadows! 666 00:33:02,719 --> 00:33:04,983 [attendees murmuring] 667 00:33:07,855 --> 00:33:10,075 I'm... I'm gonna go see if Jodi's okay. 668 00:33:11,511 --> 00:33:12,338 Who was that? 669 00:33:14,253 --> 00:33:16,211 That was James Pratt. He's a little unstable. 670 00:33:16,342 --> 00:33:18,605 After his divorce, he was ex-communicated. 671 00:33:18,735 --> 00:33:22,391 [whispering]: Apparently he sexually abused the kids. 672 00:33:22,522 --> 00:33:23,305 I thought he moved to Idaho. 673 00:33:26,091 --> 00:33:27,527 - I need to talk to you. - Yeah. 674 00:33:27,657 --> 00:33:29,007 Alone. I'm so sorry. Excuse us. 675 00:33:32,532 --> 00:33:35,317 That really set Jodi off and she was not in a good place 676 00:33:35,448 --> 00:33:37,015 to begin with. - About what? 677 00:33:40,105 --> 00:33:42,194 She thinks she's being haunted by shadow figures at night. 678 00:33:43,804 --> 00:33:46,024 Kevin, I'm serious, she's scared and she does not wanna be alone. 679 00:33:47,677 --> 00:33:48,765 When did this start? 680 00:33:50,028 --> 00:33:53,118 Last week, I guess. She doesn't remember. 681 00:33:53,248 --> 00:33:55,381 I mean, she's been working day and night. 682 00:33:55,511 --> 00:33:57,513 I feel so bad for her, you know? 683 00:33:57,644 --> 00:34:00,212 I can tell she's pushing through but it's getting to her. 684 00:34:00,342 --> 00:34:01,909 Shouldn't she reach out to the church? 685 00:34:02,040 --> 00:34:02,997 She's got plenty of support. 686 00:34:03,128 --> 00:34:04,390 She says she only trusts me. 687 00:34:05,869 --> 00:34:08,046 Okay. Uh, how can we help? 688 00:34:11,136 --> 00:34:12,311 She wants to come live with us. 689 00:34:12,441 --> 00:34:13,225 In our house? 690 00:34:13,355 --> 00:34:15,140 Just for a short while. 691 00:34:15,270 --> 00:34:16,663 I don't feel comfortable with that. 692 00:34:16,793 --> 00:34:19,405 - What about the kids? - The kids will be fine. 693 00:34:19,535 --> 00:34:21,711 She can stay in Shari's room. There's plenty of space. 694 00:34:24,105 --> 00:34:27,065 Frankly, Ruby, I think Jodi needs therapy. 695 00:34:29,023 --> 00:34:31,634 Why are you being so insensitive to somebody in need? 696 00:34:31,765 --> 00:34:34,289 I'm not. But level with me. 697 00:34:34,420 --> 00:34:36,596 Why does she have to come to our house? 698 00:34:36,726 --> 00:34:37,901 What is she so afraid of? 699 00:34:41,731 --> 00:34:45,344 She thinks she's being possessed. By Satan. 700 00:34:49,522 --> 00:34:52,177 [distant thunder rumbling] 701 00:34:52,307 --> 00:34:55,528 Mommy, I'm hungry. 702 00:34:55,658 --> 00:34:58,574 No, honey, you know the deal, okay? Auntie Jodi needs quiet. 703 00:34:58,705 --> 00:35:00,968 You guys will eat after, okay? Go back to the family room. 704 00:35:05,451 --> 00:35:06,887 Oy. 705 00:35:07,017 --> 00:35:08,932 Those migraines seem to be getting worse. 706 00:35:09,063 --> 00:35:12,284 Oh, it's like Satan is driving a stake through my head. 707 00:35:12,414 --> 00:35:13,502 I'm gonna get a cold compress. 708 00:35:13,633 --> 00:35:16,070 Oh, no, no, no, don't. I'll be okay. Sit. 709 00:35:18,072 --> 00:35:22,424 I talked to Susan today and she said ConneXions has seen 710 00:35:22,555 --> 00:35:25,210 a large uptick in membership since the conference. 711 00:35:25,340 --> 00:35:26,863 Congratulations. 712 00:35:26,994 --> 00:35:28,996 Yeah. I knew it would only be a matter of time. 713 00:35:30,171 --> 00:35:31,129 We should eat. 714 00:35:34,088 --> 00:35:37,309 Lord, thank you for this meal, and for showing 715 00:35:37,439 --> 00:35:41,400 my dear friend, Ruby, the path to my door when she was in need. 716 00:35:42,749 --> 00:35:43,576 Amen. 717 00:35:44,968 --> 00:35:45,926 [toy zipping] 718 00:35:46,579 --> 00:35:48,798 [laughs] Nice. 719 00:35:48,929 --> 00:35:52,062 Daddy, I'm hungry. 720 00:35:52,193 --> 00:35:54,282 Yeah, Dad, how much longer we gonna do this? 721 00:35:55,979 --> 00:35:57,764 Until Auntie Jodi feels better, okay? 722 00:36:00,332 --> 00:36:01,637 [loud banging] 723 00:36:01,768 --> 00:36:04,031 - I wanna try. - No, it's mine. 724 00:36:04,162 --> 00:36:06,164 - Hey, hey guys-- - I'm younger! 725 00:36:06,294 --> 00:36:07,600 - I'm older! - Cut it out. 726 00:36:07,730 --> 00:36:09,515 Russell, Eve. [Eve]: I'm shorter! 727 00:36:09,645 --> 00:36:12,039 You had it the whole, entire time. 728 00:36:12,170 --> 00:36:13,562 [Russell]: No. [Eve]: I'm younger! 729 00:36:13,693 --> 00:36:15,608 Hey guys, guys, cut it out. Cut it out. 730 00:36:15,738 --> 00:36:16,696 [thunder cracks] 731 00:36:16,826 --> 00:36:18,001 [child screams] 732 00:36:18,132 --> 00:36:19,742 [Russell]: Lights are out! 733 00:36:19,873 --> 00:36:22,310 Great. Now how am I gonna do my homework? 734 00:36:22,441 --> 00:36:24,617 Everything's gonna be okay, guys. Russell, Eve, 735 00:36:24,747 --> 00:36:25,487 not in the dark. 736 00:36:25,618 --> 00:36:27,924 - No! - Russell, Eve. 737 00:36:28,055 --> 00:36:29,491 [child shrieks] 738 00:36:29,622 --> 00:36:31,624 Don't panic, it's probably just a breaker. 739 00:36:31,754 --> 00:36:32,755 Come with me, guys. 740 00:36:32,886 --> 00:36:35,541 [tense music] 741 00:36:36,977 --> 00:36:38,108 I'll check the electrical box. 742 00:36:38,239 --> 00:36:40,067 Thank you. Oh no, Russell, we don't 743 00:36:40,198 --> 00:36:41,503 do that in here. Eve, Eve, don't chase 744 00:36:41,634 --> 00:36:43,201 your brother, okay? - Mom, where's my tablet? 745 00:36:43,331 --> 00:36:44,593 - I don't know. - I'm in charge! 746 00:36:44,724 --> 00:36:45,986 Keep it down. Guys, guys. 747 00:36:46,116 --> 00:36:47,553 Can I have some lasagna? 748 00:36:47,683 --> 00:36:49,511 - I'm really hungry. - You cannot. Eve. 749 00:36:49,642 --> 00:36:51,165 You can't catch me! You can't catch me! 750 00:36:51,296 --> 00:36:52,601 Guys, stop. Guys, are you listening to me? 751 00:36:52,732 --> 00:36:54,821 You've gotta keep it down. Get outta here, okay? 752 00:36:54,951 --> 00:36:57,040 Go back in the family room, please. [child shrieks] 753 00:36:57,171 --> 00:36:58,259 [tense music intensifies] 754 00:36:58,390 --> 00:36:59,739 Satan out! 755 00:37:00,653 --> 00:37:01,393 Ah! 756 00:37:02,568 --> 00:37:04,831 Kevin. Kevin? 757 00:37:04,961 --> 00:37:06,572 Come now, Kevin. 758 00:37:10,967 --> 00:37:13,231 [footsteps approaching] 759 00:37:15,755 --> 00:37:18,845 - What the hell was that? - Shh! Language. 760 00:37:18,975 --> 00:37:22,370 Don't language me. This woman just stabbed herself 761 00:37:22,501 --> 00:37:23,893 in front of our children. 762 00:37:24,024 --> 00:37:25,460 It was clearly a cry for help. 763 00:37:25,591 --> 00:37:28,071 I don't care what it was. She has to leave. 764 00:37:30,160 --> 00:37:31,510 She's not ready. 765 00:37:32,467 --> 00:37:35,340 Ruby? Ruby? He's coming for me. 766 00:37:36,471 --> 00:37:37,559 [scoffs] 767 00:37:39,387 --> 00:37:40,910 I am not sending her out into the world in that state. 768 00:37:46,002 --> 00:37:47,874 [items clattering] 769 00:37:51,834 --> 00:37:53,401 Where are you going? 770 00:37:53,532 --> 00:37:55,447 Um, I'm staying up in Jodi's room. 771 00:37:56,535 --> 00:37:59,407 - What? Why? - Well, her episodes 772 00:37:59,538 --> 00:38:01,496 are becoming more frequent, like every hour, and I think 773 00:38:01,627 --> 00:38:03,455 it's just better if I stay up there to help her through them. 774 00:38:03,585 --> 00:38:04,630 You're gonna sleep in the same bed? 775 00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:06,893 Yeah. Yeah, it's a queen size. 776 00:38:07,023 --> 00:38:08,286 There's plenty of space for both of us. 777 00:38:08,416 --> 00:38:10,723 Ruby, you look exhausted. 778 00:38:10,853 --> 00:38:12,638 You haven't posted on 8 Passengers in a while. 779 00:38:12,768 --> 00:38:15,205 The kids are being neglected. You're spending all of your time 780 00:38:15,336 --> 00:38:17,295 with Jodi. - Because she needs me. 781 00:38:17,425 --> 00:38:19,035 Meanwhile, this house is being turned upside down. 782 00:38:19,166 --> 00:38:22,212 [sighs] 783 00:38:22,343 --> 00:38:23,823 Okay. 784 00:38:25,433 --> 00:38:26,608 There's something I haven't told you. 785 00:38:30,830 --> 00:38:32,310 I've been having heavenly visions. 