1 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:07,000 Downloaded from YTS.BZ 2 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:13,000 Official YIFY movies site: YTS.BZ 3 00:01:35,007 --> 00:01:37,488 HER DIFFERENCE 4 00:01:59,470 --> 00:02:00,632 Hi, Katia! 5 00:02:00,752 --> 00:02:02,353 Hi... Sophie. 6 00:02:09,281 --> 00:02:10,963 Okay, I'll hold. 7 00:02:13,004 --> 00:02:13,925 You okay? 8 00:02:14,325 --> 00:02:16,288 Big change from our last space! 9 00:02:16,288 --> 00:02:18,090 I liked working from home. 10 00:02:18,090 --> 00:02:20,491 It's nice to be together in an open space. 11 00:02:20,491 --> 00:02:22,173 I like it. 12 00:02:23,655 --> 00:02:24,776 D'you see the email? 13 00:02:24,776 --> 00:02:25,977 It's gonna be tough. 14 00:02:26,097 --> 00:02:27,899 You mean the voluntary layoffs? 15 00:02:27,899 --> 00:02:31,503 I'm not sure how "voluntary" they are. 16 00:02:31,623 --> 00:02:33,625 I think we're all gonna get the axe. 17 00:02:33,745 --> 00:02:36,508 But since I've been here for 5 years, 18 00:02:36,628 --> 00:02:39,511 they may think twice before replacing me with an intern. 19 00:02:44,235 --> 00:02:45,757 Don't stress out! 20 00:02:45,757 --> 00:02:47,559 You're the smartest girl I know. 21 00:02:47,679 --> 00:02:50,842 You work so hard, they'd be jerks to fire you. So... 22 00:02:54,525 --> 00:02:56,248 Otherwise, have a nice weekend? 23 00:02:56,568 --> 00:02:58,490 I saw Thomas and... 24 00:02:58,610 --> 00:03:00,091 he took off for good. 25 00:03:00,091 --> 00:03:01,333 Really? 26 00:03:01,453 --> 00:03:02,894 So you broke up? 27 00:03:03,214 --> 00:03:04,937 He dumped me like a piece of shit. 28 00:03:06,057 --> 00:03:08,539 No! I'm not sure I wanna hear it. 29 00:03:13,785 --> 00:03:14,786 Spit it out. 30 00:03:15,146 --> 00:03:17,308 He was a huge bore and completely useless. 31 00:03:18,630 --> 00:03:20,471 You're a real pain in the butt. 32 00:03:20,993 --> 00:03:23,035 What fucking compassion! 33 00:03:23,635 --> 00:03:25,517 But thanks for not saying so before. 34 00:03:26,718 --> 00:03:28,920 It won't be hard to find someone better. 35 00:03:29,321 --> 00:03:30,962 Okay, stop! That's enough. 36 00:03:31,523 --> 00:03:34,205 I'll get some dark chocolate on my lunch break. 37 00:03:34,326 --> 00:03:36,127 It's great for depression. 38 00:03:36,528 --> 00:03:39,050 There's sugar, but also magnesium, serotonin... 39 00:03:39,771 --> 00:03:41,212 polyphenol... 40 00:03:42,053 --> 00:03:43,936 - I'm listening. - Omega 3... 41 00:03:44,856 --> 00:03:46,738 No, sorry, I'm here. 42 00:03:48,780 --> 00:03:50,982 Yes, it's for the authorization. 43 00:03:51,983 --> 00:03:53,064 Exactly. 44 00:03:54,306 --> 00:03:56,508 In that case, someone else has to sign. 45 00:03:58,269 --> 00:04:00,112 Yeah, I hear you, but... 46 00:04:12,804 --> 00:04:13,845 Katia! 47 00:04:14,886 --> 00:04:15,807 Come on. 48 00:04:17,970 --> 00:04:19,250 Am I fired? 49 00:04:19,250 --> 00:04:22,214 No! That's not the subject for an editorial meeting. 50 00:04:22,214 --> 00:04:23,175 Have a seat. 51 00:04:25,497 --> 00:04:28,140 Where are you on the power plant demolition? 52 00:04:28,260 --> 00:04:30,261 - I should be done tomorrow. - Good. 53 00:04:30,381 --> 00:04:32,984 Then you work for Julien on autism. 54 00:04:33,104 --> 00:04:36,067 On the late treatment of autism in France. 55 00:04:36,187 --> 00:04:37,628 Thanks for the precision. 56 00:04:37,749 --> 00:04:40,432 Are you going to Somalia to cover the attack? 57 00:04:40,432 --> 00:04:42,234 Yes. And I leave tonight. 58 00:04:42,234 --> 00:04:44,235 I'll email you on the research. 59 00:04:44,676 --> 00:04:48,840 Then Karim has a piece on the European reforms. 60 00:04:48,960 --> 00:04:50,041 No, not Europe. 61 00:04:50,041 --> 00:04:51,683 That subject doesn't interest me. 62 00:04:53,605 --> 00:04:55,206 Not at all. 63 00:04:55,847 --> 00:04:59,651 Unless you're a Europhobe, I'm just asking you to do your job. 64 00:05:00,011 --> 00:05:02,774 And it'll go very well. "It doesn't interest me"! 65 00:05:02,894 --> 00:05:05,376 Is there anything I'm forgetting? 66 00:05:05,737 --> 00:05:07,859 - Questions? - No. 67 00:05:08,780 --> 00:05:09,901 Am I fired? 68 00:05:11,542 --> 00:05:13,464 You stay. The others, get to work! 69 00:05:17,829 --> 00:05:18,951 So, Katia, 70 00:05:19,071 --> 00:05:22,393 losing our big news show means the company has to change. 71 00:05:22,754 --> 00:05:24,956 Plus, it's happening just as we're moving. 72 00:05:24,956 --> 00:05:28,600 The first to go will be those who can be replaced by freelancers. 73 00:05:28,600 --> 00:05:31,243 They make less money and we can hire them at will. 74 00:05:31,643 --> 00:05:34,245 - I can work freelance. - It's not the same pay rate. 75 00:05:34,245 --> 00:05:37,289 With your profile and ability, you could work anywhere. 76 00:05:37,289 --> 00:05:40,492 - I don't wanna work elsewhere. - I don't want you to, either. 77 00:05:41,853 --> 00:05:43,855 But I'm not the one who decides. 78 00:05:45,777 --> 00:05:47,018 It's not for sure. 79 00:05:47,739 --> 00:05:49,901 It'll be okay. 80 00:05:52,865 --> 00:05:53,905 Katia... 81 00:05:54,907 --> 00:05:58,670 I have a question, but I'm not sure if it's a good time. You okay? 82 00:05:58,790 --> 00:05:59,671 I'll be fine. 83 00:05:59,671 --> 00:06:02,034 My interview on autism has been pushed up. 84 00:06:02,034 --> 00:06:04,275 As you know, I'm leaving for Somalia. 85 00:06:04,396 --> 00:06:06,597 So I'd really like you to do the interview. 86 00:06:06,597 --> 00:06:07,999 - Me? - Yes. 87 00:06:08,960 --> 00:06:11,363 - I'm not a reporter. - Who cares? 88 00:06:11,363 --> 00:06:14,806 The subject's a really nice woman who runs an organization. 89 00:06:14,926 --> 00:06:16,448 Why not ask someone else? 90 00:06:17,048 --> 00:06:19,651 I don't want another reporter stealing the story. 91 00:06:19,651 --> 00:06:22,013 I can trust you. You won't stab me in the back. 92 00:06:22,614 --> 00:06:24,016 I don't know the subject. 93 00:06:24,896 --> 00:06:28,420 I know you. By tomorrow, you'll know more than a specialist. 94 00:06:28,820 --> 00:06:32,104 I'll give you my questions, get someone to do the technical stuff. 95 00:06:32,864 --> 00:06:34,946 I don't like the idea of doing that. 96 00:06:35,507 --> 00:06:36,868 Please. 97 00:06:36,868 --> 00:06:38,790 Knowing it's you reassures me. 98 00:06:38,790 --> 00:06:40,752 Can I count on you? 99 00:06:41,352 --> 00:06:43,075 - Yes. - Great. Thanks. 100 00:06:43,755 --> 00:06:45,717 I'll send you my questions. 101 00:06:47,079 --> 00:06:50,401 He suffers from severe autism. Since dropping out of school in 2019, 102 00:06:50,562 --> 00:06:52,323 Yasine has made no progress. 103 00:06:52,444 --> 00:06:55,807 What complicates his autism is his inability to speak. 104 00:06:56,608 --> 00:06:58,970 Not knowing how to manage his emotions, 105 00:06:59,611 --> 00:07:00,932 his frustration... 106 00:07:07,018 --> 00:07:08,299 Hi, Katia, it's me. 107 00:07:08,299 --> 00:07:10,702 I mean, it's Fred. 108 00:07:11,503 --> 00:07:14,106 I'd like to talk to you. 109 00:07:14,106 --> 00:07:16,027 I need to see you. 110 00:07:16,868 --> 00:07:19,831 I suspect you're there. If you don't want to, okay. 111 00:07:19,831 --> 00:07:22,915 But if you do, I'll wait a bit. 112 00:07:23,035 --> 00:07:24,276 I'm downstairs. 113 00:07:24,676 --> 00:07:25,997 I mean, I'm here. 114 00:07:52,304 --> 00:07:53,705 I don't know. 115 00:07:54,706 --> 00:07:56,828 I know we said we'd stop. 116 00:07:59,271 --> 00:08:00,632 But... 117 00:08:02,954 --> 00:08:04,435 I'm miserable without you. 118 00:08:06,318 --> 00:08:07,719 But this has never worked. 119 00:08:07,839 --> 00:08:09,601 It hasn't yet, 120 00:08:10,002 --> 00:08:12,204 but that doesn't mean we never will. 121 00:08:13,604 --> 00:08:16,648 I was offended that you didn't wanna live with me. 122 00:08:16,848 --> 00:08:18,730 But the times before... 123 00:08:21,133 --> 00:08:22,694 The times before... 124 00:08:23,695 --> 00:08:25,737 I admit, I reacted too quickly. 125 00:08:28,140 --> 00:08:30,742 You're not the easiest girl, either. 126 00:08:31,823 --> 00:08:33,345 Yes, I know. 127 00:08:39,631 --> 00:08:40,992 What'll we do? 128 00:09:02,013 --> 00:09:04,096 - I've missed you. - So have I. 129 00:09:16,107 --> 00:09:18,029 - Hello, Mom. - Hello, honey. 130 00:09:18,230 --> 00:09:19,631 - How are you? - Fine. 131 00:09:19,631 --> 00:09:22,514 - Am I disturbing you? - Yeah, a little. 132 00:09:22,634 --> 00:09:23,995 That's nice! 133 00:09:24,276 --> 00:09:25,797 Well, you asked. 134 00:09:25,797 --> 00:09:27,039 It's Sunday, 135 00:09:27,039 --> 00:09:28,680 and you're working again. 136 00:09:28,680 --> 00:09:31,643 No one forces me to work. I do it because I want to. 137 00:09:31,643 --> 00:09:33,205 With your education, 138 00:09:33,205 --> 00:09:34,726 it's such a waste. 139 00:09:34,846 --> 00:09:37,049 - You could work at the... - European Parliament. 140 00:09:37,049 --> 00:09:40,531 Or be a consultant. I know, but you're not me. 141 00:09:41,533 --> 00:09:44,776 If I could have, I'd have gotten an education. 142 00:09:44,776 --> 00:09:46,258 But you got pregnant. 143 00:09:46,378 --> 00:09:48,619 I don't say that as a criticism. 144 00:09:48,740 --> 00:09:50,582 Yes, it is, a little. 145 00:09:51,303 --> 00:09:54,346 I just think it's a shame you don't get a job on your level. 146 00:09:54,706 --> 00:09:56,467 But for once, you've held onto a job. 147 00:09:56,467 --> 00:09:58,269 After all, it's up to you. 148 00:09:58,269 --> 00:10:00,632 - Did you get my package? - Yes. 149 00:10:02,194 --> 00:10:03,995 It sounds like you didn't like it. 150 00:10:04,516 --> 00:10:06,918 Yes, but it's a wool sweater. 151 00:10:06,918 --> 00:10:10,081 I know you don't like wool, but it was so pretty. 152 00:10:11,603 --> 00:10:13,084 What's that noise? 153 00:10:15,046 --> 00:10:16,848 It's a coffee machine. 154 00:10:16,848 --> 00:10:18,250 In your apartment? 155 00:10:18,730 --> 00:10:20,011 Is it Fred? 156 00:10:20,652 --> 00:10:22,574 You're back together? 157 00:10:23,014 --> 00:10:25,938 I don't wanna talk about it now. We'll talk later. 158 00:10:26,058 --> 00:10:27,499 If you like. 159 00:10:27,499 --> 00:10:29,781 - Bye, Mom. - Love you, honey. 160 00:10:34,826 --> 00:10:35,547 You okay? 161 00:10:38,870 --> 00:10:41,313 She asked if we were together again. 162 00:10:44,355 --> 00:10:45,677 And what did you say? 163 00:10:45,797 --> 00:10:48,440 That I didn't wanna talk to her about it. 164 00:10:49,040 --> 00:10:50,762 And... I don't know. 165 00:10:52,083 --> 00:10:53,405 Because... 