1 00:00:00,980 --> 00:00:03,730 (haunting music) 2 00:00:02,000 --> 00:00:07,000 Downloaded from YTS.BZ 3 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:13,000 Official YIFY movies site: YTS.BZ 4 00:00:10,760 --> 00:00:13,711 - [Victoria] The way she hid under the table. 5 00:00:13,753 --> 00:00:15,271 - Oh my God, I'm like right there behind you. 6 00:00:15,313 --> 00:00:16,104 Run. 7 00:00:16,146 --> 00:00:17,709 - I was like, "Girl, be silent, be still." 8 00:00:17,751 --> 00:00:19,728 - You know, but this is such a cool screening. 9 00:00:19,770 --> 00:00:21,928 I just, I love horror films. 10 00:00:21,970 --> 00:00:22,761 - Oh, hell yeah. 11 00:00:22,803 --> 00:00:25,132 I think I actually jumped a few times on that one. 12 00:00:25,174 --> 00:00:26,123 - Oh, you sure did. 13 00:00:26,165 --> 00:00:27,525 (both laughing) 14 00:00:27,567 --> 00:00:28,668 - Oh, and thanks for helping me clean up. 15 00:00:28,710 --> 00:00:29,898 - Oh, of course. 16 00:00:29,940 --> 00:00:31,638 Oh, and thank you so much 17 00:00:31,680 --> 00:00:32,898 for introducing me to the director. 18 00:00:32,940 --> 00:00:35,328 Like that, super dope. 19 00:00:35,370 --> 00:00:36,187 - Of course. 20 00:00:36,229 --> 00:00:37,020 Yeah. 21 00:00:37,062 --> 00:00:38,562 I mean, he's pretty cool. - Yeah. 22 00:00:38,604 --> 00:00:39,828 - A bit strange actually, but you know, harmless. 23 00:00:39,870 --> 00:00:41,330 Yeah. 24 00:00:41,372 --> 00:00:42,252 - Okay, really. 25 00:00:42,294 --> 00:00:43,561 (uneasy music) 26 00:00:43,603 --> 00:00:45,059 What are you looking for? 27 00:00:45,101 --> 00:00:47,813 (uneasy music continues) 28 00:00:47,855 --> 00:00:48,646 - Shit. 29 00:00:48,688 --> 00:00:50,628 I think I left my keys inside. 30 00:00:50,670 --> 00:00:52,158 - Oh, I can go back with you. 31 00:00:52,200 --> 00:00:53,088 - Oh no, it's okay. 32 00:00:53,130 --> 00:00:56,538 It's so freezing out here, and the wind is literally- 33 00:00:56,580 --> 00:00:59,891 - Girl, hey, there is safety numbers and we are in the LVC. 34 00:00:59,933 --> 00:01:02,658 - I know, but I'll be fine. 35 00:01:02,700 --> 00:01:04,248 - You sure? - Mm-hmm. 36 00:01:04,290 --> 00:01:08,650 - Okay, so I'll see you on Sunday at the Super Bowl party? 37 00:01:08,692 --> 00:01:09,483 - Yeah, I wouldn't miss it. 38 00:01:09,525 --> 00:01:10,878 Yeah, unless I get kidnapped 39 00:01:10,920 --> 00:01:12,738 and raped and chopped up tonight. 40 00:01:12,780 --> 00:01:14,433 - That's not funny. 41 00:01:14,475 --> 00:01:15,266 - Okay, sorry, it's a bad joke. 42 00:01:15,308 --> 00:01:16,835 But I'll see you at the party. 43 00:01:16,877 --> 00:01:19,268 (uneasy music continues) 44 00:01:19,310 --> 00:01:20,886 - [Friend] All right. And don't be late. 45 00:01:20,928 --> 00:01:22,906 - Okay, yeah. Make it to your car. 46 00:01:22,948 --> 00:01:24,421 - [Friend] Bye. 47 00:01:24,463 --> 00:01:27,880 (uneasy music continues) 48 00:01:29,084 --> 00:01:31,667 (door squeaks) 49 00:01:34,997 --> 00:01:37,667 (keys jingle) 50 00:01:37,709 --> 00:01:41,126 (uneasy music continues) 51 00:01:55,145 --> 00:01:56,231 Oh, gross. 52 00:01:56,273 --> 00:01:59,690 (uneasy music continues) 53 00:02:25,564 --> 00:02:26,411 Hello? 54 00:02:26,453 --> 00:02:28,174 Is somebody there? 55 00:02:28,216 --> 00:02:31,633 (uneasy music continues) 56 00:02:46,272 --> 00:02:47,243 Hello? 57 00:02:47,285 --> 00:02:50,702 (uneasy music continues) 58 00:03:08,800 --> 00:03:11,717 (Victoria screams) 59 00:03:13,710 --> 00:03:16,300 - Okay, kids. It's late. 60 00:03:16,342 --> 00:03:17,718 Time for bed 61 00:03:17,760 --> 00:03:20,763 and, oh, we got more boxes to unpack tomorrow. 62 00:03:21,726 --> 00:03:23,144 - It's only 10:00 PM. 63 00:03:23,186 --> 00:03:24,948 You know, back home, we stayed up till like 10:30 64 00:03:24,990 --> 00:03:26,426 if it's not a school night. 65 00:03:26,468 --> 00:03:27,618 - Well, this is your home now 66 00:03:27,660 --> 00:03:30,108 and we still have lots to unpack. 67 00:03:30,150 --> 00:03:33,259 You don't want to worry about unpacking on Monday. 68 00:03:33,301 --> 00:03:34,763 It's your first day at the new school. 69 00:03:37,080 --> 00:03:39,467 - [Laela] I think I'm going to go get ready for bed. 70 00:03:39,509 --> 00:03:40,958 - Okay, sweetie. 71 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:43,959 (uneasy music) 72 00:03:44,001 --> 00:03:46,751 (water bubbling) 73 00:03:53,730 --> 00:03:56,397 (water flowing) 74 00:04:02,712 --> 00:04:05,295 (uneasy music) 75 00:04:08,210 --> 00:04:09,563 - This doesn't feel like our home, okay? 76 00:04:10,406 --> 00:04:11,906 It's got a weird energy to it. 77 00:04:13,326 --> 00:04:14,603 - It might take a little time to adjust. 78 00:04:17,168 --> 00:04:19,862 - Mom, do you know where my toothbrush is? 79 00:04:19,904 --> 00:04:21,053 - I'll be right there, sweetheart. 80 00:04:22,544 --> 00:04:25,113 Listen, I just need you to make this work, okay? 81 00:04:26,021 --> 00:04:27,519 We just got to try. 82 00:04:27,561 --> 00:04:29,913 And I didn't tell Laela how we got the house, 83 00:04:30,760 --> 00:04:31,551 so don't say anything. 84 00:04:31,593 --> 00:04:33,466 I don't want to give her nightmares. 85 00:04:33,508 --> 00:04:34,368 - I won't say anything. 86 00:04:34,410 --> 00:04:35,598 - Thank you. 87 00:04:35,640 --> 00:04:36,857 All right, I'm coming. 88 00:04:37,854 --> 00:04:40,437 (uneasy music) 89 00:04:42,743 --> 00:04:45,773 Where did we put that? Let me think. 90 00:04:45,815 --> 00:04:49,232 (uneasy music continues) 91 00:05:04,533 --> 00:05:06,783 (thudding) 92 00:05:08,620 --> 00:05:11,203 (uneasy music) 93 00:05:20,667 --> 00:05:23,120 (switch clicks) 94 00:05:23,162 --> 00:05:26,662 (uneasy music continues) 95 00:06:02,919 --> 00:06:05,873 (switch clicks) 96 00:06:05,915 --> 00:06:07,662 (TV static crackles) 97 00:06:07,704 --> 00:06:11,121 (uneasy music continues) 98 00:06:24,035 --> 00:06:27,035 (Mary Anne screams) 99 00:06:31,906 --> 00:06:34,323 (rock music) 100 00:07:01,916 --> 00:07:05,166 (rock music continues) 101 00:07:31,954 --> 00:07:35,204 (rock music continues) 102 00:08:02,220 --> 00:08:07,220 - Well, Mary Anne, did you find out what the noise was 103 00:08:07,340 --> 00:08:09,123 or was this a dream? 104 00:08:10,140 --> 00:08:12,858 Remember, you're in a safe space. 105 00:08:12,900 --> 00:08:14,870 No one will judge you here. 106 00:08:14,912 --> 00:08:16,473 It's okay. Just take your time. 107 00:08:19,410 --> 00:08:22,338 - Well, here's the embarrassing part. 108 00:08:22,380 --> 00:08:23,718 After this experience, 109 00:08:23,760 --> 00:08:26,358 I was convinced the house was haunted, 110 00:08:26,400 --> 00:08:28,608 so I hired an investigator, 111 00:08:28,650 --> 00:08:31,008 I think they're called a medium or something, 112 00:08:31,050 --> 00:08:34,338 to come in and talk to the spirits in the house. 113 00:08:34,380 --> 00:08:35,523 - Con man, you mean? 114 00:08:36,380 --> 00:08:37,398 - Lance. 115 00:08:37,440 --> 00:08:38,988 - That's what he is, Jack. 116 00:08:39,030 --> 00:08:40,578 Don't tell me you believe in ghosts. 117 00:08:40,620 --> 00:08:43,473 - Lance, this is a room that doesn't judge. 118 00:08:44,580 --> 00:08:46,728 Remember your noodle incident? 119 00:08:46,770 --> 00:08:48,076 - It's not the same. 120 00:08:48,118 --> 00:08:48,951 - Hmm. 121 00:08:51,356 --> 00:08:52,608 - Keep going, Mary Anne. 122 00:08:52,650 --> 00:08:53,483 It's okay. 123 00:08:55,410 --> 00:08:57,978 - I'm actually not sure if he was a con man or not. 124 00:08:58,020 --> 00:09:00,828 That's actually why I'm here. 125 00:09:00,870 --> 00:09:04,188 What Mr. Nash put in my head about the house, 126 00:09:04,230 --> 00:09:06,003 I mean, he figured out what I saw. 127 00:09:06,870 --> 00:09:10,983 And honestly, I had been drinking a little. 128 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:14,358 I've been so stressed about the move 129 00:09:14,400 --> 00:09:18,650 and the divorce isn't going smoothly either. 130 00:09:18,692 --> 00:09:21,275 (uneasy music) 131 00:09:42,753 --> 00:09:45,670 (Mary Anne scream) 132 00:09:47,621 --> 00:09:49,967 - So the kids were playing a joke on you. 133 00:09:50,009 --> 00:09:51,973 - I'll whoop the shit out of my kids 134 00:09:52,015 --> 00:09:53,824 if they be doing that bullshit. 135 00:09:53,866 --> 00:09:57,048 - Wait, if it was your kids, why are you even here? 136 00:09:57,090 --> 00:09:58,533 It was just a prank. 137 00:09:59,532 --> 00:10:00,787 - It wasn't a prank, 138 00:10:00,829 --> 00:10:02,178 and that's not why I'm here. 139 00:10:02,220 --> 00:10:04,188 I'm here because of the house. 140 00:10:04,230 --> 00:10:05,696 The medium? 141 00:10:05,738 --> 00:10:06,918 Yeah, he figured out it was the kids, 142 00:10:06,960 --> 00:10:09,985 but he said the house had spirits in it. 143 00:10:10,027 --> 00:10:12,558 And yeah, my kids, they did what they did 144 00:10:12,600 --> 00:10:14,028 because they didn't want to move, 145 00:10:14,070 --> 00:10:15,888 and they figured if they scared me, 146 00:10:15,930 --> 00:10:17,658 I'd move back east with their father, 147 00:10:17,700 --> 00:10:20,058 which isn't going to happen. 148 00:10:20,100 --> 00:10:22,098 And I don't leave my kids alone. 149 00:10:22,140 --> 00:10:23,328 They're grounded. 150 00:10:23,370 --> 00:10:25,128 They're in the car as we speak. 151 00:10:25,170 --> 00:10:26,971 - [Influencer] Hi, my beauties. 152 00:10:27,013 --> 00:10:29,238 - I just, I don't feel safe there. 153 00:10:29,280 --> 00:10:30,581 - Why don't you just move then? 154 00:10:30,623 --> 00:10:31,414 - Uh huh. 155 00:10:31,456 --> 00:10:32,540 - It's not a bad idea. 156 00:10:33,480 --> 00:10:34,518 I don't believe in ghosts, 157 00:10:34,560 --> 00:10:36,513 but I do believe in the human mind. 158 00:10:37,770 --> 00:10:38,928 If it's making you uncomfortable, 159 00:10:38,970 --> 00:10:40,848 you need to find a way to relieve the stress 160 00:10:40,890 --> 00:10:42,648 and abolish this fear. 161 00:10:42,690 --> 00:10:44,613 Stress is the real killer. 162 00:10:47,220 --> 00:10:48,678 Oh, hello? 163 00:10:48,720 --> 00:10:50,725 Are you looking for Fear Anonymous? 164 00:10:50,767 --> 00:10:52,908 - I was, I was just going. 165 00:10:52,950 --> 00:10:55,128 - There's no need to be hesitant, my friend. 166 00:10:55,170 --> 00:10:56,598 You are in the right place. 167 00:10:56,640 --> 00:10:57,648 - I am? 168 00:10:57,690 --> 00:10:59,028 - Of course you are. 169 00:10:59,070 --> 00:11:00,618 Welcome. 170 00:11:00,660 --> 00:11:01,878 Welcome to Fear Anonymous. 171 00:11:01,920 --> 00:11:03,648 My name is Jack, Jack Miller. 172 00:11:03,690 --> 00:11:07,698 I'm the moderator and co-creator of Fear Anonymous. 173 00:11:07,740 --> 00:11:09,918 Consider this a safe place, 174 00:11:09,960 --> 00:11:13,998 a place for anyone who is plagued with a fear 175 00:11:14,040 --> 00:11:16,548 or stress that cannot be explained 176 00:11:16,590 --> 00:11:18,948 or rationalized by normal scientific means. 177 00:11:18,990 --> 00:11:20,463 Come, have a seat. 178 00:11:22,037 --> 00:11:23,800 Now you missed the orientation, but 179 00:11:25,470 --> 00:11:26,718 that's fine. 180 00:11:26,760 --> 00:11:30,558 We will try to get you up to speed, mister? 181 00:11:30,600 --> 00:11:32,134 What was your name? 182 00:11:32,176 --> 00:11:34,953 - My, my name is Rick. 183 00:11:37,320 --> 00:11:38,598 I'm not really sure I should be here. 184 00:11:38,640 --> 00:11:39,473 I'm not 185 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:42,798 big of a talker. 186 00:11:42,840 --> 00:11:45,588 - Hey, let's play an introduction game. 187 00:11:45,630 --> 00:11:48,048 We'd normally do this at the start of every workshop 188 00:11:48,090 --> 00:11:49,788 when there's new people. 189 00:11:49,830 --> 00:11:51,288 I forgot today. 190 00:11:51,330 --> 00:11:52,188 It's simple. 191 00:11:52,230 --> 00:11:54,978 You just say your name and your favorite color, 192 00:11:55,020 --> 00:11:56,358 and then we go around the room 193 00:11:56,400 --> 00:11:57,588 and at the end of the meeting, 194 00:11:57,630 --> 00:12:00,108 we have each person try and recall 195 00:12:00,150 --> 00:12:02,178 everyone's name and color. 196 00:12:02,220 --> 00:12:06,678 Since we know your name, Rick, you can start. 197 00:12:06,720 --> 00:12:08,718 What's your favorite color? 198 00:12:08,760 --> 00:12:09,593 - Black. 199 00:12:10,620 --> 00:12:13,143 - Hi, I'm Simone and I love purple. 200 00:12:14,220 --> 00:12:18,933 - Hi, my name is Mary Anne and my favorite color is green. 201 00:12:20,040 --> 00:12:23,298 - Lance McLean, and I like gray. 202 00:12:23,340 --> 00:12:25,323 - I'm Cheri and I love red. 203 00:12:27,540 --> 00:12:30,528 - Arman, and I like blue and green. 204 00:12:30,570 --> 00:12:33,003 - Adam, I like green too. 205 00:12:34,320 --> 00:12:37,683 - And my name is Jack and I like mint chip. 206 00:12:39,420 --> 00:12:40,518 Just kidding. 207 00:12:40,560 --> 00:12:41,898 Oh, I forgot. 208 00:12:41,940 --> 00:12:45,048 Rick, we put our phones in this basket 209 00:12:45,090 --> 00:12:47,418 so that nobody has any distractions. 210 00:12:47,460 --> 00:12:48,293 - Oh. 211 00:12:50,370 --> 00:12:52,548 I don't have one. - What? 212 00:12:52,590 --> 00:12:54,198 - I don't have a cell phone. 213 00:12:54,240 --> 00:12:55,668 - Bullshit. - I don't. 214 00:12:55,710 --> 00:12:57,048 - I assure you, 215 00:12:57,090 --> 00:12:59,508 the phone will be safe in the basket. 216 00:12:59,550 --> 00:13:01,722 - I really don't have one. 217 00:13:01,764 --> 00:13:02,682 - How do people reach you? 218 00:13:02,724 --> 00:13:03,515 - They don't. 219 00:13:03,557 --> 00:13:06,545 - How do you check your Facebook and Instagram? 220 00:13:06,587 --> 00:13:07,784 TikTok? 221 00:13:07,826 --> 00:13:08,656 - I don't. 222 00:13:08,698 --> 00:13:11,628 - I heard these cell phones cause ball cancer. 223 00:13:11,670 --> 00:13:13,608 - Well, it's okay if you don't have one, 224 00:13:13,650 --> 00:13:15,678 but remember, if you did, 225 00:13:15,720 --> 00:13:18,033 it would be safe in this basket. 