786 00:38:33,789 --> 00:38:35,182 Of what? 787 00:38:35,313 --> 00:38:37,097 The angel of the Lord came to me. 788 00:38:37,227 --> 00:38:39,578 He spoke to me. 789 00:38:39,708 --> 00:38:42,929 And he told me that we have work to do for God. 790 00:38:44,539 --> 00:38:45,410 You don't believe me? 791 00:38:46,367 --> 00:38:47,716 No. No, of course I do. 792 00:38:47,847 --> 00:38:51,416 Well, this work that the angel spoke of, 793 00:38:51,546 --> 00:38:56,159 you are a part of it, too. This whole family is. 794 00:38:56,290 --> 00:38:58,336 And none of it would have happened if it wasn't for Jodi. 795 00:39:02,209 --> 00:39:03,602 Well then, we have been blessed. 796 00:39:03,732 --> 00:39:05,430 [exhales contentedly] 797 00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:06,692 Yeah. 798 00:39:12,785 --> 00:39:15,570 Your mother misses you. You should come home more often. 799 00:39:15,701 --> 00:39:19,966 I know but I've been busy with recitals and midterms. 800 00:39:20,096 --> 00:39:23,099 Midterms have been over for a month. 801 00:39:23,230 --> 00:39:26,799 What's up? You and your mother used to be so close. 802 00:39:26,929 --> 00:39:29,323 [indistinct chattering] 803 00:39:31,543 --> 00:39:32,239 I know. 804 00:39:35,329 --> 00:39:36,156 Promise you won't tell Mom? 805 00:39:38,506 --> 00:39:40,769 But sometimes I feel... 806 00:39:40,900 --> 00:39:42,031 weird there. 807 00:39:43,250 --> 00:39:46,384 Like, home isn't home anymore. 808 00:39:48,603 --> 00:39:49,387 Jodi. 809 00:39:50,213 --> 00:39:51,040 Yeah. 810 00:39:52,781 --> 00:39:56,742 I tried but I don't agree with her idea of therapy. 811 00:39:56,872 --> 00:39:59,832 Leaves me spiritually drained. 812 00:40:01,486 --> 00:40:03,444 Maybe it'll make more sense in a few years. 813 00:40:03,575 --> 00:40:05,011 After you've had a relationship. 814 00:40:07,274 --> 00:40:09,058 Do you feel like she's helping you? 815 00:40:09,189 --> 00:40:11,844 She has, with some of the problems your mother and I 816 00:40:11,974 --> 00:40:14,586 were having, but, but I'd be lying if I said I didn't 817 00:40:14,716 --> 00:40:16,283 have my doubts about Jodi. 818 00:40:18,285 --> 00:40:19,373 Does Mom have doubts? 819 00:40:21,549 --> 00:40:23,377 - Kevin. - Braxton. 820 00:40:23,508 --> 00:40:24,596 - Oh, hey. - Hi. 821 00:40:25,640 --> 00:40:26,772 It's been a while. Hey. 822 00:40:26,902 --> 00:40:28,208 You remember my daughter, Shari? 823 00:40:28,338 --> 00:40:29,339 - Yeah. Hi. - Hi, Mr. Young. 824 00:40:29,470 --> 00:40:30,950 I was just leaving. 825 00:40:31,080 --> 00:40:32,604 - Oh. - I'll see ya later, Dad. 826 00:40:35,084 --> 00:40:36,216 Love you, kid. 827 00:40:37,478 --> 00:40:38,610 - Have a seat. - Yeah. 828 00:40:40,002 --> 00:40:41,395 I thought I would have run into you 829 00:40:41,526 --> 00:40:42,788 at the therapy conference. 830 00:40:42,918 --> 00:40:45,051 Yeah, well, um... 831 00:40:46,531 --> 00:40:47,706 Jodi's not our therapist anymore 832 00:40:47,836 --> 00:40:49,272 so there's no reason to go to Phoenix. 833 00:40:49,403 --> 00:40:50,622 Really? 834 00:40:51,623 --> 00:40:53,451 I thought you were a disciple. What happened? 835 00:40:53,581 --> 00:40:55,844 I mean, you know how it is, right? 836 00:40:55,975 --> 00:40:57,716 Look, she's a very powerful voice in the church. 837 00:40:57,846 --> 00:40:59,326 I, I'd rather not say. 838 00:40:59,457 --> 00:41:01,067 Trust me, 839 00:41:01,197 --> 00:41:03,373 you have my confidence. 840 00:41:03,504 --> 00:41:06,159 I have my own doubts about Jodi's methods. 841 00:41:06,289 --> 00:41:07,203 For real? 842 00:41:07,334 --> 00:41:08,770 [tense music] 843 00:41:10,424 --> 00:41:13,079 Uh... okay, well, 844 00:41:13,209 --> 00:41:15,734 it started about six months ago. Jodi approached Connie 845 00:41:15,864 --> 00:41:17,779 and asked her if she could move in with us. 846 00:41:17,910 --> 00:41:21,348 Said that she was, and I wanna get this right here, 847 00:41:21,479 --> 00:41:23,655 seeing shadow figures at night. 848 00:41:23,785 --> 00:41:25,657 - Are you serious? - Yeah. 849 00:41:25,787 --> 00:41:28,442 So, she moves in, starts turning the house upside down. 850 00:41:28,573 --> 00:41:30,531 Connie's with her every minute. I, I don't stand a chance. 851 00:41:30,662 --> 00:41:32,054 The next thing I know, the two of them are-- 852 00:41:32,185 --> 00:41:33,621 Sleeping in the same bedroom. 853 00:41:33,752 --> 00:41:35,449 Wait, yeah, how do you know that? 854 00:41:35,580 --> 00:41:37,495 [sighs] She's living with us right now. 855 00:41:37,625 --> 00:41:39,497 The same stuff is happening. 856 00:41:39,627 --> 00:41:40,759 It's about to get worse. 857 00:41:42,456 --> 00:41:44,110 I think that her intent was to turn Connie against me 858 00:41:44,240 --> 00:41:47,505 to wreck our marriage. I mean, she uses the faith to brainwash 859 00:41:47,635 --> 00:41:50,116 people. And we're not the only ones. I heard stories of other 860 00:41:50,246 --> 00:41:52,727 couples that she treated, some of them lost their jobs 861 00:41:52,858 --> 00:41:55,208 and went bankrupt because of her. That's... 862 00:41:55,338 --> 00:41:57,123 that's how cults are started. 863 00:41:57,253 --> 00:41:59,517 - She's a cult leader. - Well, I have to get her out. 864 00:41:59,647 --> 00:42:02,345 Honestly, if it's not too late, my advice to you 865 00:42:02,476 --> 00:42:05,784 is just stay on Jodi's good side because if you cross her, 866 00:42:05,914 --> 00:42:07,394 she's only gonna make it worse for you. 867 00:42:07,525 --> 00:42:09,701 [tense music] 868 00:42:10,876 --> 00:42:12,225 [dramatic beat] 869 00:42:17,404 --> 00:42:18,797 Oh, that's healing nicely. 870 00:42:18,927 --> 00:42:20,799 - Oh, it's still very painful. - Yeah. 871 00:42:24,237 --> 00:42:26,979 Oh, almost out of peroxide. 872 00:42:27,109 --> 00:42:28,197 I'll get Kevin to pick up some more. 873 00:42:29,634 --> 00:42:31,723 Your husband doesn't seem to be taking any of this 874 00:42:31,853 --> 00:42:34,377 very seriously. Our work here, your marriage. 875 00:42:35,074 --> 00:42:36,771 I thought he was really trying. 876 00:42:36,902 --> 00:42:39,426 No, he's not. I wouldn't be in this state if he was. 877 00:42:39,557 --> 00:42:42,429 All he was asked to do was to keep the children quiet. 878 00:42:42,560 --> 00:42:44,300 - He couldn't even do that. - I, I know 879 00:42:44,431 --> 00:42:46,128 that he is truly sorry about that. 880 00:42:46,259 --> 00:42:49,392 No, he's just so darn good at manipulating you. 881 00:42:50,829 --> 00:42:53,179 You don't see it, do you? 882 00:42:53,309 --> 00:42:55,442 His mind couldn't be further away from you or this family. 883 00:42:56,922 --> 00:43:00,099 If you wanna save your marriage, you need to stop defending him. 884 00:43:01,187 --> 00:43:03,406 [sighs] 885 00:43:03,537 --> 00:43:07,367 Okay. So, what do I do? 886 00:43:07,497 --> 00:43:09,717 We need to take him out of his comfort zone. 887 00:43:13,678 --> 00:43:16,028 [grunting] 888 00:43:18,073 --> 00:43:19,466 I need to talk to you about Jodi. 889 00:43:22,121 --> 00:43:26,168 Good. 'Cause I need to talk to you about Jodi. 890 00:43:26,299 --> 00:43:28,780 I ran into Braxton Young today and he had some... 891 00:43:28,910 --> 00:43:30,216 negative things to say about her. 892 00:43:30,346 --> 00:43:31,478 Such as? 893 00:43:33,436 --> 00:43:34,133 She's done this before. She tried to ruin their marriage 894 00:43:34,263 --> 00:43:35,395 and many others. 895 00:43:35,525 --> 00:43:36,439 Braxton Young is an infidel. 896 00:43:36,570 --> 00:43:38,224 Where'd you get that from? 897 00:43:38,354 --> 00:43:40,530 Jodi told me that Connie and Braxton kidnapped her 898 00:43:40,661 --> 00:43:42,532 and held her hostage. 899 00:43:42,663 --> 00:43:45,535 Ruby, this is starting to sound crazy. 900 00:43:45,666 --> 00:43:47,059 You know what's crazy? 901 00:43:47,189 --> 00:43:49,191 Is your lack of interest in saving this marriage. 902 00:43:49,322 --> 00:43:51,324 I didn't realize our marriage needed saving! 903 00:43:51,454 --> 00:43:53,935 A relationship needs to die before it can be reborn. 904 00:43:54,066 --> 00:43:55,154 Says Jodi, I'm guessing. 905 00:43:56,590 --> 00:43:58,592 It's shocking to me that it seems like Jodi is more 906 00:43:58,723 --> 00:43:59,898 committed to saving this marriage, than you. 907 00:44:00,028 --> 00:44:01,595 How else do you think she affords that 908 00:44:01,726 --> 00:44:03,292 five million dollar house? - You know what? Maybe I should 909 00:44:03,423 --> 00:44:05,077 just take the kids and leave. 910 00:44:06,295 --> 00:44:09,516 Whoa, whoa, whoa. Ruby, honey, 911 00:44:09,647 --> 00:44:11,866 I love you. I don't want you to leave. 