1 00:00:05,920 --> 00:00:08,320 -How did she sound on the phone? -Normal. 2 00:00:09,320 --> 00:00:11,000 Even nice, if you ask me. 3 00:00:13,240 --> 00:00:15,160 Sounds better than the other way around. 4 00:00:16,239 --> 00:00:17,240 Yeah. 5 00:00:17,800 --> 00:00:20,520 But she'll finally have a grandma. That's really nice. 6 00:00:22,200 --> 00:00:23,560 I never met mine. 7 00:00:24,600 --> 00:00:26,960 When I learned that I was gonna have a baby, 8 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:29,000 she... my mom's mom... 9 00:00:30,320 --> 00:00:32,640 she didn't say a word. She just hugged me tight. 10 00:00:34,400 --> 00:00:36,040 But Mom yelled for two days. 11 00:00:38,800 --> 00:00:40,240 Having a cool grandma's gold. 12 00:00:43,200 --> 00:00:44,960 -Shall we? -Yep. 13 00:00:47,920 --> 00:00:50,160 Hey. Number 12. 14 00:00:55,320 --> 00:00:56,560 Did you talk to Pawel? 15 00:00:57,160 --> 00:00:59,440 No. He won't take my calls. 16 00:01:04,680 --> 00:01:05,720 Maybe you ought to talk to-- 17 00:01:05,800 --> 00:01:08,039 Maybe you ought to start talking to Adam, right? 18 00:01:23,640 --> 00:01:24,640 Thanks. 19 00:01:35,960 --> 00:01:37,039 Good afternoon. 20 00:01:37,120 --> 00:01:38,600 -Good afternoon. -Afternoon. 21 00:01:40,440 --> 00:01:41,640 Filip Raczynski. 22 00:01:43,400 --> 00:01:45,160 I know. Please, come in. 23 00:01:54,160 --> 00:01:55,600 Thank you for coming today. 24 00:01:56,360 --> 00:02:00,600 I know my call must have caught you by surprise. 25 00:02:00,680 --> 00:02:03,400 It's all right. Please, call me Filip. 26 00:02:04,200 --> 00:02:05,200 And you are? 27 00:02:05,800 --> 00:02:06,800 Kiki. 28 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:10,560 Yeah, I am the... was Anka's best friend. 29 00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:12,880 This is a baller house. 30 00:02:14,200 --> 00:02:16,880 Ah, you brought muscle. Are you scared? 31 00:02:17,480 --> 00:02:18,520 I might be. 32 00:02:25,800 --> 00:02:27,079 My granddaughter. 33 00:02:28,480 --> 00:02:29,640 She's so cute. 34 00:02:31,480 --> 00:02:32,480 She is. 35 00:02:32,960 --> 00:02:34,480 On our way here, she fell asleep. 36 00:02:36,760 --> 00:02:37,800 Follow me. 37 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:41,040 Don't take your shoes off. 38 00:02:41,120 --> 00:02:43,560 Elegance is key in this household, my friends. 39 00:02:43,640 --> 00:02:44,640 Please. 40 00:02:55,360 --> 00:02:56,880 This is Filip. 41 00:02:57,880 --> 00:02:59,320 And this is... 42 00:03:00,080 --> 00:03:01,280 -Kiki. -Kiki. 43 00:03:01,360 --> 00:03:04,840 And that's my granddaughter, Antonina. 44 00:03:06,640 --> 00:03:08,120 -Ada. -Filip. 45 00:03:08,200 --> 00:03:09,960 -Kiki. Hi. -A pleasure. 46 00:03:10,040 --> 00:03:13,040 -My husband, Jeremi. -Jerek. 47 00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:15,040 -Nice to meet you. -Nice to meet you. 48 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:17,480 This is our son. Will you introduce yourself? 49 00:03:17,560 --> 00:03:19,240 -What's your name? -Ksawery. 50 00:03:19,320 --> 00:03:20,360 -Really? -Hi. 51 00:03:20,880 --> 00:03:22,760 And this is my brother, Hubert. 52 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:26,120 -Hubert. -Kiki. Hi. 53 00:03:26,200 --> 00:03:27,520 Hubert. Hi. 54 00:03:28,240 --> 00:03:29,480 It's good you're here. 55 00:03:29,560 --> 00:03:32,960 Mom cooked a lot of food, so now it won't go to waste. 56 00:03:33,040 --> 00:03:36,960 She's so sweet. Totally resembles Krzysztof. 57 00:03:39,040 --> 00:03:40,120 True, she is. 58 00:03:41,520 --> 00:03:42,680 Who'd like a drink? 59 00:03:43,200 --> 00:03:44,280 Hubert! 60 00:03:44,840 --> 00:03:48,040 Quiet, you'll wake her up. Let's go to the studio. 61 00:03:50,760 --> 00:03:52,360 I wouldn't mind a glass of water. 62 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:54,040 Come on, there's wine. 63 00:03:54,880 --> 00:03:56,440 -Red, white... -Should I close the door? 64 00:03:56,520 --> 00:03:58,640 No, I'm driving, so water's fine. 65 00:03:58,720 --> 00:04:01,000 Ah, yeah, but it'll loosen you up just a bit. Come on. 66 00:04:01,080 --> 00:04:02,640 Don't push it. Do you want lemon? 67 00:04:02,720 --> 00:04:04,840 Oh, yes, please. Thanks. 68 00:04:04,920 --> 00:04:06,680 -And you? -No, I've got Tosia. 69 00:04:07,200 --> 00:04:08,560 -Here you go. -Thanks, thanks. 70 00:04:12,120 --> 00:04:15,400 Oh, speaking of Krzysztof. Open the door. 71 00:04:18,279 --> 00:04:21,360 I got Tosia a little present. 