1 00:00:01,335 --> 00:00:04,671 I get tons of questions about my French tic. 2 00:00:06,590 --> 00:00:07,633 Goddamn! 3 00:00:07,716 --> 00:00:09,343 Ha! 4 00:00:09,426 --> 00:00:10,802 It means "My name is..." 5 00:00:12,513 --> 00:00:15,182 My name is puta. 6 00:00:15,265 --> 00:00:17,351 Whore. My name is whore. 7 00:00:17,476 --> 00:00:19,895 My name is whore. Yes, croissant. 8 00:00:21,563 --> 00:00:23,357 'Cause that makes total sense. 9 00:00:24,441 --> 00:00:25,526 Goddamn! 10 00:00:25,651 --> 00:00:26,985 That's my tic. 11 00:00:27,069 --> 00:00:27,986 [Julie] Guys, oh my gosh! 12 00:00:28,070 --> 00:00:29,112 [Allen] Look, Toots, he's, uh... 13 00:00:29,196 --> 00:00:30,656 We don't know what we're eating for food 14 00:00:30,739 --> 00:00:34,117 at the wedding, but the dogs are in cars. 15 00:00:34,201 --> 00:00:35,536 [Baylen laughs] 16 00:00:35,619 --> 00:00:37,663 Our wedding is literally right around the corner, 17 00:00:37,746 --> 00:00:40,541 and we don't have anything to show for it 18 00:00:40,624 --> 00:00:42,167 besides choosing the venue. 19 00:00:42,251 --> 00:00:43,835 We've done zero. 20 00:00:43,919 --> 00:00:46,296 -Are you confused as to... -Nevermind. 21 00:00:46,380 --> 00:00:48,882 ...everybody else's, like, division of labor with 22 00:00:48,966 --> 00:00:50,676 giving us responsibilities? 23 00:00:50,759 --> 00:00:51,969 Sammi had a responsibility 24 00:00:52,052 --> 00:00:54,179 for the bachelor-bachelorette party, 25 00:00:54,263 --> 00:00:56,056 and it didn't end up working that way. 26 00:00:56,139 --> 00:00:57,474 And now I don't even know if she's coming. 27 00:00:59,893 --> 00:01:02,813 [Sammi speaking] 28 00:01:04,022 --> 00:01:05,816 Colin reached out three times. 29 00:01:05,899 --> 00:01:06,942 I reached out. 30 00:01:11,196 --> 00:01:12,573 No. 31 00:01:12,656 --> 00:01:13,657 No. 32 00:01:14,700 --> 00:01:15,701 No. 33 00:01:21,748 --> 00:01:23,166 [cheering] 34 00:01:24,668 --> 00:01:26,086 [Baylen] Take a dick, Bo! 35 00:01:35,971 --> 00:01:38,890 -Can I talk to you real quick? -[Colleen] Sure. 36 00:01:38,973 --> 00:01:42,936 As much as I try to stay out of sister drama, 37 00:01:43,020 --> 00:01:44,771 Sammi didn't just drop the ball. 38 00:01:44,896 --> 00:01:47,733 Sammi never even picked it up. 39 00:01:47,816 --> 00:01:48,859 I think it's really gotten 40 00:01:48,942 --> 00:01:50,902 to the point where Baylen needs to... 41 00:01:53,071 --> 00:01:54,281 She needs to make a change. 42 00:02:07,127 --> 00:02:08,377 ♪ Ooh ♪ 43 00:02:08,461 --> 00:02:10,714 ♪ [indistinct lyrics] ♪ 44 00:02:12,174 --> 00:02:13,592 [Burke] Hey now! 45 00:02:13,675 --> 00:02:15,761 -[indistinct] -Oh! 46 00:02:15,844 --> 00:02:18,096 -[grunts] -[laughing] 47 00:02:18,180 --> 00:02:21,141 -[indistinct] -[bleep] yeah! 48 00:02:21,266 --> 00:02:22,601 That's Austin. 49 00:02:22,684 --> 00:02:24,978 We are in Asheville, North Carolina, 50 00:02:25,103 --> 00:02:27,230 for our joint bachelor-bachelorette trip. 51 00:02:28,440 --> 00:02:30,484 I'm so excited to just relax. 52 00:02:30,609 --> 00:02:32,486 I've already told him, I'm like, we can't be doing, 53 00:02:32,569 --> 00:02:35,489 like, college [bleep], like, jumping off of tables and stuff 54 00:02:35,572 --> 00:02:37,531 when we're drunk, OK? We can't be doing that. 55 00:02:37,658 --> 00:02:38,784 That's how people die. 56 00:02:42,996 --> 00:02:44,456 [larynx squeeze], whoo-hoo, whoo-hoo, whoo-hoo. 57 00:02:47,084 --> 00:02:50,128 Yeah, I really wanted to talk to you about, like, 58 00:02:50,212 --> 00:02:52,673 Sammi and everything, 'cause for the past 59 00:02:52,756 --> 00:02:55,676 few months, Baylen has really tried to get 60 00:02:55,801 --> 00:02:57,678 Sammi to plan this... -Mm-hmm. 61 00:02:57,761 --> 00:03:00,013 ...and she just hasn't been there for her. 62 00:03:00,097 --> 00:03:01,515 And then all of a sudden, we find out 63 00:03:01,598 --> 00:03:03,350 that she's not gonna come here. 64 00:03:03,433 --> 00:03:07,020 So my concern is that Sammi's not gonna be able to... 65 00:03:07,145 --> 00:03:11,149 fully uphold her duties as a maid of honor. 66 00:03:11,233 --> 00:03:12,693 I mean, 67 00:03:12,776 --> 00:03:14,861 if you remember years ago, 68 00:03:14,986 --> 00:03:18,156 a piece of advice that I gave you was like, 69 00:03:18,240 --> 00:03:20,200 expectations and communication. 70 00:03:20,325 --> 00:03:22,035 Those are like the two biggest things. 71 00:03:22,160 --> 00:03:26,039 A lot of times we kind of have expectations in our head 72 00:03:26,164 --> 00:03:30,001 and think that sometimes people are supposed to read 73 00:03:30,085 --> 00:03:31,670 that or like know what that is. 74 00:03:31,753 --> 00:03:33,380 So I think that's the biggest thing is, like, 75 00:03:33,505 --> 00:03:35,549 Baylen communicating her expectations 76 00:03:35,674 --> 00:03:40,011 of what exactly she wants from her maid of honor. 77 00:03:40,095 --> 00:03:44,725 Yeah, I agree with you. I just feel like 78 00:03:44,808 --> 00:03:47,227 something bigger needs to be done. 79 00:03:47,310 --> 00:03:51,356 Well, I think it's, you know, it starts 80 00:03:51,440 --> 00:03:53,900 with the conversation. -Mm. 81 00:03:53,984 --> 00:03:55,902 [Colin] Seeing what Baylen and Sammi 82 00:03:55,986 --> 00:03:57,904 have been kind of going through, 83 00:03:57,988 --> 00:04:00,073 it really helps me appreciate the kind 84 00:04:00,157 --> 00:04:02,826 of relationship that I have with my sister. 85 00:04:02,909 --> 00:04:06,163 She's somebody that has helped me and pulled me out of some, 86 00:04:06,246 --> 00:04:08,081 like, really dark times. 87 00:04:08,206 --> 00:04:10,584 Growing up wasn't the easiest for me. 88 00:04:10,667 --> 00:04:12,878 I struggled with... 89 00:04:14,004 --> 00:04:17,923 emotions and I felt very lost, 90 00:04:18,048 --> 00:04:21,678 but my sister would pull me back to reality and let me know 91 00:04:21,762 --> 00:04:24,931 that, you know, everything's OK. 92 00:04:25,056 --> 00:04:28,018 If it wasn't for her, then I wouldn't be with Baylen 93 00:04:28,101 --> 00:04:30,228 because I wouldn't know who I am 94 00:04:30,312 --> 00:04:31,897 or I wouldn't even be here today. 95 00:04:31,980 --> 00:04:34,649 So I can't really put it into words how much she means to me. 96 00:04:36,026 --> 00:04:37,861 So there's actually something else that I wanted to talk 97 00:04:37,944 --> 00:04:39,613 to you about. -OK. 98 00:04:39,696 --> 00:04:44,409 So for the actual wedding, I'm gonna have Austin give 99 00:04:44,493 --> 00:04:47,913 his speech, but I also want you to give a speech as well, 100 00:04:47,996 --> 00:04:50,290 since you're my sister. Get to writing. 101 00:04:50,373 --> 00:04:52,584 Oh, my gosh. Colin, I'm, like, sweating now. 102 00:04:52,667 --> 00:04:55,754 Like, you just induced so much anxiety. 103 00:04:55,837 --> 00:04:57,631 Oh, my God. 104 00:04:57,714 --> 00:04:59,800 When Colin asked me to give a speech at the wedding, 105 00:04:59,925 --> 00:05:02,594 it was definitely unexpected. 106 00:05:02,677 --> 00:05:04,805 He knows how much I hate public speaking, 107 00:05:04,930 --> 00:05:07,474 so this is gonna be a challenge for me 108 00:05:07,599 --> 00:05:09,059 to kind of take that on, 109 00:05:09,142 --> 00:05:13,438 but also very honored that he feels that strongly. 110 00:05:13,522 --> 00:05:14,523 Whew. 111 00:05:16,066 --> 00:05:17,984 Wow, guys. 112 00:05:20,403 --> 00:05:21,947 I mean, Colin's just, he's my younger brother. 113 00:05:22,030 --> 00:05:26,159 So just taking on that big sister role 114 00:05:26,284 --> 00:05:27,619 and always just 115 00:05:27,702 --> 00:05:30,831 looking out for him and in every single way, like, 116 00:05:30,914 --> 00:05:33,917 giving him advice and helping him through the stages of life. 117 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:35,001 It's just special. 118 00:05:36,670 --> 00:05:38,588 -Love you, bud. -[Colin] I love you. 119 00:05:41,508 --> 00:05:43,927 [upbeat music playing] 120 00:05:44,010 --> 00:05:45,554 ♪ Can't get ahold of me today ♪ 121 00:05:46,930 --> 00:05:50,308 ♪ Feeling good, I'm in a daze ♪ 122 00:05:50,392 --> 00:05:53,019 ♪ You wouldn't get it if it hit you in the face ♪ 123 00:05:54,437 --> 00:05:57,190 Alright, I got a big breakfast to cook for the girls. 