166 00:10:55,006 --> 00:10:57,889 you think I came to your door 167 00:10:57,889 --> 00:11:00,051 just to sleep together? 168 00:11:01,052 --> 00:11:04,256 No, not at all. Stop thinking. 169 00:11:04,376 --> 00:11:06,738 So you're for it? 170 00:11:06,738 --> 00:11:09,581 Yes, I'm very much for it. Obviously. 171 00:11:16,588 --> 00:11:19,631 On the other hand, your pillows... Really bad taste! 172 00:11:19,751 --> 00:11:21,673 This one. I think... 173 00:11:22,514 --> 00:11:23,915 Like this. 174 00:11:24,035 --> 00:11:26,237 And this one, like that. 175 00:11:26,237 --> 00:11:28,961 That makes me crazy. I won't be able to work. 176 00:11:28,961 --> 00:11:32,323 - Go mess up your place! - My place isn't organized. 177 00:11:33,485 --> 00:11:35,687 - I'm hungry! - I have to work. 178 00:11:37,368 --> 00:11:38,690 The salad... 179 00:11:39,211 --> 00:11:41,012 - The beef. - Thank you. 180 00:11:41,773 --> 00:11:42,774 See? It was quick. 181 00:11:42,774 --> 00:11:45,377 In an hour, you'll be home, at your computer. 182 00:11:46,177 --> 00:11:47,378 So...? 183 00:11:48,740 --> 00:11:52,624 It's a scruffy little fishing boat, but I'm attached to it. 184 00:11:53,184 --> 00:11:56,828 When my buddies offered to sell it, I jumped at the chance. 185 00:11:57,229 --> 00:12:00,191 In truth, it does me good to focus on something other than you. 186 00:12:01,313 --> 00:12:03,275 You replaced me with a boat? 187 00:12:03,275 --> 00:12:04,596 Yeah. 188 00:12:05,036 --> 00:12:05,957 But it didn't work. 189 00:12:06,477 --> 00:12:08,159 Obviously, I'm here. 190 00:12:08,720 --> 00:12:11,603 I'll go back home to fix it up, when I can. 191 00:12:12,924 --> 00:12:14,526 Now you say "back home." 192 00:12:14,526 --> 00:12:18,250 Le Conquet's always been "home", even if I don't live there. 193 00:12:18,370 --> 00:12:19,010 Jean! 194 00:12:19,651 --> 00:12:21,253 Help me! Quick! 195 00:12:23,374 --> 00:12:24,736 - Sir! - Jean! 196 00:12:25,737 --> 00:12:27,819 Squeeze my hand, sir. 197 00:12:29,420 --> 00:12:30,501 He's breathing. 198 00:12:32,303 --> 00:12:33,906 You'll be fine. 199 00:12:34,026 --> 00:12:35,267 Up we go, sir. 200 00:12:50,362 --> 00:12:51,683 What's the matter? 201 00:12:52,043 --> 00:12:53,365 Hug me! 202 00:12:54,125 --> 00:12:55,486 Tighter! 203 00:12:55,888 --> 00:12:57,609 Katia, I'll suffocate you. 204 00:13:00,772 --> 00:13:01,933 I could've done more. 205 00:13:01,933 --> 00:13:05,096 How? What you did was huge! 206 00:13:05,297 --> 00:13:06,418 No, it wasn't. 207 00:13:09,100 --> 00:13:10,581 - I'm going. - Let's go. 208 00:13:10,581 --> 00:13:12,784 No, I'm going alone. 209 00:13:13,145 --> 00:13:14,146 Okay. 210 00:13:14,146 --> 00:13:15,867 Call if you need to. 211 00:14:21,172 --> 00:14:23,455 Seminar The Autism Spectrum 212 00:14:38,030 --> 00:14:39,511 Take my glasses. 213 00:14:39,991 --> 00:14:42,634 - No, it's okay. - Yeah, go ahead. 214 00:14:44,316 --> 00:14:45,356 Thank you. 215 00:14:58,249 --> 00:14:59,931 - Thank you very much. - No problem. 216 00:15:02,454 --> 00:15:04,736 Hello. What organization are you from? 217 00:15:04,736 --> 00:15:06,057 What organization? 218 00:15:06,498 --> 00:15:09,260 None. I'm here to interview Ms. Vainedeau. 219 00:15:09,380 --> 00:15:11,663 Of course. The room at the end of the hall. 220 00:15:11,783 --> 00:15:14,065 Walk past the large room. 221 00:15:14,185 --> 00:15:17,108 It's the 2nd door on your right after the conference room. 222 00:15:17,228 --> 00:15:19,831 There's a decompression chamber on your left. 223 00:15:20,471 --> 00:15:22,554 - Have a nice interview. - Goodbye. 224 00:15:26,598 --> 00:15:27,919 - Katia? - Yes. 225 00:15:27,919 --> 00:15:29,601 Hi, come on in. 226 00:15:37,649 --> 00:15:41,012 I put the chair there, to have a bit more depth of field. 227 00:15:41,132 --> 00:15:42,254 Is that okay? 228 00:15:42,614 --> 00:15:43,775 Not exactly... 229 00:15:44,135 --> 00:15:45,216 Really? 230 00:15:45,737 --> 00:15:48,740 I didn't have the time to really prepare. 231 00:15:50,141 --> 00:15:51,623 But it'll be fine. 232 00:15:53,064 --> 00:15:55,387 And the chair... is that okay? 233 00:15:55,667 --> 00:15:56,668 The chair... 234 00:15:58,430 --> 00:15:59,470 Hello. 235 00:16:00,512 --> 00:16:03,355 France's passionate relationship with psychoanalysis 236 00:16:03,475 --> 00:16:06,798 played a major role in delaying the treatment of autism. 237 00:16:06,918 --> 00:16:09,561 At the time, autism was considered a mental illness. 238 00:16:10,802 --> 00:16:13,324 I don't know if you know Bruno Bettelheim... 239 00:16:14,126 --> 00:16:15,607 No. 240 00:16:15,727 --> 00:16:18,370 He believed autism was caused by "serious emotional deprivation" 241 00:16:18,370 --> 00:16:20,532 from the parents, especially the mother. 242 00:16:20,852 --> 00:16:22,334 Oh, really... 243 00:16:22,734 --> 00:16:26,017 But autism is not a disease, it's a neurodevelopmental condition 244 00:16:26,899 --> 00:16:29,661 that alters how one interacts with their environment. 245 00:16:30,342 --> 00:16:33,024 That's why I've devoted myself to this organization. 246 00:16:33,144 --> 00:16:37,228 As an autist, I need that exchange with those who've had similar experiences. 247 00:16:37,348 --> 00:16:38,630 Because you're autistic? 248 00:16:39,591 --> 00:16:41,393 And president of the organization? 249 00:16:42,274 --> 00:16:45,157 President is a legal function, a responsibility. 250 00:16:45,157 --> 00:16:47,118 It's not as prestigious as we think. 251 00:16:47,118 --> 00:16:49,040 We're all equal members here. 252 00:16:49,040 --> 00:16:52,363 Yes, you can be autistic and run an organization. 253 00:16:53,084 --> 00:16:54,005 And... 254 00:16:55,407 --> 00:16:56,969 Sorry to interrupt. 255 00:16:57,449 --> 00:17:00,091 - Ms. Vainedeau, you're up. - Be right there. 256 00:17:00,571 --> 00:17:02,013 Let me just take your mic. 257 00:17:03,976 --> 00:17:06,498 But I think there are still 258 00:17:06,498 --> 00:17:10,022 lots of interesting things to discuss. Could we continue later? 259 00:17:10,142 --> 00:17:12,744 Later, I can't. But if you're interested, 260 00:17:12,864 --> 00:17:14,666 stay for the conference. 261 00:17:14,786 --> 00:17:16,267 Okay, why not? 262 00:17:16,627 --> 00:17:18,390 Thanks so much for this exchange. 263 00:17:18,390 --> 00:17:20,672 - My pleasure. - Goodbye. 264 00:17:23,675 --> 00:17:28,159 Unlike our Swedish neighbors, for whom autism is a question of citizenship 265 00:17:28,280 --> 00:17:30,562 as much as a social issue, 266 00:17:30,562 --> 00:17:33,765 the funds allocated to families to educate their children 267 00:17:33,885 --> 00:17:37,329 is worlds apart from the funds allocated - or not - in France. 268 00:17:38,370 --> 00:17:40,452 We too often still find ourselves 269 00:17:41,092 --> 00:17:43,855 in the sad classic pattern 270 00:17:43,975 --> 00:17:45,697 of parents who can't find helpers 271 00:17:46,297 --> 00:17:49,021 to assist their children at school, or in suitable places. 272 00:17:49,861 --> 00:17:53,265 So mothers stop working to take care of their children. 273 00:17:53,385 --> 00:17:55,346 And fathers have to work even more 274 00:17:55,346 --> 00:17:57,589 because good support is very expensive. 275 00:17:57,709 --> 00:18:00,191 The lack of funds is also felt 276 00:18:00,191 --> 00:18:02,794 in delayed diagnoses, which take far too long. 277 00:18:03,115 --> 00:18:04,675 Professor Bélanger... 278 00:18:04,796 --> 00:18:07,919 I'd like to make one clarification, as a neuropsychologist. 279 00:18:08,039 --> 00:18:10,722 In Quebec, for an adult diagnosis, 280 00:18:10,722 --> 00:18:14,486 the average wait time in the private sector is 1 to 3 months. 281 00:18:17,409 --> 00:18:18,450 That's good but... 282 00:18:18,450 --> 00:18:20,812 Quebec is far to go for a diagnosis. 283 00:18:20,812 --> 00:18:24,496 There clearly aren't enough sufficiently trained specialists here. 284 00:18:25,016 --> 00:18:29,060 In fact, I'm often called to France for adult diagnostic assessments. 285 00:18:30,462 --> 00:18:32,864 Let's move on to our research work. 286 00:18:33,185 --> 00:18:36,708 High-functioning adult autistic women, 287 00:18:36,828 --> 00:18:38,670 who used to be called Asperger's, 288 00:18:38,670 --> 00:18:42,234 have great difficulty obtaining an accurate diagnosis. 289 00:18:42,234 --> 00:18:44,996 There's an estimated 3 to 4 times as many men, 290 00:18:44,996 --> 00:18:47,079 than women, on the autism spectrum. 291 00:18:47,719 --> 00:18:51,803 But that's certainly an underestimation, for two reasons. 292 00:18:51,803 --> 00:18:56,568 First of all, diagnostic criteria were established on a male population, 293 00:18:56,688 --> 00:18:58,771 as is often the case in clinical research. 294 00:18:58,891 --> 00:19:01,853 The second reason is that autistic women 295 00:19:01,973 --> 00:19:04,696 are better than their male counterparts 296 00:19:04,696 --> 00:19:07,699 at adapting and camouflaging themselves socially. 297 00:19:08,220 --> 00:19:10,742 But it's still a learning process 298 00:19:10,862 --> 00:19:12,503 that requires great effort. 299 00:19:12,503 --> 00:19:15,627 That explains why a phase of social camouflage 300 00:19:15,627 --> 00:19:18,390 can lead to considerable exhaustion. 301 00:19:19,471 --> 00:19:21,312 autistic women 302 00:19:25,837 --> 00:19:27,519 Hi, my name is Florence Mendez. 303 00:19:27,519 --> 00:19:29,521 Today, I've decided to discuss 304 00:19:29,521 --> 00:19:32,484 a disorder I have, which may not be obvious: 305 00:19:32,484 --> 00:19:34,686 Non-deficit Autism Spectrum Disorder. 306 00:19:35,287 --> 00:19:37,088 In fact, we say it's a disorder 307 00:19:37,088 --> 00:19:39,931 because there's not just one form of autism. 308 00:19:40,492 --> 00:19:44,576 Autism is a spectrum and we're all on different levels of that spectrum. 309 00:19:44,696 --> 00:19:47,419 I discovered that I was autistic very late, 310 00:19:47,419 --> 00:19:49,180 at the age of 30. 311 00:19:50,261 --> 00:19:51,343 Hello. 312 00:19:51,343 --> 00:19:53,545 Mom, it's a video call. Look at your phone. 313 00:19:53,545 --> 00:19:55,547 Is something wrong? 314 00:19:56,467 --> 00:19:59,311 - No, I'm fine. Why? - Katia, it's 6 a.m. 315 00:19:59,951 --> 00:20:01,353 Want me to call back? 316 00:20:03,074 --> 00:20:04,756 No, now I'm awake. 317 00:20:05,116 --> 00:20:07,759 - What's the matter? - I have a question. 