72 00:04:23,080 --> 00:04:24,840 We'll try it on when she wakes up. 73 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:27,280 Because I'm not sure how tall she is. 74 00:04:28,520 --> 00:04:30,640 Well, I think you nailed it. Thank you, ma'am. 75 00:04:34,480 --> 00:04:36,520 Now, the family is complete. 76 00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:39,360 Can you and I talk about this? 77 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:40,840 We're talking in this moment. 78 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:43,600 I'll be in the kitchen. 79 00:04:46,960 --> 00:04:47,960 Just a minute. 80 00:04:53,480 --> 00:04:56,080 I bet Krzysztof isn't happy with our visit. 81 00:04:57,360 --> 00:04:59,840 Tell me something else new. I've never seen that man happy. 82 00:04:59,920 --> 00:05:01,160 I told you he would be angry. 83 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:03,360 Please be quiet. All you ever do is talk. 84 00:05:03,440 --> 00:05:05,280 -Don't start with that. -Here we go. 85 00:05:05,360 --> 00:05:07,600 Well, let's get Mom's birthday over with. 86 00:05:07,680 --> 00:05:09,080 Nice and quick. 87 00:05:10,400 --> 00:05:12,080 It's amazing that you're here. 88 00:05:12,880 --> 00:05:15,800 Any traffic on the way here, you guys? 89 00:05:17,520 --> 00:05:18,760 You know, it's Warsaw. 90 00:05:19,360 --> 00:05:21,000 -Right, right. -Krzysztof! 91 00:05:27,200 --> 00:05:29,160 Son, listen, please stay. 92 00:05:42,480 --> 00:05:43,960 If we had known it was your birthday, 93 00:05:44,040 --> 00:05:46,800 we would have got you a present. 94 00:05:46,880 --> 00:05:47,880 Don't worry. 95 00:05:47,960 --> 00:05:49,880 How could you have known about this? 96 00:05:49,960 --> 00:05:51,360 You're not related to us. 97 00:05:54,400 --> 00:05:56,560 I'm very happy to see all of you, 98 00:05:56,640 --> 00:05:59,040 that we are all here today, but I must say, 99 00:05:59,120 --> 00:06:01,240 I'd like to see you on a regular basis. 100 00:06:01,320 --> 00:06:03,600 -Why the circus, Mom? -Easy now, man. 101 00:06:07,120 --> 00:06:08,960 I wanted to personally thank Filip 102 00:06:09,040 --> 00:06:10,840 for being so splendid with Tosia. 103 00:06:12,160 --> 00:06:17,520 Not the best timing or moment, but I am convinced 104 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:20,520 that these situations should be discussed like real adults. 105 00:06:20,600 --> 00:06:22,760 We shouldn't bury our heads in the-- 106 00:06:22,840 --> 00:06:24,880 Ksawery, stop doing that. Oh, where was I? 107 00:06:24,960 --> 00:06:27,040 We shouldn't bury our heads in the sand, 108 00:06:27,120 --> 00:06:30,960 so I believe Krzysztof should try to adopt little Tosia. 109 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:33,520 Please don't tell me what I should do. 110 00:06:33,600 --> 00:06:35,000 Krzysztof. 111 00:06:38,280 --> 00:06:41,600 -Stay out of it, idiot. -Krzysztof. Calm down. 112 00:06:41,680 --> 00:06:45,520 Ksawery, please take my phone and go watch something in the other room. 113 00:06:45,600 --> 00:06:46,680 Watch something fun. 114 00:06:47,240 --> 00:06:49,320 You know, a child needs a family. 115 00:06:50,440 --> 00:06:52,040 Tosia already has one. 116 00:06:56,520 --> 00:06:58,560 I was very clear. I don't want that child. 117 00:06:59,159 --> 00:07:01,400 "I don't want that child. I don't want that child." 118 00:07:02,240 --> 00:07:05,080 A responsible man should always rise to the occasion. 119 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:07,000 I'm not a responsible man, you know? 120 00:07:07,080 --> 00:07:08,240 I wonder who's to blame. 121 00:07:08,320 --> 00:07:09,800 Let me take a guess, please. 122 00:07:10,600 --> 00:07:12,120 -Your mom, right? -I don't know. 123 00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:14,840 I didn't say that, but it's possible. 124 00:07:14,920 --> 00:07:17,640 That's why we have marriages, to avoid talking such nonsense. 125 00:07:17,720 --> 00:07:19,680 People get married, they make a commitment, 126 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:21,560 and then they have kids. Not like now, 127 00:07:21,640 --> 00:07:24,280 open relationships, single mothers, suicides. 128 00:07:24,360 --> 00:07:26,680 In your head, it's all connected, is that right? 129 00:07:26,760 --> 00:07:27,760 One leading to the other. 130 00:07:27,840 --> 00:07:31,560 Being unmarried, suicide, yeah. Is global warming in there, too? 131 00:07:31,640 --> 00:07:34,040 Doesn't matter, honestly. It's all about fun, right? 132 00:07:34,120 --> 00:07:37,440 -You only live once. -Maybe stop drinking alcohol. 133 00:07:37,520 --> 00:07:40,000 -Are you worried about me? -Damn right I'm worried. 