226 00:13:19,590 --> 00:13:22,428 So we just heard from Mary Anne, 227 00:13:22,470 --> 00:13:24,708 and I think Lance was about to talk a little bit 228 00:13:24,750 --> 00:13:26,250 about some issues he's having. 229 00:13:27,210 --> 00:13:30,423 - Well, actually, we're still talking about Mary Anne. 230 00:13:31,410 --> 00:13:33,408 We're trying to figure out if that 231 00:13:33,450 --> 00:13:35,778 medium she hired was a con man or not. 232 00:13:35,820 --> 00:13:37,726 - Yes, yes, of course. 233 00:13:37,768 --> 00:13:40,818 Again, it's not fair for us to cast judgment on Mary Anne 234 00:13:40,860 --> 00:13:42,723 for how she handles her fears. 235 00:13:43,800 --> 00:13:44,850 We're here to listen, 236 00:13:45,720 --> 00:13:49,218 possibly access strategies to cure those fears. 237 00:13:49,260 --> 00:13:52,824 Remember, when you judge or condescend someone, 238 00:13:52,866 --> 00:13:54,978 you sound like an asshole. 239 00:13:55,020 --> 00:13:56,358 Exactly. 240 00:13:56,400 --> 00:14:00,391 Mary Anne, did you come up with a strategy for this fear? 241 00:14:00,433 --> 00:14:02,137 - I think you guys are right. 242 00:14:02,179 --> 00:14:04,608 I mean, if I don't feel comfortable, 243 00:14:04,650 --> 00:14:05,628 I should just move. 244 00:14:05,670 --> 00:14:07,533 Who needs this anxiety and stress? 245 00:14:09,300 --> 00:14:11,355 - How long do you think we'll be here? 246 00:14:11,397 --> 00:14:12,230 - I don't know. 247 00:14:14,160 --> 00:14:16,158 - You think we'll stay in that house? 248 00:14:16,200 --> 00:14:17,033 - Not sure. 249 00:14:18,350 --> 00:14:19,793 - [Laela] You think it's haunted? 250 00:14:20,850 --> 00:14:22,518 - It feels like this. 251 00:14:22,560 --> 00:14:24,078 I don't really like it. 252 00:14:24,120 --> 00:14:26,373 - If you don't like it, then I don't like it. 253 00:14:27,620 --> 00:14:29,898 You think we'll see dad again? 254 00:14:29,940 --> 00:14:31,503 - I don't know, but I want to. 255 00:14:33,030 --> 00:14:33,858 - Yes. 256 00:14:33,900 --> 00:14:34,968 Great. 257 00:14:35,010 --> 00:14:37,518 Simple solutions to simple problems. 258 00:14:37,560 --> 00:14:39,198 I'm so proud of you. 259 00:14:39,240 --> 00:14:41,103 That's what this group is all about. 260 00:14:42,180 --> 00:14:44,628 Okay, Lance, tell us the issue. 261 00:14:44,670 --> 00:14:45,570 Maybe we can help. 262 00:14:47,670 --> 00:14:52,233 - Well, it's the same thing as every time I tell this story, 263 00:14:53,130 --> 00:14:56,313 except this week it's cranked up a notch. 264 00:14:57,930 --> 00:15:01,443 I keep getting these unexplained wounds all over my body. 265 00:15:03,750 --> 00:15:04,653 I'm cursed. 266 00:15:05,670 --> 00:15:08,353 This curse is eventually going to kill me. 267 00:15:10,908 --> 00:15:13,475 I just don't know when, 268 00:15:13,517 --> 00:15:15,244 and I don't know how. 269 00:15:15,286 --> 00:15:18,286 (heavy metal music) 270 00:15:30,489 --> 00:15:33,489 (suspenseful music) 271 00:15:40,177 --> 00:15:43,177 (heavy metal music) 272 00:15:44,080 --> 00:15:45,144 ♪ Dark it reign ♪ 273 00:15:45,186 --> 00:15:48,936 ♪ I rise and push against the chains ♪ 274 00:15:48,978 --> 00:15:50,682 (artist singing indistinctly) (suspenseful music) 275 00:15:50,724 --> 00:15:51,698 - Ah, shit. 276 00:15:51,740 --> 00:15:55,573 (suspenseful music continues) 277 00:15:59,808 --> 00:16:01,308 Hey, hey, wake up. 278 00:16:02,294 --> 00:16:03,377 Wake up, kid. 279 00:16:06,268 --> 00:16:07,226 Son of a bitch. 280 00:16:07,268 --> 00:16:10,437 (suspenseful music continues) 281 00:16:10,479 --> 00:16:12,483 (heavy metal music) 282 00:16:12,525 --> 00:16:15,168 - [Operator] 9-1-1. Please hold. 283 00:16:15,210 --> 00:16:16,653 - Hello? 284 00:16:16,695 --> 00:16:21,695 (heavy metal music continues) (artist singing indistinctly) 285 00:16:23,022 --> 00:16:26,022 (suspenseful music) 286 00:16:52,929 --> 00:16:56,785 (suspenseful music continues) 287 00:16:56,827 --> 00:16:57,618 Hello? Hey. 288 00:16:57,660 --> 00:16:59,688 Hey. I need some help. 289 00:16:59,730 --> 00:17:01,338 I got an emergency. 290 00:17:01,380 --> 00:17:03,005 I don't think he's breathing. 291 00:17:03,047 --> 00:17:04,647 Look, look. 292 00:17:04,689 --> 00:17:07,689 (suspenseful music) 293 00:17:08,616 --> 00:17:09,866 Who the fuck are you? 294 00:17:09,908 --> 00:17:12,658 (witch chanting) 295 00:17:20,964 --> 00:17:21,960 - What are you doing? 296 00:17:22,002 --> 00:17:23,208 Who the fuck are you? 297 00:17:23,250 --> 00:17:25,609 What the fuck are you doing? 298 00:17:25,651 --> 00:17:29,082 (witch growling) 299 00:17:29,124 --> 00:17:31,874 (witch chanting) 300 00:17:33,317 --> 00:17:35,154 - What the fuck are you? 301 00:17:35,196 --> 00:17:36,059 What the fuck. 302 00:17:36,101 --> 00:17:39,101 (suspenseful music) 303 00:17:41,261 --> 00:17:44,467 (witch chanting) 304 00:17:44,509 --> 00:17:47,009 (tense music) 305 00:17:48,437 --> 00:17:51,437 (suspenseful music) 306 00:17:56,840 --> 00:17:58,848 - So the boy's alive? 307 00:17:58,890 --> 00:18:00,888 - Yeah, the boy lived. 308 00:18:00,930 --> 00:18:02,148 I don't know what that witch did, 309 00:18:02,190 --> 00:18:04,668 but he was breathing when I left. 310 00:18:04,710 --> 00:18:06,498 - So what did you do? 311 00:18:06,540 --> 00:18:08,238 - What do you think I did? 312 00:18:08,280 --> 00:18:10,683 I kicked that bitch in the cunt and I drove off. 313 00:18:11,520 --> 00:18:12,311 It wasn't going to end up 314 00:18:12,353 --> 00:18:14,043 like those corpses around the fire. 315 00:18:14,880 --> 00:18:16,166 I got away. 316 00:18:16,208 --> 00:18:18,977 (witch speaks ominous langage) 317 00:18:19,019 --> 00:18:21,163 (witch screams) 318 00:18:21,205 --> 00:18:23,705 (tense music) 319 00:18:29,670 --> 00:18:31,098 - Only problem is, 320 00:18:31,140 --> 00:18:32,343 whatever that bitch did, 321 00:18:33,180 --> 00:18:35,311 keep getting worse week after week. 322 00:18:35,353 --> 00:18:38,255 I could feel this presence trying to get to me. 323 00:18:38,297 --> 00:18:40,128 I have these wounds 324 00:18:40,170 --> 00:18:41,170 and they won't heal. 325 00:18:42,120 --> 00:18:43,938 I lost 20 pounds, 326 00:18:43,980 --> 00:18:45,528 stopped the gym, 327 00:18:45,570 --> 00:18:46,720 quit my job. 328 00:18:46,762 --> 00:18:50,059 (uneasy music) 329 00:18:50,101 --> 00:18:52,986 I truly believe I'm going to die from this. 330 00:18:53,028 --> 00:18:54,692 You know what, Jack? 331 00:18:54,734 --> 00:18:57,693 There ain't no simple solution to this shit. 332 00:18:59,010 --> 00:19:01,398 - Well, Lance, I understand it can be hard to admit 333 00:19:01,440 --> 00:19:03,003 that you have a fear. 334 00:19:04,440 --> 00:19:05,790 - That ain't the hard part. 335 00:19:06,630 --> 00:19:08,358 It's not fear. 336 00:19:08,400 --> 00:19:10,188 It's fact. 337 00:19:10,230 --> 00:19:11,298 I'm going to die. 338 00:19:11,340 --> 00:19:12,900 - We're all going to die. 339 00:19:12,942 --> 00:19:15,442 (tense music) 340 00:19:17,220 --> 00:19:18,738 Sorry. 341 00:19:18,780 --> 00:19:20,740 - I think what he means is that 342 00:19:21,810 --> 00:19:24,348 we're all here temporarily and, 343 00:19:24,390 --> 00:19:27,363 and the best thing we can do is try to be happy. 344 00:19:28,230 --> 00:19:30,708 Life is unbearably short, 345 00:19:30,750 --> 00:19:33,378 and the older you get, the faster it goes. 346 00:19:33,420 --> 00:19:36,018 We need to focus on the here and now 347 00:19:36,060 --> 00:19:38,733 and appreciate it for what it is. 348 00:19:40,110 --> 00:19:42,318 Now, Lance, 349 00:19:42,360 --> 00:19:45,288 before this accident, 350 00:19:45,330 --> 00:19:47,613 were you going through any other problems? 351 00:19:48,750 --> 00:19:50,478 - I did just go through a divorce. 352 00:19:50,520 --> 00:19:51,888 - Now that's trauma. 353 00:19:51,930 --> 00:19:53,238 - Uh huh. 354 00:19:53,280 --> 00:19:55,773 - Well, what happened there, if I might ask? 355 00:19:56,684 --> 00:19:58,038 - I don't know. 356 00:19:58,080 --> 00:19:59,930 I guess she fell out of love with me. 357 00:20:01,440 --> 00:20:03,468 Came home one day and she was gone. 358 00:20:03,510 --> 00:20:05,178 - Do you have kids? 359 00:20:05,220 --> 00:20:06,011 - No. 360 00:20:06,053 --> 00:20:07,548 We got dogs, 361 00:20:07,590 --> 00:20:08,868 two of them, 362 00:20:08,910 --> 00:20:09,993 Rachel and Sammy. 363 00:20:11,040 --> 00:20:12,303 They were like our kids. 364 00:20:13,350 --> 00:20:15,050 I can't believe she left them too. 365 00:20:15,990 --> 00:20:17,508 No note, 366 00:20:17,550 --> 00:20:19,818 no nothing, just gone. 367 00:20:19,860 --> 00:20:21,033 - Sorry to hear that. 368 00:20:21,870 --> 00:20:24,138 No one deserves to be abandoned without explanation. 369 00:20:24,180 --> 00:20:26,898 - Yes, that is a rough one, Lance. 370 00:20:26,940 --> 00:20:28,188 I didn't know. 371 00:20:28,230 --> 00:20:30,708 - I didn't come here for marriage advice. 372 00:20:30,750 --> 00:20:33,768 You don't even need to know how much of bitch a my ex was. 373 00:20:33,810 --> 00:20:35,658 - I know it's a touchy subject, 374 00:20:35,700 --> 00:20:38,778 but maybe this situation has something to do 375 00:20:38,820 --> 00:20:40,938 with the car accident event. 376 00:20:40,980 --> 00:20:42,438 It might be building in your head. 377 00:20:42,480 --> 00:20:43,998 - Oh, yeah? 378 00:20:44,040 --> 00:20:45,393 What's building in my head? 379 00:20:46,350 --> 00:20:47,748 - Guilt? 380 00:20:47,790 --> 00:20:48,978 - Guilt? 381 00:20:49,020 --> 00:20:50,418 Guilt for what? - Okay. 382 00:20:50,460 --> 00:20:52,188 - I'm not guilty. 383 00:20:52,230 --> 00:20:53,958 It was a fucking accident! - I know. 384 00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:55,338 - The boy lived. 385 00:20:55,380 --> 00:20:56,868 Don't you understand? 386 00:20:56,910 --> 00:20:58,548 I'm going to fucking die. 387 00:20:58,590 --> 00:21:01,551 Look, I woke up with this. 388 00:21:01,593 --> 00:21:03,979 I'm fucking cursed. 389 00:21:04,021 --> 00:21:04,812 - Calm down. 390 00:21:04,854 --> 00:21:06,228 Hey, let's just take a deep breath. 391 00:21:06,270 --> 00:21:08,178 - Don't fucking psychoevaluate me. 392 00:21:08,220 --> 00:21:11,238 You know my story. - I do. 393 00:21:11,280 --> 00:21:12,678 We've heard this story, but we did, 394 00:21:12,720 --> 00:21:14,538 we didn't know about your wife. 395 00:21:14,580 --> 00:21:16,060 We didn't know about the dogs. 396 00:21:16,102 --> 00:21:16,998 What, what were their names? 397 00:21:17,040 --> 00:21:18,708 Sammy and? 398 00:21:18,750 --> 00:21:20,778 - Sammy and Rachel. 399 00:21:20,820 --> 00:21:22,548 - Great. I love dogs. 400 00:21:22,590 --> 00:21:23,590 What kind were they? 401 00:21:25,470 --> 00:21:26,313 - Pit bulls, 402 00:21:27,240 --> 00:21:28,488 Stratford picks. 403 00:21:28,530 --> 00:21:31,500 - Cute, do you have pictures? 404 00:21:31,542 --> 00:21:34,042 (light music) 405 00:21:35,730 --> 00:21:37,248 - [Lance] Of course I do. 406 00:21:37,290 --> 00:21:38,268 - I love dogs. 407 00:21:38,310 --> 00:21:39,453 I got two Frenchies. 408 00:21:40,290 --> 00:21:44,236 They're loud and they sort like pigs, but adorable. 409 00:21:44,278 --> 00:21:46,908 (light music continues) 410 00:21:46,950 --> 00:21:48,153 Oh, so sweet. 411 00:21:49,380 --> 00:21:50,213 - Yeah. 412 00:21:51,720 --> 00:21:54,408 I can't imagine any mother leaving these two. 413 00:21:54,450 --> 00:21:56,988 - [Laela] Why do people get divorced? 414 00:21:57,030 --> 00:21:57,980 - Mean mom and dad? 415 00:21:59,552 --> 00:22:00,674 - [Influencer] I'm ready. 416 00:22:00,716 --> 00:22:01,938 - I don't know. 417 00:22:01,980 --> 00:22:04,373 I guess people can just get tired of each other, you know? 418 00:22:05,250 --> 00:22:06,900 I guess you can fall out of love. 419 00:22:07,977 --> 00:22:10,128 I mean, you can fall in love, you can fall out. 420 00:22:10,170 --> 00:22:11,058 - I wouldn't. 421 00:22:11,100 --> 00:22:13,458 - You wouldn't? - Nope. 422 00:22:13,500 --> 00:22:15,678 - You're too young to know that. 423 00:22:15,720 --> 00:22:17,718 - Well, age is just a number. 424 00:22:17,760 --> 00:22:20,085 I think that if people can fall in love 425 00:22:20,127 --> 00:22:23,643 and then out of love, then it probably wasn't love. 426 00:22:24,540 --> 00:22:26,688 - Traumatic events such as 427 00:22:26,730 --> 00:22:28,548 the ones we're hearing about today 428 00:22:28,590 --> 00:22:30,978 can affect your mental health. 429 00:22:31,020 --> 00:22:33,348 If untreated, it can build a psychological trauma 430 00:22:33,390 --> 00:22:35,718 that can stay with you for life. 431 00:22:35,760 --> 00:22:37,158 I know this is just a help group, 432 00:22:37,200 --> 00:22:38,418 but I encourage everyone 433 00:22:38,460 --> 00:22:40,608 to seek a doctor for your situation. 434 00:22:40,650 --> 00:22:42,918 In fact, I have some business cards on the table 435 00:22:42,960 --> 00:22:44,268 that might help. 436 00:22:44,310 --> 00:22:47,268 I do believe the more you discuss the issues, events, 437 00:22:47,310 --> 00:22:50,868 or how you feel, the greater assistance it can be to you. 438 00:22:50,910 --> 00:22:54,213 I know that since coming here, it's helped me. 439 00:22:55,410 --> 00:22:58,683 I'm not only the moderator, but I'm also a client. 440 00:23:00,540 --> 00:23:01,998 Just kidding. 441 00:23:02,040 --> 00:23:05,043 But seriously, please feel free to share. 442 00:23:06,240 --> 00:23:08,103 It all stays right here in this room. 443 00:23:09,030 --> 00:23:11,148 Well, unless it's about abuse, 444 00:23:11,190 --> 00:23:13,668 we have no tolerance for abusive behavior. 445 00:23:13,710 --> 00:23:15,588 Cheri is proof of that. 446 00:23:15,630 --> 00:23:16,463 - Yes. 447 00:23:17,370 --> 00:23:18,588 Thank you, Jack. 448 00:23:18,630 --> 00:23:19,421 - Of course. 449 00:23:19,463 --> 00:23:23,448 - Well, how do we know if we have psychological trauma? 