318 00:20:08,800 --> 00:20:11,723 You always say I barely spoke when I was little. 319 00:20:12,484 --> 00:20:14,366 Could you give me any more details? 320 00:20:14,486 --> 00:20:17,369 Was I really antisocial or...? 321 00:20:17,369 --> 00:20:19,891 - In fact, that's two questions. - That's true. 322 00:20:19,891 --> 00:20:22,253 I had to rescue you on day 4 of kindergarten. 323 00:20:22,374 --> 00:20:24,496 You couldn't adapt. 324 00:20:24,896 --> 00:20:27,699 You were very shy, very afraid, 325 00:20:27,819 --> 00:20:29,381 playing alone in the school yard. 326 00:20:29,381 --> 00:20:32,784 You refused to participate in any group activities. 327 00:20:32,784 --> 00:20:36,027 I can't say you were a very talkative child. 328 00:20:36,027 --> 00:20:39,070 Yet, with your imaginary friends or your girlfriend, 329 00:20:39,471 --> 00:20:41,352 you couldn't stop talking! 330 00:20:42,835 --> 00:20:44,275 Katia? 331 00:20:44,956 --> 00:20:45,837 Yes... 332 00:20:48,359 --> 00:20:50,082 You still coming on the 28th? 333 00:20:50,082 --> 00:20:52,243 The 28th or the 29th, I don't remember. 334 00:20:53,725 --> 00:20:55,206 You said the 28th. 335 00:20:56,447 --> 00:20:58,490 Then it must be the 28th. 336 00:20:58,891 --> 00:20:59,811 See you soon! 337 00:20:59,811 --> 00:21:01,933 Love you, honey. Bye. 338 00:21:13,224 --> 00:21:14,786 I love this song! 339 00:21:15,467 --> 00:21:16,468 I requested it. 340 00:21:17,749 --> 00:21:18,710 No way! 341 00:21:18,710 --> 00:21:20,071 No, you're right. 342 00:22:01,553 --> 00:22:03,155 I wanna fuck! 343 00:22:04,756 --> 00:22:06,117 Katia, stop! 344 00:22:47,278 --> 00:22:48,560 You hungry? 345 00:22:49,481 --> 00:22:50,562 What? 346 00:22:51,122 --> 00:22:52,363 You hungry? 347 00:22:52,844 --> 00:22:55,246 You switch gears way too fast. 348 00:22:55,246 --> 00:22:56,447 Sorry. 349 00:22:58,490 --> 00:23:00,091 Want me to caress you? 350 00:23:01,373 --> 00:23:03,295 Stop! Don't force yourself. 351 00:23:03,735 --> 00:23:05,617 I just find it ridiculous. 352 00:23:05,617 --> 00:23:08,340 That whole romantic thing. I don't feel stuff like that. 353 00:23:09,020 --> 00:23:13,265 It's true, I like all that romantic stuff. 354 00:23:13,505 --> 00:23:15,227 I'm one big cliché. 355 00:23:16,428 --> 00:23:18,429 Or I could be the one who... 356 00:23:18,990 --> 00:23:20,872 Stop! I don't like it. 357 00:23:20,993 --> 00:23:22,273 It's crazy. 358 00:23:22,594 --> 00:23:24,716 It's really crazy! 359 00:23:24,716 --> 00:23:27,639 After all that? I'm stopping. 360 00:23:37,008 --> 00:23:38,449 You working? 361 00:23:38,570 --> 00:23:39,811 It's 4 a.m. 362 00:23:40,372 --> 00:23:42,774 Am I really different than other people? 363 00:23:44,536 --> 00:23:47,899 Is that really the conversation you wanna have now? 364 00:23:48,460 --> 00:23:49,982 Please... 365 00:23:58,229 --> 00:24:00,352 Yes, you're very different. 366 00:24:03,515 --> 00:24:06,518 Am I someone who doesn't like changing my routine? 367 00:24:06,518 --> 00:24:09,041 Who checks things 1,000 times to be sure it's okay? 368 00:24:09,041 --> 00:24:11,603 Who doesn't like people much? Who's too frank? 369 00:24:11,723 --> 00:24:15,046 Hyper sensitive to light and noise? Often exhausted? 370 00:24:15,166 --> 00:24:17,489 Who doesn't really understand irony? 371 00:24:17,729 --> 00:24:18,970 "Yes" to everything. 372 00:24:19,090 --> 00:24:21,533 Except for the irony. 373 00:24:22,173 --> 00:24:26,578 It's not that you don't "really" get it. You don't get it, period. 374 00:24:26,858 --> 00:24:27,379 Period? 375 00:24:28,260 --> 00:24:34,105 But despite all your eccentricities, social phobia, compulsiveness, 376 00:24:34,105 --> 00:24:37,228 I love you. If that's what's worrying you? 377 00:24:40,072 --> 00:24:42,914 I'm just wondering if I may not be autistic. 378 00:24:45,437 --> 00:24:47,599 Autistic? Okay. 379 00:24:48,079 --> 00:24:49,521 Where'd that come from? 380 00:24:54,846 --> 00:24:59,131 I may not check all the boxes. Some things aren't exactly me. 381 00:24:59,771 --> 00:25:01,453 Some things used to be like me, 382 00:25:01,573 --> 00:25:03,454 but not anymore. 383 00:25:04,295 --> 00:25:07,539 I'm ashamed for even thinking it, if it's not that. 384 00:25:08,340 --> 00:25:11,663 Some things match, but they match a lot people, so... 385 00:25:11,944 --> 00:25:12,784 Yeah. 386 00:25:14,506 --> 00:25:17,108 I know why you're getting so worked up. 387 00:25:17,108 --> 00:25:20,392 You're so into your research that you identify. 388 00:25:22,393 --> 00:25:25,276 Isn't it autistic people who can't look you in the eye? 389 00:25:26,157 --> 00:25:28,159 - Yeah. - You see! 390 00:25:33,445 --> 00:25:34,886 - Coming back to bed? - Yes. 391 00:25:50,742 --> 00:25:53,144 Why didn't you take cover somewhere? 392 00:25:53,144 --> 00:25:56,067 You said, "On the square in front of the statue." 393 00:25:56,067 --> 00:25:59,551 There's no cover there. And my phone's almost dead. 394 00:25:59,671 --> 00:26:02,353 Okay, okay! Get in! 395 00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:09,281 Take off your scarf. 396 00:26:10,802 --> 00:26:12,043 Dry off. 397 00:26:17,249 --> 00:26:18,931 Is this a new car? 398 00:26:19,090 --> 00:26:19,771 Yeah. 399 00:26:19,891 --> 00:26:21,172 The other one was fried. 400 00:26:23,214 --> 00:26:24,536 Go on, say it. 401 00:26:25,737 --> 00:26:27,218 I liked the old one better. 402 00:26:27,338 --> 00:26:29,260 I knew you'd say that! 403 00:26:29,501 --> 00:26:31,703 But this one works. It's more practical. 404 00:26:37,589 --> 00:26:39,871 When I wanna leave, I leave. 405 00:26:41,352 --> 00:26:42,714 Shit! 406 00:26:43,715 --> 00:26:45,196 Are you mad? 407 00:26:45,316 --> 00:26:47,118 No, why would I be mad? 408 00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:49,681 There it is! 409 00:26:55,447 --> 00:26:58,771 - So don't give me shit. - You're a broken record now. 410 00:26:58,771 --> 00:27:01,052 You can leave whenever you want. 411 00:27:01,373 --> 00:27:04,896 But stay a while! Meet my buddies. 412 00:27:07,139 --> 00:27:08,900 I'm here, okay? 413 00:27:13,184 --> 00:27:14,666 Happy birthday! 414 00:27:14,666 --> 00:27:17,549 - How are you? Present! - Thank you. 415 00:27:17,669 --> 00:27:20,672 - Lucie, this is Katia. - Nice to meet you, Katia! 416 00:27:21,913 --> 00:27:24,595 Come in! Make yourself at home. - Happy birthday... 417 00:27:24,595 --> 00:27:26,117 Hi, Katia! 418 00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:30,282 Nice to meet you. 419 00:27:31,123 --> 00:27:32,764 - How are you? - Fine. 420 00:27:46,458 --> 00:27:48,740 Now you've completely lost me. 421 00:27:48,860 --> 00:27:51,183 I haven't spoken Arpitan in ages. 422 00:27:52,704 --> 00:27:54,786 How is it you speak it so well? 423 00:27:55,346 --> 00:27:58,710 I'm from Isère. Growing up, I learned several region languages. 424 00:27:58,830 --> 00:28:02,473 Now I speak 7 perfectly. 425 00:28:02,473 --> 00:28:04,716 - You're a linguist? - Not at all. 426 00:28:05,997 --> 00:28:07,279 Then what use is it? 427 00:28:08,921 --> 00:28:12,163 I don't know, I love it! And now I can teach others. 428 00:28:12,643 --> 00:28:15,006 I volunteer on a regional language website. 429 00:28:15,006 --> 00:28:17,889 Volunteer? I'd have loved to do that. 430 00:28:18,009 --> 00:28:19,811 Great! You can teach me. 431 00:28:20,572 --> 00:28:22,533 Live, not virtually! 432 00:28:22,533 --> 00:28:25,497 Then we can get a bite together, huh? 433 00:28:25,617 --> 00:28:28,500 - Get a bite together, huh? - Exactly. 434 00:28:28,620 --> 00:28:30,822 Know what, give me your number. 435 00:28:31,143 --> 00:28:32,664 It's 06... 436 00:28:33,225 --> 00:28:34,826 06 or 07...? 437 00:28:35,747 --> 00:28:38,390 - 06... - 06, like me... 438 00:28:38,950 --> 00:28:40,352 And then? 439 00:28:41,713 --> 00:28:43,394 - Matéo! - Be right with you. 440 00:28:43,394 --> 00:28:46,037 No, she's Fred's girlfriend. 441 00:28:46,277 --> 00:28:47,319 Shit! 442 00:28:48,520 --> 00:28:51,323 - I didn't know. - Now you know. 443 00:28:51,443 --> 00:28:53,245 - If you ever break up... - No, no! 444 00:28:53,245 --> 00:28:55,006 Just kidding! 445 00:28:55,006 --> 00:28:56,327 Have fun! 446 00:28:56,928 --> 00:28:58,290 He wasn't too pushy? 447 00:28:59,291 --> 00:29:00,612 I'm not really sure. 448 00:29:01,052 --> 00:29:02,373 I don't think so. 449 00:29:06,618 --> 00:29:08,179 It's cool that you came. 450 00:29:14,546 --> 00:29:16,188 - See ya? - See ya. 451 00:29:22,033 --> 00:29:24,436 Katia, this is Nico and... 452 00:29:24,556 --> 00:29:25,917 Aurélie. Hi. 453 00:29:26,198 --> 00:29:28,559 Seriously? You don't remember me? 454 00:29:29,321 --> 00:29:30,883 I'm from Le Conquet, too! 455 00:29:31,763 --> 00:29:33,524 Aurelie, Tiago's girlfriend! 456 00:29:33,645 --> 00:29:34,646 I used to be. 457 00:29:34,646 --> 00:29:37,209 - So sorry. - No big deal. 458 00:29:37,209 --> 00:29:39,691 Right, no big deal! 459 00:29:41,333 --> 00:29:42,894 Come on! Let's dance! 460 00:30:25,337 --> 00:30:27,619 - Katia, where you going? - I'm leaving. 461 00:30:27,739 --> 00:30:29,741 Not so soon! 462 00:30:29,981 --> 00:30:32,704 You said you wouldn't give me shit when I left. 463 00:30:33,665 --> 00:30:37,028 Before you go, won't you just dance with me? 464 00:30:37,028 --> 00:30:38,710 I don't want to. 465 00:30:38,910 --> 00:30:40,192 Come on, Katia! 466 00:30:40,192 --> 00:30:42,193 Come on, it's my birthday! 467 00:30:57,288 --> 00:30:58,530 You okay? 468 00:31:06,778 --> 00:31:07,939 Katia! 469 00:31:08,380 --> 00:31:11,062 Let me go! 470 00:31:52,024 --> 00:31:53,785 - Did you sleep out here? - Yeah. 471 00:31:55,707 --> 00:31:58,990 I didn't wanna wake you. But I didn't wanna miss you, either. 472 00:31:59,110 --> 00:32:01,673 I'm really sorry about... 473 00:32:02,274 --> 00:32:05,636 Please forgive me for last night, I'm a real jerk. 474 00:32:06,518 --> 00:32:08,360 We should never have gotten back together. 475 00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:11,563 I can't be how you want me to be. 476 00:32:11,883 --> 00:32:13,845 So if you wanna break up, we'll break up. 477 00:32:19,731 --> 00:32:21,212 Is that what you want? 478 00:32:22,253 --> 00:32:23,575 No, but... 479 00:32:23,695 --> 00:32:24,977 We're too different. 480 00:32:25,097 --> 00:32:27,939 No, not too different. We're just a little different. 481 00:32:28,219 --> 00:32:31,703 Every minute I spend with you is so full. 482 00:32:33,384 --> 00:32:35,227 That's what suffocates me, but... 483 00:32:35,507 --> 00:32:38,469 I mean, you're... you're intense! 