912 00:44:11,997 --> 00:44:14,739 I love you too, but there are serious problems in this 913 00:44:14,869 --> 00:44:17,742 marriage that we need to start addressing. So... 914 00:44:20,048 --> 00:44:21,833 are you willing to do the hard work? 915 00:44:22,529 --> 00:44:23,835 Yes, of course. 916 00:44:26,925 --> 00:44:29,231 Well then, there are terms. 917 00:44:29,362 --> 00:44:31,364 Jodi wants us to have an in-house separation. 918 00:44:31,494 --> 00:44:33,235 - An in-house what? - Separation. 919 00:44:33,366 --> 00:44:35,716 So, to begin with, we need to set boundaries. 920 00:44:35,847 --> 00:44:37,152 This is nuts. 921 00:44:37,283 --> 00:44:39,546 Meaning that for the foreseeable future, 922 00:44:39,677 --> 00:44:40,765 you will be confined to the downstairs. 923 00:44:40,895 --> 00:44:42,418 But this is my house! 924 00:44:42,549 --> 00:44:44,464 Number two... 925 00:44:44,594 --> 00:44:47,728 the kitchen will be off limits to you between 6 pm and 6 am. 926 00:44:47,859 --> 00:44:49,687 How does going into the kitchen affect our marriage? 927 00:44:49,817 --> 00:44:52,602 Finally, Kevin, communication between the two of us 928 00:44:52,733 --> 00:44:53,691 needs to be limited. 929 00:44:54,213 --> 00:44:54,996 Limited how? 930 00:44:55,127 --> 00:44:56,041 To one hour a day. 931 00:44:59,174 --> 00:44:59,958 Really? 932 00:45:02,134 --> 00:45:03,222 [huffs] 933 00:45:06,051 --> 00:45:07,705 Look... 934 00:45:07,835 --> 00:45:10,316 I had my doubts too, okay? 935 00:45:11,578 --> 00:45:14,668 But Jodi has saved countless marriages. She is a hero 936 00:45:14,799 --> 00:45:17,845 in our community, and I believe in my heart, 937 00:45:17,976 --> 00:45:19,064 that this will work. 938 00:45:21,196 --> 00:45:22,850 Because I believe in Jodi. 939 00:45:22,981 --> 00:45:24,983 [dark music] 940 00:45:26,506 --> 00:45:28,508 Well, I believe in you. 941 00:45:30,031 --> 00:45:34,122 If you really wanna try this, I'll do it 942 00:45:34,253 --> 00:45:38,431 but only for a week. And then Jodi has to be out. 943 00:45:41,869 --> 00:45:43,697 [exhales] Mm-hmm. 944 00:45:45,307 --> 00:45:47,092 [insects chirping] 945 00:45:52,488 --> 00:45:55,100 [footsteps tapping on floorboards] 946 00:45:59,104 --> 00:46:00,540 [door clangs] 947 00:46:01,846 --> 00:46:03,935 [rustling] 948 00:46:08,809 --> 00:46:10,637 [sinister music] 949 00:46:11,856 --> 00:46:13,031 I didn't hear you. 950 00:46:15,207 --> 00:46:18,253 You have no respect for boundaries, do you, Kevin? 951 00:46:20,168 --> 00:46:22,214 I didn't know I needed boundaries in my own home. 952 00:46:24,303 --> 00:46:25,434 [knife clangs] 953 00:46:27,349 --> 00:46:30,396 My ex-husband had no respect for boundaries either. 954 00:46:30,526 --> 00:46:33,529 I feel it's a male domination problem. 955 00:46:33,660 --> 00:46:36,402 Centuries in the making. 956 00:46:36,532 --> 00:46:39,840 I mean, it's really why wars are fought, isn't it? 957 00:46:39,971 --> 00:46:42,103 Men not respecting boundaries? 958 00:46:53,854 --> 00:46:56,683 Respect boundaries, people won't get hurt. 959 00:46:56,814 --> 00:46:58,337 I think you need to leave. 960 00:47:05,126 --> 00:47:07,825 [footsteps receeding] 961 00:47:09,609 --> 00:47:10,740 - Oh. - Oh, we're all gonna 962 00:47:10,871 --> 00:47:11,829 miss you so much. 963 00:47:13,656 --> 00:47:15,615 Thank you. The time I've spent here has been invaluable. 964 00:47:15,745 --> 00:47:17,182 Mm-hmm. I'll see you on the 15th? 965 00:47:17,312 --> 00:47:19,010 I have the whole weekend cleared. 966 00:47:19,140 --> 00:47:20,533 Great. Oh, and don't forget to call your lawyer. 967 00:47:21,142 --> 00:47:22,187 I already did. 968 00:47:23,144 --> 00:47:24,842 I'll see you in group. 969 00:47:30,021 --> 00:47:33,328 [car door opens then closes] 970 00:47:33,459 --> 00:47:36,157 [engine starting] 971 00:47:39,813 --> 00:47:43,295 [inhales and exhales deeply] 972 00:47:43,425 --> 00:47:45,123 Finally we can get back to normal. 973 00:47:45,253 --> 00:47:46,428 [phone buzzes] 974 00:47:46,559 --> 00:47:47,647 [call beeps on] 975 00:47:49,040 --> 00:47:50,476 Hey, Lindsey. 976 00:47:50,606 --> 00:47:52,391 [Lindsey]: I just wanted to sa, you were always 977 00:47:52,521 --> 00:47:55,046 a fair person to deal with and I wish you luck in the future. 978 00:47:56,395 --> 00:47:58,310 Uh, I'm sorry, what's this about? 979 00:47:58,440 --> 00:47:59,920 [Lindsey]: Ruby fired me this morning. 980 00:48:00,051 --> 00:48:00,834 [dark music] 981 00:48:00,965 --> 00:48:02,705 [paper crinkling] 982 00:48:03,619 --> 00:48:05,317 What are you doing? 983 00:48:05,447 --> 00:48:08,276 I am sick and tired of being scrutinized by everybody, 984 00:48:08,407 --> 00:48:10,017 from the neighbors to the media. 985 00:48:10,148 --> 00:48:11,889 I'm talking about the 8 Passengers channel. 986 00:48:12,019 --> 00:48:13,760 Lindsey said you fired her. 987 00:48:13,891 --> 00:48:15,370 Yeah, that's because I just decided 988 00:48:15,501 --> 00:48:16,894 I'm not doing the vlog anymore. 989 00:48:17,938 --> 00:48:19,940 Why? Any extra income we have is still coming 990 00:48:20,071 --> 00:48:21,855 from that channel. - Actually, a large 991 00:48:21,986 --> 00:48:23,726 portion of the viewership from 8 Passengers 992 00:48:23,857 --> 00:48:25,293 has gone over to ConneXions and we wanna keep exposing 993 00:48:25,424 --> 00:48:27,252 them to Jodi's methodology. 994 00:48:27,382 --> 00:48:29,123 But you're not getting any of that money. You signed 995 00:48:29,254 --> 00:48:30,733 over the 8 Passenger rights to Jodi. 996 00:48:30,864 --> 00:48:34,563 Ruby, you created a brand. We had over 2.5 million viewers. 997 00:48:34,694 --> 00:48:37,131 People respected you. We were making a decent living. 998 00:48:37,262 --> 00:48:40,221 Kevin, it's not about the money. 999 00:48:40,352 --> 00:48:42,876 Okay? Do you remember when I told you that we have to work 1000 00:48:43,007 --> 00:48:44,225 to do for God? 1001 00:48:45,531 --> 00:48:48,186 This... this is the work. 1002 00:48:51,841 --> 00:48:54,540 God wants you to destroy your business? Are you sure that 1003 00:48:54,670 --> 00:48:55,802 isn't what Jodi wants? 1004 00:48:55,933 --> 00:48:57,586 Jodi is God's messenger. 1005 00:49:00,676 --> 00:49:03,462 Let me ask you something. What were you and Jodi doing up 1006 00:49:03,592 --> 00:49:05,116 in that room all the time she was here? 1007 00:49:05,246 --> 00:49:07,074 I told you, we were having interventions. 1008 00:49:07,205 --> 00:49:08,771 Am I supposed to believe that? 1009 00:49:08,902 --> 00:49:10,773 Okay, what are you insinuating? 1010 00:49:12,819 --> 00:49:15,300 Nothing. Let's just take a breath 1011 00:49:15,430 --> 00:49:17,215 and think about what we're doing. 1012 00:49:17,345 --> 00:49:18,999 I don't need to take a breath. I've already decided 1013 00:49:19,130 --> 00:49:21,001 what I'm doing. - Without consulting me? 1014 00:49:21,132 --> 00:49:22,524 Yes. And you know what? Jodi's right. 1015 00:49:22,655 --> 00:49:25,049 You are just as manipulative and just as selfish 1016 00:49:25,179 --> 00:49:26,746 as when we started therapy. 1017 00:49:26,876 --> 00:49:29,749 It is time you start doing what is right for this family. 1018 00:49:29,879 --> 00:49:32,534 Everything I do is for this family! 1019 00:49:32,665 --> 00:49:34,580 Jodi says the in-house separation isn't enough. 1020 00:49:35,407 --> 00:49:36,103 Meaning? 1021 00:49:36,234 --> 00:49:37,104 Meaning... 1022 00:49:40,064 --> 00:49:41,674 you need to leave. 1023 00:49:41,804 --> 00:49:42,936 Leave how? 1024 00:49:43,067 --> 00:49:44,242 Leave. 1025 00:49:44,372 --> 00:49:45,460 You mean move out? 1026 00:49:45,591 --> 00:49:48,028 Yeah. [worrying music] 1027 00:49:48,159 --> 00:49:50,074 And until further notice, for their spiritual safety, 1028 00:49:50,204 --> 00:49:51,684 you will have no more contact with the children. 1029 00:49:51,814 --> 00:49:55,166 I'm not gonna do that. I love you. I love this family. 1030 00:49:55,296 --> 00:49:56,515 Well, it's either that or a divorce. 1031 00:49:58,386 --> 00:50:00,084 I'm sorry, I cannot keep living with things 1032 00:50:00,214 --> 00:50:00,867 the way they are. 1033 00:50:02,477 --> 00:50:04,784 Don't do this, Ruby. Don't do this. 1034 00:50:04,914 --> 00:50:05,828 No. 1035 00:50:13,140 --> 00:50:17,188 Safety is the foundation in which trust is possible. 1036 00:50:17,318 --> 00:50:21,105 We have to generate trust within ourselves before we can offer 1037 00:50:21,235 --> 00:50:22,802 trust to those we love. 1038 00:50:24,282 --> 00:50:26,371 If your wife trusts you, then there's safety in your 1039 00:50:26,501 --> 00:50:30,157 relationship. No more distortion. There's only truth, 1040 00:50:30,288 --> 00:50:34,118 and love, and safety, and responsibility. 