450 00:23:23,490 --> 00:23:26,418 - Well, there are some symptoms that stay with you. 451 00:23:26,460 --> 00:23:29,508 If you feel shame, anxiety, 452 00:23:29,550 --> 00:23:31,008 emotional numbing, 453 00:23:31,050 --> 00:23:34,668 insomnia, loss of memory, nightmares, 454 00:23:34,710 --> 00:23:35,703 confusion, 455 00:23:36,990 --> 00:23:38,328 mood swings, 456 00:23:38,370 --> 00:23:41,748 if you, if you're easily startled, 457 00:23:41,790 --> 00:23:44,058 easily irritated. 458 00:23:44,100 --> 00:23:45,633 It can even be physical pain. 459 00:23:46,980 --> 00:23:48,588 - I feel like I have all of those. 460 00:23:48,630 --> 00:23:49,668 - Oh, no. 461 00:23:49,710 --> 00:23:51,798 That's just being a mother. 462 00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:53,328 - Hey, Jack, 463 00:23:53,370 --> 00:23:56,148 how does somebody try and get sleep again 464 00:23:56,190 --> 00:23:58,248 if they have insomnia? 465 00:23:58,290 --> 00:24:01,173 - Well, there are a few tricks that I do. 466 00:24:02,220 --> 00:24:04,098 How many hours do you get at night? 467 00:24:04,140 --> 00:24:05,178 - Five if I'm lucky. 468 00:24:05,220 --> 00:24:06,168 - I get four. 469 00:24:06,210 --> 00:24:07,248 - That's enough. 470 00:24:07,290 --> 00:24:08,538 - Not for me. 471 00:24:08,580 --> 00:24:10,218 - Well, everyone has their own path. 472 00:24:10,260 --> 00:24:11,958 I like melatonin. 473 00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:13,350 I like sounds of the ocean. 474 00:24:14,250 --> 00:24:15,041 White noise. 475 00:24:15,083 --> 00:24:18,183 YouTube has it all, and exercise helps. 476 00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:21,408 Have you always had this problem, Arman? 477 00:24:21,450 --> 00:24:22,338 - No. 478 00:24:22,380 --> 00:24:24,153 It started after the gym night. 479 00:24:24,990 --> 00:24:27,483 Sometimes I get five hours, sometimes three. 480 00:24:28,830 --> 00:24:31,518 I keep getting these bad dreams that keep me awake. 481 00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:33,060 - So you're afraid of the gym? 482 00:24:33,960 --> 00:24:35,598 That makes sense. 483 00:24:35,640 --> 00:24:37,638 - Well, I try to stay healthy, 484 00:24:37,680 --> 00:24:39,633 and despite what you say, 485 00:24:40,830 --> 00:24:42,573 I work out quite regularly, 486 00:24:44,490 --> 00:24:46,247 or at least I did. 487 00:24:46,289 --> 00:24:50,584 It was a regular Tuesday night, kickboxing class. 488 00:24:50,626 --> 00:24:55,626 (rock music) (artist singing indistinctly) 489 00:25:00,216 --> 00:25:02,883 (bags thudding) 490 00:25:05,250 --> 00:25:07,608 - All right, time, time. 491 00:25:07,650 --> 00:25:09,648 We're going to go ahead and add kicks, guys. 492 00:25:09,690 --> 00:25:10,481 Okay? 493 00:25:10,523 --> 00:25:12,678 In real life situations, kicks work. 494 00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:16,034 So the well-placed kick, game over. 495 00:25:16,076 --> 00:25:16,968 You want to start off? 496 00:25:17,010 --> 00:25:18,588 Jab, jab, 497 00:25:18,630 --> 00:25:19,668 low kick, right? 498 00:25:19,710 --> 00:25:22,038 Jab, jab, low kick. 499 00:25:22,080 --> 00:25:24,468 We start off high, and then we go low. 500 00:25:24,510 --> 00:25:25,631 Boom. All right? 501 00:25:25,673 --> 00:25:27,048 - What if the guy you're fighting 502 00:25:27,090 --> 00:25:28,398 kicks you in the nuts first? 503 00:25:28,440 --> 00:25:30,558 - Well, Arman, you always got to protect those nuts, 504 00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:31,458 all right? (class laughs) 505 00:25:31,500 --> 00:25:32,728 All right. 506 00:25:32,770 --> 00:25:33,561 Remember, guys, keep your hands up, 507 00:25:33,603 --> 00:25:35,958 protect yourself, protect yourself, and then fire that kick. 508 00:25:36,000 --> 00:25:36,791 Boom. 509 00:25:36,833 --> 00:25:37,624 Right? 510 00:25:37,666 --> 00:25:39,528 - Yo, yo, Caesar, come check this out. 511 00:25:39,570 --> 00:25:40,382 - What? 512 00:25:40,424 --> 00:25:41,560 - [Classmate] Come look at it right now. 513 00:25:41,602 --> 00:25:43,867 - What? - Come look at this. 514 00:25:43,909 --> 00:25:46,492 (uneasy music) 515 00:25:57,224 --> 00:25:58,392 - Mitzi? 516 00:25:58,434 --> 00:25:59,718 Oh my God, that's my dog. 517 00:25:59,760 --> 00:26:01,061 Mitzi. - Hold on a sec. 518 00:26:01,103 --> 00:26:02,748 Let me, let me see what's up. 519 00:26:02,790 --> 00:26:04,998 Hold, back up. Back up a sec, Arman. 520 00:26:05,040 --> 00:26:05,873 Back up a sec. 521 00:26:07,470 --> 00:26:08,748 - [Arman] Maybe you shouldn't touch him. 522 00:26:08,790 --> 00:26:09,940 - Little late for that. 523 00:26:11,526 --> 00:26:14,859 (homeless man growling) 524 00:26:17,100 --> 00:26:19,113 Lenny, call the cops. 525 00:26:20,113 --> 00:26:21,345 - Oh, man, you got to do something. 526 00:26:21,387 --> 00:26:23,887 (tense music) 527 00:26:30,627 --> 00:26:33,307 - Get the fuck off of her, you asshole. 528 00:26:33,349 --> 00:26:38,349 (tense music) (Cesar screaming) 529 00:26:44,095 --> 00:26:47,759 (people screaming) 530 00:26:47,801 --> 00:26:50,698 - [Lance] Well, what happened? 531 00:26:50,740 --> 00:26:51,531 - What? 532 00:26:51,573 --> 00:26:53,358 You mean what happened to the instructor? 533 00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:55,098 - What happened to the dog? 534 00:26:55,140 --> 00:26:56,538 - The dog died. 535 00:26:56,580 --> 00:26:58,083 - Ah, that's fucked up. 536 00:26:59,070 --> 00:27:01,773 People deserve to be murdered, but dogs, 537 00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:04,308 dogs don't deserve to be murdered. 538 00:27:04,350 --> 00:27:05,718 - Did anyone else get hurt? 539 00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:07,248 - Well, the police came quickly 540 00:27:07,290 --> 00:27:10,758 and got the homeless guy off of Caesar, the instructor. 541 00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:12,138 I guess they were already looking for him 542 00:27:12,180 --> 00:27:14,280 in the neighborhood and heard the screams. 543 00:27:15,690 --> 00:27:18,243 It was wild to see up close. 544 00:27:20,610 --> 00:27:22,068 Those are the images 545 00:27:22,110 --> 00:27:23,523 that are in my nightmares, 546 00:27:24,780 --> 00:27:27,318 so sleeping has been tough lately. 547 00:27:27,360 --> 00:27:29,538 - You know, ever since the pandemic, 548 00:27:29,580 --> 00:27:32,808 the homeless population has gone up 50% in my area. 549 00:27:32,850 --> 00:27:34,278 - Me too. 550 00:27:34,320 --> 00:27:35,568 There's tents down my block 551 00:27:35,610 --> 00:27:38,268 and human feces by the garbage cans. 552 00:27:38,310 --> 00:27:39,101 It's gross. 553 00:27:39,143 --> 00:27:40,890 - You can thank Governor Newsom for that. 554 00:27:40,932 --> 00:27:42,078 - Why do you say that? 555 00:27:42,120 --> 00:27:43,938 - Because that shady left fuck, 556 00:27:43,980 --> 00:27:48,980 he saved $20 billion to combat homelessness, allegedly. 557 00:27:49,597 --> 00:27:53,118 $20 billion, and it hasn't gotten any better. 558 00:27:53,160 --> 00:27:55,848 That's billion with a B, 559 00:27:55,890 --> 00:27:57,453 and the problem got worse. 560 00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:01,188 Somebody lined their pockets with taxpaying dollars. 561 00:28:01,230 --> 00:28:03,131 - If anything, it's the Republican billionaires 562 00:28:03,173 --> 00:28:04,698 who pay no taxes. 563 00:28:04,740 --> 00:28:06,290 - Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, boys. 564 00:28:07,230 --> 00:28:08,493 Let's remember the rules. 565 00:28:09,570 --> 00:28:10,638 No politics. 566 00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:11,598 - All right. 567 00:28:11,640 --> 00:28:13,968 I won't talk any more politics. 568 00:28:14,010 --> 00:28:16,818 Those Democrats, they're a bunch of thieving pussies. 569 00:28:16,860 --> 00:28:18,858 - And I'm not going to talk about politics either, 570 00:28:18,900 --> 00:28:20,778 but all Republicans are evil people. 571 00:28:20,820 --> 00:28:21,611 - Okay, okay, okay. 572 00:28:21,653 --> 00:28:23,688 Guys, we get it. 573 00:28:23,730 --> 00:28:27,078 But seriously, let's stop and take a breath. 574 00:28:27,120 --> 00:28:29,767 Did you ever think that the problem might not be 575 00:28:29,809 --> 00:28:30,600 the political parties, 576 00:28:30,642 --> 00:28:32,238 but the fact that you have to choose one 577 00:28:32,280 --> 00:28:33,903 to participate in democracy? 578 00:28:35,190 --> 00:28:37,728 Now let's put down the verbal swords 579 00:28:37,770 --> 00:28:39,570 and remember why we're in this room, 580 00:28:40,830 --> 00:28:42,320 to help each other. 581 00:28:44,520 --> 00:28:46,968 And with that said, let's take a break. 582 00:28:47,010 --> 00:28:48,528 - Oh, good. I have to pee super bad. 583 00:28:48,570 --> 00:28:49,488 - Me too. 584 00:28:49,530 --> 00:28:51,318 - Well, you can pee anytime. 585 00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:53,268 I mean, you'll like use the facilities 586 00:28:53,310 --> 00:28:54,572 anytime during our meeting. 587 00:28:54,614 --> 00:28:56,399 - [Cheri] I just didn't want to be rude. 588 00:28:56,441 --> 00:28:59,358 (light rock music) 589 00:29:03,799 --> 00:29:04,632 - So 590 00:29:06,447 --> 00:29:07,997 how you liking it so far, Rick? 591 00:29:09,480 --> 00:29:10,323 - It's not bad. 592 00:29:12,420 --> 00:29:14,988 - No I wasn't lying about my own trauma. 593 00:29:15,030 --> 00:29:17,148 I share every session, 594 00:29:17,190 --> 00:29:19,653 and believe you me, it helps. 595 00:29:20,610 --> 00:29:22,710 What do you do for a living, if I may ask? 596 00:29:25,317 --> 00:29:28,330 - I'm in insurance claims, so it's, 597 00:29:28,372 --> 00:29:30,018 it's not that exciting, really. 598 00:29:30,060 --> 00:29:30,893 - I see. 599 00:29:31,770 --> 00:29:34,070 I bet you see a good lot of trauma there, huh? 600 00:29:36,199 --> 00:29:38,699 (light music) 601 00:29:41,610 --> 00:29:43,083 - Sorry about your divorce. 602 00:29:47,893 --> 00:29:51,498 (toilet flushing) 603 00:29:51,540 --> 00:29:53,268 - What do you think about the new guy? 604 00:29:53,310 --> 00:29:55,728 - I don't know, but he's kind of cute, quiet. 605 00:29:55,770 --> 00:29:58,518 - I mean, everyone's quiet their first day. 606 00:29:58,560 --> 00:30:00,168 What do you think he's afraid of? 607 00:30:00,210 --> 00:30:01,638 - I don't know. 608 00:30:01,680 --> 00:30:03,558 But if he really doesn't have a phone, 609 00:30:03,600 --> 00:30:05,448 maybe he owes people money. 610 00:30:05,490 --> 00:30:07,683 - Honey, that's what a caller ID is for. 611 00:30:09,930 --> 00:30:11,628 And I know you've seen the way Arman 612 00:30:11,670 --> 00:30:13,308 has been looking at you. 613 00:30:13,350 --> 00:30:14,868 You think this is the day he gets the 614 00:30:14,910 --> 00:30:16,758 courage to ask you out? 615 00:30:16,800 --> 00:30:19,128 - Ugh, Arman is sweet. 616 00:30:19,170 --> 00:30:20,718 You know, he almost did last week, 617 00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:22,158 but then Lance came up, 618 00:30:22,200 --> 00:30:23,568 all upset like normal, 619 00:30:23,610 --> 00:30:25,878 right in between us to grab a muffin. 620 00:30:25,920 --> 00:30:26,711 Kind of ruined the mood. 621 00:30:26,753 --> 00:30:28,443 - Yeah, that boy is a dick. 622 00:30:30,330 --> 00:30:31,121 - I don't know. 623 00:30:31,163 --> 00:30:33,843 I like Arman, but I'm just not sure I'm ready. 624 00:30:36,270 --> 00:30:37,103 - Uh huh. 625 00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:42,378 - So is today the day? 626 00:30:42,420 --> 00:30:43,948 - I think so. 627 00:30:43,990 --> 00:30:45,468 I mean, YOLO, right? 628 00:30:45,510 --> 00:30:46,998 - What are you guys talking about? 629 00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:51,258 - Oh, this boy has the hots for Cheri. 630 00:30:51,300 --> 00:30:54,318 We just waiting on the invitation part, that's all. 631 00:30:54,360 --> 00:30:57,168 - Yeah, I saw you looking at her. 632 00:30:57,210 --> 00:30:58,441 She seems sweet. 633 00:30:58,483 --> 00:30:59,274 - She is. 634 00:30:59,316 --> 00:31:01,038 And she's a Capricorn. 635 00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:03,108 - Oh, do you get along well with Capricorn? 636 00:31:03,150 --> 00:31:05,148 - Yeah, they're the best for me. 637 00:31:05,190 --> 00:31:06,678 - Capricorns are cool. 638 00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:08,583 Pisces, Scorpios, 639 00:31:09,570 --> 00:31:12,348 just stay away from them at Aries and Geminis. 640 00:31:12,390 --> 00:31:15,212 - Do you believe in all that Astrosign stuff too? 641 00:31:15,254 --> 00:31:16,818 - I don't know if I believe in it, 642 00:31:16,860 --> 00:31:18,618 but Geminis, 643 00:31:18,660 --> 00:31:20,268 they're bipolar. 644 00:31:20,310 --> 00:31:21,423 I believe that. 645 00:31:22,483 --> 00:31:24,983 (light music) 646 00:31:31,440 --> 00:31:35,508 - You know, it really is all you believe to be true is true. 647 00:31:35,550 --> 00:31:37,578 People don't understand how perception 648 00:31:37,620 --> 00:31:40,368 is so important to your life. 649 00:31:40,410 --> 00:31:42,108 I've had a lot of crappy jobs, 650 00:31:42,150 --> 00:31:43,758 pouring concrete, 651 00:31:43,800 --> 00:31:45,138 cleaning freeways, 652 00:31:45,180 --> 00:31:47,448 parking enforcement, babysitting, 653 00:31:47,490 --> 00:31:48,663 even trash pickup. 654 00:31:49,530 --> 00:31:51,280 You know which one was my favorite? 655 00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:55,068 Picking up trash. 656 00:31:55,110 --> 00:31:56,358 Yep. 657 00:31:56,400 --> 00:31:59,718 And it wasn't the job, it was the people I was with 658 00:31:59,760 --> 00:32:00,948 when I was doing it. 659 00:32:00,990 --> 00:32:01,878 I had a cool crew. 660 00:32:01,920 --> 00:32:04,218 We played softball, hung out after work, 661 00:32:04,260 --> 00:32:07,803 and my perception of the job was open-minded. 662 00:32:08,790 --> 00:32:11,118 I was making money, helping people, 663 00:32:11,160 --> 00:32:13,038 and doing it with my buddies. 