484 00:32:39,351 --> 00:32:42,594 Yet, you're totally out of it. 485 00:32:42,594 --> 00:32:45,797 Sometimes you don't get what's right in front of you. 486 00:32:45,797 --> 00:32:47,238 I mean you're... 487 00:32:48,881 --> 00:32:51,122 myopic to life! 488 00:32:51,122 --> 00:32:54,285 And I love that. I love you. 489 00:33:06,097 --> 00:33:08,179 I wanna kiss you, but I'd better not. 490 00:33:08,179 --> 00:33:10,622 Because my breath is pretty much illegal. 491 00:33:11,503 --> 00:33:13,265 I confirm that. 492 00:33:22,594 --> 00:33:24,475 What are you doing in here? 493 00:33:24,595 --> 00:33:25,997 What are you doing here? 494 00:33:25,997 --> 00:33:27,759 I just came to get a file. 495 00:33:33,605 --> 00:33:37,609 Katia, I don't think you totally get the "open space" concept. 496 00:33:38,730 --> 00:33:40,291 You could make an effort. 497 00:33:42,053 --> 00:33:43,255 Jeff! 498 00:33:43,655 --> 00:33:46,098 Next week, I need 2 or 3 days off. 499 00:33:46,098 --> 00:33:49,861 But I'll work at home and won't be late. Is that okay with you? 500 00:33:50,782 --> 00:33:52,424 Yeah, I trust you. 501 00:33:53,024 --> 00:33:54,346 A family problem? 502 00:33:54,866 --> 00:33:55,827 No. 503 00:34:02,473 --> 00:34:03,395 Okay. 504 00:34:10,922 --> 00:34:14,366 I've had several shrinks over several years, 505 00:34:14,366 --> 00:34:18,730 who've said I was depressed, anxious, and possibly 506 00:34:18,970 --> 00:34:20,172 bipolar. 507 00:34:20,172 --> 00:34:22,774 I've taken antidepressants. 508 00:34:23,494 --> 00:34:26,899 I've tried other medications, but nothing really helped. 509 00:34:26,899 --> 00:34:28,299 Quite the contrary. 510 00:34:29,341 --> 00:34:32,063 But the most violent period was my adolescence, 511 00:34:32,664 --> 00:34:35,186 with depression, with... 512 00:34:35,627 --> 00:34:36,988 a longing to... 513 00:34:37,989 --> 00:34:39,511 end it all. 514 00:34:41,153 --> 00:34:42,874 And your work? 515 00:34:43,995 --> 00:34:46,398 I've gone from one job to another. 516 00:34:46,398 --> 00:34:48,079 Either because... 517 00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:50,001 I got fired 518 00:34:50,242 --> 00:34:52,884 for not being enough of a team player. 519 00:34:53,004 --> 00:34:56,008 Or because I couldn't keep up the pace. 520 00:34:56,408 --> 00:34:58,650 People might think I'm lazy, 521 00:34:58,650 --> 00:35:01,853 but it's not that. 522 00:35:02,694 --> 00:35:04,736 Sometimes I'm completely exhausted. 523 00:35:07,459 --> 00:35:10,742 Then I look at others and I wonder how they do it. 524 00:35:12,223 --> 00:35:14,305 At the moment, do you have a job? 525 00:35:15,146 --> 00:35:17,389 Yes, at the moment, I have a job. 526 00:35:17,989 --> 00:35:19,071 Which I love. 527 00:35:19,191 --> 00:35:21,032 I'm a researcher. 528 00:35:21,673 --> 00:35:24,715 But, unfortunately, that may end, yet again. 529 00:35:24,715 --> 00:35:27,358 And I'll have to move back in with my mother 530 00:35:27,358 --> 00:35:30,361 in Grenoble, in Isère, zip code 38660... 531 00:35:31,443 --> 00:35:35,326 Are you in or have you had romantic relationships? 532 00:35:36,407 --> 00:35:39,651 Let's say I've always had complicated relationships... 533 00:35:40,051 --> 00:35:42,374 and sometimes fairly violent. 534 00:35:42,734 --> 00:35:44,976 Have you experienced sexual violence? 535 00:35:44,976 --> 00:35:46,138 No. 536 00:35:46,417 --> 00:35:47,659 I don't think so. 537 00:35:47,779 --> 00:35:51,663 I ask because that's common among autistic women. 538 00:35:51,783 --> 00:35:54,986 Studies indicate a victimization rate of nearly 88%. 539 00:35:58,509 --> 00:36:01,272 I received the questionnaires you sent me by email. 540 00:36:01,272 --> 00:36:04,236 So if you're ready we can begin, okay? 541 00:36:04,636 --> 00:36:05,437 Yes. 542 00:36:06,518 --> 00:36:10,161 Select the word that best describes this expression. 543 00:36:16,288 --> 00:36:17,689 Playful? 544 00:36:24,416 --> 00:36:27,939 annoyed - sarcastic - worried - insolent 545 00:36:31,222 --> 00:36:32,904 Sarcastic... 546 00:36:35,867 --> 00:36:39,631 pensive - joyful - sad - amused 547 00:36:43,715 --> 00:36:44,916 Sad. 548 00:36:51,523 --> 00:36:54,646 As a child, did you like to play alone or with other kids? 549 00:36:54,646 --> 00:36:56,087 Alone. 550 00:36:56,568 --> 00:36:59,491 Except for Pauline, my neighbor. 551 00:36:59,891 --> 00:37:01,532 I loved spending time with her. 552 00:37:01,532 --> 00:37:03,174 She was my best friend. 553 00:37:03,695 --> 00:37:06,217 Back then, what was your favorite activity? 554 00:37:06,458 --> 00:37:08,299 I loved to draw. 555 00:37:08,940 --> 00:37:11,703 I loved drawing the planets, 556 00:37:11,823 --> 00:37:14,226 the stars, the universe. 557 00:37:14,346 --> 00:37:18,951 As a child, did you get along better with adults or children? 558 00:37:19,351 --> 00:37:20,351 Adults. 559 00:37:20,792 --> 00:37:22,074 And Pauline. 560 00:37:23,515 --> 00:37:24,796 My friend. 561 00:37:34,966 --> 00:37:36,888 Fred: Still working nonstop? 562 00:37:38,049 --> 00:37:40,011 Yes 563 00:37:47,659 --> 00:37:51,543 If the European parliament adopts the law, they didn't propose it. 564 00:37:55,627 --> 00:37:58,310 This internal server's a pain! 565 00:37:58,430 --> 00:38:01,633 What good is a new office, if the equipment's shit? 566 00:38:07,318 --> 00:38:08,520 Is that Fred? 567 00:38:08,520 --> 00:38:09,882 Yes. 568 00:38:09,882 --> 00:38:12,283 He's at the cafe next door, waiting for me. 569 00:38:13,244 --> 00:38:14,766 Here, catch! 570 00:39:32,884 --> 00:39:35,407 Hi, this is Fred. Leave me a message. 571 00:39:52,304 --> 00:39:53,545 What was up yesterday? 572 00:39:54,466 --> 00:39:56,467 Where were you? I called you nonstop. 573 00:39:56,628 --> 00:39:58,630 What are you doing? 574 00:39:59,871 --> 00:40:02,954 I thought we were having a drink alone, not with other people. 575 00:40:03,314 --> 00:40:04,756 I never said it was alone. 576 00:40:07,198 --> 00:40:09,120 Wait, so that means you came. 577 00:40:10,041 --> 00:40:11,803 Fuck, Katia! 578 00:40:12,484 --> 00:40:14,165 Let's not start again. 579 00:40:14,286 --> 00:40:16,889 I accept your anti-social thing to a certain point. 580 00:40:17,009 --> 00:40:20,211 We can't live cut off from the world, as if no one else exists. 581 00:40:20,211 --> 00:40:23,855 It's not normal to constantly separate my love life from the rest. 582 00:40:23,975 --> 00:40:24,936 Stop! 583 00:40:25,056 --> 00:40:26,779 Don't get all worked up. 584 00:40:27,179 --> 00:40:29,020 I don't want you to get upset. 585 00:40:29,260 --> 00:40:30,501 - Katia... - Yes? 586 00:40:31,062 --> 00:40:32,183 Look at me. 587 00:40:33,625 --> 00:40:34,506 Yes. 588 00:40:35,947 --> 00:40:38,910 What do you want me to say? 589 00:40:38,910 --> 00:40:40,992 Do you realize that hurts me? 590 00:40:42,033 --> 00:40:45,236 That you don't wanna share those moments with me? 591 00:40:45,557 --> 00:40:47,719 I swear, it's stronger than I am. 592 00:40:49,561 --> 00:40:52,444 Why do you need to prove to others that we love each other? 593 00:40:52,444 --> 00:40:55,047 Because we're human. That's human. 594 00:40:55,047 --> 00:40:58,089 I need to share what we experience. Or I suffocate! 595 00:40:58,530 --> 00:40:59,851 Well, not me. 596 00:41:01,172 --> 00:41:02,934 I suffocate with other people. 597 00:41:03,655 --> 00:41:05,177 I need more. 598 00:41:06,938 --> 00:41:10,622 I need you to express more, more affection, more tenderness. 599 00:41:11,103 --> 00:41:14,305 I feel like I'm constantly begging. You've never been... 600 00:41:16,188 --> 00:41:17,829 very demonstrative. But... 601 00:41:18,510 --> 00:41:20,152 I'm sick of it. 602 00:41:22,314 --> 00:41:24,475 - I love you, Fred. - Then say so. 603 00:41:24,836 --> 00:41:26,157 Show me. 604 00:41:27,198 --> 00:41:30,241 Stop being so detached, as if nothing moves you. 605 00:41:33,244 --> 00:41:34,726 That's not it. 606 00:41:35,206 --> 00:41:36,568 I'm not like that. 607 00:41:57,909 --> 00:41:59,070 What? 608 00:41:59,871 --> 00:42:03,915 How do you show someone your love? 609 00:42:04,035 --> 00:42:05,276 You mean like desire? 610 00:42:05,677 --> 00:42:07,599 Because there's desire, and desire. 611 00:42:07,960 --> 00:42:10,242 Like, "I like you. 612 00:42:10,882 --> 00:42:12,764 "Do you like me?" Flirting around. 613 00:42:12,764 --> 00:42:14,006 Then there's pure lust. 614 00:42:14,766 --> 00:42:18,570 I'm not talking about sex. How do you show someone you love them? 615 00:42:18,570 --> 00:42:20,932 I don't know. It happens naturally. 616 00:42:21,212 --> 00:42:24,055 It depends on the situation and who you're with. 617 00:42:24,055 --> 00:42:25,497 But you... 618 00:42:26,058 --> 00:42:27,338 Is it an effort or...? 619 00:42:27,459 --> 00:42:30,542 A ton of effort! I'm not single for nothing. 620 00:42:31,903 --> 00:42:33,505 Are you talking about Fred? 621 00:42:42,514 --> 00:42:44,956 show your love 622 00:43:21,673 --> 00:43:22,754 Can I come in? 623 00:43:33,244 --> 00:43:34,766 Could you sit down? 624 00:43:35,046 --> 00:43:35,887 Yeah. 625 00:43:35,887 --> 00:43:37,248 Why? 626 00:43:37,368 --> 00:43:38,690 Just sit down. 627 00:43:39,811 --> 00:43:42,453 When I cue you, hit the play button. 628 00:43:42,453 --> 00:43:44,375 - But not before. - Okay. 629 00:43:48,860 --> 00:43:50,382 - Can you hit play? - Yeah. 630 00:44:26,257 --> 00:44:27,459 Was it bad? 631 00:44:29,060 --> 00:44:30,501 It's just not you. 632 00:44:38,069 --> 00:44:39,270 Katia! 633 00:44:45,637 --> 00:44:47,118 Fuck, Katia... 634 00:45:31,123 --> 00:45:32,844 You've got me spouting gibberish! 635 00:45:32,964 --> 00:45:35,206 Yes. I'm terrible at languages. 636 00:45:35,206 --> 00:45:36,287 So now... 637 00:45:37,128 --> 00:45:38,250 Be right back. 638 00:45:40,011 --> 00:45:43,134 Thanks for the interview. It's great! 639 00:45:43,134 --> 00:45:45,056 It'll take years to assemble, but... 640 00:45:45,056 --> 00:45:46,858 - No way! - No. 641 00:45:46,858 --> 00:45:49,180 Just a few hours. 642 00:45:49,300 --> 00:45:50,942 - I'm sorry. - No. 643 00:45:51,063 --> 00:45:53,705 It's cool. I have lots of material. Thanks. 644 00:45:54,907 --> 00:45:56,587 Bye. 645 00:46:08,320 --> 00:46:09,721 Are you prepared? 646 00:46:10,081 --> 00:46:11,723 Let me know if you need anything. 647 00:46:14,406 --> 00:46:17,529 Your clinical interviews and assessments 648 00:46:17,529 --> 00:46:20,532 have clearly resulted in a diagnosis of autism. 