1041 00:50:34,248 --> 00:50:36,555 [men clapping] 1042 00:50:38,600 --> 00:50:40,472 Does that clarify things for you, Kevin? 1043 00:50:42,474 --> 00:50:44,519 You don't seem convinced. 1044 00:50:44,650 --> 00:50:46,043 I mean, I don't understand why you're not getting it? 1045 00:50:46,739 --> 00:50:48,306 I, I get it. 1046 00:50:48,436 --> 00:50:50,221 And yet, you're not changing for the better? 1047 00:50:51,396 --> 00:50:53,137 Well, I'm not sure I know what that means and I'm not 1048 00:50:53,267 --> 00:50:55,487 sure anyone in the meeting knows what that means. 1049 00:50:56,227 --> 00:50:59,708 Stay in your lane, Kevin! This is about you! 1050 00:50:59,839 --> 00:51:02,798 I'd like to be brutally honest. I have serious doubts 1051 00:51:02,929 --> 00:51:03,886 about your sincerity. 1052 00:51:04,844 --> 00:51:06,628 You are still a manipulative liar. 1053 00:51:07,977 --> 00:51:10,806 I've done everything you've asked me to do 1054 00:51:10,937 --> 00:51:13,722 from day one and you still don't approve of me. 1055 00:51:14,462 --> 00:51:15,855 Your words. Not mine. 1056 00:51:17,335 --> 00:51:19,989 I'd like you to stop attending my men's sessions. 1057 00:51:20,120 --> 00:51:24,081 Your influence on the group is toxic. 1058 00:51:28,346 --> 00:51:29,825 [scoffs] 1059 00:51:29,956 --> 00:51:31,088 You're not being fair. 1060 00:51:33,002 --> 00:51:34,700 You know what's fair? I had to ask God what to do with you 1061 00:51:34,830 --> 00:51:37,572 and he told me you have to have complete solitude with him. 1062 00:51:40,227 --> 00:51:42,795 I can't be any more alone than I am already. 1063 00:51:44,579 --> 00:51:47,147 What do I have to do to get my family back? 1064 00:51:47,278 --> 00:51:48,105 Kevin, where is your faith? 1065 00:51:49,758 --> 00:51:50,803 You're in God's hands now. 1066 00:51:52,805 --> 00:51:53,893 Please leave. 1067 00:51:59,681 --> 00:52:01,466 It is so nice to see you in person. 1068 00:52:01,596 --> 00:52:05,165 [sweetly]: Aw. Honey, you look tired. 1069 00:52:05,296 --> 00:52:07,124 Yeah, well, I haven't been sleeping too well lately. 1070 00:52:07,254 --> 00:52:09,430 Yeah, I know. Me neither. 1071 00:52:11,040 --> 00:52:12,520 Bed's too big for one person. 1072 00:52:12,651 --> 00:52:14,043 Well, we can always change that. 1073 00:52:14,174 --> 00:52:17,090 Okay. Easy there, tiger. 1074 00:52:20,049 --> 00:52:22,487 Fair enough. What is it you wanted to see me about? 1075 00:52:22,617 --> 00:52:24,837 I was wondering if you would sign over the title of the car 1076 00:52:24,967 --> 00:52:25,838 and the van? 1077 00:52:26,795 --> 00:52:28,014 Why now? 1078 00:52:28,145 --> 00:52:30,712 I want it in my name. I worked hard 1079 00:52:30,843 --> 00:52:32,975 and it makes me feel good to know I achieved something. 1080 00:52:34,325 --> 00:52:36,240 I was hoping you just wanted to see me. 1081 00:52:37,589 --> 00:52:39,025 I always wanna see you. 1082 00:52:41,114 --> 00:52:42,768 [paper crinkling] 1083 00:52:46,685 --> 00:52:48,165 [pen scratching] 1084 00:52:50,123 --> 00:52:51,733 You know I would never take advantage of you. 1085 00:52:51,864 --> 00:52:54,171 Oh, I know that. You're one of the good guys. 1086 00:52:55,084 --> 00:52:56,129 How are the kids? 1087 00:53:00,307 --> 00:53:02,353 Kevin, we had an agreement. You said you trusted me. 1088 00:53:03,876 --> 00:53:05,704 I do, but I miss everyone. 1089 00:53:06,313 --> 00:53:07,662 [sighs] 1090 00:53:07,793 --> 00:53:08,620 They're fine. 1091 00:53:08,750 --> 00:53:10,056 Do they ask about me? 1092 00:53:17,890 --> 00:53:19,457 Ruby... 1093 00:53:21,763 --> 00:53:23,461 I thought you were gonna ask me to come home. 1094 00:53:23,591 --> 00:53:27,160 No. You know what you need to do. 1095 00:53:27,291 --> 00:53:30,163 But I don't. We keep going around and around and nothing 1096 00:53:30,294 --> 00:53:33,079 ever changes. Only now, I feel like I'm abandoning my family. 1097 00:53:33,210 --> 00:53:35,124 Okay, okay, you wanna help your family? We need more 1098 00:53:35,255 --> 00:53:37,823 money. Russell needs to go camp. Eve needs braces. 1099 00:53:39,085 --> 00:53:42,044 All right. I'll take care of it. 1100 00:53:42,175 --> 00:53:43,872 But I'm not teaching at the university anymore. 1101 00:53:45,961 --> 00:53:48,747 - What happened? - Doesn't matter. Don't worry. 1102 00:53:48,877 --> 00:53:50,749 If you need more money, I'll get it. 1103 00:53:50,879 --> 00:53:52,881 I'm interviewing for engineering jobs. 1104 00:53:53,012 --> 00:53:56,145 I will always continue to support you and the kids. 1105 00:53:56,276 --> 00:53:59,236 But please, don't make any big purchases right now. 1106 00:54:00,802 --> 00:54:02,021 All right. 1107 00:54:03,501 --> 00:54:05,242 [dark music] 1108 00:54:08,984 --> 00:54:10,725 [sticker zips] 1109 00:54:10,856 --> 00:54:13,902 You wanna close all of your savings accounts, 1110 00:54:14,033 --> 00:54:15,164 including the children's? 1111 00:54:15,295 --> 00:54:16,427 That's right. 1112 00:54:17,341 --> 00:54:18,690 May I ask why? 1113 00:54:20,169 --> 00:54:23,390 No. You may not. 1114 00:54:23,521 --> 00:54:26,872 I'm their mother. And since they're under the age of 18, 1115 00:54:27,002 --> 00:54:28,352 I have control of their finances. 1116 00:54:29,527 --> 00:54:31,529 - That's all you need to know. - Of course. 1117 00:54:32,443 --> 00:54:34,271 I was just making sure it was nothing we did. 1118 00:54:35,750 --> 00:54:38,362 I'll need you to sign these account closure forms. 1119 00:54:45,412 --> 00:54:47,284 What is the withdrawal amount? 1120 00:54:48,502 --> 00:54:51,462 $85,562. 1121 00:54:54,421 --> 00:54:55,727 I'd like that in cash. 1122 00:54:58,947 --> 00:55:00,384 [Jodi]: You know, after I got my divorce, I never thought 1123 00:55:00,514 --> 00:55:02,168 I'd be this happy again. 1124 00:55:02,299 --> 00:55:04,039 [Ruby]: It was that bad, huh? 1125 00:55:04,692 --> 00:55:07,129 Well, I mean, I don't tell too many people this, but since 1126 00:55:07,260 --> 00:55:11,482 you're a trusted friend, it was a traumatic experience. 1127 00:55:13,048 --> 00:55:15,312 People thought I didn't like men. I like men. 1128 00:55:15,442 --> 00:55:17,488 I just know what they're capable of. 1129 00:55:19,403 --> 00:55:20,491 Right. 1130 00:55:21,535 --> 00:55:23,232 Your turn. Safe space. 1131 00:55:23,363 --> 00:55:25,278 [birds chirping] 1132 00:55:26,366 --> 00:55:28,499 Okay um... 1133 00:55:30,109 --> 00:55:33,547 I haven't been truly honest with you about my younger kids. 1134 00:55:33,678 --> 00:55:34,505 Hmm? 1135 00:55:36,115 --> 00:55:38,509 Um, ever since Kevin moved out, they've been 1136 00:55:39,988 --> 00:55:42,469 very difficult. Russell, in particular. 1137 00:55:42,600 --> 00:55:44,079 How is he acting out? 1138 00:55:44,210 --> 00:55:47,866 Oh, belligerent, withholding affection. 1139 00:55:47,996 --> 00:55:49,824 And I know that they have to work through their feelings 1140 00:55:49,955 --> 00:55:51,783 about the separation but-- 1141 00:55:51,913 --> 00:55:55,308 Withholding affection is a huge form of manipulation. 1142 00:55:57,789 --> 00:56:00,574 Well, and maybe I expect too much, you know? I mean, I, I... 1143 00:56:02,054 --> 00:56:04,273 I always want everything to be perfect, and I know it can't be. 1144 00:56:04,404 --> 00:56:07,102 Oh, that's not true. That's the problem. 1145 00:56:07,233 --> 00:56:10,236 People aim so low, and nothing irritates me more than somebody 1146 00:56:10,367 --> 00:56:12,543 saying, "Nobody's perfect." 1147 00:56:12,673 --> 00:56:16,895 Yeah, my first four were easy. Russell and Eve are just-- 1148 00:56:17,025 --> 00:56:19,201 - Victims of this world? - Yeah. 1149 00:56:19,332 --> 00:56:21,465 Knowing there's a lot of things outside of the home 1150 00:56:21,595 --> 00:56:23,162 that influence children. 1151 00:56:23,292 --> 00:56:25,643 - Social media. - I was thinking more teachers, 1152 00:56:25,773 --> 00:56:27,340 friends. Even the family 1153 00:56:27,471 --> 00:56:28,863 can be a toxic influence. 1154 00:56:30,822 --> 00:56:32,389 I wish I could go back. 1155 00:56:33,607 --> 00:56:35,827 Raise my kids the way I was raised. 1156 00:56:35,957 --> 00:56:38,133 One of the reasons I have empathy for these troubled 1157 00:56:38,264 --> 00:56:40,614 children is because I was once one. 1158 00:56:40,745 --> 00:56:43,269 - You? - I would pray to God every day 1159 00:56:43,400 --> 00:56:44,792 to please make me a better person. 