124 00:05:57,315 --> 00:05:59,776 It's the last day at the rental. 125 00:05:59,860 --> 00:06:02,112 Today's plan is the guys are cooking breakfast 126 00:06:02,195 --> 00:06:06,199 for the girls, playing games, and then pack. 127 00:06:06,324 --> 00:06:07,576 -What's up, guys? -What's up, Burke? 128 00:06:07,701 --> 00:06:08,869 -Hey, how's it going? -What up, Burke? 129 00:06:08,952 --> 00:06:10,370 Hey, good morning, brother. 130 00:06:10,453 --> 00:06:12,455 My brother Burke was able to make it 131 00:06:12,539 --> 00:06:14,541 for part of the party, which I'm excited about. 132 00:06:14,666 --> 00:06:16,209 He flew in last night 133 00:06:16,293 --> 00:06:18,378 because he had some delays getting here. 134 00:06:18,503 --> 00:06:20,422 Ready or not, here I come, motherfucker. 135 00:06:22,173 --> 00:06:23,592 [Austin] We putting all this into one thing? 136 00:06:23,717 --> 00:06:25,594 -Two cups of water. -Yeah. 137 00:06:25,719 --> 00:06:27,721 -[Colin] Well, we might have to do separate... -Oh! 138 00:06:27,804 --> 00:06:29,014 -[Burke] 'Sup? -[overlapping] Hey! 139 00:06:29,097 --> 00:06:30,724 Oh, wearing aprons! 140 00:06:30,849 --> 00:06:33,685 -[Eileen] Who made the aprons? -[Colin] Colleen did. 141 00:06:33,768 --> 00:06:35,228 -Oh, I love it. -[Colin] My sister. 142 00:06:36,438 --> 00:06:37,731 They're so good. 143 00:06:37,814 --> 00:06:39,566 I almost drew a line. 144 00:06:39,691 --> 00:06:41,902 I was like, look, I'm your sister. 145 00:06:42,027 --> 00:06:43,612 I don't know if I can do this. 146 00:06:43,737 --> 00:06:45,405 It should have been a little bit lower. 147 00:06:45,530 --> 00:06:47,699 -Oh. -[Colin] I'm just kidding. 148 00:06:47,782 --> 00:06:49,826 [laughing] 149 00:06:49,909 --> 00:06:52,746 OK, who is making us mimosas to start this off? 150 00:06:52,871 --> 00:06:54,080 Yeah, who's bartending? 151 00:06:54,205 --> 00:06:55,749 [Burke] That's Colin. 152 00:06:55,874 --> 00:06:57,375 I like my mimosa with no orange juice. 153 00:06:57,459 --> 00:06:59,002 -OK. -[laughing] 154 00:06:59,085 --> 00:07:00,712 Burke, I'm so glad you were able to make it. 155 00:07:00,795 --> 00:07:02,923 -Of course, Bay, thank you. -I love you. 156 00:07:03,006 --> 00:07:04,424 [Burke] Love you, too. 157 00:07:04,549 --> 00:07:05,967 I just arrived to Asheville. 158 00:07:06,092 --> 00:07:08,845 I live in Tampa, so I had to catch a connecting flight. 159 00:07:08,929 --> 00:07:11,348 There was a little bit of some hiccups there that made it 160 00:07:11,431 --> 00:07:12,807 a little bit more difficult for me to make it 161 00:07:12,933 --> 00:07:13,934 the day before. 162 00:07:14,059 --> 00:07:15,101 And I know there was some other people 163 00:07:15,226 --> 00:07:16,937 who weren't able to make it at all, 164 00:07:17,062 --> 00:07:19,940 like Sammi, with her anxiety of flying and things like that. 165 00:07:20,023 --> 00:07:21,775 It's just too much for her at that point. 166 00:07:21,900 --> 00:07:24,402 So I think Bay and Colin could have picked a little bit more 167 00:07:24,486 --> 00:07:25,779 of a convenient location. 168 00:07:25,904 --> 00:07:30,241 I mean, they have to come five, six hours themselves. 169 00:07:30,325 --> 00:07:31,326 All right, on your left. 170 00:07:32,369 --> 00:07:33,411 -[Eileen] Oh, wow. -[Baylen] Thank you. 171 00:07:33,495 --> 00:07:35,163 -[Eileen] Wow. -Anyone else? 172 00:07:35,288 --> 00:07:37,499 -How's the food, guys? -Delicious. 173 00:07:37,624 --> 00:07:38,959 -It's good. -[Colin] Is it good? 174 00:07:39,084 --> 00:07:40,794 -The pancakes are good. -[Ethan] Are they actually? 175 00:07:40,877 --> 00:07:42,629 Because I feel like it might be undercooked. 176 00:07:44,631 --> 00:07:45,840 They're a little squishy. 177 00:07:47,258 --> 00:07:48,885 The food is questionable. 178 00:07:48,969 --> 00:07:52,889 I think my pancake's raw, but no complaints. 179 00:07:52,973 --> 00:07:54,975 I'm very grateful that the men are making us breakfast. 180 00:07:56,518 --> 00:07:58,311 Let's do a cheers. 181 00:07:58,436 --> 00:07:59,854 Goddamn! 182 00:07:59,980 --> 00:08:02,065 We really hope everybody had a great time this weekend. 183 00:08:02,148 --> 00:08:03,483 -I had a blast. -Everyone can suck a dick. 184 00:08:04,693 --> 00:08:06,486 -Here we go! -[overlapping] Cheers! 185 00:08:06,611 --> 00:08:07,654 To Baylen and Colin. 186 00:08:07,779 --> 00:08:09,489 Look how I'm holding it, like -- 187 00:08:09,614 --> 00:08:10,991 For Narnia! 188 00:08:11,116 --> 00:08:12,826 Who's the bartender? 189 00:08:16,162 --> 00:08:17,956 ♪ My world is a fantasy ♪ 190 00:08:18,039 --> 00:08:19,290 ♪ Take a look inside ♪ 191 00:08:19,374 --> 00:08:20,709 ♪ It's so hard to find ♪ 192 00:08:20,834 --> 00:08:24,504 ♪ [indistinct lyrics continue] ♪ 193 00:08:24,629 --> 00:08:26,131 ♪ Burning up, burning up ♪ 194 00:08:26,214 --> 00:08:28,174 ♪ My world is a fantasy ♪ 195 00:08:31,136 --> 00:08:33,763 [Baylen] I'm gonna miss this place. 196 00:08:33,847 --> 00:08:37,183 Since my conversation with Colleen last night, 197 00:08:37,308 --> 00:08:41,520 I have just been thinking about the role of maid of honor. 198 00:08:41,604 --> 00:08:42,938 And it's really important 199 00:08:43,023 --> 00:08:46,776 that Baylen hears what I have to say. 200 00:08:46,860 --> 00:08:49,779 So last night I talked to Colleen, I pulled her aside 201 00:08:49,863 --> 00:08:52,323 and I asked her -- -Sucked Austin's dick. 202 00:08:52,407 --> 00:08:54,868 I asked her to say a speech at our wedding. 203 00:08:54,951 --> 00:08:59,372 -Yeah. -She is my sister... 204 00:08:59,497 --> 00:09:02,917 and... -She's a huge part of your life. 205 00:09:03,043 --> 00:09:05,211 Yeah, she just, uh... 206 00:09:12,135 --> 00:09:16,056 -I wouldn't be here if it wasn't for her. -[Baylen] Yeah. 207 00:09:16,181 --> 00:09:19,225 She's pulled me out of... 208 00:09:19,350 --> 00:09:22,228 so many dark spots throughout life. 209 00:09:22,312 --> 00:09:24,898 And to have someone 210 00:09:25,023 --> 00:09:29,194 in your corner like that, 211 00:09:29,277 --> 00:09:31,071 that you can count on, 212 00:09:31,196 --> 00:09:32,614 just means the world. 213 00:09:32,739 --> 00:09:34,657 And so that's why I want her to be able to... 214 00:09:35,992 --> 00:09:37,410 just talk about our relationship 215 00:09:37,535 --> 00:09:42,790 that we've had and built and grew throughout the years 216 00:09:43,792 --> 00:09:45,293 at our wedding, so... 217 00:09:46,753 --> 00:09:48,838 I love the idea of Colleen 218 00:09:48,922 --> 00:09:50,090 giving a speech at our wedding, 219 00:09:50,215 --> 00:09:53,259 because I know how much Colleen means to Colin. 220 00:09:53,343 --> 00:09:56,471 It's just true unapologetic love 221 00:09:56,596 --> 00:09:59,474 that he deserves. 222 00:09:59,599 --> 00:10:02,685 -She's your rock. -We both have one sister, 223 00:10:02,769 --> 00:10:07,065 and so I know how much Sammi means to you. 224 00:10:07,148 --> 00:10:08,650 And the fact 225 00:10:08,775 --> 00:10:10,610 that these past few months have been so hard 226 00:10:10,735 --> 00:10:13,279 and you're you've just been so heartbroken about it, 227 00:10:13,363 --> 00:10:14,531 it's hard to watch. 228 00:10:16,324 --> 00:10:17,325 So I just... 229 00:10:19,244 --> 00:10:22,038 with Sammi as the maid of honor, 230 00:10:23,123 --> 00:10:26,459 there are some things that need to change. 231 00:10:28,503 --> 00:10:31,005 Colin is the type of person to hold a grudge, 232 00:10:31,131 --> 00:10:33,341 so I'm very nervous to know 233 00:10:33,466 --> 00:10:36,469 what he might suggest about Sammi. 234 00:10:36,594 --> 00:10:38,847 Hm. [bleep] bitch. 235 00:10:40,306 --> 00:10:41,307 So what are you suggesting? 236 00:10:45,687 --> 00:10:49,357 I just want to know why you couldn't be there. 237 00:10:55,446 --> 00:10:58,074 -You guys did choose a very... -Dick. 238 00:10:58,158 --> 00:11:00,535 ...remote place for your wedding. 