649 00:46:25,577 --> 00:46:28,980 Now it's important to discuss how autism manifests itself, 650 00:46:29,821 --> 00:46:33,625 so you can identify how you function. 651 00:46:33,625 --> 00:46:36,588 And so you can finally feel like yourself. 652 00:46:37,148 --> 00:46:39,430 I'll give you certain characteristics. 653 00:46:39,430 --> 00:46:41,994 Some will speak to you, others much less. 654 00:46:41,994 --> 00:46:45,196 But they're very common among all autistic people. 655 00:46:46,838 --> 00:46:50,242 Above all, a sense of being on display before others, 656 00:46:50,242 --> 00:46:51,683 other than your loved ones. 657 00:46:51,683 --> 00:46:54,486 A feeling of a lack of authenticity. 658 00:46:54,486 --> 00:46:56,248 Perhaps a lack of social life. 659 00:46:56,248 --> 00:47:00,331 Great difficulty in engaging in small talk. 660 00:47:01,333 --> 00:47:04,096 The need to stay at home, in a reassuring place. 661 00:47:05,016 --> 00:47:07,058 The need for strict routines, 662 00:47:07,058 --> 00:47:09,140 so you can function at your best. 663 00:47:09,140 --> 00:47:13,064 An anxiety of the unexpected can completely engulf you. 664 00:47:13,986 --> 00:47:16,188 A huge appetite for knowledge, 665 00:47:16,308 --> 00:47:20,191 which in your case must be satisfied by your journalistic research. 666 00:47:20,672 --> 00:47:23,074 Extreme frankness. Too much, sometimes. 667 00:47:23,195 --> 00:47:24,996 But also great loyalty. 668 00:47:27,198 --> 00:47:30,282 It's important to understand, you're not incapable. 669 00:47:31,603 --> 00:47:33,365 You're not inferior. 670 00:47:33,365 --> 00:47:34,966 You're different. 671 00:47:38,530 --> 00:47:39,811 Do you understand? 672 00:47:44,056 --> 00:47:45,096 Yes. 673 00:47:46,417 --> 00:47:47,899 I understand. 674 00:47:57,949 --> 00:47:59,911 I'm not crazy. 675 00:48:05,997 --> 00:48:07,519 Yes, I'm relieved. 676 00:48:07,519 --> 00:48:08,960 I'm relieved. 677 00:48:20,892 --> 00:48:22,814 - Hello, Mom? - Hi, honey. 678 00:48:22,935 --> 00:48:27,139 There's something I have to tell you. - Is it urgent? I'm on my way out. 679 00:48:28,339 --> 00:48:30,822 No, it's not really urgent. 680 00:48:31,903 --> 00:48:33,865 Then it'd be better to talk tomorrow. 681 00:48:34,345 --> 00:48:36,187 I'll be home late. 682 00:48:36,187 --> 00:48:39,671 Tomorrow I'll be at the Gelbers. They have a lousy connection. 683 00:48:40,312 --> 00:48:42,033 We could try! 684 00:48:42,033 --> 00:48:43,875 But I'll see you next week. 685 00:48:43,875 --> 00:48:47,238 Then we can chat to our hearts' desire. 686 00:48:47,759 --> 00:48:49,561 Next week. Okay. 687 00:48:49,561 --> 00:48:50,602 Okay? 688 00:48:50,722 --> 00:48:52,524 Love you, honey. 689 00:48:52,524 --> 00:48:53,885 Bye. 690 00:49:24,475 --> 00:49:26,958 He's upset that I didn't recognize him. 691 00:49:26,958 --> 00:49:30,361 I'm not like Katia. She registers everything she sees. 692 00:49:30,482 --> 00:49:33,365 She's a hard disk. But I'm a soft disk! 693 00:49:33,365 --> 00:49:35,767 The info I had... Gone, forgotten. 694 00:49:35,887 --> 00:49:37,449 I'm a goldfish. 695 00:49:37,449 --> 00:49:39,211 Have a nice lunch. 696 00:49:39,931 --> 00:49:41,893 I'm happy you just dropped by. 697 00:49:41,893 --> 00:49:44,976 - I tried to call you. - Sorry, I didn't hear. 698 00:49:45,497 --> 00:49:47,059 What do you wanna eat? 699 00:49:47,059 --> 00:49:49,381 I have something to tell you. 700 00:49:51,022 --> 00:49:52,824 I went to be diagnosed. 701 00:49:52,944 --> 00:49:55,106 - Diagnosed for what? - Autism. 702 00:49:56,508 --> 00:49:58,830 You didn't tell me. That's not like you. 703 00:49:58,830 --> 00:50:02,954 I couldn't have done it, if I told you. You didn't believe it. 704 00:50:03,074 --> 00:50:05,437 Sorry, it's just so improbable. 705 00:50:05,437 --> 00:50:08,159 Fine, it's done now. 706 00:50:08,640 --> 00:50:10,041 No, you don't understand. 707 00:50:10,522 --> 00:50:11,883 I am... 708 00:50:12,444 --> 00:50:13,805 autistic. 709 00:50:15,246 --> 00:50:16,688 I know, it's crazy. 710 00:50:17,689 --> 00:50:18,770 It's crazy. 711 00:50:19,051 --> 00:50:20,611 For sure? 712 00:50:20,611 --> 00:50:22,053 Yes, for sure. 713 00:50:24,055 --> 00:50:27,419 I didn't expect it to comfort me so much. 714 00:50:28,780 --> 00:50:31,583 It's everything I am, I was. 715 00:50:31,583 --> 00:50:33,545 Everything I feel. 716 00:50:34,386 --> 00:50:35,987 I have the diagnostic feedback. 717 00:50:36,708 --> 00:50:38,790 I think it would be good if you read it. 718 00:50:38,910 --> 00:50:42,594 It explains a lot, so you can understand. 719 00:50:42,594 --> 00:50:44,155 Maybe later. 720 00:50:45,277 --> 00:50:46,998 It's kind of abrupt. 721 00:50:49,842 --> 00:50:52,483 What'll that change? I mean, between us? 722 00:50:54,206 --> 00:50:55,287 Nothing. 723 00:50:56,047 --> 00:50:57,209 I don't think. 724 00:51:00,171 --> 00:51:02,294 - I dunno... - Okay. 725 00:51:02,854 --> 00:51:05,297 But I'm still the same person. 726 00:51:12,223 --> 00:51:13,305 Finally! 727 00:51:15,026 --> 00:51:19,311 Brushing your teeth for hours like that, you'll wind up with just gums. 728 00:51:19,551 --> 00:51:21,393 Not hours, just 3 and a half minutes. 729 00:51:21,393 --> 00:51:22,594 Really? 730 00:51:23,395 --> 00:51:24,676 Let's see. 731 00:51:24,796 --> 00:51:25,877 Great! 732 00:51:26,558 --> 00:51:28,840 No, perfect gums. 733 00:51:28,840 --> 00:51:31,202 Excellent job! 734 00:51:55,267 --> 00:51:57,789 A friend's playing at a bar tonight. 735 00:51:57,909 --> 00:51:59,511 I don't know if you wanna come. 736 00:52:00,311 --> 00:52:02,554 You don't have to, given... 737 00:52:02,554 --> 00:52:03,595 all that. 738 00:52:06,758 --> 00:52:07,919 You want me to come? 739 00:52:09,681 --> 00:52:11,523 I'd love us to go together. 740 00:52:11,643 --> 00:52:14,286 But I don't want it to be painful for you. 741 00:52:15,207 --> 00:52:17,769 There'll be a crowd, noise, conversations... 742 00:52:18,049 --> 00:52:19,370 Yeah, a concert. 743 00:52:21,613 --> 00:52:23,455 - Yeah, a concert. - Okay. 744 00:53:06,097 --> 00:53:07,339 Sorry, if I scared you. 745 00:53:07,339 --> 00:53:09,781 Turn down the volume. Your phone's ringing. 746 00:53:11,663 --> 00:53:13,425 Unknown caller. I'm not answering. 747 00:53:13,425 --> 00:53:15,347 A new look? Ready for vacation? 748 00:53:16,468 --> 00:53:19,030 No, but I have something incredible to tell you. 749 00:53:19,030 --> 00:53:21,353 It'll have to wait. I'm running late. 750 00:53:21,353 --> 00:53:23,114 I have a bunch of meetings. 751 00:53:23,234 --> 00:53:25,957 I have to skip boxing, to see the company doctor. 752 00:53:25,957 --> 00:53:27,078 Did you go? 753 00:53:27,358 --> 00:53:28,439 Yes. 754 00:53:52,704 --> 00:53:54,466 - I'm going outside. - Wait! 755 00:53:54,466 --> 00:53:56,868 - Hey, Fred! - Johnny, how's it going? 756 00:53:58,149 --> 00:53:59,951 - Hey, buddy! - This is Katia. 757 00:54:00,071 --> 00:54:01,473 - Hi, Katia. - Hi. 758 00:54:04,075 --> 00:54:06,398 You okay? It wasn't too painful? 759 00:54:07,318 --> 00:54:09,961 You wore headphones during the entire set. 760 00:54:10,562 --> 00:54:11,923 Listening to something else? 761 00:54:12,043 --> 00:54:14,406 No, it's to tone down the noise. 762 00:54:15,126 --> 00:54:17,168 The "noise"... You really didn't like it. 763 00:54:18,650 --> 00:54:20,412 Not at all. It's because... 764 00:54:21,973 --> 00:54:24,256 because I'm autistic. 765 00:54:24,816 --> 00:54:25,617 Autistic? 766 00:54:26,058 --> 00:54:28,179 - Yes. - You don't seem autistic. 767 00:54:29,501 --> 00:54:30,582 She is. 768 00:54:33,985 --> 00:54:35,707 Like Asperger's? 769 00:54:36,147 --> 00:54:37,348 Exactly. 770 00:54:37,348 --> 00:54:41,192 Like The Good Doctor, R ain Man, all that! 771 00:54:41,192 --> 00:54:44,916 The brother who does all that wild stuff - counting cards, matches... 772 00:54:45,356 --> 00:54:47,479 So what's your thing? 773 00:54:48,520 --> 00:54:49,601 My thing? 774 00:54:49,601 --> 00:54:51,683 No, nothing. I mean, I don't know. 775 00:54:51,803 --> 00:54:54,486 - If I had a chick who... - Johnny, we gotta go, man. 776 00:54:54,606 --> 00:54:57,769 It was a blast to see you on stage. Thanks! 777 00:54:57,769 --> 00:54:59,491 And keep in touch! 778 00:54:59,491 --> 00:55:01,292 Thanks, man! 779 00:55:01,412 --> 00:55:02,614 Bye, Katia. 780 00:55:06,018 --> 00:55:08,780 Still, you don't have to blurt it out like that. 781 00:55:08,780 --> 00:55:12,143 - Why? Should I hide it? - No, not at all. 782 00:55:12,744 --> 00:55:15,827 It's just that no one knows exactly what it is. 783 00:55:17,829 --> 00:55:20,912 - I'm gonna get fired. - They can't fire you for that. 784 00:55:20,912 --> 00:55:22,153 Did you tell them? 785 00:55:22,153 --> 00:55:25,117 No, but with the redundancy plan, I'm sure to go. 786 00:55:25,117 --> 00:55:28,159 Sure, they can always use the economic cover. 787 00:55:29,201 --> 00:55:30,562 In any case, 788 00:55:30,682 --> 00:55:33,325 if you're fired, you'll always find another job. 789 00:55:33,805 --> 00:55:36,808 You don't get it. That's too complicated for me. 790 00:55:36,929 --> 00:55:40,612 I don't know how to job hunt. I don't know how to sell myself. 791 00:55:40,772 --> 00:55:42,934 Marie found this job for me! 792 00:55:43,255 --> 00:55:45,017 I'm not capable of doing that. 793 00:55:45,137 --> 00:55:46,218 You don't understand! 794 00:55:46,218 --> 00:55:48,980 Calm down. We'll find something. 795 00:55:51,382 --> 00:55:52,824 If you don't say anything, 796 00:55:53,304 --> 00:55:54,946 no one will notice. 797 00:55:54,946 --> 00:55:56,508 Like up until now. 798 00:56:42,234 --> 00:56:45,517 I know you don't like surprises. But welcome to my home! 799 00:56:45,517 --> 00:56:47,759 Breathe in the sea air. That's what counts. 800 00:56:49,241 --> 00:56:51,443 I dunno... This wasn't planned. 801 00:56:51,443 --> 00:56:53,885 I have to be home tonight, to make progress on... 802 00:56:54,446 --> 00:56:57,969 And you have to take some time for us, to warm up. 803 00:56:58,810 --> 00:57:00,051 Here. 804 00:57:00,932 --> 00:57:02,253 You have to kiss me. 805 00:57:06,178 --> 00:57:09,100 And you have to follow me. I have another surprise. 806 00:57:09,220 --> 00:57:09,861 Come on. 807 00:57:15,427 --> 00:57:16,588 There she is! 808 00:57:17,228 --> 00:57:18,429 That's my boat. 809 00:57:27,799 --> 00:57:29,040 Come on. 810 00:57:29,160 --> 00:57:30,202 Give me your hand. 811 00:57:38,770 --> 00:57:40,131 It's ugly. 812 00:57:40,251 --> 00:57:42,654 I mean, you're not finished yet. 813 00:57:42,654 --> 00:57:44,576 That's the point. Redoing everything. 