664 00:32:13,080 --> 00:32:14,958 I guess my point is, 665 00:32:15,000 --> 00:32:17,898 it shouldn't be the job itself that gets you down. 666 00:32:17,940 --> 00:32:20,808 It's all in how you look at it. 667 00:32:20,850 --> 00:32:23,343 Perception creates your attitude. 668 00:32:24,330 --> 00:32:25,848 You can't have a bad day at work 669 00:32:25,890 --> 00:32:27,513 if your attitude is positive. 670 00:32:28,800 --> 00:32:33,183 Well, actually, you can if you do parking enforcement. 671 00:32:34,620 --> 00:32:36,000 Everybody hates those guys. 672 00:32:39,100 --> 00:32:41,517 (dark music) 673 00:33:03,420 --> 00:33:04,320 And you know what? 674 00:33:07,530 --> 00:33:08,321 - What? 675 00:33:08,363 --> 00:33:11,808 - You never know what you're going to find in the garbage. 676 00:33:11,850 --> 00:33:14,268 One man's trash is another man's treasure. 677 00:33:14,310 --> 00:33:16,383 That's why there was so much excitement. 678 00:33:20,576 --> 00:33:21,828 - I'm bored. 679 00:33:21,870 --> 00:33:23,148 - Hasn't even been an hour yet. 680 00:33:23,190 --> 00:33:24,708 - [Laela] Feels like it has. 681 00:33:24,750 --> 00:33:26,713 - Well, you got a computer in your hand. 682 00:33:26,755 --> 00:33:28,368 Why don't you learn Chinese or something. 683 00:33:28,410 --> 00:33:29,688 - What for? 684 00:33:29,730 --> 00:33:31,578 - [Kelvin] Maybe you'll go to China one day. 685 00:33:31,620 --> 00:33:32,988 - No, I won't. 686 00:33:33,030 --> 00:33:33,828 - How do you know that? 687 00:33:33,870 --> 00:33:35,088 - It's not on my list. 688 00:33:35,130 --> 00:33:38,178 - You have a list of places you want to go in your life? 689 00:33:38,220 --> 00:33:39,498 - [Laela] Yeah. 690 00:33:39,540 --> 00:33:42,438 - Well, did you think you moved to California? 691 00:33:42,480 --> 00:33:43,908 - I guess not. 692 00:33:43,950 --> 00:33:46,818 - All I'm saying is you shouldn't be so bored so easily. 693 00:33:46,860 --> 00:33:47,988 You know, you got something in your hands 694 00:33:48,030 --> 00:33:50,973 that can educate you and entertain you if you want. 695 00:33:53,983 --> 00:33:55,291 - I'm going to text mom again. 696 00:33:55,333 --> 00:33:56,283 - I already did. 697 00:33:59,201 --> 00:34:02,034 (phone vibrating) 698 00:34:04,526 --> 00:34:07,026 (light music) 699 00:34:08,970 --> 00:34:11,403 - Hey, so you think you're going to talk today? 700 00:34:12,523 --> 00:34:13,638 - I don't know. 701 00:34:13,680 --> 00:34:15,618 Sometimes I just feel kind of like not talking, 702 00:34:15,660 --> 00:34:17,058 You know? 703 00:34:17,100 --> 00:34:18,618 - Yeah, I get that. 704 00:34:18,660 --> 00:34:21,918 Last week I felt kind of bad when you started crying. 705 00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:23,418 - I know. 706 00:34:23,460 --> 00:34:24,648 So embarrassing. 707 00:34:24,690 --> 00:34:26,418 - No, no, that's, that's not what I meant. 708 00:34:26,460 --> 00:34:29,778 It's just, I didn't want to see you in pain. 709 00:34:29,820 --> 00:34:30,653 That's all. 710 00:34:32,070 --> 00:34:33,678 - I see you, Adam. 711 00:34:33,720 --> 00:34:34,563 - I don't care. 712 00:34:38,760 --> 00:34:39,844 - Hey. 713 00:34:39,886 --> 00:34:41,718 (gentle music) 714 00:34:41,760 --> 00:34:45,528 I just wanted to say, I am so sorry you went through that. 715 00:34:45,570 --> 00:34:46,518 I mean, seeing a dog like that 716 00:34:46,560 --> 00:34:49,338 has got to be the most disturbing thing I've ever heard of. 717 00:34:49,380 --> 00:34:50,823 It's disgusting. 718 00:34:51,720 --> 00:34:52,713 I am so sorry. 719 00:34:54,270 --> 00:34:55,703 How are you getting to sleep? 720 00:34:56,580 --> 00:34:58,068 - Yeah. 721 00:34:58,110 --> 00:34:59,358 Thank you for that. 722 00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:00,843 Yeah, it's getting better. 723 00:35:02,550 --> 00:35:04,570 For a while I was taking sleeping pills 724 00:35:05,691 --> 00:35:09,258 and trying to distract myself with whatever I can, you know? 725 00:35:09,300 --> 00:35:12,138 I love dogs and all animals. 726 00:35:12,180 --> 00:35:13,871 In fact, I'm a vegetarian, so. 727 00:35:13,913 --> 00:35:15,295 - Oh my God, I am too. 728 00:35:15,337 --> 00:35:16,728 Well, pescatarian, I guess. 729 00:35:16,770 --> 00:35:18,648 - Oh, me too actually. 730 00:35:18,690 --> 00:35:21,708 I know a spot by the wharf called Fish Fiesta. 731 00:35:21,750 --> 00:35:23,163 I got to take you sometime. 732 00:35:24,630 --> 00:35:27,648 I don't know how anyone can eat meat really. 733 00:35:27,690 --> 00:35:29,312 - Because it tastes good. 734 00:35:29,354 --> 00:35:31,937 (uneasy music) 735 00:35:40,430 --> 00:35:45,430 (uneasy music continues) (lights flickering) 736 00:35:51,380 --> 00:35:53,134 (water flowing) 737 00:35:53,176 --> 00:35:55,428 (uneasy music continues) 738 00:35:55,470 --> 00:35:56,958 - Honey, you have had the frown face 739 00:35:57,000 --> 00:35:59,200 ever since you put that phone in your hands. 740 00:36:00,060 --> 00:36:00,893 What's going on? 741 00:36:02,010 --> 00:36:03,633 - Just text arguing with Sam. 742 00:36:04,560 --> 00:36:06,810 Supposed to do a dinner tonight at a client's 743 00:36:07,659 --> 00:36:10,638 and we just can't seem to agree on any detail. 744 00:36:10,680 --> 00:36:12,888 - See, I think that should be a call conversation 745 00:36:12,930 --> 00:36:14,178 and not a text. 746 00:36:14,220 --> 00:36:16,728 People don't get the right intentions from text. 747 00:36:16,770 --> 00:36:19,968 A dinner event is nothing to be upset about, okay? 748 00:36:20,010 --> 00:36:21,558 I hate texting. 749 00:36:21,600 --> 00:36:22,608 - You're right. 750 00:36:22,650 --> 00:36:23,868 I should probably call. 751 00:36:23,910 --> 00:36:25,098 - You should. 752 00:36:25,140 --> 00:36:28,308 - And we encourage everyone to talk the first time, 753 00:36:28,350 --> 00:36:30,108 but there's no pressure. 754 00:36:30,150 --> 00:36:32,253 Sometimes it helps just to listen. 755 00:36:34,500 --> 00:36:35,600 You seem good at that. 756 00:36:38,430 --> 00:36:39,798 - Thanks. 757 00:36:39,840 --> 00:36:40,840 - You talking today? 758 00:36:41,910 --> 00:36:42,843 - I don't know. 759 00:36:44,220 --> 00:36:46,368 Sometimes, sometimes I think my fear 760 00:36:46,410 --> 00:36:48,648 is not as big as others, you know? 761 00:36:48,690 --> 00:36:51,138 I mean, like, who cares, right? 762 00:36:51,180 --> 00:36:51,971 - Nonsense. 763 00:36:52,013 --> 00:36:53,658 I'm sure everyone has had someone 764 00:36:53,700 --> 00:36:55,308 to cheat on them in the past. 765 00:36:55,350 --> 00:36:56,493 I know I have, 766 00:36:57,360 --> 00:36:58,998 shit, a few times, really. 767 00:36:59,040 --> 00:37:00,678 - Yes, but I don't think people 768 00:37:00,720 --> 00:37:02,470 think about it every day like I do. 769 00:37:03,540 --> 00:37:04,373 That day 770 00:37:05,400 --> 00:37:06,693 was awful. 771 00:37:09,060 --> 00:37:10,360 But you know what's worse? 772 00:37:13,110 --> 00:37:15,350 I don't think I can handle a divorce. 773 00:37:15,392 --> 00:37:17,975 (uneasy music) 774 00:37:21,360 --> 00:37:22,803 - Oh my gosh. 775 00:37:23,648 --> 00:37:24,798 This artificial intelligence bullshit 776 00:37:24,840 --> 00:37:26,868 is getting way out of hand. 777 00:37:26,910 --> 00:37:28,848 They just made a movie that was two hours long. 778 00:37:28,890 --> 00:37:30,258 100% AI. 779 00:37:30,300 --> 00:37:31,398 - Boo. 780 00:37:31,440 --> 00:37:32,838 - The script, 781 00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:34,038 the cast, 782 00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:36,228 the sets, the sounds, 783 00:37:36,270 --> 00:37:37,773 the fucking music, everything. 784 00:37:41,930 --> 00:37:43,808 (seatbelt unclicks) 785 00:37:43,850 --> 00:37:48,850 (door opening) (car dinging) 786 00:37:49,768 --> 00:37:52,351 (door closing) 787 00:37:54,354 --> 00:37:56,388 I mean, social media is crazy. 788 00:37:56,430 --> 00:37:58,098 I'm looking up all this AI bullshit 789 00:37:58,140 --> 00:38:01,323 and all these sex robots pop up all over my feed. 790 00:38:03,150 --> 00:38:04,338 I though all the movies, 791 00:38:04,380 --> 00:38:06,833 they going to get rid of the sex worker institute. 792 00:38:08,730 --> 00:38:09,980 But you know what though? 793 00:38:10,950 --> 00:38:12,978 Ain't no robot can move like me in the bedroom. 794 00:38:13,020 --> 00:38:14,388 - Okay, slut. 795 00:38:14,430 --> 00:38:16,698 - Hey, hey, I ain't no slut. 796 00:38:16,740 --> 00:38:18,390 Adam and I have an understanding. 797 00:38:20,190 --> 00:38:21,281 - Well, that's good. 798 00:38:21,323 --> 00:38:23,988 I think I heard a car in the driveway. 799 00:38:24,030 --> 00:38:27,030 (suspenseful music) 800 00:38:32,100 --> 00:38:33,663 - Well, men are dogs. 801 00:38:34,530 --> 00:38:36,408 You think you can trust him now? 802 00:38:36,450 --> 00:38:38,150 I mean, you must to stay with him. 803 00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:39,833 - Well, 804 00:38:40,950 --> 00:38:41,783 I love him. 805 00:38:45,360 --> 00:38:48,633 - Yeah, well, sometimes trust is more important than love. 806 00:38:49,890 --> 00:38:51,858 - I guess I just have to work on my communication. 807 00:38:51,900 --> 00:38:53,418 - Communication is key. 808 00:38:53,460 --> 00:38:56,313 Any healthy relationship starts with communication. 809 00:38:59,340 --> 00:39:00,603 - She hasn't texted back. 810 00:39:01,440 --> 00:39:02,478 Did you get a text? 811 00:39:02,520 --> 00:39:03,435 - No. 812 00:39:03,477 --> 00:39:05,358 - You think she's okay? 813 00:39:05,400 --> 00:39:06,513 - Yeah, of course. 814 00:39:09,270 --> 00:39:10,818 I don't know, probably just taking a break or something. 815 00:39:10,860 --> 00:39:12,573 I saw some people walking around. 816 00:39:16,110 --> 00:39:17,358 - I feel like they already talked a lot. 817 00:39:17,400 --> 00:39:18,498 Maybe they're done. 818 00:39:18,540 --> 00:39:20,178 - Well, when mom read the online flyer, 819 00:39:20,220 --> 00:39:22,218 she said it could take like two hours. 820 00:39:22,260 --> 00:39:24,059 - Two hours? 821 00:39:24,101 --> 00:39:25,428 It's like forever. 822 00:39:25,470 --> 00:39:26,261 - Yep. 823 00:39:26,303 --> 00:39:28,021 Adults like to talk. 824 00:39:28,063 --> 00:39:29,835 In fact, it's their favorite thing to do. 825 00:39:29,877 --> 00:39:32,460 (upbeat music) 826 00:40:00,037 --> 00:40:02,298 You know, I think people like to talk 827 00:40:02,340 --> 00:40:05,003 so they can feel comfortable and so people can like them. 828 00:40:06,390 --> 00:40:09,003 - Well, Webers doesn't talk at all and I like her. 829 00:40:09,930 --> 00:40:11,418 - Webers is a turtle. 830 00:40:11,460 --> 00:40:12,318 Okay, if she did talk, 831 00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:13,998 you probably wouldn't like her anyways. 832 00:40:14,040 --> 00:40:16,195 If she did, she'd be like, 833 00:40:16,237 --> 00:40:18,994 "I'm hungry. Feed me giant human." 834 00:40:19,036 --> 00:40:20,268 And Webers eats her own doo-doo. 835 00:40:20,310 --> 00:40:21,350 - Ew. 836 00:40:21,392 --> 00:40:24,663 - Okay. And we are back. 837 00:40:26,010 --> 00:40:28,923 Special thanks to Simone for the extra treats. 838 00:40:29,970 --> 00:40:31,120 Let's get back into it. 839 00:40:33,330 --> 00:40:34,163 Adam, 840 00:40:35,040 --> 00:40:36,288 you couldn't resist, could you? 841 00:40:36,330 --> 00:40:38,778 - Yeah, sorry, Jack, but I got to go. 842 00:40:38,820 --> 00:40:40,158 Sorry to drink all your coffee and go, 843 00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:41,208 but something came up. 844 00:40:41,250 --> 00:40:43,218 - Of course. No pressure. 845 00:40:43,260 --> 00:40:44,268 Hope to see you next week. 846 00:40:44,310 --> 00:40:45,918 - Oh yeah, probably. 847 00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:47,568 Nice meeting everyone. 848 00:40:47,610 --> 00:40:49,068 Stay safe out there. 849 00:40:49,110 --> 00:40:49,901 - Oh wait. 850 00:40:49,943 --> 00:40:52,098 We were just about to play your favorite warmup game, 851 00:40:52,140 --> 00:40:53,868 pet peeves of the week. 852 00:40:53,910 --> 00:40:54,828 Simple game. 853 00:40:54,870 --> 00:40:58,938 We just spit out anything that is annoying us this week. 854 00:40:58,980 --> 00:41:01,188 It helps to vent, you know? 855 00:41:01,230 --> 00:41:02,538 - You're right, Jack. 856 00:41:02,580 --> 00:41:05,480 The only thing that's pissing me off right now is texting. 857 00:41:08,400 --> 00:41:09,742 Ciao babes. 858 00:41:09,784 --> 00:41:12,367 (uneasy music) 859 00:41:25,710 --> 00:41:29,088 - Sometimes listening to others discussing their fears 860 00:41:29,130 --> 00:41:32,118 or venting can help us with our own. 861 00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:34,008 Rick, Mary Anne, 862 00:41:34,050 --> 00:41:36,948 how's the group session going so far with you? 863 00:41:36,990 --> 00:41:40,083 - Well, it's been nice to get some outside perspective. 864 00:41:41,220 --> 00:41:43,398 - Yes, of course. 865 00:41:43,440 --> 00:41:45,453 And Rick, how are you feeling? 866 00:41:46,800 --> 00:41:47,995 - Okay, I guess. 867 00:41:48,037 --> 00:41:49,128 - Good. 868 00:41:49,170 --> 00:41:51,858 If you want to share, please feel free. 869 00:41:51,900 --> 00:41:52,998 We are all ears. 870 00:41:53,040 --> 00:41:55,218 And if you have a phone, 871 00:41:55,260 --> 00:41:57,068 it will still be safe in the basket. 872 00:41:57,110 --> 00:41:58,368 (phone vibrating) 873 00:41:58,410 --> 00:42:00,948 So since Adam started us off, 874 00:42:00,990 --> 00:42:03,078 then let's continue with the game. 875 00:42:03,120 --> 00:42:05,328 I mean, I hate texting. 876 00:42:05,370 --> 00:42:06,378 It's so annoying to me. 877 00:42:06,420 --> 00:42:08,170 I mean, I'd rather just get a call. 878 00:42:09,780 --> 00:42:12,348 Vince, what about you? 879 00:42:12,390 --> 00:42:15,090 You got anything annoying that you want to vent about? 