239 00:11:00,660 --> 00:11:02,162 [Julie] The fact's that a third 240 00:11:02,287 --> 00:11:04,706 of Baylen's bachelor-bachelorette party 241 00:11:04,831 --> 00:11:08,168 was not able to make it, if that same scenario happens 242 00:11:08,293 --> 00:11:11,171 for the wedding, Baylen would absolutely be devastated. 243 00:11:20,680 --> 00:11:25,894 With Sammi as the maid of honor, there are some things 244 00:11:25,977 --> 00:11:29,731 that need to change. -Dick! 245 00:11:31,399 --> 00:11:33,234 Are you saying she shouldn't be my maid of honor? 246 00:11:38,239 --> 00:11:39,532 No, that's not what I'm saying. 247 00:11:41,034 --> 00:11:43,620 What I'm saying is I think you and her really need 248 00:11:43,745 --> 00:11:45,914 to sit down and have a face-to-face conversation 249 00:11:45,997 --> 00:11:47,665 with each other. 250 00:11:47,749 --> 00:11:49,417 There needs to be... 251 00:11:49,542 --> 00:11:53,546 expectations and there needs to be communication 252 00:11:53,630 --> 00:11:56,090 of what those expectations are. 253 00:11:56,216 --> 00:11:59,552 And I know you don't like confrontation. 254 00:11:59,636 --> 00:12:01,679 I know you try to avoid it. 255 00:12:01,763 --> 00:12:03,473 I can't avoid this conversation. 256 00:12:05,600 --> 00:12:07,936 [Baylen] I don't like confrontation or having hard conversations 257 00:12:08,019 --> 00:12:10,188 because that's how I was programmed and built, 258 00:12:10,271 --> 00:12:12,690 so I just don't like it. 259 00:12:14,817 --> 00:12:16,236 You can carry that inside. 260 00:12:16,319 --> 00:12:17,362 -OK. -[Baylen] OK. 261 00:12:17,445 --> 00:12:19,822 -And I love you. -[Colin] I love you, too. 262 00:12:19,948 --> 00:12:23,243 [Baylen] And I know my sister is very strong-opinionated, 263 00:12:23,326 --> 00:12:26,287 but this conversation cannot be avoided. 264 00:12:26,371 --> 00:12:27,956 So we're gonna have this conversation 265 00:12:28,039 --> 00:12:29,207 one way or another. 266 00:12:29,290 --> 00:12:31,626 All right, let's go finish packing up, OK? 267 00:12:31,709 --> 00:12:32,669 -Will you get that for me? -Yep. 268 00:12:32,794 --> 00:12:33,795 OK. 269 00:12:35,463 --> 00:12:37,257 -I don't want to leave. -[Colin] I know. 270 00:12:40,969 --> 00:12:43,471 ♪ [remixed vocals] ♪ 271 00:12:43,596 --> 00:12:45,098 ♪ They can see what they wanna see ♪ 272 00:12:45,181 --> 00:12:46,557 ♪ Oh, oh ♪ 273 00:12:46,641 --> 00:12:48,685 ♪ [indistinct lyrics] ♪ 274 00:12:48,810 --> 00:12:51,813 ♪ I'll keep being me, they keep being they ♪ 275 00:12:53,356 --> 00:12:55,275 ♪ They can leave when they wanna leave ♪ 276 00:12:55,358 --> 00:12:57,568 ♪ Oh, oh, they can leave ♪ 277 00:12:57,652 --> 00:13:00,530 ♪ And you can tell 'em that Imma keep being me ♪ 278 00:13:04,117 --> 00:13:05,285 Now that we're back 279 00:13:05,368 --> 00:13:06,953 from our bachelor-bachelorette party, 280 00:13:07,036 --> 00:13:08,997 I know that I can't put off the conversation 281 00:13:09,080 --> 00:13:11,165 that Colin's been wanting me to have with my sister, Sammi, 282 00:13:11,249 --> 00:13:14,168 because the tension's just gonna keep building between us, 283 00:13:14,294 --> 00:13:16,045 and it will never get resolved. 284 00:13:16,170 --> 00:13:17,672 Sammi sucks a lot of dick. 285 00:13:17,797 --> 00:13:19,674 [short whimper] 286 00:13:19,757 --> 00:13:20,758 [short whimper] 287 00:13:20,842 --> 00:13:21,843 [line rings] 288 00:13:24,971 --> 00:13:26,014 What are you doing? 289 00:13:27,682 --> 00:13:28,891 Oh, OK. 290 00:13:29,017 --> 00:13:30,768 Well, I just wanted to call you 291 00:13:30,852 --> 00:13:34,439 because it's been a couple days since the bachelorette trip, 292 00:13:34,522 --> 00:13:38,192 and I just want to know... 293 00:13:39,319 --> 00:13:41,571 a little bit more from your standpoint 294 00:13:41,696 --> 00:13:46,409 so I can understand why you couldn't be there. 295 00:14:11,559 --> 00:14:12,560 It's OK. 296 00:14:15,521 --> 00:14:16,522 Suck dick. 297 00:14:18,358 --> 00:14:19,650 I just don't want to dwell on it. 298 00:14:19,734 --> 00:14:21,736 I don't want it to seem like I'm like, bashing Baylen, 299 00:14:21,861 --> 00:14:23,363 I'm not dwelling on it or anything, 300 00:14:23,446 --> 00:14:24,447 it was both of our faults. 301 00:14:24,572 --> 00:14:26,407 And I completely acknowledge that. 302 00:14:26,532 --> 00:14:29,160 It's just hard with my anxiety and OCD and traveling, 303 00:14:29,243 --> 00:14:31,287 and it's really an inconvenience for anybody 304 00:14:31,412 --> 00:14:33,623 to travel, of course. It was just a mess. 305 00:14:33,748 --> 00:14:34,999 That's all -- it was just a mess. 306 00:14:41,923 --> 00:14:43,383 I know, but really -- 307 00:14:43,466 --> 00:14:45,551 But really -- 308 00:14:52,892 --> 00:14:56,104 I just think the issue was 309 00:14:56,229 --> 00:14:57,980 us not communicating properly 310 00:14:58,106 --> 00:15:02,235 and me not completely... Goddamn! 311 00:15:02,318 --> 00:15:03,319 [short whimper] 312 00:15:03,444 --> 00:15:06,114 ...telling you what I want from you 313 00:15:06,197 --> 00:15:08,449 as a maid of honor, which that's my fault. 314 00:15:08,533 --> 00:15:11,160 We're both kind of... 315 00:15:11,285 --> 00:15:12,829 on the same wavelength here. 316 00:15:12,954 --> 00:15:15,540 Like, we both just really messed up. 317 00:15:15,623 --> 00:15:17,959 I do want to help you clear up some things, 318 00:15:18,042 --> 00:15:19,377 and I made a list 319 00:15:19,460 --> 00:15:22,547 to help you understand kind of what role you have. 320 00:15:22,630 --> 00:15:24,132 [Sammi] Mm-hmm. 321 00:15:24,215 --> 00:15:27,718 To continue not having miscommunication with my sister, 322 00:15:27,802 --> 00:15:32,723 Colin suggested that I lay out expectations for Sammi 323 00:15:32,807 --> 00:15:34,976 moving forward, and I did that. 324 00:15:35,101 --> 00:15:37,186 As my maid of honor, here's the list. 325 00:15:37,311 --> 00:15:39,730 So before the wedding, help coordinate 326 00:15:39,814 --> 00:15:41,399 the bridal shower, 327 00:15:41,482 --> 00:15:44,360 attend dress shopping, be the main point of contact 328 00:15:44,485 --> 00:15:46,988 for my bridal party -- suck a [bleep], 329 00:15:47,113 --> 00:15:48,531 keep the bridal party on tr -- 330 00:15:50,032 --> 00:15:51,659 [laughing] 331 00:15:55,663 --> 00:15:57,999 Share schedules, payment deadlines, 332 00:15:58,082 --> 00:16:01,002 and outfit requirements. Confirm travel plans. 333 00:16:01,085 --> 00:16:03,671 Be in charge of fixing my train at the ceremony. 334 00:16:03,754 --> 00:16:06,007 Make sure my dress and veil look perfect walking down 335 00:16:06,090 --> 00:16:08,426 the aisle and hold the bouquet during vows. 336 00:16:08,509 --> 00:16:09,802 Walk down the aisle before the bride. 337 00:16:09,886 --> 00:16:11,345 I don't know why that's on there. 338 00:16:11,471 --> 00:16:12,722 I [bleep] hope so. 339 00:16:15,850 --> 00:16:17,685 I went to Google because, 340 00:16:17,810 --> 00:16:18,936 you know, I'm a first-time bride. 341 00:16:19,020 --> 00:16:21,063 I don't really know what you're supposed to do. 342 00:16:22,523 --> 00:16:25,693 She's like, "Walk down the aisle before me." 343 00:16:25,776 --> 00:16:26,944 Well no [bleep], Bay. 344 00:16:27,028 --> 00:16:29,363 I'd hope I'd walk down the aisle before you. 345 00:16:29,447 --> 00:16:32,074 Like, she's like, "Take my flowers." 346 00:16:32,200 --> 00:16:34,535 Baylen, oh, my gosh. 347 00:16:34,660 --> 00:16:36,454 But also, now I know I'm the middleman 348 00:16:36,537 --> 00:16:38,206 between her and all these bridesmaids. 349 00:16:38,331 --> 00:16:39,790 They're not my friends or whatever, but, like, 350 00:16:39,874 --> 00:16:41,334 [bleep], I'm in charge. 351 00:16:41,417 --> 00:16:42,710 Like, I gotta text all these girls 352 00:16:42,835 --> 00:16:44,795 that I don't even know their name. 353 00:16:44,879 --> 00:16:47,048 It's gonna be a [bleep]show, but it'll get done. 354 00:16:48,049 --> 00:16:50,551 I'll send you the list, but I feel like this call 355 00:16:50,635 --> 00:16:53,513 was great, and I love you so much... -I love you too. 356 00:16:53,596 --> 00:16:55,139 -I love you. -And you mean so much to me, 357 00:16:55,223 --> 00:16:57,099 you're my only sister, 358 00:16:57,225 --> 00:16:59,393 and nothing, nothing will break us. 359 00:17:01,979 --> 00:17:02,980 [Baylen] OK, have a good night. 