1160 00:56:44,923 --> 00:56:46,707 And were your prayers answered? 1161 00:56:46,838 --> 00:56:49,188 I came to understand that I was put on this planet 1162 00:56:49,318 --> 00:56:53,061 to correct children who've lost their way. Like me. 1163 00:56:54,541 --> 00:56:58,893 I think you and I could make Russell and Eve perfect adults. 1164 00:57:00,765 --> 00:57:04,290 There is nothing in the world I would love more than that. 1165 00:57:04,421 --> 00:57:06,814 Right? Yeah. I have an idea. Why don't you and the kids 1166 00:57:06,945 --> 00:57:08,294 come and stay with me for a while? 1167 00:57:08,425 --> 00:57:10,252 No, you've met my family. We could not 1168 00:57:10,383 --> 00:57:11,471 impose on you like that. 1169 00:57:11,602 --> 00:57:14,256 Don't be silly. It's fine. 1170 00:57:14,387 --> 00:57:16,041 We'll knock the demons right out of those kids. 1171 00:57:23,048 --> 00:57:24,005 [suitcases rumble] 1172 00:57:25,311 --> 00:57:27,618 Okay, Eve, let's get in the car. We're late, okay? 1173 00:57:27,748 --> 00:57:29,446 - Why aren't they coming? - I told you, 1174 00:57:29,576 --> 00:57:31,404 Abby and Julie need to finish school, okay? 1175 00:57:31,535 --> 00:57:32,405 They'll come later. 1176 00:57:33,450 --> 00:57:36,627 All right, girls, be good. Okay? 1177 00:57:37,497 --> 00:57:38,629 Okay. 1178 00:57:40,935 --> 00:57:44,243 No phones after 6 pm. Can you pack up the dining room? I left 1179 00:57:44,373 --> 00:57:46,158 boxes and tape in the hall. - Okay. 1180 00:57:46,288 --> 00:57:48,421 How long are you gonna be gone? 1181 00:57:48,552 --> 00:57:50,423 I'll be back in a few days to check on you. 1182 00:57:50,554 --> 00:57:51,555 Okay? Abby, you're in charge. 1183 00:57:53,339 --> 00:57:54,993 When are we gonna see Dad again? 1184 00:57:56,473 --> 00:57:59,127 That is entirely up to your father. 1185 00:57:59,258 --> 00:58:00,738 I don't understand. 1186 00:58:00,868 --> 00:58:02,435 I miss him. 1187 00:58:02,566 --> 00:58:04,611 In order for your father to see you again, 1188 00:58:04,742 --> 00:58:07,658 he needs to change his behavior. Okay? And obviously, 1189 00:58:07,788 --> 00:58:10,269 you guys are not important enough for him to do that. 1190 00:58:10,965 --> 00:58:12,184 All right? 1191 00:58:13,490 --> 00:58:16,014 Okay. Russell, Eve, let's go. Come on. 1192 00:58:17,494 --> 00:58:20,758 [car doors shut] [engine starts] 1193 00:58:22,934 --> 00:58:24,022 [car rumbles away] 1194 00:58:24,152 --> 00:58:24,979 [door opens] 1195 00:58:25,110 --> 00:58:26,633 You made good time! 1196 00:58:26,764 --> 00:58:29,723 Yeah, these guys were just so excited to get here. 1197 00:58:29,854 --> 00:58:31,682 - Ah, come on. - Go inside. Come on! 1198 00:58:34,032 --> 00:58:36,338 [dark music] 1199 00:58:38,515 --> 00:58:41,474 Okey dokey. 1200 00:58:41,605 --> 00:58:44,216 All right, just like at home, you each have your own bedrooms. 1201 00:58:44,346 --> 00:58:46,610 But you know what needs to happen before you move in? 1202 00:58:46,740 --> 00:58:47,785 We eat lunch? 1203 00:58:49,090 --> 00:58:50,918 You clean your room. 1204 00:58:51,049 --> 00:58:53,530 Everything has to shine before you unpack even one suitcase. 1205 00:58:54,966 --> 00:58:56,489 Off you go. 1206 00:58:56,620 --> 00:58:58,404 Let's go. Let's get to work. 1207 00:58:58,535 --> 00:59:00,493 Sorry to hear that. I was really hoping it would go 1208 00:59:00,624 --> 00:59:02,364 differently for you and Jodi. 1209 00:59:02,495 --> 00:59:06,847 Yeah, well, you were right. Things sure got worse. 1210 00:59:06,978 --> 00:59:08,849 I mean, Connie and I don't have kids to worry about, 1211 00:59:08,980 --> 00:59:10,982 you know, but I really wish there was something 1212 00:59:11,112 --> 00:59:11,983 I could do to help you. 1213 00:59:12,984 --> 00:59:14,986 Maybe there is. 1214 00:59:15,116 --> 00:59:16,944 That's why I called. 1215 00:59:17,075 --> 00:59:19,033 Bishop Elton is your cousin, right? 1216 00:59:19,164 --> 00:59:21,383 - Yeah, he is. - Hear me out. 1217 00:59:21,514 --> 00:59:24,038 Maybe you can talk to him and see if he would 1218 00:59:24,169 --> 00:59:26,780 intervene with Jodi on my behalf? I know it's a big ask. 1219 00:59:26,911 --> 00:59:29,348 - It's not that, Kevin. - Braxton, 1220 00:59:29,478 --> 00:59:32,830 I am desperate. I keep hitting dead end after-- 1221 00:59:32,960 --> 00:59:34,614 - I got to get my family back! - Kevin! 1222 00:59:34,745 --> 00:59:36,616 Connie and I left the church, 1223 00:59:36,747 --> 00:59:39,271 okay? My cousin refuses to speak with me. 1224 00:59:39,401 --> 00:59:40,620 [scoffs] 1225 00:59:40,751 --> 00:59:41,534 - Wow. - Yeah. 1226 00:59:41,665 --> 00:59:43,231 Uh... 1227 00:59:43,362 --> 00:59:45,016 Do you mind if I ask why? 1228 00:59:45,146 --> 00:59:47,192 It started with Jodi. 1229 00:59:47,322 --> 00:59:49,368 But then we started to think about all the, the shame 1230 00:59:49,498 --> 00:59:51,631 and the fear they throw at you, and frankly, that got to be 1231 00:59:51,762 --> 00:59:53,198 too much and I started losing my faith over it 1232 00:59:53,328 --> 00:59:54,808 and I couldn't get it back. 1233 00:59:55,548 --> 00:59:57,028 - I'm sorry to hear that. - Yeah, well. 1234 00:59:57,158 --> 00:59:59,726 - So, what now? - Now? 1235 00:59:59,857 --> 01:00:01,380 Now we're just trying to start a new life. 1236 01:00:01,510 --> 01:00:03,425 We're still spiritual but I just... 1237 01:00:03,556 --> 01:00:05,123 I wish I could help. 1238 01:00:05,993 --> 01:00:06,951 I understand. 1239 01:00:12,391 --> 01:00:14,698 [concerning music] 1240 01:00:14,828 --> 01:00:16,917 [Ruby]: ConneXions' viewership continues to grow 1241 01:00:17,048 --> 01:00:20,399 and the comments are so positive. 1242 01:00:20,529 --> 01:00:23,576 People seem to love Jodi's philosophy. 1243 01:00:23,707 --> 01:00:27,145 How blessed I am she has chosen to work with my family. 1244 01:00:29,408 --> 01:00:33,107 On a sad note, Russell and Eve have been acting out like crazy. 1245 01:00:33,238 --> 01:00:36,110 No amount of talk therapy is working. I had hoped things 1246 01:00:36,241 --> 01:00:38,635 would be better by now. Jodi and I have been doing 1247 01:00:38,765 --> 01:00:42,073 everything we can to combat their bad behavior. 1248 01:00:42,203 --> 01:00:46,033 We punish them. We make Russell sleep outside. 1249 01:00:46,164 --> 01:00:49,036 We withhold food. And still they don't react. 1250 01:00:49,167 --> 01:00:51,952 Jodi thinks the devil has taken their souls. 1251 01:00:52,083 --> 01:00:54,259 She says we're gonna need to take more drastic measures. 1252 01:00:56,565 --> 01:00:58,655 [wailing] 1253 01:01:01,179 --> 01:01:02,833 Eve is still screaming her head off. 1254 01:01:02,963 --> 01:01:05,444 Oh, well stay strong. You're doing the right thing. 1255 01:01:08,142 --> 01:01:10,188 It says it's 112 degrees in the shade. 1256 01:01:11,450 --> 01:01:13,365 Well, she can take the heat. 1257 01:01:13,495 --> 01:01:16,542 Besides, it's not Eve screaming, it's Satan. 1258 01:01:19,937 --> 01:01:21,025 [Eve whimpering]: Please. 1259 01:01:22,548 --> 01:01:23,723 What is this? 1260 01:01:23,854 --> 01:01:25,290 It's a wound poultice I like to use. 1261 01:01:25,420 --> 01:01:27,814 All natural. Not like that drug store poison. 1262 01:01:36,257 --> 01:01:39,086 Russell's just standing there barefoot in the hot sun. 1263 01:01:39,217 --> 01:01:40,784 Like a mute. 1264 01:01:40,914 --> 01:01:44,222 He's trying to evoke your sympathy through silence. 1265 01:01:44,352 --> 01:01:46,180 Don't fall for it. 1266 01:01:47,225 --> 01:01:49,357 [Eve crying] 1267 01:01:49,488 --> 01:01:50,663 Has this worked for you before? 1268 01:01:50,794 --> 01:01:53,274 [ominous beat] 1269 01:01:53,405 --> 01:01:56,147 Are you questioning my methods? 1270 01:01:56,277 --> 01:01:57,452 Look, because millions of viewers-- 1271 01:01:57,583 --> 01:01:59,977 No. No, no, of course I'm not. 1272 01:02:00,107 --> 01:02:01,892 I take direction straight from God. 1273 01:02:04,285 --> 01:02:06,070 [timer dings] 1274 01:02:06,200 --> 01:02:07,724 Okay, you can bring 'em in. 1275 01:02:08,072 --> 01:02:09,073 Okay. 1276 01:02:11,379 --> 01:02:12,772 [door opens] 1277 01:02:12,903 --> 01:02:14,600 [somber music] 1278 01:02:15,644 --> 01:02:17,690 Russell, Eve, get in here. 1279 01:02:20,780 --> 01:02:23,087 [footsteps tapping] 1280 01:02:26,699 --> 01:02:28,832 Go wash your face. 1281 01:02:28,962 --> 01:02:31,008 Russell, wait. 1282 01:02:31,138 --> 01:02:33,837 [breathing shakily] 1283 01:02:39,625 --> 01:02:41,932 [tearfully]: You send that demon a message from me. 1284 01:02:43,716 --> 01:02:45,892 I will not give up. 1285 01:02:47,024 --> 01:02:48,765 I will not leave. 