880 00:42:16,140 --> 00:42:17,733 - Aside from the fact of dying, 881 00:42:18,930 --> 00:42:20,568 people that don't pick up their dog shit 882 00:42:20,610 --> 00:42:21,560 when they walk 'em. 883 00:42:22,892 --> 00:42:26,823 You know, I think if you are going to have a dog, 884 00:42:27,660 --> 00:42:29,808 you better pick up the dog shit. 885 00:42:29,850 --> 00:42:30,918 - Valid. 886 00:42:30,960 --> 00:42:32,328 Cheri? 887 00:42:32,370 --> 00:42:34,728 - People that don't do what they say they're going to do. 888 00:42:34,770 --> 00:42:37,128 - Yep. That one is major. 889 00:42:37,170 --> 00:42:38,898 And most of the problems humans have 890 00:42:38,940 --> 00:42:40,608 are based on that issue alone. 891 00:42:40,650 --> 00:42:41,658 - Cheaters. 892 00:42:41,700 --> 00:42:44,118 Full grown men that can't keep their dick in their pants. 893 00:42:44,160 --> 00:42:45,491 - Yeah. Absolutely. 894 00:42:45,533 --> 00:42:47,853 And that, that can go both ways. 895 00:42:49,020 --> 00:42:50,988 - Ex-husbands. - Sure. 896 00:42:51,030 --> 00:42:52,428 - Anxiety. 897 00:42:52,470 --> 00:42:55,803 - Well, I think a lot of people can relate to that. 898 00:42:57,150 --> 00:42:59,163 Rick, you got anything? 899 00:43:01,410 --> 00:43:02,243 - People. 900 00:43:04,065 --> 00:43:06,168 (uneasy music) 901 00:43:06,210 --> 00:43:07,043 - Okay. 902 00:43:08,160 --> 00:43:09,468 Yeah. 903 00:43:09,510 --> 00:43:10,923 Yeah. Yeah. 904 00:43:11,850 --> 00:43:12,641 Simple. 905 00:43:12,683 --> 00:43:14,208 Understandable. 906 00:43:14,250 --> 00:43:15,083 Thanks, Rick. 907 00:43:17,610 --> 00:43:20,238 Now, we want to be as helpful as possible 908 00:43:20,280 --> 00:43:23,058 when listening to these individual stories. 909 00:43:23,100 --> 00:43:25,728 Now today, my pet peeve is time. 910 00:43:25,770 --> 00:43:27,588 There's never enough time. 911 00:43:27,630 --> 00:43:29,748 I truly believe that there are solutions 912 00:43:29,790 --> 00:43:31,008 to conquer these fears, 913 00:43:31,050 --> 00:43:33,888 and most of the time that solution is simple. 914 00:43:33,930 --> 00:43:38,342 - Well, Jack, I don't think my fear is as simple as others. 915 00:43:38,384 --> 00:43:42,110 - I do understand that your event is a rare one. 916 00:43:42,990 --> 00:43:46,237 I couldn't blame you if you couldn't eat out ever again. 917 00:43:46,279 --> 00:43:47,358 I can't eat out 918 00:43:47,400 --> 00:43:49,698 after watching one of those kitchen nightmare shows. 919 00:43:49,740 --> 00:43:52,338 - That is not the same and you know it. 920 00:43:52,380 --> 00:43:53,171 - I understand. 921 00:43:53,213 --> 00:43:54,978 I'm just saying that if, 922 00:43:55,020 --> 00:43:58,818 if I can see an animal like a, like a mouse 923 00:43:58,860 --> 00:44:00,843 or a rat in a kitchen, 924 00:44:01,800 --> 00:44:03,288 it just makes me want to vomit. 925 00:44:03,330 --> 00:44:06,123 I'm just, I just have a weak stomach is all. 926 00:44:07,260 --> 00:44:08,838 Simone was one of the survivors 927 00:44:08,880 --> 00:44:12,438 of the infamous Judy Cafe shootings. 928 00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:13,878 - Oh my. 929 00:44:13,920 --> 00:44:15,183 I heard of that. 930 00:44:16,080 --> 00:44:17,898 That made national news. 931 00:44:17,940 --> 00:44:19,158 - Yes, it did. 932 00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:21,588 And they didn't even print out the worst part. 933 00:44:21,630 --> 00:44:24,227 I just can't imagine- - Can I use the bathroom? 934 00:44:24,269 --> 00:44:27,138 (uneasy music) 935 00:44:27,180 --> 00:44:31,128 - [Jack] Oh sorry. The bathrooms are for participants only. 936 00:44:31,170 --> 00:44:32,518 - I'll be quick. 937 00:44:32,560 --> 00:44:34,977 (dark music) 938 00:44:36,471 --> 00:44:38,464 - Public bathrooms is around the corner. 939 00:44:38,506 --> 00:44:41,756 (dark music continues) 940 00:44:47,850 --> 00:44:49,788 I am so, so sorry, Simone. 941 00:44:49,830 --> 00:44:52,608 I'm going to lock these doors so that doesn't happen again. 942 00:44:52,650 --> 00:44:54,183 You know how this area gets? 943 00:45:03,870 --> 00:45:05,673 Please continue, Simone. 944 00:45:09,000 --> 00:45:10,068 - Well, like Jack mentioned, 945 00:45:10,110 --> 00:45:13,188 I was a part of a big massacre shooting. 946 00:45:13,230 --> 00:45:15,603 I saw people die right in front of my face, 947 00:45:18,540 --> 00:45:20,090 but that wasn't the worst part. 948 00:45:21,322 --> 00:45:23,905 (uneasy music) 949 00:45:25,980 --> 00:45:28,068 I was there with my best friend, Candace, 950 00:45:28,110 --> 00:45:31,923 and I was spilling the tea on my trifling ass ex-boyfriend. 951 00:45:33,000 --> 00:45:33,791 We broke up. 952 00:45:33,833 --> 00:45:35,508 - What? With Gerald? 953 00:45:35,550 --> 00:45:36,348 - Yep. 954 00:45:36,390 --> 00:45:37,398 Wedding's off. 955 00:45:37,440 --> 00:45:38,838 - When did this happen? 956 00:45:38,880 --> 00:45:40,128 - Last Thursday. 957 00:45:40,170 --> 00:45:40,968 - Bitch. 958 00:45:41,010 --> 00:45:42,468 And you just telling me about it today? 959 00:45:42,510 --> 00:45:43,638 - This ain't something you talk about 960 00:45:43,680 --> 00:45:45,108 over the phone or text. 961 00:45:45,150 --> 00:45:47,193 This is in person type of shit. 962 00:45:49,680 --> 00:45:51,180 - Okay, ladies, what'll it be? 963 00:45:52,958 --> 00:45:56,547 - I'll do the soup and salad lunch special and a Diet Coke. 964 00:45:57,630 --> 00:45:59,178 - Just coffee, thanks. 965 00:45:59,220 --> 00:46:02,418 - Are you sure the specials are extra special today? 966 00:46:02,460 --> 00:46:03,858 - No, I'm good. 967 00:46:03,900 --> 00:46:05,354 - Okey-dokey. 968 00:46:05,396 --> 00:46:07,896 (light music) 969 00:46:11,220 --> 00:46:12,603 I hate pouring coffee. 970 00:46:13,460 --> 00:46:16,338 (dark music) 971 00:46:16,380 --> 00:46:17,598 - [Candace] Weird? 972 00:46:17,640 --> 00:46:19,008 - I guess she don't like tips either. 973 00:46:19,050 --> 00:46:21,768 - Right. So anyway. - Anyways. 974 00:46:21,810 --> 00:46:22,758 I caught that motherfucker. 975 00:46:22,800 --> 00:46:23,988 - No!? 976 00:46:24,030 --> 00:46:24,821 - Yep. 977 00:46:24,863 --> 00:46:26,568 But see, I knew something was going on 978 00:46:26,610 --> 00:46:28,548 when I checked his phone last Valentine's Day 979 00:46:28,590 --> 00:46:31,218 and saw all those text messages pop up on his phone 980 00:46:31,260 --> 00:46:33,498 from his baby mama, Asha. 981 00:46:33,540 --> 00:46:35,238 - That slut.. 982 00:46:35,280 --> 00:46:36,354 - Yes. 983 00:46:36,396 --> 00:46:37,788 It's like you had your chance. 984 00:46:37,830 --> 00:46:40,458 Why are you feeling some kind of way during the holiday? 985 00:46:40,500 --> 00:46:42,648 - So what you're telling me is he was still seeing her? 986 00:46:42,690 --> 00:46:43,848 - No. 987 00:46:43,890 --> 00:46:46,608 Well, don't know. Maybe. - Mm. 988 00:46:46,650 --> 00:46:48,318 - But that ain't who I caught that fucker with. 989 00:46:48,360 --> 00:46:49,411 - Oh, girl, then who? 990 00:46:49,453 --> 00:46:51,858 - A young ass intern named Stacy, 991 00:46:51,900 --> 00:46:54,873 small waist, big tits, barely out of college. 992 00:47:00,120 --> 00:47:01,608 Excuse me, sir. 993 00:47:01,650 --> 00:47:03,138 This ain't your conversation. 994 00:47:03,180 --> 00:47:04,698 - Oh, sorry. 995 00:47:04,740 --> 00:47:06,858 I mean, you're kind of loud. 996 00:47:06,900 --> 00:47:08,598 It's hard not to listen. 997 00:47:08,640 --> 00:47:09,768 - Well, try those headphones on 998 00:47:09,810 --> 00:47:11,360 the table you got there, maybe. 999 00:47:13,460 --> 00:47:14,293 - Okay. 1000 00:47:15,390 --> 00:47:17,658 - So anyways, how'd you find out? 1001 00:47:17,700 --> 00:47:19,400 - I followed him. - No. 1002 00:47:19,442 --> 00:47:21,888 - You damn right I did. - Mm. 1003 00:47:21,930 --> 00:47:23,628 - This guy says 1004 00:47:23,670 --> 00:47:26,628 he needs to buy his daughter a Christmas present. 1005 00:47:26,670 --> 00:47:28,188 And I knew he bought one two weeks ago 1006 00:47:28,230 --> 00:47:30,618 because I seen it wrapped up in the closet. 1007 00:47:30,660 --> 00:47:32,988 And after those texts I seen, 1008 00:47:33,030 --> 00:47:34,878 I smelled something. 1009 00:47:34,920 --> 00:47:37,638 So I followed him like I was on a case. 1010 00:47:37,680 --> 00:47:39,743 - [Eddie] I can find another one of you tomorrow. 1011 00:47:44,040 --> 00:47:45,258 - Anyways. - Uh-huh. 1012 00:47:45,300 --> 00:47:47,921 - I followed him to a spot back by the beach. 1013 00:47:47,963 --> 00:47:49,790 You know the same hotel we went to back in July for the 4th? 1014 00:47:49,832 --> 00:47:50,623 - Yeah. 1015 00:47:50,665 --> 00:47:52,649 - And I caught him in room 203. 1016 00:47:52,691 --> 00:47:55,590 I knocked on the door like I was the police. 1017 00:47:55,632 --> 00:47:57,232 - Serious? - I'm telling you. 1018 00:47:57,274 --> 00:47:58,065 - [Chef] Where are they? 1019 00:47:58,107 --> 00:47:59,210 Bring them down. Right now. 1020 00:47:59,252 --> 00:48:00,858 - Thank you. 1021 00:48:00,900 --> 00:48:04,068 I mean, is everything okay back there? 1022 00:48:04,110 --> 00:48:05,058 - Chef's a little upset 1023 00:48:05,100 --> 00:48:07,583 with the way things are managed, but he'll be fine. 1024 00:48:09,990 --> 00:48:10,823 - Whatever. 1025 00:48:13,830 --> 00:48:14,808 Mm. 1026 00:48:14,850 --> 00:48:15,683 Mm. 1027 00:48:17,010 --> 00:48:18,858 Well, this soup is cold. Oh. 1028 00:48:18,900 --> 00:48:21,105 - Girl, what kind of soup is that? 1029 00:48:21,147 --> 00:48:22,428 It looks kind of reddish. 1030 00:48:22,470 --> 00:48:23,868 - Excuse me. 1031 00:48:23,910 --> 00:48:27,618 Miss, this soup is cold. 1032 00:48:27,660 --> 00:48:29,628 - Oh? - Yeah, I just took a sip 1033 00:48:29,670 --> 00:48:31,908 and it's not that hot at all. 1034 00:48:31,950 --> 00:48:33,828 - Oh, look, I can heat it up, 1035 00:48:33,870 --> 00:48:36,378 but if the chef comes over here, 1036 00:48:36,420 --> 00:48:38,868 just act like everything's okay. 1037 00:48:38,910 --> 00:48:40,248 He's a little sensitive. 1038 00:48:40,290 --> 00:48:42,618 - Well, just saying soup is supposed to be hot 1039 00:48:42,660 --> 00:48:43,683 when it comes out. 1040 00:48:44,640 --> 00:48:47,178 And also this salad has very few ingredients. 1041 00:48:47,220 --> 00:48:49,713 Like it's just lettuce really. 1042 00:48:50,580 --> 00:48:52,728 - Lady, I'm going to level with you here. 1043 00:48:52,770 --> 00:48:55,713 We're not exactly the friendly staff of Judy's. 1044 00:48:56,760 --> 00:49:01,338 It's a strange situation my husband Eddie got us into. 1045 00:49:01,380 --> 00:49:03,243 - The chef is your husband. 1046 00:49:05,040 --> 00:49:07,128 - He's much more than that. 1047 00:49:07,170 --> 00:49:10,128 I'm not exactly a waitress and he isn't exactly the chef, 1048 00:49:10,170 --> 00:49:14,388 although he does want you to enjoy his cooking. 1049 00:49:14,430 --> 00:49:16,788 It's his lifelong dream. 1050 00:49:16,830 --> 00:49:21,708 So take that Karen look off your face and start eating. 1051 00:49:21,750 --> 00:49:23,148 - I'm not eating this. 1052 00:49:23,190 --> 00:49:23,981 No. 1053 00:49:24,023 --> 00:49:25,353 No, I'm not eating this at all. 1054 00:49:26,689 --> 00:49:28,517 (dark music) 1055 00:49:28,559 --> 00:49:29,859 - That had a perfect sear. 1056 00:49:31,790 --> 00:49:33,790 Now, let's try it again! 1057 00:49:35,298 --> 00:49:36,465 - Oh, hell no. 1058 00:49:37,429 --> 00:49:38,508 - You know what I'm talking about? 1059 00:49:38,550 --> 00:49:41,938 Now be a good girl at eat your soup. 1060 00:49:41,980 --> 00:49:42,771 - Say ah. 1061 00:49:42,813 --> 00:49:43,604 Eat it. 1062 00:49:43,646 --> 00:49:45,378 Eat it now. - Do it. 1063 00:49:45,420 --> 00:49:46,248 - Eat it. Taste it. 1064 00:49:46,290 --> 00:49:47,492 It's delicious. 1065 00:49:47,534 --> 00:49:48,325 (taser cracks) (women scream) 1066 00:49:48,367 --> 00:49:49,302 - [Waitress] Let's go. 1067 00:49:49,344 --> 00:49:50,885 (dark music) 1068 00:49:50,927 --> 00:49:52,848 - Man, what's wrong? What's wrong with this soup? 1069 00:49:52,890 --> 00:49:55,343 - Nothing baby, she's going to eat it, right bitch? 1070 00:49:57,844 --> 00:49:58,705 - Well? 1071 00:49:58,747 --> 00:49:59,853 - Go ahead. - Go on. 1072 00:50:01,800 --> 00:50:02,633 - Eat it. 1073 00:50:05,015 --> 00:50:07,443 - [Eddie] There you go. Now don't be scared. 1074 00:50:07,485 --> 00:50:09,902 (dark music) 1075 00:50:27,914 --> 00:50:28,747 Ah. 1076 00:50:30,631 --> 00:50:34,487 - Hey, put the knife down. 1077 00:50:34,529 --> 00:50:37,779 (dark music continues) 1078 00:50:40,200 --> 00:50:41,073 Put it down. 1079 00:50:45,150 --> 00:50:45,983 - You. 1080 00:50:47,160 --> 00:50:48,717 - Put it down, kid. 1081 00:50:48,759 --> 00:50:49,550 - I hate pigs. 1082 00:50:49,592 --> 00:50:50,383 I hate everything about you. 1083 00:50:50,425 --> 00:50:51,618 I hate the way you smell, 1084 00:50:51,660 --> 00:50:53,818 the way you look, the way you think. 1085 00:50:53,860 --> 00:50:56,729 I'm going to be in your dreams and slice your head off. 1086 00:50:56,771 --> 00:50:58,483 - Put it down, man. 1087 00:50:58,525 --> 00:50:59,316 - [Eddie] I ain't dropping down anything. 1088 00:50:59,358 --> 00:51:00,348 - I will shoot you. 1089 00:51:00,390 --> 00:51:01,990 Put it down now. 1090 00:51:02,032 --> 00:51:02,823 - Pull it. 1091 00:51:02,865 --> 00:51:03,656 You want to pull the gun? 1092 00:51:03,698 --> 00:51:04,621 Pull it. I dare you. 1093 00:51:04,663 --> 00:51:05,838 I double dog dare you. 1094 00:51:05,880 --> 00:51:06,948 - I will shoot you. 1095 00:51:06,990 --> 00:51:08,019 I will shoot you. 1096 00:51:08,061 --> 00:51:08,852 - [Eddie] Man, that's just words. 1097 00:51:08,894 --> 00:51:09,685 Just shoot it anyway. 1098 00:51:09,727 --> 00:51:10,518 You scared. 1099 00:51:10,560 --> 00:51:11,393 You scared. 1100 00:51:13,175 --> 00:51:16,092 (gun shots firing) 1101 00:51:20,600 --> 00:51:24,093 - Needless to say, I don't eat out anymore. 