360 00:17:06,567 --> 00:17:09,194 [Baylen] I know Colin's nervous that Sammi can pull this off, 361 00:17:09,278 --> 00:17:12,323 but I've definitely laid out the guidelines of what I need 362 00:17:12,406 --> 00:17:14,282 from her and my expectations. 363 00:17:14,407 --> 00:17:16,035 So for all of our sakes, 364 00:17:16,117 --> 00:17:19,038 I want Sammi to really shine and prove everybody wrong. 365 00:17:22,333 --> 00:17:25,586 So I just wanted to, like, just, like, let you know, 366 00:17:25,711 --> 00:17:27,463 like, from me and Sammi that we're both sorry 367 00:17:27,588 --> 00:17:28,714 for putting you in the middle. 368 00:17:28,798 --> 00:17:30,925 I don't mind being -- [gasp]. 369 00:17:31,050 --> 00:17:32,843 Are you OK? 370 00:17:32,927 --> 00:17:34,845 -We're six months out. -Yeah. 371 00:17:34,929 --> 00:17:39,267 Yeah, but I'm having really bad second guesses about it. -[Colin] Whe shou -- 372 00:17:39,392 --> 00:17:40,768 I know it's coming out of the blue, 373 00:17:40,893 --> 00:17:43,187 and Colin might be a little bit upset -- Colin! 374 00:17:43,271 --> 00:17:44,605 [Colin] What the [bleep], Baylen? 375 00:17:53,322 --> 00:17:55,658 [holiday music plays] 376 00:17:55,783 --> 00:17:57,577 ♪ Santa's in the zone on the sleigh ♪ 377 00:17:57,660 --> 00:17:58,786 ♪ Christmas Eve ♪ 378 00:17:58,869 --> 00:18:00,288 ♪ Yeah he's on the way ♪ 379 00:18:00,371 --> 00:18:02,123 ♪ Santa's in the zone on the sleigh ♪ 380 00:18:02,206 --> 00:18:03,624 ♪ Christmas Eve ♪ 381 00:18:03,708 --> 00:18:04,875 ♪ Yeah he's on the way ♪ 382 00:18:06,002 --> 00:18:09,005 I love everything about Christmas. 383 00:18:09,088 --> 00:18:10,923 I love going shopping and decorating, 384 00:18:11,007 --> 00:18:14,010 and all their traditions that come with Christmas. 385 00:18:14,135 --> 00:18:15,928 I love Christmas. 386 00:18:16,012 --> 00:18:17,722 Feliz Navi-dick-off. [short whimper] 387 00:18:18,973 --> 00:18:20,057 -Hi. -Hi. 388 00:18:20,182 --> 00:18:21,601 How was your ride share? 389 00:18:21,684 --> 00:18:22,935 It dropped me off a block away. 390 00:18:23,019 --> 00:18:24,520 I didn't know where to look for you. 391 00:18:24,604 --> 00:18:26,105 But it's fine because we're only 20 minutes away 392 00:18:26,188 --> 00:18:27,565 from where I live, so... 393 00:18:27,690 --> 00:18:29,900 -OK. -And I've wanted to come here for so long. 394 00:18:30,026 --> 00:18:32,361 -[Julie] OK. -Oh my God, Mom, I'm getting that. 395 00:18:32,445 --> 00:18:33,988 -[Julie] OK, let's -- -[Baylen] I'm getting that. 396 00:18:34,071 --> 00:18:35,531 -That's mine. -[Julie] Let's focus. 397 00:18:35,615 --> 00:18:38,618 I asked my mom to come to DC to the Christmas holiday market 398 00:18:38,701 --> 00:18:42,705 so we could do a little bit of shopping and to let her know 399 00:18:42,830 --> 00:18:44,332 kind of how the call with Sammi went. 400 00:18:44,415 --> 00:18:45,416 [short whimper] 401 00:18:48,085 --> 00:18:49,420 -I did it. -[Julie] What? 402 00:18:49,545 --> 00:18:51,964 -I called Sammi. -Oh, good. 403 00:18:52,048 --> 00:18:55,509 I just wanted to know why Sammi couldn't make 404 00:18:55,593 --> 00:18:58,679 the bachelor-bachelorette trip in Asheville. -Mm-hmm. 405 00:18:58,763 --> 00:19:00,806 Just help me understand better...hi. 406 00:19:00,890 --> 00:19:02,308 Hi, what can I get for you? 407 00:19:02,391 --> 00:19:03,768 Can I get hot chocolate 408 00:19:03,893 --> 00:19:05,227 with a lot of whipped cream, please? 409 00:19:05,311 --> 00:19:07,730 [worker] A lot of whipped cream? Yeah, you got it. 410 00:19:07,855 --> 00:19:09,065 -[Julie] I'm gonna do the same. -[worker] Awesome. 411 00:19:09,190 --> 00:19:10,358 -Yeah. -[worker] Here you all are. 412 00:19:10,441 --> 00:19:11,692 -Thank you so much. -Of course. 413 00:19:11,776 --> 00:19:13,444 -[Baylen] Whoo-hoo. -We got napkins there for you. 414 00:19:13,569 --> 00:19:14,654 [Baylen] Whoo-hoo, whoo-hoo. 415 00:19:14,737 --> 00:19:15,946 Goddamn! 416 00:19:17,073 --> 00:19:18,949 [short whimper] Bald bitch. 417 00:19:19,075 --> 00:19:20,242 See, I waited, I waited. 418 00:19:20,368 --> 00:19:23,204 -He walked by, he walked by. -You did a good job. 419 00:19:23,287 --> 00:19:25,915 I delay my tics in a lot of scenarios hurt 420 00:19:26,040 --> 00:19:27,958 other people's feelings -- 421 00:19:28,084 --> 00:19:30,586 I will either lower my voice and say it, 422 00:19:30,711 --> 00:19:34,465 or I will wait and then say it when they're not there. 423 00:19:34,590 --> 00:19:37,176 No, but there's no lie that there's been a lot of things 424 00:19:37,259 --> 00:19:38,803 that have been going on in Sammi's life, 425 00:19:38,928 --> 00:19:42,515 and I wanted to just get on the same wavelength with her, 426 00:19:42,598 --> 00:19:43,599 and we're both sorry 427 00:19:43,683 --> 00:19:45,142 for putting you in the middle. -Oh, my gosh. 428 00:19:45,267 --> 00:19:49,230 You guys are fine. I don't mind being -- [gasp]. 429 00:19:49,313 --> 00:19:50,439 -Are you OK? -[Baylen] Yeah. 430 00:19:50,523 --> 00:19:52,358 OK -- OK. Take your gloves off. 431 00:19:52,441 --> 00:19:54,944 Let me go grab some napkins. 432 00:19:55,069 --> 00:19:57,697 Do you guys have any napkins I could use really quick? 433 00:19:57,780 --> 00:19:59,615 Thank you so much. 434 00:19:59,740 --> 00:20:01,826 When I have the hot chocolate in my hands, 435 00:20:01,951 --> 00:20:05,621 I get the urge to squeeze it and it goes everywhere. 436 00:20:05,705 --> 00:20:07,540 Usually when things like this happen to me in public, 437 00:20:07,623 --> 00:20:10,126 I get kind of frantic and don't really know what to do 438 00:20:10,251 --> 00:20:13,295 because it's kind of like low-key embarrassing. 439 00:20:16,465 --> 00:20:18,426 -Yes, please. -Oh, sure. 440 00:20:18,509 --> 00:20:20,511 [short whimpers] 441 00:20:20,636 --> 00:20:22,304 -Thank you so much. -You're fine. 442 00:20:22,388 --> 00:20:24,098 [Julie] Did that warm you up for a second? 443 00:20:24,181 --> 00:20:25,349 Kind of. No, kind of. 444 00:20:25,474 --> 00:20:27,351 But now it sucks 'cause now I don't have gloves. 445 00:20:27,476 --> 00:20:30,271 -Want some gloves, too? -No, no. 446 00:20:30,354 --> 00:20:31,439 -No. -Thank you. 447 00:20:31,522 --> 00:20:33,232 A lot of shops. I bet you we could buy some. 448 00:20:33,315 --> 00:20:34,775 Yeah. Goddamn! 449 00:20:34,859 --> 00:20:35,776 -Thank you so much. -You're very welcome. 450 00:20:35,860 --> 00:20:36,902 [Baylen] I appreciate you a lot. 451 00:20:36,986 --> 00:20:37,987 I hope you guys have fun here. 452 00:20:38,112 --> 00:20:39,363 [Baylen] Thank you. You, too. 453 00:20:39,488 --> 00:20:40,990 -Thank you. -[Julie] You want me to keep these? 454 00:20:41,073 --> 00:20:42,241 Yeah. Oh, my God. 455 00:20:42,324 --> 00:20:44,702 -What a blessing. -Yeah -- OK. 456 00:20:44,827 --> 00:20:47,705 [Baylen] I am used to people laughing or staring 457 00:20:47,830 --> 00:20:49,582 or being mean to me behind my back, 458 00:20:49,665 --> 00:20:52,418 both in person and on social media. 459 00:20:52,501 --> 00:20:55,087 [short whimper] Whoo-hoo, whoo-hoo, whoo-hoo. 460 00:20:55,171 --> 00:20:56,839 So it makes me emotional. 461 00:20:56,922 --> 00:20:59,175 Because it's not every day that somebody else takes their time 462 00:20:59,300 --> 00:21:02,178 to help -- help me, so... 463 00:21:02,261 --> 00:21:04,138 So there are a lot of good people out there, 464 00:21:04,221 --> 00:21:05,598 like a real lot. 465 00:21:05,681 --> 00:21:07,183 [Baylen] It means a lot to me to know that people 466 00:21:07,266 --> 00:21:08,517 go out of their way to help me, 467 00:21:08,601 --> 00:21:10,352 especially strangers, so... 468 00:21:12,813 --> 00:21:14,398 Oh, look at ornaments, ornaments. 469 00:21:14,523 --> 00:21:15,816 Get an ornament, get an ornament. 470 00:21:17,193 --> 00:21:19,069 -[Baylen] Ooh. -What did, um... 471 00:21:19,195 --> 00:21:20,404 [Baylen] Ooh, I could get this for Colin. 