134 00:07:40,080 --> 00:07:41,880 I haven't seen you sober for days. 135 00:07:43,280 --> 00:07:44,280 Okay. 136 00:07:46,000 --> 00:07:47,280 -Mom. -Are you happy now? 137 00:07:47,360 --> 00:07:49,040 Amazing, Mom. Fuck. 138 00:07:49,880 --> 00:07:52,000 Amazing as always. Thank you. 139 00:07:54,680 --> 00:07:56,159 I hope it doesn't leave a stain. 140 00:07:57,840 --> 00:08:00,040 You shouldn't even be trusted with a dog. 141 00:08:01,240 --> 00:08:03,000 Let alone trusted with children. 142 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:09,640 Fill me up, please. 143 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:14,760 Have you ever felt like something was missing? 144 00:08:14,840 --> 00:08:17,080 Yeah. You, Mom. 145 00:08:18,320 --> 00:08:20,280 I was a latchkey kid, remember? 146 00:08:20,360 --> 00:08:21,840 You were always at work, 147 00:08:21,920 --> 00:08:24,560 and then you were pissed that you had to take care of us, 148 00:08:24,640 --> 00:08:25,960 not to mention our home. 149 00:08:26,760 --> 00:08:29,240 -You're being unfair, son. -Really? 150 00:08:30,520 --> 00:08:31,600 You know Ada cut herself. 151 00:08:33,799 --> 00:08:36,120 Yeah. Did you know? 152 00:08:36,960 --> 00:08:39,400 Come on, Kiki. Let's go. 153 00:08:39,480 --> 00:08:41,760 Don't go. I'm sorry. Please sit down. 154 00:08:42,520 --> 00:08:45,560 We're only talking about family matters, as a family. 155 00:08:47,160 --> 00:08:48,280 Now sit down. 156 00:08:50,880 --> 00:08:53,480 You weren't the only child with working parents. 157 00:08:54,640 --> 00:08:57,160 Every family has its problems. All of them. 158 00:08:58,480 --> 00:08:59,760 We're not dysfunctional. 159 00:08:59,840 --> 00:09:02,640 But we are dysfunctional, Mom. Let's call things by their name. 160 00:09:02,720 --> 00:09:04,400 Yes, we are dysfunctional. 161 00:09:05,120 --> 00:09:09,160 My best childhood memories are with the neighbor's sitter. 162 00:09:09,640 --> 00:09:13,200 My best childhood memories are with a stranger, Mom. 163 00:09:13,280 --> 00:09:14,640 Stop that now. 164 00:09:16,240 --> 00:09:20,080 My gosh, she used to slap us. Ada, what was that again? 165 00:09:21,520 --> 00:09:23,440 "A burning cheek for a cheeky mouth," right? 166 00:09:23,520 --> 00:09:25,880 For fuck's sake, please stop. 167 00:09:28,040 --> 00:09:30,760 Ada, please pull yourself together. 168 00:09:30,840 --> 00:09:32,800 We weren't happy kids, Mom. 169 00:09:36,680 --> 00:09:39,880 Krzysztof. What, are you stupid, son? 170 00:09:39,960 --> 00:09:43,480 Who's happy nowadays? Do you see anyone happy here? 171 00:09:45,160 --> 00:09:46,160 Life's like that. 172 00:09:46,240 --> 00:09:49,400 No, Mom, the thing is, life doesn't have to be horrible. 173 00:09:49,480 --> 00:09:52,120 This crap about marriage being a fucking magic cure. 174 00:09:52,200 --> 00:09:53,280 But it is. 175 00:09:53,360 --> 00:09:55,480 It's the responsible thing to do. 176 00:09:55,560 --> 00:09:57,720 You get someone, and you dedicate your life to your kids. 177 00:09:57,800 --> 00:10:00,880 Right. And did you ever ask yourself if you'd be a good mother? 178 00:10:00,960 --> 00:10:04,920 Did you even ask yourself if you wanted to have kids? Huh? 179 00:10:05,000 --> 00:10:06,600 You don't even love your grandson. 180 00:10:06,680 --> 00:10:08,880 I'm exactly like you and I'm sick of it, 181 00:10:08,960 --> 00:10:10,920 because I've never loved anyone. 182 00:10:18,520 --> 00:10:22,480 I wasted my life trying to raise a family, 183 00:10:22,560 --> 00:10:24,640 but your dad and I were so busy that we-- 184 00:10:24,720 --> 00:10:28,040 Oh, throw dad into this picture of a family as ideal 185 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:30,200 is nonsensical. Our dad! 186 00:10:32,400 --> 00:10:33,920 Please, you were always arguing. 187 00:10:34,000 --> 00:10:36,920 Yeah, couples argue all the time because that's just how it is. 188 00:10:37,000 --> 00:10:38,720 Oh, and the silent treatment. 189 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:44,160 Huh? When you fucking sulked, you wouldn't even bring food. 190 00:10:44,680 --> 00:10:46,440 When there was nothing to eat? 191 00:10:46,520 --> 00:10:50,480 When I had to ask Dad for money to buy fucking food for the house? 192 00:10:51,880 --> 00:10:55,440 When he'd come home and we were so scared you'd start fighting again 193 00:10:55,520 --> 00:10:58,480 and he wouldn't talk to us for two weeks again? 