1286 01:02:49,983 --> 01:02:52,725 I'm not going anywhere. 1287 01:02:52,856 --> 01:02:55,380 Get out, Satan! 1288 01:02:56,729 --> 01:02:57,774 Go. 1289 01:03:00,515 --> 01:03:02,430 [inhales deeply] 1290 01:03:02,561 --> 01:03:04,389 [blows out breath] 1291 01:03:10,438 --> 01:03:11,918 [flies buzzing] 1292 01:03:14,268 --> 01:03:16,096 [Ruby]: I can't believe I finally got Russell to admit 1293 01:03:16,227 --> 01:03:18,229 that picking up trash is an act of humility. 1294 01:03:21,710 --> 01:03:25,236 Last night was a mind-blowing experience. 1295 01:03:26,715 --> 01:03:29,936 God came to me. He told me I was a special spirit. 1296 01:03:30,067 --> 01:03:32,634 He said I was chosen to prepare the people 1297 01:03:32,765 --> 01:03:33,679 for the return of the savior. 1298 01:03:35,289 --> 01:03:37,335 - I knew it. - [chuckles] 1299 01:03:37,465 --> 01:03:38,553 God knows you have the faith to deliver 1300 01:03:38,684 --> 01:03:39,903 my children from evil. 1301 01:03:40,033 --> 01:03:41,556 Yes, he told me that. 1302 01:03:41,687 --> 01:03:43,558 But he also told me your children's souls 1303 01:03:43,689 --> 01:03:45,647 are in jeopardy. 1304 01:03:45,778 --> 01:03:49,782 To save them, I feel an imminent need to get them to open land. 1305 01:03:49,913 --> 01:03:52,263 - Open land? - A remote area. 1306 01:03:52,393 --> 01:03:54,961 Somewhere where our work won't be scrutinized by the heathens. 1307 01:03:55,092 --> 01:03:56,397 Like, where are you thinking? 1308 01:03:56,528 --> 01:03:58,356 Remember that ranch property in Arizona 1309 01:03:58,486 --> 01:04:00,184 that I was looking at? - Mm-hmm. 1310 01:04:00,314 --> 01:04:02,403 It would be a perfect destination for my followers, 1311 01:04:02,534 --> 01:04:06,190 500 acres, totally isolated. 1312 01:04:09,367 --> 01:04:13,023 I have some cash at the house. I could get it for 1313 01:04:13,153 --> 01:04:14,938 a downpayment. I mean, if the price is right we could 1314 01:04:15,068 --> 01:04:16,853 move on financing the property immediately. 1315 01:04:19,551 --> 01:04:21,205 Together, we're gonna make them perfect. 1316 01:04:28,690 --> 01:04:30,040 Why is the house up for rent? 1317 01:04:33,434 --> 01:04:35,045 Mom said we're moving to Aunt Jodi's. 1318 01:04:37,177 --> 01:04:39,092 Wh-where is Mom? 1319 01:04:39,223 --> 01:04:41,181 She's already there with Russell and Eve. 1320 01:04:42,095 --> 01:04:44,228 What? How long have they been gone? 1321 01:04:45,055 --> 01:04:47,187 Maybe... 1322 01:04:47,318 --> 01:04:49,886 a week? - Yeah, a week. 1323 01:04:52,149 --> 01:04:53,846 Mom left you here all alone? 1324 01:04:55,326 --> 01:04:56,544 It's not the first time. 1325 01:04:58,329 --> 01:04:59,896 Did you even eat today? 1326 01:05:03,290 --> 01:05:04,422 [sighs] 1327 01:05:07,294 --> 01:05:08,469 There's no food in here. 1328 01:05:08,600 --> 01:05:09,906 Abby? Julie? 1329 01:05:18,392 --> 01:05:19,437 What are you doing here? 1330 01:05:21,221 --> 01:05:23,180 You left them here alone for a week? 1331 01:05:24,877 --> 01:05:26,096 They're responsible girls. 1332 01:05:26,226 --> 01:05:27,445 They don't even have any food. 1333 01:05:27,575 --> 01:05:29,838 And why are Russell and Eve at Jodi's? 1334 01:05:29,969 --> 01:05:32,102 Watch... your tone. 1335 01:05:32,232 --> 01:05:36,236 No! Someone's gotta say something! Ever since Jodi 1336 01:05:36,367 --> 01:05:38,978 came into our lives, things have become insane around here! 1337 01:05:39,109 --> 01:05:42,503 I mean, Chad left us. You threw Dad out. 1338 01:05:42,634 --> 01:05:45,680 Julie and Abby are being neglected. And now you're 1339 01:05:45,811 --> 01:05:48,118 letting Russell and Eve live with that monster? 1340 01:05:49,467 --> 01:05:51,948 How dare you? 1341 01:05:52,078 --> 01:05:55,125 Our lives were a mess before Jodi walked into it. 1342 01:05:55,255 --> 01:05:57,997 She has stuck her neck out to help us. 1343 01:05:58,128 --> 01:06:02,306 Help us? Our family has fallen apart! 1344 01:06:02,436 --> 01:06:06,223 Shari, you are wrong! Jodi has done nothing but try to help us. 1345 01:06:06,353 --> 01:06:10,488 We are instilling truth into Eve and Russell. 1346 01:06:10,618 --> 01:06:12,359 Something you clearly know nothing about. 1347 01:06:12,490 --> 01:06:16,537 Let me ask you this. If your kid came to you on fire, would you 1348 01:06:16,668 --> 01:06:19,062 say I'm just gonna meet you where you are? 1349 01:06:19,192 --> 01:06:21,629 No, you'd throw them on the ground. You'd roll them. 1350 01:06:21,760 --> 01:06:24,154 You'd get a blanket. You'd start hitting the flames. 1351 01:06:24,284 --> 01:06:27,113 And they'd say, "You're hurting me. You're, you're beating me." 1352 01:06:27,244 --> 01:06:30,769 And you'd say, "No, dear, hold on, I am getting the fire out." 1353 01:06:30,899 --> 01:06:32,989 But there's no fire! 1354 01:06:34,555 --> 01:06:38,995 How do you not see that you and Jodi are the problem? 1355 01:06:42,824 --> 01:06:44,087 Get out. 1356 01:06:51,094 --> 01:06:55,924 I... I'm begging you, okay? 1357 01:06:57,187 --> 01:07:01,365 Open up your eyes and, and see this woman for what she is! 1358 01:07:07,936 --> 01:07:09,895 Get... 1359 01:07:10,026 --> 01:07:10,896 out. 1360 01:07:12,506 --> 01:07:13,377 Now. 1361 01:07:16,728 --> 01:07:17,729 Go. 1362 01:07:21,385 --> 01:07:22,777 [sniffles] 1363 01:07:22,908 --> 01:07:24,562 Go! 1364 01:07:25,389 --> 01:07:27,521 [sniffles] 1365 01:07:28,914 --> 01:07:31,221 [crying] 1366 01:07:37,575 --> 01:07:38,402 [door opens and slams shut] 1367 01:07:38,532 --> 01:07:41,492 Julie, 1368 01:07:41,622 --> 01:07:44,234 Abby, pack your bags. 1369 01:07:44,364 --> 01:07:46,540 You are going to Susan's to help clean. 1370 01:07:47,280 --> 01:07:49,413 [footsteps stomp away] 1371 01:07:51,067 --> 01:07:53,504 [items clatter] 1372 01:07:55,636 --> 01:07:56,768 [buttons beeping] 1373 01:07:58,596 --> 01:08:02,426 [somber music] 1374 01:08:03,775 --> 01:08:05,994 [call rings] 1375 01:08:06,125 --> 01:08:07,648 [Abby on voice mail]: Hi, you'e reached Abby. 1376 01:08:07,779 --> 01:08:09,346 Leave me a message. [beep] 1377 01:08:09,476 --> 01:08:12,784 Abby, that was... 1378 01:08:12,914 --> 01:08:15,787 I just wanna make sure you guys are all right. Call me. 1379 01:08:17,658 --> 01:08:19,443 [call beeps off] 1380 01:08:26,624 --> 01:08:27,886 [call dials] 1381 01:08:28,016 --> 01:08:29,409 [operator]: 911, what's your emergency? 1382 01:08:29,540 --> 01:08:30,454 [exhales] 1383 01:08:35,241 --> 01:08:37,852 [knock on glass] Police. Open the door! 1384 01:08:37,983 --> 01:08:39,898 We got a call. Are you okay? 1385 01:08:40,028 --> 01:08:42,161 [muffled]: You're not hurt, are you? 1386 01:08:42,292 --> 01:08:44,511 [police chatter over radio] 1387 01:08:44,642 --> 01:08:45,730 Hey. 1388 01:08:47,427 --> 01:08:48,559 Ma'am can you open 1389 01:08:48,689 --> 01:08:49,603 the door, please? - Just ignore them. 1390 01:08:52,432 --> 01:08:53,651 [muffled]: Can you hear me? 1391 01:08:57,785 --> 01:09:00,310 Without exigent circumstances, we can't enter. Let's go. 1392 01:09:11,538 --> 01:09:13,323 [call dials] 1393 01:09:15,325 --> 01:09:17,718 [phone buzzing] 1394 01:09:17,849 --> 01:09:19,764 - Hi. - Hi. I'm on my way back. 1395 01:09:19,894 --> 01:09:21,069 How are the kids? 1396 01:09:21,200 --> 01:09:23,594 Eve continues to try my patience. 1397 01:09:23,724 --> 01:09:25,683 Every time I try a new technique, it works, 1398 01:09:25,813 --> 01:09:27,554 she just digs in harder. 1399 01:09:27,685 --> 01:09:30,166 Right. Um, a few days ago when she was being 1400 01:09:30,296 --> 01:09:32,298 disobedient, wall sits worked for me. 1401 01:09:32,429 --> 01:09:35,214 The real problem is Russell. I'm afraid Satan is still 1402 01:09:35,345 --> 01:09:37,869 manipulating him. I had to tie him up. 1403 01:09:39,523 --> 01:09:40,654 [exhales] I was hoping we 1404 01:09:40,785 --> 01:09:41,916 wouldn't have to do that again. 1405 01:09:42,047 --> 01:09:44,180 He gave me no choice. 1406 01:09:44,310 --> 01:09:46,530 The restraints are the only thing he responds to. 1407 01:09:48,532 --> 01:09:51,448 Right. I, I know you're doing everything in your power 1408 01:09:51,578 --> 01:09:52,362 to save them. 1409 01:09:53,319 --> 01:09:54,755 - Thank you. - God willing. 