472 00:21:22,448 --> 00:21:23,449 Oh, my gosh. 473 00:21:26,577 --> 00:21:29,163 You could -- let's -- let's look at all of them first. 474 00:21:30,164 --> 00:21:33,375 So, um, what more did Sam have to say 475 00:21:33,459 --> 00:21:35,211 about the bachelorette party? 476 00:21:35,294 --> 00:21:38,422 Basically that the location was terrible. 477 00:21:38,547 --> 00:21:41,967 It was, quote-unquote, in Bumfuck. 478 00:21:42,051 --> 00:21:44,887 -Oh, she said it was bum[bleep], OK. -Yeah. 479 00:21:45,012 --> 00:21:46,722 Which is fine. 480 00:21:46,806 --> 00:21:48,641 Colin's friend Mark couldn't come 481 00:21:48,724 --> 00:21:50,851 because of the -- that exact same reason. 482 00:21:50,935 --> 00:21:52,561 It's good to know that, though. 483 00:21:52,686 --> 00:21:54,980 -It's good to know that -- -Like, moving forward. 484 00:21:55,064 --> 00:21:56,774 Moving forward, like, 485 00:21:56,899 --> 00:21:58,651 I hope... 486 00:21:58,734 --> 00:22:03,072 that it doesn't play out the same way 487 00:22:03,572 --> 00:22:07,159 in regards to the wedding, because you guys did choose 488 00:22:07,243 --> 00:22:08,452 a very... -Dick. 489 00:22:08,577 --> 00:22:10,079 ...remote place for your wedding. 490 00:22:10,204 --> 00:22:12,915 Beautiful, but remote, and it does have -- 491 00:22:12,998 --> 00:22:14,083 Sorry, I'm just gonna step away from that. 492 00:22:14,208 --> 00:22:15,543 OK, step away. We can move a little bit. 493 00:22:15,626 --> 00:22:19,797 It does have some of the same, um, 494 00:22:19,922 --> 00:22:21,590 issues for people getting there. 495 00:22:24,093 --> 00:22:27,513 To be brutally honest, Baylen's chosen wedding venue 496 00:22:27,596 --> 00:22:30,182 is completely unideal. 497 00:22:30,266 --> 00:22:32,434 The nearest international airport 498 00:22:32,560 --> 00:22:34,311 is 2 1/2 hours away. 499 00:22:34,436 --> 00:22:36,772 It's up a mountain, so there's some shuttling. 500 00:22:36,856 --> 00:22:39,817 You have to get the catering up the mountain. 501 00:22:39,942 --> 00:22:42,987 -There is a lot. -Oh, my Tootie! 502 00:22:43,112 --> 00:22:45,155 -[Julie] OK, the Tootie's good. -[Baylen] We got Tootie. 503 00:22:45,281 --> 00:22:47,116 -[Julie] Tootie's good. -[Baylen] We got Fluff. 504 00:22:47,199 --> 00:22:50,703 I'm not sure that she's totally hearing my questions 505 00:22:50,786 --> 00:22:53,873 or concerns, but the fact that a third 506 00:22:53,956 --> 00:22:56,500 of Baylen's bachelor-bachelorette party 507 00:22:56,625 --> 00:22:57,960 was not able to make it, 508 00:22:58,085 --> 00:23:00,963 if that same scenario happens for the wedding, 509 00:23:01,046 --> 00:23:03,841 Baylen would absolutely be devastated. 510 00:23:03,966 --> 00:23:07,303 There are consequences for any big decision 511 00:23:07,428 --> 00:23:08,888 because it can backfire 512 00:23:08,971 --> 00:23:10,806 if you're not thinking things through. 513 00:23:14,852 --> 00:23:16,687 [Baylen] Whoo-hoo, whoo-hoo, whoo-hoo, fuck. 514 00:23:16,812 --> 00:23:18,856 Fucking bitch. 515 00:23:18,981 --> 00:23:20,357 Fucking bitch. 516 00:23:20,482 --> 00:23:22,192 Little does everyone know, they're all getting cussed out. 517 00:23:23,611 --> 00:23:24,820 -[Chris] Cheers. -Cheers. 518 00:23:24,904 --> 00:23:26,947 Great to see you guys again. 519 00:23:27,031 --> 00:23:28,949 Tonight, we're meeting with our wedding planners. 520 00:23:29,033 --> 00:23:31,160 Yeah, so there is something that we did want 521 00:23:31,243 --> 00:23:32,620 to talk to you guys about. 522 00:23:34,413 --> 00:23:35,831 -Uh... -Uh...[clears throat]. 523 00:23:44,006 --> 00:23:45,633 ♪ Fa, la, la, la, la ♪ 524 00:23:45,716 --> 00:23:47,468 ♪ Fa, la, la, la, la ♪ 525 00:23:47,551 --> 00:23:51,347 ♪ Fa, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la ♪ 526 00:23:51,430 --> 00:23:54,850 ♪ Deck the halls with bows of holly ♪ 527 00:23:54,934 --> 00:23:57,895 ♪ Fa, la, la, la, la, la, la, la, la ♪ 528 00:23:59,730 --> 00:24:00,981 I'm gonna... 529 00:24:01,065 --> 00:24:02,066 -Um, you -- Suck dick. 530 00:24:03,651 --> 00:24:05,945 You know I'm not the best at ice skating. -No biggie. 531 00:24:06,070 --> 00:24:08,739 So I'm gonna give it my try. 532 00:24:08,864 --> 00:24:10,574 If I fall, I fall. 533 00:24:10,699 --> 00:24:14,870 'Tis the season for wieners, little baby wieners. 534 00:24:14,954 --> 00:24:18,040 After hearing my mom's concerns about the wedding venue, 535 00:24:18,123 --> 00:24:20,417 I need some time to really process it all, 536 00:24:20,542 --> 00:24:23,253 and the DC holiday market really put me in the spirit 537 00:24:23,379 --> 00:24:25,005 for Christmas, so we're meeting up 538 00:24:25,089 --> 00:24:27,174 with Bechnir and my mom to go ice skating. 539 00:24:28,425 --> 00:24:30,344 I got these heavy-duty skates. 540 00:24:32,179 --> 00:24:34,223 [Baylen] I really enjoy starting, like, traditions 541 00:24:34,306 --> 00:24:38,310 with you during Christmas time, but I do have a lot of triggers 542 00:24:38,435 --> 00:24:40,980 around the holidays when it comes to my tics. 543 00:24:41,105 --> 00:24:43,065 -Santa. -The Grinch. 544 00:24:43,148 --> 00:24:45,442 The Grinch. 545 00:24:45,526 --> 00:24:47,361 -That's a -- -[Baylen] We're not gonna go through the list. 546 00:24:47,444 --> 00:24:49,113 Ho, ho, ho your ass back to the sleigh, 547 00:24:49,196 --> 00:24:50,948 you fat ass bitch. 548 00:24:51,073 --> 00:24:52,491 That would be about Santa. 549 00:24:55,619 --> 00:24:57,913 -Are you excited? -I am excited. 550 00:24:57,997 --> 00:24:59,623 -I used to love skating as a kid. -Oh yeah. 551 00:24:59,748 --> 00:25:01,959 It used to be my favorite thing to do, 552 00:25:02,042 --> 00:25:04,420 especially when all my friends, we would all meet up and go 553 00:25:04,503 --> 00:25:06,463 to, like, the skating rink on Fridays. 554 00:25:07,965 --> 00:25:10,592 Thank God there's not a lot of people for me to, like, 555 00:25:10,676 --> 00:25:12,970 run over on accident. -[Baylen] OK. 556 00:25:13,095 --> 00:25:14,972 [bleep] them kids. 557 00:25:15,097 --> 00:25:18,267 I've only been, like, twice in my life. 558 00:25:18,350 --> 00:25:20,811 I can go pretty fast until I hit a wall 559 00:25:20,894 --> 00:25:22,396 or something to stop. 560 00:25:22,479 --> 00:25:24,898 "I can go fast until I hit a wall." 561 00:25:24,982 --> 00:25:26,734 I can't stop. 562 00:25:26,817 --> 00:25:28,235 I kind of like these, though. 563 00:25:28,318 --> 00:25:30,154 These got, like, heel support. 564 00:25:30,279 --> 00:25:31,739 [grunts] 565 00:25:31,822 --> 00:25:33,949 Colin really needs to redeem himself. 566 00:25:34,033 --> 00:25:37,661 Colin! After his attempts at sports. 567 00:25:38,912 --> 00:25:41,623 [instructor] Place the fingers behind the back. 568 00:25:42,791 --> 00:25:43,792 What? 569 00:25:45,169 --> 00:25:46,170 -[bang] -Oh! 570 00:25:49,006 --> 00:25:51,008 I hope he's better at golf. 571 00:25:52,259 --> 00:25:53,343 [whoosh, thwack] 572 00:25:53,469 --> 00:25:54,470 -That's in the water. -Alright. 573 00:25:56,013 --> 00:25:57,014 Oh. 574 00:25:58,932 --> 00:26:01,268 What's your favorite Christmas song? 575 00:26:01,351 --> 00:26:02,853 I like Rudolph. 576 00:26:02,978 --> 00:26:05,022 [singing] Rudolph the red-nosed reindeer. 577 00:26:05,147 --> 00:26:06,356 Had a little baby wiener. 578 00:26:06,440 --> 00:26:08,192 [laughing] 579 00:26:08,317 --> 00:26:10,152 Pew, pew, pew. Motherfucker. 580 00:26:11,195 --> 00:26:12,279 I mean... 581 00:26:13,489 --> 00:26:15,991 I shot Rudolph. Sorry. 582 00:26:16,075 --> 00:26:17,367 I was trying to hold that in. 583 00:26:17,493 --> 00:26:18,786 Yeah, it wasn't gonna work out. 584 00:26:18,869 --> 00:26:20,996 Sorry, guys. I did not shoot Rudolph. 585 00:26:22,372 --> 00:26:24,166 [Colin] Well, here they are. 586 00:26:24,249 --> 00:26:25,334 Hi. 587 00:26:26,543 --> 00:26:28,128 Yeah, we're quite freezing. 588 00:26:28,212 --> 00:26:29,713 -OK. -My toes already feel hardened in here. 589 00:26:29,797 --> 00:26:31,548 Hey, you see this rail right here? 590 00:26:31,673 --> 00:26:32,883 The penguin is waiting for me at the entrance. 