194 00:10:58,560 --> 00:11:00,440 Totally ignoring all of us? 195 00:11:00,520 --> 00:11:02,880 It wasn't ideal, I know that, but he cared about us! 196 00:11:02,960 --> 00:11:04,000 About us? 197 00:11:04,600 --> 00:11:07,000 The fuck are we talking about here? 198 00:11:07,080 --> 00:11:08,680 He didn't give two shits about Ada. 199 00:11:08,760 --> 00:11:12,320 He treated Hubert like an idiot, just because he didn't get straight A's? 200 00:11:12,880 --> 00:11:14,000 Is that caring, Mom? 201 00:11:14,080 --> 00:11:16,360 He just wanted you all to give your best. 202 00:11:16,440 --> 00:11:19,440 -Like responsible human beings. -Responsible human beings? 203 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:21,800 Is a kid that age supposed to do that? 204 00:11:21,880 --> 00:11:23,160 I was her age, Mom! 205 00:11:23,240 --> 00:11:26,040 The irresponsible human beings were you two for fighting 206 00:11:26,120 --> 00:11:28,920 and not talking and for not treating each other 207 00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:31,440 like two fucking normal adults! 208 00:11:45,640 --> 00:11:47,000 Filip, my dear... 209 00:11:47,480 --> 00:11:49,600 no one in this family can really expect you 210 00:11:49,680 --> 00:11:51,840 to bear the level of responsibility. 211 00:11:51,920 --> 00:11:54,560 So, listen, Krzysztof will take care of his daughter. 212 00:11:54,640 --> 00:11:55,760 Put the wine away. 213 00:11:56,600 --> 00:11:58,640 I'm just worried about Tosia. 214 00:11:58,720 --> 00:12:01,760 You're very young and you've got your life ahead of you. 215 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:04,000 -Stop it. -Just let me solve this, okay? 216 00:12:04,080 --> 00:12:05,720 A child needs care and love. 217 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:10,680 And unlike us, he cares about her. 218 00:12:10,760 --> 00:12:12,280 Only he's a faggot. 219 00:12:17,920 --> 00:12:19,080 I pity you, Mom. 220 00:12:45,120 --> 00:12:47,880 The pot roast was good. Hey, cheer up. 221 00:12:55,760 --> 00:12:57,240 Hey, maybe this is weird. 222 00:12:58,880 --> 00:13:00,240 I feel sorry for her. 223 00:13:00,880 --> 00:13:01,880 Fuck her. 224 00:13:04,640 --> 00:13:06,400 We weren't supposed to be there, so... 225 00:13:17,720 --> 00:13:19,280 Want some? On your hand? 226 00:13:20,080 --> 00:13:21,800 No, hey, hey, hey, no, no, no! Don't eat it! 227 00:13:52,960 --> 00:13:53,960 Hey. 228 00:14:11,440 --> 00:14:13,360 You left Tosia's presents, Filip. 229 00:14:17,320 --> 00:14:19,800 Our first meeting didn't go as well as planned. 230 00:14:19,880 --> 00:14:21,800 You really think there should be others? 231 00:14:24,520 --> 00:14:25,920 We're family now. 232 00:14:26,000 --> 00:14:27,600 Family looks pretty in pictures. 233 00:14:27,680 --> 00:14:30,440 Get in the middle of that picture or they'll cut you out. 234 00:14:31,280 --> 00:14:32,360 May I come in? 235 00:14:34,360 --> 00:14:35,600 Of course. 236 00:14:48,280 --> 00:14:50,600 Hello, baby girl. 237 00:14:51,640 --> 00:14:53,960 -How are you doing? -So, would you like something to drink? 238 00:14:54,040 --> 00:14:55,720 -Yes. -What? 239 00:14:57,360 --> 00:15:00,920 Water would be fine. Oh, aren't you a doll? 240 00:15:01,000 --> 00:15:03,200 Tell me, what have you got there? 241 00:15:04,880 --> 00:15:07,000 Hey, look at this here, Tosia. 242 00:15:07,760 --> 00:15:11,400 So, baby, look at this nice present Granny got for you. 243 00:15:12,240 --> 00:15:14,240 So pretty. Look at this. 244 00:15:14,320 --> 00:15:18,320 What a pretty dress for a princess like you. 245 00:15:18,400 --> 00:15:20,120 I've only got sparkling. Is that all right? 246 00:15:20,840 --> 00:15:23,880 Of course. Yes? Do you like it? 247 00:15:25,040 --> 00:15:26,840 -There, there. -With lemon? 248 00:15:27,920 --> 00:15:28,920 Please. 249 00:15:29,400 --> 00:15:32,440 Right. Would you make Grandma happy 250 00:15:32,520 --> 00:15:34,640 and please try this pretty dress on? 251 00:15:34,720 --> 00:15:36,280 All right, I think it's about time 252 00:15:36,360 --> 00:15:39,200 we get this princess to bed, nice and easy. 253 00:15:39,840 --> 00:15:43,000 She'll try it on later. I'm sorry, but it's her bedtime. 254 00:15:46,280 --> 00:15:49,640 We could make an exception for Grandma, right? 255 00:15:50,160 --> 00:15:52,840 When it comes to bedtime, there are no exceptions at all. 256 00:15:55,320 --> 00:15:56,360 Very well. 257 00:16:03,760 --> 00:16:06,040 Bye, baby girl. Bye-bye. 258 00:16:10,080 --> 00:16:11,160 What's this about? 259 00:16:12,400 --> 00:16:14,400 Inviting us over, coming here, giving gifts, 260 00:16:14,480 --> 00:16:16,200 calling yourself her grandma? 261 00:16:16,280 --> 00:16:18,080 Well, like it or not, I'm her grandma. 262 00:16:18,160 --> 00:16:19,480 Please do not come here again. 