1102 00:51:25,620 --> 00:51:26,453 Actually, 1103 00:51:28,488 --> 00:51:30,303 I don't go out much in general, 1104 00:51:32,220 --> 00:51:33,918 and I know it's a one in a million chance 1105 00:51:33,960 --> 00:51:36,280 for something like that to happen, but I just 1106 00:51:37,500 --> 00:51:39,438 can't bring myself to go out much. 1107 00:51:39,480 --> 00:51:40,880 - Completely understandable. 1108 00:51:41,730 --> 00:51:44,298 Do you have a therapist you've seen for this yet? 1109 00:51:44,340 --> 00:51:45,708 - I really can't afford one. 1110 00:51:45,750 --> 00:51:47,733 That's why I come here. 1111 00:51:49,290 --> 00:51:52,278 In fact, this is the first time I've told the whole story. 1112 00:51:52,320 --> 00:51:53,253 Last week, 1113 00:51:55,461 --> 00:51:56,553 I couldn't finish. 1114 00:52:01,770 --> 00:52:02,980 And the worst part is 1115 00:52:06,420 --> 00:52:10,083 Candace hasn't talked to me in weeks, so I, 1116 00:52:11,143 --> 00:52:13,008 I just can't imagine what she went through. 1117 00:52:13,050 --> 00:52:16,728 - Sounds like there's a bunch of sick fucks out there. 1118 00:52:16,770 --> 00:52:17,603 - Yes. 1119 00:52:19,050 --> 00:52:19,883 So these 1120 00:52:21,150 --> 00:52:22,150 people were 1121 00:52:23,160 --> 00:52:24,310 cannibals of some type? 1122 00:52:25,530 --> 00:52:26,568 - That's what the paper said. 1123 00:52:26,610 --> 00:52:28,248 I don't know. 1124 00:52:28,290 --> 00:52:32,568 I mean, he's just really nuts or just messing with people. 1125 00:52:32,610 --> 00:52:33,963 - I did read that. 1126 00:52:35,979 --> 00:52:37,240 It sounded like a movie. 1127 00:52:38,400 --> 00:52:39,233 - Yeah. 1128 00:52:40,500 --> 00:52:43,968 I read a studio already bought the rice to make it a movie. 1129 00:52:44,010 --> 00:52:47,148 - Damn, Hollywood can't come up with anything, can they? 1130 00:52:47,190 --> 00:52:49,278 - Well, let's get back on track here. 1131 00:52:49,320 --> 00:52:51,738 Simone has obviously been through an experience 1132 00:52:51,780 --> 00:52:53,073 that is very traumatic. 1133 00:52:54,270 --> 00:52:55,620 Is there a simple solution? 1134 00:52:57,510 --> 00:53:00,873 Does, does anyone have a, an experience like this? 1135 00:53:02,415 --> 00:53:03,468 (dark music) 1136 00:53:03,510 --> 00:53:05,388 Well, as some of you know, 1137 00:53:05,430 --> 00:53:08,028 I am getting my master's in psychology 1138 00:53:08,070 --> 00:53:09,138 and working my way towards 1139 00:53:09,180 --> 00:53:11,688 becoming a professional therapist. 1140 00:53:11,730 --> 00:53:14,148 And in doing so, it forces me to focus 1141 00:53:14,190 --> 00:53:16,174 on foundational psychology. 1142 00:53:16,216 --> 00:53:18,716 (man yelling) 1143 00:53:21,482 --> 00:53:23,328 - [Angry Man] Marry a whore. 1144 00:53:23,370 --> 00:53:26,478 - Sounds like a bunch of mumbo jumbo to make money. 1145 00:53:26,520 --> 00:53:27,978 - That's not what I'm saying, Lance. 1146 00:53:28,020 --> 00:53:32,028 I'm saying that this particular case with Simone 1147 00:53:32,070 --> 00:53:34,908 might be a social psychological issue. 1148 00:53:34,950 --> 00:53:37,878 The problem might be the idea of people in general. 1149 00:53:37,920 --> 00:53:39,851 - [Lance] Are people always a problem? 1150 00:53:39,893 --> 00:53:43,608 - Well, can be, but that's not always the case. 1151 00:53:43,650 --> 00:53:45,918 For Simone, the traumatic experience 1152 00:53:45,960 --> 00:53:47,360 happened on a social outing. 1153 00:53:48,750 --> 00:53:52,338 For you, it wasn't exactly a social event or a place. 1154 00:53:52,380 --> 00:53:53,808 - Hey, man, 1155 00:53:53,850 --> 00:53:55,578 I'm fucking dying. 1156 00:53:55,620 --> 00:53:56,870 - Yeah, well, we all are. 1157 00:53:57,960 --> 00:54:00,108 But you have to ask the question. 1158 00:54:00,150 --> 00:54:02,748 It's not about whether you're dying or not, 1159 00:54:02,790 --> 00:54:04,668 but how will you spend your time living, 1160 00:54:04,710 --> 00:54:08,148 and will you fill your life with this type of fear 1161 00:54:08,190 --> 00:54:10,540 and paranoia and 1162 00:54:11,520 --> 00:54:14,478 emotions that overpower your day? 1163 00:54:14,520 --> 00:54:16,848 - Well, that's easy for you to say. 1164 00:54:16,890 --> 00:54:19,226 You don't have nightmares. 1165 00:54:19,268 --> 00:54:22,435 - Who says I don't have nightmares? 1166 00:54:22,477 --> 00:54:25,485 I have nightmares. 1167 00:54:25,527 --> 00:54:29,118 In fact, for the first 1168 00:54:29,160 --> 00:54:31,713 week after it happened, I, I couldn't sleep. 1169 00:54:32,610 --> 00:54:33,510 - What did you do? 1170 00:54:35,477 --> 00:54:36,798 - I did breathing exercises. 1171 00:54:36,840 --> 00:54:38,238 - Really? What kind? 1172 00:54:38,280 --> 00:54:39,798 - Diaphragmatic breathing. 1173 00:54:39,840 --> 00:54:40,673 - Dia what? 1174 00:54:42,150 --> 00:54:44,778 - It's a very well known technique that relaxes you, 1175 00:54:44,820 --> 00:54:46,518 gets oxygen to your blood, 1176 00:54:46,560 --> 00:54:47,808 reduces blood pressure, 1177 00:54:47,850 --> 00:54:49,728 reduces heart rate. 1178 00:54:49,770 --> 00:54:53,328 It's also known as belly breathing or abdominal breathing. 1179 00:54:53,370 --> 00:54:55,608 Deep breaths from your abdominal 1180 00:54:55,650 --> 00:54:57,858 for five to 10 minutes every day. 1181 00:54:57,900 --> 00:55:00,408 - And this cured the nightmares? 1182 00:55:00,450 --> 00:55:02,073 - It helped me sleep better, 1183 00:55:03,075 --> 00:55:05,733 but I wouldn't exactly say cure, but close. 1184 00:55:06,630 --> 00:55:08,733 You know, think of breathing as the, 1185 00:55:09,660 --> 00:55:11,538 the battery to your body. 1186 00:55:11,580 --> 00:55:13,428 The deeper you breathe, 1187 00:55:13,470 --> 00:55:15,288 the more battery you have. 1188 00:55:15,330 --> 00:55:19,188 Now, if you were to not have oxygen, 1189 00:55:19,230 --> 00:55:23,073 you'd suffocate and your battery would die. 1190 00:55:25,230 --> 00:55:26,838 - My battery's dead. 1191 00:55:26,880 --> 00:55:28,590 - Did you bring a charger? - No. 1192 00:55:28,632 --> 00:55:30,072 - Guess it's nap time. 1193 00:55:30,114 --> 00:55:32,508 - No, I'm going to get mom. 1194 00:55:32,550 --> 00:55:34,308 - She said we couldn't leave the car. 1195 00:55:34,350 --> 00:55:36,378 - [Laela] Yeah, well, it's not against the law. 1196 00:55:36,420 --> 00:55:37,788 - What do you know about the law? 1197 00:55:37,830 --> 00:55:39,558 - I watch "Law and Order". 1198 00:55:39,600 --> 00:55:41,082 - Ewe, why? 1199 00:55:41,124 --> 00:55:42,520 - [Laela] I don't know. 1200 00:55:42,562 --> 00:55:46,086 - Wait, okay, they're almost done. 1201 00:55:46,128 --> 00:55:47,795 - Well, almost done. 1202 00:55:49,950 --> 00:55:52,083 Anyone else want to share? 1203 00:55:54,090 --> 00:55:54,923 Cheri? 1204 00:55:55,980 --> 00:55:57,930 - Sometimes it's better to just listen. 1205 00:55:59,340 --> 00:56:00,131 - Okay. 1206 00:56:00,173 --> 00:56:02,133 Well, maybe that's my cue. 1207 00:56:03,120 --> 00:56:05,553 Again, no one is under any obligation to talk. 1208 00:56:06,660 --> 00:56:08,928 Sometimes the help you need comes from just listening. 1209 00:56:08,970 --> 00:56:11,425 - It's definitely helped me today. 1210 00:56:11,467 --> 00:56:13,668 I want to thank you and, 1211 00:56:13,710 --> 00:56:17,508 and everyone for listening and being so kind. 1212 00:56:17,550 --> 00:56:20,748 Sometimes kids can be a handful. 1213 00:56:20,790 --> 00:56:23,325 - That's why I don't have any. 1214 00:56:23,367 --> 00:56:25,398 - We are happy to help. 1215 00:56:25,440 --> 00:56:26,988 Like I said, I'm one of you 1216 00:56:27,030 --> 00:56:30,963 and I've been getting better since my incident, 1217 00:56:31,005 --> 00:56:33,667 but I am not ready to join the dating world. 1218 00:56:33,709 --> 00:56:38,709 (upbeat thumping music) (people chattering) 1219 00:56:52,380 --> 00:56:55,188 The moment I walked in, I started to get nervous. 1220 00:56:55,230 --> 00:56:57,318 Sure, I talked with this woman for two months online, 1221 00:56:57,360 --> 00:56:59,538 but never seen her in person. 1222 00:56:59,580 --> 00:57:01,530 As soon as I got to the bar, it hit me. 1223 00:57:03,810 --> 00:57:05,328 - How you doing? 1224 00:57:05,370 --> 00:57:06,858 - Good. 1225 00:57:06,900 --> 00:57:09,048 - Did you want to get something to drink? 1226 00:57:09,090 --> 00:57:11,073 - Oh, yeah. Sorry. 1227 00:57:12,480 --> 00:57:13,601 - I can come back. 1228 00:57:13,643 --> 00:57:14,538 - No, no, no, no. 1229 00:57:14,580 --> 00:57:17,110 I was just thinking I might wait. 1230 00:57:17,152 --> 00:57:18,202 I'm meeting somebody. 1231 00:57:19,050 --> 00:57:21,663 Maybe I should get something to loosen up. 1232 00:57:22,740 --> 00:57:23,838 Maybe a whiskey. 1233 00:57:23,880 --> 00:57:25,488 - You got a blind date? 1234 00:57:25,530 --> 00:57:27,528 - Well, yeah, kind of. 1235 00:57:27,570 --> 00:57:28,698 I mean, not... 1236 00:57:28,740 --> 00:57:29,808 I've never seen it before. 1237 00:57:29,850 --> 00:57:32,492 - Yeah, that's blind. 1238 00:57:32,534 --> 00:57:34,338 What kind of whiskey you like? 1239 00:57:34,380 --> 00:57:35,680 - [Jake] Just houses fine. 1240 00:57:39,090 --> 00:57:40,338 - Bumble? 1241 00:57:40,380 --> 00:57:41,868 - What's that? 1242 00:57:41,910 --> 00:57:43,788 - Did you meet your date on Bumble? 1243 00:57:43,830 --> 00:57:44,663 - Oh, no. 1244 00:57:45,780 --> 00:57:47,423 - Tinder? Hinge? 1245 00:57:47,465 --> 00:57:48,368 - Oh, no. 1246 00:57:48,410 --> 00:57:50,290 It was called OkCupids. 1247 00:57:50,332 --> 00:57:51,233 - Yeah. 1248 00:57:51,275 --> 00:57:53,218 You got that? - Yeah. 1249 00:57:53,260 --> 00:57:56,538 - I was going to say, freaks are on Bumble. 1250 00:57:56,580 --> 00:57:57,413 - Oh yeah? 1251 00:57:58,380 --> 00:57:59,298 - Oh yeah. 1252 00:57:59,340 --> 00:58:02,194 Just got to make sure they're not going to phish you. 1253 00:58:02,236 --> 00:58:04,488 You know, like show up with 50 pounds or more, 1254 00:58:04,530 --> 00:58:07,130 looking completely different from filters 1255 00:58:07,172 --> 00:58:08,272 or just having a dick. 1256 00:58:09,840 --> 00:58:12,768 - Well, she sent me a couple different pictures, 1257 00:58:13,762 --> 00:58:15,162 so hope that's not the case. 1258 00:58:16,860 --> 00:58:18,378 - That'll be 18. 1259 00:58:18,420 --> 00:58:19,253 - Oh, right. 1260 00:58:20,269 --> 00:58:22,173 $18. 1261 00:58:23,460 --> 00:58:24,293 Thanks. 1262 00:58:26,250 --> 00:58:28,038 - And make sure you get your drinks from me. 1263 00:58:28,080 --> 00:58:29,418 A lot of people around here 1264 00:58:29,460 --> 00:58:31,765 have been getting roofied lately, 1265 00:58:31,807 --> 00:58:34,373 not just the ladies, if you know what I mean. 1266 00:58:34,415 --> 00:58:35,763 - Oh thanks. 1267 00:58:37,655 --> 00:58:38,641 - Anytime. 1268 00:58:38,683 --> 00:58:42,288 (upbeat thumping music continues) 1269 00:58:42,330 --> 00:58:43,593 Good luck, playboy. 1270 00:58:47,220 --> 00:58:48,783 - Oh, yeah. - Another draft? 1271 00:58:57,480 --> 00:58:58,728 - [Jack] As I watched people in the bar, 1272 00:58:58,770 --> 00:59:01,038 my anxiety was kicking in. 1273 00:59:01,080 --> 00:59:02,838 The bartender brought up some good points 1274 00:59:02,880 --> 00:59:04,743 that I didn't even think about. 1275 00:59:06,390 --> 00:59:08,628 What if I am getting catfished? 1276 00:59:08,670 --> 00:59:09,798 What if this person shows up 1277 00:59:09,840 --> 00:59:12,003 and is not who they say they are online? 1278 00:59:12,900 --> 00:59:16,878 I sip my drink and study the people in the room and realize 1279 00:59:16,920 --> 00:59:20,043 I haven't been on a date for years. 1280 00:59:22,620 --> 00:59:24,120 And that's when she walked in. 1281 00:59:26,400 --> 00:59:27,978 - Vanessa. 1282 00:59:28,020 --> 00:59:30,264 Pleased to meet you. 1283 00:59:30,306 --> 00:59:31,485 - Jack. 1284 00:59:31,527 --> 00:59:33,018 You look great. 1285 00:59:33,060 --> 00:59:33,893 - Thank you. 1286 00:59:37,470 --> 00:59:39,858 I am just so relieved you're not a catfish. 1287 00:59:39,900 --> 00:59:41,238 - Oh my God, I feel the same. 1288 00:59:41,280 --> 00:59:43,338 The bartender had me scared for a minute. 1289 00:59:43,380 --> 00:59:44,171 - Elliot? 1290 00:59:44,213 --> 00:59:46,158 Oh, he's harmless. 1291 00:59:46,200 --> 00:59:47,718 He's sober three years. 1292 00:59:47,760 --> 00:59:50,508 He used to be a total rager, but he's chill now. 1293 00:59:50,550 --> 00:59:52,924 - So you come here often then? 1294 00:59:52,966 --> 00:59:53,832 - Yeah. 1295 00:59:53,874 --> 00:59:55,687 Yeah, I live nearby 1296 00:59:55,729 --> 00:59:59,148 and they have good music shows, no cover usually, so... 1297 00:59:59,190 --> 00:59:59,981 - Huh. 1298 01:00:00,023 --> 01:00:02,523 Cool. Well, I'm happy you could make it out. 1299 01:00:03,600 --> 01:00:04,433 So how was work? 1300 01:00:05,730 --> 01:00:06,918 - You know what? 1301 01:00:06,960 --> 01:00:09,691 I don't think a guy's ever even asked me that question. 1302 01:00:09,733 --> 01:00:12,153 It was okay today. 1303 01:00:13,290 --> 01:00:16,308 Honestly, I was mostly just excited about tonight 1304 01:00:16,350 --> 01:00:18,588 and nervous, so. 1305 01:00:18,630 --> 01:00:20,178 - You were nervous? 1306 01:00:20,220 --> 01:00:21,828 What do you got to be nervous about? 1307 01:00:21,870 --> 01:00:23,508 You're gorgeous. 1308 01:00:23,550 --> 01:00:24,588 You know, I was so nervous 1309 01:00:24,630 --> 01:00:26,526 that I was thinking about leaving. 1310 01:00:26,568 --> 01:00:28,271 - Oh, better not. 1311 01:00:28,313 --> 01:00:29,748 That'd be a low blow. 1312 01:00:29,790 --> 01:00:30,940 - Of course I wouldn't. 1313 01:00:32,611 --> 01:00:34,113 I was nervous to meet you too, 1314 01:00:35,494 --> 01:00:37,644 and you know, I haven't had a date in years 1315 01:00:39,062 --> 01:00:41,568 and the divorce was only final last month. 1316 01:00:41,610 --> 01:00:46,578 And well, yeah, you know all this, I'm rambling. 1317 01:00:46,620 --> 01:00:50,343 - And I am just so grateful for your honesty. 