591 00:26:32,966 --> 00:26:35,260 Colin, you and me are gonna be living there. 592 00:26:35,385 --> 00:26:36,678 You're not much of an ice skater? 593 00:26:36,762 --> 00:26:38,472 -That rail? -I skated, like, two years ago. 594 00:26:38,555 --> 00:26:40,557 [Julie] It's gonna be your best friend. 595 00:26:42,309 --> 00:26:44,061 My mom is gonna be the best skater. 596 00:26:44,144 --> 00:26:45,521 Yeah, probably Julie. 597 00:26:45,604 --> 00:26:47,397 -Yeah. -She's skated the longest. 598 00:26:47,523 --> 00:26:49,358 Are you guys ready to start skating? 599 00:26:49,441 --> 00:26:50,442 -No. -I have to pee. 600 00:26:50,567 --> 00:26:52,486 -I have so much anxiety. -You'll be fine. 601 00:26:52,569 --> 00:26:57,908 When I was in seventh grade, I did attempt a triple salchow 602 00:26:58,033 --> 00:27:00,452 from Kristi Yamaguchi, but I did go down and, like, 603 00:27:00,577 --> 00:27:03,247 break my wrists. -Don't try it today. 604 00:27:03,330 --> 00:27:04,915 Not today, though. 605 00:27:06,416 --> 00:27:08,210 OK, everybody start slow. 606 00:27:08,293 --> 00:27:10,546 -[Bechnir] All right. -Oh, look at Baylen taking off. 607 00:27:10,629 --> 00:27:11,713 -All right, Baylen. -Hold up. 608 00:27:11,797 --> 00:27:13,799 -Hold up. -[Julie] Oh, gosh. 609 00:27:13,924 --> 00:27:16,760 -Wait, stop leaving. -Stop leaving. 610 00:27:16,844 --> 00:27:18,595 Colin, don't leave me. 611 00:27:18,679 --> 00:27:20,222 -Help. -Oh, my God. 612 00:27:21,348 --> 00:27:23,058 Whoo-hoo, whoo-hoo, whoo-hoo, fuck. 613 00:27:23,142 --> 00:27:24,518 Fucking bitch. 614 00:27:24,601 --> 00:27:26,687 Fucking bitch of a motherfucker broke ass motherfucker. 615 00:27:26,770 --> 00:27:28,856 Bitch-ass motherfucker. Broke-ass motherfucker. 616 00:27:28,939 --> 00:27:29,982 Fucking bitch. 617 00:27:31,692 --> 00:27:33,569 Little does everyone know they're all getting cussed out. 618 00:27:35,237 --> 00:27:37,239 -[Bechnir] Oh, my God. -[Colin] Oh, this is nice. 619 00:27:37,322 --> 00:27:39,032 [Colin] How did Colin get up there? 620 00:27:39,116 --> 00:27:41,118 Where is he? Oh, because he's got the penguin. 621 00:27:41,243 --> 00:27:43,036 -Do you want one? -[Bechnir] No. 622 00:27:45,038 --> 00:27:46,248 Definitely everyone. 623 00:27:47,291 --> 00:27:48,625 Just Bechnir. 624 00:27:48,709 --> 00:27:50,294 And Colin. 625 00:27:50,419 --> 00:27:53,130 Oh my gosh, Baylen, I almost fell with Frosty. 626 00:27:53,255 --> 00:27:55,549 Can you do this? Ca -- 627 00:27:55,632 --> 00:27:56,800 [laughs] 628 00:27:56,884 --> 00:27:58,218 [Bechnir] No. We'll just stick to here. 629 00:27:58,302 --> 00:28:00,304 Like, if I was If I was playing baseball right now, 630 00:28:00,387 --> 00:28:02,222 I'd be winning, of course. 631 00:28:02,306 --> 00:28:03,891 -We're gonna have to put in -- -Those are two different sports. 632 00:28:03,974 --> 00:28:06,268 We're gonna have to put him in some hockey classes. 633 00:28:12,774 --> 00:28:13,901 [laughing] 634 00:28:15,611 --> 00:28:17,988 Are you OK? OK, guys, it's time to go. 635 00:28:18,113 --> 00:28:19,823 [Julie] Everybody's going backwards now. 636 00:28:19,948 --> 00:28:21,700 -Reverse. -[Colin] I'm just now getting the hang of it, come on now. 637 00:28:22,784 --> 00:28:25,037 Whoo-hoo, whoo-hoo, whoo-hoo. 638 00:28:25,162 --> 00:28:28,707 Ice skating was so much fun, but after what my mom told me 639 00:28:28,832 --> 00:28:30,626 at the DC holiday market, 640 00:28:30,709 --> 00:28:32,461 I still have to process and think 641 00:28:32,544 --> 00:28:36,173 about our venue before going and bringing it up to Colin. 642 00:28:36,256 --> 00:28:37,466 Colin! 643 00:28:37,549 --> 00:28:39,343 Feels good to have my feet back. 644 00:28:39,426 --> 00:28:40,510 Once a winter. 645 00:28:40,636 --> 00:28:42,846 That's all you need for skating. 646 00:28:42,971 --> 00:28:44,640 Only once a winter. 647 00:28:44,723 --> 00:28:47,601 Colin is opinionated and very strong-headed, 648 00:28:47,684 --> 00:28:49,770 so I don't know what I'm gonna do. 649 00:28:51,188 --> 00:28:52,189 Take a dick. 650 00:28:56,360 --> 00:28:59,196 ♪ I've been good this year ♪ 651 00:28:59,279 --> 00:29:05,661 ♪ Let's open presents early, wrapping paper everywhere ♪ 652 00:29:05,744 --> 00:29:08,830 ♪ Give me everything I want ♪ 653 00:29:08,914 --> 00:29:10,249 [Baylen] Suck a dick. 654 00:29:12,209 --> 00:29:14,211 Are you excited to put up the Christmas tree? 655 00:29:14,336 --> 00:29:15,879 I am. 656 00:29:16,004 --> 00:29:19,216 [Baylen] This is our first year putting up our own tree, 657 00:29:19,341 --> 00:29:21,134 and we decided to put the Christmas tree 658 00:29:21,218 --> 00:29:22,552 in our bedroom this year 659 00:29:22,636 --> 00:29:25,013 because any way that we're able to prevent the dogs 660 00:29:25,097 --> 00:29:27,224 from knocking or kicking or peeing 661 00:29:27,307 --> 00:29:29,101 on our Christmas tree, the better. 662 00:29:30,143 --> 00:29:33,063 It's very pink. Very pink. 663 00:29:35,524 --> 00:29:36,525 [grumbling] 664 00:29:42,948 --> 00:29:44,825 Whoo-hoo, whoo-hoo, whoo-hoo, whoo-hoo. 665 00:29:44,908 --> 00:29:47,202 You know I'm bad at doing this, right? 666 00:29:47,286 --> 00:29:49,329 It doesn't take technique, babe. 667 00:29:49,413 --> 00:29:50,455 [Colin] Yeah, it does. 668 00:29:51,665 --> 00:29:54,960 So I did talk to Sammi, and it was a good conversation. 669 00:29:55,085 --> 00:29:57,379 It was a very much needed conversation, 670 00:29:57,462 --> 00:30:01,425 as much as I was scared to have the conversation. 671 00:30:01,550 --> 00:30:03,844 I gave Sammi a list of maid of honor duties, 672 00:30:03,927 --> 00:30:05,554 and moving forward means saying we're going to have 673 00:30:05,637 --> 00:30:06,638 better communication. 674 00:30:08,765 --> 00:30:11,935 I mean, I'm glad to hear that Sammi and Baylen were 675 00:30:12,060 --> 00:30:15,063 able to talk, and I hope that, you know, 676 00:30:15,147 --> 00:30:17,107 there can be better communication. 677 00:30:17,190 --> 00:30:19,401 Little baby wieners. 678 00:30:19,484 --> 00:30:23,113 [Colin] I honestly have no idea if everything will be 679 00:30:23,196 --> 00:30:24,448 smooth sailing from here 680 00:30:24,573 --> 00:30:28,160 or if it will kind of crumble again, 681 00:30:28,285 --> 00:30:29,369 but time will tell. 682 00:30:31,163 --> 00:30:33,123 There we go. 683 00:30:33,206 --> 00:30:34,458 Looks good. 684 00:30:34,583 --> 00:30:36,752 OK, now let's put the lights on. 685 00:30:36,835 --> 00:30:38,712 Pink lights for a pink tree. 686 00:30:38,795 --> 00:30:41,381 Little dick fuck. 687 00:30:41,465 --> 00:30:44,301 -Just the season for weenies. -[Colin laughs] 688 00:30:44,384 --> 00:30:46,470 It's so exciting to know that this is our last Christmas, 689 00:30:46,553 --> 00:30:48,305 but also very cherishing... 690 00:30:49,973 --> 00:30:51,016 It ain't our last Christmas. 691 00:30:51,141 --> 00:30:52,684 I'm not dying any time soon. Fuck. 692 00:30:52,809 --> 00:30:55,645 No, I just -- I just didn't finish. 693 00:30:55,771 --> 00:30:57,522 Like, I want to just cherish it. 694 00:30:57,647 --> 00:31:00,400 It's our last Christmas we have together before we're married. 695 00:31:00,484 --> 00:31:04,321 And then we have every Christmas together, guys. 696 00:31:04,446 --> 00:31:06,365 Yep, there she be. 697 00:31:07,282 --> 00:31:09,951 OK, now we have the ornaments. 698 00:31:10,035 --> 00:31:12,454 OK, I'm gonna give 'em to you, you're gonna put them on the tree. 699 00:31:12,537 --> 00:31:15,374 -Mm-hmm. -OK, we have an ice-cream cone. 700 00:31:15,499 --> 00:31:17,167 Do we not have any ornaments that are, like, 701 00:31:17,250 --> 00:31:19,836 sentimental to us? -Yeah, a pretzel. 702 00:31:19,920 --> 00:31:20,921 OK. 703 00:31:23,382 --> 00:31:25,425 There wouldn't -- there would be no tree. 704 00:31:25,509 --> 00:31:27,344 Colin doesn't really like to buy stuff, 705 00:31:27,469 --> 00:31:29,304 so there would be no decorations on there. 706 00:31:29,388 --> 00:31:31,473 -Yes, there would. -There would be lights. 707 00:31:31,556 --> 00:31:34,684 There just wouldn't be 18 donuts on there. 