263 00:16:22,240 --> 00:16:24,200 I filed an application to adopt Tosia. 264 00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:27,600 I just hope you understand. 265 00:17:15,160 --> 00:17:16,359 Did you know about it? 266 00:17:18,319 --> 00:17:19,400 Know about what? 267 00:17:19,480 --> 00:17:22,960 Your mother came last night saying she wants to adopt Tosia. 268 00:17:25,760 --> 00:17:27,920 -Say something! -Hey, hey, come in, please. 269 00:17:28,000 --> 00:17:29,200 Tell me if you knew! 270 00:17:30,920 --> 00:17:33,400 -No, I didn't. -Help me. She can't do this. 271 00:17:35,320 --> 00:17:36,920 -I understand that-- -You don't understand shit. 272 00:17:37,000 --> 00:17:39,360 Please talk to her. Maybe if you forbid her... 273 00:17:42,120 --> 00:17:43,400 Fuck her! 274 00:18:15,200 --> 00:18:17,160 You got a strong bond, you know. 275 00:18:17,240 --> 00:18:20,000 You're her nearest kin. Tosia's like your daughter. 276 00:18:20,080 --> 00:18:22,040 That'll be our line of argument. 277 00:18:22,520 --> 00:18:25,800 If we actually manage to get final and total custody, 278 00:18:25,880 --> 00:18:29,040 we'll have a big chance for adoption and full parental rights. 279 00:18:29,120 --> 00:18:31,440 I met Tosia's grandmother yesterday. 280 00:18:31,520 --> 00:18:32,600 Krzysztof's mother. 281 00:18:33,640 --> 00:18:34,640 What for? 282 00:18:35,480 --> 00:18:37,600 She wanted to meet her granddaughter finally. 283 00:18:37,680 --> 00:18:40,040 They could have sampled Tosia's genetic material. 284 00:18:40,120 --> 00:18:42,600 And I wanted to put in doubt his fatherhood. 285 00:18:42,680 --> 00:18:45,640 -But he's her biological father. -You can't know for sure. 286 00:18:46,840 --> 00:18:48,920 Besides, it would have gained us some time. 287 00:18:49,000 --> 00:18:50,360 We need it. 288 00:18:50,440 --> 00:18:53,920 The longer Tosia is with you, the deeper your bond becomes. 289 00:18:54,000 --> 00:18:57,280 You're proving yourself as a caregiver. The court will have that in mind. 290 00:18:57,360 --> 00:18:59,520 They didn't sample anything. I watched her nonstop. 291 00:19:00,400 --> 00:19:03,760 Some courts routinely rule for the biological parent. 292 00:19:03,840 --> 00:19:06,760 He never showed any interest and never even tried to contact her. 293 00:19:06,840 --> 00:19:09,240 Yeah, but they can say that Anka blocked him away 294 00:19:09,320 --> 00:19:11,960 because she wanted her for herself and he suffered 295 00:19:12,040 --> 00:19:13,440 because he loves her. 296 00:19:13,520 --> 00:19:14,800 Just because somebody says something 297 00:19:14,880 --> 00:19:18,640 doesn't mean it's true, but... it's not a big deal. 298 00:19:18,720 --> 00:19:20,440 Next time, keep me posted about everything 299 00:19:20,520 --> 00:19:22,640 that's connected to the case, please. Okay? 300 00:19:25,040 --> 00:19:26,560 She visited me yesterday. 301 00:19:27,240 --> 00:19:29,240 She's trying really hard to adopt Tosia. 302 00:19:34,120 --> 00:19:35,200 Then we are fucked. 303 00:20:12,560 --> 00:20:14,480 -Hey. -Hey. 304 00:20:18,040 --> 00:20:19,920 I'm sorry. I really needed to clear my head. 305 00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:21,680 It's cool. 306 00:20:24,640 --> 00:20:25,640 How's Tosia? 307 00:20:26,520 --> 00:20:27,920 Good. She's asleep. 308 00:20:29,320 --> 00:20:32,240 I never thanked you for what you said at the station that night. 309 00:20:33,280 --> 00:20:36,160 You said Tosia needs a father, not a fucking drunk uncle. 310 00:20:36,240 --> 00:20:37,920 I'm always here, so... 311 00:20:41,160 --> 00:20:42,480 How did it go with Teresa? 312 00:20:44,760 --> 00:20:46,840 She said that we'll crush that witch easily. 313 00:21:08,040 --> 00:21:10,680 I love you. Got it? Come. 314 00:21:11,800 --> 00:21:14,640 You guys ready? Let's do this. 315 00:21:14,720 --> 00:21:16,520 I'm gonna puke. I'm so nervous. 316 00:21:16,600 --> 00:21:17,600 Hold her. 317 00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:23,440 Filip, listen to me. Please. 318 00:21:25,600 --> 00:21:27,320 -It's okay. -No, please listen. 319 00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:34,920 Adam is waiting. 320 00:21:36,840 --> 00:21:38,040 Well... 321 00:21:38,920 --> 00:21:39,920 I'm glad. 322 00:21:40,640 --> 00:21:43,520 -Because? -Adam is waiting for us. 323 00:21:43,600 --> 00:21:44,920 Get the stroller? 324 00:21:52,640 --> 00:21:55,120 -I wish you good luck. -Thank you. 325 00:21:57,040 --> 00:21:58,920 -Come here. -But why? 326 00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:00,280 'Cause I fucking say so. 327 00:22:05,360 --> 00:22:08,880 As a neighbor, you were a total prick. 