814 00:57:44,576 --> 00:57:47,659 Plus, it floats. And even better... Come see! 815 00:57:59,350 --> 00:58:00,792 - Wanna take the helm? - No! 816 00:58:00,912 --> 00:58:03,034 - Come on, take my place! - No! 817 00:58:03,034 --> 00:58:04,796 You don't want to? 818 00:58:12,123 --> 00:58:14,406 - Stop! Eyes on the road! - They are. 819 00:58:47,518 --> 00:58:48,760 Are you okay? 820 00:58:52,964 --> 00:58:55,246 I'll turn around, okay? 821 00:59:27,839 --> 00:59:29,280 Have a nice weekend? 822 00:59:32,283 --> 00:59:32,964 Okay... 823 00:59:34,166 --> 00:59:36,248 Didn't you have something to tell me? 824 00:59:36,248 --> 00:59:37,689 Now I can't tell you. 825 00:59:38,890 --> 00:59:39,931 Wow! Really? 826 00:59:40,892 --> 00:59:41,893 Okay. 827 00:59:41,893 --> 00:59:43,936 I respect your vow of silence. 828 00:59:53,865 --> 00:59:55,427 Hi! How are you? 829 00:59:58,310 --> 00:59:59,230 Hi, Matthias. 830 00:59:59,230 --> 01:00:00,592 How's it going? 831 01:00:00,712 --> 01:00:02,634 Can I have a beer? Thanks. 832 01:00:02,954 --> 01:00:04,075 Hi, there! 833 01:00:04,636 --> 01:00:06,038 - Incredible. - Wild! 834 01:00:06,038 --> 01:00:08,119 - How are you? - Fine. And you? 835 01:00:08,440 --> 01:00:10,242 Too weird! What are you doing here? 836 01:00:10,242 --> 01:00:12,444 I'm with friends who live around here. 837 01:00:13,004 --> 01:00:14,886 - And you? - It's my hangout. 838 01:00:15,166 --> 01:00:17,129 - Okay. See you later? - Sure. 839 01:00:17,249 --> 01:00:18,289 Cool! 840 01:00:36,468 --> 01:00:37,589 Come here often? 841 01:00:37,589 --> 01:00:39,952 No, it's destiny. Something in the air. 842 01:00:39,952 --> 01:00:41,793 But it's always at cocktail hour. 843 01:00:42,154 --> 01:00:44,355 We were meant to have a drink together. 844 01:00:44,596 --> 01:00:47,839 - I'm off. - See you later. 845 01:00:49,040 --> 01:00:52,003 Why not? It's weird, I don't see you for 15 years, then... 846 01:00:52,003 --> 01:00:54,206 - You followed me. - I'm stalking you. 847 01:00:54,206 --> 01:00:55,527 - A psychopath. - Yep! 848 01:00:57,249 --> 01:00:58,891 Guys, I have bad news. 849 01:01:00,291 --> 01:01:01,773 The bar's closing. 850 01:01:06,378 --> 01:01:09,061 Feel like ending the night together? 851 01:01:14,106 --> 01:01:15,227 Bye, Aurélie. 852 01:01:16,227 --> 01:01:17,789 Good night, all! 853 01:01:18,309 --> 01:01:19,551 See you tomorrow. 854 01:01:30,001 --> 01:01:32,443 Give me a call... - Aurélie 855 01:01:37,729 --> 01:01:39,170 How was your evening? 856 01:01:41,573 --> 01:01:42,774 The sound's broken up. 857 01:01:42,774 --> 01:01:45,176 Hold on, I'm leaving the workshop. 858 01:01:45,176 --> 01:01:46,978 You're not at the office? 859 01:01:46,978 --> 01:01:48,740 No, I'm going home to work. 860 01:01:48,740 --> 01:01:50,582 Their system crashed again. 861 01:01:51,382 --> 01:01:54,907 Yeah, it was nice last night. What did you do? 862 01:01:54,907 --> 01:01:56,107 I read a book. 863 01:01:56,227 --> 01:01:58,830 Really interesting! About pain and autism. 864 01:01:58,830 --> 01:02:00,953 It clarified so many things. 865 01:02:00,953 --> 01:02:02,794 I remembered, when I was little, 866 01:02:02,914 --> 01:02:04,395 I pulled out a tooth... 867 01:02:04,516 --> 01:02:07,119 Katia, hold on, I'm on overload. 868 01:02:07,799 --> 01:02:08,800 Excuse me? 869 01:02:09,360 --> 01:02:11,402 We've gone from a word 870 01:02:11,402 --> 01:02:14,646 we hardly knew to living in a world of autism. 871 01:02:15,126 --> 01:02:16,808 Can we talk about something else? 872 01:02:17,289 --> 01:02:19,931 You said it wouldn't change anything but, in fact... 873 01:02:21,253 --> 01:02:22,413 It's not easy. 874 01:02:24,616 --> 01:02:25,777 Hello? 875 01:02:28,219 --> 01:02:29,540 Katia, say something. 876 01:02:29,661 --> 01:02:32,423 I don't feel like talking. I don't know what to say. 877 01:02:33,305 --> 01:02:35,627 I've had it. Let's talk later. 878 01:03:06,778 --> 01:03:08,460 I don't know how it's possible. 879 01:03:09,181 --> 01:03:11,223 - We always used a condom. - No. 880 01:03:11,583 --> 01:03:13,425 Once, we didn't right away. 881 01:03:13,866 --> 01:03:15,467 That was a long time ago. 882 01:03:15,467 --> 01:03:17,749 Two and a half months ago. Exactly. 883 01:03:19,150 --> 01:03:21,753 You missed 2 periods and didn't tell me? 884 01:03:22,434 --> 01:03:25,156 I'm not regular. I didn't realize. 885 01:03:25,276 --> 01:03:29,081 I saw the company doctor. I was tired, so they took a blood test. 886 01:03:30,402 --> 01:03:31,443 What? 887 01:03:37,289 --> 01:03:38,410 So what'll we do? 888 01:03:39,411 --> 01:03:40,972 What do you mean? 889 01:03:41,653 --> 01:03:44,656 I didn't think you'd even ask the question. 890 01:03:46,177 --> 01:03:49,861 You say I can't handle a relationship. Now you wanna involve a 3rd person? 891 01:03:49,861 --> 01:03:51,222 I don't know. 892 01:03:52,624 --> 01:03:55,547 Plus, I just got a great work offer... 893 01:03:55,827 --> 01:03:57,068 Really? 894 01:03:59,391 --> 01:04:00,512 What is it? 895 01:04:05,317 --> 01:04:09,120 A friend wants us to open a carpentry shop together. 896 01:04:09,921 --> 01:04:11,402 That's great. 897 01:04:11,883 --> 01:04:12,964 Where is it? 898 01:04:14,246 --> 01:04:16,768 It's a childhood friend. In Le Conquet. 899 01:04:23,535 --> 01:04:24,936 It's far. 900 01:04:25,977 --> 01:04:28,620 I didn't graduate from high school. 901 01:04:28,740 --> 01:04:30,782 An offer like this is once in a lifetime. 902 01:04:31,703 --> 01:04:34,426 And my work is here. I don't wanna move. 903 01:04:38,910 --> 01:04:40,312 And the baby? 904 01:04:59,411 --> 01:05:01,373 I think I need to be alone. 905 01:05:03,174 --> 01:05:04,576 Me, too. 906 01:05:31,803 --> 01:05:33,565 - Hello! - Hi, honey. 907 01:05:34,566 --> 01:05:35,927 - How are you? - Fine. 908 01:05:35,927 --> 01:05:38,130 - I'm so happy to see you. - Yes! 909 01:05:39,651 --> 01:05:41,333 Come on in! 910 01:05:46,218 --> 01:05:47,579 It's delicious! 911 01:05:48,379 --> 01:05:49,741 You're not eating? 912 01:05:50,342 --> 01:05:51,783 No, I'm not hungry. 913 01:05:52,584 --> 01:05:55,187 I feel a bit lonely, eating alone. 914 01:05:55,427 --> 01:05:57,668 But if you're not hungry... 915 01:06:03,155 --> 01:06:05,356 Katia, what's the matter? 916 01:06:06,678 --> 01:06:09,041 I'm so happy to see you and you sulk. 917 01:06:11,603 --> 01:06:14,366 I have 2 things to say, but don't know where to begin. 918 01:06:14,366 --> 01:06:16,568 You can tell me anything, honey. 919 01:06:22,094 --> 01:06:24,376 The first is that I'm autistic. 920 01:06:24,576 --> 01:06:25,938 Autistic? 921 01:06:28,740 --> 01:06:31,383 - Mom... - No way! 922 01:06:31,703 --> 01:06:33,504 You can't be autistic. 923 01:06:34,186 --> 01:06:37,709 You speak, you don't bang your head against the wall, as far as I know. 924 01:06:37,709 --> 01:06:41,633 It's not just because you're a bit odd that you're autistic. 925 01:06:42,153 --> 01:06:45,717 I know it's good to not be like everyone else, but still! 926 01:06:46,317 --> 01:06:48,920 I've never tried to stand out from the others. 927 01:06:49,641 --> 01:06:52,684 On the contrary, I've spent my life trying to be like everyone else. 928 01:06:52,804 --> 01:06:54,206 Are you seeing someone? 929 01:06:55,126 --> 01:06:56,207 Seeing someone? 930 01:06:56,849 --> 01:06:59,090 I mean your shrink. Do you still see him? 931 01:06:59,210 --> 01:07:00,331 No. 932 01:07:00,932 --> 01:07:03,815 - Maybe you should. - But I've been diagnosed. 933 01:07:05,857 --> 01:07:06,859 By whom? 934 01:07:08,100 --> 01:07:10,702 By a psychologist who specializes in autism. 935 01:07:11,022 --> 01:07:15,146 Who consults an autism specialist? 936 01:07:15,427 --> 01:07:17,188 You'd think that's what you wanted. 937 01:07:19,751 --> 01:07:21,432 I was tested. 938 01:07:22,074 --> 01:07:24,956 And I know that's what it is. 939 01:07:25,477 --> 01:07:27,439 It's the first time things make sense... 940 01:07:27,439 --> 01:07:30,642 No, you're not autistic! That's nonsense. 941 01:07:30,762 --> 01:07:34,286 If you're autistic, we all are. Is that the latest fashion? 942 01:07:34,286 --> 01:07:36,648 After vegan, flexitarian... autistic! 943 01:07:37,449 --> 01:07:38,530 Why are you angry? 944 01:07:38,810 --> 01:07:40,732 Because it's ridiculous. 945 01:07:40,732 --> 01:07:43,455 You don't turn autistic at 35! 946 01:07:43,895 --> 01:07:45,777 And I'd have noticed. 947 01:07:50,342 --> 01:07:52,424 What do you want, in fact? 948 01:07:52,985 --> 01:07:55,987 To guilt-trip me for not being an attentive enough mother? 949 01:07:56,107 --> 01:07:57,869 This isn't about you? 950 01:07:58,630 --> 01:08:00,592 I'm not criticizing you for anything. 951 01:08:00,592 --> 01:08:02,034 No one is. 952 01:08:02,314 --> 01:08:04,035 I'm just telling you what is. 953 01:08:04,756 --> 01:08:08,399 Just because you don't want me to be autistic doesn't mean I'm not. 954 01:08:08,399 --> 01:08:10,041 I don't understand. 955 01:08:10,162 --> 01:08:11,483 I don't understand. 956 01:08:11,483 --> 01:08:13,165 Nothing's ever right. 957 01:08:17,489 --> 01:08:19,811 Don't think it was easy for me. 958 01:08:20,812 --> 01:08:23,374 Constantly hearing, "Your daughter doesn't talk." 959 01:08:23,374 --> 01:08:25,497 "Your daughter's too timid." 960 01:08:25,857 --> 01:08:28,140 And I was alone. Your father was no help. 961 01:08:28,540 --> 01:08:30,782 He was in his own world. 962 01:08:34,105 --> 01:08:35,026 Here we go again! 963 01:08:35,147 --> 01:08:38,510 You end the conversation when it suits you. 964 01:08:41,033 --> 01:08:43,355 Katia, honey, we're talking. 965 01:08:43,475 --> 01:08:44,355 Just talking. 966 01:08:44,476 --> 01:08:46,238 Leave me alone! 967 01:08:49,601 --> 01:08:52,564 Think what you like. But to me, you're not autistic. 968 01:09:09,741 --> 01:09:12,784 Katia, didn't you have two things to tell me last night? 969 01:09:14,065 --> 01:09:15,427 What was the second? 970 01:09:20,952 --> 01:09:23,234 I think it'd be better if I went home. 971 01:10:13,484 --> 01:10:14,686 I got fired. 972 01:10:15,447 --> 01:10:16,728 Hold on... What? 973 01:10:17,168 --> 01:10:18,650 - You? - Yeah. 974 01:10:19,051 --> 01:10:21,572 You've been here for 15 years. You're a fixture. 975 01:10:22,533 --> 01:10:25,337 And they're trying to rip me off on the severance terms. 976 01:10:25,617 --> 01:10:27,939 - Did you see Jeff? - What can he do? 977 01:10:28,339 --> 01:10:30,381 In any case, he dutifully obey orders. 