708 00:31:34,810 --> 00:31:37,687 This is sentimental. It's our favorite food. 709 00:31:37,771 --> 00:31:39,106 -What? -Cotton candy. 710 00:31:39,189 --> 00:31:40,607 Oh. 711 00:31:40,690 --> 00:31:43,235 We have ranch, because we brought ranch 712 00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:44,611 to London. 713 00:31:44,694 --> 00:31:48,865 Santa, ho, ho, hold your ass back to the damn sleigh. 714 00:31:48,949 --> 00:31:51,827 We have an alpaca. We got another alpaca. 715 00:31:51,910 --> 00:31:53,537 [laughing] We have maybe another. 716 00:31:55,038 --> 00:31:58,625 I think we have enough alpacas on the tree already. 717 00:31:58,708 --> 00:32:01,044 -Baylen, there's already three. -Wait until we have a yard. 718 00:32:01,128 --> 00:32:03,463 There'll be 18 blow-up alpacas in the front of it. 719 00:32:03,547 --> 00:32:05,298 No. 720 00:32:05,382 --> 00:32:07,717 No...no. 721 00:32:07,843 --> 00:32:09,219 I can promise you, that's a yes. 722 00:32:09,302 --> 00:32:10,595 I didn't make that purchase. 723 00:32:12,389 --> 00:32:13,932 This one's sentimental. 724 00:32:14,057 --> 00:32:16,226 Our first Christmas engaged, 2024. 725 00:32:16,309 --> 00:32:18,395 Oh. Sorry. 726 00:32:21,189 --> 00:32:23,525 So there's something I want to talk to you about. 727 00:32:23,608 --> 00:32:26,361 I was talking with my mom at the market when we went 728 00:32:26,445 --> 00:32:28,572 about going on our bachelor-bachelorette trip 729 00:32:28,697 --> 00:32:30,365 and finding out that there's a lot of people 730 00:32:30,449 --> 00:32:32,659 that can't go because the location. 731 00:32:32,742 --> 00:32:35,745 Have you given it a thought that maybe our location's 732 00:32:35,829 --> 00:32:38,415 in a bad place for our wedding? 733 00:32:40,083 --> 00:32:42,502 I don't think it's in a bad place. 734 00:32:42,586 --> 00:32:46,423 Every wedding is not gonna have everybody show up. 735 00:32:46,506 --> 00:32:48,675 There's a lot of variables that go into it, 736 00:32:48,758 --> 00:32:50,969 like going back from what Shannon said 737 00:32:51,094 --> 00:32:53,138 forever ago with us being venue-broke. 738 00:32:54,723 --> 00:32:56,516 I fell in love with the wedding venue 739 00:32:56,600 --> 00:32:57,767 as soon as I saw it, 740 00:32:57,893 --> 00:32:59,311 but I've just been doing a lot of thinking 741 00:32:59,436 --> 00:33:01,021 about what my mom said 742 00:33:01,104 --> 00:33:03,064 because it's in such a remote location. 743 00:33:03,148 --> 00:33:05,192 And if history repeats itself 744 00:33:05,275 --> 00:33:07,944 and people don't show up to the wedding 745 00:33:08,028 --> 00:33:09,404 the same way they didn't show up 746 00:33:09,488 --> 00:33:10,906 for the bachelor-bachelorette party, 747 00:33:10,989 --> 00:33:12,782 it'd be very disheartening. 748 00:33:12,908 --> 00:33:15,494 And plus, we have to pay travel fees for the caterers 749 00:33:15,619 --> 00:33:18,705 and all of the vendors because it's so remote. 750 00:33:18,788 --> 00:33:20,665 I decided that I would bring it up to Colin now 751 00:33:20,790 --> 00:33:25,212 because it's laying on my heart, and I want to be able 752 00:33:25,295 --> 00:33:26,796 to tell him before it's too late. 753 00:33:31,134 --> 00:33:32,469 What if we change our wedding venue? 754 00:33:37,307 --> 00:33:39,309 What the [bleep], Baylen? 755 00:33:39,392 --> 00:33:42,479 We're six months out from our wedding date, 756 00:33:42,604 --> 00:33:45,065 I already am feeling like 757 00:33:45,148 --> 00:33:48,235 we're behind on all of this wedding planning, 758 00:33:48,318 --> 00:33:49,903 and now Baylen's like, 759 00:33:49,986 --> 00:33:51,738 "Hey, what about changing our venue?" 760 00:33:51,821 --> 00:33:54,241 We've already put a deposit down, but yeah -- 761 00:33:54,324 --> 00:33:57,369 but sure, let's just start over. Yeah, let's start over. 762 00:34:10,549 --> 00:34:12,050 What if we change our wedding venue? 763 00:34:15,053 --> 00:34:18,389 We're six months out from our wedding. 764 00:34:18,473 --> 00:34:20,766 I know it's coming out of the blue, and Colin might be 765 00:34:20,891 --> 00:34:23,061 a little bit upset -- Colin! 766 00:34:23,143 --> 00:34:26,063 But my main priorities right now is to make sure 767 00:34:26,147 --> 00:34:28,315 that we have as many people there celebrating us 768 00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:30,068 on our wedding day as possible 769 00:34:30,150 --> 00:34:32,404 while totally not blowing our budget. 770 00:34:35,949 --> 00:34:38,243 If we had it at a different place 771 00:34:38,326 --> 00:34:39,494 where everything was on site, 772 00:34:39,578 --> 00:34:41,746 we wouldn't have to pay for transportation. 773 00:34:41,830 --> 00:34:44,331 I mean, I don't know. 774 00:34:44,416 --> 00:34:47,252 There is that other outdoor-indoor wedding venue 775 00:34:47,335 --> 00:34:49,545 that's closer to us that might work. 776 00:34:51,755 --> 00:34:55,217 Oh, it's like romantic. 777 00:34:55,302 --> 00:34:56,761 -[Colin] This is sick. -[Baylen] This is insane. 778 00:34:56,844 --> 00:34:58,430 So, we do all kinds of things. 779 00:34:58,513 --> 00:35:01,141 We have a late-night bites list that has chicken and waffles. 780 00:35:01,266 --> 00:35:03,977 It has cupcake bar. It has the fry time. 781 00:35:04,102 --> 00:35:07,522 For our guests, where is the closest place 782 00:35:07,606 --> 00:35:09,816 for them to stay? -Here. 783 00:35:11,610 --> 00:35:13,445 There's an airport an hour away 784 00:35:13,570 --> 00:35:15,363 instead of two and a half hours away, 785 00:35:15,447 --> 00:35:17,782 and it's an international airport. 786 00:35:17,907 --> 00:35:19,451 But at the end of the day, like... 787 00:35:19,576 --> 00:35:21,661 -We're six months out. -Yeah. 788 00:35:21,786 --> 00:35:22,829 With a date already picked 789 00:35:22,954 --> 00:35:25,915 and a venue already picked. -Yeah, so... 790 00:35:25,999 --> 00:35:30,295 But I'm having really bad second guesses about it. 791 00:35:30,420 --> 00:35:33,632 Talk to the wedding planner. That's all I got to say. 792 00:35:33,715 --> 00:35:34,716 [exhales] 793 00:35:41,014 --> 00:35:43,767 ♪ I'm so tired of going back and forth ♪ 794 00:35:43,850 --> 00:35:47,270 ♪ I'm so tired of going back and forth with you ♪ 795 00:35:47,354 --> 00:35:49,147 ♪ With you ♪ 796 00:35:50,315 --> 00:35:52,859 You excited to meet Shannon and Chris? 797 00:35:52,984 --> 00:35:55,070 -Yeah, I'm excited to see them. -Yeah. 798 00:35:55,153 --> 00:35:57,864 -Really excited. -Got a lot of stuff to talk about. 799 00:35:57,989 --> 00:35:59,658 [Baylen] Tonight we're meeting with our wedding planners. 800 00:35:59,783 --> 00:36:01,368 [Colin] And there's still a lot of stuff 801 00:36:01,493 --> 00:36:03,119 that we have to lock down for the wedding. 802 00:36:03,203 --> 00:36:05,288 And now we have to ask them if we can change our venue 803 00:36:05,372 --> 00:36:07,290 on top of everything else. 804 00:36:07,374 --> 00:36:09,501 I've been thinking about it, and I definitely see 805 00:36:09,584 --> 00:36:12,796 Baylen's point regarding the location. -[short whimpers] 806 00:36:12,879 --> 00:36:15,173 So I definitely want to get Shannon's perspective 807 00:36:15,256 --> 00:36:18,843 on the whole -- the whole change and everything. 808 00:36:18,968 --> 00:36:20,470 Hey guys, how are you? 809 00:36:20,553 --> 00:36:22,055 -[Baylen] Hi, it's nice to see you. -Have a sit. 810 00:36:22,180 --> 00:36:24,974 -You too, you look so cute. -Oh, thank you. 811 00:36:25,058 --> 00:36:27,352 -We ordered some food. I hope that was OK. -[Colin] Yeah. 812 00:36:27,435 --> 00:36:29,521 -Food is always fine. -I mean, 813 00:36:29,646 --> 00:36:32,023 we ordered drinks 'cause that's always fine too, so... 814 00:36:32,107 --> 00:36:33,274 -Mm-hmm. -Cheers. 815 00:36:33,358 --> 00:36:35,735 -Cheers. -Great to see you guys again. 