1318 01:00:51,510 --> 01:00:55,518 Seriously, it is so hard to find honest people these days. 1319 01:00:55,560 --> 01:00:57,738 That was something that really attracted me to you. 1320 01:00:57,780 --> 01:01:00,408 I could just tell you're honest. 1321 01:01:00,450 --> 01:01:01,283 Thanks, hun. 1322 01:01:04,290 --> 01:01:05,568 - [Jack] Whiskey? 1323 01:01:05,610 --> 01:01:06,858 - [Vanessa] Yep. 1324 01:01:06,900 --> 01:01:09,026 - Woman after my own heart. 1325 01:01:09,068 --> 01:01:12,348 (glasses clink) 1326 01:01:12,390 --> 01:01:13,908 - So do you think the bartender 1327 01:01:13,950 --> 01:01:15,648 put something funny in her drink? 1328 01:01:15,690 --> 01:01:18,018 - No. It was nothing like that. 1329 01:01:18,060 --> 01:01:20,448 I did get the feeling that 1330 01:01:20,490 --> 01:01:22,368 maybe they knew each other better than she let on. 1331 01:01:22,410 --> 01:01:23,560 - You think they dated? 1332 01:01:24,630 --> 01:01:25,878 - Possibly. 1333 01:01:25,920 --> 01:01:28,008 But it, I was just glad it was the person 1334 01:01:28,050 --> 01:01:29,388 that I was talking to. 1335 01:01:29,430 --> 01:01:30,663 - I understand that. 1336 01:01:31,554 --> 01:01:33,828 I've been catfished before. - Me too. 1337 01:01:33,870 --> 01:01:36,187 - Some people are just sick fucks.. 1338 01:01:37,849 --> 01:01:40,059 I think you all know that. 1339 01:01:40,101 --> 01:01:41,344 - Yes. 1340 01:01:41,386 --> 01:01:42,177 (rock music) 1341 01:01:42,219 --> 01:01:43,010 ♪ Tick tock ♪ 1342 01:01:43,052 --> 01:01:43,843 ♪ Tick tock ♪ 1343 01:01:43,885 --> 01:01:44,910 ♪ I'm falling hard ♪ 1344 01:01:44,952 --> 01:01:46,350 ♪ Knocking style ♪ 1345 01:01:46,392 --> 01:01:50,295 ♪ No ♪ 1346 01:01:50,337 --> 01:01:52,242 ♪ Show off ♪ 1347 01:01:52,284 --> 01:01:53,825 ♪ Show out ♪ 1348 01:01:53,867 --> 01:01:55,884 ♪ Hard pressed to impress ♪ 1349 01:01:55,926 --> 01:01:57,687 ♪ With no doubt ♪ 1350 01:01:57,729 --> 01:02:01,294 ♪ Looking for more than just a score ♪ 1351 01:02:01,336 --> 01:02:06,063 ♪ Looking to get my sign say all in your door ♪ 1352 01:02:06,105 --> 01:02:09,933 ♪ Don't say that you want it ♪ 1353 01:02:09,975 --> 01:02:14,373 ♪ If lovin' on me is something you can't pronounce ♪ 1354 01:02:14,415 --> 01:02:17,909 ♪ Don't act like you own it ♪ 1355 01:02:17,951 --> 01:02:22,284 ♪ If you keep on stepping out of bounds ♪ 1356 01:02:22,326 --> 01:02:25,506 (both chattering) 1357 01:02:25,548 --> 01:02:28,240 ♪ Little red nose ♪ 1358 01:02:28,282 --> 01:02:29,764 ♪ Your grandma's house ♪ 1359 01:02:29,806 --> 01:02:31,954 - Come on. - Let's go. 1360 01:02:31,996 --> 01:02:33,487 - Woops. 1361 01:02:33,529 --> 01:02:36,719 ♪ Door swings open ♪ 1362 01:02:36,761 --> 01:02:39,594 (Vanessa giggles) 1363 01:02:43,807 --> 01:02:44,820 - Oh wow. 1364 01:02:44,862 --> 01:02:46,548 - Come on in. - I like this. 1365 01:02:46,590 --> 01:02:47,381 This is yours? 1366 01:02:47,423 --> 01:02:48,948 Did you just live here by yourself? 1367 01:02:48,990 --> 01:02:50,711 - Yeah. - Yeah. 1368 01:02:50,753 --> 01:02:52,383 Are you sure you're up for this? 1369 01:02:53,670 --> 01:02:56,073 - Yeah, well, I did drink a little bit. 1370 01:02:58,200 --> 01:03:00,108 Wait, wait, you're not drunk, are you? 1371 01:03:00,150 --> 01:03:00,941 - No. 1372 01:03:00,983 --> 01:03:03,018 No, I, no, I can handle my liquor. 1373 01:03:03,060 --> 01:03:03,893 It's just, 1374 01:03:05,220 --> 01:03:07,113 I kind of like some kinky stuff. 1375 01:03:08,580 --> 01:03:10,180 I don't want to scare you, but 1376 01:03:11,430 --> 01:03:12,978 you've never been tied up before. 1377 01:03:13,020 --> 01:03:15,963 I have to say it's quite the experience. 1378 01:03:17,280 --> 01:03:18,408 - Oh, well, I, 1379 01:03:18,450 --> 01:03:19,923 I have not been tied up. 1380 01:03:20,820 --> 01:03:22,218 - Really? 1381 01:03:22,260 --> 01:03:24,243 Have you ever been blindfolded? 1382 01:03:25,142 --> 01:03:26,613 - I have not. 1383 01:03:28,394 --> 01:03:29,227 - Wow. 1384 01:03:30,287 --> 01:03:31,920 Have you ever used any toys? 1385 01:03:33,030 --> 01:03:35,450 - Well, yeah, sure. A little bit. 1386 01:03:36,722 --> 01:03:38,868 - There's just something about seeing a man 1387 01:03:38,910 --> 01:03:41,913 totally helpless that really turns me on. 1388 01:03:43,470 --> 01:03:44,303 - Sure. 1389 01:03:47,365 --> 01:03:48,783 You got somebody in there? 1390 01:03:50,040 --> 01:03:52,059 - Maybe. - Oh yeah? 1391 01:03:52,101 --> 01:03:53,388 Is this? 1392 01:03:53,430 --> 01:03:55,425 This isn't like a sex dungeon, is it? 1393 01:03:55,467 --> 01:03:57,534 - [Vanessa] Maybe it is, maybe it isn't. 1394 01:03:57,576 --> 01:03:59,657 - [Jack] Let's hope so. 1395 01:03:59,699 --> 01:04:01,559 (uneasy music) 1396 01:04:01,601 --> 01:04:02,768 Oh, yes ma'am. 1397 01:04:07,950 --> 01:04:09,050 - Let's try something. 1398 01:04:11,207 --> 01:04:13,484 - So you just had this on you, huh? 1399 01:04:13,526 --> 01:04:14,687 - [Vanessa] Uh-huh. 1400 01:04:14,729 --> 01:04:15,520 - Okay. 1401 01:04:15,562 --> 01:04:16,848 Ooh, it's soft. 1402 01:04:16,890 --> 01:04:17,963 - [Vanessa] It's lace. 1403 01:04:18,870 --> 01:04:20,313 Can you see anything? 1404 01:04:21,795 --> 01:04:22,938 - Nope. 1405 01:04:22,980 --> 01:04:25,713 I am, I am blind as a bat. - Good. 1406 01:04:26,567 --> 01:04:29,118 You see, once you take away one of your senses, 1407 01:04:29,160 --> 01:04:32,058 all the other ones are heightened. 1408 01:04:32,100 --> 01:04:33,817 Now it's all about what you feel 1409 01:04:35,877 --> 01:04:37,773 and what you hear. 1410 01:04:39,482 --> 01:04:41,448 (Vanessa laughs) 1411 01:04:41,490 --> 01:04:43,180 Do you feel out of control? 1412 01:04:44,041 --> 01:04:46,208 - [Jack] I mean, a little. 1413 01:04:47,777 --> 01:04:49,398 - [Vanessa] Oops. 1414 01:04:49,440 --> 01:04:51,535 - That's a very sexy word to hear. 1415 01:04:51,577 --> 01:04:52,410 "Oops". 1416 01:04:54,480 --> 01:04:55,878 - Must have been that last drink. 1417 01:04:55,920 --> 01:04:56,753 - Yeah. 1418 01:04:57,660 --> 01:04:59,227 Tipsy myself. - Yeah. 1419 01:05:01,143 --> 01:05:02,208 - [Jack] Oh, what's that? 1420 01:05:02,250 --> 01:05:04,428 - [Vanessa] That is so I can keep you 1421 01:05:04,470 --> 01:05:05,620 right where I want you. 1422 01:05:07,650 --> 01:05:09,050 - That's where I want to be. 1423 01:05:15,660 --> 01:05:16,896 Whoa, whoa. 1424 01:05:16,938 --> 01:05:18,438 I, I though you said tied up. 1425 01:05:18,480 --> 01:05:20,830 - [Vanessa] Oh, but this is just so much safer. 1426 01:05:22,034 --> 01:05:22,825 - For who? 1427 01:05:22,867 --> 01:05:25,185 (tense music) 1428 01:05:25,227 --> 01:05:26,977 - [Vanessa] Me, you, for this room. 1429 01:05:29,850 --> 01:05:31,231 - Safe. 1430 01:05:31,273 --> 01:05:33,813 - Now do you feel out of control? 1431 01:05:34,650 --> 01:05:36,288 - I mean a little more, yeah. 1432 01:05:36,330 --> 01:05:37,163 Now. 1433 01:05:39,900 --> 01:05:41,775 So you, you just, 1434 01:05:41,817 --> 01:05:44,403 you have all this stuff hanging around your place? 1435 01:05:47,100 --> 01:05:48,393 - Hang on a sec, honey. 1436 01:05:49,260 --> 01:05:51,318 - Oh wait, don't tell me. 1437 01:05:51,360 --> 01:05:53,410 This is where you do the old cliche about 1438 01:05:54,270 --> 01:05:56,470 let me step into something more comfortable. 1439 01:05:58,560 --> 01:06:00,460 - That's exactly what I'm about to do. 1440 01:06:01,430 --> 01:06:02,221 - All right. 1441 01:06:02,263 --> 01:06:04,763 (tense music) 1442 01:06:09,303 --> 01:06:12,250 Oh, this is for real, huh? 1443 01:06:14,066 --> 01:06:14,983 Okay. Okay. 1444 01:06:16,410 --> 01:06:19,160 It's okay. It's just a new thing. 1445 01:06:20,093 --> 01:06:21,749 New thing, not boring. 1446 01:06:21,791 --> 01:06:22,943 That's, that's for sure. 1447 01:06:23,898 --> 01:06:24,852 (tense music continues) 1448 01:06:24,894 --> 01:06:25,728 Well, not boring. It's not boring. 1449 01:06:26,752 --> 01:06:27,712 Okay. 1450 01:06:27,754 --> 01:06:31,080 (tense music continues) 1451 01:06:31,122 --> 01:06:33,205 - [Vanessa] Jack? 1452 01:06:33,247 --> 01:06:34,038 - [Jack] Yes. 1453 01:06:34,080 --> 01:06:36,243 - [Vanessa] I think it's time for the truth. 1454 01:06:37,620 --> 01:06:38,598 - The truth, what are you, 1455 01:06:38,640 --> 01:06:40,818 what are you talking about? 1456 01:06:40,860 --> 01:06:43,158 - [Vanessa] I think before we do this, 1457 01:06:43,200 --> 01:06:45,815 we need to share our truths with each other. 1458 01:06:45,857 --> 01:06:48,558 (suspenseful music) 1459 01:06:48,600 --> 01:06:50,073 - Yeah, like what? 1460 01:06:50,940 --> 01:06:53,928 - [Vanessa] Well, one thing that's true, Jack, 1461 01:06:53,970 --> 01:06:58,473 is that you are still married, aren't you? 1462 01:06:59,312 --> 01:07:00,318 - What? 1463 01:07:00,360 --> 01:07:02,028 - Married. 1464 01:07:02,070 --> 01:07:04,518 You're a married man, 1465 01:07:04,560 --> 01:07:05,988 but that's okay. 1466 01:07:06,030 --> 01:07:08,163 I have some truth to share with you too. 1467 01:07:09,154 --> 01:07:10,488 (suspenseful music continues) 1468 01:07:10,530 --> 01:07:11,860 I'm not attracted to you 1469 01:07:12,928 --> 01:07:13,761 at all. 1470 01:07:17,649 --> 01:07:20,778 Another thing about me, Jack, is 1471 01:07:20,820 --> 01:07:24,018 I don't like being fucked, Jack. 1472 01:07:24,060 --> 01:07:29,013 In fact, I'm normally the one doing the fucking. 1473 01:07:33,542 --> 01:07:38,542 (Jack shouts) (suspenseful music) 1474 01:07:40,744 --> 01:07:45,013 Your wife sends her regards. (Jack screams) 1475 01:07:51,617 --> 01:07:52,690 - It was the most 1476 01:07:54,390 --> 01:07:56,403 excruciating pain I'd ever felt. 1477 01:07:58,380 --> 01:08:02,268 - So how did she know you were married 1478 01:08:02,310 --> 01:08:04,053 or if you were married? 1479 01:08:05,100 --> 01:08:07,008 Wait, were you married? 1480 01:08:07,050 --> 01:08:07,883 - I was. 1481 01:08:08,910 --> 01:08:09,903 After the incident, 1482 01:08:11,100 --> 01:08:12,310 my wife disappeared 1483 01:08:14,309 --> 01:08:16,623 and I got divorce papers shortly after. 1484 01:08:18,900 --> 01:08:21,228 Well, sure, I didn't do the right thing, 1485 01:08:21,270 --> 01:08:23,523 but I've been married for so many years. 1486 01:08:25,110 --> 01:08:26,710 But I'm not saying it was right. 1487 01:08:27,570 --> 01:08:30,708 But the relationship was getting stale and I'm... 1488 01:08:30,750 --> 01:08:31,698 But it doesn't matter. 1489 01:08:31,740 --> 01:08:33,858 It doesn't condone sexual assault. 1490 01:08:33,900 --> 01:08:35,700 - I'm so sorry that happened to you. 1491 01:08:37,980 --> 01:08:38,943 - It's fine. 1492 01:08:40,860 --> 01:08:43,083 I survived and I must move on. 1493 01:08:45,660 --> 01:08:47,020 I don't feel comfortable 1494 01:08:48,510 --> 01:08:49,863 dating just yet, 1495 01:08:51,480 --> 01:08:52,313 but I will. 1496 01:08:53,730 --> 01:08:55,330 I thank you for listening to me. 1497 01:08:57,300 --> 01:08:58,660 I truly feel better 1498 01:09:00,030 --> 01:09:01,473 after I've told my story. 1499 01:09:02,779 --> 01:09:05,898 And I know that there are others like me out there that 1500 01:09:05,940 --> 01:09:08,253 fear talking about their traumatic event. 1501 01:09:11,430 --> 01:09:13,083 It truly feels good to share. 1502 01:09:17,310 --> 01:09:22,310 So, Rick, I know you're not obligated to share today, 1503 01:09:25,680 --> 01:09:27,130 but you can if you'd like to. 1504 01:09:28,530 --> 01:09:30,160 It's normal for 1505 01:09:31,320 --> 01:09:33,888 first timers to be more observant, 1506 01:09:33,930 --> 01:09:35,658 first couple of sessions. 1507 01:09:35,700 --> 01:09:38,538 Look, I just want you to feel comfortable, 1508 01:09:38,580 --> 01:09:40,083 and whenever you're ready, 1509 01:09:40,950 --> 01:09:42,213 by all means, 1510 01:09:43,830 --> 01:09:44,780 we're here for you. 1511 01:09:45,720 --> 01:09:48,434 Okay, I guess that- - I don't think it's right. 1512 01:09:48,476 --> 01:09:50,596 - What was that? - I don't think it's right. 1513 01:09:50,638 --> 01:09:55,518 I don't think I should be judge and jury for another man. 1514 01:09:55,560 --> 01:09:58,308 - Well, what exactly is on your mind, Rick? 1515 01:09:58,350 --> 01:10:00,100 - You know how they say that every, 1516 01:10:01,150 --> 01:10:03,048 every man is created equal? 1517 01:10:03,090 --> 01:10:06,333 Every human is supposed to have rights. 1518 01:10:09,990 --> 01:10:11,193 Some people are just, 1519 01:10:13,990 --> 01:10:15,500 I don't know. 1520 01:10:16,470 --> 01:10:18,828 - Tell us what you're thinking, Rick. 1521 01:10:18,870 --> 01:10:20,523 We are all here for you. 1522 01:10:22,077 --> 01:10:24,655 - Well, I sort of, 1523 01:10:24,697 --> 01:10:26,553 I sort of have this roommate. 1524 01:10:27,881 --> 01:10:29,418 (tense music) 1525 01:10:29,460 --> 01:10:30,793 - There he is again. 1526 01:10:32,798 --> 01:10:34,698 This cat's about to kill another bird. 1527 01:10:36,120 --> 01:10:37,233 He's so calculated. 1528 01:10:39,090 --> 01:10:41,840 He hides right behind that pot till the perfect moment. 1529 01:10:44,040 --> 01:10:45,983 Poor bird doesn't even know it hit him. 1530 01:10:48,330 --> 01:10:49,163 I have an idea. 1531 01:10:50,580 --> 01:10:52,180 I haven't fished in a while, but 1532 01:10:53,250 --> 01:10:55,517 I think I can catch something today. 1533 01:10:55,559 --> 01:10:58,059 (tense music) 1534 01:11:03,946 --> 01:11:06,946 (suspenseful music) 1535 01:11:13,210 --> 01:11:15,793 (cat squalling) 1536 01:11:25,260 --> 01:11:26,767 - What the fuck? 1537 01:11:26,809 --> 01:11:27,600 Wait, are you serious? 1538 01:11:27,642 --> 01:11:28,758 This guy killed a cat? 1539 01:11:28,800 --> 01:11:30,708 Well, he needs to be in prison. 1540 01:11:30,750 --> 01:11:32,328 - Maybe I should pay him a visit. 1541 01:11:32,370 --> 01:11:34,743 - Rick, why do you think he did that? 1542 01:11:35,866 --> 01:11:37,488 - The cat was going to kill the bird. 1543 01:11:37,530 --> 01:11:39,288 - But animals do that. 1544 01:11:39,330 --> 01:11:41,208 I mean, it's not pretty, but it's a part of life. 1545 01:11:41,250 --> 01:11:42,468 - Yeah, it's part of the food chain. 