1410 01:09:54,886 --> 01:09:56,540 [handcuffs rattle] 1411 01:09:57,932 --> 01:10:01,458 Don't worry, I think they'll come around. 1412 01:10:01,588 --> 01:10:02,894 [sinister beat] 1413 01:10:04,330 --> 01:10:06,550 [Ruby]: I dropped Abby and Julie off. 1414 01:10:06,680 --> 01:10:09,553 Unlike Shari, they're good girls. 1415 01:10:11,642 --> 01:10:13,861 I pray Russell and Eve would be more like them, 1416 01:10:13,992 --> 01:10:15,559 choose to live in truth. 1417 01:10:18,823 --> 01:10:21,826 Though it pains me to see the two little ones so defiant... 1418 01:10:21,956 --> 01:10:24,176 [sinister swell] 1419 01:10:26,526 --> 01:10:29,399 ...I know Jodi's methods are necessary. 1420 01:10:31,183 --> 01:10:32,880 [knife scratching] 1421 01:10:33,011 --> 01:10:35,709 The world that we live in today does not support 1422 01:10:35,840 --> 01:10:37,233 children being uncomfortable. 1423 01:10:42,934 --> 01:10:46,894 They, the adults, are uncomfortable with 1424 01:10:47,025 --> 01:10:48,592 children being uncomfortable. 1425 01:10:53,118 --> 01:10:55,076 [scratching continues] 1426 01:10:55,207 --> 01:10:59,342 And so, children are comforted, entertained, distracted 1427 01:10:59,472 --> 01:11:02,214 from the need to confess and change. 1428 01:11:03,433 --> 01:11:04,608 [door opens] 1429 01:11:12,920 --> 01:11:16,054 Stripping down a child's world to the basics of beans, 1430 01:11:16,184 --> 01:11:19,100 and rice, and manual labor, would be considered abuse 1431 01:11:19,231 --> 01:11:22,713 by many, but we know it's not. 1432 01:11:22,843 --> 01:11:25,411 It's necessary for the prideful child. 1433 01:11:38,294 --> 01:11:40,905 [fingers tapping on keyboard] 1434 01:11:45,779 --> 01:11:47,303 For the child who is not humble-- 1435 01:11:49,305 --> 01:11:51,829 ...you have to get to their breaking point. 1436 01:11:57,400 --> 01:11:58,488 [operator]: 911, what is your emergency? 1437 01:11:58,618 --> 01:12:00,490 Yeah, I've got a 12 year old boy. 1438 01:12:00,620 --> 01:12:03,841 I think, there's a good chance he's been abused. 1439 01:12:05,712 --> 01:12:07,671 [sirens wailing] 1440 01:12:16,419 --> 01:12:19,117 [tense music] 1441 01:12:28,779 --> 01:12:30,302 Police officers! Open up! 1442 01:12:33,523 --> 01:12:35,046 Jodi, I need you to step out. 1443 01:12:35,176 --> 01:12:36,177 I have my attorney on the phone. 1444 01:12:36,308 --> 01:12:38,005 That's great. Step out. 1445 01:12:38,136 --> 01:12:41,313 No, I am not stepping out. Whoa! Whoa, whoa, whoa! 1446 01:12:42,227 --> 01:12:44,011 Whoa! Wait, wait a minute! 1447 01:12:44,142 --> 01:12:45,752 You cannot just come into my house! 1448 01:12:45,883 --> 01:12:47,754 They broke into my house. Do you have a search warrant? 1449 01:12:47,885 --> 01:12:48,712 Have a seat. 1450 01:12:51,279 --> 01:12:53,064 [footsteps thudding] 1451 01:12:59,462 --> 01:13:00,985 All clear. Stack up! 1452 01:13:01,115 --> 01:13:02,813 There you go. Thanks. 1453 01:13:06,207 --> 01:13:08,384 [phone pings] 1454 01:13:11,517 --> 01:13:14,172 [ominous music] 1455 01:13:14,302 --> 01:13:16,000 [coffee splatters] 1456 01:13:24,487 --> 01:13:26,706 You can't just come into my house without a search warrant. 1457 01:13:26,837 --> 01:13:28,099 At this moment, we don't need one. 1458 01:13:28,229 --> 01:13:29,753 We're here on exigent circumstances. 1459 01:13:36,237 --> 01:13:38,283 [call dials] 1460 01:13:40,372 --> 01:13:41,504 [phone buzzing] 1461 01:13:45,856 --> 01:13:47,379 [call beeps off] 1462 01:13:47,510 --> 01:13:49,076 [voicemail]: Your call has been forwarded 1463 01:13:49,207 --> 01:13:50,600 to an automatic voice message. 1464 01:13:51,644 --> 01:13:52,602 [breathing nervously] 1465 01:13:53,907 --> 01:13:55,692 [phone buttons beeping] 1466 01:13:55,822 --> 01:13:57,955 [phone buzzing] 1467 01:14:00,348 --> 01:14:02,133 Ruby, I'm at a job interview. Is everything okay? 1468 01:14:02,263 --> 01:14:04,004 Do you think I'm a good wife? 1469 01:14:04,135 --> 01:14:05,963 I thought phone calls were for emergencies only? 1470 01:14:06,093 --> 01:14:08,661 Am I a good wife? 1471 01:14:08,792 --> 01:14:10,620 Of course. Why would you ask that? 1472 01:14:12,404 --> 01:14:14,711 [crying]: Am I... 1473 01:14:14,841 --> 01:14:16,147 am I a good mother? 1474 01:14:16,277 --> 01:14:18,323 The best in the world. What is going on? 1475 01:14:21,457 --> 01:14:23,154 Just know that all of this was God's will. 1476 01:14:24,329 --> 01:14:25,765 Ruby-- [call ends abruptly] 1477 01:14:25,896 --> 01:14:26,984 [enginge revving] 1478 01:14:27,114 --> 01:14:29,160 [ominous music] 1479 01:14:47,308 --> 01:14:49,833 Hi. 1480 01:14:49,963 --> 01:14:52,183 I'm a police officer. 1481 01:14:52,313 --> 01:14:53,663 Are you okay? 1482 01:14:56,579 --> 01:14:57,754 What's your name? 1483 01:15:04,282 --> 01:15:05,501 [Voice echoes]: Eve. 1484 01:15:18,557 --> 01:15:19,819 That's my daughter. 1485 01:15:19,950 --> 01:15:21,517 - Are you the mother? - That's my daughter. 1486 01:15:21,647 --> 01:15:23,997 - Eve! Hey. - Are you Ruby Franke? 1487 01:15:24,128 --> 01:15:26,347 - You can't just take her away - Hey, hey, hey, hey! 1488 01:15:26,478 --> 01:15:28,175 You have no right to take. Eve, I'm right here. 1489 01:15:28,306 --> 01:15:31,701 Baby, I'm right here, okay? Eve, Eve! Hey, that's my daughter! 1490 01:15:31,831 --> 01:15:33,703 - You need to back up! - Eve, baby I'm right here. 1491 01:15:33,833 --> 01:15:35,400 - Come with us. Come with us. - Stop! Stop it! 1492 01:15:35,531 --> 01:15:37,184 - We've got her. - No! Hey! 1493 01:15:37,315 --> 01:15:39,535 Go, get her in the car. [thudding] 1494 01:15:39,665 --> 01:15:41,711 You're under arrest. You have the right to remain silent. 1495 01:15:41,841 --> 01:15:43,364 Anything you say can and will be used against you 1496 01:15:43,495 --> 01:15:45,105 in the court of law. 1497 01:15:45,236 --> 01:15:46,716 [voice fading]: You have the right to an attorney. 1498 01:15:46,846 --> 01:15:48,369 [handcuffs cranking] If you cannot afford one, 1499 01:15:48,500 --> 01:15:50,546 one will be provided for you. 1500 01:15:54,811 --> 01:15:57,944 During the separation time, you weren't in any way involved 1501 01:15:58,075 --> 01:15:59,337 in disciplining your kids? 1502 01:15:59,467 --> 01:16:01,426 No, I've chosen to trust my wife with that. 1503 01:16:03,907 --> 01:16:05,909 Let me tell you why you're here. 1504 01:16:06,039 --> 01:16:08,868 This morning we received a 911 call saying that your son, 1505 01:16:08,999 --> 01:16:12,306 Russell, was knocking on doors asking for food and water. 1506 01:16:12,437 --> 01:16:14,570 He was emaciated and malnourished. 1507 01:16:16,484 --> 01:16:18,312 I'm, I'm, I'm sorry, what? 1508 01:16:18,443 --> 01:16:20,924 He had duct tape around his wrists and ankles, 1509 01:16:21,054 --> 01:16:23,491 which covered burns from the ropes that were used 1510 01:16:23,622 --> 01:16:26,146 to tie him down. The open wounds were treated with honey 1511 01:16:26,277 --> 01:16:31,064 and cayenne pepper. Hardly a recipe for pain relief. 1512 01:16:31,195 --> 01:16:33,763 I want you to take a second and think about that. 1513 01:16:33,893 --> 01:16:37,593 That is the condition of your son under the care of your wife. 1514 01:16:39,420 --> 01:16:41,205 What are you saying? I don't understand. 1515 01:16:42,510 --> 01:16:43,642 [inhales deeply] Neither do we, Kevin. 1516 01:16:43,773 --> 01:16:45,513 Where are Russell and Eve? 1517 01:16:45,644 --> 01:16:47,690 Your children are in the custody of DCS now. 1518 01:16:47,820 --> 01:16:51,084 They're on a medical hold for at least 72 hours. 1519 01:16:51,215 --> 01:16:53,521 You do not have access to them. 1520 01:16:53,652 --> 01:16:54,958 For how long? 1521 01:16:55,088 --> 01:16:56,612 That's a question for Child Services. 1522 01:16:58,701 --> 01:17:01,486 [somber music] 1523 01:17:02,835 --> 01:17:05,795 Uh... I feel like this is someone else's life 1524 01:17:05,925 --> 01:17:06,970 that we're talking about. 1525 01:17:10,103 --> 01:17:11,975 I love my wife. 1526 01:17:12,932 --> 01:17:14,064 I love my family. 1527 01:17:15,587 --> 01:17:17,502 How could this happen? 1528 01:17:19,983 --> 01:17:24,248 I have a picture of them by my bedside. 1529 01:17:24,378 --> 01:17:27,077 I look at it every day. 1530 01:17:27,207 --> 01:17:28,992 I try so hard. 1531 01:17:30,907 --> 01:17:33,170 All I want is my family back! 1532 01:17:35,041 --> 01:17:36,739 [tearfully]: That's all I've ever wanted. 1533 01:17:39,306 --> 01:17:41,482 Do you live up here? 1534 01:17:41,613 --> 01:17:44,181 Do you live up north? 