816 00:36:40,532 --> 00:36:42,367 No. 817 00:36:42,450 --> 00:36:43,785 Six months out? Absolutely not. 818 00:36:43,868 --> 00:36:45,203 No. 819 00:36:45,286 --> 00:36:47,706 [Shannon] We like to have most of the logistics 820 00:36:47,789 --> 00:36:51,042 figured out by now, but there has not been 821 00:36:51,167 --> 00:36:53,878 a ton of progress made with Baylen and Colin 822 00:36:54,003 --> 00:36:55,755 since the last time we saw them. 823 00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:58,550 They haven't been doing a whole lot. 824 00:36:58,675 --> 00:37:00,635 It makes us feel a little bit nervous. 825 00:37:02,220 --> 00:37:03,513 [bleep] face. 826 00:37:03,596 --> 00:37:06,057 Let's get into it, 'cause we've got a lot 827 00:37:06,182 --> 00:37:09,227 of things to do in a short period of time, right? 828 00:37:09,352 --> 00:37:11,563 Really, we have to kind of take care of all of our guests, 829 00:37:11,688 --> 00:37:14,733 because this essentially is a destination wedding. 830 00:37:14,858 --> 00:37:18,403 We have all of these aspects that we need to worry about, 831 00:37:18,528 --> 00:37:21,030 the transportation, the hotels. 832 00:37:21,114 --> 00:37:25,160 -We've definitely locked in your hotel box. -Yeah, we've got a bunch of -- 833 00:37:25,243 --> 00:37:27,412 [Chris] So we're ready to start moving on transportation. 834 00:37:27,537 --> 00:37:29,080 Get all your guests from the hotels 835 00:37:29,205 --> 00:37:30,248 up to the wedding venue. 836 00:37:32,584 --> 00:37:35,295 Shannon and Chris start talking about all the stuff 837 00:37:35,420 --> 00:37:36,755 that they've been doing behind the scenes, 838 00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:39,674 and just internally for, I don't know about you, 839 00:37:39,758 --> 00:37:43,553 but for me, I'm sitting there and I feel like shit. -Guilty. 840 00:37:43,636 --> 00:37:45,138 -I feel guilty. -[Colin] Yeah. 841 00:37:45,263 --> 00:37:47,307 They're sitting here saying, "Hey, we've done all this." 842 00:37:47,432 --> 00:37:50,435 And then we know that we're about to ask them to basically 843 00:37:50,518 --> 00:37:52,937 scratch all that and restart. 844 00:37:53,062 --> 00:37:57,484 -[Shannon] So obviously the next biggest... -Dick. 845 00:37:57,609 --> 00:37:59,444 The next biggest vendor we need 846 00:37:59,569 --> 00:38:03,948 to get squared away is catering. -Yeah, so... 847 00:38:04,032 --> 00:38:05,617 -That dick. -...there is something that we did want 848 00:38:05,742 --> 00:38:07,076 to talk to you guys about. 849 00:38:08,620 --> 00:38:10,789 -OK. -[Colin] We want to... 850 00:38:10,914 --> 00:38:13,124 see how you guys feel about a venue change. 851 00:38:15,335 --> 00:38:16,377 Venue change. 852 00:38:19,255 --> 00:38:21,299 -Uh... -Uh...[clears throat] 853 00:38:21,424 --> 00:38:23,760 -Wasn't expecting that. -Right, yep, OK. 854 00:38:25,386 --> 00:38:28,556 [Shannon] We are shocked hearing about a venue change. 855 00:38:28,640 --> 00:38:31,643 Most clients absolutely do not 856 00:38:31,768 --> 00:38:33,645 change their venue six months out. 857 00:38:34,938 --> 00:38:37,106 After talking with a few friends... 858 00:38:37,190 --> 00:38:38,817 After our bachelorette trip. 859 00:38:38,942 --> 00:38:40,485 -[Shannon] OK. -Yeah, that weren't able to make it to 860 00:38:40,568 --> 00:38:42,904 the bachelorette trip, um... 861 00:38:42,987 --> 00:38:46,449 Where we're having our wedding at is kind 862 00:38:46,533 --> 00:38:48,284 of a far distance for a lot of people to travel. 863 00:38:48,368 --> 00:38:49,744 A little too remote. 864 00:38:49,828 --> 00:38:51,079 And with the closest airport 865 00:38:51,162 --> 00:38:53,122 being two and a half hours away, 866 00:38:53,206 --> 00:38:54,499 makes it... -It's not easy. 867 00:38:54,624 --> 00:38:56,000 [Colin] Right. 868 00:38:56,125 --> 00:38:58,878 With the remote location, we've already started to see 869 00:38:59,003 --> 00:39:01,673 some challenges as we've been beginning to plan, 870 00:39:01,756 --> 00:39:04,342 but we are six months out from the wedding. 871 00:39:04,467 --> 00:39:06,678 Most venues are booking two years out, 872 00:39:06,803 --> 00:39:08,847 so this could be challenging. 873 00:39:10,181 --> 00:39:12,892 So before touring The Seclusion, we actually toured 874 00:39:13,017 --> 00:39:14,686 another outdoor-indoor wedding venue. 875 00:39:14,811 --> 00:39:17,939 They have on-site stays for our guests. 876 00:39:18,022 --> 00:39:19,983 So it's kind of like a compound. 877 00:39:20,066 --> 00:39:22,944 They have in-house catering, 878 00:39:23,027 --> 00:39:24,195 which I know would make it... -[Shannon] OK. 879 00:39:24,279 --> 00:39:25,864 ...a lot easier on you guys. 880 00:39:25,989 --> 00:39:29,534 The only caveat to it is that it's farther away 881 00:39:29,659 --> 00:39:30,910 from my family. 882 00:39:31,035 --> 00:39:32,537 That's a tough situation, of course. 883 00:39:32,620 --> 00:39:35,456 Um, the other, kind of, 884 00:39:35,540 --> 00:39:38,918 sticky situation is the venue that you've already put down 885 00:39:39,043 --> 00:39:41,087 a pretty big deposit on. 886 00:39:41,212 --> 00:39:42,255 Yeah, we're just gonna lose out on it. 887 00:39:42,380 --> 00:39:45,341 I'm gonna tell you, that's gonna be gone. 888 00:39:45,425 --> 00:39:48,177 -[Colin] Yeah. -Yeah, so we have to kind of look at 889 00:39:48,261 --> 00:39:50,388 if this place has dates available, 890 00:39:50,513 --> 00:39:52,015 and then what's the pricing? 891 00:39:52,098 --> 00:39:54,350 If we did end up changing the date, 892 00:39:54,434 --> 00:39:55,727 we would also have to look at our schedule 893 00:39:55,852 --> 00:39:57,061 to make sure that we are also still 894 00:39:57,145 --> 00:39:58,730 available since we're six months out. 895 00:39:58,813 --> 00:40:00,940 -Yeah, because we have no idea. -Yeah, that's smart. 896 00:40:03,151 --> 00:40:06,237 A venue change would be an absolute scramble. 897 00:40:06,362 --> 00:40:08,781 We've got a big, you know, to-do list 898 00:40:08,907 --> 00:40:12,035 potentially ahead of us, and we need to just, kind of, 899 00:40:12,118 --> 00:40:14,913 dive in and figure out if we're moving forward. 900 00:40:14,996 --> 00:40:18,458 So our game plan will be that we'll reach out, 901 00:40:18,583 --> 00:40:21,586 and we'll see if there's any dates available for you guys. -[bleep [bleep] mouth. 902 00:40:21,669 --> 00:40:23,254 -OK, thank you so much. -[Colin] That works. 903 00:40:23,379 --> 00:40:24,923 -Yeah, thank you. -Thank you guys. 904 00:40:25,006 --> 00:40:27,800 -I mean, guys, six months. -To basically restart. 905 00:40:30,762 --> 00:40:31,888 Leaving this meeting, 906 00:40:31,971 --> 00:40:35,224 I am extremely anxious to know what is to come 907 00:40:35,308 --> 00:40:37,185 because there's a lot of unknowns 908 00:40:37,268 --> 00:40:39,604 and a lot of things that could go wrong. 909 00:40:39,729 --> 00:40:41,522 We want our dream wedding so badly, 910 00:40:41,606 --> 00:40:42,815 but we're gonna be lucky 911 00:40:42,941 --> 00:40:44,442 to even get a wedding at all at this point. 912 00:40:49,656 --> 00:40:52,033 I love Christmas. 913 00:40:52,116 --> 00:40:53,701 Ho, ho, ho, your ass back to the sleigh, 914 00:40:53,785 --> 00:40:55,286 you fat-ass bitch. 915 00:40:55,370 --> 00:40:58,456 -Wind it up. -Why do you have to call Santa a fat-ass bitch? 916 00:40:58,539 --> 00:41:00,083 Ho, ho, ho, yourself back to the sleigh, 917 00:41:00,166 --> 00:41:02,126 you fat-ass bitch. 918 00:41:02,210 --> 00:41:03,795 [whispering] I have no idea. 919 00:41:03,920 --> 00:41:06,297 [Allen] Tonight, I'm bringing Bechnir with me for a little 920 00:41:06,381 --> 00:41:09,008 top-secret mission. -[Bechnir] Oh, those are shiny. 921 00:41:10,343 --> 00:41:13,429 -Looks like a choker. -[laughing] 922 00:41:13,513 --> 00:41:16,224 OK, wait, OK, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. 923 00:41:16,307 --> 00:41:18,643 -[Julie] What's the matter? -[Baylen] We have... 924 00:41:18,768 --> 00:41:20,895 some very important news that we need to tell everyone. 925 00:41:20,979 --> 00:41:23,314 -Oh my gosh, is it another surprise? -Oh, boy. 926 00:41:23,439 --> 00:41:26,609 What bomb's about to drop? What are we doing now? 927 00:41:26,693 --> 00:41:27,735 Here we go. 928 00:41:27,819 --> 00:41:28,820 [bleep] an A.