978 01:10:30,822 --> 01:10:32,464 It's disgusting! 979 01:10:32,464 --> 01:10:35,306 We have to do something. Don't you think, Katia? 980 01:10:40,352 --> 01:10:41,753 I've been looking for you. 981 01:10:42,313 --> 01:10:44,316 Julien... it's horrible. 982 01:10:44,756 --> 01:10:46,798 It seems you already know. 983 01:10:47,278 --> 01:10:48,600 I'm disgusted, too. 984 01:10:49,401 --> 01:10:50,882 But that's how it is. 985 01:10:50,882 --> 01:10:54,326 So focus exclusively on European reforms and forget autism. 986 01:10:56,408 --> 01:10:58,330 The autism piece is practically done. 987 01:10:58,450 --> 01:11:01,693 I've made the rounds, no one picked it up. 988 01:11:01,693 --> 01:11:03,535 Even the broadcaster's not excited. 989 01:11:03,655 --> 01:11:05,057 It's dead, okay? 990 01:11:07,259 --> 01:11:08,659 I wanted to discuss something, 991 01:11:08,659 --> 01:11:11,383 but it's clearly not the time. Stop by tomorrow? 992 01:11:35,487 --> 01:11:37,128 I tried to call several times. 993 01:11:37,649 --> 01:11:39,651 But you didn't answer, so... 994 01:11:40,131 --> 01:11:42,053 I came. Hold on... 995 01:11:46,258 --> 01:11:49,661 I've thought it over. I think we should keep the baby. 996 01:11:49,661 --> 01:11:51,863 It's more important than a job or Le Conquet. 997 01:11:51,983 --> 01:11:53,905 - What? No. - Yes. 998 01:11:53,905 --> 01:11:56,307 We have to change things between us. 999 01:11:56,307 --> 01:11:58,070 We have to be together more. 1000 01:11:58,070 --> 01:11:59,551 - No. - Yes. 1001 01:11:59,671 --> 01:12:01,032 What if it's autistic? 1002 01:12:02,875 --> 01:12:05,437 There's a huge genetic factor in autism. 1003 01:12:08,200 --> 01:12:10,602 I made an appointment for the abortion. 1004 01:12:11,763 --> 01:12:13,004 What? 1005 01:12:19,931 --> 01:12:23,615 Couldn't we discuss this together? There are two of us here. 1006 01:12:25,056 --> 01:12:28,700 You really don't give a shit about what I think. 1007 01:12:29,341 --> 01:12:32,063 I was making huge concessions to stay here with you. 1008 01:12:32,183 --> 01:12:34,266 What a fucking idiot! 1009 01:12:34,826 --> 01:12:36,027 You know what? 1010 01:12:36,508 --> 01:12:38,910 Live your life alone, if that's what you want! 1011 01:13:03,695 --> 01:13:05,057 Great! 1012 01:13:06,538 --> 01:13:07,979 You're saving my life. 1013 01:14:29,341 --> 01:14:31,503 You have 11 new messages. 1014 01:14:32,464 --> 01:14:34,906 It's Marie. I didn't see you today. Call me. 1015 01:14:35,026 --> 01:14:36,547 Received Tuesday. 1016 01:14:36,547 --> 01:14:38,870 It's Jeff. You didn't come in yesterday... 1017 01:14:38,870 --> 01:14:40,391 Message erased. 1018 01:14:40,391 --> 01:14:41,673 Katia, it's Marie again... 1019 01:14:41,673 --> 01:14:42,794 Received Thursday. 1020 01:14:42,794 --> 01:14:44,596 Katia, call me... 1021 01:14:44,596 --> 01:14:46,077 I'm getting worried... 1022 01:14:46,077 --> 01:14:47,639 Me again. I'm freaking out... 1023 01:14:47,639 --> 01:14:49,160 Message erased. 1024 01:15:13,265 --> 01:15:14,827 - Hello, Katia! - Hi. 1025 01:15:15,307 --> 01:15:16,668 I'm glad you could come. 1026 01:15:16,668 --> 01:15:19,390 - Can I call you Katia? - Yes. 1027 01:15:20,152 --> 01:15:21,353 Coming in? 1028 01:15:21,793 --> 01:15:22,954 Look... 1029 01:15:23,475 --> 01:15:25,917 I'm not sure I'll stay long. 1030 01:15:25,917 --> 01:15:28,319 Stay as long as you like, go when you like. 1031 01:15:28,319 --> 01:15:29,961 No obligations. 1032 01:15:32,083 --> 01:15:33,004 Okay. 1033 01:15:36,848 --> 01:15:39,410 - This is Katia. - Hi, Katia. 1034 01:15:40,212 --> 01:15:41,893 It's her first time here. Have a seat. 1035 01:15:44,897 --> 01:15:46,297 Welcome. 1036 01:15:46,698 --> 01:15:48,499 Know the concept? 1037 01:15:48,499 --> 01:15:52,384 We speak without judgement, no filters... 1038 01:15:52,624 --> 01:15:54,346 - Shoot! - Sorry. 1039 01:15:54,466 --> 01:15:55,907 I'm sorry. 1040 01:15:59,831 --> 01:16:01,553 - Who's that? - It was Marie. 1041 01:16:01,873 --> 01:16:03,635 - A coworker... - No. 1042 01:16:03,635 --> 01:16:05,276 - There? - Oh, the wallpaper? 1043 01:16:05,636 --> 01:16:08,560 That's Fred, my boyfriend. 1044 01:16:08,560 --> 01:16:11,643 Well, he was. It's complicated. 1045 01:16:11,643 --> 01:16:14,565 No biggie. With us, it's rarely easy. 1046 01:16:15,367 --> 01:16:17,409 It's complicated for complicated people. 1047 01:16:18,450 --> 01:16:22,413 It's not complicated to be simple. But it can be simple to be complicated. 1048 01:16:24,736 --> 01:16:28,140 There are several topics we wanted to broach today. 1049 01:16:28,260 --> 01:16:31,102 I think we could start with employment. 1050 01:16:31,222 --> 01:16:32,784 In terms of adjusting, 1051 01:16:32,904 --> 01:16:36,667 was that easy for you? Or more of a negotiation? 1052 01:16:38,750 --> 01:16:40,913 See you soon! 1053 01:16:40,913 --> 01:16:42,433 - Till next time. - Bye. 1054 01:16:43,435 --> 01:16:47,919 We have a meeting at the ministry that oversees disabled rights. 1055 01:16:48,040 --> 01:16:51,203 They must understand that, beyond the need for financial support, 1056 01:16:51,643 --> 01:16:53,525 the lack of visibility and information 1057 01:16:53,645 --> 01:16:56,167 keeps autistic people on the fringes of society. 1058 01:16:56,167 --> 01:16:57,969 So we need recent documentation. 1059 01:16:58,089 --> 01:17:01,573 I wondered where you were on the documentary you were working on. 1060 01:17:03,094 --> 01:17:04,696 It's not at all finished. 1061 01:17:05,016 --> 01:17:07,779 In fact, it's completely on hold. 1062 01:17:08,179 --> 01:17:11,422 It's a shame. We got some very impressive and exciting footage. 1063 01:17:11,542 --> 01:17:14,425 Would it be possible to get some of that footage? 1064 01:17:14,746 --> 01:17:16,668 I can ask the director. 1065 01:17:16,668 --> 01:17:19,631 Mom, can I go meet Lili? She's right over there. 1066 01:17:19,631 --> 01:17:20,471 Sure. 1067 01:17:20,952 --> 01:17:23,515 But don't go far. And be back in an hour, tops. 1068 01:17:23,635 --> 01:17:24,796 Sure, no problem. 1069 01:17:27,078 --> 01:17:29,280 - She's your daughter? - Yeah, the eldest. 1070 01:17:29,400 --> 01:17:32,884 Sometimes she comes here with me on Wednesday afternoons. 1071 01:17:34,606 --> 01:17:36,167 Keep me posted on the doc? 1072 01:17:36,848 --> 01:17:38,370 - Yes, yes! - Cool! 1073 01:17:38,490 --> 01:17:40,251 See you soon! 1074 01:17:40,251 --> 01:17:41,453 Thanks. 1075 01:17:48,540 --> 01:17:50,141 - How's it going? - Hi. 1076 01:17:50,702 --> 01:17:51,663 Be right there. 1077 01:17:51,983 --> 01:17:54,186 - Is Fred here? - No. 1078 01:17:56,347 --> 01:17:57,829 I thought you knew. 1079 01:17:57,949 --> 01:17:59,311 He took 3 days off. 1080 01:17:59,951 --> 01:18:02,274 He's in Le Conquet, planning his move. 1081 01:18:02,594 --> 01:18:03,755 Oh, right. 1082 01:18:04,315 --> 01:18:06,237 What a mind-blowing opportunity! 1083 01:18:06,357 --> 01:18:08,921 He's gonna be boss of his own company. 1084 01:18:09,201 --> 01:18:11,002 He's so incredibly lucky! 1085 01:18:11,643 --> 01:18:13,244 I'm off. See ya! 1086 01:18:13,604 --> 01:18:14,766 See ya. 1087 01:18:35,347 --> 01:18:37,869 Hi, how are you? 1088 01:18:56,648 --> 01:18:58,249 What are you doing here? 1089 01:18:58,530 --> 01:19:00,492 How are you? I was so worried. 1090 01:19:01,973 --> 01:19:05,697 We're used to you disappearing for 2 or 3 days, but rarely more. 1091 01:19:05,697 --> 01:19:07,139 Are you okay? 1092 01:19:10,061 --> 01:19:11,783 It depends in what way. 1093 01:19:14,706 --> 01:19:15,707 Dark chocolate. 1094 01:19:16,948 --> 01:19:18,110 Can I come in? 1095 01:19:20,312 --> 01:19:21,113 Yes. 1096 01:19:34,806 --> 01:19:36,768 Why don't you come to work anymore? 1097 01:19:37,729 --> 01:19:39,651 Because I got fired. 1098 01:19:39,931 --> 01:19:41,293 What? 1099 01:19:41,293 --> 01:19:42,894 Since when? Who said so? 1100 01:19:43,534 --> 01:19:46,658 No one. But Jeff wanted to talk, then someone came in to replace me. 1101 01:19:47,419 --> 01:19:50,742 I'd be the first to know, if someone new was sitting across from me. 1102 01:19:52,024 --> 01:19:53,625 A girl with blue hair. 1103 01:19:54,907 --> 01:19:56,307 Her? 1104 01:19:57,668 --> 01:19:59,511 She's from IT. 1105 01:20:00,551 --> 01:20:03,395 They finally decided to fix the internal network. 1106 01:20:04,396 --> 01:20:06,077 And it works! 1107 01:20:06,197 --> 01:20:07,719 Too bad. 1108 01:20:08,080 --> 01:20:09,761 No, not "too bad." 1109 01:20:10,041 --> 01:20:11,723 Monday, go see Jeff. 1110 01:20:11,843 --> 01:20:13,045 No, I can't. 1111 01:20:13,165 --> 01:20:14,445 Yes, you can. 1112 01:20:20,011 --> 01:20:21,012 I got your email. 1113 01:20:21,133 --> 01:20:23,735 Julien's in litigation with the company, 1114 01:20:23,735 --> 01:20:25,617 over the terms of his dismissal. 1115 01:20:25,617 --> 01:20:28,420 So he has to toe the line. 1116 01:20:29,140 --> 01:20:31,023 I understand. I'm sorry to insist. 1117 01:20:31,143 --> 01:20:34,105 But it's a shame for that material to sit on a shelf, 1118 01:20:34,105 --> 01:20:36,108 when it could be so useful to us. 1119 01:20:40,752 --> 01:20:42,794 "...so useful to us." 1120 01:20:51,563 --> 01:20:55,967 The crisis couldn't be managed, so his expulsion was... 1121 01:20:55,967 --> 01:20:59,011 determined by the Ministry of Education. 1122 01:20:59,011 --> 01:21:02,613 France has repeatedly been found guilty by the European Council 1123 01:21:02,613 --> 01:21:05,177 for discrimination against people with... 1124 01:21:06,298 --> 01:21:09,861 We have a very hard time getting recent, precise figures, 1125 01:21:09,981 --> 01:21:11,863 especially on autistic people. 1126 01:21:11,983 --> 01:21:14,906 ...the statistic of one French person out of 100, 1127 01:21:14,906 --> 01:21:16,708 meaning 700,000 people. 1128 01:21:16,708 --> 01:21:19,551 There are many more non-binary people in France 1129 01:21:19,551 --> 01:21:21,993 among people on the autistic spectrum. 1130 01:21:21,993 --> 01:21:24,195 Many are still in psychiatric hospitals. 1131 01:21:24,195 --> 01:21:27,319 Specialized institutions have interminable waiting lists, 1132 01:21:27,439 --> 01:21:29,201 which delays their treatment... 1133 01:21:31,643 --> 01:21:34,406 Romane, here are some clips from Julien's documentary... 1134 01:21:37,409 --> 01:21:39,050 Send 1135 01:21:50,102 --> 01:21:51,783 Jeff, I'm sorry. I misunderstood. 1136 01:21:51,783 --> 01:21:54,145 Marie told me about your "misunderstanding". 1137 01:21:54,546 --> 01:21:56,828 How could you have thought you were fired? 