328 00:22:18,720 --> 00:22:21,920 -My comments turn you on? -Jesus, that's my phone. 329 00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:24,920 -I'm glad it's just that. -You're nuts, Beata. 330 00:22:25,720 --> 00:22:27,120 You lost the bet. 331 00:22:28,920 --> 00:22:31,560 -Was I sober? -Yeah, now you owe me. 332 00:22:31,640 --> 00:22:34,040 -I asked if I was sober. -No. 333 00:22:34,680 --> 00:22:38,200 My God, taking advantage of a woman under the influence. 334 00:22:44,360 --> 00:22:45,760 What was the bet about? 335 00:22:48,200 --> 00:22:50,280 At the beginning, that Filip wouldn't manage 336 00:22:50,360 --> 00:22:51,520 and that he'd give up. 337 00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:57,160 Even when there's a high degree of confidence in the tests, 338 00:22:57,240 --> 00:23:00,520 the opinion is also grounded in the interview performed. 339 00:23:00,600 --> 00:23:02,720 Tests are subject to interpretation, 340 00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:06,680 but a test based on an interview gives the most credible opinion. 341 00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:09,000 And Filip... 342 00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:12,280 Well, he displays a very high level of empathy. 343 00:23:12,360 --> 00:23:15,040 He has sound judgment, treasures kindness, 344 00:23:15,120 --> 00:23:17,640 and he's aware of the challenges and responsibilities. 345 00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:19,720 The child is safe under his care, 346 00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:21,680 and all her principal needs are met. 347 00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:25,960 Following a detailed visit and inspection of the facility, 348 00:23:26,040 --> 00:23:30,320 I conclude that the house is really clean, well-organized. 349 00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:33,880 The child has a suitable nursery for a kid her age. 350 00:23:34,440 --> 00:23:36,760 In light of Mr. Filip's young age, 351 00:23:36,840 --> 00:23:39,720 his lack of experience, marital status, 352 00:23:39,800 --> 00:23:42,040 despite the positive opinions of him, 353 00:23:42,120 --> 00:23:44,880 I believe that the child should be placed in a foster home. 354 00:23:48,560 --> 00:23:49,880 Madam Custodian... 355 00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:55,480 may I remind you that foster care is, without a doubt, a godsend 356 00:23:55,560 --> 00:23:58,520 for unfortunate cases of abandoned children. 357 00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:00,760 But honestly, they're still orphanages. 358 00:24:00,840 --> 00:24:02,520 Let's face the reality. 359 00:24:03,240 --> 00:24:05,960 So, what's truly important? Bond, love, connecting, 360 00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:09,080 or preserving an idealized view of foster care, 361 00:24:09,160 --> 00:24:10,920 which is just a way to appease our conscience, 362 00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:12,240 because to be completely honest, 363 00:24:12,320 --> 00:24:14,880 we would never send our own kids to a place like that. 364 00:24:15,960 --> 00:24:18,040 Can someone who is out of control... 365 00:24:19,320 --> 00:24:22,760 who likes to drink and party, become a role model 366 00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:25,600 for a small child overnight? Really? 367 00:24:25,680 --> 00:24:28,720 Do we think such a person can be a caregiver? 368 00:24:28,800 --> 00:24:32,240 Can someone who doesn't shy away from alcohol and God knows what else 369 00:24:32,320 --> 00:24:34,040 look after a vulnerable being? 370 00:24:35,000 --> 00:24:37,520 Ensure her safety, a set of values? 371 00:24:38,480 --> 00:24:39,640 Please, Your Honor, 372 00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:43,040 this description fits so many citizens in this country. 373 00:24:43,120 --> 00:24:45,240 Beer after work, wine for dinner, 374 00:24:45,320 --> 00:24:47,040 no other interest in people's affairs, 375 00:24:47,120 --> 00:24:50,480 incredible amounts of time spent on the phone or TV screen. 376 00:24:50,560 --> 00:24:53,200 I'm not-- A conjugal family is not ideal either. 377 00:24:53,280 --> 00:24:57,800 This room shouldn't be fooled by dominant cultural stereotypes. 378 00:24:57,880 --> 00:25:00,800 Let's ask ourselves, with absolute honesty. 379 00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:04,040 Haven't I neglected my kids despite all of my love and care? 380 00:25:04,640 --> 00:25:07,360 -He's gay. -See, Your Honor? 