1535 01:17:44,311 --> 01:17:45,530 How many children do you have? 1536 01:17:48,751 --> 01:17:50,100 Do you need medical attention? 1537 01:17:56,019 --> 01:17:57,716 [rustling] 1538 01:17:57,847 --> 01:18:00,458 Evidence photos from the crime scene. 1539 01:18:03,983 --> 01:18:05,768 Any of these look familiar? 1540 01:18:14,733 --> 01:18:16,866 This was just taken at the hospital. 1541 01:18:16,996 --> 01:18:20,783 I wanted you to see the condition your children are in. 1542 01:18:22,436 --> 01:18:25,004 With the evidence we've gathered so far, 1543 01:18:25,135 --> 01:18:27,441 we're charging you with two counts of secondary felony 1544 01:18:27,572 --> 01:18:30,880 child abuse and neglect. Do you understand? 1545 01:18:35,798 --> 01:18:37,495 [door alarm buzzes] 1546 01:18:43,501 --> 01:18:45,242 [footsteps thudding] 1547 01:18:45,372 --> 01:18:47,592 [police chatter over radio] 1548 01:18:57,254 --> 01:19:00,083 This is a witch hunt. We've been misunderstood. 1549 01:19:01,649 --> 01:19:03,739 [inhales and exhales deeply] But that's okay. 1550 01:19:06,437 --> 01:19:10,615 Every good person of God has been misunderstood 1551 01:19:10,746 --> 01:19:12,269 over the course of history. 1552 01:19:13,749 --> 01:19:16,142 [ominous music] 1553 01:19:16,273 --> 01:19:20,190 [singing]: Truth eternal, truth divine. 1554 01:19:22,583 --> 01:19:28,241 In thine ancient fulness shine! 1555 01:19:28,372 --> 01:19:34,770 Burst the fetters of the mind 1556 01:19:35,727 --> 01:19:40,645 From the millions of mankind! 1557 01:19:45,084 --> 01:19:46,956 [inhales deeply] Hmm. 1558 01:19:58,881 --> 01:19:59,751 [crows cawing] 1559 01:19:59,882 --> 01:20:01,057 [cell door clanging] 1560 01:20:01,187 --> 01:20:02,972 [ominous music] 1561 01:20:03,102 --> 01:20:04,321 [footsteps approaching] 1562 01:20:08,455 --> 01:20:09,892 Thank you. 1563 01:20:14,897 --> 01:20:16,768 [exhales] 1564 01:20:18,161 --> 01:20:20,772 - Thank you for coming. - Of course. 1565 01:20:20,903 --> 01:20:23,949 Um, Jodi's gonna plead guilty. 1566 01:20:25,385 --> 01:20:28,345 She's only doing it because I pled and she knows that 1567 01:20:28,475 --> 01:20:30,303 if she doesn't, I'm gonna testify against her. 1568 01:20:30,434 --> 01:20:32,523 That's good. I guess. 1569 01:20:34,568 --> 01:20:36,570 I can't believe how much power I gave her. 1570 01:20:36,701 --> 01:20:39,095 I mean, I followed her blindly. 1571 01:20:39,225 --> 01:20:40,531 But I was brainwashed. 1572 01:20:41,924 --> 01:20:42,838 We all were. 1573 01:20:47,407 --> 01:20:48,844 How are the kids? 1574 01:20:50,758 --> 01:20:53,936 Honestly, I'm not sure. 1575 01:20:54,066 --> 01:20:56,547 I haven't been able to connect with Shari or Chad 1576 01:20:56,677 --> 01:20:59,593 and the younger ones are in foster care. 1577 01:21:00,420 --> 01:21:02,379 But I intend to file for custody. 1578 01:21:02,509 --> 01:21:04,468 And you can have the house. 1579 01:21:04,598 --> 01:21:07,950 Um, all the kids can stay there. I will gladly stay away. 1580 01:21:08,080 --> 01:21:10,300 I'm not sure you have much of a choice. 1581 01:21:10,430 --> 01:21:12,650 Even if you're acquitted, they're gonna place legal 1582 01:21:12,780 --> 01:21:14,434 restrictions on you seeing the underage children. 1583 01:21:14,565 --> 01:21:15,827 I know that. 1584 01:21:18,221 --> 01:21:21,137 [somber music] 1585 01:21:22,486 --> 01:21:24,967 Kevin, I wanna thank you 1586 01:21:25,097 --> 01:21:27,752 for stepping up. 1587 01:21:27,883 --> 01:21:29,885 I always knew I could depend on you. 1588 01:21:32,061 --> 01:21:33,410 Thank you for standing by me. 1589 01:21:37,414 --> 01:21:39,242 I guess that makes this all the more difficult. 1590 01:21:43,333 --> 01:21:45,074 Ruby, I'm filing for divorce. 1591 01:21:51,341 --> 01:21:53,691 We meet in the cafeteria after lunch on Wednesdays. 1592 01:21:53,821 --> 01:21:54,910 Martinez. 1593 01:21:55,867 --> 01:21:57,260 [door creaks open] 1594 01:21:59,610 --> 01:22:01,264 [door bangs shut] 1595 01:22:09,489 --> 01:22:11,578 Why do you do it? 1596 01:22:11,709 --> 01:22:13,624 Is it for the power or just for the money? 1597 01:22:16,844 --> 01:22:18,803 You ruined my life. 1598 01:22:23,329 --> 01:22:26,028 Don't sell yourself short, Ruby. 1599 01:22:26,158 --> 01:22:28,552 You did a pretty good job of that yourself. 1600 01:22:32,034 --> 01:22:33,687 [court viewers murmuring] 1601 01:22:33,818 --> 01:22:35,385 [gavel bangs] 1602 01:22:35,515 --> 01:22:37,387 [Judge]: Settle. Settle. 1603 01:22:38,997 --> 01:22:42,087 Morning, welcome to District Court. 1604 01:22:42,218 --> 01:22:44,524 We're here for sentencing in the matter of the State of Utah 1605 01:22:44,655 --> 01:22:46,787 versus Ruby Franke. 1606 01:22:46,918 --> 01:22:48,964 The prosecution and the defense have come to terms. 1607 01:22:51,401 --> 01:22:55,144 Ms. Franke, I'm told you wish to read a statement. 1608 01:23:01,889 --> 01:23:05,328 [tearfully]: In the last few years, I've chosen to follow 1609 01:23:05,458 --> 01:23:08,984 counsel and guidance that has led me into a dark delusion. 1610 01:23:10,420 --> 01:23:13,292 My distorted version of reality went largely unchecked 1611 01:23:13,423 --> 01:23:16,861 as I was to isolate from anyone who challenged me. 1612 01:23:18,167 --> 01:23:22,562 Kevin, my husband of more than 23 years, 1613 01:23:22,693 --> 01:23:24,173 you are the love of my life. 1614 01:23:25,652 --> 01:23:29,352 I am so sorry to leave to you to finish 1615 01:23:30,527 --> 01:23:33,225 what we both started together. 1616 01:23:33,356 --> 01:23:36,402 You are wrapped around my heart in a knot 1617 01:23:36,533 --> 01:23:37,969 I will never be able to undo. 1618 01:23:39,014 --> 01:23:40,885 [sighs] 1619 01:23:43,235 --> 01:23:45,759 To my babies, 1620 01:23:45,890 --> 01:23:50,286 my six little chicks, you are a part of me. 1621 01:23:50,416 --> 01:23:53,376 I would never have led you to darkness knowingly. 1622 01:23:53,506 --> 01:23:56,901 I was so disoriented that I believed that dark was light 1623 01:23:58,468 --> 01:24:00,035 and right was wrong. 1624 01:24:03,125 --> 01:24:05,866 My willingness to sacrifice all for you was 1625 01:24:05,997 --> 01:24:09,174 masterfully manipulated into something very ugly. 1626 01:24:09,305 --> 01:24:13,265 I took from you all that was soft 1627 01:24:13,396 --> 01:24:19,184 and safe and good. I took from you your mother. 1628 01:24:19,315 --> 01:24:21,882 How terrifying this must have been for you. 1629 01:24:22,013 --> 01:24:26,104 I will never stop crying for hurting your tender souls. 1630 01:24:26,235 --> 01:24:28,019 [sniffles] 1631 01:24:28,150 --> 01:24:29,934 I'm so sorry. 1632 01:24:40,031 --> 01:24:42,425 [sobbing] 1633 01:24:43,948 --> 01:24:44,949 [door opens and shuts] 1634 01:24:52,739 --> 01:24:54,176 Thank you. 1635 01:24:55,438 --> 01:24:57,440 Since there's nothing further, 1636 01:24:57,570 --> 01:25:00,007 we'll proceed with sentencing. 1637 01:25:00,138 --> 01:25:03,620 [voice fading] Ms. Franke, for your conviction 1638 01:25:03,750 --> 01:25:04,882 you will serve... 1639 01:25:07,711 --> 01:25:09,626 [door opens and shuts] 1640 01:25:11,758 --> 01:25:13,717 [all]: Surprise! 1641 01:25:13,847 --> 01:25:16,981 [all singing] ♪ Happy birthday to you 1642 01:25:18,722 --> 01:25:22,073 ♪ Happy birthday to you 1643 01:25:23,248 --> 01:25:28,775 ♪ Happy birthday dear, Mom 1644 01:25:28,906 --> 01:25:33,563 ♪ Happy birthday to you 1645 01:25:33,693 --> 01:25:35,521 [giggling] Woo! 1646 01:25:35,652 --> 01:25:39,046 Oh, my gosh, you guys. You did all this for me? 1647 01:25:39,743 --> 01:25:42,093 - I love you, Mommy! - Aw. 1648 01:25:45,227 --> 01:25:46,053 It was all their idea. 1649 01:25:46,184 --> 01:25:47,881 Wow. 1650 01:25:48,012 --> 01:25:48,839 Make a wish, Mom! 1651 01:25:48,969 --> 01:25:49,840 Yeah! 1652 01:25:49,970 --> 01:25:51,624 [sighs] 1653 01:25:51,755 --> 01:25:54,018 You know what? I don't have to. 1654 01:25:56,368 --> 01:25:58,065 It already came true. 1655 01:25:58,196 --> 01:25:59,328 Hmm. 1656 01:26:02,809 --> 01:26:04,724 Thank you. 1657 01:26:04,855 --> 01:26:07,684 [ominous beat] 1658 01:26:14,343 --> 01:26:16,258 [sobbing] 1659 01:26:21,872 --> 01:26:23,613 [chains clanging] 1660 01:26:23,743 --> 01:26:26,355 [somber music] 1661 01:26:29,227 --> 01:26:31,534 [teary exhale] 1662 01:26:39,977 --> 01:26:41,196 [cell door clanging shut] 1663 01:26:52,294 --> 01:26:58,082 [♪] 1664 01:27:21,018 --> 01:27:23,238 Subtitling: difuze