1138 01:21:57,469 --> 01:21:58,830 Did I say so? 1139 01:21:58,830 --> 01:22:01,873 Did you get a registered letter that said so? 1140 01:22:02,394 --> 01:22:03,314 No. 1141 01:22:04,996 --> 01:22:06,758 What made you think that? 1142 01:22:06,918 --> 01:22:08,519 You wanted to talk to me. 1143 01:22:08,519 --> 01:22:10,762 Think every time I wanna talk, you're fired? 1144 01:22:11,483 --> 01:22:12,804 That'd be complicated. 1145 01:22:13,725 --> 01:22:15,406 Plus, it was about work. 1146 01:22:16,487 --> 01:22:19,891 Katia, you can't just take off like that for 8 days. 1147 01:22:19,891 --> 01:22:21,493 That's unheard of! 1148 01:22:23,014 --> 01:22:27,098 I had a call from the Ministry of Solidarity, Autonomy and the Disabled. 1149 01:22:27,098 --> 01:22:29,060 They asked if they could use 1150 01:22:29,060 --> 01:22:31,984 Julien's footage. Ring any bells? 1151 01:22:32,303 --> 01:22:34,746 Yes! No, it's just because... 1152 01:22:34,746 --> 01:22:37,909 their meeting with the advisor was so important. 1153 01:22:37,909 --> 01:22:41,673 But it's just excerpts from his story. And Julien doesn't know about it. 1154 01:22:41,793 --> 01:22:43,315 So you leak 1155 01:22:43,315 --> 01:22:46,638 excerpts of a film that's not supposed to exist? 1156 01:22:48,680 --> 01:22:50,401 You're really screwing up! 1157 01:22:51,283 --> 01:22:54,165 So I called the big boss for permission and, as if by magic, 1158 01:22:54,165 --> 01:22:57,168 "Chop, chop!" Julien has to finish the film. 1159 01:22:58,170 --> 01:23:01,453 No, he's still fired, but with the conditions he wanted. 1160 01:23:01,573 --> 01:23:04,175 But, Katia, if you ever do that to me again, 1161 01:23:04,656 --> 01:23:06,578 don't even set foot in here. 1162 01:23:07,779 --> 01:23:11,383 I docked you 8 days to hire a freelancer to finish the Europe piece! 1163 01:23:11,783 --> 01:23:13,145 Okay, go. 1164 01:23:22,314 --> 01:23:23,315 No, in fact... 1165 01:23:23,435 --> 01:23:24,396 Yes? 1166 01:23:24,396 --> 01:23:26,638 There's something I have to tell you. 1167 01:23:28,280 --> 01:23:29,841 I'm autistic. 1168 01:23:31,963 --> 01:23:33,244 You're autistic? 1169 01:23:34,046 --> 01:23:35,086 Yes. 1170 01:23:35,767 --> 01:23:36,688 Okay. 1171 01:23:37,409 --> 01:23:38,690 Am I fired? 1172 01:23:39,611 --> 01:23:42,333 No, but what difference does that make? 1173 01:23:42,654 --> 01:23:44,176 The difference is 1174 01:23:44,176 --> 01:23:47,659 it's harder for me to work in an open space, than for others. 1175 01:23:47,659 --> 01:23:51,783 Because I'm very sensitive to noise and my environment. 1176 01:23:52,183 --> 01:23:55,827 So it would be easier if I could work from home more often. 1177 01:23:55,827 --> 01:23:58,229 I mean, if that's possible. 1178 01:23:59,271 --> 01:24:00,792 If I understand your request... 1179 01:24:02,914 --> 01:24:04,476 you attend our meetings... 1180 01:24:04,596 --> 01:24:05,356 Yes. 1181 01:24:05,957 --> 01:24:07,639 You free up a desk. 1182 01:24:08,119 --> 01:24:11,443 And that would simultaneously allow us to increase 1183 01:24:11,763 --> 01:24:14,646 our handicapped employee rate. 1184 01:24:15,967 --> 01:24:17,369 No, I'm kidding! 1185 01:24:18,330 --> 01:24:20,251 In fact, not really. 1186 01:24:21,133 --> 01:24:22,654 Okay, I agree. 1187 01:24:40,872 --> 01:24:43,435 In the 92nd minute, the coach sends him in. 1188 01:24:43,555 --> 01:24:46,678 First touch, the guy passes it back and scores an own goal! 1189 01:24:49,281 --> 01:24:51,523 Fred, you're such a fuckin' pain! 1190 01:24:52,284 --> 01:24:54,646 - Take it easy. - You're a total drag tonight! 1191 01:24:55,126 --> 01:24:57,089 You made the right choice. 1192 01:24:57,209 --> 01:24:59,531 It's your dream town, with your dream job! 1193 01:24:59,531 --> 01:25:01,252 And you'll be your own boss! 1194 01:25:01,373 --> 01:25:03,174 - I know. - Damn right! 1195 01:25:07,579 --> 01:25:09,500 Plus... nothing against her, 1196 01:25:09,901 --> 01:25:12,464 but with Katia, everything was complicated. 1197 01:25:13,505 --> 01:25:14,626 I know. 1198 01:25:14,626 --> 01:25:16,387 Aurélie: Wanna come over? 1199 01:25:16,387 --> 01:25:19,591 You'll meet a Conquetais coquette. 1200 01:25:20,592 --> 01:25:22,834 - "Conquetoise". - Okay. 1201 01:25:22,834 --> 01:25:24,715 A Conquetoise coquette... 1202 01:25:24,715 --> 01:25:27,198 to make a lot of babies with. 1203 01:25:29,321 --> 01:25:30,081 If you say so. 1204 01:25:30,642 --> 01:25:32,484 I'll stop ruining your evening. 1205 01:25:33,004 --> 01:25:34,245 Ciao! 1206 01:25:34,245 --> 01:25:36,047 - You're not leaving now! - Yep! 1207 01:25:36,167 --> 01:25:38,130 - Stay! - I'm going to bed. 1208 01:25:38,730 --> 01:25:40,011 Bye, Fred. 1209 01:26:09,201 --> 01:26:11,282 Autism diagnosis - Katia 1210 01:27:08,259 --> 01:27:10,742 There's only one thing I know. 1211 01:27:12,344 --> 01:27:14,746 I'm incapable of living without you. 1212 01:27:16,107 --> 01:27:18,110 So, with or without the baby, 1213 01:27:18,590 --> 01:27:19,711 it's you. 1214 01:27:21,353 --> 01:27:22,514 Me, too! 1215 01:27:23,675 --> 01:27:25,156 I don't wanna lose you. 1216 01:27:31,883 --> 01:27:33,485 I didn't go. 1217 01:27:35,687 --> 01:27:37,729 I didn't go. 1218 01:27:39,771 --> 01:27:42,975 I didn't think I was capable of raising a kid. But with you... 1219 01:27:43,095 --> 01:27:45,096 I thought it might be possible. 1220 01:27:46,258 --> 01:27:47,378 And you? 1221 01:27:48,780 --> 01:27:51,102 I'm ashamed of what I'm about to say. 1222 01:27:51,102 --> 01:27:52,223 Okay... 1223 01:27:55,147 --> 01:27:56,668 You freaked me out. 1224 01:28:00,232 --> 01:28:01,753 What if it's autistic? 1225 01:28:04,155 --> 01:28:05,837 It's a possibility. 1226 01:28:08,960 --> 01:28:10,922 And what if I'm not up to it? 1227 01:28:13,885 --> 01:28:16,808 No way? You're the one saying that? 1228 01:28:19,731 --> 01:28:23,535 You can't imagine how scared I am of what's coming. 1229 01:28:30,662 --> 01:28:35,066 I was so mad that I accepted the offer in Le Conquet. I leave next month. 1230 01:28:35,507 --> 01:28:36,427 Okay. 1231 01:28:37,429 --> 01:28:38,349 But... 1232 01:28:39,150 --> 01:28:40,352 I'll cancel. 1233 01:28:43,875 --> 01:28:46,197 No, it's too important for you. Don't cancel. 1234 01:28:46,197 --> 01:28:47,518 Really. 1235 01:28:47,959 --> 01:28:51,083 Besides, I feel like... 1236 01:28:51,843 --> 01:28:55,167 we're incapable of totally living together. 1237 01:28:55,167 --> 01:28:57,168 - We can't seem to. - No. 1238 01:29:02,894 --> 01:29:05,817 Maybe we should have shared custody... of us! 1239 01:29:08,539 --> 01:29:10,262 Of our baby? 1240 01:29:10,262 --> 01:29:13,825 Like, we get together when we want to, when we can? 1241 01:29:15,227 --> 01:29:17,588 What if I found a big house? 1242 01:29:17,709 --> 01:29:21,233 And when you came, we could live on opposite ends. 1243 01:29:21,353 --> 01:29:24,516 Not too far away, but a little. 1244 01:29:24,516 --> 01:29:25,757 I'd love that! 1245 01:29:25,877 --> 01:29:27,839 The baby in the middle. 1246 01:29:30,522 --> 01:29:32,003 It's not gonna be easy. 1247 01:29:52,384 --> 01:29:53,946 - Hello, ma'am. - Hello. 1248 01:29:54,426 --> 01:29:57,629 I'm Fred, Katia's friend. We met once a long time ago. 1249 01:29:57,909 --> 01:29:58,670 Fred! 1250 01:29:59,350 --> 01:30:01,073 - Come in! - Thank you. 1251 01:30:02,394 --> 01:30:04,516 - Everything's fine, I hope. - Very good. 1252 01:30:06,758 --> 01:30:10,242 Katia doesn't know I'm here. I think she'd kill me, if she knew. 1253 01:30:10,242 --> 01:30:12,844 But it seemed hard to say this over the phone. 1254 01:30:12,844 --> 01:30:13,965 Really? 1255 01:30:18,490 --> 01:30:21,733 I had a hard time accepting the fact that she's autistic, too. 1256 01:30:23,175 --> 01:30:26,698 If you came all this way to talk about that... 1257 01:30:26,698 --> 01:30:28,059 I'm disappointed. 1258 01:30:30,342 --> 01:30:32,303 It has nothing to do with you. 1259 01:30:32,584 --> 01:30:34,506 It's not your fault, nor hers. 1260 01:30:34,626 --> 01:30:37,268 No one's to blame. It's just how it is. 1261 01:30:38,710 --> 01:30:42,313 But she doesn't have much support, and I'd like us to be there. 1262 01:30:51,323 --> 01:30:53,564 I can't force you to do anything. 1263 01:30:53,685 --> 01:30:56,167 I just ask you to read what's on here. 1264 01:31:06,138 --> 01:31:07,058 So... 1265 01:31:08,700 --> 01:31:10,101 I'll be going. 1266 01:31:34,646 --> 01:31:36,968 Look! 6:30, on the dot! 1267 01:31:36,968 --> 01:31:39,891 - Come on! - I've been waiting downstairs. 1268 01:31:40,011 --> 01:31:41,092 Where we going? 1269 01:31:41,212 --> 01:31:42,333 Why? 1270 01:31:46,978 --> 01:31:49,220 Bon voyage! 1271 01:31:49,941 --> 01:31:51,463 Thank you! 1272 01:31:51,463 --> 01:31:53,505 You guys are sneaky! 1273 01:31:56,307 --> 01:31:57,188 Thanks! 1274 01:31:57,469 --> 01:31:59,230 This is too much! 1275 01:31:59,350 --> 01:32:00,551 How's it going, Marco? 1276 01:32:04,275 --> 01:32:05,677 Need any help? 1277 01:32:05,677 --> 01:32:09,041 I'm okay. I'm just scared of being pulled into the void. 1278 01:32:09,441 --> 01:32:11,443 I think you've got some leeway. 1279 01:32:11,683 --> 01:32:12,484 Okay. 1280 01:32:15,526 --> 01:32:16,448 Here we go! 1281 01:32:17,729 --> 01:32:20,331 Perfect! Second foot. 1282 01:32:21,853 --> 01:32:23,615 Oh, okay! Like that. 1283 01:32:23,735 --> 01:32:24,816 I'm backing up. 1284 01:32:24,816 --> 01:32:26,298 I'm great! 1285 01:32:26,418 --> 01:32:27,459 How are you? 1286 01:32:27,459 --> 01:32:29,461 This is so cool! 1287 01:32:34,065 --> 01:32:35,467 Here, give me your hand. 1288 01:32:38,991 --> 01:32:40,592 - I'll leave you. - Thanks. 1289 01:32:41,193 --> 01:32:43,075 Did they force you, or what? 1290 01:32:43,315 --> 01:32:44,476 Suggested. 1291 01:32:45,116 --> 01:32:46,918 But I knew you'd be happy. 1292 01:32:49,681 --> 01:32:51,362 Cider? You kidding me, man? 1293 01:32:51,483 --> 01:32:54,045 It's a theme! Shall I open the cooler? 1294 01:32:54,045 --> 01:32:55,767 Now I'm reassured. 1295 01:32:55,767 --> 01:32:56,688 Here! 1296 01:32:57,489 --> 01:32:59,651 Thank you so much. 1297 01:32:59,771 --> 01:33:00,772 Here's a glass. 1298 01:33:00,892 --> 01:33:02,534 To your new life! 1299 01:33:02,774 --> 01:33:04,376 Yeah! 1300 01:33:04,896 --> 01:33:06,217 Thank you! 1301 01:33:10,862 --> 01:33:12,383 To the three of us! 1302 01:36:00,953 --> 01:36:03,595 Subtitles by Rosemary Ricchio 1303 01:36:03,595 --> 01:36:03,795 Subtitling TITRAFILM