381 00:25:07,440 --> 00:25:11,520 Counselor, please proceed to inform your client 382 00:25:12,120 --> 00:25:14,880 about the rules and procedures in this court. 383 00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:16,480 Yes, Your Honor. I'm very sorry. 384 00:25:16,560 --> 00:25:19,440 -Are you not a homosexual? -That's what I told you. 385 00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:22,120 That has nothing to do with the matter before the court. 386 00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:23,320 Now, Counselor, 387 00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:26,120 can you please ask your client to be quiet? 388 00:25:26,760 --> 00:25:27,880 Of course, Your Honor. 389 00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:30,960 Thank you, Madam Custodian. You better, Counselor. 390 00:25:31,560 --> 00:25:34,520 As great as my patience may be, I won't tolerate this. 391 00:25:34,600 --> 00:25:35,680 Please proceed. 392 00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:37,440 This is about my client's concerns 393 00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:39,600 for the future of her cherished granddaughter. 394 00:25:40,120 --> 00:25:41,960 Filip's efforts to be a good dad 395 00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:45,440 after losing his sister are admirable and brave, but... 396 00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:49,680 we all in this court know perfectly well that, well, youth must be enjoyed. 397 00:25:49,760 --> 00:25:51,760 And don't the elderly deserve some rest? 398 00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:53,520 Counselor, please. 399 00:25:54,160 --> 00:25:56,280 Your Honor, a single father is not a full home. 400 00:25:56,360 --> 00:25:58,120 Although it's a loving home. 401 00:25:58,720 --> 00:26:01,680 My client Olga, Tosia's father's mother, 402 00:26:01,760 --> 00:26:05,560 is willing to create a stable, bountiful, trustworthy, 403 00:26:05,640 --> 00:26:07,120 and good home for her granddaughter. 404 00:26:07,200 --> 00:26:09,280 But you'll agree with me, Counselor, 405 00:26:09,360 --> 00:26:11,840 that love can't be weighed just in money terms. 406 00:26:11,920 --> 00:26:13,320 That's demagoguery, Counselor. 407 00:26:13,400 --> 00:26:14,840 It's the first time we agree, Your Honor. 408 00:26:14,920 --> 00:26:16,000 Excuse me? 409 00:26:17,400 --> 00:26:19,000 I beg you to listen to this. 410 00:26:20,520 --> 00:26:22,160 And your name is? 411 00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:29,600 Kiki. I am... I was... best friends with Anka... 412 00:26:30,680 --> 00:26:31,880 Filip's sister. 413 00:26:32,480 --> 00:26:37,000 And I've known Filip since they came to Warsaw, Your Honor. 414 00:26:37,080 --> 00:26:39,240 But that's not what I wanted to say. 415 00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:42,520 I wanted to say that 416 00:26:43,040 --> 00:26:44,960 I had my daughter when I was only 16. 417 00:26:47,560 --> 00:26:48,960 And no one showed interest 418 00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:51,560 whether I'd give the kid basic support 419 00:26:51,640 --> 00:26:53,480 or if I'd be a good mother at all. 420 00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:56,520 Nobody prepared me for that. 421 00:26:58,640 --> 00:26:59,720 But I managed. 422 00:27:00,880 --> 00:27:02,080 And being honest... 423 00:27:04,000 --> 00:27:05,320 it's all about love. 424 00:27:07,520 --> 00:27:08,560 Period. 425 00:27:09,680 --> 00:27:10,920 Beyond reasonable doubt. 426 00:27:11,000 --> 00:27:12,480 I don't see how that's at all relevant. 427 00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:13,760 But it is! 428 00:27:13,840 --> 00:27:16,280 Because you're all discussing what's best for her, 429 00:27:16,360 --> 00:27:19,600 and no one seems to care about the fact that he'll give his life for her. 430 00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:23,120 He's been a father to Tosia from day one. He hasn't even asked for any-- 431 00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:26,480 Your Honor, I still don't understand why this woman is allowed to testify. 432 00:27:35,680 --> 00:27:36,960 May I continue now? 433 00:27:38,960 --> 00:27:41,040 As I was saying, Tosia's grandmother 434 00:27:41,120 --> 00:27:43,200 will give her a stable environment. 435 00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:45,560 Her stable family situation 436 00:27:45,640 --> 00:27:48,880 and solid financial situation will create a safe space 437 00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:50,920 and environment for Tosia's growth. 