1546 01:11:42,510 --> 01:11:43,301 It's natural. 1547 01:11:43,343 --> 01:11:46,968 - This situation does bleed over into the crime abuse rule. 1548 01:11:47,010 --> 01:11:48,378 Did, did you report this? 1549 01:11:48,420 --> 01:11:50,148 - Did the cat have a collar? 1550 01:11:50,190 --> 01:11:51,440 I mean, whose cat was it? 1551 01:11:52,740 --> 01:11:54,653 - So did you report him? 1552 01:11:54,695 --> 01:11:55,833 - No. 1553 01:11:55,875 --> 01:11:58,375 (tense music) 1554 01:12:04,800 --> 01:12:06,048 - Oh, good. 1555 01:12:06,090 --> 01:12:07,290 About time you work out. 1556 01:12:09,030 --> 01:12:10,608 Yeah, nothing to get you out of a funk 1557 01:12:10,650 --> 01:12:12,400 like some good old fashioned gains. 1558 01:12:14,895 --> 01:12:16,428 Hey, you're not still mad about that cat thing, are you? 1559 01:12:16,470 --> 01:12:18,048 I mean, I didn't want to do it either, 1560 01:12:18,090 --> 01:12:20,693 but believe me, man, no one's going to miss that cat. 1561 01:12:22,620 --> 01:12:24,228 - Even a bit extreme. 1562 01:12:24,270 --> 01:12:25,878 - But you hate cats 1563 01:12:25,920 --> 01:12:27,213 and you love birds. 1564 01:12:28,920 --> 01:12:29,943 Was it so wrong? 1565 01:12:31,650 --> 01:12:32,538 Okay. 1566 01:12:32,580 --> 01:12:34,218 I can see that you're still mad. 1567 01:12:34,260 --> 01:12:35,093 I tell you what. 1568 01:12:37,020 --> 01:12:37,970 Hit me in the face. 1569 01:12:39,600 --> 01:12:40,428 - What? 1570 01:12:40,470 --> 01:12:41,538 - Hit me. 1571 01:12:41,580 --> 01:12:43,443 Come on, it'll make you feel good. 1572 01:12:44,370 --> 01:12:46,368 Even though I'm not the built in here, 1573 01:12:46,410 --> 01:12:47,660 it'll make you feel good. 1574 01:12:49,110 --> 01:12:50,298 - Won't make me feel good. 1575 01:12:50,340 --> 01:12:52,248 Just drop it. 1576 01:12:52,290 --> 01:12:53,178 - I know it makes you feel good 1577 01:12:53,220 --> 01:12:54,843 and knocking me out will do it. 1578 01:12:56,798 --> 01:12:57,633 Come on. - No. 1579 01:12:58,855 --> 01:12:59,646 - Hit me. 1580 01:12:59,688 --> 01:13:01,308 Come on, fist up, right to the chin. 1581 01:13:01,350 --> 01:13:03,400 Put your weight behind it and let it fly. 1582 01:13:05,550 --> 01:13:06,948 - No. 1583 01:13:06,990 --> 01:13:09,003 - You ever been knocked out before? 1584 01:13:09,045 --> 01:13:09,836 - No. 1585 01:13:09,878 --> 01:13:10,822 - Me either. 1586 01:13:10,864 --> 01:13:12,773 Kinda want to know how it feels, don't you? 1587 01:13:14,190 --> 01:13:15,023 - No. 1588 01:13:16,200 --> 01:13:17,628 - Sleeper hold. 1589 01:13:17,670 --> 01:13:18,966 All right? 1590 01:13:19,008 --> 01:13:19,799 You put me in a sleeper hold, 1591 01:13:19,841 --> 01:13:21,648 and if I pass out, then slap me. 1592 01:13:21,690 --> 01:13:23,113 I'll wake up. They do it all the time. 1593 01:13:23,155 --> 01:13:24,048 Come on, come on. 1594 01:13:24,090 --> 01:13:25,848 - Wouldn't that, wouldn't... 1595 01:13:25,890 --> 01:13:27,408 Wouldn't that kill you though? 1596 01:13:27,450 --> 01:13:29,100 - Isn't that what you want to do? 1597 01:13:30,357 --> 01:13:32,358 I'm just messing with you. 1598 01:13:32,400 --> 01:13:33,258 Come on, it won't kill me. 1599 01:13:33,300 --> 01:13:35,508 It just takes away the oxygen for a minute. 1600 01:13:35,550 --> 01:13:37,050 - That's what they call death. 1601 01:13:39,960 --> 01:13:42,693 - When I go limp, let go, okay? 1602 01:13:43,818 --> 01:13:45,438 Then I'll naturally breathe again, all right? 1603 01:13:45,480 --> 01:13:47,088 Come on. - Stop. 1604 01:13:47,130 --> 01:13:48,288 - Do it pussy. 1605 01:13:48,330 --> 01:13:49,308 Come on. 1606 01:13:49,350 --> 01:13:50,826 Do it. - No. 1607 01:13:50,868 --> 01:13:51,659 - Like this. 1608 01:13:51,701 --> 01:13:52,492 Come on. 1609 01:13:52,534 --> 01:13:53,601 Like this. 1610 01:13:53,643 --> 01:13:56,123 (tense music) 1611 01:13:56,165 --> 01:13:57,956 - It's not working. 1612 01:13:57,998 --> 01:13:58,831 - Come on. 1613 01:13:59,677 --> 01:14:03,575 (tense music continues) 1614 01:14:03,617 --> 01:14:05,017 Do it! 1615 01:14:05,059 --> 01:14:10,059 (both yelling) (dramatic music) 1616 01:14:10,783 --> 01:14:12,678 - I hope you killed him. 1617 01:14:12,720 --> 01:14:16,128 - Obviously you didn't kill him or we wouldn't be here. 1618 01:14:16,170 --> 01:14:18,333 Wait, did you kill him? 1619 01:14:20,040 --> 01:14:20,898 - No. 1620 01:14:20,940 --> 01:14:23,538 - Hm. Well, I wouldn't be mad if you had. 1621 01:14:23,580 --> 01:14:26,598 - Seems like this roommate may have suicidal tendencies. 1622 01:14:26,640 --> 01:14:28,038 Is this a common thing? 1623 01:14:28,080 --> 01:14:29,463 Does he search for pain? 1624 01:14:30,330 --> 01:14:32,080 Does he ask for your participation? 1625 01:14:33,225 --> 01:14:34,068 - Yes. 1626 01:14:34,110 --> 01:14:36,564 - Yes, he self-harms 1627 01:14:36,606 --> 01:14:39,258 or yes, you have something to do with it? 1628 01:14:39,300 --> 01:14:41,223 - Yes, he is drawn to pain. 1629 01:14:42,690 --> 01:14:44,440 He always wants me to do something, 1630 01:14:46,397 --> 01:14:47,847 but I couldn't choke him out. 1631 01:14:48,690 --> 01:14:50,541 - Well, regardless of that, this, 1632 01:14:50,583 --> 01:14:52,188 this sounds like a situation 1633 01:14:52,230 --> 01:14:53,718 where the authorities should be notified. 1634 01:14:53,760 --> 01:14:57,198 - Or you could take it upon yourself and do the right thing. 1635 01:14:57,240 --> 01:14:59,778 - No, Lance, we don't encourage that. 1636 01:14:59,820 --> 01:15:01,833 - This guy sounds real wild. 1637 01:15:02,670 --> 01:15:05,958 Maybe your solution is the same as my solution. 1638 01:15:06,000 --> 01:15:06,888 Move. 1639 01:15:06,930 --> 01:15:08,778 - I agree. Get out of there. 1640 01:15:08,820 --> 01:15:11,149 - Well, it's not a bad idea, 1641 01:15:11,191 --> 01:15:14,298 but seriously, this sounds like a mental health issue. 1642 01:15:14,340 --> 01:15:17,582 - It's not the self-inflicting pain that's the issue here. 1643 01:15:17,624 --> 01:15:19,532 (tense music) 1644 01:15:19,574 --> 01:15:22,157 (uneasy music) 1645 01:15:33,344 --> 01:15:36,094 (dramatic music) 1646 01:15:40,142 --> 01:15:40,938 What the fuck are you doing? 1647 01:15:40,980 --> 01:15:42,108 - Trying not to wake you. 1648 01:15:42,150 --> 01:15:43,728 - Too fucking late. 1649 01:15:43,770 --> 01:15:44,748 What's on your face? 1650 01:15:44,790 --> 01:15:46,368 - Blood. 1651 01:15:46,410 --> 01:15:47,838 - Yours, what happened? 1652 01:15:47,880 --> 01:15:49,878 - World War III, that's what happened. 1653 01:15:49,920 --> 01:15:50,711 - What? 1654 01:15:50,753 --> 01:15:51,970 - War. 1655 01:15:52,012 --> 01:15:55,100 There was a silent war going on that no one talks about. 1656 01:15:55,142 --> 01:15:56,628 I had a plan. 1657 01:15:56,670 --> 01:15:58,068 My plan was to make him reconsider 1658 01:15:58,110 --> 01:15:59,928 some of those claims he denied. 1659 01:15:59,970 --> 01:16:01,368 He has the power. 1660 01:16:01,410 --> 01:16:03,220 He's the fucking CEO. 1661 01:16:03,262 --> 01:16:05,088 I was going to tie him up. 1662 01:16:05,130 --> 01:16:06,828 Maybe show him some videos of those poor bastards 1663 01:16:06,870 --> 01:16:09,258 that have been paying into our company for years. 1664 01:16:09,300 --> 01:16:10,608 Appeal to his good side. 1665 01:16:10,650 --> 01:16:12,738 - Are you talking about my boss, Mr. Fletcher? 1666 01:16:12,780 --> 01:16:15,138 - Then he struck me and blood just started gushing and had, 1667 01:16:15,180 --> 01:16:16,098 I think I just started seeing red. 1668 01:16:16,140 --> 01:16:16,998 - Where is he? 1669 01:16:17,040 --> 01:16:18,288 - I didn't mean to do it. 1670 01:16:18,330 --> 01:16:20,767 I though I was the good guy. - Where the fuck is he? 1671 01:16:20,809 --> 01:16:23,309 (tense music) 1672 01:16:25,906 --> 01:16:27,645 You fucking brought him here? 1673 01:16:27,687 --> 01:16:29,613 You fucking brought him here? 1674 01:16:31,230 --> 01:16:33,363 - I need your help burying the body. 1675 01:16:35,270 --> 01:16:38,178 - Whoa, that fucker killed someone? 1676 01:16:38,220 --> 01:16:40,117 Why didn't you just start with that? 1677 01:16:40,159 --> 01:16:40,950 - [Mary Anne] This is way bigger- 1678 01:16:40,992 --> 01:16:45,006 (interposing voices speaking) 1679 01:16:45,048 --> 01:16:50,048 (tense music) (interposing voices speaking) 1680 01:16:57,412 --> 01:16:59,101 - Everyone, please. 1681 01:16:59,143 --> 01:17:00,345 Bring it down. 1682 01:17:00,387 --> 01:17:01,178 (dramatic music) 1683 01:17:01,220 --> 01:17:04,638 - This is insane. (dramatic music continues) 1684 01:17:04,680 --> 01:17:05,513 - Now, 1685 01:17:06,840 --> 01:17:09,648 clearly, we have a situation 1686 01:17:09,690 --> 01:17:11,940 that needs to be reported to the authorities. 1687 01:17:13,020 --> 01:17:16,265 Rick, you must call the police. 1688 01:17:16,307 --> 01:17:18,438 (suspenseful music) 1689 01:17:18,480 --> 01:17:19,318 - I can't do that. 1690 01:17:19,360 --> 01:17:21,093 - Well, why on earth not? 1691 01:17:22,260 --> 01:17:23,763 - I don't have a phone. 1692 01:17:25,140 --> 01:17:27,558 - Well, clearly I can find a phone for you 1693 01:17:27,600 --> 01:17:28,998 in this situation. 1694 01:17:29,040 --> 01:17:30,603 - Thank you. - Of course. 1695 01:17:31,770 --> 01:17:33,730 I know I can speak for everyone here 1696 01:17:34,890 --> 01:17:36,640 and that we have your back on this. 1697 01:17:37,530 --> 01:17:38,553 - I appreciate it, 1698 01:17:39,720 --> 01:17:40,893 and I thank you. 1699 01:17:42,577 --> 01:17:45,783 I think I no longer have my fear anymore. 1700 01:17:48,240 --> 01:17:49,848 - Amazing. 1701 01:17:49,890 --> 01:17:51,905 Based on your story, I, 1702 01:17:51,947 --> 01:17:56,088 it would be completely understandable if you feared this... 1703 01:17:56,130 --> 01:17:57,078 What was his name? 1704 01:17:57,120 --> 01:17:58,638 The, the roommate? 1705 01:17:58,680 --> 01:17:59,513 - No. 1706 01:18:01,020 --> 01:18:01,853 No. 1707 01:18:03,330 --> 01:18:05,430 That's not what I'm afraid of. 1708 01:18:07,663 --> 01:18:09,393 I actually don't have a roommate. 1709 01:18:10,826 --> 01:18:13,326 (tense music) 1710 01:18:20,340 --> 01:18:21,318 Come on. 1711 01:18:21,360 --> 01:18:22,272 Do it. 1712 01:18:22,314 --> 01:18:25,647 (tense music continues) 1713 01:18:32,724 --> 01:18:33,515 War. 1714 01:18:33,557 --> 01:18:36,307 (dramatic music) 1715 01:18:50,159 --> 01:18:52,742 (uneasy music) 1716 01:19:03,668 --> 01:19:05,684 What the fuck are you doing? 1717 01:19:05,726 --> 01:19:06,559 War. War. 1718 01:19:08,034 --> 01:19:10,248 It's a silent war that nobody talks about. 1719 01:19:10,290 --> 01:19:11,081 I had a plan. 1720 01:19:11,123 --> 01:19:12,911 My plan was just to scare him, 1721 01:19:12,953 --> 01:19:14,298 maybe make him reconsider some of the claims that he denied. 1722 01:19:14,340 --> 01:19:15,718 He could do that. 1723 01:19:15,760 --> 01:19:16,551 He's, he has the power. 1724 01:19:16,593 --> 01:19:17,583 He's the fucking CEO. 1725 01:19:19,080 --> 01:19:20,748 I was just going to tie him up, 1726 01:19:20,790 --> 01:19:22,488 make him watch some videos of these poor bastards 1727 01:19:22,530 --> 01:19:25,473 who have been paying money into our company for years. 1728 01:19:26,790 --> 01:19:27,890 Appeals his good side. 1729 01:19:35,340 --> 01:19:36,618 I need your help. 1730 01:19:36,660 --> 01:19:37,803 Get rid of the body. 1731 01:19:41,100 --> 01:19:45,123 You see, I was always so caught up in being the good guy. 1732 01:19:46,440 --> 01:19:51,440 I never wanted to be judge, jury, and executioner, 1733 01:19:53,280 --> 01:19:55,353 but if not me, then who? 1734 01:19:58,400 --> 01:19:59,233 If not now, 1735 01:20:00,721 --> 01:20:01,554 when? 1736 01:20:03,300 --> 01:20:04,960 What I was afraid of 1737 01:20:08,610 --> 01:20:10,113 is if I could do it again. 1738 01:20:12,480 --> 01:20:14,223 And I realized something, 1739 01:20:16,290 --> 01:20:18,183 listening to this group here, 1740 01:20:19,650 --> 01:20:21,273 I'm not the good guy. 1741 01:20:24,270 --> 01:20:25,268 And fear? 1742 01:20:25,310 --> 01:20:27,893 (uneasy music) 1743 01:20:30,300 --> 01:20:33,903 Fear is a waste of time. 1744 01:20:39,630 --> 01:20:42,288 Oh, and Lance, 1745 01:20:42,330 --> 01:20:43,173 you are right. 1746 01:20:44,187 --> 01:20:45,363 You are going to die. 1747 01:20:46,558 --> 01:20:50,948 (dramatic music) (Lance screams) 1748 01:20:50,990 --> 01:20:53,823 (women screaming) 1749 01:20:59,429 --> 01:21:00,558 - [Arman] No, leave her alone. 1750 01:21:00,600 --> 01:21:01,711 - [Jack] We're calling the police. 1751 01:21:01,753 --> 01:21:03,934 Wait, wait, wait. Fuck. 1752 01:21:03,976 --> 01:21:04,911 Let's talk about this. 1753 01:21:04,953 --> 01:21:08,001 (Jack screams) 1754 01:21:08,043 --> 01:21:13,043 ♪ In the shadows they bring ♪ 1755 01:21:13,325 --> 01:21:18,325 ♪ Those haunting my screen ♪ 1756 01:21:18,641 --> 01:21:23,352 ♪ No escape from this fear ♪ 1757 01:21:23,394 --> 01:21:28,394 ♪ Darkness whispers it's near ♪ 1758 01:21:29,248 --> 01:21:34,248 ♪ Feel the terror in your heart ♪ 1759 01:21:34,935 --> 01:21:39,368 ♪ Can't you see we're worlds apart ♪ 1760 01:21:39,410 --> 01:21:43,077 ♪ Welcome to fear anonymous ♪ 1761 01:21:50,373 --> 01:21:54,040 ♪ Welcome to fear anonymous ♪ 1762 01:22:01,045 --> 01:22:04,045 (upbeat rock music) 1763 01:22:31,001 --> 01:22:34,834 (upbeat rock music continues) 1764 01:23:00,851 --> 01:23:04,684 (upbeat rock music continues) 1765 01:23:05,629 --> 01:23:07,173 - [Rick] Cheri, red. 1766 01:23:08,550 --> 01:23:10,173 Arman, green. 1767 01:23:12,270 --> 01:23:14,103 Mary Anne, green. 1768 01:23:15,570 --> 01:23:18,213 Simone, purple. 1769 01:23:19,710 --> 01:23:20,543 Jack, 1770 01:23:23,250 --> 01:23:25,333 mint chip. 1771 01:23:25,375 --> 01:23:27,958 (uneasy music) 1772 01:23:34,196 --> 01:23:35,817 (kids knocking) 1773 01:23:35,859 --> 01:23:38,609 (dramatic music)