438 00:27:54,000 --> 00:27:55,560 Do you have a problem with alcohol? 439 00:27:55,640 --> 00:27:56,760 Excuse me? 440 00:27:56,840 --> 00:27:59,640 I'm asking if she has a problem with alcohol. 441 00:27:59,720 --> 00:28:01,800 -It's a simple question. -It's not relevant. 442 00:28:03,080 --> 00:28:05,200 That's a fascinating answer, but nevertheless. 443 00:28:05,280 --> 00:28:07,920 Please, Counselor, to the point. 444 00:28:08,000 --> 00:28:10,440 Yes, Your Honor. I'm afraid the picture painted 445 00:28:10,520 --> 00:28:12,240 by the Counselor is far from reality. 446 00:28:12,320 --> 00:28:14,560 It's a distortion. May I please share this article 447 00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:16,320 from the press, and I quote, 448 00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:18,480 "Boozed-Up Mother Loses Child at the Beach." 449 00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:21,000 We can't trust a tabloid as a credible source. 450 00:28:21,080 --> 00:28:23,080 We don't have to because her son is right here. 451 00:28:23,160 --> 00:28:26,120 She left him on the beach when he was six. 452 00:28:26,200 --> 00:28:28,240 Because you were the boozed-up mother, right? 453 00:28:51,400 --> 00:28:52,400 So? 454 00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:56,080 It depends on what the shrink says after talking to Krzysztof and his mother. 455 00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:58,760 But we have to stay positive. 456 00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:19,760 I don't know, I can't decide. 457 00:29:50,280 --> 00:29:54,640 I put it all in a letter so I wouldn't leave anything out. 458 00:30:09,760 --> 00:30:11,520 It's true, a kid complicates things. 459 00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:14,320 -No, listen to me. -No, no, just give me a second. 460 00:30:15,360 --> 00:30:16,600 I'm sorry. 461 00:30:18,760 --> 00:30:19,840 Please listen. 462 00:30:23,280 --> 00:30:24,320 The thing is... 463 00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:29,520 I think I'm in love with you. 464 00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:32,880 I want you to know that. 465 00:30:32,960 --> 00:30:37,520 And that some people manage to be happy after having children. 466 00:30:40,760 --> 00:30:44,520 Okay, I know that Tosia is not your child, and I'm... 467 00:30:45,600 --> 00:30:48,640 I'm hardly an expert when it comes to relationships. 468 00:30:49,360 --> 00:30:51,040 But when something feels real... 469 00:30:53,440 --> 00:30:56,160 when you understand that there's something... 470 00:30:57,840 --> 00:30:59,920 precious, like, you know, love, 471 00:31:00,000 --> 00:31:02,680 as long as there's love, then it's worth the fight. 472 00:31:02,760 --> 00:31:03,840 And that I do know. 473 00:31:10,480 --> 00:31:11,520 Okay. 474 00:31:16,640 --> 00:31:17,800 Filip, Filip. 475 00:31:19,520 --> 00:31:20,840 Are you wearing my shirt? 476 00:31:21,880 --> 00:31:23,680 Yeah, because it smells good. 477 00:31:27,400 --> 00:31:28,840 I get off work at 11:00. 478 00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:33,360 Wanna hang out? 479 00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:36,560 Well, I might be asleep. 480 00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:39,440 It may be a bit late for us. 481 00:31:51,720 --> 00:31:53,760 You don't worry about anything. 482 00:31:54,800 --> 00:31:56,400 Nothing makes you nervous. 483 00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:01,160 My sweet little carefree birdie. 484 00:32:03,520 --> 00:32:05,000 No, right? 485 00:32:06,640 --> 00:32:08,880 It's you I'm talking to. It's you. 486 00:32:20,880 --> 00:32:22,200 Are you liking your eggs? 487 00:32:25,800 --> 00:32:26,960 Oh, it's okay. 488 00:32:43,760 --> 00:32:46,640 And the next thing I know, your mom broke her arm. 489 00:32:47,720 --> 00:32:51,640 Remember, drinking and climbing trees is never a good idea. 490 00:32:55,040 --> 00:32:57,480 Oh, look. That's the three of us. 491 00:33:01,600 --> 00:33:02,880 We're doing fine. 492 00:33:04,360 --> 00:33:07,680 The laundry is not rotting and the trash is taken out. 493 00:33:08,640 --> 00:33:09,680 Tell her. 494 00:33:12,480 --> 00:33:14,200 She says she's not hungry at all. 495 00:33:15,200 --> 00:33:16,360 She loves veggies. 496 00:33:22,560 --> 00:33:24,080 We're doing everything we can. 497 00:33:27,080 --> 00:33:28,560 Let's leave it here. 498 00:34:30,159 --> 00:34:31,480 They're ready for you. 499 00:34:45,639 --> 00:34:46,960 We'll find out in a moment.